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Dan teaches us the Cross method.

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Speaker 3: The Cross method, okay, and that's not a faith based mechanism,

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you forgetting your pot on,

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thank you for telling a friend. That's how we spread

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the word about the pirate ship. A couple of like

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programming notes, but I will throw out to you you

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can interact with the show on our live when we

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do it live, because we'll put it out on YouTube

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and stuff, and you can comment there. We can put

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your comments up on the screen. You can call us.

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Speaker 4: That's how I find you guys when I'm not here.

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Speaker 1: It's like five A five two of six eighty sixty YouTube.

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So here's the weird part is like I have not

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concentrated on the YouTube thing at all. I really haven't.

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And something weird happened today. I went to the y

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and I did two classes there today. I did a

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spin class and then I did you ready?

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Speaker 4: Did you teach it or did you know teach you

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didn't quite shoot it?

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Speaker 1: No? No, I've never taught a spin class. Okay, never

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did you just teach boxing? That was the only thing

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I can teach you. I can, I can do I

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I would say I would be a pretty good beginner

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boxing training, right, Okay, Yeah, I can get you to

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work up a lather and I can teach you some

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moves and some stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: Like flyweight championship.

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Speaker 1: No, I can't get you there, you'd have to go.

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Footwork has always been a problem for me, honestly, Like,

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as you get more advanced, you want to be you

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know where you stand. Yeah, it's uh, it's different, but

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uh no. So I did this s MIN class and

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then afterwards I did a meditation class.

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Speaker 4: So it's like, go from one extreme to the other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm I you go in. It was really

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I loved it. The meditation, yeah, because they just take

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this guided meditation. I've never done it. I thought I

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would try it in through the nose, out through the

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not like that. Jesus Christ, cat, cat, don't make fun

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of it because it's in the way of prayer. I

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don't make it. I do make fun. It is in

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a way, yes, because not coming internally to meditation. Yes,

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but that wasn't the point. Okay, So I go downstairs

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and Jamison is playing two and two basketball and he's

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looking a little tired of shots, a little off, and

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I can tell he's getting frustrated, fatigued. Billy Well, he

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had been playing since eleven o'clock it's now, or or

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excuse me, since ten o'clock, and it's now about eleven

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forty five, so he's been playing a lot of basketball,

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and I could just see. And then he starts making

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a bunch and then he's off again and game wraps up.

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I'm changing my shoes and stuff, and he comes out

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and he's getting his stuff. He's like, oh, my SHOT's off,

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blah blah. And then all of a sudden, as I

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get up, the guy who was on his team comes

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out and goes, hey, I just wanted to say hi.

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I didn't want to be creepy or anything, but I

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recognized him from the podcast and I said, oh, well,

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thank you. He's like and he goes, uh, yeah, he

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goes he's pretty good, but we lost. I said yeah,

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and he goes I said he plays for Fairport and

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he goes, oh, how old are you? And Jameson says fourteen.

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The guy's like, wow, fourteen, you're a big guy for fourteen,

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and he is he'll be fifteen in about a month, so.

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Speaker 4: He's bigger than I am. I'm forty four.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So the guy says, hey, and he mentions the

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radio show I used to be on and how much

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he loved it and how much he loved the chemistry

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and all that stuff. Oh okay, and I I and

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he asked me how it's the podcast going. And I'll

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get people who say, come on, man, you have no listeners.

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I see the YouTube numbers, and I'm like, I don't

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ever concentrate on YouTube, right, I concentrate on the downloads.

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Speaker 2: I don't even put our ads on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: So I'm starting to think I've been doing it wrong

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because people go to YouTube for I've been doing it wrong.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, man, I don't think of it doing

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it wrong.

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Speaker 3: I think you just got to like elevate the YouTube

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part of it, okay, because there's some people who like

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Speaker 4: Completely like their lives are now just YouTube. Yeah right, yeah,

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and so, and you've been a radio guy. First.

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Speaker 3: Your podcast numbers are phenomenal, and I'm not making that up.

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We know this for a fact. But people look at

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YouTube because they go to YouTube and you can see

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the numbers in real time, so people assume that, well,

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nobody's watching, but no, that's not your focus.

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Speaker 1: No, my focus has been the downloads of audio the

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next day. And I think scrolling across the screen, I

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have something in that it says, uh, you know, available

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wherever you get your podcast, But it's usually the next day,

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and I get people who when I haven't done a podcast,

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going hey man, did you do one today? I'll get

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messages because they download the audio.

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Speaker 2: And you're right.

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Speaker 1: I was a radio guy, so that's where I concentrated first.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and let's get it going. I'm gonna dance, no.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no no. I just think like I've got to

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figure out ways to do it more interactively.

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Speaker 3: For YouTube and take another pair of hands, you know,

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I think I think that's what I know.

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Speaker 1: Is that what I need?

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Speaker 4: Maybe, Christ, Well, let me help you out.

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Speaker 1: Man, I don't know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: I don't let me help you out. We'll get answer.

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It's gotta be a Ted talk out there.

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Speaker 2: So well, here's how to.

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Speaker 1: Build a YouTube following I'm telling you right now with

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Ted all of this, Like, Okay, I'm going to ask

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you to put on your Danny Life coach hat. Okay, No,

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I'm dead serious. I don't want you to get all

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weird on me.

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Speaker 4: My tweet hat.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people are probably in

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a similar situation. Maybe it's the time of year. I

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don't know. I am feeling so overwhelmed right now, like overwhelmed,

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to the point where.

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Speaker 3: Life asked me if you are feeling overwhelmed today. I'm

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not joking, Billy overwhelmed? Does he need help with everything?

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What she asked me that I go, No, be sure

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he's fine. She has a sixth sense about these things.

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Now you're saying, I'm like, okay, Like, oh my gosh,

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she knew.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna You're gonna make me go way off topic.

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I think, no, no, no, no, You're gonna like.

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Speaker 4: Let me life coach you. I apologize, all right.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just going I am. I'm feeling way overwhelmed.

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I'm feeling overwhelmed about some personal relationships. I'm feeling overwhelmed

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with my kid. I'm feeling not overwhelmed in a bad way,

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but like he wanted to go to his girlfriend's house today.

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He was over there yesterday. I let him stay till

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like ten o'clock at night. They are from France. They

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do eat later. They are going back to France for

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the February winter break.

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Speaker 4: I thought they eat more like in the middle of

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the day, don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. No, no, no, no, I'm not snapping

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at you. I don't know. I'm starting to snap, but

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I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's how I've been all day.

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Speaker 1: That's how I've been off for I didn't want the coffee.

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I got coffee, Okay, no, because I like the Costa

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Rican coffee again.

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Speaker 3: So it's a new relationship and he's you're adjusting, he's

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a justing.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to just get him. Here's my thing with Jamison.

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I'm going to say a lot of stuff here, and

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there's gonna be people who may not appreciate what I'm saying.

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I but that that's not my problem. Jamison did not

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have a traditional school setting as we know it. Get up,

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get on the bus, or get up and get dropped

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off to school every day of the week. For the

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past three years. He was homeschooled. For a minute, he

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went to and he went to a Renaissance school where

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most of it was online and you went in two

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days a week and you were only there for a

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couple hours.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: He did well school, He actually did well. But now

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when he wanted to move here, I don't have that

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luxury right to homeschool or renaissance school. So he's going

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every day and he's been doing it and he's doing well.

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Speaker 2: But that's a big switch, right even at fourteen.

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Speaker 1: It's a big switch. So I've been hyper conscious of

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all the things, and I haven't been super tough on him.

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I just I haven't. I mean, I we had one

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one blow up, dust up in the beginning, and that

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was my fault, and I made a lot of changes

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after that. But I I'm like, so today he was

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gonna go over at four o'clock, I'm pulling the rug.

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I go it's at four O'clock's too late on a Sunday.

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It's just is because then I'm like, I'll pick you

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up at six. Well, I don't want to be there.

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meal prep and you've got this, and you've got all

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these things, and I have bigger focus that I want

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to get to like, I still don't have our website

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live right, and I have a website that they pay for,

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but I don't have a life. You know, these are

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the things that are driving me crazy. And I go,

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is it just me? Or is everybody feeling overwhelmed? And

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what do you do? What would you say to somebody

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in that scenario? I think I have an answer, but

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I would almost get pissed at myself forgiving the answer.

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So I'd like to hear what you would say.

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, take a step back, and I

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would do like what they call the cross method. Okay,

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and that's not a faith based mechanism, that's just pros

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and cons. Okay, take a list of all the pros

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in your life. Yeah, okay, they're feeling really good about,

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excited about, and all the con not cons necessarily, but

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things that.

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be like, okay, how can I eliminate these? How can

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I delegate these? Then the pros do the same thing.

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some of the not cons? But what are some of

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the consequences of that? Well, he now has a girlfriend,

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he's in a new school setting, he's got this, he's

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got basketball as friends. We have one car and it's

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just me and Jamison. So how do I like, you know,

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delegate you know raising, not delegate raising him, but like,

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how do we get him on a schedule that's conducive

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so that he understands that he needs to check in

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with you? There's more of a system. Then you start

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putting like little systems in place. Right A right, So

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take the cons What can I get rid of in

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my life that I do not need right now? Or

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can I put it off?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: Is this necessary?

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Can I do this in May? Can I do this

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in April? Put those off? Okay? So, and then from

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there come up with a list of outcomes.

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Jamison to get through this.

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and make sure that like this summer, he still wants

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to live with me and we have a great relationship. Right,

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What are the actions I need to take for that?

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And branch off from there. Same thing with the podcast. Okay,

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what are the pros? I got this cool guy named Dan,

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he's on he's awesome. I got this great guy named Kevin.

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I got this chick named Laura, she seems okay, Mark

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Hillman's cool. You know, you got these cool people and

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then you get them on the and then and then Okay,

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what schedule can I get them on? And what can

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I delegate to these guys to make this podcast grow?

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Because we could all go further if we go together, Right,

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you can go by yourself, like what we're on Facebook

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have a meeting to figure out how we can divide

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and conquer the world.

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Speaker 4: We could all go further if we go together. So

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what do they do?

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Speaker 3: They all started working together with the iPhone and the

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android phone, got their apps together. You could actually work

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all the apps together. You could send messages together. Yeah,

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they're competing, but not really. They're kind of like, Okay,

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I'm going after this kind of audience. You're going after

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this kind of audience. You're going after like Instagram's going

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after this audience. So in other words, yeah, they're competing,

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but they're all helping each other get rich. Sure, yeah,

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so they all like the rising tide floats all boats right,

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So just and I know that's that sounds overwhelming and complicated.

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all the cons stuff. What do I do not need

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right now? What can I put off right now? What

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do I need to do right now? And what needs

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to happen by twenty twenty six, And then you'll work

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Speaker 4: Out who can help. Who's coming with me, who's coming

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with me on this journey?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I need who's my other billy, who's my

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second How do I clone myself?

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Speaker 4: Who's coming with and who is it coming with me?

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Who's dead weight that I need to get rid of?

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You know, I'll be honest with you.

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years back, and I just kind of like cut him

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out of my life because I realized that they weren't

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you know, they weren't really benefiting me, but long term,

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because of that relationship I had with him, Like oddly enough,

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I am now married to someone why Because he introduced

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me to a person who's also playing guitar who wanted

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to start a band, and we started this band, and

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then all of a sudden, I restarted that band and eventually.

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Speaker 4: Met my wife.

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Speaker 3: So in a way, as much as that guy was

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a pain in the neck, I owe him for helping

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me open that door.

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Speaker 1: That's an interesting thing pros and cons, because I think.

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Speaker 4: We do they're not necessarily cons just like all right, I.

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Speaker 1: Like that you're saying, not necessarily because I I let

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me interrupt for just one second, and I apologize, But

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I con sometimes we do that as human beings.

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better way to look at That's actually really good pros.

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Speaker 4: And consequences, because consequences aren't. I mean, they're not always bad.

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Speaker 1: Like another I have made fun of you for being

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a life coach. I poked, I poked. Oh I remember

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I poked. I remember I poked. But a couple of

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different shows. But people got back to me. Do you

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know who's making fun of you right now? Yeah, we

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haven't talked to ten years. Well, the thing is like,

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I only got mad at you because I thought you

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wanted to get back into radio, and that was a misunderstanding.

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Speaker 4: But that was who was a snipe shit never little weasel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And the thing is, I don't have a bad

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thing to say about you.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: I never did. I never did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's okay.

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Speaker 1: No, I never had a bad thing to say about you.

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I just uh, yeah. I guess the negative would be

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he could.

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Speaker 4: You defend me to some people? I did hear that too.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't even know.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you later.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it doesn't matter that that wasn't the point

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of this. I have to say, like, that's a really

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good method, and I like that, and I like looking

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at things. And my thing too is also I get

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overwhelmed with time. And then I'm feeling a little weird

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today because anybody who's in a similar situation to the

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one I'm in maybe able to relate to this. I

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don't know, but I would think that I'm certainly not

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the only person who's gone through this sort of stuff.

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You're not treading new territory, necessarily, nothing new under the sun.

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But I was feeling a little bit bad because I

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got a text last night from Jamison's grandmother on his

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mom's side, and his mom and I are not divorced.

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We are legally separated. Okay, and strange.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like a harsh term, but that's kind of

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what it is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Like arsenarm sounds like I'm nuts, strangle, Yeah, yes

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it does. So she was reaching out to say basically

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that she hasn't heard from him in a while and

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she wanted to support him, and she knew he knows

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he's been more active in basketball lately and was there anything.

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So I decided, because he was still over at his

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friend's house, that I would, uh, I'd give her a call,

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just see what's going on. So I called her. We

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had a very nice conversation. I always liked them. And

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she said to me, you know, thank you, thank you

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for all what you're doing whatever, And I just I

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felt bad because she said, you know, and she said

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something and I'm going to forget the way she phrased it.

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It was it was pretty good. But She's like, the

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complexities of the relationship now, and I'm going, don't let

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that get in the way. Don't let anything get in

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the way. There are reasons, there are things that happened,

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but you're still his grandmother and a thing. So I

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said to him today, I said, I told him last night.

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I said, listen, I talked to your grandmother. She'd love

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to talk to you. She wants to support your basketball

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all that stuff. And he was like, all right, great,

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And I said, you can try to call her now

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or I'd like to have you call her tomorrow. So

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then I said to him, hey man, and he's a kid, right,

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you're running around. We're all running around. We don't know

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why we're doing this. I said, listen, I'm gonna jump

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in the shower. You. I think you really should call

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your grandmother. So I get out of the shower. I go,

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you're already off the phone. He goes, yeah. We talked

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for like three minutes. I go, why, he sa. I

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told her I was laying down and she said, all right,

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I'll let you rest. And I'm like, buddy, buddy, and

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I think it's just this weird place that everybody's in

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and I don't want that. I want them to have

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great relationships with everybody, with everybody. There's no wrong or

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bad in my mind at all.

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Speaker 3: But maybe i'm and that's not something that's ever going

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to go with Like my grandmother is ninety five. She

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lives in a nursing home, and she's hard to talk to.

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I mean, she's cool, she's with it while you're talking

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to her, but I've had to tell her the name

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of my wife seventeen times in the last two years.

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Speaker 4: And now, did you get married?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you sent me a gift, remember, I mean, so

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when you when you do that, you kind of like, Now,

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Jamison's grandmother's like still sharp, oh yeah, yeah, yeah. But

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he's at that age of fourteen where yeah, I just

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had a big day with the girl.

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Speaker 1: I just played basketball.

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Speaker 4: I want to be bothered by you, got it right?

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Speaker 3: Which you never that you have to overcome that fleshy

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desire and cultivate that relationship because one day Graham's gonna

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be gone.

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Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, and I wish we could talk to.

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Speaker 2: Him, yes, And that's that's another thing.

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Speaker 1: But I was feeling a little like over I'm like, god,

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dig you want to make sure and sometimes when you try,

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and this is the wrong way to do it, but

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you're trying to please everybody and you're and no one can.

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And I'm not trying to please her, but I do

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want him to have a better relationship.

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Speaker 2: He needs to take up the party, right, yeah, a

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little bit.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time you're like, oh my god, damn,

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so I like that a team method, pros and cons.

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Speaker 3: And then like you're gonna like, I mean the cons,

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like the stuff that you could meet, like the cons

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of stuff you could immediately get rid of, get rid

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of them.

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Speaker 4: Then like pros and consequences.

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Speaker 3: Right, because some of the consequences are good consequences, but

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they're gonna have like work. It seems like like you

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know it's a bad thing. It's not, it's something you

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gotta work at, right. The cons that are bad just

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get rid of if you could get rid of them

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or try to make them better. But pros and consequences,

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Like I'm excited I got this podcast, okay, but what

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are some of the consequences of that podcast?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Now what can I delegate? What can I eliminate? And

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then you go from what's gonna take me a freaking

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week to do? But no, I really won't just do

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one item at a time, like one day. So like

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let's say tomorrow you do the podcast. Tuesday, you you

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know you you did the teeth method on your laundry Wednesday,

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Jamis said Thursday, your dad and mom parents are always

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a fun one.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you do the pros and cons of your parents. Oh,

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my mom's great's gone.

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the The first question you need to ask yourself is like,

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what am I.

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Speaker 4: Excited about in my life right now?

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Speaker 3: And then listen and then go from there. And then

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the other question is what do I dread about my

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life right now? And then list though and they go.

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Speaker 4: From there because because if this, because if you're excited about.

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Speaker 3: Stuff, you'll build momentum you'll build and then you're like, yes,

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I could do this.

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Speaker 1: And this and this.

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Speaker 3: You'll split there for an hour and you'll feel like

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you sat there for like five minutes because you're excited

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about that. The stuff you dread, you may also be

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excited about because now I could get.

473
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Speaker 2: Rid of it.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if we should uh spark up Danny life Coaching,

475
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And I'm not being funny, I wonder if we should.

476
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I wouldn't it.

477
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't love to help people. I gotta be I

478
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gotta be more of a task master.

479
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Speaker 1: Though if I do it, No, I don't mean like

480
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on people what if we did a Danny Life Coaching podcast,

481
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we could do that, like seriously, yeah, where Danny answers questions.

482
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,559
Or maybe we just have it as part of this

483
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one we do a segment.

484
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we could do it, right, That's how I write

485
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:53,640
the start.

486
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Speaker 3: It could be like a TV spinoffs, a podcast from

487
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the creators.

488
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Speaker 1: I kind of like that. Maybe every Sunday we a

489
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little Dandy Life coach. Yeah is that?

490
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Speaker 4: Or yeah, bring me to your bring me your problem.

491
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'm going to start, ladies, Joe.

492
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Speaker 3: I've undergone a lot of I don't want to say therapy,

493
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but I've actually looked into a lot of this stuff.

494
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that, and I but a lot of

495
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great peace right there.

496
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Speaker 3: But like like Kevin says, Danny, you have a lot

497
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of time in your hands to do those things.

498
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Speaker 4: Well let's do it.

499
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Speaker 1: Then.

