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Speaker 1: I made de Sin Joe oh pace the sunniest sound.

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Speaker 2: I had a vision.

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Speaker 1: What's what's up?

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Speaker 2: Everybody, welcome to her crying out loud, It's gonna be

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a great show, and that I feel it.

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Speaker 1: Boom me too.

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Speaker 2: I feel cold in my bones is what I feel.

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Speaker 1: Boom boom. So I was telling Stephanie right before the

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show started, like now that I met the new condo.

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When I went there for the first time, I was

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by myself. So Olga lived there for so long. Now

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she's gone every day I've been there. Roberto and Alvaro

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been there. So the other day when I went for

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the first time to sleep, it was weird. It was

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just like because I so Adam and I broke up.

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He I was living with him. He helped, he put

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down the down payment. But then I made the payments

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for the condo okay, and did for the rest of

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our relationship, and and so I lived there when when

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we were broken up, and it was I just remember

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such those weird, bad memories of just being alone all

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the time, like just being lonely coming home from work,

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and you know, all my friends were just getting married

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or they were already married, and they were like you know,

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Gina Kimmel, who was like you know, who was really

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supportive to me and helped me like decorate the place

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and get it you know, blah blah blah. But also

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like on a Saturday, like what are you guys doing?

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We're going to the Man Show rap party, you know.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody's going, Melissa, everybody.

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Speaker 1: I can't go, you know, because we're broken up, and

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just all those like sad memories every morning, rolling over

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and calling Wendy first thing in the morning and just

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like before I'd go to work, just crying my eyes out,

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like are we ever gonna get back together? Do you think?

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Like Bob, just so sad and just getting having like

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so last So when I went there, I was like

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alone in there, walking up the stairs in my bedroom,

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like it just felt so weird but also happy though,

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like totally different. Like I wish I could tell my person,

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like my old self, Listen, you have a lot of

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years where it's like eh, but you're gonna get to

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be happy in the long run. It'll be okay. Like

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I wish I knew, I wish I would have. I

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wish you could tell your old self that. But anyway, Yeah,

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it's just I don't know, it's just it's it's it

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was interesting. I didn't even think I was going to

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feel those feelings, but you know, like it just came

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back and it was. But I love having my own

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place now that I can decorate and make it my own.

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And block had seen it. They, I mean, they know

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it's there, they know they haven't seen it yet. I

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want an Italia to help me, but she's so busy.

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I need her, like I would love to go furniture

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shopping with her, and she said she would so, But

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I have a feeling once she sees it, she's gonna

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be like, oh someday, you know. I don't know, but

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I'm glad I never sold it. And yeah, it's it's

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going to serve its purpose now, thank god. But yeah,

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I'm excited. I'm excited, But it's just weird old feelings. Yeah,

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waking up in that bedroom, you know, looking at the

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same ceiling, same window. You wake up and go okay,

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But I have like two grown kids. Yeah, things have changed,

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things have changed totally.

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Speaker 2: And maybe it helps that you don't have to sleep

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there that often.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, definitely, Yeah, it would be weird if I

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was there every eight. Yeah, it's but I'm enjoying it,

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like making it my own, and like, you know, it's

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just a whole blank canvas, Like I got to buy

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all this new furniture and rugs, and I need so

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much shit there shampoo, but yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: All of those things add up too. It's just like

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working that credit card because it's like, oh, we have

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a whole new room and it needs same rug. And

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then the kids are moving out of their rooms. First

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of all, Sadie and Xander's room that they share smells

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so bad. It smells like a crime scene. You can't

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like you you want to be like one of those

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detectives that puts like a cloth over your face to

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walk in there. I'm like, do they not smell it?

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Speaker 1: It's a combination. It really a lot of.

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Speaker 3: It is like bio and then the bo that's on

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their clothes that then just goes in their hamper, you know,

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is now just like stinking up the room. They also

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will wear something and it smells bio in the and

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they'll just like slide it under their bed.

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Speaker 1: Plus like old food and old drink. It's disgusting. Yeah,

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my god, this is horrifying. Sonny smells Sonny's room smells

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like a teenage boy. But what he does is he

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he thinks he's fooling people by putting on cologne, like

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he got cologne for Christmas. So he just smells like

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James baby Doll Dixon, you know, like just like Versachi cologne,

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you know, but like with bo right and sweat mixed

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in it. Like you know when you smell some kid's head,

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how you smell their heads smells smelling like that, but

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with then like some I don't know, Calvin Klein, I

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don't even know what it is, but it's just and

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he puts so much on. Oh I know, I know,

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this smells like a freaking like Yeah, the kids like

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the girls, they like the really heavy vanilla like Bath

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and Body sprays like vanilla sugar, the ones from Victoria's

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Secret or Bath and Body. Itally smells like a stripper. Yeah,

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it's so cloying. It's a terrible smell. I'm like lighting

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that ship. I get something with like a more citrusy

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right tone, very so strong, I know, I know, Yeah,

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she smells like Victoria's Secret, Like that's what strippers smell. Like,

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did you have calin No, No, did not know that. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The one stripper that I had when I back in

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the day had smelled like treysoors that. Oh yeah, yeah,

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pretty but also very strong, right, like very floral, right

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you know vanilla?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, did you ever wear Patuli?

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Speaker 1: No? I didn't. But do you remember when the Madonna

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album came out, the True Blue, I think, and it

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smelled like Petuli? No, it did either like a virgin

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or True Blue came out and the whole album smelled

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like Petuli. Really yes, And then everybody started wearing Pechuli. Oh,

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I don't remember that.

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Speaker 2: I had Petuli for a while, and Adam.

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Speaker 1: Was like, oh, I sellt like my mom, it's not

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my girlfriend down by the way, did I tell you this?

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Like she smells like an old grandma. She's where's this

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one perfume? I gotta find out the name of it

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it is to avoid it. Oh my god, it is

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the worst. And I tell Susanne I go when she

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came over after I got God blessed don she gotta

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get a different perfumes. His hand's like huh, I'm like,

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you don't fucking smell. It's like hit me right in

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the face when she walked in, Like it just smells

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like an old grandma's perfume. Oh and she's already aging

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herself by falling down the stairs and hitting her head

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and having a hippy place like yeah, you know, like

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she's already not in the great shape.

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Speaker 2: Come on, don like get a different like her perfume.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember when poison was a big one?

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Speaker 1: Yes, And I hate that smell was so bad and

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everybody was wearing it, and I would walk into a

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room and be like, oh, I don't like that smell. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: On Guys and Guys Yeah, and Polo Rolf Lauren, Yeah,

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oh that was good, and Pierre Cardan oh yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Sunny doesn't smell like that.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, because you got to be clean for it first, right,

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and you don't need to put so much on. But

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I've got to literally toss out, like Sadie and Xander

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have a rug because they track shit all over.

