Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice,
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Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome. We're on the cameras tonight. I
didn't go live yesterday. You got to do it twice.
I I don't know. I blame the weather. Yeah, I
blame I blame the weather. Blame yeah, how about that weather? Like?
It has been pretty nice and then we always get that.
I'm hoping this is the last little bursts of winter
we get. But I don't know if you notice this.
People are in crankier moods, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: I believe that.
Speaker 2: Frankier moods when when the weather.
Speaker 4: Is not good, I get migrains due to the weather.
And I wonder if if if the weather with the
barometric pressure, I do I do you like how.
Speaker 2: I dismiss your pain, Yes, and just mock it mesogynistic, awful,
toxic masculinity.
Speaker 4: Way, Well, your liver is trying to like compensate for
whatever is going on in your body that's missing.
Speaker 3: So like the pressure has a lot to do with that.
Speaker 4: They say, when like full moon people get inured, yeah
all that stuff. Oh they've turned into werewolves yeah right,
or tire wolves.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well here's the thing that I've noticed, like sometimes when
it when you get a good snowstorm or or a
good rainstorm, it's an excuse to be a slug people, right,
I mean, all of a sudden, you're doing nothing. It's
like a day you don't really live. You just shut
it down. You land the couch, right, and.
Speaker 3: See, I can't do that. I gotta do something.
Speaker 2: Oh it's a mental health day or it's a you
know what I mean. Some under the guise of that, and.
Speaker 4: If it's a mental health day, people make an announcement,
they put on a press release. I am taking a
mental health day. But today that's like sluggish. People just
want to be Oh, it's not got an excuse to
be late.
Speaker 2: I haven't been talking about this whole lot, but I
I uh substitute teaching, just I gotta do things right.
So there's and these are now really young kids that
I'm around, and like.
Speaker 4: The Baldwins, the Baldwins, Alec Baldwins, kids like yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like they're little little kids. Yeah. And so there's
this woman and she's older and she says, uh, it's
a she makes she makes up her own holiday, be
nice to missus whoever day. I passed her in the
hallway and she goes, it's already a two more teeny day.
That means six olives. And I was like, that's fucking awesome.
She just said it to me. I really this school
just is this.
Speaker 3: Teacher about your age a little older.
Speaker 2: They can't I can't tell ages anymore.
Speaker 4: Okay, but that goes to show you how hard teaching
really is.
Speaker 2: Well, even though you're only doing it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, quote only this is late ten months a year.
Speaker 3: I gotta be careful.
Speaker 2: Oh what are you doing?
Speaker 4: No, I'm just saying it's our job. I've always I've
always defello. Yes I have No. That was an underhanded Dante.
Speaker 2: That was because iPod shuffle of ship.
Speaker 4: No, because people tend to crap on teachers, everybody.
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't.
Speaker 4: My only thing with teachers is this, when they can play,
a get.
Speaker 2: A lot of time off and you get a whole
summer off, and.
Speaker 4: When they complained when they can play, they have to
understand why people say that stuff.
Speaker 2: That's all.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that I disagree with them. I'm saying
there are some of us that don't get vacations at all. Yeah, well,
the average American works three hundred and twenty days a year,
they work one hundred and eighty. So when they get
mad that people don't understand their pain. But it's like
they get time off and that's okay. I'm not they
have a tough I wouldn't want.
Speaker 2: To be a teacher. All right, hang on, now we're
going sorry, No, that's okay, because I was going to say, like,
you know the weather and we become lazy slugs, but
that went into Danny think's teachers are lazy. That's what
I heard.
Speaker 4: That's what I heard.
Speaker 3: That what I said, That what I said.
Speaker 2: I know, it's not what you said. I do.
Speaker 4: It's really angry.
Speaker 2: Really, teaching is tough because you've got a bunch of
different personalities. There isn't sometimes the budget to get the
certain kids the specific need. It's the kid with the
most need, right, So you ever see adults the.
Speaker 4: Biggest common denominated welles the biggest.
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you an example. You ever see
an adult with a speech impediment and you go, how
is that possible today when there's speech pathology and stuff. Well,
if the family didn't have the resources to do it privately,
and this kid wasn't so bad, and there were kids
that were worse and needed more speech intervention than he did,
he got he or she got left out because of budgets.
So now you got it. You're trying to teach that kid.