500
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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me be a blessing to you. Because I

501
00:22:23,279 --> 00:22:24,720
don't have any kids. I just had to me and

502
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my wife and we're good.

503
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Speaker 1: I sometimes get overwhelmed. I think a lot of parents

504
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,960
do that. I feel like I just need to work.

505
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I have said out loud to my kid, Oh I

506
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do is work twenty four to seven, And that's overwhelming,

507
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But that's not his fault. He doesn't need to hear

508
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that at all.

509
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Speaker 4: But he's the only one in earshot. You got to

510
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give it to somebody, So tell somebody you.

511
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Speaker 1: Gotta chunk it down, Yes, chunk it down.

512
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Speaker 3: And also what what can I what can I talk

513
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to with Jamison? What can't I talk to with Jamison?

514
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What can I talk to with some outside help in

515
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my life? Who is that person?

516
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Speaker 1: Who are? Like?

517
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Speaker 3: What friends do I need to surround myself with? What

518
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friends do I need to get away from or spend

519
00:23:00,559 --> 00:23:03,319
less time with? These are just my party friends? It

520
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,880
is what it is. These are my confidants. Like Greg,

521
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Greg is somebody you go to like and really talk

522
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about it.

523
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Speaker 1: I will tell you, Like Greg and Damiens, people will

524
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probably think Damien's more of a party friend. But Damien

525
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has been well we only.

526
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Speaker 4: See the tip of the ice with Damien. We don't

527
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see we don't see the under the under.

528
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Speaker 1: He has been a brother to me. Yeah, like deep

529
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deep deep many years and I and and then and

530
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then I lack because I haven't been over there. I

531
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think pretty much for.

532
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Speaker 3: These sometimes like we give more and sometimes we get more.

533
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, yeah, anyway, Uh, I

534
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thought that was good. All right, here's I'm gonna give

535
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you a choice, choose your own adventure. Uh. For the

536
00:23:40,519 --> 00:23:46,319
next segment, we can either shoot off what Beth said earlier, okay,

537
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or we can ask you because she has.

538
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Speaker 4: Not a concern too.

539
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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, is Billy overwhelmed?

540
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Speaker 6: No?

541
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Speaker 1: That that's okay?

542
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Speaker 4: And I never heard until today, I've never heard that

543
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word come out of your mouth.

544
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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, So it's weird how she just like, well,

545
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there's something I gotta I have a different a different thing.

546
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We can do that, or I can have you put

547
00:24:07,799 --> 00:24:12,599
on another hat, your former a ride sharing hat. Okay,

548
00:24:13,079 --> 00:24:15,000
which one would you like to do? If we can

549
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do both, we'll do both.

550
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Speaker 4: But let's start with overwhelmed.

551
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Speaker 1: You want to do the overwhelmed thing? I will tell

552
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you because this this is going to be an offshoot

553
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completely of that. But why I think maybe she knows.

554
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I'm not sure. All right, we'll get to all that

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Speaker 2: At so H.

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Speaker 4: The early days, I think was Bridge. We had a

582
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bass player named Ken Welling.

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Speaker 3: We never played the Sun, but he would play this

584
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because this is the bass light thereon Aaron Aaron, but

585
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he would do it. He'd take his bass out and

586
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pretend like he was in a porno movie.

587
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Speaker 4: I'd start thrusting his hips with the bass because it

588
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sounds like here it up an adult filled with this song.

589
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Speaker 3: Not that I would know, I've been told, but he

590
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would do that, and I could always picture Kim on.

591
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Speaker 4: Their own, on their own.

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Speaker 1: Twilight zone. So Beth asked you today if I was overwhelmed,

593
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and that the reason I said this is kind of

594
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amazing in a way is uh. I think that there

595
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,519
are certain frequencies that people are are tapped into. And

596
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I know that Beth is more like me in some things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like your beliefs, yes, ideas, yes, yes, yes, yes yes,

598
00:27:28,039 --> 00:27:30,519
because you guys have talked about yes, how hot, Like

599
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when I'm in the room, how could Danny believe blah

600
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blah blah have done that? Yeah, you did that Christmas

601
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party afterwards.

602
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Speaker 4: I don't get it. I was a bunch of gentiles

603
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following this Jewish dude.

604
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Speaker 2: So but here's here's.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

607
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Speaker 1: I got turned onto a podcast called the Telepathy Tapes. Okay, okay,

608
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that's clever. And the Telepathy Tapes are about nonverbal autistic.

609
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Speaker 4: Children, okay, like Doug Flutie sung almost.

610
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Speaker 1: That can't speak and parents have been told they're not

611
00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:09,960
in there and there's nothing that can really happen, and

612
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:15,119
you can't get much right. So my sister told me

613
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about this, and so I listened and I listened to

614
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one episode, and in that episode, it's very it's done

615
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,279
like a documentary. I'm sure there's a film somewhere of this.

616
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I don't even know when this was released. I have

617
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no idea. But what they did was they there's a

618
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Harvard professor who has studied children that are nonverbal, but

619
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they can they have telepathic tendencies.

620
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Speaker 3: Okay, that's the thing about autism, right, Like, well, the

621
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basics are hard, but the difficult stuff is a lot easier.

622
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Speaker 1: Okay, So she says that, so in the first episode,

623
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I'd love to get the woman on who did this

624
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to just talk to or somebody. This stuff fascinates me

625
00:29:02,279 --> 00:29:05,000
and that that's the stuff I'd like to do because

626
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I'm gonna start a supporters club with the podcasts. You right,

627
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,960
if you'd like to this billified will be free. But

628
00:29:15,039 --> 00:29:18,680
I'd like to do other more investigative pieces, like I'd

629
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,039
love to do a home on on will gambling control

630
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the NFL or sports in general? Will they start to

631
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,640
influence the rules and things and just have a sort

632
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,799
of an investigative podcast. Can we get a couple of

633
00:29:29,799 --> 00:29:32,799
people on and if you are a supporter, you would

634
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get access to that. Right as a bonus, you would

635
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get access to that that would wouldn't be free.

636
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Speaker 4: Plus you'll also get my life coaches. Yeah, sign up now. Yeah,

637
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it's like I will come to your house.

638
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Speaker 1: It's like three bucks a month or something. But anyway,

639
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so that's all coming. Yeah.

640
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Speaker 2: But so I'm listening to this and they go.

641
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Speaker 1: They find a family in Mexico who has a daughter

642
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who is non verbal autistic girl who communicates like through

643
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an iPad or something. Okay, And the woman who is

644
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from Harvard and this person doing the documentary, they bring

645
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them up to Los Angeles. She has an interpreter as well,

646
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and they do things like they put mom on the

647
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other side of a barrier and they show her a

648
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number and the kid types out the exact number that

649
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the mom's like met, and she's right every single time

650
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that they do this. And this woman says, yes, I've

651
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done a lot of these studies, the Harvard professor, I've

652
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done a lot of these studies, and I would say

653
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it's more or less ninety five percent accurate that the kid.

654
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Speaker 2: The reason it can't be.

655
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Speaker 1: Justified as a study is that it's the mom and

656
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the daughter. Like the father and the daughter don't have

657
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that connection, but the mom and the daughter do. Well

658
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that somebody you're dependent on, or a teacher or somebody,

659
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do you see what I'm saying.

660
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Speaker 4: Maybe because dad goes to work, so mom's got to watch.

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Speaker 1: The whatever it is, the mom's thoughts can be read

662
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by this girl.

663
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Speaker 4: Okay, right, it's kind of freaking. It could just be coincidental.

664
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Speaker 1: Well, it could be coincidental or in a study it

665
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would be more or less that mom is too connected.

666
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They'd want to bring in a neutral subject who's never

667
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met this girl. Can you read her thoughts. So the

668
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podcast goes on and they find more and more and

669
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more people, and I was up to this one part

670
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in the episode. I think it's episode four or five,

671
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and they go down to Georgia where there is a

672
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or maybe they went to Georgia and New Jersey, whatever

673
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it is. There was a kid who the mother they

674
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were from India, was always told not in there, not

675
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going to happen, and she was about to give up

676
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on the kid, or one of the parents were, and

677
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the kid came and said to the mom, I love you,

678
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and she's like it kind of resparked this thing, well,

679
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this one kid. They do all the tests. They put

680
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the mom in another room. The numbers she's looking at,

681
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he gets it right. The colors, the thing, the this

682
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they do all these different random number generators, math problems

683
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that they give the mom with numbers that she can't

684
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do without a calculator. The kid gets it immediately by

685
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looking at just the problem. They're just showing her the problem,

686
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not the answer, but just the problem, and the kid

687
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is getting it. And the kid says, yes, that's one

688
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of the gifts and that I get with autism. He

689
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can't speak, but he's speaking through an iPad and sometimes

690
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if there's words that aren't on the iPad, he'll spell

691
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it out. And the long and shurely is He says

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that nonverbal speaking children meet every day on the hill

693
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and it's like this proverbial hill, and says, we have

694
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conversations and we talk. You don't need to be in

695
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the same zip code. You don't need anywhere. He's like, look,

696
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he's going to people do it with their iPhones and

697
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,720
their computers. We just do it with our minds. And

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he goes and then they go, are you lying? And

699
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he goes, I couldn't do this if I were a liar.

700
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The gifts don't work. If I lie. The gifts work

701
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because I don't lie. Wow, And he said, everything's wavelength,

702
00:33:13,799 --> 00:33:17,680
it's all it's all there, it's all frequency. It's like

703
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:19,359
people who used to get They even do a thing

704
00:33:19,359 --> 00:33:22,599
with lucio ball, like they used to use certain types

705
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of fillings or temporary fillings in your.

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00:33:25,359 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: Teeth and people you got it.

707
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,519
Speaker 1: There was even an episode I remember as a kid

708
00:33:29,559 --> 00:33:33,160
of Gilligan's Island where they did something and they're getting

709
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:37,680
in Okay, okay, so there you go. So we see

710
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:42,519
all this stuff. Right, So I'm wondering, and I really

711
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,079
I'm going to tell you a weird story. I'm wondering,

712
00:33:46,119 --> 00:33:51,680
like with Beth, if somewhere she thought about me and

713
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:52,599
could feel that.

714
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:54,559
Speaker 4: I think that was part of it.

715
00:33:54,559 --> 00:33:58,079
Speaker 3: Because my wife, right, okay, like she already know who's

716
00:33:58,119 --> 00:33:59,599
gonna play in the super Bowl next year by the way,

717
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,279
she picked the you the Eagle this year or everybody

718
00:34:01,319 --> 00:34:03,880
to understand that, that's how that's how into it she is.

719
00:34:04,359 --> 00:34:06,079
That's why she went to bed in the fourth quarter of.

720
00:34:06,039 --> 00:34:10,199
Speaker 4: The biggest dancey Championship game ever. But no, I'm just joking.

721
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 3: But I think she goes, hey, hu is Bill content

722
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,000
attackted you about the podcast this week? I go no,

723
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:16,159
She goes, well, do you want to reach out to

724
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,639
I go, I don't want to bug him. He's I'm

725
00:34:17,639 --> 00:34:19,559
sure he's got a plan. She goes, he may be

726
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:20,800
overwhelmed you might want to read.

727
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, because I.

728
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,159
Speaker 3: Don't want to bug you. I mean, I know what

729
00:34:24,199 --> 00:34:25,519
you want to do. You'll reach out to me?

730
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,119
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's better when you reach out

731
00:34:28,119 --> 00:34:29,679
because then I don't feel like I'm bugging you.

732
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, well now that we have so let's

733
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,320
communicate that we understand.

734
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: Okay, cool.

735
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,639
Speaker 3: Now I know that, But like she goes, he may

736
00:34:34,679 --> 00:34:38,679
be overwhelmed, and I'm like, holy cow, she yeah, come

737
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,960
to think of it, I mean, you got a lot

738
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:41,519
going on.

739
00:34:41,639 --> 00:34:44,079
Speaker 1: Maybe that's it. I don't know. I just think that

740
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:49,239
there's sometimes if you open your mind and you just

741
00:34:49,599 --> 00:34:55,519
let things go, and if thoughts I I this is

742
00:34:55,519 --> 00:34:58,079
gonna sound crazy stuff to people. I know it. I

743
00:34:58,119 --> 00:35:00,800
know it. I listened to some the other day and

744
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,360
it said close your eyes, and it's like I hands

745
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,639
you a big I slice in half a lemon, and

746
00:35:07,639 --> 00:35:09,079
I hand it to you and you can see it,

747
00:35:09,119 --> 00:35:12,079
and you can see like the juice is starting to

748
00:35:12,159 --> 00:35:15,199
leak out of the skin of it, and the flesh

749
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,320
you all plump and ripe and all this stuff. And

750
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,239
I hand it to you and you take a big

751
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,639
bite of it. Like if you close your eyes, you

752
00:35:22,679 --> 00:35:25,360
can be right there doing all that. And the point

753
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,239
is that if you picture it, you can have it,

754
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,079
you can do it, you can see it, and that

755
00:35:31,199 --> 00:35:35,679
are we tapped into one greater consciousness that anybody can

756
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:40,679
do this telepathy stuff? Or is there what's going on?

757
00:35:41,199 --> 00:35:44,360
How does this work? And in this podcast there's a

758
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,480
kid in Phoenix, I don't know where he is, some

759
00:35:47,559 --> 00:35:51,159
other state and he goes this mother said, I got

760
00:35:51,199 --> 00:35:53,079
a call once from this woman who said to me,

761
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,679
my son, who's nine, is best friends with your son.

762
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,639
They hang out and he gave me your phone number.

763
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,360
Like telepathic. Oh wow, the kid is in another state.

764
00:36:07,679 --> 00:36:11,920
It's it's bizarre. People won't believe it. They shit upon it.

765
00:36:12,039 --> 00:36:14,599
They if you read the comments to the podcast, they

766
00:36:14,639 --> 00:36:18,079
shit all over it. All I'm telling you is no

767
00:36:18,119 --> 00:36:24,440
I understand. But look, Marconi harnessed waves to make radio

768
00:36:24,599 --> 00:36:28,079
right the Transatlantic or maybe Tesla, and then Marconi stole it.

769
00:36:28,119 --> 00:36:29,000
Who knows he.

770
00:36:29,039 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 4: Don't blame me Italian?

771
00:36:31,079 --> 00:36:33,760
Speaker 2: Aren't they both Italian? Is it Tesla?

772
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 4: I think he been so the.

773
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,119
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like there's something there and there's a

774
00:36:41,159 --> 00:36:44,719
thought thing. And if you're on the frequency, if I'm

775
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,079
on one hundred and two point five, I can't hear

776
00:36:47,199 --> 00:36:49,360
what's on ninety seven point eight, you know what I mean? Yeah,

777
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,440
that kind of thing. So where are you on your

778
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,920
frequency and how do you change that? And I'm starting

779
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:58,559
to really think this stuff is real. So I read.

780
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,440
I listened to that one episod the telepathy tapes. And

781
00:37:01,559 --> 00:37:03,480
I have been very open about the fact that I

782
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,360
have been substitute teaching. I was I thought people would

783
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,000
make tremendous fun of me, and I was afraid to

784
00:37:08,039 --> 00:37:10,159
say anything. But I just it's me and I just

785
00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:13,559
go a fuck it. But I have really enjoyed that

786
00:37:13,639 --> 00:37:16,079
more than I thought I would, and it's been good

787
00:37:16,119 --> 00:37:18,599
because it's been able to help me do things with Jamison.

788
00:37:18,679 --> 00:37:23,519
Right that I it's just a lot of on unseen expenses. Right.

789
00:37:23,599 --> 00:37:26,599
The basketball team needs money, and there's this, this is

790
00:37:26,599 --> 00:37:28,079
one hundred dollars and this is three hundred.

791
00:37:28,079 --> 00:37:29,119
Speaker 3: By the way, have you been hit up for like

792
00:37:29,119 --> 00:37:30,559
eighteen fundraisers this past week?

793
00:37:30,599 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: Like I have? No? Just too Okay, well that's the

794
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:33,760
point though, just too.

795
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: Hey, we know Christmas is over and now it's time

796
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:36,880
to spend money again.

797
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:43,079
Speaker 1: Yes, so, uh, what was I going to say here?

798
00:37:43,119 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 4: Frequencies?

799
00:37:44,119 --> 00:37:48,039
Speaker 1: No, I know, frequencies. But oh so I have been

800
00:37:48,159 --> 00:37:55,760
in uh a classroom where they have two non verbal kids. Okay,

801
00:37:56,159 --> 00:37:59,880
I've been in there once in a while, and I like,

802
00:38:00,519 --> 00:38:02,480
some of the kids are verbal and I've talked to them,

803
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:05,719
and some of them not. The nonverbal kids I never

804
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,559
really interact with. I listen to this podcast and I

805
00:38:08,599 --> 00:38:13,159
walk in one day and I'm looking at this one

806
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,280
kid and I go, I wonder if you can read

807
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:22,280
my thoughts? Because in this podcast too, one kid it's

808
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,800
sometimes like if he gets anxious, he's not as telepathic

809
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,519
when his anxiety's up, and when he's in crowded spaces,

810
00:38:31,599 --> 00:38:34,800
apparently he can read everybody's thoughts and sometimes runs into

811
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,400
a room looking for the person for a certain who

812
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:38,800
had a certain thought in their head.

813
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:43,039
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, I know it sounds insane.

814
00:38:43,639 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: So I'm just telling you this. I am looking at

815
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,760
this kid and I go, dude, can you hear me?

816
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,400
Can you? And he's not looking up at me. And

817
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,079
sometimes in this podcast they say the kid doesn't make

818
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:03,480
an eye contact or anything but answering every question. So

819
00:39:04,639 --> 00:39:08,519
I'm looking at him, and he's got his own person

820
00:39:08,679 --> 00:39:12,119
who is with him all day long. This guy is

821
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:17,559
just with this person, this non speaking kid. So the kid,

822
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,760
they go over, they put him in a chair. He's

823
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,920
sitting in a chair, and I keep looking at him,

824
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,920
and his guy goes to lunch, so other people are

825
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:32,079
gonna look at him, look after this kid, and whatever happened,

826
00:39:32,199 --> 00:39:36,519
I don't even know. The kid started like gesturing towards me,

827
00:39:36,559 --> 00:39:38,760
so I went over and he likes to play with straws,

828
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,679
so he's handing me straws, pulling it out, putting it back,

829
00:39:40,679 --> 00:39:44,079
putting it out. And then I don't know what I did,

830
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,000
but I started tapping my leg. He starts tapping his leg.

831
00:39:48,639 --> 00:39:50,840
Then he takes my hand and I'm sitting on this

832
00:39:51,159 --> 00:39:54,679
giant like a giant bean bag, but an overstuffed, big,

833
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,000
big plush thing, and he puts my hand and starts

834
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,400
raising up and down there right, So we start doing that.

