WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.680 --> 00:00:01.919 It's Mixed ninety six to nine. 2 00:00:01.960 --> 00:00:04.559 Priscilla here, and I read this story about this boy 3 00:00:04.599 --> 00:00:07.759 here in Phoenix and it made my heart so warm. 4 00:00:08.039 --> 00:00:11.519 So this North Phoenix boy, Forrest Gomez, he's nine years old. 5 00:00:11.560 --> 00:00:14.160 He started a lemonade stand to help his dad raise 6 00:00:14.240 --> 00:00:18.199 money for his kidney transplant. So for the past three months, 7 00:00:18.239 --> 00:00:20.359 the family's kind of been selling lemonade in or chat 8 00:00:20.440 --> 00:00:24.239 down on the weekends to collect donations. And he's trying 9 00:00:24.239 --> 00:00:27.480 to get his dad a kidney. Because of his immigration status, 10 00:00:27.519 --> 00:00:30.600 he has to have a live kidney donor, and so 11 00:00:31.160 --> 00:00:33.719 it's just been a journey to try to find someone. 12 00:00:34.799 --> 00:00:37.280 And he's doing such a great job helping his dad, 13 00:00:37.320 --> 00:00:40.039 and I just hits me in the field. So if 14 00:00:40.039 --> 00:00:43.000 you want to help this young boy forst Gomez, We're 15 00:00:43.000 --> 00:00:45.600 gonna put his information on our Instagram stories right now. 16 00:00:45.880 --> 00:00:50.000 Check it out at Mix ninety six nine FM. Good morning, 17 00:00:50.039 --> 00:00:52.159 It's Mixed ninety six to nine. Priscilla here with you, 18 00:00:52.479 --> 00:00:55.240 and producer said, they just came out with a list 19 00:00:55.439 --> 00:00:59.119 of the top TikTok food trends of the year so far. 20 00:00:59.320 --> 00:01:00.479 You know, I love to food. 21 00:01:01.000 --> 00:01:03.359 I'm just gonna say yesterday you mentioned that that was 22 00:01:03.399 --> 00:01:05.680 your favorite figure. That's what you're most grateful for is 23 00:01:05.760 --> 00:01:09.120 just food? Yes, literally food? Okay, so tell me if 24 00:01:09.159 --> 00:01:12.920 you would try any of these tomato ic toast. I 25 00:01:12.920 --> 00:01:18.040 guess they are freezing tomatoes and shaving them onto a 26 00:01:18.040 --> 00:01:18.840 slice of toast. 27 00:01:18.959 --> 00:01:22.719 Oh it sounds delicious. Really, I think this would fulfill 28 00:01:22.760 --> 00:01:23.840 like all my cravings. 29 00:01:24.200 --> 00:01:26.000 What I mean, you think just because you're pregnant or 30 00:01:26.000 --> 00:01:26.519 in general. 31 00:01:27.159 --> 00:01:30.000 I love tomatoes, like I'll eat raw tomato like an 32 00:01:30.040 --> 00:01:31.319 apple with salt. 33 00:01:31.640 --> 00:01:32.319 You're kidding me? 34 00:01:32.480 --> 00:01:34.319 Yeah, so I think that this is right at my 35 00:01:34.319 --> 00:01:37.640 alley and it's frozen like slushy material o carreo. 36 00:01:39.439 --> 00:01:40.480 Yeah, all right. 37 00:01:40.519 --> 00:01:43.319 What about a chimoy pickle, which is a dill pickle 38 00:01:43.760 --> 00:01:46.439 soaked in chumoi, which is a Mexican kind of candy. 39 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:49.480 It's that sweet and sour powder with the heen, wrapped 40 00:01:49.519 --> 00:01:52.680 in a fruit roll up and stuffed with takis and 41 00:01:52.719 --> 00:01:54.480 like just basically all that. 42 00:01:54.920 --> 00:01:57.079 I would try it, but I don't like a sweet pickle. 43 00:01:57.640 --> 00:01:59.400 I like my pickle. It tastes like a pickle. 44 00:02:00.079 --> 00:02:02.959 Do you like kosher Yeah, okay, I don't like the 45 00:02:03.159 --> 00:02:04.640 tangy pickles either. 46 00:02:05.120 --> 00:02:07.879 Oh okay, so I don't like the bread and butter chips, No, 47 00:02:07.920 --> 00:02:10.240 I want the In and Out has great pickles. 48 00:02:10.319 --> 00:02:11.199 Okay, all right? 49 00:02:11.199 --> 00:02:15.159 What about the Sleepy Girl mocktail, which is a concoction 50 00:02:15.240 --> 00:02:19.039 of tart, cherry juice, seltzer and a spoonful of magnesium 51 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:20.319 so you can knock you out. 52 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:22.319 I mean, that's cute and all, but I'm not doing 53 00:02:22.360 --> 00:02:22.840 all that. 54 00:02:23.039 --> 00:02:26.240 Sounds it sounds dangerous if you ask. 55 00:02:26.159 --> 00:02:30.199 Me, just a magnesium like you iron something. 