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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice,

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mix in some vodka. Color a podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dots. Gee, Brahm, It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome. We're on the cameras tonight. I

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didn't go live yesterday. You got to do it twice.

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I I don't know. I blame the weather. Yeah, I

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blame I blame the weather. Blame yeah, how about that weather? Like?

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It has been pretty nice and then we always get that.

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I'm hoping this is the last little bursts of winter

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we get. But I don't know if you notice this.

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People are in crankier moods, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: I believe that.

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Speaker 2: Frankier moods when when the weather.

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Speaker 4: Is not good, I get migrains due to the weather.

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And I wonder if if if the weather with the

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barometric pressure, I do I do you like how.

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Speaker 2: I dismiss your pain, Yes, and just mock it mesogynistic, awful,

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toxic masculinity.

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Speaker 4: Way, Well, your liver is trying to like compensate for

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whatever is going on in your body that's missing.

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Speaker 3: So like the pressure has a lot to do with that.

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Speaker 4: They say, when like full moon people get inured, yeah

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all that stuff. Oh they've turned into werewolves yeah right,

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or tire wolves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well here's the thing that I've noticed, like sometimes when

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it when you get a good snowstorm or or a

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good rainstorm, it's an excuse to be a slug people, right,

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I mean, all of a sudden, you're doing nothing. It's

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like a day you don't really live. You just shut

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it down. You land the couch, right, and.

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Speaker 3: See, I can't do that. I gotta do something.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's a mental health day or it's a you

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know what I mean. Some under the guise of that, and.

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Speaker 4: If it's a mental health day, people make an announcement,

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they put on a press release. I am taking a

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mental health day. But today that's like sluggish. People just

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want to be Oh, it's not got an excuse to

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be late.

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Speaker 2: I haven't been talking about this whole lot, but I

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I uh substitute teaching, just I gotta do things right.

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So there's and these are now really young kids that

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I'm around, and like.

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Speaker 4: The Baldwins, the Baldwins, Alec Baldwins, kids like yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like they're little little kids. Yeah. And so there's

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this woman and she's older and she says, uh, it's

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a she makes she makes up her own holiday, be

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nice to missus whoever day. I passed her in the

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hallway and she goes, it's already a two more teeny day.

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That means six olives. And I was like, that's fucking awesome.

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She just said it to me. I really this school

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just is this.

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Speaker 3: Teacher about your age a little older.

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Speaker 2: They can't I can't tell ages anymore.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but that goes to show you how hard teaching

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really is.

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Speaker 2: Well, even though you're only doing it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, quote only this is late ten months a year.

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Speaker 3: I gotta be careful.

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Speaker 2: Oh what are you doing?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just saying it's our job. I've always I've

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always defello. Yes I have No. That was an underhanded Dante.

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Speaker 2: That was because iPod shuffle of ship.

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Speaker 4: No, because people tend to crap on teachers, everybody.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 4: My only thing with teachers is this, when they can play,

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a get.

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Speaker 2: A lot of time off and you get a whole

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summer off, and.

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Speaker 4: When they complained when they can play, they have to

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understand why people say that stuff.

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Speaker 2: That's all.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying that I disagree with them. I'm saying

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there are some of us that don't get vacations at all. Yeah, well,

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the average American works three hundred and twenty days a year,

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they work one hundred and eighty. So when they get

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mad that people don't understand their pain. But it's like

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they get time off and that's okay. I'm not they

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have a tough I wouldn't want.

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Speaker 2: To be a teacher. All right, hang on, now we're

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going sorry, No, that's okay, because I was going to say, like,

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you know the weather and we become lazy slugs, but

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that went into Danny think's teachers are lazy. That's what

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I heard.

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Speaker 4: That's what I heard.

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Speaker 3: That what I said, That what I said.

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Speaker 2: I know, it's not what you said. I do.

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Speaker 4: It's really angry.

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Speaker 2: Really, teaching is tough because you've got a bunch of

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different personalities. There isn't sometimes the budget to get the

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certain kids the specific need. It's the kid with the

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most need, right, So you ever see adults the.

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Speaker 4: Biggest common denominated welles the biggest.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to give you an example. You ever see

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an adult with a speech impediment and you go, how

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is that possible today when there's speech pathology and stuff. Well,

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if the family didn't have the resources to do it privately,

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and this kid wasn't so bad, and there were kids

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that were worse and needed more speech intervention than he did,

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he got he or she got left out because of budgets.

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So now you got it. You're trying to teach that kid.

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You're trying to get them to meet a certain standard,

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get a curriculum right, get them through the day, have

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them to actually pay attention, and it It is one

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of these things that's hard because like I go in

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there and I'm a clown. I juggle, I do shit,

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it doesn't matter. I could do anything. And I like

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the kids because I'm kind of meeting them where they are.

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I can the teacher at this point in the year

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really can't. They've got to get you ready for whatever's next,

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whether it be the next grade, the finals, whatever. You've

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got to get these kids to a certain standard. And

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that stuff is stressful and many teachers, many teachers also

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have another job. So like there I know one that

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teaches Jim and then on the weekends. She's a waitress. Yeah,

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I know one that teaches first grade and she's been

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doing it for over two decades. And she no, she uh,

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maybe she did right now, she's doing instacart.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, a lot of teachers do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so they go and she goes and and yes,

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I mean, I understand what you're saying, because your day

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is short. Look, I'm going in, I'm doing that. I'm

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up here in the morning, I go, I do this,

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I come back, I do this. But I'm I'm different.

