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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Transformation Station podcast. I'm Christina, owner, operator,

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<v Speaker 1>and founder of the Transformation Station, and this is where

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about getting stronger while navigating real life. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to stay consistent through the ups and the

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<v Speaker 1>downs and everywhere else in between. This is for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey friends, welcome, Welcome back to the podcast. Today. We

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<v Speaker 1>have another exciting because we have an exciting guests. We

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<v Speaker 1>have your member here, Danielle.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever done a podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>I did one with my friend once, but not besides that,

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<v Speaker 3>So we'll see how this goes.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So we're going to start off with a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about you. You are my breath Transformation Station. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>why you walk through the door.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it was just time to walk through

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<v Speaker 3>a door of a gym and like actually keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I grew up playing soccer and I was

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<v Speaker 3>always like fairly fit for like doing minimal activities.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember always joking, you know, I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Just eat whatever and and stay you know, tiny, And

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<v Speaker 3>then all of a sudden that just didn't happen anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I did some personal training before COVID for

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<v Speaker 3>like a year, and I kind of got the forms

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<v Speaker 3>down pretty well. And then through COVID tipped that scale

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<v Speaker 3>over two hundred and kind of got like thirty off

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<v Speaker 3>and then it came all right, right all back. And uh,

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<v Speaker 3>my ex actually was a trainer recently and got me

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<v Speaker 3>back into the gym. I was in an empty gym

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<v Speaker 3>because she worked there, which was really nice in building

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<v Speaker 3>my confidence. And then coming here it was just everyone

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<v Speaker 3>was so welcoming. And I think also being in a

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<v Speaker 3>queer owned space was very helpful to me being newly out,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that also was like very welcoming and

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<v Speaker 3>everyone is so nice here and I just had a

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<v Speaker 3>really fun time and kept coming back. And I know

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<v Speaker 3>you watched me. I was out on a trip and

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<v Speaker 3>you were sending me all like all of these like

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<v Speaker 3>being like, oh wow, look at the mountains things like that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I don't actually go to your

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<v Speaker 3>gym yet, but I'm so excited to start going when

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<v Speaker 3>I get back. And so I think we kind of

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<v Speaker 3>had that banter before I even started here, and I

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<v Speaker 3>loved it so far.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting too, sometimes like I have never seen like Alberta.

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<v Speaker 1>Calgary hasn't like any of those places. So every time

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<v Speaker 1>I see like the mountains and I see like travel,

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<v Speaker 1>different travel things. I'm like, see so great, And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>like I forget what account that I'm on, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the gym account or like my personal account, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like a double click and then you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the other account, and then when you comment or see things,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't show you what account you're actually like, so

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<v Speaker 1>like I at this point, I don't even almost care

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<v Speaker 1>because most people know that I owned the gym if

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<v Speaker 1>they look at the profile and says like my username.

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<v Speaker 1>But my intention of when I bantered with people is

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<v Speaker 1>it's never the intention of I want to talk with

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<v Speaker 1>you because I want you to come to the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's really cool that you actually answered that back,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, wait, I want to I'm probably

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<v Speaker 1>when I come back, I was like, okay, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you know I know you said like it's you

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<v Speaker 1>were excited to know, like it was a queer on space.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that when you joined?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you made a comment because I I think

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<v Speaker 3>because I asked where could I fill up my water

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<v Speaker 3>bottle somewhere and you made the comment of because I

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<v Speaker 3>think you had filled Chris's water bottle up part way

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<v Speaker 3>through class and you were like, oh, you can just

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<v Speaker 3>hand me your water bottle. That's my spouse. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like nice. I was like, that makes me feel

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<v Speaker 3>so much better too.

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<v Speaker 2>So I loved that and that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that was because I drank. Yeah maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do that sometimes and I realized, like there's someone

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<v Speaker 1>new in the class and I was like, oh, they

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<v Speaker 1>just think that. I just like, yeah, I'll go, Philip,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's a tax on it. Here you go. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I verbally will say that just because people are like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>like you like here, you feel this er do whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about further into that. So what is your goal now,

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<v Speaker 1>because like you just finished, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still very sweaty and you're here, right, So how

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<v Speaker 3>has your outlook on?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you said like you're actually joining and you're gonna stick.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's the difference.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I think, like I said before, like I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was just time and just being here. I'm already

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<v Speaker 3>noticing so much difference.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving the micro the first time, that's the first time

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<v Speaker 1>that someone recording loud. Oh yeah, so if you're listening

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<v Speaker 1>to turn your volume down back and watching did I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, your your volume, things are going higher than one.

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<v Speaker 1>I try to make it so it's balanced. But like

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that's listened to the podcast prior, Hello listeners, you've

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<v Speaker 1>noticed that we've had some technical difficulties with our mics

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<v Speaker 1>and our sounds. So this is something that I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>working on. Anyway, So how has thing? How have things

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<v Speaker 1>changed now that you're you're here?

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<v Speaker 3>Is your I was actually just talking to you, I

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<v Speaker 3>think last night about maybe well, when I first joined

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<v Speaker 3>the gym, I was like, I want to do High Rocks.

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<v Speaker 3>We tried that we did not get or you got tickets.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I really wanted to try and get a

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<v Speaker 3>team together to do a High Rocks.

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<v Speaker 2>But we didn't get tickets.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was kind of like, Okay, what is like

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<v Speaker 3>something else that I can like? I really like goals

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<v Speaker 3>and like working my way towards something. And so I

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<v Speaker 3>think the Decca, which is kind of like a little

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<v Speaker 3>maybe an easier version of Higher Rocks in October. That's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like my stretched out goal. Also, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to get a breast production, so that's another thing

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm like working towards and so yeah, So I

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<v Speaker 3>think both of those things like have kind of got

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<v Speaker 3>me to stay here some sort of like fitness goal

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<v Speaker 3>as well as the surgery and making sure I can

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<v Speaker 3>lose enough wait, not necessarily because I have to, but

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<v Speaker 3>because I want to and to come out of that

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<v Speaker 3>surgery and feel like really good.

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<v Speaker 2>In my body.

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<v Speaker 3>And so far just being here, I've noticed like such

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<v Speaker 3>a difference. I mean, just like energy wise, I've lost

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<v Speaker 3>like a good amount so far that I'm happy with

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<v Speaker 3>and to continue on with. But I think too noticing

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<v Speaker 3>that the number on the scale doesn't necessarily matter, but

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<v Speaker 3>my pants do not fit so so like the yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>they're they're too big. And I was actually I was

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<v Speaker 3>looking at a picture the other day of me at

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<v Speaker 3>a concert where I was wearing like like baggy jeans,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, Okay, they're not necessarily like cute

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<v Speaker 3>baggy anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought they were still cute baggy. They're not. I

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<v Speaker 2>just need a different.

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<v Speaker 4>Size of genes, which is like, which is so great,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't like I'm you know, started at the

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<v Speaker 4>heaviest that I've ever been, and so I'm just like

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<v Speaker 4>really excited to go back down a size or two.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't really tried yet in pants. Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome, and then you can like healthfully recover. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I didn't know. There's so many people

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<v Speaker 1>in these four walls that have had breast production or

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<v Speaker 1>they're going through it as well. There's some people in

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<v Speaker 1>these walls that have had breast and plants because they've

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<v Speaker 1>gone through cancer. There's so many, like, so many different

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<v Speaker 1>things I myself did have. We will call it a

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<v Speaker 1>breast lugging. So I have breast and plants, which is

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<v Speaker 1>not really secret. I had them done I don't know, twelve, twelve,

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen years ago maybe, and I had it done when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in my twenties. So I'm like, fast forward

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<v Speaker 1>to today. I don't know if I would do it.

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<v Speaker 1>In my famous last words, I went to like one

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<v Speaker 1>of the top five surgeons in Canada or Ontario or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>like a sleepover nurse, like a sleepover anyway. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like a private practice that I went to, and my

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<v Speaker 1>famous last words were, well, just filled them up so

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<v Speaker 1>I can get my money's worth. So I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>being man made from like a B cut with like

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<v Speaker 1>a fifty band. Is the thing. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>like when you like shop for like plus sized clothes

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, there's so many people that they just assume

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<v Speaker 1>that if you're like four hundred pounds that you have

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<v Speaker 1>gigantic melons, which is totally not the case for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So I remember like losing weight and likes my dresses

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<v Speaker 1>and everything would just like fall open. And I remember

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<v Speaker 1>I was in There's a store in Toronto and I

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<v Speaker 1>was with my mom and it's like all Italians for

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, and I tried on this dress and

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<v Speaker 1>I kept going down in sidees from down, insides down

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<v Speaker 1>in size. It just hit my watch that wasn't fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went down size and this Italian woman watched

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<v Speaker 1>was oh, no, no, you can't wear that dress. You

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<v Speaker 1>have no booze. I was like, okay, anyway, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>bought the dress, never wore it. And then after I

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<v Speaker 1>had my bood job, I was like, remember remember that

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<v Speaker 1>dress from a long time ago that you got Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're talking about. I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you do, it's in your closet. It's still stay. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take it now. Literally that she did like, here, take it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never wear it. I'm like, I know it's been

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<v Speaker 1>in here for years now actually, so I actually wore

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<v Speaker 1>that so in my second yeah, yeah, my third competition

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<v Speaker 1>that I did. So when I play second at a

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<v Speaker 1>twin end competitors with the w BFF at Worlds in

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<v Speaker 1>Las Vegas, we had different we had different athletes meetings

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<v Speaker 1>that we had to go to leading up to that event,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually wore that dress for one of the events events.

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<v Speaker 1>So to me, that was like yay, gold check mark contained.

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<v Speaker 1>But I ended up being man made to be an

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<v Speaker 1>at Cup and now that I'm not a small quotation mark,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm much stronger than when I was in my mid twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm a g so like this sucks and no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what I wear, I'm like, I always look like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bigger than what I am and it's so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's something the one warned me about is when

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<v Speaker 1>you go from being like small chested to gigantic, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're like floating, like trying to do stuff on your

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<v Speaker 1>chest and stuff like that. I'm like, all my shorts

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<v Speaker 1>are too short, too short, my shirts that look like

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<v Speaker 1>when the boo, I'm like, oh no, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>wear undershirts to cover all my ship. But anyway, long

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<v Speaker 1>story short, it's interesting because everyone has their own yea

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<v Speaker 1>and some people don't talk out loud, like on the

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<v Speaker 1>gym floor, we hear, but like I'm trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>in more protein, I'm trying to get in less stress.

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<v Speaker 1>I come here because it's the mental health. But you

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm saying like, oh I got a boot job,

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<v Speaker 2>Which has also been like crazy help for me as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So so, so what do you find, Like I always

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<v Speaker 1>and like humor or whatever. I don't think that's like

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<v Speaker 1>those things. But there's so much more different feelings in

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<v Speaker 1>the wheel of emotion. So like when I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask what it's like, what do you want to feel?

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<v Speaker 1>And I actually did this with a life coach years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, well, I want to feel the word radiant.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel what makes me feel radiant? Like I want to

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's beyond even just saying I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to feel like we hear that so much, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to feel good. What is good to you? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you want to feel I want to feel radiant?

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<v Speaker 1>Like super Mario when he hits like the do and

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<v Speaker 1>he hits a flashing star, then he can go and

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<v Speaker 1>take over the entire world, not necessarily world, but you

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<v Speaker 1>super Mario flashing thing back. And I know that's a stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope some of you are audio and visual burners

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm talking about right now. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't play video games, then me neither. But like radiance, radiance,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, okay, well, working out makes me feel radiant?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of well kind of workouts making it feel radiant?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the strength training? Is it? Cardio? What style?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, well, step step work for workouts And

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<v Speaker 1>then at the time I wasn't taking zoom and I

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<v Speaker 1>never had done maybe once in my life. I did

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<v Speaker 1>the zoo way, so like dancing specifically, but now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>too old to go out dancing. Some people are still

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine, no shame, that's just not for me. So

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<v Speaker 1>I love dancing to feel radiant, and I love like

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<v Speaker 1>step class was my answer. And then she's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like and music. She said, well what style of music?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, well, I love all music. When I

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel radiant, I love like Latin music. Then

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<v Speaker 1>that's how we left it. So she was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>when you want to feel this way, when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel that way, these are the things that you can

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<v Speaker 1>choose to grab a step. You can grab a step class.

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<v Speaker 1>Well there's not a lot of places anymore that are

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<v Speaker 1>teaching step, but grab a step class. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>teaching stuff at the time. And then she said, or

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<v Speaker 1>dance it out. So when I was coming back from Cuba,

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in the airport and I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sign up to teach you zoomba. I was so anti Zooma.

