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Speaker 1: I made a decision. Sunny sound on. I had a

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vision night.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's up everybody? Well, welcome, welcome to for crying

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out loud, for crying out loud, for.

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Speaker 1: Crying out loud. Just did you see the announcement that

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Malcolm Jamal Warner died. Yes, I heard that this morning

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in a drowning right in Costa Rica. It's really sad,

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so sad. He was only fifty four, I know. And

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he has you he's got kids? Was he with one? Right?

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Is one? I read that he had two? Oh, I

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don't know. Apparently he has a wife and a kid.

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Let's say what at the minimum, but for sure one

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and he's always kept their identity a secret. That's what

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I heard too. It's weird, right, yeah, I get.

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Speaker 2: And then he didn't he stuck acting like I don't

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think he's done anything.

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Speaker 1: Uh maybe I don't. Did he make like a foremo,

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I'm not acting any more announcement? I don't know. I

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heard something like that.

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Speaker 2: I was listening to my podcast on a way in

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my daily dose a donna.

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Speaker 1: Who's the one that who's the actor that like wasn't

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getting work but then was taking some regular jobs and

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people were like, oh my god, like you're working. I

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don't know. He's like seven eleven or something, right, right? Right?

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Speaker 2: It was a kid actor? Yeah, I remember that. Yeah. Yeah,

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it's really sad. How did he drown?

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Speaker 1: Was was it?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't something like doesn't he go there a lot or

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something in vacation there a lot?

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Speaker 1: Or how did he drown? No, we don't know, like

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was he surfing or something? As far as I knew,

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And maybe there'll be more details by the time people

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are listening right right tomorrow, I'm sure everybody'll know, But

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right this minute, I couldn't find anything. Yeah, because you

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know that's all I want, is details, right, I'm like, right,

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I mean, I'm sorry, sue me. But like when I

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hear somebody diet, I'm always like, how I know? And

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it's I guess maybe rude, but like, especially when people

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are around my age, I'm like, what the fuck? Yes,

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you want to know? Yeah? I know? And isn't it

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crazy that like Bill Cosby's still fine exactly.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say that so unfair? Right, and he's

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at a jail note is he is?

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Speaker 1: He? Yeah? It's going around, probably touring, probably doing jokes

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on stage as we speak.

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Speaker 2: Unbelievable. Yeah, yeah, that's sad. Did you see Denise Richards?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what the hell? What the fuck? And

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then now you did you see that he's now coming

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out and trying to blame her and while she was cheating. Yes,

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he's so disgusting. He is disgusting.

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Speaker 2: He was saying something on like TMZ that she took

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my phone.

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Speaker 1: I was looking from my phone.

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Speaker 2: It was gone for twenty hours and she destroyed it

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and she destroyed it was like.

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Speaker 1: A trash can, like maggots.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, Yeah, he's he Remember when he was on

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Real Housewives Beverly Hills and they were leaving Kyle's party

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and he had her hand, he was holding her hand, Yeah,

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and he crushed her hand. Yeah, He's like, I'll fucking

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crush your hand. Yeah, I know. Excuse me, yes, yeah,

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he's I can't stand him.

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Speaker 1: Do you also remember when he was on the Beverly

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Hills Housewives and they had that dinner party and he

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was going on and on about how people are listening

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in on his phone conversations and how they're following him,

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like people, Yeah, that was Bili Minatti is like following

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him and they I saw I re saw a clip

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of it on Reddit and people were like, at the

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other people on the show, you just see their faces, like,

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ah oh, they're showing their reaction, They're showing all the

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people's reactions while he's telling this story, and they're all

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just like, Wow, Yeah, he's a whack a doodle. Whack

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a doodle.

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Speaker 2: And wasn't he putting like recording devices in plants at

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her office or something?

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's a full on abuse victim. She is. And

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he blackened her eyes. I mean, I'm surprised he didn't

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kill her. Was she was saying?

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Speaker 2: He would squeeze her face, pound her head on the sink,

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and stuff like unbelievable. This poor girl so bad with

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the kids and stuff around. Yeah, Denise needs therapy big time.

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Oh yeah, she needs to learn how to pick them.

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Oh yeah, ah yeah. And then the other stuff that's

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going around. What's what's the Kelly Wolf and the wife

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of Scott Wolf from a Party of five?

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Speaker 1: I think for sure she's having mental illness. It's amazing

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how people are like, No, I think she's totally fine

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and he's just abusive. But I don't you could say

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that if she was making sense and then he was

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trying to gaslight and say no, that's not really true.

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But she's not even making sense now that she's saying, right.

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Speaker 2: Was she like talking to Brad Pitt and stuff like

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that on her Instagram?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I don't know. Yeah, she was like trying to

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get a hold of Brad Pitt. It's you know, it's

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good Brad Pitt on the puck. I know, like, okay,

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I need to tell him how good I'm feeling right? Right? Great?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah she was. She's doing all these weird things.

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But I was talking to my friend the other day.

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She's like, I knew her for I watched her when

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she was on Real World, and she's like, how does

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this woman, like all of a sudden in her forties

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have a mental break. And I'm thinking she's probably had

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signs of it and we just don't know about it

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because now people have that fucking phone in their hand

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and they're just gonna let their thoughts fly. You can't

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hide it anymore. Yeah, it's really sad. So yeah, I

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hope she gets help.

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Speaker 1: It is pretty crazy the stuff that people videotape themselves

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saying and doing, right, I know. Yeah, So I want

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to ask, how is lb. Okay, glad you asked. Great,

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So she started her job. Has she'd started her job

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when we last spoke a week ago. No, I think

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she was still having I think I told you she

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just got it right at that point. Yeah, so she's

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already been training. So cute. Okay, So she trained two

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days last week or three. She went in for a

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like a one hour orientation, then the next day she

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had a class they call it in the morning, then

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she had a follow shift. Then the next day she

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had another like six hour shift following, and then today,

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which is Monday, she has another nighttime training shift, and

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then she has one more training shift on Thursday, and

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then she's working this weekend coming up. And she's so

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funny because all of my kids have talents that and

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this is this is something that I think is interesting.

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John always tells me, like things that come naturally to you.

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If I'm like, oh, I don't know if I'm if

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I'm like being self hating or whatever. A lot of

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stuff that you think that comes naturally to you. You

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just think it is easy for everybody, but it's not.

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You're actually good at certain things that other people are

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not good at. But then you don't think it's a

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big deal. You don't think it's special because you just

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assume everybody can do it exactly. And I noticed this

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with my kids in the way of like, well, just

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to jump topics for one second, Sadie went to this

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party the other day. Sadie is the worst of like

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put She doesn't put herself down. She just doesn't ever

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think she's special or good at stuff. You know. Some

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of that I do think has comes from being in

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a house of introvert of extroverts, when she and John

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are introverts, so you know. But the other day, she

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goes to this party and they were supposed to dress

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like horror, like they're from a slasher movie whatever it was.

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She didn't really know what to do. And then she

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was like she made bruises out of makeup all over

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her body. Wow, when I tell you, it looked so realistic.

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She had a big bruise on her chest. She did

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it so perfectly so that it looked kind of red

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but also black, like black and blue with that kind

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of yellow tint. Yeah, of it. It was so realistic.

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And I was like, Sadie, how do you did that?

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How did you do that? You know? And she's like,

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I don't know. I just like, you know, yeah, and

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I and I told her the same thing. I said,

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you know, you think it's not a big deal that

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you can do that, but you have a real talent

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in that, Like not everybody can do that, right right.

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She was like I feel like they could. And I

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was like, no, girl, And I said, you have a

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real sense of color of design, like and it's hyper realistic. Anyway.

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I say this to Elbe about like her memory. She's

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got this crazy memory and she's a bright girl. Yet

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she's not like a genius though a lot of what

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makes her that that sounded mean she's a very smart

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girl yet, but her memory really helps her. She's just

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had this memory since she was a very little girl

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where I would take her to like a friend's house.

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I could be driving in the neighborhood. I'm telling you,

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when she was like three years old. I could be

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driving and she'd be like, oh, this that's where Caleb lives.

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And I'm like, how the fuck does she re that?

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Speaker 2: Wow, I can't even find my way home from Pasadena.

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Speaker 1: I know the same, yeah, same, I have to put

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my GPS in all the time, all the time, because

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as I've been a bunch of times. But so Elbie

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was a little bit stressed out because this is a

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big restaurant where she works, and there's a lot of tables,

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and she's like, they want me to obviously know all

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the table numbers and if you're like, go to put

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those people at table nine, that she knows what it is.

