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Speaker 1: Made a decision. Oh thanks sunny summon on, I.

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Speaker 2: Had a visions night.

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Speaker 1: So hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Fucker's Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: Friday, right, Yeah, we're doing Yeah, we're doing our Yeah,

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we're doing our Friday show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's Friday. And you know what, yes, you know

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it's coming up Mother's Day. Mother's Day is coming up.

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I've been seeing the displays of all the things I'm

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not gonna get I know yep. So what's up? You

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had a you were gonna tell a funny story.

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Speaker 1: I have a little funny snippet like ps story. So

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remember that dad. We just brought it up recently, which

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is weird. So remember the dad that called me yes

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kay and yelled at me about the geode, Yes, about

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the crystal. Yes, so his daughter in a nutshell? His

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daughter brought home right before Christmas vacation like two years ago.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this was like three years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like three weeks was like the first year we

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started school. Yeah, okay, took home the Natalia had a

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little crystal that Sonny got for her, and she asked

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me to borrow it. Yeah, if she could borrow it,

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and she brought it home and it was Christmas vacation,

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and Natalia was like, I really want to get that

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back because I want her to lose it because it's

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special to me. So I and okay, So that happened.

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Then I sent an email to their her teacher about

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something completely different, had nothing to do with the crystal.

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And then I said, ohps, just to make sure I'm

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you know, two weeks on vacation, Natalia's friend brought home

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Little Samantha brought home the crystal, and she wants to

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make sure she gets it back. Okay, Christmas vacation comes,

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I get a bring phone call. Hello in the middle

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of Christmas vacation. It's like eight thirty nine o'clock at night,

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Missus Corolla. This Samantha's dad. Oh hi, Samantha's dad. Yeah, Uh,

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why did you send an email to her teacher about

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our teacher about about little Samantha bringing home. If you

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want that crystal back, I could bring it to your

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house right now. And I said what I said, I

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was emailing the teacher about something completely different, and I

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wasn't like ratting her out. I was just reminding her

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to remember to get the crystal. You know, to let's

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make sure they get the crystal back or whatever.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: It was very, It was very. It had nothing to

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do with really anyway. And he's like, you should have

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why didn't you come to me first? You should have

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called me. You should and this can go on her record?

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Do you realize that this can go I said, what

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can go on her record? I started talking to him like,

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I started talking to him like, really, come on, like

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what could go on?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know in second grade that her borrowing a

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crystal is gonna go on what record? For what? Anyway?

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He's like, what theft? Are you implying that she? So

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now you're saying your daughter and even accusing your daughter

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of anything, right, And she's like, He's like, my daughter

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would never lie. And your daughter said that she could

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borrow it for the whole Christmas vacation. And he's like,

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I'll bring it over tonight. I said, it's nine o'clock

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at night. I'm going to bed anyway. Half hour later

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of arguing back and forth, right before he called, I

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text ed the the TV guy and he has a

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three one o three one oh number. The dad has

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a three one o one, so a half hour conversation

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goes by with this nut job. I hang up and

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then three one oho number calls. I pick it up

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and I go ED and I don't hear anything. I go,

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oh my god. This guy to this dad from the

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school just called and he just went off on me.

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He's a nutcase, he was going on. And he's like,

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and I'm like, and by the way, what dad, I

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could understand a phone mom, but what what are you

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doing all day that you got to call another mom

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at nine o'clock at night on Christmas vacation. What a

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nut job. I'm telling you, Ed don't have kids because

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everybody's fucking nuts. And the guy goes, uh, this is

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the nut job. This is it, And I was like, oh,

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and I was like, all of a sudden, I felt

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like Vinnie Barberine, like you know, it's like, you know,

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we just had it out, like of course, like I'm

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just venting to a friend, like you know, I'm not

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like I anyway, and he goes, that's okay because I

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have the whole conversation recorded anyway, And I was like.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, by the way, that's illegal, and

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he goes, yeah, uh huh, bye, and he hangs up. Okay,

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oh here the ps then he and during the conversation,

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I said, I'm sorry, I don't even know what your

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daughter looks like.

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Speaker 2: I don't know he.

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Speaker 1: Because he's like, why didn't you come to talk to me?

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He said, I don't know what you look like? And

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he said, what do you mean you don't know what

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I look like?

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Speaker 2: You just waved at me.

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Speaker 1: At the at the Christmas play yesterday or two days ago?

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this day start crazy raze crazy.

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Speaker 2: So many people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here it comes. So a couple days ago, Natalia's

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in her bedroom on FaceTime, so she does a lot

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of face time for homework. Okay, so she's doing FaceTime

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in her bedroom. I'm thinking she's doing homework. She doesn't

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tell me this. She tells me this like a week later,

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right before we leave for Palm Springs. She was laughing

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at her and Olga had like a side joke, and

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I was like, what are you guys talking about? And they

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start giggling and Olga's like, did you tell your mom?

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And Natalia's like no, I didn't want to, Like no,

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should I tell her? And all goes like, yeah, I

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tell her, and she's like, okay, Mommy, don't get mad.

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I go what she's like. I was facetiming with Samantha

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the other day and she said her dad walked in

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the room and said, who are you talking to? And

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she said, I'm talking to Natalia and he said, get

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off the phone with her. I I her. He says,

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I don't like it. I don't like her mom. Her

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mom is nuts. Get off the phone with her. Oh

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oh my god, he said nuts. But he said, I

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don't like her mom. Get off the phone with her.

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hits mute, and Natalie is like imitating. She's like and

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then I see her going tad blah blah blah blah blah.

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She's like with her hands flaving every like my dad,

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but dad.

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Speaker 2: And then she comes back on.

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Speaker 1: She's like, all right, I gotta go. And then he

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says in the background, see see I wouldn't want to

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Speaker 2: What a fucking weird.

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Speaker 1: I know now I want to know what he looks like,

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because now I want to find his ass.

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Speaker 2: I so you haven't seen him since no, or you didn't.

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Maybe you just have seen him, but you didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Might have seen him. I'm sure I've seen him, but

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I have no idea what he looks like. I don't

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know what the kid my god, he needs help, Yes

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he does.

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Speaker 2: She was like.

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Speaker 1: Natale was like, can you believe that? See Asia wouldn't

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want to be a She's like, I took more offense

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to that than the part where he said I don't

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like her her mom. He's like, She's like, I didn't

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care about that, but the like, how offensive like to

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say that to me? Seeazia wouldn't want to be what

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is he? Ten?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I know?

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Speaker 2: Also, why would he be saying that while his daughter

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is on fit, knowing that your child's gonna hear him

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talking shit about.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know what. I love this guy. I

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can't decide if I see him or if I love him.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it's recorded, the whole there's so many

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levels of wrong about him, but it's gonna go on

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her per permanent record. What are you talking about? I

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didn't file a police report. I asked for the fucking

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crystal bag.

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Speaker 1: I know it's not a police report. I'll come over

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right now. I'll come over right now. Uh you wait

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at me. Yeah, you waided at me. Why wouldn't you

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come down? Why wun't you obsessed with me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, by the way, you probably this is probably just

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an excuse for me to come over to your house

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right now.

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Speaker 1: And oh, I know I should file a police report

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on you.

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Speaker 2: You find I should take out her straining order Jesus Christ.