835
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:03,920
So we're tapping, tap and tapping. I go, you get

836
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,119
this man, you can feel that rhythm, right, And then

837
00:40:06,159 --> 00:40:07,760
he's tapping on the side of his chair. Then he

838
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,239
puts my hand back on my leg and he goes

839
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:10,800
to his leg and back and forth. This goes on

840
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,639
for a while. Danny. This total went on for probably

841
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,000
forty five minutes. So then I start doing I go,

842
00:40:19,159 --> 00:40:23,039
did you ever hear a horse? So he starts trying

843
00:40:23,039 --> 00:40:25,440
to do that. The next thing I know, the other

844
00:40:25,519 --> 00:40:29,800
nonverbal kid comes over and flops on this overthing behind me,

845
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,719
behind me, and he too has a person who's with

846
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,360
him all day. And that person is there and says,

847
00:40:37,679 --> 00:40:40,719
you know, the kid's name's like, hey, you're gonna go

848
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:42,880
over there and hang out. The next thing I know,

849
00:40:43,159 --> 00:40:46,400
that kid puts his head on my lap, takes my

850
00:40:46,519 --> 00:40:50,280
hand and wants me to start tapping on his ribs. Okay,

851
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,920
I have no idea, but I go, did I tap

852
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,840
into a frequency that these guys were on? Is this

853
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,159
stuff real? I couldn't read their Maybe they could read mind.

854
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,000
I have no idea. That's not the but you know,

855
00:41:05,079 --> 00:41:07,480
like some of these parents will say, I feel very

856
00:41:07,679 --> 00:41:11,119
like exposed to find out that my kid could always

857
00:41:11,119 --> 00:41:13,840
read my thoughts like this. One woman is a single mom.

858
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:21,440
She married some big jock, abusive, abusive, right, and the

859
00:41:21,559 --> 00:41:24,239
kid said to her, and she was the one who's

860
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:25,800
saying I was going to give up in any city.

861
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:29,000
Love me that he's saying to her, and he's communicating.

862
00:41:29,039 --> 00:41:33,039
He goes, I knew what was happening, and I couldn't

863
00:41:33,079 --> 00:41:35,480
say anything because I didn't know how to express it.

864
00:41:35,519 --> 00:41:38,480
I could never tell and he said, there's more and

865
00:41:38,679 --> 00:41:44,119
other people who were abused by that guy than yeah, yeah,

866
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:45,880
probably his dad.

867
00:41:47,039 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 2: Right, it's crazy.

868
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: But my point is when you said that about Beth,

869
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,480
I go, I just wonder sometimes, because how many times

870
00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:58,320
have we, all of us thought of somebody and the

871
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,840
phone rings and it's that person, or thought of somebody,

872
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,400
gone to our email and there's an email from that

873
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:10,159
person or something something you think of any coincident, Okay,

874
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,159
So I just wonder if there is this thing, and

875
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,400
how do we figure it out? And how cool would

876
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,800
that be? How much easier is life? Do we just

877
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:21,440
make it too fucking hard? Well, we're down here overwhelmed, right,

878
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:25,320
getting ourselves all stressed, all fucked up, and you and

879
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,320
you're not able. You're not able to do anything when

880
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,639
you're overwhelmed, you're not able to do anything. You're like

881
00:42:30,679 --> 00:42:34,239
a one legged duck on you're just in a certain.

882
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 2: Everything.

883
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: And I go, boy, this and the Tough Telepathy. It's

884
00:42:40,039 --> 00:42:44,239
a fantastic, so well done podcast, but really in a

885
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:48,719
very academic fashion, right, And they explain and she says,

886
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:54,039
I how the camera guy is really a non believer,

887
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:58,480
and she then interviews him after seeing a couple of

888
00:42:58,519 --> 00:43:00,159
things he goes, I wouldn't believe it if i'd and

889
00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:01,159
see it with my own eyes.

890
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,039
Speaker 2: He's a skeptic more or right.

891
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 3: When I was growing up in church in Sunday School,

892
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,320
we had a teacher named misus Land. She would teach

893
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,960
us she goes, look, she goes with allably gifts you have,

894
00:43:10,639 --> 00:43:13,760
there's gifts you don't that other people have. And there

895
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,599
are a lot of people you know whom may be

896
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,880
less fortunate. Like if you look at somebody who's blind,

897
00:43:20,199 --> 00:43:22,639
their hearing is amazing. You ever notice that, right, So

898
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,599
God like compensates for what they don't have with other aspects,

899
00:43:27,159 --> 00:43:29,559
and you have to wonder if that's his way of Like,

900
00:43:29,599 --> 00:43:31,360
now you never want to trade places with them?

901
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 4: But the same I'm serious, let's be honest. I mean,

902
00:43:34,159 --> 00:43:35,079
do you want to trade places?

903
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,599
Speaker 1: I don't know because this is my only normal.

904
00:43:37,639 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 3: Right right, But I would say, maybe they'd want to

905
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:41,679
trade places with you.

906
00:43:41,599 --> 00:43:44,679
Speaker 1: For your normals. Okay, But here here's what I would

907
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,880
Here's what I think that I've come to think and believe.

908
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:55,679
I believe creation never gets it wrong no matter what. Okay,

909
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,360
creation never gets it wrong. So if there's God, no

910
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,400
make mistakes. Do you see what I'm saying. Yeah, okay,

911
00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:03,599
So if we believe call God, if God made everything

912
00:44:03,639 --> 00:44:06,880
and that it never gets it wrong, so then there's

913
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:10,519
a reason why. What is the reason why? And sometimes

914
00:44:10,559 --> 00:44:16,000
I think it's because you know, certain people, depending on

915
00:44:16,039 --> 00:44:19,719
where they are on the spectrum, can show you unconditional love,

916
00:44:20,599 --> 00:44:25,679
completely unconditional love, which I think is a very hard

917
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:29,039
thing for human beings, because I would feel better if

918
00:44:29,079 --> 00:44:30,440
you just that's.

919
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:35,639
Speaker 3: Conditional, yes, right, I'll forgive you if you just that's conditions, conditional, right.

920
00:44:35,519 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: And I think that that's the stuff. So I don't know,

921
00:44:38,039 --> 00:44:40,559
I can't explain it. I agree with you, I like

922
00:44:40,679 --> 00:44:45,280
my right. But one of these kids said, I didn't

923
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,519
even realize I had a body until my mom started

924
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:50,480
making me touch my fingers and hands.

925
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 4: On Helen keller story, I don't know.

926
00:44:52,559 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't that I don't know.

927
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 3: I need to read about her, but because like her,

928
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,480
her story has got to be the most fascinating story.

929
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,159
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, yes, and I'm sure she too.

930
00:45:01,559 --> 00:45:04,719
But they can read, right, they can read thoughts. First

931
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,320
of all, if somebody could read your thoughts, that's pretty scary.

932
00:45:08,679 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 4: Especially when you have forget jerking off. Are you are

933
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:18,039
you looking at booth? Are you thinking about booby like.

934
00:45:18,159 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 1: Or or like you're you're in the grocery store and

935
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,239
then somebody walks by and you go nice, rack in

936
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,880
your head, in your head every time, and not every

937
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,719
time you say no, no, having somebody remind like know

938
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:30,559
that you're thinking.

939
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 4: That, like every time that I'm thinking about it every time.

940
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,599
Speaker 2: No trying to justify that.

941
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like, yeah, wouldn't that be weird? It

942
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:42,079
would be very strange. I don't know. I don't think

943
00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:45,079
this stuff is made up. I think these people are

944
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:48,159
being very honest. And I have to listen to more

945
00:45:48,159 --> 00:45:50,039
of it. But it's called the Telepathy Tapes for anybody

946
00:45:50,039 --> 00:45:54,159
who wants to check out a really well done academia podcast. Actually,

947
00:45:54,159 --> 00:45:56,000
I've had a listener or to reach out about it

948
00:45:56,039 --> 00:45:57,079
as well. And now they think about it.

949
00:45:57,119 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 4: Let's say Alzheimer's.

950
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 3: Are Parkinson's patients remember music, either playing it or singing it?

951
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:07,280
Yeah Alzheimer Yeah, like like they remember the lyrics to songs.

952
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,599
Like music is one way they could tap into people,

953
00:46:11,039 --> 00:46:13,159
because like it's a different neural pathway.

954
00:46:14,159 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 4: It's it's fascinating if we could tap into it. Like

955
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,360
my my nephew.

956
00:46:18,039 --> 00:46:21,679
Speaker 3: They thought they would bring him a strong he's got autism.

957
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:25,159
My sister eventually moves him to Tucson, Arizona, which has

958
00:46:25,199 --> 00:46:27,519
been made fun of for being the dumbest city in America.

959
00:46:28,159 --> 00:46:31,440
She goes out west with her whole upwards, her whole

960
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,639
family out there, and then got to the root of it.

961
00:46:33,639 --> 00:46:36,480
It wasn't autism. It's something that looks like autism, but

962
00:46:36,519 --> 00:46:38,519
it's not autism. They found out it was a form

963
00:46:38,559 --> 00:46:41,199
of pans right around the time we were having these

964
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,519
issues here like in Laura, that whole situation, and but

965
00:46:44,559 --> 00:46:47,440
they needed a different diagnosis to figure out so how

966
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,119
they can make my nephew a better you know, like.

967
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 2: Well more adapted to life.

968
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,599
Speaker 1: Yes, you wanted your kid to be functioning, right, that's

969
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,920
the whole thinget knowing that they were.

970
00:46:57,159 --> 00:46:59,159
Speaker 3: So when that happened, all of a sudden, all these

971
00:46:59,159 --> 00:47:02,320
people are reaching out to my sister and she's trying

972
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,000
to help everybody, and then it became overwhelming and then

973
00:47:05,039 --> 00:47:07,400
she had to stop because I got my own son

974
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,360
to worry about too. But they were onto stuff like this,

975
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,679
you know, So It's fascinating how you know you can't

976
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,199
just like one size fits all the situation. I think

977
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,400
there's many different forms of this. And however, you could

978
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,119
help your kid tap into it.

979
00:47:21,159 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: Isn't that weird though? Yeah?

980
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,119
Speaker 4: But I think some people like I remember.

981
00:47:24,119 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 2: I want to see if I could tap into it.

982
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:26,079
Speaker 4: Well, well, here's the thing.

983
00:47:26,159 --> 00:47:28,199
Speaker 1: Yes to say, we can't, but what are you right there?

984
00:47:29,199 --> 00:47:30,679
Speaker 2: I mean it's right there.

985
00:47:30,519 --> 00:47:32,519
Speaker 3: Theoretically, but you gotta be careful though, because then you

986
00:47:32,559 --> 00:47:36,519
cannot allow it to over like like those those cosplays,

987
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,159
that cosplay, the cold play type of people take advantage

988
00:47:39,199 --> 00:47:39,840
of people.

989
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,679
Speaker 4: And I'll use your mind for fifty dollars an hour.

990
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:42,719
To me, that's like that.

991
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,679
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, that's I just want to

992
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,719
be able to do it yourself. I just want to

993
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,159
be able to Here's the thing I would love. My

994
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,119
favorite phrase is ease and flow. I like ease and

995
00:47:54,159 --> 00:47:56,039
flow in my life and I would like to be

996
00:47:56,079 --> 00:47:58,800
able to, like be able to just ease and flow.

997
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:03,159
Speaker 4: Get out of here, just ease and flow.

998
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,519
Speaker 1: And I think sometimes if you were able to almost

999
00:48:05,559 --> 00:48:10,199
communicate telepathically, here's my thing. Is is it telepathic or

1000
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:14,000
is it everything that the weirdos have been telling us

1001
00:48:14,159 --> 00:48:20,079
since time began. We're all one. We're all one. There's

1002
00:48:20,119 --> 00:48:22,800
one consciousness. God is in you. You are of God.

1003
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,960
Of that, you are of that and that can you

1004
00:48:27,039 --> 00:48:30,719
tap into that pure positive light and it's all right here.

1005
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,719
Everything you want is right there. It's all right there.

1006
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,119
But what we do is we mix it up and

1007
00:48:36,119 --> 00:48:38,320
we come down here. And that's what you wanted to do.

1008
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,480
You want to mix it up, and you know there's

1009
00:48:40,599 --> 00:48:42,519
the things you don't want. You know what you do want.

1010
00:48:42,559 --> 00:48:46,400
But we get so sometimes bogged down that we forget

1011
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,320
that we have this ability because we are of that.

1012
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:50,559
So why not.

1013
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:52,119
Speaker 4: Life is a series of trade offs?

1014
00:48:52,199 --> 00:48:55,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I mean think about all the chemicals

1015
00:48:55,119 --> 00:48:56,480
that are in our food which lead to a lot

1016
00:48:56,519 --> 00:48:58,079
of these issues. Sure, but at the same time, do

1017
00:48:58,119 --> 00:48:59,599
you really want to give up that ice cream? Well,

1018
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,119
give up that steak? Do you really want to give

1019
00:49:02,199 --> 00:49:03,920
up the A one sauce? Do you really want to

1020
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,599
give up the beef turkey? Do you really want to

1021
00:49:05,599 --> 00:49:06,719
give up the coca cola?

1022
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: Yes?

1023
00:49:07,559 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 3: Because if you can, great, but if you can't, you

1024
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:12,440
want to enjoy your life now? Okay, but it might

1025
00:49:12,519 --> 00:49:15,679
be shorter there's life is nothing but a series of

1026
00:49:15,679 --> 00:49:17,760
trade offs, and that includes our DNA too.

1027
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:23,199
Speaker 1: But I yeah, I would think, yeah, I guess there's

1028
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,079
a series of trade offs. I sometimes wonder if it's

1029
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,000
more like if you believe it, it's gonna happen type thing.

1030
00:49:30,199 --> 00:49:31,239
Oh this is bad for Mell.

1031
00:49:31,559 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 3: The Bible says the root of all problems is unbelief.

1032
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,960
Think about that. Yes, the root of now I believe

1033
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,119
that is belief in Christ. But the point is, the

1034
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,800
root of all problems is unbelief.

1035
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,119
Speaker 4: Think about that. Think about believing.

1036
00:49:46,199 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: You could get very very deep in this week. We could.

1037
00:49:48,519 --> 00:49:49,639
Speaker 4: But that's why you got me here.

1038
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 1: That's why I like to do the Bill Lightman podcast.

1039
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,920
But here's the thing.

1040
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 3: I had a friend named Bill Moran who once told

1041
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,280
me this, and it's with me ever since that day.

1042
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,800
We're talking about a friend of ours, or of a

1043
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,400
friend of yours, Elvio Fernandez.

1044
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,199
Speaker 4: He always wanted to be a rock star. That was

1045
00:50:09,199 --> 00:50:10,679
his passion and he found a.

1046
00:50:10,639 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: Way to do it.

1047
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,199
Speaker 3: He is now on tour now I think fifteen years

1048
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,880
with Daughtry, Chris Daughtry, and you said he.

1049
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 4: Wanted to be If you want to do something.

1050
00:50:20,039 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 3: You will you at least make the effort, and if

1051
00:50:22,519 --> 00:50:24,079
you don't, you'll find an excuse.

1052
00:50:24,119 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 4: And then you parlayed it into a reason why the.

1053
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,039
Speaker 3: Station was screwing us, which was also true because they

1054
00:50:29,079 --> 00:50:29,840
didn't want to help us.

1055
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 4: But the point is, though, is that, and.

1056
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 3: I say this, I go, if you want to do something,

1057
00:50:34,159 --> 00:50:35,880
you will make the effort at the very leg Like

1058
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,320
I want to be a Major League baseball player, I

1059
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,039
could have practiced by you know what, off it never

1060
00:50:39,039 --> 00:50:41,880
would have happened. I couldn't even make my varsity team. Okay,

1061
00:50:42,159 --> 00:50:44,519
in a Class D school in Section six. You don't

1062
00:50:44,559 --> 00:50:48,599
get any worse than that. Okay, I didn't qualify as

1063
00:50:48,599 --> 00:50:51,639
an athlete, okay. But the point is always.

1064
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 4: I wanted to. I tried.

1065
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,559
Speaker 3: If you want to do something, you will make the effort.

1066
00:50:55,559 --> 00:50:57,800
You will research it, you will figure out a way

1067
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:59,039
to do it. If you don't do it, at least

1068
00:50:59,079 --> 00:50:59,440
you tried.

1069
00:50:59,639 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 4: And if you really don't want to do it, yeah,

1070
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:02,440
you'll find an excuse.

1071
00:51:02,599 --> 00:51:04,280
Speaker 1: Well, you'll find an excuse. But I think a lot

1072
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,519
of times too as we make it too hard. And

1073
00:51:07,559 --> 00:51:11,400
that's why I always say things like, don't share those

1074
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,559
ideas until they're underway. And the reason I say that

1075
00:51:16,679 --> 00:51:18,920
is because people put doubt in your head. It's too hard,

1076
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,559
it's out of reach. A guy like you can't be

1077
00:51:20,599 --> 00:51:22,880
a baseball player, Dan, Look at you. You're not an athletic.

1078
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,199
But if you didn't believe that, if you didn't think that,

1079
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,199
and you actually sat in your mind and pictured yourself

1080
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,639
doing whatever, I wonder if it would have happened. I

1081
00:51:31,679 --> 00:51:35,559
don't know. I can't. I can't say you're right. We

1082
00:51:35,599 --> 00:51:38,320
can talk about gifts and athletic ability and all that stuff,

1083
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:44,400
and you plod and you don't run. And run anyway.

1084
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,320
It's got a way deeper than you.

1085
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:48,199
Speaker 4: Can hear me coming down the street like Jackson Moran.

1086
00:51:49,119 --> 00:51:50,599
Speaker 1: Jackson's got big heavy feet.

1087
00:51:50,639 --> 00:51:54,599
Speaker 3: When I live down the street from horses Jackson moan

1088
00:51:55,039 --> 00:51:55,760
like a marathon.

1089
00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, down Harvard Street. All right, we'll take a moment.

1090
00:52:00,559 --> 00:52:04,000
I want you to put on your ride sharing hat sharing.

1091
00:52:04,159 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 4: Yes, my Doug phelps, My interfhelps.

1092
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: Okay, put on your interfhelps. We will get to that.

1093
00:52:09,119 --> 00:52:11,719
Sorry to get a little deep on your bus. There's

1094
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,440
a greater consciousness out there and you.

1095
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,280
Speaker 2: Can tap into it. Somebody to it.

1096
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,199
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Speaker 7: Most woke up this long until somebody in a video

1131
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:40,159
talking about something I posted in a video. If it

1132
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,000
wasn't meeting, would you even get offended? Or is it

1133
00:54:43,119 --> 00:54:45,360
just because I'm black and heavy? Y'all on your meato,

1134
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,719
I've been the same since I've been dropping slow on

1135
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,599
visiting that. Call up anybody I know and they will

1136
00:54:50,679 --> 00:54:52,480
tell you that famous pretty new bit.

1137
00:54:52,559 --> 00:54:54,039
Speaker 2: I've been used to people judging me.

1138
00:54:54,119 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 7: That's why I moved the way I'm move And while

1139
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,639
I'm so in love with me, you still feeling.

