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<v Speaker 1>Hello. Okay, this looks weird. Okay, welcome to that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still fun podcasts with Jenny. Hello, Jenny, how are my levels?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It can turn you, just to be safe. Hello, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll turn me h, Jenny? Do you talk abous

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<v Speaker 1>so much? Did I talk about this on the podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>How much my voice has changed?

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I heard something of yours last week

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't know if we were looking back at

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<v Speaker 2>an old video. Oh no, this is what happened. We

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<v Speaker 2>were clearing out the system called voxcro whatever. If you listen,

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<v Speaker 2>you might not know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a recording device you record like for the

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<v Speaker 1>morning show. You'd record like the Minnesota Goodbye into it

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>But randomly a commercial from like twenty sixteen of yours

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<v Speaker 2>started playing, and Bailey pointed out, like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>she sounds so different.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so creepy. I did not know my voice

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<v Speaker 1>had changed so much, but I think I did talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this over our trips Door County. My friend Heidi

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<v Speaker 1>took all of our like college videos. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this, but my voice was so much higher

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<v Speaker 1>pitched than southern. Well, the only reason I'm bringing up

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<v Speaker 1>is because yesterday I was like uploading a video onto

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube and in the video, like I have private videos

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<v Speaker 1>that people can't see, and it was my audition video

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<v Speaker 1>I sent in for this show, and I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>have my hair is black, my bangs are so blunt,

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<v Speaker 1>I have so much black eyeliner on, and I like

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<v Speaker 1>clicked on it because all of it was like she

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<v Speaker 1>was sitting with me and she wanted to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>And my voice, it's it was lower at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was still so southern. Yeah. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I've just actively worked really hard to not

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<v Speaker 1>sound as southern through my radio career or what, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is eerie to hear how I sounded, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have I didn't think my voice had changed it all

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think I've been like consciously doing things

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<v Speaker 1>to change it. It's weird. But I did see like

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<v Speaker 1>some super old stuff because I was clearing out stuff

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<v Speaker 1>in Box Pro two to make room, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell, why do we have audio saved from

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<v Speaker 1>like like twenty sixteen or whatever. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know either, but we often all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden We'll be recording something and halfway through it'll

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<v Speaker 2>be like out of storage, and then it won't. I

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<v Speaker 2>recur it and it's like, oh my god, no, And

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<v Speaker 2>so I always clean it out when i'm in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I didn't take a screenshot of it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>should have. But your sister shared just a fantastic photo

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<v Speaker 1>of you this weekend of me. Oh, it was for

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<v Speaker 1>like your cousin, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing was that I thought of too, was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you follow her, and I was like, I,

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<v Speaker 2>with you any money, she's going to like bring up

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<v Speaker 2>this picture or do something with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so perfect. Jenny is in the front. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like all of her cousins, her sisters. Jenny is front

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<v Speaker 1>and center. Yep, just looking like every how old were

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<v Speaker 1>you there for? Twelve? Yeah, twelve, like every twelve year

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<v Speaker 1>old girl that ever existed. But also it was Jenny

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<v Speaker 1>has the blondest hair ever. So it was before you

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<v Speaker 1>did your eyebrows, so you're you have like the white

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<v Speaker 1>eyebrows on top of it, super pale. It's it was

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<v Speaker 1>you to a t obviously, but it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>also bizarre looking at your cousins and seeing how much

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<v Speaker 1>they have like similar genetics to you your sisters as well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's interesting. I was like, I was like, the one

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<v Speaker 1>cousin has a like there. I don't know what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but some face similarities to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder which one you're talking about, because the three

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<v Speaker 2>cousins that were in the back, they're actually only half

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<v Speaker 2>siblings with my mom. Really okay, I mean their dad

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<v Speaker 2>is half siblings with my mom. Sorry, so like obviously

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<v Speaker 2>we're still like genetically.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the genetics were shining through, but it is bizarre. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>just in general genetics. Can we just talk about genetics

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<v Speaker 1>and how freaking weird they are?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like how some people look so much like their

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<v Speaker 2>family and others like don't look yeah, all like them.

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<v Speaker 1>We went at a birthday party yesterday for all of

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<v Speaker 1>you know friend it's all and so every parent there

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<v Speaker 1>and you just look at the parent next to the

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<v Speaker 1>kid and it is eerie how much they look like

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like to me, I can be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh that they look just like their mom or they

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<v Speaker 1>look just like their dad, and most parents will be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh really you think they look like me, and they

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<v Speaker 1>like seem surprised by that. But it seems so obvious

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<v Speaker 1>from the outside, and I'm like, I wonder what they think,

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<v Speaker 1>if they even think about it, like I do when

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<v Speaker 1>they look at me and Jake and Alive, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if there's like one clear person they think she

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<v Speaker 1>looks like, because I get the mix, like people will

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<v Speaker 1>comment on social Oh, she looks just like you, But

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<v Speaker 1>then people are like, oh, I see her dad, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, so I feel like she is a mixture of

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<v Speaker 2>both of you. I think she's a decent mix for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>People say that my sisters and I look alike sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>but most people say we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't. I don't think you look at your older

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<v Speaker 1>sister at all. I think you have similarities to your

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<v Speaker 1>younger sister. Your older sister looks like your mom, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she does. Like as she's been getting older, she looks

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<v Speaker 1>so much more like my mom. And I have only

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<v Speaker 1>sneered out a handful of times, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd have to look really look closely at a picture

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<v Speaker 1>to see if I feel like you look more like

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<v Speaker 1>him or your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know. I feel like I don't look

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<v Speaker 2>like either of my parents. I yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I was an alien baby, and I just came into

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<v Speaker 2>the front porch one day and they're like, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll take her.

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny, you were born in the toilet. Everyone knows it

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<v Speaker 1>well that I'm like, you were dropped off on the porch. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you were born in a toilet like me, Like my

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<v Speaker 1>sister told me, I was, so, how is your week

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<v Speaker 1>How is your weekend? Good? Good? Good?

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<v Speaker 2>Had a wedding, super fun. We got to bounce on

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<v Speaker 2>this bounce pad thing, and I peed myself a few

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<v Speaker 2>times because like I can't jump on trampolines or bounce

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<v Speaker 2>pads without pain.

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell you haven't had a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not really a rule, but I know it's just

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<v Speaker 2>something like with my pelvic floor, and so I just

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<v Speaker 2>like it's only when I like really get jumping high,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just everything loosens up and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I'm coming down.

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<v Speaker 1>Pee gets pushed out. I don't really know. But that

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<v Speaker 1>was not the color dress to be having pee either,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was like.