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<v Speaker 1>I kid you not like as a zoom instructor for

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<v Speaker 1>like I think four years now, I'm like, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>I came from like the more of the CrossFit, bodybuilding

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<v Speaker 1>style background, and I love I loved like taking step

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<v Speaker 1>and like those things within reason because I like I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have like my harder exterior, Like you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Those worlds don't make They can, but they can't. Two

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<v Speaker 1>things can be true at the same time. You can

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<v Speaker 1>love zuoma, you can love strength training, you can love

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<v Speaker 1>bar bell work, and you can love doing step class.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, Okay, so these are the things.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's a whole long winded bunny trail that brings

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<v Speaker 1>me back to when you feel good? What is it

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<v Speaker 1>that you love to do that makes you feel good?

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<v Speaker 1>Like so far, you've been doing quite a few different

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<v Speaker 1>styles of classes here, which one ultimately when you leave here,

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<v Speaker 1>makes you feel the most best.

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<v Speaker 3>The most goodest, the goodest that I feel when I

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<v Speaker 3>leave here. Honestly, I love the cardio kick. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 3>so I think the like the strong fit, definitely like

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<v Speaker 3>doing the super sets. I do really like that, But

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<v Speaker 3>the cardio kick is very It's just different than anything

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<v Speaker 3>that I've like tried before. And I remember doing the

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<v Speaker 3>first class using the whatever the rental ones that are

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<v Speaker 3>here for your versus the boxing gloves. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 3>being like I need to purchase my own, and I

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<v Speaker 3>like post it on the app, being like I need

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<v Speaker 3>recommendations because I want to keep hitting something. So I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like, yeah, the cardio kick cardio on the Wednesday mornings,

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<v Speaker 3>I love that one for sure. But other than that,

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<v Speaker 3>like the strong the Strong Fit doing the super sets.

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<v Speaker 3>I was that's the one that I was doing this

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<v Speaker 3>morning and my legs were just yellow by the end

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<v Speaker 3>from like the different squads that.

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<v Speaker 2>We did, squads on squats.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's so fun. So then are you here tomorrow? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's Strong Fit again.

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<v Speaker 1>Different. The nice thing is that we don't repeat exact Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So the cardio, yeah, how often? How often do we

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<v Speaker 1>actually get to hold things? Never?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I mean. That's why it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know, you do like the the

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<v Speaker 3>up and down movement and like the just the different Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I love all the movements.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels so good.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels like I've just you know, like it's it's

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<v Speaker 3>one thing to be like, you know, throwing a weight around,

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<v Speaker 3>but another thing to like actually be hitting something and being.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this feels so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not an angry person, but like, sometimes it's fun

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<v Speaker 3>to hit since.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's funny, I remember when you first joined.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, you're a little bit more like

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<v Speaker 1>the quieter or so. So usually this is just something

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<v Speaker 1>because we've taught cardio kick for these four years now,

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<v Speaker 1>and the friend the trend is that the people that

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<v Speaker 1>love it the very very most are always the more

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<v Speaker 1>quieter people. It's so shocking to me when someone is

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<v Speaker 1>like so like kind, like kind and like soft spoken.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm everything, I'm so kind, but like I am complete

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<v Speaker 1>opposite personality of that. So when I hear someone say

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<v Speaker 1>like that's my favorite and they didn't even think they

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to try it in the first place, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we have one member. This was going back when I

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<v Speaker 1>first bought the bags and I went up to her, am,

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<v Speaker 1>I do you think you're gonna do this class? And

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<v Speaker 1>she was like no. I'm like, well, she's like I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, she's super like to put together and

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<v Speaker 1>she's so pretty and she's so kind, and like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't I couldn't imagine her punching or kicking anything, even myself,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, but like still has bad ass bove so.

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<v Speaker 1>But I actually dragged the bag over to her spot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, okay, just just try it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>here's some gloves. Their mind, they're new, just try it,

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<v Speaker 1>just try it. She's like okay, she did, and she did,

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<v Speaker 1>and she like punched it once and she like looked

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<v Speaker 1>at the bag and then she punched it twice. I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what else you got? Like all right, all right, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's I'm like, what do you think. She's like, not bad,

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<v Speaker 1>not bad. And then the next time she came in

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<v Speaker 1>it was cardio kit coss. She comes in with these

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<v Speaker 1>brand new gloves and likes by her own glass. She's like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like I love that so much. She hasn't unless she's

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<v Speaker 1>been out of the country. She has not missed a

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<v Speaker 1>cardio Okay, yeah, yeah, And it's so phenomenal to see

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<v Speaker 1>it because it was like, no, I don't do those

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<v Speaker 1>things to like I see her in class now and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a freaking weapon. Yeah yeah. And then like chakes

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<v Speaker 1>off her gloves and cleansing, puts her bag back and

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<v Speaker 1>then she like she like floats when she watched like floats, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. Nobody would know during the day that

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<v Speaker 1>you went to a six am plastic ship from your bag.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's one of my favorite things. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting how that works. And the bags are neat to

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<v Speaker 1>So the bags are the Century Fight simulator bags actually,

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<v Speaker 1>so they're actually in Did you ever watch Copra Kai?

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<v Speaker 1>original kid actors that are not adults in the show,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's all like karate and stuff. And they have

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<v Speaker 1>those in almost like every episode at least once or

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<v Speaker 1>twice because they're like sponsoreds something through Central. So those bags,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't make them anymore, but some places do have

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<v Speaker 1>them that you can order them. There was a place

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<v Speaker 1>in Barry that had a bunch of them as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like a specific martial arts gym. When they're

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<v Speaker 1>used with the proper technique, those bags can last a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. But they're meant to be like wavering bags,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're not meant to ever be heavy bags. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that on the podcast because there's a few

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<v Speaker 1>people that have said, like, the bags move a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's time to replace the bags. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you have like two cardio kay classes a week because

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<v Speaker 1>of some of the other classes like strong fit, Circuit

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<v Speaker 1>power burn, tempo steps as those are also very popular.

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<v Speaker 1>So those bags are what they cost because they moved,

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<v Speaker 1>are not going to be replaced anytime soon. And at

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<v Speaker 1>least four of those bags are breds, so when they move,

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<v Speaker 1>people are like, oh, the bag just keeps moving and

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<v Speaker 1>it goes to the one side. I'm like their fight

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<v Speaker 1>simulator bags. It's meant to be like an opponent, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's meant to be like you know those those bags

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<v Speaker 1>can get them for like twenty dollars, have homart and

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<v Speaker 1>they're blow up, yeah, like those like tip over clown things.

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<v Speaker 1>So essentially that's how those bags were made in mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but more sturdy, so they're meant to go side to side.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm like, practice your footwork, walk around

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<v Speaker 1>the bag, because some times I see the same people

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<v Speaker 1>that just beat the ship out of a bag for

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<v Speaker 1>forty minutes just in the one spot. They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we need new bags. The bags are falling apart, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, they're new bags. They're meant to be They're

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<v Speaker 1>meant to do that. You got to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>other side. So yeah, yeah, and I'm like, if if

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<v Speaker 1>try to be kind, but like try to remind people

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<v Speaker 1>like move around the bag. It's a fight simulator because

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, like when you like box with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>like you go back and forth and you duck. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's how those bags are designed.

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<v Speaker 3>I will move around it more now, I do know you, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I do sometimes, but sometimes I'm just like no, I

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<v Speaker 3>just want to like sit here or stand here and

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<v Speaker 3>just like punch the crap out of it. So but

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<v Speaker 3>I hear you say, like move around the bag, I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Some people will start move around the bag, so we'll

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<v Speaker 1>just they won't. But like those bags, when they're done,

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<v Speaker 1>But we have different stuff coming in in the gym

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<v Speaker 1>now as well. So it was funny that you messaged

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<v Speaker 1>me last night about the skier and I'm like, actually,

419
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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you saw my stories, like the

420
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<v Speaker 1>trip to Better the gym, the Bucks, that's where I went.

421
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<v Speaker 1>That's where I went. So I went to there's a

422
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<v Speaker 1>fitness store in Marco so I drove there to pick

423
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<v Speaker 1>up the skier and I was told they had some

424
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<v Speaker 1>in stock and they didn't. And they didn't. I had

425
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<v Speaker 1>to order them. But I said to the guy I

426
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<v Speaker 1>want like I want X amount and he's like, we

427
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<v Speaker 1>don't have that. I'm like, well you can also include

428
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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I have X amount of boxes in the back, Like, well,

429
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<v Speaker 1>then you can also include the floor model. Yeah, And

430
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like I'll pay the full price. I don't care.

431
00:22:40.079 --> 00:22:41.640
<v Speaker 1>I just want it, and I want it today, Like

432
00:22:41.680 --> 00:22:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I drove here from Barry and he's like, oh, okay,

433
00:22:45.119 --> 00:22:46.519
<v Speaker 1>and then he goes to the back. He comes out

434
00:22:46.799 --> 00:22:48.480
<v Speaker 1>because he's like, no, we can't sell the floor model.

435
00:22:48.519 --> 00:22:50.519
<v Speaker 1>Then he comes back out he's like we don't have

436
00:22:50.559 --> 00:22:52.519
<v Speaker 1>It's like we don't have any in the back. Like

437
00:22:52.519 --> 00:22:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm not leaving here without at least one skier. Like

438
00:22:55.839 --> 00:22:57.559
<v Speaker 1>this was my to do list. I'm using that fin

439
00:22:57.680 --> 00:22:59.559
<v Speaker 1>Chat or you have like check Mark to buy your

440
00:22:59.559 --> 00:23:01.519
<v Speaker 1>little guy clothes. I'm like, I'm not going to have

441
00:23:01.759 --> 00:23:03.400
<v Speaker 1>to say that I didn't do that, Like I need

442
00:23:03.400 --> 00:23:05.880
<v Speaker 1>to get a new shoes, new shoes from my little

443
00:23:05.880 --> 00:23:07.839
<v Speaker 1>fish on my app. But anyway, so I'm like, no, no, no,

444
00:23:08.079 --> 00:23:10.759
<v Speaker 1>like I really need that skier. He's like, okay, we

445
00:23:10.759 --> 00:23:12.720
<v Speaker 1>will sell it to you, and then he's like, I'll

446
00:23:12.759 --> 00:23:15.359
<v Speaker 1>just no text. I'm like, okay, whatever. At this point,

447
00:23:15.359 --> 00:23:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't even care what it is. So I packed

448
00:23:17.799 --> 00:23:20.640
<v Speaker 1>it up and we took it apart, and then I'm like, oh,

449
00:23:20.839 --> 00:23:22.559
<v Speaker 1>now I'm going to see how people like it. If

450
00:23:22.559 --> 00:23:25.880
<v Speaker 1>people like the skier, then I'm going to order more.

451
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<v Speaker 1>I think it's more inclusive because a lot of people

452
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<v Speaker 1>want like a rower, and I looked at the rowers

453
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<v Speaker 1>and actually I was going to get a rower as

454
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<v Speaker 1>well while I was there. And then the air bikes,

455
00:23:34.720 --> 00:23:36.359
<v Speaker 1>which we used to have two or three of them,

456
00:23:36.400 --> 00:23:39.119
<v Speaker 1>but I sold them because they were inclusive. So the

457
00:23:39.200 --> 00:23:42.920
<v Speaker 1>rower and the air bike is called it himself bike

458
00:23:42.960 --> 00:23:47.200
<v Speaker 1>as well. Air bike just sounds much more pounder totally.

459
00:23:48.119 --> 00:23:51.279
<v Speaker 1>I sold them because those three, and I had one

460
00:23:51.359 --> 00:23:53.640
<v Speaker 1>or two rowers as well, they all have a weight

461
00:23:53.680 --> 00:23:57.599
<v Speaker 1>limit of three hundred and fifty pounds. Yeah, yeah like that,

462
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<v Speaker 1>so I don't like that either. So that's why. And

463
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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people with the air bike because the

464
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<v Speaker 1>handles come in.

465
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's different than a regular bike.

466
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, because you use your power from your entire body.

