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Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Rob's.

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Speaker 2: Second date updates on kJ one O three Brook and

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Okay see.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date updates.

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Speaker 2: Hiray, you and Preston had a pretty hot weekend in Vegas.

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Speaker 3: I thought, so tell us a story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I was in Vegas about a month ago

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with some friends and I met present, like super randomly.

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He met at the pool. We started talking, got it.

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We were both from Oklahoma City, which seemed absolutely crazy

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being in Vegas. Sure, there are so many people. And

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we spent pretty much the rest of the weekend together.

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I kind of dished my friends for him.

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Speaker 4: One night, we had drinks together.

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Speaker 1: The next morning, we had breakfast, we hung out by

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the pool. We just kept finding ourselves together.

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Speaker 4: It was a lot of fun. We kissed, we.

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Speaker 1: Just you know, really enjoyed ourselves. And yeah, it was

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it was just so much fun. I really liked him.

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So I came home thinking, this is perfect. We both

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actually live in the same city. We're going to meet

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back up, and this is somebody I can start dating.

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Ben They're done that girl. Okay, actually I've had this

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exact same thing.

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Speaker 2: Happened really and then you I'm guessing you got back

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here and he's not interested. He was not under No,

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he was not, but maybe this little bit different. I mean,

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is that what's going on here?

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Speaker 4: Brooks?

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Speaker 1: Exactly what's happening? I haven't heard from him, like.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, Okay, you're just kind of ghosted and wondering. Well,

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it's yeah, we had this time in Vegas together. Why

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can't we keep this going in Okay, See, we'll find out.

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We'll get him on the phone and we'll just figure

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it out and.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'll tach him.

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Speaker 2: Next Second Date update kJ went all three, tj Amanda,

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j Rod in the morning.

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Speaker 1: This is TJ.

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Speaker 5: Amanda and j Rod's second date updates on kJ one

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O three Preston, Welcome to the second date update.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: You met Brooke in Vegas and you guys are like, hey,

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we're both from Oklahoma City. Let's hang out, and you

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hung out a lot. She said, kissing it stop and

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she's been ghosted since the trip.

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Speaker 1: She hasn't talked to you.

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Speaker 2: You won't, you won't communicate with her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't. I mean, I don't know if i'd

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call it ghosting. It just.

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Speaker 6: I just kind of thought that we had a What

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it was was a Vegas thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the old thing, what happens in

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Vegas days in Vegas. So that's what I thought it was.

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It's like a Vegas ship. They call it a Vegas relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a weekend party kind of thing, get together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they call it that for a reason, right,

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I mean, Brooke, what are you thinking here?

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Speaker 2: Brooke Brook's here, by the way.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Wondering, why why does what happened in Vegas have to

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stay in Vegas? Like I thought we had a good time. Yeah,

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I mean we did, but I mean that's Vegas. You

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meet people, you're with them for a short period of time,

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you have fun, you know, you hook up, and then

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you go home. But home is the same city we're

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both in.

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Speaker 3: Okay, right, yeah, I know, wow, Wow, Okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think I mean really confused, Like you told me,

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you really writes me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I did things were you were great,

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you know, for Vegas.

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Speaker 1: For that weekend, for Vegas.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying that there's a difference between a vacation

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thing and you know, real relationship.

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Speaker 2: No, I listen pressed it. I okay, I do what

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she's saying.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you meet people on vacation and you're like, okay,

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but you know, we had a great time together. But

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we live in different cities, but you guys both live here.

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Why wouldn't you think that was fun. Let's go out again.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Matt, you know this is I just

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how I see it is that that was a.

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Speaker 6: Time that we had and it was a great time,

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and I just don't see that there's.

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Speaker 1: Going to be a relationship going forward.

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Speaker 4: She crat, just like a fling.

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Speaker 1: What what I'm saying is that I'm people act you

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know this.

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Speaker 6: Don't just pretend that people don't do that in Vegas,

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Like it's not that is that is a thing.