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I'm nuts in a nutting way, like I'll work all

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the time. I don't care. Yeah, I know, Yeah, I

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just I like.

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Speaker 4: Playing kind of the same way. So I don't have kids, though, so.

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Speaker 2: I can do that. Yeah. Yeah, it's tough sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Kevin reminds me of that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know what Danny has what time he's right.

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Speaker 2: Danny also says, teacher suck. I never said that. I

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never said that. Didn't say that. I know. But I

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also think, like when the weather's bad too and you're

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stuck inside, you start to find all the shit that

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annoys you about your the other people around you too,

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too loud. Right, It's almost like everything that you normally

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look past. Yeah, oh god, it's right there a.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We uh.

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Speaker 4: We worked with a woman named Manda Valentine whom like,

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if you were chewing your gum too loud in the studio,

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she would like pick up on it, like she had

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like dog ears for that, and she's like she would

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not not me personally, but other people in the room

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like moose. I guess he goes, Oh, yeah, Amanda yeld

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at me the other day for chewing my gum too.

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Speaker 3: Loud, like she's got special ear, special hearing.

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Speaker 4: You didn't know, but yeah, when you're locked in those

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studio like for you know, the door's closed, you get

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a hear weird stuff, especially when you have headphones.

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Speaker 2: Same thing.

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Speaker 4: When you're at home, you get the two of you

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or the three like my father used to get. So

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he'd come home from the steel plants so high strung,

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and if it were one of those days where nobody

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could do anything, he'd be more angry because he was

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always like, let's clean, well, damn, we already clean, let's

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clean again. And if we weren't doing something, they're idle

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bodies that he would get angry that nobody was working

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but there was nothing to work on. It was like

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the kiss of death. Oh it's raining out. We're in trouble.

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Why we just are? Yeah, because you knew, right, yeah,

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well do you have to chew with your mouth open?

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Speaker 2: We used to. I used to be able to tell

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when my parents turned onto our street.

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Speaker 3: Can hear the vehicle?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I knew the sound like dogs like that.

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Speaker 3: They hear that, the sound of that.

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Speaker 2: And I would be like running, diving, Oh me too, whatever, Get.

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Speaker 4: The vacuum, Get the vacuum. Butch's coming home.

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Speaker 2: Get the vacuum.

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Speaker 4: My sister and my brother are listening to this podcast.

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They know exactly what I'm talking about. I'd have to

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go meet him at the front door install to get

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anybody in their positions. I told a story at his funeral.

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You know that's the Jurassic Park where like the water's

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sitting there in the car and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it starts to rattle, right yeah. Uh.

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Speaker 4: He would get like that and uh. My father had

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to work special glasses because he was cross eyed as

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a kid. So if he got into those moods, his

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hands would curl up. His hands would curl up like

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one of those Jurassic Park dinosaurs. I told this story

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at his funeral and I'd tell my brother.

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Speaker 2: Don't move.

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Speaker 4: You can't see us if we don't move.

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Speaker 3: It's based on moping.

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Speaker 4: He kept walking around like if something wasn't clear, or

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we didn't do something right, or he turned into a

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Jurassic Park in BBDs, especially like Christmas morning.

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Speaker 2: Danny came in here tonight and he was like I

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told him, he was an iPod shuffle of thoughts. He

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was all over the place bing bing, bing, bing bing

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bing bing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, No, it's good, is it? We should

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have taped it.

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Speaker 2: It was funny. It was funny to me. I just

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started laughing. And then you see, I think you think

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like I laugh at you. I don't. I just laugh

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at how wound up you get, because then you did

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say and we had talked about this on the previous

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podcast that you were on, like two episodes ago, where

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we talked about the diet and the East African diet

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and how they ate a Western diet for two weeks

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and like if you're called American, yeah, they gained basically

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six pounds in two weeks. They each have overage average

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and they had a lot of damage. And Danny's like,

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I'm afraid to eat, and I knew.

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Speaker 4: Everything's new, everything new, everything's poisoned in microplastics, hormonal disruptors. Okay, illumino,

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all right, all right, all right, okay, not really afraid

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to eat everything.

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Speaker 2: No, but that's a lot in your head like this,

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this goes through.

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Speaker 4: This is your like weight I gained on my birthday weekend?

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Speaker 2: How much?

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Speaker 3: Eight pounds?

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Speaker 4: Damn dude, I've already dropped six of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But like when you lose some good ship, you.

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Speaker 4: Don't realize that, oh my gosh, it's over. I blew

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my hole, like weight weight loss. It's like, no, Dan,

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just calm the f down. Everything's gonna be okay. But

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I have to like take extreme measures to lose that weight,

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like eating one meal a day, or like really checking

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the lays on stuff because for some reason, my body

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doesn't process carbohydrates. I've taken the test, it just doesn't happen.

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Speaker 3: To do that.

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Speaker 4: That's why you go to YouTube, because you're looking for answers.

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Speaker 2: So he just roll in cross eyed. I'm fucking sorry, Danny,

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he couldn't see well. No, he had to have special glasses.

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who's left Dan, Danny will do it, Danny will fix it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I will, I will. This will take us in

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several different directions. But if I say this woman's name,

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I'm not sure you're gonna know who it is. Diane

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Cannon sounds familiar actress. She's eighty eight years old today.