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<v Speaker 2>A light blow sad it was and it was like

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't that hot out, but it was hot in

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<v Speaker 2>the sense that like we didn't have any escape to

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<v Speaker 2>air conditioning because it was on an apple orchard, so

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a big ten for the reception and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And so like anytime we did kind of a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of activity, i'd need to take a break because

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be sweating and you could see my under boob

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<v Speaker 2>sweat like piercing through that satin weird material. But when

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<v Speaker 2>we were bouncing, and I can't honestly, I probably said

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<v Speaker 2>it too much. I probably wasn'nnoying about it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, honestly, I got to go to the bathroom. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I just peed myself. And my friend's husband was like, okay, Jenny,

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<v Speaker 2>And I know that he's like one of those guys

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<v Speaker 2>who just like can't handle things like that, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>shut up. But I probably could have been a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit more lady like about those things, but I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>help it. And then I had enter taking a video

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<v Speaker 2>of me at one point, and I didn't have my

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<v Speaker 2>straps tight enough, so the chest area was a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit loose, but it wasn't really like cleavage loose. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just like loose where it could kind of flop

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<v Speaker 2>open a little bit. Yeah, So I started jumping and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like Jesus, this is like an X rated

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<v Speaker 2>bounce pad right now. He's like, you better hope none

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<v Speaker 2>of these kids come over here. So he's like taking

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<v Speaker 2>videos and in this video, like yeah, I could definitely

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<v Speaker 2>feel like my boob was popping out, And I was

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<v Speaker 2>sad because I thought I looked cuter in that video

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<v Speaker 2>than the one I posted on my Instagram, but I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't because it was like almost too a little too

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<v Speaker 2>much of the boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Flopping up and down. So I it's funny those blobs.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel that they were around when we were kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're freaking everywhere I know, any indoor playground for kids,

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<v Speaker 1>any lay outdoor like kind of seevers place Olive is

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<v Speaker 1>all about it, and I'm like that would have been

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<v Speaker 1>there even at Like when we did the one RV

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<v Speaker 1>weekend last year over the summer, the RV place had

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<v Speaker 1>one like this really is the hot ticket item for kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It must be like a cheap thing to like keep

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people entertained. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we were all entertained, but we also were

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<v Speaker 2>sweating so quickly. Like we didn't spend a ton of

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if the couple even thought people would actually

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<v Speaker 1>use it that were adult.

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<v Speaker 2>She she specifically, my friend Katia specifically said, I really

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<v Speaker 2>hope people use this because she told us about what

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<v Speaker 2>the apple orchard had had to offer and stuff like

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<v Speaker 2>things we can do because we were available to pick

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<v Speaker 2>apples if we wanted to pay like a buck for

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<v Speaker 2>a bag or something like that, and you could go

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<v Speaker 2>feed the goats or do whatever. So like you had

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<v Speaker 2>access to all that and she was hoping that we

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to do and it would have been

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<v Speaker 2>fun to like jump with her on it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know that she ever got on it because she

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<v Speaker 2>probably didn't want to ruin her dress or probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a fun idea of like for a location

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<v Speaker 1>for a wedding. Though we're the extra things for people

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<v Speaker 1>to check out and do.

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<v Speaker 2>It was super fun. I mean they did like everything themselves,

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<v Speaker 2>Like she got all the glass, where the plates, the

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<v Speaker 2>silver where they catered in food from like street Tacos

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<v Speaker 2>from Minneapolis, and then they bought all kinds of snacks

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<v Speaker 2>from Costco. So it was very like a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>Vinnie wouldn't let you do that though, Yeah, I know

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I thought of you because like, because

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<v Speaker 2>of those big things of Costco whatever, I did steal

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<v Speaker 2>those like cheese cuffs in York, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>and whatever. I wasn't drinking really, I think I had

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<v Speaker 2>one glass of wine at this wedding, and but I

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<v Speaker 2>did think I was like, oh drunk, Jenny would have gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Hand that's what you're gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I didn't still take a handful of Welch's

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<v Speaker 2>fruit snacks, yeah, because those were easy to just shove

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<v Speaker 1>Great? We went to the Green Day concert, which I

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<v Speaker 1>Me Up when September End four million effing times a day,

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<v Speaker 1>like I liked Holiday a lot on that album. But

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<v Speaker 1>they were so fun. I don't know. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>It was like what a fun like and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful weekend. But we went to a new restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like I would one thousand percent go back

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<v Speaker 1>Green Day concert, like, and Jake kept being like a

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was I don't know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>a freaking amazing cocktail there. So all I can say

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<v Speaker 1>is beautiful summer weekend to cap off my summer before

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<v Speaker 1>the State Fair hits this week. Yeah, it's wild.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm yeah, I feel like I'm actually a little more

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<v Speaker 2>excited than I was anticipating being, just because I have

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<v Speaker 2>a crazy like next couple of weeks ahead of me,

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<v Speaker 2>including the State Fair. But I'm really looking forward to it,

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<v Speaker 2>except for the fact that, of course when we're out

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<v Speaker 2>there for the first time, it's supposed to be like

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<v Speaker 2>almost ninety Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>God, I haven't looked at the weather for it is there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pulling it up right now, any like rain predicted

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<v Speaker 1>because I figured so far and not in the next

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<v Speaker 1>like week, I'll say it. Oh yeah, well, actually Saturday

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<v Speaker 1>looks better than Sunday at least, I know at last

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<v Speaker 1>Monday shows ninety two. Oh god, but then it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like it goes back down. But you know that'll change

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<v Speaker 1>before it comes. Yeah, I was, I'm I think it'll

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<v Speaker 1>go by really fast. Yeah, I think. I'm like you

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<v Speaker 1>just you know how you build stuff up in your

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<v Speaker 1>head and then it comes and you're like, that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>my head so much? I could? I've just been talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think we talked about a little bit on

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<v Speaker 1>the show last or the podcast last week. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you make it special? It was easier to

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<v Speaker 1>come up with things to make it special when you're

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<v Speaker 1>out there once for the morning show, but we're there

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<v Speaker 1>every day, so I'm like, we're not any Like I

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<v Speaker 1>said before, you have to cater to the majority of

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<v Speaker 1>the audience listening at home, so I don't think we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be doing a ton. But the most bizarre thing

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<v Speaker 1>is you can't take any calls while you're out there,

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<v Speaker 1>so usually we only do like one kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>phone or interactive bit. But also we have like tickets

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<v Speaker 1>to give away, so I'm like, I guess we'll have

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<v Speaker 1>to do those through text. It's all like the weird

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<v Speaker 1>logistics that we're thinking through now. I'm like, are the

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<v Speaker 1>shirts even finalized? The last week? People are like, when

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna premiere the shirts? Because we always get

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<v Speaker 1>like excited in premiere the shirts. I'm like, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>public knowledge now because Colt and I at least talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But our promotion destructor. Ted was let go

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<v Speaker 1>like a week and a half ago, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>devastating and heartbreaking because we love Ted as our friend

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<v Speaker 1>and it was another like company wide layoffs. They let

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<v Speaker 1>three people go here in our local offices, but Ted

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<v Speaker 1>was in charge of designing it. So then it gets

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<v Speaker 1>thrown on the plates of other people who already are

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<v Speaker 1>design i mean other T shirts for others, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, they're kind of like, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>get this over with. This is not what I don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>They're getting extra work without extra pay, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>how that goes. It's probably similar to your job, but

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<v Speaker 1>that is kind of where things are. So we're a

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<v Speaker 1>little behind and but it should be fun. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>getting messages about the Jason Show where they're like, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you are you fine staying after on the first

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<v Speaker 1>day and go filming a segment And I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go. I told Jason. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was only gonna do the first hour. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already gonna be there. I'll just do both hours. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But then they're like, after that, can you go film

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff for a different day, And I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I'll have to go do the radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>So but you know it's two days where it's super

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I mean, so that's the no which day

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<v Speaker 2>are you doing Jason Show again?