You're trying to get them to meet a certain standard,
get a curriculum right, get them through the day, have
them to actually pay attention, and it It is one
of these things that's hard because like I go in
there and I'm a clown. I juggle, I do shit,
it doesn't matter. I could do anything. And I like
the kids because I'm kind of meeting them where they are.
I can the teacher at this point in the year
really can't. They've got to get you ready for whatever's next,
whether it be the next grade, the finals, whatever. You've
got to get these kids to a certain standard. And
that stuff is stressful and many teachers, many teachers also
have another job. So like there I know one that
teaches Jim and then on the weekends. She's a waitress. Yeah,
I know one that teaches first grade and she's been
doing it for over two decades. And she no, she uh,
maybe she did right now, she's doing instacart.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, a lot of teachers do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they go and she goes and and yes,
I mean, I understand what you're saying, because your day
is short. Look, I'm going in, I'm doing that. I'm
up here in the morning, I go, I do this,
I come back, I do this. But I'm I'm different.
I'm nuts in a nutting way, like I'll work all
the time. I don't care. Yeah, I know, Yeah, I
just I like.
Speaker 4: Playing kind of the same way. So I don't have kids, though, so.
Speaker 2: I can do that. Yeah. Yeah, it's tough sometimes.
Speaker 3: Kevin reminds me of that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know what Danny has what time he's right.
Speaker 2: Danny also says, teacher suck. I never said that. I
never said that. Didn't say that. I know. But I
also think, like when the weather's bad too and you're
stuck inside, you start to find all the shit that
annoys you about your the other people around you too,
too loud. Right, It's almost like everything that you normally
look past. Yeah, oh god, it's right there a.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: We uh.
Speaker 4: We worked with a woman named Manda Valentine whom like,
if you were chewing your gum too loud in the studio,
she would like pick up on it, like she had
like dog ears for that, and she's like she would
not not me personally, but other people in the room
like moose. I guess he goes, Oh, yeah, Amanda yeld
at me the other day for chewing my gum too.
Speaker 3: Loud, like she's got special ear, special hearing.
Speaker 4: You didn't know, but yeah, when you're locked in those
studio like for you know, the door's closed, you get
a hear weird stuff, especially when you have headphones.
Speaker 2: Same thing.
Speaker 4: When you're at home, you get the two of you
or the three like my father used to get. So
he'd come home from the steel plants so high strung,
and if it were one of those days where nobody
could do anything, he'd be more angry because he was
always like, let's clean, well, damn, we already clean, let's
clean again. And if we weren't doing something, they're idle
bodies that he would get angry that nobody was working
but there was nothing to work on. It was like
the kiss of death. Oh it's raining out. We're in trouble.
Why we just are? Yeah, because you knew, right, yeah,
well do you have to chew with your mouth open?
Speaker 2: We used to. I used to be able to tell
when my parents turned onto our street.
Speaker 3: Can hear the vehicle?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I knew the sound like dogs like that.
Speaker 3: They hear that, the sound of that.
Speaker 2: And I would be like running, diving, Oh me too, whatever, Get.
Speaker 4: The vacuum, Get the vacuum. Butch's coming home.
Speaker 2: Get the vacuum.
Speaker 4: My sister and my brother are listening to this podcast.
They know exactly what I'm talking about. I'd have to
go meet him at the front door install to get
anybody in their positions. I told a story at his funeral.
You know that's the Jurassic Park where like the water's
sitting there in the car and.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it starts to rattle, right yeah. Uh.
Speaker 4: He would get like that and uh. My father had
to work special glasses because he was cross eyed as
a kid. So if he got into those moods, his
hands would curl up. His hands would curl up like
one of those Jurassic Park dinosaurs. I told this story
at his funeral and I'd tell my brother.
Speaker 2: Don't move.
Speaker 4: You can't see us if we don't move.
Speaker 3: It's based on moping.
Speaker 4: He kept walking around like if something wasn't clear, or
we didn't do something right, or he turned into a
Jurassic Park in BBDs, especially like Christmas morning.
Speaker 2: Danny came in here tonight and he was like I
told him, he was an iPod shuffle of thoughts. He
was all over the place bing bing, bing, bing bing
bing bing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, No, it's good, is it? We should
have taped it.
