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Speaker 1: Well, hello friends. Coming up. In this episode, Laura and

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Mark come face to face for the first time since

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that awkward fortieth birthday sort of snub. I'll call it thing.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen you in a while, I don't.

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Speaker 3: Insit each other three weeks three weeks ago plus.

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Speaker 1: We dig into Mark's past to see what he's learned,

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if anything. Was there a lesson that radio taught you? Yeah,

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never going radio, and Laura gets kind of deep.

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Speaker 2: I was like on the ground, crumbled in tears, and

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then I built myself back up to where I was

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like so content, happy by myself, like feeling successful, feeling

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like I love where my life is right now. And

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so I just don't think I could ever go back

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down that far, you know what I mean. So I

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would just never allow myself to get to that point.

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Chrysler Dots Jeep Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well,

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hello and welcome. I'm so excited. I wanted like we

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had an incident earlier last week, and then I got

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an incident. An incident.

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Speaker 4: It was just in a little incident.

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Speaker 1: And Laura's here and Marcus here. Yeah, I'm very excited

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about this because you know, one of the big things

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coming up is Laura's extravaganza fortieth birthday party.

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Speaker 4: Oh there's a party going out. I didn't know about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean apparently you didn't. And I would like to, uh,

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you know, I would like to away play for Laura.

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Speaker 2: I love that park right away and knows where this

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is going.

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Speaker 1: I would like to play for Laura the part where

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Mark realized he was not invited to your fortieth birthday

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extravaganza and here we go.

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Speaker 5: This is uh, this is the segment.

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Speaker 3: Twins find a way to play a song?

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Speaker 1: So why are you taking? My name is Mark? I

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think we get him on.

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Speaker 4: I think they should come on, yeah.

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Speaker 1: It might be at Laura's party. Oh yeah, what about

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that's what? Wait? What what a bunch of uh.

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Speaker 4: People have on this show stirring the pot?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, now let it go. I was

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literally texting with your buddy Matt right before this. I'm like,

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this whole group is all pot stars. We love to

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push each other.

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Speaker 4: Do you know I want to go down different day?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 3: But see right here, this is a nice I have nothing.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing when someone made a remark to me

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that Laura is talking about all this cool stuff and

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you want to talk about and you want to talk

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about a conspiracy theory about Helen Keller, who someone to work?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: So what am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: But everyone here, Laura, Manton and Kevin together with the

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me on And it wasn't meant to be an insult, wasn't.

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I didn't I disliked anybody, you know, it wasn't met

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LinkedIn but everybody you were but.

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Speaker 1: Hurt not really, Let's keep it rolling, okay, Laura, Laura Watts,

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Laura has thoughts. Yeah, we heard about that little world discussion.

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It's gonna be one by is a and one breakfast

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burrito for everybody, and it'll feed everybody. Well, you might

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have to get Joe his own. Yeah, yeah, joking, jo

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Joe's a big he's a big guy. Now we don't

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mean that insultingly.

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Speaker 2: Oh you know that man can just like.

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Speaker 1: But I remember when Laura found out she had a

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medical problem. But she's like, I'm putting on weight and

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she goes and I always I think it's Joe. He

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had not jos.

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Speaker 2: He comes home and takes me at nine o'clock. On

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his drive home, is like, I'm gonna stop at Tackle Bell.

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I'm gonna stop and get a chicken sandwich. Do you

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want something? And I'm like no, But then he comes

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over and he's sitting on the couch with it, and

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then I'm like, give me a bite.

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Speaker 1: I need some stuff. That is gonna be a fun party.

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I hope you're I hope you're there. That wasn't invited

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just to fuck you work? Where Where was I invited?

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You should gun in text? I got invite on Facebook?

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A Facebook invite. You don't even know if you got to.

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Speaker 4: We're going from Laura's to Greg's party and iron smoke.

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Speaker 1: Greg I might have to just say what day is

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that one?

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Speaker 4: I'm going as you're going where I'm going to Gregg's party?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Not hang on, So first I gotta say Facebook. I

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it's funny because a lot of my friends don't even

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use Facebook anymore. But I was like, how do you

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send a party invite anymore? Because some people are on

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the internet. I can't text like fifty people. I don't

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want to and I don't want to text.

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Speaker 1: What well if you did, like okay, because I'm going

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are we at an age where you think like an

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evite is I don't know, too casual, but an engraved

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mailed out invitation is too culty? You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Well, evites. I've had friends who use them. I use

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them a lot for my kid's birthday parties. But I

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don't know. I don't have everyone's email addresses. I haven't

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used them like that. But I was joking at my gym.

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I was like, I wish I did like print out flyers.

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Speaker 1: Or something flyers Like it's a rager. I just saw

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old school when they did the flyers everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Like friends, Yeah, did send invitations to via Facebook? They're like,

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it's not even showing up for me. I don't know,

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so I like asked some people. I'm like, have you

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gotten it? And they're like nope. Even my one niece

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who's twenty three. You think she'd be on social media.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here is Uh that was a good butt.

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Speaker 2: It was a really nice ass that just walked by.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything seventeenth So what would it be

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under They don't know the party. You don't even look

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at your ship, so don't worry.

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Speaker 4: I did look at my ship.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe they didn't get an invite.

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Speaker 4: I didn't get an invite it that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: Now now here comes some some shit story. Man. You

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could go there and probably see you picks galore, do

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not you can see you in one of those bonus rooms,

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and will we all watch that? Not be watch for free?

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I'll put up open some stadium seating in there. Oh yeah,

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actually I might let you watch for free. She got

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a freaky he never know, Laura might, but that's true.

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ship stirring part. This this is what I thought. I'm

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sure you got invited. I didn't. Okay, but you're you're welcome.

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people that made her happy. Such a dick. Okay, Oh,

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I forgot about you, sir.

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Speaker 4: In the fire, I was thinking about Cavin and Madge.

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Speaker 1: Come on, what a deck. Who's the one who could

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always get it? What a deck? She did wrong? Yes, man,

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I was surprised. But Matt, that's true. That's true. So

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apparently you know. Of course, I'm sure you got invited,

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and there's no way you didn't. I just sent her

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a text because she likes you and I work that

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worked on. I'm sure you do. I know seven days. Wait,

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you get a plus one so you could bring Marianne.

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Speaker 2: You ended it too early, yeah, because then then Kevin

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texted me and it was like, hey, what's Holman invited?

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And I wrote, no, there's gonna be too many personal

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big personality.

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Speaker 4: Which Matt, Matt love him dearly, stirring the pot because

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I told him that be TB. I said, you guys, yeah, lord,

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you guys, I'll go on another night. Seriously, I go

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too many personalities And.

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Speaker 3: It was a compliment. It wasn't an insult.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't like, oh my god, fucking bitch, I hate her.

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I'm like, no, people would rather listen to her. When

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my friends are telling me that they'd rather listen, I mean,

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I really kind of think we should probably go put

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me in another direction.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, but on a scale, on a

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scale of one to full carry it prom how hurt

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word are you that you wouldn't included I was you

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feel no doubt?

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Speaker 4: I did until the next day, and I didn't give

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a fuck.

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Speaker 5: Wow, I knew it.

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Speaker 1: You knew it. I felt I kind of liked it.

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It was good, it was great drama.

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Speaker 2: Well, and then I just said I was so glad

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because literally that night, Matt text me right away and

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he's like, I am dying that you just use the

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too many personalities card. I'm like, of course, I'm quick

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like and I'm very thankful that Bill picked up on

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my reference.

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Speaker 1: Did No? I did it? Bill?

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Speaker 4: Nobody understood what was you didn't how did you pick up?

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Speaker 1: You didn't even know? I can't. I don't know. That

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was like a week, but I remember the thing, and

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I blamed you it first.

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Speaker 4: I said, I said, geez, I tell you something, you

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go back and fucking say something I didn't. I didn't

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do it, right, I know who did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah right? Yeah? But the but the personalities thing, it

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was funny. I knew what she meant. I knew she

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was just saying it was a funny thing. It was

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too many persons. I just thought it was funny.

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Speaker 4: You fucking douchebags.

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Speaker 2: Why so anyway, So I'm I'm.

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Speaker 1: Gonna go back to FM radio. No you're not. But

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I was just forty. She forgets a few things, now,

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yeah right, I mean she forgot to invite you, she

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forgets passwords. It happens.

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Speaker 4: Well, I haven't been here on Monday, so I forget.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen you in a while. I don't like

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you saw each other.

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Speaker 4: Three weeks three weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's the week after that you said that

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there's too many personalities.

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Speaker 1: I said that. I said that the day after that.

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Speaker 2: Well, then the week after is when Matt told me.

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And I'm like cracking up because I know I'm a

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lot like I always have that, but I was like, oh,

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I was like, Mark hates me because he says too

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many personalities. And then I was even telling Bill I

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love reading some comments now and seeing how people are,

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like I like Mark Moore, I go right back, So

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do I love that?

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Speaker 4: People say, you know, all the guys, all the guys

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love I love you.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, I but then so.

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Speaker 3: I Marianne actually mary Anne likes you.

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Speaker 6: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I was so joking around. I told Ma. I was like, well,

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mari Anne's invited, so heurplus ones.

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Speaker 1: Laura's fortieth were Eventually everyone's invited.

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Speaker 2: I literally as long as people come and have a

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great time.

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Speaker 4: You've been dying to do this, Yes, you've been so

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excited when you both agreed to come in, I was like,

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this is fucking awesome.

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Speaker 1: I think it's great in a way. To get it out,

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I did, though, take some time to write an invitation

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to Laura's party to you, Mark, if you'd like to,

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If you'd like me to read it to you, I'd

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be happy to do that and Laura can hear it

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as well, if that's all right. Okay, dearest Mark, it

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has come to our attention, tragically late and with deep

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emotional cost, that you were not formally invited to Laura's

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fortieth birthday extravaganza. Please accept this hand delivered podcast a knowledge,

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spiritually binding invitation as proof that you were always in

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our hearts but not on the original guest list story

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in my life. This grievous oversight is in no way

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a reflection of your value as a friend, podcast contributor,

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or occasional bringer of dirty stories. It's simply a result

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of Laura turning forty in her memory, becoming less sharp

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and more Google calendar dependent. And I saw her Google calendar.

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It's color coded. It's color coded. We are thrilled, nay

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honored to now formally invite you to Laura's fortieth birthday

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people who make her happy and Mark Saturday, May seventeenth,

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four o'clock unless you're mad, show up at five. Dress

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code forgiveness, casual vibe, joyful chaos with hints of champagne

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and low stakes emotional damage, and mark as a VIP

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very ignored person your attendance. Your attendance includes one awkward

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hug from Laura, unlimited shade, and the last slice of

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birthday cake. If one no one's watching RSVP, by saying

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something passive aggressive on the podcast, or just showing up

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and pretending like it never happened with love, laughter, and

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a mild amount of guilt.

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Speaker 5: The birthday committee, which is just Laura fun It sounds.

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Speaker 1: Like all three, all three of me on Monday, all

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three on Monday.

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Speaker 2: I wrote that time to write that I love that

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I did just send you the invite. You are more

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than invite.

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Speaker 5: I invited. I knew you were invited.

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Speaker 2: It was just so funny, Like I actually had to

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go through it again this week because there I realized

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that there had been people I meant to invite and

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I just did it.

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Speaker 4: You did invite on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: I did it on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's saying that people weren't getting it right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Or if there were people who I was like,

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oh my god, this is one of my good friends

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that I forgot to even click on her when you're

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going through it.

