Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, everyone.
Speaker 2: Oh welcome back to this week's episode of Your Manifesting
Bestie Podcast, Season four. Happy September to everyone, Happy seasons change.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited and so thrilled for the fall.
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's going to be warm and
cozy and successful and exciting.
Speaker 1: And the holidays, Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I love this time of year. I hope you're enjoying
it as well. This week, I really want to give
you guys a proper formula that you can start using
to break down the barriers of your limiting beliefs and
start changing your identity and change your self concept successfully.
Speaker 1: And this is a formula that once I.
Speaker 2: Began applying into things that I was actually conscious of,
like problems I have that I'm aware of, and I
began to break them down, almost like an onion that
needs to keep being peeled right, we peel down the
layers over and over again. I realize that I'm able
to transition and transform my belief state about certain topics
a lot faster than I was before. And I want
to go through a couple of examples of how this
worked for a few of my clients later on in
the episode. But the key point in here that I
want to go over is you know how we always
talk about how your personality shapes your personal reality. I
feel like we don't utilize the knowledge behind that enough.
Like if my personality can change, like I can change
who I am down to a reaction level, down to
an emotional level, then I'm actually energetically changing, and my
identity can shift. And if my identity can shift, then
my entire reality has to change because as within so
without anything happening inside of me and going on inside
of me, and the way that I energetically embody myself right,
my beliefs, my emotions and everything is how my world
reflects back to me, is how the world physically manifests
for me. But a common issue that we come across
is just a lack of self awareness. So we're more
so behaving as the reactor and our realc instead of
the observer. And you actually are the observer because if
you just quiet yourself for like five seconds, you'll notice
you have thoughts going on in your mind and you
can just sit back and observe them. So if you
are the observer and you can flex this observation muscle
more and more, you're going to become so self aware
and so conscious of the limits that you're placing upon
yourself throughout the day, and then you can successfully change them.
But if we're lacking that self awareness, it's really difficult
to kind of dig deep and peel back those onions
and those layers of the things that we really need
to work on. For example, you might think the reason
you can't manifest money is like you're not taking enough
action or you're not good enough, But the layers behind
that are so much deeper, and we're going to figure
out how to get down to the bottom of the pit.
Because when we can change that foundation belief, the soul belief,
that core belief, that unconscious belief that we're not normally
consciously aware of in our waking moments, then the change
can happen because then my personality can really start to
because I'm not playing the guesting game. I'm actually going
to be like, oh no, that fear I had it
was so illogical, or that belief I had was so illogical,
and I don't even know where maybe it's themed from,
or maybe I do know where it's theemed from, but
I can now eliminate the root cause rather than the
surface cause of what I used to think it was.
And I hope I'm not getting carried of waiting as
or following along on this.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I had a conversation with my client and she
is experiencing a cap, for example, in her life, and
this cap is financial. You might be able to relate
if maybe if you're a business owner, or if you're
working a job or anything where you're you know, depending
on your income. Right, You're depending on your income for
your sense of security and life to be taken care of,
because hello, we need money, right for the world to
go around, we need money to survive. So she kept
hitting this cap, and this might be where you are too.
So in her business, she has this cap that she's
been hitting for I want to say, six months, and
she cannot work past this cap. So I'm going to
give a rough number. Her cap is like fifty thousand
dollars a monthly. Some people might look at it and
be like, oh my god, that's an amazing number, and
then some people who are light years ahead of that
are like, oh, yeah, that's that's not much. She can
totally do better than that. So that's her cap. Her
cap is around fifty k monthly. She cannot bust through that,
she can't work past it, she can't like propel through
that cap that you know she has on herself subconsciously.
So we went through this little process of analyzing of
what where that cap is coming from, on how we
can release it. And you can use this the same
exact like formula or same exact method for any other area.
