Speaker 1: Hello. Okay, this looks weird. Okay, welcome to that. I'm
Speaker 1: still fun podcasts with Jenny. Hello, Jenny, how are my levels?
Speaker 1: I don't know. It can turn you, just to be safe. Hello, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: and I'll turn me h, Jenny? Do you talk abous
Speaker 1: so much? Did I talk about this on the podcast?
Speaker 1: How much my voice has changed?
Speaker 2: I feel like I heard something of yours last week
Speaker 2: and I don't know if we were looking back at
Speaker 2: an old video. Oh no, this is what happened. We
Speaker 2: were clearing out the system called voxcro whatever. If you listen,
Speaker 2: you might not know what that is.
Speaker 1: And it's a recording device you record like for the
Speaker 1: morning show. You'd record like the Minnesota Goodbye into it
Speaker 1: blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: But randomly a commercial from like twenty sixteen of yours
Speaker 2: started playing, and Bailey pointed out, like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: she sounds so different.
Speaker 1: It is so creepy. I did not know my voice
Speaker 1: had changed so much, but I think I did talk
Speaker 1: about this over our trips Door County. My friend Heidi
Speaker 1: took all of our like college videos. I know I
Speaker 1: talked about this, but my voice was so much higher
Speaker 1: pitched than southern. Well, the only reason I'm bringing up
Speaker 1: is because yesterday I was like uploading a video onto
Speaker 1: YouTube and in the video, like I have private videos
Speaker 1: that people can't see, and it was my audition video
Speaker 1: I sent in for this show, and I mean, I
Speaker 1: have my hair is black, my bangs are so blunt,
Speaker 1: I have so much black eyeliner on, and I like
Speaker 1: clicked on it because all of it was like she
Speaker 1: was sitting with me and she wanted to see it.
Speaker 1: And my voice, it's it was lower at that point,
Speaker 1: but it was still so southern. Yeah. And I don't
Speaker 1: know if I've just actively worked really hard to not
Speaker 1: sound as southern through my radio career or what, but
Speaker 1: it is eerie to hear how I sounded, and I
Speaker 1: have I didn't think my voice had changed it all
Speaker 1: because I don't think I've been like consciously doing things
Speaker 1: to change it. It's weird. But I did see like
Speaker 1: some super old stuff because I was clearing out stuff
Speaker 1: in Box Pro two to make room, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what the hell, why do we have audio saved from
Speaker 1: like like twenty sixteen or whatever. It's crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know either, but we often all of
Speaker 2: a sudden We'll be recording something and halfway through it'll
Speaker 2: be like out of storage, and then it won't. I
Speaker 2: recur it and it's like, oh my god, no, And
Speaker 2: so I always clean it out when i'm in there.
Speaker 1: Also, I didn't take a screenshot of it, but I
Speaker 1: should have. But your sister shared just a fantastic photo
Speaker 1: of you this weekend of me. Oh, it was for
Speaker 1: like your cousin, you know what.
Speaker 2: The first thing was that I thought of too, was like,
Speaker 2: I know that you follow her, and I was like, I,
Speaker 2: with you any money, she's going to like bring up
Speaker 2: this picture or do something with it.
Speaker 1: It was so perfect. Jenny is in the front. It's
Speaker 1: like all of her cousins, her sisters. Jenny is front
Speaker 1: and center. Yep, just looking like every how old were
Speaker 1: you there for? Twelve? Yeah, twelve, like every twelve year
Speaker 1: old girl that ever existed. But also it was Jenny
Speaker 1: has the blondest hair ever. So it was before you
Speaker 1: did your eyebrows, so you're you have like the white
Speaker 1: eyebrows on top of it, super pale. It's it was
Speaker 1: you to a t obviously, but it was it was
Speaker 1: also bizarre looking at your cousins and seeing how much
Speaker 1: they have like similar genetics to you your sisters as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's interesting. I was like, I was like, the one
Speaker 1: cousin has a like there. I don't know what it is,
Speaker 1: but some face similarities to you.
Speaker 2: I wonder which one you're talking about, because the three
Speaker 2: cousins that were in the back, they're actually only half
Speaker 2: siblings with my mom. Really okay, I mean their dad
Speaker 2: is half siblings with my mom. Sorry, so like obviously
Speaker 2: we're still like genetically.
Speaker 1: I thought the genetics were shining through, but it is bizarre. Also,
Speaker 1: just in general genetics. Can we just talk about genetics
Speaker 1: and how freaking weird they are?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like how some people look so much like their
Speaker 2: family and others like don't look yeah, all like them.
Speaker 1: We went at a birthday party yesterday for all of
Speaker 1: you know friend it's all and so every parent there
Speaker 1: and you just look at the parent next to the
Speaker 1: kid and it is eerie how much they look like
Speaker 1: And I was like to me, I can be like,
Speaker 1: oh that they look just like their mom or they
Speaker 1: look just like their dad, and most parents will be like,
Speaker 1: oh really you think they look like me, and they
Speaker 1: like seem surprised by that. But it seems so obvious
Speaker 1: from the outside, and I'm like, I wonder what they think,
Speaker 1: if they even think about it, like I do when
Speaker 1: they look at me and Jake and Alive, Like, I
Speaker 1: wonder if there's like one clear person they think she
Speaker 1: looks like, because I get the mix, like people will
Speaker 1: comment on social Oh, she looks just like you, But
Speaker 1: then people are like, oh, I see her dad, you.
Speaker 2: Know, so I feel like she is a mixture of
Speaker 2: both of you. I think she's a decent mix for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: People say that my sisters and I look alike sometimes,
Speaker 2: but most people say we don't.
Speaker 1: You don't. I don't think you look at your older
Speaker 1: sister at all. I think you have similarities to your
Speaker 1: younger sister. Your older sister looks like your mom, Yes,
Speaker 1: she does. Like as she's been getting older, she looks
Speaker 1: so much more like my mom. And I have only
Speaker 1: sneered out a handful of times, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'd have to look really look closely at a picture
Speaker 1: to see if I feel like you look more like
Speaker 1: him or your mom.
