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Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny sound on Ihad a Vision.

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It's nice.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Everyboddy, what's happening? Welcome to for crying out loud. Welcome, welcome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well it's been you know, a tough week, but we're

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here to lighten the mood.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah we are. Yeah, as we were discussing before

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we came on. Here, ain nobody listening to our show

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for political takes, right, and there's really only one take

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right now, which is that we do not condone any

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kind of violence and everything. Everybody needs to calm right,

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right right, yeah, absolutely, And I had to do good

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things for other people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, it's a good way to look at it.

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And yeah, we're here to talk about me puking my

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guts out yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yes, this is why the show is late,

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and it's going to be it's you're listening to this

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probably late afternoon on Tuesday instead of midnight. Right. What happened?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know I don't okay, jast back. So I

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was Sunday night. I had some sushi, okay, all right, Well,

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but I don't from a like a restaurant in Glendale. Yeah,

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from the gas station. But I will say there was

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one bite that did did not taste normal, tasted kind

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of fishy. But I don't know, I mean, I don't know, well,

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yeah maybe because then you know, ate the sushi. Went

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to bed and then like woke up early in the

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morning not feeling right, and then just had to go

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to the bathroom like every you know, half hour forty

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five minutes, and then I tried to go back to sleep.

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I texted you, like, this isn't work. I'm not going

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to be able to leave the house anytime soon. And

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then the throwing up, the puking, and can I just

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say something about throwing up?

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Speaker 1: It's never like when you know, I haven't thrown up in.

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Speaker 2: A few years, but like it just like I don't

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know about you, but like my armpits were hurting afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Like your whole body.

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Speaker 2: Just feels like like it just took everything out of

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every fiber in your upper body to puke, you know,

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like that it was awful. So then that happened, and

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then I just tried to sleep sleep it off, and

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then I think around you know, like around five o'clock

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or six o'clock. I woke up later and I got

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some I was hungry, but I was afraid. So I

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had like some soup, some chicken little soup, and then

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that didn't sit well with me. So I really haven't

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eaten anything since yesterday. Oh no, yeah, so you threw

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that up too. I didn't throw that up. It kind

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of just split up. Yeah, just went right through me.

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So yeah, I didn't. I wasn't doing too good yesterday,

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but but you know, now I'm here, And of course

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last night I didn't sleep well because I slept all

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day yesterday. I was like sound as you know, on

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and off of sleep all day. So I wasn't even like,

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you know, I could just enjoy laying in bed watching TV.

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Speaker 1: I was just asleep the whole time.

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Speaker 2: But then I didn't sleep good last night, so then

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I anyway, I'm a little out of sorts today, but

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I'm here and you know, back at it.

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Speaker 1: But leading up to that, did you go to the zoo?

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So I did go to the zoo? Zoo?

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Speaker 2: I was blaming the zoo. I was like, I don't know,

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I yeah, I haven't been to the zoo in years.

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And Sunny's leaving this Friday to go back to school,

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and he's leaving on Friday, and then my nephew and

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his wife and kids are coming Friday night to stay

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with me for a week. So anyway, I was like,

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you know, we did the Natural History Museum, and we

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talked about it when we were at the museum, like

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we should maybe go to the zoo sometime whatever, and

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he's like, yeah, that'd be cool on his day off.

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Speaker 1: So we went. And it's kind of sad at the zoo.

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Speaker 2: It really is, like, I know, you just feel bad

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for those animals. Hot on, but you know, and I

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remember like they had the elephants removed in the middle

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of the night recently. That was in the news, you know,

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but then you still see these same alligators still there

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from like when they were kids, you know, you know

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they name all these these the gorillas and the alligators

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and stuff. It was not hot, and it was empty

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in the middle of the day, really, yeah, empty, Like

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this was a Sunday, No, this was on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh okay, yeah, sorry. It was definitely the sushi.

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You think it was a sushi you had that the

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night before you woke down. Yeah, food poisoning. Yeah, it

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had to have been the sushi. I didn't even think

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about it until later in the day. But yeah, so wait,

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but the zoo was you know, it's nice to hang

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out with Sonny and I got to drive with him

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in his car and you know, he's a good driver.

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But now that car is going to get returned because

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he's going back to school and he's going to be

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done with work this week and he's going to miss it.

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Speaker 2: He said, he really likes it, but he's ready to

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go back. It's going to go back to school. So

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I'll be back to you know, I mean, I'll have

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family in town in the next few weeks visiting and stuff,

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but then back to just me and Phil. And yesterday

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was Phil's tenth birthday. Oh, happy birthday, ten years old.

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This a little gray around his face. That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: How dogs age, I ain't know, much faster than people. Yeah,

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it's not right, it's not.

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Speaker 2: And then it's like at the zoo and like there's

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these tortoises and you know, they're like, I don't know,

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you know, one hundred years old and shit, and it's like,

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why can't dogs live to be that long?

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't want our dogs to outlive us, because

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that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Outlive us, but it is will and like figure out

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like who's going to take care of them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then that person has to figure out who's

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going to take care of I mean that's kind of

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a lot.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot, not one hundred years, but like you know, fifty,

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like that would be good. Thirty, but not even eighty.

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They they don't even make it to twenty ever, barely.

