Speaker 1: Who what's up, beautiful people?
Speaker 2: Is your baby mama favorite baby Mama Stormy Peat And
Speaker 2: this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the
Speaker 2: modern day female perspective. Damn Son. Back at it again. Okay,
Speaker 2: back at it again, y'all. So I've been on this
Speaker 2: like uh movie binge, right, and y'all know sci fi
Speaker 2: movies is my shit, right. So I was watching this
Speaker 2: movie called A Quiet Place, So good, I went on
Speaker 2: a rabbit hole watched all of the movies in the series, right.
Speaker 2: So I was watching this movie called The Quiet Place, right,
Speaker 2: and the premise is there are these aliens that come
Speaker 2: down to Earth, but they're like blind and they can't see.
Speaker 2: They're kind of like you sonar like a bet, right,
Speaker 2: they just hear, So if you're quiet, they won't kill you.
Speaker 2: And it's got me thinking, what universe would you rather
Speaker 2: live in? Bird box or quiet place?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 2: Just for some like content your room bird box, like
Speaker 2: you could see, but you couldn't see because as long
Speaker 2: as you had like your doors closed and your windows shut,
Speaker 2: the things couldn't really get in the house. So you
Speaker 2: could move around freely in your house like seeing. But
Speaker 2: if you went outside your house, you had to have
Speaker 2: your eyes covered or else. The I don't know, the
Speaker 2: trees would try to convince you to kill yourself.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't exactly.
Speaker 2: I don't really that that part is still lost to
Speaker 2: me a little bit. But listen, I was asking myself
Speaker 2: where would you rather live? Bird box or quiet place?
Speaker 2: And y'all, if you've been listening to this pod or
Speaker 2: following my social media journey long enough, you know I
Speaker 2: would have to live in bird box because I would
Speaker 2: never survive in the quiet place. I would never survive
Speaker 2: in the quiet place.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: First of all, I laughed like a black auntie from
Speaker 2: down south. That's the first thing. Okay, stop bad, that's
Speaker 2: the worst thing. Second thing, one thing about me, baby,
Speaker 2: I'm a fought okay, I'm a fat.
Speaker 1: I'm a fought okay.
Speaker 2: And I swear I would literally put my family at
Speaker 2: risk every night because I snore. I snore like I
Speaker 2: am risking my whole household every night because I am
Speaker 2: going to snore, and I don't care what I do.
Speaker 2: I could prop my head up, I could put breathe
Speaker 2: strips on. At this point, I just need surgery, like honestly,
Speaker 2: I have no other options. And not to mention I
Speaker 2: have a twelve year old son. This nigga can't be
Speaker 2: quiet to save his life.
Speaker 1: Like my bad, I'm sorry, Kamar eighty two says.
Speaker 2: So I don't really know the situation, and I don't
Speaker 2: really be watching people's live shit, but I seen quite
Speaker 2: a few of your videos. If shot ain't your dude,
Speaker 2: he should be. He wants he does not want to be.
Speaker 1: That is not.
Speaker 2: Correct, But thank you for your input. You need a
Speaker 2: factory reset. I do quiet place. They can't swim, go
Speaker 2: to an island. That's another thing. So in a quiet place,
Speaker 2: the aliens can't swim, but unfortunately a lot of black
Speaker 2: people can't either, So everybody not gonna make it. I
Speaker 2: can't swim. I can do the doggy paddle. Really, I
Speaker 2: can swim on the water. But when I swim on
Speaker 2: the water, I kind of look like a.
Speaker 1: Frog floating like this, Like I can't float. Why can't
Speaker 1: you float?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know, I'm like a plank. That's weird.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've been in gym now, I got muscles
Speaker 5: and shit. Maybe little masks.
Speaker 1: Hell, little mass is crazy?
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 1: Ray gifted keys? Let's do it? Is that I don't know.
Speaker 2: Probably watching the game eighty says that aliens are the
Speaker 2: black people. Please stop talking to me. Okay, but yeah,
Speaker 2: so where would you rather live? Birdbox or quiet place?
Speaker 1: I'm definitely doing bird box? What the fuck? Really? Oh no?
Speaker 1: I mis understood that that. Yeah, burbox for sure. I
Speaker 1: like you like to climb trees stuff. Dog.
Speaker 2: Oh it was so sad and like the movie the
Speaker 2: little boy put the batteries in a rocket ship and
Speaker 2: like turned it on and was like whoa woo, and
Speaker 2: then the aliens came and killed him.
Speaker 1: He's like four years old. It was very sad. Jim
Speaker 1: from the Offices in it.
Speaker 3: Really good movie.
Speaker 1: I would I would definitely check it. The Jym from
Speaker 1: the Offices in it. Yes he's a dad.
Speaker 2: No, he's a dad like he plays the dad.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but how good can you be? Speaking? Was
Speaker 1: very minimal? You know what I mean? It's quiet place?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: He did a good job. And the most recent one,
Speaker 2: Lupite is in it. She did really good too.
Speaker 1: I liked it.
Speaker 2: Outfit said what shot y'all not gonna get on my
Speaker 2: nerves today? Oh Legosi Magic says Jim also directed it.
Speaker 1: Did not know that? Thank you? The more you know,
Speaker 1: the more you know.
Speaker 2: My son Walby Lyons says, the quiet place you can't
Speaker 2: do nothing, can't get on your phone, can't watch TV.
Speaker 1: Can't Yo, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: And then what happens like when my stomach growl, the
Speaker 2: aliens are coming.
Speaker 1: Nigga, we would have to separate.
Speaker 4: There will be no men and women together because we
Speaker 4: would just there will be no Everybody would just die.
Speaker 2: And then I was thinking, like people with babies, you
Speaker 2: can't control when the baby cries.
Speaker 1: You know, we just have to kill.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry what they have to die. We do have
Speaker 4: to go because like, ain't nobody We're.
Speaker 2: Gonna have to do like Harriet Tubman and knock them
Speaker 2: babies out. You know she was knocking babies out on
Speaker 2: the underground railroad.