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Speaker 3: Also, I think I can almost see her.

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Speaker 2: She was OSCAR nominated. She was married to Carrie Grant

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and had a child with Carrie grant. Okay, we'll get

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 2: And she just did an interview at the Hollywood Beauty

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Awards and she says she's not only day but she's

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got several special someone's friends with benefits. Oh she's eighty eight.

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Speaker 4: Well there's no commitment. You're at that age. You don't

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want to settle down.

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Speaker 2: You want to know the friends with benefits at eighty eight,

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they collect those security What the fuck is it?

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Speaker 4: I was like, well, maybe since maybe they're getting their

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service security back on that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Uh yeah, And I mean when you think,

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why do we view love, sex or even situationships as

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a young person's game in a sense. But situationships you

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never heard that term.

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Speaker 3: You never heard that term situationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a it's a newer social media.

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Speaker 4: In other words, is it's like it's complicated.

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Speaker 2: In a situation ship kind of sort of let me

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see your penis. I don't know, yeah, something like that.

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I think a lot of people are now in situationships.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: There's a video of like something that happened a couple

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of weeks ago at a local bar where a guy's

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got his arm around to check I think I talked

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about this.

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Speaker 2: Oh he was making with somebody else.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she was making and the dude with the

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camera looks at the other guy and goes, what the.

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Speaker 3: That sounds like a situationship?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, Diane Cannon's got more action than eighty

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eight than most of us did, probably like in college

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or something like that. She's not in retirement, daddy, She's

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in refirement baby.

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Speaker 4: WHOA. Yeah, Well at that age you could you could

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get that fire back in many ways, I think a

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lot of in a lot of cases. Well, Jennifer Goodrich, right,

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she played Stiffler's mom. Because of that, she all of

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a sudden started having relations with the younger guys.

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Speaker 2: Because it was cool.

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Speaker 4: It was cool to be with Stiffler's mom, and she

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went along with it because she goes, I'm not gonna

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get this guy.

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Speaker 3: Why don't she said this?

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Speaker 4: But she may have been thinking, I'm not gonna get

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this kind of attention anywhere else. I think you're Diane Cannon.

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You might be eighty eight, but you're still Diane Cannon. Right,

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So guys who remember Diane Cannon probably want to live

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out of fantasy. It may not be the Diane cannon

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of nineteen fifty five. No, no, but it's Diane Cann right,

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like Raquel Welch.

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Speaker 2: I saw something since you just say this nineteen fifty five,

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I saw you know how, this is really funny. You

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know how they maybe you did it in your house

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in Silver Creek mark the height of the kids, Yes,

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on a wall and you can't see how brother does that? Yeah, yeah,

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somebody did it with their droopy boobs.

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Speaker 4: Nineteen twenty four. I fucking love thirty one.

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Speaker 2: I go, that's really funny. I had not seen that.

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You've heard, you've heard.

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Speaker 3: Of, seen the cartoon of people.

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Speaker 2: Oh, this was someone actually doing it on take time

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and it made me laugh because let me just go

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back again. Misogynistic, toxic masculinity, that's me.

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Speaker 3: I hate that term.

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Speaker 2: I do too, because it's not true.

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Speaker 4: Stop society being being trying to push the five boys,

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and I guess what they're fighting back and good. I'm glad.

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Speaker 2: Diane Cannis gonna do a video Golden Girls gun Wild.

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So the question is when you think eighty eight, look,

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I can't imagine I did. I mean, my parents are

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my dad will be eighty, my uncle is eighty one,

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his brother, my aunt is going to be eighty. I

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can't imagine them still getting it on, but I would

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think if I was there, i'd want to still get

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it on.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, probably don't think of course.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, that's why. That's why it's so hard, because

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one could do that, women can't necessarily do that.

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Speaker 2: So then there's like hormone replacement stuff. But I'm starting

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to think, because you know, you're warned about side effects

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of things, that's why, like under a doctor's care, like

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your friend that we had in here, I think even

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for women could probably be okay because I don't know,

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I mean, does it still feel good after menopause? I

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have no idea, But this again is where and I

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said this, and I don't know if you were here

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or not, but I asked I might have been Mark,

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if you could go back and go would you take

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like a sex class from a sex therapist, would you

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just I don't know, up your game a little bit

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or just have more knowledge because there's.

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Speaker 5: Nothing like does this feel good? I know you're like this,

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you know what I'm saying. It's like at any age.

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I'm sure even at nineties my dentures.

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Speaker 3: It turned to a Dane Cook special.

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Speaker 4: Well was that he did that whole bit? Do you

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like that like that?

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Speaker 2: I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: I was never I never thought he was that funny,

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but he like a while, like the early two thousands.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was.

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Speaker 3: College women like loved him.

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Speaker 4: The guys would go along with it because he was

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like that sophomore type of humor.

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Speaker 2: Right right, But it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Like stand up.

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Speaker 4: It was more I don't know how to explain story storyteller.

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I thought, yeah, he was okay, we did a whole bit.

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We're like, hey, like two guys a guy to girl

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getting you like that? Do you like that?

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Speaker 3: That feel good?

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Speaker 2: Now? But that's what I'm saying, like even at eighty eight,

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maybe there's things you don't like or whatever. Could you

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go take a cala And I know it sounds ridiculous

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and almost embarrassing, but I'm like, maybe you should do that.

