WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.320 --> 00:00:09.080 This is POD Popular Podcast for the People, The. 2 00:00:09.080 --> 00:00:10.439 Great Love Debates. 3 00:00:11.240 --> 00:00:12.640 It's the Great Love. 4 00:00:12.560 --> 00:00:17.600 Debate, The Great Love Debates. It's a Great Love to 5 00:00:18.199 --> 00:00:18.600 hi again. 6 00:00:18.640 --> 00:00:22.679 Everyone's Brian Howie. Welcome to The Great Love Debate, the 7 00:00:22.679 --> 00:00:26.440 world's number one dating or relation podcast since twenty fifteen. 8 00:00:26.519 --> 00:00:30.719 I am here in the secondary studio, which is called 9 00:00:30.800 --> 00:00:34.840 the Pop Pod. Here at Pod, Popular podcast for the people. 10 00:00:35.600 --> 00:00:40.119 This today is our annual Summer Loving mail Bag, where 11 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:45.759 we take on various issues, quirks, themes that are uniquely 12 00:00:46.600 --> 00:00:50.200 related to the summertime. This year, I put out a 13 00:00:50.240 --> 00:00:51.880 little APB a couple of weeks ago to ask you 14 00:00:51.880 --> 00:00:54.520 guys to send me things that are related to summer 15 00:00:54.600 --> 00:01:00.719 activities and or sports. Things that your partner, spouse, hiring, boyfriend, 16 00:01:00.759 --> 00:01:05.879 girlfriend does that perhaps particularly flummoxes. 17 00:01:05.439 --> 00:01:06.480 Or annoys you. 18 00:01:06.640 --> 00:01:09.000 And I did not want to take this on myself, 19 00:01:09.719 --> 00:01:11.560 so I needed a pro I needed, first of. 20 00:01:11.519 --> 00:01:14.480 All, a voice of reason. I needed somebody who is. 21 00:01:14.599 --> 00:01:20.319 Fairly familiar with activities and or sports. She is the 22 00:01:20.359 --> 00:01:23.959 host of the very very popular Sports Will Save Us 23 00:01:24.040 --> 00:01:26.480 All podcast. All those sports may not save some of 24 00:01:26.480 --> 00:01:29.040 these relationships. Sasha Graham, how are you? 25 00:01:29.719 --> 00:01:32.920 I'm doing well, that was a stellar introduction. I'm so 26 00:01:32.959 --> 00:01:33.680 happy to be so. 27 00:01:33.760 --> 00:01:35.920 First of all, she had an opinion on ghosting that 28 00:01:36.000 --> 00:01:36.920 I had not thought of. 29 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:38.400 Why don't you like it? 30 00:01:38.640 --> 00:01:39.560 Well, so here's the thing. 31 00:01:39.719 --> 00:01:41.879 I totally get everything that you say, like what we 32 00:01:42.000 --> 00:01:43.439 owe other people when. 33 00:01:43.239 --> 00:01:45.200 It comes to being not on one day or two 34 00:01:45.280 --> 00:01:46.799 dates or chatting online. I get it. 35 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:50.760 But for me when I was dating, because I'm happily 36 00:01:50.799 --> 00:01:52.480 married now, but when I was dating, it was about 37 00:01:52.480 --> 00:01:56.439 efficiency and if I was left waiting around for somebody 38 00:01:56.480 --> 00:01:58.239 to get back to me, and I'm like, maybe there's 39 00:01:58.239 --> 00:02:00.719 something there, maybe there isn't, like just let me know, 40 00:02:01.000 --> 00:02:03.280 just be like, you know what, not into it, not 41 00:02:03.280 --> 00:02:04.280 feeling it, and then I. 42 00:02:04.200 --> 00:02:04.719 Can move on. 43 00:02:04.920 --> 00:02:07.840 Purgatory that you're in, not suring it's a time waster. 44 00:02:08.199 --> 00:02:10.360 I hadn't considered that very voice of reason. 45 00:02:10.800 --> 00:02:11.800 You're right on that. 46 00:02:13.919 --> 00:02:16.080 I'm not sure in the moment somebody can let you 47 00:02:16.120 --> 00:02:17.919 know how they feel. Sometimes they process it a couple 48 00:02:17.919 --> 00:02:20.840 of days, but there should be like a five day limit, 49 00:02:20.919 --> 00:02:22.520 so you're not going weeks and weeks like is this 50 00:02:22.520 --> 00:02:24.759 guy gonna call me? Can I go out with somebody else? What? 51 00:02:25.000 --> 00:02:28.439 You know? You're right on that he eliminate the gray area. 52 00:02:28.599 --> 00:02:30.439 So a good start. So there's your. 53 00:02:30.319 --> 00:02:35.120 Addendum to the ghosting will save us all podcasts. All right, 54 00:02:35.159 --> 00:02:40.560 So we got a whole shitload of submissions from you guys. 55 00:02:40.960 --> 00:02:44.080 As always, we picked six, three from the men, three 56 00:02:44.120 --> 00:02:46.560 from the ladies. I have not looked at these, and 57 00:02:46.599 --> 00:02:49.599 Sasha certainly has not heard these. We are going to 58 00:02:49.680 --> 00:02:53.120 read them and give our take on them, which mayor 59 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:55.280 we may or may not agree. You guys may may 60 00:02:55.319 --> 00:02:58.960 may or may not agree. But they're a fresh batch 61 00:02:59.039 --> 00:03:01.520 right out of the hoppers. So first of all, the 62 00:03:01.560 --> 00:03:06.759 first one is from Sarahbeth in Renton, Washington. We came 63 00:03:06.800 --> 00:03:09.120 to your show in Seattle two years ago on our 64 00:03:09.159 --> 00:03:11.759 first date. Yeah, and now we are engaged. 65 00:03:12.159 --> 00:03:13.759 Great. Right, here is. 66 00:03:13.759 --> 00:03:20.840 The issue, Seattle. Seattle's sorry you typed wrong, Sarahbeth. Seattle 67 00:03:21.080 --> 00:03:23.960 is known for great summers, which makes up for the 68 00:03:23.960 --> 00:03:26.800 rest of the year. But all my fiance wants to 69 00:03:26.800 --> 00:03:30.280 do during the summer is fish, Like every weekend. Sam 70 00:03:30.280 --> 00:03:32.560 in this trout that he will just stand in a 71 00:03:32.639 --> 00:03:35.360 river in eastern Washington and fly fish for hours. 72 00:03:35.560 --> 00:03:36.599 It is literally our. 73 00:03:36.520 --> 00:03:39.240 Only time to do anything outside. And he keeps saying 74 00:03:39.400 --> 00:03:41.599 why don't you just come it's fun and relaxing. 75 00:03:41.840 --> 00:03:43.199 It's neither. It's dumb. 76 00:03:43.439 --> 00:03:45.439 I hate it, and I am seriously thinking it's a 77 00:03:45.479 --> 00:03:47.919 deal breaker for me. I know I shouldn't change him, 78 00:03:47.960 --> 00:03:49.919 and he loves what he loves. But I am better 79 00:03:49.960 --> 00:03:52.199 than the fish. He should want to be with me. 80 00:03:53.000 --> 00:03:56.080 Oh, Sarah Beeth, I agree you are better than the Fishye, 81 00:03:56.120 --> 00:03:56.919 you're really. 82 00:03:56.719 --> 00:03:58.840 Better than the trout. But this good salmon up there, 83 00:03:58.840 --> 00:04:02.800 I don't know about that. I agree. 84 00:04:03.960 --> 00:04:06.199 This is a tough one because the fishing is a 85 00:04:07.159 --> 00:04:08.080 relaxing escape. 86 00:04:08.120 --> 00:04:08.680 I don't do it. 87 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:10.879 I even think it's mean. Catch and release fishing I 88 00:04:10.919 --> 00:04:12.680 think is mean. I think you get a hook in 89 00:04:12.680 --> 00:04:14.719 the face and it's like I threw him back. It 90 00:04:14.800 --> 00:04:16.839 sucks for the fish. Eat it or don't eat it. 91 00:04:16.879 --> 00:04:17.199 That's me. 92 00:04:17.319 --> 00:04:22.079 That's a different podcast. Though it is true about some 93 00:04:22.160 --> 00:04:24.319 of these poor weather things. You are on the clock. 94 00:04:24.399 --> 00:04:29.120 You have about ten weekends to do stuff you want 95 00:04:29.160 --> 00:04:31.079 to do. You can't just been like this is my 96 00:04:31.240 --> 00:04:33.439 thing and you have to dive in or not. Right. 97 00:04:33.560 --> 00:04:35.720 So here's the thing that I find really interesting about 98 00:04:35.720 --> 00:04:38.079 it is that I would think that it was his 99 00:04:38.279 --> 00:04:41.800 escape from her, except that he's inviting her along, right. 100 00:04:41.839 --> 00:04:42.399 That's true. 101 00:04:42.439 --> 00:04:43.639 A lot of these guys want to be like I 102 00:04:43.720 --> 00:04:46.399 want to get away from her. He's invited. He could 103 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:48.759 be inviting her along knowing that she doesn't like it. 104 00:04:49.240 --> 00:04:52.079 That's a different thing. You guys are engaged, though, So 105 00:04:52.240 --> 00:04:55.759 I am surprised that this must be you came to 106 00:04:55.800 --> 00:04:56.680 our show two years ago. 107 00:04:56.720 --> 00:04:57.000 Thank you. 108 00:04:57.040 --> 00:04:58.720 A lot of couples get engaged from coming to the 109 00:04:58.720 --> 00:05:01.439 Great Love Debate. By the way, so you went through 110 00:05:01.439 --> 00:05:05.800 this last summer. My answer on this, and we've had 111 00:05:05.800 --> 00:05:08.480 some versions on this before, is there really needs to 112 00:05:08.480 --> 00:05:11.079 be a compromise. So you'd be like, listen, there are 113 00:05:11.120 --> 00:05:13.319 ten weekends in the summer, do four? 114 00:05:14.560 --> 00:05:15.480 Well, But here's the thing. 