Speaker 4: Yo, Oprah surviving surviving area because every time this podcast start,
Speaker 4: more are in fact surviving.
Speaker 3: Harriet is crazy.
Speaker 1: But no, like don't worry, just bitches came out. I
Speaker 1: don't worry, just don't run.
Speaker 4: I woke up in the field about life.
Speaker 2: No, she wasn't knocking them out physically. She would like
Speaker 2: use like herbs.
Speaker 1: I was drugg Oh my god, wait, I was like what.
Speaker 2: Yo, I am crying, I am crying meant for Morris says,
Speaker 2: everybody gonna have to be duct taped. Absolutely Outfice says,
Speaker 2: serving babies medium rare to the monsters so much, you know,
Speaker 2: you people don't deserve nice things. Gordon h twenty two says, hey,
Speaker 2: imagine her giving a baby a left hook. Like seriously though,
Speaker 2: like why do y'all want Harriet to be mink minking?
Speaker 3: These babies so bad? She was not, She was not.
Speaker 1: It was herbs.
Speaker 2: Harriet was like depot on Friday, go to sleep, Go
Speaker 2: to sleep, yoiggas.
Speaker 1: Woke up in the.
Speaker 4: Field, Yo, I'd be so bad if I love my master,
Speaker 4: you know I'm mad. I'd be if I was a
Speaker 4: slave and I just woke up about blood free like
Speaker 4: bitch I was inside, yo, yoigg I'd be so bad
Speaker 4: if I was a house and got free.
Speaker 1: Like what are you talking about a little crazy now
Speaker 1: I'm running barefoot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I guarantee some of them house niggas probably
Speaker 2: got one to harry at leaving and like told.
Speaker 1: They had to they had to. Absolutely they had to.
Speaker 2: Niggas tell on Grandmam's eating grapes in the supermarket I
Speaker 2: know niggas was telling when they got when Harry had
Speaker 2: come into the house.
Speaker 1: Little woody face nigga, I know gonna snitch yo, fly.
Speaker 2: Got free from selling, says uppercut. Lpzo says Harriet said,
Speaker 2: either you won't go to sleep or I'm gonna put
Speaker 2: you to sleep.
Speaker 1: Either way you go get free, little nigga, Yo, we
Speaker 1: gotta relax. Can we get back on track? Please? Please?
Speaker 1: Can we please? You?
Speaker 2: Negros? You do it to me every time. These are
Speaker 2: not Harriet braids. First of all, and that's the name
Speaker 2: of the pod. Tupman Two's hold on one second, y'all,
Speaker 2: so I can write this now. Tubman Two's okay. So
Speaker 2: all that aside, recent study ranked Philadelphia one of the
Speaker 2: rudest cities in the United States. Type ship type ship
Speaker 2: type ship type ship like, honestly, is anyone surprised?
Speaker 3: Is anyone? You? You? You? Anyone?
Speaker 2: A recent study finds Philadelphia is one of the rudest
Speaker 2: cities in the United States.
Speaker 3: Y'all.
Speaker 2: When I first when it was first popped up on
Speaker 2: my radar, I said, well, dub I knew that what
Speaker 2: else is new?
Speaker 1: Nothing new?
Speaker 2: So according to prepley dot com, the city or brother
Speaker 2: love is anything but, as it is ranked number two
Speaker 2: on the Rudest Cities in the United States.
Speaker 3: Y'all.
Speaker 2: First of all, this is like a language learning app,
Speaker 2: and basically they did the study where they just asked
Speaker 2: people a whole bunch of questions. So the language learning
Speaker 2: app pulled over fifteen hundred residents in the thirty largest
Speaker 2: metropolitan areas in the US and they basically asked about
Speaker 2: the levels of rudeness in their city. This can be
Speaker 2: anything from people not saying thank you, people who are
Speaker 2: more likely to have their telephone on speaker. Honestly, that's
Speaker 2: real Philly. That's real Philly. One thing about us. We
Speaker 2: gonna have that phone on speaker loud as hell. And
Speaker 2: not only are we gonna have the phone on speaker, baby,
Speaker 2: we're gonna be listening to music on speaker AirPods.
Speaker 5: What's that you're really mad that you got two kids
Speaker 5: that you take care of, but her son she had
Speaker 5: to come into dallatry and buy school supplies at the
Speaker 5: last minute, because you know, it's not like you didn't
Speaker 5: have your kid for this many years or something. Yes,
Speaker 5: and then her friend thinks you ain't shit and you
Speaker 5: never been ship, mister Right, and I just want to
Speaker 5: let you know that you should do better, like.
Speaker 1: Period, thank you for sharing.
Speaker 2: And I don't think mister right one of his business
Speaker 2: out there like that, but it is now speak about listen,
Speaker 2: and that's like a common occurrence, Like it's very common
Speaker 2: to be in a supermarket and hear somebody whole business. Okay,
Speaker 2: I know who ain't paid they phone bill. I know
Speaker 2: who old child support. I know who ain't seen they
Speaker 2: kids in three weeks. Like one thing about us were
Speaker 2: going ahead that phone on speaker.
Speaker 1: Why I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'd be like I ain't got enough money. I know
Speaker 1: I heard you over there. Okay.
Speaker 2: So now Philly did top the list of locals with
Speaker 2: the rudist behavior, but we have gotten better because in
Speaker 2: twenty twenty two we were number one and now we're
Speaker 2: number two. Okay, so you know growth, all right. The
Speaker 2: current number one for rudius city in twenty twenty four
Speaker 2: is Miami. And yeah, man, I think that they weren't wrong.
Speaker 5: But you said earlier like it depends because you called
Speaker 5: you a dickhead, because that's just like saying Paul's in Europe.
Speaker 2: And I think so because it's a language learning app.
Speaker 2: I think it really is just a difference of cultures
Speaker 2: and what you may or may not understand. Because in
Speaker 2: Philly we call you a dickhead with love.
Speaker 1: Okay, if.
Speaker 2: Dick like pussy bruh, bruh. If you walking around and
Speaker 2: somebody call you pussy like wow, hey, pal.