Speaker 2: It was funny. It was funny to me. I just
started laughing. And then you see, I think you think
like I laugh at you. I don't. I just laugh
at how wound up you get, because then you did
say and we had talked about this on the previous
podcast that you were on, like two episodes ago, where
we talked about the diet and the East African diet
and how they ate a Western diet for two weeks
and like if you're called American, yeah, they gained basically
six pounds in two weeks. They each have overage average
and they had a lot of damage. And Danny's like,
I'm afraid to eat, and I knew.
Speaker 4: Everything's new, everything new, everything's poisoned in microplastics, hormonal disruptors. Okay, illumino,
all right, all right, all right, okay, not really afraid
to eat everything.
Speaker 2: No, but that's a lot in your head like this,
this goes through.
Speaker 4: This is your like weight I gained on my birthday weekend?
Speaker 2: How much?
Speaker 3: Eight pounds?
Speaker 4: Damn dude, I've already dropped six of it.
Speaker 2: Okay, But like when you lose some good ship, you.
Speaker 4: Don't realize that, oh my gosh, it's over. I blew
my hole, like weight weight loss. It's like, no, Dan,
just calm the f down. Everything's gonna be okay. But
I have to like take extreme measures to lose that weight,
like eating one meal a day, or like really checking
the lays on stuff because for some reason, my body
doesn't process carbohydrates. I've taken the test, it just doesn't happen.
But the doctors don't give you any tips on how.
Speaker 3: To do that.
Speaker 4: That's why you go to YouTube, because you're looking for answers.
Speaker 2: So he just roll in cross eyed. I'm fucking sorry, Danny,
but that was funny as fuck and explains nothing that's true.
Speaker 4: Well, because like we we you know, if he was
in a mood, you know, all of a sudden, he
couldn't Here's exactly Dad's I was.
Speaker 2: It always crossed this cross.
Speaker 3: As a kid.
Speaker 4: He had surgery to get it back to No, but
he couldn't see well. No, he had to have special glasses.
And which is weird because he was a good looking dude,
but he had glasses. Huh, not the good looking people
like you know, you can't be good looking and have glasses.
But what I forgot to tell in the story was
that usually was because we lost the remote, and if
he couldn't find the remote, he would turn into the
Jurassic Park dinosaur defined and we had to or if
you couldn't find the remote, I would have to sit
there by the television and change the channels until Dad
found something worth watching, because all the other kids would scatter,
who's left Dan, Danny will do it, Danny will fix it?
Speaker 2: Stop stop. I had a big ball posta before I
came here.
Speaker 4: Microplastics what No, I'm just saying this. The pasta could
have MI. Did you cook it in? Would you cook
it in?
Speaker 2: I cooked it in a steel pod? Okay, good, but
I might have had a Teflon pop for the sauce
and meatballs where you got microplastics?
Speaker 4: See what I'm talking about?
Speaker 2: All right? But you get yourself all been out of shape.
If you look for something, you're gonna find it. I
know you're gonna find it. So why go what would
be better? What would be better laughing about your dad
or worrying about the microplastic?
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start living your best love life? Or do society just
want us to believe that?
Speaker 3: I think society wants us to believe a lot of things.
Speaker 2: Okay, I will, I will. This will take us in
several different directions. But if I say this woman's name,
I'm not sure you're gonna know who it is. Diane
Cannon sounds familiar actress. She's eighty eight years old today.
Speaker 3: Also, I think I can almost see her.
Speaker 2: She was OSCAR nominated. She was married to Carrie Grant
and had a child with Carrie grant. Okay, we'll get
to that in a little bit.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 2: And she just did an interview at the Hollywood Beauty
Awards and she says she's not only day but she's
got several special someone's friends with benefits. Oh she's eighty eight.
Speaker 4: Well there's no commitment. You're at that age. You don't
want to settle down.
Speaker 2: You want to know the friends with benefits at eighty eight,
they collect those security What the fuck is it?
Speaker 4: I was like, well, maybe since maybe they're getting their
service security back on that.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Uh yeah, And I mean when you think,
why do we view love, sex or even situationships as
a young person's game in a sense. But situationships you
never heard that term.
Speaker 3: You never heard that term situationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a it's a newer social media.
Speaker 4: In other words, is it's like it's complicated.
Speaker 2: In a situation ship kind of sort of let me
see your penis. I don't know, yeah, something like that.
I think a lot of people are now in situationships.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: There's a video of like something that happened a couple
of weeks ago at a local bar where a guy's
got his arm around to check I think I talked
about this.