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So when if you wound up in that situationship that

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could become a relationship. You know what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like with zoom, I think you could

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do that or teams or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you could do it where you don't have to

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go somewhere. Yes, right, I mean from that, what kind

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of lube works best.

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WORD dan i don't think you've heard, of It but

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Speaker 4: Have, Bop, Uh yeah i've, heard it but probably not

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in the context that you're.

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Speaker 2: Referring, to okay what do you what do?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 2: Say bop is.

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Speaker 3: Bopping mean like having relations with somebody?

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Speaker 4: He's?

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Speaker 2: Popping yeah, well yeah we used to. Say.

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Speaker 4: That, yeah Yeah, FRIEND tommy i think, he's, yeah okay,

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poppinger okay.

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Speaker 2: Or bopping yourself, yeah yeah or bopping, the, bologneay yeah.

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Right right that was the phrase or was it bopp In.

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THE bologney i think it was the.

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that that is exactly what bop.

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00:22:52,759 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 2: Bop is, and uh it is just FUNNY that i

470
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,640
think a lot of times we hear words and aren't.

471
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,039
Really sure so this slang and sometimes there's la la

472
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,519
Bop And La la bob was a Song.

473
00:23:07,799 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 3: By.

474
00:23:08,039 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: Hanson no it was making fun of a Girl in

475
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:14,200
california for her. Body count they were going la, La

476
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,279
bob la la bob and like it to kind of.

477
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,799
WHOLE thing i, don't know and it originated from the

478
00:23:21,839 --> 00:23:25,359
early two. Thousand SLANG but i remember bop in terms

479
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:29,000
of bop in FROM when i was. A, kid yeah

480
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,880
maybe it's one of THOSE retro i, don't, know flags

481
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,680
like if we brought back the phrase, living, Large. Right

482
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:41,519
yeah so they talked to somebody From the University. Of

483
00:23:41,559 --> 00:23:45,839
sydney it was a. Media, expert okay down under we

484
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,839
go and they just go it's a prime example of

485
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:52,160
how misogyny finds new. Digital DISGUISES and i can't say

486
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,359
that that's necessarily wrong as MUCH as I like, i,

487
00:23:55,400 --> 00:24:00,160
go oh. Come on BUT then, i, think wow it's

488
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,839
all about body count and, slut shaming and we don't

489
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,799
usually do that, with guys at least not a lot of,

490
00:24:07,799 --> 00:24:10,200
the guys at LEAST when i. Was young it, was, like,

491
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,000
hey man the.

492
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 4: Only difference between a stud and a slut or?

493
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 2: Two letters, Yeah EXACTLY and i think. That that but that's,

494
00:24:16,759 --> 00:24:20,200
the thing and still to. This day so now some

495
00:24:20,759 --> 00:24:25,599
women have decided to reclaim the term and they even

496
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:30,880
Have A. Bob house it's a collective of young influencers

497
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:35,279
flipping the term and embracing their brand and identity Is The.

498
00:24:35,279 --> 00:24:37,799
BOB house i think there are adult stars and they

499
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:38,119
Have The.

500
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 4: Bob house, oh yeah, all, right yeah.

501
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 2: So parents are Panicking about bob and their kids are

502
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:50,839
online monetizing slut shaming and it's Like The shark tank.

503
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,759
Only fans here's the THING that i always wonder when

504
00:24:54,799 --> 00:24:59,160
people say we're taking back that word or we're taking,

505
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,720
back that there's certain.

506
00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 4: Words in society that certain cultures or subcultures have quote

507
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,319
taken back, and that and there are some that we,

508
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,000
can't say even on.

509
00:25:08,079 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 3: This podcast, I'm okay, I'm okay i'm okay not Saying that.

510
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,279
Speaker 2: I'm okay i'm okay. WITH them i understand the sentiment. Behind,

511
00:25:14,319 --> 00:25:18,799
it yeah but in this CASE, THE bop, i say

512
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,720
are you trying to reclaim a term that it's used

513
00:25:22,839 --> 00:25:28,200
to slut? Shame somebody or are you TRYING to i,

514
00:25:28,279 --> 00:25:33,839
don't know commoditize your commoditized make money Off.

515
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 4: Your yeah, the attention the attention in This, liketh yes

516
00:25:38,519 --> 00:25:41,559
attention is the, new information which is the. New, oil

517
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,240
right like information was supposedly the new oil if you

518
00:25:45,279 --> 00:25:47,039
struggle it, like now so like that's why when you

519
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,319
have your Smartphone or alexa in, your house if, you

520
00:25:51,599 --> 00:25:53,400
SORRY if i set off your safe word in, your

521
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,240
house if You, have alexa my wife.

522
00:25:55,279 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 3: HAS it i.

523
00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 4: Hate it but you know, that now, like attention tension

524
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,680
is now. Another industry it's a cottage Industry where i'm

525
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,440
the main CHARACTER and i can make money off just,

526
00:26:05,559 --> 00:26:08,039
be me which is the laziest thing in. The world

527
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,640
but but it's but it's a it's an industry if

528
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:10,880
you do.

529
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 2: It right if you do, it correct if you do.

530
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,880
It RIGHT because i would make the argument and people

531
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,480
get very upset. With Me, the kardashians what do? They

532
00:26:18,559 --> 00:26:20,119
do what do? They DO and, i go they actually,

533
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,759
Work hard they. Actually work they had something that people

534
00:26:23,799 --> 00:26:26,000
were interested in and they and they ran with it

535
00:26:26,079 --> 00:26:28,400
and they made. It work because how many other people

536
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,359
have tried reality shows of that type and haven't.

