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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice,

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mixing some vodka.

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Speaker 2: Color a podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio

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in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots jeep Ram.

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It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on.

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Thanks for telling a friend. That is how we spread

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the word about the virn ship.

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Speaker 3: Lugos here. Look who is here?

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Speaker 4: Miss you guys? I guess I missed you.

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Speaker 1: Man, stop somebody. Uh yeah, I was. I was out

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and the guy was like talking to me about the podcast,

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and he goes, you know, Laura's she's something, man, She's.

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Speaker 5: Like that mouth row other things in Mexico?

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Speaker 3: Whoa Where in Mexico did you go?

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Speaker 4: We went to Tuloom So. Yeah, it's like forty five

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minutes south of Cancun.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 5: It's like the Buffalo of Mexico.

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Speaker 3: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 4: It's define to Rochester. No, it was where we went

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was quieter. It wasn't like the crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's what I would look at the same thing. Yeah,

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because I was looking at can I get out of

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town for a minute and do I want to go

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to an adult only.

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Speaker 4: I mean the one that we went to. It was

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like five different resorts, yeah, all in one. There was

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two that were family friendly, two that were like luxury

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a little nicer, and then one adults only. One. We

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stayed at the luxury one that was right on the beach.

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Speaker 5: Here's the thing that are you going alone?

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Speaker 1: Just you? And you're right.

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Speaker 5: A special friends take.

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Speaker 1: I was honestly going alone. I was looking because none

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of the breaks line up, and I was looking do

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I go? Because you know the Mac of all Trade

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Studios and Mac and then his wife Kelsey go to

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uh Key West often. So I was looking down there

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and like where could I go? And they have a

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place called the h two oh, and it's all it's

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adult only. And then I go, say, if you go

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to Mexico, they might reverse ice you for drinking too much.

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Then I go, a single guy at the day, I go,

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that's a swigger.

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Speaker 3: I go, that's a swigger. They wait to happen right there.

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Speaker 5: Just put you pineapple up.

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Speaker 4: Did you ever do a cruise like a solo cruise?

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Speaker 1: Man, I've never done one, and I don't know why

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they don't appeal to me any and everybody who's done

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them has said they love them, right, So who am

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I to say? But I've never done one? And then

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a weekend, weekend gig on a cruise, no quick, no

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thank you, no thank you? You were making fun of me

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in the lasts, well they brought it out of.

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Speaker 3: That is not the worst joke ever. That's a good

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goddamn joke.

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you you should go away, though, even

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if I just I need like I was just looking honestly, Laura,

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I think I could do four days. I mean, you know,

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I got a kid living with me, and I've got

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different things, so there's probably some way I could do it.

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Speaker 3: But I also don't want to.

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Speaker 5: Can I come?

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Speaker 4: I had told Joe I when we started planning this,

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I wanted to do four days. I was like, four

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days is my max? At like all inclusive, I get bored. Yeah,

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we ended up being gone for seven because of the

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fucking snows.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. And was it okay?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean we had we ended up planning it for

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five days, and then when the storm we were supposed

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to leave the Monday, that the storm that hit on

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the Sunday all the way through Monday, we ended up

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leaving early. Didn't know if we were going to get out,

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So I didn't call our all inclusive to add another

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day until we were about to board the plane in

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Detroit to go all the way down to Kancoon because

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then we left on Sunday and then we got stuck

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on the way home in Atlanta and that was miserable

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because all the flights were canceled the following weekend coming

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home Jesus. So yeah, we stayed in Atlanta. It was

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nineteen degrees snowing. We had no like jackets or anything,

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and the hotels were all booked up, so we had

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a disgusting hotel room. It was Yeah, we were ready

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to come home. I think we were ready to We're

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on each other's serves.

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Speaker 1: Just wow, all right, that's point.

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Speaker 4: At first I was like, ooh, you know, I've never

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spent a night in Atlanta with a man, And then

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choking around, I was like, whatever, we'll check out off

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a news state. And then by the end of the

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night we're like I just want to get some fucking sleep,

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Like this is disgusting. Time to get home.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: We probably should have gone to a sex club instead

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of staying at the hotel.

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Speaker 1: Here's the funny thing because as I've been thinking about

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this a lot, because it's almost like your identity on

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the podcast a little bit, all that stuff you talk about.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's it's me. This is me all

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the time.

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Speaker 1: Though I know, I know.

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Speaker 4: Like my friends aren't constantly like it's they're used to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I'm not saying it's bad. That's sometimes I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I was because Kevin is a Patriots fan and we're

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coming off Super Bowl sixty. I'm not the most exciting

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super Bowl, I don't think in terms of just the

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game itself, and yet so hard to play. I felt,

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I actually felt for Drake May. You're twenty three years

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old and you're playing on the biggest stage of your

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life and they are coming for your head.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't this time, he didn't get.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, yes, that guy did. I mean,

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what the Patriots have done this season, who wouldn't take

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that right? And what does it say about the future?

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And I think you only get better with reps. But

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the funny thing is, like he said to me, and

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I'm going to use teams loosely because I mean it

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for a lot of different things I just don't don't

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mean like the NFL or any sports team. But you

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said that somebody was getting under your skin, and it

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is a weird thing. Why do we take criticism and

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I'm gonna say team, and you're gonna take it as

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what I like the Patriots, and that's not that's not

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exactly what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Why do we.

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Speaker 1: Take criticism for everything? If it's our political if it's

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our sports team, if it's you know, I'll call it political.

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I guess you say tribes more than anything, relationship arguments.

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If you criticize what I love, you're criticizing me, and

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it's really become like a I think it's an overriding

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problem in society.

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of it is just people that

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are miserable that, yeah, their team or their person or

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their wife or husband did something or is enjoying something

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and and got something that they didn't get and they

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want to be They want you to be shitty and

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miserable about it too.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's true, because I go most of us aren't.

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Speaker 1: We're not we're not arguing necessarily facts on things, right,

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or it feels like you're almost protecting your identity.

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Speaker 4: I say that's exactly I was gonna say. They make

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it their identity. I think it's when you're missing something

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in your life, you just hold on to the identity

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of being that fan or involved in that group or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I know, Kevin's a Patriots fan. I don't identify you

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as that. I don't I don't know. I identify you

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as like a friend and a father, and you know

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all these other things.

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Speaker 3: That isn't your identity.

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Speaker 5: But there was other effort, but ahead whole.

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Speaker 1: But there are other people that you just see it.

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And with sports kind of it's sort of laughable, right

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because there's no real consequence in our life. But look

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at the fucking world today. I go, oh my god,

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you're criticizing me. I you're you're destroying my identity. And

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I go, what are you arguing for?

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Speaker 5: To protect what? Because they're miserable, they want they want

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to bring you down. You're happy, and they wanted they

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don't want you to be happy.

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Speaker 4: The whole keyboard Warrior thing, I mean, it's just people

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writing behind their computer screens or their phones, just antagonizing

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other people.

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Speaker 1: It was interesting because, uh, did you watched I assume

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you watched, and you watched. Did you really turn over

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to the hockey game? You did text me that you

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were watching Sweden versus Finland. I thought, maybe that's true,

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because I think teams they beat, uh women's team beat

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Sweden today five nothing.

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Speaker 5: The other day five or six and nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, so it sounds like, you know, we're

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we're doing well there. But uh, you know, hockey is

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the only sport I can think of. I mean, I

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know there a lot of them are getting more global,

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but the ones that are truly global to me are

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hockey and soccer. You're pulling guys from around the globe

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more or less.

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Speaker 5: Football is trying to get there. I got that basketball

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a little bit. Basketball I think is probably one of

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the bigger ones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I always just think soccer is.

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Speaker 4: Like I gotta tell you something funny. When we were

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in when we were in Mexico, the one of like

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the concierge guys is talking to us, and he asked Joe,

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like what sports he played, and Joe's like, I played basketball.

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He's like, oh, from America, Like I thought that we

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were all black players in America. And Joe just started

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laughing so hard, like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's funny.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can see where the perception would be

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and amre J already are? And that's right man, if

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you say that, now here's the weird part. I would

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be uncomfortable saying that. I mean, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, thought that this was better. It's like, oh,

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like white men play basketball too, And yeah, he was

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just he was sort of confused.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Larry.

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Speaker 5: Then Joe called Ice and had deported.

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Speaker 4: We were in fucking Mexico, staying at the nicer places

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they would if you did get deported.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The uh then, uh what did what were your thoughts on? Uh, well,

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it's your mind. I love the bad Bunny thing. I

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really did. And I and I only say that because

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I found it really entertaining and I thought it told

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of a culture that's in our country. I didn't think

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he was saying this is our country. I thought he

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was saying, this is a culture that celebrated. And you know,

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when you think about it, we've got hey, who wants Italian? Tonight?

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Who wants Chinese? And we have restaurants that are that

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are are specific to those things.

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Speaker 3: And so why was this so so bad?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? And I thought because it took me twenty minutes

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to find the sap. But now my fucking remote, so

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I can understand what the hell he was saying.

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Speaker 1: And I didn't know what he was saying that what

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Speaker 3: I watched it without it.

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Speaker 5: But the pretty was good for your venezuela, and they

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would have a second flyover.

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Speaker 1: But the thing that the thing that.

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Speaker 5: Was funny to me is I go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we've had lots of shows, and one of

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the big things that always comes out of it is

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the lack of taste, the distastefulness of different things. I go, here,

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you got a guy who combs out in a shirt

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and tie and then puts on his uncle's you know,

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I don't think anybody knew.

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Speaker 3: At the moment.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but it turned out to be his uncle played football,

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and that was his uncle's number, and he put his

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real name on the back, and and I thought it

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was I just thought it was. I loved when they

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came around the corner and it's a bunch of old

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guys playing cards.

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Speaker 4: It's old Peoball, the old lady who gave him like

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the drink and like the kids I did, like, you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Thought the whole thing I had no problem with it,

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and I thought, that's you know, at some point everybody's

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family came that way. I have to do a roots paper,

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and I don't think that it's a roots paper the

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way we would think, like we're going to yeah, do

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you understand exactly? Well, I understand, yeah. But what I

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mean is like I could go, oh, I have Civil

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War discharge papers for a member of the Carney family,

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which would be my paternal grandmother and her family.

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Speaker 3: As to what they're talking about, they're going, where did

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your biases?

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Speaker 1: Where did your that was your family on the North, Yes,

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we were discharge, but it's more about like what biases

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do you have? Where are your blind spots? What? You know?

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How were you brought up? And I thought, boy, will

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we ever get there? Will we ever get there? Because

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it's always it always was. It always was whatever group

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was coming into this country at a certain point, they

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were the bad people. And it was the Irish at

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one point, and it was, believe it or not, the

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Irish were and they were considered like the outsiders of

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even Europe.

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Speaker 4: And I mean there's always something I read it.

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Speaker 1: It's always And I'm not saying that we should continue

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to do that. I'm just going it hasn't changed really

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throughout history. Whoever, like the Italians, right, they came over

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and what they were called, all kinds of names and

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all kinds of stuff, and then maybe the Irish, and

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then you know, it's like everybody got their bottom of

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the barrel until somebody came along and they did something

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wonderful and we all go, hey, hey, look at these

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that's America, baby, let's just get back to our roots.

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Speaker 5: The polar.

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Speaker 4: There was a meme that was going around. It was like,

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if you're talking about the halftime show while you're eating

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your chips and guacca and drinking tequila.

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Speaker 1: H I mean, and look, I don't know. Here's the

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other part of it is, I like, I love that

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people are open to expressing their their their opinions now

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because we kind of know where everything stands, you know

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what I mean, I really do, And I think that

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that's okay because if that is something that this country

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uh promises in the idea of freedom of speech, you

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can express yourself. Where people get confused on the speed

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of freedom of speech is when it's uh privately owned airways.

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That right, so you've got a big company and all

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of a sudden, this big personality is gone because it's

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not freedom speech, it's not me too, it's somebody with

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dollars said I'm not supporting that, and the company got

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scared because they're in the business of first and foremost

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making money and not not costing money. So you know,

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those are the things that I think that we often

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get confused with in terms of what is and isn't.

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But you have the right to to to say anything

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you want, do anything you want.

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Speaker 3: But I go, boy, well, you know we talk.

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Speaker 1: About this, Will we ever get together? Will we ever

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the conversation, Well, here was an opportunity.

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Speaker 4: He was trying to unite people, and yeah he is.

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You know, people are like, I don't know who he is.

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I don't know his news that sure. If you look

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at the Grammy, it's like, I didn't want he won

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so many Grammys. He won Album of the Year, like

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just popped up.

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Speaker 5: I think that to be his subtle shot at something

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like yeah, I think I think that was the kid

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in the.

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Speaker 4: Blue hat that got No, it wasn't. That's been disputed,

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like it was supposed to be significant of him giving

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it to himself.

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Speaker 1: I thought the same thing when I watched it, you

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know what, I interpreted that as him growing up watching

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something going that's where I want to be, and is

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his old self coming to his young self and going,

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you made it.

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Speaker 4: You made was actually Puerto rican And she was explaining

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a lot of the innuendos to me about that.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, Puerto Rico is a problem in

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the United States. It's his US territory. You know.

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Speaker 5: We did have that argument last night at the house, uh,

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between Bob's daughter and me half in the bag Puerto

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Rico's estate. No, it's not.

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Speaker 3: It's not a state.

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Speaker 4: I know, it's not.

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Speaker 5: Puerto Rico's out of state. That we only have four

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United States. You're about to graduate college.

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Speaker 1: Really, this is the thing.

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Speaker 5: It was like State America.

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Speaker 4: I said that the halftime show made me think of

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musical theater, like it seemed like a very theatrical performance.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean.

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Speaker 4: And then if you if you look back and you

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know the things of the power lines, the sugarcanes, like

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there were so much meaning to it. But most people

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aren't gonna sit there and look at that. They're just

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gonna be like, did you look at any of the

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other side the one.

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Speaker 5: I haven't seen anything on it.

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Speaker 1: I didn't because one I didn't know where I could

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find it. I don't think I have turning point, and

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maybe I do someone that I'm not I'm not familiar with.

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Speaker 5: I said anything special in that one.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 1: I saw people making fun of it, and then I

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saw people saying, I'm not watching this one. I went

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over here and I thought, good, okay, that's okay. But

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again it becomes like our identity and so almost like

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I'm insulting you because I'm gonna go now, I'm gonna

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stay here and watch Bad Money. Oh You're a fucking asshole.

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Well no way, I'm not saying you could go do

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what you want to do. That's my point with this

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is I didn't care to have our team.

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Speaker 5: I went and took a piss, got another beer and

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a slice of pizza.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, I'm with you.

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Speaker 4: And I was busy watching the whole first half because

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the game was so.

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Speaker 1: I was busy watching it because it was mostly defense

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and by the way, New England had a pretty damn

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good defense too. They did.

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Speaker 3: They were waiting. At any moment I was waiting.

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Speaker 5: I kept every time they Donald would come on the field.

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I'm like, make that mistake, come on, yeah, make that mistake.

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Speaker 1: He didn't, and he didn't know, and Drake made maybe

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maybe one. He was playing pretty protective football before that,

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but he just didn't have any time the fourth quarter though,

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wasn't it the fourth Yeah, he's I mean two back

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to back. I go, that kid, You watch him, he's

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going to be dangerous.

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Speaker 5: If they were up by so much, they stopped blizzing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, I don't know. I didn't see it, but

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I thought one of them looked like a pass that.

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I go, how did he even get it in there?

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Donald had a couple of.

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Speaker 5: Donald had the first and I think it was first

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and third throw. They jumped her out and almost took it. Yeah,

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And I'm like, and I kept texting my one buddy,

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I'm like, just enough, we got it just enough and

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it didn't.

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Speaker 1: Know just enough? That is true. That's all you're looking for,

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is enough? All right? Why don't we take a moment?

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Anyone who want to try this? Uh? Celera age bourbon whiskey,

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just a little bit.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure you do so, yes, well, I really listen

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back to episode and seventy three, where Bill talks about drinking.

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Speaker 1: I did not want. No, I don't want to really

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get I can't tonight, Ok.

