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<v Speaker 1>Who what's up, beautiful people?

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<v Speaker 2>Is your baby mama favorite baby Mama Stormy Peat And

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<v Speaker 2>this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the

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<v Speaker 2>modern day female perspective. Damn Son. Back at it again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>back at it again, y'all. So I've been on this

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<v Speaker 2>like uh movie binge, right, and y'all know sci fi

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<v Speaker 2>movies is my shit, right. So I was watching this

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<v Speaker 2>movie called A Quiet Place, So good, I went on

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<v Speaker 2>a rabbit hole watched all of the movies in the series, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was watching this movie called The Quiet Place, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and the premise is there are these aliens that come

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<v Speaker 2>down to Earth, but they're like blind and they can't see.

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<v Speaker 2>They're kind of like you sonar like a bet, right,

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<v Speaker 2>they just hear, So if you're quiet, they won't kill you.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's got me thinking, what universe would you rather

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<v Speaker 2>live in? Bird box or quiet place?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Just for some like content your room bird box, like

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<v Speaker 2>you could see, but you couldn't see because as long

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<v Speaker 2>as you had like your doors closed and your windows shut,

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<v Speaker 2>the things couldn't really get in the house. So you

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<v Speaker 2>could move around freely in your house like seeing. But

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<v Speaker 2>if you went outside your house, you had to have

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<v Speaker 2>your eyes covered or else. The I don't know, the

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<v Speaker 2>trees would try to convince you to kill yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really that that part is still lost to

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<v Speaker 2>me a little bit. But listen, I was asking myself

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<v Speaker 2>where would you rather live? Bird box or quiet place?

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<v Speaker 2>And y'all, if you've been listening to this pod or

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<v Speaker 2>following my social media journey long enough, you know I

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<v Speaker 2>would have to live in bird box because I would

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<v Speaker 2>never survive in the quiet place. I would never survive

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<v Speaker 2>in the quiet place.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I laughed like a black auntie from

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<v Speaker 2>down south. That's the first thing. Okay, stop bad, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the worst thing. Second thing, one thing about me, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a fought okay, I'm a fat.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fought okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And I swear I would literally put my family at

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<v Speaker 2>risk every night because I snore. I snore like I

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<v Speaker 2>am risking my whole household every night because I am

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<v Speaker 2>going to snore, and I don't care what I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I could prop my head up, I could put breathe

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<v Speaker 2>strips on. At this point, I just need surgery, like honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I have no other options. And not to mention I

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<v Speaker 2>have a twelve year old son. This nigga can't be

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<v Speaker 2>quiet to save his life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my bad, I'm sorry, Kamar eighty two says.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't really know the situation, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really be watching people's live shit, but I seen quite

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<v Speaker 2>a few of your videos. If shot ain't your dude,

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<v Speaker 2>he should be. He wants he does not want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, But thank you for your input. You need a

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<v Speaker 2>factory reset. I do quiet place. They can't swim, go

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<v Speaker 2>to an island. That's another thing. So in a quiet place,

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<v Speaker 2>the aliens can't swim, but unfortunately a lot of black

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<v Speaker 2>people can't either, So everybody not gonna make it. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't swim. I can do the doggy paddle. Really, I

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<v Speaker 2>can swim on the water. But when I swim on

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<v Speaker 2>the water, I kind of look like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Frog floating like this, Like I can't float. Why can't

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<v Speaker 1>you float?

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<v Speaker 4>You?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I don't know, I'm like a plank. That's weird.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I've been in gym now, I got muscles

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<v Speaker 5>and shit. Maybe little masks.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell, little mass is crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Ray gifted keys? Let's do it? Is that I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably watching the game eighty says that aliens are the

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<v Speaker 2>black people. Please stop talking to me. Okay, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so where would you rather live? Birdbox or quiet place?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely doing bird box? What the fuck? Really? Oh no?

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<v Speaker 1>I mis understood that that. Yeah, burbox for sure. I

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<v Speaker 1>like you like to climb trees stuff. Dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it was so sad and like the movie the

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<v Speaker 2>little boy put the batteries in a rocket ship and

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<v Speaker 2>like turned it on and was like whoa woo, and

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<v Speaker 2>then the aliens came and killed him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like four years old. It was very sad. Jim

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<v Speaker 1>from the Offices in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Really good movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would definitely check it. The Jym from

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<v Speaker 1>the Offices in it. Yes he's a dad.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he's a dad like he plays the dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but how good can you be? Speaking? Was

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<v Speaker 1>very minimal? You know what I mean? It's quiet place?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He did a good job. And the most recent one,

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<v Speaker 2>Lupite is in it. She did really good too.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>Outfit said what shot y'all not gonna get on my

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<v Speaker 2>nerves today? Oh Legosi Magic says Jim also directed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did not know that? Thank you? The more you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the more you know.

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<v Speaker 2>My son Walby Lyons says, the quiet place you can't

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<v Speaker 2>do nothing, can't get on your phone, can't watch TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't Yo, I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>And then what happens like when my stomach growl, the

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<v Speaker 2>aliens are coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Nigga, we would have to separate.

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<v Speaker 4>There will be no men and women together because we

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<v Speaker 4>would just there will be no Everybody would just die.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was thinking, like people with babies, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't control when the baby cries.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we just have to kill.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry what they have to die. We do have

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<v Speaker 4>to go because like, ain't nobody We're.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna have to do like Harriet Tubman and knock them

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<v Speaker 2>babies out. You know she was knocking babies out on

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<v Speaker 2>the underground railroad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yo, Oprah surviving surviving area because every time this podcast start,

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<v Speaker 4>more are in fact surviving.

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<v Speaker 3>Harriet is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, like don't worry, just bitches came out. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry, just don't run.

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<v Speaker 4>I woke up in the field about life.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she wasn't knocking them out physically. She would like

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<v Speaker 2>use like herbs.

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<v Speaker 1>I was drugg Oh my god, wait, I was like what.

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<v Speaker 2>Yo, I am crying, I am crying meant for Morris says,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody gonna have to be duct taped. Absolutely Outfice says,

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<v Speaker 2>serving babies medium rare to the monsters so much, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you people don't deserve nice things. Gordon h twenty two says, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>imagine her giving a baby a left hook. Like seriously though,

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<v Speaker 2>like why do y'all want Harriet to be mink minking?

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<v Speaker 3>These babies so bad? She was not, She was not.

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<v Speaker 1>It was herbs.

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<v Speaker 2>Harriet was like depot on Friday, go to sleep, Go

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<v Speaker 2>to sleep, yoiggas.

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<v Speaker 1>Woke up in the.

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<v Speaker 4>Field, Yo, I'd be so bad if I love my master,

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<v Speaker 4>you know I'm mad. I'd be if I was a

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<v Speaker 4>slave and I just woke up about blood free like

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<v Speaker 4>bitch I was inside, yo, yoigg I'd be so bad

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<v Speaker 4>if I was a house and got free.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what are you talking about a little crazy now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm running barefoot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I guarantee some of them house niggas probably

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<v Speaker 2>got one to harry at leaving and like told.

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<v Speaker 1>They had to they had to. Absolutely they had to.

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<v Speaker 2>Niggas tell on Grandmam's eating grapes in the supermarket I

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<v Speaker 2>know niggas was telling when they got when Harry had

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<v Speaker 2>come into the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Little woody face nigga, I know gonna snitch yo, fly.

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<v Speaker 2>Got free from selling, says uppercut. Lpzo says Harriet said,

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<v Speaker 2>either you won't go to sleep or I'm gonna put

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<v Speaker 2>you to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Either way you go get free, little nigga, Yo, we

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<v Speaker 1>gotta relax. Can we get back on track? Please? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we please? You?

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<v Speaker 2>Negros? You do it to me every time. These are

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<v Speaker 2>not Harriet braids. First of all, and that's the name

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<v Speaker 2>of the pod. Tupman Two's hold on one second, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can write this now. Tubman Two's okay. So

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<v Speaker 2>all that aside, recent study ranked Philadelphia one of the

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<v Speaker 2>rudest cities in the United States. Type ship type ship

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<v Speaker 2>type ship type ship like, honestly, is anyone surprised?