115 00:05:15.639 --> 00:05:18.480 It's Seattle and the weather is getting worse and worse, 116 00:05:18.600 --> 00:05:20.800 So your summers are going to get shorter and shorter. Eventually, 117 00:05:20.839 --> 00:05:22.240 it's only going to be two weeks a year that 118 00:05:22.279 --> 00:05:23.720 she has to worry about going fishing. 119 00:05:23.959 --> 00:05:26.839 Why did understand it's not freezing there? Why can't you 120 00:05:26.879 --> 00:05:30.720 fish in the rain? I mean it's pretty miserable with 121 00:05:30.839 --> 00:05:33.959 the fishing. I mean being outside when it's Seattle. I've 122 00:05:33.959 --> 00:05:36.120 talked about this for Seattle people pretend it doesn't rain. 123 00:05:36.240 --> 00:05:37.959 They don't use umbrellas. They just put on like the 124 00:05:37.959 --> 00:05:40.560 air ARII rain code and like it's fine, it's missing. 125 00:05:41.319 --> 00:05:42.639 Why can't he fish in the rain? 126 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:43.720 I mean maybe he does. 127 00:05:43.800 --> 00:05:46.079 Maybe it's just that it's the summer that's the issue, 128 00:05:46.079 --> 00:05:47.920 because she wants to be out doing fun outdoor things. 129 00:05:48.120 --> 00:05:50.240 Right, well, I think, oh, you think he fishes all 130 00:05:50.319 --> 00:05:53.439 year round and she doesn't care because she's like, go 131 00:05:53.519 --> 00:05:53.879 do that. 132 00:05:53.959 --> 00:05:56.360 I'm inside, I'm gonna watch a movie. Well let's just 133 00:05:56.360 --> 00:05:57.399 say there's ten weekends here. 134 00:05:57.439 --> 00:05:59.040 I think on something like this, you don't want him 135 00:05:59.040 --> 00:06:03.680 to fish, to quit fishing altogether. I think fisherman guy, 136 00:06:04.600 --> 00:06:07.360 twenty fishing weekends a year is plenty, and you give 137 00:06:07.399 --> 00:06:10.160 the other thirty two to her. And if you're just like, no, 138 00:06:10.279 --> 00:06:13.720 I really have to do this, you know, what are 139 00:06:13.759 --> 00:06:15.639 you going to do when you guys have kids, or 140 00:06:15.680 --> 00:06:18.040 if you have kids, you're gonna have to do the 141 00:06:18.639 --> 00:06:20.639 soccer tournaments on Saturdays and get out of the river, 142 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:24.680 right fella. I think she's right. I think she is 143 00:06:24.720 --> 00:06:26.920 better than the fish. I think she has every right 144 00:06:26.959 --> 00:06:30.120 to say stop with the fishing. Ooh I do. I'm 145 00:06:30.160 --> 00:06:33.199 fine if you're dating somebody, I would be like, listen, 146 00:06:33.240 --> 00:06:36.360 and somebody's like, this is really something that I don't 147 00:06:36.360 --> 00:06:37.759 want you to do and do. I'm fine with that. 148 00:06:37.839 --> 00:06:40.120 I'm like, go ahead, Yeah, I agree. I think what 149 00:06:40.199 --> 00:06:42.160 she wants is more important than the fish. This is 150 00:06:42.600 --> 00:06:47.480 fishing's fishing's dump. Go to a grocery store and eat 151 00:06:47.680 --> 00:06:48.240 the fish. 152 00:06:48.399 --> 00:06:49.360 I am going to. 153 00:06:49.399 --> 00:06:51.480 Give you my very practical advice, which is that you 154 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:54.079 need to find something that you love there. 155 00:06:54.319 --> 00:06:55.680 So wherever it is that he's. 156 00:06:55.480 --> 00:06:58.480 Going fishing, it's beautiful, it's outside, it's a beautiful day. 157 00:06:58.759 --> 00:07:00.959 Find a way that you can and enjoy it and 158 00:07:01.000 --> 00:07:03.720 do something different while you're there, Like, because it's just 159 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:06.959 somebody you love and he loves fishing, Like you don't 160 00:07:07.000 --> 00:07:09.040 want to love him in spite of that, you want 161 00:07:09.040 --> 00:07:09.800 to love him that. 162 00:07:09.920 --> 00:07:13.279 Part of you you're on his side, sort of, Oh 163 00:07:13.480 --> 00:07:14.480 do we need to fix sides. 164 00:07:14.639 --> 00:07:15.759 I'm just surprised. 165 00:07:17.000 --> 00:07:18.519 I just think that relationships. 166 00:07:18.560 --> 00:07:19.319 You pro fishing. 167 00:07:19.439 --> 00:07:21.040 Do you like to fish? No, I'm not a big 168 00:07:21.120 --> 00:07:21.560 I'm not a big. 169 00:07:22.759 --> 00:07:25.720 The starabeths here like I would much rather go and 170 00:07:25.759 --> 00:07:26.439 bring my book. 171 00:07:26.600 --> 00:07:28.720 And then he comes over and gives me a kiss 172 00:07:28.759 --> 00:07:30.720 on the forehead like and shows me a big. 173 00:07:30.519 --> 00:07:32.680 Fish that he smells like a fish. 174 00:07:32.839 --> 00:07:37.199 Now, to be fair, it is lovely the Pacific Northwest 175 00:07:37.279 --> 00:07:40.839 in the summer during that time, in the river's Columbia River. 176 00:07:40.879 --> 00:07:44.800 All that kind of stuff, Puget sound, all of it 177 00:07:44.839 --> 00:07:47.360 is nice. And there are things that she could do 178 00:07:47.399 --> 00:07:49.120 is read a book by the by the side of 179 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:50.399 the rover and go you caught anything? 180 00:07:50.480 --> 00:07:53.160 Yeah, honey, like all the fish away. 181 00:07:53.399 --> 00:07:55.480 It just shouldn't be. I have a problem with every weekend. 182 00:07:55.639 --> 00:07:57.639 That's my issue. Every weekend is rough. 183 00:07:57.720 --> 00:07:59.240 Well do you think it really is every weekend? 184 00:07:59.759 --> 00:08:01.680 Well, she wrote to us, and I believe her. I'm 185 00:08:01.720 --> 00:08:02.759 on your side, Sarabath. 186 00:08:03.920 --> 00:08:06.319 All right, Well, I hope that answers your question. I 187 00:08:06.319 --> 00:08:09.120 think that is a fairly reasonable compromise you had. I 188 00:08:09.199 --> 00:08:12.000 gave a compromise, Sasha gave a compromise. See if there's 189 00:08:12.000 --> 00:08:14.399 an answer in there for you, Sarahbath. Okay, next one. 190 00:08:16.319 --> 00:08:18.360 Do you know how they have that fourth of July 191 00:08:18.560 --> 00:08:21.879 hot dog eating contest in New York every year? Well, 192 00:08:21.920 --> 00:08:24.639 this girl I am dating is a total smoke show, 193 00:08:24.720 --> 00:08:27.160 and she is in fantastic shape and she is a 194 00:08:27.199 --> 00:08:31.240 competitive eater, mostly crab legs, but also oysters and key 195 00:08:31.279 --> 00:08:35.320 lime pie, very specific things. Pretty much anything slimy and slippery. 196 00:08:35.360 --> 00:08:38.000 She can suck down rare. You would think it's a 197 00:08:38.039 --> 00:08:40.480 turn on, but it's not. It's fucking gross. It's such 198 00:08:40.480 --> 00:08:43.000 a weird thing to stumble upon when you date somebody. 199 00:08:43.120 --> 00:08:45.159 She's great in every other way, but she wants to 200 00:08:45.240 --> 00:08:47.519 drive to these summer contests and I don't know how 201 00:08:47.519 --> 00:08:48.759 to tell her it's a turnoff. 202 00:08:48.879 --> 00:08:49.559 So how do I. 203 00:08:49.600 --> 00:08:52.960 Tell her that's from not chucking in Annapolis? 204 00:08:54.240 --> 00:08:56.519 Oh, not chucking? This is easy. You just go fishing 205 00:08:56.519 --> 00:08:57.120 with Sarabeth. 206 00:08:57.279 --> 00:08:59.080 Yeah, I know that is a weird thing. 207 00:08:59.080 --> 00:08:59.240 You know. 208 00:08:59.240 --> 00:09:00.759 I used to date a girl who could suck down 209 00:09:00.759 --> 00:09:02.960 a whole bunch of crab legs too. Whatever. Now I 210 00:09:03.000 --> 00:09:04.960 am pro competitive eating. 211 00:09:05.000 --> 00:09:07.200 A little secret fantasy of mine is, like I want 212 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:09.360 to know, I don't think I could do Joey Chestnut 213 00:09:09.440 --> 00:09:11.480 level of but I think I take down twenty hot dogs. 214 00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:12.039 I think I could. 215 00:09:12.840 --> 00:09:17.320 I used to have at the Fat Burger in Santa Monica, California. 216 00:09:17.399 --> 00:09:19.080 There used to be a little plaque on the wall 217 00:09:19.120 --> 00:09:23.159 that I was the King Burger Champion. Are you attracted 218 00:09:23.200 --> 00:09:26.919 ladies to that? I was the King Burger eating Contest champion. 219 00:09:26.679 --> 00:09:28.159 I want an eating. 