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Speaker 1: It and spill food on it. And it's like I'm

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not in their room like steam cleaning their rug, Like

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Speaker 3: That rug was probably a couple hundred bucks. It was

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years ago. I got to roll that thing up. You know, honestly,

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you could roll up a body in there and.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't write it, wouldn't You wouldn't be able to

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smell a difference, right, So got to get rid of that.

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LB's got to get rid of her rug. So we

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have to buy a rug for our new room, rugs

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for all the rooms. That's expensive, I know, go to

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that sale rug dot com. Yeah, yeah, I'm going to

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do that because order them all at the same time. Yeah,

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but you know you don't think about this betting like

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you know, you can order like your sheets or whatever

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from any of the great sponsors we use. But then

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you got to get a comforter right now if you

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want to get like a down comforter, which we have

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so we're upgrading to a king bed. So now we

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need all new stuff like new Dove, new comforter new

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right this that stuff adds up. I know I am

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borrowing Olga's duvet, like her comforter, her down comforter because

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we just went and have an extra one, so until

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I need to go on like a target run or something.

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oh and she said and betting. Yeah, and you can

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get them at Costco. Like there's the down comforters, there's

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the white Goose down comforters. I need that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they have it there.

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Speaker 1: Because I went to Bed Bath and Beyond. Do you

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know that they're going out of business?

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Speaker 2: They are.

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Speaker 1: Everything is being taken over by mail order stuff. Really,

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and mail order stuff is great, don't get me wrong,

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but sometimes you just need something like today, Yeah, I

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know you're like, well, no, I don't want I can't

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sleep in this room until I have a comforter, right,

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I can't be shopping around. I just want to go

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get one, right. I'm like Bed Bath and Beyond. The

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shelves are half empty. They only have should go there.

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They don't have a big selection, no, no, and the

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stuff they have is all of a sudden super overpriced,

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even though you can use a twenty percent off coupon.

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But I'm like a comforter.

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Speaker 2: There was like a comforter was like three hundred and

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fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: I was like, no, thanks, yeah, yeah, I want one

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for like sixty versus sixty dollars. Comforters good like trying

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to find somebody to help you there. I went to

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home goods. They had a very limited selection.

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Speaker 2: They do.

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Speaker 1: There's a home goods right by my house. Well, here's

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Speaker 3: You could buy a comforter, right But what I don't

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love about having a comforter is we have a dog,

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so the dog is going to sleep on the comforter.

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You have to wash those things, and you can't fit

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a whole ass king sized comforter in your washing machine,

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so I don't know how people wash it. Whereas a

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duvet cover, if you get a comforter and cover it

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with a duvet, you can take the duvet on and

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off and wash it, which I need to do, even

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though it is, of course the bane of my existence.

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Speaker 2: Is the worst chore in the entire world, the worst.

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Speaker 1: Got to psych myself up for an entire day to

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do it, but.

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Speaker 3: It's still better than what you did. How do people

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clean a can't size comforter? Would you bring it somewhere?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I would bring it to the dry cleaners and just

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tell them to do it. Yeah, I guess. Or you

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have to go to a laundrymat, or you go to

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a laundry mat. I haven't been to a laundry mat.

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and dryer thing situation? Then, right, so ours is like

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extra because we have so much clothes in that house.

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Speaker 2: So we got extra big so it could wash.

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Speaker 1: I think it could wash a large king size comforter. Yeah,

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well ours can't. Yeah certain washing machines. Yeah yeah, you

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these are the This is the thinking that you do

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when you go from place to place. When you go

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and I'm going to grab a mattress pad, one set

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of sheets to get us started, and a comforter, and

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then you come home with none of the buddy, now,

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you know, you go to four stores and you're like, well,

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I still can't sleep on this bed yet, you know.

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I know, luckily we have sheets from the house that

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I took, but we don't have a comforter.

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Speaker 2: I had to borrow all it is. We have lots

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of sheets, We've got our brook linen stuff.

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and not fit furking, not fit fur king. It's just

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oh my god, I know, we talked about this on

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Tuesday's show, but it's just everything feels.

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Speaker 2: Like it feels like there's all these.

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Speaker 1: Boulders rolling down a hill and I have to go wait, wait,

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you hold a lot. I know.

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Speaker 3: So Sadie has been going to the dermatologist. Alb I

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gave up on her skin worked itself out, but Sadie's

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been going to this dermatologist who I don't really like

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because every time we go there it's eighty bucks. And

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they started her on something a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. It didn't really work.

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Speaker 3: So I ended up calling them and being like, hey,

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her skin looks worse than ever. Can we come in

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a little bit earlier than our next appointment. Go in

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and the she's like, yeah, well you didn't really give

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it enough time to work, and it always gets a

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little worse before it gets better.

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Speaker 2: All right, So down that's another eighty bucks.

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Speaker 1: Come back in like six weeks and hear, do this

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and take this, take a round of antibiotic to clear

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the skin. Okay, well the antibiotic worked, but then once

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she stopped the antibiotic, it came right back. So then

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we go in again and she's like, well, are you

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using the stuff like every day she does, saying it's

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really good about that stuff, Yeah she is. Okay, well,

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I'm going to give you another round of antibiotics. You're

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gonna take it for six weeks and then you're gonna

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come back in. So like she's been taking an antibiotic,

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her skin's still shitty.

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Speaker 3: It's like, how about whatever you're using isn't working, right? Like,

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can we now that we've spent hundreds of dollars right?

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that is because she supposedly had we're recording on Tuesday.

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She had an appointment today after school, so yesterday when

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they called me to confirm, I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, you know, let me move that back a few weeks.

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And I think I'm just gonna go somewhere else. Yeah,

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try someplace else my losses. Yeah, honestly, it's just the

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mask thing. Every day. I think I think it's like,

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you know, obviously kids, teens are prone to breaking out,

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but then you gotta put the mask on all day,

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like it's like a pressure cooker under there. You know,

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it's you gotta take that into consideration. Yeah, that is true.

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Speaker 2: It's just sucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's one of the things why my kids

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hate school too, they have to sit there with that

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mask on. Uh yeah, Wait, California is getting rid of

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the mask mandate, although not La not California, really what

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the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And Jersey's getting rid of in school masks Jersey, Delaware,

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like some Connecticut. Yeah, there's like four places that are

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getting rid of the.

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Speaker 2: Masks in school.

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Speaker 3: Well, we'll see, we'll see if they have more outbreaks.