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And she goes, Mom, it's so confusing because there's no

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real rhyme or reason for why they do the sections

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the way they do, like it'll go like eighty nine

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and then it's eight hundred and ten, but doesn't do

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that in other sections, like it'll just go like one

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through nine, then you go ten, eleven to anyway. So

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she's like, but it's by like day two, okay, So

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this is a little funny thing. So Thursday was her

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evening shift. So I made my friend Tamra come to dinner.

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El Key, how was that, mom? I did that with Italian?

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You did? Oh? Yeah? I was like, are you guys

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go to see her inaction? Yeah? Of course, So we

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went there. She was so cute and of course I was.

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She wear uniform no, which is going to bring me

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to another little story. I have to tell you about

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all the money I have put into this girl's stupid

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you know, hopefully more than minimum wage job. Right. I

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spent a lot of money. She doesn't have any money,

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which is why she got a job. But then she

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has to dress like she's hostessing at a restaurant. This

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bitch doesn't have anything nice. I know. Yeah, she has

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hoodies and like WHOCHI takes exactly, It's just gonna say

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she has like two pairs of jeans, a bunch of

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little teeny tiny tank tops that might as well be

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bikini tops yes, and hoodies yes, and sneakers yeah. It's like,

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what's she gonna wear to work? Right? They had a

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whole like style book, like here's what's okay, here's what's not.

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So I took her to TJ Max and Nordstrm favorite

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TJ Max. Right, I was like, you need multiple things

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to wear, and some of these you're never gonna wear again. Right,

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some of these.

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Speaker 2: Italian Italia raided in my closet. She had to wear

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like black slacks and like either a white shirt or

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a black shirt and or gray slats. Yeah, so she

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I still have those clothes from ABC days.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so funny. Yeah, so she just wore my clothes. Okay,

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well I only had to spend money on shoes because

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her feet are big.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so so Lbie, I gave her a pair of

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my black pants for her interview that no longer fit

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me but fit her perfectly. I gained weight, she gained weight.

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Now she can wear my skinny clothes and I can't

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wear any of my Yes, it's that nice outworks that goes.

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I'm like, wait till you hit menopause and then we'll

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trade clothes. Yes, you know, then I'll be super skinny.

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I'll go on Manjaro or whatever he is. So so anyway,

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but then she was like, well now what, because now

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I got the job. So I bought her another pair

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of two more pairs of black pants. Now she has

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three and a black skirt. Well, I say she has three.

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I bought her too, because one of them is based mine. Right, Yeah,

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even though there's no chance in hell I'm wearing that

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again anytime in the next year. Yeah, unless a miracle

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happens and I really start going to the gym every day.

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have to wear all those nice slacks?

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Speaker 1: Nowhere? No way, nowhere. But anyway, I got her two

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pairs of pants, a black skirt that's super cute because

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it was all very reasonably priced, and then a bunch

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of tops from TJ Max and one from North from

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rac But then I had to get her shoes because

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she's going to be walking around a big restaurant all

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night and on her feet the whole night. So I

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was like, and she had they can't be well. First

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she said no sneakers. I was like, I freaking doubt that.

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I bet you could wear nice sneakers. Yeah, no, mom,

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the book says no. First night she goes to work

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with these like ballet flats that are comfortable, but they're

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like they have a little bit of a platform, but

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they're ballet right flats. Yeah. Look, when I went there,

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I noticed everything go girl was wearing sneakers. So she

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was like, yeah, Mom, they just wear like sketchers, black sketchers.

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Natalia got. Yeah, so I took her to the sketcher

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outlet one hundred bucks, which I think is expensive for sketchers. Yeah,

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outlet an outlet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's supposed to be like sixty bucks, right right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was a little bit annoyed about that

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because that's not something she's going to keep wearing right

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after this job. Yeah, how many days a week is

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she I'm hopeful she'll be scheduled like at least like

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three days a week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hopefully more. Yeah, I know, I know Natalia's only

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got two days a week. I wish you would do more.

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I woke up at like five thirty this morning and

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I hear Natalia and she's going to work out before

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she goes to work, And I'm like, you put me

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to shame.

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Speaker 1: That is so crazy.

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Speaker 2: Now she works out every day, like every day, yeah,

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every day.

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Speaker 1: Maybe not Sundays sometimes. Yeah, But you don't think she's compulsive. No,

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she just likes it.

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Speaker 2: She does like it. She loves it. Yeah, she loves it.

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And you know she's like my mom my mom has that.

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Speaker 1: You know. I used to be like that.

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Speaker 2: I used to work out before I went to work,

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when when you get in the groove, you don't.

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Speaker 1: Want to stop, you know.

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Speaker 2: And she's like it just makes me feel you know,

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I feel I have energy if I don't work out,

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I get sluggish.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because I have gone to the gym the

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last few days in a row. But then I was like, well, there,

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obviously I can't go on Monday because you know, we're

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going to be recording our podcast and then I have

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to go home and edit our podcast, and then I

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have to record with Cecily, and then I you know,

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I got to watch Bachelor in Paradise tonight, right, I

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mean I could have gone to the gym. We didn't

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have to be here till one, you know what I mean.

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But in my mind that was like plan I.

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Speaker 2: Do too, Like, yes, debate me somewhere at two o'clock.

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Speaker 1: Well, that goes, Damn, I can't work out that day.

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That's what I can go before, you can go after? No, no, can't.

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It's just like, yeah, that's just something to do. I

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used to never be like that. I used to work out.

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Speaker 2: All I think COVID is when I just stopped pretty much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's hit and miss.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I go to the YMCA if I'm feeling up

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for it, but you know, not consistently like I used to.

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Speaker 1: Right, My problem is I never feel up for it

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when I haven't gone in a while, so like, once

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I've gone for a few days that I'm like, oh,

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I feel like working out. But the first couple of

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days back, it's like torture, torture. I'm like, I can't

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do I gotta do thirty minutes on the right. It

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seems forever. Yeah, doesn't it like there isn't a good

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enough podcast in the world to get me through this work?

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Right I now?

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Speaker 2: Or you go, like a few days in a row

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and you go, lah, throw myself a party.

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Speaker 1: I work out three days this week, right, good? And

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then I never go there and I'll go back for

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another month and a half, right, right. That's what I

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do too, which is I'm scared of that happening because

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my weeks get really my weekdays get really busy. Then

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I'm looser on Friday, Saturday, Sunday, but and you know

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what Thursday's days are okay?

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Speaker 2: But yeah, and then I take Phil for walks and stuff,

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and I'm like, I got my exercise, right, Does Phill

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walk fast?

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Speaker 1: No? Phil's a pain to walk.

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Speaker 2: He stops every five seconds, stops every Friday's gotta sniff, sniff, sniff,

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every five seconds. And then after a while like if

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we go like an extra street up before we come back,

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he knows, and then he just plops down on grass

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and just lays there.

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Speaker 1: For five minutes.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't want to move and stretches his stomach on

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the grass and I'm like, ill, come on, now, let's go.

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He threw up this morning. Oh no, yeah, he tore

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my slipper up. Yeah, I was on the phone. I

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don't He hasn't done that since he was young. He

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hasn't done that in years. Tore a slipper up. Yeah,

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he doesn't do that anymore.

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Speaker 1: You used to. He grew out of it.

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Speaker 2: And because with his stitches, which he just got out

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the other day, he's for two weeks. He's not been

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doing a lot of you know, I take him for

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a little bit and then we have to come back

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like that's it. You know, before like I would take

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him on Natalia or a son. He would take him

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on these you know, long walks, and he was because

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he's not getting exercise.

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Speaker 1: He got bored and was pissed.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't paying attention to him and picked up my

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slipper and tore it apart. It was just yarn that

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he swallowed and then this morning he threw it up.

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Speaker 1: But no seizure.

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Speaker 2: No, no seizure, Thank God, Thank the Lord. Oh Phil, Yeah, Philly,

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I know you know what?

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Speaker 1: Uh is good though, Yes, for your stomach, honestly, hero

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Speaker 2: I tried it and I love Italia loves it too.

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Speaker 1: It's so good. I beg you. Natalia loves it because

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she's low carb, yes she does. Yeah. This is zero

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to tell you about? Oh this is exciting. Yeah, Xander

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has a job interview today. Really yep, So it will

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happen probably right when we're done recording. Yeah, look at

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your kids, man, that's awesome. And he got called also

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by another place, coffee place, but he'd missed the notification. Listen,

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you can't notify kids through email. Oh gosh, no, now,

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no emailing no, because he didn't see it and it

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was from quite a few days ago. But he wrote

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them back. But today he has an interview for a

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place that he does really want to work. I'm not

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going to say where it is because we have some

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really psychotic listeners. Yes, right, it's like really psychotic listeners

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that are especially obsessed with him for some reason. Right,

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So for all of our safety, which is sad to say,

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I will never reveal that's fine is whereabouts? Uh huh.

