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<v Speaker 1>All right, everybody, guess what we're at the weddings. Some

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<v Speaker 1>of these people found their husband, not many.

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<v Speaker 2>Two to be exact of the seven.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody else is still on the hunt for love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes they are, well, yeah, let's get started. Let's hop

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<v Speaker 1>right into it. So we started the altar with Mike

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<v Speaker 1>and Emma where we left them, and she has said yes.

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<v Speaker 1>She took a minute, but she said yes. And he says,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hate I guess they tell.

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<v Speaker 4>Them about to do this, but he goes fut dramatic effects.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he says, I do, I do love you, but

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<v Speaker 1>right now I'm not ready to say I do. I

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<v Speaker 1>want kids, and I need to know you definitely do

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent. One hundred percent. It is one of

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<v Speaker 1>those catchphrases, one hundred percent when I have a family

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I don't want to jump in. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>changed your mind down the road? And I'm sorry, And

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<v Speaker 1>then his parents cheer, no, just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>They did it.

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<v Speaker 4>They tried to play it cool. It was killing them.

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<v Speaker 4>They were like, it was killing them to.

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<v Speaker 3>Play it cool.

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<v Speaker 4>But they were aesthetic about this. They were like, so

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<v Speaker 4>there's a nice Italian girl in the back of the

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<v Speaker 4>wedding venue, who's totally.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, already fertile. She's already ready to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And so Emma says, they you know, she walks out, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>they walk out, whatever happens. So then she's saying to

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<v Speaker 1>her mom, She's like, you know, I really do love Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh.

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<v Speaker 2>He goes, let me go talk to her. He runs

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<v Speaker 2>up stairious to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I felt like we saw more of their

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<v Speaker 1>actual bond, didn't relationship yea, And these last two days

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And at the same time, I feel like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Would not work, do you okay, I'll we haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>of all the spoilers and things before. We haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>anything about them if they're still together or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Because they're not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they're not. But anyway, so he the parents

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<v Speaker 1>all talk and they're like, yeah, they have to work

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<v Speaker 1>out the kid thing like that, you know. And the

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<v Speaker 1>parents are very you know, nice to each other, and

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<v Speaker 1>they sit and talk Mike and Emma, and Emma says,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we have some things to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>When I look at you, I see glimpses of a family,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know for sure you would be an amazing father,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes, I know, but I need to know

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<v Speaker 1>for sure you want kids, not fifty to fifty, not

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<v Speaker 1>ninety nine to one, like it needs to be a hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>And I really respect how you feel on it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we have to get there. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>think like, okay, wow, these are like two adults having

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<v Speaker 1>a nice commerce station, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because even with her saying that I can see

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<v Speaker 4>you being a great dad, she never says and I

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<v Speaker 4>can see myself being a great mom. Like she's just

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<v Speaker 4>not about them. She's like her sister. She kind of

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<v Speaker 4>hates kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Even though two as for we're all in your life.

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<v Speaker 4>As her sister has told all of us, okay, if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to form a birth control just talk to

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<v Speaker 4>Emma's sister, and you will never want to have children

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<v Speaker 4>ever again in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody wrote and it was like, not Emma's sister sitting

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<v Speaker 1>on the front row holding one of those children, that she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm surprised she let them out of the house.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assumed they would be in a basement somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was saying to you before we started, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to just completely interrupt this to say, because

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<v Speaker 1>we're done with these two. When we first got our screener,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've watched it twice. When we first got it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I watched it all the way through real quick

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<v Speaker 1>because I went to see what happened at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>it said ninety minute ninety minute spot for reunion clips.

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<v Speaker 2>Those words were on the screen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And I was like that, Well, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched it like the day we got it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, oh, okay, okay. And I watched it and I

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<v Speaker 1>looked at it, and I go, that's interesting, right, It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a placeholder. I was like, oh, I guess we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to get any reunion clips. When I watched

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<v Speaker 1>it today to write the note, the clip was there

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<v Speaker 1>of the reunion.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So I watched it last night and I saw

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<v Speaker 3>the reunion.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess on that first day they had it. They

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have it put together yet.

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<v Speaker 3>But it wasn't done. Okay, yeah, okay, it looks explosive.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks great. I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>So seeing the words Amber and Jordan reminded me that

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<v Speaker 1>we see Amber like storm out, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I thought that was Ashley who stormed out?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I think it's Amber, you guys, Keisha, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot about Amber from one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we do, and it's uh, you know that professionalism

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<v Speaker 4>in us says, let us keep our lips closed. We

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<v Speaker 4>haven't said anything, we haven't hinted at anything, but we

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<v Speaker 4>know what's up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we know what's up with them. We know it's

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<v Speaker 1>up with their friends. We know what is up with

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<v Speaker 1>one of Jordan's friends that went with him to the

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<v Speaker 1>tux feeding is like a squatter and whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>He is indeed a very horrible person. Indeed, like I

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<v Speaker 4>want to fight him, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to beat you up. I heard you

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<v Speaker 3>an asshole.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, once it all is out. One of the lists,

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners was at the wedding and I

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<v Speaker 1>may or may not have like sent her like a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of my screen where I could see her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because she sent us a picture of what her dresses

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<v Speaker 1>and everything.

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<v Speaker 4>I told her, I said, I saw you, I saw you,

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<v Speaker 4>I saw your red dress.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's kind of excited. I like hashtag celebrity.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't start looking for a person in her red dress.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody. There's several people in red dresses.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, oh yeah, so Amber and Jordan, So she's

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<v Speaker 1>talking or you can, because at this point it's out.

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<v Speaker 2>She's talking to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Friends, and all of her friends are just like, seemed

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<v Speaker 1>completely normal and nice and support him, and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're so happy for you and you're talking to it.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, you know, it's been a lot for us

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<v Speaker 1>to get here. I definitely want to marry him. He's

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend. Well, later she says, Emma's her best friend,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can only have one.

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<v Speaker 3>She's moved. That was in between drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah, and she says, I want to marry him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's my best friend, and I do worry about how

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<v Speaker 1>he's feeling because this is a lot of change in

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<v Speaker 1>his life. I did think it was interesting too. One

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<v Speaker 1>of her friends were like, you know, you have DAYD

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<v Speaker 1>these losers or whatever, and basically you run a doctor's

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<v Speaker 1>practice by yourself. She's the physician's assistant, which means she

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<v Speaker 1>does a shit the doctor.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, it's basically a doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I'm always like ill, I'd rather see the pos assistant,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So good for her. Okay, hopefully she's not

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<v Speaker 1>drunk on the job.

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<v Speaker 2>Just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>So Jordan arrives and he says he's never loved somebody

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<v Speaker 1>as much as he loves her, and he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't sleep all last night. I've got so many emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>And his whole family comes in. His family is so great,

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<v Speaker 1>his sister's parents are so great. So they come in

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<v Speaker 1>and he says, he met Emma yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>That is crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 4>I one day, one day, could marry someone and my

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<v Speaker 4>kid has only met them one time.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, and listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they discussed it with the ex and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they decided as a group, this will be

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<v Speaker 1>the best way to handle it, to not overwhelm her.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I wouldn't even want to marry someone and

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<v Speaker 4>I've only met their kid one time.

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<v Speaker 3>What if I like absolutely hate their kid, that'd be

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<v Speaker 3>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's too late because we're already married. Yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 4>just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, he's saying, you know, she's great and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said they talk about moving because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in Mount Vernon, but she doesn't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in Columbus.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they have the school and up they talk

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<v Speaker 1>we've never really seen him other than just like other

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<v Speaker 3>Because she's pretty thin. Like, yeah, she's she's boobs in hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Boobs and hair. And you has seen all the girls

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<v Speaker 2>On the trip together.

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<v Speaker 1>Her aunt is there. Love the ant's dress?

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<v Speaker 3>Where were the parents though.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the listener that we have said that the aunt

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so okay, that's graz a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>So Jacob said the brother it was like I've always

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<v Speaker 1>like tied down when you were like forty or fifty, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought you'd do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she hugsz Emma and says, you're my best friend.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, okay, yeah, Emma has her whole face.

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<v Speaker 2>She does. She's really cute.

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<v Speaker 4>And am I wrong for thinking that they could have

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<v Speaker 4>dressed Emma up a little bit more, like they could

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<v Speaker 3>Like some little no.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I thought her her flower girl dress

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<v Speaker 4>Anything with her hair, and you know, I like the

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<v Speaker 1>I know she could have had like a little like

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she didn't want it. You know, the girls that age,

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<v Speaker 1>Amber's daughter. You know she does. So Jacob says, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he really likes you. She's like, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>fucking better like me, you know, And he says, I

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<v Speaker 1>personally am expecting this not to go through, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>shocked if you both said yes, but in a good way.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye bye, it's like, Wow, he wasn't wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>The timing was off, Like this is something he could

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<v Speaker 4>have said a week ago.

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<v Speaker 1>But nobody ever says that right, nobody ever says that

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<v Speaker 1>why they're getting ready, Like they don't say are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? Because they wanted to all

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I felt him. And here's the thing,

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<v Speaker 3>he knows how crazy his sister really is.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huhh.

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<v Speaker 4>And we can tell that Amber can be crazy. We

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<v Speaker 4>just didn't have a chance to really see it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So she says it's a yeah, I'm gonna say yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a yes for me, and he goes, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want you to be happy, like I think you.

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<v Speaker 2>Deserve the best.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan arrives at the wedding. He's a ball of nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>He hugs his sister Natalie and she's like, we're here

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<v Speaker 1>for you. She's a wonderful person, her daughter is great.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you, We're so proud of you. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is he walking off a plank into the ocean? Like

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<v Speaker 1>this was the saddest.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so intense in there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, with everyone. It was like everyone was holding their

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<v Speaker 4>breath the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Is it because they know she's great gray or because.

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<v Speaker 4>I think they don't she look she has a touch

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<v Speaker 4>of crazy you could just tell she does.

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<v Speaker 2>Or do they think that everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody obviously thought he was gonna say no, everyone including her. Funny. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So his sister's like, it's okay, it's gonna be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's literally like he's going in to get like a

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<v Speaker 1>chemotherapy treatment. Like it was like dark. So Amber arrives.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish she would have brushed her hair out. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like too ring, like the lower part was too ringlets,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And they didn't have a chance to really fall very

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<v Speaker 3>much to fall.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she should have got worked it out with her

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<v Speaker 1>fingers or something. Yeah. They joke at the altar if

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<v Speaker 1>they say some nice words, you guys, if you're new here,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't go through they say some nice words. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not going through the whole thing. Yeah, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>says I do, Like right away, when he said do

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<v Speaker 1>you take the blabbaty blash, she goes, I do, And

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<v Speaker 1>he says I want to follow my heart and say

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and the preacher goes, so your answer is

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<v Speaker 1>and he says, I do, and when I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>it reminds the people in the reaction. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little bit of a delayed everybody's like what.

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<v Speaker 4>What everyone's mouth was like, including the little girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She It was the craziest thing. It reminded me of.

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<v Speaker 2>The then I refer to this all the time. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a Saturday Night Live skit where it's Oprah doing you

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<v Speaker 2>get a car? You get a car, You get a car.

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<v Speaker 1>And everybody in the audience is screaming as nice that

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<v Speaker 1>their heads all start flying off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like someone hit a home run and it

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<v Speaker 4>was like the total loser who no one thought had

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<v Speaker 4>ever hit a home run just hit it. Everyone's like, oh, okay, it, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was. It was kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a great moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Because everyone was shocked.

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<v Speaker 1>People jumped to their feet and were cheering like they

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<v Speaker 1>just could not believe.

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<v Speaker 4>It, well because they couldn't stand to see Jordan up

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<v Speaker 4>there crying if Amber would have said.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but also the way he was like looking at

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<v Speaker 1>her when he said it's an idea and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like what And then the way he smiled at her

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<v Speaker 1>was very cute and sweet and sweet. We love him. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So afterwards she was like, well, I was not expecting

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<v Speaker 1>this at all. So and he goes like, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go have fun, and they like head off to

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<v Speaker 1>the reception and Emma comes in and hugs her. She does.

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<v Speaker 1>She seems to be very emotional, and I can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>it's because like when you're a little kid like that

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<v Speaker 1>and you this is a lot, have that big feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't know you cry or to laugh or

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<v Speaker 1>to so she seems just like just overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess, Yeah, she doesn't know this guy. Her mom's

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<v Speaker 4>been gone for like fifty five days.

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<v Speaker 3>I know she's at this wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>All these people, camera's everywhere. This is a lot for

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<v Speaker 4>what a seventy year old kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so wilming. Yeah, okay, let's go to Britain Davante,

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<v Speaker 1>it's their wedding day.