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Speaker 1: Who deserves milestone birthdays? Like I've never really, I've never

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had a milestone birthday party. I haven't. I didn't do

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one for forty, I didn't do one for fifty. I

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might throw.

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Speaker 5: Myself a sixtieth if I make it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, if I make it

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my thirtieth. I had just had my first kid, so

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I tooty thirtieth. I like one of my friends was

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like what are my mom was like, what do you

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want to do today? I was like, shower, I had

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a three week old, Like I literally there was nothing

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I was doing in life, Like I loved it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, did you ever thirtieth? Yeah, it was

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like a big bash.

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Speaker 4: It was a change friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh nice, Oh you did too. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It was at my brother's by dark Siders.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: That's when I proposed to my my girlfriend at the

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time on my fucking birthday at my birthday party and

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she said no no, she said yes.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, you just you just avoided that divorce line.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, avoided a lot of divorces.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Uh, we have not been as lucky, right.

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Speaker 1: No, Well, who deserves to be like at your milestone,

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because you did say it was people who make me happy,

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which were honored that that we can be in that crew. Seriously,

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but I think there are people that will be at

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the party who don't make you happy. We had to

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invite it? Who you kind of had to like me? No, no,

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like you got well maybe I really.

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Speaker 2: I I was honestly really intentional, Like there were some

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people that where I was like yeah, and that was

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like I don't think that they would be as fun.

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I like, I have an inflatable pub, Like I'm gonna

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have an inflatable pub in the front Like.

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Speaker 1: An inflatable pub I don't even know about that. Yeah,

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in the front of the house.

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Speaker 2: In the front yard, because it won't fit in my back.

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Speaker 1: How big is this thing?

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Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five?

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm not gonna work next Saturday.

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Speaker 4: We're going you got please?

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Speaker 2: I'm getting I mean, Matt's doing that.

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Speaker 1: I would love to hang out with you outside of here.

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We haven't done that in fucking years. We went over

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the No, we did, but I'm just saying, how do

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you do that?

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Speaker 4: Let me think about it. No, No, I don't think

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about it. I just got to make sure that I,

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you know, Marian's probably gonn won't be the one that

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wants that's gonna get hammered.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I want to with Mary Anne.

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Speaker 4: Oh you guys, she'll you you, She's she's fun. She

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went out last night to go see a band and

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I was home in bed by seven.

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Speaker 1: We had a happy hour yesterday at.

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Speaker 2: bTB catering the party for me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, right.

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Speaker 4: And everything BDB does is excellent. Yes, they do yes,

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they did the little party room. And I discovered something

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though about not being invited to things. I honestly think

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because because last night was a it was an invite

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for everybody. You know, everybody can see in. I think

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they have parties and they don't invite me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that does, I have to admit, because I'll sit

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here in my first reactions and asked, so what. But

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it does. It depends on who it is for me,

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whether it stings or not that truly, because there are

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some people. I mean, you think of it this way.

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It's like if someone calls you up and goes, hi,

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I'm never calling you again, and you have no idea

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who it is, and I you know, for the rest

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of your life and slams the phone down the.

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Speaker 5: Old school style, you wouldn't care.

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Speaker 1: But if it's somebody that it's sort of like you've

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gotten to know these people, people, you like them, you

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hang out with them, you've opened up to them a

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little bit, and all of a sudden you're not included.

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That's stings.

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Speaker 2: People that you like are going to be there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you like look at it and see like, oh,

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that's a good group of people, Like that's gonna be

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a fun time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm going on my third year. I'll

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be going on my third year there. Yeah, and there's

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just people that just maybe because I'm older, I don't know,

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because I'm a lot older than them than most of

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the people that are there. Yeah, so I don't know.

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There's just people that I don't know if it's because

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they've heard about me, you know what I'm saying, if

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they heard you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Greece.

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Speaker 4: Greece is a very very very big small town, small

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a little small you know, everybody knows each other. So

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I just wonder what people what people really.

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Speaker 1: Hear about you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I want I'd love to hear it what they hear.

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I did say one time that everything is that whatever

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they heard about me is all true.

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Speaker 2: People talk about me. I just don't care. I just say, like, I.

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Speaker 7: Literally don't care who who says it about you, Like

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outside of here, a jealous girl, the woman who.

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Speaker 2: Called and tried to sue because I told the story

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that was true.

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Speaker 4: And that comes out all the time, and you just

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get and you look. I like like that I didn't

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he was that.

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Speaker 5: I have no idea, but like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean people will be like, yeah, Laura did this,

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Laura did that, Like somehow some of it's true, some

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of it's not. But I'm not going to let any

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negativity affect me. Is that a word negativity?

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Speaker 1: You said negativity? I was like, wait that, I kind

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of like that better. I didn't mean to be like

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that was a thing about my father. I just meant

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it like, oh, that's an interesting way to say it.

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Speaker 2: Or there's rumors and I just I don't even yeah,

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engage in that.

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Speaker 1: I've been the same way on radio everything. I just

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didn't even care.

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Speaker 4: It's just did in our whole life, for my whole life,

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for six years, was on you know, it was on

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the radio, just like yours was. Yeah, and it's like,

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you know when we did fucked I did fucked up shit,

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and it's like, but that was thirty years ago, right,

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so you know a lot of people listening to this

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and you know, yeah, I did fucked up shit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but actually we all did know we could, we could.

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Speaker 2: Tell of our story. It's what makes you you like

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you learn from these things and it's I don't know,

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it's insight into who you are.

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Speaker 1: It is insight to who you are. And I think

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that what I loved as I got further into my

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radio career was developing the people not on air, showing

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them is more of the three D that they are

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versus the character on the radio kind of thing. I think,

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to me, that is so much more relatable and authentic,

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and that I would say if radio taught me the

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value of being human, vulnerable, you know, and authentic and

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it's okay to have these flaws because somewhere somebody's going

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to relate to it. And I, you know, you can

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say all the stuff about Laura, and I think Laura's

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fantastic too. But I have had people say to me,

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I didn't know Mark, and I love him. I love

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when he gets himself all worked up and his hands

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start going like I hear that, and I hope that's not.

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Speaker 5: An insult to you.

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Speaker 1: People really like you. And that's what I like, is

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that because to me, this podcast, you know, people go, oh,

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you do a podcasts. What's it about? Right?

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Speaker 5: What's it about? Because everybody does a niche.

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Speaker 1: Thing about nothing? Right, Well, I guess it is. I

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guess it is about nothing. But I would say, like

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it's about sort of yeah, eavesdropping on a on people's lives,

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you know, get invested, learn something. Yeah, like you somewhere

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along the line, you'll learn something. Mortgange Wing's going to

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be there, one of them. Maybe, right, we didn't even

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invite them. Oh I got a ship. I gotten what

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We shouldn't say that in a mic.

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Speaker 2: But like, I haven't seen them in a while, like,

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and it's sort.

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Speaker 1: Of that would have been awkward. I would have I.

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Speaker 2: Would have blamed the invite to them right now.

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Speaker 4: I would have blamed man. I would have said, freaking,

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this is this guy talking all this ship about you guys,

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and you guys agreed.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I text them, but I haven't seen them

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in a long time, honestly, Yeah, so yeah.

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Speaker 1: Uh, why don't we take a moment? I would I

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have a lot of different angles to go today because

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with Laura turning forty, and Laura has been very open

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on this podcast, and I have some questions that she

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knows exactly where I'm where thinking of going. But I

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don't want to embarrass you. You can also say I

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don't Yeah, I know you don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well do just Joe get pissed off?

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Speaker 2: Though no Joe is so Joe has known this as

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how I've always been like, I know, the first few

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times he listened when I was on, He's like, whoa.

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Speaker 1: Because then his boss was listening awesome.

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Speaker 2: And he was like, maybe you shouldn't listen. But like,

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I'm just I'm never gonna hold back. I'm not gonna lie.

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I'm not ashamed of any part of my life.

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Speaker 1: Amen.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a really really, really really good way

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to live. Yeah, yeah, right, that that is how it

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should be. I'll ask you Mark to think about this too,

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because you and I are similar aids. So what you've

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learned in your fifties that you couldn't have grasped at thirty,

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just think about that like something that you could I got,

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I know, I figured, he did.

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Speaker 5: I figured. And we will get to that right after this.

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Speaker 1: bTB would fire Pizza and Grill and the mall at

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Grease Rich. You have heard everyone on the Billified podcast

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Speaker 4: Sorry, so sorry.

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Speaker 1: That is I'm sorry that was just Come on.

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Speaker 2: Can we have a follow up from the last five minutes? Yeah,

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that Mark has now accepted our apology invitation. Nice taken

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off of work for next Saturday. Yes, and it's pretty

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much booked. One of my guest rooms pretty much, or sleep.

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Speaker 1: In the car. The pub, the inflatable pub. Yes, what

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is this?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So if you it's instapub on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 2: My friends purchased this and they did. They do it

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as a rental, like you can rent the inflatable.

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Speaker 1: Pub and they'll come and set it all up.

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Speaker 2: They come and set it up. There's picnic tables, you

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can get a bar, there's a bar, there's you know.

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Speaker 1: A little fence.

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Speaker 2: It looks like a small like in Ireland.

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Speaker 1: No, it looks like Fairport Brewery. Yeah, I mean that's

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what it sort of looks like with the Yeah, but like.

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Speaker 2: A small pub and Ireland, so they rented out.

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Speaker 1: When you have a bar, is it a real bar,

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it's not an inflatable bar.

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Speaker 2: No, it's real bar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And but everything else is inflatable with this structure.

543
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Oh okay, so wow, But.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it won't fit in my backyard because it's twenty

545
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five twenty five, So in my front yard. Do you

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have a bartender or is it like, no, I'm not

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gonna do liquor. Yeah, no, licker liquor is gonna.

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Speaker 1: But like I was thinking, beer, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna do beer and seltzer and then champagne.

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And so I'm have a bartender.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like I just know wine.

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Speaker 2: Huh. I may have wine. I'll have champagne, but I

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don't want to have to deal with mixing and everything.

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But yeah, so we're just gonna I'll just have coolers.

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Like I said, I'm gonna have McCarthy do some high tops.

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So I just I literally want you to walk in

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and just be like fuck yeah, here we.

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Speaker 1: Go, Fuck yeah, here we go. You even talked about

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putting a bounce house in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: The bounce house, I'm gonna try that. I have like

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an inflatable slide. I have a lifeguard.

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Speaker 1: You had a lifeguard with no bartender. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Well because I want my friends to be able to

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party and not worry about their kids in the pool.

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Speaker 1: There's any kids there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, but my kids are ten and eight.

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Speaker 5: So I'm gonna go streaking.

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Speaker 2: Probably that's what Lucas would shrink with you along, we

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can run. I live the street that I live on.

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I live on a circle and it's like zero point

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three miles. We could do like relay where you says

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where you have to do a shot at the end.

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Speaker 4: Or there's a video of a girl on mile I

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amnue run around naked.

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Speaker 1: I saw that. I saw. I think it was a hooker.

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It was definitely trying to escape a situation, is what

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it seemed like things got bad. She's running naked. I

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saw that. Oh yeah, what does it say too? Because

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since you brought up Instagram that I've been getting in

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my feed lately, how like a Tito's bottle? Right, somebody

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buys a Tito's bottle of vodka and you add kool

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Aid packed to it. Mix it up, so you got

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like a grape kool Aid and they and they say,

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pour that, put in a little bit of like lime soda,

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and you have like a summer drink, summer coacta. And

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now I'm sitting there going.

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Speaker 2: That sounds fantastic, but yeah, that would be really good.