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Speaker 1: No, No, it would be very unusual to make it

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to twenty. Yeah, how's people? Not great? Not great? She's

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she's such a handful in the evenings, it's crazy. She

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it's not even just like the pain, it's the sort

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of dementia. So as soon as it's evening, she wants

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to walk at five. She does not want to walk

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during the day at all. Yeah, take her in the morning,

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we just make her go out and pee. Then around

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five o'clock she wants a walk. Then around like five

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forty five, she doesn't remember she had a walk, so

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she barks, she barks, and she whinds, and she can't

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get comfortable, and she wanders her and she has to

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be near you, and then she reaches a point and

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it's way before my bedtime, usually around nine o'clock. She's

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real mad. If you're up and around like she wants

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somebody at least in the bed. So now I've taken

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up this lifestyle of either or John does a lot

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of editing work in the evening. So then it's like

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I have to go to bed basically right like watch TV.

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Speaker 2: Because she wants to get in bed. She wants to

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be on the bed. But then she'll get off the

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bed because she wants to be on the cold floor.

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then we have to lift her and put her on

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the bed.

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Speaker 1: I found these things. I got it for Phil.

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Speaker 2: It didn't come yet, these like cubes that just kind

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of a fold so it looks like a little stool.

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Speaker 1: Could have given it. Could have given those to you

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because they didn't work for it. It didn't be really too

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narrow and she's not going to try to know it

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was there's there. They're cubes, I know what you're saying.

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And they unfold and then they look they act as steps. Yeah. No,

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she wanted nothing to do with it. Wow, oh I.

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Speaker 2: Know, because now Phil is having a hard time jumping

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up on the bed because he's you know, he's getting

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it's getting up there. And I did put like an ottoman,

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you know, at the end of my bed that's too

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big and clunky. I'm gonna move it when the other

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thing comes and hopefully that'll work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll have to keep me posted on that. Yeah,

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I will. I will. You've seen what I'm talking about

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those I bought it. Yeah, I bought it, and it

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didn't work for her. I wish I wish i'd known,

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because I would have given you mine. But also I

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think mine is for a smaller dog because at the

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top step is not close enough to the top of

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the bed.

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Speaker 2: It's it's steps, because mine is like it's it's it

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folds down.

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Speaker 1: It's just like an it's like an on ramp. Yeah, okay,

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so no, mine is like a cubes and then they

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stack and they're okay steps. Okay. But I don't think

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people would use the ramp either, because I tried one

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of those. I borrowed one from somebody on the next

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on the buy nothing group, and she didn't want it.

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But I had to go bring it back to the lady.

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buy nothing group, just let it go, you know, and

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like if you want it back, if you're going to

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be like, well, if it doesn't work, let me know,

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I'll take it, right, Like, okay, yeah, I drive back,

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try it. Penelbie wants something to do with it. Then

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I got to keep in touch with her, you know,

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he Hey, just letting you know. It's not working so far.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll give it a little, you know, let me

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know though, Uh huh, that's weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's not going to use it. Okay, what's a

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good time for you to bring back? It's like, do

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you have an appointment with it? Right? Are you coming

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it up? Yeah? You want it so bad? Yeah, she doesn't.

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don't know if she wants to just have it like

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leverage over the other neighbors, right, Like all right, I've

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got a ramp, right if you're you know, be nice

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to me, yeah, because you want to borrow it, right

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you give it back? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know. It's

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I just we're trying to keep her. We're trying these

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different supplements with her. Quana recommended some that I've that

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I've used. Nothing really makes a huge difference. She's we

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have we have these little booties though that have a

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no skid thing that you'll try to put on her

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when she's in the house so that she can Otherwise

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we would have to put like grip tape all over

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all the floors. Yeah, or late la. Yeah. It's so sad. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: On another note, so Natalia was going to this party

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on Friday, like this Jersey Shore party where everybody's like

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supposed to be dressed like Jersey stores. So then she

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facetimes me, like her in her roommates getting ready and

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how they're dressed and everything, and they're like talking Jersey Shore, like.

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Speaker 1: Eh, eh, dansy here, you know all that stuff. Was

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this her idea? No, I would think it was.

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Speaker 2: But she's like, no, somebody's having a Jersey Shore party.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I love kids today, I know right now.

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Speaker 2: I just think it's so funny that they discovered Jersey Shore,

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so you know, they're doing all the lingo and everything.

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Speaker 1: So she was excited. Then I get a call.

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Speaker 2: This is kind of sad, But it turned out I

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get a call at like twelve thirty and she's hysterical

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because the party she was at was at a house

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like butted up on a cliff, and one of her

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friends that I knew from back home, that is in

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school in Santa Barbara fell forty feet yeah, and it

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was sand, but still forty feet like yeah, and she

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had like she knows the kid very well, and she

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knows his brother, and she was called the ambulance was

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like we need to, you know, get in touch with

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his parents. So she had to call the brother and

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tell him there was an accident. She was like hysterically

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crying and she's like, he's breathing, but he's on his

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way to the hospital. I hope he's okay, Like she

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was so concerned, but it ended up he broke a hip,

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his nose, he broke a bunch of bones, but he's okay,

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he's gonna make a recovery. But yeah, like nobody wants

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to get that phone call, like twelve thirty at night

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on a Friday night. It's just her calling me like upset,

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like it's scary.

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story before many years ago, but there's we had those stairwells,

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stairs and then you go up the other side, and

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then you go up the other side, and it makes

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kind of a square, and there's you can look down, yeah,

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and see the bottom floor.

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tall or yeah, and this kid was on the top

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floor decided to slide down the railing and fell. My god,

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and didn't die, but was in a vegetative state for

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like twenty years. I want to say, I think he

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I think he only died not that long ago, but

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like never spoke again or oh my god, I know

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that's so scary.

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I remember like looking up articles about him. Yeah, but

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the but the thing is, it was very traumatizing. I

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mean obviously for his family, but I'm saying all of kids,

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we knew when it happened.