220 00:09:27.919 --> 00:09:30.200 Con you're how many did you eat? 221 00:09:30.440 --> 00:09:32.320 It was the time thing. It was the thing that 222 00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:34.039 like not only if you ate, it was free. It 223 00:09:34.080 --> 00:09:36.360 was like you and I end I had fries. So 224 00:09:37.360 --> 00:09:42.120 take that shucking girl and again this, I don't want 225 00:09:42.200 --> 00:09:45.320 this to be sexist girl competitive eating fair crab legs, 226 00:09:45.320 --> 00:09:48.919 oysters and key line pie. I think that's a dating attribute. 227 00:09:49.000 --> 00:09:52.960 I think good. That is very specific. I don't know 228 00:09:52.960 --> 00:09:54.600 how to tell her it's a turnoff. I think you 229 00:09:54.600 --> 00:09:56.679 don't tell it's a turnoff. I just think, like I 230 00:09:56.720 --> 00:09:59.919 don't want to distract you. It's a competition. I root 231 00:10:00.120 --> 00:10:03.279 you well, I'll meet you in the car. I don't 232 00:10:03.279 --> 00:10:04.799 know what you can't not to do it. 233 00:10:04.879 --> 00:10:06.240 I don't know. I'm a little horrified. 234 00:10:07.720 --> 00:10:10.240 I feel like the fishing thing on his way, like 235 00:10:10.320 --> 00:10:11.759 that sort of makes sense to me. 236 00:10:11.840 --> 00:10:14.639 But like key lime pie, like she eats as many 237 00:10:14.720 --> 00:10:15.960 key line pies as. 238 00:10:16.519 --> 00:10:19.320 In like five minutes or whatever. You know, it's does 239 00:10:19.360 --> 00:10:20.720 take a lot of chewing. It's a lot of sucking. 240 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:23.039 Ois that's a very specific. So I don't think she's 241 00:10:23.039 --> 00:10:25.440 good in the chewing stuff. She's good in the sucking stuff, 242 00:10:25.639 --> 00:10:28.480 which is props to you not chucking in applis. 243 00:10:29.639 --> 00:10:30.559 She looks good. 244 00:10:30.600 --> 00:10:33.679 She sees most of the competitive eating people, the real champs, 245 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:36.879 they're not the heavy people they are. The stomach is 246 00:10:36.919 --> 00:10:41.600 a muscle, the throat is a muscle. I think you 247 00:10:42.039 --> 00:10:43.279 she does it. That's her thing. 248 00:10:44.399 --> 00:10:46.240 I think most people would think it's cool. 249 00:10:46.519 --> 00:10:49.159 No, I call deal breaker on this one in a girl. 250 00:10:49.159 --> 00:10:52.000 I think it's cool in a girl. I like it, well, 251 00:10:52.120 --> 00:10:53.960 because that means I get to eat whatever I watch, 252 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:54.679 So maybe. 253 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:56.879 That's maybe you should eat it under my way. 254 00:10:58.360 --> 00:10:59.559 Well, what how does he tell her? 255 00:10:59.559 --> 00:11:01.759 What was your answer to that? How do you tell her? 256 00:11:01.799 --> 00:11:03.440 I don't know. According to you, he can just ghost 257 00:11:03.480 --> 00:11:04.320 her and move on. 258 00:11:04.519 --> 00:11:07.320 Yeah, I think again, it does seem to like her. 259 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:09.279 That's a turnoff. How do you say what you do 260 00:11:09.320 --> 00:11:11.600 is a turnoff? Or do you just distance yourself on 261 00:11:11.679 --> 00:11:14.240 competition weekend? There can't be that many competitions. 262 00:11:14.519 --> 00:11:15.840 I mean, this kind of goes back to what I 263 00:11:15.879 --> 00:11:17.919 was saying, like you love the whole person or you 264 00:11:17.919 --> 00:11:19.840 don't love them at all, Like I mean, if this 265 00:11:19.960 --> 00:11:23.480 is something that he really can't abide by, then I 266 00:11:23.519 --> 00:11:25.840 think that this is something that I mean somebody. 267 00:11:25.600 --> 00:11:27.679 Well, how do you say, like, listen, you do it, 268 00:11:27.720 --> 00:11:28.879 I just can't watch it. 269 00:11:29.080 --> 00:11:30.919 Do your thing and then we'll meet up later. 270 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:32.840 Well, but that's not what he's saying. He's saying that 271 00:11:32.879 --> 00:11:34.879 he needs to tell her like he's implying that she 272 00:11:34.960 --> 00:11:36.159 needs to stop down and doing it. 273 00:11:36.240 --> 00:11:38.559 Yeah, and if you feel like there's big bucks in 274 00:11:38.600 --> 00:11:40.440 the key Lime meeting world, but if. 275 00:11:40.320 --> 00:11:43.399 She loves it, you're gonna tell somebody not to. 276 00:11:43.320 --> 00:11:45.559 Do your podcast. 277 00:11:45.720 --> 00:11:49.639 Something about this type of competition, not just the taste 278 00:11:49.639 --> 00:11:52.159 of the food, because people aren't really taste. There's sucking 279 00:11:52.159 --> 00:11:55.320 it down. It's a competitive jones that she has and 280 00:11:55.399 --> 00:11:56.279 this satisfies it. 281 00:11:56.279 --> 00:11:58.480 It's probably also a community and it's something she's really 282 00:11:58.480 --> 00:11:58.840 good at. 283 00:11:59.039 --> 00:12:01.039 Yes, and she feels some I don't think you'd tell 284 00:12:01.039 --> 00:12:03.919 her to stop. I don't think you need to tell 285 00:12:03.919 --> 00:12:06.399 her it's a turnoff. I think you just see where 286 00:12:06.399 --> 00:12:07.759 this relationship goes. 287 00:12:08.240 --> 00:12:08.960 You have to get through. 288 00:12:09.000 --> 00:12:12.559 Probably this is the seasonal thing, like how many she 289 00:12:12.600 --> 00:12:15.080 can't do a lot of them, because they can't. 290 00:12:14.840 --> 00:12:16.759 Do a lot of them. It is hard on the body. 291 00:12:17.000 --> 00:12:19.679 So like three or four times you just go fishing 292 00:12:19.720 --> 00:12:21.360 with the other guy and you don't go to the 293 00:12:22.200 --> 00:12:23.200 oyster eating contest. 294 00:12:23.279 --> 00:12:25.039 Don't you think that it's probably something that she talks 295 00:12:25.080 --> 00:12:26.720 about and that she's excited about it. 296 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:28.159 I think she's probably proud of it. 297 00:12:28.440 --> 00:12:29.080 She's proud of it. 298 00:12:29.159 --> 00:12:32.080 Right, Say your husband wanted to do this, and he's like, 299 00:12:32.279 --> 00:12:36.120 I'm gonna get involved in the the sushi eating contest. 300 00:12:36.159 --> 00:12:37.759 I think I can do. You want to come? 301 00:12:38.679 --> 00:12:40.879 Well, I mean, but for me, it's not a turnoff. 302 00:12:41.480 --> 00:12:44.320 Oh okay, So for him it's it's two fucking bad. 303 00:12:44.559 --> 00:12:47.840 Like she's a total smoke show. You said your words, 304 00:12:47.879 --> 00:12:51.679 and she's in great shape, like it's a weird thing. 305 00:12:51.759 --> 00:12:54.159 But say she was a sword swallower, like you know, 306 00:12:54.240 --> 00:12:55.840 I don't know. You don't want to watch it because 307 00:12:55.840 --> 00:12:58.799 it seems painful. Let her do her thing. Carve your eyes, fella, 308 00:12:59.399 --> 00:13:00.799 there's worse things. 309 00:13:01.120 --> 00:13:01.639 I agree. 310 00:13:01.759 --> 00:13:04.080 I'm her, I'm on her side. Just you don't even 311 00:13:04.080 --> 00:13:05.039 need to tell her to turn off. 312 00:13:05.120 --> 00:13:08.679 Just just distance yourself from the competition weekends. 313 00:13:08.399 --> 00:13:10.600 And then see what happens yourself. A slice of here's 314 00:13:10.600 --> 00:13:11.159 what's gonna happen. 315 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:12.840 She's going to meet somebody at one of those competition 316 00:13:12.919 --> 00:13:15.440 weekends who loves this part of her and thinks that, Yeah. 317 00:13:15.759 --> 00:13:17.600 I think it's good though, that she has something that's 318 00:13:17.639 --> 00:13:20.399 passionate out and it is competitive. The fishing guy, I 319 00:13:20.440 --> 00:13:23.600 don't think he's in fishing competitions, but you know, okay, yes, 320 00:13:23.879 --> 00:13:25.240 all right, that's a weird one. 321 00:13:25.600 --> 00:13:27.039 I like that fun. Good for her. 322 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:32.399 I'd like to see her. Okay, Yes, what is it about? 323 00:13:32.480 --> 00:13:34.120 Have you had a competitive eater on? 324 00:13:34.279 --> 00:13:35.720 No butt to? 325 00:13:36.080 --> 00:13:38.879 Absolutely? Absolutely? I mean it's hard and it's physical, and 326 00:13:38.919 --> 00:13:39.600 it's competitive. 327 00:13:39.720 --> 00:13:41.879 You could argue that Joey Chestnut is better at his 328 00:13:41.919 --> 00:13:43.559 sport than anybody else is at their. 329 00:13:43.399 --> 00:13:44.080 Sport in the world. 330 00:13:44.120 --> 00:13:45.000 I mean, he's incredible. 331 00:13:45.159 --> 00:13:47.559 He's so much better than everybody else. 332 00:13:47.679 --> 00:13:49.600 Can you imagine the mental game that's happening there? 