Speaker 2: Oh he was making with somebody else.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she was making and the dude with the
camera looks at the other guy and goes, what the.
Speaker 3: That sounds like a situationship?
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, Diane Cannon's got more action than eighty
eight than most of us did, probably like in college
or something like that. She's not in retirement, daddy, She's
in refirement baby.
Speaker 4: WHOA. Yeah, Well at that age you could you could
get that fire back in many ways, I think a
lot of in a lot of cases. Well, Jennifer Goodrich, right,
she played Stiffler's mom. Because of that, she all of
a sudden started having relations with the younger guys.
Speaker 2: Because it was cool.
Speaker 4: It was cool to be with Stiffler's mom, and she
went along with it because she goes, I'm not gonna
get this guy.
Speaker 3: Why don't she said this?
Speaker 4: But she may have been thinking, I'm not gonna get
this kind of attention anywhere else. I think you're Diane Cannon.
You might be eighty eight, but you're still Diane Cannon. Right,
So guys who remember Diane Cannon probably want to live
out of fantasy. It may not be the Diane cannon
of nineteen fifty five. No, no, but it's Diane Cann right,
like Raquel Welch.
Speaker 2: I saw something since you just say this nineteen fifty five,
I saw you know how, this is really funny. You
know how they maybe you did it in your house
in Silver Creek mark the height of the kids, Yes,
on a wall and you can't see how brother does that? Yeah, yeah,
somebody did it with their droopy boobs.
Speaker 4: Nineteen twenty four. I fucking love thirty one.
Speaker 2: I go, that's really funny. I had not seen that.
You've heard, you've heard.
Speaker 3: Of, seen the cartoon of people.
Speaker 2: Oh, this was someone actually doing it on take time
and it made me laugh because let me just go
back again. Misogynistic, toxic masculinity, that's me.
Speaker 3: I hate that term.
Speaker 2: I do too, because it's not true.
Speaker 4: Stop society being being trying to push the five boys,
and I guess what they're fighting back and good. I'm glad.
Speaker 2: Diane Cannis gonna do a video Golden Girls gun Wild.
So the question is when you think eighty eight, look,
I can't imagine I did. I mean, my parents are
my dad will be eighty, my uncle is eighty one,
his brother, my aunt is going to be eighty. I
can't imagine them still getting it on, but I would
think if I was there, i'd want to still get
it on.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, probably don't think of course.
Speaker 4: And yeah, that's why. That's why it's so hard, because
one could do that, women can't necessarily do that.
Speaker 2: So then there's like hormone replacement stuff. But I'm starting
to think, because you know, you're warned about side effects
of things, that's why, like under a doctor's care, like
your friend that we had in here, I think even
for women could probably be okay because I don't know,
I mean, does it still feel good after menopause? I
have no idea, But this again is where and I
said this, and I don't know if you were here
or not, but I asked I might have been Mark,
if you could go back and go would you take
like a sex class from a sex therapist, would you
just I don't know, up your game a little bit
or just have more knowledge because there's.
Speaker 5: Nothing like does this feel good? I know you're like this,
you know what I'm saying. It's like at any age.
I'm sure even at nineties my dentures.
Speaker 3: It turned to a Dane Cook special.
Speaker 4: Well was that he did that whole bit? Do you
like that like that?
Speaker 2: I didn't know.
Speaker 4: I was never I never thought he was that funny,
but he like a while, like the early two thousands.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was.
Speaker 3: College women like loved him.
Speaker 4: The guys would go along with it because he was
like that sophomore type of humor.
Speaker 2: Right right, But it wasn't.
Speaker 3: Like stand up.
Speaker 4: It was more I don't know how to explain story storyteller.
I thought, yeah, he was okay, we did a whole bit.
We're like, hey, like two guys a guy to girl
getting you like that? Do you like that?
Speaker 3: That feel good?
Speaker 2: Now? But that's what I'm saying, like even at eighty eight,
maybe there's things you don't like or whatever. Could you
go take a cala And I know it sounds ridiculous
and almost embarrassing, but I'm like, maybe you should do that.
So when if you wound up in that situationship that
could become a relationship. You know what you're doing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like with zoom, I think you could
do that or teams or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yes, you could do it where you don't have to
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there's a slang word that's been shaking up, social media the.
