Speaker 1: What if I told you that every man who has
Speaker 1: ever been betrayed, manipulated, or emotionally destroyed by a woman
Speaker 1: was actually a victim of her unconscious programming. Programming so
Speaker 1: deeply buried that even she isn't aware of it. Freud
Speaker 1: spent decades dissecting the female psyche, uncovering patterns so controversial
Speaker 1: they were buried by modern academia, But his private letters
Speaker 1: and case studies reveal a terrifying truth. Women are driven
Speaker 1: by forces beyond their own comprehension. By the end of
Speaker 1: this series, you'll see through the female illusions. But first,
Speaker 1: do you have the courage to face what Freud really discovered?
Speaker 1: Imagine this. You meet a woman, intelligent, self aware, confident.
Speaker 1: She tells you exactly what she wants, loyalty, honesty, a
Speaker 1: man who respects her. You believe her, You give her everything. Then,
Speaker 1: one day, without war warning, she leaves, no explanation, just
Speaker 1: a cold, emotionless exit. What happened? Freud would tell you
Speaker 1: she didn't choose to leave her unconscious. Did. Freud's most
Speaker 1: radical idea wasn't about sex or childhood trauma. It was
Speaker 1: about the illusion of free will. He argued that ninety
Speaker 1: percent of human behavior is dictated by the unconscious, a
Speaker 1: shadowy realm of repressed desires, childhood imprints, and primal instincts.
Speaker 1: And for women this is even more extreme. In his
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty five paper Some Psychical Consequences of the Anatomical
Speaker 1: Distinction between the Sexes, Freud observed that women's super ego
Speaker 1: moral conscience is weaker than men's. Why because their psychological
Speaker 1: development is rooted in shame, not guilt. A man feels
Speaker 1: guilt internal punishment, but a woman feels shame external judgment.
Speaker 1: This means her behavior isn't governed by principles, it's governed
Speaker 1: by social survival. Freud's most famous case study wasn't even his,
Speaker 1: It was his mentor, Joseph Breyer's. A young woman, Anna Oh,
Speaker 1: suffered from hysteria, paralysis, hallucinations, uncontrollable mood swings. Brewer treated
Speaker 1: her with hypnosis, uncovering repressed memories of her father's illness.
Speaker 1: But here's what they don't teach you in psychology classes.
Speaker 1: The moment Anna Oh recovered, she turned on Brewer. She
Speaker 1: falsely claimed he impregnated her, nearly destroying his career. Freud
Speaker 1: later realized her hysteria wasn't an illness. It was a weapon,
Speaker 1: a subconscious manipulation to control the men around her. Women
Speaker 1: don't lie kant, their unconscious rewrites reality to fit their
Speaker 1: emotional needs. Freud's most dangerous discovery was the mother complex,
Speaker 1: the idea that a man's relationships with women are replays
Speaker 1: of his relationship with his mother. Think about it. Did
Speaker 1: your mother punish you with silence when you displeased her?
Speaker 1: Did she reward you with affection only when you obeyed?
Speaker 1: Did she make you feel guilty for wanting independence? If so, congratulations.
Speaker 1: You were trained to accept emotional manipulation as love. In
Speaker 1: the Dissolution of the Oedipus Complex, Freud wrote that boys
Speaker 1: must destroy their maternal attachment to become men. Most never do. Instead,
Speaker 1: they spend their lives seeking a woman who will either
Speaker 1: replicate their mother's control or punish them for trying to
Speaker 1: escape it. But here's the real question. What if women
Speaker 1: aren't even in control of their own betrayal. What if
Speaker 1: their sudden cruelty, their unexplained rejections, their emotional violence are
Speaker 1: all the work of a hidden force. Even they don't understand.
Speaker 1: You're sitting across from her at dinner. She's laughing at
Speaker 1: your jokes, touching your arm, locking eyes with that look,
Speaker 1: the one that says I'm yours. You relax, you trust.
Speaker 1: Then three days later she ghosts you, no warning, no explanation,
Speaker 1: just silence. What changed, nothing? Because her decision wasn't conscious,
Speaker 1: it wasn't even hers, Freud suspected it. Modern science confirms it.
Speaker 1: Women are not the rational, self aware creatures society pretends
Speaker 1: they are. They are hosts to a deeper, older program,
Speaker 1: an algorithm written not in logic, but in blood, hormones
Speaker 1: and survival instinct. And today we expose it. Every man
Speaker 1: has heard. She's just more emotionally intelligent than you. What
Speaker 1: you call emotional intelligence is simply hyper sensitivity to social dynamics.
Speaker 1: Women don't understand emotions better, they weaponize them faster. Freud
Speaker 1: called this hysterical cognition, the female mind's ability to rewrite history,
Speaker 1: distort facts, and even alter memories to fit emotional needs.