56 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:33.199 Okay, what about scrambled pancakes? 57 00:02:33.280 --> 00:02:36.439 And basically it's a classic pancake, scrambled like eggs. 58 00:02:36.479 --> 00:02:39.120 And some people hate it or some people are calling 59 00:02:39.159 --> 00:02:39.639 it genius. 60 00:02:39.800 --> 00:02:41.840 I saw this. I haven't tried it yet, but how 61 00:02:41.840 --> 00:02:45.080 easy for babies. You can just scramble up the pancake 62 00:02:45.080 --> 00:02:47.199 and then they can grab it themselves. 63 00:02:46.759 --> 00:02:48.000 That's a that's a good look. 64 00:02:48.000 --> 00:02:49.280 It's almost like a funnel cake. 65 00:02:50.080 --> 00:02:52.960 Oh you know what? And that sounds delicious, I know. Okay. 66 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:58.039 Finally, a cereal milk latte, which people are with their coffee. 67 00:02:58.080 --> 00:03:00.879 Instead of using creamer, they're using them from the cereal. 68 00:03:01.039 --> 00:03:01.960 I could get in on that. 69 00:03:02.039 --> 00:03:04.560 It depends on the cereal though, right. Lucky Charms would 70 00:03:04.599 --> 00:03:06.879 be good see, I think that's fruity. You can't do 71 00:03:06.919 --> 00:03:11.319 fruity lattes. I'm thinking like cocoa puffs, or maybe like 72 00:03:11.360 --> 00:03:14.400 a s'mores kind of like Golden Gram's cereal. 73 00:03:14.520 --> 00:03:16.759 Yeah sweet. If you like sweet, you're gonna like a 74 00:03:16.800 --> 00:03:17.759 cereal milk latte. 75 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:19.400 Both sol Toaster. 76 00:03:20.520 --> 00:03:24.719 Producer said, this woman is going viral because of something 77 00:03:24.759 --> 00:03:26.719 she doesn't want to do for her guests at her wedding. 78 00:03:27.439 --> 00:03:30.159 She opens up and says she's a sober woman. 79 00:03:30.199 --> 00:03:32.919 She hasn't been drinking for about five years now, and 80 00:03:32.960 --> 00:03:36.599 so is her husband, and she's annoyed that she's expected 81 00:03:36.639 --> 00:03:40.199 to provide an open bar at her wedding. And now 82 00:03:40.360 --> 00:03:43.400 you're sober, yes, and not just because you're pregnant, but 83 00:03:43.400 --> 00:03:46.120 you just don't drink in general, and you just recently 84 00:03:46.120 --> 00:03:46.639 got married. 85 00:03:46.639 --> 00:03:47.879 So what's kind of your thoughts on that. 86 00:03:48.000 --> 00:03:50.240 I think you have to have an open bar. I 87 00:03:50.280 --> 00:03:52.879 think it's just common courtesy. That's like saying if you're 88 00:03:53.560 --> 00:03:56.520 vegan or gluten free and then you make everyone eat 89 00:03:56.599 --> 00:03:57.680 salad at your wedding. 90 00:03:58.000 --> 00:04:00.960 Yeah, you got to kind of accommodate the map. And 91 00:04:01.319 --> 00:04:03.400 I know people like to say, well, it's my wedding 92 00:04:03.439 --> 00:04:05.400 and I do what I want. But it's like it's 93 00:04:05.439 --> 00:04:08.879 one of those toxic like self things. It's like, you 94 00:04:08.879 --> 00:04:10.919 know when people are like, I'm protecting my peace, but 95 00:04:10.960 --> 00:04:13.319 in reality they're avoiding having a hard conversation. 96 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:15.719 Yeah, and even if like I don't drink, but I 97 00:04:15.759 --> 00:04:18.360 want if people come over to have a cocktailer. It's 98 00:04:18.399 --> 00:04:21.319 like hosting, right, Yeah, your wedding. You're hosting your guests 99 00:04:21.319 --> 00:04:23.319 and you want it to be a fun experience. And 100 00:04:23.360 --> 00:04:25.439 that included a lot of tequila for our wedding. 