And we'll talk about a couple other areas too on
this podcast or on this episode. So I began having
to kind of train her consciously rather than subconsciously to
first become the observer, because if we're going to do
this consciously, then eventually it'll be kind of submerged into
the subconscious mind. So Step one was observe what the
limiting belief is. So her limiting belief is she just
can't break through fifty k months, so she has a
cap on her she feels like she's blocked. Okay, that's
number one. Observe the fear or the limiting belief. And
then the next thing that we had to go over
is what does that resistance tell you about yourself? And
what she was able to identify in that question is
that her resistance is actually fear. Okay, so there's some
type of fear inside of her of what would happen
if she did break through her fifty thousand dollar month.
So I was like, okay, well, what's your biggest goal?
Then she said, right now, my goal is one hundred
thousand dollars a month, So she wants to double it.
She fears she cannot achieve that that's too big of
a number, that's too scary, that's not like in her
realm of possibilities. So then we broke it down even further.
The next question was what do I fear about this outcome?
And this took her a little bit to answer, but
then we had like an overflow of fears that came
with that one hundred thousand dollars monthly goal, and the
fears that came up for her Number one was if
she achieves that number, there's gonna be way too many
eyes on her, like that comes with blowing up on
social media. So this still has this fear of being perceived,
fear of being seen, fear of being a fraud, people
thinking she's a fraud or she's not good enough. So
this comes from imposter syndrome as well. So then she
had other fears. If she's that successful, what is her
family going to think about her? Who does she think
she is?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Then another fear that she had that came up was
would she still be able to perform as a good
mom because she has two kids, So if she is
making that much money, that would likely require her to
just be way more involved in her business, and she's
afraid of that because she still wants to be a
very involved mom. So she felt like she was going
to lose control and that she has to pick one
or the other. So all these lingering fears started coming up.
Fear of being perceived, fear of being seen right, fear
of not balancing her career in her home life, all
these different things. So the fear was not it had
nothing to do with the money. So it's not that
she believes she's not capable of achieving it. It's that
what comes with it once it shows up. And then
I was like, Okay, what other fears you have? We
just kept peeling back these layers. Another fear that came
up for her was that she doesn't feel that her
systems in place are well equipped to handle that volume
of clients. She feels like that would be such a
large handful, and then she would be overwhelmed and stressed
with work because she really does handle all of it
by herself. Doesn't have like an assistant or customer support
or tech support or anybody for her online business, so
she runs the whole show alone. And I totally relate
to her because I do the same thing pretty much
by myself. So I know having an influx of clients
can be very scary. So the more that we peeled
back the resistance of I can't beat that fifty thousand
dollar a month. I can't move past it. It has
nothing to do with her being like, well I don't
think I'm good enough for it, or I don't think
I can achieve it. It's that I can achieve it,
but I'm fucking terrified of what comes with it. So
I was like, Okay, well, what other fear do you have?
I just kept digging and digging and digging.
Speaker 1: Into her brain.
Speaker 2: Because fears control us, Fears they overcome us, Fears paralyze us.
Fears stop us from being who we truly are authentically,
I'm like, Okay, what other fears do you have? She
said that she has never experienced that amount of money,
and she feels like she'll blow it, she'll go spend
all of it, and she won't know how to manage
her money because she has a history of poor money
management in her past from when she was like in
her twenties. And I was like, okay, that's also valid.
So if I did manifest one hundred k months, my
fears I would blow it. I wouldn't be smart with it,
I wouldn't invest it. I don't know how to properly
manage it. So there's all these fears that she has
around the actual desire of achieving one hundred thousand dollars
monthly income. But if we didn't peel back all these
layers and observe what the actual resistance means, she would
still think that she just can't manifest that money because
maybe she's not taking enough action, or she's just not
good enough at her business. She's not a good enough coach,
she's not good enough at this, she's unworthy. It has
nothing to do with any of those things. Her fears
came from what comes with the desire. So if I
actually receive the desire, what issues am I going to
experience with it? So that is what was holding her back.