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But it was very exciting. So he applied there. He

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applied there, and then he was obsessing about it a

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little bit because he's like, I really want to work there,

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but I haven't heard anything, and like should I I

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was like, maybe he should stop in, you know, say

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thing I said is like yeah, and then promptly did

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not and didn't did not do that right, But they

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got a hold of him and they said that he

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has a group interview now. So I think they collected

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resumes and applications and then they're going to do like

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a mass Oh that's cool interview. Okay, but I think

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he's going to do great with that. Yeah, and here's

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why they want them to. Now. The kind of place

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it is would not lend itself to this, so so

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you'll understand in a minute what I'm saying. But like

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they said business casual attireka, no jeans, no sneakers, no

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T shirts. And I was like, this kid's like speech

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and debate kid. Oh I got tons of nice clothes

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I have to scrounge. Oh that's good. But I have

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a feeling they want to know like who's taking it seriously,

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like who wants this job? They don't want people walking

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in off just you know, yeah, like they don't give

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a fuck. Yes. I was like, Xander, you got this.

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Just get there early, as they said, be here promptly

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at four thirty. Okay. Yeah. So I was like, that

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means you get there at four fifteen. Yes, yeah, you

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walk in the door at four fifteen. You figure out

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where you're going. You don't get walk in the door

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at four thirty and then go figure out where you're

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going because you're late. Yes. I was like, and you

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know it's John taking him. I was like, okay, you

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got to make sure you got to keep dad on track. Yeah,

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you got to leave the house at four o'clock right,

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And he was like okay, okay, hope, I wow, I

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have because you know what, it's funny. So I was

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telling Robin Wazinski about it, and she's like, yeah, you

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make sure he gets there early because she said that

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one time her son Jack went on a group interview

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to be a camp counselor and he got there early,

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at the exact time that the interview was supposed to start.

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They were like, that's it. You're the only one that's

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They shut everybody else out, and they're like, if they

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can't be here on time, then they can't be a

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camp counselor.

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Speaker 2: That's right, Wow, good lesson. Yeah, that's oh. I got

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him so excited. And he's got a great personality. He's outgoing.

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Oh yeah, you know that's gonna be helpful.

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Speaker 1: And he's been doing this thing. Maybe did I tell

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you about this last week where he's working with kids.

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He's basically volunteering as a as a as a counselor

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at a music camp. No. Yeah, he tell us that

468
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,279
this kid is like and he's playing at places too.

469
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,920
His band's been he's got a gig today. Wow, he

470
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,559
had a gig yesterday. Wow. Yeah, he played a birthday

471
00:25:36,559 --> 00:25:40,920
party yesterday. He's doing a show today, a backyard show.

472
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,920
Do they pay him or no? No? The last one

473
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,079
I think I I think we recorded he'd done a

474
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,480
show the day before and he made nine dollars. Okay,

475
00:25:51,279 --> 00:25:54,519
I think it was like glorified busking. Yeah yeah, I'm

476
00:25:54,559 --> 00:25:57,759
not sure if busking is legal or not. Busking, Hm,

477
00:25:58,799 --> 00:26:02,880
what's busking? Busking is like when you play music on

478
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,319
the street and you like you ask for tips.

479
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,079
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I see those people a lot, like in

480
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,440
my neighborhood and stuff. Yeah, you know, think it's legal.

481
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,599
I don't know, maybe certain cities district I.

482
00:26:15,519 --> 00:26:17,599
Speaker 1: Mean, I feel like you could do it at Venice.

483
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,680
I know you could do it at like Venice Beach.

484
00:26:20,039 --> 00:26:22,279
So I've heard that's not a thing anymore. I've heard

485
00:26:22,319 --> 00:26:25,400
people don't go. Tourists don't go to Venice Beach anymore. Yeah,

486
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,880
I know, and I the promenade has kind of dyed.

487
00:26:29,759 --> 00:26:32,599
The Santa Monica promenade used to have tons of buskers.

488
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,279
Speaker 2: I thought they were making a comeback the Santa Monica Promenade. Oh,

489
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,799
they were making it so that you could drink on

490
00:26:38,839 --> 00:26:41,640
the street or something and take your something like that.

491
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:44,559
I think I suus that in the news, like on

492
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,720
KTLA or something. Maybe they're trying to like to make

493
00:26:47,759 --> 00:26:50,400
a come make a comeback. Yeah, listen, you guys can

494
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:54,160
be alcoholics. It's fine, Like I know, Sorry, we were

495
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,039
so judgy about that before. We were like, no, only

496
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:57,960
drink inside.

497
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 1: Is take yourself a cup to go. Yeah, it's gonna

498
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,160
be like Marti Gras most suddenly right.

499
00:27:04,279 --> 00:27:07,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well so that's funny because so Sonny has a

500
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:08,759
job at interview this week.

501
00:27:08,839 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: What yep, yep, thank god finally.

502
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 2: Okay, but this one was like, so a friend of

503
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,799
mine I was talking to the other day, I'm about

504
00:27:19,799 --> 00:27:21,759
his baby that he just had a baby.

505
00:27:21,799 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: But anyway, he and he's having trouble with it.

506
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, Well they had a baby and she's

507
00:27:29,519 --> 00:27:33,240
only like seven weeks old, but she's been crying, she's

508
00:27:33,279 --> 00:27:36,759
got colic. And these are like new parents and they

509
00:27:36,799 --> 00:27:39,079
don't have a lot of help. I guess the parents

510
00:27:39,079 --> 00:27:42,799
are not that So imagine being two young new parents

511
00:27:42,799 --> 00:27:46,839
with a newborn that had the pediatris and said she

512
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,440
had the worst college ever he's ever seen in a baby,

513
00:27:51,039 --> 00:27:51,880
and they're going to.

514
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,039
Speaker 1: It run tests to see if anything else is They're

515
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,559
going this week.

516
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 2: But you know, when you have a newborn, you want

517
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,839
to test done like then, you know, but you gotta

518
00:28:00,319 --> 00:28:01,839
next week and make an appointment.

519
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 1: So they have an appointment this week. And she's also

520
00:28:04,559 --> 00:28:06,039
not putting on weight, right.

521
00:28:06,039 --> 00:28:08,599
Speaker 2: I don't think she's putting on enough weight. Doesn't sound

522
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,839
like it to me, But you know, their new parents,

523
00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:15,519
they don't know, you know, and I don't know. I

524
00:28:15,519 --> 00:28:16,720
talk to Wendy about it.

525
00:28:16,759 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 1: Anyway.

526
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,799
Speaker 2: Wendy gave the advice of start off the first feeding

527
00:28:22,599 --> 00:28:26,160
pump and see how much is coming out, and then

528
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:31,599
give that baby the milk and then pump again when

529
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,279
the baby's done and see if you're if it's still producing,

530
00:28:35,799 --> 00:28:38,960
because that's how you can see like how much she's

531
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:46,279
getting and anyway, so yeah, so yeah, I gave him

532
00:28:46,279 --> 00:28:50,000
the advice. We'll see what happens. But anyway, he works

533
00:28:50,039 --> 00:28:55,319
at a sports company, at a sports media company, and

534
00:28:56,079 --> 00:29:00,960
they were looking for somebody with encyclopedia and note you know,

535
00:29:01,599 --> 00:29:07,079
sports past and present, like an internship. I don't know

536
00:29:07,119 --> 00:29:08,279
if it's paid yet or not.

537
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,039
Speaker 1: Oh cool. Yeah, So my friend was like, I got

538
00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:13,640
somebody for you. So yeah, sun.

539
00:29:13,759 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: He was super flattered and excited and he was like, Okay,

540
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,720
when when when? So it's supposed to he's supposed to

541
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,759
get back to him today and they said like maybe

542
00:29:22,759 --> 00:29:24,319
sometime beginning of this week.

543
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: Oh so we already had it.

544
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: No no, no, not yet. So e they're going to

545
00:29:28,759 --> 00:29:31,200
get back to him today to set a date, to

546
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,279
set the day for the interview this week. Yeah, is

547
00:29:33,319 --> 00:29:35,079
it in person or in person?

548
00:29:35,279 --> 00:29:38,039
Speaker 1: Oh that's exciting. Yeah, and it's in Hollywood.