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Speaker 1: We all looked over the rail. I literally saw him

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at the bottom of the thing. It was like it

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was horrible, and the caromatics came and you know, so sad. No, Yeah,

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did you ever have something like that happened to you?

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Speaker 2: I remember my high school, the one that's in your neighborhood.

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There is a McDonald's across the street and a girl

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jaywalked to go to the McDonald's at lunchtime and was

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hit and killed instantly. Yeah, that was traumatizing because we

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were all outside saw it happen, and the ambulance came

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and it's like everybody was upset and crying. And then

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she was in the hospital I think for a little while,

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and then she ended up dying I think, or did

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she get I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: She did die. It was really sad. Oh my god.

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I know, Well I hope you're all cheered up. That's

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the show. I know. Wow. Yeah, that's that's really scary.

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I'm sorry that Natalia had to deal with that. Yeah,

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so we're in the party for her. Yeah the party

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was over. Oh my god. Yeah, what a waste. What

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a great party? I know, what a great party? Theme?

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Did she go as trash bags?

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Speaker 2: She went like as snooky. She looked looked more like

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a jay wow to me, But she she went as snooky,

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she says. She didn't look like snuoky to me, Like

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she didn't have the poof, but she had like the

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furry boots and stuff, you know, and like a leopard

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tea tank top.

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Speaker 1: You know, Where's the Beach? I love that so much.

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Though I know we have had our little obsessions. First

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of all, remember when Snooky's husband was caught up in

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the Madison As scandal. Yeah, she never really talked about it.

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She never did. I think she did.

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Speaker 2: And they you know, vowed and you know, work on

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their marriage, but they're still married.

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Speaker 1: They're still married. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then there was that housewife's husband. She talked about it.

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Speaker 1: Kristin Tiekman. Yeah, she would the model one.

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Speaker 2: From right, right, didn't they did like the Girl's Trip,

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Bravo's Girls Trip or whatever, and she took a girls trip.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she talked about it. It's really true what they say,

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show me a beautiful woman, show me a supermodel, and

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I'll show you a guy who's sick.

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Speaker 2: Right, hey, I mean come on, like, yeah, she was

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beautiful and he was like a dorky dude and he's

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like cheating on her.

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Speaker 1: I know what the fuck that takes. That's trouble of.

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Speaker 2: Tumble of right, doesn't that take a lot of That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she took him back. Yeah. Wow, would be

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really I know that probably probably at least fifty percent

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of our listeners who are married to a guy. You know,

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I would imagine even lesbians. This is going to sound

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like the most problematic thing, but of course lesbians cheat

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as well. I would imagine that almost that fifty percent

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of people who are married or in living together whatever

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have been cheated on and been surprised by it. Right,

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I've been completely blindsided, Like you think your partner is

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super loyal, would never do that to you. And I've

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been listening to a lot of betrayal. That's how I know.

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So it's the ones you don't expect you right, right,

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they know because the one that we were talking about

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where we were talking about watching you ask me if

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I watched it on TV one where the guy put

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the cameras everywhere, Oh, the most recent one. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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the show they did the documentary of it. But I

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went back and listened to the podcast of it. Really

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like that guy. She was like, Okay, my first husband

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was kind of a kind of sucked, but this guy

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is like amazing.

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Speaker 2: He loves my kids. He's like a big kid himself.

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Yeah he was a doctor, wasn't he he.

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Speaker 1: Was, well, he wasn't a doctor. He said he was

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a doctor. Oh he wasn't.

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Speaker 2: No, in the very last Betrayal season, Yes he was.

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He said he was a doctor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they found out later that he wasn't actually a

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serified okay or whatever? Right, No, how the hell does that?

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That was one of the charges against him, was practicing

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medicine without a license.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh he was a complete fraud across the board. Yeah,

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but he was.

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Speaker 2: But she was very, very blindsided. Of course later you

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hear there's like a few signs. Yeah, but that's a

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terrible story. That guy came into her life.

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Speaker 1: Parent did her kids basically, right, She had the daughter

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from the first marriage and a son and a sid Tyler,

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the one that he ended up abusing, right, and then

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they had two kids and yeah that's right, right, Yeah.

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And then he put a camera, he put cameras in

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the bathroom and was watching everybody. And then they found

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other stuff and then it came out that he, yeah,

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didn't he.

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Speaker 2: And then he tried something with one of this one

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of Tyler's friends. Yes, that's how to sleep ye at

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a sleepover?

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Speaker 1: Yes, and that kid. But then they but then they

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were like not enough proof, I mean, come on, not

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enough proof. And they had the camera and they had

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all the footage from the camera and they were like, well,

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it could be that he wasn't purposely trying to record minors, right,

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okay Jesus. Then there was the story before that one

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though a different betrayal, uh, where the guy was the teacher.

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He was like the beloved teacher. Yeah, and had a club,

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and all the kids were like, yeah, it was really

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cool if he was. You wanted to be in his

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club because it's right, the av club, I think, because

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you didn't really have to do anything. Yes, And he

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was like the cool teacher. And then he was like fucking.

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Speaker 2: Half the kids and the daughter too in the family, right,

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or he molested the daughter in the family, did he?

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Speaker 1: I think? Remember there was the daughter and the I

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don't know. I don't think so. But they think they

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the Emmys? I did not mean that one minute of it.

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I know, I didn't even know it was on until

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I don't know. I was doing something and somebody goes, oh,

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thanks for coming during Emmy time, and I was like,

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what I know?

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Speaker 2: The only reason I knew is because I see, like

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Jimmy and his family getting ready for the Emmy's on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, but.

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Speaker 2: I mean I watched clips of it and uh, I

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have did you watch you watch the Pit?