467
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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot more challenging than a standard bike. But

468
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<v Speaker 1>they're mostly used in spaces that are more like CrossFit, right,

469
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<v Speaker 1>so like rare. It's very rare in CrossFit that you

470
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<v Speaker 1>would have someone that's like four hundred pounds or someone

471
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<v Speaker 1>who's a bigger body. Person like that still exists in

472
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<v Speaker 1>that space. So I'm not saying that it doesn't and

473
00:24:29.880 --> 00:24:32.400
<v Speaker 1>they don't say like, hey, you're not welcome. However, that

474
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<v Speaker 1>equipment the weight limit, especially for insurance purposes, you have

475
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<v Speaker 1>to go buy what the weight limits. I would hate

476
00:24:39.480 --> 00:24:41.160
<v Speaker 1>for someone to come in here and be like, well,

477
00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:42.599
<v Speaker 1>you can't use the roller and you can't use the

478
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<v Speaker 1>bike because you're six foot five and four hundred and

479
00:24:45.640 --> 00:24:47.400
<v Speaker 1>fifty pounds, Like you know what I mean, Like, it

480
00:24:47.440 --> 00:24:52.160
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense. So the skiers are very inclusive. So

481
00:24:52.200 --> 00:24:54.200
<v Speaker 1>that's why we maybe instead of getting like one or

482
00:24:54.240 --> 00:24:56.079
<v Speaker 1>two of each, maybe you'll just get like three or

483
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<v Speaker 1>four skiers and then not have to worry about the

484
00:24:59.319 --> 00:25:02.079
<v Speaker 1>weight house. But I'm still debating if I should get

485
00:25:02.599 --> 00:25:04.319
<v Speaker 1>a roller in a bike just for like the back

486
00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:06.200
<v Speaker 1>of people that do want to practice deca that they

487
00:25:06.240 --> 00:25:09.359
<v Speaker 1>can come in and do that yeah, so we'll see

488
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<v Speaker 1>how that goes. I'm going to see how people enjoy

489
00:25:12.559 --> 00:25:15.000
<v Speaker 1>this skier because I know I love it and I

490
00:25:15.079 --> 00:25:18.319
<v Speaker 1>know Chris loves it as well. The shoe fiasco that

491
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<v Speaker 1>we've been going through, did you have the memos? What

492
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<v Speaker 1>I actually came across yesterday one of the videos that

493
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<v Speaker 1>I also shared and someone, uh, there's boxing gloves got

494
00:25:30.920 --> 00:25:33.400
<v Speaker 1>moved to another puppy and I shared a video please

495
00:25:33.400 --> 00:25:35.240
<v Speaker 1>make sure you label your cuppies and labeled them at

496
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<v Speaker 1>the top, like this has been an ongoing thing. Right

497
00:25:36.720 --> 00:25:39.000
<v Speaker 1>now we're not. So now we're not. We're not quartering

498
00:25:39.039 --> 00:25:42.079
<v Speaker 1>everybody's shoes. I was like, we're not storing anyone's shoes

499
00:25:42.160 --> 00:25:45.200
<v Speaker 1>or boxing gloves or puppies anymore because there's like I

500
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<v Speaker 1>think there's two or three hundred slots for people's stuff.

501
00:25:48.119 --> 00:25:50.839
<v Speaker 1>That's a mess. That's a mess. So when you have

502
00:25:51.039 --> 00:25:54.160
<v Speaker 1>like a few hundred people and everyone's my shoes or shoes,

503
00:25:54.240 --> 00:25:57.240
<v Speaker 1>my shoes are gone, I kid you not. Actually someone

504
00:25:57.279 --> 00:25:59.079
<v Speaker 1>just said, like I heard someone say, like, what's what's

505
00:25:59.119 --> 00:26:00.920
<v Speaker 1>up with the shoes talking? We can't store a stuff?

506
00:26:00.960 --> 00:26:03.640
<v Speaker 1>Like has there been a problem there's at least I

507
00:26:03.720 --> 00:26:06.880
<v Speaker 1>kid you not a problem every single week. So on

508
00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:11.759
<v Speaker 1>top of trying to manage everything, I'm also managing people's shoes,

509
00:26:12.519 --> 00:26:15.640
<v Speaker 1>which at first I didn't mind, but it's excessive. Now.

510
00:26:15.960 --> 00:26:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I actually had an extra camera installed right above or

511
00:26:19.160 --> 00:26:22.279
<v Speaker 1>the pop fridge is just so I could have an

512
00:26:22.440 --> 00:26:25.640
<v Speaker 1>entire view up close of the shoe puppies. I'm like,

513
00:26:25.680 --> 00:26:28.799
<v Speaker 1>this is beyond running a gym at this point. So

514
00:26:28.880 --> 00:26:30.759
<v Speaker 1>now it's like, wait, everyone takes your phone, but when

515
00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:33.319
<v Speaker 1>I sell those cuppies, I'm just going to reinvest it

516
00:26:33.400 --> 00:26:38.000
<v Speaker 1>into our equipment. So yeah, that's the idea, And I'm

517
00:26:38.000 --> 00:26:40.920
<v Speaker 1>saying that on the podcast. When people hear it, they're like, oh, yes, great,

518
00:26:41.559 --> 00:26:43.279
<v Speaker 1>because now it's like I don't like to just take

519
00:26:43.319 --> 00:26:45.039
<v Speaker 1>things away, right, Like that's not me as a person.

520
00:26:45.759 --> 00:26:48.839
<v Speaker 1>So now if we reinvested, you're like, oh, now there's

521
00:26:48.880 --> 00:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>some more cool, fun things that I can use as

522
00:26:50.960 --> 00:26:53.759
<v Speaker 1>an option here. It'll make people feel better rather than

523
00:26:53.799 --> 00:26:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I can't store my shoes.

524
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<v Speaker 2>Happy shopping.

525
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, someone said them like using that tag, we're talking

526
00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and then we're talking in the morning, and someone was like,

527
00:27:02.640 --> 00:27:05.200
<v Speaker 1>should should have posted that, Like, oh, by the way,

528
00:27:05.240 --> 00:27:07.279
<v Speaker 1>these are this is the gym bag. I recommend post

529
00:27:07.319 --> 00:27:09.440
<v Speaker 1>your affiliate. I'm like, you know what, that would have

530
00:27:09.440 --> 00:27:11.519
<v Speaker 1>been a great idea. However, everyone would come in with

531
00:27:11.559 --> 00:27:14.119
<v Speaker 1>the same bag and like someone took my gym bags

532
00:27:14.440 --> 00:27:19.359
<v Speaker 1>would change the situation that it would be like it

533
00:27:19.440 --> 00:27:22.079
<v Speaker 1>was like in the winter sometimes where it's like other

534
00:27:22.119 --> 00:27:25.200
<v Speaker 1>houle jackets hole or boots or shoes or and it

535
00:27:25.240 --> 00:27:28.160
<v Speaker 1>happens everyere like I like, I even followed the brilliant

536
00:27:28.400 --> 00:27:31.960
<v Speaker 1>roller rings and like through the gym's Facebook and they

537
00:27:31.960 --> 00:27:33.400
<v Speaker 1>were posting for like two weeks.

538
00:27:33.440 --> 00:27:34.440
<v Speaker 2>Someone wore these shoes home.

539
00:27:34.519 --> 00:27:36.759
<v Speaker 1>Someone with the wrong shoes home, these your shoes. They

540
00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:39.079
<v Speaker 1>were ugs to me, and to me it sounded like

541
00:27:39.079 --> 00:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>they never got that as me whereas me, if I

542
00:27:41.240 --> 00:27:43.519
<v Speaker 1>don't saw the part and this is part of me

543
00:27:43.559 --> 00:27:45.599
<v Speaker 1>because I was going to part this is the part

544
00:27:45.640 --> 00:27:48.599
<v Speaker 1>that I really love is if I don't saw that

545
00:27:49.240 --> 00:27:53.160
<v Speaker 1>issue and have it resolved within five minutes, I'm very

546
00:27:53.240 --> 00:27:54.079
<v Speaker 1>disalloyed to get.

547
00:27:53.960 --> 00:27:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Myself five minutes five minutes.

548
00:27:56.680 --> 00:27:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I got so many cameras in this place. I can

549
00:27:58.480 --> 00:28:00.640
<v Speaker 1>see people walking up with the with them own shoes on.

550
00:28:00.680 --> 00:28:02.839
<v Speaker 1>They're changing the wrong shoes when they come in. I

551
00:28:02.839 --> 00:28:05.079
<v Speaker 1>can see when they've taken their shoes off and it's

552
00:28:05.119 --> 00:28:08.240
<v Speaker 1>saying that I don't. However, this is why we have

553
00:28:08.960 --> 00:28:11.799
<v Speaker 1>for incidents. So I'm like, okay, if this person with

554
00:28:11.880 --> 00:28:14.240
<v Speaker 1>those shoes, I could check our staff app to see

555
00:28:14.279 --> 00:28:16.599
<v Speaker 1>what class was in there. Usually I'm like, oh, I

556
00:28:16.599 --> 00:28:19.400
<v Speaker 1>bet it was this person because they have similar styles.

557
00:28:20.200 --> 00:28:23.000
<v Speaker 1>But I can literally see someone like leaving in a

558
00:28:23.039 --> 00:28:24.960
<v Speaker 1>hurry and just slipping on someone else's shoes and walking

559
00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:28.400
<v Speaker 1>out the door. Thankfully, we haven't had anyone really get

560
00:28:28.480 --> 00:28:30.799
<v Speaker 1>like we really angry about that because they know. I

561
00:28:30.880 --> 00:28:32.640
<v Speaker 1>put my detective hat on and I'm like, okay, I

562
00:28:32.640 --> 00:28:33.960
<v Speaker 1>got five minutes to solve this case.

563
00:28:35.119 --> 00:28:38.519
<v Speaker 3>See I I just when everyone started getting blendstones, I

564
00:28:38.559 --> 00:28:41.279
<v Speaker 3>just put my initials in the tongue. I actually don't

565
00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:43.599
<v Speaker 3>know if I if I did that to my shoes

566
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:47.759
<v Speaker 3>here I did, so my initials are in the tongue

567
00:28:47.799 --> 00:28:51.960
<v Speaker 3>on my shoe, just in case anyone had the same ones.

568
00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:56.319
<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

569
00:28:56.559 --> 00:28:59.079
<v Speaker 1>The in the in the winter, it's ugs that are

570
00:28:59.119 --> 00:29:02.519
<v Speaker 1>very popular. No one has ever worn my ugs home

571
00:29:02.559 --> 00:29:04.799
<v Speaker 1>because at first I was nervous liking the front door

572
00:29:04.799 --> 00:29:07.359
<v Speaker 1>because this winter this winter they got a new like

573
00:29:07.440 --> 00:29:11.000
<v Speaker 1>snow contract person and they in front of my emergency door.

574
00:29:11.160 --> 00:29:14.519
<v Speaker 1>They put like a tile foot tile of the entire

575
00:29:14.680 --> 00:29:17.039
<v Speaker 1>parking lots and no in front of it, and I

576
00:29:17.079 --> 00:29:18.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, are you kidding? Like I thought they were

577
00:29:18.680 --> 00:29:20.599
<v Speaker 1>going to move it. They never just kept growing, so

578
00:29:20.680 --> 00:29:23.000
<v Speaker 1>I stopped. So I stopped coming through the back door

579
00:29:23.160 --> 00:29:24.599
<v Speaker 1>and go through the front. I was going through the

580
00:29:24.599 --> 00:29:26.359
<v Speaker 1>front door, so I would take out my boots there.

581
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:28.759
<v Speaker 1>I hope no one steals them. But no one ever

582
00:29:28.839 --> 00:29:31.319
<v Speaker 1>not steals the hope everyone accidentally wears these out. And

583
00:29:32.440 --> 00:29:34.960
<v Speaker 1>we've never having steel coming on steel things on purpose,

584
00:29:35.000 --> 00:29:38.319
<v Speaker 1>just to clarify, but I was like, oh, my ugs,

585
00:29:38.319 --> 00:29:40.519
<v Speaker 1>are men person the only person that's going to wear

586
00:29:40.559 --> 00:29:46.599
<v Speaker 1>these matter like the tail but like yeah, but like

587
00:29:46.759 --> 00:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>in the falls bloodstones and then and then in the

588
00:29:50.240 --> 00:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>summer all the different stocks and crocs as well, but

589
00:29:54.920 --> 00:29:56.640
<v Speaker 1>not like but not like the ones with like some

590
00:29:56.720 --> 00:30:00.720
<v Speaker 1>we'll have like the big fuzzy like time hitting things

591
00:30:00.720 --> 00:30:14.559
<v Speaker 1>that you shove charms, widgets, wichets, fidgets. Yeah. Yeah, it's

592
00:30:14.559 --> 00:30:17.079
<v Speaker 1>always like those style of shoes because everyone in here

593
00:30:17.119 --> 00:30:20.599
<v Speaker 1>has a good taste for the most part. Another style

594
00:30:20.599 --> 00:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>of shoe that's really surfaced in here is the sketchers

595
00:30:23.279 --> 00:30:26.400
<v Speaker 1>slip ons y. Yeah, they don't even need a shoehorn

596
00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:28.759
<v Speaker 1>in the back stays intact. So for anyone who loves

597
00:30:28.799 --> 00:30:32.039
<v Speaker 1>shoving their foot and their shoes without untying their laces,

598
00:30:32.039 --> 00:30:34.519
<v Speaker 1>freaking fantastic. So many people have them, I should get

599
00:30:34.559 --> 00:30:37.000
<v Speaker 1>them breaking and they're breaking my fingers trying to not

600
00:30:37.119 --> 00:30:37.519
<v Speaker 1>tie my.