549
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,039
Speaker 2: Oh so he's gonna have to take We're gonna have

550
00:29:42,079 --> 00:29:43,960
to share a car, he's gonna have to take my car,

551
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,160
and I don't know how that's gonna work. We'll find out,

552
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,880
but I might have to like Lisa mcar for the

553
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,799
summer or something. I don't not Lisa macar rent a

554
00:29:54,839 --> 00:29:57,640
car or something for the summer.

555
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: So I don't know. We'll see.

556
00:29:59,079 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 2: But if not, like if he could take my car,

557
00:30:01,079 --> 00:30:05,519
that would that would work. But I don't know, we'll see.

558
00:30:06,119 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, he's excited. Is really this is really good

559
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,839
for him? Yeah?

560
00:30:12,079 --> 00:30:14,319
Speaker 2: I mean, like I was like, Sonny, listen you like

561
00:30:14,559 --> 00:30:16,720
you're applying at like you know, all the fast food

562
00:30:16,759 --> 00:30:20,759
restaurants in our neighborhood, like this, you're this is you know,

563
00:30:21,319 --> 00:30:25,119
this never happens like you're you know how lucky you are.

564
00:30:25,119 --> 00:30:26,839
He's like, no, I get it. I get it, Like

565
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,599
this is amazing. Came out of nowhere, So we'll see.

566
00:30:31,039 --> 00:30:33,839
Speaker 1: That would be so cool. Yeah, And then I wonder

567
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,559
would he be able to keep it and do it

568
00:30:35,599 --> 00:30:36,480
remotely from.

569
00:30:36,599 --> 00:30:39,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, I don't know. That's a good question.

570
00:30:40,119 --> 00:30:41,680
And then you know, he gets.

571
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,799
Speaker 1: Back late I think like LB, Yes, yeah, I think

572
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,599
Oregon and and you see it on a similar schedule,

573
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,519
so right, like late like he probably doesn't have to

574
00:30:50,559 --> 00:30:52,839
go back to late September, right, yeah, I think so, yeah,

575
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,000
like second or third, third week, I think hmm.

576
00:30:57,279 --> 00:30:59,519
Speaker 2: But then you know, Sunny gets like then he's like,

577
00:30:59,559 --> 00:31:01,839
well wait a, and I'm not an encyclopedia sports.

578
00:31:01,839 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't know everything. And now he's all nervous.

579
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 2: I go site relaxed, like they're not expecting you to

580
00:31:07,519 --> 00:31:10,119
come in and run the show. You know, they're just

581
00:31:10,119 --> 00:31:14,799
looking for interns that no as knowledge, right, And he's like, okay, okay,

582
00:31:15,559 --> 00:31:18,279
it's so funny. I watched the UFC fight with him

583
00:31:18,559 --> 00:31:22,079
Saturday night. All of his friends are like, gone, right now,

584
00:31:22,319 --> 00:31:25,759
oh really, we're all like out of town on trips.

585
00:31:26,119 --> 00:31:28,359
This one's at their grandmother's for the summer. This one's

586
00:31:28,359 --> 00:31:28,880
out of town.

587
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: So uh.

588
00:31:30,799 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 2: Usually he has guys over and he's like he's like

589
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,839
he was watching it in his room and then he said,

590
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,799
maybe I'll come out, maybe we could watch the main

591
00:31:38,839 --> 00:31:41,799
fight because the guy's retiring and it's and it was

592
00:31:41,839 --> 00:31:43,880
he told me the whole story of the fighter. And

593
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,559
they're in New Orleans because he's from New Orleans and

594
00:31:46,599 --> 00:31:50,079
it's his last fight and he's retiring and he's fighting

595
00:31:50,079 --> 00:31:53,440
one of the best, and uh so I watched it

596
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,119
with him. It was interesting and it's not my thing,

597
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,279
but you know, it was fun. It's fun do that

598
00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:00,720
with him.

599
00:32:01,319 --> 00:32:03,839
Speaker 1: It was not that kind of violent. It's really violent,

600
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,240
but you know they like it.

601
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,319
Speaker 2: Like when they're done, they like hug each other and

602
00:32:07,319 --> 00:32:10,839
they're happy for each other and like there's like a

603
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,759
camaraderie thing going, and it's kind of different, Like I've

604
00:32:14,799 --> 00:32:16,160
never seen that with boxers.

605
00:32:16,599 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: You know, how do they make sure that they don't

606
00:32:18,759 --> 00:32:21,119
like knock each other's teeth out and stuff. Well, they

607
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:22,799
have teeth guards and stuff.

608
00:32:22,839 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: And then there was during the fight the guy kept

609
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,480
like going for the eyes and they kept having this stop.

610
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,359
So they got the referee right there like watching and

611
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,119
he had to stop him a couple times, like watch

612
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:34,160
the eyes, watch the eyes.

613
00:32:34,359 --> 00:32:36,079
Speaker 1: And then the other guy that he was doing it too,

614
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:37,960
is like, it's cool, it's cool. Just keep going, keep going,

615
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:38,400
keep going.

616
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 2: Like they're all amped up, you know, and most of

617
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:46,400
it is just grappling. Sometimes then once they get them down,

618
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,119
then they start like banging into their head and shit.

619
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: But but then they'll call it.

620
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: If it gets too much, they'll they'll stop it, but yeah,

621
00:32:55,319 --> 00:32:57,960
it's more like wrestling and stuff and hearing them talk

622
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,640
to each other back and forth, and and then when

623
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,839
they go to the corner they're talking to the I

624
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:03,920
don't know, what do I know?

625
00:33:04,039 --> 00:33:06,119
Speaker 1: I'm not a uf safe. What are we doing here?

626
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,319
I'm like, tell me about the rules right now. You're like,

627
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,480
I don't know. There's some like no eyes shit, no

628
00:33:14,599 --> 00:33:17,160
eyes should they're not allowed to like aht them you

629
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,079
know in the in the nuts and shit. But they

630
00:33:19,079 --> 00:33:20,920
do wear cups. I don't know.

631
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's just nice having the kids home, like

632
00:33:25,359 --> 00:33:27,319
doing stuff like that with them. Oh yeah, you know,

633
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:28,599
spur of the moment stuff.

634
00:33:28,759 --> 00:33:34,039
Speaker 1: Yeah. I Elbie went to Palm Springs for the weekend

635
00:33:34,119 --> 00:33:38,279
with her friends. But she's been so cute lately, Like,

636
00:33:38,839 --> 00:33:40,960
I don't know, it was very bonding to go buy

637
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:45,039
her stuff. I felt like such a mom. I mean,

638
00:33:45,079 --> 00:33:46,559
I am a mom, but you know, you know when

639
00:33:46,599 --> 00:33:50,240
you're like, even though she's twenty, I felt very caretaking,

640
00:33:50,359 --> 00:33:54,559
yes of her. Yes, And I remember feeling very spoiled

641
00:33:54,599 --> 00:33:57,240
by my mom when she took me shop, even though

642
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,799
my mom didn't take me like shopping for clothes, but

643
00:34:00,319 --> 00:34:02,920
she would always be like if you need new underwear,

644
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,519
that's like my job. Right. So whenever we would go

645
00:34:06,599 --> 00:34:08,599
out and go to the mall or something, she would

646
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:11,079
be like, okay, pick out like underwear or whatever. That's

647
00:34:11,079 --> 00:34:13,400
my treat yea. And I like doing that, but like

648
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,280
with more stuff than just were, right. But I was like, okay,

649
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,519
we have to get you some clothes. She was just

650
00:34:18,599 --> 00:34:23,000
so appreciative, like the whole time she was. And you know,

651
00:34:23,039 --> 00:34:25,159
she tried on a bunch of tops from TJ Max.

652
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,480
Some of them were like sixteen dollars, right, So when

653
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,000
she was like okay, well, she would be really careful

654
00:34:33,039 --> 00:34:35,679
about which ones she liked, you know. And then I

655
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,079
told her we held them all at There were like

656
00:34:39,119 --> 00:34:41,079
six of them, right, We held them at the front,

657
00:34:41,119 --> 00:34:42,599
and then we went to go see what else we

658
00:34:42,599 --> 00:34:44,800
could find at the other store. And then we found

659
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,719
like one top there. So I said, well, let's so

660
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:48,960
we'll go back, and she goes, Okay, we'll go back

661
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,679
and I'll go through and see like which ones I want.