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Speaker 1: Didn't you? I did watch the Pit? Remember we we

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did test it because I did feel it was a

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rip off of R right, and did you watch the

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whole thing? Did you like it? I didn't. I'm going

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to be honest. I didn't love it as much as

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other people did. I like because I compared it to

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ER and I liked ER better. Right. The way The

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Pit is different is its serialized through one shift at

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an ER, So each episode is an hour okay of

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the shit of one shift. Okay, but I feel like

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it's a little limiting to do it that way, Like

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how much can really happen? So everything is very high drama.

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A lot of people have said people have said that

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it's very realistic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they I hear, yeah, people that work in

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that in that industry that it is but.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I don't work in that industry, so

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how am I gonna hell right, you could say that

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to me and I'd be like, well, okay, right, take

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your word for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. The Pit one and then the Studio one Big.

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Did you watch the Studio I did? I thought that

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was another one that was very h or hit or miss.

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Speaker 1: I agree, it could be very scatological, like just a

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lot of it was a very over the top campy,

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but the first couple episodes were more sharp and funny

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to me, right, and then it sort of went off

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the rails a little bit.

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Speaker 2: It came out the same time as John Ham's show

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The Friends in Neighbor, which I loved, which we loved

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at first first Yeah, and then the same thing too,

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And they didn't get any nominations, did they.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. Really, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. Don't quote me, though. What am

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I in entertainment for our border? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. No.

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Speaker 2: I think like Shrinking was nominated and a White Lotus

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didn't get any love nothing what No. But Sam Rockwell

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was there with Leslie Bib which was cute. She's like

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ten feet taller than him. Oh really, Yeah, she's really

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tall and he's short. But they're kind of cute. They're

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kind of a cute couple.

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Speaker 1: Okay, not to go off the topic of the Emmys,

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but you know, since i'm you know, like seventy, I'm

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going to forget what I want to say. Yeah, but

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I want to ask you something. So I'm watching Love

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Is Blind France. Right, are you watching it at all? No? Okay,

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it's so good. It's really good. One of the couples,

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the woman is six feet tall and the guy is like,

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he's not short. Well, there's another guy who's kind of short,

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and then they never really mentioned the fact that he's short.

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But there the guy that this really tall woman ended

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up with, and she was like, oh my gosh, I

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hope he's not short. I hope he's tall and he's

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not short. He's probably like I'm gonna I'm gonna guess

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he's like five ten, Okay, maybe he's like five Maybe

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he's five nine and she's six feet tall, because he's

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not that much shorter than her. Yeah, he is shorter

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than her. Okay, I really want to know your opinion

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on this. So she's was paranoid, but they seemed to,

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but he did not care. He was like, he was like,

465
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oh my gosh, you're so beautiful. And she's like a

466
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,000
big woman, you know, not like super overweight or anything,

467
00:25:42,039 --> 00:25:44,319
but like just a bigger woman that he's sort of

468
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:49,359
more slight yelled too. But he didn't really care. He

469
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,880
didn't really care. He loved her anyway, and she didn't

470
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,599
she But then so then they go to the vacation

471
00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:01,240
part and I'm trying to remember exactly how this went down,

472
00:26:01,599 --> 00:26:04,920
how it turned into a fight, but basically he said,

473
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,240
oh are those She was like, well, if are you

474
00:26:10,319 --> 00:26:13,519
worried about what these people are going to say about

475
00:26:13,519 --> 00:26:16,720
like our height difference. And he's like, no, I don't care,

476
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,000
like I love you, like i'm you know, and she

477
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,880
was like, okay, good, then I'm wearing heels. So he

478
00:26:23,759 --> 00:26:26,559
was like, h I mean real, like.

479
00:26:27,039 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: Right, you got to wear heels, like you got to

480
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,160
make it more obvious, which and then she got offended

481
00:26:33,519 --> 00:26:35,680
as if he was trying to be controlling, and she's like, well,

482
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:39,200
you said you didn't care, yeah, and he said okay,

483
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,200
but I would I would think you would want to

484
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,839
protect my feelings like a little bit like you wouldn't

485
00:26:44,839 --> 00:26:49,559
be asking for more comments, right, or whatever. And then

486
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,319
she started to get mad and she was like, well,

487
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,680
I like wearing heels. They make me feel like sexy

488
00:26:53,759 --> 00:26:56,039
and they make me feel good about myself.

489
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: So well, and then he said, okay, I thought he

490
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,480
was being very reasonable, and he was like, I understand that,

491
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,200
and yeah, I'm not telling you what to do, but

492
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,880
I do feel that's just a bit you know, this

493
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,599
early in a relationship, when I'm trying to sess out

494
00:27:14,599 --> 00:27:18,279
whether you care about my feelings. Yeah, right, it feels

495
00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:23,359
like you're trying to dig your heels in no potent. Yeah.

496
00:27:23,759 --> 00:27:25,920
And then they got in this big fight and they're

497
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,640
like maybe going to break up because because he refused

498
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,839
to go to the gathering at all because she was

499
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:36,559
mad at him. He stayed really calm, and I was like, Okay,

500
00:27:36,559 --> 00:27:39,039
what do I think about this? And I came to

501
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,720
the conclusion that she's in the wrong. I think, I

502
00:27:41,759 --> 00:27:45,200
don't you know, why do you have to prove a point?

503
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,519
Speaker 2: Yes, well, it's a little I think for him, it

504
00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:51,680
sounds like it was more symbolic, like you you don't

505
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,000
really care about my feelings, right, That's what he said, yes, so,

506
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,920
and she had flats with her that's the thing.

507
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,319
Speaker 1: Well, and also she's on vacation.