1140
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,519
Speaker 2: Yeah in business?

1141
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 4: Is that a semi glue tie?

1142
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've always wondered. I I I think

1143
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:28,079
this song is empowering. I think it's it's it's great.

1144
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:34,079
I'm not sure with things like the story I'm about

1145
00:55:34,599 --> 00:55:36,320
to bring up to you and present to you. You

1146
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,480
may have heard about it already. I don't know. It's

1147
00:55:38,519 --> 00:55:42,599
been everywhere. But I said something to my son and

1148
00:55:42,639 --> 00:55:44,800
he said, I hope you're not going to shame people,

1149
00:55:45,639 --> 00:55:48,719
and he meant it, and I thought, no, I'm not.

1150
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,079
That wasn't the angle I was going to go with.

1151
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,639
But I sometimes wonder do we And I'm gonna ask it.

1152
00:55:58,199 --> 00:56:02,320
I'll ask the question. Maybe it's toorical more or less

1153
00:56:02,559 --> 00:56:06,840
one to just chew on, But do we harm people

1154
00:56:07,039 --> 00:56:11,119
by by telling them there we're accepting them the way

1155
00:56:11,119 --> 00:56:14,480
they are, not fat shaming. I'm not saying that we

1156
00:56:14,519 --> 00:56:17,320
should be making people feel like shit. That that's not right.

1157
00:56:17,599 --> 00:56:20,519
I got that, and I get you know, like I

1158
00:56:20,559 --> 00:56:23,239
love busting balls and I probably made tons. I know,

1159
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,360
I did make tons of fat jokes. Lauria cal Fonso was,

1160
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,119
you know, and she wasn't even fat, But so there

1161
00:56:29,199 --> 00:56:31,920
was all that stuff as a kid, and kids can

1162
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,920
be very mean and cruel and all that stuff. But

1163
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,440
sometimes when we're it's all this body acceptance and all

1164
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:41,760
this shit. Are we are we perpetuating a bigger problem?

1165
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:46,000
Are we not helping people lead better, healthier lives? And

1166
00:56:46,039 --> 00:56:49,440
I'm not even saying live longer. I'm just saying, think clearer,

1167
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,400
feel better, less sugar. Let's get you off that stuff.

1168
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:57,559
Let's find should we be should instead of body acceptance?

1169
00:56:57,599 --> 00:57:00,559
Should we be trying to you know, the in food

1170
00:57:00,559 --> 00:57:03,880
deserts for example, where you can't really get any nutritious food,

1171
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:05,960
but you can get pork rines in a bottle of

1172
00:57:06,079 --> 00:57:10,440
whatever soda you want? Yes, right, do you know? I mean,

1173
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:12,480
should we be trying to push in there with some

1174
00:57:12,599 --> 00:57:16,000
organic food and things like that. You can't control people

1175
00:57:16,039 --> 00:57:18,480
to that level, that's not that's right, But should we

1176
00:57:18,599 --> 00:57:22,159
allow more options? Is my point? So that way, if

1177
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:23,800
one day I wake up and go, I don't want

1178
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:25,719
to be in this body, and I have the control

1179
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,519
to fix that, and I can find all the help

1180
00:57:28,519 --> 00:57:31,239
in the world on YouTube and different things. Now. I

1181
00:57:31,239 --> 00:57:33,639
don't know, but sometimes I wonder if we perpetuate a

1182
00:57:33,679 --> 00:57:36,719
problem by that. And I'm not saying you should shame people,

1183
00:57:36,719 --> 00:57:39,360
but we could also Like when your doctor says to

1184
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,199
you you're a little beasts, you kind of get a

1185
00:57:42,239 --> 00:57:46,840
little like, oh right, there's nothing wrong with that. There

1186
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,000
isn't okay, because honestly every one of us and I

1187
00:57:51,039 --> 00:57:53,800
have said it here, when you do hard things, you

1188
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:57,719
start to feel better because you're accomplished something and you're like, damn,

1189
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,239
it sucked and went up and down and I what's

1190
00:58:00,239 --> 00:58:02,119
gonna quit? And I didn't and I didn't. Here I

1191
00:58:02,159 --> 00:58:04,239
am and now you can push yourself further and push

1192
00:58:04,239 --> 00:58:06,920
yourself further, and that's the real self esteem. I believe

1193
00:58:07,239 --> 00:58:10,800
that everybody's searching for and trying to build, especially in kids.

1194
00:58:12,159 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 3: I think that we have let feelings dictate facts in

1195
00:58:15,519 --> 00:58:18,480
the last last ten years instead of living facts dictate feelings.

1196
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 4: I mean weight watchers.

1197
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 3: They don't even call it weight watchers anymore now, it's

1198
00:58:22,039 --> 00:58:25,360
WW Why because we don't want to admit we're fat,

1199
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:26,000
even though.

1200
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 4: We go there to lose weight.

1201
00:58:28,559 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem it's my body. And I

1202
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:37,280
think that shame, a little bit of shame is like

1203
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,599
a vaccination right now. They put a little bit of

1204
00:58:39,639 --> 00:58:40,960
the flu in the flu shot. You know how they

1205
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,000
put a little bit of the disease in polio in

1206
00:58:43,039 --> 00:58:45,760
the polar shot. It's to help you not get polio.

1207
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,480
Did not get the flu? And I think a little

1208
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,599
bit like, man, this room is a mess. What are

1209
00:58:50,599 --> 00:58:53,280
you a freaking pigh? Your parents will tell you that,

1210
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,440
why do you want to act like a pig? I

1211
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,000
think we need to be better sales people to each other,

1212
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:00,719
and a doctor should be like, well, how long do

1213
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:01,320
you want to live?

1214
00:59:02,199 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: Do you want?

1215
00:59:02,559 --> 00:59:03,599
Speaker 4: Do you want to live past forty?

1216
00:59:03,679 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1217
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 3: I do, Well, then you got to lose some weight, right.

1218
00:59:06,199 --> 00:59:08,480
Oh when you put it that way, I know, yeah,

1219
00:59:08,559 --> 00:59:09,719
then maybe I should.

1220
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,039
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is like, we shouldn't be a

1221
00:59:12,039 --> 00:59:12,920
shithead to people.

1222
00:59:13,079 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 2: No, No, there's a way to do it.

1223
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: And we should mind our own business. And when we

1224
00:59:18,039 --> 00:59:20,199
see a fat person, and I have said for years

1225
00:59:20,239 --> 00:59:24,239
that I can be in a grocery store and see

1226
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:28,639
a woman in yoga pants or what do they call now, leggings,

1227
00:59:28,679 --> 00:59:32,039
whatever they are, and you can see like the woman

1228
00:59:32,039 --> 00:59:34,639
that really works out, takes care of her body. You know,

1229
00:59:34,719 --> 00:59:37,079
her ass. You can bounce a quarter up whatever, that's

1230
00:59:37,079 --> 00:59:40,239
not the ass. I'm going to stare at. Stare at

1231
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:46,039
the big ass where I can actually see the craters

1232
00:59:46,159 --> 00:59:49,559
in your fat right, and I the moon, the moon,

1233
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,119
and I look at it and I picture all these

1234
00:59:53,119 --> 00:59:56,559
things happening with this ass, and I picture the sounds

1235
00:59:56,559 --> 00:59:58,320
that come up. That's what goes on.

1236
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 3: That's why I know what people my thoughts a Chris

1237
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,639
Rock bit with the breaking break up, bread and her shoes.

1238
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: But I mean, I look at that and I'm I'm, I'm,

1239
01:00:07,159 --> 01:00:08,559
I can't stop staring at it.

1240
01:00:08,599 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 2: I go, that's amazing, you know.

1241
01:00:10,599 --> 01:00:12,519
Speaker 1: And then there are times where I'm like, and I

1242
01:00:12,559 --> 01:00:14,679
love that the person and I say this, I do

1243
01:00:14,719 --> 01:00:17,159
think this in my head. If someone can read my thoughts,

1244
01:00:17,639 --> 01:00:21,239
I think, I go, man, that's some confidences you can't

1245
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,480
teach to be able to.

1246
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 2: Walk out in those clothes.

1247
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,079
Speaker 1: Because there's so many people are ashamed of being overweight

1248
01:00:27,159 --> 01:00:29,599
or whatever. If you're happy with that, that that's fine,

1249
01:00:29,639 --> 01:00:32,199
and that's the big thing. But here's the story Dan

1250
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:34,639
that I I don't know if you're familiar with this

1251
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:40,239
or not. But a woman ordered a lift. It's she

1252
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,000
ordered lyft to come and pick her up. Do you

1253
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,559
know this story? I think I'm familiar with it and

1254
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:48,119
this is what this is her When the driver told

1255
01:00:48,119 --> 01:00:51,760
her she can't fit in his car, she started filming.

1256
01:00:52,159 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 4: What what?

1257
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: What? Just?

1258
01:00:57,239 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1259
01:00:57,480 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 4: I got most cases. My car is small. I can

1260
01:01:01,039 --> 01:01:01,840
fit in this car.

1261
01:01:02,119 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 6: Don't believe me? If yes, I hid believe it.

1262
01:01:05,639 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry? What whatever? Doot my leaving Well, I'm

1263
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:11,719
gonna hurt you. You're not gonna be.

1264
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,559
Speaker 4: Part so you suddenly I can't.

1265
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm getting to live because I can't fit in your car.

1266
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you called her a beer fuk? What makes you

1267
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:20,920
think I can't fit in a car?

1268
01:01:22,199 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1269
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 3: I'm short.

1270
01:01:23,519 --> 01:01:25,639
Speaker 4: What makes you think I can't hit in this car? Goes?

1271
01:01:25,679 --> 01:01:28,159
The car is holding up? To believe my best friend?

1272
01:01:28,559 --> 01:01:31,039
Speaker 1: Now hang on a second, okay, good to pause. Uh,

1273
01:01:31,199 --> 01:01:33,360
listen to what the guy says, because she says, my

1274
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,280
best friend has a car like this. Listen to what

1275
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,840
the lift driver says after this.

1276
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 4: The is that's not what it is that I can pay.

1277
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:41,159
That's the same time.

1278
01:01:43,239 --> 01:01:47,039
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm short, I say, so, are you really.

1279
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 6: Telling me I'm still visitting your car, so I gotta

1280
01:01:51,599 --> 01:01:57,039
order another list to be more and more specific with you.

1281
01:01:57,199 --> 01:01:59,039
I got very tired to tire.

1282
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 2: I have, I got very tired tires.

1283
01:02:03,639 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 1: Is that what he said?

1284
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:05,199
Speaker 2: I have?

1285
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: Only I heard him say something about the tires when

1286
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:09,840
I loaded into our machine.

1287
01:02:09,519 --> 01:02:11,440
Speaker 4: When I got out to Hill's got five ton limit.

1288
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 1: I have not listened to anybody talk about this. I'm

1289
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,440
assuming everybody who has a microphone in front of them

1290
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:19,199
have talked about it.

1291
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:20,199
Speaker 2: I have listened enough.

1292
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:25,199
Speaker 4: Sure this was in the complete sheet. What I'm going

1293
01:02:25,199 --> 01:02:28,880
to do with the tires? Yeah, you have no space?

1294
01:02:30,159 --> 01:02:30,639
Speaker 7: No face?

1295
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got no space in the bat How do

1296
01:02:33,239 --> 01:02:37,360
you not I don't have no face because I've tried.

1297
01:02:39,719 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 6: So.

1298
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,559
Speaker 1: This woman is now suing Lyft for not giving her

1299
01:02:42,599 --> 01:02:46,559
a ride. Apparently she's five hundred pounds. I would put

1300
01:02:46,559 --> 01:02:48,639
a picture up, but I didn't. I didn't get one

1301
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:54,960
fast enough. Her name is Diesua bl Blanding Doesua Blanding.

1302
01:02:55,199 --> 01:02:59,559
She lives in Detroit. She is a rapper and her

1303
01:03:00,239 --> 01:03:05,039
stage name is Dank Demos Dank demos, d e m

1304
01:03:05,079 --> 01:03:10,400
oss demos. I guess okay, demos demos demos, dank demos

1305
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:11,480
dank demos.

1306
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:12,119
Speaker 3: Uh.

1307
01:03:12,639 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she's suing that this happened on January eighteenth.

1308
01:03:16,559 --> 01:03:20,199
She put the incident on Instagram and it went everywhere.

1309
01:03:20,239 --> 01:03:24,760
The driver was in a Mercedes, he stated, he uh oh.

1310
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,639
The driver operating Mercedes said he has stated experienced a

1311
01:03:27,639 --> 01:03:30,239
similar situation. He also expressed concern about the cars tires

1312
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,199
being unable to support her weight. That was what I

1313
01:03:33,239 --> 01:03:33,719
would have done.

1314
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,559
Speaker 3: I was immediately called lift operators and be like, hey,

1315
01:03:36,639 --> 01:03:39,320
let we have a situation here. Can you call another

1316
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,719
lift for this because she's not gonna fit mine? Can

1317
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,320
you excuse me once I had to make a phone

1318
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,840
call for That's how I would try to hard it.

1319
01:03:46,039 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 4: Okay, So so that way you have documentation of this incident.

1320
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: Here's the here's the question. Okay that I I and

1321
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:52,360
I'm serious about this.

1322
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:54,199
Speaker 4: If you.

1323
01:03:57,079 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 1: If you weigh five hundred pounds, do you have an

1324
01:04:01,119 --> 01:04:09,400
obligation to say to like if you're ride share or

1325
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:13,639
if you're uber eating and you're ordering a bunch of

1326
01:04:13,679 --> 01:04:16,239
stuff and you go, listen, man, this is going to

1327
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,119
be a big order. I hope you're carking it. No,

1328
01:04:18,519 --> 01:04:21,519
I'm saying, but do you have an obligation to say, hey,

1329
01:04:21,519 --> 01:04:24,159
I'm I'm a big person. Like take away the weight.

1330
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:27,400
Let's take away the weight. Let's say that the person

1331
01:04:27,679 --> 01:04:31,199
is Jackson, he's six eight, Jackson doesn't fit comfortably in

1332
01:04:31,239 --> 01:04:35,679
certain cars. Should Jackson say so? Should Jackson say, Hey,

1333
01:04:35,719 --> 01:04:42,119
I'm six foot eight and I'm also I'm not skinny.

1334
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm a big guy.

1335
01:04:44,079 --> 01:04:47,679
Speaker 1: But I don't know, like because sometimes if we go

1336
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,440
for the cheaper Uber, it's going to be a smaller

1337
01:04:50,519 --> 01:04:53,079
Uber you can get or I'm talking to Uber. I

1338
01:04:53,119 --> 01:04:55,960
don't know what lyft does, but just my experience with

1339
01:04:56,079 --> 01:04:57,880
Uber is you can get like Uber XL.

1340
01:04:58,239 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's they'll send you options depending on how big

1341
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:04,000
your party is. Most people like if if you have

1342
01:05:04,079 --> 01:05:05,760
like five people in your party, a car is not

1343
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,440
gonna work. You need the van. It's gonna cost you more,

1344
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,880
but you understand that going in. But when you're one

1345
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,719
person on the prize of like.

1346
01:05:13,239 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: Two or three, yeah, I mean, let's see, it'll be

1347
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,480
like like that'll be like three me. If she's five

1348
01:05:19,599 --> 01:05:22,599
hundred pounds and let's say four of me. What is

1349
01:05:22,639 --> 01:05:25,440
the average woman let's say other women, what is it?

1350
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,599
What is an average It would be one hundred and

1351
01:05:27,599 --> 01:05:33,519
forty pounds. Okay, so average average.

1352
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 2: Above and below.

1353
01:05:34,119 --> 01:05:36,519
Speaker 1: Would you say, so that's one hour at two eighty

1354
01:05:36,639 --> 01:05:38,840
for two yeah, and then we had another we're at

1355
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:42,679
three twenty. Yeah, that's three all right, never mind, get there.

1356
01:05:43,079 --> 01:05:45,719
Point is is that, but is this guy being a dick?

1357
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,039
Does he does? No?

1358
01:05:47,119 --> 01:05:49,039
Speaker 4: I mean I've had to deal with people say.

1359
01:05:49,159 --> 01:05:51,199
Speaker 1: You know what, Yeah, get in there and let's see

1360
01:05:51,199 --> 01:05:51,719
what happens.

1361
01:05:52,039 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 3: Probably, yeah, I mean like he's he's not wrong. I

1362
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:57,920
mean I've actually had to tell people.

1363
01:05:57,960 --> 01:05:59,079
Speaker 4: You have the right to tell people.

1364
01:05:59,159 --> 01:05:59,239
Speaker 1: No.

1365
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 3: The worst that can happen is that they give you

1366
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:03,920
a bad grade on Lyft and then Lift will then

1367
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,119
turn your app off. You call Lyft and they'll straighten

1368
01:06:06,159 --> 01:06:07,760
it out and they'll turn your app back on. Okay,

1369
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,039
Because I had somebody once accused me of drinking ten

1370
01:06:10,079 --> 01:06:11,199
o'clock on a Friday morning.

1371
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 4: What it was? It was the woman who I.

1372
01:06:13,039 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 3: Picked up, who's all dialed up at ten o'clock on

1373
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:16,079
a Friday morning.

1374
01:06:16,079 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 2: Well, what was she doing?

1375
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,519
Speaker 4: She was out Thursday night partying.

1376
01:06:18,639 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she reeked of booze and then accused me

1377
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:23,039
of it, which wasn't true.

1378
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 4: She was so drunk, yes, that I was drugg right.

1379
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 3: There's another time where I picked up a gentleman of

1380
01:06:30,559 --> 01:06:33,679
billy' This is no joke. I was driving a Nissan

1381
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,679
Center at the time, and those aren't big vehicles, and

1382
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:38,400
I had to pick up a guy in an apartment

1383
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:39,440
complex in Greece.

1384
01:06:39,719 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 4: Where do you want to go? He just wanted to

1385
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,719
go around the corner and get beer at a corner store.

1386
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,400
He could have walked there. The problem was he was

1387
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:46,559
five hundred pounds.

1388
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,239
Speaker 3: He got in the passenger's seat, he couldn't get the

1389
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,639
seat belt on. The guy stunk. He couldn't fit the

1390
01:06:52,639 --> 01:06:55,639
seatbelt on. So I'm driving him over to this corner

1391
01:06:55,679 --> 01:06:58,199
store where a normal person could have just walked. It

1392
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:02,320
was about a four hundred yard drive altogether, okay, but

1393
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:03,079
he couldn't walk.

1394
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:05,039
Speaker 4: He needed the golf cart is what he needed. He

1395
01:07:05,039 --> 01:07:07,960
could probably fit one of those. So he's struggling. I'm

1396
01:07:08,039 --> 01:07:10,519
driving over there with a ding ding ding ding ding

1397
01:07:10,639 --> 01:07:12,159
ding ding and he can't.