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<v Speaker 3>Is anyone? You? You? You? Anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>A recent study finds Philadelphia is one of the rudest

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<v Speaker 2>cities in the United States.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>When I first when it was first popped up on

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<v Speaker 2>my radar, I said, well, dub I knew that what

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<v Speaker 2>else is new?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing new?

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<v Speaker 2>So according to prepley dot com, the city or brother

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<v Speaker 2>love is anything but, as it is ranked number two

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<v Speaker 2>on the Rudest Cities in the United States.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, this is like a language learning app,

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<v Speaker 2>and basically they did the study where they just asked

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<v Speaker 2>people a whole bunch of questions. So the language learning

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<v Speaker 2>app pulled over fifteen hundred residents in the thirty largest

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<v Speaker 2>metropolitan areas in the US and they basically asked about

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<v Speaker 2>the levels of rudeness in their city. This can be

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<v Speaker 2>anything from people not saying thank you, people who are

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<v Speaker 2>more likely to have their telephone on speaker. Honestly, that's

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<v Speaker 2>real Philly. That's real Philly. One thing about us. We

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have that phone on speaker loud as hell. And

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<v Speaker 2>not only are we gonna have the phone on speaker, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna be listening to music on speaker AirPods.

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<v Speaker 5>What's that you're really mad that you got two kids

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<v Speaker 5>that you take care of, but her son she had

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<v Speaker 5>to come into dallatry and buy school supplies at the

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<v Speaker 5>last minute, because you know, it's not like you didn't

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<v Speaker 5>have your kid for this many years or something. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>and then her friend thinks you ain't shit and you

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<v Speaker 5>never been ship, mister Right, and I just want to

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<v Speaker 5>let you know that you should do better, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Period, thank you for sharing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't think mister right one of his business

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<v Speaker 2>out there like that, but it is now speak about listen,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's like a common occurrence, Like it's very common

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<v Speaker 2>to be in a supermarket and hear somebody whole business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I know who ain't paid they phone bill. I know

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<v Speaker 2>who old child support. I know who ain't seen they

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<v Speaker 2>kids in three weeks. Like one thing about us were

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<v Speaker 2>going ahead that phone on speaker.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like I ain't got enough money. I know

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<v Speaker 1>I heard you over there. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So now Philly did top the list of locals with

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<v Speaker 2>the rudist behavior, but we have gotten better because in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty two we were number one and now we're

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<v Speaker 2>number two. Okay, so you know growth, all right. The

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<v Speaker 2>current number one for rudius city in twenty twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>is Miami. And yeah, man, I think that they weren't wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>But you said earlier like it depends because you called

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<v Speaker 2>And I think so because it's a language learning app.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it really is just a difference of cultures

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<v Speaker 2>and what you may or may not understand. Because in

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<v Speaker 2>Philly we call you a dickhead with love.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if.

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<v Speaker 2>Dick like pussy bruh, bruh. If you walking around and

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<v Speaker 2>somebody call you pussy like wow, hey, pal.

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<v Speaker 1>Is always like Chunky with the little flight jackets with

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. Now, granted, we may not hold the door for you,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's only because I might have held it for

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's way too way too much.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, if you hold a door open for

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<v Speaker 2>a young lady, she might not say thank you, but

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't mean she doesn't thank you. Okay, Now if

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a city or brother. Yeah, Philly gonna try you

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<v Speaker 2>for real. But I just want you to know it's

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<v Speaker 1>And also.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say, a fear of getting scammed. So now it's

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<v Speaker 2>like just boundaries we've developed. And yeah, like, Philly is

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<v Speaker 2>a weird place because sometimes if you too nice, we

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<v Speaker 2>think you trying to scam us. Yeah, like, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>a rude city. Sometimes we're not being rude out of hate,

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<v Speaker 2>it's protection. Yeah, does that make sense? Outfit, say, snatcher

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<v Speaker 2>by her bus down? Right back out the door.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, you can't. You cannot, baby, you cannot do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not allowed. No, speaking of snatching bitches body

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<v Speaker 1>bus down.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm joking. That is absolutely not the next topic, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>The further I get into this journey of growth, the

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<v Speaker 2>more I am able to vocalize the things that bother me,

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<v Speaker 2>the things that get under my skin, the things I

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<v Speaker 2>am sick of having to explain, the things that should

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<v Speaker 1>Right, let me tell you something no woman ever wants

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<v Speaker 1>to hear. You're so perfect? Oh my god, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you single? I can't believe you're single. You're so perfect?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I can't believe you're single.

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<v Speaker 3>Me neither. What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what y'all want us to say when

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<v Speaker 2>you hear this, right, but never fret, I have the

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<v Speaker 2>perfect explanation for you, well for me, anyway, hopefully this

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<v Speaker 2>will answer a lot of your questions. So for me personally,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that when you have a good mentality and

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<v Speaker 2>you have a nineties R and B hard right, dating

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<v Speaker 2>is hard because, for one, sex is so normalized right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>now I'm not I'm not trying to be the Kuchie

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<v Speaker 2>Crusaders or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I'm gonna hold on.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not going down that line. Just just hear me

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<v Speaker 3>out far at second place.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex is so normalized right now it makes it hard

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<v Speaker 2>for people who still put some type of value on it, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, Babe.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we have sex, we go together, and that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what people think.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not what people think. So a you have to

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<v Speaker 2>find somebody who was like when vibeals you until you

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<v Speaker 2>get to that point. And even then you have to

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<v Speaker 2>find somebody who understands that that's not automatic, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean. And I know it sounds like the

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<v Speaker 2>most the most like simple thing, but I promise you

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<v Speaker 2>it is not. I promise you it is not right.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, you know, we end up getting like

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<v Speaker 2>fighting these battles of being called bougie and your standards

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<v Speaker 2>are too high and you're.

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<v Speaker 3>You're running against the biological clock.

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<v Speaker 1>You're now we're gonna be happy, And it's like ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Like please please, please please, And it's like, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 2>just asking for too much, like bro, please please.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I know some of y'all fellas gonna hop in these

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<v Speaker 2>comments and be like that's fine, you should be saving yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't want the three h fours. That's gooid. Every

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<v Speaker 2>woman should have that mentality. But it's like, okay, now,

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to honestly ask yourself, how long are

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<v Speaker 2>you willing to entertain a woman and how much money

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<v Speaker 2>are you willing to spend on her if she isn't

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<v Speaker 2>ham a sex? Don't worry, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Weat no, no, I I got time, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Got I want you to give me a specific timeline

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<v Speaker 2>how many days, how many months?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a year?

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<v Speaker 3>How many weeks?

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<v Speaker 1>And for that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to then turn around and say, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like my daughter should also not be having

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<v Speaker 2>sex until that same amount of time period.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't exist. It's hard. It's fucking hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Life is very situation. Yeah, Like you can meet one

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<v Speaker 5>person and be like, you know how I can do

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<v Speaker 5>this because the energy is there. You can meet the

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<v Speaker 5>same person, you can meet somebody else and have the

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<v Speaker 5>same type of energy. But for some strange you can't

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<v Speaker 5>keep your hands.

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<v Speaker 1>Off each other. It just be happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, But I feel like when we normalize the

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<v Speaker 2>it's very situational and things just happened. You give a

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<v Speaker 2>niggar rope, you thinking a cowboy, and now all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden, sex is normalized.

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<v Speaker 1>Bruh, Like it is normalized.

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<v Speaker 5>But I mean at the same time, though, when you're

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<v Speaker 5>dealing with situationships that in that realm, isn't it supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to kind of Isn't the sex supposed to kind of

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<v Speaker 5>be normalized so it won't fall, so you won't so

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<v Speaker 5>you won't go into another realm. Yes, the sex is

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<v Speaker 5>supposed to keep you, but I think people just like

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<v Speaker 5>you normally it's too too far, Like, Okay, there's still

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<v Speaker 5>feelings involved, Like regardless of hey, we're not supposed to

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<v Speaker 5>be in a relationship or we know we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Good for each other. I understand you're still creating the

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<v Speaker 1>soul time.