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I don't know anymore. I don't even have an opinion

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on it any at this point. I mean, you know,

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Ilbie had it, it was no symptoms as well, and

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Sadie and Xander have never had it, and now they're boosted.

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But I'm hoping that that means if they do get it,

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they'll have like very few symptoms as well.

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Speaker 2: Right right, Yeah, I know what happened to Heather.

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Speaker 1: This is why I was going to ask you what

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happened to Heather McDonald. I don't know. I don't know

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any more than you do. She fell down on stage,

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she fainted, that's it. That's that's all I know. M

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Maybe her some of her listeners can give us the

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jusiest scoop. Yeah boom, boom. So Sonny has been invited to.

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So he went snowboarding with his friends, oh, like his

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one family over the weekend. And it's funny because the

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kid that he went with is on a snowboarding team

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because his dad. His parents are divorced, and the dad

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goes like every other every time he has the boys,

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he takes them up to Big Bear and they go like, sorry, snowboarding.

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Speaker 2: And uh, and so he's so anyway, he joined like.

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Speaker 1: A team and he's really good, and he's asked Sonny

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to go with them a bunch of times. So finally

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Sonny went. And then I was talking to him about it,

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and I know, I know Sonny, and he was like, yeah,

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you know, it's really hard at first. It's like, you know,

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when you go skiing, you got to it's a lot

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of work. There's like, you know, you got to put

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the boots on and you can't. It's awkward. It's weird

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feeling you can't move. And but he liked it. He said,

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the first day, I was like, be honest, were you thinking,

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like what the fuck did I get myself into? He's

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like yes, But he's like then once I got used

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to it, he.

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Speaker 2: Got the hang of it.

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Speaker 1: And by the second day he was much better and

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he could see.

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Speaker 2: He's like, even if I did get the hang of it.

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Speaker 1: On the first day, I was thinking, like, even if

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I did get it, like, what's the big deal, Like,

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it's not that much fun, He's like. But then the

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second day I did it more and more and I

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was like, oh, okay, this is fun. You know. So

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I said, would you go again? And he said yeah,

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And in fact, they invited him to go. I guess

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during the spring they're going to like, I don't know

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France or somewhat. Yeah. I love the fact that you're like,

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it could be palm Springs. You're like, I don't know France. Well,

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they said, first they said Switzerland, then they said France.

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And this family travels a lot. They go like, they

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go to Europe a lot. European there this is not no, no, no, no, no.

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Didn't they live in Switzerland.

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Speaker 2: They moved, that's right, they moved.

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Speaker 1: They moved.

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Speaker 2: They moved to France. Okay, yeah, so you can see

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how I would make that mistake. Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I can't even believe remember that. Yeah, wrapping the gift

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and the Trader drill. No, but I totally forgot that

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that family moved. You're right, yes, yeah, No, it's not

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pew peugh.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: Now this is he's been friends with this kids in

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second grade. But they travel. They're like this European family

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that goes, you know, like it's no big deal.

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Speaker 2: And so so was the dad remarried, No, but he

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just he does the traveling.

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Speaker 1: Both they used to both of them as a family,

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but I think the dad does it more. Yeah, Okay,

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it's like four boys in the family too. The mom

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is tired, doesn't want to fucking do all that traveling,

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right right, But the dad, yeah.

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Speaker 2: You could go get it.

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Speaker 1: He wouldn't add a friend, Like he's got already got

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four boys to take. Well, two of the boys are

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older now, so now it's just more of Sonny's friend.

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Speaker 2: And then he's got a younger brother.

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Speaker 1: So he Yeah, so they invited Sonny and he's like, so,

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now Sonny's got to go get a passport. And I'm like, oh,

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here we go. You know, it's like this whole Kashaw

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got to find out where.

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Speaker 2: To go and what to do, and mom blah blah.

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Speaker 1: But luckily Suzanne, she got Gracie a passport recently, so

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she knows just go to like Burbank whatever office. But

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of course she sends me the link and I click

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on it to start to fill out forms, and it's like, yeah,

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our server's down, so come back again later. I'm like,

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and it's coming up, like it's kind of quick. It's

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coming up in April. They're going, oh, so you have

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to do a like an express. I'm gonna have to

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probably do. Yeah, I have to figure out when they're Yeah,

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as soon as I start thinking about just documents.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I know. It was hard enough getting Natalia's all her

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shit together to get to the DMV to get her drivers. Like, hey,

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but since I just did that, now I remembered where

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I put everything, and Sunny stuff is right there too,

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so it's not as hard I have all their stuff.

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But still it's just how do people that are not organized?

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It's like what do they do? Like, Thank god, I

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have a filing cabinet where I put all that stuff,

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which I'm sure everybody else does too. But yeah, I mean,

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it's just another whole thing that I gotta do. And

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I gotta take Natalia back to the DMV and have

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her go for her license, again.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, when are you Does she have an appointment

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for that yet?

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Speaker 1: No, you said we could make an appointment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or you could just go in I guess like

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you did last time. I mean, we're just gonna go

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in on Thursday this week.

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Speaker 3: This is so my life right now. It's like I

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have to do this. I have to work around all

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of their schedules.

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Speaker 1: That's the other thing. I know my own schedule, right,

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And then you know, they go, oh, I need to

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Like I said, I moved Sadie's dermatology so that I

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don't have that like crushing down on me like this afternoon,

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because it's always freaking something I know, I know. And

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bus plus these two they're at the orthodontis like every

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other day between the team of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I say, driving me nuts.

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Speaker 1: And my kids.

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Speaker 3: First of all, Xander's teeth are like they're already straight,

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like right now, I'm telling you that his teeth could

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not be any straight or they've been the same way

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for a long time. And sadies are not getting sadies

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are like gaps everywhere. It's so weird, Like I'm like,

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how come her teeth? I remember Xander's teeth got straight

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very quickly from races, and so did Elbie's and Sadie's

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that she's had her braces on for two.

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Speaker 1: Years and it's they look the same. I don't you

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know what I mean? And you can't you feel like

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you can't be like, hey, what's the deal with her teeth?

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How come they're not? I don't know. They're gonna be like,

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what are you an orthodonis? Now I'm gonna go no,

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But I have some feelings about it. I have eyes.

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Speaker 2: What's the deal with their teeth?

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Speaker 1: I know? I know, Like I feel like Sonny's had

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his things on for so long. I'm like, one, is

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he gonna be done? Is there straight? I know he's done.

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Take them off? Yeah, I just freaking get appliers to

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take them off. I know, Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: And then Xander he's broken a couple of brackets, and

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now I live in fear because they're like, oh, next time,

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if he breaks another bracket, you're gonna have to pay

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a fine.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't make the the braces.