101 00:04:25.480 --> 00:04:28.240 As you know, I was gonna say, uh, as someone 102 00:04:28.240 --> 00:04:30.959 that didn't drink you and someone that did drink me. 103 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:35.079 I feel like the night flew by, I had the 104 00:04:35.120 --> 00:04:35.720 best time. 105 00:04:35.839 --> 00:04:37.800 You have a couple of those brown daddies I know. 106 00:04:38.279 --> 00:04:42.639 And I ended up somehow on the floor, So I 107 00:04:42.759 --> 00:04:45.879 say yes, but I had a great time, the best time. 108 00:04:48.319 --> 00:04:50.480 It's six ninety six to nine, Priscilla here with you. 109 00:04:50.600 --> 00:04:52.319 Before we get started, I wanted to give a shout 110 00:04:52.319 --> 00:04:55.680 out to Crystal and her kiddos, Leo, Nathan and Juliana. 111 00:04:55.759 --> 00:04:57.560 They are hanging out in the car on the way 112 00:04:57.600 --> 00:05:00.439 to school. Hey guys, thanks so much for listening to 113 00:05:00.560 --> 00:05:04.560 us every single morning. Okay, sid did you hear about 114 00:05:04.600 --> 00:05:08.120 Mark Zuckerberg and what he did for his wife Priscilla. 115 00:05:07.879 --> 00:05:09.399 Going above and beyond? 116 00:05:09.560 --> 00:05:14.720 He created a custom seven foot statue and he put 117 00:05:14.720 --> 00:05:19.079 it in their backyard. And this thing is an angelic, 118 00:05:19.399 --> 00:05:24.759 mythological flowing It is blue silver, she looks. 119 00:05:24.560 --> 00:05:26.240 Like a superwoman. 120 00:05:26.360 --> 00:05:29.519 It's gorgeous, fabulous statue of liberty, but with a like 121 00:05:29.639 --> 00:05:32.439 winged dress. It's very elaborate. 122 00:05:32.560 --> 00:05:34.240 And the first thing I did when I saw this 123 00:05:34.319 --> 00:05:37.160 as I showed my husband and I'm like, Mark Zuckerberg 124 00:05:37.199 --> 00:05:38.199 has a wife named Priscilla. 125 00:05:38.639 --> 00:05:41.199 You have a wife named Priscilla. Why having you built 126 00:05:41.199 --> 00:05:43.279 me a custom seven foot statue? 127 00:05:43.720 --> 00:05:46.079 Yeah? And put it in our front yard. I don't 128 00:05:46.079 --> 00:05:48.000 care if the hoa is gonna have a poem with it, 129 00:05:48.600 --> 00:05:51.360 show your undying love. Put it up in Bilburg. Go 130 00:05:51.480 --> 00:05:55.040 against the grain and make it happen. Be romantic. 131 00:05:55.120 --> 00:05:58.319 And Mark Zuckerberg was like bringing back Roman traditions. And 132 00:05:58.360 --> 00:06:02.040 then Gail King responded and what she's sayings to it 133 00:06:02.040 --> 00:06:04.759 and goes, wow, is there a backstory here or just 134 00:06:04.800 --> 00:06:06.120 Tuesday night at your house? 135 00:06:06.560 --> 00:06:06.920 Ps? 136 00:06:07.000 --> 00:06:08.680 Do you have an older brother who is black? I 137 00:06:08.680 --> 00:06:10.560 could meet? Asking for a friend. 138 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:17.839 Ah, you know what a random Tuesday statue. I am 139 00:06:17.879 --> 00:06:19.480 here for it. 140 00:06:19.480 --> 00:06:23.439 It's time for what's trending, and nothing bigger right now 141 00:06:23.480 --> 00:06:27.480 than the news of Emily in Paris season four out 142 00:06:27.519 --> 00:06:28.720 on Netflix today. 143 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:31.120 Oh my god, Indy, do you want on my run? 144 00:06:31.680 --> 00:06:33.600 Hot men everywhere? 145 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:35.959 I guess I've just been so focused on Gabrielle and 146 00:06:35.959 --> 00:06:38.480 Alfie that I forgot what it feels like to be single, 147 00:06:39.439 --> 00:06:41.199 and now that I'm not with either of them. 148 00:06:41.120 --> 00:06:45.240 I'm so excited. 149 00:06:45.399 --> 00:06:46.199 I can't wait. 150 00:06:46.319 --> 00:06:47.560 It's going to be amazing. 