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And then I have not heard, by the way, about

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this girl pretty much since like Natalia doesn't really talk

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about her.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think she's wearing a class with her, Like,

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she hasn't brought her up at all recently. So I'm like,

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why are you a fake timing with her? She's like,

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because I had a question and nobody was answering me.

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you know. So they got on the phone, and then

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the dad walked in and was like, oh, you're dying,

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Speaker 2: Then I can't believe he's so mad about that.

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't like her. I hate her, especially.

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Speaker 2: After an understanding. I mean that it was a miscommunication,

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Like you weren't complaining, right I had.

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Speaker 1: I told him. I said, sorry, sir, I did not.

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This was like a PS, missus Carnes, can you make

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sure Natalia gets it back? That's it, that's all. I

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was asking about something else, and he was like, why

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did would you even say that to her? Why we're

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on two week vacation. Why wouldn't you just ask me?

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Speaker 2: Cause you don't even know him.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, oh my god. This

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is why was he calling back to I still don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. We'll never know. I know, because now

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he won't ever speak to you again.

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Speaker 1: I see, I see, yeah, oh, next time I see him.

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me of that happened at the movies this week. Okay,

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So I take the kids to see Boss Baby and

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it was so bad. Have you seen it? Yeah? Yeah,

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you saw it. Yeah. I ended up like on my

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phone like reading Facebook articles like links.

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Speaker 1: Can't you do that?

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Speaker 2: Because I can't well, because I was in the back,

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I was behind my kids. There's nobody behind me, and

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I was like under a sweatshirt and I just started

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reading yeah uh yeah. I didn't want to be like

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that guy. On sword and Scale got shot for texting.

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No nobody cared it was you. You couldn't even see.

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I had the screen dim I had it on dimmed,

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and I was and no one anyway. Okay, So here's

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what happened. The kids are sitting that it's a small theater.

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and so there was LB Stadium the but it just

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very small theater. There was only like seven rows or something.

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kids down the row from me is like a family.

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like a like a fourteen year old kid, and like

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another woman. Okay. Then next to Elbe is so Sadie

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a kid. So the movie starts the people in my row,

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but down from me, the boy starts talking very loudly

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like he's but he's having like little vocal outbursts, and

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he's like no, no, no, like kind of kind of

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yelling stuff and like, and at first I was like

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what the fuck? And then I realized. Then I realized, like, okay,

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this guy has special needs. It was disruptive, but I

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people sitting next to me, and then these people and

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that we yes, we did kind of keep looking over

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there a little bit because it would be a little

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bit startling, like you just hear some commotion and then

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we look over okay, but it wasn't really bothering Sadie,

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Maddie and LB. But then like ten minutes into the oh, okay,

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So I went out. I have to get this right

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because it's important to the story. I went out. I

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hardly ever do this, but the sound was super loud.

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I mean everybody was like closing covering their ears. So

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I had gone. I went out and I was like, hey,

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and I think the reason why is because there were

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so few people in the theater that the normal sound

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level what didn't work for the So I went out

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and I was like, hey, sorry to be a dick,

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but can you guys turn it down a little bit.

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It's like just black. So they're like okay. So then

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the guy a guy came in to like, I think,

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to listen to the sound to see how the sound

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was somebody who worked there. Then he left. Then okay,

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these people this it was like a couple sitting next

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to Elbe. They just start talking. They start having a

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conversation in like a regular voice, like they're talking, and

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then they're talking to their kid, and then at one

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point they and the guy's like do you have to

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go to the bathroom? Do you have to go? And

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it's really loud, and they're talking for a while, and

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Elbe starts looking back at me like what the fuck?

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What the fuck? And then the guy takes the kid

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out to the bathroom, and I'm like, well, hopefully that

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will be the end of it. They come back in, though,

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and he's talking and then he's talking to his wife

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and in regular conversation like that loud. So finally this

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is going on for a little while. So finally I

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lean over and I'm like, excuse me, can you stop talking?

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I swear to you, I'm not like a person, but

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it was, but Elbie's looking at but it was really

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inappropriate and crazy, So I go, can you stop talking?

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And he just like kind of stared at me, and

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then he stopped, but then he started talking again. So

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a little while ago, it goes by an Elbie goes

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like leans back and she's like and I kind of

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lean over to her and she's like, mom, like, he's

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still talking, Like I can't concentrate on the movie. She

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Elbe told me that at one point she asked him

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to stop talking, and then he just stared at her

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for a second and then went back to his conversation.

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So it was super fucking annoying. So I go out, okay,

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and I I go out and I'm like, I'm so sorry.

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I know you guys are gonna think I'm crazy, but

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now I got another issue. There's some people and they're talking,

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and I go, Now, there's two situations in there. One

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of them the kid has special needs. We can't do

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anything about that, like, don't tell them to be quiet.

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I go, But it's the people. They're kind of in

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the middle. I kind of try to describe. I go,

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they's just been talking for like thirty minutes and it

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won't stop and it's driving us crazy. So the guy

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comes back in the special needs kid is still talking

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a little bit. He leans over and he tells them

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can you guys please keep it down? And I was like,

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damn it right, yeah, okay, So then I was like

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what shame? Okay, So then late so then the movie's

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still going on, and now I'm like, this movie is terrible.

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These fucking people won't stop talking. Now the guy told

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the wrong people to be quiet because that guy can't

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help it especial needs kid. So then the movie ends

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and Elbe is like, those people talk the whole time.

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It was like awful. And I was like, I know,

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I'm so sorry I complained, but and I go, you

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know what, We're gonna go get some free passes because

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this is this was ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we go out.

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Speaker 2: I say to the late. I go up to the lady.

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I'm like, okay, look, I know I'm coming off like

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crazy town. I already came out here a couple of

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times of different and she's like, go, but this was insane.

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I go, these people talk through the whole movie, and

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I go, it was two separate situations. I go, your

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guy came in, but he told the wrong people to

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be quiet. He told this guy with special needs to

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be quiet, and that was two separate situations. These people

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they couldn't help it. Okay. While that's going on, the

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woman who is with the special needs kid, I think

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that was her son, comes walking up to me. Oh no,

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and she was like really upset. Oh Jesus, now, mind you.

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There's hardly anybody there, and she was like, you're complaining

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about my son and he has special needs. And I

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was like, oh my god, I go like everybody and

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I wasn't. I go, I wasn't complaining about your son.

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She goes, yes, you were. I saw you. I saw

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you look at him, and then I saw they came

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in and they told him to be quiet and he

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can't help it. You should be lucky that your children

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like you. You should be grateful that your children. And

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I was like, no, I am grateful. I go, I'm

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I go, I'm telling you. And then I said, then

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I'm taking I'm at the woman. I go, tell her,

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I go, I wasn't I told them that it wasn't you.

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I go, they told the wrong people to be good.

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And she was like like she was gave me like

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a harmph and like turned and like stormed off with

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her son with special needs. And I'm standing there and

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Albie's like, what's going on. I was like, oh my god, LB,

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I go, Elbie. You know, I wasn't complaining about them.

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I told them. And then I'm now I'm saying to

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the lady. I'm like, I mean, I still do want

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my passes. I go, but I go, but I hope

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I go. But now she thinks I was talking about her.

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But I wasn't. I go because these people in front

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of me did not have special needs. They had no excuse.

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They were just had no etiquette.

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Speaker 1: My god.