Speaker 1: Is always like Chunky with the little flight jackets with
Speaker 1: the ski man's like why pussy.
Speaker 2: Yes. Now, granted, we may not hold the door for you,
Speaker 2: but that's only because I might have held it for
Speaker 2: the person in front of you, and I can't hold
Speaker 2: it for two.
Speaker 1: That's that's way too way too much.
Speaker 2: And you know, if you hold a door open for
Speaker 2: a young lady, she might not say thank you, but
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean she doesn't thank you. Okay, Now if
Speaker 2: you choose to be smart and say you're welcome, she's
Speaker 2: gonna say fuck you mean. And then now we're gonna
Speaker 2: go to a different situation.
Speaker 3: But yeah, you know.
Speaker 2: It's a city or brother. Yeah, Philly gonna try you
Speaker 2: for real. But I just want you to know it's
Speaker 2: usually with love.
Speaker 1: And also.
Speaker 2: I'll say, a fear of getting scammed. So now it's
Speaker 2: like just boundaries we've developed. And yeah, like, Philly is
Speaker 2: a weird place because sometimes if you too nice, we
Speaker 2: think you trying to scam us. Yeah, like, it's just
Speaker 2: a rude city. Sometimes we're not being rude out of hate,
Speaker 2: it's protection. Yeah, does that make sense? Outfit, say, snatcher
Speaker 2: by her bus down? Right back out the door.
Speaker 1: No, No, you can't. You cannot, baby, you cannot do that.
Speaker 1: That is not allowed. No, speaking of snatching bitches body
Speaker 1: bus down.
Speaker 2: I'm joking. That is absolutely not the next topic, y'all.
Speaker 2: The further I get into this journey of growth, the
Speaker 2: more I am able to vocalize the things that bother me,
Speaker 2: the things that get under my skin, the things I
Speaker 2: am sick of having to explain, the things that should
Speaker 2: just make sense.
Speaker 1: Right, let me tell you something no woman ever wants
Speaker 1: to hear. You're so perfect? Oh my god, why are
Speaker 1: you single? I can't believe you're single. You're so perfect?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't believe you're single.
Speaker 3: Me neither. What the fuck?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: I don't know what y'all want us to say when
Speaker 2: you hear this, right, but never fret, I have the
Speaker 2: perfect explanation for you, well for me, anyway, hopefully this
Speaker 2: will answer a lot of your questions. So for me personally,
Speaker 2: I think that when you have a good mentality and
Speaker 2: you have a nineties R and B hard right, dating
Speaker 2: is hard because, for one, sex is so normalized right now. Okay,
Speaker 2: now I'm not I'm not trying to be the Kuchie
Speaker 2: Crusaders or anything like that.
Speaker 1: That's I'm gonna hold on.
Speaker 3: We're not going down that line. Just just hear me
Speaker 3: out far at second place.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I feel like.
Speaker 2: Sex is so normalized right now it makes it hard
Speaker 2: for people who still put some type of value on it, right,
Speaker 2: And it's like, Babe.
Speaker 1: Once we have sex, we go together, and that's not
Speaker 1: what people think.
Speaker 2: That's not what people think. So a you have to
Speaker 2: find somebody who was like when vibeals you until you
Speaker 2: get to that point. And even then you have to
Speaker 2: find somebody who understands that that's not automatic, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean. And I know it sounds like the
Speaker 2: most the most like simple thing, but I promise you
Speaker 2: it is not. I promise you it is not right.
Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, we end up getting like
Speaker 2: fighting these battles of being called bougie and your standards
Speaker 2: are too high and you're.
Speaker 3: You're running against the biological clock.
Speaker 1: You're now we're gonna be happy, And it's like ooh,
Speaker 1: what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Like please please, please please, And it's like, oh, you're
Speaker 2: just asking for too much, like bro, please please.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: I know some of y'all fellas gonna hop in these
Speaker 2: comments and be like that's fine, you should be saving yourself.
Speaker 2: We don't want the three h fours. That's gooid. Every
Speaker 2: woman should have that mentality. But it's like, okay, now,
Speaker 2: I want you to honestly ask yourself, how long are
Speaker 2: you willing to entertain a woman and how much money
Speaker 2: are you willing to spend on her if she isn't
Speaker 2: ham a sex? Don't worry, y'all.
Speaker 3: Weat no, no, I I got time, I.
Speaker 2: Got I want you to give me a specific timeline
Speaker 2: how many days, how many months?
Speaker 1: Is it a year?
Speaker 3: How many weeks?
Speaker 1: And for that time.
Speaker 2: I want you to then turn around and say, okay,
Speaker 2: I feel like my daughter should also not be having
Speaker 2: sex until that same amount of time period.
Speaker 1: It doesn't exist. It's hard. It's fucking hard.
Speaker 5: Life is very situation. Yeah, Like you can meet one
Speaker 5: person and be like, you know how I can do
Speaker 5: this because the energy is there. You can meet the
Speaker 5: same person, you can meet somebody else and have the
Speaker 5: same type of energy. But for some strange you can't
Speaker 5: keep your hands.
Speaker 1: Off each other. It just be happening.
Speaker 2: I agree, But I feel like when we normalize the
Speaker 2: it's very situational and things just happened. You give a
Speaker 2: niggar rope, you thinking a cowboy, and now all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, sex is normalized.
Speaker 1: Bruh, Like it is normalized.
Speaker 5: But I mean at the same time, though, when you're
Speaker 5: dealing with situationships that in that realm, isn't it supposed
Speaker 5: to kind of Isn't the sex supposed to kind of
Speaker 5: be normalized so it won't fall, so you won't so
Speaker 5: you won't go into another realm. Yes, the sex is
Speaker 5: supposed to keep you, but I think people just like
Speaker 5: you normally it's too too far, Like, Okay, there's still
Speaker 5: feelings involved, Like regardless of hey, we're not supposed to
Speaker 5: be in a relationship or we know we're not.
Speaker 1: Good for each other. I understand you're still creating the
Speaker 1: soul time.
