Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny sound on Ihad a Vision.
It's nice.
Speaker 2: Hey, Everyboddy, what's happening? Welcome to for crying out loud. Welcome, welcome.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well it's been you know, a tough week, but we're
here to lighten the mood.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah we are. Yeah, as we were discussing before
we came on. Here, ain nobody listening to our show
for political takes, right, and there's really only one take
right now, which is that we do not condone any
kind of violence and everything. Everybody needs to calm right,
right right, yeah, absolutely, And I had to do good
things for other people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, it's a good way to look at it.
And yeah, we're here to talk about me puking my
guts out yesterday.
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, this is why the show is late,
and it's going to be it's you're listening to this
probably late afternoon on Tuesday instead of midnight. Right. What happened?
Speaker 2: Well, you know I don't okay, jast back. So I
was Sunday night. I had some sushi, okay, all right, Well,
but I don't from a like a restaurant in Glendale. Yeah,
from the gas station. But I will say there was
one bite that did did not taste normal, tasted kind
of fishy. But I don't know, I mean, I don't know, well,
yeah maybe because then you know, ate the sushi. Went
to bed and then like woke up early in the
morning not feeling right, and then just had to go
to the bathroom like every you know, half hour forty
five minutes, and then I tried to go back to sleep.
I texted you, like, this isn't work. I'm not going
to be able to leave the house anytime soon. And
then the throwing up, the puking, and can I just
say something about throwing up?
Speaker 1: It's never like when you know, I haven't thrown up in.
Speaker 2: A few years, but like it just like I don't
know about you, but like my armpits were hurting afterwards.
Speaker 1: Like your whole body.
Speaker 2: Just feels like like it just took everything out of
every fiber in your upper body to puke, you know,
like that it was awful. So then that happened, and
then I just tried to sleep sleep it off, and
then I think around you know, like around five o'clock
or six o'clock. I woke up later and I got
some I was hungry, but I was afraid. So I
had like some soup, some chicken little soup, and then
that didn't sit well with me. So I really haven't
eaten anything since yesterday. Oh no, yeah, so you threw
that up too. I didn't throw that up. It kind
of just split up. Yeah, just went right through me.
So yeah, I didn't. I wasn't doing too good yesterday,
but but you know, now I'm here, And of course
last night I didn't sleep well because I slept all
day yesterday. I was like sound as you know, on
and off of sleep all day. So I wasn't even like,
you know, I could just enjoy laying in bed watching TV.
Speaker 1: I was just asleep the whole time.
Speaker 2: But then I didn't sleep good last night, so then
I anyway, I'm a little out of sorts today, but
I'm here and you know, back at it.
Speaker 1: But leading up to that, did you go to the zoo?
So I did go to the zoo? Zoo?
Speaker 2: I was blaming the zoo. I was like, I don't know,
I yeah, I haven't been to the zoo in years.
And Sunny's leaving this Friday to go back to school,
and he's leaving on Friday, and then my nephew and
his wife and kids are coming Friday night to stay
with me for a week. So anyway, I was like,
you know, we did the Natural History Museum, and we
talked about it when we were at the museum, like
we should maybe go to the zoo sometime whatever, and
he's like, yeah, that'd be cool on his day off.
Speaker 1: So we went. And it's kind of sad at the zoo.
Speaker 2: It really is, like, I know, you just feel bad
for those animals. Hot on, but you know, and I
remember like they had the elephants removed in the middle
of the night recently. That was in the news, you know,
but then you still see these same alligators still there
from like when they were kids, you know, you know
they name all these these the gorillas and the alligators
and stuff. It was not hot, and it was empty
in the middle of the day, really, yeah, empty, Like
this was a Sunday, No, this was on Friday.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh okay, yeah, sorry. It was definitely the sushi.
You think it was a sushi you had that the
night before you woke down. Yeah, food poisoning. Yeah, it
had to have been the sushi. I didn't even think
about it until later in the day. But yeah, so wait,
but the zoo was you know, it's nice to hang
out with Sonny and I got to drive with him
in his car and you know, he's a good driver.
But now that car is going to get returned because
he's going back to school and he's going to be
done with work this week and he's going to miss it.
Speaker 2: He said, he really likes it, but he's ready to
go back. It's going to go back to school. So
I'll be back to you know, I mean, I'll have
family in town in the next few weeks visiting and stuff,
but then back to just me and Phil. And yesterday
was Phil's tenth birthday. Oh, happy birthday, ten years old.