151 00:06:48.480 --> 00:06:52.040 Also, not amazing or amazing, depending on who you're asking, 152 00:06:52.240 --> 00:06:55.319 is a lot of people are wondering why the breakdancing 153 00:06:55.399 --> 00:06:57.600 is not coming back for the twenty twenty eight Olympics, 154 00:06:58.199 --> 00:07:02.800 and despite the trillion break dancer, it actually has nothing 155 00:07:02.839 --> 00:07:04.839 to do with her. Yeah. The reason why is because 156 00:07:04.879 --> 00:07:08.240 when LA was doing the picking of the sports and 157 00:07:08.319 --> 00:07:11.160 the committee was putting things together back in twenty twenty two, 158 00:07:11.560 --> 00:07:15.040 break dancing wasn't even on the agenda, which is surprising 159 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:17.959 because you would think they'd take into consideration the agenda 160 00:07:17.959 --> 00:07:19.319 from the previous committee. 161 00:07:19.360 --> 00:07:22.680 You know, while the Bee Boys in LA, it would 162 00:07:22.680 --> 00:07:26.800 have been so amazing to bring bee boying to La 163 00:07:26.879 --> 00:07:28.120 but it's okay, It's okay. 164 00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:29.519 Maybe it'll come back in another time. 165 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:32.399 It ends with us the movie with Blake Lively and 166 00:07:32.560 --> 00:07:33.399 Justin Baldini. 167 00:07:33.560 --> 00:07:36.199 This is getting heavy, well not heavy. 168 00:07:36.920 --> 00:07:40.959 Probably wrong choice of words, but dramatic, dramatic. 169 00:07:41.079 --> 00:07:42.040 Keep learning more. 170 00:07:42.360 --> 00:07:44.800 Yeah, So what we find out is Justin has actually 171 00:07:44.959 --> 00:07:48.759 hired a crisis team and the reason why is there's 172 00:07:48.800 --> 00:07:52.720 rumors out now saying that he weight shamed her and basically. 173 00:07:52.360 --> 00:07:53.639 The reason here's the thing. 174 00:07:54.279 --> 00:07:57.040 I feel like it's a stretch because the story goes 175 00:07:57.160 --> 00:08:00.000 that he has really bad back problems and has had surgery, 176 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:02.240 and there was a scene where he needed to lift Blake, 177 00:08:02.319 --> 00:08:04.600 and so he asked his trainer like, Hey, how do 178 00:08:04.639 --> 00:08:07.519 we figure out what Blake's wait is so I can 179 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:10.279 protect my back or I can train for it at least. Yeah, 180 00:08:10.279 --> 00:08:12.360 And I guess you took that personal, Like how dare you? 181 00:08:12.759 --> 00:08:15.360 I don't know that I personally would be offended by that. 182 00:08:15.800 --> 00:08:17.639 No, I wouldn't. I think it's a little bit of 183 00:08:17.639 --> 00:08:20.279 a stretch, especially especially because he didn't out her in 184 00:08:20.279 --> 00:08:23.399 front of everyone. He kind of yeahchalantly. It seems like 185 00:08:23.439 --> 00:08:25.319 we don't know the true story from what we're told 186 00:08:25.360 --> 00:08:27.319 he said it in private to his trainer, like how 187 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:28.000 do I dress this? 188 00:08:28.120 --> 00:08:30.000 And then but there is another part of the story. 189 00:08:30.000 --> 00:08:32.240 This one's kind of sus and if this is true, 190 00:08:32.279 --> 00:08:35.120 it is weird. Yeah, she is rumored to say that 191 00:08:35.159 --> 00:08:37.879 he lingered a little too long during a kissing scene. 192 00:08:38.399 --> 00:08:40.440 But I just based on what I know about him, 193 00:08:40.480 --> 00:08:43.600 it's so hard to believe it or buy it. Not sure, 194 00:08:44.279 --> 00:08:46.120 So we'll see. We're going to keep up with it 195 00:08:46.120 --> 00:08:48.960 because everyone is invested. I went to dinner with my 196 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:50.679 girlfriends last night and all of us at the table 197 00:08:50.720 --> 00:08:52.360 were talking about it for a good thirty minutes. 198 00:08:52.519 --> 00:08:53.919 So we'll keep you posted. 199 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:58.200 Okay, it's mixed ninety six y nine, Priscilla here and 200 00:08:58.240 --> 00:09:02.279 we are ready to play Priscilla's Lego Land Pyramid and 201 00:09:02.559 --> 00:09:05.919 we have miss Yarian on the phone, ready to play 202 00:09:05.919 --> 00:09:07.120 with her fifth grade class. 