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Speaker 1: Where'll they go on a second date? Well, we'll mull

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bee the last time they.

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Speaker 2: Ever talked chriss in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Second date updates, I'm kiss ninety five seven.

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Speaker 4: All right, are you guys ready for a second date update? Yeah,

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all right, we have got AJ on the line. AJ

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obviously went out on a great first date. He's trying

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to get a second date. He's getting ghosted and he

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wants to know why, and we're going to get to

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the bottom of it. Good morning, AJ, Hey.

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Speaker 2: Good morning guys.

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Speaker 4: Well, welcome to the show. I hope we can make

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a connection for you. So tell us all about this

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great first date you went on.

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Speaker 2: So I went out with this lady, this young lady

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I was starting to see your name is Becky. Okay,

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we went out for drinks on a double date because

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she said that she wanted to bring her girlfriend because

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she want to go out alone.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, I would do that too. Like if you

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don't know somebody and you get a chance to bring

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your best friend. Absolutely so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's little less pressure, you know, a little a

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little bit more free flow. You get to kind of

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enjoy yourself. It's not like you know, a date capital

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D date you get to have you know, get to

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know that first a little bit better as well around

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their friends. Okay, but you know, we had a blast.

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We had a good time drink your klooning conversation was

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going well, and you know, I'd really like to see

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you again. I've called and texted, but just telling ghost

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stories about it. So I don't know exactly know what happened,

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but i'd like to figure it.

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Speaker 4: Out, all right, So let me break down. You brought

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a friend and she brought a friend. Huh, everybody got along?

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Did anybody like you? Did your buddy get like drunk?

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Did you get drunk? Did something happen?

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Speaker 2: I you know people were drinking, but I don't think

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anybody got too drunk where they did anything foolish.

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Speaker 3: Okay, now did you and your boy pick up the

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bill and leave a good tip and stuff like that?

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Speaker 1: Good question?

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Speaker 3: Shot?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we did. We did pick up the bill.

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Speaker 4: And you're telling me you've reached out to her and

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you're like getting ghosted, like you called or texted and

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no response.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, big old goose egga man.

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Speaker 4: Hold on, we're gonna call Becky. Feel free to jump

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in on the call at any time. Thoughts thoughts, Savannah,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Like it seems like everything.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 5: I like the fact that they did a double date,

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because I feel like, yeah, if you don't really know somebody,

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it could be intimidating and at least there's like someone.

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Speaker 4: To break the ice. Same, you know, same? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is Becky there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Becky.

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Speaker 4: Hey, it's Courtney.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 5: Hey, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 4: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on

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the radio this morning.

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Speaker 3: Okay, are you in prison? Am I currently?

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Speaker 1: Literally?

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Speaker 4: Is everything? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Becky?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I just wasn't expecting the phone

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call from a radio station this morning.

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Speaker 5: That's valid, that's actually fair.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's interesting. Doesn't explain a whole lot. But anyway, Becky, listen,

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this is what we're calling. It's called second date update.

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You go on a first date, you have a great time,

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you get ghosted, and you want answers, call us, and

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so that's where we come in. And you're on the radio.

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He called us to tell us about a great first

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date he had with you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: So he says that you brought your best friend. I

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think you said, or a girlfriend because you were a

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little nervous, which is Savannah and I totally agree. On

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a first date, I would rather go with like my

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bestie as well. So you brought a friend, AJ brought

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a friend, he says, the four of you had a

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fantastic night. He's reached out to you in your ghostingham.

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Speaker 1: Why Okay, Well he might have had an excellent night

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because he seemed to have thought he was on a

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date with two different women. So what Well, I did

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bring my best friend Sarah along because I wasn't comfortable

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like going solo on a first date. And he was

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like openly hitting on my friend, like in front of me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's rude. What was his friend doing?

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Speaker 1: His friend disappeared at points in time, was like at

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the bar and like came back.

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Speaker 4: But like what oh no, all right, so you're telling

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me that your date AJ spent more time flirting with

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your best friend. Was he inappropriately flirting or was it

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just like a like.

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Speaker 1: Friend he was like rubbing on her back, like he

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was like visibly uncomfortable, Like the whole situation was just

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like awkward. And yeah, it's like disrespectful to me and

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disrespectful to my friend. Yeah, like, oh yeah, and he

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just got a little too sloppy.

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Speaker 4: Well, Becky, the surprise this morning is AJ is also

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on the line.

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Speaker 3: AG are you there?

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning Becky.

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Speaker 1: AJ.

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Speaker 4: Did you hear what she said? She said you spent

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the whole night being inappropriate with her best friend.

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Speaker 2: I kindly disagree. I'm just a super friendly guy, especially

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when I have a couple of drinks in me. But

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I don't don't think at any point I was being,

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you know, too inappropriate. I was just trying to be

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trying to be nice.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, So why then afterwards, after the date, why

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have you slipped into her DM asking her out? Oh shoot, okay, Wow.

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Speaker 2: I didn't reach out to I just said, you know,

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the toy that I had a great time with you guys,

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And that's that's what I said.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so my friend's a liar.

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Speaker 2: I can't speak.

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Speaker 1: Eyes are a liar because I saw the DM.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh she has receipts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's sketchy, AJ.

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Speaker 4: It's sketchy to reach out to your date's best friend

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and DM.

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Speaker 3: Watch well, it just sounds like AJ is trying to

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cast a wide net.

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Speaker 5: Wait wait, wait, wait, so you're saying that it's okay

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to go on a double date. And then if you're

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like not super into like the girl you're supposed to

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be there with, you can flirt on with the you

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can flirt the girl that's on the other.

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Speaker 3: Half of the day. Oh, I mean after a while,

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if you're not getting back to him, what's the guy

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to do? A guy has needs and pleasures.

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Speaker 4: Now, Becky, you bet No, Becky said AJ reached out

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to her girlfriend like the like right away after the date.

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Speaker 5: No, absolutely cringe.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I listen.

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Speaker 4: Maybe like the worst question ever, but would you guys

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consider going on another day if I pick up the

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tab or are we just done with it?

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Speaker 1: Becky? Yeah, it's a note for me, Okay, So it's

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a hard past.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had that feeling, you know, when you get

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involved with somebody's best friend like that you don't mess

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with its girl code.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just like it just it just crosses the

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line and everybody's on comfy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out, but keep

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us posted. I mean, I wish you both well and

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thank you for being honest AJ and honest Becky and

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being on a second date.

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Speaker 1: Update. Sure, thank you