This a little gray around his face. That's amazing.
Speaker 1: How dogs age, I ain't know, much faster than people. Yeah,
it's not right, it's not.
Speaker 2: And then it's like at the zoo and like there's
these tortoises and you know, they're like, I don't know,
you know, one hundred years old and shit, and it's like,
why can't dogs live to be that long?
Speaker 1: Well, we don't want our dogs to outlive us, because
that's weird.
Speaker 2: Outlive us, but it is will and like figure out
like who's going to take care of them?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then that person has to figure out who's
going to take care of I mean that's kind of
a lot.
Speaker 2: That's a lot, not one hundred years, but like you know, fifty,
like that would be good. Thirty, but not even eighty.
They they don't even make it to twenty ever, barely.
Speaker 1: No, No, it would be very unusual to make it
to twenty. Yeah, how's people? Not great? Not great? She's
she's such a handful in the evenings, it's crazy. She
it's not even just like the pain, it's the sort
of dementia. So as soon as it's evening, she wants
to walk at five. She does not want to walk
during the day at all. Yeah, take her in the morning,
we just make her go out and pee. Then around
five o'clock she wants a walk. Then around like five
forty five, she doesn't remember she had a walk, so
she barks, she barks, and she whinds, and she can't
get comfortable, and she wanders her and she has to
be near you, and then she reaches a point and
it's way before my bedtime, usually around nine o'clock. She's
real mad. If you're up and around like she wants
somebody at least in the bed. So now I've taken
up this lifestyle of either or John does a lot
of editing work in the evening. So then it's like
I have to go to bed basically right like watch TV.
Speaker 2: Because she wants to get in bed. She wants to
be on the bed. But then she'll get off the
bed because she wants to be on the cold floor.
But then she can't get back on the bed. Yeah,
then we have to lift her and put her on
the bed.
Speaker 1: I found these things. I got it for Phil.
Speaker 2: It didn't come yet, these like cubes that just kind
of a fold so it looks like a little stool.
Speaker 1: Could have given it. Could have given those to you
because they didn't work for it. It didn't be really too
narrow and she's not going to try to know it
was there's there. They're cubes, I know what you're saying.
And they unfold and then they look they act as steps. Yeah. No,
she wanted nothing to do with it. Wow, oh I.
Speaker 2: Know, because now Phil is having a hard time jumping
up on the bed because he's you know, he's getting
it's getting up there. And I did put like an ottoman,
you know, at the end of my bed that's too
big and clunky. I'm gonna move it when the other
thing comes and hopefully that'll work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll have to keep me posted on that. Yeah,
I will. I will. You've seen what I'm talking about
those I bought it. Yeah, I bought it, and it
didn't work for her. I wish I wish i'd known,
because I would have given you mine. But also I
think mine is for a smaller dog because at the
top step is not close enough to the top of
the bed.
Speaker 2: It's it's steps, because mine is like it's it's it
folds down.
Speaker 1: It's just like an it's like an on ramp. Yeah, okay,
so no, mine is like a cubes and then they
stack and they're okay steps. Okay. But I don't think
people would use the ramp either, because I tried one
of those. I borrowed one from somebody on the next
on the buy nothing group, and she didn't want it.
But I had to go bring it back to the lady.
Oh listen, if you're going to offer something on the
buy nothing group, just let it go, you know, and
like if you want it back, if you're going to
be like, well, if it doesn't work, let me know,
I'll take it, right, Like, okay, yeah, I drive back,
try it. Penelbie wants something to do with it. Then
I got to keep in touch with her, you know,
he Hey, just letting you know. It's not working so far.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll give it a little, you know, let me
know though, Uh huh, that's weird.
Speaker 1: Okay, she's not going to use it. Okay, what's a
good time for you to bring back? It's like, do
you have an appointment with it? Right? Are you coming
it up? Yeah? You want it so bad? Yeah, she doesn't.
She said it didn't work for her dog. So I
don't know if she wants to just have it like
leverage over the other neighbors, right, Like all right, I've
got a ramp, right if you're you know, be nice
to me, yeah, because you want to borrow it, right
you give it back? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know. It's
I just we're trying to keep her. We're trying these
different supplements with her. Quana recommended some that I've that
I've used. Nothing really makes a huge difference. She's we
have we have these little booties though that have a
no skid thing that you'll try to put on her
when she's in the house so that she can Otherwise
we would have to put like grip tape all over
all the floors. Yeah, or late la. Yeah. It's so sad. Yeah.