508
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 2: Who's where heels on vacation, like by the beach and shit, right,

509
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,480
I mean I don't know, but I do know people

510
00:28:06,599 --> 00:28:10,000
like Wendy love to wear heels like they feel better

511
00:28:10,039 --> 00:28:14,279
and high heels when we go out, like and just

512
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,440
there's some women that just prefer it and feel more comfortable.

513
00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:21,319
Speaker 1: But if you're already tall, it's already six feet tall, yeah,

514
00:28:21,319 --> 00:28:24,160
you wanted to be six four. Yeah, it's a real

515
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,359
little that's a bit that's ridiculous.

516
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 2: And not like again not saying that she can't ever

517
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,240
wear heels, and he wasn't saying that, but he was

518
00:28:33,279 --> 00:28:36,680
feeling like, we're going to be making our appearance. Yeah,

519
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,759
the first time people are going to be seeing us

520
00:28:38,759 --> 00:28:41,480
as a couple, and it's already.

521
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: A height different. Well that's yeah, now you want to

522
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,559
make it even more of like a spectacle. He felt

523
00:28:45,559 --> 00:28:48,559
like it was gonna And his feeling was she had

524
00:28:48,599 --> 00:28:51,000
two pairs of shoes she was deciding between, and one

525
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,880
were like cute flats like Sam, and she was like,

526
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,640
but I want to wear the heels, and you said

527
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,200
you didn't care. You said you don't care about the

528
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,680
height different, so I'm gonna do what I want. Oh gosh,

529
00:29:01,839 --> 00:29:05,039
well maybe she's testing him too. But let me ask you.

530
00:29:05,039 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 2: When you're watching the French version and stuff, is it over?

531
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,079
Is the English like over dubbed it? Or you have

532
00:29:15,119 --> 00:29:17,680
to watch I read you read the captions.

533
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but so it's good practice for my brain. So

534
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,599
I can't play threes on my phone while you do it.

535
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,400
But you really got like you lose the It's a

536
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,319
little bit like reading a book in a good way.

537
00:29:31,559 --> 00:29:33,880
I mean, I'm reading it, but I'm totally absorbed in it.

538
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I have the captions on all the time,

539
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,119
no matter what, just because I like because it Also,

540
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,200
like we've talked about this is also when you're watching,

541
00:29:45,279 --> 00:29:48,319
you're reading the captions. Sometimes you'll hear thing or you'll

542
00:29:48,359 --> 00:29:52,640
read something that you wouldn't lssarily hear, you know, while

543
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,920
you're watching the scene. But some of the shows that

544
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,559
are like foreign and in a different language, I get

545
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,039
then they have the English over it, but then you're

546
00:30:01,079 --> 00:30:04,839
I'm reading the captions and now they're getting the words differently,

547
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,640
and then it gets all like it's got to be

548
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,720
one or the other. You know what I'm saying, Like,

549
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,599
you can put it on where it says where you

550
00:30:11,599 --> 00:30:13,880
can have the English. I don't know if it's this show,

551
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,559
but some shows so I don't have the captions on.

552
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,319
Speaker 1: You just turn your captions off. But when you're watching

553
00:30:19,319 --> 00:30:22,839
it in Oh, they already's version in France, it just

554
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,519
tells you what they're saying. Okay, Okay, it's like watching

555
00:30:25,519 --> 00:30:29,599
a subtitle like a foreign language movie, like like, turn

556
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,559
your cop captions off. Okay, then it'll just show you

557
00:30:32,599 --> 00:30:35,359
the English, right, what they're saying. Right, it won't be

558
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,880
over anything. Okay.

559
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I am really liking it. Yeah, okay, but

560
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,079
I guess I'm just a real Love is Blind fan?

561
00:30:43,279 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: You love Love is Blind? I do, although I haven't.

562
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,200
I've only watched. I just watched the UK version, which

563
00:30:50,279 --> 00:30:54,640
was amazing. The US version is coming back in like

564
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,359
a couple of weeks season. I don't remember what What

565
00:30:58,519 --> 00:31:03,200
city are they, right, Denver? Okay, so they should be

566
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,960
like a little more normal, yeah, probably very white. I

567
00:31:08,039 --> 00:31:10,279
like it when there's more black couples on. I think

568
00:31:10,319 --> 00:31:14,839
they're I don't know, it's more fun, very diverse, but

569
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,200
I'm at the no offense, but white like white people

570
00:31:19,319 --> 00:31:23,319
especially like they could be boring, you know.

571
00:31:23,759 --> 00:31:28,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like the diversity. No black couples

572
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,480
on the on the French one, is there? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

573
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,559
oh there is Okay, all right.

574
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: One of them are so cute. They're their whole thing

575
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,319
is like black love or showing everybody black love, and

576
00:31:41,359 --> 00:31:44,519
then they explain what that is, that it's actually an

577
00:31:44,599 --> 00:31:50,680
American concept of like black people showing pride in being black,

578
00:31:50,759 --> 00:31:53,920
and that black couples can have love and that, you know,

579
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,000
And it was just funny because they're sort of it's

580
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,359
sort of like an in your face right, right, They're

581
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,359
very cute. There's someones to root for, okay, and then

582
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,000
there's some assholes. It's kind of a perfect mix. Yeah.

583
00:32:06,039 --> 00:32:09,039
Speaker 2: I like that, Yeah, because you want to have some

584
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,480
kind of people that you love to hate to watch

585
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,559
on that show.

586
00:32:12,759 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, But I was really interested in outside opinions

587
00:32:17,279 --> 00:32:19,599
on the hype thing. Yeah was the asshole.