So if we can peel back these layers of the
resistance stems from not that I don't believe I can
have it, but my fear is the belief of what
comes with having that massive desire. And then we can
break down that a lot of these fears are irrational,
a lot of these fears are completely okay, and they
can be worked through and we can find balance and
we can find solutions for it. Right, then then we
can cap out, we can pass that cap of fifty
k months, surpass it, double it, and then you can
achieve your goal. And then obviously the question is, well,
how the fuck do I do that?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: So the next step we want to take and peeling
back these onions and these layers. Obviously you're gonna want
to start training your body into a new emotional response
to the idea. And the only way we can truly
do that is through nervous system regulation. If you follow
me on social media, you know, I'm like so fucking
big on that.
Speaker 1: I harp on it.
Speaker 2: If you're in my academy, I harp on it. I'm like,
you gotta regulate your nervous system two three times a day,
do it, go, go, go like I. It really is
such a missing component that unfortunately people look past or
they don't take it seriously enough. Because if your nervous
system is in control of you, okay, it's in control
of your emotional responses, your emotional reactions, your energetic state,
the way that you feel throughout the day. If you're
chronically anxious, your nervous system is disregulated. If you are
always pessimistic or always doubtful, or always living in fear,
your nervous system is disregulated.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: If you fear to speak up and be bold and
be yourself and be authentic, your nervous system is disregulated.
If you're in a functional free zone where you just
cannot take action, you're frozen, your nervous system is disregulated.
And these are the blockages that people face. So step one,
regulate that freaking nervous system. Okay, take it seriously. Do
the breath work, do the eft, do the ice facials.
Go jump on a trampoline or a rebounder. Okay, go
on those outdoor walks, do the cold plunges and the
cold showers.
Speaker 1: There's so many ways.
Speaker 2: To regulate yourself, and this needs to be taken just
as seriously as like eating healthy, drinking enough water, brushing
your teeth as soon as you wake up, speaking positively
to yourself. These are all important things throughout your day
that you know you need to do. So this is
something that you need to do, So don't skip that
step number one and then number two of peeling back
these onions and like digging deeper so that we can
start actually changing and being that observer of like, Okay,
I'm not actually my thoughts and fears. I can just
realize these things are kind of irrational, or I can
change my behavior towards them, since my personality reflects my
personal reality. Right, So the next thing that we want
to do is once you've identified those fears of why
you believe you wouldn't be able to handle the desire
if it were to show up today, like why you
don't feel prepared enough for it yet, Like write those
things down and then we're going to find a way
to combat it. So if I were to give you
a piece of paper and I was like, hey, if
you had a desire and of a video kid, gain
character version of you was living through that. So like
think of like sims or think of a video game. Right,
what version of you is living in that desire? How
does that version of you look? And what are like
the appearance of you? And also what are the beliefs
that you would be caring about yourself as you successfully
have achieved that desire? So, when I asked her that question,
her response was, well, that version of me would be
very confident about number one, managing my money. That version
of me would feel very free and abundant. That version
of me would feel like I am an authority figure.
That version of me would show up a lot more
bold in my content on social media because that is
where she actively gets her clients from. She said she
would also take better care of her appearances, so she
would take better care of like her clothes, her hair,
her skin, right, like the physical aspects of how she looks.
She sees herself to be someone that's much more physically
while taken care.
Speaker 1: Of, and the list went on and on.
Speaker 2: Right, she found all these different attributes of feelings and
emotions and behaviors and personality traits that she would carry
if she was living through that desire of already making
one hundred thousand dollars a month. And I was like, wonderful, great,
I'm glad you were able to identify this. Now let's
take it even a step further. How can you show
up as that version of yourself today? Because that is
how we start to change your personality. And if we
can shift your personality to the one hundred thousand dollars
monthly personality of yourself rather than consistently living in the
fifty thousand dollars reality or identity of yourself, then your
personal reality can shift and it will start to reflect
back that one hundred thousand dollars monthly income, right like that.
I know it sounds simple once we break it down
like this, but until we break it down and become
that observer, it's like, okay, well, what the fuck does
she always mean? Like showing up as the identity you know?
I can affirm until my face turns blue. But if
I'm not taking like the aligned action, meaning I'm not
acting like the new version, my personality has not shifted.