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 7: No, I can't.

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Speaker 5: I got I got stuff. I got someone by stuff.

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I got bro.

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Speaker 4: That's why when I walk in, I'm I'm gonna say like,

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I was, like, I haven't seen you in a while.

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The last time I was sort of around and listen

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to a podcast was the alcohol podcast all the last one. Yeah,

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because it was like the next day is when I left. Yeah,

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because I had gone, well, I ran into you the

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one night.

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Speaker 1: At in a new place.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, and I was like, huh, I wonder if Phil.

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Speaker 1: We know that came down a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I did a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I slowed down, and then I didn't pick well, you know,

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I mean, what am I gonna do? A friend's wife dies,

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I gotta go support.

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Speaker 5: But what about the other two weeks in that timeframe.

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Speaker 1: We'll take a moment and be right back. I ever

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look at your wall and think, hmmm, that hole.

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Speaker 5: Definitely wasn't there yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe your fawcet's got a drip that's slowly driving

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you into madness. That's when you got to call my buddies.

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No job too small. So I thought I was watching Modern.

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Speaker 3: Family had that same like little.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish English is I.

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Speaker 3: Think now the most widely spoken I know this.

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Speaker 1: Any flight team, any any flight anywhere in the world,

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the cabin has to speak English. Really yeah, because my mother,

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my sister, is a linguist and she wants to be

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uh an aviation English teacher.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's so cool.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know it existed. But that's just yeah,

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so everybody has to speak English. Interesting, isn't that interesting?

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It's not the same thing. I'm such a nerd, though,

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bottle while, I know what else.

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Speaker 5: Has been happening in your world? Since it has been

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a while.

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Speaker 4: It has been a while. I feel like it's been

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a lot. I mean, the vacation was very nice. Yeah,

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work has been busy, the kids, sports, I mean, yeah,

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it's just life. I mean this weekend I had something Friday, Saturday, Sunday, like, yeah,

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there's not really that time to sit back and breathe

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as much.

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Speaker 1: No, And I and I don't know if that's good

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or bad. I know, because I think of that often myself.

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You know, you're running around, you're running around, and you've

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got stuff, and and you still have somebody else that

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is not necessarily in your life but will always be

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in your life. And I'm talking about your ex husband

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and how all that goes, you know. And it was

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funny because I was telling you off air about you know,

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I did actually a podcast talking about going to dinner,

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and I said, this isn't the life I plan, but

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it's the life I'm in, so I'm going to make

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the best of the life I'm in.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't imagine sitting down at a dinner with just

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like you wouldn't do my acts in both of our kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I loved it, but my guys are old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, er but oh twenty five twenty four girlfriends building lives,

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and so to me, it was fine, And I don't

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have any animosity, and I also have this is I

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don't know if you're going to agree with this or not.

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This is gonna get a little weird. But I was

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trying to think because the term that we hear a

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lot in relationships a lot of times or people is

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I just wanted closure. I just wanted closure. And I

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always thought, you know, closure, What did it really mean

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that everything was tied up and it came to an

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00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,640
end and we kind of just went this way, and

475
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,960
I go, for me, you want to know, a closure?

476
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,519
Sitting at that table and not having to explain myself

477
00:23:04,519 --> 00:23:05,759
to anybody, Yeah, you.

478
00:23:05,799 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 5: Know what I mean.

479
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: I just felt like at that point, I'm not here

480
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,519
to litigate the past, and I'm not going to litigate

481
00:23:11,519 --> 00:23:14,160
it with anybody else. And that's not what this is about,

482
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:18,599
because you know it hurts, it benefits no one. And

483
00:23:18,759 --> 00:23:21,599
I thought, to me, closure is just that I think

484
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,759
happened at the table, babe.

485
00:23:22,839 --> 00:23:27,519
Speaker 4: At first, I was like when we first divorced, I

486
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,240
very much was like, I want us to still do

487
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,160
family things occasionally.

488
00:23:31,839 --> 00:23:33,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, like still do.

489
00:23:33,039 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 4: Stuff the four of us. And probably a year into it,

490
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,759
he like flipped out on me randomly and was like,

491
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:41,920
we're not doing anything.

492
00:23:42,079 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so he was hurt bad, is what it

493
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:45,880
sounds like.

494
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like by that point he had already been

495
00:23:48,319 --> 00:23:55,240
with his girlfriend for maybe a year, and it was just.

496
00:23:56,079 --> 00:24:01,799
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, that's a great now.

497
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 4: No, I know when I first met her. When I

498
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:09,160
met her, I had told Ethan that I wanted, like

499
00:24:09,279 --> 00:24:11,640
to go out with Christine, just the two of us,

500
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,279
just to sort of explain because I want.

501
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:19,079
Speaker 5: To no chance you would allow me for a drink,

502
00:24:20,039 --> 00:24:22,440
don't do. I want a new relationship where she doesn't

503
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,680
know all my bullshit and give her No.

504
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: Here's what I'm thinking. I don't think that's what it

505
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,200
was to talk about. I think it was to talk

506
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:29,880
about your kids.

507
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 4: It was to talk about the kids specifically.

508
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,559
Speaker 1: I don't think so I really know, please.

509
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 6: I mean, my.

510
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 4: Little one has is I've talked about, like behavioral issues

511
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,759
and ADHD, and like you, I sort of wanted to

512
00:24:43,759 --> 00:24:48,599
talk to her like, hey, he may like it be

513
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,480
sensory and want to be touching you like or he

514
00:24:51,519 --> 00:24:54,440
may just be very very shy and like you gotta

515
00:24:54,519 --> 00:24:57,240
just why can't because.

516
00:24:59,279 --> 00:25:01,599
Speaker 1: Because he doesn't pay attention to that shit.

517
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,039
Speaker 3: Because the mom's got all that, they know it all.

518
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, at least, at least in my world,

519
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,400
you you may be a little more tuned in honestly,

520
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,400
as a husband than most people with your kids. I

521
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:12,319
don't know if you are with your.

522
00:25:13,799 --> 00:25:17,759
Speaker 4: But I just hope it's funny because when I started

523
00:25:17,799 --> 00:25:20,440
dating Joe and I'm explaining Cam to Joe, I'm like, look,

524
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,039
Cam is a little different, like he has some diagnosi.

525
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,319
He is, he's on medication and everything. Joe, it took

526
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,039
him a little bit to understand how Cam functioned.

527
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:30,319
Speaker 5: Take Joe out.

528
00:25:30,559 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 4: Huh.

529
00:25:31,039 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 5: We didn't let Ethan take Joe out.

530
00:25:32,519 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 4: I asked Ethan and I go before the kids meet Joe,

531
00:25:35,799 --> 00:25:38,200
because I wanted to meet Christine before the kids met her.

532
00:25:40,079 --> 00:25:43,759
It happened, and then she told Ethan, Why is Laura

533
00:25:43,799 --> 00:25:45,960
trying to be my friend? I'm like, I'm not trying

534
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,319
to be your friend. I'm trying to trust you around

535
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,599
my kids, especially Camden, who is very attached. This is

536
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,359
something that I've never isn't like good with his dad.

537
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 1: I've never heard this talked about. Yeah, I never have.

538
00:25:59,599 --> 00:26:02,160
And when you think about it, like they talk about

539
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:09,240
like the maternal mother child connection. Right, you were inside

540
00:26:09,279 --> 00:26:11,759
the body, it lay on the chest as soon as

541
00:26:11,799 --> 00:26:14,279
you're born, you hear the heartbeat. There's a connection. There's

542
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,440
almost an unspoken language. You know, you're like a couple

543
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,279
of whales swimming in the ocean. Maybe that was a

544
00:26:19,279 --> 00:26:22,000
bad analogy, but you know what I'm saying, Like, right,

545
00:26:22,039 --> 00:26:23,480
and you have your own language and you have your

546
00:26:23,519 --> 00:26:28,440
own way. And now to realize that what the relationship

547
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,640
you were in, right you okay? And but that means

548
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:36,799
somebody else could be stepping into a role, not your role,

549
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,000
I would hope not but trying, but in a role

550
00:26:40,079 --> 00:26:43,240
where they be around your kids. And think about that.

551
00:26:43,279 --> 00:26:45,559
I mean, you do it with babysitters, and you do

552
00:26:45,599 --> 00:26:48,160
it with strangers, and you do it with neighbors, and

553
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,000
you do it with everybody in your life, and now

554
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,720
all of a sudden, we're supposed to sort of go, well,

555
00:26:51,799 --> 00:26:54,039
I trust this judgment. Why aren't you still together?

556
00:26:54,519 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 5: Well yeah, and then think she wouldn't stop fucking negative.

557
00:26:58,920 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 6: Wow.

558
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 4: But like our kids were so different, Like Lucas was

559
00:27:03,039 --> 00:27:09,319
just that easy, typical kid. Like Cam had issues. He's

560
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,599
had issues ever since he was young. And when Ethan

561
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,319
and I split, he had a very hard time with

562
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,720
therapy days if he had been coming from me, like

563
00:27:17,759 --> 00:27:20,519
his therapist had text up would text me and be like,

564
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,680
Cam doesn't want to cooperate today, he's shutting down. He

565
00:27:23,839 --> 00:27:26,279
just says he misses you. Like him and I were

566
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:31,279
always really really connected. You know, I only works part time,

567
00:27:31,319 --> 00:27:32,880
and I was the one taking him to all his

568
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,000
therapy appointments and doing all these things with him. So

569
00:27:36,079 --> 00:27:39,759
him and I just have this connection. And I was

570
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:45,519
trying to make sure that Christine understood that around this kid,

571
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,440
Oh he is a mama's boy. He still is.

572
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,039
Speaker 3: Behind the sick.

573
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 4: We would say that to his face.

574
00:27:54,519 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: Like and he little bit, Yeah, well I want to.

575
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 4: Call him a little bit. But I'd be like, Kim,

576
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,720
You're I still called my Koala. Yeah, he's eight and

577
00:28:01,799 --> 00:28:03,880
a half and he still likes to be right next

578
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,680
to me. Yeah, I'm still he.

579
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:12,039
Speaker 1: Does leave, he does go to your his dad's house, right, Yeah,

580
00:28:12,079 --> 00:28:13,240
And he does do those things.

581
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 4: He's been in therapys, like mom dead, He's been in

582
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,200
therapy for three years, and a lot of times he

583
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,200
still talks about like his relationship with his dad to

584
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,119
his therapist, Like Kase, she'll sort of be like, this

585
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,119
is what he expressed today, you know, so, but no.

586
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,279
When I asked Ethan, I was like, I'm dating someone.

587
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,200
Do you want to meet him before the kids?

588
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:42,559
Speaker 1: I think that's like, again, I am beyond this. I

589
00:28:42,559 --> 00:28:45,960
don't know the emotional state of all that stuff because

590
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,480
it's hard, and it would be uncomfortable and you would

591
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,480
get pissed off and feel awkward and why am I

592
00:28:50,519 --> 00:28:53,680
doing this? But when you stop, if you don't keep

593
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,720
the kids in focus, it is the ramifications of that

594
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:02,200
are really hard to deal with. And not just the ramifications,

595
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,319
but also the guilt that will come with it. It

596
00:29:04,359 --> 00:29:07,119
really does. And so when I hear you say these things,

597
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,640
and I know that people's finers get tight. You know,

598
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,079
if you're a guy and you're listening to this and

599
00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:15,680
like Kevin. His reaction is not abnormal at all, right,

600
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,240
And I don't know why. I kind of felt like

601
00:29:18,319 --> 00:29:22,400
it wasn't about Ethan and it was about the kids.

602
00:29:23,519 --> 00:29:23,799
Speaker 5: Kevin.

603
00:29:23,839 --> 00:29:26,759
Speaker 1: Maybe right, there may be some spillage over, but probably not.

604
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,720
You don't want to hear about what they do.

605
00:29:29,279 --> 00:29:30,559
Speaker 5: I wouldn't be interested at all.

606
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:31,799
Speaker 1: Maybe you, but.

607
00:29:33,599 --> 00:29:34,759
Speaker 3: He really likes it when you know.

608
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:40,039
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's something I feel like has never talked about.

609
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,920
Maybe I'm wrong, I just have never seen it. But

610
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,200
I'm not seeking it out either. But it is an

611
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,680
interesting thing because it's really hard, and I've got to

612
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,279
think it's probably harder for women than it is for

613
00:29:50,359 --> 00:29:54,359
guys because we don't have that maternal instinct. You know.

614
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,880
My big thing always was with my kids, you know, bullying,

615
00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:03,279
and bullying became a big thing was and rightfully so,

616
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:07,480
I suppose. I mean, probably one of my recent things

617
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,160
that kind of hit me in the face a little

618
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,079
bit was a podcast we did with Kevin Son and

619
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,839
Kevin's buddy, and I talked about all the shit I

620
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,519
did in locker rooms, and they looked at me like

621
00:30:17,559 --> 00:30:19,799
I had four fucking heads, and they go, we just

622
00:30:19,839 --> 00:30:22,400
don't do that stuff. It doesn't even come up. It's

623
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,119
like they have a respect for each other, which you

624
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,839
should have. Yeah, So this anti bullying stuff that we

625
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,000
always talked about that kids went home and some kids

626
00:30:31,039 --> 00:30:33,960
were committing suicide, especially because you know if you got

627
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,960
bullied Back when I was growing up in the olden days,

628
00:30:37,079 --> 00:30:39,799
I went home, I shut my door and ended right

629
00:30:39,839 --> 00:30:42,599
and ended. Now it's I go home and I turn

630
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,200
on my computer and it's still there. Oh yeah, and

631
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,440
now it's even worse because they're taking pictures of me

632
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,680
and making shit or my phone or whatever. So I

633
00:30:50,759 --> 00:30:54,400
remember like one of my boys getting taped by somebody.

634
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,279
Some kid asked him, Hey, what girl do you like

635
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,440
and taped them saying it and then put it out

636
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,480
on Snapchat. And I think my reaction was like, who

637
00:31:02,519 --> 00:31:07,680
fucking cares? You know they who fucking cares? Privately to

638
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,359
my wife at the time, and she made a big

639
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,039
deal about it to me, and it felt like a

640
00:31:13,079 --> 00:31:15,400
bit of an overreaction. But then maybe I'm not tuned

641
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,119
into the kid because the kid feels like, but you

642
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,559
know what's gonna you? Being older, you know that if

643
00:31:22,559 --> 00:31:25,200
that girl finds out somebody likes them, she may not

644
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,799
outwardly say she likes you because she's young too and

645
00:31:27,839 --> 00:31:30,640
doesn't know how to handle this. But believe me, it's

646
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,319
nice to know that somebody else finds you attractive. And

647
00:31:33,759 --> 00:31:35,799
I always thought the bullying thing was like, so you

648
00:31:35,839 --> 00:31:37,839
get if we get pushed on the playground, you skin

649
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,960
your knee, learn, you learn, you'll learn to kind of

650
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,720
protect yourself, find your own people, all that stuff. But

651
00:31:43,799 --> 00:31:46,400
everybody's much nicer now than I was a kid. I

652
00:31:46,559 --> 00:31:48,200
tell you that, at least it seems that way.

653
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 5: I don't know. I just want to know how the

654
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,839
set at dinner was at the fifteen year old end

655
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,680
of the table, because that's the bully right there.

656
00:31:55,839 --> 00:32:00,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, he picks on those guys bad. He goes at them. Really, Jordan, Really,

657
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,119
this is what you're gonna do, is hey, listen? Listen

658
00:32:04,119 --> 00:32:05,400
to Jordan. I mean he knows everything.

659
00:32:05,839 --> 00:32:08,839
Speaker 4: It's like, did they used to beat up Jamison?

660
00:32:09,359 --> 00:32:09,599
Speaker 7: No?

661
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,519
Speaker 3: They didn't.

662
00:32:11,839 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 4: Maybe, and that's what we consider.

663
00:32:16,279 --> 00:32:19,799
Speaker 1: Jamison used to sit in his high chair and he

664
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,640
had a sippy cup and he would launch it and

665
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,119
he could hit them in the back of the head

666
00:32:24,119 --> 00:32:26,400
from across the room. And I swear he knew what

667
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:29,079
he was doing. And I mean you would hear all

668
00:32:29,079 --> 00:32:29,720
of a sudden.