Speaker 2: I don't really know. I feel like I don't look
Speaker 2: like either of my parents. I yeah, I feel like
Speaker 2: I was an alien baby, and I just came into
Speaker 2: the front porch one day and they're like, all right,
Speaker 2: we'll take her.
Speaker 1: Jenny, you were born in the toilet. Everyone knows it
Speaker 1: well that I'm like, you were dropped off on the porch. Okay,
Speaker 1: you were born in a toilet like me, Like my
Speaker 1: sister told me, I was, so, how is your week
Speaker 1: How is your weekend? Good? Good? Good?
Speaker 2: Had a wedding, super fun. We got to bounce on
Speaker 2: this bounce pad thing, and I peed myself a few
Speaker 2: times because like I can't jump on trampolines or bounce
Speaker 2: pads without pain.
Speaker 1: What the hell you haven't had a baby.
Speaker 2: That's not really a rule, but I know it's just
Speaker 2: something like with my pelvic floor, and so I just
Speaker 2: like it's only when I like really get jumping high,
Speaker 2: it's just everything loosens up and all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: it's like I'm coming down.
Speaker 1: Pee gets pushed out. I don't really know. But that
Speaker 1: was not the color dress to be having pee either,
Speaker 1: because it was like.
Speaker 2: A light blow sad it was and it was like
Speaker 2: it wasn't that hot out, but it was hot in
Speaker 2: the sense that like we didn't have any escape to
Speaker 2: air conditioning because it was on an apple orchard, so
Speaker 2: it was like a big ten for the reception and stuff.
Speaker 2: And so like anytime we did kind of a little
Speaker 2: bit of activity, i'd need to take a break because
Speaker 2: I'd be sweating and you could see my under boob
Speaker 2: sweat like piercing through that satin weird material. But when
Speaker 2: we were bouncing, and I can't honestly, I probably said
Speaker 2: it too much. I probably wasn'nnoying about it, but I
Speaker 2: was like, honestly, I got to go to the bathroom. Guys,
Speaker 2: I just peed myself. And my friend's husband was like, okay, Jenny,
Speaker 2: And I know that he's like one of those guys
Speaker 2: who just like can't handle things like that, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: shut up. But I probably could have been a little
Speaker 2: bit more lady like about those things, but I couldn't
Speaker 2: help it. And then I had enter taking a video
Speaker 2: of me at one point, and I didn't have my
Speaker 2: straps tight enough, so the chest area was a little
Speaker 2: bit loose, but it wasn't really like cleavage loose. It
Speaker 2: was just like loose where it could kind of flop
Speaker 2: open a little bit. Yeah, So I started jumping and
Speaker 2: she was like Jesus, this is like an X rated
Speaker 2: bounce pad right now. He's like, you better hope none
Speaker 2: of these kids come over here. So he's like taking
Speaker 2: videos and in this video, like yeah, I could definitely
Speaker 2: feel like my boob was popping out, And I was
Speaker 2: sad because I thought I looked cuter in that video
Speaker 2: than the one I posted on my Instagram, but I
Speaker 2: couldn't because it was like almost too a little too
Speaker 2: much of the boobs.
Speaker 1: Flopping up and down. So I it's funny those blobs.
Speaker 1: I don't feel that they were around when we were kids,
Speaker 1: and they're freaking everywhere I know, any indoor playground for kids,
Speaker 1: any lay outdoor like kind of seevers place Olive is
Speaker 1: all about it, and I'm like that would have been
Speaker 1: there even at Like when we did the one RV
Speaker 1: weekend last year over the summer, the RV place had
Speaker 1: one like this really is the hot ticket item for kids.
Speaker 1: It must be like a cheap thing to like keep
Speaker 1: a lot of people entertained. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, we were all entertained, but we also were
Speaker 2: sweating so quickly. Like we didn't spend a ton of
Speaker 2: time on it because it was too much.
Speaker 1: I wonder if the couple even thought people would actually
Speaker 1: use it that were adult.
Speaker 2: She she specifically, my friend Katia specifically said, I really
Speaker 2: hope people use this because she told us about what
Speaker 2: the apple orchard had had to offer and stuff like
Speaker 2: things we can do because we were available to pick
Speaker 2: apples if we wanted to pay like a buck for
Speaker 2: a bag or something like that, and you could go
Speaker 2: feed the goats or do whatever. So like you had
Speaker 2: access to all that and she was hoping that we
Speaker 2: would be able to do and it would have been
Speaker 2: fun to like jump with her on it, but I
Speaker 2: don't know that she ever got on it because she
Speaker 2: probably didn't want to ruin her dress or probably not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a fun idea of like for a location
Speaker 1: for a wedding. Though we're the extra things for people
Speaker 1: to check out and do.
Speaker 2: It was super fun. I mean they did like everything themselves,
Speaker 2: Like she got all the glass, where the plates, the
Speaker 2: silver where they catered in food from like street Tacos
Speaker 2: from Minneapolis, and then they bought all kinds of snacks
Speaker 2: from Costco. So it was very like a lot of
Speaker 2: Vinnie wouldn't let you do that though, Yeah, I know
Speaker 2: I know, and I thought of you because like, because
Speaker 2: of those big things of Costco whatever, I did steal
Speaker 2: those like cheese cuffs in York, and I was like,
Speaker 2: and whatever. I wasn't drinking really, I think I had
Speaker 2: one glass of wine at this wedding, and but I
Speaker 2: did think I was like, oh drunk, Jenny would have gone.
Speaker 1: Hand that's what you're gonna say.
Speaker 2: I think I didn't still take a handful of Welch's
Speaker 2: fruit snacks, yeah, because those were easy to just shove
Speaker 2: in my purse obviously, and I both took like a
Speaker 2: handful and he took a cup full of like and
Speaker 2: I'm like goldfish and animal crackers. On the way out,
Speaker 2: I mean I was like forty five minutes away. So
Speaker 2: we had a Yeah, we had a little bit of
Speaker 2: a drive, but yeah, how was your weekend?