203 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:13.519 Good morning, Good morning. Here's how it's gonna work. 204 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:15.720 I'm gonna put up flash cards for a producer SID 205 00:09:15.759 --> 00:09:16.720 that has a word on it. 206 00:09:16.759 --> 00:09:18.440 She's gonna give you clues and you're gonna try to 207 00:09:18.440 --> 00:09:19.240 guess what the word is. 208 00:09:19.799 --> 00:09:24.559 All right, The theme is noises your body makes? Oh boy, 209 00:09:24.679 --> 00:09:27.600 but you're not allowed to make the noise. You have 210 00:09:27.679 --> 00:09:31.519 to describe it. Okay, are you ready to help your teacher? 211 00:09:31.919 --> 00:09:36.919 Yes, all right, let's do this. Here is word number one. 212 00:09:37.360 --> 00:09:39.759 Okay, so this happens when you're sleeping. You're in a 213 00:09:39.799 --> 00:09:44.559 deep sleep, and it sounds like a little piggy yes, 214 00:09:44.879 --> 00:09:47.600 nor next word, Okay, this is when you drink your 215 00:09:47.600 --> 00:09:50.440 soda too fast and you open up your mouth and 216 00:09:50.480 --> 00:09:54.720 you make a loud. 217 00:09:53.519 --> 00:09:56.639 Yeah, you got some good sir. All right. 218 00:09:56.720 --> 00:10:00.120 Finally, okay, this one you can only get rid of 219 00:10:00.159 --> 00:10:01.480 if someone scares you. 220 00:10:03.360 --> 00:10:07.879 Yes, kids, you just got your teacher tickets to Legoland 221 00:10:07.960 --> 00:10:14.039 in San Diego. 222 00:10:17.000 --> 00:10:19.360 It sounds like you have a very excited class. 223 00:10:19.639 --> 00:10:21.399 They are very excited, and. 224 00:10:21.360 --> 00:10:22.919 I love that you didn't even have to play. They 225 00:10:22.960 --> 00:10:23.519 played for you. 226 00:10:23.879 --> 00:10:25.200 I know they were ready to go. 227 00:10:25.840 --> 00:10:28.679 Congratulations again, and I just wanted to remind everyone that 228 00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:32.240 you were this month's one in a million teacher selection 229 00:10:32.399 --> 00:10:34.840 with a million dollar teacher project because of. 230 00:10:34.720 --> 00:10:36.120 How great of a teacher you are. 231 00:10:36.159 --> 00:10:38.399 And it clearly shows because your kiddos were super excited 232 00:10:38.399 --> 00:10:38.960 to play with you. 233 00:10:39.320 --> 00:10:42.440 Yeah, thank you so much, of course. Congratulations, have a 234 00:10:42.440 --> 00:10:46.840 great day. Thank you too. It's excited. 235 00:10:46.879 --> 00:10:49.279 Six nine in the Valley's Best mixed Priscilla Here, don't 236 00:10:49.320 --> 00:10:51.480 forget your chance to go to twenty one Pilots is 237 00:10:51.519 --> 00:10:54.360 coming up just around ten o'clock this morning. When you 238 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:57.559 hear those two songs back to back. But Sid, I 239 00:10:57.759 --> 00:11:01.200 just read, according to this new report, how much money 240 00:11:01.240 --> 00:11:05.080 Americans should have in their savings account for an emergency fund. 241 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:06.240 I'm scared. 242 00:11:06.480 --> 00:11:07.600 How much do you think it is? 243 00:11:08.799 --> 00:11:09.919 Uh? 244 00:11:10.080 --> 00:11:12.720 I want to say like one thousand dollars. 245 00:11:13.919 --> 00:11:16.279 It says thirty three thousand dollars. 246 00:11:17.039 --> 00:11:19.639 No, no, no, no no no no no no, no, no, 247 00:11:19.519 --> 00:11:19.960 no nose. 248 00:11:20.000 --> 00:11:22.919 So I guess every American is probably on the brink 249 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:24.759 of extinction at this point because who has that kind 250 00:11:24.799 --> 00:11:25.320 of cash in there? 251 00:11:25.320 --> 00:11:27.080 Play like an awe shucks moment? 252 00:11:27.200 --> 00:11:29.919 Yeah, like the carpar breaks out if you have an 253 00:11:29.960 --> 00:11:34.279 ac issue anytime, it says at least thirty three thousand dollars. 