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Speaker 1: Right, or or let's say it's not. You don't need

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kool Aid, all right, maybe kool Aid's two powers. I

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don't know, but try it. Yeah, Like, buy the bottle,

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add the stuff, mix it up, keep it in the freezer,

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add some lime soda. They had like a little flour

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a couple of blueberries drink.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen that thing about Sauvignon blanc and frozen jalapenos.

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They're saying that that's supposed to be like a fantastic mix.

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Speaker 1: Wait, frozen halopenos in your savinil blanc in savin Blanc, Well,

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Savignion blanc is pretty sugary, right.

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Speaker 2: It's crisp. It's a crisp white.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like it like it's I drank a lot in

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the summer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. And I love I love like that

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spice a female.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 2: But like I know you drink wine too, and I

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mean I love wine.

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Speaker 1: I've come to love wine. And I owe somebody in

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an apology and I'll just say his name out there,

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Chris Crowley, who I used to make fun of for

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drinking wine all the time.

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Speaker 5: I apologize now because I love it.

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Speaker 2: I'm going on Webster today has this thing called the

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Webster Wine Walk, and it's from four until seven.

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Speaker 1: Is a bunch of wives bitching halfway there.

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Speaker 2: I'm going with a group of couple couples and while

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it's twenty five dollars, you get a glass and then

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you go to at least ten vendors and they give

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you drinks and like snaps samples of food and stuff.

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Speaker 5: Wow yeah this so maybe I'll bring.

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Speaker 2: My own jalapenos.

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Speaker 1: It could be pretty good. Yeah, Mark, you have seen

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people at their most raw and exposed from like being

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a pub owner. You were co owner of pob while

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in the DJ booth, I say DJ both, but in

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the radio all the things you've done, like everything you've done,

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and it's kind of like been watching from a one

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way mirror sometimes I.

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Speaker 5: Got a thing, but what is it?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't mean that, but but what have you

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learned in your fifties now that you couldn't have grasped

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in your thirties? Do you think?

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Speaker 4: Well, let's put it this way. Let me use let

632
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me use a movie and TV to explain the answer.

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The other day we watched I was in the training

634
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class about how to talk to you know, students and stuff,

635
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and they showed us the clip on the Breakfast Club

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where the teacher is saying the bender is giving him

637
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all the detentions. Yeah, and I'm watching it and I

638
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remember being thirteen years old watching it going, well, the

639
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guy's a dick, you know. You know. Now i'm watching it,

640
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I'm looking at Bendroom. What a fucking punk? Yeah, you know,

641
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I look at that differently. When I watched Friends, for instance,

642
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I hated Ross. I thought he was a dumb, stupid character.

643
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Now I watched it back, he's my favorite character. So

644
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why is because he's fought me. His lines were funny,

645
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which I didn't understand a twenty something, and he's just

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you know, he was it was just as what he

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was saying, how he was saying interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So yeah, so you appreciate some things differently.

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Speaker 4: Because you just yeah, you you change and you see

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things in a totally different way.

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Speaker 5: Well, see, that's the thing I always I mean.

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Speaker 4: I still don't get invited to parties. I didn'tet invited

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the parties when I was you know, it was when

654
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I was eleven and and I'm getting invited to did

655
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he get invited to high school parties? Well, well they're

656
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up the street, so I would just go up and myself, Yeah,

657
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I could see.

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Speaker 1: Well I always think, like, do we ever really change?

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And I go, yeah, I think you're not the same

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person you were like two three years ago. No, right,

661
00:34:02,799 --> 00:34:05,119
all the experiences in life that you have and just

662
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,199
the way you see and you're right, you see things

663
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maybe differently or for what they are, right, you know

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what I mean. Do you have any regrets when you

665
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look back or do you just go I was all

666
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part of the evolution.

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Speaker 4: I do have regrets. There's a lot of regrets, but

668
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it's also things that I wanted to do right and

669
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I did it, and it's you know, and uh, I

670
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guess I shouldn't say regrets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like regrets. I wish I handled differently

672
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that's a great way. Like I think regrets, you learn

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your lessons. It's part of your growth. It makes to

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who you are. But there are definitely things I wish

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I handled differently.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of things I wish I had handled

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differently too.

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Speaker 4: I think I see a time warn on the way

679
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too long. Okay, I hated I hated that job towards

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the end, but I knew. I knew that they were

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going to get rid of us and give us a severance.

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So I hung I hung on for the last five years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what was common? Yeah, but I'm going man mark

684
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,280
poor drinks probably once in a while, you know, just

685
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for managed. Bar was in radio, dabbled in radio sales,

686
00:35:12,199 --> 00:35:14,960
which is I'll say dabbled. I don't know. I liked

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radio sales.

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Speaker 4: It was easy for me because I was selling something.

689
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I was selling something that I was on. Yeah, you know,

690
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I mean that was selling for you guys. I wouldn't

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sell for Bill because I was mad at him.

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Speaker 5: So it would be true.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend who's in radio right now, and

694
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she was saying, how a place that she was trying

695
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to do like a deal with personally, They were like, well,

696
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can't you just mention us on the radio, and she's like,

697
00:35:44,199 --> 00:35:47,360
you don't understand how like radio works. And they're like, well,

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why can't you just say us on the radio? She

699
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was like, look, I'm just going to back out of

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this agreement because you guys are not understanding.

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Speaker 1: Only one person get away with doing that. Yeah you know,

702
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:05,079
yeah that's true. But you even dodge bullets literally yeah

703
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,000
yeah at the liquor store.

704
00:36:07,199 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 4: Oh fuck yeah, I fucking place. But but if it

705
00:36:12,039 --> 00:36:14,280
wasn't for that to happen, I wouldn't be where I

706
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:14,840
am right now.

707
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: This is right, That's what I'm saying. It's like, it's

708
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,079
all part of the evolution, because it's Laura saying I

709
00:36:19,119 --> 00:36:22,000
have no regrets. There are things with my older boys

710
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:26,239
I wish I had done differently, or I had more patience,

711
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:30,360
or I paid more something, and you go, but it's

712
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,320
all part of the evolution. You didn't know it then.

713
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,840
You weren't trying to do something that was gonna not

714
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,400
fully benefit everybody.

715
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 5: You just didn't know.

716
00:36:38,519 --> 00:36:43,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like even the things that you regret or

717
00:36:43,519 --> 00:36:46,480
you know, wish you would have handled differently, you learn

718
00:36:46,559 --> 00:36:49,480
things from them. They teach you stuff about yourself and

719
00:36:50,599 --> 00:36:53,079
I don't know, like there's nothing that I would fully

720
00:36:53,519 --> 00:36:57,280
take back. It's just yeah, you know, things taught me

721
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,440
what I want in life, you know, and what I'll

722
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,639
never stand for again.

723
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 1: Wow. That's a powerful statement right there. That's very powerful,

724
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:12,880
like that I'll never stand for again. Wow. Are there

725
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,639
is there one thing and without prying to it to say,

726
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,840
you can say, are there several things you wouldn't stand for? Oh?

727
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:19,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah?

728
00:37:20,119 --> 00:37:22,599
Speaker 1: What would be just one that's a little more innocuous,

729
00:37:22,599 --> 00:37:23,920
but something that people could relate to.

730
00:37:25,039 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 2: I would say having a passionate romance, like just having

731
00:37:31,159 --> 00:37:38,559
passion in love with your partner, like and I sadly

732
00:37:39,159 --> 00:37:42,679
see so many couples that there's no passion there and

733
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,880
whether and they're like, oh, it's because of the age

734
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:48,280
of the kids, and I you know, I don't know

735
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:54,800
if you can blame that on everything. Like I'll also

736
00:37:55,039 --> 00:37:59,800
I'll never put myself in a position where I feel

737
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,760
like people are demeaning to me or talking down to me,

738
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,239
don't treat me as an equal or you know, respect what.

739
00:38:06,159 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: I have respect in some way, right.

740
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,519
Speaker 2: Like, you know, I think some people sometimes even with

741
00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:16,280
my business, they look and they're like, holy shit, that's

742
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,199
what you do. Like they don't realize what I do

743
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,400
and what I have built, right exactly.

744
00:38:21,559 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, is there something you won't stand for? I'm trying

745
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,119
to think of like something I wouldn't stand for, because

746
00:38:26,119 --> 00:38:28,360
I think, I just I think there's things I wouldn't

747
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,679
stand for. I just avoided. Like I.

748
00:38:33,599 --> 00:38:35,639
Speaker 4: No, I don't even regret, but I wish did I went.

749
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:39,000
I wish I was a teacher. I wish I was

750
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,199
much Debt's where I went. I didn't realize that that's

751
00:38:42,559 --> 00:38:45,559
what I liked, that I liked and wanted to do. Yeah,

752
00:38:45,679 --> 00:38:49,039
I don't have kids. I thought I didn't even like kids.

753
00:38:52,639 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: But you're you're more than that. Like you're giving emotional

754
00:38:55,559 --> 00:38:59,679
support to kids who need support.

755
00:38:59,559 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 4: You know, and these kids all you know, these kids

756
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,880
mean a lot. I mean they do, They mean a lot,

757
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:06,519
and it's like, you know, I just think. You know,

758
00:39:07,039 --> 00:39:09,320
being in radio was so cool in the nineties, right

759
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,440
because we got to do everything. Yeah you know what

760
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,199
twenty something year ol didn't want to do?

761
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 1: That? Was there a lesson that radio taught you? Yeah?

762
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:21,199
Never going radio? I loved my time in radio. I

763
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,880
didn't hate it. I didn't I didn't hate it. You know,

764
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,000
I had a different, slightly different path, right.

765
00:39:26,079 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, when you get you know, they pay you as

766
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,400
little as they possibly could, you know, and.

767
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: Well they do you start out. I mean, I think

768
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,599
my first year in radio, I made fifteen grand when

769
00:39:35,639 --> 00:39:39,840
I was in my first Yeah, a long ass time ago.

770
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,920
It was my salary in nineteen ninety four of mid nineties. Yeah,

771
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:49,679
it's not much more than make it out and yeah,

772
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,800
so that was that's how it started. And when I left,

773
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:56,360
it wasn't It wasn't that at all. Yeah, but you knew,

774
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:00,400
I just I wanted to do it. I I didn't care.

775
00:40:01,119 --> 00:40:03,480
I was just happy someone would pay me to do it. Yeah,

776
00:40:03,519 --> 00:40:04,039
I didn't care.

777
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,679
Speaker 2: Well, it's like it's the goal that you set for yourself.

778
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: That eventually you want it to be. That was it.

779
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,880
That's all I wanted. That was all I wanted. Yeah, Yeah,

780
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,280
I liked it for a lot of different reasons. And

781
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:18,000
then as I got in, Uh, I found out those

782
00:40:18,039 --> 00:40:21,480
reasons weren't the ones I really you know, it evolved.

783
00:40:21,599 --> 00:40:24,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, in goals can I think people set goals for

784
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,800
themselves when they're younger, and then as you age, as

785
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,320
you get all these life experiences, your goals can change.

786
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,840
And yeah, I mean there was no looking at my

787
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,719
band aid? Is that what I did?

788
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: Look at your band aid? Earlier? I liked that college

789
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,719
I was. I was. I was having a thought honestly,

790
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,480
like I didn't. I will tell you that, and then

791
00:40:42,599 --> 00:40:44,280
maybe you can relate to that. I don't know if

792
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:48,360
you can, because did you You were part of shows?

793
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,599
Speaker 4: Well I did. I did on Saturday nights when no

794
00:40:51,639 --> 00:40:54,920
one else until they decided to go automated, no one

795
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,800
else wanted. And Saturday nights from seven to midnight, no

796
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:57,840
one listens to the radio.