662
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,719
I knew she wanted all of them, but I let

663
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,679
her do that. I let her like start looking at

664
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,079
them and deciding, and then I was like, psych, we're

665
00:34:59,079 --> 00:35:03,719
giving them all they're cheap. Yeah yeah, And I was like,

666
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,760
just as long as you're gonna wear them right sometimes

667
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,440
outside of work, and she was like, no, of course

668
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,639
I will. Like no, they're all really cute, and I

669
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,119
was like okay, and then she just kept going like,

670
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,440
thank you, mom, thank you so much for shopping and

671
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,239
thank you for buying me this stuff. And I promise

672
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,639
I'll like it was just very cute. It's sweet. Yeah.

673
00:35:22,679 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: And you know here's the thing too, I think, you know,

674
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:27,559
I keep thinking, one of these kids, these girls are

675
00:35:27,559 --> 00:35:30,440
going to grow out of their ucci mom address the

676
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,760
way they dress. And I think maybe when they start working,

677
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,280
you know, and they have to dress nice, then they're like,

678
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,880
oh these clothes are These clothes are cute too, and

679
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,440
they don't have to be like size five, you know,

680
00:35:42,519 --> 00:35:45,440
too small, five sizes too small tank tops, you know,

681
00:35:46,039 --> 00:35:47,480
like oh this glause is kind of cute.

682
00:35:47,519 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll wear that with jeans. You know.

683
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:55,599
Speaker 2: It's funny the appreciative thing because Natalia has it's really sad.

684
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: Should we do an ad? And then all sure, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

685
00:35:59,599 --> 00:36:03,679
let's talk talk about bizigo. Oh my god, I cannot

686
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:07,280
stand waking up with any mosquito bites. But the worst

687
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,679
is that you don't know where the mosquitoes are because

688
00:36:09,679 --> 00:36:11,800
they're sneaky. They're sneaky.

689
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,079
Speaker 2: But there's bzego Iris, which is a cutting edge device

690
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,000
that uses computer vision and AI to detect, track, and

691
00:36:20,039 --> 00:36:23,559
pinpoint mosquitos in real time. And no more guessing, no

692
00:36:23,639 --> 00:36:27,079
more swatting at the thin air, just simple, precise way

693
00:36:27,079 --> 00:36:29,559
to finally take control of your space and take those

694
00:36:29,599 --> 00:36:33,559
little buggers out. This is really really cool, and especially

695
00:36:33,599 --> 00:36:36,559
this time of year when the temperatures are rising and

696
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,119
the kids. Mosquitos are always inside my house, like windows

697
00:36:40,119 --> 00:36:42,639
get left open, doors get left open.

698
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,639
Speaker 1: So it comes in handy, which is great. Yeah, and

699
00:36:46,679 --> 00:36:50,960
it has laser targeting like once mosquito lands. Bzigo uses

700
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This is really sad. So Natalia has a really close

740
00:39:08,119 --> 00:39:09,320
friend that.

741
00:39:09,199 --> 00:39:14,519
Speaker 2: She she knew before she started her freshman year pretty well,

742
00:39:14,559 --> 00:39:17,880
but then throughout her whole year she got really close

743
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,880
with her, and you know, she's just been she became like,

744
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,599
you know, her best friend moved or not moved, but

745
00:39:25,639 --> 00:39:30,119
went to Aro's Arizona State. So this girl, like she

746
00:39:30,199 --> 00:39:32,079
taught every throughout the year. She would talk about her

747
00:39:32,119 --> 00:39:35,639
all the time. I've met her many times. She's at

748
00:39:35,639 --> 00:39:39,079
my house a lot during the summer. She's super sweet.

749
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,440
And I was talking to Italia the other day and

750
00:39:43,039 --> 00:39:47,760
Natalia tells me so much, like very often, Mom, like

751
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,599
out of the blue, I appreciate you so much, you know,

752
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,559
make my doctor's appointments for me, get my eyeglass is renewed,

753
00:39:54,599 --> 00:39:55,480
and stuff like that.

754
00:39:55,599 --> 00:39:55,760
Speaker 1: You know.

755
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, of course, and she's like, you know, she

756
00:39:59,079 --> 00:40:04,320
was telling me her friend call her Sally from the valley.

757
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:12,480
Her friend, Sally's parents are just nightmares. Her mom is

758
00:40:12,519 --> 00:40:16,840
struggling like I with her husband. So her dad is

759
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,440
an alcoholic. And she said that she could hear like

760
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,639
she would come home, and I think she just started

761
00:40:22,679 --> 00:40:25,199
opening up to Natalia, not just started, but I think

762
00:40:25,559 --> 00:40:29,199
in the last like probably six months, that she would

763
00:40:29,199 --> 00:40:32,320
come home and she could hear her dad throwing up,

764
00:40:32,599 --> 00:40:35,960
you know, from drinking, and they would fight. Parents would

765
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,920
fight all the time. The mom would kick him out,

766
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,840
you know, and then he'd come back. And you know,

767
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:46,239
and they both work, both parents work full time. And

768
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,440
she has like an older sister that I think is

769
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,519
away at college.

770
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 1: But to parents.

771
00:40:53,079 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 2: So the father now has disappeared, left the family and

772
00:40:58,519 --> 00:41:05,039
apparently ruined Sally's debt, like got her like a credit

773
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:07,519
card in her name or something and then never paid

774
00:41:07,559 --> 00:41:10,199
it like he said he would, And now she has

775
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,840
her credit to ruin and now the mom is saying

776
00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:16,320
she can't go to Santa Barbara anymore. She's just to

777
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:20,280
stay and go to Pasadena Community College. And Natalie was

778
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,920
crying and upset, and she was like, you know, Sally's

779
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,559
trying to get a loan. I guess she went to

780
00:41:25,599 --> 00:41:27,400
the bank on her own to get a loan, but

781
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,280
it was denied.

782
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:29,159
Speaker 1: Shocker.

783
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 2: I mean, she's a nineteen year old kid, you know, yeah,

784
00:41:34,639 --> 00:41:37,519
you know, and mom doesn't really help her with her finance,

785
00:41:37,639 --> 00:41:39,960
like help her get back onto it, like you know,

786
00:41:40,079 --> 00:41:42,360
like this is what you need to do, or or

787
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,960
give her any any money for things. She works, but

788
00:41:47,079 --> 00:41:50,039
she's paying for her car on her own. And now

789
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,039
her mom's like, if you're gonna want to stay in

790
00:41:52,079 --> 00:41:54,159
Santa Barbara, you have to you're gonna have to pay

791
00:41:54,199 --> 00:41:56,360
for it, which is impossible.

792
00:41:56,519 --> 00:41:58,159
Speaker 1: Like this kid's not gonna be able to do that.

793
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,360
So is she at the community college or she goes

794
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:06,639
to she goes to UC Santa Barbara. Oh yeah, yeah,

795
00:42:06,679 --> 00:42:07,639
that's kind of pricey.

796
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, and now she has to drop out if she

797
00:42:11,199 --> 00:42:14,480
can't figure she says her grandmother's or her aunt. Her

798
00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:17,599
aunt is trying to help her. I said, does she

799
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:20,079
have anybody in her family that she can go to?

800
00:42:20,159 --> 00:42:22,639
And she said, she's getting close with her aunt, and

801
00:42:22,679 --> 00:42:24,960
her aunt sees what's going on and her she's trying

802
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:29,119
to help her. But Natalia's like, you know, she went

803
00:42:29,159 --> 00:42:32,159
to you know, Natalia moved into the place she was

804
00:42:32,159 --> 00:42:36,760
renting with like three girls that she knew really well. Well,

805
00:42:37,039 --> 00:42:39,360
one of them she had a falling out to, the

806
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,920
other two are gone. One's studying abroad, the other one

807
00:42:43,159 --> 00:42:47,440
transferred to San Diego. And so now it's just her

808
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,480
and this the other roommate that she had the falling

809
00:42:50,519 --> 00:42:52,679
out with, and then the other just the other roommate,

810
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:56,039
which is fine, but like her closest friends that she

811
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,559
was with in Santa Barbara are gone, and now this

812
00:42:58,599 --> 00:43:01,760
girl is not going to be there next year, you know.

813
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,079
So she's she's just really having a heart and she

814
00:43:04,079 --> 00:43:07,280
feels horrible and she wants to help her, and you know,

815
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,760
and she's stayed at our house many times. I tell her,

816
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,679
you know, she doesn't want to be home, she can

817
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,880
stay here, of course, and she tells her that. So

818
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:17,480
she's been in our house many times. But she's super respectful.