669
00:32:29,839 --> 00:32:32,799
Speaker 5: Oh, come on, Jamison.

670
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: You know. And Jamison was always like from the jump,

671
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,440
he was a kid that I'll give you one. I

672
00:32:40,519 --> 00:32:44,319
used to I would lose sometimes lose it. Can you imagine?

673
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,720
And I would go, God damn it Jamison, and he

674
00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:50,559
would spill like something or something. I'd be God damn

675
00:32:50,559 --> 00:32:52,960
it Jamison. He once looks at me and goes, God

676
00:32:53,039 --> 00:32:55,839
damn it Jamison, God, and he starts a whole song

677
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,599
and dance with goddamn it Jamison. And he might have

678
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:01,359
been four three or four war three.

679
00:33:01,279 --> 00:33:02,039
Speaker 3: Or four years old.

680
00:33:02,279 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: I go, this kid, I'm fucked.

681
00:33:04,319 --> 00:33:05,279
Speaker 3: There's nothing it was.

682
00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:08,519
Speaker 1: It was like the ship I thought and never did.

683
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:09,559
Speaker 3: And he did it.

684
00:33:09,599 --> 00:33:10,319
Speaker 1: He just did it.

685
00:33:10,359 --> 00:33:14,039
Speaker 4: And then Lucas antagonizes camm In so much, and Joe

686
00:33:14,079 --> 00:33:17,440
constantly goes to Lucas, I can't wait until cam gets bigger.

687
00:33:17,519 --> 00:33:21,400
It just socks you what like, gives it right back.

688
00:33:21,519 --> 00:33:23,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, it all happened at some point.

689
00:33:23,519 --> 00:33:24,079
Speaker 5: All happened.

690
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,359
Speaker 1: And it's brothers. That's what that's what, that's what goes on.

691
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,599
Speaker 5: I mean, you have him, Brady's got the gene. He

692
00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:33,960
he will he will get at the other two. Yeah,

693
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,839
Brady gets at everybody.

694
00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 3: He got it.

695
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,039
Speaker 5: He was getting at Keith the other day and he's like,

696
00:33:38,359 --> 00:33:44,440
this kid's fucking bullying me. Fucking this kid's fucking bullying me.

697
00:33:44,519 --> 00:33:45,039
What the hell?

698
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,759
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny. It is kind of funny. So

699
00:33:47,799 --> 00:33:50,880
what happens in those situations you meet with him? What

700
00:33:51,039 --> 00:33:52,559
did he say to the meeting with Joe?

701
00:33:52,559 --> 00:33:56,799
Speaker 4: You're actually he's a Laura. I have no interest in

702
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,279
meeting the guy that you're talking to.

703
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: Okay, but well I think it's not like I mean.

704
00:34:03,039 --> 00:34:05,440
And then in the moment, like we get my knee

705
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,320
jerk reactly go back five years. If that happened, my

706
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,760
knee jerk reactionally, fuck that. I want absolutely nothing to

707
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,880
do with it. Now. If it was, I'd be like, yeah,

708
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,440
I'd like to know who's gonna be around my kids.

709
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:16,199
Speaker 5: I appreciate you.

710
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: I appreciate you giving me that opportunity, but we don't.

711
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,079
Most guys don't think that way. They just don't.

712
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 4: I'll tell you the best.

713
00:34:23,679 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 5: If they became fucking buddies.

714
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: Well.

715
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 4: They text now more, and I text Christine more. But

716
00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:35,679
like when the first time that Ethan did meet Joe,

717
00:34:36,639 --> 00:34:39,559
Ethan and Christine had bought their house and Lucas wanted

718
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,440
to have us over so he could show me and

719
00:34:42,559 --> 00:34:46,440
Joe his new house. Okay, Ethan had never met Joe.

720
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,840
Joe showed up like the door. He sees Joe's size,

721
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:54,119
He's like, hey, do you mind helping me hang a TV?

722
00:34:56,039 --> 00:34:59,000
Never met him, like, and they hung a TV and

723
00:34:59,079 --> 00:35:00,039
Christine and I were.

724
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: Like, is Ethan not the same size as.

725
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 4: Is definitely smaller? Like, I mean, Joe's a big guy

726
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:07,599
all around.

727
00:35:08,159 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 1: Stop that I knew. I knew if I asked this

728
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:16,559
question all around. Sometimes I'm sorry, this is the bad

729
00:35:16,599 --> 00:35:19,320
part of me. I can see, like three, I know

730
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,400
what's going to happen if I say this. This is

731
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,119
how this domino is most likely going to fall.

732
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 5: Not always true, but on the other side of it, too,

733
00:35:26,599 --> 00:35:33,719
is he'll insinuate something and then look at me, you know,

734
00:35:34,599 --> 00:35:35,920
because we share a brig.

735
00:35:36,519 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 4: When we went ziplining in Mexico, the people looked at Joe.

736
00:35:41,079 --> 00:35:46,519
They're like, really, like he was too tall. So the

737
00:35:46,599 --> 00:35:48,760
last two of the ziplines he had to like get

738
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:49,679
off and couldn't do that.

739
00:35:50,119 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, it was so.

740
00:35:51,599 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 3: Why like he would hit the tops of the trees.

741
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 4: He was hitting the top it was yeah.

742
00:35:55,559 --> 00:35:56,599
Speaker 1: Well you get hurt doing that?

743
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, sown.

744
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 4: But yeah, now I mean now we get along. You know. Yeah,

745
00:36:04,519 --> 00:36:07,480
I'm not going to say that I'm friends with Ethan

746
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,719
or you're not looking.

747
00:36:08,519 --> 00:36:11,119
Speaker 1: To be friends with them. You're looking to protect the

748
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,639
joint interest of your kids.

749
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:17,119
Speaker 4: But like that's the difference, you know, again between sports

750
00:36:17,159 --> 00:36:20,239
therapy sessions things. There's sometimes things that I need to

751
00:36:20,519 --> 00:36:23,840
explain to all the other, to both Ethan and Christina

752
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,440
and Joe, and we have a group chat that will

753
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:27,880
text in sometimes.

754
00:36:27,559 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 5: I'm smarter than all three of them.

755
00:36:29,039 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 3: No, I don't.

756
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 1: And that's probably honestly, as Kevin says that I wouldn't

757
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,400
be surprised if that thought runs through somebody on that

758
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,880
group's text head. But I would think that it has

759
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,519
to do with the fact that you're the one who's

760
00:36:44,559 --> 00:36:47,159
most connected to these two human beings. Yeah, you are

761
00:36:47,159 --> 00:36:49,719
more connected no matter what, at least at this point

762
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:50,840
in their lives, they're young.

763
00:36:51,519 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 4: Well, it's also you know, sometimes again Camden has a

764
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,239
lot of like doctor's appointments. It's like, Okay, I have

765
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,599
this doctor's pointing covered. Who can take him to the

766
00:37:01,599 --> 00:37:04,920
next one. Or he's supposed to get medication like every

767
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,440
other day, but once in a while if it skips, like, hey,

768
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,599
I gave him his meds on Tuesday, make sure he

769
00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:11,360
gets them on Wednesday or Thursday.

770
00:37:11,039 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 1: Night, right, But nobody else is thinking that way. No,

771
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,920
I don't think I got to be honest, I knew

772
00:37:19,519 --> 00:37:22,280
very little of what was happening in terms of that

773
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,519
realm my fault.

774
00:37:24,639 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 5: I still know very little.

775
00:37:27,159 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm on top of my ship now, mister,

776
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,400
I'm on top of my shit. I've been making all

777
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,079
kinds of food and steak and lasagnas, And.

778
00:37:36,039 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 5: Where's your kid at three o'clock in the morning. I don't.

779
00:37:39,679 --> 00:37:40,599
Speaker 3: I didn't know he left.

780
00:37:40,639 --> 00:37:42,159
Speaker 1: I was in bed. What do you want me to do?

781
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,320
I was asleep? What was I gonna do? I heard

782
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:50,880
a story. It's scary, but it's nothing. The thing that

783
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,840
I've always said about like the kids is they're not

784
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:59,119
doing anything that is so off the reservation, so to speak. Yeah,

785
00:37:59,199 --> 00:38:01,199
you know what I mean, they're not so outside the

786
00:38:02,199 --> 00:38:05,440
vent circle of normal that you go this kid's really No,

787
00:38:05,519 --> 00:38:07,960
they're not. They're right maybe on the edge or whatever.

788
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,480
They're the guys that push the boundaries who sometimes are

789
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,599
turn out to be the most wonderful people.

790
00:38:13,679 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 4: And like, both of our houses have different rules. Yeah,

791
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,880
you know Ethan's house, he doesn't allow the kids to

792
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,360
watch Stranger Things. I don't think it's that bad of

793
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,280
a show. So at my house, I don't care. Lucas

794
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,599
watch Stranger Things if you want to. Over the weekend,

795
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:34,840
Lucas decides to tell us my at a family member announced.

796
00:38:34,679 --> 00:38:41,559
Speaker 5: Those watch hardcore porn? Similar whoa how hen?

797
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 4: So I had a family member announce a pregnancy and like,

798
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:52,119
joking around, an elderly member was like, hey, how'd that happen?

799
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,039
And as a joke, she goes, oh, you know the

800
00:38:54,079 --> 00:38:56,280
birds and the bees, and Lucas looks ad. Joe and

801
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,239
I he goes, I know what that means? Okay, were like,

802
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,400
what do you mean? And he's like, I know what sucks.

803
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:06,159
Speaker 3: Is Yeah, but.

804
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:08,199
Speaker 4: He's ten.

805
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: No, it's not that outrageous, so hold.

806
00:39:11,079 --> 00:39:15,079
Speaker 4: On, So I go, what is it when a boy

807
00:39:15,119 --> 00:39:16,599
sticks his dick in a girls spot?

808
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:17,760
Speaker 7: Well?

809
00:39:18,599 --> 00:39:19,639
Speaker 1: Keep going, Mormons.

810
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 4: So so I was like, okay, we're gonna table this conversation.

811
00:39:26,519 --> 00:39:28,920
We're going to table this conversation. But when you're when

812
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,719
we're ready to have this conversation, not at a family gathering,

813
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,199
like you were talking to mommy and Joe. You're not

814
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,159
talking to your dad and Christine about it. You're talking

815
00:39:36,159 --> 00:39:38,599
to Mommy and Joe. So we ended up finding out

816
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,360
he has Christine has two older boys.

817
00:39:41,599 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: Oh well, this is all the two older boys you

818
00:39:44,519 --> 00:39:47,960
name two inches lower than or higher. No, but the

819
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,360
thing is, like, this is what kids did right on

820
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,079
the bus and everything. When I was fifth grade, how

821
00:39:54,119 --> 00:39:55,159
old are your fifth grade? Ten?

822
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,639
Speaker 4: He's in fifth tent almost a lot of ten.

823
00:39:58,519 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 3: We had a group.

824
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: There was a back room in the library and we

825
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,079
would go in there and they kept no they didn't,

826
00:40:06,079 --> 00:40:10,119
but they kept the Encyclopedia Britannica, and we looked up

827
00:40:10,199 --> 00:40:12,039
sex and we looked up all this stuff. And we

828
00:40:12,039 --> 00:40:14,639
would sit there and people would take turns reading out

829
00:40:14,679 --> 00:40:17,159
loud to like four or five of us. I think

830
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,840
I had an internal boner my entire fifth grade year

831
00:40:20,039 --> 00:40:22,800
just thinking about that. And I like this girl in

832
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,119
her name. She had maybe one of the worst names ever,

833
00:40:25,159 --> 00:40:28,559
Becky Ball, And I thought Becky Ball was like the thing,

834
00:40:29,159 --> 00:40:33,679
and I don't know, it's it's not again not out

835
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,239
of the realm and you're going to get wrong information

836
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,480
when you listen to the older kids that are going

837
00:40:38,559 --> 00:40:41,320
to tell you they actually believe it. But he has

838
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,320
to say that what would his dad say.

839
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:48,119
Speaker 4: He's just too awkward to like talk about it, like

840
00:40:48,199 --> 00:40:51,159
I think he would make Lucas feel really really awkward

841
00:40:51,159 --> 00:40:52,679
and not answer questions.

842
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 5: He's going to need to figure it out soon, though,

843
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,960
because she's getting to that age where you start figuring

844
00:40:57,039 --> 00:40:57,480
things out.

845
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,559
Speaker 4: Well, and that's the h we do. That's a lot yesterday.

846
00:41:01,599 --> 00:41:07,280
Speaker 5: Then you know, I've seen this. If I touch it,

847
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,440
it feels even better.

848
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 4: In the kitchen and we're like, oh, we're gonna go

849
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,159
upstairs and get ready, and Lucas is like, I know

850
00:41:13,199 --> 00:41:19,280
what you mean, and we're like, mom's a ship. This

851
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,159
is really gonna like because a lot of time one

852
00:41:21,199 --> 00:41:24,199
of us I'm gonna go take a shower and the

853
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,320
other one's going to just go get ready and brush

854
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,199
their teeth. But now he's like calling us out, like

855
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,440
this is gonna change shit.

856
00:41:31,599 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: Well for a while, it may. You might have to

857
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,079
get a hotel room. Yeah, right, why what's wrong with that, Lily?

858
00:41:38,119 --> 00:41:39,599
You know, knocking the door.

859
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 5: We'll just give you the code to hair you can

860
00:41:43,519 --> 00:41:44,320
use the table like.

861
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 4: Oh, I mean there is a window you do like that.

862
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,639
Speaker 1: It is weird because if you don't say anything, this

863
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,719
is the other because I remember one of the boys,

864
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:59,400
uh mom finding out they were watching porn and then

865
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,280
it was like and she was more concerned, not that

866
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,639
he was watching porn, but that there was it was

867
00:42:06,039 --> 00:42:10,360
like really kind of heavy. I don't know, maybe I

868
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,400
don't think it was abusive, but it was a it

869
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:16,320
was hair pulling, and she's like, you know, and I

870
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,519
remember thinking, how do I explain to him that this

871
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,360
isn't what it is going to be? Like, yeah, you

872
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,039
know what I mean? And I and I remember because

873
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,679
I was kind of fucked up in that department. As

874
00:42:29,679 --> 00:42:32,960
a kid, parents never talked to me about sex. They

875
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,360
were educators, They never talked to me about sex. They didn't.

876
00:42:37,519 --> 00:42:41,400
Everything was like kind of awkward. Taboo was weird. And

877
00:42:41,599 --> 00:42:44,280
did your brother did your brother get sex talker? No,

878
00:42:45,119 --> 00:42:48,360
my brother was smart enough to go, oh, you mean

879
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,599
when the sperm and he would say it like that

880
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:55,360
it's the egg because that way we had there was

881
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,599
a I think there was a health teacher who did

882
00:42:57,599 --> 00:43:00,360
it and he would come home and explain everything to

883
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,239
my parents, and he would mimic the health teacher as

884
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,840
a sperm. I think they had a lisp or something.

885
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,000
And yeah, so that like alleviated my parents. But they

886
00:43:09,039 --> 00:43:11,920
never really talked to me. And I was older significantly.

887
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,920
I was five years older, my sister eight years older

888
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,760
than my brother. So you were almost at times. You

889
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,000
were never in the same school at the same time,

890
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,119
and some people didn't.

891
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 3: Even know where were related. And uh.

892
00:43:24,079 --> 00:43:29,039
Speaker 1: Probably probably smartly so because I think one time, almost

893
00:43:29,079 --> 00:43:31,119
as a negative, my father said, yeah, we ran into

894
00:43:31,159 --> 00:43:34,000
so so they couldn't believe that you were related to

895
00:43:34,079 --> 00:43:36,119
these two, like I was some kind of fuck up,

896
00:43:36,119 --> 00:43:38,159
and the rest of them were all these wonderful, fucking

897
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:38,880
walk on water.

898
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,039
Speaker 3: But I go, okay, I got it.