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Speaker 2: So then I go upstairs to the box office. The

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woman's like, go upstairs to the box office and get

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your passes. And then I see the lady who was

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upset with me, and I was like, excuse me, excuse me.

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I want to make some amends, like I want to

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straighten this shit out, you know. And she was like

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would it. She was like wouldn't. She was ignoring me.

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And then I was like, excuse me, I go, please

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please listen to me. I need to talk to you

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for a second. She turns around, she's fully crying. I

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was mortified. I was like, okay. I was like, I

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am so so sorry. I go, but I swear to you,

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I go. I know it looks bad. I go, this

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looks really bad. She was like, they told my son

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to be quiet, and I was like, I know totally.

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I go, but there was a mix up. I go,

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you probably couldn't hear, just like my kids couldn't hear

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your son. I go, I know I heard him. I

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knew he had special needs. I go. I did look

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over there because it was loud. I go, but I

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didn't complain about it because it wasn't bothering me. My

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kids weren't even aware of that.

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Speaker 1: I go.

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Speaker 2: There were people sitting next to my kids. I go,

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I swear to you. I complained about those people, and

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then they told the wrong people to be quiet. I go,

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I'm telling you the truth as my daughter. I go.

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Ask my daughter. I go, Elbie's like, she's telling the truth.

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Be goes, I even told them to be quiet. She goes,

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we weren't talking about your kid. And I was like, oh

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my god. And then she she finally she was like,

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I was like, it must be really hard. I go,

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I totally understand why you must have thought that, and

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she was like, it's very hard. It's very difficult, like

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people don't understand and this happens a lot, and I

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was like, I'm sure it does. I go, I hate

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that you would think I'm the kind of person I

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would never do that.

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Speaker 1: The fucking kid that went in and told the wrong

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per like, why can't people listen? Like it's not these people,

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it's the people.

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Speaker 2: Why why I felt so bad? I was like, oh

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my god.

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Speaker 1: Here take my free passes. Lady, did you get them? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wait, I got them. After I had said that to her,

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then I went and then then then then she left,

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but she she was like, it's okay, it's okay. And

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I was like, I'm telling you. I wouldn't lie to

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you about this, like I did not complain about you.

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We were all fine with it. I go, I hope

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your son enjoyed the movie, like you know, he sounded

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like he did.

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Speaker 4: Sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean he was saying yelling no a lot of screens,

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so maybe he didn't.

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Speaker 1: But well, that movie is.

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Speaker 2: For the movie wasn't great?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Can you When she was.

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Speaker 2: Crying, I'd like, hurt this woman's soul that I.

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Speaker 1: Can't even this story.

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Speaker 2: I wanted it to be like a heartwarming, like how

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somebody you know that? Then she like goes and puts

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it on Facebook about how this great lady like where

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everyone was understanding of her son having but no, now.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna be like on Facebook on his fucking Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Who are these people that would make they would tell

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us personally special. I was like, no, I do think she.

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I was swearing to God up and down, and Elbe

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was vouching for me. I was like, Elby, tell her,

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and Albie's like, yeah, the people sitting next to me

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were the ones being loud. That's who my mom complained about.

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I even told him to.

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Speaker 1: Be quiet, I go listening.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think she wasn't even aware of that situation.

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She was a little bit further down, and in my

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ro this was happening right next to Elbe. I think

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she was so busy, probably feeling with her son situation

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right that she wasn't even aware that somebody else was talking.

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Which was more disruptive to my kid because Elbie was

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literally sitting in the seat next to the guy that

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was just like carrying on a conversation.

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Speaker 1: And that guy probably just left, like dude to do

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to do with his day, no problem. Meanwhile, chicks crying

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and you're and your kids are like like, he didn't

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get to enjoy the movie, even though the movie sucked,

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Like what the fuck? Why can't people listen?

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Speaker 2: Like I don't.

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Speaker 1: I know when people get shit wrong, it's like they

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get it, they're not paying attention. It's like I saying,

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like it happens all the time. I feel like, now

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it's getting worse and worse. It's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But it would have if if at the moment

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when the guy said to the wrong people, if I'd

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gone over there and been like, I'm sorry, he just

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told you to be quiet, like he didn't realize, then

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it would have been more dramatic. So I was just

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like whatever, or let's just hope that goes.

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Speaker 1: But you get the wrong people, yeah, you'll see.

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Speaker 2: He did that and then left, like walked out of

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the theater. So it's like I couldn't if I if

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I went back out and got him again, then now

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I'm just like nutnuts.

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Speaker 1: I know. I know.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm the Geode guy, the Crystal guy.

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Speaker 1: I know. Oh my god, So that was crazy, crazy,

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that's crazy. I know.

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Speaker 2: I was a terrible movie, by the way, I'm really bad.

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I know, it like unwatchable kind of yeah, all over

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the place, no good jokes, no good jokes. The only

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like comical jokes were stuff that kids wouldn't get because

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it's like office speak. Kids don't work in an office.

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Speaker 1: Right, I didn't even pay attention.

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Speaker 2: There were like jokes that were kind of like corporate speak,

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you know, like he was because he was like a

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corporate guy management. But that's not a joke that kids

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understand or relate to, you know.

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Speaker 1: Like I always wonder how do these movies get made?

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Who reads this script goes, wow, this is great, let's

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make it.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't It doesn't work in an office, So how are

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they they? Oh, the parents are going to think that's hilarious.

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Well no, because we're seeing it with our kids, and like.

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00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,559
Speaker 1: No, I know, is it a Disney movie?

472
00:22:16,599 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: Pixar?

473
00:22:17,079 --> 00:22:19,559
Speaker 1: What was it? I feel like it was dream Works.

474
00:22:19,799 --> 00:22:22,000
I want to know, because.

475
00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: Oh, I think it was Brandon.

476
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,559
Speaker 1: I think it was a Disney movie because I.

477
00:22:26,519 --> 00:22:30,640
Speaker 2: Think it was it was something big probably not Pixar, Pixars.

478
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,079
Speaker 4: No, No, not Universal here, oh.

479
00:22:34,079 --> 00:22:36,599
Speaker 2: Disney Disney Universal go together?

480
00:22:38,519 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

481
00:22:39,599 --> 00:22:41,880
Speaker 4: All right, Oh dream Works.

482
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 2: It was DreamWorks, but that's not Pixar.

483
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,599
Speaker 1: No, those are two Pixar. Disney were together, and I.

484
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 2: Think DreamWorks has some hits and big misses sometimes, right.

485
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do, Like dream Works is like Shrek.

486
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,839
Speaker 2: And who did planes?

487
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,519
Speaker 4: The movie Planes?

488
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,839
Speaker 2: Was Pixar phenomenally Pixar?

489
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,599
Speaker 4: Oh really no, yeah, Pixar was like their their planes

490
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,880
after I think they did Cars two and then they did.

491
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: Plan Cars two was horrendous.

492
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,759
Speaker 2: Plain was awful.

493
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 1: I know because usually Pixar knocks it out of the park,

494
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:19,000
but those two that they stunk up the theaters. Yeah. No,

495
00:23:20,319 --> 00:23:22,119
Cars is like one of the best movies.

496
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Cars really good Cars wasn't Cars? Monsters Inc. Those

497
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,200
are great in Pixar, Right, yes, okay, but Monsters Inc.

498
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:35,640
All the Monsters Incs are good.

499
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: Monsters Inc.