Speaker 2: On another note, so Natalia was going to this party
on Friday, like this Jersey Shore party where everybody's like
supposed to be dressed like Jersey stores. So then she
facetimes me, like her in her roommates getting ready and
how they're dressed and everything, and they're like talking Jersey Shore, like.
Speaker 1: Eh, eh, dansy here, you know all that stuff. Was
this her idea? No, I would think it was.
Speaker 2: But she's like, no, somebody's having a Jersey Shore party.
Speaker 1: Oh. I love kids today, I know right now.
Speaker 2: I just think it's so funny that they discovered Jersey Shore,
so you know, they're doing all the lingo and everything.
Speaker 1: So she was excited. Then I get a call.
Speaker 2: This is kind of sad, But it turned out I
get a call at like twelve thirty and she's hysterical
because the party she was at was at a house
like butted up on a cliff, and one of her
friends that I knew from back home, that is in
school in Santa Barbara fell forty feet yeah, and it
was sand, but still forty feet like yeah, and she
had like she knows the kid very well, and she
knows his brother, and she was called the ambulance was
like we need to, you know, get in touch with
his parents. So she had to call the brother and
tell him there was an accident. She was like hysterically
crying and she's like, he's breathing, but he's on his
way to the hospital. I hope he's okay, Like she
was so concerned, but it ended up he broke a hip,
his nose, he broke a bunch of bones, but he's okay,
he's gonna make a recovery. But yeah, like nobody wants
to get that phone call, like twelve thirty at night
on a Friday night. It's just her calling me like upset,
Like that was I was freaked out, but you know,
like it's scary.
Speaker 1: You know, things happen when I was in.
Speaker 2: I I want to say, ninth grade or tenth grade.
A kid was so I think I've told you this
story before many years ago, but there's we had those stairwells,
you know when you can when you go up the
stairs and then you go up the other side, and
then you go up the other side, and it makes
kind of a square, and there's you can look down, yeah,
and see the bottom floor.
Speaker 1: Right. So our school was like three stories three stories
tall or yeah, and this kid was on the top
floor decided to slide down the railing and fell. My god,
and didn't die, but was in a vegetative state for
like twenty years. I want to say, I think he
I think he only died not that long ago, but
like never spoke again or oh my god, I know
that's so scary.
Speaker 2: I know I won't say his name, but like it was,
I remember like looking up articles about him. Yeah, but
the but the thing is, it was very traumatizing. I
mean obviously for his family, but I'm saying all of kids,
we knew when it happened.
Speaker 1: We all looked over the rail. I literally saw him
at the bottom of the thing. It was like it
was horrible, and the caromatics came and you know, so sad. No, Yeah,
did you ever have something like that happened to you?
Speaker 2: I remember my high school, the one that's in your neighborhood.
There is a McDonald's across the street and a girl
jaywalked to go to the McDonald's at lunchtime and was
hit and killed instantly. Yeah, that was traumatizing because we
were all outside saw it happen, and the ambulance came
and it's like everybody was upset and crying. And then
she was in the hospital I think for a little while,
and then she ended up dying I think, or did
she get I don't remember.
Speaker 1: She did die. It was really sad. Oh my god.
I know, Well I hope you're all cheered up. That's
the show. I know. Wow. Yeah, that's that's really scary.
I'm sorry that Natalia had to deal with that. Yeah,
so we're in the party for her. Yeah the party
was over. Oh my god. Yeah, what a waste. What
a great party? I know, what a great party? Theme?
Did she go as trash bags?
Speaker 2: She went like as snooky. She looked looked more like
a jay wow to me, But she she went as snooky,
she says. She didn't look like snuoky to me, Like
she didn't have the poof, but she had like the
furry boots and stuff, you know, and like a leopard
tea tank top.
Speaker 1: You know, Where's the Beach? I love that so much.
Though I know we have had our little obsessions. First
of all, remember when Snooky's husband was caught up in
the Madison As scandal. Yeah, she never really talked about it.
She never did. I think she did.
Speaker 2: And they you know, vowed and you know, work on
their marriage, but they're still married.
Speaker 1: They're still married. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then there was that housewife's husband. She talked about it.