Speaker 1: In nineteen o five, Freud treated Dora, an eighteen year
Speaker 1: old girl sent to him for depression and nervous coughs.
Speaker 1: Through analysis, Freud uncovered the truth Dora's father had been
Speaker 1: having an affair with a married woman, frau K. To
Speaker 1: cover his tracks, he offered Dora to frau K's husband
Speaker 1: as a distraction. But here's where it gets dark. Dora
Speaker 1: didn't rage at her father, she didn't confront Frauk. Instead,
Speaker 1: her unconscious redirected her fury on to Freud. She abruptly
Speaker 1: quit therapy, accusing him of misunderstanding her. Years later, she
Speaker 1: returned not for help but to mock Freud's methods. The lesson.
Speaker 1: A woman's pain never strikes where it should, it ricochets.
Speaker 1: If she can't punish the real offender, her unconscious will
Speaker 1: select a substitute, and it's usually the closest man. Modern
Speaker 1: studies confirm what Freud only guessed. A woman's personality changes
Speaker 1: with her menstrual cycle. During ovulation, she becomes more flirtatious,
Speaker 1: more open to risk, more attracted to dominant masculine traits.
Speaker 1: During menstruation, she becomes irritable, critical, hypersensitive to perceive slights.
Speaker 1: But here's what no one tells you. She doesn't know
Speaker 1: this is happening. Ask her why she suddenly lost interest
Speaker 1: in you, and she'll invent reasons. We're just not compatible
Speaker 1: but the truth is her biology vetoed you. In ancient Sparta,
Speaker 1: husbands were forbidden from sleeping with their wives during menstruation.
Speaker 1: Why because the Spartans knew a bleeding woman is a
Speaker 1: hostile woman. They didn't blame her for it, they simply
Speaker 1: managed it. Freud's most brutal insight. A woman's love is
Speaker 1: never unconditional. Even the best mother subconsciously resents her son
Speaker 1: for one reason, he will leave her. This is the
Speaker 1: primary trauma of the female psyche, the knowledge that all
Speaker 1: love is temporary. So from childhood girls are taught one
Speaker 1: survival strategy, extract maximum resources while maintaining deniability. The wife
Speaker 1: who suddenly falls out of love after ten years of marriage,
Speaker 1: she didn't change, She secured what she needed ability, and
Speaker 1: now her unconscious is pushing her toward novelty. The girlfriend
Speaker 1: who tests you with petty arguments, she's not crazy. She's
Speaker 1: stress testing your ability to lead fail, and her biology
Speaker 1: flags you as weak. In civilization and its discontents, Freud
Speaker 1: wrote that women are the enemies of civilization because their
Speaker 1: loyalty is not to principles but to survival. A man builds,
Speaker 1: a woman consumes. Every man recognizes the pattern. One the
Speaker 1: idealization phase. You're perfect. She mirrors your interests, laughs at
Speaker 1: your jokes, makes you feel chosen. Two the testing phase.
Speaker 1: She picks, fights withdraws, affection, gauges your reaction. Three the
Speaker 1: discard phase, coldness, silence, You're too good for me. This
Speaker 1: isn't random, it's instinct. In hunter gathering tribes, women evolved
Speaker 1: to mate with the strongest warrior, secure resources from the
Speaker 1: most stable provider, eliminate men who couldn't compete. This is
Speaker 1: where we expose the primal female script, the one she
Speaker 1: can't escape, no matter how enlightened she claims to be.
Speaker 1: It happens to every man you meet her. She's different,
Speaker 1: not like the others. She reads philosophy, scorns shallow women,
Speaker 1: claims to want depth, loyalty, a love that transcends the games.
Speaker 1: You let your guard down, you trust. Then one day
Speaker 1: she looks at you with empty eyes. The warmth is gone,
Speaker 1: the connection vanished. She speaks in cold, rehearsed lines. It's
Speaker 1: not you, it's me, But it is you because you
Speaker 1: broke the one rule Freud warned about. You assumed she
Speaker 1: was in control of her own desires. Modern society sells
Speaker 1: a fantasy that education, feminism, and self awareness have freed
Speaker 1: women from their biology. Freud would laugh at this. In
Speaker 1: Beyond the Pleasure Principle, he exposed the truth human behavior
Speaker 1: is driven by primal instincts, not intellect. A woman can
Speaker 1: say she wants equality, kindness, a gentle man, but her
Speaker 1: unconscious crave something else entirely. In nineteen twenty, Freud analyzed
Speaker 1: a brilliant female academic, a woman who hated traditional gender roles.
Speaker 1: She married a meek, supportive husband, insisting she didn't need dominance.