500
00:23:36,839 --> 00:23:40,839
Speaker 2: Monsters University is cute. And what's the second one? Yeah

501
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:45,799
it's there's only two. Yeah, okay, those are both great movies.

502
00:23:45,839 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 1: Even toy Stories Toyster is great. Yeah yeah those are Pixar.

503
00:23:49,559 --> 00:23:52,880
Yeah yeah, Universal dream Works.

504
00:23:54,599 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 2: M Yeah. I don't know how Boss Baby got made?

505
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,559
Speaker 1: What the Yeah, I don't know.

506
00:24:00,839 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 2: Just not good the concepts were. It really felt the

507
00:24:05,519 --> 00:24:08,720
script really felt like thrown together, like they'd be like, oh, well,

508
00:24:08,759 --> 00:24:11,720
how's it going to end? It just nothing really fit together.

509
00:24:11,759 --> 00:24:14,200
It didn't have like a call like a nice callback

510
00:24:14,279 --> 00:24:16,039
or like yeah. It just felt like they just kept

511
00:24:16,079 --> 00:24:18,200
going like, Okay, well, let's have this happen, or let's

512
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,440
have that, like, h we need something to happen.

513
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,039
Speaker 1: Right, It's pretty bad when my kids are just like

514
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,559
it's not funny, like they're trying to force a laugh,

515
00:24:26,599 --> 00:24:28,079
like when you see a movie you want to laugh

516
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:28,599
out loud.

517
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 2: I know we talked about this. I haven't seen it,

518
00:24:33,759 --> 00:24:36,880
and we talked about it a little bit on Tuesday.

519
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,079
But my kids loved Moana. Yeah, so they and they're

520
00:24:41,079 --> 00:24:42,880
begging me to watch it with them.

521
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: You haven't seen it either, That's how I loved it.

522
00:24:46,559 --> 00:24:49,880
You gotta Seehunt of the Wild Wilder People, Hunt for

523
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:54,240
the hilarious movie. The kids will love it. You'll love it.

524
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,960
It's it's hilarious.

525
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 2: Okay, it's very fun. And did I ever tell you

526
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,160
to watch Good Burger? Talking about that a long time ago,

527
00:25:01,519 --> 00:25:04,160
But I can make a note that welcome to Good Burger.

528
00:25:04,319 --> 00:25:08,400
Can I take your order of the Good Burger? It's

529
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,400
a movie, right, it's a movie. Yeah, it's really really cute.

530
00:25:11,599 --> 00:25:11,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

531
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 4: I also watched the movie on Netflix. That's really cute

532
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,160
and really fun. For the whole family. It's called Sing Street.

533
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: Oh I've been seeing we Almost everybody loves that.

534
00:25:21,319 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 4: Movie really really good.

535
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,519
Speaker 2: I don't think my my younger ones would like it.

536
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,079
But it's hard to understand.

537
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:28,799
Speaker 1: What do you mean you're doing well?

538
00:25:28,839 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 4: I mean they're they're they're they're accent. Yeah, they're Irish

539
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:35,119
kids in the eighties, but it's not they're not that

540
00:25:35,279 --> 00:25:36,880
nick of accents. You can still understand that.

541
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 1: I have I have the subtitles up on the screen

542
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,440
all the time.

543
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 2: I think that's a good idea.

544
00:25:42,759 --> 00:25:47,279
Speaker 1: I always because I can't hear very good what they say,

545
00:25:47,519 --> 00:25:50,000
like what to rewind, And then it takes me ever

546
00:25:50,079 --> 00:25:51,920
to get through a movie because I gotta stop and rewind,

547
00:25:52,759 --> 00:25:53,119
so I.

548
00:25:53,039 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: Don't understand the accents. Like I went and saw years

549
00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,440
ago with John lock Stock and two Smoke and Barrels

550
00:26:00,519 --> 00:26:03,000
or something, and I was lost the entire time. I'm like,

551
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:05,880
I was like, it might as well have been in German.

552
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:07,079
I could understand.

553
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,799
Speaker 1: Yeah with Brad Pitt, no, oh no, didn't Brad Pitt

554
00:26:10,839 --> 00:26:13,119
have a bad like a heart time?

555
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:13,279
Speaker 4: No?

556
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,319
Speaker 2: I think this was like real British people or was

557
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:17,000
this guy.

558
00:26:19,039 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 1: Richie, Yes, Guy Richie, Yes, you gotta.

559
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:36,039
Speaker 3: Have what All of a sudden, I'm like, what, who's

560
00:26:36,079 --> 00:26:36,559
got a gun?

561
00:26:36,599 --> 00:26:40,319
Speaker 2: Why does it? What happened? Who died? That's me the

562
00:26:40,319 --> 00:26:43,440
whole time. I'm that person. John's like, oh god, just

563
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,039
let's just turn it off. I'll just watch it on

564
00:26:45,039 --> 00:26:45,359
my own.

565
00:26:45,519 --> 00:26:46,839
Speaker 1: I know I'm the same way.

566
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 2: He loved the movie too, he thought it was like

567
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,759
a great afterwards. And I'm like, how did you understand it? Like,

568
00:26:51,799 --> 00:26:53,480
what's wrong with me that I didn't understand?

569
00:26:53,519 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: I know, I can't understand any I have to have that.

570
00:26:56,799 --> 00:27:00,160
I have to for everything and all the TVs. And

571
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,799
then Adam comes home He's like, how do you get

572
00:27:01,839 --> 00:27:04,720
the subtitles off the screen. I'm like, well, how do

573
00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:05,680
you hear anything?

574
00:27:07,839 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: What else is going on recommending stuff? Oh?

575
00:27:10,799 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a showdown with one in Italians with

576
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,799
a teacher you did, Yeah.

577
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:17,839
Speaker 2: Please tell me all about it.

578
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: So all right, So this teacher who cares if I

579
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,680
get in trouble. It's only a couple of weeks left.

580
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,079
She's one of these teachers, you know, She's one of

581
00:27:28,079 --> 00:27:30,960
these ladies that like rolls her eyes at everything and

582
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,599
like looks you up and down, like you know, like

583
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,759
at least I how she looks at me. I don't know.

584
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,799
Like I had a meeting one time with her and

585
00:27:38,839 --> 00:27:41,960
the other teachers, the IEP meeting, and they were talking

586
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,880
about Valley Forge and I said, they said, we need

587
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,759
parents to volunteer, and I said, you know what, I said,

588
00:27:46,799 --> 00:27:50,400
my husband actually might volunteer. She looked at me like

589
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,240
like she turned her chair and looked at me, and

590
00:27:52,279 --> 00:27:54,680
she goes, you know, what happens in Valley Forge stays

591
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,160
in Valley Forge, and now he's he's not allowed to

592
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:58,880
talk about it on the radio. And I was like,

593
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,759
back up, bitch, like no, yeah, okay, really he was

594
00:28:04,799 --> 00:28:07,519
gonna snap polaroids the kids sleeping and they're sleep and

595
00:28:07,559 --> 00:28:08,880
posted on what the fuck?

596
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: But also like why is it a secret? I don't

597
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,759
know who cares?