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<v Speaker 3>I just cannot.

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<v Speaker 4>I you know, usually I hate a person and it

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<v Speaker 4>just stops there, but I keep hating him more and more.

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<v Speaker 3>I will never forgive.

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<v Speaker 1>Him for the way he is talking behind her back

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<v Speaker 1>is disgusting.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a disgusting person. It's disgusting for so many reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>And we have heard now that he is not. We

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<v Speaker 1>knew he was engaged one time, but we've heard he

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<v Speaker 1>has been engaged three or four times. And also that

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<v Speaker 1>when he goes to the we heard that when he

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<v Speaker 1>goes to the reunion, he is engaged to somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>and that girl is pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>Like he's a professional fiance. Yeah, that is just what

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<v Speaker 3>he likes to do.

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<v Speaker 2>He just likes engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he just likes to get engaged. Which is weird

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<v Speaker 3>because why would you want to buy that many rings?

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<v Speaker 2>Good question? Maybe gets some bad and have repurposes them.

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<v Speaker 3>Fam it's the same one. I just got to get

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<v Speaker 3>it resized.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now I need to get my little soundboard here,

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<v Speaker 1>because we are going to mark every time she talks.

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<v Speaker 2>About how sure she is that they will stay together.

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<v Speaker 3>I you know, this is the prime example of delusion.

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<v Speaker 4>Like she is so I actually wanted to It made

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<v Speaker 4>me like her less the delusion.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't understand it. I couldn't understand where it was

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<v Speaker 1>coming from. And why does she have one friend that

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<v Speaker 1>is like a girl. No, he does not like you.

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<v Speaker 4>It is so clear that he doesn't. So, okay, here's

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<v Speaker 4>my thing. We are watching this right and to us,

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<v Speaker 4>it is so clear this man is not like her

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<v Speaker 4>for numerous reason, primarily the color of her skin and

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<v Speaker 4>the box that she has to check, which she's feeling

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<v Speaker 4>got form, that's number one.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, I don't like the I don't like the

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<v Speaker 3>box that you checked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 4>But he doesn't like her personality. I don't think he's

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<v Speaker 4>the things he said, he I do. I think he

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<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought about that part.

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<v Speaker 4>There's nothing that this dude likes about. He couldnot wait

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<v Speaker 4>to leave her house.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, it's so bad. It is just like it's

432
00:20:38.079 --> 00:20:39.960
<v Speaker 3>cringey to watch.

433
00:20:40.119 --> 00:20:43.559
<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, which one of them is? I don't

434
00:20:43.599 --> 00:20:48.079
<v Speaker 4>know which one I like the most, like dislike the most.

435
00:20:48.519 --> 00:20:51.759
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely him.

436
00:20:52.240 --> 00:20:54.039
<v Speaker 3>I don't like a desperate woman.

437
00:20:54.599 --> 00:20:56.599
<v Speaker 1>I don't either, And I think when she watches it back,

438
00:20:56.640 --> 00:20:58.400
<v Speaker 1>she's gonna be like, why did somebody just hit me

439
00:20:58.440 --> 00:21:00.920
<v Speaker 1>with a hammer? Like what is wrong with me? You

440
00:21:00.960 --> 00:21:04.240
<v Speaker 1>know she's back, I think she I think she's mortified.

441
00:21:04.559 --> 00:21:07.160
<v Speaker 1>Now she should be yeah, and we don't know what

442
00:21:07.160 --> 00:21:08.599
<v Speaker 1>he's telling her behind the scenes either.

443
00:21:09.839 --> 00:21:11.880
<v Speaker 4>Well, we know what he's telling her in front of

444
00:21:11.960 --> 00:21:15.799
<v Speaker 4>the scenes, and it screams and uses girl, I'll like you.

445
00:21:16.680 --> 00:21:18.400
<v Speaker 3>What else can I do to get rid of you?

446
00:21:18.519 --> 00:21:20.920
<v Speaker 4>I do not like you. I have thought of everything

447
00:21:21.000 --> 00:21:23.960
<v Speaker 4>to do, is say, like he's only.

448
00:21:23.759 --> 00:21:25.559
<v Speaker 3>Stopped short of saying, you're fucking ugly.

449
00:21:27.279 --> 00:21:31.400
<v Speaker 1>She's so gorgeous and her skin is so beautiful and

450
00:21:31.519 --> 00:21:34.880
<v Speaker 1>perfect and she is so pretty and okay, and her

451
00:21:34.880 --> 00:21:36.160
<v Speaker 1>body's banging. Okay.

452
00:21:36.279 --> 00:21:38.200
<v Speaker 2>So they're at her.

453
00:21:38.319 --> 00:21:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Place and we're gonna keep count how many times she

454
00:21:41.480 --> 00:21:43.359
<v Speaker 1>says they're sure they'll stay together and they.

455
00:21:43.400 --> 00:21:44.319
<v Speaker 2>Will get married.

456
00:21:44.440 --> 00:21:49.119
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, so you're are you keeping count now?

457
00:21:49.400 --> 00:21:50.599
<v Speaker 3>Okay, yes, I'm ready.

458
00:21:50.720 --> 00:21:53.759
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well you might need more to okay, all right, Okay,

459
00:21:53.799 --> 00:21:58.119
<v Speaker 1>So she tells him, you know, I'm I'm ready to

460
00:21:58.119 --> 00:22:01.640
<v Speaker 1>get married. The nails and the lashes in the dress,

461
00:22:01.680 --> 00:22:04.119
<v Speaker 1>and I want to be your wife, and I guess

462
00:22:04.160 --> 00:22:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked that we're not getting married because I love

463
00:22:06.920 --> 00:22:09.480
<v Speaker 1>you and I see a life with you, and my

464
00:22:09.599 --> 00:22:13.079
<v Speaker 1>parents were so excited for me. And the talking head,

465
00:22:13.160 --> 00:22:16.359
<v Speaker 1>she says, today was supposed to be our wedding day

466
00:22:16.400 --> 00:22:18.759
<v Speaker 1>and it's shocking, you know, my parents and now she

467
00:22:18.839 --> 00:22:21.400
<v Speaker 1>mentioned to your parents twice, which is weird. She says,

468
00:22:21.400 --> 00:22:23.559
<v Speaker 1>my parents know how much I want to be married,

469
00:22:23.640 --> 00:22:26.279
<v Speaker 1>and gosh, we've got family in town for this, and

470
00:22:27.480 --> 00:22:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like everything I want is not happening right now.

471
00:22:31.759 --> 00:22:32.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

472
00:22:32.480 --> 00:22:35.039
<v Speaker 1>So he goes, yeah, you know, I just couldn't go

473
00:22:35.160 --> 00:22:38.359
<v Speaker 1>to the altar with this doubt, you know, and I

474
00:22:38.400 --> 00:22:40.640
<v Speaker 1>don't think I can love you the way you need

475
00:22:40.680 --> 00:22:43.000
<v Speaker 1>to be loved, which is such a cop out, by

476
00:22:43.000 --> 00:22:43.480
<v Speaker 1>the way.

477
00:22:44.160 --> 00:22:48.759
<v Speaker 3>But it is. But if a man said that to me,

478
00:22:48.880 --> 00:22:52.039
<v Speaker 3>I'll be like, okay, we're done me too.

479
00:22:53.000 --> 00:22:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

480
00:22:53.519 --> 00:22:56.119
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but that's started for Brittany. You got to say

481
00:22:56.160 --> 00:22:57.200
<v Speaker 3>a lot more.

482
00:22:57.240 --> 00:22:59.799
<v Speaker 2>To get rid of her and still didn't work.

483
00:23:00.519 --> 00:23:03.640
<v Speaker 1>So she goes, well, I can really see my life

484
00:23:03.640 --> 00:23:04.960
<v Speaker 1>with you, and he goes one.

485
00:23:05.440 --> 00:23:08.400
<v Speaker 4>So that's the kind of one is that got one

486
00:23:08.680 --> 00:23:10.440
<v Speaker 4>as her saying like I could see us being.

487
00:23:10.240 --> 00:23:11.440
<v Speaker 3>Together and Nobo going to be together.

488
00:23:11.640 --> 00:23:13.839
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, and he goes, I just can't get

489
00:23:13.839 --> 00:23:17.039
<v Speaker 1>married right now. So she says, you know, even though

490
00:23:17.039 --> 00:23:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not right now, it doesn't mean it won't be eventually.

491
00:23:21.440 --> 00:23:24.240
<v Speaker 3>I gotta cut that as two too, yes, okay.

492
00:23:24.079 --> 00:23:26.880
<v Speaker 1>And he just kind of goes and she goes, I

493
00:23:26.920 --> 00:23:30.279
<v Speaker 1>feel like we're still together. We're just taking a pause

494
00:23:30.319 --> 00:23:31.200
<v Speaker 1>of when we get married.

495
00:23:32.119 --> 00:23:32.359
<v Speaker 3>Three.

496
00:23:34.000 --> 00:23:35.920
<v Speaker 1>She says, you know, I was even willing to kind

497
00:23:35.920 --> 00:23:38.440
<v Speaker 1>of go against what I believe and sign the prenup.

498
00:23:40.640 --> 00:23:44.119
<v Speaker 4>Girl, girl, you do not need to sign up prenup

499
00:23:44.119 --> 00:23:45.480
<v Speaker 4>for a person who was broke.

500
00:23:46.279 --> 00:23:46.720
<v Speaker 3>You do not.

501
00:23:48.000 --> 00:23:52.079
<v Speaker 1>So he goes, right, yeah, okay, great, and she goes,

502
00:23:52.160 --> 00:23:55.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean we are still together, we are still engaged.

503
00:23:56.279 --> 00:23:58.039
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonta cut that as four. Yes.

504
00:23:58.839 --> 00:24:00.759
<v Speaker 4>The one time she's saying all this, he's over there,

505
00:24:00.799 --> 00:24:01.920
<v Speaker 4>think about burger and fries.

506
00:24:02.359 --> 00:24:03.559
<v Speaker 1>He's not ignoring.

507
00:24:03.839 --> 00:24:05.319
<v Speaker 3>He's like, what am I gonna eat for dinner? Like?

508
00:24:05.319 --> 00:24:06.920
<v Speaker 3>Am I gonna stop on McDonald's or am I going

509
00:24:06.960 --> 00:24:09.319
<v Speaker 3>to go to cava? What? What am I gonna eat tonight?

510
00:24:09.440 --> 00:24:12.559
<v Speaker 2>It's like she's telling him this. They're not stressing it.

511
00:24:12.720 --> 00:24:15.680
<v Speaker 1>She says, we are still together, we are still engaged.

512
00:24:16.039 --> 00:24:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I do see one hundred percent that we're going to

513
00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:22.759
<v Speaker 1>marry each other. Five In the talking head, she goes,

514
00:24:22.799 --> 00:24:26.480
<v Speaker 1>our story's not over, whether it's marriage now or marriage later.

515
00:24:26.599 --> 00:24:30.839
<v Speaker 1>We will be husband and wife one day. Six and

516
00:24:30.880 --> 00:24:31.359
<v Speaker 1>then we'll have.

517
00:24:31.799 --> 00:24:34.519
<v Speaker 3>Seven six even.

518
00:24:35.240 --> 00:24:38.839
<v Speaker 1>So she says, okay, so we're not getting married today,

519
00:24:39.000 --> 00:24:40.440
<v Speaker 1>but what does our future look.

520
00:24:40.359 --> 00:24:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Like from here? And he goes, you know, I'm not

521
00:24:42.759 --> 00:24:43.519
<v Speaker 2>a fortune teller.

522
00:24:43.960 --> 00:24:50.519
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, He goes, because there are still doubts

523
00:24:50.559 --> 00:24:52.920
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know what the future holds, and I

524
00:24:52.960 --> 00:24:55.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know what the doubts mean. But I'm not dating

525
00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:58.720
<v Speaker 1>just to date, like I'm dating to get married me. No,

526
00:24:58.880 --> 00:25:01.240
<v Speaker 1>you say there to be a fiel, but I mean

527
00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:04.119
<v Speaker 1>he's saying to her, we're not gonna just date either.

528
00:25:04.119 --> 00:25:04.920
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna decide.

529
00:25:05.119 --> 00:25:07.079
<v Speaker 1>And I just decided we're not getting married, so we're

530
00:25:07.079 --> 00:25:08.000
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be dating, right.

531
00:25:08.759 --> 00:25:09.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

532
00:25:09.400 --> 00:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>So then he goes, okay, so TikTok, I gotta go,

533
00:25:14.880 --> 00:25:17.079
<v Speaker 1>And she goes, okay, so today's not our wedding day,

534
00:25:17.119 --> 00:25:18.519
<v Speaker 1>but we can pick our own wedding day.