1398
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 3: Fit the seatbelt around him, and I'm just trying to

1399
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:15,960
be a nice person. All he needs to go is

1400
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:17,960
to the corner store and get beer. So I just

1401
01:07:18,519 --> 01:07:21,320
kindly plug my nose, roll down my windows. By the way,

1402
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:25,440
it's February and drive him over and.

1403
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:26,079
Speaker 4: You know what he told me.

1404
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 3: He gets out, he gets his beer. It takes HI

1405
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,800
about ten minutes just to get like a twelve pack. Yeah,

1406
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:31,400
it comes back.

1407
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 4: You know what, man, you're really nice. Most people. Most

1408
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:35,760
people drive me.

1409
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:37,519
Speaker 3: Man, they don't give me the time of day, or

1410
01:07:37,559 --> 01:07:39,039
they don't want to talk to meat.

1411
01:07:39,079 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 1: You like shit because we forget that you have so that.

1412
01:07:41,599 --> 01:07:44,679
So now we'll go back to your argument of do

1413
01:07:44,719 --> 01:07:46,280
we cater to feelings too much?

1414
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,119
Speaker 4: How how I felt bad to the guy.

1415
01:07:49,159 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 3: But if somebody didn't feel bad and wanted to stick

1416
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:53,000
up for their car and their rights as a ride

1417
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,360
share and driver, they have absolutely the right to do that.

1418
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 4: I just didn't do that at.

1419
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,079
Speaker 1: No, no, no. What I'm saying to you is, but

1420
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:03,599
when you go up against that enough in life, you

1421
01:08:03,719 --> 01:08:08,360
get callouses, right, and you start to realize. But everybody

1422
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:11,320
hates me. Yeah, you know, everybody hates me. They all

1423
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,800
treat me like shit. I'm just I'm I'm a faceless

1424
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,960
fat guy to these people they have they don't see

1425
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:20,159
me as a human being. They don't see me much

1426
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:24,439
like I think the non verbal speaking kids who who

1427
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:28,119
have been told by doctors that told parents they're not

1428
01:08:28,199 --> 01:08:32,720
in there's nothing there, and then they're finding out. But

1429
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:35,920
my point is, like you treated that person as a person.

1430
01:08:37,239 --> 01:08:41,000
That's it. I'm not saying that this guy I don't know.

1431
01:08:41,199 --> 01:08:43,840
I think that there are times where it is your car.

1432
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,520
And if you're afraid, if you know you got bad

1433
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:48,359
shocks or something, you.

1434
01:08:48,319 --> 01:08:51,079
Speaker 3: Shouldn't be driving a lift. That's another thing. I mean,

1435
01:08:51,359 --> 01:08:53,199
he's driving a Mercedes. Okay, there's a couple of things

1436
01:08:53,239 --> 01:08:55,680
about with this. Well, most if you're driving a Mercedes,

1437
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:56,760
you don't need to ride lyft.

1438
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 4: No, you don't need to drive lyft. So, first of

1439
01:09:00,079 --> 01:09:00,800
I can't judge it.

1440
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,119
Speaker 1: But time out, time out, time out. I see lots

1441
01:09:03,159 --> 01:09:04,600
of guys with Tesla's.

1442
01:09:04,159 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 4: And things driving Yeah, yeah, I've seen that too.

1443
01:09:07,039 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: And Mercedes. We don't know what year this Mercedes is.

1444
01:09:10,039 --> 01:09:11,319
That's a that's a fair point. I don't know how

1445
01:09:11,359 --> 01:09:14,800
many miles are on this Mercedes. I'm hearing well, and I.

1446
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 4: Think the car's got to be at least within years old.

1447
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:20,039
Speaker 1: If I'm playing this, okay, okay, but if I'm playing,

1448
01:09:20,159 --> 01:09:23,600
if I'm listening to what that sounds like a Diesel.

1449
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:28,279
Answer to me, okay, and Mercedes did do some diesel

1450
01:09:28,399 --> 01:09:33,079
or something. We believe me, okay, believe me.

1451
01:09:33,119 --> 01:09:35,079
Speaker 4: You can't well because.

1452
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:37,319
Speaker 1: Now I'm reading an article that is a Mercedes. I

1453
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,079
didn't look like a Mercedes in it. And when I

1454
01:09:40,119 --> 01:09:41,279
saw the videos.

1455
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,319
Speaker 4: That a Mercedes Essue. Was it an SUV?

1456
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:45,239
Speaker 1: I don't think no, I don't think so. Okay, it

1457
01:09:45,359 --> 01:09:48,279
was a Sedan. Okay, So that's why I'm wondering, like,

1458
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:48,880
is it.

1459
01:09:49,079 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 3: I think he tried to handle it the best he could.

1460
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:52,279
I think he was shocked. Like one time I picked

1461
01:09:52,319 --> 01:09:55,600
somebody up at a hotel in Webster, not realizing his

1462
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:58,239
name was Bobo and his really long name was short

1463
01:09:58,239 --> 01:10:00,760
for Bob, Bobo something. He was from India. He was

1464
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,359
here for on business with Xerox. You want to go

1465
01:10:03,399 --> 01:10:05,960
see Niagara Falls. This is the most Sunday morning of

1466
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:09,560
a Bills game against the Dolphins in Orchard Park, And

1467
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:11,640
I'm like, oh my gosh, how am I going to

1468
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:15,000
drive this dude night? Drive him back? You don't know

1469
01:10:15,079 --> 01:10:19,279
until the moment you accept the ride. Ah, you don't know. Yeah,

1470
01:10:19,359 --> 01:10:22,319
lifted Uber will play tricks on you too. They'll make

1471
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,960
you the bad guy. To deny the rights that I can't.

1472
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,199
You gotta have to take something, you have to find

1473
01:10:26,239 --> 01:10:28,159
something other, right, I can't do it, and then you

1474
01:10:28,199 --> 01:10:30,800
get the downgrade. In other words, when you signed to

1475
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:33,279
be a Lyft driver, man, you better drive everybody. That's

1476
01:10:33,279 --> 01:10:35,000
why I like you have a situation like Joel McHale

1477
01:10:35,119 --> 01:10:37,000
got driven from the Rochester Airport all the way in

1478
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,039
New York City because that person did not know until

1479
01:10:39,199 --> 01:10:41,319
Joel McHale accepted the ride got in.

1480
01:10:41,279 --> 01:10:43,520
Speaker 4: The car that they were going to New York City.

1481
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:45,079
Speaker 3: Right, And they could have turned around and said no,

1482
01:10:45,319 --> 01:10:46,760
but then they would have gotten downgraded.

1483
01:10:47,199 --> 01:10:48,319
Speaker 1: So it's kind of a trap.

1484
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,039
Speaker 3: So what I would have done in that situation, and

1485
01:10:51,079 --> 01:10:53,000
now I've like we've had like thirty minutes to think

1486
01:10:53,039 --> 01:10:54,920
about it, I would have called Lyft be like, hey, listen,

1487
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:56,079
could you send another car for this.

1488
01:10:56,039 --> 01:10:57,159
Speaker 4: Woman I don't have the room for.

1489
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,239
Speaker 3: Okay, now you have documentary, Yeah, okay, that's the thing

1490
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:06,199
with In that situation, I personally probably would have just

1491
01:11:06,239 --> 01:11:07,640
tried to suck it up and do the best.

1492
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 4: Maybe got to kick out of it.

1493
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:10,199
Speaker 2: Yes, me too.

1494
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,119
Speaker 4: Hey for dear life, may here we go.

1495
01:11:12,239 --> 01:11:15,279
Speaker 1: It's a good story, right, yeah, you know, watch that.

1496
01:11:17,319 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 4: We're gonna create a few in this like remember the

1497
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:20,760
Flintstones where they.

1498
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:23,239
Speaker 1: Put the rack on what I'm saying, like the car,

1499
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,920
don't tell me the car doesn't lead a little bit right,

1500
01:11:28,039 --> 01:11:32,239
and this guy now I'm surprised, but you'll have to

1501
01:11:32,279 --> 01:11:36,079
call another one, all right. Whatever. My question is, when

1502
01:11:36,119 --> 01:11:38,640
you're that big, or if you're a super tall person,

1503
01:11:39,039 --> 01:11:41,439
do you call ahead and go listen? I'm one person.

1504
01:11:42,319 --> 01:11:46,079
Can you send somebody with a more room? Or can

1505
01:11:46,119 --> 01:11:48,880
we tell the driver to put the passenger seat all

1506
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:51,000
the way up because I have really.

1507
01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:52,600
Speaker 4: I don't know if you have those options to do that,

1508
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:53,640
but I think that would be wise.

1509
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:55,640
Speaker 3: I think if you are if you're self aware, if

1510
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:57,319
you are self aware and honest what you're.

1511
01:11:57,159 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 4: Saying give you, I think you should be able to

1512
01:11:58,720 --> 01:11:58,960
do that.

1513
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,159
Speaker 3: This chick was clearly told from Bert, now you're fine, baby,

1514
01:12:02,159 --> 01:12:04,800
you ain't got no problems. She sounds like someone who

1515
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,359
was entitled and was catered to her entire life.

1516
01:12:07,399 --> 01:12:11,319
Speaker 4: She seems nice, She could seem nice. Everybody's got moments.

1517
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:13,479
You and I know some awful people who have had

1518
01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:14,239
some good moments.

1519
01:12:17,279 --> 01:12:20,199
Speaker 3: You always say, is in a good mood today, I remember, yeah, yeah,

1520
01:12:20,239 --> 01:12:20,720
I don't know.

1521
01:12:21,039 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. If I don't know, I really thought,

1522
01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:27,439
I go take all the fat jokes away.

1523
01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,119
Speaker 2: Let's take it to size.

1524
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 1: Just a bigger person, not even a heavy person, just big,

1525
01:12:34,279 --> 01:12:38,600
like you know, outside the average Jackson. Do you have?

1526
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:42,119
Should you then call the driver yourself, because you'll get

1527
01:12:42,119 --> 01:12:44,600
their phone number and say, hey, I just want to

1528
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:48,159
let you know. I'm six eleven and my legs are

1529
01:12:48,199 --> 01:12:50,800
really long. There's a possibility for me to either sit

1530
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:52,680
in the passenger seat and put that seat all the

1531
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:56,680
way back, or is there Should I call another uber

1532
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,239
that's responsible, or or hey, this is embarrassing. I'm five

1533
01:13:00,279 --> 01:13:03,279
hundred pounds. I just want to make sure that whatever

1534
01:13:03,359 --> 01:13:05,359
car you're in, because I know I just asked for

1535
01:13:05,399 --> 01:13:06,479
the car, but it's only me.

1536
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I think you have a responsibility to do.

1537
01:13:09,359 --> 01:13:10,600
Speaker 1: You do a little bit. I do too.

1538
01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:13,119
Speaker 2: I think like that. I go, I get it. I

1539
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:13,960
it's shitty.

1540
01:13:14,039 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 3: I wish file the actual Well then they're getting to

1541
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:18,920
freedom issues, but.

1542
01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do.

1543
01:13:20,279 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 3: Look, I would just hope that people would have a

1544
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,399
modicum of common sense and human decency to say, hey, look,

1545
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:27,960
even though I'm paying for this ride, and the customer

1546
01:13:28,119 --> 01:13:30,760
is always right? Can I make it easier on the

1547
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:32,479
driver doing service for me?

1548
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:34,159
Speaker 1: Well?

1549
01:13:34,159 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 2: Don't you?

1550
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 4: Isn't that just human decency?

1551
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: I just think that it.

1552
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,600
Speaker 2: Makes your life a little does.

1553
01:13:41,359 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 1: I mean, let's be honest, being a little selfish is okay,

1554
01:13:45,239 --> 01:13:47,920
because you know you want to do you want to

1555
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:49,000
run into that situation.

1556
01:13:49,079 --> 01:13:50,119
Speaker 2: How uncomfortable is that.

1557
01:13:50,079 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 1: Situation for this woman? Right? And I'm probably for driver too,

1558
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,319
because the driver's probably going to right shit. I am

1559
01:13:56,359 --> 01:13:58,720
listening to the engine, either there's something wrong with it

1560
01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:01,199
or I'm thinking that sounds like a diesel engine to me.

1561
01:14:02,399 --> 01:14:05,199
But I gotta look up Mercedes because I don't think

1562
01:14:05,239 --> 01:14:09,439
they've done diesel engines since like the eighties. But I

1563
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:09,680
don't know.

1564
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:12,520
Speaker 3: I don't know you drive lift or Uber. At least

1565
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:14,279
the requirement was when I was driving.

1566
01:14:14,359 --> 01:14:15,520
Speaker 1: You have to have ten year right.

1567
01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:18,119
Speaker 3: The car's got to be relatively new, and by relatively

1568
01:14:18,159 --> 01:14:20,439
I mean like made in the last five to ten years.

1569
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,479
And you have to have a clean driving record and

1570
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:25,600
all this other stuff I mean, not like speeding tickets,

1571
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:26,600
are parking tickets that's okay?

1572
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:29,840
Speaker 1: Oh no, you're at okay. So many Mercedes best models

1573
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,079
have a diesel engines, including the S class. But I'm

1574
01:14:32,159 --> 01:14:34,239
just oh, see, that was in nineteen seventy eight, that's

1575
01:14:34,239 --> 01:14:37,119
what I'm thinking. Okay, that was in nineteen seventy eight.

1576
01:14:38,039 --> 01:14:41,520
The C class, C two twenty two. Okay, here we go.

1577
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:45,319
The GLC has a diesel option, and the twenty twenty

1578
01:14:45,319 --> 01:14:48,359
three model has a forty eight vault mild hybrid system.

1579
01:14:48,399 --> 01:14:53,039
Let's see twenty ten to twenty eleven. I think that

1580
01:14:53,239 --> 01:14:57,039
was a V six turbo engine that I think was diesel.

1581
01:14:59,039 --> 01:15:02,199
So teny yes, see I okay, twenty thirteen, so you're

1582
01:15:02,239 --> 01:15:03,600
still within that ten year window.

1583
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:05,039
Speaker 4: And I don't know if I don't if they've changed

1584
01:15:05,039 --> 01:15:06,680
the rules when I was doing it to get in

1585
01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:11,239
a car with Timmy, it may be wrong. It sounds

1586
01:15:11,239 --> 01:15:13,119
like a truck, yeah it does, right, It looks like

1587
01:15:13,119 --> 01:15:13,840
a diesel truck.

1588
01:15:14,039 --> 01:15:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a diesel engine.

1589
01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:18,319
Speaker 1: But it's not. If you see the car, and you

1590
01:15:18,359 --> 01:15:22,039
can get a twenty sixteen E class Mercedes eighty six

1591
01:15:22,079 --> 01:15:28,840
thousand miles for fifteen grand, so you could probably drive that,

1592
01:15:29,079 --> 01:15:31,560
and yeah, all right, okay.

1593
01:15:31,279 --> 01:15:33,159
Speaker 4: But I think as as a passenger.

1594
01:15:33,399 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: I only remember I had a teacher that bought a

1595
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:40,359
Mercedes at auction and the reason and one of the

1596
01:15:40,399 --> 01:15:41,159
things he liked.

1597
01:15:41,039 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 2: About it was in there was there was a murderer

1598
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:43,560
in the back seat.

1599
01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 4: Okay, and so I thought, you got a real deal

1600
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:46,880
on it.

1601
01:15:47,039 --> 01:15:49,439
Speaker 1: No, there was a murder in the back seat. They

1602
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:51,720
must have told this at the auction that he went to,

1603
01:15:52,159 --> 01:15:53,640
and it was one of those I think it had

1604
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:58,319
the removable hardtop, but it was a diesel. Uncle got

1605
01:15:58,319 --> 01:16:01,520
a deal on an OUDI yeah, Mercedes, but there was

1606
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:03,680
a murder in the back seat and they re upholstered

1607
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:04,199
everything in.

1608
01:16:04,159 --> 01:16:06,359
Speaker 4: The car and dan they found the guy dead.

1609
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:11,279
Speaker 1: I got a sweet deal anyway, from Larry Spatt. By

1610
01:16:11,319 --> 01:16:13,079
the way, a diesel, I would think you'd be able

1611
01:16:13,079 --> 01:16:15,720
to pull that with a five hundred pound person with

1612
01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:16,880
a diesel, no problem.

1613
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:19,039
Speaker 3: I just think he may have had an experience before,

1614
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:21,199
Like I know people who like, Okay, if you go

1615
01:16:21,279 --> 01:16:25,319
into the city, people have to bring their kids to daycare,

1616
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,800
to school to other places, and they you need to

1617
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:30,079
have a car seat, and four out of five of

1618
01:16:30,119 --> 01:16:32,520
them don't care. They just hold the kid, buckle the

1619
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:34,680
kid up. They don't bring the car seat, and you

1620
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:36,760
have to. It's up to you to tell them, no,

1621
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:38,439
you need a car seat. So you could either accept

1622
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,279
the ride, take your chances, hope you don't get pulled over,

1623
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:42,920
or be the bad guy, which is actually the good guy,

1624
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,359
and say no, ma'am or no, sir, you need a

1625
01:16:45,399 --> 01:16:45,840
car seat.

1626
01:16:46,079 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 1: What if you kept a car seat in your trunk.

1627
01:16:48,279 --> 01:16:49,239
Speaker 4: You could do that too.

1628
01:16:49,319 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 3: The thing is, though, is that if you're picking somebody

1629
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:52,439
at the airport.

1630
01:16:53,119 --> 01:16:54,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the other thing too.

1631
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 3: Like the kid's seven, they still technically in New York

1632
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,960
States they need a booster seat.

1633
01:16:59,039 --> 01:17:00,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, which is so stupid.

1634
01:17:02,039 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 1: I used to sit in the front seat as a kid, right,

1635
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:07,239
he said, in the front seat. The kids can't. I mean,

1636
01:17:07,199 --> 01:17:09,479
I get it, especially with an airbag.

1637
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 2: The airbag goes off.

1638
01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, kid gets crushed.

1639
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah so we okay, I get it.

1640
01:17:15,159 --> 01:17:16,199
Speaker 4: I understand, but some.

1641
01:17:16,119 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 1: Of this stuff is just crazy. I even think a

1642
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:27,119
seat belt your choice.

1643
01:17:27,279 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, you know, I mean, it's America, your choice,

1644
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:30,760
the privilege to drive.

1645
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:36,079
Speaker 1: I get it, But I I think if I don't

1646
01:17:36,079 --> 01:17:38,560
wear a seatbelt and I get into an accident, I

1647
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:40,279
don't think the fact that I don't have a seatbelt

1648
01:17:40,359 --> 01:17:42,520
lot hurts the other person or not. You know what

1649
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:45,640
I'm saying. You know, and it may prevent me from

1650
01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:48,800
getting injured, even so, even with airbags and things. But

1651
01:17:49,399 --> 01:17:51,520
I don't care if you don't want to wear it.

1652
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:53,199
Speaker 4: My father never wore a seatbelt.