598
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: No, Like you can't talk about like but that makes

599
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,599
me think that she's already labeled our family, like you know,

600
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,880
the loud mouth, right the mouth. I guess, I don't know,

601
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:27,039
but she like, okay, So one time Sonny said, she said, okay,

602
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,839
no homework for the weekend, and then Sonny said, but

603
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,079
what about page one twenty five? I thought we were

604
00:28:32,079 --> 00:28:33,920
supposed to do that and she said, oh, that was

605
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,920
last week's homework unless you didn't do it, but you

606
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,920
probably didn't do it, so you should do it.

607
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:38,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

608
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,079
Speaker 1: Yes, And Sonny does not lie. And Sonny's told me

609
00:28:42,119 --> 00:28:44,079
that story a bunch of times. This happened months ago,

610
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,279
and he's like, imagine if I was a kid that

611
00:28:46,519 --> 00:28:49,200
was embarrassed easily, Luckily I didn't get embarrassed, but he

612
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,400
brought it up a few times, so making me think

613
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,480
he did get embarrassed by it. So then there's been

614
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:58,400
a little and there's that. Then there's she's Natalia's homeroom teacher,

615
00:28:58,519 --> 00:29:02,359
and she's been sort of a bitch to Natalia to

616
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:07,559
be honest, and Natalia has you know, now, Natalia can

617
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,759
push buttons. I get that, but you know what, you're

618
00:29:10,799 --> 00:29:14,240
the teacher, Okay, she's the kid. So when Natalia has

619
00:29:14,279 --> 00:29:18,400
a question and comes up to you and says, missus

620
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,559
so and so I can't I can't figure out and

621
00:29:20,599 --> 00:29:22,599
she could just go over to the to the i

622
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,599
EP room, she says, just go over there and get

623
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,920
it done over there, like just cuts her off. That's

624
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,079
what made me go into the When Natalia told the

625
00:29:31,119 --> 00:29:34,079
story in front of me and Olga all goes like, Minette,

626
00:29:34,079 --> 00:29:35,880
do you know that she's been doing that to Natalia?

627
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,480
And I said, well, I know that she's been short,

628
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,440
but I'm but I'm always the one going but Natalia,

629
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,000
you might I'm sure you did something to push your buttons.

630
00:29:43,519 --> 00:29:46,720
Olga's like it's too much already. She's there's been a

631
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,319
lot of those little incidences that's happened between her and Natalia.

632
00:29:51,359 --> 00:29:53,480
And ol goes like, you got that's not right, like

633
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:58,559
it's making her dread, you know, going to her classroom.

634
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,240
And I said, so, now, what what don't you want me?

635
00:30:02,319 --> 00:30:05,000
What should I do? I said, because right then and there,

636
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,200
I was like, give me the phone. I was gonna

637
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,839
I was gonna email her. I was going to fire

638
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,440
off an email like what what, what's the deal? And

639
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,200
Olga goes, no, she says, send her an email and

640
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,480
say you need to have a few minutes to talk

641
00:30:15,519 --> 00:30:18,279
to her. I go on, I gotta go talk to her.

642
00:30:18,599 --> 00:30:19,119
What I do?

643
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: I need all going to be my mom?

644
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,759
Speaker 1: I know, I said, because she's lived it, and she's like,

645
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,720
I wish I would have done it for Paolo when

646
00:30:26,759 --> 00:30:28,799
I was when she was young, I didn't stick up

647
00:30:28,799 --> 00:30:31,400
for her and I didn't know that some teacher was

648
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,519
being mean to her anyway. And she said, this is

649
00:30:34,599 --> 00:30:37,480
it's not right, you know, and and I said, okay.

650
00:30:37,559 --> 00:30:39,440
She said just tell her. Don't tell her what it's about,

651
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,119
just say you need a few minutes to talk to her.

652
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,200
And I said, all right, how about you come with me?

653
00:30:46,279 --> 00:30:48,119
And she said I'll go with you, but I'm not

654
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,440
going to say anything. And she's like, you can do it.

655
00:30:50,519 --> 00:30:53,359
I said, all right, fine. So I walked into her

656
00:30:53,359 --> 00:30:57,319
classroom the other day after school and because I just said,

657
00:30:57,519 --> 00:30:59,839
I just need a few minutes with you, and uh

658
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,279
so I went in there and she said, come on in,

659
00:31:03,519 --> 00:31:06,799
sit down. You know, she's very You could tell she

660
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,440
had her guard up. And she said, I didn't pull

661
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,000
any of Natalia's stuff because I didn't know what you

662
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,440
wanted to talk about. And I said, I'm not I'm

663
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,079
not here to talk about her grades. I said, I'm

664
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,559
here to talk to see if everything is okay between

665
00:31:21,519 --> 00:31:24,519
you and Italian, if there's any issues going on with

666
00:31:24,599 --> 00:31:27,240
Natalia that you think I should be working on, or

667
00:31:28,039 --> 00:31:31,200
is something you know. I said it very I was

668
00:31:31,279 --> 00:31:33,240
very proud of myself. I said, any any of her

669
00:31:33,359 --> 00:31:36,039
behavioral any kind of behavior, any kind of drama, anything

670
00:31:36,079 --> 00:31:40,960
happening that I should know. And she's like, well, and

671
00:31:41,039 --> 00:31:43,119
I said, She's like, can you give me an example?

672
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,759
And I said, well, she came in yesterday and she

673
00:31:46,119 --> 00:31:49,880
asked you a question because she raised her hand and

674
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,160
she came up and she started to ask the question

675
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,279
and you cut her off, which you seem to do

676
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,319
that I've heard from her. And you told her just

677
00:31:58,359 --> 00:32:00,599
go to just go to missus so and so's classroom

678
00:32:00,759 --> 00:32:03,519
and do it. And you're very curt with her, and

679
00:32:03,559 --> 00:32:07,119
you're very short, and I don't know if there's something

680
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,759
going on and that I should know about. And I said,

681
00:32:10,519 --> 00:32:13,000
and believe me, I know Natalia. I know she can

682
00:32:13,039 --> 00:32:15,400
push buttons. I know that she's And I said, but

683
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,519
we're working on her issues at home, and we're aware

684
00:32:18,599 --> 00:32:20,599
of it and we're working on it. But is there

685
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,839
something between you and her that I, you know, should

686
00:32:22,839 --> 00:32:26,279
know about? And she said she got very red in

687
00:32:26,319 --> 00:32:31,519
the face, and I love it as she said, huh, yeah,

688
00:32:31,759 --> 00:32:35,920
she did come up to me yesterday, she said, but uh,

689
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,519
I don't if I did cut her off. I didn't

690
00:32:38,559 --> 00:32:41,519
mean to cut her off, but if she perceived everything

691
00:32:41,599 --> 00:32:44,519
is if she perceived it that way. And I said, well,

692
00:32:44,559 --> 00:32:50,799
there's another time that she raised her hand and you said, uh, yes, Natalia,

693
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,039
and she asked a question. Oh no, no, no, no,

694
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:58,160
there was another time. Okay, Natalia has been complaining about

695
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,440
what's his name, the kid that sits next to her, okay,

696
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:05,200
her seat partner for a long time. And there was

697
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,720
a day a couple of days ago that Natalia they

698
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,720
were standing up and she couldn't see and she's like, Jacob,

699
00:33:10,799 --> 00:33:13,240
I can't see it, and he's like, well, scoot back.

700
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: So she scooted.

701
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,319
Speaker 1: She scooted way back, and missus so and Thompson turns

702
00:33:18,319 --> 00:33:21,400
around and says, Natalia, scoot your chair back, and so

703
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,880
she scooted back a little bit, like an inch, and

704
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,119
then she turned back around. She goes, you got a strike.