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Speaker 1: He's not doing anything, like maybe he just has shitty

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brackets on his teeth. They try to blame the kids.

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I'm like, listen, I'm already paying a lot of money.

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Let's start like he's not doing It's not like he's

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eating jawbreakers lunch, Like what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, threatening me with like a fee.

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If he breaks another bracket, well then guess what an

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I just won't tell you.

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Speaker 1: Then they're going to find out. I mean, I know

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every freaking day. I should show you my schedule. It

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probably I'm sure they have an orthodonos s to put

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every week one or the other, like it's it's just

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a rotating door.

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Speaker 3: It used to be we would try to figure out

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the timing for feeding schedules, and now it's figuring out

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the timing. It's like one of them gets off schedule

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and it sucks up your entire life.

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Speaker 2: Now you got to go back twice in one week.

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Speaker 1: Yep, it sucks. Yeah, I know, oh yeah, and I

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00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,400
have to send John.

468
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,319
Speaker 3: And then, like the glasses thing I was telling you

469
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,200
that I'll be was like I need glasses and I

470
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,319
didn't want to go back to the place we went before.

471
00:24:37,079 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: This is how I found a new one. You wish

472
00:24:41,279 --> 00:24:44,039
you could just ask another mom, but everybody's got a

473
00:24:44,039 --> 00:24:46,480
different story, right, So you're like, hey, where do you

474
00:24:46,519 --> 00:24:47,519
get your kid's glasses.

475
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,559
Speaker 3: Well, my kid is only far sighted, so they don't.

476
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,240
I'm like, right, then, somebody's like, we just go to Costco.

477
00:24:55,039 --> 00:24:59,759
Speaker 1: I can barely handle costcout is, let alone the the

478
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:05,119
Tommentry apartment. Immediately, my brain just goes, I have a

479
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,680
feeling you need an appointment for that. Yes, yes, And

480
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,799
then I just feel like it's going to be somebody

481
00:25:10,839 --> 00:25:13,359
from like, you know, the wine department that just comes

482
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,079
over and goes, I think I can.

483
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:22,279
Speaker 3: Use the eye machine feels irresponsible. Yes, it's fine, but

484
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,200
like you know something that I'm like, go on YELP.

485
00:25:26,519 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: While I'm on YELP, I'm like, let me look up

486
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,799
the bad reviews from the place I went before.

487
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,279
Speaker 2: Sure enough, there's even more. There's newer ones that are

488
00:25:34,279 --> 00:25:35,680
like this guy's a thief.

489
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,279
Speaker 1: Like interesting, Oh, and the guy argues with everybody who

490
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,200
leaves a bad review. He goes on there and insults them.

491
00:25:43,559 --> 00:25:46,920
And one person put up oh my god, I should

492
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,960
show you this, Kaylin, will you post will you put

493
00:25:50,039 --> 00:25:54,359
up city eyes in Van eyes? I gotta show you this.

494
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,279
One woman posted text messages the guy, the owner of

495
00:25:57,319 --> 00:26:01,079
the store, started sending her texts really, and she was

496
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,039
writing back like, dude, this is really unprofessional to argue

497
00:26:04,039 --> 00:26:05,279
with her about her YELP review.

498
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,079
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

499
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,279
Speaker 1: He started texting her and like arguing with her about it. Wow,

500
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,359
this place is crazy. Wow.

501
00:26:11,599 --> 00:26:13,799
Speaker 3: Remember I told you about this visit though, and Elbie

502
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,640
was getting so uncomfortable because I was like, I do

503
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,599
think that's covered.

504
00:26:17,799 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: And I told them I felt pressured. They tried to

505
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,880
put a year's context. So yeah, look at this. Look

506
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,079
at these texts. Can you make it big? Oh? Those

507
00:26:26,079 --> 00:26:27,160
are the text messages?

508
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,079
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my god.

509
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: If if you did, you would have singled my family

510
00:26:35,319 --> 00:26:38,559
out as simply basically, the guy was saying like, you're

511
00:26:38,599 --> 00:26:41,200
the reason I don't take medical anymore. You're the reason

512
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,480
I'm not going to take medical anymore. People like you?

513
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:49,240
Oh really Yeah? And then it's this is the woman

514
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,119
writing back to him his text, it's really ridiculous that

515
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,480
you feel the need. Yeah.

516
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,799
Speaker 2: So I was looking for a better exchange between the.

517
00:26:56,799 --> 00:27:00,839
Speaker 1: Two of them. Uh yeah, look at all these one

518
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,799
star reviews. Why didn't I look at this first before

519
00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:10,000
I went there? Look at that. Wow, he's writing he's

520
00:27:10,079 --> 00:27:13,000
yelling at people. Okay, So I'm like, so I start

521
00:27:13,039 --> 00:27:16,720
reading that to entertain myself. And then I see somebody

522
00:27:16,799 --> 00:27:19,960
who's like, this guy tries to overcharge and they claim

523
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,759
your insurance does it cover it? And then they said

524
00:27:21,799 --> 00:27:22,200
there's this.

525
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 3: Other place called blah blah blah right down the street.

526
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,640
It was like Vision Eyes of whatever. And I was like, oh, let.

527
00:27:28,559 --> 00:27:29,559
Speaker 2: Me call them, right.

528
00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: I called them and I go, hey, we used to

529
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,000
go to City Eyes but they sucked. And I go

530
00:27:35,039 --> 00:27:37,039
and I was reading their bad yell reviews and somebody

531
00:27:37,079 --> 00:27:39,680
loved you guys, so we're gonna try you out. It

532
00:27:39,759 --> 00:27:40,480
was really funny.

533
00:27:40,559 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

534
00:27:41,279 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: They're like great, yeah, but of course they had like

535
00:27:44,319 --> 00:27:49,480
no appointments. I'm like three weeks, Yeah, it's gonna work

536
00:27:49,559 --> 00:27:51,880
that day. And they're like, well we're not open this day.

537
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,440
And I'm like, okay, LB, I got you an appointment,

538
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,359
but it's not for a few weeks. Just try not

539
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:03,319
to use your eyes until then. Exactly. I know everything

540
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,839
that I want to do I want to do that day. Yeah,

541
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,480
Like I'm like, I got a window for two hours,

542
00:28:08,559 --> 00:28:10,920
let's get your eyes chat, you know. But it never

543
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:11,839
just doesn't work.

544
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,039
Speaker 2: That way, right, No, I know, you always got to

545
00:28:14,039 --> 00:28:14,880
make an appointment.