1653
01:17:53,279 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 3: Yeah I could, Yeah, I just we didn't grow up

1654
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:57,520
with them, he said, Because we didn't grow up with

1655
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,800
seatbelt right, because the fact we grew up and we

1656
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:01,479
had kids, we would hold on to the kid in

1657
01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:03,000
the case no seatbelt.

1658
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:06,039
Speaker 4: Mom's got the kid in the front seat. Just hold

1659
01:18:06,079 --> 01:18:08,319
out for dear life. Yeah, and it was no big deal.

1660
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 2: So I they even.

1661
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:11,520
Speaker 4: Have dog food back to They just feed the dog

1662
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:12,319
they left.

1663
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:13,840
Speaker 1: You don't want to, you don't want to.

1664
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,479
Speaker 4: Uh, we specialize in everything, and we make laws to

1665
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:17,039
make you do it.

1666
01:18:17,319 --> 01:18:21,079
Speaker 1: Well, look, they they save lives. I would say, you're

1667
01:18:21,159 --> 01:18:24,840
better off wearing a seatbelt, right, and I will not

1668
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,119
get into any vehicle and I put the seatbelt on.

1669
01:18:27,279 --> 01:18:30,319
Speaker 3: I just I'm glad they have car seat laws for kids,

1670
01:18:30,359 --> 01:18:31,479
because like there's some of these parents.

1671
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:33,039
Speaker 4: Man, they're flying out of the window.

1672
01:18:33,119 --> 01:18:35,239
Speaker 1: But I think you get over eighteen and you don't

1673
01:18:35,239 --> 01:18:37,880
want to wear a seatbelt, that's your business. Your rule man.

1674
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:39,439
Speaker 3: I also don't think you need a car seat for

1675
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:41,800
a seven year old. I think that's ridiculous too.

1676
01:18:42,359 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I've seen guys getting race cars enough

1677
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:46,880
put the harness all the way on, like they just

1678
01:18:47,199 --> 01:18:49,319
strap it and you know, so it's a harness seat,

1679
01:18:49,359 --> 01:18:50,359
so it straps up.

1680
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:53,279
Speaker 4: Tighten it, race Randy. No, how old for me, buddy,

1681
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:54,479
I'm old school.

1682
01:18:55,199 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 1: All that stuff. All right, We'll take a moment big

1683
01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:01,680
trade in the NBA Danny, Yeah, wow, almost shocking and idea.

1684
01:19:01,279 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 4: Talk about stealing headlights for the NFL.

1685
01:19:03,119 --> 01:19:04,199
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was real.

1686
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't.

1687
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 2: My kid's telling me about it.

1688
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,239
Speaker 1: I go, that's not true.

1689
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:10,319
Speaker 2: That can't be true.

1690
01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:10,880
Speaker 1: Wrong.

1691
01:19:11,119 --> 01:19:14,720
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1692
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Speaker 6: Not a TV studio, Josh, turn these lights.

1727
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Speaker 4: Out rock concert right, don't send yeah, Josh, you dick.

1728
01:21:30,119 --> 01:21:36,680
It didn't sound like Eddie Ease and Flew.

1729
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:51,239
Speaker 6: Harasser saying on the bell made a concrete hold.

1730
01:21:51,159 --> 01:22:01,439
Speaker 1: Hand her. A lot of his songs, a lot of

1731
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,920
pearl Jam songs, but I don't know if they were

1732
01:22:04,279 --> 01:22:10,479
he brought them to the band or what are about suffering?

1733
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:13,600
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's pearl Jam in a nutshell, right, I

1734
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:17,600
mean Eddie. Eddie had an interesting upbringing.

1735
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:19,560
Speaker 3: Like this song it's not a homeless kid, yeah yeah,

1736
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:22,319
or someone with mental illness, and then you've got you

1737
01:22:22,359 --> 01:22:26,159
know daughter, yeah by not just a child, right, and

1738
01:22:26,199 --> 01:22:29,560
then you've got Jeremy was about a kid shot himself

1739
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:32,720
in front of his classmates. Alive was about how his

1740
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,680
mother never told him his father was actually a neighbor

1741
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:37,880
who died of Luke Gerrigg's disease.

1742
01:22:39,279 --> 01:22:40,600
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, like the.

1743
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 3: New record that just came out, which I think is

1744
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,279
their best record of decades, and I mean that seriously, Jeff.

1745
01:22:46,359 --> 01:22:49,039
Speaker 4: For Grammy tonight, they maybe I forgot all about that.

1746
01:22:49,520 --> 01:22:52,279
Speaker 3: Jeff A meant the bass player like, I have Pearl

1747
01:22:52,359 --> 01:22:54,520
Jam Radio on Serious XM, but I'm a Pearl Jam fan.

1748
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:55,920
Speaker 4: I have a love hate relationship with that band.

1749
01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 3: But he goes, Eddie wrote a song about his two

1750
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,159
daughters and it's kind of an uplifting song. It's called

1751
01:23:01,199 --> 01:23:04,520
so Special, and Jeff Amtt goes, yeah, we needed a positive.

1752
01:23:04,119 --> 01:23:04,800
Speaker 1: Song on the record.

1753
01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:07,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, you guys still you haven't

1754
01:23:07,560 --> 01:23:11,039
made You're near retirement if you didn't want to retire already,

1755
01:23:11,159 --> 01:23:13,760
and now you're still sinking about how much life sucks.

1756
01:23:14,279 --> 01:23:15,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, sixty years old.

1757
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 1: What are you thinking about? Are you Are you saying

1758
01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:23,880
how life sucks or how certain issues just really cut

1759
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:25,439
to your core? Yeah?

1760
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:28,199
Speaker 3: Like I actually listened to the record and asked myself,

1761
01:23:28,199 --> 01:23:30,920
because any vetter's an atheist, yeah, and listen to lyricsco

1762
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:33,880
did any vetter find God because some of the lyrics

1763
01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:36,359
are now like pointing another direction. And I think a

1764
01:23:36,359 --> 01:23:38,319
lot of people as they get older and get closer

1765
01:23:38,319 --> 01:23:40,800
to death, they start to realize, you know, hold on,

1766
01:23:40,840 --> 01:23:44,039
maybe I need to review my thoughts and beliefs and things.

1767
01:23:44,079 --> 01:23:45,239
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I mean.

1768
01:23:46,159 --> 01:23:49,159
Speaker 3: Pearl jam here's how it works. If there's a Democrat

1769
01:23:49,159 --> 01:23:51,840
in the office, usually the album's more uplifting and less suffering,

1770
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,600
but still suffering. If there's a Republican in office, it's

1771
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:59,199
all about how evil politicians are. That's the way it's

1772
01:23:59,199 --> 01:24:03,640
always been with Pearl Jammer. With that Eve, yeah, he's

1773
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:09,720
he's the main lyricist. They all contribute the music. I

1774
01:24:09,760 --> 01:24:11,720
just wish they'd come out with more songs that like

1775
01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:19,800
like this. I mean, this dude went from being a

1776
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:23,640
guy who like would climb the scaffolding right and like,

1777
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:25,359
you know, put himself in harm's way to being a

1778
01:24:25,399 --> 01:24:28,159
guy who became a total recluse, didn't want to have fame,

1779
01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:30,800
didn't want to go on tour, didn't want to make videos.

1780
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:32,880
To all of a sudden, okay, so that America said, okay,

1781
01:24:32,920 --> 01:24:35,000
Pearl jam Sea, and he's like who whoa whoa, Okay,

1782
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:36,920
we'll start making videos again and I'll go out in

1783
01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:37,560
public again.

1784
01:24:38,039 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 4: Like Ed, he's a bit of a poser.

1785
01:24:40,119 --> 01:24:45,479
Speaker 1: I always loved Pearl Jam because they also had uh.

1786
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:47,640
Speaker 4: Moral compass.

1787
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:50,279
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, they had.

1788
01:24:50,239 --> 01:24:51,359
Speaker 4: Because it's the kind of fair they had.

1789
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 1: They all had other projects. They all had other bands.

1790
01:24:55,119 --> 01:24:57,359
Oh yeah they did. I mean there was a bunch

1791
01:24:57,399 --> 01:24:59,199
of them had other bands they were in. And I

1792
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:00,760
loved Temple to the Dog.

1793
01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:02,079
Speaker 4: Temple the Dog was fantastic.

1794
01:25:02,159 --> 01:25:04,199
Speaker 1: I only know the one song really, but such a

1795
01:25:04,199 --> 01:25:07,840
great record, but it was the whole thing was uh yeah,

1796
01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:12,079
I don't know. I am not as I like them,

1797
01:25:12,199 --> 01:25:15,720
I but everything seemed to be a downer in someone.

1798
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 3: Yeah oh yeah, Well, I mean that's the big joke

1799
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:19,800
about like nineties rock everything sucked.

1800
01:25:20,399 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like life is awful. Everything sucks.

1801
01:25:23,119 --> 01:25:28,199
Speaker 3: Like when Green Day, when Green Days the most uplifting band, Yeah,

1802
01:25:28,239 --> 01:25:30,239
because like they're all like, yeah, we're like just you know,

1803
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:32,199
turn us sound for your five year old, We don't care.

1804
01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but even Green.

1805
01:25:33,760 --> 01:25:36,039
Speaker 4: Day's lyrics were like, oh wow, like my life must

1806
01:25:36,079 --> 01:25:36,960
have sucked at Aukland.

1807
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:39,840
Speaker 1: Well, I just think that sometimes you get you just

1808
01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:42,119
get uh like eighties.

1809
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:45,600
Speaker 3: Music was all about love and parties and chicks. What

1810
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:48,000
the big joke is like, like every video was a

1811
01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:49,960
bunch of dudes in tight pants and big hair and

1812
01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:52,720
a spark factory where they just made sparks. Yeah, right,

1813
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:55,680
and there's always these hot chicks dancing around in cars.

1814
01:25:55,920 --> 01:25:57,479
Speaker 4: Then the nineties ever, it's like, oh.

1815
01:25:57,399 --> 01:26:00,359
Speaker 1: Man, life sucks. Well, I think there's like, uh, what

1816
01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:06,720
I think in art, what what happens? Maybe I'm wrong,

1817
01:26:07,319 --> 01:26:09,800
is we go through a certain phase and we all right,

1818
01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:12,560
we're tired of this, and so we go the pendulum

1819
01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,840
swings almost to the exact hours that come back, and

1820
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:17,039
we go at and I I'm only familiar with more

1821
01:26:17,119 --> 01:26:20,439
with with rock or pop. I'm not familiar with other

1822
01:26:20,760 --> 01:26:23,800
forms if of music, country, if that does the same

1823
01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:27,000
thing or not. In countries it probably the most popular. Now.

1824
01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:29,199
I have no idea, but I just think it's art.

1825
01:26:29,319 --> 01:26:31,720
And you can even see it with comedy. You know,

1826
01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:35,560
comedy would sometimes be people just you know, coming up

1827
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:38,840
and it was hey, my wife, Uh, you know, it's

1828
01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:41,079
just I don't know what I'm trying to think of

1829
01:26:41,079 --> 01:26:44,199
some Rodney Dangerfield joke, but you had that or guys

1830
01:26:44,239 --> 01:26:46,359
who were you know, quick one liners, quick joke, joke,

1831
01:26:46,399 --> 01:26:52,199
joke joke into storytellers or you know, truth tellers or philosophers,

1832
01:26:52,239 --> 01:26:55,159
and you know, the pendulum swings and that's acceptable now

1833
01:26:55,199 --> 01:26:58,079
and now it's not, and then different even subdivisions of

1834
01:26:58,119 --> 01:27:00,960
that happens over time, right, I don't know.

1835
01:27:01,039 --> 01:27:02,159
Speaker 2: It's it's kind.

1836
01:27:02,039 --> 01:27:06,560
Speaker 1: Of interesting because I never thought about, uh, probably the

1837
01:27:06,640 --> 01:27:09,079
lyrics to stuff. But I always think, like, you can

1838
01:27:09,680 --> 01:27:13,520
you know, I'll say when you say like atheists, I go,

1839
01:27:14,159 --> 01:27:18,760
I can't look at the world. And it was really

1840
01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:21,159
the eclipse. And I know that people were upset with

1841
01:27:21,199 --> 01:27:22,800
the eclipse, but that really brought it home to me,

1842
01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,079
is I can't look at this and go, there isn't

1843
01:27:25,079 --> 01:27:29,760
some some greater something here because you didn't get up

1844
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:32,359
this morning and make sure that we're still spinning in

1845
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:36,000
orbit and that the moon is exactly and you know,

1846
01:27:36,279 --> 01:27:39,119
the sun rose or didn't rise because of the cloud whatever.

1847
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:42,479
But we didn't do that, and I didn't have to

1848
01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:45,560
come here and start over as a hunter gatherer. It's

1849
01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:46,640
we've evolved.

1850
01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:48,840
Speaker 4: We're standing on the shoulders of the previous generation.

1851
01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:50,680
Speaker 1: You got it. And then I didn't have to bring

1852
01:27:50,720 --> 01:27:54,239
anything in here. I'm not taking you know, soil from

1853
01:27:54,279 --> 01:27:56,640
the moon to grow what I There's none of that.

1854
01:27:57,399 --> 01:28:00,319
Everything I need is here and everything I have is

1855
01:28:00,399 --> 01:28:03,319
built upon it. And it is evolutionary in the fact

1856
01:28:03,359 --> 01:28:06,399
that that we do that. So I don't know, and

1857
01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:09,359
I go, there's got to be there's got to be And.

1858
01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 2: Is it one greater conscious?

1859
01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:14,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. I don't know. And I don't

1860
01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:17,600
think that you ever get it wronging. I don't know

1861
01:28:17,640 --> 01:28:19,600
that you ever get it done, because there is that

1862
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:22,800
eternal part of it, eternal life, which even the Bible

1863
01:28:22,840 --> 01:28:25,520
talks about. Yes, and I believe that energy is eternal

1864
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:28,000
and your eternal. And I don't know. I may go

1865
01:28:28,039 --> 01:28:30,520
even weirder and say you kind of choose as to

1866
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:33,239
where you go. And I'm waiting to see if more

1867
01:28:33,279 --> 01:28:37,119
stuff comes out this year, Okay, if more things come

1868
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:41,680
out like we'll have we had contact with alien life,

1869
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:44,840
and are we about to find out for sure that

1870
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:47,640
the government knew and has tried to protect them.

1871
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:49,319
Speaker 3: Oh, there are people are going one step further saying

1872
01:28:49,319 --> 01:28:51,119
that there are aliens among us in the form of

1873
01:28:51,920 --> 01:28:53,479
certain leaders and politicians.

1874
01:28:53,479 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 1: Okay, well I don't I'm not going Yeah, I'm not

1875
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:58,279
going that far. But I'm just saying, like I do.

1876
01:28:58,319 --> 01:29:00,800
I wonder if they've known, and you know, if there's

1877
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:03,680
different I have no idea. I don't know, but let's

1878
01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:06,760
just be open and have fun. And if the better

1879
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:08,199
feeling is love, that's it.

1880
01:29:08,359 --> 01:29:10,039
Speaker 3: The one thing that we have to keep in mind

1881
01:29:10,079 --> 01:29:12,439
as Americans is that we live at the top of

1882
01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:16,239
Maslow's hierarchy of needs than our worst day. We have

1883
01:29:16,279 --> 01:29:17,880
it so much better than everybody else.

1884
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:20,439
Speaker 1: I know, but that you know, here's what I would

1885
01:29:20,439 --> 01:29:25,560
always say to people all the time, because you are correct.

1886
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,000
Speaker 4: And like you and I didn't grow up like making

1887
01:29:27,039 --> 01:29:28,039
bricks in a mind.

1888
01:29:28,079 --> 01:29:32,119
Speaker 1: No, we didn't. And that's exactly right, that that's so true.

1889
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:37,279
But maybe that humbles us for five minutes, right, yeah,

1890
01:29:37,359 --> 01:29:40,319
of course, but that's why I always go. But it's

1891
01:29:40,359 --> 01:29:44,359
all relative, right, Your shitty moment because you couldn't get

1892
01:29:44,359 --> 01:29:46,720
on the internet is a big moment.

1893
01:29:46,880 --> 01:29:48,039
Speaker 2: No, I know, I know, I know.

1894
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 1: Yes, right exactly, this is true, Yes, yes, exactly, and

1895
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:56,119
so it is just as frustrating and to come along

1896
01:29:56,159 --> 01:29:58,640
and go, well, at least you're not into mind, I

1897
01:29:58,680 --> 01:30:00,520
want to go, fuck you.

1898
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:02,239
Speaker 3: Here's a great example, like when you're talking about a

1899
01:30:02,239 --> 01:30:03,840
football game. At the end of a football the bill

1900
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:06,520
season ended, you're talking in the context of a football game.

1901
01:30:06,600 --> 01:30:07,239
Speaker 4: Yes, you can't.

1902
01:30:07,239 --> 01:30:09,199
Speaker 3: Then all of a sudden, the apply life principles to it.

1903
01:30:09,279 --> 01:30:12,439
We try to, Yeah, but like it's it's ridiculous because

1904
01:30:12,439 --> 01:30:15,079
we know that what you're saying football is life.

1905
01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:20,159
Speaker 4: Now you're making it a false equivalency, as they call it.

1906
01:30:20,159 --> 01:30:22,920
Speaker 1: Well, sometimes you just can't get over the hump in life. Right,

1907
01:30:23,399 --> 01:30:25,800
they too, And but what are they gonna do. They're

1908
01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:28,560
gonna go back and strategize and try again. You should

1909
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:30,439
do the same. You should go back and stretch.

1910
01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:33,239
Speaker 4: I will come up well tomorrow.

1911
01:30:33,399 --> 01:30:37,560
Speaker 1: But I think that that that's my thinking with with

1912
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:41,840
positive thinking, right, should you think positively? Yes? Should you

1913
01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:46,920
believe that the outcome is going to be great? Yes? Uh,

1914
01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:52,520
it doesn't nothing really matters, doesn't really matter. I mean

1915
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:55,079
I was even talking to somebody today. I go the

1916
01:30:55,239 --> 01:31:00,680
meaning that I'm applying to this is it means nothing.

1917
01:31:01,159 --> 01:31:03,640
But I'm applying this meeting. I'm the one putting it

1918
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:05,720
on to this, making it whatever it was.

1919
01:31:05,760 --> 01:31:08,159
Speaker 3: It's a muscle you have to work on and you

1920
01:31:08,199 --> 01:31:09,840
have to really exercise that muscle.

1921
01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 2: But when you're feeling shitty and somebody goes.

1922
01:31:14,319 --> 01:31:18,119
Speaker 1: It's gotta think positive, Dan, you almost want to You

1923
01:31:18,119 --> 01:31:19,560
don't want to punch him, but you want to just

1924
01:31:19,640 --> 01:31:23,960
flick them right in the fucking nose, because it's like, yes, exactly, No,

1925
01:31:24,039 --> 01:31:26,560
it's not how it works. No, But that's why I say,

1926
01:31:27,479 --> 01:31:30,800
try to go for the better feeling thought. And maybe

1927
01:31:31,079 --> 01:31:33,960
you go from despair to anger or despair to revenge.