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<v Speaker 1>The first day in the last Friday, so Thursday, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the follow up Friday, you're definitely going to t

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<v Speaker 2>I have to like figure out what's going on now

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<v Speaker 2>because oh, because now that we just talked about Ted,

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<v Speaker 2>I had asked for tickets for promotions, and Ted was

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<v Speaker 2>the one who said, yeah, of course I'll get you some.

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<v Speaker 2>But now I like need to see who else is

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<v Speaker 2>in charge of that. Pat Okay, he'll give you tickets. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I figured that, but yes, I should be.

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<v Speaker 1>There when he was like he was like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out because Pat he does the country station. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even know what's popular. Oh I know, trust me.

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<v Speaker 2>He was telling me he's like hose Hoser yes, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, Hosier and yeah he only listens

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<v Speaker 2>to country.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes he does. But he was like, Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you guys this one and look the Morrity show

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<v Speaker 1>list or whatever. I said, cool, and I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>it was like we have five four three two one

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<v Speaker 1>for these shows. I'm like, wait, we have brought road

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<v Speaker 1>tickets for the tea paying Ludacris concert. That's badass. Not

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<v Speaker 1>that like we can have those, but whatever, no complaints

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<v Speaker 1>even if you got regular ones. But I'm really chatty today.

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<v Speaker 1>If you notice that, I won't shut the fuck up,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, No, it's listen.

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<v Speaker 2>You're fine because I have been running on like two

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<v Speaker 2>hours of sleep and I just did the morning show,

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<v Speaker 2>so you're like just coming in for the day, whereas

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<v Speaker 2>I've already been talking. So and I was like probably

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<v Speaker 2>really chatty on the morning show, more so than I

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<v Speaker 2>normally would be on a Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm cool. You take the mic, baby, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take a snooze. Actually, yeah, I had a fit

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<v Speaker 1>fluencer day. I went and did pilates and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just went on a long walk with uh Giselle. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of ours. Yeah, I don't actually are you

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<v Speaker 1>friends with her or just nowhere through social.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I mean I've been at events with her and

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<v Speaker 2>then I did buy a big mirror from her when

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<v Speaker 1>I think, okay, funny, funny yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, and so mostly just like a social media

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<v Speaker 2>friendship the most part. But yeah, no, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>her like super well. So another thing I which I

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<v Speaker 2>think would fit onto this. I posted this and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure you saw it because I think you still follow

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<v Speaker 2>me on Instagram, right, Jenny, Yeah, I want to do

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<v Speaker 2>like women's kind of series.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I saw you posting about that, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>very invested. Okay, you should be a part of it

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. But I was like, like host it here,

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<v Speaker 1>have like experts come in that talk about important things

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<v Speaker 1>for women, and I asked for suggestions. My top two

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<v Speaker 1>things that came to my mind were discussing perimenopause and menopause.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think along with that would tie in hormones

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<v Speaker 1>in general, and I don't know if I would tie

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<v Speaker 1>in like pelvic floor into that, but like you mentioning it,

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<v Speaker 1>were getting older, and no one has information on it.

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<v Speaker 1>the other one that I had posted was, uh, someone

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<v Speaker 1>in finance who isn't boring that can explain, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>of the panels, you have a moderator like me, and

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<v Speaker 1>the end you give them a couple of questions. But

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<v Speaker 1>the space if people don't have questions, but I would

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<v Speaker 1>rather the audience get to ask the questions. Yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I follow this instagram called l vest E

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<v Speaker 1>l e and I think it's veest and it's like

421
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<v Speaker 1>constantly promoting women investing, invest, invest, invest, so you can

422
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<v Speaker 1>set yourself up. And it's like women are newer to

423
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<v Speaker 1>it than men are, but we shouldn't be like so

424
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<v Speaker 1>far behind them financially in investments and things. But investing

425
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<v Speaker 1>is so confusing. I've been investing for like ten years now.

426
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<v Speaker 1>I am very confused about it still. I just know

427
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<v Speaker 1>that I want to be able to retire. And everyone

428
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<v Speaker 1>gets in their head and they're like, I don't have

429
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<v Speaker 1>thousands of dollars to invest. You don't have to, but

430
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<v Speaker 1>it's I think it's just so confusing. And then people

431
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<v Speaker 1>will see things if they have kids, Oh A five

432
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<v Speaker 1>twenty nine, What the hell's are wroth Ira? What is?

433
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<v Speaker 1>And it's confusing. So I would love to have someone

434
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<v Speaker 1>answer the questions simplify some things for a financial sector

435
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<v Speaker 1>as well, because we women are newer to the financial independence,

436
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<v Speaker 1>even though our generation, you know, we we have been

437
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<v Speaker 1>independent our whole time. But and then I don't know

438
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<v Speaker 1>what else that I had a bunch of suggestions for things,

439
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<v Speaker 1>but I think I would try maybe one to two

440
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<v Speaker 1>and if they go, well, see where it goes from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you thinking like a series over like a like

442
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<v Speaker 2>monthly or I was.

443
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<v Speaker 1>Thinking once a month because I don't want to get

444
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<v Speaker 1>two in over my head, and I was thinking in

445
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<v Speaker 1>my mind four sounded good. Yeah, not's brilliant. I just

446
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<v Speaker 1>like I think that you and I are similar in

447
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<v Speaker 1>the way of like we know that we are afforded

448
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<v Speaker 1>and not because we're lucky. We worked hard to get

449
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<v Speaker 1>our jobs and where we are, but we are afforded

450
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<v Speaker 1>a platform that other people don't have, even if they've

451
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<v Speaker 1>worked hard to get to a certain spot in their career.

452
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<v Speaker 1>And so at the end of the day, I don't

453
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<v Speaker 1>know if it's like age or what it is, but

454
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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you want to be doing things to help people,

455
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<v Speaker 1>and you have other things. I know that you're working

456
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<v Speaker 1>on that, like at some point you will talk about

457
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<v Speaker 1>whenever you've developed it or whatever. But it's like, you know,

458
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<v Speaker 1>it's easy to be in this position and just do

459
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<v Speaker 1>things that benefit us. Yep, we are lucky where we

460
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<v Speaker 1>will receive free stuff all the time, right, and the

461
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<v Speaker 1>businesses want us to post about it and promote them,

462
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<v Speaker 1>or we're invited to like that soft opening of that

463
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<v Speaker 1>restaurant that I got to go to and we have

464
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<v Speaker 1>these like luxuries and benefits, and it's kind of the

465
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<v Speaker 1>joke of not implying Jenny and I are rich, but

466
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<v Speaker 1>the rich getting rich or right, like celebrities are the way.

467
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<v Speaker 1>I always get all the free stuff and you're like,

468
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<v Speaker 1>what the hell, I'd love to try it, and you

469
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<v Speaker 1>know I can't afford it. So it's kind of like

470
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<v Speaker 1>finding this balance. And as I've gotten older, my most

471
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<v Speaker 1>important thing is my time. So I have said no

472
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<v Speaker 1>more and more to a lot of kind of hosting

473
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<v Speaker 1>or free events that take up my time, especially on

474
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<v Speaker 1>the weekends, especially like I'm sorry, I'm spending time with

475
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<v Speaker 1>my family, which just it has to be my top priority.