899
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,639
Speaker 1: I got yah, I got ya, I got ya. But

900
00:43:43,639 --> 00:43:47,239
the sex thing, they made it awkward. And I had

901
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,159
been molested and you wouldn't tell them anything, and so

902
00:43:50,519 --> 00:43:53,519
I remember, like, here's the thing, and I have to

903
00:43:53,519 --> 00:43:57,719
write this roots paper and I'm I'm just spilling my

904
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,199
guts and then I'm going to try to pare it

905
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,639
down and I have to do it by tomorrow. So

906
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,039
good luck, I know. But and then I have to

907
00:44:04,039 --> 00:44:07,000
stand up and give a seven minute presentation. But the

908
00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:10,400
thing that was coming out to me is that I

909
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:14,519
can see where this has kind of really fucked me

910
00:44:14,599 --> 00:44:18,480
up in a lot of ways. Because one of the

911
00:44:18,519 --> 00:44:21,960
worst things you could be in the nineteen eighties, and

912
00:44:22,039 --> 00:44:25,039
remember that's when aids came about, That's when all that

913
00:44:25,079 --> 00:44:28,159
stuff started to come. That was when your grandmother would say, oh,

914
00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:31,320
the US filthy people. And then you would get like,

915
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,960
you know, this is God saying that your life is sinful. Really,

916
00:44:35,079 --> 00:44:37,480
this is what people were saying. And there were people

917
00:44:37,559 --> 00:44:40,280
that were kind of influential on my life, and so

918
00:44:40,559 --> 00:44:43,480
I knew that at the age of seven, but it

919
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,199
didn't matter like I can look now and go, you

920
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,000
were seven. You were seven, But at the time, it

921
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,360
doesn't registers that. It means like, oh shit, I did

922
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,679
a gay act and I can't let anybody know because

923
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,440
this is horrible. And what if I do have ages

924
00:44:57,599 --> 00:44:59,559
and I won't make out with a girl because she'll

925
00:44:59,599 --> 00:45:02,320
have to totally know that I don't know what I'm

926
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,760
doing and I must be gay. And so being gay

927
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,920
was the worst fucking thing you could do. There was

928
00:45:08,039 --> 00:45:09,599
Do you think there was a parent, I could talk

929
00:45:09,599 --> 00:45:13,239
to you about that. There wasn't anybody. So when my

930
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,559
kid was almost named the kid who was looking at

931
00:45:16,559 --> 00:45:20,599
the porn, I remember walking into his room and just saying, I, hey, look,

932
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,039
I get it because I went in. I used to

933
00:45:23,039 --> 00:45:26,639
look for the filthiest shit I could fucking find. Once

934
00:45:26,679 --> 00:45:29,119
I realized, and I and I don't know if I

935
00:45:29,199 --> 00:45:31,760
was trying to convince myself I wasn't gay because I

936
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,280
had done a gay thing and I didn't want to

937
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,119
be gay and I really liked girls. So this was

938
00:45:35,159 --> 00:45:37,159
all fucked up in my head. But that was part

939
00:45:37,199 --> 00:45:38,639
of the reason I had to go live with my uncle.

940
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:42,639
My father found again, like this glossy magazine of the worst,

941
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,599
filthiest fucking porn. I could still picture this guy had

942
00:45:46,639 --> 00:45:50,119
a fucking rail and she's like, oh, and he's holding

943
00:45:50,519 --> 00:45:52,440
you know what I mean, like it's a lightsaber in

944
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,159
his fucking hand, and I but like, that was the shit,

945
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,719
and I go, that's fucked up, because I guarantee you

946
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,159
I'd never ever in my life talked about it with

947
00:46:00,159 --> 00:46:02,599
any of my buddies or anything, and I know that

948
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,679
none of them probably looked at it. And we could

949
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,599
even ask Kevin. I mean, Kevin had a bunch of

950
00:46:06,599 --> 00:46:10,119
friends who was on the hockey team, who's popular Guysstely

951
00:46:10,199 --> 00:46:13,559
is No. What I'm saying is I don't think they

952
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,880
that any of his buddies ever looked at that kind

953
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,039
of porn. I don't think any he even talked about it.

954
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,199
We didn't there you go. It was like we just

955
00:46:22,199 --> 00:46:26,039
looked at it the taboo right individually, right or to

956
00:46:26,119 --> 00:46:28,320
get or you're not playing Fritter. No, I didn't know

957
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,320
if someone slid to your magsa you go see what

958
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,239
my dad's got here. But it is a weird conversation,

959
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,079
and I applaud.

960
00:46:35,599 --> 00:46:39,760
Speaker 4: You for trying to I mean, yeah, I also feel

961
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,960
like I need to his group of mom loves it

962
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:47,000
in the run his group of friends. I'm really close

963
00:46:47,039 --> 00:46:48,679
with their moms, so I sort of want to talk

964
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,880
to them, like have your approach to you, you know,

965
00:46:53,199 --> 00:46:55,719
But yeah, I talked to all of them this year.

966
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,119
When Lucas told me that Santa Claus wasn't real, I

967
00:46:58,119 --> 00:47:01,840
was like, guys, just so you know, like Lucas knows

968
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:03,480
Santa Claus isn't real, and then.

969
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 5: You don't want to ruin for an A lot of them.

970
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 4: Are like, lats know this is being talked about like

971
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:13,880
my kid still my kid knows or my kid still believes.

972
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,800
And so then I had to be like, Lucas, do

973
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:17,719
not take away the magic for other people.

974
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,599
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm thinking in the right direction

975
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,760
or not. Well, let's take a quick break. But you're

976
00:47:23,079 --> 00:47:26,920
very real and very honest, right, and and everything you're

977
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,119
saying here is there's nothing offensive about it, because there

978
00:47:30,119 --> 00:47:32,960
are times where an adult goes, I'm just being honest

979
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,639
and I and I feel like I don't know, you know,

980
00:47:37,599 --> 00:47:39,599
I'm telling the truth or what.

981
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 4: I always tell.

982
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 3: No, I know you do, but you know how, here's the.

983
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: Thing that I'm trying to think of, and I'm drinking

984
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,480
some whiskey that came in and the last thing, so

985
00:47:47,519 --> 00:47:49,960
I apologize, and I haven't eaten much today, so it'll

986
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:54,039
go pretty good. I'm just being honest. When adults say

987
00:47:54,079 --> 00:47:56,119
I'm just being honest to me, it's like the same

988
00:47:56,119 --> 00:47:57,920
thing as going no offense, but I'm.

989
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 4: Gonna judge you.

990
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:03,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like everything you're saying is honest

991
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,800
and helpful, not honest and hurtful.

992
00:48:06,519 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 6: Yeah.

993
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Speaker 5: Gold, salt, all of the earth holds a whiskey, knows

1022
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your weddy, talking old school everyword.

1023
00:49:42,559 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: She's an angel like a Elly was a town in Tennessee.

1024
00:49:47,159 --> 00:49:48,119
Speaker 7: Is she being mine?

1025
00:49:48,159 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 1: Except you so little thing? My drug? My music makes

1026
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:56,800
you crazy?

1027
00:49:57,519 --> 00:50:03,599
Speaker 5: She come No, they're just playing hard to get.

1028
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,159
Speaker 1: Come on, Lord, did the same thing to somebody somewhere

1029
00:50:07,199 --> 00:50:12,400
along the line. I know I felt bad for you yesterday, Kevin,

1030
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,480
because I thought it was pretty impressive that, as much

1031
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,199
as I don't really want to admit this, the Patriots

1032
00:50:19,199 --> 00:50:21,400
made it to the Super Bowl. Under Vrabel's first.

1033
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:25,039
Speaker 5: Year public service announcement, Gentlemen, you have just over a year.

1034
00:50:25,639 --> 00:50:27,639
Super Bowl Sunday is Valentine's Day? Next year?

1035
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: No? It is?

1036
00:50:28,599 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1037
00:50:29,079 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: Wait, why is it that late?

1038
00:50:31,679 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 5: They're pushing. They want to go as long as they can.

1039
00:50:34,559 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: Of course they do. I mean I get that, but

1040
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,119
that feels really late. That's three weeks after the it's

1041
00:50:41,119 --> 00:50:43,320
still only two after What have they had.

1042
00:50:43,199 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 5: A pushing a week later? They don't start Labor Day weekend?

1043
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: No, they go on, oh, well, it makes a little

1044
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,880
more sense because Labor Day weekend is a tough weekend

1045
00:50:53,039 --> 00:50:53,920
for everybody to go.

1046
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, gentlemen, start planning now. Valentine's Day, super Bowl Sunday.

1047
00:50:58,039 --> 00:51:00,679
Speaker 4: Super Bowl Sunday is wait, no way.

1048
00:51:00,559 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 5: Nothing Nothing says love like pigs in a blanket baby.

1049
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,599
I mean, that's not three fat Bronz.

1050
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:06,599
Speaker 6: And you.

1051
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,639
Speaker 1: How do you know everybody's fantasy? I don't know. Some

1052
00:51:11,679 --> 00:51:17,280
people get asked and invited places. Our friend, Uh, he'll

1053
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:24,039
be perfect, Greg, No, Greg was I wrote. I just

1054
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,480
randomly texted Greg and I just go, hey, man, you

1055
00:51:26,599 --> 00:51:29,480
cross my mind. Hope you're doing well, Hope the weather's

1056
00:51:29,519 --> 00:51:31,719
better where you are. Blah bah blah. I got a

1057
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,480
bunch of pictures of him and his girlfriend in Napa

1058
00:51:34,559 --> 00:51:36,719
and then they were heading up to U super Bowl

1059
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:40,840
party after that, and I go, now, that guy, but see,

1060
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,440
not everybody has what that guy's got that guy could

1061
00:51:43,519 --> 00:51:45,960
handle Valentine's Day and the super Bowl and pulled off

1062
00:51:46,079 --> 00:51:47,760
and fucking pull it off.

1063
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 5: I'm keep him off.

1064
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,639
Speaker 4: Shut photos.

1065
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: Uh, she had posted, Okay, I guess we're friends. I don't.

1066
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,159
I haven't. I think we are. I don't mean like

1067
00:51:59,159 --> 00:52:03,280
that social media and I don't. I don't know if

1068
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:08,719
I saw it or not saw I did. I'm glad

1069
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:09,719
I like that.

1070
00:52:10,559 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 3: I do too.

1071
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 5: I do too.

1072
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,039
Speaker 1: I have no problem with her. I'm just saying, like

1073
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,800
I get it. You know, for some people, Valentine's Day

1074
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:17,920
is a big deal. It wasn't to me.

1075
00:52:18,039 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 4: I hate it. Why I've always hated it.

1076
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: I'll come because I what ruined you.

1077
00:52:25,079 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 4: My mom got her official divorce papers from my dad

1078
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:30,679
Valentine's Day.

1079
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:31,039
Speaker 7: Go.

1080
00:52:32,039 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 4: I don't think I even knew that until later on.

1081
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 5: But I just hurt you.

1082
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 4: No, I don't like that, Like you have to be

1083
00:52:42,039 --> 00:52:43,719
reminded to express.

1084
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 1: Love, like I agree, and then like.

1085
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 4: The price of everything goes up and it's just like

1086
00:52:49,119 --> 00:52:49,599
all that.

1087
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: Here's something jazz.

1088
00:52:53,159 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 5: These bras will sit there and tell you, I fucking

1089
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,079
hate Valentine's Day. I fucking hate it.

1090
00:52:59,119 --> 00:53:01,119
Speaker 1: Comes through it not that what the fuck.

1091
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,599
Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't get anything.

1092
00:53:03,679 --> 00:53:07,079
Speaker 1: I do not get high hard over.

1093
00:53:08,039 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 3: It's coming in fast just once a year.

1094
00:53:11,079 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 6: Guy.

1095
00:53:13,079 --> 00:53:15,519
Speaker 1: No, But I'm one with you. I I can understand that.

1096
00:53:15,559 --> 00:53:18,840
I always thought the dumbest thing ever to me, and

1097
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,320
it was I don't know why. It was the guys

1098
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,599
who tried to go well a month later it's uh

1099
00:53:25,679 --> 00:53:29,360
staking a beak. Yeah, And I always, for whatever reason,

1100
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,480
I fucking hated that more than I hated Valentine's I mean,

1101
00:53:32,639 --> 00:53:36,639
and the only reason I hated is like, I like

1102
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,800
both those things a lot, but I'm just like, I

1103
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:44,360
don't know. It just felt dumb. It just felt crass based, stupid,

1104
00:53:44,559 --> 00:53:46,719
neanderthalish to me. It just did.

1105
00:53:47,079 --> 00:53:49,519
Speaker 5: But you're thinking this, huh, you're going to celebrate the

1106
00:53:49,519 --> 00:53:50,039
share that aren't.

1107
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,679
Speaker 1: Privately, I have a budget.

1108
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:59,679
Speaker 5: We're going to play the big boy neumber one answer. Maybe.

1109
00:54:00,039 --> 00:54:00,119
Speaker 6: So.

1110
00:54:00,639 --> 00:54:05,119
Speaker 1: The weird thing is with Valentine's Day, though my mom

1111
00:54:05,559 --> 00:54:08,639
made it like a big deal, you know. So I

1112
00:54:08,639 --> 00:54:11,320
remember like one year my dad had This is how

1113
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:15,320
weird my parents were. My dad had made xerox copies

1114
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:19,480
of work of Hearts and he stuck them inside every cabinet.

1115
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,800
They must have stayed there until July. You know what

1116
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:24,119
I mean.

1117
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,159
Speaker 3: They never like not that shit up.

1118
00:54:27,639 --> 00:54:29,760
Speaker 1: So I was just fucking But she makes a big

1119
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,159
deal out of Valentine's Day. And that's why part of

1120
00:54:32,159 --> 00:54:34,719
the reason I'm still going to see her this weekend. Yeah,

1121
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:38,159
because she said to me, well, you know, it's Valentine's Day.

1122
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,760
I thought I was going to take my son to Maine,

1123
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,199
and I realized the fisher schedule didn't line up with

1124
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,840
his and for him to you know, ski and snowboard,

1125
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:51,199
and I said, you're halfway, so I'll stop at you

1126
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,239
and then we'll go up. And then I said to her, listen,

1127
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,079
I can't I got them in where I'm going to

1128
00:54:57,159 --> 00:54:59,599
do something here. Are you still going to come that weekend?

1129
00:55:00,079 --> 00:55:03,639
And I said, oh, yeah, I think we will.

1130
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,519
Speaker 3: We'll come down, and she goes, well, I need some help.

1131
00:55:05,559 --> 00:55:08,599
Speaker 1: I'sup and it's Valentine's Day weekend and I just don't

1132
00:55:08,639 --> 00:55:11,679
want to be alone. And I'm like, I never got

1133
00:55:11,679 --> 00:55:14,440
my mom anything in which she would get very, very offended.

1134
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,239
And I probably was a teenager, and I go, it's

1135
00:55:17,599 --> 00:55:21,119
fucking creepy for me to get my mother anything for

1136
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:25,159
Valentine's Day. But I come from like such a misogynistic

1137
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,320
thinking family, and I'll say that in that there were

1138
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,239
gender roles and this is what you did and this

1139
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,480
is what she did. I don't know that it's like

1140
00:55:32,519 --> 00:55:35,119
that these days, and there are members of my family

1141
00:55:35,119 --> 00:55:38,320
go he realized it's pretty misogynistic. I didn't at the time.

1142
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,960
But my grandmother would send Valentine's Day gifts to all

1143
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,320
the boys in the family, and my grandfather would send

1144
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,559
them to all the girls, very specific. And I still

1145
00:55:47,559 --> 00:55:49,239
find it creepy because I always thought I was like

1146
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,840
Valentine's The's my cupid fallen in love fucking each other.

1147
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:52,679
Speaker 5: I go, I don't want to.

1148
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: And my mom ugh. Well, now that I'm old and

1149
00:55:56,519 --> 00:55:59,400
my mom's even older, I'm like I said to her.

1150
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,360
She goes, you know, if it's too much, I understand,

1151
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:02,360
I go, I'm coming down.

1152
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,280
Speaker 5: You photo copy hearts and put them in their cabinet.