Speaker 1: Great? We went to the Green Day concert, which I
Speaker 1: was talking to Jake and I was like, it was
Speaker 1: really fun because that was Jake's So I was talking
Speaker 1: to Tina actually and I was like, Dookie is such
Speaker 1: a It's a top five album for me. I think
Speaker 1: like over COVID, we there was like a trend going
Speaker 1: around where you pick like your four top albums, and
Speaker 1: that's one of my I think I put it in
Speaker 1: my top four. And to see them perform it top
Speaker 1: to bottom, like and they sound like they look Billy
Speaker 1: Joe like, he looks pretty much the same. The other
Speaker 1: two look older, but to see them do that and
Speaker 1: he has so much energy, I was like, it was
Speaker 1: such a cool bucket list weird, like flashback to me
Speaker 1: being like in middle school or elementary whenever. I was
Speaker 1: into it moment. And Tina was like, because I went
Speaker 1: out with her yesterday out and she was like that
Speaker 1: how American Idiot was for me? And as a well,
Speaker 1: that makes sense because they came out exactly ten years
Speaker 1: apart and Tina, it makes sense that Tina would have
Speaker 1: been into something ten years younger, right, And I was like,
Speaker 1: funny enough, I worked in radio already when American Idiot
Speaker 1: came out, So I think that that's why I didn't
Speaker 1: love American Idiot as much, because I was playing Wake
Speaker 1: Me Up when September End four million effing times a day,
Speaker 1: like I liked Holiday a lot on that album. But
Speaker 1: that's also makes sense because that kind of sounds like
Speaker 1: it would have fit onto a Dukie album. But they
Speaker 1: they were so fun. I don't know. It was a
Speaker 1: crazy weekend on the Twin Cities to have like Metallica
Speaker 1: Ellen Oprah uh like it was crazy Creed, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was like what a fun like and it was
Speaker 1: a beautiful weekend. But we went to a new restaurant.
Speaker 1: Its opening is called Dexter's. It's like an elevated sports bar.
Speaker 1: It's this guy. It's the Daniel del Prado kind of ownership,
Speaker 1: so it's like they have all those like Martina Khalita
Speaker 1: kind of places, and it was really it was good.
Speaker 1: It was like I would one thousand percent go back
Speaker 1: to get some of the same things and try new things.
Speaker 1: And it was a soft opening. So when they a
Speaker 1: soft opening and they'll invite people, you get to order
Speaker 1: as much food as you want for free. You have
Speaker 1: to pay for the alcohol. But I was like, and
Speaker 1: they kept coming over being like, get more food, get
Speaker 1: more like, try more things, and I was like, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: I am not going to feel like shit at this
Speaker 1: Green Day concert, like, and Jake kept being like a
Speaker 1: cart like all the foods and I was like, Jake,
Speaker 1: get what you want, but think about it, you're going
Speaker 1: to be miserable and he was like, you're right, so
Speaker 1: I mean it was I don't know, it was a
Speaker 1: fun I had like more cocktails than I normally would
Speaker 1: on a weekend. Doesn't get drunk or tipsy, just to life.
Speaker 1: Because we went to Rosalia yesterday, me and Tina and
Speaker 1: Lauren and I cause I wanted to try like a Sprits.
Speaker 1: I didn't even get a Sprits, but I got in
Speaker 1: a freaking amazing cocktail there. So all I can say
Speaker 1: is beautiful summer weekend to cap off my summer before
Speaker 1: the State Fair hits this week. Yeah, it's wild.
Speaker 2: I'm yeah, I feel like I'm actually a little more
Speaker 2: excited than I was anticipating being, just because I have
Speaker 2: a crazy like next couple of weeks ahead of me,
Speaker 2: including the State Fair. But I'm really looking forward to it,
Speaker 2: except for the fact that, of course when we're out
Speaker 2: there for the first time, it's supposed to be like
Speaker 2: almost ninety Oh.
Speaker 1: God, I haven't looked at the weather for it is there.
Speaker 1: I'm pulling it up right now, any like rain predicted
Speaker 1: because I figured so far and not in the next
Speaker 1: like week, I'll say it. Oh yeah, well, actually Saturday
Speaker 1: looks better than Sunday at least, I know at last
Speaker 1: Monday shows ninety two. Oh god, but then it looks
Speaker 1: like it goes back down. But you know that'll change
Speaker 1: before it comes. Yeah, I was, I'm I think it'll
Speaker 1: go by really fast. Yeah, I think. I'm like you
Speaker 1: just you know how you build stuff up in your
Speaker 1: head and then it comes and you're like, that wasn't
Speaker 1: that bad? Like why did I build that up in
Speaker 1: my head so much? I could? I've just been talking about,
Speaker 1: like I think we talked about a little bit on
Speaker 1: the show last or the podcast last week. It's like,
Speaker 1: how do you make it special? It was easier to
Speaker 1: come up with things to make it special when you're
Speaker 1: out there once for the morning show, but we're there
Speaker 1: every day, so I'm like, we're not any Like I
Speaker 1: said before, you have to cater to the majority of
Speaker 1: the audience listening at home, so I don't think we're
Speaker 1: gonna be doing a ton. But the most bizarre thing
Speaker 1: is you can't take any calls while you're out there,
Speaker 1: so usually we only do like one kind of like
Speaker 1: phone or interactive bit. But also we have like tickets
Speaker 1: to give away, so I'm like, I guess we'll have
Speaker 1: to do those through text. It's all like the weird
Speaker 1: logistics that we're thinking through now. I'm like, are the
Speaker 1: shirts even finalized? The last week? People are like, when
Speaker 1: are you gonna premiere the shirts? Because we always get
Speaker 1: like excited in premiere the shirts. I'm like, it's it's
Speaker 1: public knowledge now because Colt and I at least talked
Speaker 1: about it. But our promotion destructor. Ted was let go
Speaker 1: like a week and a half ago, and it was
Speaker 1: devastating and heartbreaking because we love Ted as our friend
Speaker 1: and it was another like company wide layoffs. They let
Speaker 1: three people go here in our local offices, but Ted
Speaker 1: was in charge of designing it. So then it gets
Speaker 1: thrown on the plates of other people who already are
Speaker 1: design i mean other T shirts for others, and I'll
Speaker 1: be honest, they're kind of like, I just want to
Speaker 1: get this over with. This is not what I don't want.