1928
01:31:34,279 --> 01:31:37,039
It's a better feeling thought. And you realize I really

1929
01:31:37,039 --> 01:31:39,479
can't do that, and maybe I'm overreacting, and then you

1930
01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:42,600
start to maybe start to feel better about something, or

1931
01:31:43,119 --> 01:31:47,079
get off the subject entirely and focus on something else.

1932
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:51,800
And I do think, like you know, God or whomever

1933
01:31:52,600 --> 01:31:56,520
you have a gift. You're here, right, it's you're here,

1934
01:31:57,159 --> 01:31:59,079
and as you say, you're you're here in a great

1935
01:31:59,079 --> 01:32:01,319
spot if you're in it over where we are in

1936
01:32:01,319 --> 01:32:05,800
the Western world and whatever. In every moment, you have

1937
01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:09,880
a choice, choose whatever feels the best, and do it

1938
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:12,760
the best of your ability and see where it goes.

1939
01:32:13,319 --> 01:32:16,239
But don't sweat the outcome. Don't sweat the outcome. And

1940
01:32:16,319 --> 01:32:19,359
that stuff is the part that's weird for us because

1941
01:32:19,359 --> 01:32:23,079
we're told got to grind it out. We're conditioned so much.

1942
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,680
Speaker 3: So that I think it's bad either our opinion leaders

1943
01:32:25,720 --> 01:32:28,399
on Twitter rise and grind. I'm so sick of reading

1944
01:32:28,439 --> 01:32:31,279
that well, rise and grind. I understand the sentiment.

1945
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:33,920
Speaker 1: I do too, and I would often say I don't

1946
01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:35,640
like the term grind, and I don't think you have

1947
01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:37,600
to do it that way. But I will say maybe

1948
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:39,560
I'm starting to change a little bit, because when you

1949
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:42,880
do grind, you feel like you got something done, and then.

1950
01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:44,319
Speaker 2: You go, holy shit, I did it.

1951
01:32:44,560 --> 01:32:47,319
Speaker 1: I can do X, Y and Z, and then I

1952
01:32:47,359 --> 01:32:49,920
got ABC and you know what I'm saying, all these

1953
01:32:49,920 --> 01:32:51,520
things that I can do.

1954
01:32:51,079 --> 01:32:54,560
Speaker 3: I aim for one win, and one win will become

1955
01:32:54,600 --> 01:32:55,960
two wins and you'll build moment.

1956
01:32:56,079 --> 01:32:59,199
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, three wins, four wins, five wins there it

1957
01:32:59,279 --> 01:33:01,039
is feel good. I don't know how many wins the

1958
01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:04,319
Lakers are going to get, but I was shocked, absolutely

1959
01:33:04,359 --> 01:33:08,680
shocked when my son told me, he goes, yeah, uh,

1960
01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:14,720
Donchik is going to the Lakers, and I'm like, no, Luca, Yeah,

1961
01:33:14,840 --> 01:33:15,680
Luca Gotchick.

1962
01:33:16,039 --> 01:33:17,479
Speaker 2: I go, no, he's not.

1963
01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:18,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I said.

1964
01:33:19,039 --> 01:33:21,560
Speaker 1: No way I thought, because I thought he and Kyrie

1965
01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:24,800
had a I thought they were doing Okay, I haven't

1966
01:33:24,800 --> 01:33:25,479
paid enough.

1967
01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:27,560
Speaker 3: There are a couple of games over five hundred Dallas.

1968
01:33:27,600 --> 01:33:29,720
I'm not a big NBA guy the NBA. First of all,

1969
01:33:29,880 --> 01:33:32,199
let me set the backdrop for the NBA's ratings in

1970
01:33:32,239 --> 01:33:34,159
the last twelve years have dropped by fifty percent.

1971
01:33:35,319 --> 01:33:36,000
Speaker 1: Can I enjoy it?

1972
01:33:36,039 --> 01:33:37,119
Speaker 4: And there's a lot of reasons.

1973
01:33:37,199 --> 01:33:40,640
Speaker 3: I think everything woke. It may be but a politics,

1974
01:33:40,680 --> 01:33:43,560
but I think the biggest reason is because there's no

1975
01:33:43,680 --> 01:33:47,239
urgency to watch most like two thirds of the teams

1976
01:33:47,239 --> 01:33:50,439
make the playoffs every year. Regular season games don't mean squad.

1977
01:33:50,479 --> 01:33:52,039
The other ten are trying to lose.

1978
01:33:52,119 --> 01:33:54,039
Speaker 2: Do the ratings go up during the playoff?

1979
01:33:54,039 --> 01:33:55,359
Speaker 4: I love they do go if they do go up

1980
01:33:55,600 --> 01:33:56,199
during the playoffs.

1981
01:33:56,199 --> 01:33:58,239
Speaker 3: But this is the first time since twenty sixteen where

1982
01:33:58,239 --> 01:34:00,680
the NBA Finals got out drawn by the word World Series.

1983
01:34:01,199 --> 01:34:04,039
Like for a while, the NBA has passed baseball. Like

1984
01:34:04,079 --> 01:34:07,359
first baseball was America's past time than football World Series.

1985
01:34:07,399 --> 01:34:09,399
This year, right, we did, but now it's like now

1986
01:34:09,439 --> 01:34:11,680
the NBA is with the second team ever since short

1987
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:13,399
in the NBA was like the second well in.

1988
01:34:13,359 --> 01:34:15,960
Speaker 1: The World Series. The Dodgers who lost the World Series Yanke,

1989
01:34:18,119 --> 01:34:20,800
this is two more key teams.

1990
01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course.

1991
01:34:22,800 --> 01:34:25,199
Speaker 1: That's gonna go up. But I do wonder if the

1992
01:34:25,319 --> 01:34:29,119
ratings for the NBA regular season versus playoffs go up

1993
01:34:29,359 --> 01:34:33,079
and and it's more deeper into the playoffs. But college basketball,

1994
01:34:33,119 --> 01:34:35,000
a lot of people tell me it's so much better

1995
01:34:35,199 --> 01:34:37,720
right to watch, and I've been I've been trying to

1996
01:34:37,760 --> 01:34:42,079
watch a little bit more with jameson Uh, I don't know.

1997
01:34:42,239 --> 01:34:45,960
I like watching the NBA. I'll put an NBA game on.

1998
01:34:46,199 --> 01:34:49,479
I I really enjoy watching basketball. I think I'm so

1999
01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:54,279
impressed by how athletic these guys are, how amazing. But

2000
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:57,880
at the same time, you're right, there is no urgency.

2001
01:34:58,039 --> 01:35:01,600
It's not I don't know. I read that's stupid tournament

2002
01:35:01,640 --> 01:35:03,279
they're doing in December.

2003
01:35:02,920 --> 01:35:05,439
Speaker 4: The NBA Cup, which is a joke they got that

2004
01:35:05,479 --> 01:35:07,479
from from soccer. Thing is like I wrote.

2005
01:35:07,600 --> 01:35:09,439
Speaker 3: I think I wrote a piece for The Times in

2006
01:35:09,520 --> 01:35:12,880
November December ten reasons why the NBA is failing, and

2007
01:35:13,039 --> 01:35:15,479
Adam Silver the commissioners addressed it like He's going on

2008
01:35:15,520 --> 01:35:18,399
like podcasts and radio shows and television shows to try

2009
01:35:18,399 --> 01:35:20,399
to up drum up support for the NBA. One of

2010
01:35:20,439 --> 01:35:21,840
the things is they want to make the game forty

2011
01:35:21,880 --> 01:35:23,000
minutes now forty eight.

2012
01:35:23,079 --> 01:35:25,760
Speaker 1: Well, because that's the international place, the international play. It's

2013
01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:29,079
also the college corners. Yes, and then they don't play quarters,

2014
01:35:29,119 --> 01:35:29,680
play two halves.

2015
01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:32,199
Speaker 4: The women play quarters, the guys don't. The guys play

2016
01:35:32,319 --> 01:35:35,319
half and halfs. But the reason why college basketball is

2017
01:35:35,319 --> 01:35:37,159
it's not that it's bigger than the NBA, because it's not.

2018
01:35:37,239 --> 01:35:39,199
The ratings prove that. Here's the thing.

2019
01:35:39,279 --> 01:35:42,159
Speaker 3: Though everybody talks about it in March, every nobody's talking

2020
01:35:42,199 --> 01:35:44,479
about it. Not everybody talks about it. In March, everybody

2021
01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:46,600
talks about it, but nobody talks about the NBA Finals.

2022
01:35:46,680 --> 01:35:49,920
Speaker 1: It is so fun to watch that tournament because it's

2023
01:35:50,000 --> 01:35:52,279
it's you know, win and move on.

2024
01:35:52,479 --> 01:35:53,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, surviving advance.

2025
01:35:53,720 --> 01:35:54,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2026
01:35:54,319 --> 01:35:56,039
Speaker 3: In the NBA, it's like, okay, you got a seven

2027
01:35:56,079 --> 01:35:58,760
game series and well you can make it up tomorrow.

2028
01:35:58,960 --> 01:36:01,279
There's no They have to create more urgency in the NBA.

2029
01:36:01,439 --> 01:36:04,479
But to bring it to this trade. The thing about Kyrie,

2030
01:36:04,840 --> 01:36:06,399
first of all, it's hard to play with Kyrie.

2031
01:36:06,399 --> 01:36:09,479
Speaker 4: He's a nut. But Kyrie and Luca have a similar game.

2032
01:36:10,039 --> 01:36:12,960
Speaker 3: A d Anthony Davis is actually a better fit for

2033
01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:15,640
somebody like Kyrie because he plays a low post game.

2034
01:36:15,680 --> 01:36:18,159
He's a center or more power forward to today's NBA

2035
01:36:18,279 --> 01:36:21,319
a big, so their game meshes together. Whereas Luca could

2036
01:36:21,520 --> 01:36:24,600
take the torch from Lebron, Lebron could retire at some point,

2037
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:26,680
Luca could be the star because he really is.

2038
01:36:26,600 --> 01:36:28,239
Speaker 4: One of the five best players in the NBA.

2039
01:36:28,359 --> 01:36:30,000
Speaker 1: They're saying that. I mean, he was Rookie of the

2040
01:36:30,039 --> 01:36:31,359
Year when he came in and eight.

2041
01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:32,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a third overall picked that.

2042
01:36:33,039 --> 01:36:33,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2043
01:36:33,319 --> 01:36:34,399
Speaker 4: Like if I told you the name of the guy

2044
01:36:34,399 --> 01:36:35,680
who's taken before, you'd be like.

2045
01:36:35,600 --> 01:36:40,640
Speaker 1: Who yuh exactly. So it is interesting, I does Lebron

2046
01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:42,680
end up on the Warriors or does he stay?

2047
01:36:42,760 --> 01:36:44,960
Speaker 4: He could or he could stay. I mean the Lakers

2048
01:36:45,000 --> 01:36:47,079
have to look out for the Lakers sands Lebron right

2049
01:36:47,199 --> 01:36:47,840
watching friction.

2050
01:36:47,960 --> 01:36:49,079
Speaker 2: Well, I think that's the stuff with.

2051
01:36:49,079 --> 01:36:51,800
Speaker 3: Bronni has really upset a lot of people. People are

2052
01:36:51,800 --> 01:36:53,479
just coming around to the fact that you think Lebron

2053
01:36:53,560 --> 01:36:57,000
was using nepotism. No kidding, of course he was. Bronni's

2054
01:36:57,039 --> 01:36:59,640
not an NBA player, He's barely a G League player.

2055
01:37:00,319 --> 01:37:06,600
Speaker 1: I wonder if they will, like uh, were let finish

2056
01:37:06,680 --> 01:37:08,199
the season and then retire.

2057
01:37:08,439 --> 01:37:11,159
Speaker 4: He could he very well could, or he could go

2058
01:37:11,199 --> 01:37:13,079
like I think Lebron to chase one more ring.

2059
01:37:13,239 --> 01:37:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like like could this help that you could with

2060
01:37:16,119 --> 01:37:19,279
don Yeah? Yeah, very well? Could from Dallas very well.

2061
01:37:19,560 --> 01:37:21,720
Speaker 3: I mean that Adam Schefter said this is like trading

2062
01:37:21,720 --> 01:37:24,760
in football terms, Joe Burrow for Lamar Jackson in mid season.

2063
01:37:25,560 --> 01:37:27,439
Speaker 4: I don't know if I'll go that far far.

2064
01:37:27,560 --> 01:37:30,359
Speaker 1: Well, here's the problem that I think that Dallas had

2065
01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:33,359
and I remember reading this a while ago. I think

2066
01:37:33,399 --> 01:37:35,680
they were it was him and who's the guy in

2067
01:37:35,720 --> 01:37:41,880
the Nuggets, Oh Joker, Yeah, Jocob Jo. I think both

2068
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:46,159
these guys, if I remember reading it, are are not

2069
01:37:46,279 --> 01:37:49,720
in shape. It wouldn't surprise me. I think they were.

2070
01:37:50,399 --> 01:37:56,039
I'm I thought Dallas was concerned about Doncik's conditioning. And

2071
01:37:56,079 --> 01:37:59,840
I think when Luca went to the finals, they didn't

2072
01:37:59,840 --> 01:38:04,199
think you have the stamina to go as they've lost,

2073
01:38:04,199 --> 01:38:07,119
didn't they? Yes, they lost, yes to the Celtics. So

2074
01:38:07,279 --> 01:38:09,479
I think like it was came down to by the way.

2075
01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:11,359
Speaker 3: By the way, the fact that you had to pause

2076
01:38:11,359 --> 01:38:12,880
because I had to pause too to remember that the

2077
01:38:12,880 --> 01:38:15,439
Celtics won the NBA Finals tells you exactly where the NBA.

2078
01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:19,640
Speaker 2: Okay, did we learn that already?

2079
01:38:19,720 --> 01:38:20,560
Speaker 4: But I had to pause too.

2080
01:38:20,680 --> 01:38:21,199
Speaker 1: That's the point.

2081
01:38:21,279 --> 01:38:24,119
Speaker 4: I follow sports. That's not that's I know, but that's

2082
01:38:24,119 --> 01:38:24,880
where the NBA is at.

2083
01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:27,920
Speaker 1: I like basketball, you do, Yes, I do, and I've

2084
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:32,279
enjoyed I you know, I never played organized basketball because

2085
01:38:32,279 --> 01:38:33,720
I had never been cut from a team, and I

2086
01:38:33,760 --> 01:38:35,560
thought I would get cut, so I couldn't handle it.

2087
01:38:35,640 --> 01:38:40,640
Speaker 3: The imagine worst decision, Imagine having to sit down. Did

2088
01:38:40,680 --> 01:38:43,439
we're both football fans though, yeah, imagine I would sit down. Okay,

2089
01:38:43,479 --> 01:38:46,000
the NFL needs to brainstorm about ten new rules. Okay,

2090
01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:47,840
how about we make the gold post wider.

2091
01:38:48,800 --> 01:38:49,720
Speaker 4: I mean, like this is what they talk of.

2092
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:51,520
Speaker 3: They're talking about like getting rid of the three point

2093
01:38:51,520 --> 01:38:54,479
line altogether, or extending three point line from sideline to

2094
01:38:54,560 --> 01:38:56,760
sidelince so now you can't go in the corner and shoot,

2095
01:38:57,039 --> 01:38:59,760
and then reinstituting defense. I mean, they're talking about all

2096
01:38:59,800 --> 01:39:03,079
kinds of rule changes because the game sucks, it's not

2097
01:39:03,159 --> 01:39:03,880
fun to watch.

2098
01:39:04,159 --> 01:39:09,119
Speaker 4: They've they've legislated defense to the nineties. Yes, thank you.

2099
01:39:09,359 --> 01:39:11,920
I mean my my son people played defense.

2100
01:39:12,000 --> 01:39:13,800
Speaker 1: My son came to me and go said to me,

2101
01:39:14,359 --> 01:39:19,000
tell me who the three greatest Heat players in Heat

2102
01:39:19,079 --> 01:39:23,960
history Miami Heat ever were And I go, well, I know,

2103
01:39:24,039 --> 01:39:27,640
I said, the easy answer to that is Lebron, James

2104
01:39:28,600 --> 01:39:32,479
and uh O'Neill. Well, I said to Shaquille and he so,

2105
01:39:33,199 --> 01:39:35,520
I said, Shaquilla and he goes. Shaquille was was trash

2106
01:39:35,600 --> 01:39:37,119
when he was with that team, and he was, but

2107
01:39:37,159 --> 01:39:37,600
he helped them.

2108
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:39,079
Speaker 4: But he he was the missing piece they want, they

2109
01:39:39,079 --> 01:39:40,159
want to ring they.

2110
01:39:40,039 --> 01:39:40,560
Speaker 1: Did with him.

2111
01:39:40,680 --> 01:39:42,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, Dwayne Wade, nurse Shaq came in.

2112
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm just Dayne Wade.

2113
01:39:43,720 --> 01:39:44,560
Speaker 4: This is dwayn Wade's team.

2114
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:45,319
Speaker 1: I'm just a big brother.

2115
01:39:45,439 --> 01:39:47,800
Speaker 2: Okay, it was d Wade, but that was he was

2116
01:39:47,800 --> 01:39:48,119
at the end.

2117
01:39:48,159 --> 01:39:49,039
Speaker 4: Shack was at the end of his career.

2118
01:39:49,159 --> 01:39:49,359
Speaker 1: Kobe.

2119
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:51,079
Speaker 4: Kobe wanted Shack out of LA because he was out

2120
01:39:51,119 --> 01:39:51,520
of shape.

2121
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:55,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, but wait, was that with Lebron on there too?

2122
01:39:55,239 --> 01:39:58,520
Speaker 4: No, Lebron came later. Lebron came with Chris Bosh and

2123
01:39:58,680 --> 01:39:59,439
joined Dwayne Wade.

2124
01:39:59,520 --> 01:40:01,840
Speaker 1: Okay, so d Wade and Shaq Okay, So I did

2125
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:03,399
say Shack and he goes and he was kind of

2126
01:40:03,399 --> 01:40:06,079
trash there, man, I go, I said, but I'll tell

2127
01:40:06,079 --> 01:40:10,159
you about my two were d Wade, Lebron and then

2128
01:40:10,199 --> 01:40:14,720
I said, and he argued with me, Alonzo Mourning, and

2129
01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:17,520
he said great. He said to me, who's the guy

2130
01:40:17,560 --> 01:40:20,760
now that's in the argument with he wants one hundred

2131
01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:23,239
and fifty million and they're talking one hundred and thirty million.

2132
01:40:23,279 --> 01:40:26,359
Oh yeah, Butler, Jimmy Butler. My son said, Jimmy Butler,

2133
01:40:26,840 --> 01:40:29,520
and Jimmy Butler's had amazing stats. He goes, he's he's

2134
01:40:29,600 --> 01:40:32,840
the greatest. He may be the greatest. Miami heat just

2135
01:40:32,880 --> 01:40:33,560
doesn't get any.