476
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<v Speaker 1>At the end of my life. I will feel good

477
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<v Speaker 1>that I hosted that charity event, but I'll feel a

478
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<v Speaker 1>lot better that I spent that weekend with my daughter.

479
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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, Like it's just it's what it's going to be. Yeah,

480
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<v Speaker 1>So it's finding a balance. But things like this, I

481
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<v Speaker 1>feel like you and I have connections, like we can

482
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<v Speaker 1>reach out to someone and they might be down to

483
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<v Speaker 1>do the panel or whatever. But yeah, I don't know,

484
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<v Speaker 1>that's just something I want to do. And I thought, oh,

485
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<v Speaker 1>I should do it in like the early year months

486
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<v Speaker 1>when people are looking for things to do because it's

487
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<v Speaker 1>cold and crappy. So yeah, that's smart. Yeah, So I

488
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<v Speaker 1>think that's what I'm going to work on next.

489
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<v Speaker 2>Yes, if you need me to speak on a panel

490
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<v Speaker 2>about how to part in front of your significant other

491
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<v Speaker 2>without them hearing it, I do like speak on that

492
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<v Speaker 2>or just like little tips and tricks I've learned over

493
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<v Speaker 2>the years when I've been like in a bad situation

494
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<v Speaker 2>where I'm like, my stomach hurts, but I don't want

495
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<v Speaker 2>this new guy to hear me blowing out the toilet.

496
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<v Speaker 2>I've got your tips there.

497
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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that you that they didn't hear you.

498
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<v Speaker 1>I think that they still heard you, and they just

499
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<v Speaker 1>pretended they you're.

500
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<v Speaker 2>Telling me when I was going like this, I think

501
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<v Speaker 2>they were hearing the Yes.

502
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<v Speaker 1>I think that they were hearing that. And I think

503
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<v Speaker 1>they also were just disturbed by your fucking black lung

504
00:22:32.680 --> 00:22:34.480
<v Speaker 1>cough and they were like, I don't even want that.

505
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<v Speaker 2>Actually really kind of hurt us now to do that.

506
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know where that cough even came from. And

507
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<v Speaker 2>my stick right now, like what was.

508
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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was healthy I'll tell you that

509
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<v Speaker 1>much did I really quickly? By the way, last night

510
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<v Speaker 1>I was hooking up with Jake shout out and do

511
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<v Speaker 1>you know what this motherfucker said to me. I was like,

512
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<v Speaker 1>he lifts my legs in some position and I said,

513
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<v Speaker 1>how god damn tight, Like put that thing down. He

514
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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, the apes are supposed to be making

515
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<v Speaker 1>you more flexible, and I was like, I can kill you.

516
00:23:01.640 --> 00:23:05.559
<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, fun fact. Actually, usually working out

517
00:23:05.599 --> 00:23:09.000
<v Speaker 1>it makes me tighter because I'm like all tight from

518
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<v Speaker 1>the workout and I'm not properly stretching after. So get

519
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<v Speaker 1>off my ass. Oh yeah, don't be moving things in

520
00:23:14.839 --> 00:23:19.440
<v Speaker 1>different positions sometimes, just like, can't it just be normal today?

521
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<v Speaker 2>I know you joke about like starfishing and stuff a lot. Yeah,

522
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<v Speaker 2>I would like to believe that maybe you do other

523
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<v Speaker 2>positions besides that, But if you don't, that's fine. I

524
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<v Speaker 2>do have one question for you real quick, thank you.

525
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<v Speaker 2>So if you happen to find yourself in more of

526
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<v Speaker 2>a doggy style position, or maybe you're starfishing but you're

527
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<v Speaker 2>flat on your stomach's on the bed, you know, fair

528
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<v Speaker 2>if you have your period, does it ever hurt that way?

529
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<v Speaker 2>Because I actually like feel sort of like a pain

530
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<v Speaker 2>when we are doing such a Certain.

531
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<v Speaker 1>Positions don't have a ton of period sets anymore. Realistically,

532
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<v Speaker 1>I find that I am typically drier during that time,

533
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<v Speaker 1>so I feel like I can I feel like it

534
00:24:03.799 --> 00:24:07.319
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel as good because of that, right, Yeah, I

535
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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

536
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<v Speaker 2>I just it's a there's certain angles that hit sometimes

537
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<v Speaker 2>where I'm like, oh, like almost like I'm like getting

538
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<v Speaker 2>my cherry popped again or something. Congratulation you're so on

539
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<v Speaker 2>a reborn version.

540
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<v Speaker 1>I saw someone's dick today. I forgot to tell you explain.

541
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<v Speaker 1>I went to freaking Whole Foods when I was going

542
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<v Speaker 1>on the walk to meet our friend, my friend Joe

543
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<v Speaker 1>whatever that is not And I go, you know, they

544
00:24:31.640 --> 00:24:34.400
<v Speaker 1>have codes to get into the bathrooms at Whole Foods. Okay,

545
00:24:34.599 --> 00:24:37.599
<v Speaker 1>the girl gives me a code. He did not have

546
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<v Speaker 1>the lock on it. Oh yeah, I type it and

547
00:24:39.680 --> 00:24:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I open it. He is standing there holding his dong.

548
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<v Speaker 1>He just we just make eye contact, and I was

549
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<v Speaker 1>like a and I shut the door and another guy's

550
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<v Speaker 1>coming out the other when he goes that guy didn't

551
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<v Speaker 1>have his door locked. Iday, I go and no, He's like,

552
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<v Speaker 1>you got a lock, that's what I'm saying. I was

553
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<v Speaker 1>I just saw someone's dick. God did he react? No,

554
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<v Speaker 1>he didn't. It's like whatever. He just looked me in

555
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<v Speaker 1>the eye, like slowly. He was an old man, was

556
00:25:02.839 --> 00:25:05.759
<v Speaker 1>not old old, but older. He was older than me,

557
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<v Speaker 1>but not like seventy. Yeah, I don't know, maybe sixty,

558
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<v Speaker 1>maybe fifty five. He didn't give a fuck. Yeah, it's

559
00:25:12.640 --> 00:25:14.799
<v Speaker 1>like whatever. I think he was a little surprised, but

560
00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:16.880
<v Speaker 1>also maybe he was didn't lock it because he was

561
00:25:16.920 --> 00:25:19.720
<v Speaker 1>looking for a little action in his life and how

562
00:25:19.759 --> 00:25:21.720
<v Speaker 1>he picks up green or anything. I didn't like make

563
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<v Speaker 1>a whole scene. Yeah, you don't know. You didn't make

564
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<v Speaker 1>a scene. Thank you. I did not for one. I

565
00:25:29.319 --> 00:25:33.519
<v Speaker 1>did not for one. Oh god, Okay, we have so

566
00:25:33.680 --> 00:25:36.960
<v Speaker 1>many emails. What the hell happened? Okay, we actually got

567
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<v Speaker 1>one right after we recorded last week, so I thought

568
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<v Speaker 1>we would start off with that one. It's good. We're

569
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<v Speaker 1>a little late. Kate Fallon and Jenny, I look forward

570
00:25:47.599 --> 00:25:50.319
<v Speaker 1>to your podcast every week and appreciate your content. Thank you.