1153
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna photocopy hearts a bunch of heart and

1154
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,039
then put it in there like that.

1155
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 3: But you know what my brother did.

1156
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: One year, my brother and his buddies were he went

1157
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,280
to a wedding because he studied over in Europe and

1158
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,039
became great friends with some guys, and one guy was

1159
00:56:20,079 --> 00:56:24,159
getting married in Italy, so they went over and they

1160
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:28,159
went to a vineyard winery and they were doing wine

1161
00:56:28,199 --> 00:56:32,800
tastings and stuff, and then they decided no Asians, no pairs.

1162
00:56:33,119 --> 00:56:36,159
They decided that this would be a great place to

1163
00:56:36,519 --> 00:56:41,119
strip down and pose. So all the guys are like

1164
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:45,199
half they're naked. They're completely naked, not showing they have

1165
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,639
like a grape leaf over or this, or they're doing

1166
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,039
things like this with their.

1167
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:50,599
Speaker 3: Finger on their butt.

1168
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,679
Speaker 1: They made a fucking calendar out of it, and my

1169
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,679
brother gave it to my grandmother, who fucking loved it.

1170
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:03,960
Oh my god, it's her grandson and his buddies all naked.

1171
00:57:04,039 --> 00:57:09,079
That is twelve twelve different poses. It's some watery in Italy,

1172
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:09,679
that is.

1173
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 4: That's I do think that's funny.

1174
00:57:13,119 --> 00:57:15,039
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I mean that was great. But that's what

1175
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:18,159
that's my brother, that's you know, the creative marine.

1176
00:57:18,239 --> 00:57:21,639
Speaker 4: My step brother, well not my stepbrother, my brother in law.

1177
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:25,480
One time was at my dad's house and found my

1178
00:57:25,599 --> 00:57:30,480
dad's third wife's lingerie who put it on and posed

1179
00:57:30,599 --> 00:57:34,480
all around in her lingerie. And then they printed them

1180
00:57:34,519 --> 00:57:37,360
out and framed them and gifted them to my dad

1181
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:42,000
and his wife. Oh at Christmas. Oh god, they're still

1182
00:57:42,119 --> 00:57:44,559
framed photos with my brother in law, like fifteen years ago,

1183
00:57:44,679 --> 00:57:45,639
wearing's launcher.

1184
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: Hang on a second, because this is this is this

1185
00:57:48,079 --> 00:57:51,239
is strange. What was their reaction to him? Because I'm not.

1186
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,559
Speaker 4: Sure they thought it was hilarious.

1187
00:57:53,599 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 1: Well, I would have, like, you want to know something.

1188
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:59,679
I would have held back my reaction until I saw hers. Yeah,

1189
00:58:00,079 --> 00:58:04,400
to like will Smith this like I left prematurely. Here

1190
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:06,480
I come to slap you across the face because if

1191
00:58:06,519 --> 00:58:09,239
she didn't find it funny, then I can't be fucking

1192
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,119
well do I I could have probably gone lighten up,

1193
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:14,360
lighten up.

1194
00:58:14,519 --> 00:58:16,039
Speaker 4: No, he like sprawled on the back.

1195
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 3: God, that is so funny.

1196
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,239
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Must she must have never put

1197
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,159
that launderie back on because it had to be stretched

1198
00:58:24,159 --> 00:58:27,320
out to be stretched out as.

1199
00:58:27,239 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 5: You get older, they put weight on, helped her, helped

1200
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:30,199
her out.

1201
00:58:34,639 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 4: But no, I think things like that are so funny.

1202
00:58:37,079 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 3: It was really funny.

1203
00:58:38,039 --> 00:58:41,559
Speaker 1: But my mom made Valentine's Day creepy for me. And

1204
00:58:41,599 --> 00:58:42,960
do you remember, like I don't know if they had

1205
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,239
this in your high school, but you could get flowers

1206
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,000
and stuff hours and so I think they stopped that

1207
00:58:49,239 --> 00:58:52,719
when I got into ninth grade because they knew.

1208
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 4: We definitely could do eight grade.

1209
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 5: We know he's gonna do something stupid.

1210
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,239
Speaker 1: So seventh and eighth grade, right, And I remember getting

1211
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,280
you got it was different levels. You had white, pink

1212
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:09,960
and red carnations, okay, And I think they stuck it

1213
00:59:10,039 --> 00:59:11,719
in your locker. I don't know how they did that

1214
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:13,760
because it was locked, so you got one.

1215
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 3: Maybe it was delivered, you.

1216
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,559
Speaker 4: Would they would come to like a classroom.

1217
00:59:17,199 --> 00:59:21,039
Speaker 1: Okay, it would. I think they taped it to the locker.

1218
00:59:21,119 --> 00:59:22,519
I think you're right. I think they taped it to

1219
00:59:22,599 --> 00:59:24,880
the locker. So then I get there and it was

1220
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,039
sort of anonymous, and I knew the girl that I

1221
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,159
was like, I had a pretty good batting average of

1222
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:34,119
who did this, and I didn't want anything really to

1223
00:59:34,199 --> 00:59:37,599
do with this girl. So I took it and I

1224
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:41,000
kind of threw it in my locker. I just left

1225
00:59:41,039 --> 00:59:43,599
it there, and this is where my dad had some

1226
00:59:43,679 --> 00:59:47,480
good stuff. I came home and I get the oh,

1227
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:50,159
I get any carnations?

1228
00:59:50,719 --> 00:59:51,719
Speaker 5: Anythink it's cool.

1229
00:59:53,199 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 1: You know one one or something, And my Dad's like,

1230
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,199
what did you do with it? I got through in

1231
00:59:57,239 --> 01:00:01,159
my locker and he chewed my ass out. Do you

1232
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,480
know how hard it is for that young lady to

1233
01:00:04,639 --> 01:00:07,360
step out on a limb like this and you do that.

1234
01:00:08,599 --> 01:00:10,920
That was a really bad move on your part. You

1235
01:00:11,119 --> 01:00:14,159
cannot do that. That is, she was putting herself out there,

1236
01:00:14,239 --> 01:00:17,480
whether you like her or not. You absolutely you should

1237
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:18,679
have carried that around all day.

1238
01:00:18,719 --> 01:00:20,559
Speaker 3: Blah blah. I'm going fucking carry.

1239
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 5: Around all day the assholes I hang out with. It's

1240
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,440
the same way you put the picture of the cow

1241
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:26,039
out of the Printon.

1242
01:00:26,119 --> 01:00:28,119
Speaker 1: No, it was not, it was not. It was not.

1243
01:00:28,519 --> 01:00:30,639
I had an experience with that young lady many many

1244
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:35,199
years later, but there was a It was just like

1245
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,119
one of those things. And I even remember, like I

1246
01:00:37,239 --> 01:00:39,599
got asked to go when I was in tentary to

1247
01:00:39,679 --> 01:00:41,719
the junior prom and I get a.

1248
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,079
Speaker 3: Call, hey, would you go to the problem with a

1249
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:45,199
B or C?

1250
01:00:45,599 --> 01:00:48,039
Speaker 1: And you always know the least desirable is the one

1251
01:00:48,159 --> 01:00:51,239
that's gonna go, right, So I go, yeah, fine, So

1252
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,519
I don't I'm trying. I'm like, I don't want to write.

1253
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:59,840
I'm like Instantly my whole body goes And somehow the

1254
01:01:00,119 --> 01:01:02,880
parents knew that this was coming, and my old man

1255
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:06,079
fucking chewing. Not yeah, he chewed my ass out. He's like,

1256
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,840
if she calls and asks you, you say, yes, you

1257
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,480
are a gentleman. You treat her like she's the only

1258
01:01:12,559 --> 01:01:15,239
woman in the room. You walk in with her. You

1259
01:01:15,679 --> 01:01:18,440
you either hold her hand or a link. You make

1260
01:01:18,519 --> 01:01:22,119
her feel extremely special. I'm going, I'm fucking in tenth.

1261
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 5: Grade and you accept that.

1262
01:01:23,519 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 3: Fucking what the fuck are you say?

1263
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:27,039
Speaker 6: So?

1264
01:01:27,719 --> 01:01:30,119
Speaker 1: So I wound up going. I wound up going. And

1265
01:01:30,199 --> 01:01:34,719
then it was exactly like I thought, oh god, it

1266
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,400
was so fain It was actually your mom and it

1267
01:01:36,519 --> 01:01:42,719
was whoa, what were you gonna say earlier?

1268
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 3: You said I have something?

1269
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was reminded gentlemen to start planning.

1270
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: Now, well that is that's a very smart, smart thing

1271
01:01:50,039 --> 01:01:54,079
to do well, because if you don't Valentine Valentine's Day,

1272
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,719
for some people, it's a big deal. And I bet

1273
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:58,880
you I would say this. I think most women go,

1274
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:03,920
I don't need a a hallmark holiday to be remembered.

1275
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 5: I fuck that ship. I hate went in the brons

1276
01:02:06,039 --> 01:02:08,239
because then you don't get nothing, and then I'll butt,

1277
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,920
hurt and pest. But then you go and get him something,

1278
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,440
and they're like oh, why did you spend all that?

1279
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 4: I am so much more like throughout the year, do

1280
01:02:17,079 --> 01:02:20,480
like a little I do. I get flowers on a

1281
01:02:20,559 --> 01:02:22,360
random day or the other day, I got like a

1282
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:27,360
bottle of wine, like, but on Valentine's Day? Absolutely why not?

1283
01:02:28,039 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 3: What if a dozen roses showed up?

1284
01:02:30,079 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: Would you be upset?

1285
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,519
Speaker 4: I would be like, why did you waste your money

1286
01:02:33,559 --> 01:02:36,400
on a dozen roses, especially on Valentine's Day when they're

1287
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:37,280
twice the price?

1288
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,199
Speaker 1: Because your son told me when you have sex, you

1289
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,880
put it in the girl's butt, I wanted to. I mean,

1290
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,039
I'm just trying to learn here. I know no idea,

1291
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,880
but it sounded exciting to me, and I thought, hey,

1292
01:02:47,119 --> 01:02:47,639
what a way.

1293
01:02:47,599 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 4: To get in he knows not Valentine's Day, I mean

1294
01:02:53,199 --> 01:02:53,679
the only thing.

1295
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it pops out winter.

1296
01:03:05,039 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: This is this ship. See, I've been trying not to whatever.

1297
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:14,599
Speaker 3: I'm not to set you right now to me? All right,

1298
01:03:14,719 --> 01:03:17,519
all right, yeah, I know juvenile you are the.

1299
01:03:19,079 --> 01:03:22,639
Speaker 1: I don't think Valentine's Day is all that horrible. Like

1300
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:25,039
I as a guy, I would recognize it. If I

1301
01:03:25,079 --> 01:03:27,199
were with somebody, I would absolutely recognize it.

1302
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 4: You can say happy Valentine's say I.

1303
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: Would flowers or maybe you know.

1304
01:03:32,199 --> 01:03:34,039
Speaker 5: You know what I think is always a dozen roses

1305
01:03:34,079 --> 01:03:34,800
are going out to share.

1306
01:03:35,039 --> 01:03:36,039
Speaker 3: Huh, how many dozen.

1307
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 5: Rows are going out to share?

1308
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: Like three? No, I just to whom they like, whom

1309
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,559
there is somebody I'd like to send something to. There

1310
01:03:45,679 --> 01:03:51,559
is Yeah, uh, they're expecting you a box. I'd like

1311
01:03:51,679 --> 01:03:54,559
that in different kind of I know.

1312
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 4: For the kids, I'll make them like red pancakes now,

1313
01:04:00,199 --> 01:04:04,519
like something like that. That's as far as Valentine and.

1314
01:04:04,559 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 1: I celebrate more of that with like Saint Patrick's say.

1315
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,079
When I was a kid, you got like green pancakes, green,

1316
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,280
My father would die is beer green at night, the

1317
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,239
green bagel, the green bagel, all that stuff.

1318
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,079
Speaker 5: Yes, I have a Drake Magley yesterday. You know what

1319
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:20,559
Drake Magley yesterday.

1320
01:04:22,519 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: I have to ask you, like I don't know, like

1321
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,800
the Patriots lost, when you see something you love or

1322
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,039
that or invested in, you went. And when I say invested,

1323
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:36,239
you did invest some money to go see a Monday

1324
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,000
night football game.

1325
01:04:37,079 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 8: I did.

1326
01:04:37,599 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. So when it when it kind of falls apart

1327
01:04:41,639 --> 01:04:44,920
in the end, like they just I heard commentators today

1328
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:48,360
saying they didn't look like they should even be on

1329
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,079
the field. And I don't know if you agree with

1330
01:04:51,119 --> 01:04:54,519
that or not. I really feel like I can never

1331
01:04:54,639 --> 01:04:58,039
save because I got there. Well, here's the thing better,

1332
01:04:58,199 --> 01:05:01,440
I always think to me, it's not even like that argument.

1333
01:05:01,559 --> 01:05:04,360
I go, I just look at these athletes and go,

1334
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:08,360
they how hard it is to just get to that,

1335
01:05:08,639 --> 01:05:09,679
to play at that level.

1336
01:05:09,719 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 5: I mean maybe maybe if cash Allen had receivers like Mac,

1337
01:05:12,599 --> 01:05:16,559
I got it. I got it, National guy shave it

1338
01:05:16,679 --> 01:05:21,440
not Damn Burro caught it right, and so I got

1339
01:05:21,519 --> 01:05:23,599
to take it away from him, right.

1340
01:05:23,719 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, it's just like, I don't know,

1341
01:05:26,559 --> 01:05:29,760
I feel like it sometimes you feel like it quietly

1342
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:30,639
becomes about life.

1343
01:05:30,679 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 3: But you know, I don't give a shit.

1344
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, at the end of the day, they win, they win,

1345
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,840
they lose, they lose. I get nothing out of it

1346
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:39,760
other than the fact that I can talk shit if.

1347
01:05:39,679 --> 01:05:40,079
Speaker 7: I want to.

1348
01:05:40,519 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 4: Joe went to me this morning. He goes, if the

1349
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,239
Bills had been in the Super Bowl, Seattle still would

1350
01:05:45,239 --> 01:05:47,679
have won because their defense was just on fire. I

1351
01:05:47,719 --> 01:05:49,639
don't think anyone would to be Seattle.

1352
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: Yes, no, I don't either, And it bothers me slightly.

1353
01:05:53,039 --> 01:05:57,280
Although he's a great redemption story Sam Darnold third.

1354
01:05:57,119 --> 01:05:59,559
Speaker 3: Overall quarterback in the twenty eighteenth draft.

1355
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:04,119
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I guess I don't know.

1356
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:07,559
Speaker 5: That'st return on investment right now? Huh best return on investment.

1357
01:06:09,239 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: I got a super Bowl out of a guy that

1358
01:06:11,159 --> 01:06:13,599
who knows what they're paying him because he was probably

1359
01:06:13,679 --> 01:06:16,559
lower pay right, you know. I mean Josh was an MVP,

1360
01:06:16,679 --> 01:06:19,039
but he didn't get through super Boy and that does

1361
01:06:19,119 --> 01:06:22,760
pay dividends. It pays big money, you know in the end,

1362
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:24,679
for the owners of the team and everything else. So

1363
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:29,039
I don't know. I gotta go back to Valentine's Date. You,

1364
01:06:29,239 --> 01:06:31,679
I guarantee you. I just thought, like three of your

1365
01:06:31,719 --> 01:06:34,039
friend's names just ran through my head. I go those

1366
01:06:34,159 --> 01:06:38,880
broads if they someone ignores Valentine's Day for them, whether

1367
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:41,920
or not they say on the surface, it means nothing.

1368
01:06:42,079 --> 01:06:42,679
Speaker 6: Oh I'm sure.

1369
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 4: I'm sure a ton of my friends love it. It's

1370
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:51,119
just to me, I am, I don't like it.

1371
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I she's more of an Arbor Day girl.

1372
01:06:55,079 --> 01:06:55,760
I'm just smart.

1373
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,239
Speaker 4: I wouldn't much rather have you be like.

1374
01:07:02,159 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 6: I thought of.