I'm not really observing my thoughts. I'm still just reacting
to them. I'm not really making changes in my personality
and in my daily behaviors, so my actions don't yet
reflect the new identity, so my identity cannot shift. I
can keep trying, right, I can keep working on it.
But until I start to actually behave and embody that
one hundred thousand dollars monthly version of myself, then it's
gonna be really difficult for everything else to catch up.
So I asked her, how can we embody right that
version of yourself?
Speaker 1: Number One?
Speaker 2: If your fear of mismanaging all that money, you know
is a big root cause of it, I'm like, well,
let's start to learn how to budget. Let's start to
learn how to invest right. Let's look at the ways
that we can properly spend our money so that we
feel safe around spending, so that we feel proud of
what we're spending, so that we're not just blowing it
on random stuff, but that we're doing things with the
money that feel really good. I'm like, can you do
that now with your current income? And she said, yes, absolutely.
You can even hire someone to help me, like a
financial advisor.
Speaker 1: I'm like, wonderful.
Speaker 2: See, you can now start acting like you already have
that one hundred thousand dollars a month coming in. You
can start identifying as her, you can start behaving like her.
Because now we have a solution to that underlying fear.
What else did she have on that fear? Well, her
fear was that she wouldn't be able to show up
as a good mom and handle that type of business.
I was like, okay, so what about the way that
you're a good mom now that you make fifty thousand
dollars and you still handle your business. I'm like, it's
not a huge difference, is it. She's like, well, I
think I might need some help. I'm like, okay, so
what do you want to be more hands off on
your business systems or help around the house as a mom?
Do you want to either hire a nanny or do
you want to hire a personal assistant in your business?
Let's think about what's more important for you. She said,
it would be a lot easier if I can delegate
a lot of my work to an assistant so she
can respond to my emails, so that she can answer
my DMS and all these things that would make her
feel more relieved and have more time I'm as a mom,
I'm like, okay, can you take action on that now
that you're making fifty k a month? She said, yeah, absolutely,
I've just always been afraid to delegate my work. I'm like, okay,
but that's an irrational fear.
Speaker 1: So let's go do it.
Speaker 2: Let's start acting like you do have that one hundred
thousand dollars monthly coming in right, Let's start behaving like
that version of herselves now and doing the things to
prepare for that manifestation. So I can start acting ready,
I can start feeling good about it. I can start
feeling like I have space for it.
Speaker 1: I can start feeling like I'm already it.
Speaker 2: I'm already her, I'm already that identity, like it starts
already happening now.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So the other fear that she had, I'm trying to
think back on what we talked about. Oh yeah, So
the other fear that she had was that she has
that fear of being seen, Like more clients coming in
means more eyes on her. And I was like, okay,
so how have you been showing up online to get
fifty k months already? Because that's a huge deal. That
already means there's a lot of eyes on you. There's
a lot of prospects, there's a lot of people rolling in.
And she's like, honestly, I just show up more on
my stories to promote myself. But I'm still afraid of
the exposure part, which is like showing up on reels
and tiktoks things that go viral.
Speaker 1: So I was like, Okay, can.
Speaker 2: We start taking action on showing up more consistently in
those areas so that you can start working through the
fear of being seen, working through the fear of being
perceived and becoming successful because honestly, you're already showing up.
It just takes a little bit more practice, a little
bit more self security and self comfort. And she's like, yeah,
but how can I do that? So it's like, okay,
you can do like the pre celebration method. You can
incorporate some mere work into your daily practice before you
show up online so that you feel confident, you feel bold,
and I also want you to start validating yourself that
you already have an insane amount of success, so there's
nothing to fear with more, there's nothing to fear with
doubling it.
Speaker 1: Okay. So we just had to.
