Speaker 1: Thelogy cansit so high, elextasysage cansage.
Speaker 2: It's not Sorryenogy, the Saint Texas.
Speaker 1: Don't try to hold him. Put that man down, down, down, down, Okay,
Speaker 1: puck that Lexis throw her keys up, let him go,
Speaker 1: go go, go go. Now, if you are in Texas,
Speaker 1: ignore what I just said about the not being in
Speaker 1: Texas Park. But the sentiment remained the same. And yes
Speaker 1: I did make those lyrics up and know the last
Speaker 1: one didn't rhyme, but that doesn't matter. What matters is
Speaker 1: that you realize it's time to let that mother go.
Speaker 1: And that is what we are here to talk about today.
Speaker 1: I know we all have that person from our past
Speaker 1: that we just can't seem to let go up. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing. We just had the nine nine to nine portal,
Speaker 1: a full moon. A couple of days before that, we
Speaker 1: had a full blood moon, and nine nine nine is
Speaker 1: all about releasing karmic debt. Nine nine nine is releasing
Speaker 1: what was so we can welcome in what will be.
Speaker 1: It is not a death but a rebirth. And you
Speaker 1: can't be wanting and praying and manifesting new things while
Speaker 1: trying to hold on to old news. Okay. Now, I
Speaker 1: believe I am specifically the best guide for this topic
Speaker 1: because I have let go of oh so many people,
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize how often I do this or
Speaker 1: how well I do this until I really started to
Speaker 1: talk to people all around the world, my clients, until
Speaker 1: I was talking to my friends, my cousin, my family,
Speaker 1: and I realize how hard it is for people to
Speaker 1: let others go. I'm not kidding you. I don't care
Speaker 1: who you are, how long you're in my life. If
Speaker 1: you start acting up, you have got to go and
Speaker 1: I will remove you. Do I like it? No? Is
Speaker 1: it easy? No? But my emotions will never outweigh my
Speaker 1: self respect. My current temporary emotions will never outweigh my
Speaker 1: vision of what it is that I came to this
Speaker 1: planet to experience. Today, we are going to talk about
Speaker 1: how to finally move on and know. It's not just
Speaker 1: about blocking them. This is about mind, body's soul, transcending
Speaker 1: what was so you can finally step into all of
Speaker 1: your power. You don't need to be that girl or
Speaker 1: that guy that's consistently crying over that thing from your past.
Speaker 1: Call them a narcissist, call them demonic, doesn't really matter.
Speaker 1: What they are are for sure, though, is someone who's
Speaker 1: not meant to continue into your future with you. What's
Speaker 1: the positive bitches? How are you doing today? If you're
Speaker 1: hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here.
Speaker 1: So keep listening on that Bitch Is Positive podcast. Sometimes
Speaker 1: we will laugh. Other times, baby, we're gonna cry, but
Speaker 1: we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive
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Speaker 1: well as Meme Tuesday, because we all need a giggle
Speaker 1: here and there. If you are going through a breakup,
Speaker 1: the twenty one day Breakup Globe Challenge will be perfect
Speaker 1: to pair with this episode. And of course, if you've
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Speaker 1: Let's get into today's episode. If it was meant to be,
Speaker 1: it would be the fact that it's not is evidence
Speaker 1: that it's not meant to be. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: hold your hand when I say this. If it was
Speaker 1: meant to be, it would be right now. The fact
Speaker 1: that it is not is energetic universal evidence that it
Speaker 1: is not meant to be. Period, When we don't chase,
Speaker 1: when we don't bargain with destiny, with fate, the invisible
Speaker 1: string will pull us accordingly to exactly where it is
Speaker 1: we need to go. What is the invisible string theory?
Speaker 1: This theory is that when you are born, there's an
Speaker 1: invisible string that pulls you to the right people, the
Speaker 1: right places, the right cities at the right time. This
Speaker 1: is not all in your control. When you try to
Speaker 1: fight what is, that is the root of all suffering,
Speaker 1: going against what is and trying to enact your will
Speaker 1: over thy will. Baby, Yes, you have so much control
Speaker 1: over your life, but you are not the sole creator
Speaker 1: of it. You are in co collaboration, co creation with
Speaker 1: the divine, and you gotta start listening. You are stepping
Speaker 1: on your own foot. You're making your life harder than
Speaker 1: what it actually needs to be because you are trying
Speaker 1: to resist. Simply what is. If this person was meant
Speaker 1: to fight for you, they would. If this person was
Speaker 1: meant to stick around in your reality, they would. If
Speaker 1: this person was meant to be here and continuously date
Speaker 1: you and marry you and be with you, they would.