Speaker 4: In my opinion, yes, there's still a bond that's going
Speaker 4: to be made if I'm dealing with the chick, and
Speaker 4: I'm with her every weekend.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm thinking about I'm just sending her menus and
Speaker 1: s if I'm doing this and all that.
Speaker 5: I'm going to have some type of feelings for you,
Speaker 5: whether they be protective, whether I love you, whatever, there's
Speaker 5: gonna be some type of energy in me to be
Speaker 5: hold you down. And if that's the case, I'm not
Speaker 5: gonna just sit there and be like fuck you, or
Speaker 5: just do something or not be hurt when you do
Speaker 5: something crazy like.
Speaker 1: It is impossible. So we gotta just respect the I
Speaker 1: respect the situation. Now. Now here's my rebuttal toda.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: So I feel like I saw a lot of guys
Speaker 1: in a comment say, oh, ninety days right.
Speaker 2: So all y'all who are saying ninety days with Steve
Speaker 2: Harvey told y'all that y'all told him to shut the
Speaker 2: fuck up.
Speaker 5: It depends on if the girls say that they're going
Speaker 5: to wait till marriage, right, Say girl told them that
Speaker 5: she wants to wait till marriage, and we are in
Speaker 5: our relationship and then we're doing things that see that
Speaker 5: we're going towards that, like that's where it's going. We're
Speaker 5: making shrives blah blah blah. Cool because I'm not even
Speaker 5: gonna be thinking about it. But if you just sitting
Speaker 5: here talking about blah blah and now we're in the
Speaker 5: crib and you just walk around your boot shops all
Speaker 5: day and we just shooting the ship like we kids
Speaker 5: in the nineties, Nigga, what you think I'm about to do.
Speaker 4: I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not, We're not. I'm going to be like, hold
Speaker 1: on you, you're trying to finess like what's like, what's
Speaker 1: going like? I'm gonna think.
Speaker 5: But if you're saying, hey, I have a ninety day
Speaker 5: rule as a man, we're gonna respect it. But then again, oh,
Speaker 5: blah blah blah, can't go out the night because I'm.
Speaker 1: Going but and that and that, and then that brings
Speaker 1: me to my next point. Right, if you're really walking
Speaker 1: it like that, then cool. But if not, shut up,
Speaker 1: so that.
Speaker 2: Brings me to my next point. You can have all
Speaker 2: your morals and your values liuned up. You can have
Speaker 2: all your morals and your values lined up correctly, and
Speaker 2: this man will still decide like, oh, you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: sure we can like hang out, we can chill or
Speaker 2: whatever the case may be, But how much attention is
Speaker 2: he going to start dieting away from you when he
Speaker 2: finds somebody who's willing to do all the things that
Speaker 2: you're not.
Speaker 1: So long story short, Nigga is hard out here.
Speaker 3: That's the bottom of eye.
Speaker 1: Like, that's it.
Speaker 2: Gordon H twenty two says, I'll probably lose interest after
Speaker 2: ninety but I'm never prussuring her for it.
Speaker 1: I respect that one.
Speaker 2: Fine trinny boy says ninety day weight only bothered dudes
Speaker 2: that wasn't getting enough buns prior. I ain't mad at
Speaker 2: that got you hook, says Team Celibate.
Speaker 1: I love that for you. One bullet feed them, says
Speaker 1: Hi from Bedstide. Hi, baby, let me be key.
Speaker 2: He says, Did I really see you at hairtown last week?
Speaker 2: If I was looking ugly? Yeah, that probably was me.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Nobody sees me uglier than the
Speaker 2: beauty supply store Target and the maintenance man that be
Speaker 2: come into my house. Yes, shot, oh and shot shot.
Speaker 2: Shot sees me pretty ugly too, But shot don't count
Speaker 2: to me. Shot don't because okay, well because because I
Speaker 2: said so. So my next part And I feel like,
Speaker 2: for whatever reason, this concept has gotten.
Speaker 1: Lost on a lot of you. So I really want
Speaker 1: you to pay attention. Right.
Speaker 2: If we're dating and you decide I'm not the right
Speaker 2: person for you for whatever reason, I do not have
Speaker 2: to be your friend.
Speaker 1: Okay, And I don't want to say that again.
Speaker 2: If we are dating and you decide I'm not the
Speaker 2: one for you, baby, I don't have to be your friend.
Speaker 2: Good luck on your journey to hell. Okay, because you
Speaker 2: got me messed up?
Speaker 3: You do, you really do.
Speaker 2: And it's like if we're dating and you decide, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm not what you're looking for. Cool, that's fine, to
Speaker 2: eat your soul. Everybody ain't for everybody. But for you
Speaker 2: to continue expecting or for you to continue expecting access
Speaker 2: to me as.
Speaker 1: If we are still dating or is if we are
Speaker 1: still locked in it, it's absurd.
Speaker 2: Like just because you tell me you don't want to
Speaker 2: be with me, no more, that don't change my feelings. Baby,
Speaker 2: I still want to fuck Okay. So I don't want
Speaker 2: to be your friend. I don't want to be your friend.
Speaker 1: Okay. No, I don't want to hang with you. I
Speaker 1: want to skate with you, I want to kick it
Speaker 1: with you. I want you. None of that Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: taking my controller back.
Speaker 3: Bruh, bruh.
Speaker 1: Ain't no updown, left right for you no more.
Speaker 2: Baby, You're not getting your your T shirts and your
Speaker 2: hoodies back. Though I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: They were never getting them back. I'm just saying you,
Speaker 1: I don't count.
Speaker 3: You ain't getting the hoodies back.
Speaker 2: But I digress, I digress, Uh burnt up Outfite says well,
Speaker 2: damn whole figuretive funeral. Yes, Outfice says Netflix, password change, no.
Speaker 3: Workman nine to.
Speaker 2: The phantom zone, you go, facts to the shadow realm.
Speaker 2: You go because I am finished. I am done, Like baby,
Speaker 2: I was. I was doing certain things for you because
Speaker 2: I liked you and because I thought we.