601
00:30:37.519 --> 00:30:41.480
<v Speaker 2>Hands, breaking the back of your shoes literally literally.

602
00:30:41.519 --> 00:30:44.319
<v Speaker 1>And actually last winter winter that just passed, I learned

603
00:30:44.640 --> 00:30:46.319
<v Speaker 1>to shoehorn and that's why we have shoehorns in here.

604
00:30:46.319 --> 00:30:48.400
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, and I have like a little mini one

605
00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:51.920
<v Speaker 1>for my my bag. So I just take it as

606
00:30:51.680 --> 00:30:53.559
<v Speaker 1>long as long as they're at the time, my cheese.

607
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:57.440
<v Speaker 1>So back to the back to the fitness train. Where

608
00:30:57.440 --> 00:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>are you? So? Where are you in your journey now?

609
00:31:00.640 --> 00:31:04.240
<v Speaker 1>And what does it look like in six months from now?

610
00:31:06.079 --> 00:31:07.519
<v Speaker 2>Journey now?

611
00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:11.480
<v Speaker 3>I think I still feel like I'm at the beginning,

612
00:31:13.440 --> 00:31:17.720
<v Speaker 3>but I feel so much stronger already, and like I said,

613
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:20.400
<v Speaker 3>with like just like my pants not fitting already, like

614
00:31:20.440 --> 00:31:25.160
<v Speaker 3>it's crazy. And this morning I switched to a forty

615
00:31:25.839 --> 00:31:32.599
<v Speaker 3>pound kettlebell from like thirty thirty five. I was switching

616
00:31:32.640 --> 00:31:36.160
<v Speaker 3>back and forth between those ones, and.

617
00:31:36.880 --> 00:31:39.480
<v Speaker 2>My butt is all like I'm.

618
00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:42.319
<v Speaker 3>Already starting to see I've never had like I've always

619
00:31:42.440 --> 00:31:44.799
<v Speaker 3>like I've always had a flat butt, and so I'm

620
00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:47.039
<v Speaker 3>like starting to see some definition in that and that

621
00:31:47.400 --> 00:31:49.720
<v Speaker 3>is like I'm like, I'm going to do more squats.

622
00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:55.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm like loving that. And I think just the change

623
00:31:55.640 --> 00:31:59.039
<v Speaker 3>in my face as well. I think every time I've

624
00:31:59.039 --> 00:32:02.799
<v Speaker 3>gotten like a little bit bit like to like my

625
00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:07.359
<v Speaker 3>max wait, I've noticed like I just I don't smile

626
00:32:07.400 --> 00:32:12.440
<v Speaker 3>as much because my my face is bigger, and.

627
00:32:13.079 --> 00:32:14.720
<v Speaker 1>Does that make feel does that make you feel self

628
00:32:14.799 --> 00:32:17.119
<v Speaker 1>conscious of how you look or it's uncomfortable in how it.

629
00:32:17.079 --> 00:32:20.640
<v Speaker 3>Feels how I look in pictures, and so I smile

630
00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:23.759
<v Speaker 3>like I just smile less or like not as strong,

631
00:32:23.839 --> 00:32:28.079
<v Speaker 3>I think, And so like the last you know, like

632
00:32:28.200 --> 00:32:30.559
<v Speaker 3>month or so, I'm like i feel like I like

633
00:32:30.599 --> 00:32:34.000
<v Speaker 3>got my smile back a little bit, which is like

634
00:32:34.480 --> 00:32:38.920
<v Speaker 3>so lame, but like also really good. I just like

635
00:32:38.960 --> 00:32:43.000
<v Speaker 3>have noticed it in my face so much. And then yeah,

636
00:32:43.119 --> 00:32:47.200
<v Speaker 3>like six months from now, like I'm hoping that I

637
00:32:47.240 --> 00:32:50.880
<v Speaker 3>can do that deca thing and and get to that

638
00:32:51.119 --> 00:32:55.960
<v Speaker 3>and just be stronger in like all aspects and just

639
00:32:56.079 --> 00:32:58.359
<v Speaker 3>keep coming here like i'd like to.

640
00:32:58.960 --> 00:33:00.240
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I feel.

641
00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:02.119
<v Speaker 3>Like I also push myself to try and be like

642
00:33:02.200 --> 00:33:05.599
<v Speaker 3>I need to attend all the classes every single morning,

643
00:33:05.720 --> 00:33:09.240
<v Speaker 3>and I think to like doing like the overachieving doesn't

644
00:33:09.240 --> 00:33:12.480
<v Speaker 3>necessarily help me actually like get to every class. You

645
00:33:12.519 --> 00:33:15.319
<v Speaker 3>know that you asked me why I wasn't there not

646
00:33:15.400 --> 00:33:16.920
<v Speaker 3>all last week, but like she's like.

647
00:33:16.839 --> 00:33:17.880
<v Speaker 2>It's been a couple of days.

648
00:33:17.920 --> 00:33:18.599
<v Speaker 1>Where have you been?

649
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:19.880
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like I was tired.

650
00:33:20.079 --> 00:33:20.519
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

651
00:33:20.759 --> 00:33:29.599
<v Speaker 2>Sorry that's the truth, but I'm.

652
00:33:29.640 --> 00:33:30.319
<v Speaker 1>Now you all know.

653
00:33:33.160 --> 00:33:36.480
<v Speaker 3>But right, So like I'm like, okay, so what do

654
00:33:36.519 --> 00:33:38.160
<v Speaker 3>I want like the schedule to be?

655
00:33:39.079 --> 00:33:40.880
<v Speaker 2>And I think figuring that out.

656
00:33:40.920 --> 00:33:44.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean my life kind of you know, I have

657
00:33:44.400 --> 00:33:48.000
<v Speaker 3>a nine to five, but I also have rental property,

658
00:33:48.079 --> 00:33:51.039
<v Speaker 3>so sometimes I'm like doing extra stuff at night, or

659
00:33:51.480 --> 00:33:53.359
<v Speaker 3>you know, I get a text early in the morning

660
00:33:53.440 --> 00:33:54.599
<v Speaker 3>to fix something.

661
00:33:54.359 --> 00:33:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Things like that.

662
00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:59.279
<v Speaker 3>So I think trying to make some sort of schedule

663
00:33:59.319 --> 00:34:01.880
<v Speaker 3>of like Okay, I'm I'm gonna go Monday, Tuesday and

664
00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:04.519
<v Speaker 3>Thursday and maybe Friday.

665
00:34:04.240 --> 00:34:05.160
<v Speaker 2>So I don't.

666
00:34:06.799 --> 00:34:10.280
<v Speaker 3>Get like down on myself for missing a day and

667
00:34:10.360 --> 00:34:13.000
<v Speaker 3>not like trying to like go all out and just

668
00:34:13.159 --> 00:34:15.920
<v Speaker 3>being sad that I didn't do it, because it's like

669
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:18.559
<v Speaker 3>you can't just go like zero to one hundred, right,

670
00:34:18.679 --> 00:34:23.480
<v Speaker 3>Like it's progression. So I think work on some sort

671
00:34:23.480 --> 00:34:29.960
<v Speaker 3>of schedule to feel better about like how often I'm going, yeah,

672
00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:31.199
<v Speaker 3>I love.

673
00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:32.760
<v Speaker 1>Like you said that. There's so many times when I

674
00:34:32.760 --> 00:34:36.400
<v Speaker 1>put this high, high expectation on themselves and then they

675
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:39.480
<v Speaker 1>miss that expectation and then all of a sudden they

676
00:34:39.519 --> 00:34:41.599
<v Speaker 1>creates shame or they're like, oh, I just can't do

677
00:34:41.679 --> 00:34:44.519
<v Speaker 1>it right. So like getting to the gym for three

678
00:34:44.559 --> 00:34:50.079
<v Speaker 1>classes a week is actually fantastic, and that's twelve workouts.

679
00:34:50.079 --> 00:34:52.039
<v Speaker 1>That's three workouts in a week if you can get

680
00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:53.639
<v Speaker 1>so if you can get to like the fourth or

681
00:34:53.639 --> 00:34:57.440
<v Speaker 1>the fifth one, amazing, incredible. But having that that unseen

682
00:34:57.599 --> 00:35:02.159
<v Speaker 1>pressure is normally like there's like maybe if we're gonna

683
00:35:02.159 --> 00:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>throw out fake facts here, maybe like two and ten

684
00:35:04.960 --> 00:35:08.280
<v Speaker 1>people might be motivated by the extra pressure most but

685
00:35:08.519 --> 00:35:11.840
<v Speaker 1>most realistically people are not. So Like when you go

686
00:35:11.880 --> 00:35:16.119
<v Speaker 1>from zero or maybe like one workout randomly in a

687
00:35:16.119 --> 00:35:18.639
<v Speaker 1>week or the next week to go to five or

688
00:35:18.679 --> 00:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>six classes in one week. That is such a high

689
00:35:22.000 --> 00:35:24.719
<v Speaker 1>expectation that people have on themselves. There's some people that

690
00:35:24.880 --> 00:35:27.199
<v Speaker 1>they come in hot and they sustain that for years,

691
00:35:27.760 --> 00:35:30.719
<v Speaker 1>very very rare, usually in the trends, and I've been

692
00:35:31.039 --> 00:35:35.480
<v Speaker 1>operating my own gym since twenty twelve and I see it.

693
00:35:35.519 --> 00:35:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes there's two things that happen. There's either people don't

694
00:35:39.719 --> 00:35:42.559
<v Speaker 1>trust themselves and they join on like a ten class

695
00:35:42.599 --> 00:35:47.199
<v Speaker 1>pass and because they say like this, okay, well this

696
00:35:47.480 --> 00:35:50.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to put too much pressure

697
00:35:50.480 --> 00:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>and get too excited, and then I don't stick to it.

698
00:35:54.159 --> 00:35:56.079
<v Speaker 1>So they are like, okay, I'll just start with the

699
00:35:56.079 --> 00:35:58.760
<v Speaker 1>ten classmen, and then they come in, they do two classes,

700
00:35:59.039 --> 00:36:01.519
<v Speaker 1>three classes, and that ten month pass that has a

701
00:36:01.599 --> 00:36:06.039
<v Speaker 1>six month expiring is done in a matter of three weeks,

702
00:36:06.719 --> 00:36:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, oh, wow, I surprised myself. I'm going

703
00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:11.599
<v Speaker 1>to join on a membership. And then there's some people

704
00:36:11.639 --> 00:36:13.800
<v Speaker 1>that are like, well, now I'm going to start as

705
00:36:13.800 --> 00:36:17.960
<v Speaker 1>a twelve session membership. And then they're like, oh, I

706
00:36:17.960 --> 00:36:20.039
<v Speaker 1>didn't expect that. I was going to love it so much,

707
00:36:20.079 --> 00:36:23.320
<v Speaker 1>but now I'm out of classes. So to me, I'm like, well,

708
00:36:23.519 --> 00:36:28.639
<v Speaker 1>the worst case scenario is is that you over expect

709
00:36:28.679 --> 00:36:31.280
<v Speaker 1>or under expect and over deliver like this. So, like

710
00:36:31.320 --> 00:36:33.800
<v Speaker 1>there's different styles of how people get motivated. There's some

711
00:36:33.800 --> 00:36:35.840
<v Speaker 1>people that are like, you know what, I'm motivated right now.

712
00:36:36.239 --> 00:36:38.599
<v Speaker 1>I don't want the limitation to hold me back. So

713
00:36:38.639 --> 00:36:40.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to jump in as unlimited because i want

714
00:36:40.519 --> 00:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>to do my inbody when I first start. I want

715
00:36:42.760 --> 00:36:44.599
<v Speaker 1>to go unlimited. I want to keep track and do

716
00:36:44.639 --> 00:36:48.480
<v Speaker 1>my embody every month. And then there's some people that

717
00:36:48.519 --> 00:36:49.719
<v Speaker 1>are like, you know what I'm going I don't know

718
00:36:49.719 --> 00:36:51.400
<v Speaker 1>what I'm going to be doing for the next year,

719
00:36:51.519 --> 00:36:53.599
<v Speaker 1>So I don't think. I'm like, I don't know what

720
00:36:53.599 --> 00:36:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be doing here the next year or

721
00:36:55.920 --> 00:36:58.559
<v Speaker 1>six months. I don't want to make promises to myself.