571
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<v Speaker 1>I also want to say thank you both for taking

572
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<v Speaker 1>time to respond on Instagram. I'm sure you get tons

573
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<v Speaker 1>of messages and you guys taking time out of your

574
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<v Speaker 1>day to respond means a lot. I'm reaching out to

575
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<v Speaker 1>get some advice. My husband writes about the Minnesota Vikings.

576
00:26:01.759 --> 00:26:04.200
<v Speaker 1>He has started to grow his social media following and

577
00:26:04.240 --> 00:26:06.839
<v Speaker 1>has had people who comment negative and hateful things about

578
00:26:06.920 --> 00:26:09.279
<v Speaker 1>him more and more. This past week, I had my

579
00:26:09.359 --> 00:26:12.440
<v Speaker 1>first hand experience with a negative comment being made about me.

580
00:26:13.000 --> 00:26:15.720
<v Speaker 1>My husband mentioned going to Vikings training camp with me,

581
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<v Speaker 1>and some troll made multiple comments about my weight. I'm

582
00:26:19.480 --> 00:26:21.680
<v Speaker 1>typically a pretty private person and I don't have a

583
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<v Speaker 1>large social media presence. My question for you, too is

584
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<v Speaker 1>do your significant others get hate and how do they

585
00:26:27.920 --> 00:26:31.000
<v Speaker 1>deal with it. It's also frustrating that the go to

586
00:26:31.400 --> 00:26:34.519
<v Speaker 1>insult towards me as a woman was a comment about weight.

587
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<v Speaker 1>How do you both not let comments about your appearance

588
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<v Speaker 1>affect you? Thank you for all you do. I won't

589
00:26:40.000 --> 00:26:41.920
<v Speaker 1>say her name, just in case she doesn't want me to.

590
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<v Speaker 1>She didn't say not to.

591
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<v Speaker 2>I don't think Andrew's ever been made fun of or

592
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<v Speaker 2>bullied or anything on social media because of me. But

593
00:26:51.720 --> 00:26:54.079
<v Speaker 2>maybe something has happened that I just haven't seen and

594
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<v Speaker 2>he hasn't told me. But yeah, as far as I know,

595
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<v Speaker 2>I haven't, he hasn't had to deal with anything like that.

596
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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sorry that you are. I'm first of all, yeah,

597
00:27:02.680 --> 00:27:07.000
<v Speaker 1>so sorry, And just so you know, that always shows

598
00:27:07.039 --> 00:27:09.559
<v Speaker 1>me when someone goes and they always go for a

599
00:27:09.559 --> 00:27:12.880
<v Speaker 1>weight on a woman, always, even if like they're thin.

600
00:27:13.319 --> 00:27:16.640
<v Speaker 1>They could probably if people hated Jenny, for instance, they

601
00:27:16.640 --> 00:27:19.440
<v Speaker 1>would probably go for Jenny. Even though Jenny has a

602
00:27:19.720 --> 00:27:23.079
<v Speaker 1>very like the men making the comments would kill to

603
00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:25.799
<v Speaker 1>have Jenny as a woman in bed with them. They

604
00:27:25.839 --> 00:27:28.640
<v Speaker 1>would probably still make a comment about like all her

605
00:27:28.640 --> 00:27:32.880
<v Speaker 1>thighs are thick or something. It's because they're so ignorant

606
00:27:33.200 --> 00:27:35.799
<v Speaker 1>they can't think of anything else. And I'm always like, okay,

607
00:27:35.880 --> 00:27:39.119
<v Speaker 1>you can talk about my body. I mean that that

608
00:27:39.240 --> 00:27:42.519
<v Speaker 1>is I don't know, it doesn't not hurt, and especially

609
00:27:42.559 --> 00:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>your first time. Jake's definitely had it. But Jake is

610
00:27:45.960 --> 00:27:49.759
<v Speaker 1>like the most confident, secure human ever. And the only

611
00:27:50.240 --> 00:27:52.400
<v Speaker 1>things they've ever said about Jake that I've seen, or

612
00:27:52.440 --> 00:27:54.359
<v Speaker 1>they'll make fun of his height because he's like shorter,

613
00:27:54.960 --> 00:27:58.079
<v Speaker 1>and even so they don't they usually don't go in

614
00:27:58.160 --> 00:28:01.400
<v Speaker 1>on him. The men who talk shit always just go

615
00:28:01.480 --> 00:28:04.079
<v Speaker 1>in on me and my weight. So I very much

616
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<v Speaker 1>firsthand know what you're talking about. I've dealt with it

617
00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:09.160
<v Speaker 1>since I've moved here to Minnesota. It is a very

618
00:28:09.200 --> 00:28:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Minnesota thing for me. It's like almost like a kind

619
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<v Speaker 1>of a trigger since living here. People didn't talk about

620
00:28:15.480 --> 00:28:18.720
<v Speaker 1>my weight in Nevada or Indiana, or if they did,

621
00:28:18.759 --> 00:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>they didn't do it in a public format or forum.

622
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<v Speaker 1>So I would say it's never going to get easy.

623
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<v Speaker 1>If it's something that is affecting your mental health, then

624
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<v Speaker 1>I think you have to ask your I don't know

625
00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:32.640
<v Speaker 1>if you said her husband or boy frank husband, I

626
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<v Speaker 1>think you have to ask him to just not include you.

627
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<v Speaker 1>And I would suggest if you don't already have your

628
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<v Speaker 1>social stuff on private, I would make it private because

629
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<v Speaker 1>they then they can't access you. And I think that's

630
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<v Speaker 1>really unfair to live like that. But I'm saying, if

631
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<v Speaker 1>it's affecting your mental health, yep, you should. If it's

632
00:28:50.880 --> 00:28:53.599
<v Speaker 1>something you're like that hurt for a moment, but I

633
00:28:53.640 --> 00:28:56.279
<v Speaker 1>don't think about it again, then fuck them and live

634
00:28:56.319 --> 00:29:00.640
<v Speaker 1>your life and don't let losers dictate how you you live.

635
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<v Speaker 2>For sure, And it even if like you do have

636
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<v Speaker 2>that mindset, you'll probably still be hurt for the first

637
00:29:05.880 --> 00:29:08.119
<v Speaker 2>few minutes of seeing something and then you might get

638
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<v Speaker 2>over it because I'll still see a negative comment about me,

639
00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:13.480
<v Speaker 2>and I'll be hurt for a second, and then I

640
00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:15.960
<v Speaker 2>am able to get over pretty much everything right away.

641
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<v Speaker 2>But I'll never just like see a negative comment and

642
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<v Speaker 2>be like, no big.