537
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,519
Speaker 4: Worked Well paris hilton was the first to do what,

538
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,599
she did and Then the kardashians took it to a whole, other, STRATOSPY.

539
00:26:38,279 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 2: Right i mean, they however they, did it they did,

540
00:26:40,759 --> 00:26:43,119
it right and that is a lot. OF work i

541
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,400
mean it's not the, you know it's not digging, ditch

542
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:45,759
work but.

543
00:26:45,839 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 4: It's Work like i've heard People Compare chris Jenner To.

544
00:26:48,839 --> 00:26:51,720
Bill Belichick now i'm. Not, joking, yeah sure in terms

545
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,240
of like the strategy strategize. In, marketing yeah, Her daughters,

546
00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:00,440
YEAH right i mean talk about. Reclaiming something you claimed the.

547
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 2: SEX tape i don't know if it's if it's a

548
00:27:03,319 --> 00:27:05,440
toxic pr but it's.

549
00:27:05,519 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 4: Certainly well the story was that she watched both they

550
00:27:08,519 --> 00:27:11,480
did two, sex Tapes that kim AND ray j did two,

551
00:27:11,599 --> 00:27:13,559
sex tapes and she watched both of them like she

552
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,799
was breaking. Down film i'm not making. This up you

553
00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:17,960
could look. This up and, she, said okay go with. This,

554
00:27:18,079 --> 00:27:20,359
TAPE instead i think that's the. Better tape And As

555
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,880
rob low, has explained you take this tape to a

556
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,599
certain Lawyer, in hollywood who then somehow releases it to

557
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,039
the right person and then.

558
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,799
Speaker 2: You go oh, MY gosh i can't believe his.

559
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:34,079
Speaker 4: Videos, out yeah he said This. To oprah robo said This,

560
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,839
to oprah and all of a sudden it becomes a,

561
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,319
huge thing right because he got caught. On, it well

562
00:27:38,559 --> 00:27:41,359
but he got, Caught, though yes that was, it's intention

563
00:27:41,559 --> 00:27:43,599
though they fell into the. Wrong hands this is a

564
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,559
situation where ever, since, then, like well this is.

565
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: THE keys I Think tommy Lee and PAMs was.

566
00:27:50,279 --> 00:27:52,039
Speaker 4: ACCIDENTAL too i think so that.

567
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 2: Was guys working on the house or building the house

568
00:27:55,559 --> 00:27:57,839
and moving a safe and they got in there and

569
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,920
they saw the tape and they did what. Guys, Did

570
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,200
yeah hulu did a whole thing.

571
00:28:02,279 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 4: On it but uh, BUT yeah, i Mean But rob,

572
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,519
loo said since those incidents, have, happened now all of,

573
00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:09,519
a sudden you have a lawyer law there's a dude

574
00:28:09,519 --> 00:28:11,359
that people go to to get this whole thing on

575
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,519
the roll on, the road and it worked out For.

576
00:28:13,559 --> 00:28:17,079
The Kardashians And ryan seacrest also knew. Them, too yeah

577
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,559
and he's THAT was i think they were his first

578
00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:21,799
show in his production company when He Became ryan seacrest

579
00:28:22,279 --> 00:28:23,720
and so then that took off to.

580
00:28:23,839 --> 00:28:28,279
Speaker 3: Another, Level, right so but boppin they're taking.

581
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,759
Speaker 2: Back bopping they're taking back the word, bop bop RIGHT

582
00:28:31,839 --> 00:28:34,799
because i asked my kid and it's one of these, things,

583
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:39,720
like yeah you're basically it's your. Body count it's a

584
00:28:39,839 --> 00:28:43,319
slut SHAME and i GO because, i said and? What's bop?

585
00:28:43,359 --> 00:28:44,039
Because why.

586
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 4: See that's usually a question that the kid asked the

587
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,400
parent and the, parent Goes, why no usually.

588
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,279
Speaker 2: You Know jameson jameson was WHY and, i SAID because

589
00:28:55,279 --> 00:29:00,359
i wonder what. It means it, MEANS slut, i, said,

590
00:29:00,359 --> 00:29:03,799
okay yeah but, it's, weird like how do you have

591
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,480
that conversation with? Your, kid oh so she's. A bop

592
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:12,559
it's not a verb, it yeah or descript that. She's

593
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:16,119
abop it's meant to be that she's, a, slut right

594
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,039
which is. Just bad and by, the way.

595
00:29:19,319 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 4: Let me just say, something first the, internets, forever folks

596
00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:24,000
let me stick up for sluts for just. A, minute

597
00:29:24,119 --> 00:29:25,200
okay the world.

598
00:29:25,279 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 2: Needs sluts it just does what the world needs now

599
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:35,599
is a good? Nasty slut you want the Nasty dirty instagram?

600
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 3: Is, available, yeah slut do you want?

601
00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:40,799
Speaker 2: The slut sluts are. Good people, they're giving, they're loving,

602
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:45,079
they're caring they're giving. Of, themselves right they're not, charging

603
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,839
You they're yeah that, you, say lovely you have a

604
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:49,640
nice evening with. A.

605
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 4: Slut yeah but they've done studies now on people who

606
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,480
are an, only fans women who are only fans.

607
00:29:54,519 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 3: And, stuff well, that's different, is? It though if you're

608
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,000
monetizing your.