Speaker 1: Were a building.
Speaker 2: Like for you to still expect to talk to me
Speaker 2: every day, get a good morning, text, link up for walks,
Speaker 2: go to the gym. Baby, I don't want to do
Speaker 2: none of that with you anymore. I was trying to
Speaker 2: get to know you. Now you made it clear to
Speaker 2: me who you are, like, I don't care no more.
Speaker 1: I really don't care no more. Like I hate when
Speaker 1: niggas be like damn so we can't shield no for
Speaker 1: what No, no, fucked out and this is like what
Speaker 1: after hanging out or after dating both? I'll say both both.
Speaker 2: If my whole thing is I no longer want you
Speaker 2: in my presence because the feelings that I have for
Speaker 2: you can't be reciprocated.
Speaker 1: And I think that's fair.
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of people will hang
Speaker 2: around and stick things out and see if feelings changed. Yeah,
Speaker 2: if you like them, Yes, if you like them, if
Speaker 2: you are on the receiving party and you like them,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But it's like, I don't
Speaker 2: want to do that, Like I'm not gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: If we stop talking because of you and I still
Speaker 2: like you, you gotta get up off my timeline.
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you. I don't want to
Speaker 1: see you. I don't want to see you. I don't
Speaker 1: want to see you. That's it.
Speaker 2: Coach Low says that's fair. When Bullet feed Them says
Speaker 2: instant teleportation like Goku, King Rip says it's very very crazy,
Speaker 2: very weird, very blasphemous. Aaron Nash seven three says, hell
Speaker 2: half no fury. Alfhuz says you rejecting the food link up? Yes,
Speaker 2: because I don't need y'all for food anyway.
Speaker 3: I'm fat.
Speaker 2: You know why I work out so much Because I'm fat.
Speaker 2: I don't need y'all for food. So you offering your
Speaker 2: food link up to me isn't going to do it.
Speaker 2: It's not gonna do it.
Speaker 1: Yes, Outfice is a black party.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 2: Gordon H twenty two says, nah, as soon as you
Speaker 2: say you love interest, you immediately have to move to Pluto.
Speaker 1: Is crazy, but yeah, stop letting these people play with you.
Speaker 1: That's who do you think you are? Not? We can.
Speaker 2: Stop letting these people play with you, right, Like Shot said,
Speaker 2: for them to look you in your face and say
Speaker 2: you're not her, but still expect you to do her things.
Speaker 1: That's dumb, playing hop stock like Kendrick Bruh my heart
Speaker 1: on my heart.
Speaker 2: Stop letting people play with you, for them to say
Speaker 2: you're not him, you're not her, but still expect you
Speaker 2: to do those things blasphemous.
Speaker 5: This is when you know that you always tell me
Speaker 5: that I got like a evil streak inside m h.
Speaker 5: And you know I want to speak to that too, right,
Speaker 5: That's that's when you're gonna see it now, make you fall.
Speaker 1: In love me?
Speaker 2: I feel like and I'm not talking about you, Shot.
Speaker 2: When I say this, I'm not talking about you. I'm
Speaker 2: talking about from experience because I've seen my girlfriends do it.
Speaker 2: Sometimes we'll say to ourselves, now I feel like I
Speaker 2: just got to give it another chance so I can
Speaker 2: get my lick back. Maybe the only person getting licked
Speaker 2: is you because he fit the hit and then leave
Speaker 2: you again like this.
Speaker 3: It doesn't work.
Speaker 5: It doesn't work if you give up the kuchi, it
Speaker 5: does not work. He won because all we care about
Speaker 5: is the kouchie. You gave effort, bruh and and fellas.
Speaker 3: This goes for you too.
Speaker 2: Don'm talking about Oh, I'm on demon Tom. Now I'm
Speaker 2: about to go in and wint a dinner and make
Speaker 2: her feel like she loved me. And then I'm I'm
Speaker 2: a hit and I'm a dip And guess what she done,
Speaker 2: got dinner, drinks and dick.
Speaker 3: She won too, Like the only person losing is you.
Speaker 2: Like that whole get back mentality does not work. If
Speaker 2: someone decides you're not them bounced, that's it.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: Aaron Nash seven three says, Sister ain't no simp legacy
Speaker 2: Magic says lick backs only benefit dudes. It don't even
Speaker 2: benefit dudes to me, cause, like I said, when you
Speaker 2: going in there spending money and you put in fourth
Speaker 2: time and effort and you're still dropping dick off, bro, you.
Speaker 4: You still oh god, God, see if we can get
Speaker 4: y'all without the dick, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all hold out.
Speaker 1: Giving us the pussy, and we still get you.
Speaker 5: So at the end of the day, the fact that
Speaker 5: we can get you without the dick is old for you,
Speaker 5: especially now that you told me I wasn't good enough,
Speaker 5: and now you say that you want to hang on
Speaker 5: be friends, because y'all love when we act mainly around
Speaker 5: when we're not yours.
Speaker 2: That's why we get you respectfully, respectfully, respectfully. I don't
Speaker 2: want to be friends. I don't need no more friends.
Speaker 1: I'm good. This is Sparta like, that's it, what you
Speaker 1: talk about, that's it.
Speaker 2: Next thing, y'all. And this is another one that I
Speaker 2: don't know why people don't understand. This goes for friends, family, whoever. Okay,
Speaker 2: just because I forgive you doesn't mean I forget that
Speaker 2: fucked up ship you did to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, just because I ain't be punching your doesn't mean
Speaker 1: I want to.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna say it again. Just because I forgive
Speaker 2: you doesn't mean I forgot that stuff you did to me.
Speaker 2: Like no, bro, No, absolutely not. No friends, family, cousins, pastors, whoever.
Speaker 2: Just because I forgive you doesn't mean i'mna forget all
Speaker 2: that stuff you did to me. Maybe that's not how
Speaker 2: it works. I don't know at what time, place period
Speaker 2: it happened, but for some reason people expect that. Oh,
Speaker 2: just because I forgive you, you now have a clean sleep.