1375
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 4: I was at Wegman's. I saw some flowers or I

1376
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,840
saw something, and I just wanted to cheer you up

1377
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:11,079
to that, like, then have it be like, oh, Valentine's

1378
01:07:11,119 --> 01:07:12,679
Day is coming up, and it's.

1379
01:07:12,679 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 1: Just like, what if it was something that was really cool,

1380
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:17,480
like all of a sudden it was I don't even know,

1381
01:07:17,679 --> 01:07:19,079
I don't know what that would be cool?

1382
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 5: Sure, but like, uh, you know ward shape, double Dogger.

1383
01:07:23,719 --> 01:07:28,719
Speaker 1: What if you got what if you got a text message? Hey, listen,

1384
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:30,599
I have a lot going on this week. I'm not

1385
01:07:30,639 --> 01:07:33,760
going to see you until Friday, but I'm going to

1386
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:38,920
pick you up at six and pack lightly overnight and

1387
01:07:39,159 --> 01:07:42,800
wear something that you think is the most sexy outfit

1388
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,559
you have. I mean, yeah, I see it six on front.

1389
01:07:45,599 --> 01:07:50,159
Speaker 4: I love that, But it doesn't it doesn't The problem.

1390
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 5: This bill works out for color people times there, Yeah.

1391
01:07:53,239 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be on Valentine's Day though, don't

1392
01:07:56,039 --> 01:07:57,320
do that on Valentine's set?

1393
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 6: Why so we can?

1394
01:07:59,599 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 4: It's just busy, Like if you try to go out

1395
01:08:03,599 --> 01:08:08,960
if I wait, if I if Joe wanted to go

1396
01:08:09,079 --> 01:08:11,280
out on Saturday, I'd be like, let's go to a

1397
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:13,760
hole in the wall bar and watch the single people

1398
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,680
try to like hook off. Like that would be way

1399
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:17,840
more fun than going.

1400
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 5: To Black and Blue I gotta play a.

1401
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 4: Song, and we don't have kids this weekend, and we're

1402
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:26,399
free on Saturday, so maybe I will be like, let's go,

1403
01:08:27,159 --> 01:08:29,840
let's go to Burke. Let me in Webster and like,

1404
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:30,560
watch people.

1405
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,319
Speaker 1: You should go to Black and Blue on Valentine's Day

1406
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,680
because many many years ago I was married at the time.

1407
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:38,680
You should go by.

1408
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 5: Yourself and just start introducing yourself at the tables.

1409
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:47,039
Speaker 4: I'm Lowlita, So so what's dinner?

1410
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 6: Should?

1411
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:50,239
Speaker 4: I just felt like a unicorn?

1412
01:08:50,399 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: Do you want to celebrate steaking a beja day? In

1413
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:57,479
a month? Drop this bitch, I'll put a unicorn, I thought,

1414
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:02,000
I and I went to h I had reservations at

1415
01:09:02,079 --> 01:09:07,239
Black and Blue Valentine's Day wait in advance, and something

1416
01:09:07,359 --> 01:09:11,760
came up that my wife was going to be out

1417
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:14,920
of town, to the point where we asked my mom

1418
01:09:15,159 --> 01:09:19,159
to come up to be with the boys. But I

1419
01:09:19,239 --> 01:09:22,800
had already secured a babysitter, so I decided to keep

1420
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:25,640
the reservation and I took my mom the Black and

1421
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,680
Blue of Valentine's Day. This is true, and I had

1422
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:33,359
the babysitter and everything for the guys, and I remember

1423
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:37,840
looking around and seeing, I mean, you gotta see you

1424
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,279
gotta see the people that go there. It is some

1425
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:45,000
watching because everybody is trying to really impress, and Black

1426
01:09:45,079 --> 01:09:47,600
and Blue is a restaurant that I think can make

1427
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:50,000
an impact on somebody. Ooh, like if you say to

1428
01:09:50,119 --> 01:09:55,960
someone the number of women that I've overheard say Bonnie

1429
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,520
and Clyde, oh I've never been there, Like right, you

1430
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:01,199
get that. It the same thing sort of with Black

1431
01:10:01,239 --> 01:10:04,319
and Blue back at that point, and you got the

1432
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:07,479
people watch it was off of you knew this motherfucker

1433
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:11,920
had saved up to pay these checket these fucking counting pennies.

1434
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 5: He's looking at the change underneath the water.

1435
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:15,279
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1436
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:16,159
Speaker 5: It was like that.

1437
01:10:16,399 --> 01:10:19,039
Speaker 1: And yeah, and then women that would come in, they

1438
01:10:19,079 --> 01:10:21,399
were all gussied up like this was a big deal

1439
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:23,680
and it's fun to watch that. And I think it's

1440
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:24,319
kind of nice.

1441
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll tell Joe we should role play and like

1442
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:28,600
just go to the different ends of the bar.

1443
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: Well different the bar, like, oh, how Joe wins?

1444
01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:38,520
Speaker 4: Though, I would be so proud of him, and then

1445
01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:40,399
I'd be like, that's my man, and I'm gonna go

1446
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:41,159
take it right now.

1447
01:10:41,319 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 1: That's right, that's it exactly it's funny because you're right.

1448
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,800
I think many people think Valentine's Day is just sort

1449
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:50,159
of a bullshit. Yeah, but here we go, here, it

1450
01:10:50,239 --> 01:10:52,479
comes here, it's gonna be and I'll be back with

1451
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:58,720
Marge again. Because my love life's doing so well, I

1452
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:00,319
think I am going to send somebody for hours and

1453
01:11:00,319 --> 01:11:02,560
now anything about it. Yeah, yeah, I might do that

1454
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:04,239
my dress again.

1455
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,319
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, don't say that too out because then, uh,

1456
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:09,079
you know, people may think that they're.

1457
01:11:11,279 --> 01:11:11,600
Speaker 1: The point.

1458
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:15,159
Speaker 5: I didn't get him that, man, It wasn't you like

1459
01:11:15,279 --> 01:11:17,319
the Bachelor, Rose.

1460
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:22,039
Speaker 4: Kevin. Will you accept this?

1461
01:11:22,239 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 6: Rod? Wow?

1462
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to one.

1463
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:26,279
Speaker 5: You send him to send him back.

1464
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:33,159
Speaker 1: Returned to senator. You get at that point, choice number two,

1465
01:11:34,399 --> 01:11:39,039
Choice number two. Oh my god, if we blew that up.

1466
01:11:39,319 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 3: That was so bad. I feel I actually felt bad

1467
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:42,279
about that.

1468
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 1: And then we like Earl was, I could tell he

1469
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:47,319
was pissed, Like I could tell he was pissed when

1470
01:11:47,359 --> 01:11:49,640
we called him. Yeah, yeah, I'll talk, I'll talk like

1471
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:52,640
he didn't want it was on. I don't know how

1472
01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:59,399
that happened. I kept signed up for a subscription, you dork.

1473
01:12:00,319 --> 01:12:02,960
He knew what he was doing. Yeah, yeah, well you

1474
01:12:03,039 --> 01:12:05,840
know what. The way to Laura's pants is not through flowers.

1475
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:06,640
Speaker 4: It's not through road.

1476
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 3: Do you want to get to her flower?

1477
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: Wine?

1478
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 3: Alcohol? Alcohol?

1479
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,399
Speaker 5: That's right, whine and chains.

1480
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,079
Speaker 1: All right, we'll take a moment. I gotta find this

1481
01:12:21,119 --> 01:12:23,000
song from John Mayer about.

1482
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 5: The Jesus Christ.

1483
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 1: Why why play some three dars down? The guy's understand

1484
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:33,760
poor Brad A long time? Uh cancer, the battle cancer

1485
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:35,720
for I hate using the term battle cancer.

1486
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:37,960
Speaker 5: That's where John Mayer's gonna get those roses from villain

1487
01:12:38,279 --> 01:12:39,039
Valentine's Day.

1488
01:12:39,119 --> 01:12:41,560
Speaker 1: No, he's not. I just like this song because it's

1489
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:44,520
about the bar closing. Yeah, and it's about you got

1490
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:47,680
to go home and romance. Is it gonna happen to?

1491
01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:49,720
Like you know, you're hanging around the bar, You're hanging

1492
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:51,600
the people you were talking about. I will get to that.

1493
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,159
And then Kevin has a challenge a little game, and

1494
01:12:54,239 --> 01:12:57,479
Laura's gotta go home. She's looking gets all that right

1495
01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,479
after this. If the New Year has you saying I

1496
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,680
didn't not sign up for this, like a worker's comp case,

1497
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:07,359
social security disability, or a personal injury claim, don't try

1498
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:10,800
to google lawyer your way through it. Go to Connors

1499
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:14,479
and Ferris. They have offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse,

1500
01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:18,439
and Rochester and they'll get back to you within twenty

1501
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:22,199
four hours. Yeah, so even when you're stress scrolling at

1502
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,880
two am, you can call two six to two COMP.

1503
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:27,159
Tell them a little bit about what's going on in

1504
01:13:27,239 --> 01:13:29,880
your life, and within twenty four hours one of their

1505
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,479
attorneys will get back to you. You'll talk to real

1506
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:36,199
lawyers who will explain things in plain English, not legal

1507
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:42,319
mumbo jumbo workers comp, Social Security, disability, personal injury complicated.

1508
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:47,199
Absolutely something you should handle a loon. Nope, Connors and

1509
01:13:47,279 --> 01:13:52,119
Ferris experienced, responsive and committed to serving. You better call

1510
01:13:52,239 --> 01:13:55,680
two six' to TWO. Comp helps available right.

1511
01:13:55,760 --> 01:14:10,319
Speaker 7: Now one last.

1512
01:14:10,199 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 9: Drink to which for, thinking and then another looking the

1513
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:19,720
bar's getting rider around the rolls of course of the

1514
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,920
journey out JUKE i sing and don't let the believe

1515
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:30,680
in and the one that you had iceballs had their

1516
01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:32,800
eyes for yell that span.

1517
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:36,239
Speaker 1: Nobody's gonna love.

1518
01:14:36,119 --> 01:14:40,520
Speaker 10: You and nobody's gonna take you, in and that then

1519
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,399
a shot the, bottles step.

1520
01:14:42,159 --> 01:14:46,319
Speaker 5: Into the light and roll it on, home roll it, on.

1521
01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:49,239
Speaker 7: Roll it.

1522
01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:53,640
Speaker 9: Tomorrows in the.

1523
01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:58,680
Speaker 11: If you rolle it on.

1524
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:02,399
Speaker 1: Home, yeah you're not gonna find love. Tonight the one

1525
01:15:02,399 --> 01:15:04,279
who had eyes for has eyes for your best. Friend

1526
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:06,520
so drink it up and got the funk.

1527
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 4: Out that was always the worst.

1528
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:08,359
Speaker 7: Part it.

1529
01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: Happened oh really yeah yeah last text Good, yeah excent.

1530
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,239
Speaker 3: Value they were also.

1531
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 4: Hey every night, food.

1532
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:27,199
Speaker 9: Come to grips and take your. Chips when the cars

1533
01:15:27,239 --> 01:15:32,119
are going your. Wave you've been, here So daunton that

1534
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,239
already yesterday.

1535
01:15:34,399 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 10: Day no bad is going to love, You no bad

1536
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:43,000
is going to take you in. Today then a shouting,

1537
01:15:43,079 --> 01:15:44,520
battle step into the.

1538
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:48,039
Speaker 1: Lad and roll it down home inspired by a bar Man.

1539
01:15:48,319 --> 01:15:52,720
Montana he's a house Of. Montana this is what go,

1540
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:54,680
ahead and this acluded place for him to hang, Out

1541
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:55,399
like why why?

1542
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:55,720
Speaker 6: Why?

1543
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:57,720
Speaker 1: Why why do you have a problem with the fact

1544
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:00,800
THAT i really do like that? Guy we, KNOW i,

1545
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:04,640
know we. KNOW i THINK i like him more because

1546
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:06,560
there are people in my family can't stay at.

1547
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 7: Them.

1548
01:16:08,079 --> 01:16:11,199
Speaker 1: Yeah she thinks he's like a, womanizer AND i was,

1549
01:16:11,239 --> 01:16:11,840
LIKE i don't know he?

1550
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:12,560
Speaker 2: Is is?

1551
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 4: HE i still like his?

1552
01:16:13,800 --> 01:16:17,119
Speaker 1: Music, yeah but what is a? Woman BECAUSE i don't

1553
01:16:17,119 --> 01:16:17,399
know what that.

1554
01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 5: Is who's got more ladies? Currently john May Or Bill.

1555
01:16:20,039 --> 01:16:21,560
Moran Bill moran has like.

1556
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 4: None who are bullshitting your, fans your fan.

1557
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:30,039
Speaker 1: Club, yeah.

1558
01:16:32,279 --> 01:16:32,520
Speaker 8: What's a?

1559
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:35,399
Speaker 1: WOMAN i don't THINK i know it.

1560
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 4: Can smooth talk women and you, know be, like maybe

1561
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:43,560
it's going to be different with. You BUT i probably

1562
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:44,359
did this ship to.

1563
01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:49,079
Speaker 1: Men, okay But i've never, ever ever ever said to a,

1564
01:16:49,119 --> 01:16:51,279
woman it's going to be different with. You i've never said.

1565
01:16:51,319 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 4: That, yeah but people throw themselves at you because you

1566
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:55,600
are A rochester, celebrity But i'm.

1567
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:58,239
Speaker 1: Not that's the thing WHERE i, was But i'm not.

1568
01:16:58,399 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 4: Anymore, well that's you don't have as many women THROWING

1569
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:06,840
i KNOW i do the single digit that's what you

1570
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:10,720
for two. Dozen but the thing is like the.

1571
01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:14,039
Speaker 1: Thing THAT i find because you can borrow. THEM i

1572
01:17:14,239 --> 01:17:17,039
would say that they were, real, right they were the

1573
01:17:17,119 --> 01:17:18,479
silk once she said, No i'm kidding.

1574
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:20,720
Speaker 4: Him oh, no, no one NIGHT i brought them over

1575
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:22,840
To jamie AND i let all the girls take some.

1576
01:17:23,079 --> 01:17:25,079
Speaker 1: Home brought him to the.

1577
01:17:25,119 --> 01:17:28,399
Speaker 3: Show did you did you definitely did your?

1578
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:31,920
Speaker 4: Stuff was fingering the, roses, yes oh my.

1579
01:17:32,039 --> 01:17:33,439
Speaker 3: God she was to help it open.

1580
01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:36,640
Speaker 5: Up all you got to do is finger, it and

1581
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:38,359
it will open up a lot of finger on that

1582
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:43,399
table and that, right it's like A muppet. Show, Hey

1583
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:46,239
i'm just being, honest no, offense no offense.

1584
01:17:46,399 --> 01:17:48,159
Speaker 1: Taken, yeah we're talking about.

1585
01:17:48,159 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 4: That you brought that up like two segments.

1586
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:53,600
Speaker 1: Ago i'm just saying that when people are very, honest,

1587
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,960
right and you're very, Honest but what you were talking

1588
01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:59,920
about in the in the circumstances that you were, saying

1589
01:18:00,119 --> 01:18:02,920
like you're trying to be honest about your kids and,

1590
01:18:03,039 --> 01:18:06,239
THINGS i don't think that's very. Offensive BUT i do

1591
01:18:06,359 --> 01:18:09,199
think people are so they don't want to be told

1592
01:18:09,279 --> 01:18:12,000
how to do. Things they take offense to that they get.

1593
01:18:12,079 --> 01:18:16,000
Uncomfortable and then there are people who just want to

1594
01:18:16,119 --> 01:18:19,199
like tell you what an asshole they really think you,

1595
01:18:19,359 --> 01:18:22,960
are and they'll do that under the guise Of i'm just. Honest,

1596
01:18:23,119 --> 01:18:24,960
Listen i'm just calling it the WAY i see, It

1597
01:18:25,319 --> 01:18:28,199
AND i, go that's the fucking adult version of no.

1598
01:18:28,359 --> 01:18:33,640
Offense but you, know when you whatever and it, comes it's.