Speaker 1: The fact that they are not is proof in itself
Speaker 1: that they are not meant to be doing those things.
Speaker 1: They are not meant to continue into the next season
Speaker 1: with you. Now, something about the invisible string is yeah,
Speaker 1: it can actually stretch, It can bend, it can twist,
Speaker 1: it can tangle. So if this person at a later
Speaker 1: date is meant to componing back into your life by
Speaker 1: way of the invisible string. They will be pulled back in,
Speaker 1: but there is nothing, no way, nada for you to
Speaker 1: do to try to claw, to beg to glue someone
Speaker 1: into your reality if they are not meant to be
Speaker 1: in this season. Sometimes we meet a soulmate and we
Speaker 1: think this is my husband there forever Now. Your intuition
Speaker 1: is not wrong that this is a soulmate, But you've
Speaker 1: got to understand what type of soulmate are they Are
Speaker 1: they karmic, because that would mean they're meant to come in.
Speaker 1: They're meant to trigger your wounds that you've had with
Speaker 1: your caregivers. You're inner child. They're meant to show you
Speaker 1: where you're still hurting. And then they're meant to get
Speaker 1: up and leave. They were meant to arrive. They're not
Speaker 1: necessarily meant to stay. Just because the invisible string pulls
Speaker 1: someone in for a season, it does not mean they're
Speaker 1: meant to stay for a lifetime. And if they're meant
Speaker 1: to come back in, they will. You don't have to
Speaker 1: do anything. You don't have to do anything. You decide
Speaker 1: at a really early age that you had to control
Speaker 1: your own reality because you don't trust God. You decided
Speaker 1: that the only way for you to be safe is
Speaker 1: for you to try to control everything. But by the way,
Speaker 1: when you're trying to control everything, you're still not controlling everything.
Speaker 1: You can only control the controllables. You can control how
Speaker 1: you show up, your attitude, what you focus on, what
Speaker 1: you do with your time and your energy. But you
Speaker 1: can't control other people. You can't control your whole entire
Speaker 1: existence because your human self wasn't meant to do that.
Speaker 1: There are some things that have been chosen by your
Speaker 1: soul self that are destiny, that they're happening no matter what.
Speaker 1: It's a destiny point. There are some people who are
Speaker 1: meant to come in and leave it no matter what.
Speaker 1: So sure, you can kick, you can scream, you can cry,
Speaker 1: that's not going to change what destiny has in store
Speaker 1: for you. You have to say start owning the truth.
Speaker 1: Don't let the truth own you. You own the truth.
Speaker 1: Make the truth your bitch. If you try lying to yourself,
Speaker 1: well they are my soul ma, well they were meant
Speaker 1: to be forever, they were meant to be my husband. Actually,
Speaker 1: you don't know that. You're running your mouth off of falsity.
Speaker 1: What are you even saying? What are you even saying?
Speaker 1: And I know everyone wants to be sweet with you
Speaker 1: right now, everyone wants to just give you a comfortable
Speaker 1: space to lay down your head. I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 1: to you. You like to lie to yourself apparently, but
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that. I don't have time
Speaker 1: for that. Okay, you need to own the truth. So
Speaker 1: if this is a breakup, if you never even got
Speaker 1: into a relationship and this is just a situationship, you
Speaker 1: need to stop sugarcoating what this is. Sure, maybe they
Speaker 1: were your soulmate, but they're not the type that's meant
Speaker 1: to stay forever. Maybe they were a heart activator to
Speaker 1: show you that there are still good men out there
Speaker 1: to give you confidence to keep dating. Maybe they're meant
Speaker 1: to triger your old wounds. Maybe they're meant to show
Speaker 1: you that you're still in your masculine energy and they
Speaker 1: were very feminine. You have to start asking yourself, all right,
Speaker 1: what was I meant to learn here? What's the deeper truth?
Speaker 1: The good, the bad, and the ugly. Stop sugarcoating what
Speaker 1: this connection was, because if it was meant to be,
Speaker 1: it would be stop making excuses for them. But they
Speaker 1: were so close, but I could see who they could be. Cool, Great,
Speaker 1: you have a good imagination. That's not who they are.