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<v Speaker 4>In my opinion, yes, there's still a bond that's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be made if I'm dealing with the chick, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm with her every weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm thinking about I'm just sending her menus and

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<v Speaker 1>s if I'm doing this and all that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to have some type of feelings for you,

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<v Speaker 5>whether they be protective, whether I love you, whatever, there's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be some type of energy in me to be

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<v Speaker 5>hold you down. And if that's the case, I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>gonna just sit there and be like fuck you, or

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<v Speaker 5>just do something or not be hurt when you do

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<v Speaker 5>something crazy like.

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<v Speaker 1>It is impossible. So we gotta just respect the I

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<v Speaker 1>respect the situation. Now. Now here's my rebuttal toda.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel like I saw a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 1>in a comment say, oh, ninety days right.

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<v Speaker 2>So all y'all who are saying ninety days with Steve

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<v Speaker 2>Harvey told y'all that y'all told him to shut the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck up.

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<v Speaker 5>It depends on if the girls say that they're going

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<v Speaker 5>to wait till marriage, right, Say girl told them that

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<v Speaker 5>she wants to wait till marriage, and we are in

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<v Speaker 5>our relationship and then we're doing things that see that

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<v Speaker 5>we're going towards that, like that's where it's going. We're

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<v Speaker 5>making shrives blah blah blah. Cool because I'm not even

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be thinking about it. But if you just sitting

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<v Speaker 5>here talking about blah blah and now we're in the

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<v Speaker 5>crib and you just walk around your boot shops all

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<v Speaker 5>day and we just shooting the ship like we kids

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<v Speaker 5>in the nineties, Nigga, what you think I'm about to do.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, We're not. I'm going to be like, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on you, you're trying to finess like what's like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going like? I'm gonna think.

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<v Speaker 5>But if you're saying, hey, I have a ninety day

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<v Speaker 5>rule as a man, we're gonna respect it. But then again, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>blah blah blah, can't go out the night because I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going but and that and that, and then that brings

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<v Speaker 1>me to my next point. Right, if you're really walking

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<v Speaker 1>it like that, then cool. But if not, shut up,

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<v Speaker 1>so that.

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<v Speaker 2>Brings me to my next point. You can have all

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<v Speaker 2>your morals and your values liuned up. You can have

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<v Speaker 2>all your morals and your values lined up correctly, and

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<v Speaker 2>this man will still decide like, oh, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>sure we can like hang out, we can chill or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever the case may be, But how much attention is

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<v Speaker 2>he going to start dieting away from you when he

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<v Speaker 2>finds somebody who's willing to do all the things that

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<v Speaker 2>you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>So long story short, Nigga is hard out here.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the bottom of eye.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Gordon H twenty two says, I'll probably lose interest after

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<v Speaker 2>ninety but I'm never prussuring her for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I respect that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Fine trinny boy says ninety day weight only bothered dudes

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<v Speaker 2>that wasn't getting enough buns prior. I ain't mad at

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<v Speaker 2>that got you hook, says Team Celibate.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for you. One bullet feed them, says

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<v Speaker 1>Hi from Bedstide. Hi, baby, let me be key.

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<v Speaker 2>He says, Did I really see you at hairtown last week?

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<v Speaker 2>If I was looking ugly? Yeah, that probably was me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie. Nobody sees me uglier than the

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<v Speaker 2>beauty supply store Target and the maintenance man that be

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<v Speaker 2>come into my house. Yes, shot, oh and shot shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Shot sees me pretty ugly too, But shot don't count

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<v Speaker 2>to me. Shot don't because okay, well because because I

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<v Speaker 2>said so. So my next part And I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>for whatever reason, this concept has gotten.

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<v Speaker 1>Lost on a lot of you. So I really want

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<v Speaker 1>you to pay attention. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>If we're dating and you decide I'm not the right

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<v Speaker 2>person for you for whatever reason, I do not have

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<v Speaker 2>to be your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And I don't want to say that again.

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<v Speaker 2>If we are dating and you decide I'm not the

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<v Speaker 2>one for you, baby, I don't have to be your friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck on your journey to hell. Okay, because you

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<v Speaker 2>got me messed up?

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<v Speaker 3>You do, you really do.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like if we're dating and you decide, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not what you're looking for. Cool, that's fine, to

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<v Speaker 2>eat your soul. Everybody ain't for everybody. But for you

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<v Speaker 2>to continue expecting or for you to continue expecting access

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<v Speaker 2>to me as.

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<v Speaker 1>If we are still dating or is if we are

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<v Speaker 1>still locked in it, it's absurd.

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00:21:01.599 --> 00:21:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Like just because you tell me you don't want to

430
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<v Speaker 2>be with me, no more, that don't change my feelings. Baby,

431
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<v Speaker 2>I still want to fuck Okay. So I don't want

432
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<v Speaker 2>to be your friend. I don't want to be your friend.

433
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<v Speaker 1>Okay. No, I don't want to hang with you. I

434
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<v Speaker 1>want to skate with you, I want to kick it

435
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<v Speaker 1>with you. I want you. None of that Okay, I'm

436
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<v Speaker 1>taking my controller back.

437
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<v Speaker 3>Bruh, bruh.

438
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<v Speaker 1>Ain't no updown, left right for you no more.

439
00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:29.319
<v Speaker 2>Baby, You're not getting your your T shirts and your

440
00:21:29.319 --> 00:21:30.559
<v Speaker 2>hoodies back. Though I'm not gonna lie.

441
00:21:30.680 --> 00:21:32.759
<v Speaker 1>They were never getting them back. I'm just saying you,

442
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<v Speaker 1>I don't count.

443
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<v Speaker 3>You ain't getting the hoodies back.

444
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<v Speaker 2>But I digress, I digress, Uh burnt up Outfite says well,

445
00:21:44.559 --> 00:21:51.440
<v Speaker 2>damn whole figuretive funeral. Yes, Outfice says Netflix, password change, no.

446
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<v Speaker 3>Workman nine to.

447
00:21:55.279 --> 00:21:59.160
<v Speaker 2>The phantom zone, you go, facts to the shadow realm.

448
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<v Speaker 2>You go because I am finished. I am done, Like baby,

449
00:22:03.960 --> 00:22:07.160
<v Speaker 2>I was. I was doing certain things for you because

450
00:22:07.240 --> 00:22:09.559
<v Speaker 2>I liked you and because I thought we.

451
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<v Speaker 1>Were a building.

452
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<v Speaker 2>Like for you to still expect to talk to me

453
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<v Speaker 2>every day, get a good morning, text, link up for walks,

454
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<v Speaker 2>go to the gym. Baby, I don't want to do

455
00:22:18.640 --> 00:22:20.079
<v Speaker 2>none of that with you anymore. I was trying to

456
00:22:20.119 --> 00:22:22.960
<v Speaker 2>get to know you. Now you made it clear to

457
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<v Speaker 2>me who you are, like, I don't care no more.

458
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<v Speaker 1>I really don't care no more. Like I hate when

459
00:22:27.440 --> 00:22:30.880
<v Speaker 1>niggas be like damn so we can't shield no for

460
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<v Speaker 1>what No, no, fucked out and this is like what

461
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<v Speaker 1>after hanging out or after dating both? I'll say both both.

462
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<v Speaker 2>If my whole thing is I no longer want you

463
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<v Speaker 2>in my presence because the feelings that I have for

464
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<v Speaker 2>you can't be reciprocated.

465
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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's fair.

466
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<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like a lot of people will hang

467
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<v Speaker 2>around and stick things out and see if feelings changed. Yeah,

468
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<v Speaker 2>if you like them, Yes, if you like them, if

469
00:23:00.519 --> 00:23:03.160
<v Speaker 2>you are on the receiving party and you like them,

470
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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. But it's like, I don't

471
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<v Speaker 2>want to do that, Like I'm not gonna hold you.