609
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 2: That's monetizing i'm talking about just to just say a

610
00:30:01,599 --> 00:30:04,519
bop and we're not monetizing just. A bop and let's

611
00:30:04,519 --> 00:30:07,480
say it's a woman who's been divorced or. Or widowed as, we,

612
00:30:07,599 --> 00:30:11,720
heard uh we heard the wind. Ho ter we heard

613
00:30:11,759 --> 00:30:15,240
the widho term last Night. From matt you. Get around

614
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,960
isn't necessar necessarily bad. For her it'd be rude to

615
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,960
call her of the person a bop if a guy.

616
00:30:22,039 --> 00:30:25,559
Did it nobody says anything but she's. A bop but in,

617
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,640
a way if you heard at a certain she's, a

618
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,480
bop you go let me buy.

619
00:30:29,519 --> 00:30:32,519
Speaker 3: Her drink see. What happen there's always somebody thinking that

620
00:30:32,759 --> 00:30:33,160
That's what.

621
00:30:33,319 --> 00:30:36,279
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you know, You know and if she's, a

622
00:30:36,319 --> 00:30:39,359
bop here's the. Other thing here's, Another, thing fellows that

623
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,799
you need to know about. The sluts she ain't. Sticking

624
00:30:41,839 --> 00:30:43,319
around it's not.

625
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,039
Speaker 4: A headache not. A headache she got the reputation because

626
00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:48,559
there's a lot body.

627
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:54,240
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to go, where everything, everybody's, personality everybody everybody who's done

642
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:54,720
anything started out doing it by mimicking.

643
00:31:54,799 --> 00:31:56,599
Speaker 4: Somebody else, oh yeah and you.

644
00:31:56,599 --> 00:31:59,279
Speaker 2: Can tell it. In comedy you can tell it on

645
00:31:59,799 --> 00:32:01,759
rap to a. Certain extent you can probably TELL them

646
00:32:01,839 --> 00:32:05,119
tv all kinds of just like that's a derivative Of,

647
00:32:05,519 --> 00:32:08,440
or hey you idolize so and so and and and

648
00:32:08,559 --> 00:32:11,039
there's nothing wrong. With THAT but i start, to, think

649
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,440
like are we still making real choices in our life

650
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,160
or is big tech? Taking over and THE reason i

651
00:32:17,319 --> 00:32:22,880
say that is you brought, up well we talked about

652
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,759
the phones listening. To US but i would, even, say

653
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:30,759
like if you're on a dating app the, suggestions yet

654
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,599
is it really some you KNOW what? I mean like

655
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,640
you suggest it's suggested, to you and shows you watched

656
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,720
they're suggested to you based on what you've. Watched previously

657
00:32:44,279 --> 00:32:47,759
SO it's ai making a decision based on decisions you.

658
00:32:48,079 --> 00:32:51,519
Previously MADE and, I go i'm not sure if they

659
00:32:52,319 --> 00:32:54,599
like do you want your type curated?

660
00:32:54,839 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: For?

661
00:32:55,119 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: You yeah do You understand i'm making? Any?

662
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 4: SENSE yes i call it the delusion, of choice not

663
00:33:00,799 --> 00:33:03,400
the illusion, of chess the delusion, of choice.

664
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 3: The delusion being you think you have, the choice because.

665
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,079
You don't YOU and i have the choice of the.

666
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Choice right and YOU and i are old enough to

667
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,039
remember life. Before, algorithms yes before there was any of.

668
00:33:15,079 --> 00:33:20,319
THIS stuff i mean it's algorithm driven everything now in terms,

669
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,640
Of STUFF and i mean you think now you got Things, like, Spotify,

670
00:33:24,759 --> 00:33:28,559
TikTok netflix even. DATING apps i, don't know what is?

671
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,880
IT bumble i heard somebody talk, about, bumble.

672
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,759
Speaker 4: Bumble tender plenty, of, Fish, hinge.

673
00:33:35,079 --> 00:33:35,839
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah what?

674
00:33:36,319 --> 00:33:36,359
Speaker 1: Is?

675
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 4: It?

676
00:33:36,799 --> 00:33:45,839
Speaker 2: Okay uh it just makes. ME laugh i was on

677
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:50,480
bumble okay sing was that one that you ask people

678
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,759
the women, You.

679
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,759
Speaker 4: Try yeah you try to, match up but they have

680
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,240
to make the. First move it empowers, the women?

681
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:56,799
Speaker 2: Does?

682
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,119
Speaker 3: It yes so, supposedly, yeah YEAH.

683
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 2: Because, i, go, look man sometimes people are trying to,

684
00:34:03,519 --> 00:34:08,119
reinvent themselves not, reinvent themselves but rediscover, right marriage, life,

685
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:12,639
choices changes, career, pivots, whatever kids life. Goes on and

686
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,880
now you're you're kind of standing there and you're trying

687
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,760
to go get back out in, the world so. To

688
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:22,480
speak and everything is sort of an. Algorithm now And

689
00:34:22,599 --> 00:34:24,920
if i'm not in, your Algorithm then i'm not going to.

690
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,519
See YOU and i think that's kind of a weird way.