2136
01:40:34,079 --> 01:40:35,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, but he's a pain in the you know what.

2137
01:40:35,520 --> 01:40:37,880
Speaker 1: But I go, go back, I said, I go, here's

2138
01:40:37,920 --> 01:40:40,479
the problem. You didn't see Alonzo morning play. No, I go,

2139
01:40:40,560 --> 01:40:41,319
you weren't around.

2140
01:40:41,399 --> 01:40:42,279
Speaker 2: I go, but there was a.

2141
01:40:42,199 --> 01:40:45,680
Speaker 3: Good one kidney you well, he when was the kidney?

2142
01:40:45,720 --> 01:40:47,439
I think that the kidney failure was after.

2143
01:40:47,239 --> 01:40:49,920
Speaker 2: It Yeah, I think it was after a forced retirement.

2144
01:40:50,039 --> 01:40:50,199
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2145
01:40:50,199 --> 01:40:51,720
Speaker 4: But the point is that he was playing with one

2146
01:40:51,760 --> 01:40:52,640
functional kidney.

2147
01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:55,760
Speaker 1: Yes, And I said, he was a big dude. And

2148
01:40:55,880 --> 01:40:57,800
I said. The greatest thing is I said. There was

2149
01:40:57,800 --> 01:41:02,159
a guy who was once the head coach of the

2150
01:41:02,199 --> 01:41:07,279
McQuaid Knights. I said, and there was a fight and

2151
01:41:07,319 --> 01:41:11,000
I think it was Charles Oakley and Alonzo Morning, I think,

2152
01:41:11,199 --> 01:41:14,840
and I don't remember who was from Morning Morning. I

2153
01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:16,840
think it was Oakley, and they started to get in it,

2154
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:19,399
and Jeff Van Gundy got in the middle of it,

2155
01:41:19,680 --> 01:41:22,239
and I said, you can look this up. I'm pretty

2156
01:41:22,279 --> 01:41:25,239
sure I haven't looked it up because I saw it.

2157
01:41:25,279 --> 01:41:27,800
I could still see it in my mind. He wound

2158
01:41:27,880 --> 01:41:31,199
up getting knocked down like they're swinging and he he

2159
01:41:31,399 --> 01:41:33,439
and he wasn't that tall. I don't know how. I've

2160
01:41:33,439 --> 01:41:36,760
never met Van Gundy. So he fell to the ground

2161
01:41:36,880 --> 01:41:40,319
and he wrapped his hands around Alonzo Morning's ankle, and

2162
01:41:40,359 --> 01:41:42,880
Alonso just kept walking with him, and he's like sweeping

2163
01:41:42,960 --> 01:41:45,520
the floor with Van Gundy. It was one of the

2164
01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:49,840
funniest freaking things I had ever seen. It is it's

2165
01:41:49,880 --> 01:41:53,479
gotta be out there. But Alonzo, to me, was an

2166
01:41:53,560 --> 01:41:54,359
amazing player.

2167
01:41:54,399 --> 01:41:56,560
Speaker 3: It was in a great shape when he and Larry

2168
01:41:56,600 --> 01:41:58,159
Johnson played together with the Hornets.

2169
01:41:58,199 --> 01:41:59,800
Speaker 4: A lot of kids in my forgot.

2170
01:41:59,800 --> 01:42:02,039
Speaker 3: He was, Oh, yeah, that's how Yeah, the original Hornets,

2171
01:42:02,039 --> 01:42:04,840
not this new hornt Yeah. And like everybody in school,

2172
01:42:04,880 --> 01:42:07,000
one out of every five kids had a Charlotte Hornets

2173
01:42:07,000 --> 01:42:07,760
starter jacket.

2174
01:42:08,119 --> 01:42:09,720
Speaker 4: Because of Zoe and l J.

2175
01:42:10,319 --> 01:42:13,560
Speaker 3: They were supposed to because Jordan Jordan are just now retired,

2176
01:42:13,640 --> 01:42:17,079
right y, Yeah, for the first time. So who's going

2177
01:42:17,159 --> 01:42:19,319
to take the man to an eighties cool colors? And

2178
01:42:19,399 --> 01:42:23,880
they were on TV and Alonzo Morning. I'm sorry Larry

2179
01:42:23,920 --> 01:42:28,600
Johnson played Grandmama. Yes, but you know, Alonzo had a

2180
01:42:28,600 --> 01:42:32,279
lot of injuries. Zoe couldn't and l j couldn't stay

2181
01:42:32,319 --> 01:42:34,920
in shape, and so and a bunch of Jordan came

2182
01:42:34,960 --> 01:42:37,680
back and put the whole matter to rest. But I

2183
01:42:37,680 --> 01:42:39,800
mean the nineties and even the late eighties when like

2184
01:42:39,840 --> 01:42:41,319
the bad Boy Pistons, like and you want to see

2185
01:42:41,399 --> 01:42:44,000
kids play defense, those guys played defense. You didn't go

2186
01:42:44,039 --> 01:42:46,319
into the lane without getting like your job broken, right

2187
01:42:46,319 --> 01:42:46,880
every time?

2188
01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I'm even watching h I mean, I'm watching

2189
01:42:49,960 --> 01:42:53,880
my son. He played against It's a team Friday night

2190
01:42:54,159 --> 01:42:57,000
and they had a big dude and he's saying to

2191
01:42:57,039 --> 01:43:00,000
me afterwards, the chirping. Now I knew one of the refs.

2192
01:43:00,560 --> 01:43:02,359
One of the refs used to be an intern of mine.

2193
01:43:02,960 --> 01:43:06,279
Oh wow, many many years ago when I was in promotions.

2194
01:43:06,279 --> 01:43:10,199
I was probably about twenty three, and he's now he

2195
01:43:10,279 --> 01:43:12,199
was a ref and he all of a sudden, he

2196
01:43:12,359 --> 01:43:17,119
yells at the kids, let us ref and then he

2197
01:43:17,199 --> 01:43:21,560
yelled at the opposing team's fan base. So then I

2198
01:43:21,600 --> 01:43:23,119
walked out to him Africa, so I don't want to

2199
01:43:23,119 --> 01:43:23,880
hear it. I go no.

2200
01:43:23,960 --> 01:43:26,520
Speaker 2: I was highly entertained. I loved it. I loved it.

2201
01:43:26,640 --> 01:43:28,800
Speaker 1: I go. I even loved when the kid tossed you

2202
01:43:28,880 --> 01:43:31,319
the or went to toss the ball to you or something.

2203
01:43:31,479 --> 01:43:32,479
You just let it go. He goes.

2204
01:43:32,680 --> 01:43:33,720
Speaker 4: I just he goes.

2205
01:43:33,760 --> 01:43:35,640
Speaker 1: Come on, guys. So then he said to me, is

2206
01:43:35,680 --> 01:43:37,960
at your son? I said, yeah, he goes, he goes. Boy,

2207
01:43:38,079 --> 01:43:39,720
his emotions weren't in the game, but he kept it

2208
01:43:39,800 --> 01:43:43,720
under control. So then Jamison's telling me about all the

2209
01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:45,600
chirping that was going on. And there was a kid

2210
01:43:45,640 --> 01:43:47,640
who was big. He was probably about six or two,

2211
01:43:47,840 --> 01:43:52,359
but heavy, like a big guy wide right, and so

2212
01:43:52,560 --> 01:43:55,119
Jamison wound up on him and they're kind of going

2213
01:43:55,159 --> 01:43:57,560
back and forth, and the guy said something to him,

2214
01:43:57,560 --> 01:43:59,560
and Jameison goes, man, I can smell you big time.

2215
01:44:02,079 --> 01:44:06,479
He goes, Man's whatever, bullshit thinks he's talking. But there

2216
01:44:06,560 --> 01:44:08,720
was a lot of physicality in there. There was a

2217
01:44:08,720 --> 01:44:11,079
lot and you know, he's throwing it. That's what I'm

2218
01:44:11,079 --> 01:44:13,399
saying that we got to get stronger because you could

2219
01:44:13,439 --> 01:44:15,680
be a great player. You're gonna have the size of

2220
01:44:15,720 --> 01:44:17,119
your brother. Yeah, and you could have.

2221
01:44:17,159 --> 01:44:18,640
Speaker 3: That's the thing about high school and college to let

2222
01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:20,880
you play, Yes, they don't what you play.

2223
01:44:20,960 --> 01:44:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, to play. But it's like nobody's playing defense.

2224
01:44:23,039 --> 01:44:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they need to.

2225
01:44:24,279 --> 01:44:26,079
Speaker 3: In three they got when they got rid of the

2226
01:44:26,079 --> 01:44:27,960
handschecking rule. That was the end of the game.

2227
01:44:28,399 --> 01:44:29,079
Speaker 1: That was the end of the game.

2228
01:44:29,119 --> 01:44:31,319
Speaker 3: That's why everybody it's not the fact that Jordan's better

2229
01:44:31,319 --> 01:44:33,640
than Lebron. That's not the issue. No, the fact that

2230
01:44:33,800 --> 01:44:36,840
Jordan's game. You give Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen and those

2231
01:44:36,880 --> 01:44:39,439
Bulls teams. The ninety eight Bulls are running today's NBA.

2232
01:44:39,800 --> 01:44:41,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, no one's beating them.

2233
01:44:41,560 --> 01:44:42,359
Speaker 4: No one's beating them.

2234
01:44:42,720 --> 01:44:44,520
Speaker 1: Probably, I probably not.

2235
01:44:44,800 --> 01:44:47,039
Speaker 3: Don't you put any team that's won a champions in

2236
01:44:47,039 --> 01:44:49,079
the last twenty years of the nineties, they're getting their

2237
01:44:49,119 --> 01:44:50,239
asses kicked by the bulls.

2238
01:44:50,279 --> 01:44:51,880
Speaker 4: You want to know why I think defense?

2239
01:44:51,960 --> 01:44:54,680
Speaker 1: I think Michael. I think Lebron might have done well

2240
01:44:54,680 --> 01:44:57,199
in there. He's big, right, He's a big guy that

2241
01:44:57,279 --> 01:44:59,399
he could do that strong. I don't know.

2242
01:45:00,119 --> 01:45:02,640
Speaker 3: Kobe could probably play with those guys. Yeah, but I

2243
01:45:02,640 --> 01:45:04,279
don't think any of Lebron's teams could do it. I'm

2244
01:45:04,279 --> 01:45:06,119
not taking anything away from Lebron. It was a different

2245
01:45:06,199 --> 01:45:09,479
game than you could play defense. You can't play defense anymore.

2246
01:45:09,479 --> 01:45:11,920
Speaker 1: I wonder what's uh? I wonder how this will do

2247
01:45:11,960 --> 01:45:15,439
for the NBA though the Don chikn and no people are.

2248
01:45:15,359 --> 01:45:16,359
Speaker 4: Paying attention Davis.

2249
01:45:16,439 --> 01:45:20,319
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean this was a blockbuster trade. It really was.

2250
01:45:20,399 --> 01:45:23,640
Speaker 1: And if you're not look, I've always been told this

2251
01:45:23,680 --> 01:45:25,920
is not a basket where we do the podcast from

2252
01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:30,079
not a basketball down and whatever this is, I think seismic.

2253
01:45:30,319 --> 01:45:31,239
I think seismic for the.

2254
01:45:31,680 --> 01:45:33,560
Speaker 3: Let me put you this way, most people listening to

2255
01:45:33,560 --> 01:45:36,239
our podcast. If an NBA play, if the five best

2256
01:45:36,399 --> 01:45:40,359
NBA players walked down the street, you probably recognize them. Yes,

2257
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:44,000
five best hockey players, I don't know. I don't think so.

2258
01:45:44,199 --> 01:45:46,800
Five best baseball players, I don't think so. No, five

2259
01:45:46,840 --> 01:45:49,960
best NFL players. Take the quarterbacks out of it.

2260
01:45:50,000 --> 01:45:50,479
Speaker 1: Did you see her?

2261
01:45:50,560 --> 01:45:51,640
Speaker 4: You may not recognize them.

2262
01:45:51,720 --> 01:45:54,000
Speaker 1: Our J's post, Yeah he was with Don Mattically.

2263
01:45:54,239 --> 01:45:55,520
Speaker 2: We could do a double take.

2264
01:45:55,600 --> 01:45:57,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, Itatic maddingly looks good.

2265
01:45:57,479 --> 01:45:59,439
Speaker 2: He looked, but he shaved the mustach.

2266
01:45:59,079 --> 01:46:00,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, well he saved the must as well.

2267
01:46:00,399 --> 01:46:02,880
Speaker 1: A go, But is why why did he say talking

2268
01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:05,279
Western New York? If maddically from Western New York?

2269
01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:08,159
Speaker 4: I was always upsessteredate Evansville, Indiana.

2270
01:46:08,319 --> 01:46:10,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he goes in talking Western New York. I

2271
01:46:10,560 --> 01:46:12,039
don't know what that was. Maybe they were talking about

2272
01:46:12,039 --> 01:46:14,159
the Bills and Josh Allen or something, but he's That's

2273
01:46:14,159 --> 01:46:15,560
what he wrote in his caption, and that's why I

2274
01:46:15,600 --> 01:46:16,600
thought he was from evan.

2275
01:46:16,399 --> 01:46:18,600
Speaker 3: Well, well, so he was friends with I think the

2276
01:46:18,680 --> 01:46:21,840
lake Ken Kaiser. Kaiser used to bring him out for

2277
01:46:21,880 --> 01:46:24,000
dinners every year. Okay, all right, that makes a lot

2278
01:46:24,039 --> 01:46:25,399
more sense in Rochester. I don't know if you ever

2279
01:46:25,399 --> 01:46:27,680
went the Buffalo that Madally's a good dude.

2280
01:46:28,079 --> 01:46:31,439
Speaker 1: I always felt bad somewhere. I have a picture with

2281
01:46:31,560 --> 01:46:34,359
a camera when I was into photography for a few

2282
01:46:34,359 --> 01:46:38,600
minutes until so it doesn't matter, but I think there's

2283
01:46:38,600 --> 01:46:42,159
probably even nude somewhere I could find, not of me,

2284
01:46:43,319 --> 01:46:46,920
but the uh. I remember going to Yankee game and

2285
01:46:46,960 --> 01:46:50,279
taking pictures of not Maddingly playing first base. But they

2286
01:46:50,319 --> 01:46:53,199
never won a World Series with Maddingly. Isn't that funny? Yeah?

2287
01:46:53,239 --> 01:46:54,000
Speaker 4: No, it's sad.

2288
01:46:55,880 --> 01:46:58,479
Speaker 3: The stark happens. That was that was the best team

2289
01:46:58,479 --> 01:47:01,000
matically ever played on Ye. They end up winning the

2290
01:47:01,000 --> 01:47:04,199
wild card in Toronto. The Blue Jays were classy enough

2291
01:47:04,199 --> 01:47:06,800
to shoot off fireworks after they had done it the.

2292
01:47:06,840 --> 01:47:09,560
Speaker 4: Yankees in their town. So they they're up two games

2293
01:47:09,680 --> 01:47:10,600
to none against Seattle.

2294
01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:13,000
Speaker 3: Seadlans comes back and beats them, and manningally goes, I

2295
01:47:13,000 --> 01:47:14,279
don't know if I'm gonna come back. I'm gonna take

2296
01:47:14,279 --> 01:47:17,560
a year off and think ninety six. They bring in

2297
01:47:17,600 --> 01:47:19,399
Tino Martinez. They're like, well, we got to move on

2298
01:47:19,479 --> 01:47:22,119
without you. And they win the World Series and Mannically

2299
01:47:22,199 --> 01:47:24,880
comes back and says, yeah, I'm done. I can't come back,

2300
01:47:24,960 --> 01:47:27,680
and they gave him Manically a ring. Nonetheless, they gave

2301
01:47:27,760 --> 01:47:29,239
him the ninety six World Championship ring.

2302
01:47:29,279 --> 01:47:31,279
Speaker 2: They said, yeah, but it's not the same you didn't

2303
01:47:31,279 --> 01:47:31,600
play for.

2304
01:47:31,640 --> 01:47:33,600
Speaker 1: It's not the same thing.

2305
01:47:33,680 --> 01:47:34,880
Speaker 4: No, it's not, it's not.

2306
01:47:34,960 --> 01:47:37,239
Speaker 3: But man like Matdically was like the greatest Jankie had

2307
01:47:37,319 --> 01:47:39,119
never played a World Series.

2308
01:47:39,359 --> 01:47:43,600
Speaker 1: I agree, he was a great player, fun guy, almost

2309
01:47:43,640 --> 01:47:47,439
the captain. It like Bucky Den. I don't remember Bucky

2310
01:47:47,479 --> 01:47:48,079
Den a little bit.

2311
01:47:48,119 --> 01:47:51,159
Speaker 4: Well badly had a mustache. Ye, Bucky never had a mustache.

2312
01:47:51,119 --> 01:47:51,640
Speaker 1: Bucky did not.

2313
01:47:51,680 --> 01:47:52,880
Speaker 2: Well, you couldn't have facial hair.

2314
01:47:52,800 --> 01:47:53,359
Speaker 1: As a Yankee.

2315
01:47:53,399 --> 01:47:56,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, well you couldn't. You had to have a trim. Oh,

2316
01:47:56,399 --> 01:47:57,279
you had to keep your hair well.

2317
01:47:57,319 --> 01:48:00,319
Speaker 1: Wait, Goose Gossage had the big handle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, depending on the style. But then Steiner's are cracking

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the whip. By the way, there's a lot of angry

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Yankee fans right now. Why now, they're saying that Hall

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doesn't spend money. He only spends three hundred million dollars

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in the payroll.

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Speaker 4: But he's cheap, right me a break?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 4: For Dan Barrillo, This Yankee team's gonna better than last year's.

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Speaker 2: You watch you can't stop.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, he's all you gotta.

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Speaker 4: He's getting into comic Thursday.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about patures and catchers, folks.

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Speaker 2: Pictures and catchers are reporting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the bills are done.

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Speaker 1: Why not? I like the fact. I like Life Coach Dan.

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I think we do a Life Coach segment consequence. If

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you need any help, if you're in a situation, yeah,

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you can write us. You can do it right any

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find us on the email. You can just send it

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to beat Moran Productions at outlook dot com. We'll get

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you on and let life coach dam.

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Speaker 4: I like you if I can help you out, all right, we'll.

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Speaker 1: Get to well, uh, we'll.

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Speaker 4: Do all that the grace of God to help you out.

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Speaker 1: For Dan Barillo, I Bill Moran, and I will see

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you tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: Mark did not go dogs.

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Speaker 1: There wasn't one then at and.

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Speaker 4: There wasn't one Dodger.

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Speaker 3: There wasn't one Japanese man to mate.

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Speaker 6: Just break the great a Cadillac of Tennessee bates what

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she's someone taken once before she was sa