333 00:13:49.919 --> 00:13:52.279 Yeah, I know. I mean he makes big bucks. 334 00:13:52.799 --> 00:13:55.519 The other guy who used to be good, Kobayashi, the 335 00:13:55.600 --> 00:14:00.279 Japanese guy, he got like a jothritis, like he like 336 00:14:00.320 --> 00:14:02.399 he hurt himself. He couldn't continue, couldn't go on. But 337 00:14:02.480 --> 00:14:05.519 Joey justa has done this fifteen years reserve getting old? 338 00:14:05.759 --> 00:14:06.639 All right? Next one? 339 00:14:07.399 --> 00:14:10.519 Oh god, what is it with cornhole? I get that 340 00:14:10.600 --> 00:14:13.320 it's a fun activity, but it isn't an all day activity. 341 00:14:13.399 --> 00:14:16.799 Somewhere along the line, life became pickleball and cornhole for 342 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:18.000 every guy over thirty. 343 00:14:18.240 --> 00:14:19.200 It's ridiculous. 344 00:14:19.399 --> 00:14:22.639 It's summer and we are in bikinis, and we are hot, 345 00:14:22.840 --> 00:14:25.080 and we were just standing there watching you throw bean 346 00:14:25.120 --> 00:14:26.519 bags and drink cors lights. 347 00:14:26.759 --> 00:14:28.679 Why is this a thing? And how do we make 348 00:14:28.720 --> 00:14:29.559 it not a thing? 349 00:14:30.000 --> 00:14:35.240 Melany Facebook page the explosion of I'll take this cornoll 350 00:14:35.240 --> 00:14:38.679 and pickleball first. Pickleball is not happening around the pool, 351 00:14:38.679 --> 00:14:40.879 so I don't think there's bikini people at pickleball whatever. 352 00:14:40.919 --> 00:14:42.600 But pickleball is huge. 353 00:14:43.519 --> 00:14:46.120 It used to be an older person thing, and now 354 00:14:46.159 --> 00:14:49.919 it is everybody. It's an all person thing for sure, 355 00:14:50.240 --> 00:14:52.120 and it's only going to get bigger. You're not going 356 00:14:52.159 --> 00:14:54.159 to win the pickleball thing. That being said, I saw 357 00:14:54.240 --> 00:14:56.279 cornhole on ESPN the other day, so I'm not sure 358 00:14:56.320 --> 00:15:00.879 that's gonna but people do play corn hole for hours. 359 00:15:01.840 --> 00:15:03.840 Give me the bikinis like I don't. 360 00:15:03.919 --> 00:15:06.759 I don't get it. I don't know how you make 361 00:15:06.799 --> 00:15:07.519 it not a thing. 362 00:15:07.840 --> 00:15:11.840 And it really is sort of everywhere that there's a 363 00:15:11.879 --> 00:15:14.600 you go to a tailgate, there's cornhole you go to. 364 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:21.080 Most apartment complexes now have cornhole. Like, I'm pro bikini, 365 00:15:21.240 --> 00:15:23.440 so I'm on your side with that. I don't think 366 00:15:23.440 --> 00:15:24.679 you're gonna make it not a thing. 367 00:15:24.759 --> 00:15:25.200 I don't know. 368 00:15:25.440 --> 00:15:27.720 All right, So here's my thoughts on cornhole. First of all, 369 00:15:27.879 --> 00:15:30.639 it's a blast. I totally get it. Like I love cornhole. 370 00:15:30.960 --> 00:15:34.200 So I think that it's the old if you can't 371 00:15:34.240 --> 00:15:37.679 beat them, join them situation where if start playing cornhole 372 00:15:37.679 --> 00:15:39.519 in your bikini, you will be the most popular. 373 00:15:39.240 --> 00:15:40.159 Girls you were. 374 00:15:40.399 --> 00:15:40.960 Yes, you will. 375 00:15:41.919 --> 00:15:44.639 Yeah, I'm sort of a bikini cornhole as the whole 376 00:15:44.639 --> 00:15:45.879 that they put that on ESPN. 377 00:15:47.600 --> 00:15:47.799 Yeah. 378 00:15:48.080 --> 00:15:50.600 Second, you haven't been hearing about watch Pie Hot Doggy 379 00:15:50.720 --> 00:15:51.480 It would be good too. 380 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:54.759 I mean we can just accept that bikini plus anything 381 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:55.639 and then you're gonna. 382 00:15:55.480 --> 00:15:57.279 Watch probably good. Yeah. 383 00:15:57.440 --> 00:15:59.200 Why are these guys playing cornhole? Right? 384 00:15:59.240 --> 00:16:03.840 It's because it's a place where they can be successful. Correct, Right, 385 00:16:04.240 --> 00:16:07.600 So figure out the motivation and then sort of back 386 00:16:07.639 --> 00:16:10.159 into it and then figure out how they can be 387 00:16:10.200 --> 00:16:11.279 successful around you. 388 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:11.960 Correct. 389 00:16:12.120 --> 00:16:14.120 That's a really good point. We bring this up a lot, 390 00:16:14.159 --> 00:16:15.840 and this comes up a lot at our live shows. 391 00:16:16.960 --> 00:16:19.879 They might think that you're not interested in them in 392 00:16:19.919 --> 00:16:22.799 your bikini and you're not creating an environment where their 393 00:16:22.799 --> 00:16:26.159 confidence can flourish. Why do the men of all ages 394 00:16:26.240 --> 00:16:29.039 play so many video games? And we hear this from 395 00:16:29.399 --> 00:16:32.159 wives a lot too. My husband plays video games, my 396 00:16:32.159 --> 00:16:34.559 son is because that is something that the men feel 397 00:16:34.639 --> 00:16:36.879 they can win at, and they feel like they are 398 00:16:36.919 --> 00:16:39.799 failing ninety percent of the time in any situation with 399 00:16:39.840 --> 00:16:42.519 the women, whether it is parenting, working, take out the garbage, 400 00:16:42.559 --> 00:16:43.320 dating you or whatever. 401 00:16:44.200 --> 00:16:45.919 You're not doing it right, You're not doing it well. 402 00:16:45.960 --> 00:16:47.639 You're losing run And so they're like, I'm going to 403 00:16:47.679 --> 00:16:49.840 go to a place where I understand what the criteria 404 00:16:49.919 --> 00:16:51.559 is and the score is, and I'm gonna get good 405 00:16:51.559 --> 00:16:51.799 at that. 406 00:16:51.960 --> 00:16:53.159 Cornhole is very simple. 407 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:56.720 You do this, you are a whole different wall of 408 00:16:56.799 --> 00:16:59.759 wax there in your bikini and how I. 409 00:16:59.759 --> 00:17:01.120 Am with you. 410 00:17:00.480 --> 00:17:04.799 You have to then create a situation where just talking 411 00:17:04.799 --> 00:17:06.839 to you they can win at just being around you. 412 00:17:06.960 --> 00:17:09.000 Right, yep, I completely agree. 413 00:17:09.200 --> 00:17:12.240 You know, come man the grill and feel that's why, man, 414 00:17:12.440 --> 00:17:13.079 they feel. 415 00:17:12.839 --> 00:17:13.400 Better about that. 416 00:17:13.720 --> 00:17:16.519 So that's about you saying, not only are you're trying 417 00:17:16.559 --> 00:17:18.839 to just win by being a distraction from the corn hole. 418 00:17:19.480 --> 00:17:21.799 You have to give these guys more than that, where 419 00:17:22.079 --> 00:17:24.880 there's a roadmap at least to some success with. 420 00:17:24.759 --> 00:17:27.519 You, even if it's something as easy as Hey, that 421 00:17:27.640 --> 00:17:29.240 drink that you made me last time was really good. 422 00:17:29.279 --> 00:17:30.440 Do you mind making me another one? 423 00:17:30.519 --> 00:17:34.319 Like exactly? Ask, that's a really good idea. Hey, put 424 00:17:34.359 --> 00:17:36.559 down your bean bag, come make me a drink and 425 00:17:36.839 --> 00:17:39.720 let's have a drink together. Totally, that's not too much 426 00:17:39.720 --> 00:17:42.000 for you to ask. That's something that he'll, I think 427 00:17:42.039 --> 00:17:44.400 gladly do. He just doesn't know what he can do 428 00:17:44.440 --> 00:17:46.480 in your world that will make him not feel like 429 00:17:46.480 --> 00:17:46.880 a loser. 430 00:17:47.079 --> 00:17:49.640 Right, So he's getting this dopamine rush by playing cornhole 431 00:17:49.680 --> 00:17:52.599 with the guys, making all of these points impressing in 432 00:17:52.640 --> 00:17:55.359 his mind these women in the bikinis while you're going 433 00:17:55.519 --> 00:17:55.880 come on. 434 00:17:55.880 --> 00:17:59.000 Man, Cornhole's not going anywhere, pickleball not going anywhere, and 435 00:17:59.039 --> 00:18:01.559 we're not going anywhere. But I gotta pay for a 436 00:18:01.640 --> 00:18:03.880 pickleball and corn hole and key line pie around here. 437 00:18:04.039 --> 00:18:05.960 We had to take a quick break, but we will 438 00:18:05.960 --> 00:18:08.160 be back. I'm with Sasha Graham and we were taking 439 00:18:08.160 --> 00:18:09.960 on the summer Love and mail Bag. 440 00:18:10.039 --> 00:18:16.200 We'll be back right after this, and we are back 441 00:18:17.200 --> 00:18:17.519 all right. 