546
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: I know, said he was like, let's just go get

547
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,680
my my my passport.

548
00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 2: Now, like the night that I was taking him to.

549
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:25,519
Speaker 1: Go buy clothes for He's like, we'll just stop. He

550
00:28:25,559 --> 00:28:28,920
goes there's a place ups at the they do passports.

551
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:30,440
I see it in the window every time I'm on

552
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,359
my walk. They said passport, So let's just go there,

553
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,680
and I'm like, no, it's not, it's not.

554
00:28:35,839 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 2: You can't just what shut up? You can't just go

555
00:28:39,319 --> 00:28:42,480
to the passport I got. I'm sure I gotta bring shit.

556
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,160
I don't know what I'm supposed to bring. And he's like, well,

557
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,279
just let's call him.

558
00:28:47,359 --> 00:28:47,559
Speaker 1: You know.

559
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,319
Speaker 2: Of course it doesn't work that way.

560
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, John and I had to renew our passports. Oh

561
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,599
a couple of years ago when we went to Canada.

562
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,079
Speaker 1: Uh huh. It was a whole ordeal.

563
00:28:57,559 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you get to gather a lot of documents. It

564
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,880
took like three hours at the place we have to.

565
00:29:02,039 --> 00:29:03,359
You know, it's worse.

566
00:29:03,119 --> 00:29:05,839
Speaker 1: Than the DMV because you stand in a big line

567
00:29:06,519 --> 00:29:09,359
just to get the information and so they can check documents.

568
00:29:09,759 --> 00:29:11,960
Then they send you to another area where you sit

569
00:29:12,039 --> 00:29:14,279
in chairs and like wait for your name to be called.

570
00:29:14,599 --> 00:29:17,279
Then you get like basically interviewed, like you're on trot

571
00:29:17,359 --> 00:29:23,200
you know. Oh boy, they make you do a polygraph test, right,

572
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:29,759
and that's just to go to Canada. So I because yeah,

573
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,680
it's a I don't think you can just go to

574
00:29:32,799 --> 00:29:36,160
Uh can I get a passport? Here's a copy of

575
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:40,720
my utility bill? Right you? Here's this, here's this report card,

576
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,920
here's the show that he lives in the neighborhood. Yeah

577
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,559
that's not here's a spectrum bill.

578
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, now that's right, not right, happen FIR certificate.

579
00:29:52,039 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: I have all but I have all this stuff, but

580
00:29:54,119 --> 00:29:56,680
I should do it. Suzanne told me what to do.

581
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,920
So I'm it's gonna do it. Is it passport office

582
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,039
or is it like a post It's a passport office.

583
00:30:04,039 --> 00:30:07,039
Speaker 2: But she said, download the PDF file.

584
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,839
Speaker 1: Fill that out first, then call and make an appointment.

585
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,000
She's like, you got to make an appointment. It's at Burbank,

586
00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:18,200
somewhere in Burbank. Okay, some office in Burbank. So I'll

587
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,920
figure it out. Yeah, I'll do it too. Yeah not

588
00:30:21,559 --> 00:30:25,519
like today, No, no, because today's not your two hour window.

589
00:30:25,839 --> 00:30:30,759
No no, Well I also have like fifteen million podcasts.

590
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.

591
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,319
Speaker 1: Like I got to watch I do like the fact

592
00:30:34,319 --> 00:30:36,799
that my job is like I have I'm sorry, well

593
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:37,640
I'm not available.

594
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: I have to watch The Bachelor, right, Please, You're gonna

595
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,119
have to handle life yourself.

596
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: I'm watching The Bachelor right now for work. Right.

597
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,839
Speaker 1: Are you watching You Married at First Sight? No? I

598
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:57,079
should though, huh it's it's a good season. Okay, I'm

599
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,000
enjoying it. Oh and Joe Millionaire, I'm like an episode

600
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:00,839
behind on that.

601
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: Oh, I should watch that too.

602
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: It's good.

603
00:31:03,359 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, it's good. Yeah.

604
00:31:05,279 --> 00:31:07,119
Speaker 1: And also, how am I supposed to schedule in all

605
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,200
my TV shows and podcasts? Right?

606
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 2: I need a podcast to listen to.

607
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: I finished the Dropout, which they're coming April now, March

608
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,200
third on Hulu.

609
00:31:18,359 --> 00:31:21,079
Speaker 2: Amanda Seafreed or whatever Yes is playing.

610
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,039
Speaker 1: Yeah. I heard.

611
00:31:22,079 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: She does the voice really well.

612
00:31:23,519 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. She but when she talks like this, yeah, this

613
00:31:26,799 --> 00:31:29,200
is so what you're gonna look for.

614
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, her voice is. We got the new machines in

615
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,960
and I really wanted them to work for people.

616
00:31:36,119 --> 00:31:37,119
Speaker 1: Total what is that?

617
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: I don't know.

618
00:31:38,119 --> 00:31:42,839
Speaker 1: But she's going to jail she is m yeah, oh wow,

619
00:31:42,839 --> 00:31:45,079
that's what the experts are. Yeah, I mean I don't

620
00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:50,559
think she hasn't been sentenced yet. Oh but it's three

621
00:31:50,599 --> 00:31:54,720
to ten years. Yeah, she's gonna go to jail. So

622
00:31:54,759 --> 00:31:56,519
now I need another podcast to listen to.

623
00:31:57,519 --> 00:31:58,119
Speaker 2: What do you got?

624
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think what. I listen to stuff and

625
00:32:02,279 --> 00:32:07,000
then I'm so bad. Our people are always suggesting things

626
00:32:07,079 --> 00:32:09,960
and then I listen to them and then I don't like,

627
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,319
like halfway through, I'm like I'm bored. Yeah, and then

628
00:32:12,359 --> 00:32:13,359
I take them off my thing.

629
00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: Right? Uh? Oh I am. I did start a podcast

630
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,000
called Wild Boys.

631
00:32:20,519 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 3: Okay, this is pretty good. Wild Boys it's about these

632
00:32:24,839 --> 00:32:27,079
two brothers who.

633
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,559
Speaker 1: Were like living in the woods, kind of off the grid,

634
00:32:30,319 --> 00:32:34,279
and they claim that their parents were like living underground

635
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,799
and they weren't. They didn't never went to school, and

636
00:32:40,079 --> 00:32:43,000
there's something is very very off about their story. We're

637
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,839
going to find out that that's not true, but these

638
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,240
people that you find that out early on, so it's

639
00:32:48,279 --> 00:32:52,200
not really a spoiler. But there's been like three episodes

640
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:57,200
out so far. Oh heyman, there's only a few episodes out.