588
00:32:20,359 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like she's in the wrong, especially they're

589
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,759
coming out party, like come on, you know, yeah, and

590
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,160
especially if she had flats that she was debating on wearing.

591
00:32:31,039 --> 00:32:37,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so weird because reality TV is so different

592
00:32:37,519 --> 00:32:42,359
than regular life, and I feel like it can make

593
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,440
people that have something about them that's different feel more

594
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,960
insecure because of how everybody on a reality dating show

595
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,119
focuses on like men's heights, you know, yes, and like

596
00:32:53,319 --> 00:32:56,359
Xander is going to be like a short king, you know, right,

597
00:32:56,839 --> 00:33:01,359
a short king. Yeah, And listen, in real life, I

598
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,920
see tons of short guys, very short guys, with like

599
00:33:05,119 --> 00:33:09,880
beautiful girlfriends or boyfriends. Right. It doesn't really seem to

600
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:14,599
matter in regular life, but on dating shows it's.

601
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I have you know they have I just

602
00:33:17,039 --> 00:33:21,559
like really tall guys, right, yeah, like Larsa Pippen. You

603
00:33:21,599 --> 00:33:24,000
don't watch them Miami Housewives, No, it is it good.

604
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,480
It's really good. Actually it's really good. Those those women

605
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:32,440
have a lot of drama. But yeah, she's she's like,

606
00:33:32,519 --> 00:33:34,960
I you know, she was married to Scottie Pippen. She's like,

607
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,240
how am I gonna? And then she was dating Michael

608
00:33:37,319 --> 00:33:38,799
Jordan's sun. She like, how am I going to go

609
00:33:38,839 --> 00:33:42,359
back to some shorty guy? Like, you know, She's like,

610
00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:45,480
it's just me. I just like you know, tall guys,

611
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,240
you know.

612
00:33:48,039 --> 00:33:51,039
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess, but guess what, there's a

613
00:33:51,039 --> 00:33:53,559
lot of women that just like people for who they are,

614
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,839
you know, right right, just like a lot of people

615
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,839
are pan sexual and they just like people for their

616
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,200
personality and they're not so caught up and like I

617
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,440
have to have this kind of guy. I just think

618
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,960
it can be a little bit poisoning of the brains

619
00:34:09,039 --> 00:34:11,920
of people when they go like, oh my god, is

620
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,519
this just out there? Like people are this superficial? Right?

621
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:21,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it, especially with those dating shows, you know, but.

622
00:34:21,599 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 1: I still like it. Yeah, I know, I know. So Okay,

623
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,760
So going back to so you had fun at the

624
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,079
zoo with Sonny. Yes, yeah, it was fun, good bonding. Yeah.

625
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,559
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna make him his favorite steak dinner this

626
00:34:38,639 --> 00:34:42,239
week and just get him ready. He doesn't need me to,

627
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,679
he doesn't need for me to go back with him. Said,

628
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,440
he'll be fine, but you know, just getting him packed

629
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:48,159
up and stuff.

630
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: So he's just gonna how does this work? You just

631
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,360
get him his plane ticket and then he just goes

632
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,760
and then he just cours to his apartment. That's what

633
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,119
he didn't do. Yeah, lets himself in and goes to

634
00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:01,880
the store and get some get some food.

635
00:35:02,599 --> 00:35:05,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's got a little fridge because they

636
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:10,239
already have the the chefs on site making meals and stuff,

637
00:35:10,599 --> 00:35:13,480
but he likes to have his like frozen pizzas and

638
00:35:14,519 --> 00:35:18,159
well and also yeah, so he's gonna I mean I

639
00:35:18,199 --> 00:35:20,519
would like to go with him and help, you know,

640
00:35:20,639 --> 00:35:25,599
like just help him unpack and get settled. But you know,

641
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,559
changes sheets probably, I don't know, but I have the

642
00:35:29,639 --> 00:35:32,719
family coming and he's like, you don't. He's like, it's fine,

643
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,239
you don't need to. And I think Melissa and I

644
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,400
are going to fly out maybe a couple of weekends

645
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,920
or so to maybe go to a game with him

646
00:35:42,079 --> 00:35:43,920
and her son that's out there.

647
00:35:44,079 --> 00:35:46,159
Speaker 1: That'll be fun. That would be fun. Yeah, in a

648
00:35:46,199 --> 00:35:50,039
few weeks. Yeah. I was just telling my friend, So,

649
00:35:50,559 --> 00:35:54,039
my friend Laura, her son is going to use c LA.

650
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,719
So her daughter, who's you remember Laura. She's my lifelong

651
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,039
friend since since the girls were six months old. So

652
00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:04,639
her daughter is at Berkeley. But her son just got

653
00:36:04,639 --> 00:36:11,800
into CLA and he's leaving I think like tomorrow. And

654
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,239
she's so like, oh my god, it's going to be

655
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,199
so so hard, and you know, and I was so

656
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,639
thrilled to tell her that it's actually going to be

657
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,559
fine because they're right there. Yes, And I've got to

658
00:36:24,679 --> 00:36:27,199
explain to her that as she knew, but you know,

659
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,719
remind her that when Elbie went, I cried for like,

660
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,119
you know, one day. Yeah, and then I went the

661
00:36:32,159 --> 00:36:33,960
next week and like met her for lunch and I

662
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,760
was like, oh, it's not fine bad. Yeah, And then

663
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,320
she comes home all the time, Like it's easier with Natalia,

664
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,800
right because I wanted to go have lunch with her.