442 00:18:17.559 --> 00:18:19.880 This one is from Danny Dee and he sent it 443 00:18:19.920 --> 00:18:21.279 through our Facebook page. 444 00:18:22.440 --> 00:18:23.880 A couple of years ago, you had. 445 00:18:23.799 --> 00:18:25.960 A vegan write in to say that she was fine 446 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:29.240 dating a meat eater except during barbecue season, that the 447 00:18:29.279 --> 00:18:31.920 smell in the smoke was too much. I am the 448 00:18:31.960 --> 00:18:37.039 same way, except with tanning burning skin. Something about that salty, 449 00:18:37.240 --> 00:18:39.960 charred skin taste when girls lay out is such a 450 00:18:40.039 --> 00:18:42.039 turn off. The scent of the oil and the way 451 00:18:42.079 --> 00:18:44.200 they sweat a little. I just can't deal with it. 452 00:18:44.319 --> 00:18:47.640 Maybe I'm too sensitive to it, but I don't care 453 00:18:47.759 --> 00:18:50.440 how great the girls look. If they get too fried 454 00:18:50.559 --> 00:18:52.880 or they're just lying out there too long, I'm out. 455 00:18:53.039 --> 00:18:54.720 I don't know if I'm looking for advice or just 456 00:18:54.759 --> 00:18:57.759 asking if I'm the only one out there who experiences this. 457 00:18:58.279 --> 00:19:02.160 Is he comparing arbecue season to wing. 458 00:19:02.119 --> 00:19:05.480 Any little bit? Now? I think that's gotten better. 459 00:19:05.559 --> 00:19:07.960 We're recording this in Arizona, and even people I know 460 00:19:08.000 --> 00:19:10.799 who grew up here say that even during the summers 461 00:19:10.799 --> 00:19:12.599 back in the day, they would oil up and they 462 00:19:12.599 --> 00:19:16.160 would just fry themselves. They would be like shrimp on 463 00:19:16.200 --> 00:19:18.799 the grill. That people don't really do that anymore. We 464 00:19:18.799 --> 00:19:20.480 know a little bit more about skin cancer now. 465 00:19:20.519 --> 00:19:22.680 I think I think in certain places I would guess 466 00:19:22.720 --> 00:19:24.759 that there are places. I mean, we were in Key 467 00:19:24.759 --> 00:19:26.599 West not too long ago, and there was plenty of 468 00:19:26.599 --> 00:19:29.839 that happening, just frying yourself, just like lying on that 469 00:19:29.960 --> 00:19:32.680 beach and soaking up every still exists. 470 00:19:32.680 --> 00:19:33.599 Are they all spray now? 471 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:36.200 Like? And again around here it's all spray to han 472 00:19:36.200 --> 00:19:38.519 But I think there are places where they're still tanling beds. 473 00:19:39.039 --> 00:19:42.359 There is a unique like some people like the smell 474 00:19:42.400 --> 00:19:44.279 of the ocean and some people don't like the smell 475 00:19:44.319 --> 00:19:46.359 of the ocean. There is a little bit of like 476 00:19:46.839 --> 00:19:49.880 that burning, sweating hot thing. I think you have an 477 00:19:49.920 --> 00:19:52.960 over Is that the only smell that that's a weird 478 00:19:53.000 --> 00:19:53.880 trigger that you have. 479 00:19:54.160 --> 00:19:58.279 There's perfume that is mimics that smell. Yeah, you know 480 00:19:58.599 --> 00:20:01.400 interesting thing that bothers that like why weird? 481 00:20:01.240 --> 00:20:03.640 Did that work? 482 00:20:02.200 --> 00:20:05.960 Yeah? Yeah, I don't think you would smell so bad. 483 00:20:05.960 --> 00:20:07.559 I think if you go to the beach and the 484 00:20:07.640 --> 00:20:10.480 mixes with a little you know, cocon oil smell, that's fine. 485 00:20:10.519 --> 00:20:15.200 If you're just like you don't like the the aesthetic 486 00:20:15.279 --> 00:20:17.119 of it. People aren't burnt. 487 00:20:17.160 --> 00:20:19.079 I mean, how old are these people you're hanging out with? 488 00:20:19.400 --> 00:20:22.160 Is frying? Are the you know kids and they don't 489 00:20:22.200 --> 00:20:23.839 know how when they're gonna burn. 490 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:25.759 Put a little aloe on Danny D. 491 00:20:26.880 --> 00:20:28.440 I feel like this is a Danny problem. 492 00:20:28.720 --> 00:20:31.039 I feel yeah, I feel like it's a Danny problem too, 493 00:20:31.279 --> 00:20:33.319 because he's not saying he doesn't like the way people 494 00:20:33.359 --> 00:20:38.359 look tanned or over tanned. He just doesn't like the smell, 495 00:20:38.519 --> 00:20:41.079 taste whatever. Yeah, you are comparing the girls to barbecue 496 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:44.039 you taste, I think kind of. Yeah, we did have 497 00:20:44.039 --> 00:20:46.519 that a couple of years ago, the vegan who wrote 498 00:20:46.519 --> 00:20:48.559 in on one of these mail bags about the thing, 499 00:20:48.799 --> 00:20:50.759 and we had to just tell her to stay inside, 500 00:20:51.279 --> 00:20:53.960 like she didn't have to eat their food. But that 501 00:20:54.119 --> 00:20:57.039 was her, that was her problem, right, you know, like 502 00:20:57.119 --> 00:20:59.000 that's the way the meat is prepared, and that's the 503 00:20:59.000 --> 00:21:01.640 way the meat is prepared. These girls are stanning up 504 00:21:01.680 --> 00:21:04.279 for you, Danny D. Too bad. If you're saying I 505 00:21:04.279 --> 00:21:06.079 don't care how great the girls look, then just stay 506 00:21:06.079 --> 00:21:08.799 away from it, like you can just see them late, 507 00:21:08.920 --> 00:21:10.039 see them other places. 508 00:21:10.079 --> 00:21:11.680 Get away from the pool. If that bothers you. 509 00:21:11.759 --> 00:21:13.839 I feel like maybe he needs to move somewhere cold. 510 00:21:14.640 --> 00:21:15.480 Yeah, I do too. 511 00:21:16.519 --> 00:21:18.200 He didn't say he's from Facebook, but he didn't say 512 00:21:18.200 --> 00:21:20.440 where he was from. But yeah, I think you are 513 00:21:20.480 --> 00:21:22.720 the only one who experiences this. Yeah, that is a 514 00:21:22.759 --> 00:21:24.960 you problem, Danny de go to a hypnotist. 515 00:21:25.000 --> 00:21:26.759 Well, and you know, move somewhere where you can be 516 00:21:26.759 --> 00:21:27.480 more successful. 517 00:21:27.839 --> 00:21:28.519 Yeah. 518 00:21:28.559 --> 00:21:34.400 If a bunch of girls laying out bothers you too bad. 519 00:21:34.480 --> 00:21:39.720 Be the vegan Danny Day. Yeah, don't indulge the vegan. 520 00:21:39.960 --> 00:21:42.839 Be the vegan Danny Day. Yeah where are Neither of 521 00:21:42.920 --> 00:21:44.839 us is on your side and this is a you problem. 522 00:21:45.200 --> 00:21:50.000 Okay the next one. Let me just preface this with yes, 523 00:21:50.200 --> 00:21:52.599 I know how to swim. I just do not want 524 00:21:52.640 --> 00:21:56.119 to get wet, especially not my hair. This shit costs money. 525 00:21:56.319 --> 00:21:57.960 I do not want to go into your pool, which 526 00:21:58.000 --> 00:22:00.160 is disgusting and filled with germs and is basically a 527 00:22:00.200 --> 00:22:02.200 toilet I want. I don't want to go in a 528 00:22:02.279 --> 00:22:04.680 lake with god knows what kinds of catfish and other 529 00:22:04.799 --> 00:22:08.000 slimy things and oceans. Don't even get me started, So 530 00:22:08.119 --> 00:22:11.440 stop trying to lure me in. Under no circumstances. Push 531 00:22:11.480 --> 00:22:14.480 me in. Your attempts to course me just make me 532 00:22:14.559 --> 00:22:17.119 angry and not even want to consider you. I want 533 00:22:17.119 --> 00:22:20.079 to stay dry, bone dry. Do not splash me, do 534 00:22:20.160 --> 00:22:22.680 not scort me. I don't know why you think turning 535 00:22:22.720 --> 00:22:24.599 me into a wet rat is going to make you 536 00:22:24.680 --> 00:22:27.680 more attracted to me. It makes me want nothing to 537 00:22:27.799 --> 00:22:32.279 do with you. That is from Betsy Ross via our Instagram. 538 00:22:32.559 --> 00:22:34.599 Okay, I want to be prince with her. First of all, 539 00:22:35.160 --> 00:22:35.680 I love her. 540 00:22:36.559 --> 00:22:40.039 Why why do men ever think pushing a girl in 541 00:22:40.079 --> 00:22:41.000 the pool is a good moment. 542 00:22:41.000 --> 00:22:44.119 I think it's about the contact, right, You get. 543 00:22:44.000 --> 00:22:45.720 Two hands on her back for five seconds. 544 00:22:45.720 --> 00:22:48.319 You get to touch somebody who in a playful way 545 00:22:48.359 --> 00:22:48.920 that you wouldn't. 546 00:22:48.920 --> 00:22:49.640 It's not playful. 547 00:22:49.680 --> 00:22:51.519 I mean it goes back to the we're never really 548 00:22:51.519 --> 00:22:55.279 better than pulling pigtails in the third grade, and it's 549 00:22:55.519 --> 00:22:56.680 never a good idea. 550 00:22:56.839 --> 00:22:58.519 She does not want to get her hair wet. 551 00:22:58.599 --> 00:23:01.960 I agree with that, and I'm pro I don't want 552 00:23:01.960 --> 00:23:02.720 to go in any. 553 00:23:02.519 --> 00:23:05.079 More natural bodies of water either. I'm out, really, I'm 554 00:23:05.079 --> 00:23:05.920 out on the lakes. 