797
00:40:58,039 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, except for my mom. There were people using radio.

798
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 5: They called it.

799
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,639
Speaker 1: The PR levels was very low for this town. But

800
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:11,519
uh yeah, I think for I just lost my train

801
00:41:11,559 --> 00:41:14,039
of thought because I had what we were talking something

802
00:41:14,079 --> 00:41:15,199
that radio taught me.

803
00:41:15,599 --> 00:41:18,039
Speaker 2: Oh, I was saying, when you set your goals, but

804
00:41:18,079 --> 00:41:20,159
your goals can change as you go through life.

805
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:25,199
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think when I started in radio, I didn't

806
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,440
realize how boring it was.

807
00:41:29,159 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 2: You had a glamorous picture in your head.

808
00:41:31,559 --> 00:41:35,559
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't that. It was like, I wasn't a

809
00:41:35,599 --> 00:41:37,800
big music guy. My parents didn't play a lot of

810
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,719
music in the house. Occasionally there were a lot of

811
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,519
like show tunes and things. When my sister started doing

812
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,480
theater stuff, and so those would blast throughout the house

813
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,719
and I give a shirt, and there was some Simon

814
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,719
and Garfunkel, but my parents weren't like really kind of

815
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:57,039
into that stuff. And I liked the personalities I heard.

816
00:41:57,119 --> 00:41:59,440
I liked the funny people. I liked the guys that

817
00:41:59,519 --> 00:42:02,119
did these theater of the mind. I could see it.

818
00:42:02,199 --> 00:42:05,000
I could see all of it. So when I started,

819
00:42:06,119 --> 00:42:08,920
I started on the original hits, the forties, fifties, and sixties,

820
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,599
playing like the Frank Sinatra Hour and different stuff. And

821
00:42:11,639 --> 00:42:13,800
then they had me do fill in for the morning guy,

822
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,199
and I had to be all serious and then if

823
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,000
I was good, they were going to put me on

824
00:42:19,039 --> 00:42:21,360
their FM station, which was the rock station I wanted

825
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:26,079
to be on. And I started, and I was doing

826
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,000
for the summer between my junior and senior year at Fisher.

827
00:42:30,119 --> 00:42:32,800
I was doing midnight to six for the summer, so

828
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,800
I would go in my shift would started midnight at

829
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:39,119
gustas well. In a way, it really was and I

830
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,079
wound up not going back to Fisher, and I stayed

831
00:42:42,119 --> 00:42:44,360
for the rest of that year. I did midnight to

832
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,679
six and then I eventually went back to Fisher the

833
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:50,840
next year, and I would get bored. Man, I would

834
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,679
get so fucking bored playing music like I hated it.

835
00:42:54,159 --> 00:42:57,519
So wow, yeah, well, I thought.

836
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 2: You liked well because it was talk.

837
00:42:59,559 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: No, I love talking to the listener. So I started

838
00:43:03,039 --> 00:43:05,480
doing shit like I didn't know what to do. I'm nineteen,

839
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:08,480
twenty years old, twenty I must have been twenty one.

840
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:12,400
I had turned twenty one that year that summer, so

841
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,960
I was twenty one and I would I started Who's

842
00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:17,719
Up and Why at three o'clock and I would get

843
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,719
people to call up and they would tell us why.

844
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,800
And one lady was the shit shepherd at a local thing,

845
00:43:23,119 --> 00:43:25,599
and I learned that there were blue laws, so you

846
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:27,559
could let a shit fly over the radio and that

847
00:43:27,599 --> 00:43:30,159
get tagged by the FCC. If ever it was after

848
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,760
ten and before seven am or five am or something

849
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,800
like that. So I let that go. I thought that

850
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,599
was the coolest thing I could do on radio, right,

851
00:43:36,679 --> 00:43:40,360
let her say shit. I had this one guy who

852
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,599
always called up talking about he couldn't sleep because his

853
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,320
girlfriend dumped him a couple months ago, and that he

854
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,880
would call so frequently that I started playing everybody hurts

855
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:56,039
underneath him. And then I would end am no yeah,

856
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,559
rim and then I would end the phone call because

857
00:43:58,559 --> 00:43:59,079
it was taped.

858
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 5: The phone call was taped.

859
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,039
Speaker 1: I would do this while the music's playing, right, and

860
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:06,760
I thought this was very high humor. At twenty one.

861
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:11,599
I ended it with a gunshot, just fucking and then

862
00:44:11,599 --> 00:44:14,639
I would just have a dial tone play can't do that,

863
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,559
you can do that now. And so then he'd call back,

864
00:44:17,639 --> 00:44:19,719
like the next day or sometime. I'm like, oh my god,

865
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:25,280
he's alive again. Oh what'd you miss? I did that?

866
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,719
I used to have aliens that would come down from

867
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,800
the space. I could not do straight radio. I fucking

868
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,280
hated it, man. And then when I came and I

869
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,679
CMF Stan, I sent Stan Maine a tape of me.

870
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,760
I had aliens landing and it was me through a

871
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,599
harmonizer and they're eating the yellow snow and I'm thrown

872
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,119
up and I've got callers and I've got all this shit.

873
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:53,119
And he calls me up and goes, hey, we do

874
00:44:53,159 --> 00:44:54,480
five hours of funny radio day.

875
00:44:54,519 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 5: Can you do straight radio?

876
00:44:56,119 --> 00:44:59,159
Speaker 1: And I'm like yeah, And so I did for like

877
00:44:59,199 --> 00:45:01,559
a month and he let me do it. Yeah, And

878
00:45:01,599 --> 00:45:03,320
then he just let me kind of go after that.

879
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,960
But that I couldn't. I couldn't do the long music stuff.

880
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,679
That's why, like even afternoons and things, I love taking

881
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,719
the calls. I would just take call. I'd never listen

882
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,559
to the music that was playing. I would keep an

883
00:45:14,599 --> 00:45:14,880
eye on.

884
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 4: Oh you can get some really you get some really

885
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:17,519
fucked up people.

886
00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: Oh what late at night? You know? For sure? I

887
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,480
used to give out the lampshade a shame the people

888
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,639
who did something stupid during the week. I had these

889
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,199
kids call up once and told me they took a

890
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,119
ship in the town of Rynebeck Pool, And my father

891
00:45:29,199 --> 00:45:30,840
was so mad at me because he heard that on

892
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:35,119
the radio and they they said, shit, and you're awarding that,

893
00:45:35,679 --> 00:45:38,400
You're awarding that they're doing something disgusting in the town

894
00:45:38,519 --> 00:45:41,320
that people have to clean that up. And now yeah yeah,

895
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,440
But to me, it was like, yeah, I found what

896
00:45:44,519 --> 00:45:44,920
I wanted.

897
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,599
Speaker 2: You should have something like that here, What do you mean,

898
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:52,800
like callers call in and leave voicemails of the craziest

899
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:53,480
thing they did.

900
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: That week, and then we could do the lampsade of shame. Yeah,

901
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,599
bring it back. That's a great idea.

902
00:45:57,639 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 5: Actually, I never thought of it.

903
00:45:58,800 --> 00:45:59,639
Speaker 1: I never loved that.

904
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, if every day you like tell a

905
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,199
different story or whatever, and then at the end we

906
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:06,119
all vote.

907
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, well we just play them back. Yeah, just call

908
00:46:08,559 --> 00:46:11,400
that five A five two O six eighty eight sixty six. Yes, calm,

909
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,159
we'll start doing the lampshade of shame. Give it's the wildest,

910
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,840
craziest thing that happened to you during the week. Yep, yeah,

911
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,559
whatever's going on? I love that.

912
00:46:19,039 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 4: God, I have nothing. You asked me, what's the craziest

913
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,400
thing I did? Was I went to BTV last night?

914
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,519
Speaker 1: Oh for this week? Yeah, yeah, the craziest thing. I

915
00:46:29,519 --> 00:46:33,800
don't know that I did anything crazy this week. It's

916
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,320
been stressful for me lately.

917
00:46:35,519 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, a little stressful. So that's it.

918
00:46:39,119 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: I'm out a different part point in life. It was

919
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:43,920
crazy a couple of years ago. It was fun.

920
00:46:44,039 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 2: I mean I didn't do anything crazy this week. I

921
00:46:46,039 --> 00:46:52,360
had some like very interesting things happened with work. But like, oh,

922
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,239
I just yesterday afternoon I looked at a forty four

923
00:46:56,440 --> 00:47:01,559
hundred square foot house, complete horror, one point five million

924
00:47:01,639 --> 00:47:05,599
dollars in Pittsford, Like it is going to take me

925
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,960
months and months. I quoted them fifteen thousand dollars and

926
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:13,599
they were like, yeah, we understand. Months months, I'll.

927
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:14,679
Speaker 1: Oh, that's what you quoted them.

928
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like this house is. But it was just like

929
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:23,920
it's one of the craziest homes I've ever seen. Wow, Wow,

930
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,719
this is the basement.

931
00:47:25,599 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's just the basement. Can I hold

932
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,039
it up to that? Yeah, but it's it's somewhat organized.

933
00:47:32,679 --> 00:47:34,760
Oh but you can move around in there.

934
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,159
Speaker 2: You can move around, but it's boxes and boxes. They've

935
00:47:38,199 --> 00:47:41,360
lived in this house since nineteen eighty nine, and there

936
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:48,239
are boxes that we're never opened from their move in

937
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:49,239
nineteen eighty nine.

938
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: Wow, time capsule man.

939
00:47:51,519 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't even know what the hell's in down there.

940
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,199
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, that's true. That's crazy. All right, Well

941
00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:01,800
we'll uh, we'll take a moment. Laura turning forty hits

942
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,840
everyone differently. I don't think it's a bad thing for

943
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:09,960
Laura so far, but I would say what clarity certainly confidence,

944
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,480
and Laura does have a little curiosity.

945
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,519
Speaker 5: I like that. I know, I know we will get

946
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:18,599
to that right after this.

947
00:48:18,679 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: Connorson Ferris handles workers, comp social security, disability and personal

948
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,440
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949
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951
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952
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953
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954
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955
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956
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Call connorson Ferris two six 'in two comp. That's two

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six two comp for Connors in Faris. Have you been

959
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:06,559
to Leo's Bakery and Deli and East Rochester recently? Oh,

960
00:49:06,599 --> 00:49:08,760
you gotta get there. They're open every day so it's

961
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,440
very convenient. It'll satisfy your sweet tooth, your sandwich cravings.

962
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,199
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963
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964
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965
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It's all waiting for you. So what's the best thing

966
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about Leo's Everything. Check them out a Deskbats drive in

967
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East Rochester, because every day is a good day for Leo's.

968
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Because the best thing about Leo's is everything. This the

969
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last real American beer. I don't know. You can check

970
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,079
the don't honest, they don't know what's in the bridge.

971
00:50:01,119 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 2: I think we should get bilified temporary tattoos for next weekend.

972
00:50:06,039 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: How do I do that?

973
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:07,199
Speaker 2: I know?

974
00:50:07,559 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 5: All right, look into it?

975
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 4: Are we doing the show?

976
00:50:10,599 --> 00:50:12,079
Speaker 5: I wasn't going to do a show there. I think

977
00:50:12,119 --> 00:50:13,239
it gets too crazy.

978
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,079
Speaker 1: I told you, I know, but I just I think

979
00:50:17,559 --> 00:50:20,199
I think Kevin had a good point and lugging it out.

980
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:25,599
We'll do something taping earlier that day, but we'll see.