Speaker 2: Work through these core fears because the fears or the
belief wasn't that she cannot achieve one hundred k months
is all the things that come with the one hundred
k months. So she was just refusing simply because she
wasn't aware that the fears of what comes with it
is the actual part that was holding her back, and
not that she doesn't, you know, work hard enough, or
that she's not good enough to actually achieve it, or
that she's not capable. Right, because we're all capable to
show up and take action, we're all capable to present
ourselves in a way that can be successful. We're all
capable of getting whatever the fuck we want. It's just
there's an underlying fear that we hold of what comes
with it, so our personality has a block Our personality
is scared to change, so we keep behaving like the
old self because we're just not being observers, we're just
being reactors. Okay, we want to start observing our fears,
our thoughts, and our limits and our blockages so we
can become better creators, write better conscious creators, and work
through these limits. Because it shouldn't take us a whole
lifetime to work through a limiting belief. Okay, we can
tackle it in a couple of months, start behaving like
the new self, and things can kind of start to flow.
The energy of well being can started to start to
flow in. So I'm going to break down those questions
again in case anyone wants to write this down, because
this is something you can work through in every single area.
So Number one, I identify what's my desire. Number two,
identify what is my resistance around the desire? So what
is the limit? And then what does that resistance say
about me?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: The next step is to identify what do I fear
about that outcome. The next step is going to be
peeling back those fears, okay, because we're going to realize
a lot of them are irrational, a lot of them
can just be combated, a lot of them we can
work through pretty simply once they are identified. So figure
out where the resistance is coming from and why you
fear that once it does take place, what would possibly
happen to you? And what you know, like why is
that why it's so scary for you?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: And then ask yourself, why do I believe I cannot
handle it?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: You can write down all your responses like on a
piece of paper as you work through these questions when
you come back to this episode, and then the next
question is if I had the desire today? What beliefs
would I carry about myself? So if I was living
in that perfect reality, now, what beliefs would I be embodying? Okay,
the next question is how does this version of myself behave?
And what is their personality? So how does this version
of you act? How do they show up? What are
the action steps that that version.
Speaker 1: Of you is now taking?
Speaker 2: Okay, and then the next and then the other questions
you can ask as you work through these limits is
how does this version treat themselves? How does this version
react to obstacles? And how does this differ from how
I currently behave? Okay, So like, what are the key
differences from my current identity so that I can switch
into the new identity? How is it different from who
I am today of who I want to become? So
as you start to identify these things, it's pretty simple
how to show up as.
Speaker 1: The new self?
Speaker 2: And then I did this same process on a male
client who has been he's in his forties and he's
been wanting to manifest a wife. He's been wanting to
manifest love and a healthy relationship. So we went through
a lot of these questions with him, and you might
be able to relate to this if you're someone who
has been really desiring like true love or positive relationship,
a healthy relationship, and you're more so usedful like toxicity.
So one of the things that we went through or
were his fears, right, So his resistance is that he
just believes he's not lovable. He believes that like no
one who meets him is going to fall for him,
like he's not desirable.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So these were his levels of resistance around relationships. So
then we work through the fears. I'm like, why do
you believe this to be true about yourself? And he's like, well,
one of my parents, which was his dad, left them
at a young age. This made him believe that he
is unwanted.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So instead of being like, okay, well you know, your
dad clearly had a lot of problems and he made
a really bad choice, he was more so taking upon
himself to blame himself that he's unwanted because one of
his parents left him at a young age, right. And
I think a lot of people can relate to that.
It's that abandonment wound that a lot of us carry.
So the next question that we went to is what
do I think would happen if I actually had my desire.
Speaker 1: So his fear is if he did.
Speaker 2: Have a loving wife or a loving girlfriend or partner,
he feels like she would also abandon him, like she
would figure out that he's unlovable, that there's something wrong
with him, and that he needs to be abandoned, that
she needs to get up and leave him. So that
is the fear that was running through his mind for
forty years, right, which is awful. It's so sad that
a lot of people do carry these things so they
feel not good enough for someone else, or that someone's
going to leave them. So it's not that they cannot
attract the right partner. They fear that once they have
the right partner, the partner's going to also leave. Okay,
So he realized this fear is not something that serves him.
This belief does not serve him. He doesn't need to
hold on to this because he realized this too is
irrational because you know, his dad leaving him from a
very young age is so long ago and has nothing
to do with the adult that he is today. So
then we kept appeeling back the layers and then and
I was like, okay, So let's say you did have
your wife today, you were in a loving, caring relationships.