472
00:23:08.559 --> 00:23:11.680
<v Speaker 2>If we stop talking because of you and I still

473
00:23:11.799 --> 00:23:13.680
<v Speaker 2>like you, you gotta get up off my timeline.

474
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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see you. I don't want to

475
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<v Speaker 1>see you. I don't want to see you. I don't

476
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<v Speaker 1>want to see you. That's it.

477
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<v Speaker 2>Coach Low says that's fair. When Bullet feed Them says

478
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<v Speaker 2>instant teleportation like Goku, King Rip says it's very very crazy,

479
00:23:31.759 --> 00:23:36.480
<v Speaker 2>very weird, very blasphemous. Aaron Nash seven three says, hell

480
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<v Speaker 2>half no fury. Alfhuz says you rejecting the food link up? Yes,

481
00:23:43.319 --> 00:23:45.400
<v Speaker 2>because I don't need y'all for food anyway.

482
00:23:45.599 --> 00:23:46.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm fat.

483
00:23:46.759 --> 00:23:48.559
<v Speaker 2>You know why I work out so much Because I'm fat.

484
00:23:48.920 --> 00:23:50.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't need y'all for food. So you offering your

485
00:23:50.920 --> 00:23:52.319
<v Speaker 2>food link up to me isn't going to do it.

486
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<v Speaker 2>It's not gonna do it.

487
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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Outfice is a black party.

488
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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

489
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<v Speaker 2>Gordon H twenty two says, nah, as soon as you

490
00:23:59.519 --> 00:24:02.440
<v Speaker 2>say you love interest, you immediately have to move to Pluto.

491
00:24:04.440 --> 00:24:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Is crazy, but yeah, stop letting these people play with you.

492
00:24:06.960 --> 00:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>That's who do you think you are? Not? We can.

493
00:24:13.799 --> 00:24:17.400
<v Speaker 2>Stop letting these people play with you, right, Like Shot said,

494
00:24:17.839 --> 00:24:19.359
<v Speaker 2>for them to look you in your face and say

495
00:24:19.440 --> 00:24:22.880
<v Speaker 2>you're not her, but still expect you to do her things.

496
00:24:23.480 --> 00:24:28.640
<v Speaker 1>That's dumb, playing hop stock like Kendrick Bruh my heart

497
00:24:28.839 --> 00:24:29.440
<v Speaker 1>on my heart.

498
00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:32.640
<v Speaker 2>Stop letting people play with you, for them to say

499
00:24:32.759 --> 00:24:35.759
<v Speaker 2>you're not him, you're not her, but still expect you

500
00:24:35.880 --> 00:24:37.839
<v Speaker 2>to do those things blasphemous.

501
00:24:38.119 --> 00:24:39.799
<v Speaker 5>This is when you know that you always tell me

502
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<v Speaker 5>that I got like a evil streak inside m h.

503
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<v Speaker 5>And you know I want to speak to that too, right,

504
00:24:46.960 --> 00:24:49.480
<v Speaker 5>That's that's when you're gonna see it now, make you fall.

505
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<v Speaker 1>In love me?

506
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<v Speaker 2>I feel like and I'm not talking about you, Shot.

507
00:24:51.920 --> 00:24:53.599
<v Speaker 2>When I say this, I'm not talking about you. I'm

508
00:24:53.599 --> 00:24:55.920
<v Speaker 2>talking about from experience because I've seen my girlfriends do it.

509
00:24:56.519 --> 00:24:59.279
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we'll say to ourselves, now I feel like I

510
00:24:59.440 --> 00:25:01.279
<v Speaker 2>just got to give it another chance so I can

511
00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:05.680
<v Speaker 2>get my lick back. Maybe the only person getting licked

512
00:25:05.799 --> 00:25:07.559
<v Speaker 2>is you because he fit the hit and then leave

513
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<v Speaker 2>you again like this.

514
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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't work.

515
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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't work if you give up the kuchi, it

516
00:25:12.839 --> 00:25:15.319
<v Speaker 5>does not work. He won because all we care about

517
00:25:15.400 --> 00:25:19.160
<v Speaker 5>is the kouchie. You gave effort, bruh and and fellas.

518
00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:20.319
<v Speaker 3>This goes for you too.

519
00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:23.079
<v Speaker 2>Don'm talking about Oh, I'm on demon Tom. Now I'm

520
00:25:23.119 --> 00:25:25.160
<v Speaker 2>about to go in and wint a dinner and make

521
00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:27.160
<v Speaker 2>her feel like she loved me. And then I'm I'm

522
00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:30.000
<v Speaker 2>a hit and I'm a dip And guess what she done,

523
00:25:30.079 --> 00:25:31.480
<v Speaker 2>got dinner, drinks and dick.

524
00:25:31.759 --> 00:25:34.559
<v Speaker 3>She won too, Like the only person losing is you.

525
00:25:35.119 --> 00:25:38.000
<v Speaker 2>Like that whole get back mentality does not work. If

526
00:25:38.079 --> 00:25:40.880
<v Speaker 2>someone decides you're not them bounced, that's it.

527
00:25:41.359 --> 00:25:41.680
<v Speaker 1>That's it.

528
00:25:42.720 --> 00:25:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Aaron Nash seven three says, Sister ain't no simp legacy

529
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<v Speaker 2>Magic says lick backs only benefit dudes. It don't even

530
00:25:50.119 --> 00:25:53.119
<v Speaker 2>benefit dudes to me, cause, like I said, when you

531
00:25:53.319 --> 00:25:55.519
<v Speaker 2>going in there spending money and you put in fourth

532
00:25:55.640 --> 00:25:59.319
<v Speaker 2>time and effort and you're still dropping dick off, bro, you.

533
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<v Speaker 4>You still oh god, God, see if we can get

534
00:26:01.319 --> 00:26:05.160
<v Speaker 4>y'all without the dick, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all hold out.

535
00:26:05.079 --> 00:26:06.799
<v Speaker 1>Giving us the pussy, and we still get you.

536
00:26:07.079 --> 00:26:08.599
<v Speaker 5>So at the end of the day, the fact that

537
00:26:08.680 --> 00:26:10.720
<v Speaker 5>we can get you without the dick is old for you,

538
00:26:11.079 --> 00:26:13.119
<v Speaker 5>especially now that you told me I wasn't good enough,

539
00:26:13.200 --> 00:26:14.920
<v Speaker 5>and now you say that you want to hang on

540
00:26:15.079 --> 00:26:18.839
<v Speaker 5>be friends, because y'all love when we act mainly around

541
00:26:19.119 --> 00:26:19.960
<v Speaker 5>when we're not yours.

542
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<v Speaker 2>That's why we get you respectfully, respectfully, respectfully. I don't

543
00:26:27.799 --> 00:26:29.920
<v Speaker 2>want to be friends. I don't need no more friends.

544
00:26:30.279 --> 00:26:35.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm good. This is Sparta like, that's it, what you

545
00:26:35.960 --> 00:26:37.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about, that's it.

546
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<v Speaker 2>Next thing, y'all. And this is another one that I

547
00:26:43.839 --> 00:26:49.279
<v Speaker 2>don't know why people don't understand. This goes for friends, family, whoever. Okay,

548
00:26:50.599 --> 00:26:53.400
<v Speaker 2>just because I forgive you doesn't mean I forget that

549
00:26:53.480 --> 00:26:54.640
<v Speaker 2>fucked up ship you did to me.

550
00:26:55.200 --> 00:26:57.599
<v Speaker 1>Okay, just because I ain't be punching your doesn't mean

551
00:26:57.599 --> 00:26:58.079
<v Speaker 1>I want to.

552
00:26:58.359 --> 00:27:01.400
<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna say it again. Just because I forgive

553
00:27:01.480 --> 00:27:04.079
<v Speaker 2>you doesn't mean I forgot that stuff you did to me.

554
00:27:04.599 --> 00:27:11.119
<v Speaker 2>Like no, bro, No, absolutely not. No friends, family, cousins, pastors, whoever.

