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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It's Tuesday, It's TLC Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a brand new, shiny new season of ninety Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Kay yeah, Kimberly, Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, I'm so excited. I don't hate any of these

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<v Speaker 2>people yet, you don't give me a few episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't hate anybody yet? Okay, good, it's hardly Still do

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<v Speaker 1>you have an owl behind you on that shelf?

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<v Speaker 2>I do, okay, because we had a Craig Melvin episode

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<v Speaker 2>of Dateline, and I don't have a Craig Melvin prayer candle, so,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was gonna put a Lester Holt prayer candle in,

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<v Speaker 2>but I thought, I can't just replace one black man

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<v Speaker 2>for another black man. That's terrible. That's terrible. Yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>all the other hosts, it's I don't know. So I

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<v Speaker 2>put an owl there because I love my owls, my murderous,

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<v Speaker 2>murderous owls.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let me ask you about this. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>owls are not murderous, so don't let I didn't let

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<v Speaker 1>that slip. But second of all, Craig melboyne. Okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>this past Friday, Dateline did a recap of Alec Murdoch

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<v Speaker 1>and so When I saw that, I was like, damn it,

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<v Speaker 1>already know every single thing there is to know about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to watch this dateline. I assume you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are going to cover another dateline for your Wednesday episode.

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<v Speaker 2>That is false, Mary Payne. We covered the episode. We

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<v Speaker 2>always will cover Murdoch, I don't care how many times

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<v Speaker 2>we've done it. And there was new information and new

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<v Speaker 2>interviews at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>So I should have watched for the end.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have watched to the end. Dateline is fast.

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<v Speaker 2>They can have a verdict come out on Friday afternoon.

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<v Speaker 2>They have a brand new episode Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so though it takes me a week to make

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<v Speaker 2>one podcast episode, they can do a full TV episode

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<v Speaker 2>in five hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Question though, how far into the dayline episode do I

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<v Speaker 1>have to watch before I get the new information? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I started to watch it and turned it off.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's totally re edited and there is new stuff

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<v Speaker 2>in there, because they don't even just redo the whole episode.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know because I was working off my old

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<v Speaker 2>notes because I thought I could just copy and paste

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<v Speaker 2>my old notes. Yes, no, they take stuff out, they

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<v Speaker 2>add stuff in. It's w WNG. I know, so I

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<v Speaker 2>would say the last fifteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, yeah, all right, I'm going to do that now.

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<v Speaker 1>I want everybody to today's Tuesday, but you could go

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<v Speaker 1>back one day, turn back time in the words of

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<v Speaker 1>share and go and listen to Keisha and I uh

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<v Speaker 1>talking about Neighbors, which is an HBO Max six part series,

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<v Speaker 1>and we did episodes three and four yesterday. It's very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We're waiting for Lalu to come back. Everybody knows that,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're also Yesterday was released on the Free Feed.

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<v Speaker 1>I interviewed with Ross Matthews, who's going to be doing

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<v Speaker 1>this single life tell All that Kimberly and I will

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<v Speaker 1>be covering. You'll get that episode Friday. I loved talking

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<v Speaker 1>to Ross. He's so fun, so nuic, but he's so light.

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<v Speaker 2>Although when he said there were two Geno's at that

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<v Speaker 2>tell All, I was terrified. I was like, please tell me,

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<v Speaker 2>you mean that metaphorically and not there's been some sort

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<v Speaker 2>of science experiment where someone has cloned Gino because that

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<v Speaker 2>would be too much, and then we can have a

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<v Speaker 2>Fedora Gino and a backwards faceful hat Gino.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, he said that he really flipped a switch

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<v Speaker 1>when Jasmine came out.

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<v Speaker 2>I know he read he's like a rabid dog.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's scary dark side. In the words of what

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<v Speaker 1>we say on The Valley dark Side, Danny, this is yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is dark side Gino. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Normally it's just creepy Gino. It's not like there's

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<v Speaker 2>good Gino like right to play off of. It's not.

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<v Speaker 2>It's still creepy bread squeezing Gino or evil trying to

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<v Speaker 2>get a woman deported Gino. They're both bad, it's my point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're both bad. And I we have seen lots

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<v Speaker 1>of reports that the girl, that thirty year old girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he's going out with, is just like a super fan.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think she's a why else why else would

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<v Speaker 2>she be with.

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<v Speaker 1>Gino daddy issues? Like, I don't know, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Liz, Liz is phoning in. I was loved your interview

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<v Speaker 2>with Ross Matthews. I thought he was so cute with Anna,

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm so excited because I'm gonna watch the tell

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<v Speaker 2>All tonight and I'm just so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. Yeah, So we're recording this on Monday, so

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<v Speaker 1>the tell All will be tonight. Everybody watch it. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just hoping my reposting of my interview with Ross

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<v Speaker 1>will you will bump up my Instagram a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, he's actually going to watch Platfil because he sounded

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<v Speaker 2>very interested. I know, I know he's hitching it well,

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<v Speaker 2>and he sounded legitimately like he was going to watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm gonna I'm good. I had to d

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<v Speaker 1>M him today, so I'm gonna give him a minute

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<v Speaker 1>because like he doesn't actually like know, we were not

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<v Speaker 1>actually friends, but we're friends in my mind. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to give him a few days before I bug

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<v Speaker 1>him about Platifil. Maybe I'll wait till the reunion stuff

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<v Speaker 1>is over the tell all and then bug him about Platfil.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to announce, and I've said this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want you guys to know we are doing a big

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<v Speaker 1>Bunkie and backdoor friends as Amy Archer's Little Miss Recap

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<v Speaker 1>podcast big meetup. So Amy will have her co host there.

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<v Speaker 1>I will have my co host there, Kimberly Keisha. It

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<v Speaker 1>will be October tenth, TVD on the venue, TVD on

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<v Speaker 1>the hotel room block, but we are working on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get a room block, so people can

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<v Speaker 1>maybe get a little break on the hotel pricing in

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<v Speaker 1>New York. And then also like people can like minded

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<v Speaker 1>people can be in a hotel together.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fine, Yeah, totally yeah, And I might want to

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<v Speaker 2>stay and do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean you want to ride the train back

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<v Speaker 1>here with me? Yeah? Yeah, come to DC, stay in

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<v Speaker 1>my guest room. Yes, you can snuckle with the dogs. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all she really wants to hear. Guys, it's all

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to hear. We had a locksmith come today

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<v Speaker 1>because you have a busted lock on one of our doors.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I go outside and I'm talking because

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs are like cooja, like scratching the glass trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get in him, and he goes, I have dogs, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not worried. I go, okay, I go. They're very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just like excited. And he stopped and he just

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<v Speaker 1>like stood there and let them completely like jump. They

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<v Speaker 1>could only jump to his knees, you know, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>they were just jumping all over him. He was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get it out of your system? I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be here a while so to me get used to me.

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<v Speaker 1>My son John is home from college. That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>That is very exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that's it. I think that's all I've got.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to get into this episode because you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>two hour episodes are it's a lot, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot, it's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot, it's a lot. My fingers were getting tired.

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<v Speaker 1>I was tired. I watched it twice because I watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it live because guys, we are doing live

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<v Speaker 1>interactive watching it via Facebook. Right, everybody's on Facebook at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time commenting, and I did get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more engagement this week, So thank you to everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exciting. I know, I know, I got to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out how to join. I don't know if I can

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<v Speaker 2>do it because I'm on the West coast, but I

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<v Speaker 2>know TLC does seem to air things like at five o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you have already seen the screener, then you

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<v Speaker 1>could sort of follow along with what people are talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I did tag you last night, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I didn't give her any warning, So I

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<v Speaker 1>look at every single day? Reddit. I used to think

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<v Speaker 1>Reddit was just for finding information out about our ninety

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<v Speaker 1>day cast members, but now I'm on there for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll check reviews before I buy a new hair dryer,

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<v Speaker 1>or if i need to look at some travel tips,

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<v Speaker 1>and suddenly I'm deep in a thread about my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>online game, Sneaky Sasquatch. Yes, I am probably the oldest

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<v Speaker 1>person that plays Sneaky Sasquatch and goes on this thread.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't care. Reddit always has the answers for

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<v Speaker 1>me when I can't pass the level. Okay, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>game for ages four and up. I digress, Okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I get obsessed with topics like Billie Eilish or the

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<v Speaker 1>Plath family, or to read mpka's finances from Real Housewives

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<v Speaker 1>at Beverly Hills. So I just love going to Reddit

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<v Speaker 1>and doing a deep dive to find out what the

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<v Speaker 1>fans are saying. I like to swap theories. I like

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<v Speaker 1>to see their reactions in real time as the dramas

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<v Speaker 1>unfolding on our TV. And that's another reason I like

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<v Speaker 1>to look at things on Reddit. It's just real people

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<v Speaker 1>sharing real opinions and real experiences, and you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>one of those people. I'm on there, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>want an honest review of something, Reddit is always the

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<v Speaker 1>first place to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, Episode two, Trusting the Process. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>last week was in My Getting Married era, and this

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<v Speaker 1>week is Trusting the Process. So far, I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>it for the title.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they're boring. Yeah, they're fun. Not fun. No, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a theme except for like relationships, right, therapy. They do

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<v Speaker 1>Am I getting married era does not sound No.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that. Trusting the Process one.

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out because we love uh my third couple right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>next week. Okay, we saw them in the previous All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's start with our favorite Paducah, Kentucky realtor slash big

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<v Speaker 1>Man on Campus. Shay Shaye Shae is cleaning. Well, he's dusting,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's telling his two dogs, Mommy Bell is coming,

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<v Speaker 1>And uh. He says, Annabelle does not like dog hair.

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<v Speaker 1>She is such a clean freak. Every time I see her,

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<v Speaker 1>but he goes, she's not, she just don't like dogs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hoping that it will be like an Ashley and

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<v Speaker 2>Manuel and Rico Suave because Rico mother e Fink Suave

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<v Speaker 2>she was not gonna let Manuel come in and kick

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<v Speaker 2>that's what's going to happen here me too.

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<v Speaker 1>So he goes only clean, and I'm thinking about is

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<v Speaker 1>her scrubbing me and that tub to know? So he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to say the Saint Louis Airport to get her,

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<v Speaker 1>and lots of people in the chat when we were

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<v Speaker 1>an international airport and that saved her from one from

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<v Speaker 1>one having to switch planes like three times. Maybe she'll

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<v Speaker 1>And the cost is probably less. Yeah, so he says

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<v Speaker 1>he fears Nicole, his ex, will tell Annabelle that he

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on her. Now, we did get lots of information

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<v Speaker 1>about the ex Nicole this week on social media. She

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I could tell she's a little she's a

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, so, and he says, and maybe at a

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<v Speaker 1>or had too many I mean, I don't know. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just having fun. To me, that's not cheating. That's just

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<v Speaker 2>That's just lake time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just lake time.

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<v Speaker 2>Lake where lake people. That's what you do with the lakes,

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<v Speaker 2>what you do. What happens to the lake stays at

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. I'm that you bring home has one of

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<v Speaker 1>So he arrives at the airport. He has flowers.

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<v Speaker 2>Good job, he put on his best flannel and jeans.

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<v Speaker 1>He did, and he tells us, I'm not sure if

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole is bluffing about trying to ruin my marriage or

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<v Speaker 1>she's just trying to get my goat. Now, I looked

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<v Speaker 1>up get my goat, because I've heard this is zillion times.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't try to get my goat. But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what that means. And what it means is

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<v Speaker 1>people in the olden days would keep a goat with

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<v Speaker 1>their horses because a goat would keep the horses calm.

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<v Speaker 1>And if somebody went in and got your goat, that

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<v Speaker 1>means your horses would go nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes zero sense to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But well, because get to get my goat means to

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<v Speaker 2>make me upset, to like get under my skin.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm always interested in where these stupid phrases come from.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, idioms, they come from weird places.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta come from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>This man looks ill to me. I feel like he

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<v Speaker 2>is not well.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I agree, he needs a full work up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna need him to see a dermatologist. A dentist, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>a heart doctor, maybe a pet like I just I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like there's something that is not very healthy with

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<v Speaker 2>this man, the thing inside and outside. There's just yea

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<v Speaker 2>when I whenever I see his teeth, it's not just

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<v Speaker 2>the color, it's like his color compared with the teeth color.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just I'm concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not great. It's not great. I'm hoping annabell is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna whip him into shape.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she does seem to be that kind of type.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so he says, I'm not sure if Nicole is

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<v Speaker 1>bluffing about trying to ruin my marriage. You know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been married two times and it hit me hard in

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<v Speaker 1>the wallet. So either Annabelle will be my partner forever

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<v Speaker 1>or we won't get married.

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<v Speaker 2>What what does that mean? Does that mean you won't

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<v Speaker 2>be able to stay together if you don't get married,

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<v Speaker 2>it would be the long distance? Yeah, I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he should move to the Philippines.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to tell you from experience of the person

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<v Speaker 1>in my family, if he were to move to the Philippines,

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<v Speaker 1>he would be very, very loved and appreciated, and they

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<v Speaker 1>would name streets after him. And in the case of

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<v Speaker 1>the person, I know they named an internet cafe after him.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop he's like David. If David and Nannie who moved

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<v Speaker 2>back where she was from, which I never if it's

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<v Speaker 2>tied land and became a monk, and if they had

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<v Speaker 2>a parade for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah. So she arrives, They hug, she cries, she's bawling,

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<v Speaker 1>and he tears. He seems like he tears up a

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And we meet Annabelle and she is adorable and I

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<v Speaker 1>love her. I love her, love she is laughing so

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<v Speaker 1>hard at her own jokes, which I always love. And

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<v Speaker 1>they have not seen each other in two years.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he was going there regularly, just once, just once,

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<v Speaker 2>just once.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she says, oh, I was so happy to

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<v Speaker 1>see him. But oh my god, his body is she's

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<v Speaker 1>doing her hands a little bit big again. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna need to go for walking and zoom but together,

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<v Speaker 1>and she laughs and laughs.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like it seventy percent big for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she says, his body's a little bit big again,

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<v Speaker 1>So I do. I would like to see some full

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<v Speaker 1>body shots of when he visits hour before to see

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<v Speaker 1>what she means by that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to see full body shots. But okay,

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<v Speaker 2>clothed clothed.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean yes, that's what I meant.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, because later we do see a full body shot,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, on clothed.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. So they arrive at this cool church last hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>people were like very excited about this. I would not

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<v Speaker 1>want to sleep there.

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<v Speaker 2>I would feel like the holy ghost is gonna just

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<v Speaker 2>they'd be like, jew get out of here. No, they

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<v Speaker 2>would not previcted from this hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I like when people turn old churches, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that have all this cool stained glasses. I like

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<v Speaker 1>when they turn them into something. But not a four

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom hotel, although the walls are probably pretty thick, because

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<v Speaker 1>it does look like a sturdy building. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear them in the Airbnb next to me

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<v Speaker 1>getting it on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually hotels are like sexy vibes because people go there

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<v Speaker 2>to have sex, or they're on vacation in they're having sex,

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<v Speaker 2>or they're away from their kids. And you know, so

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<v Speaker 2>this is weird that it's so religious wants to bang

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<v Speaker 2>with like the you know pair portrait of Mary above

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<v Speaker 2>your bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I agree, But he did spring for the

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<v Speaker 1>botanical sweet garden room with a giant tub and immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>immediately she's like, let's get you in the tub. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get you, let's right away, let's get you. It's as

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<v Speaker 1>if like a little kid comes in from outside and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, right up to the tub, right up, You're

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<v Speaker 1>so dirty, right up.