705
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,680
And then because she didn't scoot it all the way back,

706
00:33:29,839 --> 00:33:32,640
and she's like, but I can't see. And then she

707
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,759
turned back around. She goes, now, scoots you back again.

708
00:33:34,759 --> 00:33:37,279
And then she scooted back again a little bit, and

709
00:33:37,839 --> 00:33:39,839
so she says and then she says, now you have

710
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:44,440
two strikes. And I said, so, so what happened there?

711
00:33:44,559 --> 00:33:47,160
Is it? Because you know Natalia War's glasses. She does

712
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,680
have bad eyesight, and she says she's never ever told

713
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,720
me that she has a problem seeing. I am aware

714
00:33:51,759 --> 00:33:54,799
of her eyesight. That's why she sits so close. And

715
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,440
I know that she has an issue with her seat partner,

716
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,759
but she's never said anything to me about it. But

717
00:33:59,839 --> 00:34:05,680
instead she's basically being defiant and uh, she's not That's

718
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,440
what she said. She's being defiant and when she does that,

719
00:34:08,599 --> 00:34:11,000
I might have gotten short with her. And I said, well,

720
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,000
I understand that she gets defiant. And she said, but

721
00:34:14,039 --> 00:34:17,119
if she would get she said, if she would have

722
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:20,639
came to me and said, you know what, Missus Thompson,

723
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,679
I'd like to move my I don't want to have

724
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,800
my seat partner or whatever, I'd be happy to do it.

725
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 2: And I sebout it.

726
00:34:25,679 --> 00:34:27,679
Speaker 1: I said, really, I said, because I had a talk

727
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,079
with her about that. I said, you know what, Natalia,

728
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,519
I bet you if you said, Missus Thompson, can I

729
00:34:32,519 --> 00:34:34,320
have a few minutes with you during recess so I

730
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,519
can talk to you and then tell you that you

731
00:34:37,559 --> 00:34:41,360
know she does she has issues with you know whatever, Jacob,

732
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,519
do you really think that you would have moved her?

733
00:34:45,039 --> 00:34:45,239
You know?

734
00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:45,639
Speaker 4: No.

735
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:47,639
Speaker 1: I said to Natalia, why don't you try that? And

736
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,880
Natalia is like, I can, but I don't think she's

737
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:52,679
going to move me because what am I going to say?

738
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,599
That he grosses me out and that's why I need

739
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:55,559
to be moved.

740
00:34:55,639 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: You know.

741
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: And I said, well, you can say that you know

742
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,360
that I don't know that that yeah, that he'd not

743
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,559
You can say gross, you astract, but he's distracting or

744
00:35:04,599 --> 00:35:07,760
he he yeah that it's it is that, it's but

745
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,840
he bothers you or whatever. It's just not a good match.

746
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,960
It's not a good match. There's other kid you could

747
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,840
be sitting next to. And uh, I said, do you

748
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,760
really think you you would have moved her? And she's

749
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:23,920
like absolutely. I was like really, And then I said, well,

750
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,639
I also need to bring up the an incident with Sonny.

751
00:35:29,199 --> 00:35:33,639
And see now Natai's Natalia, but Sonny they Sonny doesn't lie.

752
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,239
He doesn't lie, okay, and they know that and I

753
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,280
know that. And Sonny's brought this issue. Uh this this

754
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,880
one time where you said, you know, if we didn't

755
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,760
do it, then you must not have done it or

756
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,920
something like that, and he said, what if I was

757
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,320
a kid that got embarrassed easily, and she just like

758
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,800
stared at me and was like, was he embarrassed? And

759
00:35:55,880 --> 00:36:00,360
I said he said he wasn't, but he and she's like, well,

760
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,880
maybe that's how he perceived it, but I didn't. I

761
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,360
don't think I would have said it that way. But

762
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,840
if I was dismissive, then I will apologize to him.

763
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,800
And I said, okay. And then there was another time

764
00:36:13,199 --> 00:36:16,239
where you told you, oh, it was that incident where

765
00:36:16,559 --> 00:36:18,639
now you have two strikes and now go to the other.

766
00:36:18,639 --> 00:36:21,039
Then she said that she was teaching a lesson and

767
00:36:21,079 --> 00:36:24,239
she said, Natalia, go into the other room, the IEP room,

768
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,880
go to thea go over there, and you're being disruptive,

769
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,079
so go into the other room. And she was quiet

770
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,559
and waited for Natalia to pack her stuff up and

771
00:36:32,599 --> 00:36:35,440
go into the other room to continue her lesson. And

772
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,719
I told her that, and she said she got red

773
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,400
in the face again, and then she said she might

774
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,679
have perceived everything, might have perceived it that way, but

775
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,760
she's like, I don't think I was being I wasn't

776
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,760
being quiet waiting for her to leave the room. I

777
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,079
might have been doing something else and she might have

778
00:36:52,159 --> 00:36:55,320
thought it was because I was waiting for her. Natalia

779
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,840
told me all her friends witnessed it and was like, wow,

780
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,679
like what the heck, Like she's never you know why she.

781
00:37:01,639 --> 00:37:04,639
Speaker 2: Feel like these teachers sometimes they like when a child

782
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:08,480
is in the fifth grade, they're old enough to they're

783
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,559
going to remember this stuff. Like not only it's they're

784
00:37:11,599 --> 00:37:12,960
not It's not the same as when they're in the

785
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,679
first grade. And I'm not saying it's okay when they're

786
00:37:14,679 --> 00:37:18,400
younger either, but you're talking about kids that are that

787
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,000
are like almost teenagers. Yes, like they feel it. It's

788
00:37:22,079 --> 00:37:26,400
not just how they perceive it. They understand context and

789
00:37:26,559 --> 00:37:29,119
moods of people, and they know when they're being singled out,

790
00:37:29,159 --> 00:37:31,719
and they know when somebody's having an actual reaction to

791
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,559
them and not just they so the whole Oh, I

792
00:37:35,559 --> 00:37:37,840
don't know how she perceived it. Maybe if she was

793
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,639
in kindergarten right about fifth grade.

794
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: That's what I said to her. I said, well, the

795
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:48,280
whole perceiving thing, I said, she's she's eleven. She's she's

796
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,239
almost eleven years old, and Natalia is very in tuned

797
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,000
with people, and she can feel if somebody's being annoyed.

798
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,039
Now I know again, I know that she's got her issues,

799
00:37:59,159 --> 00:38:01,639
but she is a ten year old girl and you're

800
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,760
the teacher, and I can't have her yes. I was like, yeah,

801
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,400
I said, I can't have her coming home and feeling

802
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,840
like she doesn't want to go to school. She's never

803
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,800
had that that issue before and now like it's starting

804
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,079
to come up. And I know we're at the end

805
00:38:17,119 --> 00:38:20,639
of the year, but it's it's been a tough year

806
00:38:20,679 --> 00:38:21,559
for her and.

807
00:38:21,599 --> 00:38:23,559
Speaker 2: I wish I would have good end of the year, bitch.