Speaker 1: They're getting extra work without extra pay, and you know
Speaker 1: how that goes. It's probably similar to your job, but
Speaker 1: that is kind of where things are. So we're a
Speaker 1: little behind and but it should be fun. I've been
Speaker 1: getting messages about the Jason Show where they're like, you know, like,
Speaker 1: can you are you fine staying after on the first
Speaker 1: day and go filming a segment And I'm like, yes,
Speaker 1: but that first day is going to be exhausting because
Speaker 1: I have to go. I told Jason. I was like,
Speaker 1: I was only gonna do the first hour. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm already gonna be there. I'll just do both hours. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But then they're like, after that, can you go film
Speaker 1: some stuff for a different day, And I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: but then I'll have to go do the radio show.
Speaker 1: So but you know it's two days where it's super
Speaker 1: long days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean, so that's the no which day
Speaker 2: are you doing Jason Show again?
Speaker 1: The first day in the last Friday, so Thursday, and
Speaker 1: then the follow up Friday, you're definitely going to t
Speaker 1: Paint and Luda.
Speaker 2: I have to like figure out what's going on now
Speaker 2: because oh, because now that we just talked about Ted,
Speaker 2: I had asked for tickets for promotions, and Ted was
Speaker 2: the one who said, yeah, of course I'll get you some.
Speaker 2: But now I like need to see who else is
Speaker 2: in charge of that. Pat Okay, he'll give you tickets. Okay,
Speaker 2: I figured that, but yes, I should be.
Speaker 1: There when he was like he was like trying to
Speaker 1: figure out because Pat he does the country station. He
Speaker 1: doesn't even know what's popular. Oh I know, trust me.
Speaker 2: He was telling me he's like hose Hoser yes, and
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, Hosier and yeah he only listens
Speaker 2: to country.
Speaker 1: Yes he does. But he was like, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give you guys this one and look the Morrity show
Speaker 1: list or whatever. I said, cool, and I didn't realize
Speaker 1: it was like we have five four three two one
Speaker 1: for these shows. I'm like, wait, we have brought road
Speaker 1: tickets for the tea paying Ludacris concert. That's badass. Not
Speaker 1: that like we can have those, but whatever, no complaints
Speaker 1: even if you got regular ones. But I'm really chatty today.
Speaker 1: If you notice that, I won't shut the fuck up,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, it's listen.
Speaker 2: You're fine because I have been running on like two
Speaker 2: hours of sleep and I just did the morning show,
Speaker 2: so you're like just coming in for the day, whereas
Speaker 2: I've already been talking. So and I was like probably
Speaker 2: really chatty on the morning show, more so than I
Speaker 2: normally would be on a Monday.
Speaker 1: So I'm cool. You take the mic, baby, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take a snooze. Actually, yeah, I had a fit
Speaker 1: fluencer day. I went and did pilates and then I
Speaker 1: just went on a long walk with uh Giselle. She's
Speaker 1: a friend of ours. Yeah, I don't actually are you
Speaker 1: friends with her or just nowhere through social.
Speaker 2: Just I mean I've been at events with her and
Speaker 2: then I did buy a big mirror from her when
Speaker 2: she moved to New York.
Speaker 1: I think, okay, funny, funny yeah.
Speaker 2: So yeah, and so mostly just like a social media
Speaker 2: friendship the most part. But yeah, no, I don't know
Speaker 2: her like super well. So another thing I which I
Speaker 2: think would fit onto this. I posted this and I'm
Speaker 2: sure you saw it because I think you still follow
Speaker 2: me on Instagram, right, Jenny, Yeah, I want to do
Speaker 2: like women's kind of series.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw you posting about that, and I'm like
Speaker 1: very invested. Okay, you should be a part of it
Speaker 1: for sure. But I was like, like host it here,
Speaker 1: have like experts come in that talk about important things
Speaker 1: for women, and I asked for suggestions. My top two
Speaker 1: things that came to my mind were discussing perimenopause and menopause.
Speaker 1: But I think along with that would tie in hormones
Speaker 1: in general, and I don't know if I would tie
Speaker 1: in like pelvic floor into that, but like you mentioning it,
Speaker 1: it's like that was someone someone else had messaged it.
Speaker 1: It's too It's like all these things as our bodies
Speaker 1: were getting older, and no one has information on it.
Speaker 1: I feel like, so I thought about that, and then
Speaker 1: the other one that I had posted was, uh, someone
Speaker 1: in finance who isn't boring that can explain, Like I
Speaker 1: just h maybe these answer questions honestly, like I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily want it to be something where like a lot
Speaker 1: of the panels, you have a moderator like me, and
Speaker 1: I am the part I ask all these quot questions
Speaker 1: and the audience just listens and watches, and then at
Speaker 1: the end you give them a couple of questions. But
Speaker 1: I would almost rather be like, I will fill in
Speaker 1: the space if people don't have questions, but I would
Speaker 1: rather the audience get to ask the questions. Yes, so
Speaker 1: maybe it starts with like the professional explaining a few
Speaker 1: things like where they would start, maybe giving like three
Speaker 1: or four scenarios, because I think I talk about this
Speaker 1: a lot. I follow this instagram called l vest E
Speaker 1: l e and I think it's veest and it's like
Speaker 1: constantly promoting women investing, invest, invest, invest, so you can
Speaker 1: set yourself up. And it's like women are newer to
Speaker 1: it than men are, but we shouldn't be like so
Speaker 1: far behind them financially in investments and things. But investing
Speaker 1: is so confusing. I've been investing for like ten years now.
Speaker 1: I am very confused about it still. I just know
Speaker 1: that I want to be able to retire. And everyone
Speaker 1: gets in their head and they're like, I don't have
Speaker 1: thousands of dollars to invest. You don't have to, but
Speaker 1: it's I think it's just so confusing. And then people
Speaker 1: will see things if they have kids, Oh A five
Speaker 1: twenty nine, What the hell's are wroth Ira? What is?
