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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for another edition of War of

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the Roses? Yes, all right, So Melissa's standing by Melissa

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in East windsor things that her boyfriend Ethan is cheating

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on or he's been acting strange. Good morning, Melissa, Good morning, Hi, Hi, welcome.

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Speaker 2: To the show.

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Speaker 3: How are you You know I have been better?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Well, hopefully we're going to get you some answers and

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you'll be feeling better at no time.

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Speaker 4: So years hope.

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Speaker 1: So you obviously know War of the Roses. It's you know,

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we do it when you think that your significant other

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is cheating on you. Why do you think Ethan, your boyfriend,

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is cheating.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, basically, we've been dating for eight months, okay, and

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it's a great relationship. Everything's been really smooth. I would

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say it moved pretty fast okay, and we've been talking

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for the last month and a half. I would say

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about living together.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh big step.

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Speaker 3: And yeah yeah, but it just felt right and and

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but recently, for the last couple of weeks, he's been

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acting kind of distant and not calling me before bed

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like he usually does, and I just have a bad feeling.

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I just think something's going on.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so that's it.

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Speaker 3: That's all the evidence I have.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but he used to call you every night, in

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like a little good good night phone call.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even for like a couple of minutes, just to

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touch base. He'd be like, hey, love you, sleep tight.

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Speaker 5: But after a while that see, it gets to be

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a nuisance and annoying and it's just too much work. Eventually, yeah,

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eventually the guys will stop putting in the work just

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because we got you and we're good.

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Speaker 4: Always touch the.

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Speaker 3: Romance after eight months though, my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he could send a tax right now.

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Speaker 1: It's not a lot to go on.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be honest.

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Speaker 1: But the fact that he's been distant and not calling

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you at night, let's just do it.

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Speaker 2: We made it this far, we might as well. Right,

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he's so grumpy, just ignore him?

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Speaker 6: What is wrong with you today?

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Speaker 2: Something so wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Jeff?

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Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna give him a call.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna have right, you're gonna be listening

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in when we call him, and you're gonna be able to.

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Speaker 2: Talk to him if you want.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Who's the floorist?

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Speaker 6: It's actually grumpy pants today, Jeff, get it together. I

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don't know what crawled in his corn flakes, but geez,

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I know where a crawl.

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Speaker 4: All right, but you said it. Hello, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Is Ethan there?

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Speaker 1: This is Ethan.

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Speaker 5: Hey Ethan, this is Zach from Flowers Express. How are

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you this morning?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 7: How you doing?

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Speaker 5: I'm doing pretty good. Thank you for asking. I was

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just shooting you called to let you know that you

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actually won a dozen roses in our online weekly contest.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations, man, that's friendom cool, Yeah, this is.

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Speaker 5: An amazing deal. Basically, it's a dozen roses. We're not

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gonna send the flowers so you We're actually gonna send

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the flowers to someone else on your behalf, sort of

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a like a pay it forward promotion.

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Speaker 7: All right, I guess that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, all right.

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal. We have a card.

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Speaker 5: I can put a little message on the card and

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we can get the flowers out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, what would you What would you like

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to write on the card?

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Speaker 7: You can write to my one and only, to.

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Speaker 5: My one and only. All right, we can get that down.

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And who should I address the card to?

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Speaker 7: To Melissa?

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Speaker 2: You said, Melissa?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right? Cool. So here's the deal.

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Speaker 5: Not only are you getting one dozen roses today, but

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we can actually hook you up with two dozen. If

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that's something you're down with. We can send the second

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dozen to Melissa, or we can hook someone outs up.

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Speaker 7: Sure if you want to send the second dozen to

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Melissa as well.

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Speaker 2: There isn't anyone else you want to send flowers too.

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Speaker 4: Nope, No, it's my girlfriend, so pretty lucky.

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Speaker 5: She's gonna getting two thousand rowses. That's awesome. Man.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna jump in that Ethan. I gotta

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just jump in real quick. It's Courtney, Savannah. The floors

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is Walmart, Jeff, and Melissa. Your girlfriend's on the line.

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Go ahead, Melissa, Hi, Hi, you're on the radio.

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Speaker 7: Hey what why why are we on the radio?

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Speaker 3: I know this is I know this is insane, but

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I thought you were cheating on me, and like, because

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you haven't been calling and it's felt really distant and weird,

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like you stopped calling me before I'm dead, and we

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stop talking about moving in together. So I did.

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Speaker 7: This is honestly, I'm just kind of feeling like a

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little pressure.

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Speaker 4: How so, well, because.

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Speaker 7: We've been talking a lot about moving in together and

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I just like it just makes you feel pressure. I

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don't know, I just makes you want to like get

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some air, you know, Like I'm not cheating on you.

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We're not. I don't want to break up or anything.

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I just moving in feels like it just feels like

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a huge step and stresses me out a little bit,

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and I just kind of hmm, yeah, I just like

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need more time to, you know, think about what that

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all means.

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Speaker 4: Listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to pressure you, but

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you know you could say that to me.

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Speaker 7: You don't need to just pull away, all right. Well,

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I mean I've said it now. Yeah. I just I

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just need some air, that's all.

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Speaker 3: I mean.

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Speaker 7: I think we're great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're saying, Ethan, you're not cheating. You just

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are backing off from like the nightly phone calls and

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things like that because you're just feeling too much pressure

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to like move in and like what's the next step?

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Speaker 2: Get a ring and and it goes on from there.

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Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 7: Yes, exactly, Yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 6: Pressure, I mean I think that's fair moving in after

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eight months. I mean for some people that's pretty quick.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm some people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's that's totally fine, like no judgment, honestly, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, listen, Melisten.

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Speaker 4: I don't think he's cheating.

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Speaker 1: I think he's just feeling a little bit of pressure.

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Speaker 6: Yay, you can take a deep breath now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, time to go go back to just having fun

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being a couple and like honest communication.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honest communication.

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Speaker 2: Well I love this. I love this.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being on War of

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the Roses and like, keep us posted, Linden, no pressure, Ethan,

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but when you guys move in, can you let us know?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, yeah this is wild.

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Speaker 2: Wait it's Twiss the Knife Corty. Yeah, no, no pressure,

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but we want to know when.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, all right bye,