691
00:34:27,599 --> 00:34:30,599
Speaker 4: TO live, I mean i'm a recruiter And, in LinkedIn

692
00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:33,840
and we're subject to the, algorithm too and we've actually

693
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,639
put in the same information, at work all, of us

694
00:34:36,679 --> 00:34:38,880
the same information you find the same batch of candidates

695
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,880
At all our lists. Were different so it's a matter

696
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,320
of just getting lucky and finding the right person who

697
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,599
wants to respond and actually take the take, the role

698
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:46,000
go through.

699
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 3: The process It's, very yeah.

700
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 2: Everything's, algorithm, well okay so here's more OF my i

701
00:34:53,519 --> 00:34:57,599
don't know how you would categorize, this QUESTION but i

702
00:34:58,519 --> 00:35:01,280
think it is one that will make, people think at

703
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,800
least it's one that's been rolling around in my head

704
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:09,280
for a couple. Of weeks how can you have any

705
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:15,559
growth in yourself if your algorithm reflects back to you

706
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,360
your current state? Of mind twenty four. To seven.

707
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,199
Speaker 3: That's a, Great question like you're living in your own

708
00:35:23,199 --> 00:35:24,320
personal echo, Chamber.

709
00:35:24,519 --> 00:35:27,639
Speaker 2: Exactly Because what i'm saying, is like if you're looking for,

710
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,920
personal growth if you want to break out of whatever

711
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,079
slump you feel like, you're in whatever.

712
00:35:34,079 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 4: You're not going to do that if you keep listening

713
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,800
and seeing this exactly to. You exactly, for EXAMPLE if

714
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,000
i were a conservative or a LIBERAL and i only

715
00:35:41,039 --> 00:35:44,039
watch liberal or conservative, YouTube videos i'm only going to

716
00:35:44,079 --> 00:35:45,880
be fed one side of. The other i'm never going

717
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,480
to get. Both sides i'm never going to get. Both

718
00:35:47,519 --> 00:35:49,960
Perspectives and i'm just going to turn go down, that

719
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,039
path right and just become more more Of A. Jack,

720
00:35:53,079 --> 00:35:54,239
white well we'll take take.

721
00:35:54,119 --> 00:35:56,679
Speaker 2: It away from, even politics because sometimes that gets ugly, with,

722
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,679
people right people get a. Little Offended what i'm saying,

723
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,679
is say it's one of these THINGS where i want to.

724
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,920
GET myself i gotta get. FIRED up i gotta get to.

725
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,280
THE gym i want to. DO this I gotta And

726
00:36:09,599 --> 00:36:13,199
yet i've been liking a lot of like homemade. Pizza things,

727
00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:16,079
oh yeah how to make. Homemade, PIZZA oh i get

728
00:36:18,039 --> 00:36:21,360
so that Was my, friday, mood Right my. Friday MOOD and, i,

729
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,039
GO oh i like. That one oh that one. Looks

730
00:36:23,079 --> 00:36:24,679
good you kind of go down a little bit of, a,

731
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:29,239
Hole right and then now it's all these different recipes

732
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,039
coming at you that. You LOSE and i know this

733
00:36:33,159 --> 00:36:34,880
is a bit of, a stretch but you lose the

734
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,719
motivation to go to the gym, because hey what's a little?

735
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 4: Ice, grub hey this is a healthy way to, Make.

736
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,039
Speaker 2: YES so i don't have to go to. THE gym

737
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,360
i could just. Eat these is? It laziness is? IT

738
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,239
convenience i think it's a little bit.

739
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,159
Speaker 3: Of both and the addiction of keeping, YOU scrolling.

740
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 2: I THINK it's i think it's. COMPLETELY different i think

741
00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:02,199
that it's disguised, as laziness it's spoken. As CONVENIENCE and

742
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,239
i think if we really look, at it it's. Total

743
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:09,760
surrender you've surrendered to this without knowing you've surrendered. To

744
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:14,079
this there's nothing wrong with looking, at TikTok there's nothing wrong.

745
00:37:14,159 --> 00:37:16,719
With That but i'm starting, to, think like if you

746
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,960
can give yourself some time, without it if you can

747
00:37:21,039 --> 00:37:23,639
actually put a, you know turn on that do not

748
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,639
disturb and just put it away and, give yourself even

749
00:37:27,679 --> 00:37:31,199
if it's forty five minutes a, HALF hour i don't

750
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,800
know where you're. Not looking and, you know we have

751
00:37:34,039 --> 00:37:37,960
terms now, doom Scrolling and I'M an. Adhd person and

752
00:37:38,039 --> 00:37:40,880
then we hear that all the ads are do you have?

753
00:37:41,039 --> 00:37:44,920
High cortisol this is a sign of high cortisol maybe.

754
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,679
It is maybe. It isn't. I'm not i'm not, a

755
00:37:49,079 --> 00:37:50,719
ditogram but it's gonna.

756
00:37:50,559 --> 00:37:53,119
Speaker 4: Keep be reflecting that back to you because that's all

757
00:37:53,199 --> 00:37:55,480
the shit you look at all, the time and you.

758
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,800
LIKE it i, got algorithms you Know what i'm saying

759
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,000
for freaking. FISH oil, i, Mean yeah That's what i'm.