Speaker 1: Kristin Tiekman. Yeah, she would the model one.
Speaker 2: From right, right, didn't they did like the Girl's Trip,
Bravo's Girls Trip or whatever, and she took a girls trip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she talked about it. It's really true what they say,
show me a beautiful woman, show me a supermodel, and
I'll show you a guy who's sick.
Speaker 2: Right, hey, I mean come on, like, yeah, she was
beautiful and he was like a dorky dude and he's
like cheating on her.
Speaker 1: I know what the fuck that takes. That's trouble of.
Speaker 2: Tumble of right, doesn't that take a lot of That's ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she took him back. Yeah. Wow, would be
really I know that probably probably at least fifty percent
of our listeners who are married to a guy. You know,
I would imagine even lesbians. This is going to sound
like the most problematic thing, but of course lesbians cheat
as well. I would imagine that almost that fifty percent
of people who are married or in living together whatever
have been cheated on and been surprised by it. Right,
I've been completely blindsided, Like you think your partner is
super loyal, would never do that to you. And I've
been listening to a lot of betrayal. That's how I know.
So it's the ones you don't expect you right, right,
they know because the one that we were talking about
where we were talking about watching you ask me if
I watched it on TV one where the guy put
the cameras everywhere, Oh, the most recent one. Yeah yeah, yeah,
the show they did the documentary of it. But I
went back and listened to the podcast of it. Really
like that guy. She was like, Okay, my first husband
was kind of a kind of sucked, but this guy
is like amazing.
Speaker 2: He loves my kids. He's like a big kid himself.
Yeah he was a doctor, wasn't he he.
Speaker 1: Was, well, he wasn't a doctor. He said he was
a doctor. Oh he wasn't.
Speaker 2: No, in the very last Betrayal season, Yes he was.
He said he was a doctor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they found out later that he wasn't actually a
serified okay or whatever? Right, No, how the hell does that?
That was one of the charges against him, was practicing
medicine without a license.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh he was a complete fraud across the board. Yeah,
but he was.
Speaker 2: But she was very, very blindsided. Of course later you
hear there's like a few signs. Yeah, but that's a
terrible story. That guy came into her life.
Speaker 1: Parent did her kids basically, right, She had the daughter
from the first marriage and a son and a sid Tyler,
the one that he ended up abusing, right, and then
they had two kids and yeah that's right, right, Yeah.
And then he put a camera, he put cameras in
the bathroom and was watching everybody. And then they found
other stuff and then it came out that he, yeah,
didn't he.
Speaker 2: And then he tried something with one of this one
of Tyler's friends. Yes, that's how to sleep ye at
a sleepover?
Speaker 1: Yes, and that kid. But then they but then they
were like not enough proof, I mean, come on, not
enough proof. And they had the camera and they had
all the footage from the camera and they were like, well,
it could be that he wasn't purposely trying to record minors, right,
okay Jesus. Then there was the story before that one
though a different betrayal, uh, where the guy was the teacher.
He was like the beloved teacher. Yeah, and had a club,
and all the kids were like, yeah, it was really
cool if he was. You wanted to be in his
club because it's right, the av club, I think, because
you didn't really have to do anything. Yes, And he
was like the cool teacher. And then he was like fucking.
Speaker 2: Half the kids and the daughter too in the family, right,
or he molested the daughter in the family, did he?
Speaker 1: I think? Remember there was the daughter and the I
don't know. I don't think so. But they think they
found poorn on his whatever. I don't know, right, But
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the Emmys? I did not mean that one minute of it.
I know, I didn't even know it was on until
I don't know. I was doing something and somebody goes, oh,
thanks for coming during Emmy time, and I was like,
what I know?
Speaker 2: The only reason I knew is because I see, like
Jimmy and his family getting ready for the Emmy's on Facebook.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, but.
Speaker 2: I mean I watched clips of it and uh, I
have did you watch you watch the Pit?
Speaker 1: Didn't you? I did watch the Pit? Remember we we
did test it because I did feel it was a
rip off of R right, and did you watch the
whole thing? Did you like it? I didn't. I'm going
to be honest. I didn't love it as much as
other people did. I like because I compared it to
ER and I liked ER better. Right. The way The
Pit is different is its serialized through one shift at
an ER, So each episode is an hour okay of
the shit of one shift. Okay, but I feel like
it's a little limiting to do it that way, Like
how much can really happen? So everything is very high drama.