643
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<v Speaker 1>Deal, right right, Yeah, I don't so, I mean my

644
00:29:26.160 --> 00:29:28.559
<v Speaker 1>I've talked about being friends with my ex who also

645
00:29:28.680 --> 00:29:30.440
<v Speaker 1>works in the building, and he gets a ton of

646
00:29:30.440 --> 00:29:36.559
<v Speaker 1>online hate, and we actually recently talked about this, and

647
00:29:37.519 --> 00:29:40.839
<v Speaker 1>one thing that we just agreed on is like, I

648
00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to word this perfectly, but we're both

649
00:29:43.599 --> 00:29:48.119
<v Speaker 1>really happy in our lives, and those are really unhappy people,

650
00:29:49.559 --> 00:29:51.960
<v Speaker 1>so it's like we could let it affect us and

651
00:29:52.000 --> 00:29:54.599
<v Speaker 1>make us unhappy, but then we're on their same level

652
00:29:55.039 --> 00:29:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and it's like we have like we're just we're both

653
00:29:58.000 --> 00:30:01.319
<v Speaker 1>just so happy in our lives. So it's like, I

654
00:30:01.359 --> 00:30:03.319
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like I'm not gonna let because the old

655
00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:05.880
<v Speaker 1>thing is some loser in his basement. I don't care

656
00:30:05.920 --> 00:30:08.799
<v Speaker 1>if it's some loser working at his actual full time job.

657
00:30:09.119 --> 00:30:12.839
<v Speaker 1>Like he's to comment something like that on social media.

658
00:30:13.759 --> 00:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, you are a really low level human. Yeah,

659
00:30:17.519 --> 00:30:20.640
<v Speaker 1>for sure, you just are. I agree. I agree. If

660
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you want to get off hobby. Yeah, if you want

661
00:30:22.160 --> 00:30:24.559
<v Speaker 1>to gossip about like celebrities with your friends, because you're

662
00:30:24.599 --> 00:30:27.480
<v Speaker 1>just like whatever. I even if like I'm looking at

663
00:30:27.519 --> 00:30:30.240
<v Speaker 1>this Blake Lively drama, I wouldn't go online and make

664
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<v Speaker 1>a comment that's so embarrassing. Yeah to my family as

665
00:30:35.559 --> 00:30:38.880
<v Speaker 1>well to make a comment like that. So I'm sorry,

666
00:30:39.119 --> 00:30:42.279
<v Speaker 1>and you're better than that, and I love you. Okay,

667
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<v Speaker 1>did you want to do one next? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't read the next one. Okay, So this is

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<v Speaker 2>hi Jenny and Fallon. First off, I love you both.

670
00:30:50.519 --> 00:30:53.319
<v Speaker 2>I heard you're talking about getting older and taking clocks,

671
00:30:53.359 --> 00:30:54.519
<v Speaker 2>and I feel like I can relate to both of

672
00:30:54.559 --> 00:30:56.519
<v Speaker 2>you so much. I'll be thirty three in November and

673
00:30:56.559 --> 00:30:58.839
<v Speaker 2>have been with a wonderful guy for four and a

674
00:30:58.880 --> 00:31:01.039
<v Speaker 2>half years, and if it were up to him, we'd

675
00:31:01.079 --> 00:31:04.160
<v Speaker 2>be married by now. But I'm in no rush. I

676
00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:06.240
<v Speaker 2>want to be with him and no one else. But

677
00:31:06.319 --> 00:31:08.880
<v Speaker 2>I also really like things the way they are and

678
00:31:08.960 --> 00:31:11.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm afraid of ruining a good thing and wonder if

679
00:31:11.640 --> 00:31:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm even the marrying kind. I've also struggled with anxiety

680
00:31:15.480 --> 00:31:18.240
<v Speaker 2>since I was a child, so Jenny, you sharing about

681
00:31:18.240 --> 00:31:21.200
<v Speaker 2>your struggles with it really helps me. During a time

682
00:31:21.240 --> 00:31:23.599
<v Speaker 2>I was also struggling. The thought of kids in the

683
00:31:23.640 --> 00:31:25.559
<v Speaker 2>ticking clock has been a big thing for me the

684
00:31:25.599 --> 00:31:27.440
<v Speaker 2>last year, and since I'm with a man who would

685
00:31:27.480 --> 00:31:30.599
<v Speaker 2>ideally like kids, I've been stressing to figure out if

686
00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:32.960
<v Speaker 2>that's something I even want, and if it is, how

687
00:31:33.039 --> 00:31:34.920
<v Speaker 2>much time do I have to get my life where

688
00:31:34.960 --> 00:31:37.359
<v Speaker 2>I want it to be and be the put together

689
00:31:37.440 --> 00:31:39.680
<v Speaker 2>person I thought i'd be at this age and as

690
00:31:39.720 --> 00:31:43.799
<v Speaker 2>a parent fallin. I find your story so inspiring as

691
00:31:43.799 --> 00:31:46.480
<v Speaker 2>someone who didn't initially want children but seems to really

692
00:31:46.599 --> 00:31:49.720
<v Speaker 2>enjoy and excel at motherhood, I would love if you

693
00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:52.640
<v Speaker 2>wrote something like you'd mentioned about what you've learned. You

694
00:31:52.720 --> 00:31:55.200
<v Speaker 2>hear so much about people who always knew they wanted

695
00:31:55.279 --> 00:31:58.440
<v Speaker 2>kids in motherhood and it was their life's purpose, not me,

696
00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:01.200
<v Speaker 2>but not much about the people who have had doubts

697
00:32:01.240 --> 00:32:03.640
<v Speaker 2>about making one of the biggest decisions a person can make.

698
00:32:04.319 --> 00:32:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Sorry for the long email, but I wanted you both

699
00:32:06.000 --> 00:32:08.440
<v Speaker 2>know that hearing you discuss your experiences with these things

700
00:32:08.440 --> 00:32:11.000
<v Speaker 2>as successful strong women is super helpful to me, and

701
00:32:11.039 --> 00:32:12.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel so much less alone with my.

702
00:32:12.640 --> 00:32:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Fears about it.

703
00:32:13.759 --> 00:32:15.559
<v Speaker 2>I'm grateful to you both for doing what you do

704
00:32:15.680 --> 00:32:19.920
<v Speaker 2>best yet still being vulnerable and authentic, and that comes

705
00:32:20.000 --> 00:32:24.240
<v Speaker 2>from grace. Well, Fallin, is there anything that you want

706
00:32:24.240 --> 00:32:27.799
<v Speaker 2>to say just because she is curious about your transition

707
00:32:28.400 --> 00:32:30.640
<v Speaker 2>and what you've learned to excel in motherhood?

708
00:32:30.960 --> 00:32:33.559
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think, And I did write something which I

709
00:32:33.599 --> 00:32:39.079
<v Speaker 1>won't read right now. I did write something, and I

710
00:32:39.119 --> 00:32:44.799
<v Speaker 1>think the overarching theme for me is which I will

711
00:32:44.799 --> 00:32:46.519
<v Speaker 1>get into with that if I read it at some

712
00:32:46.559 --> 00:32:52.119
<v Speaker 1>point on here. I think that I thought I didn't

713
00:32:52.160 --> 00:32:57.880
<v Speaker 1>want to be a mother because I don't have maternal instincts.