Speaker 1: Then she had an affair, not with a fellow intellectual,
Speaker 1: with a laborer, a rough, uneducated man who ignored her opinions,
Speaker 1: canceled plans last minute, and treated her as an afterthought.
Speaker 1: When Freud confronted her, she broke down. I don't know
Speaker 1: why I want him. I hate that I want him.
Speaker 1: The lesson, no amount of conditioning overwrites millions of years
Speaker 1: of instinct. A woman can rationalize wanting a modern relationship,
Speaker 1: but her body responds to something darker. Freud's most controversial idea,
Speaker 1: women don't have one sexuality, they have two. One the madonna,
Speaker 1: the nurturing, loving wife. Material side she shows society two.
Speaker 1: The animal, the primal, amoral, secret self that emerges in shadows.
Speaker 1: This is why the quiet librarian writes filthy anonymous erotica.
Speaker 1: The feminist activist secretly craves a rough act. The loyal
Speaker 1: girlfriend fantasizes about being taken by a stranger. In Victorian England,
Speaker 1: the era of extreme sexual repression brothels boomed. Why because
Speaker 1: when you forbid female desire, it doesn't disappear, It mutates.
Speaker 1: Every man has encountered her. The woman who had that
Speaker 1: one guy she can't forget. Maybe he was a criminal,
Speaker 1: maybe he treated her like garbage, But no nice guy
Speaker 1: ever compared. Freud called this the trauma bond. Women don't
Speaker 1: fall in love with men who hurt them. They become
Speaker 1: addicted to the chemical roller coaster of uncertainty, pain, and
Speaker 1: intermittent reward. A thirty two year old lawyer dates a felon.
Speaker 1: He cheats, he lies, He leaves her crying on her
Speaker 1: bathroom floor. Then she meets you, stable, successful, kind. She
Speaker 1: tries to love you, but her body rejects it. I
Speaker 1: just don't feel a spark. Why because calm doesn't trigger dopamine,
Speaker 1: safety doesn't flood her brain with cortisol and oxytocin. Her
Speaker 1: addiction wasn't to him, it was to the case chaos.
Speaker 1: Freud never used the term dark triad, but he described
Speaker 1: it perfectly. Women are drawn to men who exhibit one narcissism,
Speaker 1: unshakable self belief, even if delusional, two machiavelianism, a willingness
Speaker 1: to manipulate. Three psychopathy, emotional detachment. This isn't a flaw
Speaker 1: in female nature, it's a feature. In prehistoric times. The
Speaker 1: narcissist led the tribe. The machiavellian outsmarted rivals. The psychopath
Speaker 1: killed threats. Women who resisted these men their genes died out.
Speaker 1: Studies show women rate dark triad men as more attractive
Speaker 1: for short term flings. Even women who claim to hate
Speaker 1: these traits respond to them physiologically. But here's the question
Speaker 1: no one dares ask. What if women hate this part
Speaker 1: of themselves? What if their sudden cruelty, their unexplained rejections,
Speaker 1: their motional violence are all desperate attempts to fight their
Speaker 1: own biology. There is a moment every man remembers, the
Speaker 1: moment he realizes the woman he loves is two people.
Speaker 1: One is the woman he knows warm, kind human. The
Speaker 1: other is something else, something older. You've seen flashes of it.
Speaker 1: The coldness in her eyes when you disappoint her, the
Speaker 1: way her voice sharpens into a blade when she knows
Speaker 1: she's hurt you, The ease with which she replaces you,
Speaker 1: as if you never mattered at all. Freud called this
Speaker 1: the uncanny, the terror of seeing something familiar become alien.
Speaker 1: But what he didn't say publicly is this. Women are
Speaker 1: at war with themselves, and men are the casualties. Every
Speaker 1: woman is taught two lies from birth. One you are
Speaker 1: equal to men. Two, but you are also better than men, kinder, nobler,
Speaker 1: more evolved. This is psychologically catastrophic because when she feels
Speaker 1: her primal instincts, when she's drawn to a man who
Speaker 1: treats her poorly, when she enjoys manipulation, when she relishes
Speaker 1: the power of rejection, she hates herself for it. In
Speaker 1: the nineteen thirties, Freud's disciple, Helene Deutsch, studied a radical feminist,
Speaker 1: a woman who wrote essays condemning male oppression. Then she married,
Speaker 1: not a fellow activist, a domineering, controlling husband who forbade
Speaker 1: her from publishing. And here's the twist. She was happier
Speaker 1: in therapy. She confessed, I hate that I need his rules,
Speaker 1: but when he's firm with me, I feel peace. A
Speaker 1: woman's conscious mind wants equality, Her unconscious craves hierarchy. The
Speaker 1: conflict destroys her and every man who gets too close.
Speaker 1: Freud observed a pattern in his female patience. The chaste
Speaker 1: woman fantasized about being ravished, the promiscuous woman obsessed over
Speaker 1: being worshiped. Why because public and private desire are opposites.