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<v Speaker 2>From the Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So she says, a clean man is a sexy man.

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<v Speaker 1>I will not touch him if he's dirty. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we find out that she also wants to scrub him

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<v Speaker 1>after he poops. He says, really, he says she would

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<v Speaker 1>if I go to the bathroom, then she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>scrub me. And she goes, yeah, because where I live,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we clean with water, and the toilet paper

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<v Speaker 1>is just not good enough. We've heard the slot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he needs a bidet in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna need that. And she cuts his toenails and

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<v Speaker 1>that's important to her.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of discussion about how she cleans him,

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<v Speaker 1>the things that she cleaned, and the carrea, the area

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<v Speaker 1>ya uh huh she cleans, and he does say that

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes she gets too fast and too aggressive and slices

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<v Speaker 1>him up with her fingernails.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Wow, he has paper cuts on his pean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm wondering now that she lives with him,

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<v Speaker 1>like is he ever gonna shower alone again? Like it

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<v Speaker 1>is now going to be like, Hey, I'm coming in

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<v Speaker 1>for work on a chair. She's like, no, you're not,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming in.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like she feeds him too, like the airplane

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<v Speaker 2>is coming in.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the train. Oh, she's getting him on like a

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<v Speaker 1>lettuce and cucumber diet immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If he probably just quit drinking, it would help help

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<v Speaker 1>the total, It would help out all his bloat and

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<v Speaker 1>everything he's got going on. Absolutely, there was. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>discussion about what's happening with his skin. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He obviously has some sort of dermatological condition. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he has that pigment issue where like certain

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<v Speaker 2>areas have more pigment than others. Yes, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>like a jack Yes, I think that is it. Did

422
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<v Speaker 2>Michael Jackson have that or was he bleaching his skin?

423
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<v Speaker 1>Well, he said he had that, and he said that

424
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<v Speaker 1>since he had that, he had to bleach everything out

425
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<v Speaker 1>to be wh That's what he said. That's how he

426
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<v Speaker 1>met Debbie the wife, right, because she worked at the

427
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<v Speaker 1>dermatologists office.

428
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<v Speaker 2>Yes, totally.

429
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<v Speaker 1>The stories that woman has, God bless. When's her nda done?

430
00:22:46.920 --> 00:22:50.640
<v Speaker 1>All right? So they get out of the shower. He

431
00:22:50.680 --> 00:22:54.079
<v Speaker 1>pops the champagne. The cork almost literally takes her eye out.

432
00:22:54.880 --> 00:22:59.640
<v Speaker 1>It goes right by her face. And I said, sir,

433
00:22:59.839 --> 00:23:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you can put a shirt on. She's clothed, you can,

434
00:23:02.519 --> 00:23:03.359
<v Speaker 1>you can have a shirt on.

435
00:23:04.079 --> 00:23:08.359
<v Speaker 2>No, he's like a cult, just way too comfortable on

436
00:23:08.480 --> 00:23:09.599
<v Speaker 2>camera naked.

437
00:23:10.160 --> 00:23:15.680
<v Speaker 1>We get a little bound wow wow. Kind of a music. Yeah, yeah,

438
00:23:16.119 --> 00:23:19.599
<v Speaker 1>sexy music. And they get all under the covers and

439
00:23:19.640 --> 00:23:23.000
<v Speaker 1>whatnot and the talking head together. He says, when it

440
00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:25.039
<v Speaker 1>comes to sex, she just tells me what to do.

441
00:23:25.119 --> 00:23:27.240
<v Speaker 1>She just tells me what she wants. And she goes,

442
00:23:27.319 --> 00:23:30.000
<v Speaker 1>that's right. She says, I'm fifty four, but my sex

443
00:23:30.079 --> 00:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>drive is like a twenty five year old woman. Haven't

444
00:23:32.359 --> 00:23:34.319
<v Speaker 1>had sex in two years. Time to get dirty.

445
00:23:35.559 --> 00:23:39.160
<v Speaker 2>So he's like, okay, wow wow, So good for her.

446
00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:42.279
<v Speaker 2>She's a take charge gal, and I love it.

447
00:23:42.680 --> 00:23:44.599
<v Speaker 1>I like that she's a take charge gal. She's gonna

448
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<v Speaker 1>get him clean, she's gonna get him all cleaned up.

449
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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna get him away from the lake people all

450
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<v Speaker 1>of it.

451
00:23:50.400 --> 00:23:54.079
<v Speaker 2>As long as he doesn't start listening to Ben's rights

452
00:23:54.160 --> 00:23:59.839
<v Speaker 2>podcasts like javon this could this could be great.

453
00:24:01.200 --> 00:24:03.640
<v Speaker 1>So they giggle and they kiss and we have to

454
00:24:03.680 --> 00:24:07.880
<v Speaker 1>hear kissing noises and him saying yum yum m looking

455
00:24:07.960 --> 00:24:13.039
<v Speaker 1>at it, looking yam yum yum. And that's it. That's

456
00:24:13.079 --> 00:24:14.359
<v Speaker 1>it with them. I could have gotten in a lot

457
00:24:14.359 --> 00:24:16.480
<v Speaker 1>more detail about the scrubbing, and I just decided.

458
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<v Speaker 2>I really appreciate it.

459
00:24:17.799 --> 00:24:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Everyone everyone saw it. I don't need to describe it.

460
00:24:20.319 --> 00:24:21.039
<v Speaker 2>That whole scene.

461
00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:24.559
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you didn't see it, you're really missing out. No,

462
00:24:24.599 --> 00:24:30.200
<v Speaker 1>don't do that to yourself. Let's discuss Katie and Josh.

463
00:24:30.799 --> 00:24:35.599
<v Speaker 2>These they are just the most fascinating. There's just so

464
00:24:35.799 --> 00:24:42.119
<v Speaker 2>much going on here. She's fascinating, fascinating issues. So they

465
00:24:42.359 --> 00:24:45.519
<v Speaker 2>at their they have a new hero shot together where

466
00:24:46.039 --> 00:24:50.039
<v Speaker 2>she is like eating his face, pulling his hair, like

467
00:24:50.680 --> 00:24:54.720
<v Speaker 2>just devouring it with her mouth, and he pulls away

468
00:24:54.880 --> 00:24:57.119
<v Speaker 2>so uncomfortable, and they smile at the camera.

469
00:24:57.920 --> 00:25:01.359
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't doubt that girl. I I could not believe

470
00:25:02.000 --> 00:25:06.880
<v Speaker 1>their hero shot is her just aggressively in the back.

471
00:25:06.720 --> 00:25:12.599
<v Speaker 2>Of his head, tongue graping his mouth like there's it's

472
00:25:12.640 --> 00:25:17.119
<v Speaker 2>so aggressive and she's literally pulling his hair and he

473
00:25:17.279 --> 00:25:20.759
<v Speaker 2>just pulls away and he looks all tousled ycause he's

474
00:25:20.880 --> 00:25:25.200
<v Speaker 2>been molested, and they just like, hey man. He looks

475
00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:28.759
<v Speaker 2>at the care like help me, helly, hi, blink if

476
00:25:28.799 --> 00:25:32.839
<v Speaker 2>you're okay, Josh. So they in the car from the airport.

477
00:25:32.920 --> 00:25:35.160
<v Speaker 2>She has him try to sing the national anthem with her,

478
00:25:35.279 --> 00:25:37.559
<v Speaker 2>but he has no clue what the words are, which

479
00:25:37.599 --> 00:25:41.240
<v Speaker 2>is funny. And it already feels so awkward with them,

480
00:25:41.279 --> 00:25:44.759
<v Speaker 2>like there are lots of awkward pauses, like do.

481
00:25:44.799 --> 00:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>They like each other?

482
00:25:47.519 --> 00:25:49.680
<v Speaker 2>So then he says to us, he's glad they're going

483
00:25:49.680 --> 00:25:52.279
<v Speaker 2>to to a hotel because he was worried they'd be

484
00:25:52.279 --> 00:25:57.519
<v Speaker 2>sleeping in the car or worse. So he knows her well, yeah,

485
00:25:58.319 --> 00:26:01.480
<v Speaker 2>but what's good about that is she laid the groundwork

486
00:26:01.559 --> 00:26:03.599
<v Speaker 2>to have it be like the bare minimum that he's

487
00:26:03.640 --> 00:26:08.119
<v Speaker 2>expecting or hoping for, not to sleep in the car.

488
00:26:08.480 --> 00:26:10.960
<v Speaker 2>So the fact that she got her act together and

489
00:26:11.000 --> 00:26:14.799
<v Speaker 2>at least got a hotel is really good. Set the

490
00:26:14.839 --> 00:26:18.759
<v Speaker 2>bar low. You're always then people are always impressed with you.

491
00:26:19.079 --> 00:26:21.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Well, I don't know if in this

492
00:26:21.880 --> 00:26:22.960
<v Speaker 1>case that's going to work.

493
00:26:23.000 --> 00:26:26.400
<v Speaker 2>But all not in the long term. Might it might work?

494
00:26:26.519 --> 00:26:30.279
<v Speaker 2>Right now? Okay? So in the car, she starts gnawing

495
00:26:30.279 --> 00:26:33.200
<v Speaker 2>on some Cheetos with her mouth open, just a super

496
00:26:33.200 --> 00:26:39.559
<v Speaker 2>aggressive eater. And he says those cheetos do not smell lovely,

497
00:26:40.119 --> 00:26:44.279
<v Speaker 2>and she says, you smell bad. Your mouth smells bad?

498
00:26:44.640 --> 00:26:49.119
<v Speaker 1>What is she gino? Would this comeback like you're you do?

499
00:26:49.480 --> 00:26:53.640
<v Speaker 2>Also, this is Greta and Matthew all over again. Never

500
00:26:53.759 --> 00:26:56.720
<v Speaker 2>forget how he told her she had horrible bio when

501
00:26:56.720 --> 00:27:01.160
<v Speaker 2>he breaks her up. So he says she's the bluntest

502
00:27:01.160 --> 00:27:03.720
<v Speaker 2>person ever, as if we couldn't tell. And he says,

503
00:27:03.759 --> 00:27:07.680
<v Speaker 2>I have the mental image of a Tasmanian devil in

504
00:27:07.720 --> 00:27:11.799
<v Speaker 2>the flesh. So she says, as she's driving, I'm having

505
00:27:11.880 --> 00:27:14.200
<v Speaker 2>these wild thoughts popping into my head, like we should

506
00:27:14.200 --> 00:27:17.400
<v Speaker 2>be naked driving, but that's illegal. And he's like, is

507
00:27:17.400 --> 00:27:19.440
<v Speaker 2>that a law? You can't drive naked? And she's like,

508
00:27:19.599 --> 00:27:21.519
<v Speaker 2>public nudity, you can't do it here.

509
00:27:21.599 --> 00:27:23.799
<v Speaker 1>He said it is illegal in the state, is what

510
00:27:23.839 --> 00:27:25.279
<v Speaker 1>he said, in the state.

511
00:27:25.799 --> 00:27:31.039
<v Speaker 2>Everywhere here, So he says, there's no badness in Katie.

512
00:27:31.200 --> 00:27:35.559
<v Speaker 2>She's a menace only in the most comically ridiculous sense

513
00:27:37.160 --> 00:27:38.200
<v Speaker 2>you even like her.

514
00:27:39.279 --> 00:27:42.240
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think she's a menace in a comical sense.

515
00:27:42.279 --> 00:27:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I think she's a menace.

516
00:27:44.119 --> 00:27:47.880
<v Speaker 2>I think what would have been comical at the beginning

517
00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:51.240
<v Speaker 2>will quickly fade away and it will become.

518
00:27:52.519 --> 00:27:55.559
<v Speaker 1>Horrible, annoying, annoying.

519
00:27:55.200 --> 00:27:59.960
<v Speaker 2>And frustrating, and yeah, there's gonna be so many problem

520
00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:02.119
<v Speaker 2>And then she rubs his beard and he calls her

521
00:28:02.160 --> 00:28:04.720
<v Speaker 2>a menace, which he called her that in his talking head,

522
00:28:04.839 --> 00:28:09.920
<v Speaker 2>so now he's calling her. He says, lovely, a lot craziness, menace,

523
00:28:10.599 --> 00:28:13.799
<v Speaker 2>And he says her hand is sweaty, and she says,

524
00:28:13.839 --> 00:28:16.279
<v Speaker 2>I put on a lot of hand sanitizer.

525
00:28:15.880 --> 00:28:19.720
<v Speaker 1>Sweaty and with Cheeto dust on it, ugh.

526
00:28:19.279 --> 00:28:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Just like becomes a paste and right, So they go

527
00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:27.119
<v Speaker 2>to the hotel and he thinks it's lovely. We need

528
00:28:27.160 --> 00:28:30.079
<v Speaker 2>a lovely count He says it multiple times every week.

529
00:28:30.440 --> 00:28:34.079
<v Speaker 2>And he likes her USA decorations. They hug. He says

530
00:28:34.240 --> 00:28:36.720
<v Speaker 2>she can go from being blunt and brutal to sweet

531
00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:39.920
<v Speaker 2>and sentimental, like decorating the hotel room. It really meant

532
00:28:39.960 --> 00:28:42.680
<v Speaker 2>a lot to him and it makes him melt when

533
00:28:42.680 --> 00:28:46.880
<v Speaker 2>she does things like that. That's nice. So she again

534
00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:50.880
<v Speaker 2>setting the bar really low, because if you're rude most

535
00:28:50.880 --> 00:28:55.039
<v Speaker 2>of the time, when you're actually a nice person, it

536
00:28:55.079 --> 00:28:59.039
<v Speaker 2>makes you get some So she says she was stressed

537
00:28:59.079 --> 00:29:01.960
<v Speaker 2>about them having said and he says why and she says, well,

538
00:29:01.960 --> 00:29:04.359
<v Speaker 2>we've struggled with that and it makes me feel not

539
00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:08.319
<v Speaker 2>wanted and if we didn't have sex, I was worried

540
00:29:08.359 --> 00:29:10.640
<v Speaker 2>it would set our trip off, you know, it would

541
00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:14.240
<v Speaker 2>set the mood off wrong at the beginning. And he says, well,

542
00:29:14.440 --> 00:29:17.359
<v Speaker 2>we have to get rid of the stress and that's

543
00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:20.839
<v Speaker 2>never going to happen, and wait until we're settled down

544
00:29:21.000 --> 00:29:23.279
<v Speaker 2>and focus on us. And I was like, is he

545
00:29:23.400 --> 00:29:26.440
<v Speaker 2>saying wait until they settle down to have sex? Is

546
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:29.400
<v Speaker 2>he trying to push off having sex? And he's like,

547
00:29:29.559 --> 00:29:32.960
<v Speaker 2>that can't have sex if he's not emotionally into good place.

548
00:29:33.039 --> 00:29:37.599
<v Speaker 2>He's a geno and she's a have sex with me

549
00:29:37.799 --> 00:29:42.519
<v Speaker 2>or I feel terrible like a jasmine. So this is bad.