981
00:50:26,079 --> 00:50:28,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean you could always set it up

982
00:50:28,599 --> 00:50:29,880
in like the dining room.

983
00:50:31,079 --> 00:50:33,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know, But I think I want

984
00:50:33,199 --> 00:50:34,639
to go and just enjoy the party. I don't want

985
00:50:34,679 --> 00:50:36,199
to be worried about did the camera's fall?

986
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,159
Speaker 5: Did I got lung? All this ship in.

987
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: So we I think also, I will put pictures up

988
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:48,119
with your approval on the website. Things, but I would,

989
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,239
I would.

990
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,599
Speaker 5: I like to enjoy it. I don't want to get

991
00:50:53,599 --> 00:50:54,400
too crazy.

992
00:50:54,320 --> 00:51:01,679
Speaker 1: But I don't like to Okay, I gotta well, she's divorced,

993
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,159
she's a mom of two, she owns her own business,

994
00:51:04,199 --> 00:51:07,280
she's crushing it. She's like one of the women to watch.

995
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:14,119
She's in a committed relationship, right, but I know that

996
00:51:14,199 --> 00:51:17,239
Laura has and it's been talked about on this podcast.

997
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:22,280
The swinger lifestyle is is curious to you?

998
00:51:23,519 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 4: And now explain what what you what you would curiosity

999
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,639
what your career eyes because there's different types of.

1000
00:51:35,599 --> 00:51:39,159
Speaker 1: Swing ycause okay, yeah, no, I'm sorry to interrupt. What

1001
00:51:39,199 --> 00:51:41,320
I would say to that Mark is it's it's a

1002
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:45,679
great question, but what would your first ideal experience, if

1003
00:51:45,679 --> 00:51:49,440
you were to experience it be for you?

1004
00:51:50,679 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 2: It's not as much just your vision, no judgment, as

1005
00:51:55,920 --> 00:52:02,400
much of a swinger as the voyeurism. Okay, I I

1006
00:52:02,559 --> 00:52:05,039
would love to have somebody watch Joe and I.

1007
00:52:05,199 --> 00:52:06,199
Speaker 3: Joe wouldn't.

1008
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,559
Speaker 1: Really not know.

1009
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 2: And I also think it would be so hot to

1010
00:52:11,519 --> 00:52:15,800
watch another couple like It's not as I'm not as

1011
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:20,320
interested in the partner swapping like okay, okay, just like

1012
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:24,840
the openness of it. It really turns me on.

1013
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:31,079
Speaker 1: It does the op the openness of the voyeuristic aspect.

1014
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I've said, my fantasy is literally like police

1015
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,760
interrogation room and knowing that there's like two tons of people.

1016
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: Behind the yeah, one way mirror. Wow, So that makes

1017
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,960
you what would make you Let's say there was something

1018
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,000
like that. But see, this is where I am always afraid,

1019
00:52:52,079 --> 00:52:56,920
not afraid. I believe sometimes like if you're so turned on,

1020
00:52:58,039 --> 00:53:01,119
like there's a couple things. I think for a lot

1021
00:53:01,159 --> 00:53:04,400
of young guys, I think they get so turned on

1022
00:53:04,679 --> 00:53:08,519
in the moment and then they not and they go,

1023
00:53:08,559 --> 00:53:11,199
oh fuck, I gotta get out of here, like they're uncomfortable.

1024
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 5: What were they doing? They don't know?

1025
00:53:13,639 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're young, right, you don't have the

1026
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,480
maturity on how to handle the situation young, yes, But

1027
00:53:19,639 --> 00:53:21,440
I think a lot of those guys, let's say it

1028
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:26,440
does happen, they handle it better or they don't, you

1029
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:27,719
know what I mean. It's like, I fuck it, reme,

1030
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,280
I'm a human being shut off a little early today.

1031
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,880
But what I'm saying is like in those situations, sometimes

1032
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,880
you would lose and all of a sudden, like do

1033
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,480
you find yourself with the another couple in some way,

1034
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:45,039
or if someone comes over and starts I mean, who knows.

1035
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,679
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I don't judge it. I just

1036
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:55,119
don't know what my levels would be. But like, I mean,

1037
00:53:55,199 --> 00:53:57,280
I've talked to some of my close friends about it too,

1038
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,320
and they're like, Oh, I can see you doing this,

1039
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:00,360
I can see you.

1040
00:54:00,119 --> 00:54:03,159
Speaker 4: In that, But would it be would it be with

1041
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:04,159
someone that you know?

1042
00:54:05,559 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so I had a friend who.

1043
00:54:10,519 --> 00:54:13,519
Speaker 4: I mean, like, if I asked, so, if I asked

1044
00:54:13,559 --> 00:54:16,440
this question, I'm going to say, it has nothing to

1045
00:54:16,519 --> 00:54:18,639
do with me. It's just a question that I want

1046
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:19,920
to ask because I think people.

1047
00:54:20,119 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm going to jump all over you? Yeah, okay,

1048
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:22,880
I can't wait.

1049
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 4: Go ahead, like the person because would you let someone

1050
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,159
watch you that you know? And I'm asking a question,

1051
00:54:31,199 --> 00:54:33,920
that question because I because because he wants to.

1052
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 1: Well no, no, I'm kidding you.

1053
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 2: Finish yours, because then I'll I'll have a foul. I'll

1054
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:41,480
tell you a follow up story.

1055
00:54:41,639 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 4: Well, I want. I always knew the girl.

1056
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: I didn't know the guy.

1057
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 4: I didn't really not every once in a while I

1058
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,519
knew both, but it was always the girl.

1059
00:54:52,039 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: It was my it was my comfort zone.

1060
00:54:54,119 --> 00:54:58,159
Speaker 5: Okay, so that was right and not the not the guy.

1061
00:54:58,280 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 4: Right.

1062
00:54:58,679 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: It made it easier that way, sure, because guys can

1063
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,039
also be territorial uncomfortable change her mind.

1064
00:55:04,679 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 2: Weird happened once I had a female friend asked to

1065
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:15,039
watch me and someone Why wait.

1066
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 4: What don't she can't talk about this on I.

1067
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,119
Speaker 2: Miss something a different name.

1068
00:55:19,159 --> 00:55:22,639
Speaker 1: We'll go with Jake A friend.

1069
00:55:22,679 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: One of my female friends wanted to watch me and Jake,

1070
00:55:25,559 --> 00:55:29,559
and then she was like talking to Jake and was

1071
00:55:29,599 --> 00:55:33,159
like I would want to help Laura orgasm, like could

1072
00:55:33,199 --> 00:55:37,079
I touch her while you two are going at it?

1073
00:55:37,599 --> 00:55:42,079
And like the two of them made the plan without me, Yes,

1074
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:48,360
but he won't unless we have the dart board. But yeah,

1075
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,840
I was like, oh, I'm sort of intrigued by this,

1076
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,920
Like but that was the two of them, like made

1077
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:54,280
this plan?

1078
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:55,119
Speaker 5: Did it happen?

1079
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: No? No, disappointed you were?

1080
00:55:58,519 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 5: You were into that?

1081
00:55:59,440 --> 00:55:59,639
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1082
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:09,079
Speaker 7: Yeah, look, just well I'll just say this, Just talking

1083
00:56:09,119 --> 00:56:12,239
about it as though it's not taboo is somewhat of

1084
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:13,440
a turn on for Yeah.

1085
00:56:13,559 --> 00:56:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I and like I just talk openly about it.

1086
00:56:17,119 --> 00:56:20,519
I mean it's so funny, like I have people. Matt

1087
00:56:20,599 --> 00:56:22,719
sent me a meme today. I was like, yep, that's me.

1088
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: And just be weird, like if you did go to

1089
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,679
a party. Let's say you went to a party and

1090
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,679
you were allowed to just be with your partner and

1091
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,199
everybody knew this, they were all accepting of it, and

1092
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,880
you just wanted to say, then it would be weird,

1093
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:44,239
like if you're in the school drop offline and it's like, hey, Jessica, Well.

1094
00:56:44,119 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 2: That's why I was saying that I know someone who

1095
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,960
went up to Toronto for these types of parties. Oh

1096
00:56:49,119 --> 00:56:58,760
they would, yeah, And I think that that's safer for honestly.

1097
00:56:59,119 --> 00:57:03,000
I also I'm like, if it was not good looking people,

1098
00:57:03,039 --> 00:57:06,159
I would be so turned off. I'd be so turned off.

1099
00:57:06,199 --> 00:57:08,679
And I think that that's what it most likely is.

1100
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:13,559
It's probably not great looking people. Not great looking like

1101
00:57:14,599 --> 00:57:18,559
cleanliness or the smell, Like I feel like I would

1102
00:57:18,559 --> 00:57:22,079
be so turned off. And that's why it's like, is

1103
00:57:22,119 --> 00:57:25,960
it so much hotter to me? Because it's a it's

1104
00:57:26,119 --> 00:57:31,360
just this ideal or idea of like of what it

1105
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:35,159
would be like, where if I actually experience, I would

1106
00:57:35,199 --> 00:57:36,280
be like gross, what.

1107
00:57:36,239 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 1: If there were people in your circle that felt the

1108
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:46,760
same way and wanted to like that person? Yeah, I

1109
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,079
don't know, yeah, Like then it would be different, like if.

1110
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,199
Speaker 2: It was people that you if you even done anything

1111
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,920
like this, Like yeah, Joe has been like, so are

1112
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:56,039
you going to start your olding fans?

1113
00:57:56,039 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, turning forty used to mean buying a wrinkled cream.

1114
00:58:01,719 --> 00:58:03,039
Speaker 2: Oh, I give both talks for that.

1115
00:58:03,679 --> 00:58:07,639
Speaker 1: Now now it means googling how to discreetly RSVP to

1116
00:58:07,719 --> 00:58:10,239
an orgy. It's like, you know what I mean, It's like,

1117
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:11,960
wait a second, what's going on?

1118
00:58:12,679 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 2: But I think like another friend of mine who's a

1119
00:58:15,519 --> 00:58:19,760
couple of years older, who is a single woman. Her

1120
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:21,880
and I have talked about it, and she's like, do

1121
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,039
you think as many people are as like kinky as

1122
00:58:25,079 --> 00:58:27,039
we are? I was like no, She's like, I actually

1123
00:58:27,039 --> 00:58:32,760
think that they are. Just nobody talks about it. Where

1124
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,079
are people who have no shame?

1125
00:58:34,239 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think that in certain segments of the population.

1126
00:58:39,039 --> 00:58:45,000
I think people who maybe people who divorce or get

1127
00:58:45,039 --> 00:58:48,960
out of a relationship realize that there's an important maybe

1128
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:53,239
that was missing, and I think they're much more forward.

1129
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 5: Now, will they change if you've got any commune?

1130
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,599
Speaker 1: I don't have no idea, but I hear stories of stuff,

1131
00:58:57,639 --> 00:59:01,079
and I could see where that would be a big thing.

1132
00:59:01,199 --> 00:59:05,079
I don't know. I'm not sure that I like I

1133
00:59:05,119 --> 00:59:09,039
think I could be talked into going, and then I

1134
00:59:09,159 --> 00:59:11,760
get there and I'd fake an allergy.

1135
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:12,119
Speaker 5: And have to leave.

1136
00:59:12,679 --> 00:59:18,719
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I want tonight huh yeah, yeah,

1137
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:19,440
well I do.

1138
00:59:19,559 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 4: But but when I just miss here.

1139
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to go to some to a galla, I

1140
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:26,039
don't even know where it is.

1141
00:59:26,159 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 5: I have like a complimentary.