555
00:27:11.799 --> 00:27:15.599
<v Speaker 2>Just because I forgive you doesn't mean i'mna forget all

556
00:27:15.640 --> 00:27:17.839
<v Speaker 2>that stuff you did to me. Maybe that's not how

557
00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:22.599
<v Speaker 2>it works. I don't know at what time, place period

558
00:27:22.799 --> 00:27:27.039
<v Speaker 2>it happened, but for some reason people expect that. Oh,

559
00:27:27.240 --> 00:27:29.839
<v Speaker 2>just because I forgive you, you now have a clean sleep.

560
00:27:30.440 --> 00:27:30.880
<v Speaker 1>We're good.

561
00:27:31.240 --> 00:27:33.000
<v Speaker 2>All that stuff you did to me, all that talking

562
00:27:33.079 --> 00:27:34.680
<v Speaker 2>bag you did about me, the way you burnt me,

563
00:27:34.759 --> 00:27:36.480
<v Speaker 2>you scam me, you got over, you didn't pay me

564
00:27:36.559 --> 00:27:38.000
<v Speaker 2>back the money you burnt me for.

565
00:27:39.119 --> 00:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's done now. Because you forgive me, now, we

566
00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:43.200
<v Speaker 1>have to forget it now.

567
00:27:43.319 --> 00:27:44.240
<v Speaker 3>Now we have to forget it.

568
00:27:45.480 --> 00:27:51.640
<v Speaker 2>Bruh, bruhe in this flood me. Forgiving you means I

569
00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:54.680
<v Speaker 2>no longer hate or wish ill will towards you. I

570
00:27:54.880 --> 00:27:56.960
<v Speaker 2>no longer wish that the FBI and come pick you

571
00:27:57.119 --> 00:27:59.680
<v Speaker 2>up for that PPP loan you got. Okay, that was

572
00:27:59.759 --> 00:28:12.640
<v Speaker 2>for fraud. Okay, I no longer wish I no longer

573
00:28:12.720 --> 00:28:15.680
<v Speaker 2>wish that you come out your house to a boot

574
00:28:15.759 --> 00:28:19.240
<v Speaker 2>or your car. I no longer wish that your baby

575
00:28:19.319 --> 00:28:21.799
<v Speaker 2>mom puts you on child support. I no longer wish

576
00:28:21.920 --> 00:28:24.240
<v Speaker 2>any of these things towards you. That's what I mean

577
00:28:24.279 --> 00:28:27.440
<v Speaker 2>when I forgive you. I have made peace with the situation.

578
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:30.200
<v Speaker 2>But for you to act like I gotta forget all

579
00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:33.599
<v Speaker 2>the trauma and things you made me endure and the

580
00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:36.519
<v Speaker 2>way you talked about me when it was over, that's dumb.

581
00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Bruh, bruh, bruh.

582
00:28:44.480 --> 00:28:48.000
<v Speaker 2>And and I want to say, forgiveness does not come

583
00:28:48.079 --> 00:28:51.160
<v Speaker 2>with a side of amnesia. It never will, it never

584
00:28:51.279 --> 00:28:52.160
<v Speaker 2>has and it never will.

585
00:28:52.519 --> 00:28:53.279
<v Speaker 5>Right And.

586
00:28:54.920 --> 00:28:55.519
<v Speaker 1>For you to.

587
00:28:57.240 --> 00:29:01.799
<v Speaker 2>I'll say this, while I will say I'm not gonna

588
00:29:01.839 --> 00:29:04.519
<v Speaker 2>forget the things that you did, that doesn't make it

589
00:29:04.599 --> 00:29:06.559
<v Speaker 2>okay for me to also bring it up every chance

590
00:29:06.599 --> 00:29:08.799
<v Speaker 2>I get, because that's not me really forgiving you. So

591
00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:11.519
<v Speaker 2>when we have those conversations, we also have to add

592
00:29:11.599 --> 00:29:14.440
<v Speaker 2>that in there too. But like I now know what

593
00:29:14.519 --> 00:29:17.279
<v Speaker 2>you're capable of, and before I was doing things for

594
00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:19.119
<v Speaker 2>you out the kindness of my heart, and I realized

595
00:29:19.160 --> 00:29:22.319
<v Speaker 2>I can't grant you that space anymore because I know

596
00:29:22.440 --> 00:29:25.960
<v Speaker 2>what you're capable of. Not necessarily i'm holding it against you.

597
00:29:26.079 --> 00:29:28.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm just putting it in your repertoire. So like when

598
00:29:28.720 --> 00:29:31.240
<v Speaker 2>people be expecting you to have amnesia with a side

599
00:29:31.240 --> 00:29:31.799
<v Speaker 2>of forgiveness.

600
00:29:31.799 --> 00:29:32.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that.

601
00:29:33.640 --> 00:29:34.799
<v Speaker 3>That that that that bothered me.

602
00:29:35.599 --> 00:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>That bothered me, I don't like that. I don't like that.

603
00:29:38.359 --> 00:29:43.799
<v Speaker 1>Like hmm hmmm hm. For you to.

604
00:29:45.599 --> 00:29:47.519
<v Speaker 2>Put in the same position, that's that's what I was

605
00:29:47.559 --> 00:29:50.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna say. Like for you to automatically assume that things

606
00:29:50.920 --> 00:29:55.839
<v Speaker 2>are gonna go back to the way it was, goofy, goofy, goofy.

607
00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:59.519
<v Speaker 1>Coach Lowe says, No, just because I didn't smack you

608
00:29:59.599 --> 00:30:02.680
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean and I won't and I didn't want to.

609
00:30:02.920 --> 00:30:04.839
<v Speaker 5>Like the fact that I forgave you meant that I

610
00:30:04.880 --> 00:30:07.559
<v Speaker 5>actually had love for you, because honestly, if I didn't

611
00:30:07.559 --> 00:30:10.680
<v Speaker 5>love you, I just you know, would have been forever.

612
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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I agree, I agree. It's seven thirteen Kansas City. Okay,

613
00:30:15.759 --> 00:30:17.960
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. I agree with you.

614
00:30:18.079 --> 00:30:21.440
<v Speaker 2>I said, like, me forgiving you shows you that I

615
00:30:21.599 --> 00:30:24.119
<v Speaker 2>actually did love you or actually did respect you. But

616
00:30:24.160 --> 00:30:25.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm also not gonna let you play in my face again.

617
00:30:25.839 --> 00:30:29.720
<v Speaker 2>That that's stumb mm hmmmm mmmm. That didn't just happen,

618
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<v Speaker 2>all right, ladies and gentlemen. So now we're going to

619
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<v Speaker 2>get into the edible portion of the show. So the

620
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<v Speaker 2>edible portion is where I read questions, comments, stories that

621
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<v Speaker 2>you guys sit in. And on the day that we record,

622
00:30:43.160 --> 00:30:44.519
<v Speaker 2>I always put up a prompt.

623
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<v Speaker 1>Saying ask me anything. Now.

624
00:30:46.200 --> 00:30:47.839
<v Speaker 2>If you have something to share, and it's not on

625
00:30:47.960 --> 00:30:49.599
<v Speaker 2>the day that I put up a prompt, you can

626
00:30:49.680 --> 00:30:53.160
<v Speaker 2>always email me at inquiries at stormy p e A.

627
00:30:53.640 --> 00:30:57.240
<v Speaker 1>I used to say DM me, but it's like the

628
00:30:57.279 --> 00:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>wild Wild West over there, y'all. I can I'm trying.

629
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<v Speaker 1>I'll be trying. I can't. Just email me.

630
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<v Speaker 2>It works way better inquiries at stormypea dot com. Okay,

631
00:31:07.079 --> 00:31:09.799
<v Speaker 2>Jared mcgroth says, damn it. I should have never opened Twitter.

632
00:31:09.920 --> 00:31:13.000
<v Speaker 2>I told y'all, did not tell y'all. I don't feel sorry.

633
00:31:12.839 --> 00:31:14.519
<v Speaker 1>For none of y'all. I don't.