722
00:36:59.039 --> 00:37:00.360
<v Speaker 1>But then there's people that come in and they're like,

723
00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:03.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I spent more on less, So I'm

724
00:37:03.320 --> 00:37:05.320
<v Speaker 1>going to prepay for the year I'm gonna start. I'm

725
00:37:05.320 --> 00:37:07.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna make a twelve month commitment to myself. And this

726
00:37:07.880 --> 00:37:10.760
<v Speaker 1>is about me because where your money is is where

727
00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:14.480
<v Speaker 1>your heart's going, your time, your money, like that's that's priorities, right,

728
00:37:15.079 --> 00:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>So like getting to the getting to the gym three

729
00:37:18.000 --> 00:37:21.599
<v Speaker 1>times a week is such a feat because that's putting

730
00:37:21.639 --> 00:37:24.880
<v Speaker 1>yourself first at least three times per month to say

731
00:37:24.920 --> 00:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>actually I'm actually getting through the door and actually coming

732
00:37:28.960 --> 00:37:32.920
<v Speaker 1>here like moving my body. That's just your secluded time

733
00:37:33.000 --> 00:37:35.440
<v Speaker 1>three times a weekly. There's actually we have quite a

734
00:37:35.480 --> 00:37:38.039
<v Speaker 1>few members in here now, but in the outside world

735
00:37:38.199 --> 00:37:40.400
<v Speaker 1>there's not a whole lot of people that do that.

736
00:37:40.920 --> 00:37:43.800
<v Speaker 1>They're exhausted because they do everything for everybody else. So

737
00:37:43.960 --> 00:37:45.679
<v Speaker 1>what if my time, I can't get to the gym

738
00:37:45.719 --> 00:37:47.280
<v Speaker 1>because I have to drive this one or I have

739
00:37:47.320 --> 00:37:51.159
<v Speaker 1>to do this, and to say no to everything else

740
00:37:51.199 --> 00:37:53.719
<v Speaker 1>that is a priority to get through the door. And

741
00:37:53.760 --> 00:37:57.400
<v Speaker 1>when you know like okay, well maybe I'm gonna come Monday, Tuesday, Thursday,

742
00:37:57.679 --> 00:38:01.639
<v Speaker 1>maybe the optional Friday. And you know that you're flexible.

743
00:38:01.639 --> 00:38:03.840
<v Speaker 1>So usually you're here at six am. Today you're here

744
00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:07.480
<v Speaker 1>at eight because we're also podcasting after class. But like

745
00:38:07.960 --> 00:38:12.119
<v Speaker 1>there's wig there's wiggled rooms. So I remember one person saying, well,

746
00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:14.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm just giving up on my fitness journey because I

747
00:38:14.199 --> 00:38:17.280
<v Speaker 1>can't come five days a week at six am. I'm like, oh, girl,

748
00:38:17.480 --> 00:38:20.679
<v Speaker 1>arranger schedule the She's like, it has to be this

749
00:38:20.840 --> 00:38:25.039
<v Speaker 1>in my mind. And she comes from a competitive sports background,

750
00:38:25.320 --> 00:38:27.480
<v Speaker 1>from herself, her family, everything. She's like, you know, if

751
00:38:27.519 --> 00:38:29.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't do five days a week at six am,

752
00:38:29.800 --> 00:38:31.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not good day. Like one day I might not

753
00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:34.639
<v Speaker 1>feel good, like if she gets sick or if she's

754
00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:38.400
<v Speaker 1>like I'm tired and she misses one class. She's like, well,

755
00:38:38.440 --> 00:38:40.719
<v Speaker 1>now I ruined my five day a week streak. I

756
00:38:40.760 --> 00:38:42.480
<v Speaker 1>got to start next week. And then she's like, no,

757
00:38:42.639 --> 00:38:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't trust myself now because those promises weren't kept

758
00:38:46.000 --> 00:38:49.920
<v Speaker 1>to herself. But they were also so incredibly high, like

759
00:38:50.280 --> 00:38:52.039
<v Speaker 1>life has enough pasture.

760
00:38:52.599 --> 00:38:54.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was interesting.

761
00:38:54.400 --> 00:38:57.400
<v Speaker 3>We talked about this at one point too, that I

762
00:38:57.840 --> 00:39:00.239
<v Speaker 3>had always thought that like working out in my brain,

763
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:02.159
<v Speaker 3>like I would do it after work, but I'm so

764
00:39:02.400 --> 00:39:03.320
<v Speaker 3>tired after work.

765
00:39:03.840 --> 00:39:05.239
<v Speaker 2>Not that I have a hard job.

766
00:39:05.280 --> 00:39:07.280
<v Speaker 3>I'd sit at a desk, but I'm just like, my

767
00:39:07.400 --> 00:39:09.519
<v Speaker 3>brain is exhausted, and I don't I didn't want to

768
00:39:09.559 --> 00:39:12.480
<v Speaker 3>come here. So I was like, Okay, well, I've never

769
00:39:12.519 --> 00:39:14.000
<v Speaker 3>been a morning person before.

770
00:39:13.800 --> 00:39:14.800
<v Speaker 1>But like, let me try.

771
00:39:15.559 --> 00:39:19.679
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like six am. And then I remember messaging you.

772
00:39:20.119 --> 00:39:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I was up at the cottage on a weekend and

773
00:39:22.519 --> 00:39:24.000
<v Speaker 3>it was like five thirty in the morning and I

774
00:39:24.119 --> 00:39:26.960
<v Speaker 3>was awake, and I was like, oh, no, I've become

775
00:39:27.000 --> 00:39:29.639
<v Speaker 3>a morning person. I'm not waking up to go to

776
00:39:29.679 --> 00:39:32.320
<v Speaker 3>the gym, but I'm at the cottage and I'm not

777
00:39:32.440 --> 00:39:34.320
<v Speaker 3>going to the gym. What do I do for another

778
00:39:34.440 --> 00:39:40.079
<v Speaker 3>three hours before everyone else makes up? But it's like

779
00:39:40.360 --> 00:39:46.079
<v Speaker 3>it's good to like have the schedule, and at least

780
00:39:46.679 --> 00:39:49.639
<v Speaker 3>at least I never thought that I would be able

781
00:39:49.679 --> 00:39:51.960
<v Speaker 3>to get onto a schedule like that, So I think

782
00:39:52.360 --> 00:39:54.639
<v Speaker 3>that is even just like part of the feat for me.

783
00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:58.239
<v Speaker 3>Like even if I don't go five days a week

784
00:39:58.320 --> 00:40:01.760
<v Speaker 3>in the morning, I'm still like kind of like waking

785
00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:04.719
<v Speaker 3>up at that time, so I can keep that schedule,

786
00:40:05.840 --> 00:40:08.199
<v Speaker 3>and so I think it's it's good either either way.

787
00:40:08.679 --> 00:40:12.320
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, but you know, keeping with like the

788
00:40:12.440 --> 00:40:14.239
<v Speaker 3>three to four I think five.

789
00:40:14.320 --> 00:40:15.559
<v Speaker 1>I came in hot I was.

790
00:40:15.599 --> 00:40:18.360
<v Speaker 3>Like, Hi, I'm new here. I'd like to do high rocks.

791
00:40:18.519 --> 00:40:20.920
<v Speaker 3>And then it was like already part way through April

792
00:40:20.960 --> 00:40:22.559
<v Speaker 3>and I was like five.

793
00:40:22.440 --> 00:40:24.679
<v Speaker 2>Days a week, let's go. I want to get my sticker.

794
00:40:26.199 --> 00:40:28.159
<v Speaker 2>And I didn't get my sticker in April, but I

795
00:40:28.280 --> 00:40:30.840
<v Speaker 2>got it. Did I get it the next month?

796
00:40:30.880 --> 00:40:31.599
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember.

797
00:40:31.920 --> 00:40:35.159
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, May and May and June, so I've gotten it

798
00:40:35.559 --> 00:40:38.679
<v Speaker 3>the other months, So I'm excited about that too.

799
00:40:39.199 --> 00:40:41.280
<v Speaker 2>That's like also one of my favorite.

800
00:40:40.920 --> 00:40:44.679
<v Speaker 3>Things about being here a stickers, like an adult gold Star.

801
00:40:46.280 --> 00:40:48.639
<v Speaker 1>It's funny to see how it's changed because at first

802
00:40:48.679 --> 00:40:51.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not I'm not getting a sticker. But

803
00:40:51.159 --> 00:40:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, because at first what I was doing

804
00:40:53.079 --> 00:40:55.400
<v Speaker 1>was I would do like like I would like, I

805
00:40:55.440 --> 00:40:58.039
<v Speaker 1>would do it a draw to pick like one person's name.

806
00:40:58.400 --> 00:40:59.800
<v Speaker 1>And then and then I was like, you know what,

807
00:41:00.719 --> 00:41:02.360
<v Speaker 1>at one time, we only had like five or six

808
00:41:02.440 --> 00:41:05.119
<v Speaker 1>people on our check and champions. It was called something else. Oh,

809
00:41:05.159 --> 00:41:06.840
<v Speaker 1>the committed Club is what it was called back in

810
00:41:06.880 --> 00:41:10.360
<v Speaker 1>the day. We didn't have like a crazy high like

811
00:41:11.679 --> 00:41:15.119
<v Speaker 1>membership thing anyways, but we would get like five or

812
00:41:15.159 --> 00:41:17.280
<v Speaker 1>six people were like, oh yeah, we have like oh

813
00:41:17.280 --> 00:41:19.280
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, we had ten people on the Committed Club

814
00:41:19.360 --> 00:41:22.000
<v Speaker 1>this month. This is crazy. But then I'm like, it's

815
00:41:22.000 --> 00:41:23.800
<v Speaker 1>always the same thing. It's always the same draw. No

816
00:41:23.840 --> 00:41:25.760
<v Speaker 1>one needs a ten dollar gift card. It's important to

817
00:41:25.800 --> 00:41:27.519
<v Speaker 1>say good job, Like there's it has to be something

818
00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:31.199
<v Speaker 1>getting to the gym at least twelve times. Everyone should

819
00:41:31.239 --> 00:41:33.239
<v Speaker 1>get something on that. And I'm not overly a fan

820
00:41:33.280 --> 00:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>of everybody gets a participant award, like I don't love that,

821
00:41:38.679 --> 00:41:43.239
<v Speaker 1>But in this getting to the gym twelve times or more,

822
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:47.400
<v Speaker 1>that is a trophy that is like you deserve first

823
00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:49.199
<v Speaker 1>place in your life because you did them or something.

824
00:41:49.280 --> 00:41:50.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, how can Yeah, So I'm like, how

825
00:41:50.960 --> 00:41:54.079
<v Speaker 1>can I make it inclusive? How can I make it

826
00:41:54.239 --> 00:41:57.480
<v Speaker 1>so then everyone is valued and gets something? Now I

827
00:41:57.519 --> 00:41:59.599
<v Speaker 1>can't afford to give everybody on the check and Champion

828
00:42:00.440 --> 00:42:04.119
<v Speaker 1>like this is a yetti congratulations and I got to

829
00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:06.119
<v Speaker 1>give sixty people like a YETI you know what I mean.

830
00:42:06.159 --> 00:42:08.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's not even worth the membership at that point.

831
00:42:09.039 --> 00:42:11.000
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, what what can I do? I would

832
00:42:11.039 --> 00:42:17.079
<v Speaker 1>love to know? But like so I was like the stickers.

833
00:42:17.280 --> 00:42:20.199
<v Speaker 1>So I started with like these little, these little paper

834
00:42:20.559 --> 00:42:24.119
<v Speaker 1>cheapy type stickers, and I have designed every single one

835
00:42:24.159 --> 00:42:28.679
<v Speaker 1>of the stickers, and people were people were like excited

836
00:42:28.719 --> 00:42:30.599
<v Speaker 1>about them, and they're putting them on their water bottles

837
00:42:30.880 --> 00:42:33.480
<v Speaker 1>and they were lasting until they started going into the dishwasher.

838
00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:36.840
<v Speaker 1>So then after like a month or two, their beautiful

839
00:42:36.920 --> 00:42:39.679
<v Speaker 1>crispy sticker now looked like someone tried to peel the

840
00:42:39.719 --> 00:42:42.440
<v Speaker 1>sticker off of something. From the mean, I was like, ah,

841
00:42:43.599 --> 00:42:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, we need to change the stickers upgraded.

842
00:42:45.880 --> 00:42:47.360
<v Speaker 1>So I upgraded them. So I had like a month

843
00:42:47.400 --> 00:42:49.920
<v Speaker 1>after months of realizing this because I'm like, well, obviously,

844
00:42:49.920 --> 00:42:52.440
<v Speaker 1>don't put yourself in the dishwasher. And then I see Chris.

845
00:42:52.599 --> 00:42:54.679
<v Speaker 1>I had like this big like leader was two leaders

846
00:42:54.760 --> 00:42:57.519
<v Speaker 1>yetty and all my stickers on it, and I see

847
00:42:57.599 --> 00:43:00.800
<v Speaker 1>Chris started to use it from work and she's putting

848
00:43:00.800 --> 00:43:05.800
<v Speaker 1>it in the dishwashers, and I was like, okay, okay,

849
00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:08.000
<v Speaker 1>so you can't just say don't put yourself in the dishwall.