Speaker 1: We're good.
Speaker 2: All that stuff you did to me, all that talking
Speaker 2: bag you did about me, the way you burnt me,
Speaker 2: you scam me, you got over, you didn't pay me
Speaker 2: back the money you burnt me for.
Speaker 1: Oh that's done now. Because you forgive me, now, we
Speaker 1: have to forget it now.
Speaker 3: Now we have to forget it.
Speaker 2: Bruh, bruhe in this flood me. Forgiving you means I
Speaker 2: no longer hate or wish ill will towards you. I
Speaker 2: no longer wish that the FBI and come pick you
Speaker 2: up for that PPP loan you got. Okay, that was
Speaker 2: for fraud. Okay, I no longer wish I no longer
Speaker 2: wish that you come out your house to a boot
Speaker 2: or your car. I no longer wish that your baby
Speaker 2: mom puts you on child support. I no longer wish
Speaker 2: any of these things towards you. That's what I mean
Speaker 2: when I forgive you. I have made peace with the situation.
Speaker 2: But for you to act like I gotta forget all
Speaker 2: the trauma and things you made me endure and the
Speaker 2: way you talked about me when it was over, that's dumb.
Speaker 1: Bruh, bruh, bruh.
Speaker 2: And and I want to say, forgiveness does not come
Speaker 2: with a side of amnesia. It never will, it never
Speaker 2: has and it never will.
Speaker 5: Right And.
Speaker 1: For you to.
Speaker 2: I'll say this, while I will say I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: forget the things that you did, that doesn't make it
Speaker 2: okay for me to also bring it up every chance
Speaker 2: I get, because that's not me really forgiving you. So
Speaker 2: when we have those conversations, we also have to add
Speaker 2: that in there too. But like I now know what
Speaker 2: you're capable of, and before I was doing things for
Speaker 2: you out the kindness of my heart, and I realized
Speaker 2: I can't grant you that space anymore because I know
Speaker 2: what you're capable of. Not necessarily i'm holding it against you.
Speaker 2: I'm just putting it in your repertoire. So like when
Speaker 2: people be expecting you to have amnesia with a side
Speaker 2: of forgiveness.
Speaker 1: I don't like that.
Speaker 3: That that that that bothered me.
Speaker 1: That bothered me, I don't like that. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: Like hmm hmmm hm. For you to.
Speaker 2: Put in the same position, that's that's what I was
Speaker 2: gonna say. Like for you to automatically assume that things
Speaker 2: are gonna go back to the way it was, goofy, goofy, goofy.
Speaker 1: Coach Lowe says, No, just because I didn't smack you
Speaker 1: doesn't mean and I won't and I didn't want to.
Speaker 5: Like the fact that I forgave you meant that I
Speaker 5: actually had love for you, because honestly, if I didn't
Speaker 5: love you, I just you know, would have been forever.
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, I agree. It's seven thirteen Kansas City. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I agree with you.
Speaker 2: I said, like, me forgiving you shows you that I
Speaker 2: actually did love you or actually did respect you. But
Speaker 2: I'm also not gonna let you play in my face again.
Speaker 2: That that's stumb mm hmmmm mmmm. That didn't just happen,
Speaker 2: all right, ladies and gentlemen. So now we're going to
Speaker 2: get into the edible portion of the show. So the
Speaker 2: edible portion is where I read questions, comments, stories that
Speaker 2: you guys sit in. And on the day that we record,
Speaker 2: I always put up a prompt.
Speaker 1: Saying ask me anything. Now.
Speaker 2: If you have something to share, and it's not on
Speaker 2: the day that I put up a prompt, you can
Speaker 2: always email me at inquiries at stormy p e A.
Speaker 1: I used to say DM me, but it's like the
Speaker 1: wild Wild West over there, y'all. I can I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'll be trying. I can't. Just email me.
Speaker 2: It works way better inquiries at stormypea dot com. Okay,
Speaker 2: Jared mcgroth says, damn it. I should have never opened Twitter.
Speaker 2: I told y'all, did not tell y'all. I don't feel sorry.
Speaker 1: For none of y'all. I don't.
Speaker 2: Before we started, I had shared something with the life
Speaker 2: and now a lot of them are regreting it, and great.
Speaker 1: I love that for them because they don't listen to me.
Speaker 3: Now everybody want her talking about it. Okay, So first.
Speaker 2: Question, how do you show someone you care in a relationship?
Speaker 2: H And I'll say that again. How do you show
Speaker 2: someone you care in a relationship. I think the best
Speaker 2: way to show someone you care in a relationship is
Speaker 2: to take you out of it, right. And the reason
Speaker 2: I say that is because a lot of times when
Speaker 2: we talk about the five love languages, we always talk
Speaker 2: about it from a receiving end, right, and we never
Speaker 2: discuss how it feels to give too, or we never
Speaker 2: discuss how it is to cater to your partner's love language. Right,
Speaker 2: Because if my love language is words of affirmation, you
Speaker 2: bringing me gifts means nothing to me. Okay, if my
Speaker 2: love language is quality time, you're giving me physical touch
Speaker 2: doesn't mean anything to me. I'm still not being satisfied.
Speaker 2: So when you acts, or when we say how do
Speaker 2: we show someone that we care in a relationship, Well,
Speaker 2: first you gotta actually care, okay, Like you have to
Speaker 2: find out what that person likes and what means something
Speaker 2: to them. And I think once you figure that out,
Speaker 2: everything else, you know, it falls into place. Like sometimes
Speaker 2: we selfishly just go straight in, especially when it comes
Speaker 2: to love languages, we selfishly go in with this is
Speaker 2: what I like, This is what gives me a tickle
Speaker 2: and the pickle. Okay, this is what gives my cootie
Speaker 2: Cat the heartbeat, all right, but we have to think
Speaker 2: about what our partner actually wants and what they need
Speaker 2: right shot, he was about to say something. Oh goodie,
Speaker 2: Ryan says, making your presence known and felt. Jared McGrath says,
Speaker 2: you show them you care by never.