Speaker 1: A woman needs to be seen as good by society,
Speaker 1: but hungers for the forbidden. In the nineteen fifties, Kinsey
Speaker 1: found that sixty two percent of women admitted to fantasies
Speaker 1: not because they want violence, but because they crave the
Speaker 1: surrender of choice. Ask a woman what she's looking for
Speaker 1: in a man, and she'll give you a list kindness, stability, respect,
Speaker 1: But watch who she chooses. Freud called this the disavowal,
Speaker 1: the mind's ability to deny what it truly desires. A
Speaker 1: woman says she wants a nice guy, then she sleeps
Speaker 1: with his best friend, a reckless, unreliable charmer. When confronted,
Speaker 1: she rages, you don't own me I can change my mind,
Speaker 1: but she didn't change her mind. Her body overruled her.
Speaker 1: Here is the unspoken terror that governs every woman's behavior.
Speaker 1: If you see the real me, you will leave. This
Speaker 1: is why she tests you, pushing you away to see
Speaker 1: if you stay. She lies not to deceive you, but
Speaker 1: to hide from herself. She sabotages good relationships because stability
Speaker 1: feels like suffocation. Freud's most heartbreaking insight. Women punish men
Speaker 1: for loving them too much, because if you accept her fully,
Speaker 1: her darkness, her contradictions, her uncontrollable impulses, she cannot blame
Speaker 1: you for her unhappiness, and that is unbearable. But this
Speaker 1: raises the final question. Is there any way for a
Speaker 1: man to win? Or is he doomed to be consumed
Speaker 1: by a force neither of them control. Now we reveal
Speaker 1: the forbidden solution, the one Freud hinted at but never
Speaker 1: wrote down. You've seen the truth now, the biological traps,
Speaker 1: the unconscious scripts, the way she looks at you when
Speaker 1: you're weak, not with pity but with disgust. You have
Speaker 1: two choices. One, stay ignorant, keep playing the game by
Speaker 1: rules that were designed to break you. Two learn the
Speaker 1: forbidden truth, the one Freud whispered to his most trusted disciples,
Speaker 1: This is not about manipulating women, This is about surviving them.
Speaker 1: Every man is fed this poison from birth. The right
Speaker 1: woman will love you for you. Freud would call this
Speaker 1: wishful thinking, the child eldish belief that the world rewards honesty.
Speaker 1: His case files tell a different story. The poet who
Speaker 1: worshiped his wife until she left him for a soldier.
Speaker 1: The devoted husband who worked himself to death while his
Speaker 1: wife slept with his brother. The nice guy who waited
Speaker 1: years for her to see his worth, only to watch
Speaker 1: her with a stranger that same night. Here's the hard truth.
Speaker 1: Women don't fall in love with men. They fall in
Speaker 1: love with feelings, and your feelings don't matter. Modern therapy
Speaker 1: preaches this gospel, just talk about your feelings, but Freud
Speaker 1: himself warned words are masks. When a woman says, let's talk,
Speaker 1: she doesn't want dialogue, she wants submission. A forty year
Speaker 1: old man came to Freud devastated his wife had grown cold.
Speaker 1: He did everything she asked for couple's therapy date, night's
Speaker 1: endless emotional check ins. Then she left for a musician
Speaker 1: who ignored her texts Freud's diagnosis, you killed her desire
Speaker 1: by obeying it. The lesson. A woman's stated desires are
Speaker 1: not what excites her. Obedience is repulsive to her unconscious.
Speaker 1: Freud never published these, but his private letters hint at them.
Speaker 1: One the law of paradoxical intent. The more you need her,
Speaker 1: the less she wants you. This is not a tactic.
Speaker 1: Its biology. Women sense desperation like sharks smell blood. Here's
Speaker 1: how to use it Withdraw before she does, let her
Speaker 1: wonder if she's losing you, watch as her unconscious pulls
Speaker 1: her back. Two the power of the unsaid. Women hate explanations.
Speaker 1: They crave mystery. When you justify yourself, you diminish yourself.
Speaker 1: Casanova never explained, Napoleon never apologized, and women fought for them.
Speaker 1: Three the shadow self strategy. Every woman has a darkness
Speaker 1: she hides. The man who acknowledges it without fear sees her.
Speaker 1: Here is how to do it. When she tests you,
Speaker 1: smile when she lies, let her when she punishes you, laugh.
Speaker 1: She wants to hate you. Don't let her. They think
Speaker 1: this is about women. It's not. It's about you, your weakness,
Speaker 1: your fear your childish hope that love is fair. Freud's
Speaker 1: last words on the subject, The only way to win
Speaker 1: is to stop playing their game and start playing yours.