535
00:25:19.319 --> 00:25:22.279
<v Speaker 3>So I'm gonna count that at seven seven.

536
00:25:22.119 --> 00:25:24.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and he goes, okay, so bye, I guess I'll

537
00:25:24.920 --> 00:25:27.519
<v Speaker 1>be in touch. And she's like, what stop it if

538
00:25:27.559 --> 00:25:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I can hear that? So he leaves.

539
00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:34.599
<v Speaker 3>Talk I had was crazy. The fact that she left.

540
00:25:35.200 --> 00:25:38.559
<v Speaker 3>There was no reason for him to leave, no reason

541
00:25:38.599 --> 00:25:39.079
<v Speaker 3>for him to.

542
00:25:39.079 --> 00:25:43.359
<v Speaker 4>Leave, and he had to go like, girl, you're never

543
00:25:43.440 --> 00:25:45.680
<v Speaker 4>gonna see this man again, like you see.

544
00:25:45.519 --> 00:25:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Them on the reunion stage. I hope you enjoyed that.

545
00:25:47.720 --> 00:25:50.599
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, like this is there is no reason for

546
00:25:50.680 --> 00:25:51.079
<v Speaker 4>him to go.

547
00:25:51.359 --> 00:25:54.000
<v Speaker 3>Like they could have sat there chilled. He could have said, well, let's.

548
00:25:53.839 --> 00:25:56.839
<v Speaker 4>Go out to eat or right, any of these things.

549
00:25:56.839 --> 00:25:59.880
<v Speaker 4>He's like, let me get my little bag already packed it.

550
00:26:00.000 --> 00:26:03.480
<v Speaker 4>Everybody else is already in the car. I got to

551
00:26:03.599 --> 00:26:05.400
<v Speaker 4>go bye.

552
00:26:05.920 --> 00:26:09.000
<v Speaker 1>So in her talking head, she goes, I'm ninety nine

553
00:26:09.000 --> 00:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>percent sure I'm gonna marry DeVante, like we're supposed to

554
00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:19.799
<v Speaker 1>be married a talking head. He goes, listen, she was ready,

555
00:26:20.519 --> 00:26:23.319
<v Speaker 1>but I've always had doubts, and there were certain things

556
00:26:23.319 --> 00:26:27.160
<v Speaker 1>that struck me, Like she pre bought the wedding dress,

557
00:26:27.480 --> 00:26:30.759
<v Speaker 1>like she just wanted to get married and was it

558
00:26:30.799 --> 00:26:33.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't matter if it was me. I didn't find that.

559
00:26:34.400 --> 00:26:36.079
<v Speaker 1>I can understand why he would think it was a

560
00:26:36.079 --> 00:26:38.680
<v Speaker 1>red flag. But as a woman, I'm like, you saw

561
00:26:38.680 --> 00:26:40.440
<v Speaker 1>a wedding dress and it was a great deal and

562
00:26:40.480 --> 00:26:42.720
<v Speaker 1>you bought it. I mean I think, you know, I

563
00:26:42.759 --> 00:26:43.640
<v Speaker 1>think she shouldn't adult.

564
00:26:44.359 --> 00:26:46.640
<v Speaker 4>Oh, that is most definitely one of those things that

565
00:26:46.720 --> 00:26:49.400
<v Speaker 4>you can't keep close to the chest because.

566
00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:50.519
<v Speaker 3>It's a little bit crazy.

567
00:26:51.400 --> 00:26:53.799
<v Speaker 1>It's a little crazy. And she really told it. She

568
00:26:53.799 --> 00:26:56.119
<v Speaker 1>said it on the first episode like she wanted everybody

569
00:26:56.160 --> 00:26:58.079
<v Speaker 1>to know, like I am manifesting this.

570
00:26:58.920 --> 00:27:03.079
<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing about it. And she went and picked

571
00:27:03.119 --> 00:27:07.319
<v Speaker 4>out a wedding dress. I cannot explain to you how

572
00:27:07.400 --> 00:27:09.359
<v Speaker 4>horrible it is to go wedding dress shopping.

573
00:27:09.400 --> 00:27:10.279
<v Speaker 3>It is not fun.

574
00:27:11.519 --> 00:27:12.200
<v Speaker 2>I didn't enjoy it.

575
00:27:12.279 --> 00:27:12.440
<v Speaker 1>Question.

576
00:27:13.400 --> 00:27:17.079
<v Speaker 4>She did it without a fiance, without a boyfriend.

577
00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:20.480
<v Speaker 3>I had a full fiance, and I said, I fucking

578
00:27:20.599 --> 00:27:24.720
<v Speaker 3>hate this shit. I'm not doing it. But she picked

579
00:27:24.799 --> 00:27:29.039
<v Speaker 3>that is crazy, Mary Payne. That is desperation.

580
00:27:29.720 --> 00:27:33.839
<v Speaker 1>Okay, ill people like this, Okay, well it Jinx is it?

581
00:27:34.200 --> 00:27:36.559
<v Speaker 2>I can see why why he thought it was crazy.

582
00:27:36.640 --> 00:27:36.720
<v Speaker 4>Me.

583
00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:38.599
<v Speaker 2>I didn't think, yeah, that crazy.

584
00:27:39.079 --> 00:27:42.839
<v Speaker 4>Well, Devonte, this is the only time ever in life

585
00:27:43.240 --> 00:27:44.359
<v Speaker 4>that I will agree with you.

586
00:27:45.519 --> 00:27:48.160
<v Speaker 1>And he says, uh, is she my forever person?

587
00:27:48.680 --> 00:27:48.799
<v Speaker 4>Uh?

588
00:27:49.039 --> 00:27:51.559
<v Speaker 1>You know, the more I'm clinged onto or the more

589
00:27:51.599 --> 00:27:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm pressure to do something, the harder I push back.

590
00:27:54.519 --> 00:27:57.000
<v Speaker 1>And she's sometimes like a shadowed to me, and I

591
00:27:57.039 --> 00:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>have to be like, just wait right here, I'll be

592
00:27:59.519 --> 00:27:59.880
<v Speaker 1>right back.

593
00:28:00.000 --> 00:28:01.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna go change my shirt.

594
00:28:02.319 --> 00:28:05.599
<v Speaker 3>I can see that. I can totally see her being.

595
00:28:05.359 --> 00:28:09.440
<v Speaker 1>Like that, and it's not something I don't want to

596
00:28:09.519 --> 00:28:11.240
<v Speaker 1>keep dragging down the road if it's not going to

597
00:28:11.319 --> 00:28:16.279
<v Speaker 1>work out. So he's never going to see her again.

598
00:28:16.839 --> 00:28:20.079
<v Speaker 4>Oh no, he changed his number immediately, Like he didn't

599
00:28:20.119 --> 00:28:24.079
<v Speaker 4>block her. He changed his phone number so she couldn't

600
00:28:24.119 --> 00:28:25.839
<v Speaker 4>call from like someone else's phone.

601
00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:28.599
<v Speaker 1>He's done, He is done, he goes, And two years ago,

602
00:28:28.599 --> 00:28:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I would have been really nervous to have that kind

603
00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:33.839
<v Speaker 1>of conversation. I just would have gotten married, swept it

604
00:28:33.920 --> 00:28:35.559
<v Speaker 1>under the rug, and tried to figure out a way

605
00:28:35.559 --> 00:28:37.440
<v Speaker 1>to get quickly divorced. But like I had doubt, So

606
00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:39.119
<v Speaker 1>I guess he's trying to say he's grown as a

607
00:28:39.119 --> 00:28:44.319
<v Speaker 1>person talking to Ed. She goes, You know, I have

608
00:28:44.440 --> 00:28:47.359
<v Speaker 1>felt that maybe I'm naive and that my feelings were

609
00:28:47.400 --> 00:28:50.440
<v Speaker 1>stronger than his, And I've been wondering, like is he

610
00:28:50.519 --> 00:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>just going through the motions, and like why haven't I

611
00:28:53.039 --> 00:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>met his mother in person?

612
00:28:55.240 --> 00:28:57.920
<v Speaker 4>That was surprising to hear that, Well, his mom is

613
00:28:58.000 --> 00:29:01.559
<v Speaker 4>probably black and shen't want anyone to meet her.

614
00:29:01.839 --> 00:29:04.519
<v Speaker 1>Did he invite nobody in town for the wedding because

615
00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:05.720
<v Speaker 1>he knew he was going to break up with her

616
00:29:05.759 --> 00:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>the day of yes, and she goes, and I wonder, like,

617
00:29:10.599 --> 00:29:12.440
<v Speaker 1>does he feel the same way he did in the pods?

618
00:29:12.559 --> 00:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>Am I still that person he fell in love with?

619
00:29:14.680 --> 00:29:17.519
<v Speaker 1>And what I'm most fearful about is I'm going to

620
00:29:17.559 --> 00:29:20.119
<v Speaker 1>have to start over if we don't work out, and

621
00:29:20.160 --> 00:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>then I've got to be vulnerable with somebody else.

622
00:29:22.200 --> 00:29:23.240
<v Speaker 2>It was really hard to do it.

623
00:29:23.279 --> 00:29:25.799
<v Speaker 1>This time, but you know it paid off because now

624
00:29:25.839 --> 00:29:27.720
<v Speaker 1>I have my person, the love of my life, my

625
00:29:27.799 --> 00:29:30.400
<v Speaker 1>best friend. We just need to get back to all

626
00:29:30.440 --> 00:29:32.599
<v Speaker 1>those feelings of why we fell in love with each other.

627
00:29:32.720 --> 00:29:35.079
<v Speaker 1>And I do think he'll be my husband.

628
00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:36.319
<v Speaker 3>Nine.

629
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:39.359
<v Speaker 1>We're not saying no to each other. We're just saying

630
00:29:39.880 --> 00:29:40.920
<v Speaker 1>not right now.

631
00:29:42.400 --> 00:29:45.640
<v Speaker 3>He is saying girl. He did not even show up

632
00:29:45.680 --> 00:29:46.359
<v Speaker 3>to the reunion.

633
00:29:47.400 --> 00:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>It's I was interested when they showed us the clip

634
00:29:51.039 --> 00:29:53.319
<v Speaker 1>of the reunion that we saw that Chris was there,

635
00:29:53.400 --> 00:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>because I was thinking, Chris is not going to show up.

636
00:29:56.359 --> 00:29:59.559
<v Speaker 3>Chris would not miss the camera time at all.

637
00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:00.200
<v Speaker 2>True.

638
00:30:00.799 --> 00:30:01.720
<v Speaker 3>No, there's no way.

639
00:30:02.759 --> 00:30:04.599
<v Speaker 1>One thing is very funny about the Chris thing that's

640
00:30:04.640 --> 00:30:07.359
<v Speaker 1>come out is all of the CrossFit and plates people

641
00:30:07.400 --> 00:30:11.440
<v Speaker 1>that have come out and been like we don't want him. Yes, yes,

642
00:30:11.759 --> 00:30:14.039
<v Speaker 1>I did plots every day. I don't want that man.

643
00:30:14.279 --> 00:30:16.839
<v Speaker 1>And the people CrossFit, like, keep CrossFit out your mouth.

644
00:30:17.720 --> 00:30:19.599
<v Speaker 3>How does he even look like he does CrossFit?

645
00:30:21.160 --> 00:30:26.160
<v Speaker 4>He doesn't look muscular or any I never. He doesn't

646
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<v Speaker 4>look like someone who just worked. He looks like he

647
00:30:28.000 --> 00:30:30.400
<v Speaker 4>does ice plunges every day, but he doesn't look like

648
00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:31.640
<v Speaker 4>he works out every day.

649
00:30:32.039 --> 00:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>The amount of people that have put the funniest shit

650
00:30:34.440 --> 00:30:37.839
<v Speaker 1>on like Instagram reels like recreating it and they paint

651
00:30:37.839 --> 00:30:41.680
<v Speaker 1>their face all red because he's so like splotchy because.

652
00:30:41.440 --> 00:30:42.359
<v Speaker 2>He's been on a bender.

653
00:30:42.440 --> 00:30:46.599
<v Speaker 1>You know. When he told her, yes, okay, Ashley and

654
00:30:46.720 --> 00:30:55.480
<v Speaker 1>Alex this, everything about this made me so fucking happy.

655
00:30:55.680 --> 00:30:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I like it when a girl sends up for her.

