Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Rob's.
Speaker 2: Second date updates on kJ one O three Brook and
Okay see.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date updates.
Speaker 2: Hiray, you and Preston had a pretty hot weekend in Vegas.
Speaker 3: I thought, so tell us a story.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I was in Vegas about a month ago
with some friends and I met present, like super randomly.
He met at the pool. We started talking, got it.
We were both from Oklahoma City, which seemed absolutely crazy
being in Vegas. Sure, there are so many people. And
we spent pretty much the rest of the weekend together.
I kind of dished my friends for him.
Speaker 4: One night, we had drinks together.
Speaker 1: The next morning, we had breakfast, we hung out by
the pool. We just kept finding ourselves together.
Speaker 4: It was a lot of fun. We kissed, we.
Speaker 1: Just you know, really enjoyed ourselves. And yeah, it was
it was just so much fun. I really liked him.
So I came home thinking, this is perfect. We both
actually live in the same city. We're going to meet
back up, and this is somebody I can start dating.
Ben They're done that girl. Okay, actually I've had this
exact same thing.
Speaker 2: Happened really and then you I'm guessing you got back
here and he's not interested. He was not under No,
he was not, but maybe this little bit different. I mean,
is that what's going on here?
Speaker 4: Brooks?
Speaker 1: Exactly what's happening? I haven't heard from him, like.
Speaker 2: Nothing, Okay, you're just kind of ghosted and wondering. Well,
it's yeah, we had this time in Vegas together. Why
can't we keep this going in Okay, See, we'll find out.
We'll get him on the phone and we'll just figure
it out and.
Speaker 1: All right, I'll tach him.
Speaker 2: Next Second Date update kJ went all three, tj Amanda,
j Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1: This is TJ.
Speaker 5: Amanda and j Rod's second date updates on kJ one
O three Preston, Welcome to the second date update.
Speaker 1: Hey guys, what's going on?
Speaker 2: You met Brooke in Vegas and you guys are like, hey,
we're both from Oklahoma City. Let's hang out, and you
hung out a lot. She said, kissing it stop and
she's been ghosted since the trip.
Speaker 1: She hasn't talked to you.
Speaker 2: You won't, you won't communicate with her?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't. I mean, I don't know if i'd
call it ghosting. It just.
Speaker 6: I just kind of thought that we had a What
it was was a Vegas thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the old thing, what happens in
Vegas days in Vegas. So that's what I thought it was.
It's like a Vegas ship. They call it a Vegas relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a weekend party kind of thing, get together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they call it that for a reason, right,
I mean, Brooke, what are you thinking here?
Speaker 2: Brooke Brook's here, by the way.
Speaker 5: I guess I'm just.
Speaker 1: Wondering, why why does what happened in Vegas have to
stay in Vegas? Like I thought we had a good time. Yeah,
I mean we did, but I mean that's Vegas. You
meet people, you're with them for a short period of time,
you have fun, you know, you hook up, and then
you go home. But home is the same city we're
both in.
Speaker 3: Okay, right, yeah, I know, wow, Wow, Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think I mean really confused, Like you told me,
you really writes me.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I did things were you were great,
you know, for Vegas.
Speaker 1: For that weekend, for Vegas.
Speaker 4: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
Speaker 6: I'm just saying that there's a difference between a vacation
thing and you know, real relationship.
Speaker 2: No, I listen pressed it. I okay, I do what
she's saying.
Speaker 1: Though.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you meet people on vacation and you're like, okay,
but you know, we had a great time together. But
we live in different cities, but you guys both live here.
Why wouldn't you think that was fun. Let's go out again.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Matt, you know this is I just
how I see it is that that was a.
Speaker 6: Time that we had and it was a great time,
and I just don't see that there's.
Speaker 1: Going to be a relationship going forward.
Speaker 4: She crat, just like a fling.
Speaker 1: What what I'm saying is that I'm people act you
know this.