641
00:32:58,079 --> 00:32:59,960
Court Junkie is really good. Do you listen to it?

642
00:33:00,119 --> 00:33:02,599
Speaker 2: Remember we had Jillian on. Yeah, I should listen to that.

643
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:07,079
Speaker 3: It's really good. I like that podcast. Then I started

644
00:33:07,079 --> 00:33:13,960
this one called Culpable. That's old and it was good.

645
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,039
Speaker 1: For like the first few episodes, and then I was like, man,

646
00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:17,920
they are dragging the story out.

647
00:33:19,279 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 2: Is it one story? It's one story? Oh, I like

648
00:33:23,759 --> 00:33:24,759
a one story thing.

649
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could try it. See if you like it. Culpable.

650
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:28,799
Here's what it looks like.

651
00:33:31,039 --> 00:33:34,319
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So I.

652
00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:37,119
Speaker 3: Have one little story for you before we wrap up.

653
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:42,440
So Sadie's IEP meeting. So today's Tuesday.

654
00:33:42,519 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: We're recording and you guys are listening to this on Friday.

655
00:33:46,759 --> 00:33:49,519
So her meeting is Wednesday. It's tomorrow.

656
00:33:50,279 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 3: But so your kids have official i EPs. Yeah right,

657
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,640
because so Sadie used to have one, right, So I

658
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,400
made as you know, I made them go through all

659
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:07,319
the testing and ms Koontz yes, was like why are

660
00:34:07,359 --> 00:34:10,079
you You shouldn't compare your kids like I have any

661
00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:12,559
one kid and I don't compare them, you know, constantly

662
00:34:12,639 --> 00:34:15,199
hitting me with like I'm sure she's she's doing.

663
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: Fine in school, you know.

664
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: So I call like a really good friend of mine

665
00:34:21,519 --> 00:34:24,440
who works as a speech pathologist, was like, get a

666
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,280
copy of the report. I asked her if she thought

667
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,960
I needed an advocate, and a lot of you guys

668
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,280
are screaming right now. Yes, you need an advocate, but

669
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,599
I don't know that she's going to end up. I

670
00:34:35,679 --> 00:34:38,320
really wanted it to see if she if they can.

671
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: Spot any processing stuff or ADHD or some stuff that

672
00:34:44,199 --> 00:34:47,559
through their testing to save me like seven thousand dollars

673
00:34:47,599 --> 00:34:50,280
in private testing. I thought we'd do this first. I

674
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,800
wasn't really expecting them to give her like a full

675
00:34:53,599 --> 00:34:54,840
IEP services.

676
00:34:56,039 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 3: I know I can get a five oh four to

677
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,519
get her accommodations. The reason I can do that is

678
00:35:01,559 --> 00:35:05,480
because she has the diagnosed anxiety and depression, so they

679
00:35:05,519 --> 00:35:07,880
have to make accommodations on a five o four for that,

680
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,039
they don't necessarily have to give her services like she

681
00:35:11,039 --> 00:35:14,519
would have to need something right like speech or you

682
00:35:14,559 --> 00:35:15,159
know something.

683
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so I.

684
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 3: Was already, but you still don't expect them to be

685
00:35:19,519 --> 00:35:20,639
fucking rude about it?

686
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:21,159
Speaker 1: Is the thing?

687
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: Well, of course, so I called.

688
00:35:23,159 --> 00:35:26,559
Speaker 1: So this is going to irritate you to no end

689
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,239
for me, irritate everybody. And I don't even have I

690
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:31,960
haven't even had the meeting yet, so I'll have more

691
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:36,400
to complain about afterward. But my friend is like, if

692
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,039
in order for me to determine if you need an

693
00:35:39,199 --> 00:35:41,480
let me see the report. Because they had done all

694
00:35:41,519 --> 00:35:44,239
her testing and scheduled the ep meeting. She's like, can

695
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,239
you get me a copy of the report? I was like, oh,

696
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,199
let me ask them. I was like, I'm one hundred

697
00:35:48,199 --> 00:35:50,079
percent sure this woman's going to be a total cunt

698
00:35:50,079 --> 00:35:50,480
about it.

699
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:54,159
Speaker 2: Though, right, like there will be no surprise there.

700
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: But of course she'll first she'll say no, right, And

701
00:35:59,079 --> 00:36:01,960
my friend's like, my friend, Laura, She's like, well, they can't.

702
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,760
They can't just say no. There's a reason they shouldn't

703
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,719
give it to you. And I go, oh, they'll find

704
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,800
a reason, mark my words. So she goes, we'll ask them.

705
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,719
So I email the woman, Miss Coots, and I'm like, hey,

706
00:36:14,679 --> 00:36:19,239
can I wanted to show the report. I want to

707
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,320
show that all the test results to my advocate to

708
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,960
see if I want to have her in the meeting

709
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,480
with me. Can I get a copy of them? So

710
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,079
she writes me back, I'll give you a copy of

711
00:36:31,119 --> 00:36:38,519
them four days before the meeting. Right, Why why why that?

712
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,679
Why not just send it to me? You have it,

713
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,679
they're all done or whatever. Okay. So I go, okay, thanks,

714
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:51,000
So sorry, our friend Julie Cayson calling me. So I

715
00:36:51,039 --> 00:36:54,760
was like, okay, so yesterday would have been two days

716
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,519
before the meeting.

717
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 3: Still no day, she didn't send me the report. I said,

718
00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:59,960
should I follow up with you? And like when it's

719
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,960
four days before? She goes, no, no, no, I'll get it

720
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:05,920
to you four days before. So two days before was yesterday.

721
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,599
I sent her an email. I was like, Hey, it's

722
00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:11,920
now two days before our meetings and I really need

723
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:12,840
the report.

724
00:37:13,039 --> 00:37:15,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can show it to my advocate. Fuck.

725
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,519
Speaker 3: So I get a phone call from the school and

726
00:37:19,559 --> 00:37:25,400
it's Ms. Coon's just bitchier tone than ever with the

727
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,800
school psychologists in the background, and she's like, Hi, is

728
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,880
this miss miss Taylor you know, blah blah blah, And

729
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:37,239
she says, yeah, you had asked me for a copy

730
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,559
of the test results.

731
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: When I got your email. And she's like, but you

732
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,280
never signed on the forms, you never requested a copy

733
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,880
of the test results, so.

734
00:37:49,599 --> 00:37:51,800
Speaker 2: What is happening? What the fuck?