1142
00:59:28,719 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: Ticket and a table set up and where I don't know.

1143
00:59:34,639 --> 00:59:36,280
It's for an event. I don't want to see part

1144
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:39,679
of this. No, no, no, So I'll tell you off, Mike.

1145
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,119
But I said to Laura, I go, I have so

1146
00:59:42,199 --> 00:59:45,719
many things that I need to do, and I need to,

1147
00:59:46,199 --> 00:59:48,840
like I'm sorting in that mode today to get stuff done.

1148
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 2: But there are times that for my mental health, yes,

1149
00:59:52,079 --> 00:59:54,639
there are so much I need to do, and I

1150
00:59:55,159 --> 00:59:59,239
get that's when my like ADHD gets overwhelming, because then

1151
00:59:59,239 --> 01:00:02,519
I get that mental freeze and I can't focus, and

1152
01:00:02,559 --> 01:00:04,880
so I go and do something completely different, whether it's

1153
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,119
going to yoga, read a book, like go out and

1154
01:00:08,159 --> 01:00:10,199
take myself out to dinner and have a glass of wine,

1155
01:00:10,239 --> 01:00:12,519
because I just know that I'm gonna sit here and

1156
01:00:12,559 --> 01:00:15,400
sit here and be so frustrated, and then I'd rather

1157
01:00:15,519 --> 01:00:18,119
wake up early the next day at five am and

1158
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:19,519
get some of the work done.

1159
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:23,199
Speaker 1: Then, right, I understand what you're saying. I have been

1160
01:00:23,239 --> 01:00:25,239
in that freeze. And what I'll do is, I'll watch

1161
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,960
I'll just I'll rewatch old movies. I'll do something the

1162
01:00:30,079 --> 01:00:31,960
complete waste of time. I'll turn it into a slug

1163
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:36,119
and melt into the couch. And I'm like, I gotta.

1164
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:42,360
I have things that are so deep they're a giant

1165
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,400
crater at the moment, and I gotta, I gotta hustle,

1166
01:00:46,079 --> 01:00:48,599
just work some stuff out. But that aside, I probably

1167
01:00:48,639 --> 01:00:52,239
should consider going. I should give them out. Oh yeah,

1168
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:56,599
I don't know. You know what they say though, Curiosity

1169
01:00:56,679 --> 01:00:57,480
kill the cat.

1170
01:00:57,480 --> 01:01:00,639
Speaker 2: Right, that's when I'm afraid of.

1171
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, But satisfaction brought her back, and she had a

1172
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,159
new safe word, so I guess that's a little different.

1173
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 2: And I were saying, like, you need to get someone

1174
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,480
on here to talk about it.

1175
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 5: I yes, I want to do that.

1176
01:01:17,079 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: If there is anybody who is a swinger or in

1177
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:22,000
the lifestyle and is willing to come in. You don't

1178
01:01:22,039 --> 01:01:25,119
have to be on camera, we can, but to have

1179
01:01:25,199 --> 01:01:28,239
you here to talk about the lifestyle and what it's

1180
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,039
like and the what you need to navigate the pitfalls.

1181
01:01:31,079 --> 01:01:33,320
That sort of thing would be interesting how you got

1182
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:37,119
into it, right, What was the first step? Because I

1183
01:01:37,199 --> 01:01:42,199
think like the number of people that are intrigued by

1184
01:01:42,239 --> 01:01:45,719
swinging but won't admit it could fill a stadium.

1185
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,039
Speaker 2: Yeah right right, you know, not even just swinging, but

1186
01:01:48,199 --> 01:01:50,840
like intrigued in going beyond their partner.

1187
01:01:52,039 --> 01:01:56,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably going beyond their partner without wanting to not

1188
01:01:56,239 --> 01:01:59,280
be with their partners, which is another weird thing, but

1189
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,760
there is that actual or the voyeuristic being.

1190
01:02:03,559 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 2: With your partner having that's more me like, yeah, you.

1191
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:11,679
Speaker 1: Can fill a stadium with then twelve people show up

1192
01:02:11,719 --> 01:02:16,199
and three of them are all named Rick. You know

1193
01:02:16,199 --> 01:02:19,239
what I'm saying? Mark, like that, that's what it would be. Yeah,

1194
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:23,719
the safe word you Joe said to you he thinks

1195
01:02:23,719 --> 01:02:25,360
you're gonna start an only fans?

1196
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:26,079
Speaker 2: Oh?

1197
01:02:26,159 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: Like he like as a joke, as I would say,

1198
01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:29,440
is like he was.

1199
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 2: More like, are you gonna are you gonna do an

1200
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:32,239
only fans? Laura?

1201
01:02:32,599 --> 01:02:32,679
Speaker 1: Like?

1202
01:02:33,679 --> 01:02:36,639
Speaker 2: I think he wanted care, but you.

1203
01:02:36,599 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 1: Don't think he'd care. No, Mark, would you care if

1204
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:41,639
you were with somebody that had another fans? I don't care.

1205
01:02:42,039 --> 01:02:44,159
Speaker 2: He was like, how much money. How much money? Who

1206
01:02:44,159 --> 01:02:44,679
are we making?

1207
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: Right?

1208
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:46,599
Speaker 5: How much money are we making?

1209
01:02:46,679 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: Oh? He would join you on it?

1210
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't think he would.

1211
01:02:51,599 --> 01:02:54,559
Speaker 1: He could put a bag over, said, he can be

1212
01:02:54,639 --> 01:02:55,199
bag man.

1213
01:02:56,719 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 2: That was brought up with someone too. What doing only fans?

1214
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: Would you do that? Really?

1215
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:06,679
Speaker 4: You don't do neons? So do you?

1216
01:03:06,679 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 1: No?

1217
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 3: I mean no, I'm asking because we had we had

1218
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:10,519
this conversation.

1219
01:03:10,679 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 1: Wait what we had this? Yes?

1220
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,679
Speaker 4: I don't yeah about.

1221
01:03:14,639 --> 01:03:19,719
Speaker 2: Suggest suggest like yeah, if I was getting money for it?

1222
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so they did this.

1223
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:28,239
Speaker 2: I mean I enjoy yeah that, like I enjoy the sexiness.

1224
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:32,639
I enjoy everything. Like you hear you hear on one

1225
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,800
end how much money some people can make, and you

1226
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,679
hear on the other end it's not really worth it.

1227
01:03:37,679 --> 01:03:40,920
It's like would it be worth it? Like my business

1228
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:43,800
is successful, I'm fine, Like, but it's like, man if

1229
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:47,320
I can make another like twenty thousand dollars a year

1230
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:48,400
by uh you.

1231
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 5: Know, yeah, do what I do anyway?

1232
01:03:52,039 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: Exactly right.

1233
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could do one called undercover of the night

1234
01:03:57,239 --> 01:04:03,519
and you could just have the night vision cameras.

1235
01:04:03,199 --> 01:04:04,159
Speaker 2: Don't see your face.

1236
01:04:04,239 --> 01:04:06,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck thing you could do you in jail.

1237
01:04:06,159 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 4: I think there are people who see that fucking paying

1238
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:10,480
for it. I want to see you charge.

1239
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:11,599
Speaker 1: You, all right, night vision.

1240
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 2: I've had friends be like, organize your health in the new.

1241
01:04:15,239 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, ooh ooh, oh wait, oh my god, that I

1242
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:26,639
bet would work.

1243
01:04:27,559 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: I know, I bet it would work. I think if

1244
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:34,000
you did a straight up how to organize what, I

1245
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,239
would do what you need. Here's the best way with

1246
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:36,800
the closet.

1247
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 2: And that's not sexy to me.

1248
01:04:40,159 --> 01:04:41,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got you.

1249
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: How about that? They just did this thing in Australia

1250
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:49,920
where they surveyed fifty four thousand people, so it's a

1251
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:57,000
big sample. Ninety two percent of them said that they

1252
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:59,960
would break up. They consider it cheating if their partner

1253
01:05:00,679 --> 01:05:04,000
starts to subscribe to somebody's only Fans page.

1254
01:05:04,599 --> 01:05:05,239
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.

1255
01:05:05,559 --> 01:05:09,119
Speaker 1: Well, well, and but take it this way, because we

1256
01:05:09,159 --> 01:05:12,039
could say there were people who said things about porn

1257
01:05:12,119 --> 01:05:14,800
right probably in the past too, like that that porn

1258
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:16,039
is cheating or whatever.

1259
01:05:16,199 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 4: Oh Mary, I'm would be pissed if I was on

1260
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,320
somebody's only fans.

1261
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 1: Well, because the only fans is a little bit different

1262
01:05:22,519 --> 01:05:26,360
in that I chose to spend money on you, and

1263
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:30,679
to me, there's something like the loyalty economy, Right, I'm

1264
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:34,320
loyal to this only fans person. I'm giving that person

1265
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:36,960
of money. I like, you know, if we're low, I

1266
01:05:37,039 --> 01:05:43,159
like blonde chicks, whatever. I you know, So I don't know.

1267
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:47,239
I just I wonder, like, is it could have not

1268
01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:48,480
for you? You'd be fine.

1269
01:05:49,199 --> 01:05:54,159
Speaker 2: I mean unless like someone that you're dating. So say

1270
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,760
I found out Joe was spending link two hundred dollars

1271
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:59,320
a month on one specific account, I'd be like, what the

1272
01:05:59,400 --> 01:05:59,800
fuck you?

1273
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:04,119
Speaker 1: Well, well, you idiot. But but that's that's what they're saying.

1274
01:06:04,119 --> 01:06:04,519
Speaker 2: I would not.

1275
01:06:04,599 --> 01:06:07,679
Speaker 1: I would not be yeah cool with that, because there

1276
01:06:07,719 --> 01:06:09,599
is this thing when you know, when the affair is

1277
01:06:09,679 --> 01:06:12,559
a subscription, is it an affair?

1278
01:06:12,679 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're subscribed to five different girls and you're

1279
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,480
spending one hundred dollars a month on porn, but watching

1280
01:06:19,559 --> 01:06:20,400
all different.

1281
01:06:20,079 --> 01:06:22,039
Speaker 1: Of them and a variety.

1282
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, if that's what floats your boat, go for it, like,

1283
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:26,599
don't get overly involved with.

1284
01:06:26,719 --> 01:06:29,079
Speaker 1: Only eight percent of the people said it was normal

1285
01:06:29,079 --> 01:06:31,760
in a relationship to have somebody have a subscription to

1286
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:36,039
an only fans page. But I'm not you watch porn? Yeah,

1287
01:06:36,079 --> 01:06:39,199
but that could be that's just nameless, faceless.

1288
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 4: Think about OnlyFans. Is that someone you can find somebody,

1289
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:42,639
you know.

1290
01:06:43,719 --> 01:06:46,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can find You're right, you could find somebody.

1291
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:50,000
That's pot That is a possibility for sure. And the

1292
01:06:50,079 --> 01:06:53,079
other is I do wonder if you get.

1293
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 5: To know these people a little bit.

1294
01:06:55,639 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 1: Is there some a little bit of an emotional connection.

1295
01:06:58,639 --> 01:07:00,840
I know that sounds weird, but you know, all of

1296
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:04,760
a sudden, like, hey, what a tough day I had,

1297
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,719
you know, outside of here, I'm doing blah blah, and

1298
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:11,920
you're like, oh, man, Sherry's a uh you know, Sherry's

1299
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:14,840
a dentist. She's a dental hygienist. Yeah, and you know,

1300
01:07:15,239 --> 01:07:17,639
and she takes a water pick to herself.