634
00:31:15.119 --> 00:31:18.599
<v Speaker 2>Before we started, I had shared something with the life

635
00:31:18.759 --> 00:31:20.920
<v Speaker 2>and now a lot of them are regreting it, and great.

636
00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I love that for them because they don't listen to me.

637
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<v Speaker 3>Now everybody want her talking about it. Okay, So first.

638
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<v Speaker 2>Question, how do you show someone you care in a relationship?

639
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<v Speaker 2>H And I'll say that again. How do you show

640
00:31:41.640 --> 00:31:45.480
<v Speaker 2>someone you care in a relationship. I think the best

641
00:31:45.519 --> 00:31:48.319
<v Speaker 2>way to show someone you care in a relationship is

642
00:31:48.400 --> 00:31:50.319
<v Speaker 2>to take you out of it, right. And the reason

643
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<v Speaker 2>I say that is because a lot of times when

644
00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:55.480
<v Speaker 2>we talk about the five love languages, we always talk

645
00:31:55.480 --> 00:31:58.680
<v Speaker 2>about it from a receiving end, right, and we never

646
00:31:58.799 --> 00:32:02.799
<v Speaker 2>discuss how it feels to give too, or we never

647
00:32:02.880 --> 00:32:06.200
<v Speaker 2>discuss how it is to cater to your partner's love language. Right,

648
00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Because if my love language is words of affirmation, you

649
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:13.640
<v Speaker 2>bringing me gifts means nothing to me. Okay, if my

650
00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:18.599
<v Speaker 2>love language is quality time, you're giving me physical touch

651
00:32:18.920 --> 00:32:21.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean anything to me. I'm still not being satisfied.

652
00:32:21.799 --> 00:32:24.759
<v Speaker 2>So when you acts, or when we say how do

653
00:32:24.920 --> 00:32:27.920
<v Speaker 2>we show someone that we care in a relationship, Well,

654
00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:31.440
<v Speaker 2>first you gotta actually care, okay, Like you have to

655
00:32:31.599 --> 00:32:35.079
<v Speaker 2>find out what that person likes and what means something

656
00:32:35.160 --> 00:32:37.440
<v Speaker 2>to them. And I think once you figure that out,

657
00:32:38.000 --> 00:32:41.359
<v Speaker 2>everything else, you know, it falls into place. Like sometimes

658
00:32:41.440 --> 00:32:43.799
<v Speaker 2>we selfishly just go straight in, especially when it comes

659
00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:47.599
<v Speaker 2>to love languages, we selfishly go in with this is

660
00:32:47.680 --> 00:32:50.640
<v Speaker 2>what I like, This is what gives me a tickle

661
00:32:50.720 --> 00:32:54.119
<v Speaker 2>and the pickle. Okay, this is what gives my cootie

662
00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:57.119
<v Speaker 2>Cat the heartbeat, all right, but we have to think

663
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<v Speaker 2>about what our partner actually wants and what they need

664
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<v Speaker 2>right shot, he was about to say something. Oh goodie,

665
00:33:06.160 --> 00:33:13.680
<v Speaker 2>Ryan says, making your presence known and felt. Jared McGrath says,

666
00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:15.480
<v Speaker 2>you show them you care by never.

667
00:33:15.480 --> 00:33:21.559
<v Speaker 3>Mentioning Hyakeen's Twitter. I told y'all not to go over there.

668
00:33:24.200 --> 00:33:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Kevin in Ward twelve says, you just say I care, right,

669
00:33:27.319 --> 00:33:30.960
<v Speaker 2>you can, and I think that especially if you're a partner,

670
00:33:31.119 --> 00:33:35.440
<v Speaker 2>somebody who enjoys words of affirmation, saying you care can

671
00:33:35.599 --> 00:33:40.359
<v Speaker 2>mean a lot. But everybody's different. Everybody isn't gonna like

672
00:33:40.440 --> 00:33:42.920
<v Speaker 2>the same things. There was no playbook. You open a page,

673
00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:44.440
<v Speaker 2>cheven and you figure out this is what the girl

674
00:33:44.559 --> 00:33:46.559
<v Speaker 2>likes this week, just what the guy needs this week.

675
00:33:46.720 --> 00:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Like no, like you actually have to care.

676
00:33:51.759 --> 00:33:55.440
<v Speaker 2>Siggy Ly says, consideration is the highest form of love.

677
00:33:55.759 --> 00:33:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Agreed Outfie says, flowers, cards.

678
00:33:58.559 --> 00:33:59.559
<v Speaker 3>And candy.

679
00:34:00.839 --> 00:34:03.680
<v Speaker 2>One fine Trenny Boy says, got to love someone in

680
00:34:03.759 --> 00:34:06.599
<v Speaker 2>their love language and then a step more than customize

681
00:34:06.599 --> 00:34:09.159
<v Speaker 2>it for them. I'm not mad at this. Ty Grind says,

682
00:34:09.239 --> 00:34:13.480
<v Speaker 2>wait a minute, it's a heartbeat down there. Yes, maybe

683
00:34:13.639 --> 00:34:17.719
<v Speaker 2>what Yes, Yes, it's a heartbeat down there. It flutters

684
00:34:17.800 --> 00:34:21.360
<v Speaker 2>like butterfly wings. Clever Corey says, treat them better than

685
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:25.519
<v Speaker 2>how you want to be treated. Ooh, that's fire, that's fire.

686
00:34:26.039 --> 00:34:29.920
<v Speaker 2>Jarrett McGruff says, people love languages can also change. I agree,

687
00:34:30.519 --> 00:34:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I agree, people love them. Listen, people love languages can change,

688
00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:39.480
<v Speaker 2>and another important part is to do check ins and

689
00:34:39.559 --> 00:34:40.960
<v Speaker 2>make sure that's still what they actually want.

690
00:34:41.000 --> 00:34:43.840
<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling today? What will make you happy? Like?

691
00:34:44.039 --> 00:34:44.960
<v Speaker 1>How's your mental like?

692
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:47.079
<v Speaker 2>All these things are very important, as cliche as they

693
00:34:47.159 --> 00:34:55.199
<v Speaker 2>saund still very important. Next question, what is the primary

694
00:34:55.440 --> 00:34:57.159
<v Speaker 2>ingredient for your style of humor?

695
00:34:57.760 --> 00:35:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Trauma? Next question? Okay, fuck fuck? Tygrind says, if I

696
00:35:06.039 --> 00:35:09.000
<v Speaker 1>ask you, have you ate? I love you? Done deal.

697
00:35:09.440 --> 00:35:12.639
<v Speaker 2>Jared McGriff says he keeps putting an imaginary you in

698
00:35:12.719 --> 00:35:15.880
<v Speaker 2>my last name, but I'm gonna stick beside her. Oh

699
00:35:15.920 --> 00:35:18.719
<v Speaker 2>it's McGriff. Jared McGriff, My bad, big dog, I'm sorry.

700
00:35:18.719 --> 00:35:22.719
<v Speaker 2>I apologize. Big Line says football on wives don't matter

701
00:35:22.840 --> 00:35:26.599
<v Speaker 2>right now? You know, I keep that same energy when

702
00:35:26.599 --> 00:35:29.039
<v Speaker 2>you pass over that credit card. Okay, make sure you're

703
00:35:29.039 --> 00:35:31.039
<v Speaker 2>giving her that credit card. While you're enjoying your football,

704
00:35:31.119 --> 00:35:34.239
<v Speaker 2>please and thank you. Silver Surfer says, send the addie

705
00:35:34.320 --> 00:35:36.840
<v Speaker 2>so I can send flowers. In a blunt, be smoked

706
00:35:36.920 --> 00:35:39.159
<v Speaker 2>key says, what about you dating a big dude?

707
00:35:39.239 --> 00:35:40.039
<v Speaker 1>Don't start with me.

708
00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:44.079
<v Speaker 2>Okay, we talked about this. Uh tygrind says I said

709
00:35:44.119 --> 00:35:45.119
<v Speaker 2>it in that voice.