714
00:32:57.920 --> 00:33:01.119
<v Speaker 1>But I think that that so I think that it's

715
00:33:01.119 --> 00:33:05.200
<v Speaker 1>been surprising to me to be a mom and feel

716
00:33:05.240 --> 00:33:07.599
<v Speaker 1>like it was so much easier than I built them

717
00:33:07.599 --> 00:33:12.200
<v Speaker 1>in my head because I don't think I still don't

718
00:33:12.200 --> 00:33:14.559
<v Speaker 1>think i'm maternal, but I think I'm a good mom

719
00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:20.119
<v Speaker 1>to Olive, and I think that that is hard to explain,

720
00:33:20.359 --> 00:33:24.400
<v Speaker 1>but I don't. I think that there's this, like I

721
00:33:24.400 --> 00:33:29.119
<v Speaker 1>don't know, perception of being maternal that scares people who

722
00:33:29.119 --> 00:33:31.799
<v Speaker 1>are built like me away from having kids. And I

723
00:33:31.839 --> 00:33:34.440
<v Speaker 1>still and I always want to walk a fine line

724
00:33:34.440 --> 00:33:38.359
<v Speaker 1>because if you don't want kids, I don't have kids,

725
00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:41.039
<v Speaker 1>like I don't like I would never think less of you,

726
00:33:41.119 --> 00:33:42.799
<v Speaker 1>and I wouldn't. I'm never going to be the person

727
00:33:42.880 --> 00:33:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that's like, you'll change your mind. I did like, I'm

728
00:33:46.519 --> 00:33:48.200
<v Speaker 1>not going to do that because so many people don't

729
00:33:48.200 --> 00:33:51.039
<v Speaker 1>want kids, and I see I have plenty of couple

730
00:33:51.160 --> 00:33:53.240
<v Speaker 1>friends who are past the point of being able to

731
00:33:53.279 --> 00:33:57.039
<v Speaker 1>probably have kids or want kids, and they're very happy,

732
00:33:57.079 --> 00:34:00.440
<v Speaker 1>they're very content, and I love that for them. So

733
00:34:00.920 --> 00:34:03.920
<v Speaker 1>or friends that want kids and they struggle to have them.

734
00:34:04.279 --> 00:34:06.440
<v Speaker 1>So I always want to be sensitive. And I'm not

735
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:10.199
<v Speaker 1>implying being a parent is easy, but I think I

736
00:34:10.320 --> 00:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>built it up so much in my head that I

737
00:34:12.840 --> 00:34:17.920
<v Speaker 1>don't have this ability. But I also know I chose

738
00:34:17.960 --> 00:34:21.079
<v Speaker 1>a really great partner, and I think it could have

739
00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:24.920
<v Speaker 1>been very different feeling if I didn't have the right partner.

740
00:34:25.280 --> 00:34:27.760
<v Speaker 1>And I actually heard a podcast that talked about this

741
00:34:28.239 --> 00:34:31.800
<v Speaker 1>and I really liked it, and she was saying, from

742
00:34:31.880 --> 00:34:36.639
<v Speaker 1>the very beginning, you need to let your husband help

743
00:34:36.679 --> 00:34:39.360
<v Speaker 1>you with stuff. Don't get frustrated because they don't know

744
00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:41.159
<v Speaker 1>what they're doing, because it makes them feel stupid too,

745
00:34:41.239 --> 00:34:42.800
<v Speaker 1>and be like, no, I just got this, because you're

746
00:34:42.840 --> 00:34:45.440
<v Speaker 1>just setting it up that no, I got this. Every

747
00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:48.119
<v Speaker 1>time you do that, you're pushing them away and you're

748
00:34:48.119 --> 00:34:52.800
<v Speaker 1>adding more to your plate. Whereas if you're like, they

749
00:34:52.920 --> 00:34:55.760
<v Speaker 1>are fully capable of taking care of the child in

750
00:34:55.760 --> 00:34:59.119
<v Speaker 1>the exact same ways you are, other than breastfeeding, every

751
00:34:59.159 --> 00:35:03.079
<v Speaker 1>single other thing they can one hundred percent do as well.

752
00:35:03.519 --> 00:35:08.039
<v Speaker 1>So let it be fifty to fifty. Yeah, aside from breastfeeding.

753
00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I get that, Like yet they can't breastfeed. But and

754
00:35:11.400 --> 00:35:14.199
<v Speaker 1>so I was like, yes, yes, quit being like I

755
00:35:14.239 --> 00:35:16.599
<v Speaker 1>got it. No, you need your sleep more than me.

756
00:35:17.599 --> 00:35:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I already know how to do it because I do

757
00:35:18.920 --> 00:35:20.480
<v Speaker 1>it when you're at work or whatever. Because if you

758
00:35:20.519 --> 00:35:22.159
<v Speaker 1>had more maternity leave and they had to go back

759
00:35:22.199 --> 00:35:26.920
<v Speaker 1>sooner and you now have this routine, no like you No, yes,

760
00:35:27.079 --> 00:35:30.039
<v Speaker 1>you figure it out. You're a very capable adult. Sure.

761
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:32.480
<v Speaker 2>So I mean that's a good tip because I have

762
00:35:32.559 --> 00:35:35.599
<v Speaker 2>the personality just at work of like I'll just do

763
00:35:35.679 --> 00:35:38.599
<v Speaker 2>it myself. So I would totally probably be the same

764
00:35:38.880 --> 00:35:39.719
<v Speaker 2>way if I had kids.

765
00:35:39.800 --> 00:35:43.079
<v Speaker 1>And I think that you will build up resentment towards

766
00:35:43.119 --> 00:35:47.159
<v Speaker 1>your partner, and I would say that is a there's

767
00:35:47.360 --> 00:35:49.159
<v Speaker 1>that could be a lot of your fault as well

768
00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:52.199
<v Speaker 1>and not their fault. And now there are just lazy

769
00:35:52.320 --> 00:35:55.800
<v Speaker 1>sacks who don't help at all, and that is you.

770
00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:58.480
<v Speaker 1>You deserve to have the resentment build up towards them,

771
00:35:58.599 --> 00:36:02.719
<v Speaker 1>like do your fucking part. So yeah, I don't know

772
00:36:02.760 --> 00:36:04.519
<v Speaker 1>if that is helpful at all, but that's like kind

773
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:07.519
<v Speaker 1>of like a starter of like where we get into

774
00:36:07.559 --> 00:36:09.719
<v Speaker 1>our minds so much of how we need to be

775
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>as mothers. And that's just yeah, show, Okay, let's see

776
00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:20.519
<v Speaker 1>we have some more. Okay, that was great, she said, yep, okay. Question.

777
00:36:21.239 --> 00:36:22.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, we're gonna save that one for next week.

778
00:36:22.719 --> 00:36:25.840
<v Speaker 1>There is a question about the mole. Yes, but we're

779
00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:27.559
<v Speaker 1>going to save that for next week because Jenny hasn't

780
00:36:27.559 --> 00:36:29.360
<v Speaker 1>finished watching it, so we're going to come back to

781
00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:30.840
<v Speaker 1>your question next week. I just want to give you

782
00:36:30.840 --> 00:36:34.360
<v Speaker 1>a heads up. Okay, this one says it's my first

783
00:36:34.360 --> 00:36:36.800
<v Speaker 1>time emailing, but man, did you two strike a chord

784
00:36:36.880 --> 00:36:38.719
<v Speaker 1>last week. I just got done catching up at the

785
00:36:38.760 --> 00:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>podcast and it's eleven fifty seven pm and I'm doing

786
00:36:41.440 --> 00:36:43.760
<v Speaker 1>my typical spiral in my head of all the things

787
00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:46.079
<v Speaker 1>that make me anxious as I attempt to fall asleep.