819
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,880
She's no mobile muffet at all. Like I make dinner

820
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,880
and she's like, no, no, it's okay, I don't I'm fine,

821
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,280
And I'm like, Telli, you tell her she can eat,

822
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,079
you know, she's really respectful and sweet, and I just

823
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:36,199
I feel horrible, and yeah, it's a sad situation. So

824
00:43:38,079 --> 00:43:39,679
I don't know. I don't know what she's going to do.

825
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,599
She really wants to go back to Santa Barbara. I'm

826
00:43:42,639 --> 00:43:47,440
hoping her aunt can help her, but you know, we'll see.

827
00:43:47,519 --> 00:43:49,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I wonder if she can get some good

828
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:54,079
financial aid since her situation has changed, right, But it

829
00:43:54,079 --> 00:43:57,079
could be seen as just her parents are electing not

830
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:57,960
to help her.

831
00:43:58,159 --> 00:44:02,159
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but the dad gone, like they don't

832
00:44:02,199 --> 00:44:05,559
know where he is. And then she found out about

833
00:44:05,559 --> 00:44:08,880
her credit. Just she was just super disciplined, like couldn't

834
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,800
believe it, you know, and she was close to her dad.

835
00:44:12,079 --> 00:44:13,559
Speaker 1: He just growing up.

836
00:44:13,599 --> 00:44:15,519
Speaker 2: He just I guess in the last few years, just

837
00:44:15,639 --> 00:44:18,719
his drinking has been out of control and the mom

838
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,920
doesn't know what to do, and she's gone all the

839
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:27,360
time working, you know. Yeah, so so the mom makes

840
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:31,760
money though, yes, yeah, but she's saying she can't afford

841
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,320
her to go back, and then I don't know what

842
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,639
the sister. Maybe the sister has a scholarship or so,

843
00:44:36,679 --> 00:44:40,079
I don't know, but yeah, it's it's a tough situation.

844
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:44,760
Speaker 1: It's really it's really sad. I mean, I feel like

845
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,800
my kids know a lot of people who have just

846
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:54,800
like really crazy bad home situation. Situation. Yeah, I'm sure

847
00:44:54,840 --> 00:45:00,519
growing up that was also the case. I mean, look,

848
00:45:00,599 --> 00:45:04,679
I don't want to sometimes I wonder if I if

849
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,880
I see my childhood differently as an adult than like

850
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,440
when I was a kid, it felt pretty bad me. Yeah, yeah,

851
00:45:12,519 --> 00:45:16,000
I mean I think about times where like I was

852
00:45:16,079 --> 00:45:19,679
really scared of my stepfather and like crying so much

853
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,239
and saying, like yelling on my front lawn for someone

854
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,079
to call the police, right, And then I have to go, Okay,

855
00:45:27,079 --> 00:45:29,679
like was I being dramatic? But then I think I'm

856
00:45:29,679 --> 00:45:33,079
not a dramatic person, Like I'm not somebody around to

857
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:37,159
like freaking out. But there were so many times where

858
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,639
I couldn't go back to my house or you know,

859
00:45:40,159 --> 00:45:42,719
I was genuinely scared of my stepfather and my mom

860
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,480
did not care. And then I go I guess I

861
00:45:46,599 --> 00:45:49,320
just got used to it, you know, but looking back,

862
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:53,440
like I can't imagine my kids. Yeah, never make my

863
00:45:53,519 --> 00:45:56,960
kids cry like I never like I And I of

864
00:45:57,079 --> 00:45:59,480
course like that's the bare minimum, Like of course I

865
00:45:59,519 --> 00:46:02,400
don't and to kill my kids like my father did

866
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:08,280
to me. But I'm just saying, like it's I want

867
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,480
my kids to feel so stable. Oh yeah, you go there.

868
00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:14,679
I would rather that they feel a little spoiled and

869
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,000
a little but you know, so yes, we go the

870
00:46:17,039 --> 00:46:19,880
other way. But then I do see, like I said,

871
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:24,880
But then I do appreciate my own ability right to

872
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:30,360
provide stability and for the kids mood, stability and sobriety

873
00:46:30,519 --> 00:46:33,920
on my part. And I never stopped being grateful that

874
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,920
I'm capable of providing that. I know there are people

875
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,280
that aren't, like I know other moms that struggle with

876
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,639
mental illness or families that have issues. But gosh, gosh,

877
00:46:43,639 --> 00:46:46,880
I feel so bad for kids that you just go like,

878
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,639
I know, you don't know, he's going to be trauma.

879
00:46:49,679 --> 00:46:51,800
They're going to have trauma when they get older. I know.

880
00:46:52,159 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 2: So I think about that too. My childhood, I was

881
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,679
afraid of my mom a lot. I thought she was

882
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,599
going to try and kill me at some point, you know,

883
00:47:00,679 --> 00:47:03,079
she'd beat up on my dad and she'd be grabby

884
00:47:03,119 --> 00:47:04,559
and beating up on me and stuff.

885
00:47:04,599 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: I was.

886
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,159
Speaker 2: I was afraid of her, And then, you know, I think,

887
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,639
is that why I'm not confrontational? Is that why I'm

888
00:47:12,679 --> 00:47:14,639
not that I don't I didn't want to be like

889
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,320
her or I was afraid of I don't know, maybe

890
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,599
that's why I'm not that kind of a contract. You know,

891
00:47:19,679 --> 00:47:22,639
I don't like I don't like confrontation, not that person

892
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,960
kind of thing where I should stand up more like

893
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,039
I hear it from like Wendy sometime like oh, you

894
00:47:28,039 --> 00:47:29,079
know whatever.

895
00:47:29,679 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: But do you feel like that affected you in your

896
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,719
marriage that you were not Well, that's.

897
00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 2: The funny thing because people are like, you know, or

898
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,400
Adam's like, I didn't have a say in that marriage.

899
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,599
Speaker 1: I didn't have a say in that marriage.

900
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: Okay, really like okay, picture Adam not having a say,

901
00:47:46,079 --> 00:47:48,159
and then I'm not a confrontational person.

902
00:47:48,679 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: Is that really how it worked? Or is that just

903
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,199
how you saw it? You know what I mean? Can

904
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,639
I can remember very It's been a few times since

905
00:47:56,679 --> 00:48:00,679
I've known you where you said that you spoke up

906
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,159
or we're like get out of my way, or or

907
00:48:03,679 --> 00:48:04,440
shouted back.

908
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,039
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, No, there was times where I got few,

909
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,960
very few, because it never went anywhere. It never, it

910
00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:15,000
wasn't I it was never met with like you know what,

911
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:19,239
you're right. Never, it just kept go like, you know,

912
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,960
just kept going, and the argument would just keep going

913
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,360
and going and going, until finally I was like, okay, okay, okay,

914
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,880
you're right, you're right, you're right. Like so, yeah, that

915
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,360
did a number on me too, So then it got work,

916
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,679
you know, because I would be able to speak up.

917
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,840
I mean, I remember when I hired Dylan, I got

918
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,440
pissed at him a bunch of times, and I was,

919
00:48:36,559 --> 00:48:39,519
you know, reamed him, you know, I read him the

920
00:48:39,599 --> 00:48:43,679
Riot Act a few times, and you know, I used to.

921
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 1: Be that way.

922
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 2: But I think because in the childhood and then because

923
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:51,320
of the marriage, I've just like in my older years,

924
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,559
I just don't want to deal. So I'm just like, yeah, yeah,

925
00:48:53,559 --> 00:48:56,119
that's fine, but nothing really, I mean, I don't really

926
00:48:56,119 --> 00:49:00,840
have any confrontations anymore. I mean, now my kids, you know,

927
00:49:01,039 --> 00:49:04,480
I should stand up to well the daughter more, you know,

928
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,400
because she will just you know, grind you down if

929
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,920
she wants something so I'm learning to like, you know,

930
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:17,559
set the boundaries and shit. But yeah, I mean I

931
00:49:17,599 --> 00:49:19,559
think that your childhood like shapes you.

932
00:49:20,559 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: I mean I had to learn with John. I was

933
00:49:25,159 --> 00:49:28,039
so defensive early in our marriage, you know, I was

934
00:49:28,199 --> 00:49:31,880
so argumentative and like, and I think that's a result

935
00:49:32,039 --> 00:49:36,400
of with the stepfather, Yes, constantly standing up for myself

936
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,000
and going fuck you, you know. I mean by the

937
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,920
time I was like a teenager, right, I was like

938
00:49:41,079 --> 00:49:45,119
I've had enough. Yes. It was always that feeling that

939
00:49:45,199 --> 00:49:48,280
I felt very few times in my life where I

940
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,559
would just get enraged because it's that thing where I

941
00:49:51,679 --> 00:49:54,159
just go I just don't care anymore. And I remember

942
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,480
yelling at him and just being like, well then do it.