555 00:23:05.960 --> 00:23:08.119 There are a lot I feel like that's their habitat, 556 00:23:08.200 --> 00:23:10.039 and I don't want some catfish biting my foot. 557 00:23:10.119 --> 00:23:11.480 You know what's so funny about that is that I 558 00:23:11.519 --> 00:23:13.279 was just having a conversation about this because I was 559 00:23:13.319 --> 00:23:15.559 just swimming in the ocean last week, and you know, 560 00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:16.839 there's fish everywhere. 561 00:23:16.880 --> 00:23:17.519 We were snorkeling. 562 00:23:17.559 --> 00:23:20.200 It was incredible, And then my daughter was invited to 563 00:23:20.200 --> 00:23:23.519 a water park and I was like, oh right, Like 564 00:23:23.599 --> 00:23:26.680 I would so much rather the natural grossness than the 565 00:23:26.759 --> 00:23:27.440 human groscries. 566 00:23:27.440 --> 00:23:30.400 Well see, yeah, I know these big pools in Vegas 567 00:23:30.480 --> 00:23:33.000 with like a thousand people. I travel a lot, and 568 00:23:33.039 --> 00:23:34.839 I stay in a lot of hotels. I will not 569 00:23:34.920 --> 00:23:38.799 go into a hotel pool unless it's Tuesday or Wednesday, 570 00:23:39.000 --> 00:23:41.039 because I don't trust the weekend. I don't trust the 571 00:23:41.119 --> 00:23:44.200 mondays is good enough chlorine to recover from the weekend? 572 00:23:44.279 --> 00:23:46.359 Well, yeah, year and in band aids. 573 00:23:46.440 --> 00:23:48.880 Right, it's just gross. I agree. 574 00:23:49.119 --> 00:23:51.720 I was a guest on your podcast recently and we 575 00:23:51.759 --> 00:23:55.799 talked about I played water polo in college, and you 576 00:23:55.839 --> 00:23:58.240 asked if I was a good swimmer, and I said, yeah, 577 00:23:58.240 --> 00:24:01.240 I used to competitively water ski and you looked at 578 00:24:01.240 --> 00:24:04.319 me like I was crazy associating water. 579 00:24:04.039 --> 00:24:05.599 Skiing with ability to swim. 580 00:24:05.759 --> 00:24:08.920 So little swimming and water ski But I thought. 581 00:24:08.759 --> 00:24:12.880 My entire life that because I water skied, it's transitioned 582 00:24:12.960 --> 00:24:14.680 nicely to other water things. 583 00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:16.680 Now, the best part about that was the look on 584 00:24:16.720 --> 00:24:19.680 your face as the realization set in that everything you. 585 00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:21.960 Thought was true was a lot none of my water 586 00:24:22.000 --> 00:24:24.799 skiing prowess had anything to do with my ability to 587 00:24:24.839 --> 00:24:26.039 swim and my whole life. 588 00:24:26.039 --> 00:24:27.920 I was like, oh, I do all good water. 589 00:24:27.799 --> 00:24:30.279 Sports, and now like I'm not going in the ocean, 590 00:24:30.759 --> 00:24:34.400 just not. There's like things, yeah, yeah, I've I've become 591 00:24:34.440 --> 00:24:36.400 such a baby on all this stuff. Give me a 592 00:24:37.519 --> 00:24:40.559 nice salt water swimming pool that has not been in 593 00:24:41.319 --> 00:24:42.319 for anybody else. 594 00:24:42.119 --> 00:24:44.000 But her thing. She's right on this. 595 00:24:44.200 --> 00:24:46.359 I've always wondered that I would never push it, And 596 00:24:46.400 --> 00:24:48.839 now if you push her in, there's a ninety nine 597 00:24:48.839 --> 00:24:52.519 percent chance she's holding her phone oh at all times, 598 00:24:52.519 --> 00:24:53.039 and you're. 599 00:24:53.200 --> 00:24:57.359 Screwing with that too. Don't splash her, don't dunk her. 600 00:24:57.640 --> 00:24:58.799 All of these things. 601 00:24:58.480 --> 00:25:00.599 That I'm sure I've done at some point my life. 602 00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:04.160 Just they don't like it. Almost She's not alone in this. 603 00:25:04.319 --> 00:25:07.960 She's not the guy who doesn't like the smell where 604 00:25:07.960 --> 00:25:11.200 he's the only Most women don't want any part of this. 605 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:13.240 Well, I think that there's a couple of different I mean, 606 00:25:13.279 --> 00:25:14.960 obviously there's a lot of different kinds of women, but 607 00:25:15.000 --> 00:25:16.839 at a pool party, there's a couple different kinds of women, 608 00:25:16.920 --> 00:25:19.359 right there is the kind that comes dressed to the 609 00:25:19.440 --> 00:25:22.839 nines and wearing a gorgeous white bikini and high heels 610 00:25:22.839 --> 00:25:24.039 with her hair flat ironed. 611 00:25:24.160 --> 00:25:25.400 Yeah, and then there's the girl. 612 00:25:25.240 --> 00:25:27.000 Like me who's in the pool and like playing, but 613 00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:30.559 you're you're already in the pool. That's different, the pushing 614 00:25:30.599 --> 00:25:34.200 and the splash, like you can tell if she's wet already. 615 00:25:33.799 --> 00:25:35.279 Right, splash away. 616 00:25:35.519 --> 00:25:38.799 Yeah, she's playing the volleyball in the pool whatever. 617 00:25:38.839 --> 00:25:41.960 But if she's just sitting on the unicorn float. 618 00:25:41.720 --> 00:25:44.519 With her drink and her phone and her phone. 619 00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:45.799 Don't mess with that. 620 00:25:46.240 --> 00:25:48.960 Like there's you know, you could be even a really 621 00:25:49.200 --> 00:25:51.799 cool girl, but the chlorine is not good for the hair, 622 00:25:51.880 --> 00:25:54.160 and you've got to respect that well. 623 00:25:54.200 --> 00:25:56.920 And especially if you're African American and you've had your 624 00:25:56.960 --> 00:25:59.079 hair done, you do not want to be getting it 625 00:25:59.119 --> 00:26:02.200 wet with you, Betsy, We are on your side this. 626 00:26:04.720 --> 00:26:04.920 Yeah. 627 00:26:04.920 --> 00:26:06.440 I asked somebody the day, when was the last time 628 00:26:06.519 --> 00:26:11.519 that their head was underwater? Decades? Yeah, decades. It's just 629 00:26:11.599 --> 00:26:13.880 like it's just not happening. So guys, don't do that. 630 00:26:13.880 --> 00:26:15.000 That is that's a bad Betsy. 631 00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:15.559 You are right on this. 632 00:26:15.640 --> 00:26:20.839 I'm on your side. Okay, this is from I'll say 633 00:26:20.839 --> 00:26:24.240 the name of the animal. Do you know, the way 634 00:26:24.279 --> 00:26:26.559 we would go away on spring break and meet someone 635 00:26:26.599 --> 00:26:28.480 and just have fun for five days, and we would 636 00:26:28.480 --> 00:26:31.319 promise to visit each other's colleges but never do so, 637 00:26:31.519 --> 00:26:33.279 and it would just end it, and it was all fine, 638 00:26:33.680 --> 00:26:36.200 why can't we just be open about having a summer fling? 639 00:26:36.359 --> 00:26:38.559 This is what I want, This is how long I wanted, 640 00:26:38.759 --> 00:26:40.519 this is what I want to do. You are who 641 00:26:40.559 --> 00:26:42.640 I want to do it with, Memorial Day to Labor Day, 642 00:26:42.720 --> 00:26:46.079 done and done. Who wouldn't be up for that? And 643 00:26:46.119 --> 00:26:48.359 that's from Kenneth on the Prowl And I think that 644 00:26:48.440 --> 00:26:50.599 was the plot line de Grease. I think that's what 645 00:26:50.720 --> 00:26:51.759 Danny and Sandy did. 646 00:26:52.279 --> 00:26:55.000 You what it reminds me of sports seasons? 647 00:26:55.480 --> 00:26:58.119 Yeah, it's a seasonal industry, brilliant. 648 00:26:58.240 --> 00:27:00.680 Like the seasons that are are the sports that are. 649 00:27:00.599 --> 00:27:02.960 So hard when your parent you have kids, are things 650 00:27:03.000 --> 00:27:05.400 like taekwondo because there's no end in sight. 651 00:27:05.480 --> 00:27:06.400 You just do it forever. 652 00:27:06.559 --> 00:27:08.799 Right, So it's like, well, I think I like taekwondo 653 00:27:08.839 --> 00:27:10.519 when you sign up and then it just keeps charging 654 00:27:10.519 --> 00:27:11.119 your credit card. 655 00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:13.960 Yeah, whereas you play soccer and it's just one season 656 00:27:14.000 --> 00:27:15.799 or not. He's talking about season. 657 00:27:15.559 --> 00:27:16.200 That's what's talking about. 658 00:27:16.200 --> 00:27:19.039 He wants a different type of mindset going into the 659 00:27:19.200 --> 00:27:21.000 That's true. On spring break, you'd go and you'd like 660 00:27:21.039 --> 00:27:22.880 fall in lover three days, and then she'd go back 661 00:27:22.920 --> 00:27:25.039 to Michigan State and you'd go back to Georgia Tech 662 00:27:25.079 --> 00:27:26.480 and like, oh, I'll call you, and you never do, 663 00:27:26.519 --> 00:27:27.079 and it's fine. 664 00:27:27.200 --> 00:27:31.440 Everybody moves on and there's different seasonal dating. 