550
00:29:43.160 --> 00:29:46.519
<v Speaker 2>So she says, I need to feel like you want me,

551
00:29:47.079 --> 00:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>and he says, well, maybe we should make commitments about

552
00:29:50.440 --> 00:29:53.400
<v Speaker 2>certain things, and like maybe you could promise not to

553
00:29:53.480 --> 00:29:56.920
<v Speaker 2>kiss other people, and he says, I know she does

554
00:29:56.920 --> 00:30:00.319
<v Speaker 2>it because of insecurity, but she also likes play with

555
00:30:00.400 --> 00:30:04.480
<v Speaker 2>fire and she gets an impulsive rush from doing it,

556
00:30:04.799 --> 00:30:07.559
<v Speaker 2>which she did say. She's very impulsive. She has no

557
00:30:07.640 --> 00:30:11.240
<v Speaker 2>impulse control. And he says, I know her heart is

558
00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:13.640
<v Speaker 2>in the right place and she doesn't want to hurt me,

559
00:30:13.799 --> 00:30:16.039
<v Speaker 2>so I'm trying to be patient. And I haven't given

560
00:30:16.079 --> 00:30:19.119
<v Speaker 2>her an ultimatum like if she kisses someone else, I'm out,

561
00:30:19.599 --> 00:30:22.759
<v Speaker 2>but it might be coming to that. So she says,

562
00:30:22.839 --> 00:30:27.039
<v Speaker 2>I need to feel wanted, and he says, I know

563
00:30:27.160 --> 00:30:30.039
<v Speaker 2>sex is important to us being loving, and she says, well,

564
00:30:30.039 --> 00:30:32.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't feel loving if we're not having sex, and

565
00:30:32.440 --> 00:30:35.519
<v Speaker 2>he says, well, I don't feel loving if you're making

566
00:30:35.559 --> 00:30:37.039
<v Speaker 2>out with other guys.

567
00:30:37.559 --> 00:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Great point, Josh.

568
00:30:40.279 --> 00:30:42.519
<v Speaker 2>And she says, at least they want to have sex

569
00:30:42.559 --> 00:30:47.440
<v Speaker 2>with me. It's such a tense talking head for their

570
00:30:47.519 --> 00:30:49.559
<v Speaker 2>like very first day here, it's rough.

571
00:30:50.240 --> 00:30:53.559
<v Speaker 1>So does I mean does she want to have sex

572
00:30:53.880 --> 00:30:55.759
<v Speaker 1>every day? Is that her thing? Like if we don't

573
00:30:55.799 --> 00:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>have sex every day, then I Am going down to

574
00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:01.480
<v Speaker 1>try to make out with somebody at seven to eleven,

575
00:31:01.759 --> 00:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>like right? That?

576
00:31:03.319 --> 00:31:06.839
<v Speaker 2>No, literally, And I think that's such a self esteem issue.

577
00:31:06.880 --> 00:31:09.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why her self esteem is that low

578
00:31:09.200 --> 00:31:11.559
<v Speaker 2>that she needs to feel like someone always wants to

579
00:31:11.559 --> 00:31:14.039
<v Speaker 2>have sex with her or she has no value as

580
00:31:14.079 --> 00:31:14.599
<v Speaker 2>a person.

581
00:31:15.519 --> 00:31:16.400
<v Speaker 1>That's sad.

582
00:31:16.519 --> 00:31:17.319
<v Speaker 2>That's really sad.

583
00:31:17.680 --> 00:31:20.400
<v Speaker 1>People on the Facebook when we were commenting on the

584
00:31:20.400 --> 00:31:22.240
<v Speaker 1>show as it was going, people like, she's the worst

585
00:31:22.240 --> 00:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>person ever be on the show, and people were like

586
00:31:23.920 --> 00:31:25.880
<v Speaker 1>really dogging her on her and.

587
00:31:25.839 --> 00:31:27.200
<v Speaker 2>That's really bad for her.

588
00:31:27.480 --> 00:31:30.319
<v Speaker 1>I said, I really am hoping we're going to get

589
00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:32.480
<v Speaker 1>some sort of backstory that's going to make her more

590
00:31:32.480 --> 00:31:36.640
<v Speaker 1>redeemable to us, because there has to be something behind

591
00:31:36.720 --> 00:31:38.119
<v Speaker 1>this behavior, you know.

592
00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm. So she the next morning, he's making her coffee.

593
00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:52.119
<v Speaker 2>His pajama shirt is tony level stretched out and I

594
00:31:52.160 --> 00:31:55.440
<v Speaker 2>hate when men wear like v NEX T shirts. I

595
00:31:55.480 --> 00:31:58.359
<v Speaker 2>can't I hate it, and their chest hair is showing.

596
00:31:58.759 --> 00:31:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't like such a turn.

597
00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you mean like an undershirt or just like a

598
00:32:02.519 --> 00:32:03.000
<v Speaker 1>T shirt?

599
00:32:03.000 --> 00:32:06.359
<v Speaker 2>To wear a T shirt out like a flowy T

600
00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:14.920
<v Speaker 2>shirt you especially if there's a lot of chest hair

601
00:32:15.000 --> 00:32:16.920
<v Speaker 2>coming out. Oh, I don't like, You're not like that.

602
00:32:18.119 --> 00:32:20.279
<v Speaker 2>She looks like a totally different person in the morning

603
00:32:20.319 --> 00:32:23.000
<v Speaker 2>without makeup and the red lips, like she does a

604
00:32:23.039 --> 00:32:26.799
<v Speaker 2>spletely different person. So they woke up early that morning

605
00:32:27.000 --> 00:32:29.359
<v Speaker 2>and we're in the mood and they did it, and

606
00:32:29.400 --> 00:32:32.160
<v Speaker 2>she is so happy that she got laid and she

607
00:32:32.240 --> 00:32:34.960
<v Speaker 2>wants She's like, I felt like you wanted me, and

608
00:32:35.039 --> 00:32:36.799
<v Speaker 2>I need you to tell me that you want me,

609
00:32:36.880 --> 00:32:39.240
<v Speaker 2>like all the time. And he says, yeah, I know

610
00:32:39.319 --> 00:32:42.400
<v Speaker 2>that that's on me to do. That's a lot of

611
00:32:42.480 --> 00:32:45.960
<v Speaker 2>pressure to constantly tell you how much I want to

612
00:32:46.000 --> 00:32:49.799
<v Speaker 2>have sex with you, Like, I mean a lot.

613
00:32:49.920 --> 00:32:51.720
<v Speaker 1>You have to live your everyday life. You can't just

614
00:32:51.759 --> 00:32:54.400
<v Speaker 1>constantly be like, hey, I'm going to work, but I

615
00:32:54.400 --> 00:32:57.160
<v Speaker 1>will be thinking about having sex with you totally. We're

616
00:32:57.160 --> 00:32:59.000
<v Speaker 1>eating dinner, but just guess what, in the back of

617
00:32:59.000 --> 00:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>my mind, I am thinking it.

618
00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:01.519
<v Speaker 2>Like that's a lotactly.

619
00:33:01.799 --> 00:33:02.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

620
00:33:02.519 --> 00:33:06.000
<v Speaker 2>So he says, I have felt more in the mood

621
00:33:06.160 --> 00:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>because I've been so stress lately about the immigration issues

622
00:33:09.920 --> 00:33:12.759
<v Speaker 2>over the past year. And when I'm stressed, sex is

623
00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:15.880
<v Speaker 2>something else on my to do list. It's not something

624
00:33:15.920 --> 00:33:17.880
<v Speaker 2>I want to do, it's something I have to do,

625
00:33:17.960 --> 00:33:22.240
<v Speaker 2>and I'm not in the mood. And so, but now

626
00:33:22.279 --> 00:33:25.160
<v Speaker 2>he feels less stressed because he's there and the he

627
00:33:25.319 --> 00:33:29.480
<v Speaker 2>got into America and it's settled, so okay. So and

628
00:33:29.519 --> 00:33:32.720
<v Speaker 2>then they kiss. They do this like kiss, licky face

629
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:36.960
<v Speaker 2>thing that I could have done without. And so then

630
00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:39.119
<v Speaker 2>she shows him the neighborhood. Someone has a goat in

631
00:33:39.240 --> 00:33:44.039
<v Speaker 2>their yard and he says, that's so Portland urban goat farming.

632
00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:48.839
<v Speaker 2>And later she has a surprise welcome party for him

633
00:33:48.880 --> 00:33:51.960
<v Speaker 2>that she is telling him about ahead of time, and

634
00:33:52.759 --> 00:33:56.200
<v Speaker 2>she's invited the Running Club, including many of the guys

635
00:33:56.279 --> 00:33:58.920
<v Speaker 2>she made out with. She says, I have made out

636
00:33:58.960 --> 00:34:02.720
<v Speaker 2>with ninety percent of the single guys in the run Club,

637
00:34:03.240 --> 00:34:06.480
<v Speaker 2>and boy, if you were in that ten percent, that

638
00:34:06.599 --> 00:34:09.559
<v Speaker 2>has to make you feel like shit. The girls too,

639
00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:13.039
<v Speaker 2>by the way, and the girls, yeah, she also makes

640
00:34:13.079 --> 00:34:17.039
<v Speaker 2>out with the girls soever. She says, I know I've

641
00:34:17.079 --> 00:34:19.639
<v Speaker 2>done some things that I haven't been proud of when

642
00:34:19.679 --> 00:34:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm drunk, and apparently drinking not stopping drinking is not

643
00:34:24.760 --> 00:34:28.199
<v Speaker 2>an option, which is something I need to address later.

644
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:32.039
<v Speaker 2>And I want to be transparent with you. And he says, yeah,

645
00:34:32.039 --> 00:34:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm not a jealous person, but it's about respect, like

646
00:34:35.920 --> 00:34:38.440
<v Speaker 2>good point to make out with other people. And she

647
00:34:38.599 --> 00:34:42.440
<v Speaker 2>says the compulsion part of OCD is doing something to

648
00:34:42.639 --> 00:34:48.440
<v Speaker 2>neutralize the obsession, but then that thing becomes makes everything worse,

649
00:34:48.760 --> 00:34:52.480
<v Speaker 2>and then it becomes this vicious cycle. So she's having

650
00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:56.719
<v Speaker 2>these negative thoughts and she has decided that making out

651
00:34:56.880 --> 00:35:02.719
<v Speaker 2>is the best tool to neutralize the OBSESSI and no,

652
00:35:02.920 --> 00:35:06.360
<v Speaker 2>I think instead of like a fidget spinner, No.

653
00:35:06.320 --> 00:35:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I think making out is the obsession that she has

654
00:35:09.480 --> 00:35:12.519
<v Speaker 1>to neutralize it by kissing. Like in her mind, she's like,

655
00:35:12.559 --> 00:35:13.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to make out, I want to make out.

656
00:35:13.880 --> 00:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to make out and want to do it,

657
00:35:16.519 --> 00:35:20.400
<v Speaker 1>and then she does it, and then that neutralizes her

658
00:35:20.679 --> 00:35:23.320
<v Speaker 1>wanting to do it. But yeah, now she's in a

659
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:24.760
<v Speaker 1>shame spiral, right.

660
00:35:24.719 --> 00:35:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, So she says, I know Josh forgives me

661
00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:30.360
<v Speaker 2>when I do it, but I wonder is this the

662
00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:32.880
<v Speaker 2>last time? Like he's going to forgive me? Like could

663
00:35:32.880 --> 00:35:34.880
<v Speaker 2>I do it every week? I mean, I'm not saying

664
00:35:34.880 --> 00:35:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I want to do it every week, but like if

665
00:35:36.480 --> 00:35:39.079
<v Speaker 2>I did do it every week, would he keep forgiving me?

666
00:35:39.559 --> 00:35:43.360
<v Speaker 2>And maybe this every time is like the last time

667
00:35:43.400 --> 00:35:45.079
<v Speaker 2>he's going to forgive me for that. Yeah, so I

668
00:35:45.199 --> 00:35:48.400
<v Speaker 2>needed to stop. So she says, I know I've been

669
00:35:48.480 --> 00:35:51.320
<v Speaker 2>unhinged when I'm drinking, and I'll try to let you

670
00:35:51.400 --> 00:35:54.159
<v Speaker 2>know what my head's face is before I start drinking,

671
00:35:54.719 --> 00:35:58.880
<v Speaker 2>because I am not even in the conversation of stopping drinking.

672
00:35:59.239 --> 00:36:01.840
<v Speaker 2>That is never even an option that I have considered,

673
00:36:02.400 --> 00:36:05.320
<v Speaker 2>and that is an issue in itself. But again we're

674
00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:08.000
<v Speaker 2>not talking about that now. No one has brought up

675
00:36:08.039 --> 00:36:10.519
<v Speaker 2>that she has an alcohol if you why is no

676
00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:11.599
<v Speaker 2>one bringing that up?

677
00:36:12.159 --> 00:36:15.679
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that was weird that she was like, Yeah,

678
00:36:15.679 --> 00:36:18.159
<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna do is when I start drinking, I'll

679
00:36:18.199 --> 00:36:20.159
<v Speaker 1>let you know right away. Do I feel like making

680
00:36:20.159 --> 00:36:20.679
<v Speaker 1>out or not?

681
00:36:21.000 --> 00:36:21.159
<v Speaker 2>Right?

682
00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay? But what if you just didn't drink, then you

683
00:36:23.880 --> 00:36:26.360
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have that compulsion to make out with people.

684
00:36:26.960 --> 00:36:31.320
<v Speaker 2>It's not even been touched upon yet, like by either

685
00:36:31.400 --> 00:36:35.920
<v Speaker 2>of them, that huh. And it's all her culture. The

686
00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:38.960
<v Speaker 2>friend group, it all seems to revolve around drinking too,

687
00:36:39.400 --> 00:36:42.119
<v Speaker 2>so she would need to reset her life and like

688
00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:43.639
<v Speaker 2>get a new group of friends too.

689
00:36:44.199 --> 00:36:46.639
<v Speaker 1>They all seem slightly afraid of her that they may

690
00:36:46.760 --> 00:36:49.840
<v Speaker 1>be accosted at any moment by uh huh, you know.

691
00:36:49.840 --> 00:36:52.920
<v Speaker 2>By her tongue literally by her tongue, that she's.

692
00:36:52.800 --> 00:36:55.159
<v Speaker 1>Gonna get drunk and be like you're turned get in here.