Speaker 1: And the problem is, when you exist within a higher vibration,
Speaker 1: you're able to see who that person could be if
Speaker 1: they shifted into your similar vibration. You're able to see
Speaker 1: who they could be without the coping mechanisms, without all
Speaker 1: the addictions, without them being literally narcissistic and having severe
Speaker 1: mental illness. You're able to see who they could be.
Speaker 1: But that's not who they're choosing to be. So technically,
Speaker 1: you're in love with a fake person. You're in love
Speaker 1: with a ghost, You're in love with your own imagination.
Speaker 1: Oh well, that's weird, that's weird. What do you what
Speaker 1: are you doing? This ain't Texas? Okay, put them down,
Speaker 1: don't hold them, Stop holding onto this imaginary fake person.
Speaker 1: Put it down. Stop rewriting the story in your head.
Speaker 1: Because your mind will literally lie to you almost fifty
Speaker 1: percent of the time, just to try to get you
Speaker 1: back to go towards what is familiar. It will want
Speaker 1: that dopamine, that kiss, that hug, that text, So it's
Speaker 1: going to tell you go back to them. Go back
Speaker 1: to them. Remember when they were good for that one Wednesday,
Speaker 1: and for the rest of the week they were terrible.
Speaker 1: Think about that one Wednesday, romanticize them, and go back
Speaker 1: to it. Your brain does not even remember things one
Speaker 1: hundred percent correctly, and when you remember something, you remember
Speaker 1: the last time you remembered it. You don't even remember
Speaker 1: the actual event. So yeah, you gotta get your brain
Speaker 1: on board. You gotta start breaking down that brain barrier
Speaker 1: and saying, actually, I know that when I recall something,
Speaker 1: it's not one hundred percent accurate, and my brain is
Speaker 1: just starving for dopamine. How do you get dopamine? Read
Speaker 1: a book, read show up as her, take the twenty
Speaker 1: one day breakup glow up challenge, create something, go for
Speaker 1: a walk. You need to find a new vehicle to
Speaker 1: get dopamine. This connection was real because you felt something.
Speaker 1: That means something. Okay, yes, but it doesn't mean it's right.
Speaker 1: So I'm not going to discount your intuition. I believe
Speaker 1: you you felt something deeply. I believe you. That does
Speaker 1: not mean you're meant to stay together forever. And that's
Speaker 1: what they don't teach you, and it's what I must
Speaker 1: tell you. You have to call it what it is.
Speaker 1: By the way, moving on doesn't always feel like a
Speaker 1: great It doesn't always feel great. Do you think when
Speaker 1: I ended my seven year relationship, I was like titterlydly
Speaker 1: da da da da da da dad. This is so fun.
Speaker 1: I love this. I love breaking up with someone who's
Speaker 1: been my best friend very seven years. I love that
Speaker 1: I now have to go out and date all over again.
Speaker 1: But really, you're not starting over. You're just starting again
Speaker 1: because you have more information about yourself and dating in general.
Speaker 1: Oh I love that all my friends are getting engaged
Speaker 1: in married and I'm now going to be single. I
Speaker 1: love that. This is so fun. Do you think that's
Speaker 1: what I was saying to myself. No, I thought, Oh,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna die alone. Awesome. I cried day
Speaker 1: in and day out. I could not eat. I felt
Speaker 1: like a piece of paper floating in the wind, like
Speaker 1: a plastic bag floating in the wind. That's what I
Speaker 1: felt like. So you need to understand that making the
Speaker 1: right decision doesn't always feel right. Sometimes it feels like
Speaker 1: absolute shit. Hmm, okay, awesome doesn't matter though, doesn't matter
Speaker 1: because on soul level, here you know this is what
Speaker 1: you need to do. Your mind doesn't want to do it.
Speaker 1: It's familiar, it's comfortable. Your mind wants to stay in
Speaker 1: that familiarity. But your soul knows it's what you need
Speaker 1: to do. You got to listen to your soul because
Speaker 1: your soul has a better understanding of your past, of
Speaker 1: your present, and your future. Your soul has a better
Speaker 1: understanding of your past lifetimes and where you're going potentially
Speaker 1: in your next one. Your soul has a greater radar
Speaker 1: for what you've come to this planet to do. Your
Speaker 1: soul knows that if it's not this soulmate, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be a better one one that's more in alignment. Your
Speaker 1: soul knows if you pick a moldy grape, that's fine
Speaker 1: because there's a whole entire mine of other grapes, so
Speaker 1: you can flick that one away and pick a new grape.