808
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,159
Speaker 1: Then she's like, we will ask always right. She was like,

809
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,079
we will end the year. I will. I will apologize

810
00:38:30,119 --> 00:38:32,719
to both of them, and she says, we will end

811
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,639
the year on a good note. And I want her

812
00:38:34,639 --> 00:38:36,039
to be able to come up to me and ask

813
00:38:36,119 --> 00:38:38,559
me if she has questions and stuff like that. I

814
00:38:38,559 --> 00:38:39,599
want to have that because.

815
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,159
Speaker 2: Well, if she's got an attitude with her, she's not

816
00:38:41,159 --> 00:38:42,679
going to feel like she can go up and talk

817
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,760
to her. She's going to feel like, ugh, here comes

818
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:46,440
in Italia again, what's your problem?

819
00:38:46,559 --> 00:38:49,519
Speaker 1: Right? That's and they all her friends, all her little friends,

820
00:38:49,519 --> 00:38:52,159
and Sonny's Sonny too and his friends. We were all

821
00:38:52,159 --> 00:38:54,920
talking about this teacher and how she has her favorites.

822
00:38:55,199 --> 00:38:58,159
When Caitlyn comes over, she's like, oh hi, she gets

823
00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:01,639
Kaitlyn on a big hug. Oh I oh, Isabelle. Isabelle

824
00:39:01,639 --> 00:39:03,320
and Caitlyn can never do anything wrong. And I know

825
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,639
Isabelle and Caitlin and I they're great kids, and they're

826
00:39:05,679 --> 00:39:08,840
also very studious, and you know, they get their shit

827
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,440
done and their teacher's pets and whatever, which is great.

828
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:16,000
It's fine. But if these fifth graders can already know

829
00:39:16,159 --> 00:39:19,519
that she's got her favorites, I'm sure she knows an

830
00:39:19,559 --> 00:39:22,719
Italian's feeling that she's got her ones that are she's

831
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,400
dreading too. And also, bitch, retire already. If you don't

832
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,360
want to work, and if you're if you're sick, if

833
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,519
kids are bothering you, you're a teacher, then retired, you

834
00:39:32,559 --> 00:39:34,840
know what I mean. Like she's on that verge where

835
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,679
she's like, you know, just about ready for her paycheck

836
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,400
and call it a day, Like just fucking retire and

837
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,320
don't take it out on kids. Then you know, fuck

838
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:44,320
fuck off.

839
00:39:44,519 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: It's just the worst.

840
00:39:45,639 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: It's the worst.

841
00:39:46,519 --> 00:39:50,039
Speaker 2: And so the thing is with kids, you know, they

842
00:39:50,079 --> 00:39:54,239
have to go to school, right, and when they are

843
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,000
spending a day with that amount of time, Like I

844
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:01,760
always feel with my kids. Okay, if there's there's a

845
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,800
couple of teachers at our school, well they're not really teachers,

846
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,239
but like like, okay, I'll just say it. My kids

847
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,000
do not really care for the coach, their coach, but

848
00:40:12,119 --> 00:40:15,480
they've got pe twice a week for forty five minutes

849
00:40:15,679 --> 00:40:18,679
or whatever it is. So my feeling is like, look,

850
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,559
that's just life. You're not have to deal with people

851
00:40:20,559 --> 00:40:24,119
that you don't get along with or they're not your favorite. Well,

852
00:40:24,199 --> 00:40:27,880
but the coach yelled at me, and she yelled at

853
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,079
me and told me to go sit on the bench

854
00:40:30,159 --> 00:40:34,159
or whatever. Okay, that sucks. I totally get it that.

855
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,440
If I were you, I would feel mad too. But

856
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,679
it's forty five minutes twice a week. It's not you,

857
00:40:40,079 --> 00:40:43,800
but when it's their teacher, no, that's not acceptable. I

858
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:48,000
can't be mistreating the kids, even if it's not something big,

859
00:40:48,039 --> 00:40:50,960
but it affects their self esteem, Like that's the person

860
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,239
that you're learning trying to learn right, right and every day.

861
00:40:54,599 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: And I feel horrible because I let it go on

862
00:40:58,039 --> 00:41:00,239
because I'm like Nata. Because Natai's brought it up a

863
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,519
few times and I'm like, well, you know you can

864
00:41:02,599 --> 00:41:05,079
blah blah blah, I said. But then and then I said,

865
00:41:05,079 --> 00:41:06,840
why don't you ask her to talk for a few

866
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,159
minutes and asked her if you could move blah blah blah.

867
00:41:09,199 --> 00:41:12,079
And then and I told this to her, I said,

868
00:41:12,119 --> 00:41:14,760
I've told Natalia she's because she said, I wish you

869
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,320
would have came to me earlier. And I said, well,

870
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,519
I tried to teach and Italian, you know, I always

871
00:41:19,559 --> 00:41:21,760
gonna like your boss, You're not always gonna like your

872
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,480
the teacher you get. And she just sat there and

873
00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:26,159
stared at me, and I was like, you know, so

874
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,360
I was trying to explain to her, like I'm not

875
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,880
going to come to your rescue. You have to figure

876
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,679
it out on your own. And maybe you are doing

877
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,519
something that is you know whatever, but it's gone on

878
00:41:34,639 --> 00:41:37,639
too long and these certain situations that she's telling me

879
00:41:37,679 --> 00:41:41,800
about is to me unacceptable. And you're her teacher and

880
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,880
she's a ten year old girl and she's trying to

881
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,480
learn from you, and good for you up and that,

882
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,719
you know. And she's like, no, we will end on

883
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:51,639
a good note. Well end the year on a good note.

884
00:41:51,679 --> 00:41:55,000
I will apologize. So she did apologize to her. She's

885
00:41:55,119 --> 00:41:56,880
and when I came home and told him to Oh,

886
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:02,639
it's going to be so awkward opposite.

887
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 2: Because she's gonna apologe. She's gonna be extra nized to her.

888
00:42:04,199 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: She has been, she's been to only been two days,

889
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,000
but yeah, she moved her a steep partner. She's like, oh,

890
00:42:10,039 --> 00:42:12,719
thank god, I'm with you know, another boy that she likes.

891
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,719
And and I said, did she apologize, because she's kept

892
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,599
saying I'll apologize to both. Did she apologize to Sonny? No,

893
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,719
she hadn't said one word to Sonny, but I didn't

894
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,760
think she would. She's not Sonny's she's Sonni's like math

895
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,480
teacher and science teacher and that's it, you know. But

896
00:42:28,599 --> 00:42:32,760
she's Natalia's homeroom teacher, right, and math and everything else.

897
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,280
But so I don't know.

898
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: See, I think like one time with a teacher that

899
00:42:38,199 --> 00:42:42,239
Mattie really liked, that you can have this problem sometimes.

900
00:42:43,159 --> 00:42:48,000
Uh here here's an example similar but with a different

901
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,880
outcome where the teacher was Mattie's teacher and was is

902
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:57,039
a really amazing teacher who is I think very patient.