693
00:36:55.840 --> 00:36:59.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So he says Katie needs to stable, settle down,

694
00:36:59.400 --> 00:37:02.400
<v Speaker 2>and have stability or this won't work. She needs to

695
00:37:02.440 --> 00:37:05.079
<v Speaker 2>curb the bullshit, and so they go to the bar

696
00:37:05.719 --> 00:37:08.159
<v Speaker 2>for the party, which is an issue right off the

697
00:37:08.159 --> 00:37:10.840
<v Speaker 2>bat because there are other places you could throw a party,

698
00:37:11.320 --> 00:37:14.639
<v Speaker 2>but she is throwing it at a bar. But everyone's welcoming,

699
00:37:14.719 --> 00:37:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Josh hugging him. It's all hipsters. I forget, just all

700
00:37:18.519 --> 00:37:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Portland hipsters, and he says he wonders are people looking

701
00:37:23.000 --> 00:37:25.519
<v Speaker 2>at me like I'm an idiot because they've all made

702
00:37:25.559 --> 00:37:30.239
<v Speaker 2>out with her, like it's awkward. She starts drinking right away,

703
00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:32.880
<v Speaker 2>and he is eyeing how many drinks she's having, and

704
00:37:33.039 --> 00:37:35.280
<v Speaker 2>every time we see her, she has a different drink

705
00:37:35.320 --> 00:37:39.800
<v Speaker 2>in her hand. She's lot, she's lost, and he hopes

706
00:37:39.800 --> 00:37:41.719
<v Speaker 2>she's going to rein it, in which she's not. So

707
00:37:41.760 --> 00:37:44.960
<v Speaker 2>we meet Mark, who says I hooked up with her

708
00:37:45.239 --> 00:37:47.639
<v Speaker 2>after I had known her for just a week. She

709
00:37:47.920 --> 00:37:51.679
<v Speaker 2>is a lioness on the prowl, and she's made out

710
00:37:51.719 --> 00:37:56.840
<v Speaker 2>with me, my roommate. There's American Josh, there's Danika, there's Bella,

711
00:37:57.079 --> 00:37:59.360
<v Speaker 2>oh and Fred. Don't forget about Fred.

712
00:38:00.239 --> 00:38:04.199
<v Speaker 1>So she's just all of every all of them, every

713
00:38:04.239 --> 00:38:05.519
<v Speaker 1>single person, almost.

714
00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:09.079
<v Speaker 2>Every single person. And I didn't wonder about the girls.

715
00:38:09.159 --> 00:38:12.599
<v Speaker 2>Thing like is she by or is it she just

716
00:38:12.760 --> 00:38:15.360
<v Speaker 2>needs to make out with someone, or is it like

717
00:38:15.519 --> 00:38:18.559
<v Speaker 2>she's doing it for attention, which girls sometimes do in

718
00:38:18.639 --> 00:38:27.000
<v Speaker 2>their early twenties in college at a party, which is problematic.

719
00:38:27.320 --> 00:38:31.960
<v Speaker 2>But then I was wondering, like, if she's not by,

720
00:38:32.079 --> 00:38:34.960
<v Speaker 2>would he could they have some sort of compromise that

721
00:38:35.039 --> 00:38:39.079
<v Speaker 2>she only makes out with girls because he knows that

722
00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:41.280
<v Speaker 2>she's not into them or.

723
00:38:42.679 --> 00:38:44.079
<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you know?

724
00:38:44.199 --> 00:38:47.920
<v Speaker 2>Do you see what I'm saying? But if she would

725
00:38:47.960 --> 00:38:50.920
<v Speaker 2>be interested in them and she is like on the

726
00:38:51.000 --> 00:38:55.760
<v Speaker 2>by by or some sort of you know, spectrum where

727
00:38:55.800 --> 00:38:58.719
<v Speaker 2>she likes girls too, then that would be the same

728
00:38:58.800 --> 00:39:00.800
<v Speaker 2>loss of respect that Josh is.

729
00:39:01.480 --> 00:39:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I see what you're saying. But she's run through the

730
00:39:04.280 --> 00:39:06.440
<v Speaker 1>girls at the run club because one of them was like,

731
00:39:06.480 --> 00:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>she tried to stick her tongue down my throat, and

732
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:08.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, no.

733
00:39:09.239 --> 00:39:12.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, So then they would need to introduce new people

734
00:39:12.440 --> 00:39:13.719
<v Speaker 2>to the group for sure.

735
00:39:14.360 --> 00:39:17.079
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, I think she just needs to stop doing it.

736
00:39:17.760 --> 00:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I think bottom line needs to stop doing it. She

737
00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:26.000
<v Speaker 2>needs to go cold turkey. But she might need to

738
00:39:26.039 --> 00:39:31.000
<v Speaker 2>go lukewarm pigeon, as we say on a date with Dateline,

739
00:39:32.039 --> 00:39:36.760
<v Speaker 2>which is not cold turkey. It's like easing into it and.

740
00:39:36.800 --> 00:39:38.119
<v Speaker 1>Just make out with girls first.

741
00:39:38.599 --> 00:39:44.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, warm goose and she just make out with

742
00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:48.440
<v Speaker 2>girls first and then do it. But I really think

743
00:39:48.480 --> 00:39:50.320
<v Speaker 2>the bottom line is she needs to stop drinking.

744
00:39:50.920 --> 00:39:53.239
<v Speaker 1>No, I'd like to see what happens if she stops drinking.

745
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:54.639
<v Speaker 1>Is that compulsion still there?

746
00:39:54.760 --> 00:39:57.239
<v Speaker 2>But she do it for a month. And if she

747
00:39:57.360 --> 00:39:59.480
<v Speaker 2>can't do it for a month, and she can't even

748
00:39:59.480 --> 00:40:02.880
<v Speaker 2>comprehend and doing it for a month, that's a that's

749
00:40:02.920 --> 00:40:06.440
<v Speaker 2>a problem that if you that means you have a problem.

750
00:40:06.800 --> 00:40:10.559
<v Speaker 2>So I think, and I'm not an expert, but.

751
00:40:10.679 --> 00:40:14.159
<v Speaker 1>I would I would say, if you can go a.

752
00:40:14.159 --> 00:40:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Week, yeah, and if you if you can't even comprehend

753
00:40:17.840 --> 00:40:18.639
<v Speaker 2>making it a week?

754
00:40:18.960 --> 00:40:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they yes, okay.

755
00:40:22.519 --> 00:40:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So Katie's playing darts, which is very dangerous because

756
00:40:26.000 --> 00:40:30.320
<v Speaker 2>she's already super drunk and her arm is just flailing

757
00:40:30.360 --> 00:40:32.960
<v Speaker 2>wildly and I was like, that's how someone loses an eye.

758
00:40:33.159 --> 00:40:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

759
00:40:33.519 --> 00:40:37.280
<v Speaker 2>So she tells her girlfriends how should they add sex?

760
00:40:37.320 --> 00:40:40.079
<v Speaker 2>And they had a really good conversation about respect and

761
00:40:40.119 --> 00:40:43.360
<v Speaker 2>things like that. And while Josh is chatting with the

762
00:40:43.400 --> 00:40:46.719
<v Speaker 2>guys who say, wow, she's like a loose cannon. How

763
00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:48.599
<v Speaker 2>do you deal with that, and Josh goes, what do

764
00:40:48.639 --> 00:40:50.920
<v Speaker 2>you mean by that? And he goes, well, she's loose,

765
00:40:51.599 --> 00:40:54.960
<v Speaker 2>which is like, so are you calling your sluttie or

766
00:40:55.000 --> 00:40:55.800
<v Speaker 2>a loose cannon?

767
00:40:56.239 --> 00:40:59.039
<v Speaker 1>She's fucked everybody standing in this circle.

768
00:40:59.119 --> 00:41:03.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and she you know how everybody everything's a party

769
00:41:03.760 --> 00:41:06.280
<v Speaker 2>with her and like she just goes off the rails

770
00:41:06.440 --> 00:41:10.679
<v Speaker 2>and you know, and Josh is like yeah, and he says,

771
00:41:10.760 --> 00:41:14.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like everyone knows something that they're not telling me. Yeah,

772
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:18.960
<v Speaker 2>and it feels super awkward. And he says, but we

773
00:41:19.079 --> 00:41:22.039
<v Speaker 2>can't exclude the people that she's made out with, or

774
00:41:22.039 --> 00:41:24.400
<v Speaker 2>we would have a friendship of just the two of us.

775
00:41:24.920 --> 00:41:28.119
<v Speaker 2>There were no one left, So Mark.

776
00:41:28.679 --> 00:41:32.199
<v Speaker 1>It did feel like everybody here is talking about what

777
00:41:32.280 --> 00:41:33.199
<v Speaker 1>an idiot I am.

778
00:41:33.760 --> 00:41:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, That's how he feels, like they're all side eye

779
00:41:36.360 --> 00:41:38.880
<v Speaker 2>and going, oh, poor Josh. He has no idea, and like,

780
00:41:38.920 --> 00:41:41.280
<v Speaker 2>I want to tell them that I know what she's done,

781
00:41:41.559 --> 00:41:43.559
<v Speaker 2>but then they'll be like, well why are you here?

782
00:41:43.639 --> 00:41:46.320
<v Speaker 2>If you know what she's done, they'll have no respect

783
00:41:46.400 --> 00:41:51.639
<v Speaker 2>for me because I've taken it right. So Mark asked, Josh,

784
00:41:51.800 --> 00:41:54.599
<v Speaker 2>how do you deal with these wild and crazy stunts

785
00:41:54.679 --> 00:41:58.280
<v Speaker 2>that she's always pulling, and Josh says, you mean, like,

786
00:41:58.760 --> 00:42:03.519
<v Speaker 2>why am I here with that? And Mark's like, yeah,

787
00:42:03.559 --> 00:42:05.519
<v Speaker 2>I mean, like, oh no, I just mean you've come

788
00:42:05.559 --> 00:42:08.400
<v Speaker 2>so far and like uprooted your life and that's really big.

789
00:42:08.440 --> 00:42:11.199
<v Speaker 2>And Josh says, yeah, well, I feel like this relationship

790
00:42:11.239 --> 00:42:13.880
<v Speaker 2>is serious and it has to be serious for me

791
00:42:14.000 --> 00:42:17.440
<v Speaker 2>to move here, and Mark says, yeah, but she comes

792
00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:19.920
<v Speaker 2>with this level of craziness. I mean, you deal with

793
00:42:19.960 --> 00:42:23.519
<v Speaker 2>it better than I ever could back when I banged her.

794
00:42:23.920 --> 00:42:27.840
<v Speaker 2>And you know, Mark is a saboteur, I think, and

795
00:42:28.039 --> 00:42:31.559
<v Speaker 2>maybe he loves her. I think he is jealous and

796
00:42:32.559 --> 00:42:35.920
<v Speaker 2>does want her, and Josh is just smiling really tensely,

797
00:42:36.360 --> 00:42:40.320
<v Speaker 2>and then American Josh says this, Josh seems so nice

798
00:42:40.320 --> 00:42:42.800
<v Speaker 2>and he really loves her, and he's all in, and

799
00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:45.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm really worried that Katie will make huge mistakes and

800
00:42:45.800 --> 00:42:49.400
<v Speaker 2>fuck everything up. She is wild. She'll push everyone to

801
00:42:49.519 --> 00:42:53.719
<v Speaker 2>like do karaoke, which was a weird example because that's

802
00:42:53.800 --> 00:42:57.280
<v Speaker 2>not a wild crazy She'll be like, let's do karaoke.

803
00:42:58.280 --> 00:42:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I think it's like out with everyone.

804
00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like it's three in the morning, I

805
00:43:01.920 --> 00:43:03.719
<v Speaker 1>don't want the party to stop. Kind of a thing.

806
00:43:03.800 --> 00:43:07.119
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, totally. So Josh goes to talk to her.

807
00:43:07.199 --> 00:43:10.519
<v Speaker 2>She's basically licking the inside of this can to get

808
00:43:10.599 --> 00:43:14.639
<v Speaker 2>every single drop out. She's like this, did you see that?

809
00:43:17.000 --> 00:43:19.559
<v Speaker 1>Yes, because she's like she knew it was her last

810
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:20.480
<v Speaker 1>drink and she's like.

811
00:43:20.400 --> 00:43:24.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, yeah, last drop. So she asked like,

812
00:43:24.679 --> 00:43:28.719
<v Speaker 2>what were you talking about with those guys and he says, well,

813
00:43:28.760 --> 00:43:31.159
<v Speaker 2>they were just checking in on how I was doing.

814
00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:35.960
<v Speaker 2>And she's like why, I mean, or like, how did

815
00:43:36.000 --> 00:43:42.199
<v Speaker 2>it go? She's so drunk, and he says it went great,

816
00:43:42.280 --> 00:43:45.239
<v Speaker 2>it was fine, and she says, it doesn't bug you that,

817
00:43:45.440 --> 00:43:50.079
<v Speaker 2>like we've banged before. And I banged both Josh and

818
00:43:50.119 --> 00:43:54.199
<v Speaker 2>Mark one time, well not one time, like three times.

819
00:43:54.599 --> 00:43:57.559
<v Speaker 2>And I didn't know she had banged everybody. I thought

820
00:43:57.599 --> 00:43:59.840
<v Speaker 2>she had just made out with most of them same,

821
00:44:00.559 --> 00:44:04.639
<v Speaker 2>but she had banged several of them. And Josh goes

822
00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:10.079
<v Speaker 2>right and she's like, you're not insecure, and he's like, no,

823
00:44:10.280 --> 00:44:13.000
<v Speaker 2>it's fine. I mean you love me, right, so that's

824
00:44:13.079 --> 00:44:17.119
<v Speaker 2>all I need. That's fine. And Katie's like, yeah, sometimes

825
00:44:17.159 --> 00:44:19.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I think about the chemistry I used

826
00:44:19.920 --> 00:44:22.719
<v Speaker 2>to have, like with those guys over there, and I

827
00:44:23.039 --> 00:44:27.480
<v Speaker 2>a thought would cross my mind, and he goes sorry,

828
00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:31.440
<v Speaker 2>and she goes, but I think that it just didn't

829
00:44:31.440 --> 00:44:35.960
<v Speaker 2>work out, like with them, so that's and he goes right,

830
00:44:37.559 --> 00:44:41.000
<v Speaker 2>and he says, sometimes Katie says things with the hopes

831
00:44:41.079 --> 00:44:44.840
<v Speaker 2>that they might come true, and I hope that that's

832
00:44:44.880 --> 00:44:47.719
<v Speaker 2>not what this is. Like she wants to be with

833
00:44:47.760 --> 00:44:51.840
<v Speaker 2>one of them, and she's verbializing it, and I don't

834
00:44:51.880 --> 00:44:54.880
<v Speaker 2>always want to be second guessing this relationship. She needs

835
00:44:54.920 --> 00:44:56.800
<v Speaker 2>to prove she's committed to me or this could have

836
00:44:56.840 --> 00:45:00.679
<v Speaker 2>all been a huge waste of my time, my emotions, everything.

837
00:45:01.039 --> 00:45:03.119
<v Speaker 2>And then she grabs him and she makes out with him,

838
00:45:03.280 --> 00:45:07.559
<v Speaker 2>and they keep cutting to American Josh and Mark giving

839
00:45:07.639 --> 00:45:11.159
<v Speaker 2>side eye because like one of them or both still

840
00:45:11.199 --> 00:45:14.199
<v Speaker 2>like her. I don't think American Josh does, but I

841
00:45:14.239 --> 00:45:15.239
<v Speaker 2>do think Mark does.

842
00:45:15.480 --> 00:45:18.519
<v Speaker 4>Is Mark the woe that's sort of the crazy hair, No,

843
00:45:18.719 --> 00:45:22.119
<v Speaker 4>that's American Josh Okay Mark, Josh Marks the one with

844
00:45:22.199 --> 00:45:23.519
<v Speaker 4>the like fauxhawk.

845
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:27.679
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was literally like Ed Grimley Martin George's character

846
00:45:27.760 --> 00:45:30.119
<v Speaker 1>that pointed swoopy.