656
00:31:01.039 --> 00:31:06.960
<v Speaker 1>And again, is Ashley my favorite person in the world? No, no,

657
00:31:07.599 --> 00:31:11.200
<v Speaker 1>but in this situation, Oh yeah, you're like Queen's queen.

658
00:31:11.559 --> 00:31:12.720
<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, yes.

659
00:31:13.440 --> 00:31:16.599
<v Speaker 1>So she is talking about how great everything is with

660
00:31:16.759 --> 00:31:18.799
<v Speaker 1>Alex and he's really special and you know he's had

661
00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:20.559
<v Speaker 1>a lot of hardships and that created him to be

662
00:31:20.640 --> 00:31:24.319
<v Speaker 1>such a great man. And I said that, then five

663
00:31:24.359 --> 00:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>minutes later she had mis rates him. It's fine, So right,

664
00:31:27.799 --> 00:31:32.240
<v Speaker 1>I do want to point out his hair. So hair

665
00:31:32.240 --> 00:31:34.799
<v Speaker 1>Bunkie Lindsay wrote me and was like, how have you

666
00:31:34.839 --> 00:31:36.839
<v Speaker 1>guys not talked about his comb forward?

667
00:31:37.920 --> 00:31:43.640
<v Speaker 3>Well, here's the thing in our defense, Okay, number one,

668
00:31:43.680 --> 00:31:45.960
<v Speaker 3>we think he's so cute. Okay, yeah he is.

669
00:31:47.480 --> 00:31:48.960
<v Speaker 4>Number two, we were just trying to keep up with

670
00:31:49.000 --> 00:31:50.960
<v Speaker 4>all the lies and that's just not easy.

671
00:31:51.039 --> 00:31:52.359
<v Speaker 2>Okay, right, okay.

672
00:31:52.559 --> 00:31:59.960
<v Speaker 3>And we did see it, but it was not super noticeable.

673
00:32:00.119 --> 00:32:04.240
<v Speaker 4>I just thought he had like BedHead, or like a

674
00:32:04.279 --> 00:32:07.720
<v Speaker 4>bad haircut, or like chunk of hair just went rogue.

675
00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:13.160
<v Speaker 3>I didn't get the full comb forward until it has

676
00:32:13.200 --> 00:32:14.039
<v Speaker 3>been pointed out.

677
00:32:14.279 --> 00:32:15.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he does.

678
00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:18.039
<v Speaker 1>He starts from the middle and blush it. And he

679
00:32:18.160 --> 00:32:20.319
<v Speaker 1>had one little piece of danger for something right on

680
00:32:20.359 --> 00:32:23.720
<v Speaker 1>the front of his head the whole entire wedding. Oh

681
00:32:23.720 --> 00:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I didn't notice that, you know, I have

682
00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:27.599
<v Speaker 1>in mind, I have a million pictures of it, So

683
00:32:27.680 --> 00:32:28.359
<v Speaker 1>let me show it to you.

684
00:32:29.480 --> 00:32:31.160
<v Speaker 4>That's how you know you really don't want to marry

685
00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:33.200
<v Speaker 4>person when you show up with dandrefin your hair at

686
00:32:33.200 --> 00:32:34.079
<v Speaker 4>your own damn wedding.

687
00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:35.119
<v Speaker 1>Can you see it?

688
00:32:38.160 --> 00:32:40.880
<v Speaker 3>I didn't looking at How the hell did you even

689
00:32:40.920 --> 00:32:41.519
<v Speaker 3>notice that?

690
00:32:43.440 --> 00:32:44.079
<v Speaker 2>How could you not.

691
00:32:45.079 --> 00:32:46.799
<v Speaker 1>I didn't the whole time.

692
00:32:46.960 --> 00:32:50.759
<v Speaker 4>I didn't notice Emma's scars for like fifteen episodes.

693
00:32:50.839 --> 00:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>That's true, that you know. So he arrives, he talks

694
00:32:56.720 --> 00:32:59.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of bullshit to whoever's listening, and he says

695
00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.519
<v Speaker 1>he's a talk top tier partner when it comes to

696
00:33:02.599 --> 00:33:03.319
<v Speaker 1>choosing a wife.

697
00:33:04.559 --> 00:33:05.599
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

698
00:33:07.039 --> 00:33:09.119
<v Speaker 1>He talks to some of his buddies and they make

699
00:33:09.240 --> 00:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>so many soccer references that I just live.

700
00:33:11.240 --> 00:33:12.319
<v Speaker 3>It was ridiculous.

701
00:33:12.359 --> 00:33:14.720
<v Speaker 1>I just back I started to write and I backspaced

702
00:33:14.759 --> 00:33:16.279
<v Speaker 1>over it. I was like, I don't care. I don't care.

703
00:33:16.359 --> 00:33:19.000
<v Speaker 4>And it's like it's his whole brand, is the soccer

704
00:33:19.079 --> 00:33:21.000
<v Speaker 4>career that never was right.

705
00:33:21.680 --> 00:33:25.079
<v Speaker 1>And he says, you know, I'm confident. That's his favorite

706
00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:30.839
<v Speaker 1>fucking word, us dangerous. Well, I'm confident what I bring

707
00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:32.359
<v Speaker 1>to the table, you know, I'm happy to show it.

708
00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:33.759
<v Speaker 2>I have no fears. I have no fears.

709
00:33:33.799 --> 00:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Shut up, just.

710
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:40.119
<v Speaker 3>Shut the table. As a backpack, this is who.

711
00:33:40.039 --> 00:33:43.559
<v Speaker 1>Does somebody write and say he is hobosexual? He's he's

712
00:33:43.599 --> 00:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>a hobo. He's a homosexual.

713
00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:46.440
<v Speaker 3>Okay, he got it, I mean he is.

714
00:33:47.880 --> 00:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>His mom arrives in a sparkly dress and she walks

715
00:33:50.680 --> 00:33:52.920
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, oh, hey, these people, they don't like

716
00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:53.279
<v Speaker 1>each other.

717
00:33:53.279 --> 00:33:53.839
<v Speaker 3>They're weird.

718
00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:55.960
<v Speaker 2>They're weird, weird.

719
00:33:57.480 --> 00:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>And she goes, how are you doing? He goes confident,

720
00:34:00.039 --> 00:34:04.039
<v Speaker 1>clear headed, sleeping well, confident, and she goes, great, what

721
00:34:04.039 --> 00:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>are you confident about? You fucking weirdo. And she goes,

722
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm just so proud of you. What are you proud

723
00:34:08.039 --> 00:34:08.400
<v Speaker 1>of him for?

724
00:34:09.719 --> 00:34:12.239
<v Speaker 3>He got home, he's found a home.

725
00:34:13.320 --> 00:34:15.960
<v Speaker 1>And he gives us some more soccer analogies, you know,

726
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>walking out to the field, game time, whatever, blah blah blah.

727
00:34:19.440 --> 00:34:22.119
<v Speaker 1>So she comes out of the thing and all her

728
00:34:22.119 --> 00:34:23.480
<v Speaker 1>friends are like, Barbie, this.

729
00:34:23.559 --> 00:34:26.000
<v Speaker 3>Barbie that it gets on my nerves.

730
00:34:26.559 --> 00:34:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Her mom comes in. Her mom is wearing a blue suit.

731
00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:32.519
<v Speaker 1>Did you think that was an interesting mother of the bride? Look?

732
00:34:33.559 --> 00:34:36.239
<v Speaker 4>Well, she I think she kind of knew what was

733
00:34:36.320 --> 00:34:36.920
<v Speaker 4>going down.

734
00:34:37.480 --> 00:34:39.159
<v Speaker 1>She was like, I've got this cute blue suit in

735
00:34:39.199 --> 00:34:41.079
<v Speaker 1>my closet. I'm not going to buy any dress for this.

736
00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:45.639
<v Speaker 4>And you know what, I feel like, her dad is

737
00:34:45.719 --> 00:34:49.440
<v Speaker 4>so extreme and over the top. He had to marry

738
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:52.480
<v Speaker 4>someone that's kind of basic. Her moss just kind of basic.

739
00:34:53.239 --> 00:34:55.719
<v Speaker 3>You know, it was cute, it was.

740
00:34:55.679 --> 00:34:58.360
<v Speaker 1>Cute, but it's just I've never seen a mother of

741
00:34:58.400 --> 00:35:03.639
<v Speaker 1>the ride wear a suit. Now she was business casual.

742
00:35:03.800 --> 00:35:06.679
<v Speaker 1>She was business casual. She said.

743
00:35:06.840 --> 00:35:08.599
<v Speaker 2>Right after this, I got a meeting.

744
00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:10.599
<v Speaker 3>I got a meeting. I got a meeting.

745
00:35:12.039 --> 00:35:14.039
<v Speaker 1>Her dad, who we have found out through our source

746
00:35:14.079 --> 00:35:17.440
<v Speaker 1>as a stoner, comes as like, hey girl, and he

747
00:35:17.559 --> 00:35:20.119
<v Speaker 1>hugs her. And I don't like how her veil is.

748
00:35:20.280 --> 00:35:22.159
<v Speaker 1>It's just sort of like floating in the back of

749
00:35:22.159 --> 00:35:22.599
<v Speaker 1>her head.

750
00:35:23.159 --> 00:35:25.639
<v Speaker 3>It was a weird placement. I will say that. I

751
00:35:25.679 --> 00:35:26.199
<v Speaker 3>was kind of.

752
00:35:26.159 --> 00:35:30.119
<v Speaker 1>Like, how did it stay in there? I don't know

753
00:35:30.880 --> 00:35:35.880
<v Speaker 1>about it? Odd, very odd, I agree. So in the

754
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:39.239
<v Speaker 1>talking head she says, I'm fully expecting a note from Alex.

755
00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:42.119
<v Speaker 1>And this is this is interesting too because we've never

756
00:35:42.159 --> 00:35:45.079
<v Speaker 1>seen this before where they talk so much about it beforehand.

757
00:35:45.079 --> 00:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>They want you to believe they're all going to say yes,

758
00:35:47.559 --> 00:35:50.840
<v Speaker 1>you know right, And she goes, I'm not everyone's cup

759
00:35:50.840 --> 00:35:52.880
<v Speaker 1>of tea and I'm not for every boy, but who

760
00:35:53.039 --> 00:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>cares if they like me? It's more so do I

761
00:35:54.840 --> 00:35:58.159
<v Speaker 1>want to be with them? And that's my biggest thing today.

762
00:35:58.559 --> 00:36:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Someone out there is the love of my life. And

763
00:36:01.000 --> 00:36:03.440
<v Speaker 1>if it's Alex, looks Alex. If we choose each other

764
00:36:03.519 --> 00:36:06.280
<v Speaker 1>today he'll be my person that'll change my life forever.

765
00:36:06.400 --> 00:36:10.679
<v Speaker 1>But I'm choosing someone today because of happiness. I'm confident

766
00:36:11.199 --> 00:36:13.400
<v Speaker 1>and ready. And I wonder if she said confident as

767
00:36:13.519 --> 00:36:15.519
<v Speaker 1>like a fucking to him.

768
00:36:15.719 --> 00:36:16.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

769
00:36:16.920 --> 00:36:19.960
<v Speaker 1>So the wedding starts. He plasters on the fakest smile

770
00:36:20.000 --> 00:36:22.480
<v Speaker 1>we've ever seen when the doors open and he goes,

771
00:36:23.559 --> 00:36:25.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like Chandler on Friends, when you've tried to smile

772
00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:27.239
<v Speaker 1>for the picture and he's like, em.

773
00:36:28.159 --> 00:36:31.519
<v Speaker 4>It is most definitely not the face that as a

774
00:36:31.559 --> 00:36:34.199
<v Speaker 4>bride you want to see your groom have on his face.

775
00:36:34.519 --> 00:36:36.800
<v Speaker 1>He didn't look like, oh God, there she is, or

776
00:36:36.840 --> 00:36:37.880
<v Speaker 1>look on beautiful.

777
00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:40.760
<v Speaker 3>Nothing because he doesn't like her.

778
00:36:41.119 --> 00:36:45.599
<v Speaker 2>No, he doesn't. No, she looks great. She walks up,

779
00:36:45.639 --> 00:36:48.400
<v Speaker 2>he goes, he looks beautiful, and she's like, it was.

780
00:36:48.400 --> 00:36:49.880
<v Speaker 3>So fake, it was so forced.

781
00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:52.880
<v Speaker 1>The preacher talks and Alex says something in his hair

782
00:36:52.880 --> 00:36:57.320
<v Speaker 1>that I can't quit staring at. And he says some

783
00:36:57.400 --> 00:37:01.440
<v Speaker 1>vows about how it's incredible that he's gotten to know her,

784
00:37:01.679 --> 00:37:04.239
<v Speaker 1>he's enjoyed every second of this. Nobody says I love you,

785
00:37:06.239 --> 00:37:09.639
<v Speaker 1>and she goes, yeah, this has been a crazy roller coaster.