What beliefs would you hold about yourself then? And he said, well,
that I am lovable and that I am worthy, and
that it's not too late for me to have a
family or to find love. Okay, so I can find
a partner. There is a possibility of it. So these
are the beliefs he said he would hold about himself.
Then I was like, okay, so what personality changes can
we make so that you currently start to act like
that version of yourself who believes that those things are
true about himself? And he was like, well, if I
did have a wife, or if I did have a
loving partner, I would feel like happier and more inclined
to go out, Like he would want to be more
social if he had a partner by his side, because
he's a little bit like introverted and kind of afraid
of being social. I was like, okay, so your next
action step is to go out. Your next action step
is going to be to go to the places that
you would love to go with your partner, whether it's
a nice restaurant or to mingle at a bar, or
to go to a lounge or a speak easier, go
to a book club or whatever, because that's likely where
your wife is going to be anyway, if those are
the things you're enjoying to do with her, right, So,
like take yourself to those places. That's a great action
step he can start doing. And I was like, well,
what else would you be doing or with your personality,
how else would you be seeing yourself if you had
a wife currently? He was like, well, I would try
to have her feel very cozy in my house, like
very warm and very invited. I'm like, okay, so how
can we make your home now, even without a partner there,
feel more cozy?
Speaker 1: What things can you do? He's like, I can spice
it up a little.
Speaker 2: I can paint this room, I can add more candles,
you know, Like he had all these ideas of how
he can make his home feel more homely, more family like,
more welcoming, so that when his partner enters that house,
she'll want to stay.
Speaker 1: Right. So it was like these little things, I'm like,
these are things.
Speaker 2: Your personality can take action on now, and you can
start behaving and showing up like this loved version of yourself.
And I was like, what else. What else would happen
if you had a wife? He said, I would take
a lot better care of my appearance. I'm like, so
what does that mean? He said, I would probably want
to work out more. I would take better care of
my physical health and eat better because I want to
stay healthy for my family. I'm like, Okay, are you
doing that now? He's like no, Like he could literally
care less about his diet and stuff. I'm like, okay,
so again, can you change that now? Can you start
showing up as that identity now to start molding your
personality into that desirable outcome? He said absolutely, So he
wrote down the action steps he wants to start taking
to start embodying the new identity, the version of himself
he would be if he was in that love carrying
relationship with his dream wife. So when we peel back
these layers, like, the real point I'm trying to get
at is when we see how these fears that we
hold are actually just fears of what comes with the
desire wanted tear. Like that's what we actually fear. That's
the actual cap, that's the actual block.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Someone said that they fear healthy relationships because they seem boring.
I was like, girl, you're just so used to toxicity.
Of course you're gonna think it's boring. So we have
It's not that we don't believe we can achieve it,
but it's almost it's almost like it it feels scary
to achieve it because when I do achieve it, what
if X, Y and Z happens?
Speaker 1: What if I lose it? What if this? What if that?
Speaker 2: So we want to peel back those fears and layers
and then see how we can shift the personality to
reflect the version of ourselves who behaves like the person
who does have the desire. These are small things we
can start doing today, because then if my personality actively
starts shifting into that individual, there is no other option
for my reality then to refleg back the three D
that represents my new self concept. There's no other option.
Speaker 1: But in order to.
Speaker 2: Get to that level of Okay, what identity am I choosing?
We want to work through those old fears and be
that observer. Okay, So really like get down into the
nitty gritty, like get your fucking claws into the subconscious,
peel it back, like dig deeper, dig into the dirt,
who like who am I who, who do I believe
I am? And what are the fears that I'm still
holding onto from maybe childhood or whatever or what scars
am I just refusing to let go because I fear
the actual good that comes with the desire. So a
lot of our fears is what I'm saying, is like
they're so irrational, and so we keep behaving like the
old self because we want to just protect ourselves. The
subconscious is compelling me to self sabotage as a form
of self defense, as a form of protection, because the
brain wants to preserve you. The mind wants to preserve you,
wants to keep you safe. Okay, so if you're hitting
a block, if you're hitting a constant cap, you may
not be aware of the underlying beliefs behind that onion.