710
00:35:44.880 --> 00:35:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Too, blunty. You know I still have one of your

711
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:56.360
<v Speaker 1>birthday blunts. Horrible to be fair, to be fair, you

712
00:35:56.519 --> 00:36:03.199
<v Speaker 1>are horrible to be fair. I'm not talking about this right,

713
00:36:03.280 --> 00:36:03.639
<v Speaker 1>never mind.

714
00:36:04.360 --> 00:36:08.719
<v Speaker 2>Next questions, Uh, what's something that you're passionate about and

715
00:36:08.800 --> 00:36:10.199
<v Speaker 2>can talk about for hours?

716
00:36:10.519 --> 00:36:13.519
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm so glad, y'all asked, I'm.

717
00:36:13.480 --> 00:36:15.440
<v Speaker 1>So glad, y'all asked.

718
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:21.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's something that you're passionate about and can talk

719
00:36:21.880 --> 00:36:22.679
<v Speaker 2>about for hours?

720
00:36:23.079 --> 00:36:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Power Rangers?

721
00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:24.360
<v Speaker 3>Ready?

722
00:36:24.760 --> 00:36:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Go? Okay?

723
00:36:25.599 --> 00:36:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Did you know that Trenny wasn't supposed to be the

724
00:36:28.519 --> 00:36:31.159
<v Speaker 2>Yellow Ranger at first? It was actually a Latino girl?

725
00:36:31.280 --> 00:36:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Still Yellow also proven that the show was racist, but

726
00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:36.880
<v Speaker 2>I digress. For the pilot, there was a Latino girl

727
00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:40.440
<v Speaker 2>instead of Trenty, So yeah, that's the first thing. Next,

728
00:36:41.920 --> 00:36:45.679
<v Speaker 2>it was based on a Japanese show called Super Sentai. Uh,

729
00:36:45.840 --> 00:36:48.880
<v Speaker 2>it's pretty cool. Actually, in the beginning, all the action

730
00:36:49.079 --> 00:36:51.760
<v Speaker 2>scenes were from the Japanese show. They just filmed the

731
00:36:51.880 --> 00:36:54.159
<v Speaker 2>kids in their regular clothes and used the footage from that.

732
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:57.679
<v Speaker 2>Cheap but smart, I'm not mad at it. I'm also

733
00:36:57.760 --> 00:37:01.880
<v Speaker 2>did you know Mariza Hartigay Active Benson, Sergeant Benson, you

734
00:37:02.000 --> 00:37:02.960
<v Speaker 2>know who I'm talking about.

735
00:37:03.400 --> 00:37:06.119
<v Speaker 1>She was actually supposed to be in the Power Rangers movie.

736
00:37:06.280 --> 00:37:08.679
<v Speaker 2>She was supposed to be don't see it, Yes, but

737
00:37:09.760 --> 00:37:12.199
<v Speaker 2>she ended up getting fired. But I bet you didn't

738
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:14.960
<v Speaker 2>know that. Okay, did you know the Black Ranger Walter E.

739
00:37:15.119 --> 00:37:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Jones he had four fingers on one hand. Did you

740
00:37:17.840 --> 00:37:18.039
<v Speaker 3>know that?

741
00:37:18.519 --> 00:37:18.559
<v Speaker 2>No?

742
00:37:18.719 --> 00:37:20.199
<v Speaker 3>You did not? I did.

743
00:37:20.400 --> 00:37:22.079
<v Speaker 2>Did you know Tommy wasn't even supposed to be on

744
00:37:22.239 --> 00:37:25.800
<v Speaker 2>for all those episodes and seasons? Tommy was only supposed

745
00:37:25.800 --> 00:37:27.960
<v Speaker 2>to be in fourteen episodes, but he was such a

746
00:37:28.039 --> 00:37:30.760
<v Speaker 2>hit that they kept him on for forever or IPJDF

747
00:37:31.000 --> 00:37:32.880
<v Speaker 2>respect All Right, I could go.

748
00:37:33.000 --> 00:37:35.159
<v Speaker 1>On and on and on.

749
00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:37.679
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can go.

750
00:37:38.280 --> 00:37:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I can go, and we can go, and I can

751
00:37:39.960 --> 00:37:42.880
<v Speaker 1>go and I can go. Yeah.

752
00:37:42.920 --> 00:37:45.159
<v Speaker 2>Also, please don't even get me started on the Power

753
00:37:45.199 --> 00:37:46.719
<v Speaker 2>Rangers curse. It's a real thing.

754
00:37:46.920 --> 00:37:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Look it up.

755
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:50.159
<v Speaker 2>It's a real thing. Look it up very much a

756
00:37:50.199 --> 00:37:53.159
<v Speaker 2>real thing. Did you also know the Command Center is

757
00:37:53.199 --> 00:37:56.800
<v Speaker 2>a real place. It's like an American Jewish college. It's

758
00:37:56.840 --> 00:37:58.639
<v Speaker 2>a real place. It's a real place.

759
00:37:58.719 --> 00:37:59.199
<v Speaker 1>It exists.

760
00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:05.119
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I promise, dog, don't don't question me. I know

761
00:38:05.280 --> 00:38:10.119
<v Speaker 3>these things. You ain't got the answer, sway. I know

762
00:38:10.280 --> 00:38:10.679
<v Speaker 3>these things.

763
00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

764
00:38:13.199 --> 00:38:14.800
<v Speaker 2>But also, if you love power Rangers like I do,

765
00:38:14.920 --> 00:38:18.639
<v Speaker 2>September fourteenth and Philly is Ranger Station, Go Go Ranger Station.

766
00:38:18.840 --> 00:38:19.360
<v Speaker 1>It's a vibe.

767
00:38:19.480 --> 00:38:22.039
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's like a con, but it's like a

768
00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:24.400
<v Speaker 2>power Ranger con. So if you love power Rangers like

769
00:38:24.440 --> 00:38:27.960
<v Speaker 2>I do, September fourteenth, it's Go Go Ranger Station in Philly.

770
00:38:28.280 --> 00:38:30.599
<v Speaker 2>It's like a con just for power Rangers, you're gonna

771
00:38:30.599 --> 00:38:33.480
<v Speaker 2>love it. I'm gonna be there, my Single Coup Warriors,

772
00:38:33.559 --> 00:38:36.880
<v Speaker 2>We're all gonna be there, vibed up. It's gonna be crazy. Yeah,

773
00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:39.840
<v Speaker 2>Me and the rest of the Singo Coul Power Rangers

774
00:38:39.880 --> 00:38:41.480
<v Speaker 2>are going to be there. So yeah, if y'all want

775
00:38:41.519 --> 00:38:42.920
<v Speaker 2>to link up, y'all want to see come on out.

776
00:38:43.119 --> 00:38:43.400
<v Speaker 1>That's it.

777
00:38:45.360 --> 00:38:48.159
<v Speaker 2>Next Outfit says you can catch her next week at

778
00:38:48.239 --> 00:38:49.039
<v Speaker 2>Ranger Station Philly.

779
00:38:49.119 --> 00:38:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Y'all, she'll be ready.

780
00:38:49.880 --> 00:38:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I told y'all, and I'm be suited up, so when

781
00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:55.559
<v Speaker 2>y'all come up, I'm gonna have my like my uniform warrance.

782
00:38:56.800 --> 00:38:59.320
<v Speaker 2>One fine trinny boy says the fact Tommy whooped the

783
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:02.559
<v Speaker 2>whole Ranger squad and play the flute for them. What's

784
00:39:02.599 --> 00:39:06.559
<v Speaker 2>the while you work, ass, Nigga, I ain't gonna hold you.

785
00:39:07.400 --> 00:39:09.639
<v Speaker 2>Like as an adult, I go back and look at

786
00:39:09.679 --> 00:39:14.239
<v Speaker 2>some of those episodes, and specifically that one when Tommy

787
00:39:14.280 --> 00:39:16.840
<v Speaker 2>whooped them nigga's ass and kicked them.

788
00:39:16.760 --> 00:39:17.960
<v Speaker 1>Out their own sword.