786
00:37:09.800 --> 00:37:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I fell in love with you and you became my

787
00:37:11.960 --> 00:37:13.880
<v Speaker 1>best friend. And he goes, love that love that.

788
00:37:18.320 --> 00:37:19.159
<v Speaker 3>So funny.

789
00:37:19.679 --> 00:37:22.079
<v Speaker 1>The preacher says, blah blah blah. Now is the time

790
00:37:22.119 --> 00:37:24.119
<v Speaker 1>to decide if love is blind? You, guys, I'm going

791
00:37:24.159 --> 00:37:25.960
<v Speaker 1>to say preacher every time. I don't know if these

792
00:37:26.000 --> 00:37:29.599
<v Speaker 1>people are preachers or just ordained to make I'm gonna

793
00:37:29.599 --> 00:37:30.159
<v Speaker 1>say preachers.

794
00:37:30.159 --> 00:37:32.559
<v Speaker 2>So just okay, don't dm me.

795
00:37:33.119 --> 00:37:35.239
<v Speaker 1>Preacher says, blah blah blah. Now is the time to

796
00:37:35.320 --> 00:37:37.760
<v Speaker 1>decide if love is blind? Will you get married or

797
00:37:37.800 --> 00:37:43.480
<v Speaker 1>will you walk away forever? So, Alex, do you take

798
00:37:43.559 --> 00:37:45.760
<v Speaker 1>Ashley to be your wife? Bah blah blah, I haven't

799
00:37:45.760 --> 00:37:48.000
<v Speaker 1>to hold blah blah blah. And he starts to speak,

800
00:37:48.000 --> 00:37:50.719
<v Speaker 1>and she goes, I know your answer and it doesn't

801
00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:55.719
<v Speaker 1>matter to me. And he's like okay, and she says,

802
00:37:55.840 --> 00:37:57.840
<v Speaker 1>I know you don't choose me, and I'm not choosing

803
00:37:57.840 --> 00:38:00.199
<v Speaker 1>you either. When we were in the Pause, all of

804
00:38:00.280 --> 00:38:04.119
<v Speaker 1>our stories and all of our future plans aligned perfectly. However,

805
00:38:04.239 --> 00:38:07.119
<v Speaker 1>once we left the pods, there was no effort, there

806
00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:10.320
<v Speaker 1>was no intimacy, there were no questions you had for me.

807
00:38:11.079 --> 00:38:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I felt as soon as we moved into the.

808
00:38:12.840 --> 00:38:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Apartment, we became roommates.

809
00:38:15.280 --> 00:38:18.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and not even really good roommates. And he nods,

810
00:38:19.519 --> 00:38:22.719
<v Speaker 1>and all the girls in the audience, I know are

811
00:38:22.719 --> 00:38:23.559
<v Speaker 1>starting to go.

812
00:38:23.840 --> 00:38:27.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh, like we chose the right wedding.

813
00:38:28.199 --> 00:38:28.400
<v Speaker 3>Yep.

814
00:38:29.360 --> 00:38:31.639
<v Speaker 2>All the girls in the audience are starting to smirk

815
00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:32.280
<v Speaker 2>a little bit.

816
00:38:32.679 --> 00:38:37.079
<v Speaker 1>Yep. And she continues. She says, something was always off.

817
00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:40.920
<v Speaker 1>Your stories were so vivid and so detailed. You said

818
00:38:40.920 --> 00:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot of words, but I found myself more confused

819
00:38:43.519 --> 00:38:48.000
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the conversations. Yep, and he goes okay.

820
00:38:48.320 --> 00:38:51.079
<v Speaker 1>She says, lying is a non negotiable for me, and

821
00:38:51.079 --> 00:38:52.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it is for you as well. You know,

822
00:38:52.639 --> 00:38:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I lived my life with integrity. I expect my husband

823
00:38:55.440 --> 00:38:57.840
<v Speaker 1>to do the same thing, and unfortunately, I feel like

824
00:38:57.920 --> 00:39:03.159
<v Speaker 1>you missed that mark, and he says okay. She says,

825
00:39:03.159 --> 00:39:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I used to ignore red flags and I accepted dishonesty

826
00:39:06.199 --> 00:39:08.119
<v Speaker 1>and spent far too much time waiting for a man

827
00:39:08.159 --> 00:39:10.719
<v Speaker 1>to love me that was not my person. I feel

828
00:39:10.719 --> 00:39:13.679
<v Speaker 1>this process is really made us grow and I'm very

829
00:39:13.719 --> 00:39:15.800
<v Speaker 1>proud of the woman I am today, and I hope

830
00:39:15.800 --> 00:39:17.639
<v Speaker 1>you're proud of the man you are. And he goes

831
00:39:17.760 --> 00:39:19.639
<v Speaker 1>absolutely confident.

832
00:39:19.239 --> 00:39:22.599
<v Speaker 3>For if people say that, yeah.

833
00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:23.159
<v Speaker 1>And she says, if I was seeing me here a

834
00:39:23.239 --> 00:39:25.400
<v Speaker 1>year ago, I would have ignored all the red flags

835
00:39:25.480 --> 00:39:28.239
<v Speaker 1>and all the lies. I probably would have thought I

836
00:39:28.280 --> 00:39:30.800
<v Speaker 1>could change him, And I would have spent far too

837
00:39:30.880 --> 00:39:32.719
<v Speaker 1>much time waiting for you to become the kind of

838
00:39:32.760 --> 00:39:36.280
<v Speaker 1>man I deserve, because I know I deserve something extraordinary.

839
00:39:36.719 --> 00:39:39.079
<v Speaker 2>I deserve so much better.

840
00:39:40.559 --> 00:39:43.480
<v Speaker 1>And he is staring a hole through her like he

841
00:39:43.559 --> 00:39:46.519
<v Speaker 1>wants to punch her in her stupid fucking nose.

842
00:39:47.039 --> 00:39:49.000
<v Speaker 4>Well because he doesn't know where he's going to stay tonight.

843
00:39:50.239 --> 00:39:52.599
<v Speaker 4>She's blown up all of his housing plans.

844
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:57.519
<v Speaker 1>I mean when I tell you, the man didn't blink yep.

845
00:39:57.760 --> 00:40:01.239
<v Speaker 1>And in the audience, all the girls are like, uh huh,

846
00:40:01.400 --> 00:40:05.159
<v Speaker 1>they're all haughty, like you go get the cup. And

847
00:40:05.199 --> 00:40:07.840
<v Speaker 1>then she says, so, I'm so sorry, but it's a

848
00:40:07.920 --> 00:40:12.079
<v Speaker 1>no for me today, and he goes okay, and he goes.

849
00:40:12.440 --> 00:40:14.679
<v Speaker 1>I would like to say that I completely respect that

850
00:40:14.760 --> 00:40:18.000
<v Speaker 1>from you, and uh, to an extent, I disagree about

851
00:40:18.039 --> 00:40:20.800
<v Speaker 1>the integrity. I felt just that the questions about my

852
00:40:20.880 --> 00:40:22.760
<v Speaker 1>past were more so to try and catch me in

853
00:40:22.800 --> 00:40:26.199
<v Speaker 1>something other than to really understand me. I do live

854
00:40:26.239 --> 00:40:28.559
<v Speaker 1>a very different lifestyle. I do my best to explain

855
00:40:28.599 --> 00:40:31.320
<v Speaker 1>it as much as possible. I personally don't think I

856
00:40:31.320 --> 00:40:33.840
<v Speaker 1>missed the mark on integrity, but I do understand the

857
00:40:33.880 --> 00:40:36.440
<v Speaker 1>rest of your feelings. I respect that without a doubt,

858
00:40:36.480 --> 00:40:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and uh, for my end, it's mutual. She goes, saying

859
00:40:42.480 --> 00:40:45.119
<v Speaker 1>no to you today is a win. And when I

860
00:40:45.159 --> 00:40:46.800
<v Speaker 1>tell you that's when the girls in the arm, It's.

861
00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:52.280
<v Speaker 4>Like, okay, I will if you were dying. I wish

862
00:40:52.280 --> 00:40:54.440
<v Speaker 4>she would have said, me, saying notes to you today

863
00:40:54.639 --> 00:40:57.960
<v Speaker 4>is a goal like soccer, but.

864
00:40:57.960 --> 00:41:00.960
<v Speaker 1>When is still yeah, that's true.

865
00:41:01.119 --> 00:41:02.559
<v Speaker 3>I think that would have really stuck.

866
00:41:02.360 --> 00:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>It to him well, because when he said for my

867
00:41:04.360 --> 00:41:06.760
<v Speaker 1>end as mutual, she was like, if you motherfucker, I

868
00:41:06.760 --> 00:41:08.119
<v Speaker 1>think you're getting the last word.

869
00:41:08.360 --> 00:41:08.880
<v Speaker 2>You are not.

870
00:41:09.639 --> 00:41:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Saying no to you today is a win. And she

871
00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:14.880
<v Speaker 1>turns around and looks at her dad and goes, help me,

872
00:41:15.119 --> 00:41:15.639
<v Speaker 1>help me.

873
00:41:15.920 --> 00:41:19.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And she told it to her dad, not her mom,

874
00:41:19.159 --> 00:41:21.719
<v Speaker 4>like she is the epitome of a daddy's girl.

875
00:41:22.280 --> 00:41:24.280
<v Speaker 1>She just turned around and said it to anybody that

876
00:41:24.280 --> 00:41:25.239
<v Speaker 1>could hop up first.

877
00:41:25.320 --> 00:41:26.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, get me, get me out of here. And her

878
00:41:27.039 --> 00:41:28.840
<v Speaker 3>dad was like, I got your baby, I got you.

879
00:41:29.119 --> 00:41:29.639
<v Speaker 2>He got you.

880
00:41:30.239 --> 00:41:32.320
<v Speaker 1>So that what she walks off with her dad and

881
00:41:32.360 --> 00:41:36.039
<v Speaker 1>the mom goes, she flat out called him a liar,

882
00:41:37.599 --> 00:41:40.360
<v Speaker 1>and the friend goes, yeah, I know, and he is.

883
00:41:42.159 --> 00:41:44.559
<v Speaker 1>So she goes and she hugs her parents and she

884
00:41:44.639 --> 00:41:47.280
<v Speaker 1>hugs her friend, who goes, oh, you clocked that guy.

885
00:41:48.159 --> 00:41:48.559
<v Speaker 4>She did?

886
00:41:48.880 --> 00:41:53.039
<v Speaker 1>She did so uh. He goes and he like WAPs

887
00:41:53.079 --> 00:41:55.239
<v Speaker 1>up his buddies and he hugs his mom. He goes,

888
00:41:55.239 --> 00:41:57.480
<v Speaker 1>we're good, we're good, We're good, and mom goes, I

889
00:41:57.480 --> 00:41:59.679
<v Speaker 1>am not happy with her calling you a liar because

890
00:41:59.719 --> 00:42:02.119
<v Speaker 1>you're not. He goes, it's okay, it's fine. He says,

891
00:42:02.599 --> 00:42:07.840
<v Speaker 1>everyone that everyone No, wait, he says, oh. He goes,

892
00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>I know that. Everyone here knows that. So exactly where

893
00:42:10.719 --> 00:42:12.800
<v Speaker 1>I should be. I'm exactly where I should be. I'm

894
00:42:12.840 --> 00:42:16.719
<v Speaker 1>standing where I should be, very confident, very confident. And

895
00:42:16.760 --> 00:42:19.320
<v Speaker 1>his buddy goes, you're a great man and you'll be

896
00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:20.199
<v Speaker 1>a great husband one day.

897
00:42:20.239 --> 00:42:20.880
<v Speaker 2>He goes, appreciate it.

898
00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:22.079
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, I know.

899
00:42:22.440 --> 00:42:22.920
<v Speaker 2>Confident.

900
00:42:23.679 --> 00:42:26.239
<v Speaker 1>She's a great girl. No, ill will and they go

901
00:42:26.320 --> 00:42:27.880
<v Speaker 1>do you want to go check on her? And this

902
00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:31.920
<v Speaker 1>is his real personality right here. He goes, No, what

903
00:42:31.960 --> 00:42:35.440
<v Speaker 1>do you mean? No, no, yep. The right thing to do,

904
00:42:36.280 --> 00:42:37.719
<v Speaker 1>the right thing to do. It had been like, yeah,

905
00:42:37.760 --> 00:42:39.440
<v Speaker 1>let me just get a man, let me just check.