847
00:45:30.400 --> 00:45:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, yeah. They're just fascinating. They are made for TV.

848
00:45:36.840 --> 00:45:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I am just so into analyzing them. I feel bad

849
00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:43.039
<v Speaker 2>for both of them. I don't hate her, I just

850
00:45:43.079 --> 00:45:44.239
<v Speaker 2>feel really bad for her.

851
00:45:44.519 --> 00:45:47.719
<v Speaker 1>I just don't know. Another thing I said, you know,

852
00:45:47.960 --> 00:45:51.679
<v Speaker 1>was I I do want to know what therapies or

853
00:45:51.719 --> 00:45:54.840
<v Speaker 1>medication she's tried. Everybody's like, does she not have like

854
00:45:55.360 --> 00:45:57.679
<v Speaker 1>a sister, a brother, a mom, a dad and uncle

855
00:45:57.719 --> 00:45:59.920
<v Speaker 1>and anybody. I was like, yeah, I'm gonna be in

856
00:46:00.280 --> 00:46:02.599
<v Speaker 1>to meet somebody in her family, gonna be interested to

857
00:46:02.639 --> 00:46:07.280
<v Speaker 1>find out further therapies and medications she possibly has tried.

858
00:46:07.840 --> 00:46:09.280
<v Speaker 1>What is the backstory here?

859
00:46:09.880 --> 00:46:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Right? Because it's affecting her life. It's affecting her relationship

860
00:46:15.119 --> 00:46:20.199
<v Speaker 2>all of this, and there are treatments out there and.

861
00:46:19.000 --> 00:46:21.519
<v Speaker 1>And friendships I would imagine because these girls are like

862
00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to go out on a Tuesday and get.

863
00:46:25.039 --> 00:46:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Shoving her tongue in my fad.

864
00:46:26.639 --> 00:46:27.840
<v Speaker 1>To kiss me, Like stop.

865
00:46:27.960 --> 00:46:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know. She needs some support system that

866
00:46:32.519 --> 00:46:36.679
<v Speaker 2>will be tough on her. Yeah, and like she needs

867
00:46:36.960 --> 00:46:39.639
<v Speaker 2>like you know, you can hire like an ADHD coach

868
00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:42.800
<v Speaker 2>who walks you through like all of these tasks and

869
00:46:42.840 --> 00:46:45.880
<v Speaker 2>things like that, but also medications. I want to know

870
00:46:45.920 --> 00:46:50.000
<v Speaker 2>what she's done me too, because it is affecting her

871
00:46:50.159 --> 00:46:52.199
<v Speaker 2>life severely totally.

872
00:46:53.239 --> 00:46:57.960
<v Speaker 1>All right, let's move on to Debbie and Meto. We're

873
00:46:58.000 --> 00:46:59.119
<v Speaker 1>meeting Debbie and Meadow.

874
00:46:59.599 --> 00:47:02.000
<v Speaker 2>I got, why are all the Debbies on this show

875
00:47:02.599 --> 00:47:04.760
<v Speaker 2>just bat shit crazy?

876
00:47:05.519 --> 00:47:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's bat shit No, she's.

877
00:47:08.000 --> 00:47:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Actually the most normal of the three debbies we've had.

878
00:47:11.679 --> 00:47:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we've got Mother Debbie and Miss Debbie and

879
00:47:15.800 --> 00:47:17.400
<v Speaker 1>now we've got New Orleans Debbie.

880
00:47:17.760 --> 00:47:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she actually seems to be the most sane.

881
00:47:21.880 --> 00:47:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I will say that from what we saw in previews,

882
00:47:25.920 --> 00:47:31.599
<v Speaker 1>I thought she looked odd, But seeing her talking in

883
00:47:31.639 --> 00:47:33.559
<v Speaker 1>real life and stuff, I do not find her odd,

884
00:47:33.639 --> 00:47:36.119
<v Speaker 1>and I do not find her to look so much

885
00:47:36.199 --> 00:47:40.960
<v Speaker 1>older than him. For everyone, she looked really good.

886
00:47:41.480 --> 00:47:42.800
<v Speaker 2>Her teeth again.

887
00:47:43.880 --> 00:47:46.920
<v Speaker 1>She's got one missing in the back, I saw it, But.

888
00:47:46.800 --> 00:47:50.480
<v Speaker 2>They're also just super dark and yellow, and I think

889
00:47:50.519 --> 00:47:51.920
<v Speaker 2>they could be that could be a dress.

890
00:47:52.039 --> 00:47:53.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you know that last time I went to the dentist,

891
00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:56.559
<v Speaker 1>just form my chuck up, I asked if I should

892
00:47:56.679 --> 00:48:00.400
<v Speaker 1>invest in like whitening, and you know at that like

893
00:48:00.440 --> 00:48:04.119
<v Speaker 1>professionally at the dentist, and literally my dentist who would

894
00:48:04.119 --> 00:48:06.280
<v Speaker 1>stand to make money off of me? Goes? Have you

895
00:48:06.360 --> 00:48:08.280
<v Speaker 1>tried across white strips? They really work.

896
00:48:08.960 --> 00:48:10.480
<v Speaker 2>Wow, yeah, amazing.

897
00:48:10.719 --> 00:48:12.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I'm gonna try.

898
00:48:12.320 --> 00:48:14.599
<v Speaker 2>Also, I did professional whitening once, and it was the

899
00:48:14.599 --> 00:48:16.800
<v Speaker 2>most painful experience of my entire life.

900
00:48:16.840 --> 00:48:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Everybody says it's if your teeth are just slightly sensitive,

901
00:48:20.039 --> 00:48:21.159
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be painful.

902
00:48:21.559 --> 00:48:24.920
<v Speaker 2>It was like nerves shooting through my literally my whole body.

903
00:48:25.199 --> 00:48:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I felt me down to my toes all night. I

904
00:48:28.559 --> 00:48:32.000
<v Speaker 2>was crying. I was so much pain. And I even

905
00:48:32.119 --> 00:48:34.559
<v Speaker 2>like looked it up on Reddit and people were like,

906
00:48:34.639 --> 00:48:37.239
<v Speaker 2>I've given birth to three kids. This is worse, Like,

907
00:48:37.360 --> 00:48:40.159
<v Speaker 2>how do I make it stop? It was if your

908
00:48:40.199 --> 00:48:43.119
<v Speaker 2>teeth are sensitive like that, which I guess might are.

909
00:48:43.519 --> 00:48:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Also, people can stop asking me if I know what

910
00:48:45.480 --> 00:48:47.679
<v Speaker 1>kind of baby Emily had, because I don't know. They're

911
00:48:47.719 --> 00:48:49.960
<v Speaker 1>obviously saving it for people or something, but I don't know.

912
00:48:50.599 --> 00:48:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I wrote and said, tell me about the baby.

913
00:48:53.440 --> 00:48:53.960
<v Speaker 1>No answer.

914
00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:55.599
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well she's busy.

915
00:48:55.960 --> 00:49:01.239
<v Speaker 4>She's busy, so Debbie, we mean, so Debbie goes to

916
00:49:01.320 --> 00:49:04.840
<v Speaker 4>work at her insurance agent's job with her dog.

917
00:49:05.119 --> 00:49:05.639
<v Speaker 1>A little bit.

918
00:49:07.360 --> 00:49:11.079
<v Speaker 2>That was the name of the dog. On a thousand Pounds.

919
00:49:10.840 --> 00:49:14.760
<v Speaker 1>Sisters, somebody wrote somebody wrote that, but thousand pounds Sisters

920
00:49:14.800 --> 00:49:17.719
<v Speaker 1>it was probably like l I l y a little bit.

921
00:49:18.000 --> 00:49:19.800
<v Speaker 1>This is Yeah, it was a little bit.

922
00:49:20.719 --> 00:49:23.559
<v Speaker 2>And she where is she New Orleans?

923
00:49:23.559 --> 00:49:24.239
<v Speaker 1>New Orleans?

924
00:49:24.719 --> 00:49:26.639
<v Speaker 2>I thought it looked like New Orleans when they were

925
00:49:26.679 --> 00:49:27.639
<v Speaker 2>at that cafe.

926
00:49:27.880 --> 00:49:29.639
<v Speaker 1>They were at Cafe Dumont. You can't get me.

927
00:49:29.800 --> 00:49:30.599
<v Speaker 2>That's what I thought.

928
00:49:30.920 --> 00:49:32.159
<v Speaker 1>You'd get more New Orleans than that.

929
00:49:32.239 --> 00:49:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I wasn't paying close enough attention, but I was watching,

930
00:49:35.000 --> 00:49:36.599
<v Speaker 2>going that is that cafe? Do mom?

931
00:49:36.920 --> 00:49:41.039
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? So I said, she must have a pretty decent

932
00:49:41.119 --> 00:49:42.840
<v Speaker 1>job because she has an office that could take her

933
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:46.519
<v Speaker 1>dog to work. So yeah, we see you're chatting on

934
00:49:46.519 --> 00:49:48.639
<v Speaker 1>her office zone like blah blah. We see her going

935
00:49:48.679 --> 00:49:51.440
<v Speaker 1>to the copy or you know, boring, and she says,

936
00:49:51.440 --> 00:49:53.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, my job is pretty mundane, but my personal

937
00:49:53.840 --> 00:49:56.639
<v Speaker 1>life is more exciting. Six years ago, I went to

938
00:49:56.719 --> 00:49:59.599
<v Speaker 1>Egypt with my daughter and I met the love of

939
00:49:59.599 --> 00:50:06.880
<v Speaker 1>my life, Meado. Six years six years. He's an Egyptian

940
00:50:06.880 --> 00:50:10.480
<v Speaker 1>movie star. He has hundreds of thousands of followers on

941
00:50:10.519 --> 00:50:12.880
<v Speaker 1>social media. I did look. He has six hundred and

942
00:50:12.920 --> 00:50:18.840
<v Speaker 1>sixty seven thousand on Meadow Fayed Official now. On his

943
00:50:19.760 --> 00:50:24.000
<v Speaker 1>profile on Instagram, it says he's a Japanese and English.

944
00:50:23.639 --> 00:50:29.079
<v Speaker 4>Tour guide what so I guess he speaks Japanese. Also, Wow,

945
00:50:29.199 --> 00:50:29.960
<v Speaker 4>that's impressive.

946
00:50:30.320 --> 00:50:33.280
<v Speaker 1>And then it says a co founder of this and

947
00:50:33.320 --> 00:50:36.719
<v Speaker 1>you click on it and it's got like seven followers

948
00:50:36.719 --> 00:50:40.320
<v Speaker 1>in one post, and it's like, you know, Pyramids tours

949
00:50:40.400 --> 00:50:44.239
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. But he also acts, but he also is

950
00:50:44.239 --> 00:50:46.960
<v Speaker 1>an actor, and it's actually legit, like if you'll come up,

951
00:50:47.039 --> 00:50:51.599
<v Speaker 1>he has actual movie credits okay, yeah, like articles where

952
00:50:51.599 --> 00:50:53.639
<v Speaker 1>he was interviewed about a certain movie and stuff like that.

953
00:50:53.800 --> 00:50:56.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't think he's like, he's not like Brad Pitt,

954
00:50:56.199 --> 00:50:57.280
<v Speaker 1>but I mean he might know.

955
00:50:57.400 --> 00:51:00.920
<v Speaker 2>But there's something shady going on. Oh yeah, it's part

956
00:51:01.000 --> 00:51:03.599
<v Speaker 2>that you'll talk about. And so I'm surprised. I was

957
00:51:03.960 --> 00:51:07.119
<v Speaker 2>very curious about his IMDb page, like what's going on

958
00:51:07.320 --> 00:51:08.679
<v Speaker 2>if he actually.

959
00:51:08.760 --> 00:51:11.239
<v Speaker 1>He has but he doesn't. That's not how he makes

960
00:51:11.239 --> 00:51:13.719
<v Speaker 1>a living. He makes a living I believe as being

961
00:51:13.719 --> 00:51:17.000
<v Speaker 1>a Japanese English to ride. Yeah yeah, I mean if

962
00:51:17.039 --> 00:51:18.639
<v Speaker 1>he speaks Japanese and.

963
00:51:19.320 --> 00:51:20.400
<v Speaker 2>Sounds hard working.

964
00:51:20.679 --> 00:51:25.559
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes. So they say, so what movies has he

965
00:51:25.639 --> 00:51:27.800
<v Speaker 1>been in and what how is his acting? And she goes, well,

966
00:51:27.840 --> 00:51:30.960
<v Speaker 1>he's not shown me his work. I haven't seen any

967
00:51:30.960 --> 00:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>of his reels. He says, I won't understand it, so

968
00:51:34.039 --> 00:51:37.079
<v Speaker 1>what's the point. But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.

969
00:51:37.679 --> 00:51:39.320
<v Speaker 2>No, see, that's really weird.

970
00:51:39.719 --> 00:51:43.239
<v Speaker 1>No, I could watch it with subtitles. Tell me the titles. Also,

971
00:51:43.800 --> 00:51:44.360
<v Speaker 1>she can be.

972
00:51:44.280 --> 00:51:47.639
<v Speaker 2>A real so I can just see what what's happened.

973
00:51:47.679 --> 00:51:51.000
<v Speaker 2>I just wanted she could google it. Okay, her daughter

974
00:51:51.039 --> 00:51:52.559
<v Speaker 2>could figure out how to google it.

975
00:51:52.719 --> 00:51:54.159
<v Speaker 1>Right, she's only fifty five.

976
00:51:54.239 --> 00:51:58.480
<v Speaker 2>She could figure I know she's yeah, so this is

977
00:51:58.760 --> 00:51:59.679
<v Speaker 2>very weird.

978
00:52:00.679 --> 00:52:02.519
<v Speaker 1>So she tells us how they met. She and her

979
00:52:02.599 --> 00:52:06.800
<v Speaker 1>daughter were in Egypt. He was their tour guide and

980
00:52:07.000 --> 00:52:10.639
<v Speaker 1>coming down from the tomb of the blah blah blah,

981
00:52:10.880 --> 00:52:15.000
<v Speaker 1>he kissed her. Now, so I'm wondering if, like last

982
00:52:15.000 --> 00:52:16.920
<v Speaker 1>time we were in Paris, we had the same tour guide.

983
00:52:16.920 --> 00:52:18.800
<v Speaker 1>A couple of times we've done that, where we've done

984
00:52:18.880 --> 00:52:20.719
<v Speaker 1>like when we went with the kids, we had a

985
00:52:20.760 --> 00:52:22.440
<v Speaker 1>tour of the Louver and then we also had a

986
00:52:22.440 --> 00:52:24.719
<v Speaker 1>tour of Versailles, it was the same person. So I'm

987
00:52:24.760 --> 00:52:27.880
<v Speaker 1>wondering if like they booked something where they had like

988
00:52:27.960 --> 00:52:30.119
<v Speaker 1>three different tours and he was their guide every time,

989
00:52:30.880 --> 00:52:33.880
<v Speaker 1>because surely not in like four hours time. The daughter

990
00:52:33.960 --> 00:52:35.920
<v Speaker 1>was like he's flirting with you, and then he kissed.

991
00:52:35.719 --> 00:52:40.559
<v Speaker 2>Her, and also did she want to be kissed? And

992
00:52:40.719 --> 00:52:43.480
<v Speaker 2>also that seems super inappropriate?