1301
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 2: And or like you know what I mean if you

1302
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:25,679
request like individual images and you're yeah.

1303
01:07:24,599 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I don't know, because it becomes like

1304
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:30,719
emotional currency in a way that you're spending and I

1305
01:07:30,719 --> 01:07:34,599
could totally see where that would the argument could be

1306
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,920
made that that's more cheating than oh I've heard yeah

1307
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:38,840
the old playboy.

1308
01:07:39,639 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 2: I mean, emotional affairs are just this pretty much the

1309
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:47,559
same as physical I think, in a toll on a marriage,

1310
01:07:47,719 --> 01:07:49,239
like it's just as painful.

1311
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say that that's probably true. I always

1312
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:59,039
said that, like, I didn't really have any female friends,

1313
01:07:59,639 --> 01:08:02,840
especially when I was married, and I would have done

1314
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:07,280
this with anybody mark uh, but I did. I always

1315
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:09,800
thought like, because if you start bitching to someone of

1316
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:14,679
the opposite sex about your marriage, I think I think

1317
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:16,880
that erodes a little bit and all of a sudden

1318
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:20,239
gives you a little bit of intimacy to that other person.

1319
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,880
You know, she's treating like shit again, Come here, hey Bill,

1320
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,319
let's meet opportunity.

1321
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, yes.

1322
01:08:33,079 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: Guys do that too. Though, guys, guys do that, I

1323
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,000
think a way more.

1324
01:08:39,399 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: Exactly.

1325
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 4: I might have done it one or two times.

1326
01:08:43,039 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah I did, I do. I think guys do that

1327
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:51,119
way more. And I almost think it sometimes starts innocently, no,

1328
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,359
you know thing, So I don't know. I'm just thinking,

1329
01:08:53,399 --> 01:08:57,000
like I think sometimes guys are dumb and then they're like,

1330
01:08:57,600 --> 01:08:59,159
you know, I think you're.

1331
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 2: A guy is complaining to a married woman. Yeah, maybe

1332
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:09,800
it's innocent. When I had people knew I'm recently divorced

1333
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,439
coming up to me talking to me about like problems,

1334
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:15,479
I know exactly what they were, trying to call them out.

1335
01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: Why do you think I'm a naive? And things.

1336
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 4: A guy a guy. Most guys, Yeah, we say this,

1337
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,760
this is gonna come out the wrong way. A lot

1338
01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:32,399
of guys that have quote friends as girls. I have

1339
01:09:32,399 --> 01:09:34,359
a lot of friends and our girls. Yeah, but you

1340
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:38,840
get that. You you know how to write. But most guys,

1341
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:41,039
they're friends and girls daviould bang them?

1342
01:09:41,119 --> 01:09:44,520
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, that's what I mean. And so

1343
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:46,439
I always tried to just I was, I was just

1344
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,439
you know, yeah, I try to be cool about stuff.

1345
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:51,159
Speaker 5: To cool.

1346
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,239
Speaker 1: Well you know, I mean that's all, that's just what

1347
01:09:54,279 --> 01:09:58,680
we do. All right. Well, take a moment. I don't

1348
01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,840
know whether to bring a swinger to your party.

1349
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:06,479
Speaker 2: Or happy birthday?

1350
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if they popped out of the cake.

1351
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:16,079
Speaker 4: I mean, what if I'm thinking of something?

1352
01:10:16,279 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 1: If I bring a swinger and then you had to

1353
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:25,119
watch me and her, I couldn't do it. I could not,

1354
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:26,680
But I couldn't.

1355
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:29,039
Speaker 2: I know someone else who would be busting on the door.

1356
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: No one is busting down doors, thank god. A legend.

1357
01:10:34,159 --> 01:10:36,439
I don't know that this guy is a legendary quarterback,

1358
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,079
but he's a well known quarterback. And he announced he's

1359
01:10:39,119 --> 01:10:40,159
retiring today.

1360
01:10:41,279 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 2: What kind of story I f Yeah, what has he

1361
01:10:45,079 --> 01:10:46,880
been in the league for eleven years.

1362
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:50,520
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but what leads to that decision and how

1363
01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:54,279
hard is it? And this is where having a steady partner,

1364
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:58,199
I think for most guys and having the female perspective

1365
01:10:58,359 --> 01:11:01,680
is super helpful. So when you're emotionally cheating or cheating,

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the truth get told. Wow, I know.

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Speaker 3: How the fuck it did not happen, though I don't.

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01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,239
Speaker 1: I can't an I won't say it any again.

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01:13:46,079 --> 01:13:52,720
Speaker 2: Yeah wow, yeah, geez yeah, so you know me hearing

1407
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,279
the two of them talk about that, I'm like sitting there.

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01:13:55,079 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 1: Like hyper fenna. Ladies, I know, I know you can't.

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01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:06,880
There's not a lot you can say, right, really is

1410
01:14:07,319 --> 01:14:10,479
There's really not. We'll go in a different direction, but

1411
01:14:11,039 --> 01:14:14,319
sort of circle back to the fact that you don't

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01:14:14,359 --> 01:14:18,159
want to. I think men are more reliant on women

1413
01:14:18,159 --> 01:14:21,079
than women are on men for emotional needs.

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01:14:21,399 --> 01:14:23,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah.

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01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:23,239
Speaker 5: I do.

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01:14:23,319 --> 01:14:27,399
Speaker 1: I think women rely on women sometimes too, because you know,

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01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:30,399
you just don't get it anything. For guys, we don't

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01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:34,159
really talk. We won't open ourselves up to other guys.

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01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:37,840
So we open ourselves up to our woman, a woman

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01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,840
that we're close to, and that becomes our our thing.

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01:14:42,159 --> 01:14:42,760
I really do.

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01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:46,359
Speaker 2: Joe and I have joked around and he's like or

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01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:49,840
he's like, if you ever break up with me, I'm

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01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:51,880
gonna sell my house, I'm quitting my job and I'm

1425
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:54,880
moving to like the Jersey Shore, and like, I'm like,

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01:14:55,079 --> 01:14:58,159
if you broke up with me, I'd be fine, just

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01:14:58,199 --> 01:14:59,920
like I'm resilt resilient.

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01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:06,319
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, he's zil what's in that fucking cup? Yes?

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01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,199
Speaker 2: You know I could be okay by myself, Like I

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01:15:09,199 --> 01:15:11,920
love you, I don't want to it's water. I don't

1431
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:13,840
know why I couldn't say the word resiliet.

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01:15:14,359 --> 01:15:20,199
Speaker 1: That's fine, you're three one five the uh, that's interesting.

1433
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:23,680
Speaker 2: I just I don't think I'll ever allow myself to

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01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:24,800
get hurt by another guy.

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01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 1: Really, how do you?

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01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 2: But it would hurt, It would hurt, it would be devastating,

1437
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:35,840
My kids would be a mass But like, I know,

1438
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:38,640
I prove to myself I can do it on my own,

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01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:42,359
and I know I would be okay. I'd be like, okay,

1440
01:15:42,399 --> 01:15:44,359
if you're not happy, you're not happy.

1441
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 1: Do you think if you talk about that sort of

1442
01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:54,119
stuff that you're either soothing the fear or it's kind

1443
01:15:54,119 --> 01:15:57,319
of out there, like I think somebody doesn't really see

1444
01:15:57,359 --> 01:15:58,119
this going long term.

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01:15:58,159 --> 01:16:02,399
Speaker 2: I don't know, no, no, not that I just think

1446
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:07,960
I have a have a barrier that I'm never going

1447
01:16:08,039 --> 01:16:15,880
to fully allow someone else in again. Really, Yeah, as

1448
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,399
much as I love him and everything, as happy as

1449
01:16:18,399 --> 01:16:22,479
I am, like I went through what I think was

1450
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:23,560
still like the worst.

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01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:27,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's not a good way to live either though, right, No.

1452
01:16:27,079 --> 01:16:29,560
Speaker 2: Because I'm very open I love him, like, but I

1453
01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:32,239
don't think I'm ever going to be able or be

1454
01:16:32,359 --> 01:16:33,439
as hurt as I was.

1455
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:37,119
Speaker 1: Oh, I see what you're saying. Yeah, because we're going.

1456
01:16:37,079 --> 01:16:39,319
Speaker 2: To break me down as much as that day.

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01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:40,039
Speaker 1: What is that?

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01:16:40,640 --> 01:16:43,600
Speaker 5: Is that just your resilience, you're.

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01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:48,279
Speaker 1: Something you learned from that relationship that makes you's a

1460
01:16:48,359 --> 01:16:52,720
stronger person or is it like there's a section of

1461
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,720
you that's just like you're not getting in here.

1462
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:58,039
Speaker 2: I was like on the ground, crumbled in tears, and

1463
01:16:58,159 --> 01:16:59,840
I built myself back up to where I was like

1464
01:17:00,239 --> 01:17:04,520
so content, happy by myself, like feeling successful, feeling like

1465
01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:07,680
I love where my life is right now. And so

1466
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,279
I just don't think I could ever go back down

1467
01:17:12,319 --> 01:17:14,520
that far, you know what I mean? So I would

1468
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:16,319
just never allow myself to get to that point.

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01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:23,800
Speaker 1: Gotcha? Interesting? Interesting look that mark? Right, Derek Carr is

1470
01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:29,760
retiring thirty four years old. I think he was going

1471
01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:32,479
to miss the entire season. He had a rotator cuff

1472
01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:36,560
entry and they something's labor. I think he was with

1473
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:40,800
the Saints now okay, and he had an eleven year career,

1474
01:17:42,279 --> 01:17:45,880
and I don't know. It gives me a couple of things.

1475
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:48,840
I always wonder, like you're always told play through the pain,

1476
01:17:49,079 --> 01:17:52,119
play through it, you know, and there are bonuses and

1477
01:17:52,119 --> 01:17:54,359
things like, oh god, that is such a brutal sport.

1478
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:57,039
He was like I wouldn't put him as a top

1479
01:17:57,079 --> 01:17:59,600
tier quarterback, but he was a good quarterback. Yeah, he

1480
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:01,720
was a good Like he was pretty good. I wouldn't

1481
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:06,359
say great. He wasn't a josh Allen Mahomes level, but

1482
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,760
he was like right under that. Yeah, and uh could

1483
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:12,680
have won I guess a Super Bowl. I mean anything's possible,

1484
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:16,720
but uh, yeah, he said that he did this whole

1485
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:20,079
thing and it was a lot of talking to his wife,

1486
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:24,319
right that, like that was his person to go to

1487
01:18:24,359 --> 01:18:27,880
and I go, Yeah, that makes sense. And I think

1488
01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:31,039
that's why a lot of guys who get divorced seem

1489
01:18:31,079 --> 01:18:33,760
to get in relationships faster than some women who get

1490
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,680
divorced too, don't you think. Yeah, And I think it's

1491
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:40,039
that that it's this. It's not so much this, this,

1492
01:18:40,039 --> 01:18:43,399
this sex and stuff like that, because it's this. I

1493
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:49,840
think that's the more. And that's that's intimacy, which isn't

1494
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:54,880
necessarily good either. No codependent, but there is that thing

1495
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:59,600
where I feel most comfortable talking to and when you

1496
01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:03,079
listen to me, I feel as I feel loved or whatever.

1497
01:19:03,319 --> 01:19:06,000
I don't know, because I would think in a major

1498
01:19:06,039 --> 01:19:10,479
decision like that, Yeah, absolutely, because I feel stuck sometimes

1499
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:12,560
and I've talked to the pillows and the walls and

1500
01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:20,039
I don't know. Cube, Yeah, I'd spin my Rubi's cube around.

