Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I back with something for you to
Speaker 1: think about. Listen, whatever you do falls on you unless
Speaker 1: you are not in your right mind. I mean, you've
Speaker 1: lost your mind and you have no understanding of reality
Speaker 1: and delusion. When you have no understanding of reality and delusion,
Speaker 1: you don't know the difference. That's the serious problem that
Speaker 1: could lead to devastation and destruction. I know it all
Speaker 1: too well. I'm not talking about those people. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about broken people who are easily influenced, persuaded, cohurst enticed.
Speaker 1: You're right mind, You're just broken, So best who this
Speaker 1: episode is about. Whatever you do, you can blame other people.
Speaker 1: They made me do it. Whatever you want to say,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to do, you can blame. But it
Speaker 1: falls on you. It falls on you when you doubt
Speaker 1: yourself because somebody else says something about you. That person
Speaker 1: is broken too, and you have allowed a broken person
Speaker 1: to affect your life. What does that say about you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I pause purposely. That tells you that you're broken too.
Speaker 1: You have some unresolved in you. If you allowed another
Speaker 1: person to say something about you that made you hurt inside,
Speaker 1: to made you to make you dout yourself, to make
Speaker 1: you feel bad about yourself. They may have been a contributor,
Speaker 1: but it falls on you because you fail for it.
Speaker 1: You open yourself up to it, and you fail for
Speaker 1: it because of what's going on inside of you. So
Speaker 1: at the end of it all, you are the biggest
Speaker 1: issue in your own life. I tell my grandson all
Speaker 1: the time, and I've mentioned this before anyone in your life.
Speaker 1: I don't care who it is. If they are trying
Speaker 1: to entice you, influence you, if they're trying to persuade
Speaker 1: you in any way to do wrong, those people do
Speaker 1: not have your best interest in mind. They don't care
Speaker 1: about you, because a person who care about you will
Speaker 1: not try to entice you to do anything wrong, say
Speaker 1: anything wrong. They just won't. People who want something from you,
Speaker 1: they'll have you doing all kinds of things if you
Speaker 1: follow them. So if you choose to follow wrong, that
Speaker 1: falls on you and you have to suffer the consequences
Speaker 1: of what you chose to to do. Many people think, oh,
Speaker 1: that's my friend, they're my friends, but they're not looking
Speaker 1: at the situation at hand. They're not looking at what
Speaker 1: their friends are doing, the wrong things, their friends are
Speaker 1: getting into. They're not looking at any of that none
Speaker 1: of it. So if you took the time to look
Speaker 1: at what people around you are trying to get you
Speaker 1: to be involved in, you will know whether they are
Speaker 1: individuals who mean you good or not. And if you
Speaker 1: choose to go along, that tells you so much about yourself.
Speaker 1: You're a person that have issues that you have not resolved.
Speaker 1: You still have insecurities inside of you that you have
Speaker 1: not resolved that has allowed you to follow wrong. So
Speaker 1: at the end of it, it falls on you. Period.
Speaker 1: It falls on you allowing people to get under your
Speaker 1: skin so much ato you snap. That falls on you.
Speaker 1: That is an indicator that you have been lacking self control,
Speaker 1: being influenced by watching commercials to go and gorge on food,
Speaker 1: to eat things you know that are not good for you.
Speaker 1: That falls on you, lack of self control. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about different scenarios, but the basis of what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about is the same. No matter where it
Speaker 1: comes from, no matter where the influence come from, if
Speaker 1: you fall prey to it, that falls on you. And
Speaker 1: I want you to think about that. Think about that
Speaker 1: in every aspect of your life, in every situation. Some
Speaker 1: people are new to their jobs and the main person
Speaker 1: who should do right sometimes do wrong, and that's their
Speaker 1: supervisors or their bosses. They commit harassment and a sexual
Speaker 1: assault or sexual harassment none assault, and the person do
Speaker 1: nothing because they've been groomed into that, because that person
Speaker 1: is an individual who is quiet, don't say anything, let
Speaker 1: people walk over them, or they are an individual who
Speaker 1: is knowing what they're doing but they're trying to get ahead.
Speaker 1: It don't matter which situation or the type of person
Speaker 1: it is. What matters is what you fall prey to.
Speaker 1: That falls on you.
Speaker 2: It falls on you, whether you are an individual who
Speaker 2: just let people walk over you, or you an individual
Speaker 2: who is trying to use people for progression.
Speaker 1: All of it still tells you who you are as
Speaker 1: a person. So what I want you to understand is
Speaker 1: everything we do in our lives, everything we open ourselves
Speaker 1: up to, everything we give power to the people, we
Speaker 1: let in, how we let people treat us, all of it,
Speaker 1: every bit of it, is determined by who we are
Speaker 1: as an individual. I've told you many times, most people
Speaker 1: in this world really really believe, I mean, without a doubt,
Speaker 1: really really really believe they are mature. You can't tell
Speaker 1: them they're not. But it's because they have been the
Speaker 1: way they are for so long that they think is right.
Speaker 1: They think they have themselves together, even though if they
Speaker 1: really just take a moment and look at the drama
Speaker 1: and the chaos following them. Because remember, no matter where
Speaker 1: you go in life, you can go to the mountaintop,
Speaker 1: you can go to the valley low. One person you
Speaker 1: can't get away from is yourself. So wherever you go,
Speaker 1: chaos and drama will follow you because that's what is
Speaker 1: inside of you. That's the mindset you have, because of
Speaker 1: the unheal heartened mind. So no matter what you involve
Speaker 1: yourself in or who you involve yourself with, whatever happens
Speaker 1: falls on you. Because you play the role. You let
Speaker 1: people persuade you to do wrong, You let people talk
Speaker 1: to you into things you know you didn't want to do.