665 00:27:31.599 --> 00:27:35.119 Like you know, everybody talks about the cuffing thing in 666 00:27:35.200 --> 00:27:38.720 the in the in the winter time, but in places 667 00:27:38.759 --> 00:27:44.160 like Milwaukee and Chicago and Cleveland where rooftop drinking culture, 668 00:27:44.240 --> 00:27:47.400 it is just a different set of activities which leads 669 00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:49.839 to a different mindset where it should be a little 670 00:27:49.839 --> 00:27:52.680 more casual because you are. 671 00:27:52.480 --> 00:27:54.720 Just kind of run around having fun or whatever. 672 00:27:54.920 --> 00:27:56.240 So I don't know how you go into that and 673 00:27:56.279 --> 00:27:59.240 been like, listen, I'm looking for a summer girlfriend. Because 674 00:28:00.319 --> 00:28:02.119 here's my attitude on this. And I've said this before 675 00:28:02.160 --> 00:28:04.559 on all this. Anytime somebody says I'm just looking for 676 00:28:04.559 --> 00:28:07.039 fun or something short term, I think you're kidding yourself 677 00:28:07.079 --> 00:28:10.279 because you're still hoping it works out. You're still hoping. 678 00:28:10.480 --> 00:28:13.720 You're saying that to emotionally protect yourself. This is all 679 00:28:13.839 --> 00:28:16.400 this is, and I won't there's no way by the 680 00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:18.559 fourth of July. If you really like this girl that 681 00:28:18.599 --> 00:28:20.680 you're hoping, oh my god, only got six weeks left, 682 00:28:20.680 --> 00:28:21.720 you're opening like her forever. 683 00:28:21.880 --> 00:28:23.440 It's just a longer audition. 684 00:28:23.799 --> 00:28:24.119 I think. 685 00:28:24.160 --> 00:28:27.200 So. I think you're protecting yourself by saying, you know what, 686 00:28:27.200 --> 00:28:29.039 we're gonna try this for three months and see where 687 00:28:29.079 --> 00:28:32.240 it goes and whatever, and not set anybody up for that. 688 00:28:32.559 --> 00:28:36.359 But if you're gonna do that, Kenneth on the prow, uh, 689 00:28:37.720 --> 00:28:40.920 you're gonna have to put up with her oyster eating 690 00:28:40.920 --> 00:28:43.880 and fishing and whatever she wants to do. Like, you're 691 00:28:43.880 --> 00:28:45.839 gonna have to be real if you're gonna keep it 692 00:28:45.880 --> 00:28:47.759 loose and casual, you're just gonna have to roll with 693 00:28:47.839 --> 00:28:51.039 everything and go with it. If you're gonna do that, though, 694 00:28:51.519 --> 00:28:53.240 why would you do that with one person? Why wouln't 695 00:28:53.240 --> 00:28:54.400 you just hook up with a bunch of people for 696 00:28:54.440 --> 00:28:55.119 three months? 697 00:28:55.720 --> 00:28:57.440 Well, I think that there's some value there, right, Like 698 00:28:57.480 --> 00:28:59.759 it's kind of fun like being and maybe it's just 699 00:28:59.880 --> 00:29:02.240 like going back to the efficiency thing, like it's just easier, 700 00:29:02.279 --> 00:29:02.519 you know. 701 00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:05.119 You one person summer flame and it is fun like 702 00:29:05.160 --> 00:29:06.359 when you're doing that. 703 00:29:06.240 --> 00:29:08.440 Like there is the whole honeymoon phase, right. 704 00:29:08.599 --> 00:29:10.640 It is you're only getting a honeymoon and you just 705 00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:12.960 go hard for ninety days and like we're just gonna 706 00:29:12.960 --> 00:29:15.160 have the best time. We're gonna go on all concerts, Andre, 707 00:29:15.359 --> 00:29:17.960 and we're gonna do this and we're gonna Yeah, there's something. 708 00:29:17.759 --> 00:29:18.319 To be said for that. 709 00:29:18.480 --> 00:29:19.640 We're not gonna get stale. 710 00:29:19.920 --> 00:29:22.519 I know that, me and you, let's dive in and 711 00:29:22.559 --> 00:29:27.480 go there, and yeah, I don't necessarily even mind the mindset. 712 00:29:27.799 --> 00:29:29.559 I think there are people who would be up for that. 713 00:29:29.599 --> 00:29:32.880 I think if you put that on a dating profile 714 00:29:32.880 --> 00:29:34.680 and you're like, who's up for the best summer of 715 00:29:34.720 --> 00:29:38.559 our lives? I think there's like a romantic aspect to 716 00:29:38.640 --> 00:29:41.359 that where it doesn't seem just like a sex thing or. 717 00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:43.319 Here's what he does is he just goes and gets 718 00:29:43.319 --> 00:29:46.240 like a summer internship in a different city. So then 719 00:29:46.279 --> 00:29:48.599 there's just like a really clear beginning to end. I'm 720 00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:49.640 only here for three months. 721 00:29:49.640 --> 00:29:50.839 I don't know how old you are, Kinff. 722 00:29:50.880 --> 00:29:51.920 I don't know if you want to be a fifty 723 00:29:51.960 --> 00:29:55.519 two year old intern, but yeah, you put yourself in 724 00:29:55.559 --> 00:29:56.240 a position. 725 00:29:55.920 --> 00:29:57.880 Where you're just like I'm only here for three months? 726 00:29:58.720 --> 00:30:01.119 Where was Sandy and where was Danny? That they only 727 00:30:01.200 --> 00:30:03.599 did they? Was she and Austin? Where were they? 728 00:30:03.759 --> 00:30:07.680 She came from Australia, right, so she was an exchange 729 00:30:07.680 --> 00:30:09.960 student from Australia and they were Where were they? 730 00:30:11.359 --> 00:30:11.759 Right out? 731 00:30:11.880 --> 00:30:14.480 High was like probably somewhere in the Midwest. It's Venice 732 00:30:14.519 --> 00:30:14.960 High School. 733 00:30:14.960 --> 00:30:17.640 In real life they were at the beach. Remember they 734 00:30:17.680 --> 00:30:19.799 were at the beach beach? I think were they in 735 00:30:19.799 --> 00:30:20.640 southern California? 736 00:30:21.319 --> 00:30:23.039 Well, that's where they shot it, So the play is 737 00:30:23.039 --> 00:30:24.799 different from the movie. We get skewed a little bit 738 00:30:24.839 --> 00:30:27.480 about that. But where were they? That they met for 739 00:30:27.519 --> 00:30:31.240 a summer and then they didn't make plans and then 740 00:30:31.240 --> 00:30:32.680 they happen She got transferred in. 741 00:30:32.920 --> 00:30:34.920 She was supposed to be going back to Australia. Okay, 742 00:30:34.920 --> 00:30:36.440 so it was supposed to just be a summer fling. 743 00:30:36.480 --> 00:30:38.039 She was supposed to be going back to Australia and 744 00:30:38.119 --> 00:30:41.920 instead they ended up staying because their dad's job continued. 745 00:30:41.960 --> 00:30:43.759 So then she started at Rydel High. 746 00:30:43.839 --> 00:30:45.960 I have a lot of thoughts about Grease, which I've 747 00:30:46.000 --> 00:30:47.440 gotten into on this podcast. 748 00:30:47.079 --> 00:30:48.039 And yet you know so little. 749 00:30:48.160 --> 00:30:49.119 He's a total deck. 750 00:30:49.279 --> 00:30:52.880 The whole time, like you know, it leaves her for cha, 751 00:30:53.039 --> 00:30:55.640 Cha grabs her boob at the drive in. There's a 752 00:30:55.680 --> 00:30:59.440 lot of stuff going on, like Danny's not cool, but 753 00:30:59.480 --> 00:31:01.200 the whole or she didn't say, hey, where do you 754 00:31:01.200 --> 00:31:03.960 go to high school? And so then when she's there, 755 00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:07.480 like where do you live? She doesn't contact him. 756 00:31:07.880 --> 00:31:10.680 I think you're blaming the victim here? Should you having 757 00:31:10.680 --> 00:31:11.440 a great summer? 758 00:31:11.559 --> 00:31:13.759 Oh and she didn't find out about like she just 759 00:31:13.880 --> 00:31:15.160 happened to end up in his high school. 760 00:31:15.160 --> 00:31:15.680 She didn't know. 761 00:31:15.799 --> 00:31:17.519 Maybe she was Kenneth on the prowliness. 762 00:31:17.559 --> 00:31:19.880 I think she was. I think she was looking for 763 00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:20.319 the flank. 764 00:31:20.400 --> 00:31:21.160 We just made that a her. 765 00:31:21.400 --> 00:31:25.480 That's why I'm like pro Danny. All right, pink ladies 766 00:31:25.519 --> 00:31:26.720 and tea birds out there. 