254 00:11:34.279 --> 00:11:37.840 But also, what do you like count as an emergency? 255 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:40.240 Like for me, it was an emergency to get new 256 00:11:40.639 --> 00:11:42.879 like pendant lights in my kitchen. 257 00:11:43.159 --> 00:11:44.720 Yeah, that felt urgent. 258 00:11:45.360 --> 00:11:47.840 It was an emergency for me yesterday to get glam 259 00:11:47.919 --> 00:11:49.840 for my maternity shoe exactly. 260 00:11:49.919 --> 00:11:53.279 So we're we're doing the thing. It's just a different 261 00:11:53.720 --> 00:11:55.720 millennial version that is way too much. 262 00:11:55.799 --> 00:11:58.159 I think, I mean maybe, I mean I don't have 263 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:00.000 a kid yet, so I guess they're expensive. 264 00:12:00.080 --> 00:12:04.279 Of I guess maybe. I don't know, but it's time 265 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:06.600 to get into our hot topic. And we had Carrie 266 00:12:07.000 --> 00:12:10.200 send us a DM on Instagram and she writes, I'm 267 00:12:10.200 --> 00:12:13.399 having a party Labor Day weekend and I want to 268 00:12:13.399 --> 00:12:16.519 invite all my friends and family except for my brother. 269 00:12:16.919 --> 00:12:20.120 He is kind of a negative person. Everything is a 270 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:24.120 pessimistic situation. He's just kind of a wet blanket anytime 271 00:12:24.159 --> 00:12:26.840 he's around and not fun and kind of dampens the mood. 272 00:12:27.080 --> 00:12:28.759 So I don't want to invite him, but I know 273 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:31.200 that my mom will be mad if I don't include him, 274 00:12:31.240 --> 00:12:34.480 because my mom is always kind of said this message 275 00:12:34.480 --> 00:12:37.639 that your siblings, you stick together, your family figure it out. 276 00:12:38.039 --> 00:12:40.039 But at what point do you kind of just like 277 00:12:40.679 --> 00:12:42.759 make them figure it out on their own and stop 278 00:12:42.840 --> 00:12:44.200 letting it affect your energy. 279 00:12:44.879 --> 00:12:46.120 So she's like, what do I do? 280 00:12:47.159 --> 00:12:48.080 This is a tough one. 281 00:12:48.159 --> 00:12:48.639 What would you do? 282 00:12:48.679 --> 00:12:50.840 Because you have a lot of sisters and you guys 283 00:12:50.879 --> 00:12:53.360 are really close, what would you do in this situation 284 00:12:53.360 --> 00:12:55.720 if one of your sisters just wouldn't get it together. 285 00:12:56.720 --> 00:12:58.879 I don't think I can leave one of them out. 286 00:12:59.399 --> 00:13:02.120 I don't think I can. I would invite them and 287 00:13:02.159 --> 00:13:06.080 then complain about it. I love it, So what would 288 00:13:06.120 --> 00:13:10.559 you do? I wouldn't invite either of them. Yeah, I'm like, 289 00:13:10.840 --> 00:13:12.720 I'm not even invite my mom or my brother. They 290 00:13:12.720 --> 00:13:15.399 won't know about it. It'll be fine, honestly. Yeah, I'll 291 00:13:15.399 --> 00:13:16.399 make it just a friend's thing. 292 00:13:16.519 --> 00:13:18.759 Yeah, but then I would feel guilty and the people 293 00:13:18.799 --> 00:13:21.440 pleasing in me would like seep out of my bones. 294 00:13:22.200 --> 00:13:22.679 I don't know. 295 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:25.080 This is a hard one for me because I love 296 00:13:25.120 --> 00:13:29.279 my family so much, But I also understand having negative 297 00:13:29.360 --> 00:13:31.200 energy around and not wanting it in your space. 298 00:13:31.519 --> 00:13:34.080 So absolutely, And I think it depends what's going on. 299 00:13:34.840 --> 00:13:37.240 Is he just one of those persons that like complains 300 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:40.639 about everything, or is he having a tough time. 301 00:13:40.799 --> 00:13:43.200 That's also a difference, because if he's going through it, 302 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.200 then you got to be there for your family. But 303 00:13:45.240 --> 00:13:48.720 if he's just like that's his personality, then that's different. 