906
00:42:39.280 --> 00:42:42.320
<v Speaker 4>Out it, or say goodbye to her and maybe apologize,

907
00:42:42.440 --> 00:42:45.239
<v Speaker 4>you know, just on good terms.

908
00:42:45.719 --> 00:42:49.039
<v Speaker 2>He goes, no, what do you mean No, he walks off.

909
00:42:49.480 --> 00:42:52.199
<v Speaker 1>So in talking to Eddy, he goes, I didn't think

910
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:56.559
<v Speaker 1>my uh integrity needed to be called into question, and

911
00:42:56.599 --> 00:42:58.280
<v Speaker 1>that whole I'm going to go first. That was a

912
00:42:58.320 --> 00:43:00.519
<v Speaker 1>power move and I okay, fine, do your thing. But

913
00:43:00.880 --> 00:43:03.679
<v Speaker 1>that was a consistent theme throughout the process, like I

914
00:43:03.719 --> 00:43:05.679
<v Speaker 1>was always asked, where were you at this time?

915
00:43:05.840 --> 00:43:07.880
<v Speaker 2>What were you doing? When did this happen?

916
00:43:08.159 --> 00:43:10.159
<v Speaker 1>I think she was looking for a potential way out

917
00:43:10.199 --> 00:43:12.239
<v Speaker 1>and to find that out, you know, to find out

918
00:43:12.519 --> 00:43:15.639
<v Speaker 1>she was just targeting my past. What the fuck are

919
00:43:15.639 --> 00:43:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you talking about? She was not trying to find a

920
00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:20.119
<v Speaker 1>way out. She was trying to get you to tell

921
00:43:20.119 --> 00:43:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the truth.

922
00:43:20.960 --> 00:43:23.199
<v Speaker 3>The truth. And he just here's the thing.

923
00:43:23.679 --> 00:43:27.199
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes, no matter how bad the truth is, the person

924
00:43:27.280 --> 00:43:29.039
<v Speaker 4>is like, well, at least that's the truth.

925
00:43:29.440 --> 00:43:31.800
<v Speaker 3>I can't deal with that. Yes, I can't deal with

926
00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:32.119
<v Speaker 3>the lie.

927
00:43:32.159 --> 00:43:35.199
<v Speaker 4>And sometimes people could look past the truth like okay,

928
00:43:35.400 --> 00:43:38.039
<v Speaker 4>he did this, he fucked up, he's admitting to it.

929
00:43:38.239 --> 00:43:41.880
<v Speaker 3>I can work with this, But it's the constant lying.

930
00:43:41.960 --> 00:43:44.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's just too much, he said, you know, and

931
00:43:44.800 --> 00:43:47.480
<v Speaker 1>she was really targeting my past. And if you're gonna

932
00:43:47.519 --> 00:43:50.119
<v Speaker 1>heavily weigh on my past, I mean there's some things

933
00:43:50.159 --> 00:43:50.920
<v Speaker 1>in hers as well.

934
00:43:51.840 --> 00:43:52.440
<v Speaker 3>Well what are they?

935
00:43:52.440 --> 00:43:54.079
<v Speaker 2>Because we are they let's hear it, let's hear it.

936
00:43:54.119 --> 00:43:54.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we want to know.

937
00:43:54.880 --> 00:43:58.320
<v Speaker 1>We got time today, We got time. So then we

938
00:43:58.360 --> 00:44:01.639
<v Speaker 1>see him with his boys doing shots. He's like, to

939
00:44:01.719 --> 00:44:05.880
<v Speaker 1>my integrity and they all do shots. Okay, mmm, so

940
00:44:05.920 --> 00:44:08.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking dad. She goes, I'm sure he's annoyed with

941
00:44:08.679 --> 00:44:11.199
<v Speaker 1>me calling out his integrity because she.

942
00:44:11.199 --> 00:44:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Knew that was the one thing that would get him.

943
00:44:14.199 --> 00:44:16.079
<v Speaker 1>And she goes in front of it. She goes and

944
00:44:16.239 --> 00:44:18.519
<v Speaker 1>in front of his friends and his mother. But I

945
00:44:18.599 --> 00:44:22.079
<v Speaker 1>just don't care, she says, today it was all about me.

946
00:44:23.159 --> 00:44:25.199
<v Speaker 1>So she's talking to these two girls and she go

947
00:44:25.480 --> 00:44:27.280
<v Speaker 1>they go, wow, like he didn't have much to say.

948
00:44:27.280 --> 00:44:29.519
<v Speaker 1>She goes, because he knows. I'm right, he's a loser.

949
00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:32.400
<v Speaker 1>She said he didn't love me, he didn't even like me.

950
00:44:34.000 --> 00:44:37.199
<v Speaker 1>All are true, Like this season, I cannot believe she

951
00:44:37.239 --> 00:44:40.639
<v Speaker 1>said he's a loser, Like I was, like, we didn't

952
00:44:40.679 --> 00:44:43.920
<v Speaker 1>have a trouble. He is a loser, but I mean,

953
00:44:44.199 --> 00:44:47.280
<v Speaker 1>she her words were so strong. I couldn't believe it.

954
00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:49.039
<v Speaker 1>I was so proud of her.

955
00:44:49.559 --> 00:44:51.800
<v Speaker 3>It was good. She she clocked everything.

956
00:44:52.079 --> 00:44:55.159
<v Speaker 4>And the thing about it is is that, I mean,

957
00:44:55.599 --> 00:44:59.679
<v Speaker 4>he didn't give her. I this is the first season

958
00:44:59.760 --> 00:45:03.559
<v Speaker 4>where I can say that people genuinely did not.

959
00:45:03.760 --> 00:45:07.960
<v Speaker 3>Like each other. Usually it is we really.

960
00:45:07.760 --> 00:45:10.719
<v Speaker 4>Like each other, we love each other in fact, but

961
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:12.719
<v Speaker 4>we're just not ready to be married, or we're just

962
00:45:12.880 --> 00:45:13.719
<v Speaker 4>not a lot.

963
00:45:13.880 --> 00:45:14.840
<v Speaker 2>It's just not gonna work.

964
00:45:15.360 --> 00:45:17.519
<v Speaker 3>People just do not like each other.

965
00:45:18.239 --> 00:45:20.320
<v Speaker 1>These do specifically. No.

966
00:45:20.679 --> 00:45:22.880
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's the same with Brittany and Davante. It's

967
00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:24.840
<v Speaker 4>just it's so obvious that they.

968
00:45:24.760 --> 00:45:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Just Brittany and DeVante. She is so hard trying to

969
00:45:29.880 --> 00:45:32.159
<v Speaker 1>fit a square peg in a round hole. She's like,

970
00:45:32.960 --> 00:45:36.079
<v Speaker 1>I did all this, I've got to get married like you.

971
00:45:36.599 --> 00:45:41.840
<v Speaker 1>It's okay, you know, like you still have time, yeah,

972
00:45:42.079 --> 00:45:42.960
<v Speaker 1>to find someone.

973
00:45:43.480 --> 00:45:44.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's.

974
00:45:47.039 --> 00:45:49.880
<v Speaker 1>In the talking head actually says she goes for him

975
00:45:49.920 --> 00:45:54.159
<v Speaker 1>to sit there and lie all the time. I just

976
00:45:54.199 --> 00:45:56.039
<v Speaker 1>don't think he was here for the right reasons. I

977
00:45:56.039 --> 00:45:58.440
<v Speaker 1>think he wanted something else out of this other than

978
00:45:58.440 --> 00:46:02.960
<v Speaker 1>a wife, well, hotel room, a place to stay and

979
00:46:03.079 --> 00:46:07.079
<v Speaker 1>also listen to his podcast. I don't know because he

980
00:46:07.239 --> 00:46:08.519
<v Speaker 1>didn't call looking good.

981
00:46:09.360 --> 00:46:10.119
<v Speaker 3>No, he did not.

982
00:46:11.840 --> 00:46:16.519
<v Speaker 1>So it's Christine and Vick's wedding day, Mary.

983
00:46:16.320 --> 00:46:17.639
<v Speaker 3>Pay I swear to you.

984
00:46:18.639 --> 00:46:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh my god.

985
00:46:20.119 --> 00:46:22.239
<v Speaker 4>So you know how they have like the monogram with

986
00:46:22.280 --> 00:46:23.639
<v Speaker 4>like their initials and stuff.

987
00:46:25.000 --> 00:46:30.119
<v Speaker 3>I cannot remember her name. I was like, c It's like,

988
00:46:30.199 --> 00:46:34.639
<v Speaker 3>what is her name? I cannot I have been calling

989
00:46:34.679 --> 00:46:36.440
<v Speaker 3>her ears.

990
00:46:35.880 --> 00:46:40.519
<v Speaker 1>For like so long, Catherine, I really was. I was like,

991
00:46:40.559 --> 00:46:42.920
<v Speaker 1>her name starts with a C, Cassandra.

992
00:46:43.719 --> 00:46:45.679
<v Speaker 3>Someone has itself. I was like, oh, yeah, that is

993
00:46:46.039 --> 00:46:49.679
<v Speaker 3>I totally forgot her name. I mean, someone could have

994
00:46:49.719 --> 00:46:51.559
<v Speaker 3>offered me a million dollars.

995
00:46:52.159 --> 00:46:54.760
<v Speaker 1>Well, the first time I watched it, because I was

996
00:46:54.800 --> 00:46:56.440
<v Speaker 1>just sort of watching it to watch it, wasn't to

997
00:46:56.480 --> 00:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>take notes. I didn't understand some of this. So I

998
00:46:59.320 --> 00:47:01.360
<v Speaker 1>did take some not here. I really When I first

999
00:47:01.519 --> 00:47:03.199
<v Speaker 1>I go, oh, I can just close my laptop because

1000
00:47:03.199 --> 00:47:04.599
<v Speaker 1>there's gonna be no notes here. But I did take

1001
00:47:04.599 --> 00:47:07.599
<v Speaker 1>some notes. Okay, okay. She says she's crazy in love

1002
00:47:07.639 --> 00:47:09.960
<v Speaker 1>with him. She's going to be meeting his mother for

1003
00:47:10.000 --> 00:47:13.480
<v Speaker 1>the first time. It seems like his mom and sister

1004
00:47:13.519 --> 00:47:16.800
<v Speaker 1>must live in New York somewhere. Yeah, yeah, yeah. His

1005
00:47:16.880 --> 00:47:21.280
<v Speaker 1>sister Chandelle arrives with the mom whose name is vict

1006
00:47:21.360 --> 00:47:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Victoria because his name.

1007
00:47:23.679 --> 00:47:26.320
<v Speaker 3>Is Victor and that's her only baby boy.

1008
00:47:26.679 --> 00:47:30.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and Shandell, the sister is going to actually be

1009
00:47:30.679 --> 00:47:33.920
<v Speaker 1>marrying them. Mom has an accent like an island.

1010
00:47:33.599 --> 00:47:35.440
<v Speaker 3>Actual Jamaican or something. Yeah.

1011
00:47:35.480 --> 00:47:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I was I was like, is it Jamaican, trying to

1012
00:47:37.760 --> 00:47:38.880
<v Speaker 1>figure it out. It was something.

1013
00:47:38.960 --> 00:47:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, she couldn't be cut mm hm.

1014
00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:45.679
<v Speaker 4>With a cute little fascinator, a little headband fascinator.

1015
00:47:45.760 --> 00:47:50.519
<v Speaker 1>Cute. Okay. So Christine gives the mom a letter and says,

1016
00:47:50.519 --> 00:47:52.079
<v Speaker 1>these are all the things I wanted to say to you,

1017
00:47:52.119 --> 00:47:52.360
<v Speaker 1>but like.

1018
00:47:52.360 --> 00:47:53.599
<v Speaker 2>I put it in a letter because I don't want

1019
00:47:53.639 --> 00:47:54.159
<v Speaker 2>to cry. Whatever.

1020
00:47:55.719 --> 00:47:59.679
<v Speaker 1>And Chandelle says, my brother is such an introvert, Like

1021
00:47:59.719 --> 00:48:02.199
<v Speaker 1>I not believe he did this, Like did the show

1022
00:48:02.800 --> 00:48:05.280
<v Speaker 1>any of it? She goes, I couldn't believe it. Christine goes,

1023
00:48:05.280 --> 00:48:07.760
<v Speaker 1>that's so crazy. I'm really introverted too. He says, I'm

1024
00:48:07.760 --> 00:48:10.360
<v Speaker 1>more extrovert of it. I'm really introverted. And her friends

1025
00:48:10.360 --> 00:48:13.440
<v Speaker 1>were like, we could not believe she did this.

1026
00:48:13.679 --> 00:48:14.159
<v Speaker 3>She did it?