993
00:52:43.880 --> 00:52:46.239
<v Speaker 1>Uh huh it does. It does.

994
00:52:46.559 --> 00:52:50.400
<v Speaker 2>Also I would leave a one star review if that

995
00:52:50.679 --> 00:52:55.880
<v Speaker 2>my turur guide kiss me out of nowhere? Not into that? Also,

996
00:52:56.039 --> 00:52:59.360
<v Speaker 2>can I join a Gilbert family vacation and just go

997
00:52:59.480 --> 00:53:01.880
<v Speaker 2>with you? Guys? I promise I'll give you family time.

998
00:53:02.000 --> 00:53:04.280
<v Speaker 2>I just want to go like on the tours that

999
00:53:04.320 --> 00:53:05.719
<v Speaker 2>you have hired a chur ride for.

1000
00:53:06.159 --> 00:53:09.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we don't want family time, so it's fine. Okay.

1001
00:53:10.400 --> 00:53:14.119
<v Speaker 1>So she says, you know, I mean, my gosh, you know,

1002
00:53:14.199 --> 00:53:18.039
<v Speaker 1>not only is he a movie star and a tour guide,

1003
00:53:18.400 --> 00:53:22.960
<v Speaker 1>he's younger than me. He's so charming. So she is

1004
00:53:23.199 --> 00:53:25.400
<v Speaker 1>maybe on our lunch break or something, and she's walking

1005
00:53:25.599 --> 00:53:28.000
<v Speaker 1>with a little bit and she's saying, let's call Poppy.

1006
00:53:28.119 --> 00:53:32.079
<v Speaker 1>Let's call Poppy. Don't get your dog involved, to call him.

1007
00:53:32.159 --> 00:53:35.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Nicole, God, don't let me get attached.

1008
00:53:36.239 --> 00:53:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Ah. So they talk on the phone and she's like,

1009
00:53:39.840 --> 00:53:41.599
<v Speaker 1>are you starting to pack? He goes, yeah, I'm gonna

1010
00:53:41.599 --> 00:53:44.119
<v Speaker 1>pack tuna fish. She was like, we have tuna fish here.

1011
00:53:44.400 --> 00:53:47.679
<v Speaker 1>He makes some corny jokes about like, look, here's the Pyramids.

1012
00:53:47.719 --> 00:53:50.599
<v Speaker 1>I haven't been done mine yet. I'm a pharaoh and

1013
00:53:51.119 --> 00:53:53.920
<v Speaker 1>we have Arabic tuna fish here. Like he's making like

1014
00:53:53.960 --> 00:53:55.679
<v Speaker 1>a lot of kind of dad jokes that maybe he's

1015
00:53:55.760 --> 00:53:58.880
<v Speaker 1>used to making on his tours. But they've been together

1016
00:53:58.920 --> 00:54:01.440
<v Speaker 1>six years, so it seems like they would have I

1017
00:54:01.440 --> 00:54:01.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know.

1018
00:54:02.400 --> 00:54:06.119
<v Speaker 2>It's like being on If anyone can relate to this,

1019
00:54:06.239 --> 00:54:12.079
<v Speaker 2>the Jungle Cruise at Disneyland or World, it's those jokes

1020
00:54:12.239 --> 00:54:14.679
<v Speaker 2>which are kind of funny if you're in the mood

1021
00:54:14.800 --> 00:54:17.400
<v Speaker 2>and you're at Disneyland and you're like in the vibe,

1022
00:54:17.480 --> 00:54:21.000
<v Speaker 2>they're kind of enjoyable. But it's been six years and

1023
00:54:21.079 --> 00:54:22.559
<v Speaker 2>you can't get off the boat.

1024
00:54:23.920 --> 00:54:27.880
<v Speaker 1>Right, yes, right, Yeah, there's is like corny dad jokes

1025
00:54:27.960 --> 00:54:29.800
<v Speaker 1>right that he obviously tells over and over.

1026
00:54:30.639 --> 00:54:31.920
<v Speaker 2>So he says he's cute.

1027
00:54:32.199 --> 00:54:32.559
<v Speaker 1>He is.

1028
00:54:33.679 --> 00:54:37.960
<v Speaker 2>I really don't like that hair, the curly, longer hair.

1029
00:54:38.280 --> 00:54:41.239
<v Speaker 2>When they show him in pictures with shaved head, yeah,

1030
00:54:41.840 --> 00:54:44.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, huge, that's cute.

1031
00:54:45.320 --> 00:54:48.000
<v Speaker 1>I found him. Yeah, I think he's very good looking.

1032
00:54:49.119 --> 00:54:51.840
<v Speaker 1>And he asked her, have you been printing my headshots

1033
00:54:51.840 --> 00:54:53.760
<v Speaker 1>for me? I was like, go to Kinko's go to.

1034
00:54:53.920 --> 00:54:55.840
<v Speaker 1>That's what you're doing. Why does she have to print

1035
00:54:55.840 --> 00:54:59.599
<v Speaker 1>of a home and use all her ink So.

1036
00:54:59.280 --> 00:55:03.079
<v Speaker 2>He should have a manager that's handling them right right right,

1037
00:55:03.199 --> 00:55:04.079
<v Speaker 2>I guess he doesn't.

1038
00:55:04.360 --> 00:55:08.519
<v Speaker 1>Ye has six hundred and sixty seven thousand followers, Like.

1039
00:55:08.639 --> 00:55:11.440
<v Speaker 2>Are they all bought? That's what I was wondering, Like

1040
00:55:12.400 --> 00:55:13.719
<v Speaker 2>they bought me too.

1041
00:55:14.119 --> 00:55:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I did say, I did see somebody post something recently

1042
00:55:17.280 --> 00:55:23.880
<v Speaker 1>about Instagram is calling through the botsk and this person,

1043
00:55:23.960 --> 00:55:27.000
<v Speaker 1>whoever it was, was like, I did notice that so

1044
00:55:27.079 --> 00:55:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and so had three hundred thousand followers, and I looked

1045
00:55:30.880 --> 00:55:33.159
<v Speaker 1>today and they had two hundred and eighty thousand. So

1046
00:55:33.199 --> 00:55:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if twenty thousand of them were bots? Yeah,

1047
00:55:37.920 --> 00:55:40.239
<v Speaker 1>or just twenty thousand people hated that person that day?

1048
00:55:40.320 --> 00:55:44.079
<v Speaker 2>So should we be doing that? Because both of us

1049
00:55:44.360 --> 00:55:47.679
<v Speaker 2>really want to build up our Instagram followers. So I

1050
00:55:47.679 --> 00:55:49.320
<v Speaker 2>don't know if you purchasing them.

1051
00:55:49.840 --> 00:55:51.400
<v Speaker 1>No, we should not be purchasing them.

1052
00:55:51.960 --> 00:55:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

1053
00:55:52.800 --> 00:55:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I want every person to be there because they want

1054
00:55:55.039 --> 00:55:55.480
<v Speaker 1>to be there.

1055
00:55:56.800 --> 00:55:59.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I don't care if they know who

1056
00:55:59.320 --> 00:56:02.159
<v Speaker 2>I am, or if someone that it's in their life

1057
00:56:02.239 --> 00:56:05.320
<v Speaker 2>borrowed their phone for a sec subscribed and then handed

1058
00:56:05.360 --> 00:56:07.719
<v Speaker 2>it back to them and they don't even know they've subscribed.

1059
00:56:07.960 --> 00:56:10.559
<v Speaker 1>I don't care, I say all the time, follow me,

1060
00:56:10.599 --> 00:56:12.559
<v Speaker 1>you can mute me. I don't care. Yeah, I might,

1061
00:56:12.639 --> 00:56:16.800
<v Speaker 1>it's probably going to totally offinge you. So in the

1062
00:56:16.920 --> 00:56:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Talking Head, Debbie says Mito's expectation in America is he

1063
00:56:21.039 --> 00:56:24.800
<v Speaker 1>wants to be an actor, like a big actor. And

1064
00:56:25.039 --> 00:56:27.199
<v Speaker 1>what if he gets gets here and he's not happy?

1065
00:56:27.280 --> 00:56:28.920
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if she means in the United

1066
00:56:28.960 --> 00:56:32.760
<v Speaker 1>States or in New Orleans.

1067
00:56:31.880 --> 00:56:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Right right, No, I think it's New Orleans.

1068
00:56:36.360 --> 00:56:39.320
<v Speaker 1>So now she's at home printing photos. I'm like, god, bless,

1069
00:56:39.480 --> 00:56:42.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, cheaper for you to go and do this

1070
00:56:42.920 --> 00:56:47.960
<v Speaker 1>at FedEx Kinko's instead of absolutely buying those packets for sixty.

1071
00:56:47.599 --> 00:56:49.440
<v Speaker 2>Bucks of ink No, no, no no.

1072
00:56:49.960 --> 00:56:53.360
<v Speaker 1>So she's with their daughter, Devin, and she is saying

1073
00:56:53.400 --> 00:56:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to Devn, I mean he's just a photogenic I mean,

1074
00:56:55.400 --> 00:56:57.119
<v Speaker 1>my god, he knows how to find the light. Look

1075
00:56:57.159 --> 00:57:01.559
<v Speaker 1>at this, and Devin goes, So you think this acting

1076
00:57:01.719 --> 00:57:03.920
<v Speaker 1>thing is going to go somewhere with him. Like all

1077
00:57:03.960 --> 00:57:07.920
<v Speaker 1>these photos they look amateur like, just like Instagram model

1078
00:57:08.000 --> 00:57:11.639
<v Speaker 1>or something like. They don't scream professional actor headshots.

1079
00:57:12.320 --> 00:57:14.639
<v Speaker 2>Well, you don't know what it's like. The vibe is

1080
00:57:14.679 --> 00:57:15.760
<v Speaker 2>like in Egypt.

1081
00:57:15.719 --> 00:57:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Right right. But by the way, if you go to

1082
00:57:18.880 --> 00:57:21.199
<v Speaker 1>IMDb 'or look him up or whatever, he does have

1083
00:57:21.239 --> 00:57:23.679
<v Speaker 1>some professional ones with like a playing background, and you

1084
00:57:23.679 --> 00:57:29.599
<v Speaker 1>know the Yeah. So, Debbie says, I'm trying to be supportive,

1085
00:57:29.599 --> 00:57:32.400
<v Speaker 1>but you know he's already asked if I will move

1086
00:57:32.519 --> 00:57:36.840
<v Speaker 1>to Hollywood or New York, and Devin goes, what, yes,

1087
00:57:36.960 --> 00:57:39.400
<v Speaker 1>if you would move? You know, his first priority should

1088
00:57:39.400 --> 00:57:42.559
<v Speaker 1>be the relationship. And Debbie goes, look at these pictures.

1089
00:57:42.960 --> 00:57:45.159
<v Speaker 1>He loves the camera, and the camera loves him.

1090
00:57:45.639 --> 00:57:48.679
<v Speaker 2>All right, Debbie, it is hard to find the light.

1091
00:57:49.039 --> 00:57:52.599
<v Speaker 2>I have struggled with that whenever I've been in scenes

1092
00:57:52.599 --> 00:57:55.719
<v Speaker 2>that my boss will put me in, Oh, because I begged.

1093
00:57:57.119 --> 00:57:59.320
<v Speaker 1>I'd like to know where those aren't mind them on

1094
00:57:59.360 --> 00:57:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the internet.

1095
00:58:02.079 --> 00:58:05.320
<v Speaker 2>Get my boss's movies that I'm in. Oh, yeah, they're

1096
00:58:05.320 --> 00:58:07.760
<v Speaker 2>all you can watch any of them.

1097
00:58:07.960 --> 00:58:09.559
<v Speaker 1>Not the movies. I want to see your scenes.

1098
00:58:10.159 --> 00:58:12.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh, well, they're in there, most of them. Or are

1099
00:58:12.199 --> 00:58:17.840
<v Speaker 2>they on the DVD if they're deleted scenes? So I

1100
00:58:17.880 --> 00:58:18.920
<v Speaker 2>should put a reel together.

1101
00:58:19.320 --> 00:58:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's what I'm saying. I want to see just you.

1102
00:58:20.920 --> 00:58:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to watch the whole movie. I've already

1103
00:58:22.400 --> 00:58:22.719
<v Speaker 1>seen it.

1104
00:58:24.280 --> 00:58:29.400
<v Speaker 2>How far is Louisiana to New York? Like, is there

1105
00:58:29.440 --> 00:58:32.320
<v Speaker 2>a train? No, it's too far you know to fly?

1106
00:58:34.239 --> 00:58:37.039
<v Speaker 2>Is there a place that I know it's still uprooting

1107
00:58:37.079 --> 00:58:39.519
<v Speaker 2>her life, but like a place that would be close

1108
00:58:39.599 --> 00:58:42.920
<v Speaker 2>enough to New York. I could see him getting some

1109
00:58:43.000 --> 00:58:48.079
<v Speaker 2>guest spots on Law and Order. They unfortunately always put

1110
00:58:48.960 --> 00:58:53.079
<v Speaker 2>people of color as like terrorists if they're like for sure,

1111
00:58:53.559 --> 00:58:56.159
<v Speaker 2>you know, because I watch a lot of Law and

1112
00:58:56.199 --> 00:59:00.199
<v Speaker 2>Horder type shows and it's very bad and so your

1113
00:59:00.239 --> 00:59:05.239
<v Speaker 2>brown skin terrorist, right, But I could see him doing that.

1114
00:59:06.199 --> 00:59:10.079
<v Speaker 1>Well. Also, let's think about they're in New Orleans, which

1115
00:59:10.119 --> 00:59:12.679
<v Speaker 1>is a major, major Southern hub, and they do film

1116
00:59:12.679 --> 00:59:13.760
<v Speaker 1>a lot of movies.

1117
00:59:13.440 --> 00:59:16.119
<v Speaker 2>There, so he needs to get.

1118
00:59:15.679 --> 00:59:18.679
<v Speaker 1>Online and find out, like what's filming here?

1119
00:59:19.519 --> 00:59:23.440
<v Speaker 2>N cis New Orleans, cis New Orleans. There might be

1120
00:59:23.760 --> 00:59:28.280
<v Speaker 2>CSI I mean New Orleans. There like a nine on

1121
00:59:28.960 --> 00:59:30.559
<v Speaker 2>New Orleans something there.

1122
00:59:31.719 --> 00:59:35.599
<v Speaker 1>Shot in New Orleans, so which is not how you

1123
00:59:35.639 --> 00:59:38.639
<v Speaker 1>say it new or it was just fanatically sounding. Get

1124
00:59:38.639 --> 00:59:43.679
<v Speaker 1>out show's shot in New Orleans. Interview with the Vampire

1125
00:59:44.519 --> 00:59:50.639
<v Speaker 1>Oh TV show, Your honor TV show American horror story

1126
00:59:50.719 --> 00:59:54.559
<v Speaker 1>Coven was was shot in New Orleans. There's an n

1127
00:59:54.639 --> 00:59:55.880
<v Speaker 1>cis New Orleans.

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00:59:56.320 --> 00:59:58.960
<v Speaker 2>I thought, so thank you, okay.