Speaker 3: Mentioning Hyakeen's Twitter. I told y'all not to go over there.
Speaker 2: Kevin in Ward twelve says, you just say I care, right,
Speaker 2: you can, and I think that especially if you're a partner,
Speaker 2: somebody who enjoys words of affirmation, saying you care can
Speaker 2: mean a lot. But everybody's different. Everybody isn't gonna like
Speaker 2: the same things. There was no playbook. You open a page,
Speaker 2: cheven and you figure out this is what the girl
Speaker 2: likes this week, just what the guy needs this week.
Speaker 1: Like no, like you actually have to care.
Speaker 2: Siggy Ly says, consideration is the highest form of love.
Speaker 2: Agreed Outfie says, flowers, cards.
Speaker 3: And candy.
Speaker 2: One fine Trenny Boy says, got to love someone in
Speaker 2: their love language and then a step more than customize
Speaker 2: it for them. I'm not mad at this. Ty Grind says,
Speaker 2: wait a minute, it's a heartbeat down there. Yes, maybe
Speaker 2: what Yes, Yes, it's a heartbeat down there. It flutters
Speaker 2: like butterfly wings. Clever Corey says, treat them better than
Speaker 2: how you want to be treated. Ooh, that's fire, that's fire.
Speaker 2: Jarrett McGruff says, people love languages can also change. I agree,
Speaker 2: I agree, people love them. Listen, people love languages can change,
Speaker 2: and another important part is to do check ins and
Speaker 2: make sure that's still what they actually want.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling today? What will make you happy? Like?
Speaker 1: How's your mental like?
Speaker 2: All these things are very important, as cliche as they
Speaker 2: saund still very important. Next question, what is the primary
Speaker 2: ingredient for your style of humor?
Speaker 1: Trauma? Next question? Okay, fuck fuck? Tygrind says, if I
Speaker 1: ask you, have you ate? I love you? Done deal.
Speaker 2: Jared McGriff says he keeps putting an imaginary you in
Speaker 2: my last name, but I'm gonna stick beside her. Oh
Speaker 2: it's McGriff. Jared McGriff, My bad, big dog, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I apologize. Big Line says football on wives don't matter
Speaker 2: right now? You know, I keep that same energy when
Speaker 2: you pass over that credit card. Okay, make sure you're
Speaker 2: giving her that credit card. While you're enjoying your football,
Speaker 2: please and thank you. Silver Surfer says, send the addie
Speaker 2: so I can send flowers. In a blunt, be smoked
Speaker 2: key says, what about you dating a big dude?
Speaker 1: Don't start with me.
Speaker 2: Okay, we talked about this. Uh tygrind says I said
Speaker 2: it in that voice.
Speaker 1: Too, blunty. You know I still have one of your
Speaker 1: birthday blunts. Horrible to be fair, to be fair, you
Speaker 1: are horrible to be fair. I'm not talking about this right,
Speaker 1: never mind.
Speaker 2: Next questions, Uh, what's something that you're passionate about and
Speaker 2: can talk about for hours?
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so glad, y'all asked, I'm.
Speaker 1: So glad, y'all asked.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's something that you're passionate about and can talk
Speaker 2: about for hours?
Speaker 1: Power Rangers?
Speaker 3: Ready?
Speaker 1: Go? Okay?
Speaker 2: Did you know that Trenny wasn't supposed to be the
Speaker 2: Yellow Ranger at first? It was actually a Latino girl?
Speaker 2: Still Yellow also proven that the show was racist, but
Speaker 2: I digress. For the pilot, there was a Latino girl
Speaker 2: instead of Trenty, So yeah, that's the first thing. Next,
Speaker 2: it was based on a Japanese show called Super Sentai. Uh,
Speaker 2: it's pretty cool. Actually, in the beginning, all the action
Speaker 2: scenes were from the Japanese show. They just filmed the
Speaker 2: kids in their regular clothes and used the footage from that.
Speaker 2: Cheap but smart, I'm not mad at it. I'm also
Speaker 2: did you know Mariza Hartigay Active Benson, Sergeant Benson, you
Speaker 2: know who I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: She was actually supposed to be in the Power Rangers movie.
Speaker 2: She was supposed to be don't see it, Yes, but
Speaker 2: she ended up getting fired. But I bet you didn't
Speaker 2: know that. Okay, did you know the Black Ranger Walter E.
Speaker 3: Jones he had four fingers on one hand. Did you
Speaker 3: know that?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: You did not? I did.
Speaker 2: Did you know Tommy wasn't even supposed to be on
Speaker 2: for all those episodes and seasons? Tommy was only supposed
Speaker 2: to be in fourteen episodes, but he was such a
Speaker 2: hit that they kept him on for forever or IPJDF
Speaker 2: respect All Right, I could go.
Speaker 1: On and on and on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can go.
Speaker 1: I can go, and we can go, and I can
Speaker 1: go and I can go. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also, please don't even get me started on the Power
Speaker 2: Rangers curse. It's a real thing.
Speaker 1: Look it up.
Speaker 2: It's a real thing. Look it up very much a
Speaker 2: real thing. Did you also know the Command Center is
Speaker 2: a real place. It's like an American Jewish college. It's
Speaker 2: a real place. It's a real place.
Speaker 1: It exists.
Speaker 3: Yes, I promise, dog, don't don't question me. I know
Speaker 3: these things. You ain't got the answer, sway. I know
Speaker 3: these things.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But also, if you love power Rangers like I do,
Speaker 2: September fourteenth and Philly is Ranger Station, Go Go Ranger Station.
Speaker 1: It's a vibe.
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's like a con, but it's like a
Speaker 2: power Ranger con. So if you love power Rangers like
Speaker 2: I do, September fourteenth, it's Go Go Ranger Station in Philly.
Speaker 2: It's like a con just for power Rangers, you're gonna
Speaker 2: love it. I'm gonna be there, my Single Coup Warriors,
Speaker 2: We're all gonna be there, vibed up. It's gonna be crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Me and the rest of the Singo Coul Power Rangers
Speaker 2: are going to be there. So yeah, if y'all want
Speaker 2: to link up, y'all want to see come on out.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: Next Outfit says you can catch her next week at
Speaker 2: Ranger Station Philly.