1027
00:48:14.239 --> 00:48:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know that was interesting. They had that

1028
00:48:16.360 --> 00:48:21.400
<v Speaker 1>in common and Christine's ninety five year old mother arrives,

1029
00:48:21.599 --> 00:48:22.480
<v Speaker 1>and what.

1030
00:48:22.679 --> 00:48:25.199
<v Speaker 3>They were wrong for making that old lady walk up

1031
00:48:25.239 --> 00:48:25.800
<v Speaker 3>those stars.

1032
00:48:26.239 --> 00:48:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, why is the elevator seventy five years old?

1033
00:48:30.760 --> 00:48:31.039
<v Speaker 2>Wow?

1034
00:48:31.039 --> 00:48:32.840
<v Speaker 3>No, she's got seventy five. She's ninety five.

1035
00:48:33.159 --> 00:48:37.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, bless her. So anyway, Christine's hair, I love

1036
00:48:37.360 --> 00:48:38.039
<v Speaker 2>the way they did it.

1037
00:48:38.119 --> 00:48:38.719
<v Speaker 3>I loved you.

1038
00:48:39.159 --> 00:48:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I agree. I didn't like the veil at the base

1039
00:48:42.159 --> 00:48:44.199
<v Speaker 1>of the neck. I didn't like that.

1040
00:48:45.199 --> 00:48:47.519
<v Speaker 4>Well, I liked her hair. Her hair was everything. I'm like,

1041
00:48:47.559 --> 00:48:51.760
<v Speaker 4>her hair was really good. It looks really good. She

1042
00:48:51.800 --> 00:48:53.599
<v Speaker 4>doesn't have a problem with her years. She shows them.

1043
00:48:53.639 --> 00:48:55.119
<v Speaker 2>She's loud and proud with three years.

1044
00:48:55.400 --> 00:48:57.119
<v Speaker 3>Well, she didn't have a choice.

1045
00:48:57.239 --> 00:49:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Well, she could have worn her hair down.

1046
00:49:01.079 --> 00:49:04.239
<v Speaker 3>You can't still see them. They would have peeked through

1047
00:49:04.360 --> 00:49:05.199
<v Speaker 3>at some point.

1048
00:49:05.679 --> 00:49:09.840
<v Speaker 4>Okay, they would have had to say hi everyone.

1049
00:49:10.000 --> 00:49:10.400
<v Speaker 2>All right?

1050
00:49:10.840 --> 00:49:15.320
<v Speaker 1>So uh Over there with Vic, he's talking about how

1051
00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.199
<v Speaker 1>much they love each other. They both have imperfections, but

1052
00:49:18.239 --> 00:49:21.440
<v Speaker 1>they love their imperfections. And she has given him a

1053
00:49:21.480 --> 00:49:23.559
<v Speaker 1>gift and he opens up the box and sort of

1054
00:49:23.639 --> 00:49:26.119
<v Speaker 1>looks and it puts it down and says, I can't

1055
00:49:26.159 --> 00:49:26.800
<v Speaker 1>say it's in there.

1056
00:49:26.840 --> 00:49:28.119
<v Speaker 2>That's just like for married people.

1057
00:49:28.360 --> 00:49:29.280
<v Speaker 1>What is in that box?

1058
00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:31.760
<v Speaker 3>A book? Plug?

1059
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:34.599
<v Speaker 2>Is it lube? Is it a vibrator?

1060
00:49:34.760 --> 00:49:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Like?

1061
00:49:34.960 --> 00:49:36.239
<v Speaker 2>What is in it them?

1062
00:49:36.639 --> 00:49:36.760
<v Speaker 4>Like?

1063
00:49:37.360 --> 00:49:40.159
<v Speaker 3>This was the most interesting thing about them period? Right,

1064
00:49:40.199 --> 00:49:41.800
<v Speaker 3>there was what's in the box?

1065
00:49:42.519 --> 00:49:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I when I watched it the first time, I didn't

1066
00:49:44.599 --> 00:49:46.000
<v Speaker 1>because I wasn't always looking.

1067
00:49:46.039 --> 00:49:48.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like walking around, let's do it. So I

1068
00:49:48.960 --> 00:49:49.840
<v Speaker 2>didn't see that part.

1069
00:49:50.079 --> 00:49:51.840
<v Speaker 1>So at the end where they were talking about the box,

1070
00:49:51.880 --> 00:49:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, are they talking.

1071
00:49:53.760 --> 00:49:54.519
<v Speaker 2>About her box?

1072
00:49:54.599 --> 00:49:54.679
<v Speaker 3>Like?

1073
00:49:54.679 --> 00:49:56.199
<v Speaker 1>What box are they talking about?

1074
00:49:56.840 --> 00:49:58.199
<v Speaker 3>We need to know about the box.

1075
00:49:58.480 --> 00:50:01.360
<v Speaker 1>We've got to know, We've got to find out. Yes,

1076
00:50:01.559 --> 00:50:05.840
<v Speaker 1>So but I'd bolded it what was in the box?

1077
00:50:06.199 --> 00:50:12.079
<v Speaker 1>So his buddies, right, his buddies are fun. They're fun.

1078
00:50:12.559 --> 00:50:15.559
<v Speaker 1>They can tell they're all really good friends. They teach

1079
00:50:15.599 --> 00:50:17.559
<v Speaker 1>the one buddy how to do the electric slide. That

1080
00:50:17.719 --> 00:50:18.159
<v Speaker 1>was fun.

1081
00:50:20.000 --> 00:50:22.880
<v Speaker 2>He talks to his mom. She comes in. It's very cute.

1082
00:50:23.440 --> 00:50:26.840
<v Speaker 1>The mom is cute, and he says, you know, oh,

1083
00:50:26.880 --> 00:50:28.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, he gave his mom such a hard time

1084
00:50:28.800 --> 00:50:30.920
<v Speaker 1>growing up, and she goes, oh my gosh, that first

1085
00:50:30.960 --> 00:50:33.039
<v Speaker 1>semester you came back from college, you followed me around

1086
00:50:33.039 --> 00:50:35.360
<v Speaker 1>the house telling me how sorry you were for all

1087
00:50:35.400 --> 00:50:38.400
<v Speaker 1>the bad things, and she's so glad. She said, you

1088
00:50:38.440 --> 00:50:40.039
<v Speaker 1>were so glad I didn't give up on you, and

1089
00:50:40.079 --> 00:50:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh no, we don't give up on our children.

1090
00:50:42.199 --> 00:50:47.639
<v Speaker 1>I was just like I love Yeah, he says he

1091
00:50:47.719 --> 00:50:49.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, basically he found God and learned how to

1092
00:50:49.800 --> 00:50:50.119
<v Speaker 1>do right.

1093
00:50:50.159 --> 00:50:50.360
<v Speaker 4>I like.

1094
00:50:50.559 --> 00:50:52.440
<v Speaker 1>She goes, well, it's not about religion. You just like

1095
00:50:52.480 --> 00:50:56.840
<v Speaker 1>do writer or you don't. Yeah. Mom is really happy

1096
00:50:56.880 --> 00:50:58.880
<v Speaker 1>for him, and he says he has no cold feet,

1097
00:50:59.000 --> 00:51:00.719
<v Speaker 1>like he knows. It's a yes, and so so do

1098
00:51:00.760 --> 00:51:04.440
<v Speaker 1>we and uh, okay, I hate how her veils at

1099
00:51:04.440 --> 00:51:06.199
<v Speaker 1>the bottom of her hair. That's the note here, but

1100
00:51:06.320 --> 00:51:10.000
<v Speaker 1>her hair is incredible. Her uncle Don walks her down

1101
00:51:10.000 --> 00:51:13.320
<v Speaker 1>the aisle. He looks like a stone or two like him.

1102
00:51:13.440 --> 00:51:15.360
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's probably why I like them.

1103
00:51:15.559 --> 00:51:19.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, probably about him that I like. They both say

1104
00:51:19.639 --> 00:51:20.960
<v Speaker 2>I do. They're happy.

1105
00:51:21.039 --> 00:51:23.519
<v Speaker 1>I love them. Nothing more to say here than they're brave.

1106
00:51:24.960 --> 00:51:26.920
<v Speaker 1>Now we get sad scenes that the losers who didn't

1107
00:51:26.920 --> 00:51:31.280
<v Speaker 1>get married. So Mike says he does want to be

1108
00:51:31.360 --> 00:51:34.559
<v Speaker 1>with Emma, but it's scary to think she might never

1109
00:51:34.679 --> 00:51:39.440
<v Speaker 1>want the responsibility of kids. And Emma says she does

1110
00:51:39.480 --> 00:51:41.960
<v Speaker 1>think love is blind, but there are some big things

1111
00:51:42.000 --> 00:51:45.480
<v Speaker 1>you can't be blind on, especially children. And then she said,

1112
00:51:45.519 --> 00:51:50.719
<v Speaker 1>at least Mike, Yeah, Alex tells us he has no regrets,

1113
00:51:50.760 --> 00:51:53.679
<v Speaker 1>no regrets. He's confident, no regrets, and of course he's

1114
00:51:53.840 --> 00:51:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm very proud of myself as a person.

1115
00:51:55.840 --> 00:51:58.840
<v Speaker 2>Of course you yeah, yes, oh, to have.

1116
00:51:58.800 --> 00:52:03.159
<v Speaker 1>A confident, the confidence of this mediocre white man. Yes, indeed,

1117
00:52:04.199 --> 00:52:05.039
<v Speaker 1>what he learned.

1118
00:52:05.519 --> 00:52:07.760
<v Speaker 2>And now he talks in a complete circle. And the

1119
00:52:07.800 --> 00:52:08.320
<v Speaker 2>first time I.

1120
00:52:08.320 --> 00:52:09.639
<v Speaker 3>Saw it, that's all he does.

1121
00:52:10.039 --> 00:52:12.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, did he just contradict himself here? And

1122
00:52:12.800 --> 00:52:14.960
<v Speaker 1>then the second time I wrote down exactly what he said.

1123
00:52:15.039 --> 00:52:18.320
<v Speaker 1>He says, what I've learned, uh, is the emotional connection

1124
00:52:18.480 --> 00:52:23.239
<v Speaker 1>needs to be prioritized over the physical. But the physical

1125
00:52:23.320 --> 00:52:25.719
<v Speaker 1>is still really important to me. Like, I'm not saying

1126
00:52:25.719 --> 00:52:27.760
<v Speaker 1>it has to be important to everybody else, but for me,

1127
00:52:28.280 --> 00:52:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I need a physical match that makes me very very happy.

1128
00:52:31.880 --> 00:52:34.639
<v Speaker 1>So you just said you have to prioritize the emotional

1129
00:52:34.679 --> 00:52:36.960
<v Speaker 1>over the physical, But then you said for me, and

1130
00:52:37.159 --> 00:52:38.559
<v Speaker 1>that has to be the priority.

1131
00:52:39.920 --> 00:52:42.519
<v Speaker 3>It's a typical Alex. That's all he does is talk

1132
00:52:42.559 --> 00:52:43.360
<v Speaker 3>in circles.

1133
00:52:43.840 --> 00:52:47.159
<v Speaker 1>He says, moving forward, I'm just saying moving forward, I'm

1134
00:52:47.159 --> 00:52:51.079
<v Speaker 1>just staying open to everything that comes, and hopefully that

1135
00:52:51.199 --> 00:52:53.039
<v Speaker 1>is going to be a place to live and a job.

1136
00:52:53.480 --> 00:52:56.239
<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, most definitely, I mean he most.

1137
00:52:56.000 --> 00:53:00.360
<v Speaker 4>If nothing else, I want to hear the reunion that

1138
00:53:00.480 --> 00:53:03.559
<v Speaker 4>he is employed and at least has an RV.

1139
00:53:04.920 --> 00:53:07.159
<v Speaker 1>Oh, he's employed because he has proven that he can

1140
00:53:07.239 --> 00:53:08.599
<v Speaker 1>work anywhere at any time.

1141
00:53:11.039 --> 00:53:12.920
<v Speaker 3>I just don't think he likes to work very much,

1142
00:53:13.840 --> 00:53:14.039
<v Speaker 3>you know.

1143
00:53:14.079 --> 00:53:16.800
<v Speaker 1>And we totally skipped over at the bachelor party where

1144
00:53:16.800 --> 00:53:19.519
<v Speaker 1>he said his goal in ten years is to have

1145
00:53:19.559 --> 00:53:22.960
<v Speaker 1>a place in Florida, a place in New Zealand, and

1146
00:53:23.039 --> 00:53:24.440
<v Speaker 1>a safe house in Dubai.