1129
01:00:00.559 --> 01:00:02.239
<v Speaker 1>And then there's just other things that are like Daisy

1130
01:00:02.320 --> 01:00:04.039
<v Speaker 1>Joan and the Jones and the Six like things that

1131
01:00:04.159 --> 01:00:07.199
<v Speaker 1>were filmed there. So you know, I mean, New Orleans

1132
01:00:07.239 --> 01:00:09.559
<v Speaker 1>is not like living in Jackson, Mississippi, like you know,

1133
01:00:09.679 --> 01:00:13.679
<v Speaker 1>totally New Orleans is big and absolutely so we're just

1134
01:00:13.679 --> 01:00:14.440
<v Speaker 1>trying to help you out.

1135
01:00:14.440 --> 01:00:19.639
<v Speaker 2>Meto. Okay. Also, Meto, there's tons of huge tourism there

1136
01:00:19.960 --> 01:00:23.480
<v Speaker 2>and you have a background in tourism, so mm hmm.

1137
01:00:24.360 --> 01:00:25.119
<v Speaker 1>And he's cute.

1138
01:00:25.400 --> 01:00:25.920
<v Speaker 2>He's cute.

1139
01:00:27.159 --> 01:00:31.400
<v Speaker 1>So Devin says, mom, let's be real here, and Debbie goes,

1140
01:00:31.480 --> 01:00:34.599
<v Speaker 1>you know, he doesn't post about me on his social

1141
01:00:34.639 --> 01:00:38.039
<v Speaker 1>media at all because the social media is just for work.

1142
01:00:38.480 --> 01:00:40.880
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I don't care that he doesn't post

1143
01:00:40.920 --> 01:00:44.239
<v Speaker 1>about me, but it's when you post about other women.

1144
01:00:45.039 --> 01:00:46.920
<v Speaker 1>Now we've seen this before on the show where that

1145
01:00:47.000 --> 01:00:49.199
<v Speaker 1>would the guys try to say, like, I can't post

1146
01:00:49.239 --> 01:00:53.440
<v Speaker 1>you because I can't have anybody think I think Usman

1147
01:00:53.519 --> 01:00:55.400
<v Speaker 1>did this, Like I can't have anybody think that I

1148
01:00:55.400 --> 01:00:58.360
<v Speaker 1>have a girlfriend. I've got to keep up this a

1149
01:00:58.400 --> 01:01:00.440
<v Speaker 1>stig too. I think it was like, I gotta stuff that,

1150
01:01:00.519 --> 01:01:04.440
<v Speaker 1>like I'm single so the girls will like me. And

1151
01:01:04.480 --> 01:01:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Devin goes, well, okay, I need to see him in

1152
01:01:07.079 --> 01:01:09.880
<v Speaker 1>person and see how he behaves towards you in person.

1153
01:01:10.519 --> 01:01:12.880
<v Speaker 1>And Mom, honestly, I don't care what you do as

1154
01:01:12.920 --> 01:01:16.239
<v Speaker 1>long as you're happy. And then Debbie starts crying, goes, yes,

1155
01:01:16.320 --> 01:01:18.280
<v Speaker 1>but I want you and your brother to be proud

1156
01:01:18.280 --> 01:01:21.079
<v Speaker 1>of me as a mother. I know you're grown up

1157
01:01:21.119 --> 01:01:22.639
<v Speaker 1>and you're on your own, but I want to make

1158
01:01:22.679 --> 01:01:27.480
<v Speaker 1>you proud. And you're talking to her. Devin goes, I

1159
01:01:27.519 --> 01:01:30.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know about this guy. I hope his intentions are pure.

1160
01:01:30.599 --> 01:01:33.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, my mom, she truly does deserve happiness and

1161
01:01:33.760 --> 01:01:36.920
<v Speaker 1>a healthy relationship. And I worry Medo is just coming

1162
01:01:36.920 --> 01:01:38.280
<v Speaker 1>here to be a star.

1163
01:01:40.000 --> 01:01:41.159
<v Speaker 2>And I think, yeah, she's right.

1164
01:01:41.360 --> 01:01:42.159
<v Speaker 1>I think she's right.

1165
01:01:43.599 --> 01:01:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay now, but it did take six years for him

1166
01:01:47.000 --> 01:01:49.000
<v Speaker 2>to get to America.

1167
01:01:49.559 --> 01:01:52.920
<v Speaker 1>And I wonder if they started trying three years ago,

1168
01:01:53.000 --> 01:01:54.840
<v Speaker 1>like she met him that first time, she must have

1169
01:01:54.880 --> 01:01:57.880
<v Speaker 1>gone back the second time where they got engaged. Yeah,

1170
01:01:57.880 --> 01:01:59.360
<v Speaker 1>and then she's been trying since then.

1171
01:02:00.159 --> 01:02:00.960
<v Speaker 2>That's possible.

1172
01:02:01.239 --> 01:02:06.039
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so she says. Mito says, a little bit can't

1173
01:02:06.079 --> 01:02:07.840
<v Speaker 1>be in the bed, and I'm not sure how that's

1174
01:02:07.880 --> 01:02:11.199
<v Speaker 1>gonna go. Another dog hater, She says, I haven't shared

1175
01:02:11.239 --> 01:02:14.400
<v Speaker 1>a bed or lived with a man for twenty years,

1176
01:02:14.440 --> 01:02:17.280
<v Speaker 1>so the dog is the least of my worries. And

1177
01:02:17.360 --> 01:02:20.440
<v Speaker 1>also justice for a little bit let little bit in

1178
01:02:20.480 --> 01:02:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the bed. A little bit doesn't A little bit is

1179
01:02:22.920 --> 01:02:24.239
<v Speaker 1>not given up her spot.

1180
01:02:24.039 --> 01:02:26.679
<v Speaker 2>Or send him to be with Rico? Mother fink suave?

1181
01:02:28.760 --> 01:02:30.159
<v Speaker 1>Did Rico motherfucker's suave?

1182
01:02:30.320 --> 01:02:30.719
<v Speaker 2>Die?

1183
01:02:31.360 --> 01:02:31.559
<v Speaker 1>No?

1184
01:02:31.639 --> 01:02:32.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so?

1185
01:02:32.880 --> 01:02:32.960
<v Speaker 1>No?

1186
01:02:33.119 --> 01:02:33.800
<v Speaker 2>What did I did? He?

1187
01:02:35.840 --> 01:02:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I thought I saw her post about that on Instagram.

1188
01:02:38.000 --> 01:02:42.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I'm so sorry Rico. Oh that's so sad.

1189
01:02:43.039 --> 01:02:45.599
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So she goes to meet with her friends Astra

1190
01:02:45.840 --> 01:02:48.199
<v Speaker 1>and Laura, and this is where I noticed the debbie

1191
01:02:48.239 --> 01:02:51.119
<v Speaker 1>had a two situation in the back and Astra and

1192
01:02:51.199 --> 01:02:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Laura could also maybe they could get a three for

1193
01:02:53.360 --> 01:02:58.360
<v Speaker 1>one at the dentist clinic. Anyway, they talk about what

1194
01:02:58.440 --> 01:03:01.920
<v Speaker 1>the sleeping arrangements be, and she says, Devon will have

1195
01:03:01.960 --> 01:03:04.360
<v Speaker 1>to go on the couch and he'll sleep with me.

1196
01:03:04.719 --> 01:03:06.840
<v Speaker 1>Does she and Devin share a bed in that apartment?

1197
01:03:09.039 --> 01:03:10.760
<v Speaker 1>Is Devin sleeping in the bed with.

1198
01:03:10.760 --> 01:03:13.119
<v Speaker 2>Her, Like, why Devin's the daughter?

1199
01:03:13.480 --> 01:03:17.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Why is Devon will have to go on the couch.

1200
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:19.960
<v Speaker 1>He's going to sleep with me? And they're like, Devin

1201
01:03:20.159 --> 01:03:23.280
<v Speaker 1>is grown I know, she said, I know you kids

1202
01:03:23.280 --> 01:03:25.519
<v Speaker 1>are grown up and on your own, But does Devin

1203
01:03:25.559 --> 01:03:26.960
<v Speaker 1>live with you and sleep in the bed with you?

1204
01:03:28.119 --> 01:03:32.039
<v Speaker 2>Put her in the closet, and why mommy in the closet.

1205
01:03:32.159 --> 01:03:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Why mommy in closet?

1206
01:03:33.400 --> 01:03:34.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Devan in closet.

1207
01:03:37.039 --> 01:03:39.039
<v Speaker 1>And then she says, well, you know, I don't know

1208
01:03:39.079 --> 01:03:40.679
<v Speaker 1>if he knows he's going to be sleeping with me.

1209
01:03:40.800 --> 01:03:45.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's very tight parameters because he's Muslim.

1210
01:03:45.039 --> 01:03:47.320
<v Speaker 2>And Laura says, that's sometimes.

1211
01:03:46.880 --> 01:03:51.360
<v Speaker 1>Flexible on this, it's flexible if he's kissing her. Why

1212
01:03:51.400 --> 01:03:52.440
<v Speaker 1>he's giving her a tour?

1213
01:03:53.199 --> 01:03:55.679
<v Speaker 2>Right, it sounds like he might be flexible.

1214
01:03:56.480 --> 01:03:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Laura says, wait, you never had sex with him? And

1215
01:03:58.960 --> 01:04:01.360
<v Speaker 1>she says no, she's you did nothing. She was, no,

1216
01:04:01.440 --> 01:04:03.960
<v Speaker 1>we've kissed. And then she said is he a virgin?

1217
01:04:04.079 --> 01:04:11.119
<v Speaker 3>And she says yes, girl, girl, I would say yes,

1218
01:04:11.559 --> 01:04:15.639
<v Speaker 3>except that he is an actor and on sets with

1219
01:04:15.840 --> 01:04:18.079
<v Speaker 3>women all the time, and I think he.

1220
01:04:19.000 --> 01:04:21.159
<v Speaker 2>Or you know, I also think he might be gay.

1221
01:04:22.960 --> 01:04:28.599
<v Speaker 1>True I'm leaning more towards that, but for sure he

1222
01:04:28.719 --> 01:04:30.800
<v Speaker 1>is not a virgin in any way, shape or form.

1223
01:04:31.480 --> 01:04:35.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's possible, but I highly highly doubt it,

1224
01:04:36.039 --> 01:04:39.639
<v Speaker 2>given we've seen virgins on this show, because and they

1225
01:04:39.679 --> 01:04:42.360
<v Speaker 2>still live with their parents and they don't have a

1226
01:04:42.480 --> 01:04:46.559
<v Speaker 2>super social job or life where they're interacting with people

1227
01:04:46.599 --> 01:04:50.800
<v Speaker 2>a lot. With him, he's interacting with people constantly, and

1228
01:04:51.360 --> 01:04:53.840
<v Speaker 2>he might have had to do like kissing scenes and

1229
01:04:53.880 --> 01:04:56.679
<v Speaker 2>things like that, and so I feel like he is dated,

1230
01:04:56.880 --> 01:04:59.320
<v Speaker 2>and yeah, I would be very surprised.

1231
01:05:00.239 --> 01:05:03.039
<v Speaker 1>I feel like she might be one of many. And

1232
01:05:04.039 --> 01:05:06.679
<v Speaker 1>then she applied for the show and he was like, yes,

1233
01:05:06.800 --> 01:05:09.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna narrow it down to her because here's what

1234
01:05:09.079 --> 01:05:10.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting on television.

1235
01:05:10.920 --> 01:05:15.800
<v Speaker 2>That's why I have wondered if he's using her, Like

1236
01:05:15.920 --> 01:05:18.719
<v Speaker 2>why would he pick her. I'm sure he's given tours

1237
01:05:18.760 --> 01:05:25.199
<v Speaker 2>to Americans his own age, so maybe, but maybe they

1238
01:05:25.239 --> 01:05:28.800
<v Speaker 2>weren't into it, and maybe he tries with all the

1239
01:05:28.840 --> 01:05:33.079
<v Speaker 2>Americans' if that's his goal. I don't feel like he

1240
01:05:33.119 --> 01:05:35.039
<v Speaker 2>really loves her. I haven't gotten that vibe yet, but

1241
01:05:35.079 --> 01:05:36.280
<v Speaker 2>we'll see I have either.

1242
01:05:36.360 --> 01:05:38.840
<v Speaker 1>But sometimes we're surprised. Sometimes we're like wow.

1243
01:05:39.199 --> 01:05:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes he seems nice sometimes, so we haven't seen him enough.

1244
01:05:45.000 --> 01:05:45.840
<v Speaker 2>I can't judge.

1245
01:05:46.679 --> 01:05:49.480
<v Speaker 1>So they're like, you're gonna marry this guy you haven't

1246
01:05:49.559 --> 01:05:52.519
<v Speaker 1>seen in three years, and you're gonna sleep in the

1247
01:05:52.559 --> 01:05:55.840
<v Speaker 1>same bed with him for ninety days and not have sex.

1248
01:05:56.719 --> 01:05:58.760
<v Speaker 2>And she's seen him in three years.

1249
01:06:00.599 --> 01:06:01.400
<v Speaker 1>Another question.

1250
01:06:02.360 --> 01:06:05.320
<v Speaker 2>She can't afford to go like once a year.

1251
01:06:06.159 --> 01:06:08.679
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because she looked like she had an

1252
01:06:08.760 --> 01:06:11.159
<v Speaker 1>office and everything. She got to take her dog to work,

1253
01:06:11.760 --> 01:06:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I know, you know. So they remind her. They're like, well,

1254
01:06:16.119 --> 01:06:18.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, things haven't always been great with him because

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<v Speaker 1>there was that girl from social media and they asked

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<v Speaker 1>Debbie in the talking head. They say, oh, no, what

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01:06:24.280 --> 01:06:25.880
<v Speaker 1>was that about? And she says, oh, I can't believe

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01:06:25.880 --> 01:06:29.719
<v Speaker 1>we have to talk about this bitch. It's always the

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01:06:29.760 --> 01:06:34.199
<v Speaker 1>girl's fault, isn't it. It is fault, not his fault. Definitely,

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01:06:34.880 --> 01:06:37.960
<v Speaker 1>it's some Egyptian actress. And she says they broke up

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01:06:38.079 --> 01:06:41.320
<v Speaker 1>over it because he was posting about her a lot

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01:06:41.360 --> 01:06:44.320
<v Speaker 1>and they were canodling in the pictures and he said

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01:06:44.360 --> 01:06:45.960
<v Speaker 1>she was just a friend and he was just doing

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01:06:45.960 --> 01:06:48.000
<v Speaker 1>it for acting. She goes, but I'm not dumb. I

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01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:50.480
<v Speaker 1>could see through that. Okay, so that's good. She's got

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01:06:50.480 --> 01:06:51.320
<v Speaker 1>a little radar up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and she says, you know.

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01:06:53.880 --> 01:06:56.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going in with blinders with him. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>People write books about this and maybe it's all just

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01:06:59.679 --> 01:07:03.599
<v Speaker 1>a but maybe it's not, and why not take the chance.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's at least aware that this hit go badly.

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01:07:07.800 --> 01:07:09.280
<v Speaker 1>So that would be like.

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<v Speaker 2>Way better than the other two debbies. Apologies, Debbie, you

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<v Speaker 2>are nothing like them.