WORD dan i don't think you've heard, of It but
i'll see if. You.
Speaker 4: Have, Bop, Uh yeah i've, heard it but probably not
in the context that you're.
Speaker 2: Referring, to okay what do you what do?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 2: Say bop is.
Speaker 3: Bopping mean like having relations with somebody?
Speaker 4: He's?
Speaker 2: Popping yeah, well yeah we used to. Say.
Speaker 4: That, yeah Yeah, FRIEND tommy i think, he's, yeah okay,
poppinger okay.
Speaker 2: Or bopping yourself, yeah yeah or bopping, the, bologneay yeah.
Right right that was the phrase or was it bopp In.
THE bologney i think it was the.
Speaker 4: Boy, Hearing sucks so who knows The, bo yeah so
that that is exactly what bop.
Speaker 2: Bop is, and uh it is just FUNNY that i
think a lot of times we hear words and aren't.
Really sure so this slang and sometimes there's la la
Bop And La la bob was a Song.
Speaker 3: By.
Speaker 2: Hanson no it was making fun of a Girl in
california for her. Body count they were going la, La
bob la la bob and like it to kind of.
WHOLE thing i, don't know and it originated from the
early two. Thousand SLANG but i remember bop in terms
of bop in FROM when i was. A, kid yeah
maybe it's one of THOSE retro i, don't, know flags
like if we brought back the phrase, living, Large. Right
yeah so they talked to somebody From the University. Of
sydney it was a. Media, expert okay down under we
go and they just go it's a prime example of
how misogyny finds new. Digital DISGUISES and i can't say
that that's necessarily wrong as MUCH as I like, i,
go oh. Come on BUT then, i, think wow it's
all about body count and, slut shaming and we don't
usually do that, with guys at least not a lot of,
the guys at LEAST when i. Was young it, was, like,
hey man the.
Speaker 4: Only difference between a stud and a slut or?
Speaker 2: Two letters, Yeah EXACTLY and i think. That that but that's,
the thing and still to. This day so now some
women have decided to reclaim the term and they even
Have A. Bob house it's a collective of young influencers
flipping the term and embracing their brand and identity Is The.
BOB house i think there are adult stars and they
Have The.
Speaker 4: Bob house, oh yeah, all, right yeah.
Speaker 2: So parents are Panicking about bob and their kids are
online monetizing slut shaming and it's Like The shark tank.
Only fans here's the THING that i always wonder when
people say we're taking back that word or we're taking,
back that there's certain.
Speaker 4: Words in society that certain cultures or subcultures have quote
taken back, and that and there are some that we,
can't say even on.
Speaker 3: This podcast, I'm okay, I'm okay i'm okay not Saying that.
Speaker 2: I'm okay i'm okay. WITH them i understand the sentiment. Behind,
it yeah but in this CASE, THE bop, i say
are you trying to reclaim a term that it's used
to slut? Shame somebody or are you TRYING to i,
don't know commoditize your commoditized make money Off.
Speaker 4: Your yeah, the attention the attention in This, liketh yes
attention is the, new information which is the. New, oil
right like information was supposedly the new oil if you
struggle it, like now so like that's why when you
have your Smartphone or alexa in, your house if, you
SORRY if i set off your safe word in, your
house if You, have alexa my wife.
Speaker 3: HAS it i.
Speaker 4: Hate it but you know, that now, like attention tension
is now. Another industry it's a cottage Industry where i'm
the main CHARACTER and i can make money off just,
be me which is the laziest thing in. The world
but but it's but it's a it's an industry if
you do.
Speaker 2: It right if you do, it correct if you do.
It RIGHT because i would make the argument and people
get very upset. With Me, the kardashians what do? They
do what do? They DO and, i go they actually,
Work hard they. Actually work they had something that people
were interested in and they and they ran with it
and they made. It work because how many other people
have tried reality shows of that type and haven't.
Speaker 4: Worked Well paris hilton was the first to do what,
she did and Then the kardashians took it to a whole, other, STRATOSPY.
Speaker 2: Right i mean, they however they, did it they did,
it right and that is a lot. OF work i
mean it's not the, you know it's not digging, ditch
work but.
Speaker 4: It's Work like i've heard People Compare chris Jenner To.
Bill Belichick now i'm. Not, joking, yeah sure in terms
of like the strategy strategize. In, marketing yeah, Her daughters,
YEAH right i mean talk about. Reclaiming something you claimed the.