1599
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:36,479
Loaded it's fucking. Loaded AND i was, THINKING i, Go

1600
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:40,319
laura is extremely honest in many, situations but you have

1601
01:18:40,399 --> 01:18:42,479
a kind way of putting. IT i really think you.

1602
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:46,000
Do BUT i got to think at some point you've

1603
01:18:46,079 --> 01:18:49,800
offended somebody with your. Honesty can you give us an

1604
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,199
example of what. Backfired Oh, god.

1605
01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 3: That was the Hot doug canon or was?

1606
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 4: It, unfortunately that person doesn't want.

1607
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:09,359
Speaker 5: Honesty, no the wife doesn't want.

1608
01:19:09,399 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 4: Honesty, no, no she definitely doesn't. EITHER i Think i'm brutally,

1609
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:20,960
honest AND i guess the best examples are with clients

1610
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:25,880
AND i sit. THERE i have made clients cry BECAUSE

1611
01:19:26,039 --> 01:19:27,760
i tell them the hard things that they need to.

1612
01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 1: Hear, Okay, so but that's a business thing where you're

1613
01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:34,079
trying to help someone actually live a better. Life.

1614
01:19:34,159 --> 01:19:36,000
Speaker 4: Okay so WHEN i told my ex HUSBAND i wasn't

1615
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:40,760
in love with him. ANYMORE i.

1616
01:19:42,239 --> 01:19:44,279
Speaker 3: Know somebody who told their EX i never loved.

1617
01:19:44,319 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 4: You so, SEE i wasn't that.

1618
01:19:48,239 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 8: Real, iran like.

1619
01:19:52,079 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 4: Years before anything happened with the other.

1620
01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:59,199
Speaker 1: GUY i, KNOW i, know but it's A i'm thinking

1621
01:19:59,239 --> 01:20:01,520
of things like even with friends and, STUFF i could

1622
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:04,479
see the woman that your husband was dating being somewhat

1623
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:08,399
uncomfortable and acting as though she's, offended even though if

1624
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:10,039
she actually stopped and thought about.

1625
01:20:10,079 --> 01:20:12,399
Speaker 3: It part of it is she didn't do that with her.

1626
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:14,479
Kids she didn't fight for her.

1627
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 1: Kids with that other another woman coming into their life

1628
01:20:18,159 --> 01:20:20,880
and representing her place in that.

1629
01:20:21,039 --> 01:20:24,520
Speaker 4: HOUSE i JUST i really was because her ex husband

1630
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:25,560
in another man.

1631
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 1: Day oh, Shit Jesus, christ fuck.

1632
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:32,000
Speaker 6: Just.

1633
01:20:32,119 --> 01:20:35,319
Speaker 1: SPILLED i just felt like this whole studio is gonna.

1634
01:20:35,399 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 4: REAK i actually love her ex.

1635
01:20:37,079 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 1: Husband, yeah well he's so.

1636
01:20:39,279 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 4: Nice of, course of, course.

1637
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,600
Speaker 1: Gay man gay men are like usually the best they.

1638
01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:45,600
Speaker 4: Are they're always my.

1639
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:49,359
Speaker 1: Favorite they're, creative they're, sensitive they're. SMART i THINK i

1640
01:20:50,159 --> 01:20:50,439
THINK i.

1641
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 4: Offend people all the time BECAUSE i just say what it.

1642
01:20:53,199 --> 01:20:54,520
Speaker 1: Is BUT i think smell like a.

1643
01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:57,319
Speaker 4: Brewery the people who know me just know that that

1644
01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,960
is HOW i. AM i, know so they're, like that's

1645
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:03,319
Who laura. Is i'm never GONNA i.

1646
01:21:03,359 --> 01:21:06,239
Speaker 1: Think when it's like when it's a heavy, Thing like

1647
01:21:06,319 --> 01:21:08,520
if it's something that's, HEAVY i think you have a

1648
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:09,239
kind way of.

1649
01:21:09,319 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 4: Putting, Okay so If i'm telling like a friend THAT

1650
01:21:12,039 --> 01:21:14,279
i don't like the guy that they're, dating, yes.

1651
01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 5: That's a Great i've done.

1652
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:18,199
Speaker 3: That why do you say that to?

1653
01:21:18,319 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 1: Somebody because why would you? Know why wouldn't it be,

1654
01:21:23,119 --> 01:21:24,960
like why don't you mind your own, Business, laura it's

1655
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:26,640
nder your. Business i'm out of.

1656
01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:27,520
Speaker 4: Concern why?

1657
01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:28,680
Speaker 3: Why why that's my?

1658
01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:29,680
Speaker 1: Happiness how ABOUT i.

1659
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:31,640
Speaker 4: Had to tell one of my friends when their husband

1660
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:32,000
hit on.

1661
01:21:32,119 --> 01:21:33,399
Speaker 12: Me oh you?

1662
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:35,079
Speaker 1: Did? Yeah why did you shut?

1663
01:21:35,199 --> 01:21:35,520
Speaker 8: Up he was.

1664
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:39,239
Speaker 4: Drunk he was, drunk but he tried to take me to.

1665
01:21:39,319 --> 01:21:42,159
Speaker 1: Bed oh like how try drag you there like a?

1666
01:21:42,239 --> 01:21:46,159
Caveman so what are we talking?

1667
01:21:46,199 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 4: About we had rented a lake house uh huh for. Night,

1668
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:51,920
yeah and him AND i read the last two.

1669
01:21:52,039 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 3: Up oh, yeah and.

1670
01:21:54,039 --> 01:21:57,680
Speaker 4: He fully made like what what that?

1671
01:21:57,840 --> 01:22:01,039
Speaker 5: Is hung? OUT i don't even know?

1672
01:22:01,079 --> 01:22:01,239
Speaker 7: WHAT i.

1673
01:22:01,520 --> 01:22:03,319
Speaker 1: Like here's the thing is, like SOMETIMES i, go AM

1674
01:22:03,359 --> 01:22:05,359
i so stupid THAT i don't know what a womanizer?

1675
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,720
Is And i've been accused of being. One, yeah by my.

1676
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:16,199
Therapist this was years. Ago, no it was years, ago

1677
01:22:16,319 --> 01:22:22,279
but years, ago by the. Way by the, way, no.

1678
01:22:23,119 --> 01:22:23,399
Speaker 7: It was.

1679
01:22:26,039 --> 01:22:28,520
Speaker 1: See this is WHERE i always like because it's like

1680
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:31,640
you got to defend. YOURSELF i was not, married AND

1681
01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:36,159
i did start going to, therapy and it was a

1682
01:22:36,319 --> 01:22:36,960
number of years.

1683
01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:40,399
Speaker 5: Ago it was so but data there for two and

1684
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:40,960
a half years.

1685
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:50,159
Speaker 1: Afterwards yeah, Whatever but the making a PASS i don't even.

1686
01:22:50,199 --> 01:22:52,119
Know sometimes did he like try to touch?

1687
01:22:52,159 --> 01:22:52,199
Speaker 6: You?

1688
01:22:52,319 --> 01:22:53,039
Speaker 5: What what was the?

1689
01:22:53,119 --> 01:23:00,159
Speaker 4: Past it was, more, hey what would you think? You

1690
01:23:00,279 --> 01:23:01,439
AND i went inside right?

1691
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:02,119
Speaker 6: Now oh.

1692
01:23:02,279 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 13: Yeah but as a. Joke that's a. Guy how a

1693
01:23:05,079 --> 01:23:07,640
guy coaches couches a? Joke because then he, goes you,

1694
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,319
Know i'm just. Kidding if you said, no he GO

1695
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,760
i was just kidding. Anyway and first of, all why

1696
01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:14,279
would you Go why would you go on to side

1697
01:23:14,279 --> 01:23:14,680
with your white?

1698
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:15,359
Speaker 5: Face you do it right?

1699
01:23:15,399 --> 01:23:18,560
Speaker 3: THERE i, Mean beth is right. Upstairs why WOULD i

1700
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:19,039
even say?

1701
01:23:19,079 --> 01:23:22,000
Speaker 6: That that's? How and that was?

1702
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:24,239
Speaker 3: Why why did you have to tell?

1703
01:23:24,279 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 4: Her because her husband was a?

1704
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:27,079
Speaker 11: Pig?

1705
01:23:28,119 --> 01:23:30,119
Speaker 1: Okay and how did that?

1706
01:23:30,239 --> 01:23:34,840
Speaker 4: GO i called her other best friend and talked to

1707
01:23:34,920 --> 01:23:38,199
her about it, first and this is the, situation.

1708
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 6: This is what.

1709
01:23:40,159 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 4: Happened what DO i? Do and she was, like you

1710
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:43,520
need to tell, her?

1711
01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: Okay and so when you, did how did they?

1712
01:23:46,039 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 4: GO i think she she handled it well because we

1713
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:54,920
had had suspicion that he had been having an affair.

1714
01:23:55,840 --> 01:24:01,079
Anyway so, yeah, yeah the lie of the tell. Tale

1715
01:24:01,319 --> 01:24:03,680
he traveled a lot for, work and he would always

1716
01:24:03,840 --> 01:24:05,399
accidentally leave his wedding ring at.

1717
01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:09,520
Speaker 1: Home it's such a dumb fucking or he would.

1718
01:24:09,359 --> 01:24:11,680
Speaker 4: Lie what co worker he was bringing with, him say

1719
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:13,640
it was a, male it was a? Female all?

1720
01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:19,239
Speaker 1: Right well THAT i, get but could, yeah, Wow.

1721
01:24:21,359 --> 01:24:23,239
Speaker 3: And And are you still talk to this?

1722
01:24:23,359 --> 01:24:24,279
Speaker 1: Person the?

1723
01:24:24,359 --> 01:24:26,279
Speaker 4: Female, yeah that's, no not the.

1724
01:24:26,319 --> 01:24:27,960
Speaker 5: Male are they still? Married?

1725
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:37,359
Speaker 1: Wow you fucking? Ruined your a? HOMEWRECKER i mean, no,

1726
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:38,760
no you are.

1727
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:40,640
Speaker 3: Not, No i'm not tried to.

1728
01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 5: Be but the wife didn't believe.

1729
01:24:42,039 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 3: It all, right we're Gonna kevin's got a.

1730
01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:46,199
Speaker 1: Game let's get to can we?

1731
01:24:46,279 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 4: Play?

1732
01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:48,239
Speaker 1: Yes forget to get out of. Here you're getting all

1733
01:24:48,359 --> 01:24:49,760
kinds of. Texts what's going on over?

1734
01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:52,359
Speaker 4: There, oh it's it's, honestly you want to know what it? Is,

1735
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:54,479
yes it's my kid's fucking sports.

1736
01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 1: Team it is the worst the.

1737
01:24:56,960 --> 01:25:00,119
Speaker 4: Group it is non stop because he's already a and

1738
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:05,319
uh two baseball teams for the spring and a basketball.

1739
01:25:05,359 --> 01:25:10,960
Team it is all game changer apps like messages of fucking. Kids,

1740
01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:15,000
wait is this?

1741
01:25:15,119 --> 01:25:15,159
Speaker 8: What?

1742
01:25:15,279 --> 01:25:15,520
Speaker 7: Weird?

1743
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 1: Yes be as?

1744
01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:21,680
Speaker 8: Well that's so.

1745
01:25:23,239 --> 01:25:25,520
Speaker 7: Song maybe weakly?

1746
01:25:25,600 --> 01:25:29,279
Speaker 11: Good, WELL.

1747
01:25:50,199 --> 01:25:50,880
Speaker 4: I know this ri.

1748
01:25:54,079 --> 01:25:56,680
Speaker 5: One of my favorite new. Wheels it's An asian game

1749
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:59,159
who has No asian accent singing.

1750
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 7: Songs And asian this is what?

1751
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:03,119
Speaker 5: Time this is one of the songs he, does and

1752
01:26:03,199 --> 01:26:04,520
he's trolling on his.

1753
01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:09,239
Speaker 7: Wife my favorite.

1754
01:26:08,920 --> 01:26:13,159
Speaker 1: Commercial for The Super bowl Was Andy samberg as The Old. Times,

1755
01:26:15,319 --> 01:26:16,000
wow you say.

1756
01:26:16,039 --> 01:26:23,640
Speaker 4: It so do you think one of people were going

1757
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:25,640
to be here playing this, tonight because.

1758
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:29,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah yeah yeah.

1759
01:27:02,159 --> 01:27:07,199
Speaker 12: Ooh got shack hold, hog got shock, hokk got shack

1760
01:27:07,439 --> 01:27:11,960
hook hook, hoo got shack hook. GO i can't just do, this,

1761
01:27:12,399 --> 01:27:17,720
meg he bet a side of me got shack a

1762
01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:20,359
hoo ca, ho, girl you just do.

1763
01:27:20,760 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 1: Real watch you to the men to hook got shack

1764
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:28,920
goho when you humble my shack goho.

1765
01:27:28,680 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 4: In your, car such to you let me no got

1766
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:32,720
shack go hoo?

1767
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,399
Speaker 3: Everything she got nothing right here.

1768
01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 5: During the few moments that we have.

1769
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:42,520
Speaker 14: Left, oh you want to talk right down to earth

1770
01:27:43,199 --> 01:27:45,800
in the language that everybody here can easily.

1771
01:27:45,920 --> 01:28:02,000
Speaker 8: UNDERSTAND i got one, one AND i might have swept it.

1772
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:10,680
Speaker 7: To the person.

1773
01:28:11,039 --> 01:28:15,520
Speaker 4: REAL i haven't no idea of any of these.

1774
01:28:15,560 --> 01:28:29,760
Speaker 6: GUYS i waved the white flag and.

1775
01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:31,079
Speaker 4: Surrender he swumming.

1776
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:36,479
Speaker 5: Calibri, oh shiny, down, queen.

1777
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:43,720
Speaker 8: Your reason out of t. Shirt time to read upon.

1778
01:28:43,680 --> 01:29:04,920
Speaker 11: Me looking out the airplane, window thirty thousand miles Of

1779
01:29:05,039 --> 01:29:06,560
shinow on.

1780
01:29:06,640 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 15: The Silver line and spending too the. Night never when

1781
01:29:12,560 --> 01:29:18,119
he has a, shot never any. EXPLANATION i WISH i

1782
01:29:18,319 --> 01:29:19,000
had ant.

1783
01:29:18,920 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 14: Take care of his flight mark WOULD i got it's so,

1784
01:29:24,199 --> 01:29:29,439
Bad mark got discussing their riding this pull strategy car.

1785
01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:36,199
Speaker 5: Back, on it's smile my?

1786
01:29:40,399 --> 01:29:42,119
Speaker 7: Way what kind of.

1787
01:29:47,159 --> 01:29:48,399
Speaker 5: This is the movie question as?

1788
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 4: WELL i know.

1789
01:29:55,119 --> 01:29:57,319
Speaker 6: ONE i.

1790
01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:23,079
Speaker 7: DON'T i remember my answers editing the Eleven she, said no,

1791
01:30:23,199 --> 01:30:24,960
ONE i have.

1792
01:30:25,119 --> 01:30:26,800
Speaker 6: ONE i THINK i don't think you, do.

1793
01:30:36,159 --> 01:30:38,920
Speaker 5: So Draw i'll go back to the.

1794
01:30:39,039 --> 01:30:40,159
Speaker 6: Top it's not that.

1795
01:30:40,319 --> 01:30:40,960
Speaker 5: Bad THEN.

1796
01:30:42,399 --> 01:30:44,560
Speaker 1: I, said what's the point nineteen ninety. EIGHT i have

1797
01:30:44,720 --> 01:30:45,640
no idea the bad.

1798
01:30:48,239 --> 01:30:50,880
Speaker 4: ARGUING i wrote nineteen ninety. Three, OKAY i know for some,

1799
01:30:51,039 --> 01:30:52,279
REASON i just wrote the word for.

1800
01:30:52,479 --> 01:30:55,000
Speaker 6: You it is got you.

1801
01:30:55,760 --> 01:31:01,159
Speaker 5: Farheses WHERE i want you the flies from nineteen ninety, Eight.