Speaker 1: Y'all, she'll be ready.
Speaker 2: I told y'all, and I'm be suited up, so when
Speaker 2: y'all come up, I'm gonna have my like my uniform warrance.
Speaker 2: One fine trinny boy says the fact Tommy whooped the
Speaker 2: whole Ranger squad and play the flute for them. What's
Speaker 2: the while you work, ass, Nigga, I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: Like as an adult, I go back and look at
Speaker 2: some of those episodes, and specifically that one when Tommy
Speaker 2: whooped them nigga's ass and kicked them.
Speaker 1: Out their own sword.
Speaker 3: The worst part was.
Speaker 1: As soon as he came in, he punched the Yellow
Speaker 1: Ranger in the face.
Speaker 3: I like, if I get Friday and Yo, chill man.
Speaker 2: That's a female that will never not be funny to me.
Speaker 2: Another thing that will never not be funny to me.
Speaker 2: Another thing that's always funny to me is Tommy was
Speaker 2: playing a sword that sounded like a flute through a helmet.
Speaker 2: How to fuck the wind get through the flute? It didn't,
Speaker 2: It didn't, It fucking didn't.
Speaker 1: It didn't make sense that uh power Ranger.
Speaker 3: Why?
Speaker 1: But like I was literally looking at like Grandma, you'll
Speaker 1: see these big these suits, Like I understand, yeah, yeahs
Speaker 1: because I was like, Grandma, does she keep shaking? Grandma? Yes,
Speaker 1: but I can't down.
Speaker 2: I just watch Outfice and Tommy's hands were rated e
Speaker 2: for everyone. Elis my name is how he played the
Speaker 2: food with a mask on. I used to say that
Speaker 2: as a kid. One fine Trinny Boy says Tommy had
Speaker 2: a bluetooth flute back in the day. Ah, lots of
Speaker 2: footage lost footage, media, says Pete. Why girls, we hesitant
Speaker 2: to send attachments because you're not the nigga.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's you.
Speaker 2: You haven't gained access to that level of them, all right.
Speaker 2: Uh damn, it just went too fast.
Speaker 1: Sorry.
Speaker 2: Favorite nomics as Powers stayed getting whooped, Power Ranger stay
Speaker 2: getting whoop bottom putties. No they didn't, Legacy Magic, says
Speaker 2: our Ip. Tommy Man, I agree, r I p j
Speaker 2: DF Yeah, and that could be I know, yeah, Jason
Speaker 2: David Frank Yeah, man, I don't know if I said
Speaker 2: it already, but September fourteenth, if you love Power Rangers
Speaker 2: the way I do, check out Go Go Ranger Station
Speaker 2: in Philadelphia. It's all Rangers, power kind I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: there with the Sinkoku Rangers and yeah.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fi. It's gonna be fine. Yeah, Power
Speaker 1: Ranger P. That's it all right? So, uh what do
Speaker 1: we learn today?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 2: Larry Holbert nineteen seventy two says, did you know you're
Speaker 2: like an extra shrimp talent all?
Speaker 1: You can take all my paint away. Baby, I'm going
Speaker 1: to cause the pain. I'm taking that. I'm going calls
Speaker 1: taking that. I'm bringing the pain. Please shot please, I'll
Speaker 1: say that. I'll say that.
Speaker 2: That was uh favorite Nomic says, you're going to show
Speaker 2: your sworp play skills.
Speaker 3: No, not for this one.
Speaker 2: Shout out to Urban Force P h L. They are
Speaker 2: the guys that do and the girls who do the
Speaker 2: lightsaber choreography. Y'all give me like I'm on for two.
Speaker 2: I'm really gonna be fire. I'm really gonna be fire.
Speaker 2: I haven't decided if I'm gonna be a Sith or
Speaker 2: a Jedi, but you know, we'll see, we'll see.
Speaker 1: You think I'm gonna be a Jedi?
Speaker 2: What if I'm And this is what I think, right,
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna be like Tommy Right, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be a Sith at first, and then I'm gonna turn
Speaker 2: into a Jedi.
Speaker 3: You that's what you think.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well you know, I guess we'll see,
Speaker 1: we'll see.
Speaker 2: Huh out Fitz says, she's whole milk on a hot day, healthy,
Speaker 2: but gonna fuck your stomach up.
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna rep this.
Speaker 1: Shut up, y'all. We We're gon We're gonna m m
Speaker 1: mmmm built mm hmmmm mmmmm.
Speaker 2: Uh yeah.
Speaker 1: So questions for today. Would you rather be in bird
Speaker 1: box or a quiet place?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 1: Which?
Speaker 3: Which movie? Would you rather live?
Speaker 4: In?
Speaker 2: Bird box or a quiet place? A recent study ranks
Speaker 2: Philadelphia as one of the rudest cities in the United States.
Speaker 2: A lot of us are single because we're trying to maneuver,
Speaker 2: not giving our Kodie cataway to everybody. You know, when dating,
Speaker 2: If you decide I'm not the one for you, I
Speaker 2: do not have to be your fucking friend. Good luck
Speaker 2: on your journey to hell. Just because I forgive you
Speaker 2: doesn't mean I forgot all the fuck up shit you've
Speaker 2: done to me, and amnesia does not come as a
Speaker 2: side for forgiveness. Next, how can you show someone you
Speaker 2: care in a relationship, actually care? Learn what they want
Speaker 2: in a relationship and what they what makes them feel special?
Speaker 2: With something that I'm passionate, and I talk forever about
Speaker 2: power Rangers. Of course, my message is always going to
Speaker 2: be the same. Follow me on the gram as Stormy P.
Speaker 2: P e A At chocolate Chip and sip. And if
Speaker 2: you don't remember anything else, please remember Harriet Tubman used
Speaker 2: to knock babies out.
Speaker 1: I love you guys, and I've seen next week. Please