Speaker 1: The universe will always send you a backup, another soulmate.
Speaker 1: There's a never ending resource of people who have incarnated
Speaker 1: during this time as backups for you that will be
Speaker 1: better in alignment. Just because it hurts doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: it's wrong. Your nervous system is detoxing, especially during this
Speaker 1: nine nine nine portal and eclip season, we are releasing
Speaker 1: so many energies and thought forms and emotions from past lifetimes,
Speaker 1: from this lifetime. We are going through it. And when
Speaker 1: you wring yourself out like a towbel it's not gonna
Speaker 1: always feel good. Do you think, also, when I ended
Speaker 1: things with this Karmac partner that was easy for me.
Speaker 1: You saw me hysterically cry through a whole entire podcast episode.
Speaker 1: Do you think it fell all the way right for me? No?
Speaker 1: I was hoping on some level, Oh, they'll reach out
Speaker 1: to me, we'll talk it out, it will be fine.
Speaker 1: But I knew. I knew to pull away on a
Speaker 1: soul level. So our brain wants them to reach out.
Speaker 1: Our brain wants them to call us, Our brain wants
Speaker 1: to reconnect. Our soul knows no, it is not the
Speaker 1: right thing to do. So sure, your body might be
Speaker 1: craving them or the chaos, but your higher self knows better.
Speaker 1: You need to have faith over fear. Pain is temporary,
Speaker 1: and you are having this pain right now in service
Speaker 1: of greater joy later. You're breaking away now in service
Speaker 1: of a greater relationship later. When I ended the seven
Speaker 1: year relationship, I've ended mostly all my relationships really, and
Speaker 1: I hate doing it because I'm a lover girl and
Speaker 1: I know that about myself. But I also know that
Speaker 1: means I love myself the most and I'm not going
Speaker 1: to settle in places that I'm not meant to be planted.
Speaker 1: It's not happening. So maybe this pain is temporary, but
Speaker 1: my piece that I have that will be permanent. I
Speaker 1: go to sleep every single night with peace in my
Speaker 1: soul knowing that I'm going to get divine union. Maybe
Speaker 1: it wasn't my exes, maybe it wasn't the last guy
Speaker 1: I dated, but I'm going to get it. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: going to get exactly what I want, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to have faith over fear. Period. Crying every day is
Speaker 1: still progressed. Crying is alchemy because you're releasing, blocking their number,
Speaker 1: muting them, whatever you need to do, do it out
Speaker 1: of sight, out of mind. It really does help pretend
Speaker 1: that they're unlive if you have to have a funeral
Speaker 1: for them, Technically they are unlive because they're no longer
Speaker 1: a part of your reality. And if you stop feeding
Speaker 1: something with your attention, it does cease to exist in
Speaker 1: your reality. Okay, that is what quantum physics shows us
Speaker 1: tears don't mean that you're doing something wrong. Feeling like
Speaker 1: you are doing something wrong still doesn't mean you're doing
Speaker 1: something wrong, because your body is going to create familiarity.
Speaker 1: I think it's really helpful to release as much as
Speaker 1: you can during this season. So whether you have to
Speaker 1: watch reality television and cry along with the people who
Speaker 1: are getting cheated on and all these terrible things happening
Speaker 1: to them, or you want to listen to sad music.
Speaker 1: I with this karmic relationship. Listen to Eternal Sunshine over
Speaker 1: and over and over again. As I was driving out
Speaker 1: east for my cousin's wedding, and on my way there,
Speaker 1: I just said to myself, I need to cry this out,
Speaker 1: and I need to do it again and again and
Speaker 1: again until I release it. Give yourself permission to feel.
Speaker 1: Feeling is healing. It's the bridge to greater peace and
Speaker 1: magnetic energy. So feel to heal. It's not a bad thing.