A lot of people have said people have said that
it's very realistic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they I hear, yeah, people that work in
that in that industry that it is but.
Speaker 1: You know what, I don't work in that industry, so
how am I gonna hell right, you could say that
to me and I'd be like, well, okay, right, take
your word for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. The Pit one and then the Studio one Big.
Did you watch the Studio I did? I thought that
was another one that was very h or hit or miss.
Speaker 1: I agree, it could be very scatological, like just a
lot of it was a very over the top campy,
but the first couple episodes were more sharp and funny
to me, right, and then it sort of went off
the rails a little bit.
Speaker 2: It came out the same time as John Ham's show
The Friends in Neighbor, which I loved, which we loved
at first first Yeah, and then the same thing too,
And they didn't get any nominations, did they.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Really, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Don't quote me, though. What am
I in entertainment for our border? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. No.
Speaker 2: I think like Shrinking was nominated and a White Lotus
didn't get any love nothing what No. But Sam Rockwell
was there with Leslie Bib which was cute. She's like
ten feet taller than him. Oh really, Yeah, she's really
tall and he's short. But they're kind of cute. They're
kind of a cute couple.
Speaker 1: Okay, not to go off the topic of the Emmys,
but you know, since i'm you know, like seventy, I'm
going to forget what I want to say. Yeah, but
I want to ask you something. So I'm watching Love
Is Blind France. Right, are you watching it at all? No? Okay,
it's so good. It's really good. One of the couples,
the woman is six feet tall and the guy is like,
he's not short. Well, there's another guy who's kind of short,
and then they never really mentioned the fact that he's short.
But there the guy that this really tall woman ended
up with, and she was like, oh my gosh, I
hope he's not short. I hope he's tall and he's
not short. He's probably like I'm gonna I'm gonna guess
he's like five ten, Okay, maybe he's like five Maybe
he's five nine and she's six feet tall, because he's
not that much shorter than her. Yeah, he is shorter
than her. Okay, I really want to know your opinion
on this. So she's was paranoid, but they seemed to,
but he did not care. He was like, he was like,
oh my gosh, you're so beautiful. And she's like a
big woman, you know, not like super overweight or anything,
but like just a bigger woman that he's sort of
more slight yelled too. But he didn't really care. He
didn't really care. He loved her anyway, and she didn't
she But then so then they go to the vacation
part and I'm trying to remember exactly how this went down,
how it turned into a fight, but basically he said,
oh are those She was like, well, if are you
worried about what these people are going to say about
like our height difference. And he's like, no, I don't care,
like I love you, like i'm you know, and she
was like, okay, good, then I'm wearing heels. So he
was like, h I mean real, like.
Speaker 2: Right, you got to wear heels, like you got to
make it more obvious, which and then she got offended
as if he was trying to be controlling, and she's like, well,
you said you didn't care, yeah, and he said okay,
but I would I would think you would want to
protect my feelings like a little bit like you wouldn't
be asking for more comments, right, or whatever. And then
she started to get mad and she was like, well,
I like wearing heels. They make me feel like sexy
and they make me feel good about myself.
Speaker 1: So well, and then he said, okay, I thought he
was being very reasonable, and he was like, I understand that,
and yeah, I'm not telling you what to do, but
I do feel that's just a bit you know, this
early in a relationship, when I'm trying to sess out
whether you care about my feelings. Yeah, right, it feels
like you're trying to dig your heels in no potent. Yeah.
And then they got in this big fight and they're
like maybe going to break up because because he refused
to go to the gathering at all because she was
mad at him. He stayed really calm, and I was like, Okay,
what do I think about this? And I came to
the conclusion that she's in the wrong. I think, I
don't you know, why do you have to prove a point?
Speaker 2: Yes, well, it's a little I think for him, it
sounds like it was more symbolic, like you you don't
really care about my feelings, right, That's what he said, yes, so,
and she had flats with her that's the thing.
Speaker 1: Well, and also she's on vacation.
Speaker 2: Who's where heels on vacation, like by the beach and shit, right,
I mean I don't know, but I do know people
like Wendy love to wear heels like they feel better
and high heels when we go out, like and just
there's some women that just prefer it and feel more comfortable.