735
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: And I was in the car when she and I

736
00:37:55,639 --> 00:37:58,000
was what are they trying to coming back from a

737
00:37:58,039 --> 00:38:00,599
frustrating trip to bed Beth and beyond was in no

738
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:07,039
mood for this cancer, right, So I'm like, uh, yeah,

739
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:13,119
I don't remember ever being offered a place to request

740
00:38:13,519 --> 00:38:16,840
the results. I came in, I signed some papers and

741
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,199
gave information about my kid. No where nowhere was I ever.

742
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 2: And I was like, anyway, whatever are you not?

743
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,679
Speaker 1: Are you saying you won't give it to me? She goes, no,

744
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,360
we'll give it to you. I can get it for you.

745
00:38:28,519 --> 00:38:33,119
She goes, but not until like tonight, No, not until tomorrow.

746
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,239
She goes, I'll get it for you tomorrow. I said, well,

747
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,239
that's not going to give me much time to have

748
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,199
somebody to look it over.

749
00:38:38,519 --> 00:38:42,199
Speaker 2: Right. She goes, Wow, Well, I don't know what to

750
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:42,599
tell you.

751
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 3: She's like, but you know what, I will tell you

752
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,280
that your daughter is not going to she doesn't qualify

753
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,559
for any she's doing well in her classes.

754
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,199
Speaker 1: She starts that shit again, she goes, and she doesn't.

755
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,840
She's not going to show she's not going to be

756
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,719
qualifying for an I E P. And I was like,

757
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,719
she's so aggressive in her tone. So I'm like, oh, okay,

758
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,480
Like I don't. I'm like in my mind, I'm like,

759
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:10,639
is this the IEP meeting? Give me the like what

760
00:39:10,679 --> 00:39:11,239
are you doing?

761
00:39:11,599 --> 00:39:13,679
Speaker 3: So I have no respect? I just go okay, and

762
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:21,239
she goes, it's good news. I'm not kidding. I could

763
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,000
not make this up.

764
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,519
Speaker 2: Well, I guess how you look at it?

765
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: What I go?

766
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 3: Okay, I was like, I go, I don't really know

767
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,960
what to say to that. I go because I haven't

768
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:39,360
seen any of her test results.

769
00:39:39,599 --> 00:39:43,599
Speaker 1: She's like, well, she's doing well. So then the school psychologist,

770
00:39:43,639 --> 00:39:46,519
who must know that this she's dealing, she must know

771
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,559
how this woman comes across, right.

772
00:39:48,679 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 2: She's like missus Taylor.

773
00:39:51,199 --> 00:39:53,599
Speaker 3: She's got a very thick accent, which I'm not going

774
00:39:53,679 --> 00:39:58,920
to imitate. But she's like, I can tell you, uh something,

775
00:39:59,519 --> 00:40:02,800
you know, I said something to the effective. I go,

776
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,840
but I do want to know regardless, you know, yes

777
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,239
her what the results were for the ADHD and the

778
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:16,639
processing speeds. So she's so the psychologist says, well, you know,

779
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,599
basically tells me she didn't show any she does not

780
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,239
show ADHD and she doesn't show Oh.

781
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: She said, well, one of the tests she scored low

782
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:32,199
for listening auditory processing, but her visual processing is really good.

783
00:40:34,199 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well, let's back up for a second.

784
00:40:36,519 --> 00:40:39,239
So one of them was low. She's like yeah, but

785
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,320
then on another.

786
00:40:40,039 --> 00:40:43,280
Speaker 1: Type of test she tested high she's like, so she

787
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:44,440
won't get services for that.

788
00:40:45,559 --> 00:40:47,519
Speaker 2: Are we having the IEP meeting right now?

789
00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 1: That's what I said. I go, okay, so do we

790
00:40:50,199 --> 00:40:52,639
is this? Are you just telling me the results right now?

791
00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:54,559
She goes, oh, no, no, no, we still are having

792
00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:57,039
the meeting, but I'm just telling you that that's what

793
00:40:57,039 --> 00:40:58,320
you're going to find out in the meeting.

794
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 2: And she's totally adversarial about it.

795
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: So I go, oh my god, Okay, I go, I

796
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,960
still want to see the report. She goes, okay, well,

797
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:13,119
we'll get it to you tomorrow. This is insane. So

798
00:41:13,199 --> 00:41:16,480
I got I did get the report, but it's really

799
00:41:16,519 --> 00:41:19,760
it's like twenty seven pages long, and it includes a

800
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:25,119
lot of like reports from not their testing so much

801
00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:28,440
as like stuff that I told them when I met

802
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,400
with them, and like old report cards that showed like

803
00:41:31,639 --> 00:41:34,440
good things that the teacher said, you know what I mean,

804
00:41:34,519 --> 00:41:38,480
Like they cherry picked like stuff to show that she's

805
00:41:38,519 --> 00:41:41,559
doing well. And I'm like, whatever, it doesn't really even

806
00:41:41,599 --> 00:41:46,639
matter because I'm going to get accommodations on the five

807
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,199
oh four plan. I'm sure a lot of people here

808
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:54,000
can understand my frustration. So then, but the thing is,

809
00:41:54,039 --> 00:41:56,880
like she takes sometimes three hours to do her homework,

810
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,039
something that would take Xander fifteen minutes. So there's some

811
00:42:00,119 --> 00:42:02,480
thing going on. I may have to just do some

812
00:42:02,599 --> 00:42:06,559
private testing to find out how to help her, you know,

813
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,360
and I'll have I'm not going to fight with the school.

814
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: There's no reason. There's just right. They're so unhelpful.

815
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 3: I don't And I know some people are going to

816
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,119
be like, you got to get a lawyer and you

817
00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:17,639
got to see them. But I don't care because I

818
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:19,639
don't think that they're they're going to give her good

819
00:42:19,679 --> 00:42:21,679
services anyway, even if it's free.

820
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't want it. They don't care, they don't care,

821
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,599
they think they're All they want to do is tell

822
00:42:26,639 --> 00:42:29,639
me she's doing great. Yeah, right? Is it because they

823
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,519
don't have services to go like? No, I think they do.

824
00:42:33,679 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 3: I just think to get services through la USD, your

825
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,400
kid has to be really showing major problems, major deficits.

826
00:42:40,639 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: They're not going to give services to a kid who's

827
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,159
getting a's and b's in her classes.

828
00:42:45,199 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 2: They just feel like she's not enough behind.

829
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,639
Speaker 1: It's the kind of thing that I have to deal with,

830
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:56,239
right right, And it's it's fine. It's just their approach

831
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,119
is so god off. Yes. Yes. So then today, on

832
00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:05,639
my way here, like the school nurse calls me and.