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Speaker 1: That's a Vegas thing. Yeah, but we like both talked

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about our lives in Oklahoma City.

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Speaker 4: You don't just go there, go to Vegas, talk.

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Speaker 1: About your lives together, and come home.

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Speaker 4: And pretend like they never met. That just seems so weird.

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Speaker 1: And you never said this the Vegas.

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Speaker 2: Flee Preston, So are you saying that you wouldn't even

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go on one date in Oklahoma City with Brooke, she

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was just for Vegas.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why not try one day?

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Speaker 1: You got?

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Speaker 6: What I'm saying is that I have other possibilities here.

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I don't I don't need more dates right now?

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Speaker 1: Okay dance? Yeah, yeah, like.

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Speaker 2: You were the you were the best available for Vegas.

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Speaker 1: Brook.

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Speaker 2: But now, I mean, that's kind of the vibe we're

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getting your preston.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I wouldn't couch it like that, but I'm

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just being honest that that's just how it is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, thanks for making me feel real special?

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All right? What would you rather lead you on? I mean,

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I'm just telling you the truth. I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 2: Okay, right, President, We're gonna let you go. Thanks for

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coming on the second.

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Speaker 1: Eight, all right, guy Brook? Yeah, what do you feel

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so gross? And so you I'm like, I'm embarrassed that

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you've been called you guys to just be good enough

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for Vegas but not good enough for Oklahoma City. It

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just feels like it's the other possibilities the people who's talking.

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Speaker 4: To are listening.

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Speaker 1: I just I'm mortified right now and like really sad.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Brooke. Better luck next time, Glad we figured

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this out for you, all right, bye. I just kind

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of started thinking at the end, it's like when you're

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in high school, yeah, and I don't know, you sign

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up for some volunteer thing, sure, and during this volunteer

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thing on a Saturday morning where you're cleaning up a

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park or something, you kind of become friends with someone

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that you wouldn't really be friends with during school. And

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then you get back to school and you kind of

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just don't be friends even though you were friends with that.

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You know what I'm saying, Like, sometimes the circum it sucks.

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Speaker 1: Circumstances alter cases, as my dad likes to say, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: It sucks. It's why when the people on the Bachelor

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and the Bachelorette get back to their real lives they

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can't stay together because it was a circumstantial I don't know.

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Was he being harsh? Was she expecting too much? Is

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it too much to ask to say we really liked

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each other in Vegas? How about we get a drink?

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Or seemed being a jerk for Ghostinger. I want to

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know all the thoughts they go.

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Speaker 5: Miss is Kendall.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, say I'm doing practice right now and.

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Speaker 5: I just listened to y'all second date up date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, God, thanks.

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Speaker 5: Something he has me with that what happens in Vegas

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states in Vegas line. But I honestly like, when it

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comes down to it, realistically, in my opinion, I think

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she was expecting too much because I mean, like they

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were together for like, what three days?

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Speaker 1: They've spent three days together? Sure, so I mean obviously,

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you know.

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Speaker 5: Like and I'm respectable. He even said, hey, I have

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options here. You know, I don't want to pursue anything,

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so I mean, hey, you may have had the options

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before he even.

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Speaker 4: Winton It's okay to have a great time in Vegas.

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Speaker 5: I do feel for the girl though that that sucks.

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But sometimes he's got to take your loss and move on.

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Maybe she's maybe she has different opportunities here and ok

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you never.

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Speaker 2: I can understand though, how she feels used because he

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was saying all the right things in Vegas and he

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won't even meet her for a drinking as city come

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on too far ago? They and stuff and stuff yeah.

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Speaker 1: Grown we know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait what are you what are you talking about?

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Being grown candles?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 5: Yea, y'all met me at the Dirty Santa party.

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Speaker 1: That's why you are Dirty Santa.

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Speaker 5: We know who you are.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not gonna say that. Gettle, thank you so

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much for perspective,