Speaker 1: But if you're already tall, it's already six feet tall, yeah,
you wanted to be six four. Yeah, it's a real
little that's a bit that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: And not like again not saying that she can't ever
wear heels, and he wasn't saying that, but he was
feeling like, we're going to be making our appearance. Yeah,
the first time people are going to be seeing us
as a couple, and it's already.
Speaker 1: A height different. Well that's yeah, now you want to
make it even more of like a spectacle. He felt
like it was gonna And his feeling was she had
two pairs of shoes she was deciding between, and one
were like cute flats like Sam, and she was like,
but I want to wear the heels, and you said
you didn't care. You said you don't care about the
height different, so I'm gonna do what I want. Oh gosh,
well maybe she's testing him too. But let me ask you.
Speaker 2: When you're watching the French version and stuff, is it over?
Is the English like over dubbed it? Or you have
to watch I read you read the captions.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but so it's good practice for my brain. So
I can't play threes on my phone while you do it.
But you really got like you lose the It's a
little bit like reading a book in a good way.
I mean, I'm reading it, but I'm totally absorbed in it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I have the captions on all the time,
no matter what, just because I like because it Also,
like we've talked about this is also when you're watching,
you're reading the captions. Sometimes you'll hear thing or you'll
read something that you wouldn't lssarily hear, you know, while
you're watching the scene. But some of the shows that
are like foreign and in a different language, I get
then they have the English over it, but then you're
I'm reading the captions and now they're getting the words differently,
and then it gets all like it's got to be
one or the other. You know what I'm saying, Like,
you can put it on where it says where you
can have the English. I don't know if it's this show,
but some shows so I don't have the captions on.
Speaker 1: You just turn your captions off. But when you're watching
it in Oh, they already's version in France, it just
tells you what they're saying. Okay, Okay, it's like watching
a subtitle like a foreign language movie, like like, turn
your cop captions off. Okay, then it'll just show you
the English, right, what they're saying. Right, it won't be
over anything. Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I am really liking it. Yeah, okay, but
I guess I'm just a real Love is Blind fan?
Speaker 1: You love Love is Blind? I do, although I haven't.
I've only watched. I just watched the UK version, which
was amazing. The US version is coming back in like
a couple of weeks season. I don't remember what What
city are they, right, Denver? Okay, so they should be
like a little more normal, yeah, probably very white. I
like it when there's more black couples on. I think
they're I don't know, it's more fun, very diverse, but
I'm at the no offense, but white like white people
especially like they could be boring, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like the diversity. No black couples
on the on the French one, is there? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
oh there is Okay, all right.
Speaker 1: One of them are so cute. They're their whole thing
is like black love or showing everybody black love, and
then they explain what that is, that it's actually an
American concept of like black people showing pride in being black,
and that black couples can have love and that, you know,
And it was just funny because they're sort of it's
sort of like an in your face right, right, They're
very cute. There's someones to root for, okay, and then
there's some assholes. It's kind of a perfect mix. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I like that, Yeah, because you want to have some
kind of people that you love to hate to watch
on that show.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, But I was really interested in outside opinions
on the hype thing. Yeah was the asshole.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like she's in the wrong, especially they're
coming out party, like come on, you know, yeah, and
especially if she had flats that she was debating on wearing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so weird because reality TV is so different
than regular life, and I feel like it can make
people that have something about them that's different feel more
insecure because of how everybody on a reality dating show
focuses on like men's heights, you know, yes, and like
Xander is going to be like a short king, you know, right,
a short king. Yeah, And listen, in real life, I
see tons of short guys, very short guys, with like
beautiful girlfriends or boyfriends. Right. It doesn't really seem to
matter in regular life, but on dating shows it's.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I have you know they have I just
like really tall guys, right, yeah, like Larsa Pippen. You
don't watch them Miami Housewives, No, it is it good.
It's really good. Actually it's really good. Those those women
have a lot of drama. But yeah, she's she's like,
I you know, she was married to Scottie Pippen. She's like,
how am I gonna? And then she was dating Michael
Jordan's sun. She like, how am I going to go
back to some shorty guy? Like, you know, She's like,
it's just me. I just like you know, tall guys,
you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess, but guess what, there's a
lot of women that just like people for who they are,
you know, right right, just like a lot of people
are pan sexual and they just like people for their
personality and they're not so caught up and like I
have to have this kind of guy. I just think
it can be a little bit poisoning of the brains
of people when they go like, oh my god, is
this just out there? Like people are this superficial? Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it, especially with those dating shows, you know, but.