833
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: Is like, Hi, yes, so we have an IEP meeting

834
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,480
for your daughter tomorrow. Can you tell me why she's

835
00:43:14,159 --> 00:43:16,760
having an i EP meeting? I need to put it

836
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:17,639
in a I was.

837
00:43:17,599 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: Like, what, what if this has been going on for months?

838
00:43:22,039 --> 00:43:25,360
I said, no, I can't. I said, it's I already

839
00:43:25,559 --> 00:43:26,800
saw the report.

840
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 2: Right, what do you mean why?

841
00:43:29,039 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: She's like, well, is it for academic? Is it for

842
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:38,320
social emotional? And I was like, both, is your daughter

843
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:42,760
on any medications? I was like, listen, it's all in

844
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,320
the report. I've already seen the report. It's all in there,

845
00:43:46,639 --> 00:43:50,559
all her medications, therapists, all the reports, it's all there.

846
00:43:50,639 --> 00:43:53,239
Take a look at it. And she's like, well, well,

847
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,400
you just can't tell me. You can't give me the

848
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:59,159
summary now, I go, No, I can't. I go, I'm

849
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:00,880
on my way to work. I can't.

850
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 2: It's all there.

851
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:07,519
Speaker 1: There's no reason to be asking me this, right, that's insane.

852
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 2: I was so mad, mad for you. I am so

853
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,119
irritated for you.

854
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,599
Speaker 1: Also, it just fell to to be just asked over

855
00:44:16,639 --> 00:44:19,519
the phone like by some random and at the schooling. Yeah,

856
00:44:19,559 --> 00:44:25,360
what medications? Shut up? Yes, a confidential report was sent

857
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,199
from her therapist to the school. And now you're just like, hey,

858
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:28,599
what's up?

859
00:44:28,639 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 2: What's codication?

860
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 1: What's it right? Why do you need to know she

861
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:32,840
doesn't take it at school?

862
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:33,159
Speaker 2: Yeah?

863
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,559
Speaker 1: Fuck off? I know, fuck off. So I'm sure if

864
00:44:36,599 --> 00:44:39,840
I'm this mad now, oh my god, tomorrow I'll be mad.

865
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,119
Speaker 2: Yes, awesome.

866
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:48,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, so your kids with your i EPs? Yes, what

867
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,559
is the end result of that? They still have it?

868
00:44:53,599 --> 00:44:54,760
They get services.

869
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 2: They both still are continuing services for it.

870
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:58,599
Speaker 1: So what did they get?

871
00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:00,679
Speaker 3: Do they get pulled out of class or do they

872
00:45:00,679 --> 00:45:01,440
just get accommodation?

873
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: They get accommodations, that's it. I mean, they get like

874
00:45:04,599 --> 00:45:09,119
extra time for quizzes and stuff like that, some extra

875
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:14,199
like for instance, Sonny gets like more prompting, you know,

876
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:18,519
like you could see daydreams. They get like more time

877
00:45:18,599 --> 00:45:24,440
to turn in assignments. Just typical kind of IEP stuff.

878
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,519
Speaker 2: I guess that's about it. Really, do you think that I.

879
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,199
Speaker 3: Could ask for having having been in quite a few

880
00:45:30,199 --> 00:45:32,039
of these meetings as you have, do you think I

881
00:45:32,079 --> 00:45:36,679
could ask for less homework for Sadie because the math

882
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,320
teacher gives so much homework every day she is in

883
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,559
tears of like even though it's even though she's not

884
00:45:43,639 --> 00:45:46,800
even unable to do it, it just takes her so long.

885
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,480
It keeps up a big portion of her day every day,

886
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,280
and he gives thirty problems like every day, each one

887
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,800
takes her a long time. Could I say, like she

888
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,199
can only she's only going to do half the homework.

889
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,679
Speaker 2: Or yeah, I mean they could, they could do.

890
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:04,039
Speaker 1: Basically, what should happen, I think is they sit down

891
00:46:04,679 --> 00:46:06,880
with you. But then I think the next step is

892
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,159
they sit down, you have an IEP meeting with all

893
00:46:09,159 --> 00:46:12,440
her teachers. If they if she qualifies, then you sit

894
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,280
with there. So she's not going to qualify. They already

895
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,760
told me so. Then they said that they'll do the

896
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:18,719
five oh four plan.

897
00:46:19,079 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 3: They said, she's not going to qualify academically, but because

898
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,800
of her the social emotional and the depression and anxiety,

899
00:46:26,119 --> 00:46:27,679
she will. They will do a five oh four and

900
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,480
they'll do it right away and give her accommodations. But

901
00:46:30,679 --> 00:46:32,679
so I need to come up with what I want,

902
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:33,840
right you should?

903
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:34,199
Speaker 2: Yeah?

904
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, what I want is like her to be exempt

905
00:46:36,559 --> 00:46:40,320
from some of the homework. Yes, well, that's an easy request.

906
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,039
I don't see why not will they do that? Well,

907
00:46:44,079 --> 00:46:46,400
that's what these meetings with the teachers that I always

908
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,559
have do. Like they'll go like there's an advocate like

909
00:46:50,639 --> 00:46:53,559
that speaks up for study or in Italia, and then

910
00:46:53,599 --> 00:46:57,159
they'll say, missus math teacher, is it possible for you

911
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,440
to give less homework or is it possible for you

912
00:47:00,519 --> 00:47:02,800
for blah blah blah, And then she'll say like, yeah,

913
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,880
I could do, you know, and then you come up

914
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,199
with a compromise kind of thing. You know. Remember my

915
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,039
story about this math teacher though, who was like trying

916
00:47:11,079 --> 00:47:14,800
to seeing Sadie and say he has missing assignments from

917
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,000
before she even started at the school. I mean it's

918
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,800
a monster. Yeah, yeah, so he's I hope I don't

919
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,480
have to deal with him. I wonder who is going

920
00:47:22,559 --> 00:47:23,280
to be at this meeting?

921
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't have a feeling.

922
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:32,079
Speaker 1: It's just going to be kunts and the school psychologists, right,

923
00:47:32,199 --> 00:47:33,920
but maybe there'll be more people.

924
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,679
Speaker 2: Maybe, Yeah, I don't know.

925
00:47:38,079 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to try to hold I'm going

926
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,440
to try to hold strong for less home.

927
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,599
Speaker 2: Please you should?

928
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,679
Speaker 1: You should? It's so I talk to her and ask her, like,

929
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,159
what is you know what would help her out.

930
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, all right, I'm sure you guys will have

931
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:54,840
a little bit of advice for me and you can

932
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:55,840
give me advice on that.

933
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: Just don't tell me I'm a bad parent. We're probably

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