Speaker 1: And it's confusing. So I would love to have someone
Speaker 1: answer the questions simplify some things for a financial sector
Speaker 1: as well, because we women are newer to the financial independence,
Speaker 1: even though our generation, you know, we we have been
Speaker 1: independent our whole time. But and then I don't know
Speaker 1: what else that I had a bunch of suggestions for things,
Speaker 1: but I think I would try maybe one to two
Speaker 1: and if they go, well, see where it goes from there.
Speaker 2: Are you thinking like a series over like a like
Speaker 2: monthly or I was.
Speaker 1: Thinking once a month because I don't want to get
Speaker 1: two in over my head, and I was thinking in
Speaker 1: my mind four sounded good. Yeah, not's brilliant. I just
Speaker 1: like I think that you and I are similar in
Speaker 1: the way of like we know that we are afforded
Speaker 1: and not because we're lucky. We worked hard to get
Speaker 1: our jobs and where we are, but we are afforded
Speaker 1: a platform that other people don't have, even if they've
Speaker 1: worked hard to get to a certain spot in their career.
Speaker 1: And so at the end of the day, I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's like age or what it is, but
Speaker 1: it's like, you want to be doing things to help people,
Speaker 1: and you have other things. I know that you're working
Speaker 1: on that, like at some point you will talk about
Speaker 1: whenever you've developed it or whatever. But it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's easy to be in this position and just do
Speaker 1: things that benefit us. Yep, we are lucky where we
Speaker 1: will receive free stuff all the time, right, and the
Speaker 1: businesses want us to post about it and promote them,
Speaker 1: or we're invited to like that soft opening of that
Speaker 1: restaurant that I got to go to and we have
Speaker 1: these like luxuries and benefits, and it's kind of the
Speaker 1: joke of not implying Jenny and I are rich, but
Speaker 1: the rich getting rich or right, like celebrities are the way.
Speaker 1: I always get all the free stuff and you're like,
Speaker 1: what the hell, I'd love to try it, and you
Speaker 1: know I can't afford it. So it's kind of like
Speaker 1: finding this balance. And as I've gotten older, my most
Speaker 1: important thing is my time. So I have said no
Speaker 1: more and more to a lot of kind of hosting
Speaker 1: or free events that take up my time, especially on
Speaker 1: the weekends, especially like I'm sorry, I'm spending time with
Speaker 1: my family, which just it has to be my top priority.
Speaker 1: At the end of my life. I will feel good
Speaker 1: that I hosted that charity event, but I'll feel a
Speaker 1: lot better that I spent that weekend with my daughter.
Speaker 1: I'm sure, Like it's just it's what it's going to be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So it's finding a balance. But things like this, I
Speaker 1: feel like you and I have connections, like we can
Speaker 1: reach out to someone and they might be down to
Speaker 1: do the panel or whatever. But yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 1: that's just something I want to do. And I thought, oh,
Speaker 1: I should do it in like the early year months
Speaker 1: when people are looking for things to do because it's
Speaker 1: cold and crappy. So yeah, that's smart. Yeah, So I
Speaker 1: think that's what I'm going to work on next.
Speaker 2: Yes, if you need me to speak on a panel
Speaker 2: about how to part in front of your significant other
Speaker 2: without them hearing it, I do like speak on that
Speaker 2: or just like little tips and tricks I've learned over
Speaker 2: the years when I've been like in a bad situation
Speaker 2: where I'm like, my stomach hurts, but I don't want
Speaker 2: this new guy to hear me blowing out the toilet.
Speaker 2: I've got your tips there.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that you that they didn't hear you.
Speaker 1: I think that they still heard you, and they just
Speaker 1: pretended they you're.
Speaker 2: Telling me when I was going like this, I think
Speaker 2: they were hearing the Yes.
Speaker 1: I think that they were hearing that. And I think
Speaker 1: they also were just disturbed by your fucking black lung
Speaker 1: cough and they were like, I don't even want that.
Speaker 2: Actually really kind of hurt us now to do that.
Speaker 2: I don't know where that cough even came from. And
Speaker 2: my stick right now, like what was.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was healthy I'll tell you that
Speaker 1: much did I really quickly? By the way, last night
Speaker 1: I was hooking up with Jake shout out and do
Speaker 1: you know what this motherfucker said to me. I was like,
Speaker 1: he lifts my legs in some position and I said,
Speaker 1: how god damn tight, Like put that thing down. He
Speaker 1: was like, oh, the apes are supposed to be making
Speaker 1: you more flexible, and I was like, I can kill you.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, fun fact. Actually, usually working out
Speaker 1: it makes me tighter because I'm like all tight from
Speaker 1: the workout and I'm not properly stretching after. So get
Speaker 1: off my ass. Oh yeah, don't be moving things in
Speaker 1: different positions sometimes, just like, can't it just be normal today?
Speaker 2: I know you joke about like starfishing and stuff a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I would like to believe that maybe you do other
Speaker 2: positions besides that, But if you don't, that's fine. I
Speaker 2: do have one question for you real quick, thank you.
Speaker 2: So if you happen to find yourself in more of
Speaker 2: a doggy style position, or maybe you're starfishing but you're
Speaker 2: flat on your stomach's on the bed, you know, fair
Speaker 2: if you have your period, does it ever hurt that way?
Speaker 2: Because I actually like feel sort of like a pain
Speaker 2: when we are doing such a Certain.
Speaker 1: Positions don't have a ton of period sets anymore. Realistically,
Speaker 1: I find that I am typically drier during that time,
Speaker 1: so I feel like I can I feel like it
Speaker 1: doesn't feel as good because of that, right, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: I just it's a there's certain angles that hit sometimes
Speaker 2: where I'm like, oh, like almost like I'm like getting
Speaker 2: my cherry popped again or something. Congratulation you're so on
Speaker 2: a reborn version.
Speaker 1: I saw someone's dick today. I forgot to tell you explain.
Speaker 1: I went to freaking Whole Foods when I was going
Speaker 1: on the walk to meet our friend, my friend Joe
Speaker 1: whatever that is not And I go, you know, they
Speaker 1: have codes to get into the bathrooms at Whole Foods. Okay,
Speaker 1: the girl gives me a code. He did not have
Speaker 1: the lock on it. Oh yeah, I type it and
Speaker 1: I open it. He is standing there holding his dong.