850
00:43:08.079 --> 00:43:09.719
<v Speaker 1>You're going to put your stuff wherever you want, right,

851
00:43:09.800 --> 00:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>So like okay. So then after a few months we

852
00:43:12.599 --> 00:43:17.360
<v Speaker 1>upgraded to paper back papers plastic back sticker, and then

853
00:43:17.519 --> 00:43:19.679
<v Speaker 1>now and then now we're doing like the die cut

854
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:22.239
<v Speaker 1>clear on that are ones that are like way more

855
00:43:22.519 --> 00:43:25.400
<v Speaker 1>advance advanced than the stickers that we first started with.

856
00:43:25.599 --> 00:43:27.880
<v Speaker 1>The reason why, but the reason why I kept upgrading

857
00:43:27.960 --> 00:43:30.760
<v Speaker 1>them is because people wanted them and I'm not and

858
00:43:30.840 --> 00:43:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not someone people are like, oh, do you ever

859
00:43:32.519 --> 00:43:34.719
<v Speaker 1>look at your competition? No, I don't give a ship

860
00:43:34.719 --> 00:43:36.599
<v Speaker 1>what my competition is doing, unless like they want to

861
00:43:36.679 --> 00:43:40.079
<v Speaker 1>high five, Like there's someone in Barrier that recently franchised

862
00:43:40.159 --> 00:43:44.480
<v Speaker 1>or un licensed with a big brand and that was

863
00:43:44.519 --> 00:43:46.480
<v Speaker 1>American as well, And they're like, no, we're just going

864
00:43:46.559 --> 00:43:48.199
<v Speaker 1>to do our own thing now. And I actually sent

865
00:43:48.280 --> 00:43:51.079
<v Speaker 1>them a message on Instagram. I'm like, hey, I'm like,

866
00:43:51.199 --> 00:43:53.400
<v Speaker 1>this just popped up because a friend like had tagged

867
00:43:53.440 --> 00:43:56.360
<v Speaker 1>it and another friend that I know, I'm like, congratulations,

868
00:43:56.480 --> 00:44:00.159
<v Speaker 1>this is amazing, scary, amazing, amazing, and they're like, thank

869
00:44:00.199 --> 00:44:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you so much. From another gym to another gym, Like

870
00:44:02.039 --> 00:44:06.280
<v Speaker 1>that's really awesome. Like there's a community over competity. So

871
00:44:07.719 --> 00:44:09.239
<v Speaker 1>the sticker thing, I'm like, I don't care if people

872
00:44:09.239 --> 00:44:12.000
<v Speaker 1>don't believe in stickers or people do believe in stickers.

873
00:44:12.199 --> 00:44:14.320
<v Speaker 1>All I know is under this umbrella the people that

874
00:44:14.480 --> 00:44:17.440
<v Speaker 1>the people standing in front of me thrive on the stickers.

875
00:44:17.519 --> 00:44:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Don't care about sticks.

876
00:44:19.360 --> 00:44:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone cares about There's like maybe two or people

877
00:44:21.880 --> 00:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>to talk about, and they're like, I don't want to

878
00:44:23.000 --> 00:44:24.760
<v Speaker 1>a crush around myself. I don't really care about stickers,

879
00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:27.760
<v Speaker 1>but everybody else I celebrate those people the exact same way,

880
00:44:27.800 --> 00:44:29.400
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, hey, you're still giving here, like that's

881
00:44:29.400 --> 00:44:35.079
<v Speaker 1>still consistency. So like the sticker thing just blew up.

882
00:44:35.760 --> 00:44:37.639
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, Okay, you guys want stickers out of

883
00:44:37.639 --> 00:44:39.159
<v Speaker 1>the past and you want to make them cool and

884
00:44:39.360 --> 00:44:41.840
<v Speaker 1>like seeing people get excited about it. I don't, like,

885
00:44:41.880 --> 00:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't have kids, right, but I could imagine, like

886
00:44:43.840 --> 00:44:46.559
<v Speaker 1>on Christmas Day after you bought stuff that your kids love, like,

887
00:44:46.639 --> 00:44:48.599
<v Speaker 1>no wonder people are buying their kids eight hundred dollars

888
00:44:48.920 --> 00:44:54.920
<v Speaker 1>pass come on now, but no wonder. Like like I

889
00:44:55.039 --> 00:44:56.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, Like we were talking about like cars

890
00:44:56.880 --> 00:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>and stuff. I'm like, who would This was like a

891
00:44:59.039 --> 00:45:00.679
<v Speaker 1>couple of years ago, and I that us, like who

892
00:45:00.679 --> 00:45:04.320
<v Speaker 1>would buy the kids bread? Are like, what the hell?

893
00:45:05.280 --> 00:45:07.599
<v Speaker 1>I've seen some of the parents their kids are driving

894
00:45:07.679 --> 00:45:10.119
<v Speaker 1>nicer cars, and they would they do that? They don't

895
00:45:10.119 --> 00:45:13.719
<v Speaker 1>care about themselves. And then and then we were talking recently,

896
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:15.599
<v Speaker 1>like about our nieces and stuff like that. I'm like, oh, yeah,

897
00:45:15.679 --> 00:45:18.599
<v Speaker 1>when x amount turns x years old and years old

898
00:45:18.639 --> 00:45:20.280
<v Speaker 1>and they do this and they achieve this, then we

899
00:45:20.320 --> 00:45:23.519
<v Speaker 1>should get them a car. And then I was like, wait, wait,

900
00:45:25.360 --> 00:45:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm not dreaming back because that's not my kid. But

901
00:45:28.519 --> 00:45:30.920
<v Speaker 1>like I could see how that different in a different

902
00:45:31.800 --> 00:45:33.960
<v Speaker 1>parallel with the stickers. So I'm like, you guys are

903
00:45:34.039 --> 00:45:36.320
<v Speaker 1>so happy with the stickers, and it's not just about

904
00:45:36.320 --> 00:45:39.159
<v Speaker 1>people being happy with the sticker, it's about them working

905
00:45:39.280 --> 00:45:42.920
<v Speaker 1>towards something that is actually super healthy. So it's like

906
00:45:42.960 --> 00:45:47.079
<v Speaker 1>they're getting here twelve times, they're getting stronger. Like you said,

907
00:45:47.079 --> 00:45:48.960
<v Speaker 1>you got your smile back to me, That to me

908
00:45:49.079 --> 00:45:52.000
<v Speaker 1>means forging everything goes. So it goes so much more

909
00:45:52.079 --> 00:45:55.000
<v Speaker 1>deeper than just having that sticker because when people see it,

910
00:45:55.719 --> 00:45:58.320
<v Speaker 1>it brings them pride. It tells them like, hey, this

911
00:45:58.679 --> 00:46:01.280
<v Speaker 1>this is something you did. This isn't something your family did.

912
00:46:01.599 --> 00:46:05.159
<v Speaker 1>This isn't something your kids did. Like one of our members,

913
00:46:05.199 --> 00:46:08.920
<v Speaker 1>she had she actually participated in Decca and she had

914
00:46:09.000 --> 00:46:16.039
<v Speaker 1>her her metal her very card and she looked at

915
00:46:16.079 --> 00:46:19.719
<v Speaker 1>it and she's like, I won my own trophy, not

916
00:46:20.000 --> 00:46:22.239
<v Speaker 1>just for being a dance mom and watching my kids

917
00:46:22.280 --> 00:46:25.239
<v Speaker 1>earn their trophy. I got my home. She was like

918
00:46:25.239 --> 00:46:27.559
<v Speaker 1>the first time, this is mine. And I'm like, I

919
00:46:27.679 --> 00:46:30.159
<v Speaker 1>was almost I was almost crying. I was so proud

920
00:46:30.199 --> 00:46:32.800
<v Speaker 1>of her, and I was like, you are right. Because

921
00:46:32.840 --> 00:46:36.079
<v Speaker 1>that's something I reference quite often is so many parents

922
00:46:36.119 --> 00:46:38.519
<v Speaker 1>and people put their pride in It doesn't even need

923
00:46:38.559 --> 00:46:40.880
<v Speaker 1>to be kids. It could be their job, their work.

924
00:46:41.360 --> 00:46:43.239
<v Speaker 1>Like and I'm preaching to the wire when I say

925
00:46:43.280 --> 00:46:45.239
<v Speaker 1>when you put your entire life into your job and

926
00:46:45.280 --> 00:46:49.519
<v Speaker 1>your work, because it brings me the most joy. But

927
00:46:49.599 --> 00:46:54.599
<v Speaker 1>something I've been doing recently is focusing on myself. Like

928
00:46:54.719 --> 00:46:57.079
<v Speaker 1>since June, I've lost June first, I've lost like over

929
00:46:57.159 --> 00:47:00.320
<v Speaker 1>fifteen pounds now and a fact, so we might e

930
00:47:00.400 --> 00:47:04.159
<v Speaker 1>body at least once every two weeks actually, And I'm

931
00:47:04.199 --> 00:47:07.440
<v Speaker 1>not just celebrating other people's wills. I'm also celebrating my

932
00:47:07.559 --> 00:47:09.719
<v Speaker 1>own wins. Even if some people don't know that I'm

933
00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:12.639
<v Speaker 1>having those wins, it's still very detrimental to me. So

934
00:47:12.800 --> 00:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>like now that I have other coaches that are stepping

935
00:47:15.039 --> 00:47:19.039
<v Speaker 1>up into some of like my coaching, so like any

936
00:47:19.079 --> 00:47:23.719
<v Speaker 1>coaching on Mondays phenomenal, not just for me and everybody

937
00:47:23.760 --> 00:47:26.320
<v Speaker 1>else in the room, for her too, but like now

938
00:47:26.960 --> 00:47:29.840
<v Speaker 1>it's allowing it's allowing me to have at least one

939
00:47:29.960 --> 00:47:32.559
<v Speaker 1>day that I can work on stuff that's not just

940
00:47:33.199 --> 00:47:35.280
<v Speaker 1>in the gym and not coaching. So now we're here

941
00:47:35.360 --> 00:47:37.280
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast, it's Monday, I can do the nutrition

942
00:47:37.400 --> 00:47:40.400
<v Speaker 1>thing all but also I don't have the stress of

943
00:47:40.519 --> 00:47:43.760
<v Speaker 1>trying to solve everyone's problems in one morning when I

944
00:47:43.880 --> 00:47:47.800
<v Speaker 1>can actually start to regulate my own nervousness absolutely, which I.

945
00:47:47.840 --> 00:47:50.519
<v Speaker 2>Think is so important. And we've talked about that a

946
00:47:50.599 --> 00:47:51.440
<v Speaker 2>little bit as well.

947
00:47:51.719 --> 00:47:56.079
<v Speaker 3>As being entrepreneurs and also you know, just making sure

948
00:47:56.119 --> 00:47:59.039
<v Speaker 3>that we take time for us. I remember when you

949
00:47:59.159 --> 00:48:03.599
<v Speaker 3>posted something about starting therapy and I was like, yes,

950
00:48:04.079 --> 00:48:04.880
<v Speaker 3>that's so good.

951
00:48:05.400 --> 00:48:07.199
<v Speaker 2>It's important to take care of yourself too.

952
00:48:07.800 --> 00:48:09.760
<v Speaker 3>But you know when you're spend all your time here

953
00:48:10.280 --> 00:48:11.719
<v Speaker 3>taking time for yourself as well.

954
00:48:12.239 --> 00:48:16.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally, yeah, totally and like thing with like my therapist.

955
00:48:16.360 --> 00:48:17.960
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because we just talked about that with

956
00:48:18.079 --> 00:48:20.800
<v Speaker 1>Annie and you and myself before Annie left with eating's birthday,

957
00:48:21.079 --> 00:48:25.280
<v Speaker 1>birthday every day, and I was like, I was like, oh,

958
00:48:25.639 --> 00:48:27.239
<v Speaker 1>like I said about like my therapist, like, I'm a

959
00:48:27.400 --> 00:48:31.679
<v Speaker 1>very self aware person and I am very much so

960
00:48:31.920 --> 00:48:35.039
<v Speaker 1>someone who is confident, and I am someone that I'm

961
00:48:35.119 --> 00:48:38.000
<v Speaker 1>very confident in my decisions because I don't make decisions

962
00:48:38.000 --> 00:48:41.920
<v Speaker 1>out of emotion, and when things are highly emotional, I'm like,

963
00:48:42.199 --> 00:48:44.559
<v Speaker 1>this is not how I operate. And then sometimes I've

964
00:48:44.639 --> 00:48:48.280
<v Speaker 1>learned like not to like react with emotion back because

965
00:48:48.360 --> 00:48:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I can't stund it. So like if someone gets like

966
00:48:51.960 --> 00:48:55.119
<v Speaker 1>over emotional and they fire off like a five six

967
00:48:55.239 --> 00:48:59.440
<v Speaker 1>seven page text message, I literally will open it and

968
00:48:59.519 --> 00:49:03.519
<v Speaker 1>be like I'm going to put that away, Like that's away,

969
00:49:03.880 --> 00:49:07.320
<v Speaker 1>like totally and then there's sometimes people send it but

970
00:49:07.440 --> 00:49:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it actually doesn't go through depending on what platform they

971
00:49:12.000 --> 00:49:15.360
<v Speaker 1>because some of my stuff is actually how is it

972
00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.760
<v Speaker 1>called like monitored through like a like AI essentially, so

973
00:49:18.920 --> 00:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>if I do get a long paragraph, it's email act,

974
00:49:22.000 --> 00:49:24.119
<v Speaker 1>I actually don't even get the message. So, like a

975
00:49:24.199 --> 00:49:28.760
<v Speaker 1>few like a year ago, someone was upset about something

976
00:49:28.920 --> 00:49:31.639
<v Speaker 1>and they sent me a whole thing, and one of

977
00:49:31.719 --> 00:49:34.079
<v Speaker 1>her friends were like, did you see this message from her?