Speaker 2: SEX tape i don't know if it's if it's a
toxic pr but it's.
Speaker 4: Certainly well the story was that she watched both they
did two, sex Tapes that kim AND ray j did two,
sex tapes and she watched both of them like she
was breaking. Down film i'm not making. This up you
could look. This up and, she, said okay go with. This,
TAPE instead i think that's the. Better tape And As
rob low, has explained you take this tape to a
certain Lawyer, in hollywood who then somehow releases it to
the right person and then.
Speaker 2: You go oh, MY gosh i can't believe his.
Speaker 4: Videos, out yeah he said This. To oprah robo said This,
to oprah and all of a sudden it becomes a,
huge thing right because he got caught. On, it well
but he got, Caught, though yes that was, it's intention
though they fell into the. Wrong hands this is a
situation where ever, since, then, like well this is.
Speaker 2: THE keys I Think tommy Lee and PAMs was.
Speaker 4: ACCIDENTAL too i think so that.
Speaker 2: Was guys working on the house or building the house
and moving a safe and they got in there and
they saw the tape and they did what. Guys, Did
yeah hulu did a whole thing.
Speaker 4: On it but uh, BUT yeah, i Mean But rob,
loo said since those incidents, have, happened now all of,
a sudden you have a lawyer law there's a dude
that people go to to get this whole thing on
the roll on, the road and it worked out For.
The Kardashians And ryan seacrest also knew. Them, too yeah
and he's THAT was i think they were his first
show in his production company when He Became ryan seacrest
and so then that took off to.
Speaker 3: Another, Level, right so but boppin they're taking.
Speaker 2: Back bopping they're taking back the word, bop bop RIGHT
because i asked my kid and it's one of these, things,
like yeah you're basically it's your. Body count it's a
slut SHAME and i GO because, i said and? What's bop?
Because why.
Speaker 4: See that's usually a question that the kid asked the
parent and the, parent Goes, why no usually.
Speaker 2: You Know jameson jameson was WHY and, i SAID because
i wonder what. It means it, MEANS slut, i, said,
okay yeah but, it's, weird like how do you have
that conversation with? Your, kid oh so she's. A bop
it's not a verb, it yeah or descript that. She's
abop it's meant to be that she's, a, slut right
which is. Just bad and by, the way.
Speaker 4: Let me just say, something first the, internets, forever folks
let me stick up for sluts for just. A, minute
okay the world.
Speaker 2: Needs sluts it just does what the world needs now
is a good? Nasty slut you want the Nasty dirty instagram?
Speaker 3: Is, available, yeah slut do you want?
Speaker 2: The slut sluts are. Good people, they're giving, they're loving,
they're caring they're giving. Of, themselves right they're not, charging
You they're yeah that, you, say lovely you have a
nice evening with. A.
Speaker 4: Slut yeah but they've done studies now on people who
are an, only fans women who are only fans.
Speaker 3: And, stuff well, that's different, is? It though if you're
monetizing your.
Speaker 2: That's monetizing i'm talking about just to just say a
bop and we're not monetizing just. A bop and let's
say it's a woman who's been divorced or. Or widowed as, we,
heard uh we heard the wind. Ho ter we heard
the widho term last Night. From matt you. Get around
isn't necessar necessarily bad. For her it'd be rude to
call her of the person a bop if a guy.
Did it nobody says anything but she's. A bop but in,
a way if you heard at a certain she's, a
bop you go let me buy.
Speaker 3: Her drink see. What happen there's always somebody thinking that
That's what.
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you know, You know and if she's, a
bop here's the. Other thing here's, Another, thing fellows that
you need to know about. The sluts she ain't. Sticking
around it's not.
Speaker 4: A headache not. A headache she got the reputation because
there's a lot body.
Speaker 2: Counts high that means she. Probably leaves it's time to
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to go, where everything, everybody's, personality everybody everybody who's done
anything started out doing it by mimicking.
Speaker 4: Somebody else, oh yeah and you.