Speaker 1: He just we just make eye contact, and I was
Speaker 1: like a and I shut the door and another guy's
Speaker 1: coming out the other when he goes that guy didn't
Speaker 1: have his door locked. Iday, I go and no, He's like,
Speaker 1: you got a lock, that's what I'm saying. I was
Speaker 1: I just saw someone's dick. God did he react? No,
Speaker 1: he didn't. It's like whatever. He just looked me in
Speaker 1: the eye, like slowly. He was an old man, was
Speaker 1: not old old, but older. He was older than me,
Speaker 1: but not like seventy. Yeah, I don't know, maybe sixty,
Speaker 1: maybe fifty five. He didn't give a fuck. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like whatever. I think he was a little surprised, but
Speaker 1: also maybe he was didn't lock it because he was
Speaker 1: looking for a little action in his life and how
Speaker 1: he picks up green or anything. I didn't like make
Speaker 1: a whole scene. Yeah, you don't know. You didn't make
Speaker 1: a scene. Thank you. I did not for one. I
Speaker 1: did not for one. Oh god, Okay, we have so
Speaker 1: many emails. What the hell happened? Okay, we actually got
Speaker 1: one right after we recorded last week, so I thought
Speaker 1: we would start off with that one. It's good. We're
Speaker 1: a little late. Kate Fallon and Jenny, I look forward
Speaker 1: to your podcast every week and appreciate your content. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I also want to say thank you both for taking
Speaker 1: time to respond on Instagram. I'm sure you get tons
Speaker 1: of messages and you guys taking time out of your
Speaker 1: day to respond means a lot. I'm reaching out to
Speaker 1: get some advice. My husband writes about the Minnesota Vikings.
Speaker 1: He has started to grow his social media following and
Speaker 1: has had people who comment negative and hateful things about
Speaker 1: him more and more. This past week, I had my
Speaker 1: first hand experience with a negative comment being made about me.
Speaker 1: My husband mentioned going to Vikings training camp with me,
Speaker 1: and some troll made multiple comments about my weight. I'm
Speaker 1: typically a pretty private person and I don't have a
Speaker 1: large social media presence. My question for you, too is
Speaker 1: do your significant others get hate and how do they
Speaker 1: deal with it. It's also frustrating that the go to
Speaker 1: insult towards me as a woman was a comment about weight.
Speaker 1: How do you both not let comments about your appearance
Speaker 1: affect you? Thank you for all you do. I won't
Speaker 1: say her name, just in case she doesn't want me to.
Speaker 1: She didn't say not to.
Speaker 2: I don't think Andrew's ever been made fun of or
Speaker 2: bullied or anything on social media because of me. But
Speaker 2: maybe something has happened that I just haven't seen and
Speaker 2: he hasn't told me. But yeah, as far as I know,
Speaker 2: I haven't, he hasn't had to deal with anything like that.
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry that you are. I'm first of all, yeah,
Speaker 1: so sorry, And just so you know, that always shows
Speaker 1: me when someone goes and they always go for a
Speaker 1: weight on a woman, always, even if like they're thin.
Speaker 1: They could probably if people hated Jenny, for instance, they
Speaker 1: would probably go for Jenny. Even though Jenny has a
Speaker 1: very like the men making the comments would kill to
Speaker 1: have Jenny as a woman in bed with them. They
Speaker 1: would probably still make a comment about like all her
Speaker 1: thighs are thick or something. It's because they're so ignorant
Speaker 1: they can't think of anything else. And I'm always like, okay,
Speaker 1: you can talk about my body. I mean that that
Speaker 1: is I don't know, it doesn't not hurt, and especially
Speaker 1: your first time. Jake's definitely had it. But Jake is
Speaker 1: like the most confident, secure human ever. And the only
Speaker 1: things they've ever said about Jake that I've seen, or
Speaker 1: they'll make fun of his height because he's like shorter,
Speaker 1: and even so they don't they usually don't go in
Speaker 1: on him. The men who talk shit always just go
Speaker 1: in on me and my weight. So I very much
Speaker 1: firsthand know what you're talking about. I've dealt with it
Speaker 1: since I've moved here to Minnesota. It is a very
Speaker 1: Minnesota thing for me. It's like almost like a kind
Speaker 1: of a trigger since living here. People didn't talk about
Speaker 1: my weight in Nevada or Indiana, or if they did,
Speaker 1: they didn't do it in a public format or forum.
Speaker 1: So I would say it's never going to get easy.
Speaker 1: If it's something that is affecting your mental health, then
Speaker 1: I think you have to ask your I don't know
Speaker 1: if you said her husband or boy frank husband, I
Speaker 1: think you have to ask him to just not include you.
Speaker 1: And I would suggest if you don't already have your
Speaker 1: social stuff on private, I would make it private because
Speaker 1: they then they can't access you. And I think that's
Speaker 1: really unfair to live like that. But I'm saying, if
Speaker 1: it's affecting your mental health, yep, you should. If it's
Speaker 1: something you're like that hurt for a moment, but I
Speaker 1: don't think about it again, then fuck them and live
Speaker 1: your life and don't let losers dictate how you you live.
Speaker 2: For sure, And it even if like you do have
Speaker 2: that mindset, you'll probably still be hurt for the first
Speaker 2: few minutes of seeing something and then you might get
Speaker 2: over it because I'll still see a negative comment about me,
Speaker 2: and I'll be hurt for a second, and then I
Speaker 2: am able to get over pretty much everything right away.
Speaker 2: But I'll never just like see a negative comment and
Speaker 2: be like, no big.
Speaker 1: Deal, right right, Yeah, I don't so, I mean my
Speaker 1: I've talked about being friends with my ex who also
Speaker 1: works in the building, and he gets a ton of
Speaker 1: online hate, and we actually recently talked about this, and
Speaker 1: one thing that we just agreed on is like, I
Speaker 1: don't know how to word this perfectly, but we're both
Speaker 1: really happy in our lives, and those are really unhappy people,
Speaker 1: so it's like we could let it affect us and
Speaker 1: make us unhappy, but then we're on their same level
Speaker 1: and it's like we have like we're just we're both
Speaker 1: just so happy in our lives. So it's like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, like I'm not gonna let because the old
Speaker 1: thing is some loser in his basement. I don't care
Speaker 1: if it's some loser working at his actual full time job.