978
00:49:34.119 --> 00:49:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Because you didn't respond and you're posting on Instagram. I'm like,

979
00:49:37.119 --> 00:49:39.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like what, I'm like, no, it didn't. That's like,

980
00:49:39.920 --> 00:49:41.800
<v Speaker 1>but that's your phone number, Like, that's my phone umber. Look,

981
00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:45.280
<v Speaker 1>this is my phone. Actually I actually literally didn't get that.

982
00:49:45.360 --> 00:49:47.599
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, because I haven't filtered that.

983
00:49:47.719 --> 00:49:52.159
<v Speaker 1>If someone like overly sends like too many characters, I

984
00:49:52.159 --> 00:49:54.400
<v Speaker 1>guess there's a character limit, it doesn't get sent, but

985
00:49:54.519 --> 00:49:56.760
<v Speaker 1>in return I then realize that it doesn't tell them

986
00:49:56.800 --> 00:50:00.280
<v Speaker 1>that it's not the limit any So anyway, part of

987
00:50:00.519 --> 00:50:04.360
<v Speaker 1>that's part of like the thing about also regulating through

988
00:50:04.599 --> 00:50:08.320
<v Speaker 1>therapy as well, because as an entre generial person, who

989
00:50:08.360 --> 00:50:08.679
<v Speaker 1>do you go.

990
00:50:08.760 --> 00:50:11.880
<v Speaker 3>To talk to someone else who's also super busy and

991
00:50:11.880 --> 00:50:13.239
<v Speaker 3>maybe doesn't have time to talk about it.

992
00:50:13.800 --> 00:50:19.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. Like in the gym, like some of my

993
00:50:19.639 --> 00:50:22.239
<v Speaker 1>coaches are kept in the loop about certain things or

994
00:50:22.480 --> 00:50:24.800
<v Speaker 1>things that pertain to what they need to do, or

995
00:50:24.920 --> 00:50:28.480
<v Speaker 1>different incidents or things that happen like with shoes or

996
00:50:28.480 --> 00:50:31.000
<v Speaker 1>someone's looking for this, or like maybe like maybe like

997
00:50:31.079 --> 00:50:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the in body has like an issue, which not one

998
00:50:33.119 --> 00:50:35.719
<v Speaker 1>has never had an issue, but like they'll they'll be

999
00:50:35.800 --> 00:50:39.280
<v Speaker 1>informed on things that matter to them. Before I used

1000
00:50:39.320 --> 00:50:44.199
<v Speaker 1>to like divulge information to the coaches, but now I'm like,

1001
00:50:44.280 --> 00:50:46.639
<v Speaker 1>it's not their place, it's not their business, it's not

1002
00:50:46.840 --> 00:50:50.760
<v Speaker 1>their burden to take on these things. So I'm like, well,

1003
00:50:50.920 --> 00:50:53.599
<v Speaker 1>this is where I see my therapists every two weeks,

1004
00:50:53.639 --> 00:50:55.719
<v Speaker 1>sometimes once a week, depending on if shit has not

1005
00:50:55.760 --> 00:50:58.840
<v Speaker 1>a fan or not. Because in the gym, people walk

1006
00:50:58.920 --> 00:51:01.280
<v Speaker 1>in and everything looks great, right Like there's no drama,

1007
00:51:01.360 --> 00:51:03.960
<v Speaker 1>there's no problems, there's no issue. Filter. I'm the filter

1008
00:51:04.480 --> 00:51:07.639
<v Speaker 1>and I'm the only filter. So I filter a whole

1009
00:51:07.719 --> 00:51:10.679
<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff that now it's up to me if

1010
00:51:10.679 --> 00:51:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to pass it into my team and into.

1011
00:51:13.360 --> 00:51:14.719
<v Speaker 2>This which is a lot to carry.

1012
00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:16.440
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot to carry. It's a lot to carry

1013
00:51:16.760 --> 00:51:19.480
<v Speaker 1>so when I can talk to a therapist about those things,

1014
00:51:19.760 --> 00:51:23.559
<v Speaker 1>sometimes sometimes she just listens. Sometimes sometimes there's no solution. Sometimes,

1015
00:51:23.719 --> 00:51:25.800
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes it's because she's also a business owner and

1016
00:51:25.840 --> 00:51:28.000
<v Speaker 1>she owns her practice. You'll say okay, she'll say okay,

1017
00:51:28.079 --> 00:51:31.280
<v Speaker 1>so that was handled actually really well. Sometimes sometimes just

1018
00:51:31.400 --> 00:51:36.239
<v Speaker 1>having that high five validation validate validates because I've said

1019
00:51:36.280 --> 00:51:37.719
<v Speaker 1>to her before, like I've had to take care of

1020
00:51:37.840 --> 00:51:43.119
<v Speaker 1>this in this context. Is this a form of solutions?

1021
00:51:43.760 --> 00:51:47.320
<v Speaker 1>This is not direct because this person cannot have something

1022
00:51:47.400 --> 00:51:50.159
<v Speaker 1>said to them direct because it will hurt them their feelings,

1023
00:51:50.320 --> 00:51:53.519
<v Speaker 1>even though it's business and not personal. So I started

1024
00:51:53.639 --> 00:51:58.320
<v Speaker 1>now to their enneagram, their personality traits, trying to have

1025
00:51:58.440 --> 00:52:02.920
<v Speaker 1>a conversation through rue what I would consider passive aggressive,

1026
00:52:03.039 --> 00:52:03.880
<v Speaker 1>just tell me how it is.

1027
00:52:05.079 --> 00:52:05.760
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like okay.

1028
00:52:05.800 --> 00:52:07.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, okay, what is this because this doesn't

1029
00:52:08.039 --> 00:52:10.719
<v Speaker 1>fit for me. But it got the job done. It

1030
00:52:10.840 --> 00:52:13.400
<v Speaker 1>made them feel good and they understood. I was like, yeah,

1031
00:52:14.079 --> 00:52:16.440
<v Speaker 1>that to me sounds like manipulation because that's not me

1032
00:52:16.519 --> 00:52:19.320
<v Speaker 1>as a person. And she's like, no, that's operating through

1033
00:52:19.360 --> 00:52:22.239
<v Speaker 1>someone else's lens and perspective. Okay. I'm like yeah, okay,

1034
00:52:22.360 --> 00:52:24.360
<v Speaker 1>because I have been doing that quite a bit in

1035
00:52:24.440 --> 00:52:27.199
<v Speaker 1>the last I'm going to say eighteen eighteen months or so.

1036
00:52:27.440 --> 00:52:29.119
<v Speaker 1>That's like how people knew my children eighteen months. It's

1037
00:52:29.119 --> 00:52:31.199
<v Speaker 1>eighteen last weeks. But in the last eighteen months, I've

1038
00:52:31.239 --> 00:52:34.159
<v Speaker 1>noticed it, and I've noticed a distinctive. Even though it's

1039
00:52:34.199 --> 00:52:38.039
<v Speaker 1>not genuine to my personality type, it's still considering other

1040
00:52:38.039 --> 00:52:42.519
<v Speaker 1>people's feelings. Yeah, wow, wow, was.

1041
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<v Speaker 2>Bearing out hearing out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's important to have a place, a

1043
00:52:54.480 --> 00:52:58.360
<v Speaker 1>place that you can just go and get out that so,

1044
00:52:58.760 --> 00:53:00.519
<v Speaker 1>and I know, like a lot of people come in

1045
00:53:00.719 --> 00:53:03.440
<v Speaker 1>to the gym and they have those burdens, but they

1046
00:53:03.480 --> 00:53:06.519
<v Speaker 1>come here as their safe place because now no one's

1047
00:53:06.599 --> 00:53:09.679
<v Speaker 1>asking them, no one cares. People care, but no one cares.

1048
00:53:10.480 --> 00:53:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Like in the podcast I know, I sent you the

1049
00:53:12.440 --> 00:53:16.440
<v Speaker 1>one with Olivia yesterday, and that's something Olivia said publicly

1050
00:53:16.519 --> 00:53:19.119
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast, and she said, you know what, after grief,

1051
00:53:19.280 --> 00:53:22.039
<v Speaker 1>during grief, during grief doesn't really like your leave, but

1052
00:53:22.159 --> 00:53:24.280
<v Speaker 1>like she can come in here and it's not oh,

1053
00:53:24.360 --> 00:53:26.079
<v Speaker 1>you should be sad, why are you shaking your booty

1054
00:53:26.119 --> 00:53:29.039
<v Speaker 1>in zoom, But like she can come in and still

1055
00:53:29.119 --> 00:53:30.760
<v Speaker 1>two things can be true at the same times, you

1056
00:53:30.800 --> 00:53:33.199
<v Speaker 1>could be shaking your booty in Zuma and you could

1057
00:53:33.239 --> 00:53:36.159
<v Speaker 1>be grieving in a lost relationship. There's like there's so

1058
00:53:36.320 --> 00:53:39.000
<v Speaker 1>many things can be true, So like when people have

1059
00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:43.880
<v Speaker 1>when people have a safe place that kind of validates

1060
00:53:44.280 --> 00:53:46.880
<v Speaker 1>how they feel, or they can just not think about anything.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think too, like with the anxiety that I have,

1062
00:53:52.119 --> 00:53:55.880
<v Speaker 3>like I've noticed, like even sometimes like the rare occasion,

1063
00:53:55.880 --> 00:53:57.800
<v Speaker 3>I'll come to a night class and that's because I've

1064
00:53:57.840 --> 00:53:59.920
<v Speaker 3>got crazy anxiety going on. I'm like, I can't go

1065
00:54:00.079 --> 00:54:02.400
<v Speaker 3>home and just like sit there because I all spiral.

1066
00:54:02.519 --> 00:54:04.760
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna come here and think

1067
00:54:04.800 --> 00:54:08.360
<v Speaker 3>about how much my arm hurts while lifting this weight instead,

1068
00:54:09.280 --> 00:54:12.119
<v Speaker 3>And I love that and it gets the the jitters

1069
00:54:12.400 --> 00:54:14.159
<v Speaker 3>of the anxiety out of my body and then I

1070
00:54:14.239 --> 00:54:17.000
<v Speaker 3>can go home and be like Okay, like I still

1071
00:54:17.360 --> 00:54:20.000
<v Speaker 3>feel some sort of way, but I don't feel that

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00:54:20.159 --> 00:54:23.800
<v Speaker 3>kind of like physicalness of the anxiety that I was having.

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00:54:24.760 --> 00:54:25.599
<v Speaker 2>So it's so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's interesting. Yeah, that's interesting. There's someone in here.

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00:54:28.679 --> 00:54:30.639
<v Speaker 1>She said that sometimes she likes to finish the class

1076
00:54:30.639 --> 00:54:34.239
<v Speaker 1>in a plank because it's actually been proven that when

1077
00:54:34.320 --> 00:54:38.679
<v Speaker 1>you are shaking that it's actually like I think the

1078
00:54:38.800 --> 00:54:43.239
<v Speaker 1>term is somatic, Like it's actually like your nervous system

1079
00:54:43.280 --> 00:54:46.639
<v Speaker 1>starting to heal because it's getting stress relieved in like

1080
00:54:46.679 --> 00:54:50.880
<v Speaker 1>a different as I see that sitting and shaking you're

1081
00:54:50.880 --> 00:54:53.800
<v Speaker 1>in a plank or like that hip rotation thing. I

1082
00:54:53.800 --> 00:54:54.559
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you've done.

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<v Speaker 4>That with me.

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00:54:58.119 --> 00:55:00.960
<v Speaker 3>That's literally a muscle that I didn't know existed because

1085
00:55:01.000 --> 00:55:03.480
<v Speaker 3>I literally I just like squeezed the ball and I'm like,

1086
00:55:03.559 --> 00:55:06.639
<v Speaker 3>I don't really think I'm squeezing, but I'm really trying.