Speaker 1: That's energy leaving your body. Now. Some distractions are fine,
Speaker 1: but it cannot be twenty four to seven. What I
Speaker 1: mean by some distractions, I mean being around friends and family, Okay,
Speaker 1: going outside, getting dinner, getting yourself out of your house,
Speaker 1: putting on makeup, putting on an outfit. That really does
Speaker 1: shift your energy, and it can sometimes show you, look,
Speaker 1: there's other people out there, or you have people who
Speaker 1: love you and support you. If you have someone to
Speaker 1: go out with or spend time with, go do it. Go,
Speaker 1: do that workout class, sweat out that energy. And if
Speaker 1: you don't. For me, sometimes I don't really like talking
Speaker 1: about what I'm going through because a lot of people
Speaker 1: in my reality are not living a similar one, so
Speaker 1: they don't understand what I mean by karmic relationship. They
Speaker 1: don't understand when I say these things that I'm feeling.
Speaker 1: So what do I do. I work with energy healers,
Speaker 1: I work with shawmans, I work with coaches. So if
Speaker 1: you're going through this and you don't have someone to
Speaker 1: talk to, book a one on one session with me.
Speaker 1: I will help you through it. We will tap into
Speaker 1: your energy, we will shift your energy and get you
Speaker 1: back on your pedestal. Sometimes it is hard for us
Speaker 1: to hold our own energy. Let me help you and
Speaker 1: I will pick it up with you. You're not meant
Speaker 1: to hold it alone. The next thing you have to
Speaker 1: do is release the fantasy that you built up in
Speaker 1: your own brain. As women, it's so easy for us
Speaker 1: to not just date someone in the present, but start
Speaker 1: to think how our future is going to look. We're
Speaker 1: gonna live in this house, We're gonna have this family,
Speaker 1: We're going to have this type of life together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta let that go. You gotta let that go.
Speaker 1: There's a better vision for you. You just can't see
Speaker 1: it yet. There's a better life for you. You just
Speaker 1: can't see it yet. One of the hardest parts of
Speaker 1: releasing people is releasing who we thought they were and
Speaker 1: the life we thought we're going to have with them.
Speaker 1: You're not just moving on from him, you're moving on
Speaker 1: from the story you wrote in your own head. Feels
Speaker 1: like an ego death to me. So maybe we have
Speaker 1: to take out a pen and paper, and maybe we
Speaker 1: need to make two columns, and maybe we need to
Speaker 1: write down the version we created in our head versus
Speaker 1: what's actually showing up. And then I swear I tell
Speaker 1: all my friends to do this, and I have this
Speaker 1: for every single one of my exes. Write down based
Speaker 1: on the version that they're showing up as, not as
Speaker 1: who you think they could be, based on the version
Speaker 1: that they're showing up as write down why you made
Speaker 1: the right decision. They couldn't show up for me. They're
Speaker 1: verbally abusive. They couldn't see me, they couldn't understand me.
Speaker 1: We don't have similar values. Write down why you made
Speaker 1: the right decision. And every time your brain's gonna want
Speaker 1: to go back and tell you, oh, dopaminehit, dopamin hit,
Speaker 1: you're gonna remind yourself, no, this is actually what was,
Speaker 1: not what my brain is trying to tell me, because
Speaker 1: it's craving dopamine. Every thought, stock or scroll is like
Speaker 1: plugging your energy into their outlet. It keeps them charged
Speaker 1: and it keeps you depleted. Instead, you got to start
Speaker 1: reclaiming that juice for yourself. In this relationship, most likely
Speaker 1: there was some sort of exchange of energy. It could
Speaker 1: have been just through conversation, or it could have been
Speaker 1: through being intimate with them. That's fine, but you need
Speaker 1: to start calling your energy back from them. You need
Speaker 1: to start cleansing. So maybe you get white sage or
Speaker 1: Pello santo and cleanse your aura, your field, your body
Speaker 1: every single day. Maybe you get a rose quartz crystal
Speaker 1: and you hold onto that and remind yourself, I am
Speaker 1: in this love frequency with or without them, and I'm
Speaker 1: going to get divine union with or without them. And
Speaker 1: when you call your power back, you're going to say,
Speaker 1: I lovingly and peacefully call all all of my power
Speaker 1: back to me now from and state their name. If
Speaker 1: you want to take this up a notch, say I
Speaker 1: lovingly and peacefully call all my power back to me
Speaker 1: from every person, place, dimension and timeline, person place, dimension
Speaker 1: and timeline, and you can make this your own. That's
Speaker 1: what I did. And when you do that every single day,
Speaker 1: maybe you have to do it multiple times a day,
Speaker 1: you're gonna start to feel more and more whole. But understand,
Speaker 1: every time that you're tracking their social media, you're looking
Speaker 1: at their whatever pictures of you two together, you're looking
Speaker 1: at their Snapchat score, whatever it may be. Every time
Speaker 1: you're doing that, it's like you're giving them money. They
Speaker 1: broke your heart and now you want to make them
Speaker 1: energetically richer. That's weird. That's weird. I would stop doing
Speaker 1: that if I were you. Instead, when you call your
Speaker 1: power back, when you refocus on you, that's like you
Speaker 1: making money. Girl, math, thank you so much. You have
Speaker 1: to see this as your graduation. It's not an ending.