Speaker 1: I still like it. Yeah, I know, I know. So Okay,
So going back to so you had fun at the
zoo with Sonny. Yes, yeah, it was fun, good bonding. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna make him his favorite steak dinner this
week and just get him ready. He doesn't need me to,
he doesn't need for me to go back with him. Said,
he'll be fine, but you know, just getting him packed
up and stuff.
Speaker 1: So he's just gonna how does this work? You just
get him his plane ticket and then he just goes
and then he just cours to his apartment. That's what
he didn't do. Yeah, lets himself in and goes to
the store and get some get some food.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's got a little fridge because they
already have the the chefs on site making meals and stuff,
but he likes to have his like frozen pizzas and
well and also yeah, so he's gonna I mean I
would like to go with him and help, you know,
like just help him unpack and get settled. But you know,
changes sheets probably, I don't know, but I have the
family coming and he's like, you don't. He's like, it's fine,
you don't need to. And I think Melissa and I
are going to fly out maybe a couple of weekends
or so to maybe go to a game with him
and her son that's out there.
Speaker 1: That'll be fun. That would be fun. Yeah, in a
few weeks. Yeah. I was just telling my friend, So,
my friend Laura, her son is going to use c LA.
So her daughter, who's you remember Laura. She's my lifelong
friend since since the girls were six months old. So
her daughter is at Berkeley. But her son just got
into CLA and he's leaving I think like tomorrow. And
she's so like, oh my god, it's going to be
so so hard, and you know, and I was so
thrilled to tell her that it's actually going to be
fine because they're right there. Yes, And I've got to
explain to her that as she knew, but you know,
remind her that when Elbie went, I cried for like,
you know, one day. Yeah, and then I went the
next week and like met her for lunch and I
was like, oh, it's not fine bad. Yeah, And then
she comes home all the time, Like it's easier with Natalia,
right because I wanted to go have lunch with her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can just drive and drive over there right right,
Yeah for the day. Yes, it's four hours of driving,
but total yeah, you know, there and back. But yeah,
it's fine. And sometimes she comes home. She comes home
a lot more than Sunny was coming home. Yeah, well
he was coming home a lot, coming home a lot.
That was last year. I don't think he's gonna be
doing that that much. I don't know. I don't know.
He's always with the sports, some sports thing happening, and
then my living room will go back to normal because
he put a TV in my living room, so now
he had like two TVs going. The other day, like
sports all day at his friend's over to watch the
college games. It was like a sports bar in my
living room, so that that'll go back to normal.
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with the TV?
Speaker 2: It's his old TV from the other house, so it
just goes back into the garage.
Speaker 1: Got it? Yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then Elbe's going, right when is she starting up?
Speaker 1: So Elbe is going? So today is Tuesday, she works,
and she works through the weekend. I think she's gonna
go move in officially, like this weekend. Oh nice, Okay, yeah,
it's that time. Yeah, I'm gonna tell I'll tell you
on Friday about like going to see her apartment. Okay,
I was going to tell you about what was I
going to tell you? So wait? So Natalia has been
back for a while though, Yeah, and she had her party.
Other than that, is she doing Okay?
Speaker 2: She's yeah, she's doing good. She's got her classes. She's
calling me like she used to do in between her classes,
and and she's you know, she's she loves her roommates there.
She's cooking all the time now, she says, like they
are always making some Instagram or TikTok recipe. She gave
me a recipe that looked really good and some kind
of creamy chicken parmesan eything. But yeah, she's doing a
lot of cooking and her roommates are great, and I
might go. I don't know, maybe we'll I'll go visit
her after my family leaves.
Speaker 1: We'll see.
Speaker 2: But you know, the family's coming, and I want to
get the house ready. I you know, I still have
like cookies from when they were here last year in
the in the pantry, Like, yeah.
Speaker 1: This is where you and I do not see eye
to eye. Well you still have cookies in the pantry
and you never think about him.
Speaker 2: I forgot they were there, and I was going through
my closet yesterday, like I need to clean this out,
and I want to go to the store and get
them the stuff that they need because they're coming in
late Friday night and they have two little kids, so
they're going to wake up at like probably four in
the morning wanting breakfast and stuff. So yeah, out deal,
I probably still have the same milk from last year.
Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding. So Sunny leaves like in the morning.