304 00:13:48.840 --> 00:13:50.039 So give us a call. 305 00:13:51.080 --> 00:13:53.600 We're in the middle of our hot topic and we're 306 00:13:53.639 --> 00:13:57.080 asking if you have a family member, specifically a sibling 307 00:13:57.279 --> 00:14:00.600 that is not really the most positive kind of a 308 00:14:00.600 --> 00:14:04.000 black cloud? Are you obligated to invite them to family functions? 309 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:06.759 And we have Nicki on the phone. Nicki and Glendelle, 310 00:14:06.799 --> 00:14:08.200 what's your opinion on this hot topic? 311 00:14:08.480 --> 00:14:13.320 I'm saying most definitely family first over everyone else. So 312 00:14:13.879 --> 00:14:15.399 if people know you and they're friends with you, they 313 00:14:15.440 --> 00:14:17.840 already know that your brother is annoying and people could 314 00:14:17.919 --> 00:14:19.919 just deal with it, or maybe ask your brother to 315 00:14:19.960 --> 00:14:22.480 take a chill for the day, you know, like not 316 00:14:22.639 --> 00:14:25.639 make things major, but family first always. 317 00:14:25.759 --> 00:14:28.120 Okay, I love that, Thanks Nikki, I appreciate that. 318 00:14:28.440 --> 00:14:29.240 No problem. 319 00:14:29.600 --> 00:14:29.919 All right. 320 00:14:29.919 --> 00:14:32.200 We have Samantha and Goodyear on the phone. What's your 321 00:14:32.279 --> 00:14:33.360 opinion on this hot topic. 322 00:14:33.399 --> 00:14:37.360 Samantha, Well, I would say approach him in a positive. 323 00:14:36.960 --> 00:14:39.720 Manner and maybe give him an invite and. 324 00:14:40.240 --> 00:14:42.159 You know, hopefully he's have him a good day that day. 325 00:14:42.240 --> 00:14:45.440 But that would be my advice for sure. 326 00:14:45.639 --> 00:14:48.799 So basically have a conversation like, hey, I noticed you're 327 00:14:48.840 --> 00:14:50.679 not always in the best mood and I don't really 328 00:14:50.720 --> 00:14:52.919 want that energy around, so can you pull it together? 329 00:14:53.799 --> 00:14:54.039 Yep? 330 00:14:54.279 --> 00:14:56.159 Exactly, Like, Hey, if you want to have a good time, 331 00:14:56.200 --> 00:14:57.559 you're more than welcome to come. 332 00:14:58.039 --> 00:15:01.360 But that's fair yeah, absolutely, all right, thank you for that. 333 00:15:01.399 --> 00:15:03.320 All right, let's move on to Megan and Marakopa. What 334 00:15:03.360 --> 00:15:04.480 do you think about this hot topic? 335 00:15:04.600 --> 00:15:08.159 As long as the brother hasn't done anything like super serious, 336 00:15:08.360 --> 00:15:11.159 hasn't you know? If it's if he's just a party pooper, 337 00:15:11.440 --> 00:15:14.120 probably I would invite him, and then before he's done 338 00:15:14.159 --> 00:15:16.320 and he's gone, I would definitely complain to my husband 339 00:15:16.360 --> 00:15:18.399 about what a party pooper he is and how I 340 00:15:18.440 --> 00:15:18.879 didn't want to. 341 00:15:19.399 --> 00:15:22.000 I love that. Listen, that is my cup of tea. 342 00:15:22.200 --> 00:15:22.960 Like be nice to. 343 00:15:22.919 --> 00:15:24.879 Everyone in front of their face and just talk about 344 00:15:24.879 --> 00:15:28.159 them behind their back like a normal person. Yeah. 345 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:30.039 Just I don't know. It's hard to try and keep 346 00:15:30.080 --> 00:15:30.399 the peace. 347 00:15:30.440 --> 00:15:32.080 You know, I'm here for it. Thanks Megan. 