Speaker 1: It's not a death, it's a rebirth. You are moving
Speaker 1: into a completely new energetic tax bracket. You're not losing
Speaker 1: your leveling up. The universe has to make space for
Speaker 1: someone you're more in alignment with, and this is kind
Speaker 1: of fun. This is kind of great, like ooh, you
Speaker 1: get to release this person just to get someone who's
Speaker 1: more in alignment, funnier, kinder, wiser, perhaps hotter and richer.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't make the rules. I don't
Speaker 1: make the rules. It's energetic law. That doesn't sound too bad. Actually,
Speaker 1: that doesn't sound too bad. Yeah, you have to think
Speaker 1: of this as a graduation, not a punishment, because that's
Speaker 1: what it actually is. No man is your friend, no
Speaker 1: man is your enemy. Every single man is a portal
Speaker 1: to the next version of yourself. Maybe the ceremony hurts
Speaker 1: a bit, but this diploma is taking you straight to freedom,
Speaker 1: a high vibrational relationship with yourself, with your life, with
Speaker 1: other partners, and when you release them, you open the
Speaker 1: floodgates not just to other love partners, but abundance, health, happiness.
Speaker 1: You're gonna start to notice that because you've taken your
Speaker 1: energy back instead of trying to fight for someone who
Speaker 1: does not want or have the capacity to be in
Speaker 1: your reality. You now have a lot more energy to
Speaker 1: put into that creative endeavor. You now have a lot
Speaker 1: more energy to write that book. You now have a
Speaker 1: lot more energy to do your job. And so abundance
Speaker 1: will always follow that, especially when you're choosing yourself. Trauma
Speaker 1: bonds are like energetic nicotine. They keep you hooked. Your
Speaker 1: system thinks it needs a chaos, but it does not.
Speaker 1: So sometimes you're gonna need a quick, very quick embodiment shift.
Speaker 1: So shake your body out, scream into a pillow, dance
Speaker 1: to a song. Maybe we're dancing to Beyonce. I did
Speaker 1: that a lot when I ended my seven year relationship
Speaker 1: at the three year mark. Lemonade, so good, shake your ass,
Speaker 1: shake your body, stop your feet, Scream into a pillow,
Speaker 1: go for a run, Let the energy out. Whether it's
Speaker 1: working out, crying, or doing just body movements, this is
Speaker 1: all going to help. And tell yourself it's safe for
Speaker 1: me to let go, it's safe for me to release,
Speaker 1: it's safe for me to move on because your body
Speaker 1: thinks it's not. So you are not just your inner child,
Speaker 1: you're also this wise inner adult. Tell yourself. What's up.
Speaker 1: Remember we're not sugarcoating in this season. Heartbreak is not
Speaker 1: some sort of ending. It's an initiation. The ache you
Speaker 1: feels proof that you love deeply. That's a beautiful ability.
Speaker 1: I'm so proud that you are able to lead with
Speaker 1: your heart. And now you're being redirected for someone to
Speaker 1: meet you where you're at. Meet you in your depth,
Speaker 1: meet you in your love. This is rocket fuel to
Speaker 1: get you into the deepest connection with yourself, with the
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Speaker 1: that pain, go to the workout, give your self time
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Speaker 1: Whether it's high vibe or low vibe, energy is energy
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Speaker 1: do have to lose people in order to learn how
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Speaker 1: You are not what you have lost, because you don't lose,
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Speaker 1: in your depth, and therefore someone who just doesn't deserve you.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.
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