Speaker 2: Can tell it. In comedy you can tell it on
rap to a. Certain extent you can probably TELL them
tv all kinds of just like that's a derivative Of,
or hey you idolize so and so and and and
there's nothing wrong. With THAT but i start, to, think
like are we still making real choices in our life
or is big tech? Taking over and THE reason i
say that is you brought, up well we talked about
the phones listening. To US but i would, even, say
like if you're on a dating app the, suggestions yet
is it really some you KNOW what? I mean like
you suggest it's suggested, to you and shows you watched
they're suggested to you based on what you've. Watched previously
SO it's ai making a decision based on decisions you.
Previously MADE and, I go i'm not sure if they
like do you want your type curated?
Speaker 1: For?
Speaker 2: You yeah do You understand i'm making? Any?
Speaker 4: SENSE yes i call it the delusion, of choice not
the illusion, of chess the delusion, of choice.
Speaker 3: The delusion being you think you have, the choice because.
You don't YOU and i have the choice of the.
Speaker 2: Choice right and YOU and i are old enough to
remember life. Before, algorithms yes before there was any of.
THIS stuff i mean it's algorithm driven everything now in terms,
Of STUFF and i mean you think now you got Things, like, Spotify,
TikTok netflix even. DATING apps i, don't know what is?
IT bumble i heard somebody talk, about, bumble.
Speaker 4: Bumble tender plenty, of, Fish, hinge.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah what?
Speaker 1: Is?
Speaker 4: It?
Speaker 2: Okay uh it just makes. ME laugh i was on
bumble okay sing was that one that you ask people
the women, You.
Speaker 4: Try yeah you try to, match up but they have
to make the. First move it empowers, the women?
Speaker 2: Does?
Speaker 3: It yes so, supposedly, yeah YEAH.
Speaker 2: Because, i, go, look man sometimes people are trying to,
reinvent themselves not, reinvent themselves but rediscover, right marriage, life,
choices changes, career, pivots, whatever kids life. Goes on and
now you're you're kind of standing there and you're trying
to go get back out in, the world so. To
speak and everything is sort of an. Algorithm now And
if i'm not in, your Algorithm then i'm not going to.
See YOU and i think that's kind of a weird way.
Speaker 4: TO live, I mean i'm a recruiter And, in LinkedIn
and we're subject to the, algorithm too and we've actually
put in the same information, at work all, of us
the same information you find the same batch of candidates
At all our lists. Were different so it's a matter
of just getting lucky and finding the right person who
wants to respond and actually take the take, the role
go through.
Speaker 3: The process It's, very yeah.
Speaker 2: Everything's, algorithm, well okay so here's more OF my i
don't know how you would categorize, this QUESTION but i
think it is one that will make, people think at
least it's one that's been rolling around in my head
for a couple. Of weeks how can you have any
growth in yourself if your algorithm reflects back to you
your current state? Of mind twenty four. To seven.
Speaker 3: That's a, Great question like you're living in your own
personal echo, Chamber.
Speaker 2: Exactly Because what i'm saying, is like if you're looking for,
personal growth if you want to break out of whatever
slump you feel like, you're in whatever.
Speaker 4: You're not going to do that if you keep listening
and seeing this exactly to. You exactly, for EXAMPLE if
i were a conservative or a LIBERAL and i only
watch liberal or conservative, YouTube videos i'm only going to
be fed one side of. The other i'm never going
to get. Both sides i'm never going to get. Both
Perspectives and i'm just going to turn go down, that
path right and just become more more Of A. Jack,
white well we'll take take.
Speaker 2: It away from, even politics because sometimes that gets ugly, with,
people right people get a. Little Offended what i'm saying,
is say it's one of these THINGS where i want to.
GET myself i gotta get. FIRED up i gotta get to.
THE gym i want to. DO this I gotta And
yet i've been liking a lot of like homemade. Pizza things,
oh yeah how to make. Homemade, PIZZA oh i get
so that Was my, friday, mood Right my. Friday MOOD and, i,
GO oh i like. That one oh that one. Looks
good you kind of go down a little bit of, a,
Hole right and then now it's all these different recipes
coming at you that. You LOSE and i know this
is a bit of, a stretch but you lose the
motivation to go to the gym, because hey what's a little?
Speaker 4: Ice, grub hey this is a healthy way to, Make.
Speaker 2: YES so i don't have to go to. THE gym
i could just. Eat these is? It laziness is? IT
convenience i think it's a little bit.
Speaker 3: Of both and the addiction of keeping, YOU scrolling.