Speaker 1: Like he's to comment something like that on social media.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you are a really low level human. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, you just are. I agree. I agree. If
Speaker 1: you want to get off hobby. Yeah, if you want
Speaker 1: to gossip about like celebrities with your friends, because you're
Speaker 1: just like whatever. I even if like I'm looking at
Speaker 1: this Blake Lively drama, I wouldn't go online and make
Speaker 1: a comment that's so embarrassing. Yeah to my family as
Speaker 1: well to make a comment like that. So I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: and you're better than that, and I love you. Okay,
Speaker 1: did you want to do one next? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I can't read the next one. Okay, So this is
Speaker 2: hi Jenny and Fallon. First off, I love you both.
Speaker 2: I heard you're talking about getting older and taking clocks,
Speaker 2: and I feel like I can relate to both of
Speaker 2: you so much. I'll be thirty three in November and
Speaker 2: have been with a wonderful guy for four and a
Speaker 2: half years, and if it were up to him, we'd
Speaker 2: be married by now. But I'm in no rush. I
Speaker 2: want to be with him and no one else. But
Speaker 2: I also really like things the way they are and
Speaker 2: I'm afraid of ruining a good thing and wonder if
Speaker 2: I'm even the marrying kind. I've also struggled with anxiety
Speaker 2: since I was a child, so Jenny, you sharing about
Speaker 2: your struggles with it really helps me. During a time
Speaker 2: I was also struggling. The thought of kids in the
Speaker 2: ticking clock has been a big thing for me the
Speaker 2: last year, and since I'm with a man who would
Speaker 2: ideally like kids, I've been stressing to figure out if
Speaker 2: that's something I even want, and if it is, how
Speaker 2: much time do I have to get my life where
Speaker 2: I want it to be and be the put together
Speaker 2: person I thought i'd be at this age and as
Speaker 2: a parent fallin. I find your story so inspiring as
Speaker 2: someone who didn't initially want children but seems to really
Speaker 2: enjoy and excel at motherhood, I would love if you
Speaker 2: wrote something like you'd mentioned about what you've learned. You
Speaker 2: hear so much about people who always knew they wanted
Speaker 2: kids in motherhood and it was their life's purpose, not me,
Speaker 2: but not much about the people who have had doubts
Speaker 2: about making one of the biggest decisions a person can make.
Speaker 2: Sorry for the long email, but I wanted you both
Speaker 2: know that hearing you discuss your experiences with these things
Speaker 2: as successful strong women is super helpful to me, and
Speaker 2: I feel so much less alone with my.
Speaker 1: Fears about it.
Speaker 2: I'm grateful to you both for doing what you do
Speaker 2: best yet still being vulnerable and authentic, and that comes
Speaker 2: from grace. Well, Fallin, is there anything that you want
Speaker 2: to say just because she is curious about your transition
Speaker 2: and what you've learned to excel in motherhood?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, And I did write something which I
Speaker 1: won't read right now. I did write something, and I
Speaker 1: think the overarching theme for me is which I will
Speaker 1: get into with that if I read it at some
Speaker 1: point on here. I think that I thought I didn't
Speaker 1: want to be a mother because I don't have maternal instincts.
Speaker 1: But I think that that so I think that it's
Speaker 1: been surprising to me to be a mom and feel
Speaker 1: like it was so much easier than I built them
Speaker 1: in my head because I don't think I still don't
Speaker 1: think i'm maternal, but I think I'm a good mom
Speaker 1: to Olive, and I think that that is hard to explain,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I think that there's this, like I
Speaker 1: don't know, perception of being maternal that scares people who
Speaker 1: are built like me away from having kids. And I
Speaker 1: still and I always want to walk a fine line
Speaker 1: because if you don't want kids, I don't have kids,
Speaker 1: like I don't like I would never think less of you,
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't. I'm never going to be the person
Speaker 1: that's like, you'll change your mind. I did like, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to do that because so many people don't
Speaker 1: want kids, and I see I have plenty of couple
Speaker 1: friends who are past the point of being able to
Speaker 1: probably have kids or want kids, and they're very happy,
Speaker 1: they're very content, and I love that for them. So
Speaker 1: or friends that want kids and they struggle to have them.
Speaker 1: So I always want to be sensitive. And I'm not
Speaker 1: implying being a parent is easy, but I think I
Speaker 1: built it up so much in my head that I
Speaker 1: don't have this ability. But I also know I chose
Speaker 1: a really great partner, and I think it could have
Speaker 1: been very different feeling if I didn't have the right partner.
Speaker 1: And I actually heard a podcast that talked about this
Speaker 1: and I really liked it, and she was saying, from
Speaker 1: the very beginning, you need to let your husband help
Speaker 1: you with stuff. Don't get frustrated because they don't know
Speaker 1: what they're doing, because it makes them feel stupid too,
Speaker 1: and be like, no, I just got this, because you're
Speaker 1: just setting it up that no, I got this. Every
Speaker 1: time you do that, you're pushing them away and you're
Speaker 1: adding more to your plate. Whereas if you're like, they
Speaker 1: are fully capable of taking care of the child in
Speaker 1: the exact same ways you are, other than breastfeeding, every
Speaker 1: single other thing they can one hundred percent do as well.
Speaker 1: So let it be fifty to fifty. Yeah, aside from breastfeeding.
Speaker 1: I get that, Like yet they can't breastfeed. But and
Speaker 1: so I was like, yes, yes, quit being like I
Speaker 1: got it. No, you need your sleep more than me.
Speaker 1: I already know how to do it because I do
Speaker 1: it when you're at work or whatever. Because if you
Speaker 1: had more maternity leave and they had to go back
Speaker 1: sooner and you now have this routine, no like you No, yes,
Speaker 1: you figure it out. You're a very capable adult. Sure.
Speaker 2: So I mean that's a good tip because I have
Speaker 2: the personality just at work of like I'll just do
Speaker 2: it myself. So I would totally probably be the same
Speaker 2: way if I had kids.