1147
00:53:25.440 --> 00:53:26.719
<v Speaker 3>Why do you need a safe house?

1148
00:53:26.800 --> 00:53:27.920
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean a safe house from?

1149
00:53:27.920 --> 00:53:28.719
<v Speaker 2>What are you?

1150
00:53:28.760 --> 00:53:29.880
<v Speaker 3>Who are you running from?

1151
00:53:29.960 --> 00:53:30.639
<v Speaker 1>What's happening?

1152
00:53:30.760 --> 00:53:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Why would you say that.

1153
00:53:32.239 --> 00:53:35.079
<v Speaker 4>He's probably running from the irs. See how he pay

1154
00:53:35.119 --> 00:53:35.960
<v Speaker 4>his fucking texes?

1155
00:53:36.599 --> 00:53:37.880
<v Speaker 2>Weird? Okay, So.

1156
00:53:39.599 --> 00:53:42.920
<v Speaker 1>The tuckehead Ashley says, a year ago, I would have

1157
00:53:42.960 --> 00:53:46.079
<v Speaker 1>said yes and been miserable. But this process has taught

1158
00:53:46.079 --> 00:53:50.119
<v Speaker 1>me what I deserve. I don't want mediocre love and

1159
00:53:50.159 --> 00:53:53.320
<v Speaker 1>he falls very short of what I deserve in this life.

1160
00:53:55.199 --> 00:53:58.760
<v Speaker 4>And again, like you said, Ashley was not my favorite person,

1161
00:53:59.360 --> 00:54:03.599
<v Speaker 4>but she's absolutely right yeah on everything and I'm very

1162
00:54:03.639 --> 00:54:06.639
<v Speaker 4>super glad that she sit up for herself, because sometimes

1163
00:54:06.639 --> 00:54:09.599
<v Speaker 4>we would do just settle for list just so we're married.

1164
00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:09.679
<v Speaker 3>You know.

1165
00:54:09.800 --> 00:54:13.119
<v Speaker 1>Well, even Davante was like, I just would have few

1166
00:54:13.199 --> 00:54:14.679
<v Speaker 1>years ago, I would have been the person been like,

1167
00:54:14.760 --> 00:54:18.280
<v Speaker 1>let's just wet you figure out to get divorced, you know. Yeah.

1168
00:54:18.280 --> 00:54:20.320
<v Speaker 1>We go to the receptions. Looks like Ambray and Jordan

1169
00:54:20.440 --> 00:54:25.039
<v Speaker 1>get really drunk. We see our friend there, who gets

1170
00:54:25.159 --> 00:54:29.599
<v Speaker 1>who's near the person that catches the bouquet? Chris, Christine

1171
00:54:29.599 --> 00:54:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and Vick.

1172
00:54:29.960 --> 00:54:30.559
<v Speaker 2>They kiss a lot.

1173
00:54:30.599 --> 00:54:33.280
<v Speaker 1>They're very happy. We kind of get to see the

1174
00:54:33.320 --> 00:54:36.800
<v Speaker 1>electric slide and the producer says, hey, in t minus

1175
00:54:36.800 --> 00:54:38.880
<v Speaker 1>two hours, you get to use that box. And they

1176
00:54:38.960 --> 00:54:41.480
<v Speaker 1>laugh and she goes, well, my sister and her kids

1177
00:54:41.480 --> 00:54:42.920
<v Speaker 1>are staying in the same hotel as we.

1178
00:54:43.119 --> 00:54:43.800
<v Speaker 3>It's weird.

1179
00:54:44.360 --> 00:54:46.239
<v Speaker 1>And he goes, well, they're not staying in the same room.

1180
00:54:46.320 --> 00:54:47.800
<v Speaker 1>And he goes, ooh, did I say too much?

1181
00:54:47.880 --> 00:54:48.559
<v Speaker 2>And then they laugh.

1182
00:54:49.559 --> 00:54:50.320
<v Speaker 3>It's a bufflog.

1183
00:54:51.000 --> 00:54:55.119
<v Speaker 1>It's okay, it's not about blood Keisha, but is it.

1184
00:54:54.159 --> 00:54:54.960
<v Speaker 3>It's a cockering?

1185
00:54:55.679 --> 00:54:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

1186
00:54:56.159 --> 00:54:56.320
<v Speaker 3>What?

1187
00:54:56.599 --> 00:54:57.039
<v Speaker 1>What is it?

1188
00:54:58.679 --> 00:54:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Something a sexual?

1189
00:55:00.079 --> 00:55:05.679
<v Speaker 1>Something sexual that she gave him as a gift, and

1190
00:55:05.760 --> 00:55:09.239
<v Speaker 1>what was it where she's like, had they never had sex?

1191
00:55:09.519 --> 00:55:11.559
<v Speaker 1>Because we never found out if they hadn't had sex?

1192
00:55:11.639 --> 00:55:16.559
<v Speaker 3>It is, but still, what's in the box? Right they've

1193
00:55:16.559 --> 00:55:18.159
<v Speaker 3>never had sex? What would you put in.

1194
00:55:18.079 --> 00:55:19.960
<v Speaker 2>The box a condom?

1195
00:55:20.000 --> 00:55:23.599
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm not using a condum on my wedding night.

1196
00:55:24.079 --> 00:55:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, I don't I don't know, I don't know.

1197
00:55:28.480 --> 00:55:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Does she have a Veria tracker like Ashley? Like, I

1198
00:55:30.480 --> 00:55:33.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I don't know, I don't know. Maybe we'll

1199
00:55:33.480 --> 00:55:34.480
<v Speaker 1>find out at the reunion.

1200
00:55:34.639 --> 00:55:35.480
<v Speaker 3>I hope we do.

1201
00:55:36.039 --> 00:55:36.719
<v Speaker 1>I hope we do.

1202
00:55:36.800 --> 00:55:37.440
<v Speaker 3>We need to know.

1203
00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:40.320
<v Speaker 1>Ah, we need to know. Okay, you guys, that's it

1204
00:55:40.360 --> 00:55:43.719
<v Speaker 1>at Kisha. We did it in under an hour. We did,

1205
00:55:44.079 --> 00:55:48.320
<v Speaker 1>We did, And I gotta say great season of Love

1206
00:55:48.400 --> 00:55:48.719
<v Speaker 1>is blind.

1207
00:55:49.880 --> 00:55:52.000
<v Speaker 4>You know, I was very nervous in the beginning because

1208
00:55:52.000 --> 00:55:53.280
<v Speaker 4>it just did start off right.

1209
00:55:53.400 --> 00:55:56.119
<v Speaker 3>It just was like this was this northfest. But man,

1210
00:55:57.599 --> 00:56:01.679
<v Speaker 3>oh man, this is one of the better seasons. Really is.

1211
00:56:02.159 --> 00:56:05.360
<v Speaker 1>When you guys get this episode on Wednesday, I will

1212
00:56:05.719 --> 00:56:08.159
<v Speaker 1>be in Miami getting on a boat for producer in

1213
00:56:08.199 --> 00:56:12.039
<v Speaker 1>gresh fiftieth Birthday extravaganza. Thank god I didn't have to

1214
00:56:12.320 --> 00:56:14.679
<v Speaker 1>do this from a cruise ship.

1215
00:56:15.440 --> 00:56:17.519
<v Speaker 3>Because you were very nervous that you were.

1216
00:56:17.360 --> 00:56:22.199
<v Speaker 1>Going to have to thank you Netflix. And the reunion

1217
00:56:22.519 --> 00:56:24.599
<v Speaker 1>is Wednesday, March eleventh. I remembered it.

1218
00:56:24.599 --> 00:56:27.559
<v Speaker 2>It's at I put it on my calendar.

1219
00:56:27.599 --> 00:56:29.159
<v Speaker 1>I knew it was March eleventh because that is my

1220
00:56:29.239 --> 00:56:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Daughta's birthday. So and it is at I put it

1221
00:56:37.920 --> 00:56:41.400
<v Speaker 1>on my calendar. It is at nine pm Eastern Time

1222
00:56:41.639 --> 00:56:46.320
<v Speaker 1>on Wednesday, March eleventh. So you will have your recap

1223
00:56:46.400 --> 00:56:49.920
<v Speaker 1>episode sometime on the twelfth, because we'll have to watch it.

1224
00:56:50.239 --> 00:56:52.840
<v Speaker 1>So your your recap episode of the reunion will come

1225
00:56:52.880 --> 00:56:55.000
<v Speaker 1>out sometime on Thursday, March twelfth.

1226
00:56:55.000 --> 00:56:56.000
<v Speaker 2>That's all I can promise you.

1227
00:56:56.159 --> 00:56:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what time. Kisha and I will work

1228
00:56:57.840 --> 00:57:02.599
<v Speaker 1>out our recording schedule, Yes, we will, and then we'll

1229
00:57:02.639 --> 00:57:05.320
<v Speaker 1>have a Love Is Blind break until maybe August when

1230
00:57:05.360 --> 00:57:06.760
<v Speaker 1>we get August.

1231
00:57:07.480 --> 00:57:12.039
<v Speaker 5>Yes, but you never know with them, they could be

1232
00:57:12.119 --> 00:57:16.280
<v Speaker 5>like yeah, they could just totally be like rolling right

1233
00:57:16.320 --> 00:57:19.239
<v Speaker 5>into another one and then everybody collectively hears me cry

1234
00:57:19.280 --> 00:57:20.360
<v Speaker 5>from across the country.

1235
00:57:21.079 --> 00:57:23.920
<v Speaker 4>Look every time, like and it's usually I see something

1236
00:57:24.000 --> 00:57:26.159
<v Speaker 4>and I take a screenshot and a senator You're like,

1237
00:57:26.239 --> 00:57:27.039
<v Speaker 4>are you serious?

1238
00:57:29.079 --> 00:57:31.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And the only reason I know that the UK

1239
00:57:31.320 --> 00:57:33.239
<v Speaker 1>one is in August. Is because I get this Netflix

1240
00:57:33.360 --> 00:57:38.320
<v Speaker 1>UK like a newsletter that tells you what's coming, and

1241
00:57:38.360 --> 00:57:40.000
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't appear on the website or anything.

1242
00:57:40.000 --> 00:57:41.280
<v Speaker 2>It just appears in this newsletter.

1243
00:57:42.199 --> 00:57:46.440
<v Speaker 1>But believe me when I tell you, when I get

1244
00:57:46.440 --> 00:57:49.679
<v Speaker 1>the US one, I'm like scan scan scan, scan scans,

1245
00:57:49.679 --> 00:57:51.400
<v Speaker 1>scan scans, scan scants to see if they're going to

1246
00:57:51.440 --> 00:57:54.800
<v Speaker 1>be like and Love is Blind Us also in August.

1247
00:57:55.119 --> 00:57:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Shoot me, just never know what those people never know. Keisha,

1248
00:58:00.159 --> 00:58:02.599
<v Speaker 1>this is it. We're gonna have to come up with

1249
00:58:02.840 --> 00:58:05.960
<v Speaker 1>a new wedding song for wherever the next one is,

1250
00:58:05.960 --> 00:58:08.800
<v Speaker 1>which I think what did we hear? We heard it

1251
00:58:08.840 --> 00:58:13.039
<v Speaker 1>was Boston. Yeah, we thought this one was Boston, Boston,

1252
00:58:13.280 --> 00:58:13.800
<v Speaker 1>but not so.

1253
00:58:14.039 --> 00:58:15.519
<v Speaker 3>Maybe the next one is Boston.

1254
00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:20.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, and I heard there's a new Orleans one too. No,

1255
00:58:21.559 --> 00:58:22.320
<v Speaker 2>that's what I've heard.

1256
00:58:23.199 --> 00:58:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Cajun love.

1257
00:58:24.719 --> 00:58:28.880
<v Speaker 3>That's gotta be good. Oh, that's exciting. That's very exciting.

1258
00:58:29.039 --> 00:58:32.400
<v Speaker 4>Yes, nothing like cages and creoles.

1259
00:58:32.880 --> 00:58:34.679
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'll see you next.

1260
00:58:34.519 --> 00:58:39.639
<v Speaker 2>Week for the reunion. Okay, thy Hi, I'm going to

1261
00:58:39.679 --> 00:58:42.079
<v Speaker 2>miss the song fin.

1262
00:58:42.320 --> 00:58:43.960
<v Speaker 3>I mean, you can still play this song.

1263
00:58:45.320 --> 00:58:47.760
<v Speaker 2>I never get wrong. I can't wait till I have

1264
00:58:47.760 --> 00:58:49.199
<v Speaker 2>to wear this veil

1265
00:59:04.320 --> 00:59:05.679
<v Speaker 4>Is most time