Speaker 1: You give your power away, You let people take you
Speaker 1: for granted, you let people use you. Whatever it is,
Speaker 1: it all falls on you. It all falls on you.
Speaker 1: Some people they hate themselves so much because other people
Speaker 1: have beat them down verbally. You're nothing, you're ugly, you're this,
Speaker 1: you're that. When they are those things, they feel like
Speaker 1: that about themselves. But because you are unhealed, you believe
Speaker 1: what they say about you, even though they feel that
Speaker 1: way about themselves, They're just projecting it onto you. That's
Speaker 1: why in the beginning of this episode, I say, you
Speaker 1: allow a broken person to hurt you. You allow that
Speaker 1: because of who you are as a person, what's going
Speaker 1: on inside of you, your lack of security, your lack
Speaker 1: of esteem, your lack of confidence, because of the mindset
Speaker 1: that you have, and it is the very reason why
Speaker 1: people open the doors to things that they shouldn't. People
Speaker 1: allow people that they shouldn't into their lives because of
Speaker 1: the mindset that people have. And a lot of times
Speaker 1: people can come from very good backgrounds, very good but
Speaker 1: as they grow and go through life, they open the
Speaker 1: door to the wrong people and the wrong things. It's
Speaker 1: just what people do. They could have had great lives,
Speaker 1: but they messed up because they opened the doors to
Speaker 1: the wrong people and the wrong things. I want you
Speaker 1: to really think about it, because, honestly, this is happening
Speaker 1: so much, every single day, every second of the day.
Speaker 1: This is happening so much. People are influenced and cohersts
Speaker 1: and coached and encouraged and persuaded by the wrong people
Speaker 1: and the wrong things, and they cannot see that it's
Speaker 1: wrong because of the unhealth hearts and minds that they have.
Speaker 1: Some people just rebellious and they want to do what
Speaker 1: they want to do because they feel grown I can
Speaker 1: do what I want to do. I want it to
Speaker 1: lead to travesty, tragedy, destruction, devastation. I want you to
Speaker 1: think about it. I want you to really think about
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Stop giving power to powerless people. Stop
Speaker 1: giving power to broken, powerless people. You make them appear
Speaker 1: powerful because you have given them power. You've given them
Speaker 1: your power, which empowered them. But they're weak and broken people.
Speaker 1: But you gave them power in your life to make
Speaker 1: you feel less than, to make you feel that you're
Speaker 1: not good enough. You gave them that power. We are
Speaker 1: the ones who caused the most devastation in our own lives.
Speaker 1: We are the ones who caused the most dysfunction in
Speaker 1: our own lives by what and who we allow into
Speaker 1: our lives. Who we are allowing to persuade us and
Speaker 1: influence us and coherts us and all of those things.
Speaker 1: You have to open yourself up to it. Whatever it
Speaker 1: is or whoever it is, you have to open yourself
Speaker 1: up to it. First, So you have to look at you.
Speaker 1: Why did you do that? Why did you open yourself
Speaker 1: up to whatever it is was, or who it is
Speaker 1: or who it was? Why did you do that? It's
Speaker 1: because of the mindset that you have. Everything points back
Speaker 1: to self. That's why you have three fingers pointing back
Speaker 1: at you when you're pointing to blame others. Think about it.
Speaker 1: That's all I want you to do. Just really think
Speaker 1: about your life. What you've given power to, whom you've
Speaker 1: given power to. Some of you are in relationships where
Speaker 1: you're afraid to stay, you're afraid to go. But you
Speaker 1: are the one who gave that person power over you.
Speaker 1: They would never be able to have you in that
Speaker 1: situation if you had not given them power over you.
Speaker 1: That's the bottom line. You gave that person power over you,
Speaker 1: to control you, to be possessive over you, to be
Speaker 1: obsessive over you. You gave them that power because when they
Speaker 1: started out doing that stuff and you didn't run, that
Speaker 1: fell on you. The first sign of abuse and you
Speaker 1: didn't run. That fell on you, the first sign of
Speaker 1: disrespect and you didn't run. That falls on you. You
Speaker 1: having to buy their love and you didn't run. That
Speaker 1: falls on you. You initiating everything all the time, and you
Speaker 1: didn't run or you didn't at least talk about it.
Speaker 1: That falls on you. You thinking that their looks was
Speaker 1: the greatest thing in the world until you found out
Speaker 1: they were stolen, crazy, or you found out that they
Speaker 1: were abusive, or you found out they were using you.
Speaker 1: But you thought their looks was everything. You thought you
Speaker 1: were safe because said there looks falls on you. Everything
Speaker 1: goes back to your self in every situation, no matter
Speaker 1: who you are, who you think you are, what you have,
Speaker 1: what you don't have, it falls on you. And I
Speaker 1: really truly hope people let this episode sink deep. Just
Speaker 1: think about it, listen to it multiple times, get understanding
Speaker 1: of what I'm trying to convey here, because most of
Speaker 1: the world operates this way. Most other people in the
Speaker 1: world operate this way. And that's why many people are
Speaker 1: in relationships, unhappy, they're in relationships, lonely in their relationships,
Speaker 1: prisoners in their relationships, all because of what you allowed
Speaker 1: from that other person, all because of what you went
Speaker 1: along with. It's the same on your jobs, in the
Speaker 1: clubs that you're members of at your schools, whether high school, college,
Speaker 1: no matter what, no matter the situation, it goes back
Speaker 1: to you, your unresolved issues, the mindset that you have,
Speaker 1: and I want you to really, really really let this
Speaker 1: episode set with you for a while. I'm leaving it
Speaker 1: right there. Thank you for listening. Please share much love
Speaker 1: to each and every one of you. I end every episode,
Speaker 1: episode the same, and I hope you do it. Jay
Speaker 1: called it mm hm