665
00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:45,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can just drive and drive over there right right,

666
00:36:46,039 --> 00:36:49,719
Yeah for the day. Yes, it's four hours of driving,

667
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:53,280
but total yeah, you know, there and back. But yeah,

668
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,480
it's fine. And sometimes she comes home. She comes home

669
00:36:56,519 --> 00:36:58,920
a lot more than Sunny was coming home. Yeah, well

670
00:36:59,079 --> 00:37:00,880
he was coming home a lot, coming home a lot.

671
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,679
That was last year. I don't think he's gonna be

672
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,719
doing that that much. I don't know. I don't know.

673
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,400
He's always with the sports, some sports thing happening, and

674
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,440
then my living room will go back to normal because

675
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,760
he put a TV in my living room, so now

676
00:37:16,039 --> 00:37:18,880
he had like two TVs going. The other day, like

677
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,199
sports all day at his friend's over to watch the

678
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,840
college games. It was like a sports bar in my

679
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,920
living room, so that that'll go back to normal.

680
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,559
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with the TV?

681
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 2: It's his old TV from the other house, so it

682
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,920
just goes back into the garage.

683
00:37:33,639 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: Got it? Yeah, that's funny.

684
00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:39,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then Elbe's going, right when is she starting up?

685
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: So Elbe is going? So today is Tuesday, she works,

686
00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:49,920
and she works through the weekend. I think she's gonna

687
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:55,119
go move in officially, like this weekend. Oh nice, Okay, yeah,

688
00:37:55,519 --> 00:37:59,119
it's that time. Yeah, I'm gonna tell I'll tell you

689
00:37:59,159 --> 00:38:03,840
on Friday about like going to see her apartment. Okay,

690
00:38:05,599 --> 00:38:09,480
I was going to tell you about what was I

691
00:38:09,559 --> 00:38:12,119
going to tell you? So wait? So Natalia has been

692
00:38:12,159 --> 00:38:16,679
back for a while though, Yeah, and she had her party.

693
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,559
Other than that, is she doing Okay?

694
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 2: She's yeah, she's doing good. She's got her classes. She's

695
00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:25,360
calling me like she used to do in between her classes,

696
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:32,960
and and she's you know, she's she loves her roommates there.

697
00:38:33,119 --> 00:38:35,760
She's cooking all the time now, she says, like they

698
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:40,639
are always making some Instagram or TikTok recipe. She gave

699
00:38:40,679 --> 00:38:43,639
me a recipe that looked really good and some kind

700
00:38:43,639 --> 00:38:49,800
of creamy chicken parmesan eything. But yeah, she's doing a

701
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,400
lot of cooking and her roommates are great, and I

702
00:38:52,519 --> 00:38:54,840
might go. I don't know, maybe we'll I'll go visit

703
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,559
her after my family leaves.

704
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:57,559
Speaker 1: We'll see.

705
00:38:58,159 --> 00:39:00,679
Speaker 2: But you know, the family's coming, and I want to

706
00:39:00,679 --> 00:39:02,920
get the house ready. I you know, I still have

707
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,880
like cookies from when they were here last year in

708
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,960
the in the pantry, Like, yeah.

709
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: This is where you and I do not see eye

710
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,679
to eye. Well you still have cookies in the pantry

711
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,400
and you never think about him.

712
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 2: I forgot they were there, and I was going through

713
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,880
my closet yesterday, like I need to clean this out,

714
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,519
and I want to go to the store and get

715
00:39:24,519 --> 00:39:27,119
them the stuff that they need because they're coming in

716
00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:29,639
late Friday night and they have two little kids, so

717
00:39:29,679 --> 00:39:31,320
they're going to wake up at like probably four in

718
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:36,719
the morning wanting breakfast and stuff. So yeah, out deal,

719
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,559
I probably still have the same milk from last year.

720
00:39:38,559 --> 00:39:43,079
Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding. So Sunny leaves like in the morning.

721
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,800
Sunny's leaving Friday afternoon, so literally he leaves Friday afternoon,

722
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:52,639
and they can they come Friday night? Yeah? Late, that's crazy,

723
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:54,079
I know, but.

724
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:57,559
Speaker 2: Good because then you won't even have time to be sad, right, Yeah,

725
00:39:57,599 --> 00:40:00,679
it'd be nice and you planned it well, and then

726
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,440
it does it overlaps or it doesn't overlap with the

727
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,000
next No, then I have a week off, and then

728
00:40:06,039 --> 00:40:08,880
the next then his brother and his wife and their

729
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,719
little baby come with Wendy.

730
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: They'll come for a week, and then when they leave,

731
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,800
will Wendy stay for a little while.

732
00:40:15,639 --> 00:40:18,199
Speaker 2: And then when they leave, that's when we're supposed to

733
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,440
go on my trip to Florida with Susanne and Wendy.

734
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, and then when you get back from that,

735
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,800
would you go to Oregon? Then then probably? Yeah?

736
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,039
Speaker 2: After that you're going to be so busy, I know,

737
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,480
and then then have time to be sad. I'm not,

738
00:40:35,679 --> 00:40:36,119
thank god.

739
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,559
Speaker 1: Then we're going to be into the holidays, right, It's

740
00:40:38,599 --> 00:40:41,320
literally will be Thanksgiving. Everyone will come home, That's what

741
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,159
I was thinking. Yeah, and then like three weeks later

742
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,239
everyone will Christmas, Christmas break and be home. Yeah. So

743
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,559
I'll be all right. You'll definitely be all right through

744
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:54,679
the end of this year. Yeah, for sure. Second semester

745
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,639
is always a little challenging. Yeah, Also, though, are the

746
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,360
kids all set with I know, I ask you every

747
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,519
week because this is what I'm dealing with. But are

748
00:41:02,519 --> 00:41:04,880
they all set for their college applications.