760
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 2: Trying, to say, is like so if you're looking to

761
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,960
even try to, improve yourself and are there ways on

762
00:38:07,159 --> 00:38:10,360
these devices that you can find to? Improve, yourself Absolutely

763
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,599
and i'm sure. There are i'm sure, there ARE but

764
00:38:12,679 --> 00:38:16,320
i would also say when you, find them put this

765
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,320
down for a little bit and go, do it because

766
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,639
everything's an algorithm and you may not even be seeing

767
00:38:23,679 --> 00:38:26,679
a great choice for you if you're dating, and look

768
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,559
maybe you want to Be Like diane cannon and have

769
00:38:28,639 --> 00:38:33,280
friends with benefits Hers Of, social security yours. Head's chlamythia

770
00:38:34,199 --> 00:38:36,920
but you Know what, i'm saying like you. COULD have i,

771
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,039
don't know it just is it was just something that

772
00:38:39,159 --> 00:38:39,559
was very.

773
00:38:39,679 --> 00:38:40,599
Speaker 3: Algorithm and stiff.

774
00:38:40,679 --> 00:38:44,119
Speaker 2: That, out YEAH because I had i had a flattering

775
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:50,719
moment last WEEK and i stopped in To see DAMIEN

776
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,440
and i had lunch. Over there it was Late, on

777
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:57,239
friday AND then i probably stayed LONGER than i, ever

778
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,440
intended but it's usually what happens. To ME and i

779
00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:02,280
wasn't like there was like, five thirty but there was

780
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,920
a woman there and she was talking about uh to

781
00:39:06,039 --> 00:39:11,320
somebody else AND they i was talking whatever that she's

782
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,280
on some dating apps and this and that and the.

783
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:18,159
Other thing and, she's, like uh, she goes are you on?

784
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:19,840
Dating apps and, he, SAID no i don't.

785
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 4: WANT to i.

786
00:39:20,519 --> 00:39:23,559
Speaker 2: DON'T want i don't, WANT like i don't. Want that

787
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,360
AND yet i. Guess it, you know maybe it's like

788
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:28,400
shooting FISH and i.

789
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 3: Don't know my WIFE and i did not meat on a.

790
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,159
Speaker 4: Dating app i'm very happy about THAT because i THINK

791
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,239
fish I think i think it makes everything a.

792
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: Meat Market and i'm not talking. Just dating i'm. Talking

793
00:39:37,519 --> 00:39:40,000
everything everything is now. A product you are. The, product

794
00:39:40,119 --> 00:39:40,559
yeah you're.

795
00:39:40,599 --> 00:39:42,519
Speaker 4: THE product I mean i think that was The social

796
00:39:43,039 --> 00:39:47,360
there was this one documentary AROUND during covid talked about.

797
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,840
SOCIAL media i. FORGOT that i think it Was Called

798
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,880
The social problem or something, like THAT and i don't

799
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:51,480
know what it Was.

800
00:39:51,519 --> 00:39:54,119
Speaker 3: On netflix and, in essence you are.

801
00:39:54,199 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 4: The, product yeah they've studied like, you Know In, las

802
00:39:57,079 --> 00:39:59,880
vegas the, slot machines how it gets in the noise

803
00:40:00,119 --> 00:40:02,320
and the, bright lights and you. Keep spinning why because

804
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,159
you want a better story, Coming up you want, better

805
00:40:04,199 --> 00:40:07,000
stuff you want a, better feed and so you just

806
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,639
the idea is to keep you scrolling so that you'll

807
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:11,599
buy something or you'll do it and, THEN well, i.

808
00:40:11,639 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 2: Mean look take it to something. Really simple how many

809
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,840
people have bought Shit on amazon because it, Was, suggested

810
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:24,320
oh you, bought this might, like this you Know what, i'm,

811
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,440
saying right and you.

812
00:40:25,559 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 4: Probably, would yeah there's, nothing.

813
00:40:27,159 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 2: WRONG but i just it just seems like, to me

814
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,880
when you, go more is it our personality or our

815
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,559
personalities being told to us and letting and letting us

816
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:43,960
not discover that you're capable of. Doing more That's what.

817
00:40:44,039 --> 00:40:48,559
Speaker 4: I'm saying don't watch, the video be the, video only don't.

818
00:40:48,599 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 2: Take, it yeah but you Know what, i'm, saying like

819
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,599
go just to go? Do, it yeah what's the worst that's.

820
00:40:52,599 --> 00:40:55,440
Gonna happen you're either gonna be right where you were

821
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,360
or further along than you thought you.

822
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 4: Would Be marcellus wiley always had a phrase, he goes,

823
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,960
oh no It Was. Roland williams he said a year.

824
00:41:03,199 --> 00:41:06,320
From today you're gonna wish you. Started, today, yeah, yeah

825
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,760
absolutely that's a that's a.

826
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,199
Speaker 2: Great one. UH yeah i just had this similar conversation with.

827
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,000
My kid, HE goes i got my GRADES to X.

828
00:41:15,079 --> 00:41:17,000
And y i'm not gonna say what. They ARE and, I,

829
00:41:17,119 --> 00:41:19,440
go okay you don't seem like. YOU'RE happy i GO

830
00:41:19,519 --> 00:41:22,079
because i knew you could, do IT and i think

831
00:41:22,119 --> 00:41:27,199
you're capable of. Even, More right I'M gonna pushm gonna

832
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:27,519
be a.

833
00:41:27,559 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 3: Little bit if you click on, THIS video i can

834
00:41:29,519 --> 00:41:29,920
help you get.

835
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 2: Those grades And For, Dann Brilla I'm. Bill moran we

836
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,280
have an outsourced our. Personalities Here, I'M billified i.

837
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Speaker 5: Haven't shiver named The Doc flow murder a Rat free

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