1087
00:55:06.960 --> 00:55:09.920
<v Speaker 2>So it's just I need to work on whatever muscle

1088
00:55:10.000 --> 00:55:10.320
<v Speaker 2>that is.

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00:55:12.119 --> 00:55:16.039
<v Speaker 1>It's interesting that's your hip because when you turn your

1090
00:55:16.400 --> 00:55:19.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't have those that there's internal and external rotation,

1091
00:55:20.519 --> 00:55:25.760
<v Speaker 1>so like in a nutshell, we're not censored. So that's

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00:55:25.880 --> 00:55:31.159
<v Speaker 1>your legs closed is your internal rotation and external external

1093
00:55:31.239 --> 00:55:34.519
<v Speaker 1>is when your hips are open. Yeah, So how often

1094
00:55:34.559 --> 00:55:37.719
<v Speaker 1>do you do a lot of things in that position

1095
00:55:37.960 --> 00:55:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and in that rotation as well? Like knees are close

1096
00:55:40.440 --> 00:55:42.480
<v Speaker 1>squeezing the ball, and then your feet are nice and wide,

1097
00:55:43.039 --> 00:55:44.760
<v Speaker 1>so it's like making a V shaped like with your

1098
00:55:45.039 --> 00:55:51.039
<v Speaker 1>knees to your feet. That's not never not And also

1099
00:55:51.280 --> 00:55:54.280
<v Speaker 1>that's such a nice way to not injure people's knees

1100
00:55:54.320 --> 00:55:56.320
<v Speaker 1>as well, because you're on your back and you have

1101
00:55:56.639 --> 00:55:59.039
<v Speaker 1>blody ball between your knees rather than being on your

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00:55:59.079 --> 00:56:03.039
<v Speaker 1>knees on your back and stuff like that. So, what

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00:56:03.199 --> 00:56:06.760
<v Speaker 1>is one thing if you could give anyone that's listening

1104
00:56:07.599 --> 00:56:13.559
<v Speaker 1>advice or or a quote or trick of the trade.

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00:56:14.280 --> 00:56:16.280
<v Speaker 1>What is actually those are two things. What is one

1106
00:56:16.360 --> 00:56:20.760
<v Speaker 1>thing that has made your fitness journey easier? And and too,

1107
00:56:21.639 --> 00:56:23.440
<v Speaker 1>what is one piece of advice that you would give

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00:56:23.440 --> 00:56:26.519
<v Speaker 1>to someone struggling to get through the door made it easier?

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00:56:27.320 --> 00:56:30.840
<v Speaker 3>Honestly coming here, it's not scary, and all the coaches

1110
00:56:30.880 --> 00:56:33.840
<v Speaker 3>and the people are so nice. Rather than going to

1111
00:56:34.000 --> 00:56:36.519
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like a bigger gym and just working

1112
00:56:36.559 --> 00:56:41.639
<v Speaker 3>out on my own, there's people here that can keep

1113
00:56:41.679 --> 00:56:46.440
<v Speaker 3>you accountable as well in a non pressury way of

1114
00:56:46.559 --> 00:56:48.920
<v Speaker 3>being like, hey, I missed you at this class sort

1115
00:56:48.960 --> 00:56:53.159
<v Speaker 3>of thing. Is so nice to have such a warm

1116
00:56:53.239 --> 00:56:59.400
<v Speaker 3>welcome with people, and just it becomes like like a

1117
00:56:59.639 --> 00:57:04.920
<v Speaker 3>social activity as well, not just not just coming here

1118
00:57:05.280 --> 00:57:09.119
<v Speaker 3>working out and leaving. So many people are here way

1119
00:57:09.199 --> 00:57:11.559
<v Speaker 3>earlier than I am, and I feel like I'm still

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00:57:11.679 --> 00:57:14.400
<v Speaker 3>like seven minutes early, and people are here like fifteen

1121
00:57:14.440 --> 00:57:16.760
<v Speaker 3>minutes early and they're chatting with all the different people,

1122
00:57:16.880 --> 00:57:21.039
<v Speaker 3>and some people stay after and then people go to

1123
00:57:21.280 --> 00:57:24.840
<v Speaker 3>different sort of like we did the mud mud Girl whatever,

1124
00:57:25.039 --> 00:57:27.559
<v Speaker 3>and so I met some people from like different classes,

1125
00:57:27.800 --> 00:57:31.760
<v Speaker 3>like evening classes, and so it's just nice. It's a

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00:57:31.800 --> 00:57:35.480
<v Speaker 3>good community of people here and a good range of

1127
00:57:35.599 --> 00:57:36.440
<v Speaker 3>ages and all that.

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<v Speaker 2>What was the second question?

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00:57:40.400 --> 00:57:49.320
<v Speaker 1>What is what is advice? What is on one advice

1130
00:57:49.400 --> 00:57:51.440
<v Speaker 1>that you would give someone who's struggling to get through

1131
00:57:51.440 --> 00:57:54.719
<v Speaker 1>the door, like a word of encouragement or quote.

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00:57:54.719 --> 00:57:58.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, just do it, because like what what

1133
00:57:58.320 --> 00:57:59.159
<v Speaker 2>do you have to lose?

1134
00:58:01.239 --> 00:58:05.320
<v Speaker 3>Like, you know, you could come and not like it,

1135
00:58:05.760 --> 00:58:07.840
<v Speaker 3>but at least you went and tried it, or you

1136
00:58:07.880 --> 00:58:10.119
<v Speaker 3>could come and love it and then you stay like

1137
00:58:10.239 --> 00:58:13.960
<v Speaker 3>I did, right, Like you have to get out there

1138
00:58:14.000 --> 00:58:18.119
<v Speaker 3>and and try it. Ori'll you know, think about well

1139
00:58:18.760 --> 00:58:21.920
<v Speaker 3>what if you know, like I I I feel like

1140
00:58:21.960 --> 00:58:25.760
<v Speaker 3>I'd been following the gym for probably like two months before,

1141
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:27.880
<v Speaker 3>and I had been talking to my friends being like, oh,

1142
00:58:28.079 --> 00:58:29.840
<v Speaker 3>you know, like I really want to try this gym

1143
00:58:30.760 --> 00:58:33.039
<v Speaker 3>because it's like actually close to my house. That's another

1144
00:58:33.159 --> 00:58:35.920
<v Speaker 3>thing that is like so nice. This is so close

1145
00:58:36.039 --> 00:58:36.320
<v Speaker 3>to me.

1146
00:58:40.239 --> 00:58:45.440
<v Speaker 1>Unless but like, yeah, it's.

1147
00:58:45.400 --> 00:58:47.480
<v Speaker 3>So I was like trying to convince my friends to go,

1148
00:58:47.639 --> 00:58:50.400
<v Speaker 3>and you know, they all have busy lives, and I

1149
00:58:50.519 --> 00:58:51.199
<v Speaker 3>was like, Okay.

1150
00:58:51.400 --> 00:58:52.239
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I can do it.

1151
00:58:52.440 --> 00:58:56.199
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna I'm gonna go by myself. And now

1152
00:58:56.239 --> 00:59:01.639
<v Speaker 3>I come by myself every other day ish. So I think, yeah,

1153
00:59:01.840 --> 00:59:04.159
<v Speaker 3>just like, you know, what do you have to lose

1154
00:59:04.639 --> 00:59:08.000
<v Speaker 3>besides go be awkward and then and then leaving.

1155
00:59:09.039 --> 00:59:12.599
<v Speaker 1>The first class is always usually a little awkward. Yeah,

1156
00:59:12.920 --> 00:59:17.360
<v Speaker 1>because if they don't know anybody, especially we have like

1157
00:59:18.119 --> 00:59:21.119
<v Speaker 1>quite a few introverted people that have joined the gym

1158
00:59:21.239 --> 00:59:23.760
<v Speaker 1>because they're looking to step out of their their shell

1159
00:59:23.800 --> 00:59:25.840
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And how often do we get to

1160
00:59:25.920 --> 00:59:28.639
<v Speaker 1>make healthy out of friendships? And like a lot of

1161
00:59:28.760 --> 00:59:32.039
<v Speaker 1>like the friendship groups, what are they doing. They're going

1162
00:59:32.039 --> 00:59:33.880
<v Speaker 1>to the bar, They're going out for food all the time,

1163
00:59:33.920 --> 00:59:38.079
<v Speaker 1>They're doing all these things where women specifically who are

1164
00:59:38.079 --> 00:59:42.639
<v Speaker 1>a little more health cautious, conscious cautious. What is there

1165
00:59:42.719 --> 00:59:44.559
<v Speaker 1>that people have to offer, Like I mean, like there's

1166
00:59:44.559 --> 00:59:47.480
<v Speaker 1>pick a wall, which I tried to get into. It

1167
00:59:47.599 --> 00:59:50.599
<v Speaker 1>was okay, but it's super like don't sit on that court.

1168
00:59:50.679 --> 00:59:52.719
<v Speaker 1>That court has to be here, keep on moving, like

1169
00:59:53.480 --> 00:59:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you're losing ten seconds by not walking as fast as

1170
00:59:55.880 --> 00:59:57.480
<v Speaker 1>you can to that court, and there just people waiting

1171
00:59:57.599 --> 01:00:00.400
<v Speaker 1>to like I'm like, punt the brakes. And I don't

1172
01:00:00.440 --> 01:00:04.079
<v Speaker 1>like anything that's stressful, like everything to be easier to

1173
01:00:04.119 --> 01:00:06.360
<v Speaker 1>get into, Like I don't mind learning things, but I

1174
01:00:06.400 --> 01:00:09.480
<v Speaker 1>don't like it to be emotionally as stress like yes,

1175
01:00:09.760 --> 01:00:13.679
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, yeah, So I find this is like the

1176
01:00:13.760 --> 01:00:16.039
<v Speaker 1>healthy version of those things. So when people first join,

1177
01:00:16.559 --> 01:00:19.599
<v Speaker 1>is uncomfortable for maybe the first class, but there's usually

1178
01:00:19.679 --> 01:00:23.400
<v Speaker 1>an extroverted person in the room that's going to adopt you, like, oh,

1179
01:00:23.639 --> 01:00:25.519
<v Speaker 1>it's your first class. I mean the coaches are always

1180
01:00:26.320 --> 01:00:29.159
<v Speaker 1>it's your first class, like do you have any injuries? Like, okay,

1181
01:00:29.360 --> 01:00:30.960
<v Speaker 1>grab this, I'll help you get stuff. This is what

1182
01:00:31.079 --> 01:00:33.760
<v Speaker 1>it is that work. So like in that context, it's

1183
01:00:33.840 --> 01:00:36.519
<v Speaker 1>also populous, but it's also nice to have a friend

1184
01:00:36.559 --> 01:00:39.039
<v Speaker 1>in the class that's not just the coach. So people

1185
01:00:39.159 --> 01:00:41.719
<v Speaker 1>joined as singletons and they think that they never stuck

1186
01:00:41.760 --> 01:00:43.519
<v Speaker 1>to anything their entire life, and then before you know it,

1187
01:00:43.639 --> 01:00:46.199
<v Speaker 1>four years go by and they're like, this place helped me.

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01:00:46.239 --> 01:00:48.840
<v Speaker 3>Change my entire life, And I think too, I just

1189
01:00:49.000 --> 01:00:52.519
<v Speaker 3>I actually just got a tattoo that says yes and

1190
01:00:53.039 --> 01:00:55.239
<v Speaker 3>it streams from like a YouTube channel that I watch

1191
01:00:55.320 --> 01:00:58.559
<v Speaker 3>called Yes Theory, And it's just about stepping outside your

1192
01:00:58.599 --> 01:01:01.119
<v Speaker 3>comfort zone and just you know, just try just try

1193
01:01:01.280 --> 01:01:03.199
<v Speaker 3>things right, Like what's the worst.

1194
01:01:03.000 --> 01:01:03.599
<v Speaker 1>That can happen?

1195
01:01:05.039 --> 01:01:07.039
<v Speaker 3>And so just saying yes to things. And I think

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01:01:07.119 --> 01:01:09.800
<v Speaker 3>that's a big thing too. As to why, I was like,

1197
01:01:09.880 --> 01:01:12.679
<v Speaker 3>you know what, I'm just gonna get here and try

1198
01:01:12.719 --> 01:01:15.119
<v Speaker 3>it out, and so far, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing.

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01:01:16.719 --> 01:01:17.920
<v Speaker 2>I said, Yes, there we go.

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01:01:19.079 --> 01:01:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, I think we're gonna end with that because

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01:01:21.320 --> 01:01:23.519
<v Speaker 1>that was fabulous. Thank you for joining on this so

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01:01:23.599 --> 01:01:28.840
<v Speaker 1>much for having me. This is funny again. If anyone

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01:01:28.960 --> 01:01:32.679
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01:01:38.199 --> 01:01:41.880
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