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01:07:16.440 --> 01:07:19.039
<v Speaker 1>So the friends are like, look, we don't know this guy,

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01:07:19.119 --> 01:07:21.559
<v Speaker 1>we don't know what his agenda is, Like, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will say also her friend I skipped this part,

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01:07:25.840 --> 01:07:27.679
<v Speaker 1>but her friends was very funny. When she was like,

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01:07:28.760 --> 01:07:30.719
<v Speaker 1>what you have a slip with the guy, she goes,

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01:07:30.760 --> 01:07:33.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm not shocked, but that he's a virgin. I'm shocked

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01:07:33.199 --> 01:07:33.960
<v Speaker 1>because I'm a slut.

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01:07:36.000 --> 01:07:36.760
<v Speaker 2>That's funny.

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01:07:38.159 --> 01:07:41.320
<v Speaker 1>So now we get to the scene where she's sitting

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01:07:41.360 --> 01:07:43.400
<v Speaker 1>on her bed. Did you notice all the claw clips

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01:07:43.480 --> 01:07:44.440
<v Speaker 1>behind her on the bed?

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01:07:45.440 --> 01:07:47.760
<v Speaker 2>No, but I've seen a lot of people do that

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01:07:47.960 --> 01:07:50.199
<v Speaker 2>and you put them on the railing of the bed.

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01:07:50.360 --> 01:07:52.079
<v Speaker 1>They're all over the railing of her bed.

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01:07:52.199 --> 01:07:55.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, clips, do you need a clip at the ready?

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01:07:55.920 --> 01:07:58.199
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's like a holster. I gotta have a

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01:07:58.239 --> 01:07:59.119
<v Speaker 2>clip right now.

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01:07:59.360 --> 01:08:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I always have have this like on my wrist. Me too,

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01:08:02.920 --> 01:08:05.400
<v Speaker 1>you know. And then sometimes it's a rubber band. If

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01:08:05.440 --> 01:08:08.719
<v Speaker 1>you're listening, and if I go out sometimes and you know,

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01:08:08.760 --> 01:08:10.599
<v Speaker 1>you like having a nice outfit or whatever, so you

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01:08:10.599 --> 01:08:12.519
<v Speaker 1>don't bring it because in your mind and then you go,

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01:08:12.679 --> 01:08:16.359
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, how you here? I will, I will

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01:08:16.359 --> 01:08:19.439
<v Speaker 1>get a binder clip. Oh, I will get a regular

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01:08:19.520 --> 01:08:21.800
<v Speaker 1>rubber band that like rolls up your newspaper and just

1300
01:08:21.880 --> 01:08:24.279
<v Speaker 1>breaks your hair off. I don't care. Yeah, when I'm desperate,

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01:08:24.359 --> 01:08:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm desperate. But she I think, is a lady of

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01:08:27.239 --> 01:08:29.000
<v Speaker 1>a certain age. She's fifty five, and she was like,

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01:08:29.279 --> 01:08:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I have to have twenty five clips everywhere I go,

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01:08:32.640 --> 01:08:33.119
<v Speaker 1>just in case.

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01:08:33.560 --> 01:08:36.399
<v Speaker 2>So I then she's gonna start working out like will

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01:08:36.439 --> 01:08:38.920
<v Speaker 2>like Kim Plath with a claw clip, with a clock clip.

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01:08:39.119 --> 01:08:43.319
<v Speaker 2>She's doing heavy exercise with a claw clip. That's just dangling.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, because sometimes people write me and ask I, yes,

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01:08:47.640 --> 01:08:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I did notice her Louis Vauton bag, and I did

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01:08:49.800 --> 01:08:51.600
<v Speaker 1>look it up and it does appear to be authentic.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, debbies, Debbie's okay, then why is she not gone

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01:08:56.960 --> 01:08:58.760
<v Speaker 2>to Egypt for three years.

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01:08:59.199 --> 01:09:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I looked at I look because first I looked at

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01:09:01.000 --> 01:09:02.800
<v Speaker 1>it and I go, I've never seen them have that

1315
01:09:03.159 --> 01:09:06.199
<v Speaker 1>brown leather, because normally it's always the same leather. But

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01:09:06.319 --> 01:09:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I looked it up, and I looked up the pattern

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01:09:08.880 --> 01:09:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and the feet, because these are things that you can

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01:09:10.640 --> 01:09:12.800
<v Speaker 1>tell by the way the pattern does. The pattern has

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01:09:12.840 --> 01:09:15.319
<v Speaker 1>to be up on one side and upside down on

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01:09:15.359 --> 01:09:17.680
<v Speaker 1>the other side because they use one piece. And so

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01:09:17.800 --> 01:09:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I looked and it did seem to be authentic. So

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01:09:19.760 --> 01:09:21.479
<v Speaker 1>before anybody asked, me, okay.

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01:09:21.600 --> 01:09:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, then why does she have a one bedroom apartment?

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01:09:24.880 --> 01:09:27.479
<v Speaker 1>And is that correct? Or is Devn literally living there

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01:09:27.560 --> 01:09:31.279
<v Speaker 1>right now? Because she's got a least starting next one.

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01:09:32.359 --> 01:09:34.479
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mishear it because I watched it twice and

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01:09:34.680 --> 01:09:37.840
<v Speaker 1>both times I was like, that's weird. Yeah, Devn's on

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01:09:37.920 --> 01:09:43.359
<v Speaker 1>the couch. Okay, all right, if anybody knows, let us know.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we go to where she's sitting on her bed.

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01:09:46.479 --> 01:09:48.399
<v Speaker 1>She's got her computer out and stuff and looks like

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01:09:48.479 --> 01:09:50.880
<v Speaker 1>she's working, and she says she's been trying to get

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01:09:50.960 --> 01:09:53.359
<v Speaker 1>in touch with Mito for a couple of days. He's

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01:09:53.439 --> 01:09:56.680
<v Speaker 1>not answering, and she's just like kind of hitting repeat,

1334
01:09:56.800 --> 01:10:00.640
<v Speaker 1>calling him his flight is tomorrow. She said, his flight

1335
01:10:00.800 --> 01:10:04.880
<v Speaker 1>is like twenty something hours away. His father is not

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01:10:05.039 --> 01:10:08.199
<v Speaker 1>well and they aren't sure of the diagnosis, and his

1337
01:10:08.319 --> 01:10:11.039
<v Speaker 1>father is going through a series of tests, and she

1338
01:10:11.239 --> 01:10:14.439
<v Speaker 1>knows he's stressed about that. Lots of questions. Has she

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01:10:14.560 --> 01:10:16.680
<v Speaker 1>met the father, has she seen the father? How does

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01:10:16.720 --> 01:10:17.560
<v Speaker 1>she know this is true?

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01:10:19.079 --> 01:10:23.119
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you think he's lying. That didn't even occur to me.

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01:10:24.279 --> 01:10:24.880
<v Speaker 1>It occurred to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But then why because if he wants to come to America,

1344
01:10:29.720 --> 01:10:31.560
<v Speaker 2>why would he be postponing?

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01:10:32.119 --> 01:10:34.079
<v Speaker 1>Because maybe, but I mean he's going through this whole

1346
01:10:34.159 --> 01:10:36.000
<v Speaker 1>K one visa process and been approved.

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01:10:36.640 --> 01:10:40.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so he can't be Like you actually use it

1348
01:10:40.479 --> 01:10:43.399
<v Speaker 2>within a certain time, Yeah, you have to. Like I

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01:10:43.760 --> 01:10:45.239
<v Speaker 2>can't remember though how much.

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01:10:45.880 --> 01:10:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I think it's thirty days. I think once you get it,

1351
01:10:47.880 --> 01:10:50.640
<v Speaker 1>you have to leave your country within thirty days. Wow,

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01:10:51.039 --> 01:10:53.039
<v Speaker 1>it's short. It's a very short window, or you.

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01:10:53.039 --> 01:10:55.600
<v Speaker 2>Have to reapply completely start over.

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01:10:56.960 --> 01:11:00.000
<v Speaker 1>So that's why, like when we get to Ayisha, she said,

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01:11:00.159 --> 01:11:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like he's already packed him ready because he thought he

1356
01:11:01.720 --> 01:11:05.159
<v Speaker 1>was going to get approved. So she says, the dad

1357
01:11:05.279 --> 01:11:06.960
<v Speaker 1>is going through a series of tests. She knows he's

1358
01:11:06.960 --> 01:11:10.399
<v Speaker 1>stressed about it, and she goes you know, this is

1359
01:11:10.520 --> 01:11:12.840
<v Speaker 1>part of his personality where there are times where he

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01:11:13.039 --> 01:11:16.079
<v Speaker 1>just goes silent for a few days because he's the

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01:11:16.279 --> 01:11:19.039
<v Speaker 1>first kind of person who needs time away, no contact

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01:11:19.119 --> 01:11:21.119
<v Speaker 1>with people. And that's been very hard for me to

1363
01:11:21.159 --> 01:11:23.760
<v Speaker 1>get used to. And when he goes into this mode

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01:11:23.800 --> 01:11:27.439
<v Speaker 1>of no contact, it's frustrating. Girl, he has a family

1365
01:11:27.640 --> 01:11:30.439
<v Speaker 1>or something like. But again, he got approved for the

1366
01:11:30.560 --> 01:11:33.520
<v Speaker 1>K one, so they had to have researched him. Yeah,

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01:11:34.479 --> 01:11:35.600
<v Speaker 1>something I did not right.

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01:11:35.600 --> 01:11:39.239
<v Speaker 2>I didn't feel like he was lying. But I am

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01:11:39.319 --> 01:11:43.039
<v Speaker 2>a non jaded person like Mary Payne. I am an

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01:11:43.119 --> 01:11:46.880
<v Speaker 2>innocent who hosts a podcast about murder.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ten times weren't jaded than me, So shuit your

1372
01:11:50.319 --> 01:11:56.560
<v Speaker 1>by hole. So finally he answers. She's like, you know,

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01:11:56.760 --> 01:11:58.680
<v Speaker 1>he answers and she does this is you notice she

1374
01:11:58.760 --> 01:12:02.960
<v Speaker 1>does like claw, like Hi, I'm gonna squeeze you. It's

1375
01:12:03.039 --> 01:12:07.960
<v Speaker 1>like Matilda and Niles Niles Niles. Yeah, Yeah, he answers

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01:12:08.000 --> 01:12:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and she does like squishy with her hands and he

1377
01:12:10.760 --> 01:12:13.439
<v Speaker 1>just stares at her like an Ethan plaith dead stare

1378
01:12:13.560 --> 01:12:19.119
<v Speaker 1>with no words, just stares, and she says, Hi, what's wrong.

1379
01:12:19.399 --> 01:12:21.720
<v Speaker 1>I'd have been like, motherfucker, what you called me in

1380
01:12:21.800 --> 01:12:23.439
<v Speaker 1>three days? Aren't you coming here tomorrow?

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01:12:24.479 --> 01:12:26.800
<v Speaker 2>See? And if I was him, I'd be exactly like hey,

1382
01:12:26.840 --> 01:12:28.680
<v Speaker 2>he did like, you know what's wrong, bitch?

1383
01:12:28.880 --> 01:12:29.239
<v Speaker 1>My mom?

1384
01:12:29.399 --> 01:12:30.640
<v Speaker 2>My dad is dying?

1385
01:12:31.079 --> 01:12:32.840
<v Speaker 1>And she goes what's wrong? And he goes, you know

1386
01:12:32.920 --> 01:12:35.800
<v Speaker 1>what's wrong? And she goes, okay, So what did the

1387
01:12:35.880 --> 01:12:38.359
<v Speaker 1>doctor say? And he says the doctor is coming next week?

1388
01:12:39.039 --> 01:12:41.760
<v Speaker 1>And she goes okay, and he goes, I need ten

1389
01:12:41.840 --> 01:12:44.239
<v Speaker 1>days and she goes, now what and he goes ten

1390
01:12:44.399 --> 01:12:47.079
<v Speaker 1>ten or fifteen more days? And again if we're on

1391
01:12:47.159 --> 01:12:51.279
<v Speaker 1>a thirty day window, yeah, and she goes, what can

1392
01:12:51.359 --> 01:12:53.319
<v Speaker 1>be done in ten days? This not being done now?

1393
01:12:54.159 --> 01:12:56.439
<v Speaker 1>And he goes, the doctor will come. So he's saying

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01:12:56.760 --> 01:12:59.880
<v Speaker 1>when the doctor comes next week, which is seven days,

1395
01:13:00.520 --> 01:13:02.079
<v Speaker 1>he wants to be able to talk to the doctor.

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01:13:03.159 --> 01:13:05.560
<v Speaker 1>We don't know if there's a brother, a sister, a mom,

1397
01:13:06.760 --> 01:13:09.000
<v Speaker 1>we don't know anything. If he the only caregiver for

1398
01:13:09.079 --> 01:13:10.920
<v Speaker 1>his dad, and if so, then why are you trying

1399
01:13:10.920 --> 01:13:14.760
<v Speaker 1>to go to another country? And he gets mad. He goes,

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01:13:14.800 --> 01:13:17.319
<v Speaker 1>I need two weeks and you know, if something happens,

1401
01:13:17.359 --> 01:13:20.239
<v Speaker 1>I can't return back, you know, because I know once

1402
01:13:20.279 --> 01:13:23.520
<v Speaker 1>they get here with her in that way, they can't travel. Yeah,

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01:13:24.279 --> 01:13:26.039
<v Speaker 1>and she goes, do you want me to check the

1404
01:13:26.079 --> 01:13:28.720
<v Speaker 1>airline to see what the price difference would be if

1405
01:13:28.760 --> 01:13:31.359
<v Speaker 1>you were to change your ticket? And he goes, could

1406
01:13:31.399 --> 01:13:33.119
<v Speaker 1>you do that? And she goes, I can check it,

1407
01:13:33.640 --> 01:13:35.760
<v Speaker 1>and he goes, do that, check the airline and then

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01:13:35.800 --> 01:13:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll find something for the next two weeks. And she's like, okay,

1409
01:13:41.199 --> 01:13:42.720
<v Speaker 1>so I'm talking to it. She goes, I don't know,

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01:13:43.000 --> 01:13:46.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe he's getting cold feet, And you know, at some point,

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01:13:46.319 --> 01:13:48.319
<v Speaker 1>if something is doing this, you may have to see

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01:13:48.359 --> 01:13:50.600
<v Speaker 1>it as a sign that it's not meant to be.

1413
01:13:51.239 --> 01:13:54.760
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just worried he's not going to get on

1414
01:13:54.800 --> 01:13:59.079
<v Speaker 1>the flight and she starts crying. Yeah, but we do

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01:13:59.159 --> 01:14:01.399
<v Speaker 1>see her next week go to the airport, and I

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01:14:01.439 --> 01:14:02.920
<v Speaker 1>think we have seen him in talking a head. So

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01:14:02.960 --> 01:14:05.319
<v Speaker 1>I do think he comes and maybe the thing about

1418
01:14:05.359 --> 01:14:07.880
<v Speaker 1>the dad is true, but maybe he's just trying to

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01:14:07.880 --> 01:14:09.880
<v Speaker 1>buy more time with his family that he disappairs to

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01:14:10.000 --> 01:14:16.319
<v Speaker 1>it for three days. Interesting. Yeah, Hey, everybody, it's producer Ingrid.

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<v Speaker 1>You've come to the end of part one of this

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<v Speaker 1>two third episode. The next part is in your feed enjoy,