348 00:15:32.240 --> 00:15:34.720 All Right, if you've had a situation where this has 349 00:15:34.720 --> 00:15:37.000 affected you, or maybe you have a family member that 350 00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:39.960 you love but you just know they're kind of a 351 00:15:40.039 --> 00:15:43.399 drag when they're around big parties or other people, let 352 00:15:43.440 --> 00:15:45.480 us know what your solution is. Six two two six 353 00:15:45.639 --> 00:15:49.000 h nine six ' nine. It's excitety six nine. We're 354 00:15:49.000 --> 00:15:51.159 in the middle of our hot topic and we're asking 355 00:15:51.360 --> 00:15:54.559 people what do you do if you have a sibling 356 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:58.159 that is kind of just never in a happy mood, 357 00:15:58.399 --> 00:16:00.559 kind of has a pessimistic view on life. 358 00:16:00.919 --> 00:16:03.159 And you love them, but you're kind of. 359 00:16:03.159 --> 00:16:06.399 Tired of bringing them around family functions or parties that 360 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:09.399 you're having because it kind of dampers the mood for everyone. 361 00:16:09.559 --> 00:16:11.360 So we're taking your calls and we have Kim on 362 00:16:11.399 --> 00:16:12.600 the phone. Kim, what do you think. 363 00:16:13.000 --> 00:16:15.399 I just kind of think it's family. You got to 364 00:16:15.399 --> 00:16:18.879 invite the family, and then you can just ignore him 365 00:16:19.320 --> 00:16:23.279 and have fun with everybody. But I just wouldn't exclude 366 00:16:23.360 --> 00:16:24.799 him and cause all that drama. 367 00:16:25.039 --> 00:16:27.159 Okay, that's fair, because then at the end of the day, 368 00:16:27.240 --> 00:16:29.480 like dealing with it for a few hours is better 369 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:31.679 than dealing it with it for like months because of 370 00:16:31.720 --> 00:16:32.279 an argument. 371 00:16:32.600 --> 00:16:35.120 Right then everybody in the family is gonna Yeah, it 372 00:16:35.200 --> 00:16:38.039 just causes drama. Let him sit in his corner and tout. 373 00:16:39.000 --> 00:16:40.960 I love it. That's such a good perspective. Thank you 374 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:41.240 for that. 375 00:16:41.399 --> 00:16:44.240 Okay, let's move on to Ashley. Ashley, what's your opinion 376 00:16:44.240 --> 00:16:45.039 on this hot topic. 377 00:16:45.960 --> 00:16:48.360 I just feel like she's an adult. It's her party, 378 00:16:48.360 --> 00:16:50.320 it's her house. If she doesn't want to invite her 379 00:16:50.320 --> 00:16:51.559 brother for some reason, then. 380 00:16:51.440 --> 00:16:52.960 Her mom needs to just respect that. 381 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:55.039 Because if she wants to have a party at her 382 00:16:55.039 --> 00:16:58.440 own house and invite her son, that's her decision, but 383 00:16:58.600 --> 00:17:00.000 she can't make other people do it. 384 00:17:00.440 --> 00:17:02.360 You know what, That's a good point because at the 385 00:17:02.440 --> 00:17:04.240 end of the day, I get it, family is family. 386 00:17:04.319 --> 00:17:06.960 Like I personally would probably invite my brother just because 387 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:10.079 I'm a people pleaser, but I also respect the idea 388 00:17:10.079 --> 00:17:12.880 of like, this is someone's own personal space that they 389 00:17:13.519 --> 00:17:15.440 they pay the bills at, So who are we to 390 00:17:15.480 --> 00:17:17.119 tell them who they can and can't invite? 391 00:17:17.480 --> 00:17:19.720 Yeah, exactly, Thanks for that, Ashley. 392 00:17:19.799 --> 00:17:22.480 Okay, if you've been in this exact situation though, and 393 00:17:22.519 --> 00:17:25.839 you've dealt with like sibling drama, I guess you want 394 00:17:25.839 --> 00:17:27.319 to call it, or not even drama, but just a 395 00:17:27.319 --> 00:17:29.680 sibling that is hard to get along with but you 396 00:17:29.759 --> 00:17:30.559 love them. 397 00:17:30.920 --> 00:17:32.759 How have you navigated that? Give us a call. Six 398 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:35.240 h two two six zho nine six ' nine. 399 00:17:36.160 --> 00:17:38.200 We're in the middle of our hot topic and Carrie 400 00:17:38.200 --> 00:17:41.200 wrote into our show and she's like, listen, I have 401 00:17:41.279 --> 00:17:43.839