943
00:49:56,519 --> 00:49:58,719
Then fucking hit me. Then if you're going to do it,

944
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,719
like I'm so sick of being skared of you, go

945
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:02,800
ahead beat me up. Then that that's going to make

946
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:07,079
you feel good. Well. I carried some of that because

947
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,800
I guess lack of like truly good therapy and that

948
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,119
being my first, like I would say, real relationship. I

949
00:50:14,159 --> 00:50:17,480
mean I lived with a guy before that, but it

950
00:50:17,519 --> 00:50:21,840
almost doesn't count. Yeah, But with John, I do think

951
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,119
he would just be like, where is this coming, like

952
00:50:24,119 --> 00:50:25,960
I would get so mad, Like as soon as I

953
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,320
felt kind of attacked about something, I remember having a

954
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,280
fight with him about something so stupid. It was that

955
00:50:31,519 --> 00:50:35,079
I was I wanted diet soda. Okay, I was sick,

956
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:37,599
I was getting over like a flu or something, and

957
00:50:37,639 --> 00:50:39,440
I asked him to get me sprite. But I want

958
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,239
to diet sprite because I am very compulsive about for

959
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:47,199
no reason. Obviously I'm a sugar addict. Yeah, but soda

960
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:50,280
has to be diet. Like I've never I have not

961
00:50:50,559 --> 00:50:53,480
since I was in middle school drank a sugar soda.

962
00:50:53,559 --> 00:50:56,079
Oh really. So I was like, I need diet sprite

963
00:50:56,119 --> 00:50:58,199
and I think he got me regular sprite and I

964
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,000
was like what, why can't drink it? And then he

965
00:51:01,159 --> 00:51:04,719
was just like what, that's crazy And I said no,

966
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,719
I just I don't drink regular soda, you know. And

967
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,719
he's like, well that's what I got, Like, just drink

968
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,039
that and I was like no, and he goes and

969
00:51:12,039 --> 00:51:15,880
then he said and these were the fighting words. He's like,

970
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,320
you know, diet soda does not help you, like lose weight.

971
00:51:18,679 --> 00:51:23,280
It actually does the opposite. And then I was like, well,

972
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:27,039
who the fuck educated you about? We know that's not true.

973
00:51:27,159 --> 00:51:31,480
And I just remember getting so mad and also feeling

974
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,000
like he was implying that I was going to gain

975
00:51:34,039 --> 00:51:38,840
weight from drinking diets right, So, like my brain went

976
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,719
so crazy. And I do think it was very stepfatherish,

977
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:46,360
because my stepfather was always picking, like purposely saying stuff

978
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,400
to like push buttons and get me to fight with him.

979
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,159
So now I would find stuff to fight, I feel like,

980
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,199
instead of automatically assuming that John's like on my side

981
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,400
or on my team or has my best interest. I

982
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,239
was like, oh, well, there you go, true colors, you know,

983
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,679
And then I started. I was so mad. We got

984
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:10,079
into a huge fight. It's taken me a long time

985
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:14,800
to be able to consistently understand that he's not trying

986
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,679
to like, because he had to just be like, but

987
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,320
why would I be trying to start a like what

988
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,840
is the benefit for me? Yes, I'm trying to make

989
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:23,639
you angry.

990
00:52:24,199 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 2: And that's what I would say all the time, yes,

991
00:52:28,039 --> 00:52:31,000
And you said, huh yeah, Yeah, that's what I used

992
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,679
to say all the time, Like what do you think

993
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:35,400
I'm trying to get yelled at right now?

994
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be judged. I'm trying to right you

995
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:42,360
know there was a little it's the power dynamic is

996
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,960
different though with men and women. So it's like worse

997
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:49,519
when the guy is doing that picking because because you

998
00:52:49,559 --> 00:52:51,679
could say that, but then you're like, yeah, now I

999
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,440
have to be careful and walk on eggshells because this bigger,

1000
00:52:55,639 --> 00:52:58,280
louder guy might get mad at me. With me, it

1001
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,119
was like he wasn't like scared of me, right, and

1002
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,719
just be like what are you doing? You know what

1003
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,639
I mean? And then usually the reason our relationship works

1004
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,360
because even back then, I'd be like, oh, yeah, that's

1005
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:13,800
kind of dumb, and then we'd start laughing about it. Right. See,

1006
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,840
but it's taken me a long time to go not

1007
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,239
everybody is my stepfather, right.

1008
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:24,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's interesting, look at us going deep.

1009
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: I know, man, it's like regular I don't know that

1010
00:53:29,159 --> 00:53:32,239
just regular therapy can help you make those connections. I

1011
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,880
think it's like life. You have to start recognizing it

1012
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:35,599
as you go.

1013
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 2: Right, because I've been in therapy since I was young,

1014
00:53:39,519 --> 00:53:42,000
and I do know. I mean, my mom was the

1015
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,440
topic of the conversation, and I do know what kind

1016
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,840
of child had I had, and I do know how

1017
00:53:48,079 --> 00:53:50,800
it affected me as an adult. But it's like can

1018
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:52,719
you really like get that out of you or you

1019
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,760
just you're right. It's more like you have to have

1020
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,800
real life experiences to see it and then reflect and

1021
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:03,320
then learn from that, I guess, because it's like you

1022
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,760
can talk about it in therapy, but then how do

1023
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,320
you apply it later, you know what I mean?

1024
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 1: And it's so hard to I think. And this is

1025
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,760
like a good thing that we have this podcast because

1026
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,360
we did a lot of learning in real time as parents.

1027
00:54:18,679 --> 00:54:20,280
You know, there was a lot of stuff that I'm

1028
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:24,039
glad that we were able to like talk about because

1029
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,239
I think about certain things of like the pressure we

1030
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,840
would put on ourselves to make Christmas amazing and like

1031
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,039
bile presents and make sure it's all even, and and

1032
00:54:33,119 --> 00:54:35,960
like how compulsive your brain can be with like trying

1033
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,679
to make up for yes, and then you have to

1034
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,599
just go like, Okay, I can do this. I don't

1035
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:44,719
have to do this, like my kids are still going

1036
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,119
to love me, or or like I know we talked

1037
00:54:47,119 --> 00:54:49,679
about this like a few shows ago, but like getting

1038
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:51,559
so mad at the kids and then like I think

1039
00:54:51,599 --> 00:54:53,960
I'm not speaking to them and they don't even realize

1040
00:54:54,039 --> 00:54:57,159
those things where you go, okay, all I can do

1041
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,800
is like try to do better? Right right? Nice? Yeah?

1042
00:55:01,119 --> 00:55:02,719
Where this comes from? Yes?

1043
00:55:03,199 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and like yeah, thank god we had our show

1044
00:55:07,159 --> 00:55:10,000
to talk it through a lot of times.

1045
00:55:09,679 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: So we could even call ourselves out on like we know,

1046
00:55:12,599 --> 00:55:14,920
we didn't need our audience to just be like, stop

1047
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,960
making your kids lunch. It's like, well, we're not going

1048
00:55:17,039 --> 00:55:21,639
to stop. Make us come over to my house and

1049
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:28,760
grab a sandwich, knocked the bagel out. I listen, there's

1050
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,880
certain things like I don't think I handicapped Lbie by

1051
00:55:32,199 --> 00:55:34,519
putting cream cheese on her bagel until she was nine. Yeah,

1052
00:55:34,519 --> 00:55:37,960
I think she's fine, right, yeah, yeah, I mean, look

1053
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,360
at our kids working. They're killing it. Yeah, they're doing well,

1054
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,119
they are, they're doing good. They're fine. Yeah, they're fine.

1055
00:55:43,639 --> 00:55:46,719
And today God willing and the creek don't rise, Xandre

1056
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,199
will have a job. Yes, yes, yes, God, I hope

1057
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,239
so I am. Oh my god. By the way, we

1058
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,760
have so much fun. I saved some stuff to talk about,

1059
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:59,760
but Friday's show I want to discuss. Okay, So one

1060
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:04,960
of our our listeners recommended where what Happened to Amy Bradley? Yes,

1061
00:56:05,079 --> 00:56:10,360
so what it's called? Yeah? Yeah? Uh? Netflix on Netflix? Yeah?

1062
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,599
Oh my god, the woman that went missing on the crew,

1063
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:17,360
woman that went missing. So many breadcrumbs, so much to discuss.