Speaker 1: And I think that you will build up resentment towards
Speaker 1: your partner, and I would say that is a there's
Speaker 1: that could be a lot of your fault as well
Speaker 1: and not their fault. And now there are just lazy
Speaker 1: sacks who don't help at all, and that is you.
Speaker 1: You deserve to have the resentment build up towards them,
Speaker 1: like do your fucking part. So yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: if that is helpful at all, but that's like kind
Speaker 1: of like a starter of like where we get into
Speaker 1: our minds so much of how we need to be
Speaker 1: as mothers. And that's just yeah, show, Okay, let's see
Speaker 1: we have some more. Okay, that was great, she said, yep, okay. Question.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, we're gonna save that one for next week.
Speaker 1: There is a question about the mole. Yes, but we're
Speaker 1: going to save that for next week because Jenny hasn't
Speaker 1: finished watching it, so we're going to come back to
Speaker 1: your question next week. I just want to give you
Speaker 1: a heads up. Okay, this one says it's my first
Speaker 1: time emailing, but man, did you two strike a chord
Speaker 1: last week. I just got done catching up at the
Speaker 1: podcast and it's eleven fifty seven pm and I'm doing
Speaker 1: my typical spiral in my head of all the things
Speaker 1: that make me anxious as I attempt to fall asleep.
Speaker 1: We know that life been there. I just had that
Speaker 1: last night. I'm a thirty seven year old mother to
Speaker 1: two little girls. Henley and Peyton six and almost four,
Speaker 1: and lately I have really struggled with my age. I
Speaker 1: know thirty seven really isn't that old, but I constantly
Speaker 1: get anxiety when I think about the fact that the carefree, drinking,
Speaker 1: wild years of my life are behind me. It's not
Speaker 1: that I have any desire to go out and be
Speaker 1: the party girl again. I honestly don't think i'd survive,
Speaker 1: but I just don't know where my place is and everything.
Speaker 1: On the inside, I don't feel any older, but that
Speaker 1: damn mirror refuses to lie to me. I just had
Speaker 1: a friend that turned twenty one, and I didn't go
Speaker 1: out with her for a birthday because I felt like
Speaker 1: I'd just be the old lady and they'd all wonder
Speaker 1: why I was there or talk about later. I know
Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. They are my friends, right, Uh. It's just
Speaker 1: such a trip to go through these phases of life
Speaker 1: fallin I too, also never thought I wanted kids, and
Speaker 1: here I am with one off to kindergarten and the
Speaker 1: other starting preschool, bawling my eyes out every time anyone
Speaker 1: mentions back to school. Everyone always told me that they
Speaker 1: grow up so fast, and I know that but it
Speaker 1: still just seems to be flying by in front of
Speaker 1: my eyes. Okay, enough whining. I just want to tell
Speaker 1: you how much I really enjoy this podcast. Whether it's
Speaker 1: poop stories or you two talking about the ups and
Speaker 1: downs of life, you both give me so much comfort
Speaker 1: and a feeling of it's not just me. Thanks for
Speaker 1: making me feel like I'm not alone out here in
Speaker 1: the land of not old but not young either. I
Speaker 1: met Foul last year at the State Fair with Zach,
Speaker 1: and I really hope to catch both of you this
Speaker 1: year fingers crossed. Oh and please send a shout out
Speaker 1: to fellow listener Rebecca. She has a coworker of mine
Speaker 1: and had an accident while riding her horse. It sounds
Speaker 1: like she's going to fully recover, but has a long
Speaker 1: road ahead of her. Wow, that was long. Sorry, keep
Speaker 1: being fabulous ladies, until next time, Missy. Well. First of all, Rebecca, sheeesh,
Speaker 1: I hope that you recover very quickly. Yeah. I know
Speaker 1: that horse accidents can be awful, so I really hope
Speaker 1: that she has a quick recovery. Yeah, seriously. And I
Speaker 1: get the balling your eyes out as you're sending your
Speaker 1: kid off to school and you see the back to school.
Speaker 1: I had my moment this past week where I was
Speaker 1: buying clothes for Olive and I was like, five t
Speaker 1: is the last tea size? Oh yeah, and then you
Speaker 1: go to like regular sizes, regular kids sizes, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh did I cry now? Like I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: filling all the emotion on that one. So but you're right,
Speaker 1: thirty seven is not old at all, and it's it's
Speaker 1: the weird trying to find your place in life. But
Speaker 1: your party days may not be behind you, because let
Speaker 1: me tell you something, these women in these fifties and
Speaker 1: sixties and plus these days, when those kids hit like
Speaker 1: high school and they can be on their own, they're
Speaker 1: raging again. Okay, they're raging again. They find their people
Speaker 1: and they're back out there. So there is still some
Speaker 1: of that ahead of you if you want it.
Speaker 2: I think for sure. I also feel like, Babe, she
Speaker 2: already went through this. But once the kids are like
Speaker 2: three or four or something. I've got friends who have
Speaker 2: kids about that age and they have a little bit
Speaker 2: more freedom now of not having a baby attached to them,
Speaker 2: so they're kind of back and like, I'm gonna go
Speaker 2: get a little drunk this weekend, and I'm like, so
Speaker 2: not in that phase currently, So I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, you know, you get out there, you live it up,
Speaker 1: you do it. Yeah, now we do have more, but
Speaker 1: we're gonna come back and do it because Jenny has
Speaker 1: an important appointment I do, which will probably talk about
Speaker 1: next week. I don't think I'll be talking about this
Speaker 1: one for a little while. But yeah, it's not anything
Speaker 1: like weird, no, like you know, it's it's I will
Speaker 1: be personally removing moles from her body. That's an appointment
Speaker 1: with me, and it's very intimate and she wants to
Speaker 1: make sure the recovery goes well first. So anyway, thanks
Speaker 1: for listening. We'll talk to you. We'll have to figure
Speaker 1: that out. Oh are you gone, Oh you're gone. I'll
Speaker 1: still come in. It's all my way into the there, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so we'll still have a podcast. All right, We'll talk
Speaker 1: to you then,