Sunny's leaving Friday afternoon, so literally he leaves Friday afternoon,
and they can they come Friday night? Yeah? Late, that's crazy,
I know, but.
Speaker 2: Good because then you won't even have time to be sad, right, Yeah,
it'd be nice and you planned it well, and then
it does it overlaps or it doesn't overlap with the
next No, then I have a week off, and then
the next then his brother and his wife and their
little baby come with Wendy.
Speaker 1: They'll come for a week, and then when they leave,
will Wendy stay for a little while.
Speaker 2: And then when they leave, that's when we're supposed to
go on my trip to Florida with Susanne and Wendy.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, and then when you get back from that,
would you go to Oregon? Then then probably? Yeah?
Speaker 2: After that you're going to be so busy, I know,
and then then have time to be sad. I'm not,
thank god.
Speaker 1: Then we're going to be into the holidays, right, It's
literally will be Thanksgiving. Everyone will come home, That's what
I was thinking. Yeah, and then like three weeks later
everyone will Christmas, Christmas break and be home. Yeah. So
I'll be all right. You'll definitely be all right through
the end of this year. Yeah, for sure. Second semester
is always a little challenging. Yeah, Also, though, are the
kids all set with I know, I ask you every
week because this is what I'm dealing with. But are
they all set for their college applications.
Speaker 2: I was talking to them about it and yeah, I
mean I told them, you know, if they need help,
let me know.
Speaker 1: But you know, they seem to have it down.
Speaker 2: Sonny has a counselor, and Itali's got like a counselor.
Plus her roommates you know that have been there, done that,
that can that are helping her. So she knows like
she's on top of it. Sonny's the one I'm gonna
have to like stay on top of. But he's like,
I got it, I know, I know what I'm doing.
Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: He has a counselor from his from the community college.
Yeah m hmm okay, yeah that he works with helped
him pick his classes and stuff. Okay, I would because
they probably have to do the essays too, because yeah,
they're going to their piqs.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so they'll be getting ready for that. Yeah yeah.
And then to use my girl Melissa. I told them,
I said, I said, I have somebody, and so they know.
So I told him, if you need somebody, you know,
like now's probably the time to get in touch with
her is what if she gets busy? So I know
that's what I think, you know, center so much business. Yeah,
I hope she makes time for my kids, right yeah? Yeah,
Are you guys going to go look at schools at all?
Speaker 1: Yes? I just don't know when, because it's so weird
with our high school. They're very, very very big on attendance,
and even though the seniors get a certain amount of
days that they can take off to go look at colleges,
they don't really excuse it though, way you know what
I mean? Yeah, you have to well you have to
bring in documentation, and I think they would rather you
do that second semester when the kids are actually deciding
what college. But I want to take them to see
a few schools to even see if they want to apply,
right yeah, how to figure out what major they want
to apply with? You know, you take them both? Girl,
I don't know. I'm not sure because I think I
might just take Xander to a couple by himself that
she's not interested in. But I want to. I don't
want to make it like well, yeah you know what
I mean. I know, Yeah, Sadie's pretty set on. I
want to actually take her. We had a meeting with
the college counselor from the kids' school, and she was
actually super helpful. She was making some suggestions to Sadie.
Sadie really wants to live at home for at least
another year, so she either wants to go to community
or season. Yeah, but live at home, right, which I
think we've talked about this before. I'm totally fine with, Like,
it's fine with me live at home another year until
you feel ready. She's always been a little bit developmentally behind,
so I think she just needs another llieah, her to marinate, yeah,
and like come into herself and figure out what she
wants to do. But I do want to take her
to see cal State Channel Island, I think, which is yeah,
which is not that far. I think it's in Camera Rio, Okay,
So that would be like a day trip. Yeah, that
wouldn't get the vibe. So she could see if there's
any chance she would like to go somewhere, right, live
outside of live out of home, right. And then does
Xander want to go out of state? He is open, Okay.
I would not like him to go out of state, Yeah,
especially with just the way the world is right now.
I would rather that he stayed in California. Yeah, but
I'm not going to tell him, right what I mean.
He's not going to go to school in the South,
that's for sure, but I'm not going to dictate where
he applies. Long is it somewhere I feel like, yeah, safe,
right right? I think he's open. He's not like ELB was.
ELB was like I want to be in California, Like
I only want to go to a UC. So that's
it's a little different with him. He doesn't really have
a good gauge. Yeah.
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