1064
00:56:17,559 --> 00:56:19,559
And somebody was like, Stephanie's not going to like this

1065
00:56:19,639 --> 00:56:22,480
because it's unsolved. But guess what, I did love it.

1066
00:56:22,519 --> 00:56:26,280
I loved it too. And I told Lynette, like, watch

1067
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,000
this thing so we can work with our detection our

1068
00:56:29,079 --> 00:56:30,119
detective agency.

1069
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,760
Speaker 2: It's funny when you Yeah, I know, it's funny when

1070
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,119
you send me that text. I was just jen I

1071
00:56:35,199 --> 00:56:38,079
was talking to Jennifer on the phone. She just watched

1072
00:56:38,079 --> 00:56:40,039
it and I didn't know it was. I didn't know

1073
00:56:40,079 --> 00:56:42,000
what it was, and she was explaining it to me,

1074
00:56:42,039 --> 00:56:43,480
and I was like, oh, I'm gonna I can't wait.

1075
00:56:43,519 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: Just watch this sounds good. She's like, yeah, you gotta

1076
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,840
watch it. Yeah, so John, I watched it with John

1077
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,000
and I can't wait. We didn't discuss it as fully

1078
00:56:52,039 --> 00:56:54,199
as I wanted to discuss it. So I was like, well,

1079
00:56:54,199 --> 00:56:58,239
you're not You're no help for the agency, right Lynette,

1080
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,360
and iiill solve it. We're going to solve this out

1081
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,280
of it on Friday. And then I watched some other

1082
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:06,119
stuff too that I can't going to discuss. But first

1083
00:57:06,199 --> 00:57:09,480
let's say Hi to our friends Dick Frolicker and Kelly Latti,

1084
00:57:09,599 --> 00:57:14,000
Da and NICKI call your girl, Nikki. What's Elizabeth Williamson doing.

1085
00:57:14,119 --> 00:57:16,639
She's got all our kids. And Rita is rocking her

1086
00:57:16,719 --> 00:57:21,440
kids in that Bassiette and Polly we love her her pancakes. Yeah,

1087
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:25,079
they're so sorry. And Valerie Bubba Fenwich, she hits it

1088
00:57:25,079 --> 00:57:28,679
out of Fenway. Park yup. And Katerina, girl check go

1089
00:57:28,719 --> 00:57:30,760
to the dentist. She just reminded me I need to

1090
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,280
make dentist appointments for all three of my kids. Oh

1091
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:37,679
so thank you, thank you. Katerina, Gabby and Missy. What

1092
00:57:37,719 --> 00:57:40,199
are they up to this week? I don't know. No

1093
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:46,599
good Ishan Vojpe, Rebecca cute, Kelly Brant it's not your aunt,

1094
00:57:46,679 --> 00:57:50,920
but you know you get it. Alicia'scoante for the city

1095
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,880
of El Monte, Lessie with the coughing stop at Aaron's

1096
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,960
a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer, get up, Sandra, it's not easy

1097
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,920
being green Athena. We love your dancing. Stephane's a stinkering

1098
00:58:00,119 --> 00:58:02,119
or Ashley or she and Chris to get the strap.

1099
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:07,119
My friend tam Ramelo has a business called Gray by

1100
00:58:07,159 --> 00:58:12,039
tam Ramelo. She makes anniversary gifts, I mean also other

1101
00:58:12,159 --> 00:58:14,039
kinds of gifts. But it's like you can buy stuff

1102
00:58:14,039 --> 00:58:17,480
for your husband or your spouse or your wife or whatever.

1103
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:22,559
Each piece is forged with reclaimed metals. It's very cool

1104
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,679
and she's doing a thing for us. If you use

1105
00:58:25,719 --> 00:58:28,440
the code fcol twenty, she'll give you twenty percent off.

1106
00:58:28,719 --> 00:58:31,159
That's an heatsy store. So just look up Gray by

1107
00:58:31,159 --> 00:58:36,519
tam Ramelo. Our friend Courtney Moore has i e Embroidery

1108
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:41,440
on Facebook and they do custom hats, polos, whatever, Get

1109
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,800
something embroidered. It's real cute. Yeah, that's good. It's good gift,

1110
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,840
really good gifts. A lot of our people do some

1111
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:52,400
good gifts like Basic Becky right, great gifts, Yeah, mousepad,

1112
00:58:52,679 --> 00:58:56,119
a mug, find a picture, send it to Becky at

1113
00:58:56,280 --> 00:59:00,079
just Basic Becky and she'll like make it for you. Yeah. Yeah.

1114
00:59:00,119 --> 00:59:03,199
So a lot of our people do charities, like our

1115
00:59:03,239 --> 00:59:07,920
friend Robin who does Popculture Rescue dot org. She got

1116
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:12,119
her sweet dog Bossco from Puff Culture Rescue and she

1117
00:59:12,159 --> 00:59:15,639
wants to like pay it forward and like, yes, donations

1118
00:59:15,639 --> 00:59:19,800
are all teppy deductible. There. Gabby, our friend Gabby is

1119
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:23,880
shouting out United farm Workers go to UfW dot org

1120
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:28,079
and it's the Labor Union for farm Workers. Thank you, Yabby,

1121
00:59:28,159 --> 00:59:32,320
we need our help. Friend of the show medium dot

1122
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:36,760
com at Unbecoming Stories, she's a brilliant writer. You will

1123
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,519
go crazy reading all the crazy stories about her ex

1124
00:59:39,599 --> 00:59:44,000
husband at Unbecoming Stories. Those are always good stories. Yeah,

1125
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:48,920
ex husband stories. Yes. Also podcasts family skeptical about raising

1126
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,639
kids without religion. So if you're any kind of like

1127
00:59:51,719 --> 00:59:53,840
non believer in just doing your own thing, why not

1128
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:57,079
listen to a podcast to back your shit up? Yeah?

1129
00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 2: Also Wilmanfrida, get yourself a salmon or a mimosa.

1130
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:09,159
Speaker 1: Yep, tell them we sent you mimosa or a latte. Yeah.

1131
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,159
Maren has a business called Sugar Skull. It's on the

1132
01:00:12,199 --> 01:00:16,360
island of Kawaii. But they can sell you like baked

1133
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:21,920
goods and gift stuff just through their website sugar Skull

1134
01:00:22,079 --> 01:00:25,440
eight O eight dot square dot site. And if you

1135
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:29,199
want to get to Hawaii, why not use Christine Black's

1136
01:00:29,239 --> 01:00:33,639
help yet Waves and Wonder Travel. I'm on Instagram She's

1137
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travel with Christine b or. Her email is Christina at

1138
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:42,880
Waves and Wonder Travel. Jacob Crowley ACLU Love Jacob doing

1139
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,719
the lord's work. Thank you Jacob for doing that. Shout

1140
01:00:45,719 --> 01:00:50,000
out and every episode Adam Lerner, Yes, love Adam, got

1141
01:00:50,039 --> 01:00:52,639
you your car? That my car? Yeah, I love it.

1142
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:57,599
Shopping us a car right now. If anybody's wondering why

1143
01:00:57,599 --> 01:01:00,239
I say that every week, it's only because we haven't

1144
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:05,039
turned in our least, so we're figuring out what we want. Anyway,

1145
01:01:05,079 --> 01:01:09,159
go to Adam's gotacar dot com. Nice, Thanks everybody, your

1146
01:01:09,239 --> 01:01:13,320
parents and Drunkish, Oh, Drunkish, please listen. Oh I have

1147
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:17,239
a really good Oh my god, Lynette. So the girl

1148
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:20,840
that shows out today, this is like a little bit

1149
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:25,239
of a spoiler, but she worked at a job for

1150
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:30,199
a long time with the Green and River Killer. What. Yes,

1151
01:01:30,639 --> 01:01:33,360
it's a little bit of a spoiler, but it's good

1152
01:01:33,719 --> 01:01:37,800
true crime adjacent. Wow. So listen to Drunkish today and

1153
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,039
I've got she's like a two parter. Yeah, yeah, you're

1154
01:01:41,119 --> 01:01:45,239
killing it. Go to YouTube. Subscribe on YouTube. Oh my god,

1155
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:49,039
please subscribe to you. Yeah, a drunkish podcast that would

1156
01:01:49,079 --> 01:01:52,199
really help us. We're posting all the episodes are on YouTube,

1157
01:01:52,559 --> 01:01:55,760
plus lots of clips and stories. It looks great. Yeah,

1158
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,480
thank you. Yeah, all right, everybody your parent now don't

1159
01:01:58,559 --> 01:02:05,239
f it up. Still let angle