Speaker 6: Don't just pretend that people don't do that in Vegas,
Like it's not that is that is a thing.
Speaker 1: That's a Vegas thing. Yeah, but we like both talked
about our lives in Oklahoma City.
Speaker 4: You don't just go there, go to Vegas, talk.
Speaker 1: About your lives together, and come home.
Speaker 4: And pretend like they never met. That just seems so weird.
Speaker 1: And you never said this the Vegas.
Speaker 2: Flee Preston, So are you saying that you wouldn't even
go on one date in Oklahoma City with Brooke, she
was just for Vegas.
Speaker 3: Yeah, why not try one day?
Speaker 1: You got?
Speaker 6: What I'm saying is that I have other possibilities here.
I don't I don't need more dates right now?
Speaker 1: Okay dance? Yeah, yeah, like.
Speaker 2: You were the you were the best available for Vegas.
Speaker 1: Brook.
Speaker 2: But now, I mean, that's kind of the vibe we're
getting your preston.
Speaker 6: I mean, I wouldn't couch it like that, but I'm
just being honest that that's just how it is.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, thanks for making me feel real special?
All right? What would you rather lead you on? I mean,
I'm just telling you the truth. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 2: Okay, right, President, We're gonna let you go. Thanks for
coming on the second.
Speaker 1: Eight, all right, guy Brook? Yeah, what do you feel
so gross? And so you I'm like, I'm embarrassed that
you've been called you guys to just be good enough
for Vegas but not good enough for Oklahoma City. It
just feels like it's the other possibilities the people who's talking.
Speaker 4: To are listening.
Speaker 1: I just I'm mortified right now and like really sad.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Brooke. Better luck next time, Glad we figured
this out for you, all right, bye. I just kind
of started thinking at the end, it's like when you're
in high school, yeah, and I don't know, you sign
up for some volunteer thing, sure, and during this volunteer
thing on a Saturday morning where you're cleaning up a
park or something, you kind of become friends with someone
that you wouldn't really be friends with during school. And
then you get back to school and you kind of
just don't be friends even though you were friends with that.
You know what I'm saying, Like, sometimes the circum it sucks.
Speaker 1: Circumstances alter cases, as my dad likes to say, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: It sucks. It's why when the people on the Bachelor
and the Bachelorette get back to their real lives they
can't stay together because it was a circumstantial I don't know.
Was he being harsh? Was she expecting too much? Is
it too much to ask to say we really liked
each other in Vegas? How about we get a drink?
Or seemed being a jerk for Ghostinger. I want to
know all the thoughts they go.
Speaker 5: Miss is Kendall.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, say I'm doing practice right now and.
Speaker 5: I just listened to y'all second date up date.
Speaker 4: Okay, God, thanks.
Speaker 5: Something he has me with that what happens in Vegas
states in Vegas line. But I honestly like, when it
comes down to it, realistically, in my opinion, I think
she was expecting too much because I mean, like they
were together for like, what three days?
Speaker 1: They've spent three days together? Sure, so I mean obviously,
you know.
Speaker 5: Like and I'm respectable. He even said, hey, I have
options here. You know, I don't want to pursue anything,
so I mean, hey, you may have had the options
before he even.
Speaker 4: Winton It's okay to have a great time in Vegas.
Speaker 5: I do feel for the girl though that that sucks.
But sometimes he's got to take your loss and move on.
Maybe she's maybe she has different opportunities here and ok
you never.
Speaker 2: I can understand though, how she feels used because he
was saying all the right things in Vegas and he
won't even meet her for a drinking as city come
on too far ago? They and stuff and stuff yeah.
Speaker 1: Grown we know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait what are you what are you talking about?
Being grown candles?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 5: Yea, y'all met me at the Dirty Santa party.
Speaker 1: That's why you are Dirty Santa.
Speaker 5: We know who you are.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not gonna say that. Gettle, thank you so
much for perspective,