788
00:36:46.599 --> 00:36:48.320
<v Speaker 1>We know that life been there. I just had that

789
00:36:48.400 --> 00:36:51.679
<v Speaker 1>last night. I'm a thirty seven year old mother to

790
00:36:51.760 --> 00:36:54.679
<v Speaker 1>two little girls. Henley and Peyton six and almost four,

791
00:36:54.760 --> 00:36:57.440
<v Speaker 1>and lately I have really struggled with my age. I

792
00:36:57.480 --> 00:37:00.519
<v Speaker 1>know thirty seven really isn't that old, but I constantly

793
00:37:00.559 --> 00:37:03.719
<v Speaker 1>get anxiety when I think about the fact that the carefree, drinking,

794
00:37:03.800 --> 00:37:06.199
<v Speaker 1>wild years of my life are behind me. It's not

795
00:37:06.239 --> 00:37:07.719
<v Speaker 1>that I have any desire to go out and be

796
00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:10.079
<v Speaker 1>the party girl again. I honestly don't think i'd survive,

797
00:37:10.639 --> 00:37:13.239
<v Speaker 1>but I just don't know where my place is and everything.

798
00:37:13.639 --> 00:37:15.559
<v Speaker 1>On the inside, I don't feel any older, but that

799
00:37:15.719 --> 00:37:18.199
<v Speaker 1>damn mirror refuses to lie to me. I just had

800
00:37:18.239 --> 00:37:20.400
<v Speaker 1>a friend that turned twenty one, and I didn't go

801
00:37:20.440 --> 00:37:22.119
<v Speaker 1>out with her for a birthday because I felt like

802
00:37:22.159 --> 00:37:25.079
<v Speaker 1>I'd just be the old lady and they'd all wonder

803
00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:27.519
<v Speaker 1>why I was there or talk about later. I know

804
00:37:27.639 --> 00:37:30.639
<v Speaker 1>that's ridiculous. They are my friends, right, Uh. It's just

805
00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:32.719
<v Speaker 1>such a trip to go through these phases of life

806
00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>fallin I too, also never thought I wanted kids, and

807
00:37:35.519 --> 00:37:37.280
<v Speaker 1>here I am with one off to kindergarten and the

808
00:37:37.320 --> 00:37:40.519
<v Speaker 1>other starting preschool, bawling my eyes out every time anyone

809
00:37:40.559 --> 00:37:43.760
<v Speaker 1>mentions back to school. Everyone always told me that they

810
00:37:43.800 --> 00:37:45.679
<v Speaker 1>grow up so fast, and I know that but it

811
00:37:45.800 --> 00:37:47.840
<v Speaker 1>still just seems to be flying by in front of

812
00:37:47.840 --> 00:37:50.519
<v Speaker 1>my eyes. Okay, enough whining. I just want to tell

813
00:37:50.519 --> 00:37:52.920
<v Speaker 1>you how much I really enjoy this podcast. Whether it's

814
00:37:52.920 --> 00:37:55.000
<v Speaker 1>poop stories or you two talking about the ups and

815
00:37:55.039 --> 00:37:57.199
<v Speaker 1>downs of life, you both give me so much comfort

816
00:37:57.599 --> 00:38:00.320
<v Speaker 1>and a feeling of it's not just me. Thanks for

817
00:38:00.320 --> 00:38:02.199
<v Speaker 1>making me feel like I'm not alone out here in

818
00:38:02.239 --> 00:38:04.840
<v Speaker 1>the land of not old but not young either. I

819
00:38:04.920 --> 00:38:06.920
<v Speaker 1>met Foul last year at the State Fair with Zach,

820
00:38:06.960 --> 00:38:08.639
<v Speaker 1>and I really hope to catch both of you this

821
00:38:08.719 --> 00:38:11.079
<v Speaker 1>year fingers crossed. Oh and please send a shout out

822
00:38:11.280 --> 00:38:14.360
<v Speaker 1>to fellow listener Rebecca. She has a coworker of mine

823
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>and had an accident while riding her horse. It sounds

824
00:38:17.280 --> 00:38:20.039
<v Speaker 1>like she's going to fully recover, but has a long

825
00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:22.559
<v Speaker 1>road ahead of her. Wow, that was long. Sorry, keep

826
00:38:22.639 --> 00:38:29.280
<v Speaker 1>being fabulous ladies, until next time, Missy. Well. First of all, Rebecca, sheeesh,

827
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<v Speaker 1>I hope that you recover very quickly. Yeah. I know

828
00:38:33.280 --> 00:38:36.960
<v Speaker 1>that horse accidents can be awful, so I really hope

829
00:38:36.960 --> 00:38:39.960
<v Speaker 1>that she has a quick recovery. Yeah, seriously. And I

830
00:38:40.000 --> 00:38:41.800
<v Speaker 1>get the balling your eyes out as you're sending your

831
00:38:41.840 --> 00:38:43.639
<v Speaker 1>kid off to school and you see the back to school.

832
00:38:43.679 --> 00:38:46.239
<v Speaker 1>I had my moment this past week where I was

833
00:38:46.239 --> 00:38:49.000
<v Speaker 1>buying clothes for Olive and I was like, five t

834
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<v Speaker 1>is the last tea size? Oh yeah, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>go to like regular sizes, regular kids sizes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh did I cry now? Like I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>filling all the emotion on that one. So but you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty seven is not old at all, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>the weird trying to find your place in life. But

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<v Speaker 1>your party days may not be behind you, because let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you something, these women in these fifties and

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<v Speaker 1>sixties and plus these days, when those kids hit like

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<v Speaker 1>high school and they can be on their own, they're

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<v Speaker 1>raging again. Okay, they're raging again. They find their people

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<v Speaker 1>and they're back out there. So there is still some

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<v Speaker 1>of that ahead of you if you want it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think for sure. I also feel like, Babe, she

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<v Speaker 2>already went through this. But once the kids are like

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<v Speaker 2>three or four or something. I've got friends who have

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<v Speaker 2>kids about that age and they have a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more freedom now of not having a baby attached to them,

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<v Speaker 2>so they're kind of back and like, I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>get a little drunk this weekend, and I'm like, so

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<v Speaker 2>not in that phase currently, So I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you know, you get out there, you live it up,

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<v Speaker 1>you do it. Yeah, now we do have more, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna come back and do it because Jenny has

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<v Speaker 1>an important appointment I do, which will probably talk about

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<v Speaker 1>next week. I don't think I'll be talking about this

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<v Speaker 1>one for a little while. But yeah, it's not anything

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<v Speaker 1>like weird, no, like you know, it's it's I will

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<v Speaker 1>be personally removing moles from her body. That's an appointment

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<v Speaker 1>with me, and it's very intimate and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure the recovery goes well first. So anyway, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening. We'll talk to you. We'll have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>that out. Oh are you gone, Oh you're gone. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>still come in. It's all my way into the there, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll still have a podcast. All right, We'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you then,