That we got to keep fucking peeling over and over
and over and over to identify what the real fears
are that come with receiving the actual desire and then
identifying who is the new identity that does have the
desire and feels safe having it, feels good about having it,
enjoys having it instead of fearing having it, And how
does heat or she behave Like what is the personality
traits of that individual, and how do they feel about themselves?
How do they treat themselves, how do they show up
for themselves, how do they operate in their reality? What
are the action steps that person takes, not that they
have the desire? So that is going to be your
aligned action. That's how you're going to take that term
aligned action and actually apply it so your personality can
drastically start to change, because all these underlie fears are
the blocks. Okay, it's it's the irrational fears we carry
that alter our personality so that we self sabotage. So
if I can like effectively figure out what personality traits,
what key characteristics the ideal version of myself would have,
then I can identify how I can behave like them,
because there's things I can do today to become them.
There's things I can do today to act like that version.
Because remember we're all acting every day. When you're at work,
you're acting like a different person than when you're with
your friends.
Speaker 1: And when you're with.
Speaker 2: Your friend, you're acting like a different person than when
you're on a date. And when you're on a date,
you're acting like a totally different person, and when you're
with your parents, and when you're with your parents, you
act like a total different person than when you're on
a job interview. These are you're acting. You're acting all
day long. You're constantly acting like a new identity, and
you know how to do this, okay, but it just
feels so unfamiliar because we have that fear of how
can I act like? What does she mean act like
a new or become a new identity? What is she
talking about? How am I supposed to do that? I'm
terrified I have all these blockages that I have, all
this resistance. Yes you do, and I do too, and
I get that. But once we become self aware, become
the observer, we can identify what they are, peel it back,
change the reactions and the actions of the individual, and
then we start to consciously and effectively mold the energetic
state of who we are. Once that's molded, once that's shifted,
Once I actually make space for the desire to flow
in through my behavior, through a changed personality, my personal
reality has to reflect it back.
Speaker 1: It must change. Okay.
Speaker 2: Without these steps, though, it's really tough, because if I
can't identify it with these with the right questions. Then
I'm still always like, oh what am I doing wrong?
Why is nothing working? Why am I meditating that thing's working?
Why am I firming and nothing's working. Why am I
pre celebrating and nothing's working? Okay, it's because your self
identific hasn't gone through the proper shift yet and your
actions don't represent the changed identity. So it's all about
like the way that you perceive who you are, the
way you feel about yourself, the way you handle things,
your daily dominant emotions, and that's what represents you energetically
in the quantum field. So we want to use this
as a method to break down the barriers in every area. Okay,
we talked about money on this episode. We talked about
relationships on this episode, but you can do this in
so many different areas, in your friendships, in your health
and body image, in your self confidence, and so many
other things. I mean, everyone has like ten different desires
they're trying to manifest rightfully, So because we're human beings
who want to keep expanding, and once we get one desire,
we're like, okay, what's next. You know, we're only content
for like a week, and then we want more. And
that's okay, that's what.
Speaker 1: We're here for. We're here for expansion. But we cannot expand.
Speaker 2: If we energetically are stuck and if we energetically are
not choosing to shift the personality and change the identity. Okay,
So self identification and self observation here is going to
be crucial. Self awareness is what creates more expansion and change.
So don't go mindless to who you are, don't go
mindless to what your fears are, and don't go mindless
to your self sabotaging behavior. If we can identify it, we.
Speaker 1: Can change it. Okay.
Speaker 2: Identification here is going to be key. So use these steps,
use this little formula that we put together on this episode. Okay,
I'm rambling. It's been well over thirty minutes now, Okay,
so we're going to wrap up this episode. Thank you
guys so much for tuning in to your Manifesting Bessy podcasts,
and as always, we will be back again next Wednesday
with a brand new episode.