903
00:42:57,079 --> 00:43:00,760
I mean, I'm not there, but one time Maddie was

904
00:43:01,199 --> 00:43:04,719
and Maddie can be a little disruptive. I think he

905
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:09,440
gets like over excited and then like will I know,

906
00:43:09,599 --> 00:43:11,719
because it's not just the one teacher, like he will

907
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,840
get talked to like you're being distracted or you're distracting

908
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,320
other people, and I guess he got a warning and

909
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,480
then the teacher sent him out of the room. And

910
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,400
so this is like their discipline. You get sent out

911
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:28,239
of if you're really being distracting or disruptive, they will

912
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:33,440
send you to another classroom. Well, Maddie is very sensitive

913
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,320
and not a bad obviously, Mattie is not a bad kid,

914
00:43:37,199 --> 00:43:40,679
doesn't do stuff wrong on purpose, and is sensitive and

915
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,320
really if you yell at him, he just takes things

916
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,119
to heart, right, So that he came home this one

917
00:43:48,159 --> 00:43:51,719
day and he was like I got he almost didn't

918
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,599
want to tell me. He was like embarrassed to tell

919
00:43:53,599 --> 00:43:56,000
me that I'd be mad at him too. But he

920
00:43:56,119 --> 00:43:58,039
started crying and he said that he got sent out

921
00:43:58,039 --> 00:43:59,559
of the room. He had to go to the other classroom,

922
00:43:59,559 --> 00:44:03,280
and he said it was really embarrassing because the other teacher,

923
00:44:04,199 --> 00:44:08,239
you know, was just like like, here comes this kid

924
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,079
that's in here because he's in trouble. So he had

925
00:44:10,119 --> 00:44:12,960
to go. So this was second grade. They sent him

926
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,199
to the classroom for the first graders, right, not like

927
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:19,039
the other second grade they sent him to the first.

928
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: Are they supposed to do that or was this?

929
00:44:21,679 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean I guess, I don't know. But

930
00:44:26,079 --> 00:44:28,719
what happened is he so he went and he said

931
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,199
that they all of course stopped what they were doing

932
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:32,719
and stared at him, and then he had to go

933
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,039
sit in the room and he was mortified. And then

934
00:44:35,039 --> 00:44:36,800
when he told me what he'd done wrong, like I

935
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,840
was like, that's not a big enough That can't have

936
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,480
been a big enough deal, you know, And he just

937
00:44:41,599 --> 00:44:44,079
felt like his teacher was really angry with him. And

938
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so I went into the teacher and I was like, hey,

939
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can I just grab you for a second. And I

940
00:44:48,159 --> 00:44:51,800
was like, I go. So the other day I go.

941
00:44:52,079 --> 00:44:55,239
Maddie told me that, you know, you sent him out

942
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,559
of the room, and he felt really like, I go,

943
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,960
I don't know what he did wrong. I go, but

944
00:45:02,079 --> 00:45:05,760
you should just know that he really took it to heart,

945
00:45:06,119 --> 00:45:11,320
like he really felt chastised and embarrassed. And she was like,

946
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:16,400
oh my god, she goes. I I mean, yeah, she goes.

947
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,360
But sometimes She goes, I was having a bad day,

948
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,760
and you know, I was like already kind of done

949
00:45:24,079 --> 00:45:27,320
with all of them, with their being everybody was tongue

950
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,400
and I think I might have She goes, it wasn't

951
00:45:29,559 --> 00:45:31,960
just Maddie, but I did send them to different rooms.

952
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,159
She goes, but you know what, I shouldn't have done that.

953
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,079
It wasn't bad enough like what he did.

954
00:45:37,119 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 1: He was.

955
00:45:37,519 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 2: It was just that so many kids had been acting

956
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,920
up that he was kind of a last straw. So

957
00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:46,159
she goes, I'm going to apologize. I'm going to apologize

958
00:45:46,159 --> 00:45:47,960
to him, and I go, it's just that you sent

959
00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:51,039
them to this other teacher's room. And she was not

960
00:45:51,199 --> 00:45:54,280
nice to him because he was a came in as

961
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,320
like a discipline problem. She was, and she totally sat

962
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,519
him down like the next day and was like, I'm

963
00:45:59,559 --> 00:46:02,800
really I really like you. Oh, because the thing was

964
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,760
that he was like, I don't think she likes me anymore,

965
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,039
like she thinks I'm a problem, you know, and she was.

966
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,320
I thought it was so nice. Yeah, she totally owned

967
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,679
it right away, and it was like, I totally get

968
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,000
that you could have been having a bad day, right,

969
00:46:15,079 --> 00:46:18,840
And then she made it right, right, Yes, that's fine.

970
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,000
But as Deorinda would say, she made things nice. I

971
00:46:22,079 --> 00:46:25,199
made it nice, she says, she goes, I made it

972
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:25,840
nice for you.

973
00:46:26,519 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

974
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 2: So she told him and he came home and he

975
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:30,039
was like so happy.

976
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.

977
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: But if it was like an ongoing thing, I agree, like,

978
00:46:35,039 --> 00:46:36,039
it's not acceptable.

979
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,519
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm glad I did it. I wish I

980
00:46:38,559 --> 00:46:39,480
would have done it sooner.

981
00:46:39,559 --> 00:46:42,039
Speaker 2: And then these kids label themselves like then oh they

982
00:46:42,039 --> 00:46:45,280
feel like a problem, right exactly. And she's the adult

983
00:46:45,519 --> 00:46:46,920
and Natalia's the kid.

984
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 1: Right exactly, and she's already strong.

985
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,599
Speaker 2: I don't start having an attitude with a kid then,

986
00:46:53,159 --> 00:46:53,400
I know.

987
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:57,199
Speaker 1: And she's that again, picture like she's just like right

988
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,440
out of Central Casting. She's just like she's got a

989
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,519
puss on all the time. She's rolling her eyes, you know,

990
00:47:02,599 --> 00:47:05,760
she looks like her life is miserable, and you know,

991
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,119
she's just grumpy. But then Caitlyn shows up and she's

992
00:47:09,199 --> 00:47:12,079
all smiles and huggy, huggy, and then it's like Natalia

993
00:47:12,119 --> 00:47:15,760
ox in and she's like, you know, it's like, bitch.

994
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,599
Speaker 2: Not acceptable. No, don't like that.

995
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: When I walked out of that room, I thought I

996
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,960
would feel better afterwards, I was, I was, I.

997
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,159
Speaker 2: Was like, fucking bitch, aren't you kind of done with

998
00:47:27,199 --> 00:47:27,559
this year?

999
00:47:28,119 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? I am. It's almost over. They're going to middle

1000
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,679
school next year and they're still in sixth They're gonna

1001
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,239
be in sixth Yeah, but they don't start middle school

1002
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,039
till seventh. Oh really, school district. I know, Melissa is

1003
00:47:42,079 --> 00:47:47,400
the same the other Melissa's like you, yeah.

1004
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,599
Speaker 2: Interesting so, but she won't have a chance of having

1005
00:47:50,599 --> 00:47:53,760
that teacher that's just a fifth Yeah. Do you like

1006
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,280
the sixth grade teachers at the school?

1007
00:47:55,320 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: I hear they're not that great. No, I know, I know.

1008
00:48:01,199 --> 00:48:03,320
She can't n'tell. You cannot catch a break when it

1009
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,719
comes to a teacher. But there's the other one.

1010
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 2: The fifth grade.

1011
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,679
Speaker 1: They have three teachers, even though they have a homeroom,

1012
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,840
but they move around. There's one of them out of

1013
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,639
the three, there's two out of the three that are

1014
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,199
but one she really likes. And you know, that's about.

1015
00:48:20,199 --> 00:48:22,039
That's about. I call them the witches at Eastwick.

1016
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:27,559
Speaker 2: That's funny. All right, you're a parent, now, don't f

1017
00:48:27,639 --> 00:48:27,920
it up.