789
00:39:19.840 --> 00:39:20.760
<v Speaker 3>The worst part was.

790
00:39:20.760 --> 00:39:22.840
<v Speaker 1>As soon as he came in, he punched the Yellow

791
00:39:22.920 --> 00:39:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Ranger in the face.

792
00:39:26.000 --> 00:39:29.000
<v Speaker 3>I like, if I get Friday and Yo, chill man.

793
00:39:28.960 --> 00:39:35.239
<v Speaker 2>That's a female that will never not be funny to me.

794
00:39:35.719 --> 00:39:37.639
<v Speaker 2>Another thing that will never not be funny to me.

795
00:39:42.000 --> 00:39:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Another thing that's always funny to me is Tommy was

796
00:39:45.039 --> 00:39:50.880
<v Speaker 2>playing a sword that sounded like a flute through a helmet.

797
00:39:51.239 --> 00:39:54.440
<v Speaker 2>How to fuck the wind get through the flute? It didn't,

798
00:39:54.880 --> 00:39:56.480
<v Speaker 2>It didn't, It fucking didn't.

799
00:39:56.559 --> 00:40:01.199
<v Speaker 1>It didn't make sense that uh power Ranger.

800
00:40:02.639 --> 00:40:02.840
<v Speaker 3>Why?

801
00:40:03.239 --> 00:40:07.719
<v Speaker 1>But like I was literally looking at like Grandma, you'll

802
00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:18.960
<v Speaker 1>see these big these suits, Like I understand, yeah, yeahs

803
00:40:20.519 --> 00:40:24.960
<v Speaker 1>because I was like, Grandma, does she keep shaking? Grandma? Yes,

804
00:40:25.480 --> 00:40:26.320
<v Speaker 1>but I can't down.

805
00:40:26.519 --> 00:40:31.199
<v Speaker 2>I just watch Outfice and Tommy's hands were rated e

806
00:40:31.440 --> 00:40:34.360
<v Speaker 2>for everyone. Elis my name is how he played the

807
00:40:34.400 --> 00:40:36.280
<v Speaker 2>food with a mask on. I used to say that

808
00:40:36.480 --> 00:40:38.960
<v Speaker 2>as a kid. One fine Trinny Boy says Tommy had

809
00:40:38.960 --> 00:40:43.679
<v Speaker 2>a bluetooth flute back in the day. Ah, lots of

810
00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:46.719
<v Speaker 2>footage lost footage, media, says Pete. Why girls, we hesitant

811
00:40:46.800 --> 00:40:48.960
<v Speaker 2>to send attachments because you're not the nigga.

812
00:40:49.159 --> 00:40:50.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's you.

813
00:40:50.559 --> 00:40:52.960
<v Speaker 2>You haven't gained access to that level of them, all right.

814
00:40:55.000 --> 00:40:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Uh damn, it just went too fast.

815
00:40:58.519 --> 00:40:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Sorry.

816
00:40:59.199 --> 00:41:02.880
<v Speaker 2>Favorite nomics as Powers stayed getting whooped, Power Ranger stay

817
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:06.960
<v Speaker 2>getting whoop bottom putties. No they didn't, Legacy Magic, says

818
00:41:07.320 --> 00:41:09.559
<v Speaker 2>our Ip. Tommy Man, I agree, r I p j

819
00:41:09.679 --> 00:41:14.960
<v Speaker 2>DF Yeah, and that could be I know, yeah, Jason

820
00:41:15.039 --> 00:41:19.800
<v Speaker 2>David Frank Yeah, man, I don't know if I said

821
00:41:19.800 --> 00:41:22.320
<v Speaker 2>it already, but September fourteenth, if you love Power Rangers

822
00:41:22.360 --> 00:41:24.599
<v Speaker 2>the way I do, check out Go Go Ranger Station

823
00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:27.639
<v Speaker 2>in Philadelphia. It's all Rangers, power kind I'm gonna be

824
00:41:27.719 --> 00:41:29.840
<v Speaker 2>there with the Sinkoku Rangers and yeah.

825
00:41:29.719 --> 00:41:31.920
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be fi. It's gonna be fine. Yeah, Power

826
00:41:31.960 --> 00:41:35.559
<v Speaker 1>Ranger P. That's it all right? So, uh what do

827
00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:36.320
<v Speaker 1>we learn today?

828
00:41:36.800 --> 00:41:36.920
<v Speaker 4>Uh?

829
00:41:37.760 --> 00:41:40.199
<v Speaker 2>Larry Holbert nineteen seventy two says, did you know you're

830
00:41:40.280 --> 00:41:41.679
<v Speaker 2>like an extra shrimp talent all?

831
00:41:41.760 --> 00:41:44.280
<v Speaker 1>You can take all my paint away. Baby, I'm going

832
00:41:44.360 --> 00:41:47.039
<v Speaker 1>to cause the pain. I'm taking that. I'm going calls

833
00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:53.159
<v Speaker 1>taking that. I'm bringing the pain. Please shot please, I'll

834
00:41:53.280 --> 00:41:54.559
<v Speaker 1>say that. I'll say that.

835
00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:58.800
<v Speaker 2>That was uh favorite Nomic says, you're going to show

836
00:41:58.800 --> 00:41:59.840
<v Speaker 2>your sworp play skills.

837
00:42:00.360 --> 00:42:01.239
<v Speaker 3>No, not for this one.

838
00:42:01.760 --> 00:42:05.079
<v Speaker 2>Shout out to Urban Force P h L. They are

839
00:42:05.119 --> 00:42:07.000
<v Speaker 2>the guys that do and the girls who do the

840
00:42:07.239 --> 00:42:11.159
<v Speaker 2>lightsaber choreography. Y'all give me like I'm on for two.

841
00:42:11.199 --> 00:42:13.199
<v Speaker 2>I'm really gonna be fire. I'm really gonna be fire.

842
00:42:13.239 --> 00:42:15.119
<v Speaker 2>I haven't decided if I'm gonna be a Sith or

843
00:42:15.239 --> 00:42:18.280
<v Speaker 2>a Jedi, but you know, we'll see, we'll see.

844
00:42:19.280 --> 00:42:20.320
<v Speaker 1>You think I'm gonna be a Jedi?

845
00:42:21.719 --> 00:42:23.719
<v Speaker 2>What if I'm And this is what I think, right,

846
00:42:24.320 --> 00:42:27.800
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna be like Tommy Right, I'm gonna

847
00:42:27.800 --> 00:42:31.159
<v Speaker 2>be a Sith at first, and then I'm gonna turn

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<v Speaker 2>into a Jedi.

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<v Speaker 3>You that's what you think.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, well you know, I guess we'll see,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh out Fitz says, she's whole milk on a hot day, healthy,

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<v Speaker 2>but gonna fuck your stomach up.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we're gonna rep this.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So questions for today. Would you rather be in bird

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<v Speaker 1>box or a quiet place?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Which?

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<v Speaker 3>Which movie? Would you rather live?

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<v Speaker 4>In?

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<v Speaker 2>Bird box or a quiet place? A recent study ranks

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<v Speaker 2>Philadelphia as one of the rudest cities in the United States.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of us are single because we're trying to maneuver,

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<v Speaker 2>not giving our Kodie cataway to everybody. You know, when dating,

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<v Speaker 2>If you decide I'm not the one for you, I

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<v Speaker 2>do not have to be your fucking friend. Good luck

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<v Speaker 2>on your journey to hell. Just because I forgive you

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean I forgot all the fuck up shit you've

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<v Speaker 2>done to me, and amnesia does not come as a

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<v Speaker 2>side for forgiveness. Next, how can you show someone you

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<v Speaker 2>care in a relationship, actually care? Learn what they want

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship and what they what makes them feel special?

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<v Speaker 2>With something that I'm passionate, and I talk forever about

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<v Speaker 2>power Rangers. Of course, my message is always going to

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<v Speaker 2>P e A At chocolate Chip and sip. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't remember anything else, please remember Harriet Tubman used

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<v Speaker 2>to knock babies out.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you guys, and I've seen next week. Please