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your exploration. Yo yo yo. I am back that guy
that likes to ask questions. And the reason why is
because the fund begins when you start researching for answers
such as if opposites truly attract, then why is there
still war? Plus how do we mend areas of distraction
inside a gift of attraction? My name is Arrow. I'm
a daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the
sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study that activate.
I happen to call it the daily Mess. It is
a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my
morning ride. As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we
as people tend to throw things to the side because
we have convinced ourselves we're gonna deal with this later, okay, self, Well,
when a subject arrives inside of me. I know it's
time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal.
But but but but but by doing the research, that
picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. If opposites
truly attract, why is there so much war? Wow? Let
me tell you what research did with me. It quickly
readdressed my process. The term opposites attract applies to individual
relationships through thick and thin. There's going to be differences
pulling the lens back though. We see that there is
a story here that compliments each other, Meaning opposites do attract.
War happens for very different reasons. People don't automatically go
into a war because something or someone says, well, oh,
we've got something that is indifferent. Political leadership, propaganda, or
historical grievances push countries into war. The situation in Israel
and Gaza isn't about opposites attracting, but rather their history, land, identity, trauma,
and power. Having an opposite can feel like a threat.
Now on a personal level, remember the individual thing having
an opposite view can be intriguing, whereas group levels, Ooh,
that opposite can latch onto a feeling of something being
very dangerous the Cold War. Let's bring that up. That
is a great example capitalism versus communism, the opposite created friction.
Coming up next. If opposites do or don't attract, how
can we just get along? Hey, welcome back to the
daily mess. If opposites are said to attract, why do
we always fall witness to war? Well, first, attraction requires safety, awareness,
complete control of your emotions. When opposites do attract, there
has to be curiosity, mutual respect, and internal security. War
breaks out when fear steps onto the dance floor. Other
fire starters include unresolved trauma and a power imbalance. Without safety,
differences will turn into defense. The human being is wired
for belonging, so we got to bring in the psychological thing.
And psychologically speaking, we bond strongly with groups. When the
identity becomes you know, a little bit rigid, Well, that's
where your enemies are born. So why don't opposites that
attract prevent war? Well, when you're attracted to a person,
it's about complimenting. War is all about control, fear, and
the act of survival. Opposites do attract when people feel
secure enough to not feel threatened by these things. That
are around us that create the indifferences. The real question
is what are you thinking about in the house of
opposites attracting? Is it personal or is your opposites attracting
more of a global level. I A Yi, I'm harrow
and that's the daily mess.