Speaker 2: I THINK it's i think it's. COMPLETELY different i think
that it's disguised, as laziness it's spoken. As CONVENIENCE and
i think if we really look, at it it's. Total
surrender you've surrendered to this without knowing you've surrendered. To
this there's nothing wrong with looking, at TikTok there's nothing wrong.
With That but i'm starting, to, think like if you
can give yourself some time, without it if you can
actually put a, you know turn on that do not
disturb and just put it away and, give yourself even
if it's forty five minutes a, HALF hour i don't
know where you're. Not looking and, you know we have
terms now, doom Scrolling and I'M an. Adhd person and
then we hear that all the ads are do you have?
High cortisol this is a sign of high cortisol maybe.
It is maybe. It isn't. I'm not i'm not, a
ditogram but it's gonna.
Speaker 4: Keep be reflecting that back to you because that's all
the shit you look at all, the time and you.
LIKE it i, got algorithms you Know what i'm saying
for freaking. FISH oil, i, Mean yeah That's what i'm.
Speaker 2: Trying, to say, is like so if you're looking to
even try to, improve yourself and are there ways on
these devices that you can find to? Improve, yourself Absolutely
and i'm sure. There are i'm sure, there ARE but
i would also say when you, find them put this
down for a little bit and go, do it because
everything's an algorithm and you may not even be seeing
a great choice for you if you're dating, and look
maybe you want to Be Like diane cannon and have
friends with benefits Hers Of, social security yours. Head's chlamythia
but you Know what, i'm saying like you. COULD have i,
don't know it just is it was just something that
was very.
Speaker 3: Algorithm and stiff.
Speaker 2: That, out YEAH because I had i had a flattering
moment last WEEK and i stopped in To see DAMIEN
and i had lunch. Over there it was Late, on
friday AND then i probably stayed LONGER than i, ever
intended but it's usually what happens. To ME and i
wasn't like there was like, five thirty but there was
a woman there and she was talking about uh to
somebody else AND they i was talking whatever that she's
on some dating apps and this and that and the.
Other thing and, she's, like uh, she goes are you on?
Dating apps and, he, SAID no i don't.
Speaker 4: WANT to i.
Speaker 2: DON'T want i don't, WANT like i don't. Want that
AND yet i. Guess it, you know maybe it's like
shooting FISH and i.
Speaker 3: Don't know my WIFE and i did not meat on a.
Speaker 4: Dating app i'm very happy about THAT because i THINK
fish I think i think it makes everything a.
Speaker 3: Meat Market and i'm not talking. Just dating i'm. Talking
everything everything is now. A product you are. The, product
yeah you're.
Speaker 4: THE product I mean i think that was The social
there was this one documentary AROUND during covid talked about.
SOCIAL media i. FORGOT that i think it Was Called
The social problem or something, like THAT and i don't
know what it Was.
Speaker 3: On netflix and, in essence you are.
Speaker 4: The, product yeah they've studied like, you Know In, las
vegas the, slot machines how it gets in the noise
and the, bright lights and you. Keep spinning why because
you want a better story, Coming up you want, better
stuff you want a, better feed and so you just
the idea is to keep you scrolling so that you'll
buy something or you'll do it and, THEN well, i.
Speaker 2: Mean look take it to something. Really simple how many
people have bought Shit on amazon because it, Was, suggested
oh you, bought this might, like this you Know what, i'm,
saying right and you.
Speaker 4: Probably, would yeah there's, nothing.
Speaker 2: WRONG but i just it just seems like, to me
when you, go more is it our personality or our
personalities being told to us and letting and letting us
not discover that you're capable of. Doing more That's what.
Speaker 4: I'm saying don't watch, the video be the, video only don't.
Speaker 2: Take, it yeah but you Know what, i'm, saying like
go just to go? Do, it yeah what's the worst that's.
Gonna happen you're either gonna be right where you were
or further along than you thought you.
Speaker 4: Would Be marcellus wiley always had a phrase, he goes,
oh no It Was. Roland williams he said a year.
From today you're gonna wish you. Started, today, yeah, yeah
absolutely that's a that's a.
Speaker 2: Great one. UH yeah i just had this similar conversation with.
My kid, HE goes i got my GRADES to X.
And y i'm not gonna say what. They ARE and, I,
go okay you don't seem like. YOU'RE happy i GO
because i knew you could, do IT and i think
you're capable of. Even, More right I'M gonna pushm gonna
be a.
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