749
00:41:05,199 --> 00:41:07,559
Speaker 2: I was talking to them about it and yeah, I

750
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:10,519
mean I told them, you know, if they need help,

751
00:41:10,639 --> 00:41:11,079
let me know.

752
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,079
Speaker 1: But you know, they seem to have it down.

753
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: Sonny has a counselor, and Itali's got like a counselor.

754
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,800
Plus her roommates you know that have been there, done that,

755
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,440
that can that are helping her. So she knows like

756
00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:27,039
she's on top of it. Sonny's the one I'm gonna

757
00:41:27,039 --> 00:41:30,159
have to like stay on top of. But he's like,

758
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,000
I got it, I know, I know what I'm doing.

759
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,039
Blah blah blah.

760
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: He has a counselor from his from the community college.

761
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,639
Yeah m hmm okay, yeah that he works with helped

762
00:41:39,679 --> 00:41:43,199
him pick his classes and stuff. Okay, I would because

763
00:41:43,199 --> 00:41:46,320
they probably have to do the essays too, because yeah,

764
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:47,960
they're going to their piqs.

765
00:41:49,079 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so they'll be getting ready for that. Yeah yeah.

766
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,039
And then to use my girl Melissa. I told them,

767
00:41:58,119 --> 00:42:02,480
I said, I said, I have somebody, and so they know.

768
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,920
So I told him, if you need somebody, you know,

769
00:42:05,159 --> 00:42:06,960
like now's probably the time to get in touch with

770
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,360
her is what if she gets busy? So I know

771
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,880
that's what I think, you know, center so much business. Yeah,

772
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:18,039
I hope she makes time for my kids, right yeah? Yeah,

773
00:42:18,119 --> 00:42:21,639
Are you guys going to go look at schools at all?

774
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: Yes? I just don't know when, because it's so weird

775
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:31,400
with our high school. They're very, very very big on attendance,

776
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,039
and even though the seniors get a certain amount of

777
00:42:34,119 --> 00:42:37,000
days that they can take off to go look at colleges,

778
00:42:37,519 --> 00:42:40,079
they don't really excuse it though, way you know what

779
00:42:40,119 --> 00:42:41,800
I mean? Yeah, you have to well you have to

780
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,000
bring in documentation, and I think they would rather you

781
00:42:45,119 --> 00:42:48,039
do that second semester when the kids are actually deciding

782
00:42:48,079 --> 00:42:50,440
what college. But I want to take them to see

783
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,760
a few schools to even see if they want to apply,

784
00:42:54,199 --> 00:42:56,440
right yeah, how to figure out what major they want

785
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,480
to apply with? You know, you take them both? Girl,

786
00:43:01,599 --> 00:43:04,880
I don't know. I'm not sure because I think I

787
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,039
might just take Xander to a couple by himself that

788
00:43:08,159 --> 00:43:11,079
she's not interested in. But I want to. I don't

789
00:43:11,079 --> 00:43:13,800
want to make it like well, yeah you know what

790
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:18,199
I mean. I know, Yeah, Sadie's pretty set on. I

791
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,400
want to actually take her. We had a meeting with

792
00:43:20,679 --> 00:43:24,480
the college counselor from the kids' school, and she was

793
00:43:24,519 --> 00:43:29,000
actually super helpful. She was making some suggestions to Sadie.

794
00:43:29,159 --> 00:43:31,920
Sadie really wants to live at home for at least

795
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,920
another year, so she either wants to go to community

796
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:40,800
or season. Yeah, but live at home, right, which I

797
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,880
think we've talked about this before. I'm totally fine with, Like,

798
00:43:44,119 --> 00:43:46,880
it's fine with me live at home another year until

799
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:52,360
you feel ready. She's always been a little bit developmentally behind,

800
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,119
so I think she just needs another llieah, her to marinate, yeah,

801
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,559
and like come into herself and figure out what she

802
00:43:58,599 --> 00:44:01,639
wants to do. But I do want to take her

803
00:44:01,679 --> 00:44:06,440
to see cal State Channel Island, I think, which is yeah,

804
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,840
which is not that far. I think it's in Camera Rio, Okay,

805
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,599
So that would be like a day trip. Yeah, that

806
00:44:12,639 --> 00:44:14,880
wouldn't get the vibe. So she could see if there's

807
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,920
any chance she would like to go somewhere, right, live

808
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,960
outside of live out of home, right. And then does

809
00:44:22,079 --> 00:44:28,000
Xander want to go out of state? He is open, Okay.

810
00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:31,719
I would not like him to go out of state, Yeah,

811
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:34,199
especially with just the way the world is right now.

812
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,239
I would rather that he stayed in California. Yeah, but

813
00:44:39,039 --> 00:44:42,000
I'm not going to tell him, right what I mean.

814
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:43,960
He's not going to go to school in the South,

815
00:44:44,079 --> 00:44:47,840
that's for sure, but I'm not going to dictate where

816
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,599
he applies. Long is it somewhere I feel like, yeah, safe,

817
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:56,239
right right? I think he's open. He's not like ELB was.

818
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,480
ELB was like I want to be in California, Like

819
00:44:59,519 --> 00:45:01,639
I only want to go to a UC. So that's

820
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,679
it's a little different with him. He doesn't really have

821
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,920
a good gauge. Yeah.

822
00:45:06,079 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well that'll be fun though, you know, so you

823
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:10,480
start all over again.

824
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my car. Yeah, I tell you that already, but now

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it on Friday. But Adam, that's our car. It's cute

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amazing and he gives his shout out to the ACLU.

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our show. We've got a great show for you Friday.

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really good Patreon this week. That's right, Yeah, all right,

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