767 00:31:28.200 --> 00:31:28.799 That was it. 768 00:31:28.880 --> 00:31:31.079 That was a pretty good crazy. But you guys are 769 00:31:31.240 --> 00:31:35.000 nuts out there. It's amazing we ever get together. All right, 770 00:31:35.079 --> 00:31:37.759 this you did very good. You're very reasonable. I appreciate this. 771 00:31:38.000 --> 00:31:38.279 Thank you. 772 00:31:38.359 --> 00:31:39.480 I'm so glad to get chuck me. 773 00:31:39.559 --> 00:31:42.599 Yeah, tell us about your podcast, and then we are 774 00:31:42.640 --> 00:31:45.720 going to play. As you were forewarned, worst date or 775 00:31:45.839 --> 00:31:48.119 first date. You're gonna give us either the greatest first 776 00:31:48.160 --> 00:31:49.960 dake you've ever had, or the worst date. But before 777 00:31:50.000 --> 00:31:52.279 you do that, tell us about Sports Will Save Us All. 778 00:31:52.319 --> 00:31:54.519 My podcast is called Sports Will Save Us All. It 779 00:31:54.559 --> 00:31:57.160 is available wherever you listen to podcasts, and it's really 780 00:31:57.720 --> 00:32:01.400 about the unifying power of sports. So whether it is 781 00:32:01.519 --> 00:32:04.839 competitive hot dog eating or I have a championship roller 782 00:32:04.839 --> 00:32:06.839 skater coming on, I've talked to all sorts of pro 783 00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:12.279 athletes and coaches. People are amazing and I love talking 784 00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:15.240 to them and hearing their stories and being both inspired 785 00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:17.720 and humbled by them in every single interview. 786 00:32:17.960 --> 00:32:20.839 Isn't dating the ultimate support? Isn't love the ultimate support? 787 00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:21.920 It's certainly competitive. 788 00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:24.039 There are a lot of parallels, I gotta tell you. 789 00:32:24.039 --> 00:32:25.640 I mean, there's a reason why there's so many sports 790 00:32:25.680 --> 00:32:26.680 metaphors and dating. 791 00:32:26.640 --> 00:32:31.599 Right, being your best dating shape that will help stamina. 792 00:32:32.799 --> 00:32:34.720 Sports. 793 00:32:34.960 --> 00:32:37.400 Trust me, you get a lot of curve balls and 794 00:32:38.559 --> 00:32:40.359 be able to hit the curve ball, you better buy 795 00:32:40.400 --> 00:32:42.119 a lot in uh dating? 796 00:32:42.200 --> 00:32:44.000 All Right, worst date or first date? 797 00:32:44.920 --> 00:32:47.200 I'm going to give you both, because that's the type 798 00:32:47.200 --> 00:32:49.240 of person I am. My best first date was with 799 00:32:49.359 --> 00:32:52.640 my husband, not not surprisingly. We got back to my 800 00:32:52.720 --> 00:32:55.319 house and I had been on so many bad dates 801 00:32:55.359 --> 00:32:57.720 that I just decided on the way back. I was like, 802 00:32:58.039 --> 00:33:00.640 he can either kiss me or ask me again. And 803 00:33:00.720 --> 00:33:02.599 so I then just sat there in his car and 804 00:33:02.640 --> 00:33:03.720 he was like, I had a really good time, and 805 00:33:03.720 --> 00:33:04.599 it was like, yeah, I did too. 806 00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:05.839 Then I just sat there. 807 00:33:06.160 --> 00:33:06.799 I just waited. 808 00:33:06.960 --> 00:33:09.119 You know the good thing about that story, you were 809 00:33:09.119 --> 00:33:12.559 in his car. We don't get to pick you guys 810 00:33:12.640 --> 00:33:15.599 up anymore. And that leads to those moments are gone 811 00:33:15.839 --> 00:33:16.759 if you're in your uber. 812 00:33:17.000 --> 00:33:18.039 Oh yeah, that's true. 813 00:33:18.119 --> 00:33:19.319 Yeah, gotta let us pick you up. 814 00:33:19.400 --> 00:33:21.359 So eventually he said he had really like to see 815 00:33:21.359 --> 00:33:22.000 you again. It was like. 816 00:33:21.920 --> 00:33:23.839 Awesome, great, waved and I jumped out of the car 817 00:33:23.880 --> 00:33:26.480 and I went in and called my sister. My worst 818 00:33:26.519 --> 00:33:29.720 state was long before that, well not long enough before that. 819 00:33:29.799 --> 00:33:33.160 But so I lived in La. You've lived in La. 820 00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:35.880 I worked for a movie studio, which meant that I 821 00:33:35.920 --> 00:33:37.480 attracted all of these people who. 822 00:33:37.319 --> 00:33:39.799 Wanted to be in movies and in one way or another. 823 00:33:39.880 --> 00:33:43.359 So I was at the Dresden one night, of all places, 824 00:33:43.880 --> 00:33:46.279 and they were doing open mic night, and this guy 825 00:33:46.319 --> 00:33:48.359 got up there and he was a crooner and he 826 00:33:48.480 --> 00:33:50.839 had the Frank Sinatra hat and the whole thing. It 827 00:33:50.880 --> 00:33:54.440 should have like warned me but it didn't. I was 828 00:33:54.559 --> 00:33:56.599 very into it. He asked me out. His name was Patrick. 829 00:33:57.200 --> 00:33:59.440 I do not sing. I told him I do not sing, 830 00:33:59.519 --> 00:34:03.240 So he took me to a singing restaurant where everybody 831 00:34:03.279 --> 00:34:05.599 is expected to sing. Was not my time to shine, 832 00:34:05.599 --> 00:34:08.159 so already I was pretty uncomfortable. We got back to 833 00:34:08.239 --> 00:34:12.320 my house and he got his reel out of his 834 00:34:12.360 --> 00:34:13.679 trunk and wanted to show it to me. 835 00:34:13.840 --> 00:34:16.519 Of course, so we went into my house. 836 00:34:16.679 --> 00:34:18.719 He puts the reel in, I go to the bathroom, 837 00:34:18.800 --> 00:34:20.840 and when I came back, he's sitting on the couch, 838 00:34:20.880 --> 00:34:23.480 his reel is playing on my TV, and he has 839 00:34:23.519 --> 00:34:26.119 his shirt off. I mean, I understand there had been 840 00:34:26.239 --> 00:34:28.760 nothing up to this point that would have led him 841 00:34:28.800 --> 00:34:30.400 to believe that I would have wanted him to have 842 00:34:30.440 --> 00:34:31.000 his shirt off. 843 00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:34.519 And I am not about body. 844 00:34:34.159 --> 00:34:37.719 Shaming or hair shaming, but this was literally the hairriest 845 00:34:37.760 --> 00:34:40.639 Tuman I have ever seen. So the fact that he 846 00:34:40.760 --> 00:34:43.719 was leading with taking his shirt off with no invitation 847 00:34:43.840 --> 00:34:46.559 to do so, in completely a room as bright as 848 00:34:46.559 --> 00:34:51.840 this one, I was both later impressed, you know, like ballsy, 849 00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:54.920 I mean incredibly, But it was this, he thinks. 850 00:34:54.719 --> 00:34:57.199 The real and the shirtless combo platter was going to. 851 00:34:57.199 --> 00:34:57.639 Do it for you. 852 00:34:57.880 --> 00:34:59.800 I mean, that's all I can imagine. 853 00:34:59.800 --> 00:35:02.880 But I think that was one of the very rare 854 00:35:02.920 --> 00:35:05.360 times that I did go to somebody because I didn't 855 00:35:05.360 --> 00:35:07.000 even know what to say to him. 856 00:35:07.480 --> 00:35:10.760 Did you watch the reel? I thought him out of there? Okay, 857 00:35:11.000 --> 00:35:12.719 yeah that is what was? What are you're doing? 858 00:35:12.880 --> 00:35:15.079 I go by myself, and it was a little bit 859 00:35:15.079 --> 00:35:17.039 disconcerting to have this stream suddenly just. 860 00:35:17.119 --> 00:35:18.000 Robing to my house. Good. 861 00:35:18.199 --> 00:35:20.480 You know, it's worse the reel or the shirtless Yeah, 862 00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:22.159 very strange. It could have been the pants. It could 863 00:35:22.159 --> 00:35:22.599 have been worse. 864 00:35:23.679 --> 00:35:25.960 Yeah, thank you. You were awesome. 865 00:35:27.039 --> 00:35:30.840 As far as us, please like, share, review, follow all 866 00:35:30.880 --> 00:35:33.000 the good things for this podcast and sports. 867 00:35:33.039 --> 00:35:33.519 We'll save us. 868 00:35:33.519 --> 00:35:36.000 All Your reviews mean a lot in the podcasting ecosystem. 869 00:35:36.159 --> 00:35:37.360 Shoot us an email. 870 00:35:37.079 --> 00:35:39.039 Great Lovedebate at gmail dot com if you have any 871 00:35:39.079 --> 00:35:44.320 thoughts on any of these we are going to maybe revisit. 872 00:35:44.360 --> 00:35:46.320 If you guys have different opinions on them, or things 873 00:35:46.360 --> 00:35:48.360 we should have done better, or if you're a competitive eater, 874 00:35:48.559 --> 00:35:53.000 have at it because, as always at a Great Love Debate, 875 00:35:53.199 --> 00:35:54.519 we never stopped making love. 876 00:35:54.519 --> 00:35:55.119 To see you next time. 877 00:35:58.360 --> 00:35:59.800 The Great Love debate. 878 00:36:00.679 --> 00:36:02.639 It's the great love to be. 879 00:36:03.360 --> 00:36:04.639 The great love to be. 880 00:36:05.719 --> 00:36:07.199 It's the great love to be.