1802
01:31:01,239 --> 01:31:06,079
Speaker 6: Yeah, OKAY i was just sure were, Going i'm going

1803
01:31:06,119 --> 01:31:06,560
to be proud of.

1804
01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:08,560
Speaker 1: Myself SO i get ten for, that, right you do

1805
01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:11,720
get ten for? That, okay all, right come.

1806
01:31:11,600 --> 01:31:13,199
Speaker 4: On, laura nineteen ninety.

1807
01:31:13,239 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 1: ONE i wrote nineteen ninety.

1808
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:15,680
Speaker 3: SEVEN i don't.

1809
01:31:15,680 --> 01:31:16,680
Speaker 5: Know the organ's the record.

1810
01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:18,239
Speaker 4: Tool it's a work tool.

1811
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:24,000
Speaker 5: Tool it's tool schiz him my tool from two thousand and.

1812
01:31:24,760 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 4: One two thousand and.

1813
01:31:27,039 --> 01:31:28,319
Speaker 6: One, WOW i was off by a.

1814
01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:34,279
Speaker 4: Decade, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah what do you, Got?

1815
01:31:34,359 --> 01:31:38,119
LAURA i Wrote Green day nineteen ninety.

1816
01:31:38,199 --> 01:31:41,159
Speaker 1: Six it's not Green. DAY i don't think it is Green.

1817
01:31:41,239 --> 01:31:43,319
DAY i didn't write there is that nineteen ninety six.

1818
01:31:43,399 --> 01:31:44,319
Speaker 5: EITHER i wrote.

1819
01:31:44,159 --> 01:31:46,920
Speaker 1: Nineteen ninety, nine and.

1820
01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 5: That is a very distinct.

1821
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:55,640
Speaker 1: Sound, YEAH i. Know WELL i can't go. Home you

1822
01:31:55,680 --> 01:31:56,279
guys ad.

1823
01:31:57,640 --> 01:31:58,439
Speaker 5: Very famous.

1824
01:31:58,520 --> 01:31:59,720
Speaker 1: Scientists oh, yeah he.

1825
01:31:59,880 --> 01:32:02,359
Speaker 3: Is it's Called god The.

1826
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:03,319
Speaker 1: Offspring it is.

1827
01:32:03,359 --> 01:32:05,800
Speaker 3: The off, yes but that's only because you gave that.

1828
01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:06,800
Clue So i'm not going to take.

1829
01:32:06,840 --> 01:32:12,279
Speaker 5: Points it's ALL i wanted In The offspring nineteen ninety seventy, SHIT.

1830
01:32:12,079 --> 01:32:15,760
Speaker 1: I had ninety nine went the. Offspring that was what's his?

1831
01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:19,199
NAME i think it's he IS. X, yeah it Is

1832
01:32:19,279 --> 01:32:21,239
dextually he's got a bio medical.

1833
01:32:21,319 --> 01:32:27,800
Speaker 4: Gas this FEELING i hounked on a, Feeling, yes, feeling got?

1834
01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:30,399
Speaker 1: It, okay eighty FIVE i rode nineteen seventy.

1835
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:35,319
Speaker 5: Six it's Blue swede hooked at a feeling from nineteen seventy,

1836
01:32:35,399 --> 01:32:36,159
six seventy.

1837
01:32:36,199 --> 01:32:39,159
Speaker 4: FOUR i got five.

1838
01:32:39,199 --> 01:32:42,520
Speaker 6: Points, Oh.

1839
01:32:44,279 --> 01:32:51,560
Speaker 1: Living, Color cult Of personality nineteen eighty. EIGHT i think

1840
01:32:51,600 --> 01:32:53,479
it was Eighty it's either eighty eight or eighty. Nine

1841
01:32:53,520 --> 01:32:55,199
i'm going to go with eighty eight because they toured

1842
01:32:55,239 --> 01:32:56,680
in eighty, nine So i'm saying eighty.

1843
01:32:56,720 --> 01:32:58,520
Speaker 5: Eight they opened for the, Stones, yes they.

1844
01:32:58,560 --> 01:32:59,640
Speaker 3: Did that was their shay.

1845
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:03,840
Speaker 5: Safe it is called The personality From Living. Color, yeah

1846
01:33:04,079 --> 01:33:09,960
nineteen eighty. Eight, FUCK i got damn.

1847
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:10,880
Speaker 3: IT i would have swept.

1848
01:33:10,960 --> 01:33:11,960
Speaker 5: THAT i said eighty.

1849
01:33:11,960 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 1: Eight didn't KNOW i said. EIGHTY i wrote down eighty.

1850
01:33:14,039 --> 01:33:18,000
NINE i said eighty. Eight oh, wait OH i wrote eighty.

1851
01:33:18,079 --> 01:33:20,079
NINE i just said eighty. Eight, NO i wrote eighty.

1852
01:33:20,159 --> 01:33:22,720
NINE i wrote eighty. NINE i did say eighty.

1853
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:26,840
Speaker 4: Eight, yeah some of, them B, BILL i have five.

1854
01:33:26,840 --> 01:33:29,119
Speaker 5: Points so at FIRST.

1855
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:30,880
Speaker 3: I said this Is David, bowie AND i said that's not.

1856
01:33:31,039 --> 01:33:34,159
Speaker 1: Right let the word out two thousand and, six BUT

1857
01:33:34,279 --> 01:33:36,359
i don't, know do you have anything over?

1858
01:33:36,399 --> 01:33:39,359
Speaker 4: THERE i Wrote matchbox twenty it so it of sounded

1859
01:33:39,399 --> 01:33:42,119
Like Ralph. Thomas, okay nineteen ninety.

1860
01:33:42,159 --> 01:33:44,199
Speaker 1: Five, YEAH i don't think it's.

1861
01:33:44,239 --> 01:33:47,159
Speaker 5: Right it is better now From Collective soul two thousand and.

1862
01:33:47,439 --> 01:33:50,399
Speaker 1: Six you, Really, OH i got two thousand and, six

1863
01:33:50,560 --> 01:33:54,359
THOUGH i did get two thousand and, Six son of a. Bitch.

1864
01:33:55,880 --> 01:33:58,319
OH i would Write bowie in, that BUT i Crossed bowie.

1865
01:33:58,359 --> 01:34:05,279
Out so ten, Man i'm. Crushing when this came with

1866
01:34:05,359 --> 01:34:08,439
the L Seagle, Center i'm saying it's either my time or.

1867
01:34:08,760 --> 01:34:12,800
CLOSER i don't Remember Three Doors down two, thousand.

1868
01:34:15,359 --> 01:34:16,359
Speaker 3: Two thousand and, four.

1869
01:34:16,439 --> 01:34:17,319
Speaker 6: BUT i.

1870
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:23,039
Speaker 4: Didn't know anything. TODAY i wrote Fun jovi nineteen ninety,

1871
01:34:23,039 --> 01:34:25,399
two Did You wear a? SONG i Wrote it's My

1872
01:34:25,560 --> 01:34:27,960
life even though it's, not it's my, life it, is

1873
01:34:28,079 --> 01:34:28,359
it's my?

1874
01:34:28,560 --> 01:34:29,520
Speaker 8: Life is?

1875
01:34:29,560 --> 01:34:31,279
Speaker 5: It From bubs two thousand and?

1876
01:34:31,479 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 6: Five B?

1877
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:34,520
Speaker 3: BISH i had two thousand and?

1878
01:34:34,560 --> 01:34:39,439
Speaker 1: Four oh, GOD i remember playing Bo bice is From

1879
01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:45,159
america that he was The daughtry. Here, yeah all, Right

1880
01:34:45,199 --> 01:34:47,399
SO i wrote Three Dames down for the next one as,

1881
01:34:47,439 --> 01:34:49,039
well BECAUSE i figured he was going to do a

1882
01:34:49,079 --> 01:34:50,359
Three Doors down song AND i didn't.

1883
01:34:50,439 --> 01:34:52,760
Speaker 5: Know now this was written like two weeks. AGO i

1884
01:34:52,920 --> 01:34:54,760
just haven't been. Around uh.

1885
01:34:56,840 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: FIRST i got The jayhawks Or they'm, like, no it's

1886
01:34:58,720 --> 01:35:00,199
not The, Jayhawks no SENSE.

1887
01:35:01,479 --> 01:35:01,520
Speaker 6: I.

1888
01:35:01,640 --> 01:35:02,359
Speaker 3: WROTE i don't.

1889
01:35:02,359 --> 01:35:05,319
Speaker 1: KNOW i THINK i wrote two thousand and. One ACTUALLY

1890
01:35:05,319 --> 01:35:07,399
i wrote two hundred, one But i'm gonna take two

1891
01:35:07,399 --> 01:35:07,800
thousand and.

1892
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:12,159
Speaker 4: One SO i wrote two. THOUSAND i had avan SCN

1893
01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:17,279
whoa Bring me To?

1894
01:35:17,439 --> 01:35:19,560
Speaker 1: Life, nope that's a different.

1895
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:24,039
Speaker 6: Song fuck. MOVIE i just Wrote Spider.

1896
01:35:24,159 --> 01:35:27,640
Speaker 5: Man it's not a bad, guess it's What i've. Done

1897
01:35:27,720 --> 01:35:31,239
From Lincoln park two thousand and, seven That formers.

1898
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:36,800
Speaker 1: Soundtrack, NOW i got thirty, five SO i soon had

1899
01:35:36,840 --> 01:35:38,640
to get way more THAN i got thirty.

1900
01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:40,239
Speaker 5: Five two of your combined as STILL.

1901
01:35:42,119 --> 01:35:46,439
Speaker 1: I. GOT i got thirty. Five, yeah and this was

1902
01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:49,479
kind of like the Super. Bowl you got, Robbed, YEAH.

1903
01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:52,199
Speaker 7: I got.

1904
01:35:52,319 --> 01:35:57,119
Speaker 1: RAMMED, whoa that's? Nice, yes uh, Yeah Lincoln. Park my

1905
01:35:57,199 --> 01:35:59,800
sons used to really Like Lincoln park. BANDS i didn't

1906
01:35:59,800 --> 01:36:04,239
really pay attention. TO i like that, song you, know

1907
01:36:04,399 --> 01:36:06,159
The John, mayer like the.

1908
01:36:06,279 --> 01:36:10,800
Speaker 4: Scream there's that band around here that does a lot

1909
01:36:10,880 --> 01:36:13,479
of covers like, this And joe loves. Them BUT i

1910
01:36:13,640 --> 01:36:14,159
can't con.

1911
01:36:14,319 --> 01:36:15,359
Speaker 7: ARTIST i don't.

1912
01:36:15,399 --> 01:36:17,399
Speaker 4: Know it's a lot of scream.

1913
01:36:17,479 --> 01:36:19,479
Speaker 1: OUs you're, thinking.

1914
01:36:21,039 --> 01:36:21,800
Speaker 3: Why won't we see you?

1915
01:36:21,880 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 4: AGAIN i can come in two weeks On mark's.

1916
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:28,920
Speaker 1: Birthday you can, Yeah, oh can we make it?

1917
01:36:29,039 --> 01:36:29,760
Speaker 4: Happen i'm gonna.

1918
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:32,159
Speaker 1: Try can we make it? Happen i'm gonna?

1919
01:36:32,239 --> 01:36:34,840
Speaker 4: Try oh my. God two weeks ago is WHEN i

1920
01:36:34,960 --> 01:36:36,880
was In. MEXICO i still have you on my calendar

1921
01:36:36,960 --> 01:36:37,520
for every Other.

1922
01:36:37,600 --> 01:36:41,119
Speaker 6: Monday But i'm. Free it's JUST i get, it you.

1923
01:36:41,199 --> 01:36:42,720
Speaker 1: KNOW i have to explain anything to.

1924
01:36:42,760 --> 01:36:44,039
Speaker 3: ME i got, god get it.

1925
01:36:45,800 --> 01:36:46,119
Speaker 1: Me back to.

1926
01:36:46,199 --> 01:36:49,119
Speaker 5: Life oh, yeah sounds a lot Like Lincoln.

1927
01:36:49,159 --> 01:36:51,560
Speaker 4: Park all, Right, OKAY i didn't listen to that. Music

1928
01:36:51,720 --> 01:36:53,880
LIKE i, Said i'm not into. Scream oh, yeah thank, You,

1929
01:36:55,479 --> 01:37:01,640
kevin Fucker, kevin just. ONE i expect a dozen roses From.

1930
01:37:01,720 --> 01:37:05,119
Kevin oh you know, what that's ALL i, want actually.

1931
01:37:06,239 --> 01:37:09,680
Speaker 1: Want what would be a gift for any man last?

1932
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:14,319
NIGHT i mean ant. Beds, no that would kind of

1933
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:18,600
wow somebody, like oh, damn these isn't like over the,

1934
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:19,279
top just.

1935
01:37:19,600 --> 01:37:20,720
Speaker 3: THOUGHTFUL i don't.

1936
01:37:20,520 --> 01:37:24,840
Speaker 4: Know what that would be reading a nice note in a.

1937
01:37:24,920 --> 01:37:29,439
CARD i feel like if you fuck, UH i feel

1938
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:33,319
like if you write something with. Feeling, yeah and you

1939
01:37:33,399 --> 01:37:36,720
don't have to get like the dozen. Chocolates but if

1940
01:37:36,880 --> 01:37:39,520
like your girlfriend or whatever has a favorite, candy say

1941
01:37:39,600 --> 01:37:41,439
she really Likes oreo cookies or.

1942
01:37:44,479 --> 01:37:50,479
Speaker 5: Or whatever double stuff or extra, stuff you gotta think

1943
01:37:51,079 --> 01:37:53,000
double stuffed, areos a dozen of?

1944
01:37:53,079 --> 01:37:56,439
Speaker 1: Them, YEAH i could hear you like something that's a

1945
01:37:56,479 --> 01:37:56,920
little more.

1946
01:37:57,439 --> 01:37:59,439
Speaker 3: Thoughtful, yeah, personal.

1947
01:37:59,199 --> 01:38:03,520
Speaker 4: Not like the Epical Valentine's, guests, right The Russell stover's

1948
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:05,359
chocolates and a heart that's.

1949
01:38:05,399 --> 01:38:07,239
Speaker 1: We still love The Russell. Stovers so you can give

1950
01:38:07,319 --> 01:38:10,079
the well you just had to figure out the. MAP

1951
01:38:11,039 --> 01:38:13,479
i gave you a map in the fucking. Things that's

1952
01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:15,640
just THE. D that's all you, need Is that's, right,

1953
01:38:15,760 --> 01:38:20,960
baby that's RIGHT D A danish a? Donut all, right we,

1954
01:38:21,079 --> 01:38:24,960
will we'll close it out For Kevin, muir, whoops wrong?

1955
01:38:25,039 --> 01:38:28,960
One For Kevin muir's gonna Celebrate valentine's.

1956
01:38:29,000 --> 01:38:31,159
Speaker 3: Daily every husband that a hockey ring.

1957
01:38:33,159 --> 01:38:35,560
Speaker 1: For laura wants nothing For Valentine's.

1958
01:38:35,640 --> 01:38:36,560
Speaker 6: Day the D.

1959
01:38:38,159 --> 01:38:40,560
Speaker 1: Laura called one of her, sons a mom's boy who's

1960
01:38:40,640 --> 01:38:42,439
Spending Valentine's day with her mom and.

1961
01:38:42,720 --> 01:38:42,800
Speaker 8: Me.

1962
01:38:45,000 --> 01:38:49,119
Speaker 5: Who's the? Bitch, now that's, right Margin I'm Bill. Moran

1963
01:38:49,319 --> 01:38:52,039
we'll See bring your mom a bottle of wine and

1964
01:38:52,279 --> 01:38:55,840
just play Some John. Mayer you the mom a couple

1965
01:38:55,840 --> 01:38:57,840
of bottles of wine and Some John mayor where's my?

1966
01:38:57,960 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 1: Name, oedipus.

1967
01:39:01,439 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 3: We'll see you.

1968
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:08,439
Speaker 1: Tomorrow It's, california bit and things Of.

1969
01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:11,520
Speaker 5: God worth sees the land up opportunity for me is

1970
01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:12,760
just a perfect tenity