1501
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,239
I need a Lucky eight ball to help me make decisions.

1502
01:19:23,239 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 2: You're into cubes now?

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01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:31,319
Speaker 4: I have like thirty? Now, Holy, that's not hurting. Marianne

1504
01:19:31,359 --> 01:19:32,760
bought a shelf farm.

1505
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:35,039
Speaker 2: Their collection Is it all different?

1506
01:19:35,079 --> 01:19:35,279
Speaker 1: One?

1507
01:19:35,359 --> 01:19:40,039
Speaker 4: Yeah? They have like some superhero ones they have, they

1508
01:19:40,079 --> 01:19:44,199
have like Disney ones. I didn't know stuff I didn't known.

1509
01:19:44,239 --> 01:19:45,520
Speaker 2: How quick can you do it, then.

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01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:48,840
Speaker 4: I can do one. I can't do it very quickly,

1511
01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:50,600
but I can only do one. I can only stop

1512
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:51,279
one so far.

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01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:53,600
Speaker 5: Okay, it's all black.

1514
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:56,239
Speaker 2: Well have you show. I'll show you my son the

1515
01:19:56,359 --> 01:19:58,159
next week. You can do it in a minute.

1516
01:19:58,239 --> 01:19:59,119
Speaker 4: He kind of the whole thing.

1517
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Lucas is obsessed.

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01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:03,560
Speaker 4: You must be good at math.

1519
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:09,359
Speaker 2: Oh, he's brilliant. He's yeah, incredibly intelligent because the kid.

1520
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:10,119
Speaker 4: How old is he?

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01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:11,039
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1522
01:20:11,039 --> 01:20:13,239
Speaker 4: That sounds about right. Because the kids, the kids are

1523
01:20:13,279 --> 01:20:17,439
selling in class, they're just you know, like nothing to it.

1524
01:20:17,520 --> 01:20:19,520
Speaker 2: I think his best time is fifty three seconds.

1525
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:20,279
Speaker 5: Wow.

1526
01:20:20,399 --> 01:20:22,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't even get it one side in fifty

1527
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:23,399
three seconds.

1528
01:20:24,399 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 1: I don't think I could either.

1529
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:29,319
Speaker 4: Yea, well I gotta, yeah, I gotta. They're all different.

1530
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,159
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's so funny.

1531
01:20:31,359 --> 01:20:35,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I could be doing worse things, right, absolutely,

1532
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:36,159
you have.

1533
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, spending money on Rubik's cubes is PG.

1534
01:20:40,279 --> 01:20:43,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe even g But she jumped in that

1535
01:20:43,199 --> 01:20:46,840
that's hoarding. What what is hoarding? When are you a hoarder?

1536
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:52,239
Speaker 2: Well, if you are collecting items that you're not really using,

1537
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:55,600
So are you using them or they're like them? They're

1538
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:56,960
decoration there, I.

1539
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 1: Use some I use some some some. Some of them

1540
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:01,279
are now out of the are going to stay in

1541
01:21:01,279 --> 01:21:01,760
the box.

1542
01:21:03,239 --> 01:21:05,079
Speaker 4: But yeah, I bring him to school with me.

1543
01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:08,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess you're interacting with kids.

1544
01:21:08,399 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, I guess that's how it all started.

1545
01:21:11,239 --> 01:21:14,079
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't think thirty is a lot.

1546
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:18,600
Speaker 4: I'm still done. And it has to be a Ruby's cube.

1547
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:20,079
It can't be a knockoff.

1548
01:21:20,319 --> 01:21:24,279
Speaker 2: Oh okay, what about like different shapes, because Lucas has

1549
01:21:24,279 --> 01:21:25,479
a triangle one too.

1550
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,119
Speaker 4: Right, But yeah, I have that one, but it's not

1551
01:21:28,199 --> 01:21:31,119
a Ruby's cube. There's a triangle Ruby's cube. It's smaller,

1552
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:32,640
so there has to be.

1553
01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:36,159
Speaker 2: Actually, you, you will fit in great with the ten

1554
01:21:36,199 --> 01:21:36,600
year old.

1555
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: I do. But ten year old he is one that

1556
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,920
you put in the freezer and it's all black. It's

1557
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:46,479
all black, and then as it warms up, the colors appear.

1558
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,359
Speaker 4: It's called the it's called the phantom.

1559
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:49,840
Speaker 1: It's the fan.

1560
01:21:50,399 --> 01:21:53,319
Speaker 4: Can't even do it at first, You can't do it first.

1561
01:21:53,399 --> 01:21:56,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta do it to warm it up.

1562
01:21:57,640 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 2: Lucas will mess it up as much as possible. He

1563
01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:01,880
looks said it for like five seconds and then he'll

1564
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:08,000
be like, go, yeah, he's consistently right around a minute.

1565
01:22:09,399 --> 01:22:13,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty good. That is pretty good. That's uh.

1566
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:16,279
But I'm stuck in this horror thing. Like I wonder

1567
01:22:16,319 --> 01:22:17,920
if I'm a horror horder.

1568
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:20,079
Speaker 2: Well, I just showed you a video.

1569
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,239
Speaker 4: Being a being a hoarder. My mother was ad, what

1570
01:22:24,359 --> 01:22:25,720
like in my closets?

1571
01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:29,399
Speaker 2: Are aman can get rid of things you have? Do

1572
01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:31,439
you have a hard time getting rid of things? Or

1573
01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:34,760
if you're like saving something that's broken or not useful

1574
01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:36,720
and you're like, oh, well, maybe I'm going to fix this,

1575
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,880
or maybe you know, I'll use this in the future,

1576
01:22:40,199 --> 01:22:42,920
or I could there's this one project I've been meaning

1577
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,439
for this far, and you're just unwilling to get rid

1578
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:48,319
of things. Yeah, is it tipping over in your house?

1579
01:22:48,319 --> 01:22:49,239
Do you have piles?

1580
01:22:50,119 --> 01:22:50,359
Speaker 1: No?

1581
01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 5: Okay, I mean I have some piles. Yes, that's true.

1582
01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:59,079
Speaker 1: But what about like, okay, so I'm not into collecting anything.

1583
01:22:59,119 --> 01:23:00,880
But I'm learn what you're saying.

1584
01:23:01,159 --> 01:23:04,039
Speaker 2: I mean, there's also a difference between hoarding. There's five

1585
01:23:04,159 --> 01:23:09,640
levels of hoarding, but then there's just clutter that everyday clutter,

1586
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:11,880
and a lot of people that's all that it is,

1587
01:23:12,079 --> 01:23:13,359
is just having a lot of clutter.

1588
01:23:13,399 --> 01:23:14,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if you have a lot of clutter that

1589
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:15,600
you haven't got rid of.

1590
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of times you just need a boost.

1591
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:21,039
If you're a hoarder, you have a hard time getting

1592
01:23:21,119 --> 01:23:23,279
rid of stuff. A lot of my clients just have

1593
01:23:23,399 --> 01:23:27,560
a lot of clutter and they don't know where to start,

1594
01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:29,880
and so they need me to come in and sort

1595
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:34,399
of sort, purge and then organize them. Where the hoarders

1596
01:23:34,399 --> 01:23:36,600
are the ones who are like, oh, I can't get

1597
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:38,039
rid of that. I can't get rid of that. I

1598
01:23:38,079 --> 01:23:41,520
have to say that, like, you know there's the this

1599
01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:44,760
is a missing tupperware top, but I know that the

1600
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:46,159
bottom is somewhere in.

1601
01:23:46,119 --> 01:23:49,279
Speaker 5: The Yes, yeah, you just throw it out.

1602
01:23:49,359 --> 01:23:52,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, just fucking throw it out, use tupperware.

1603
01:23:52,239 --> 01:24:02,880
It's stained, it's stayed mic yeah, melted plastic, Like, yeah.

1604
01:24:00,199 --> 01:24:03,520
Speaker 1: That's me. That would be me. I'm like that when

1605
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:07,399
you move, I'm gonna have togu. Yeah that's true. I am.

1606
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:09,039
Speaker 2: Yes, set you up for success.

1607
01:24:09,359 --> 01:24:12,720
Speaker 1: Well, the thing is, like I have so many areas

1608
01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:15,359
right now, like everything is just coming at you at

1609
01:24:15,399 --> 01:24:20,039
once and I and I'm like, fuck dude, but the

1610
01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:23,800
yeah I do that? What about like kids? Art projects?

1611
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,319
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what do you do the kids do

1612
01:24:26,399 --> 01:24:29,560
not want their art projects. So I tell people to

1613
01:24:30,399 --> 01:24:34,880
keep a bin for your year, like and if the

1614
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:38,159
kids go I call them purgatory piles. Like the kids

1615
01:24:38,279 --> 01:24:40,600
put their stuff in a purgatory pile for the week.

1616
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:42,640
The weekends, you go through it, you look through it

1617
01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:45,439
with them, maybe you save one item out of it,

1618
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:48,399
and then it goes in like their file for the year.

1619
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,880
Then I love filing cabinets. I think that they're great.

1620
01:24:52,199 --> 01:24:55,840
You can do little Manila folders and have like like

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to me, I have cam kindergarten cam first, cam second

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01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:01,720
like and I'm saving. I only say I don't really

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care about their homework. I don't care as much about

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like their little doodles. Anything that's a creative mind when

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he writes a story, when he's like doing something that's

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truly him is what I save. And you know, it's

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very very minimal, because the kids aren't gonna want to

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look through their shit when they're thirty.

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Speaker 1: No, no, they're gonna tell you see how much goes home?

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Oh yeah, yeah right, oh yeah, And so it's like,

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what do you do?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. You can also get like art folders where it's

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like a frame. It's a large frame and then you

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can they're deep though, so you can put some really

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cool art projects in there and then sort of rotate

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what's towards the front and have it hung up where

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it's like displayed and appreciated but preserved. I think things

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like that are really cool. But you do not need

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to save onto everything. But then I do tell people

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to get like I can't even think of the name,

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but the boxes and things that your kid may want

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for their lifetime. Keep that, but it should just be

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one like small canvas box that's pretty sturdy and you

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01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:16,119
can do like you know, first communion things, anything that's

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really really worthy that when they go to move on

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and our adults and have their home, they can keep

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that box to show their children. But their schoolwork they

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are not going to give a shit about.

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Speaker 1: There's many layers to Laura, you know what I mean.

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There's layers.

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Speaker 2: There's my business layer.

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Speaker 1: Theyah the business layer, the organizing that's those are great tips.

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Those are great to have.

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Speaker 4: Definitely, yeah, I would never have I think like I

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can't get rid of my shirts.

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Speaker 2: I don't see my kids are they they are so

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much like they got gifts for Christmas that last week

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01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:52,119
and we went through their bonus room and they're like, Mom,

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we're never going to use these. I'm like, okay, so

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we'll get rid of them. Like whereas moms would be like,

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use that. You just got that as a gift. We're

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going to say that, and then it's just gonna stay

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stay there because the kids aren't gonna want to use

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it and you're gonna get frustrated. Instead, No, go sell it,

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01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:10,880
like sell it on Facebook marketplace if you want, and

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just get the money and then give your kid that

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money if you feel bad and have them purchase what

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01:27:18,199 --> 01:27:19,239
they want with it.

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Speaker 1: You know, just don't tell And Carol.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I woantn't even care. I'm like, that's not

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01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:31,479
what Lucas is really into right now. Right now, he's

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more interested in Jan's gift or gift gift.

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01:27:37,159 --> 01:27:44,039
Speaker 1: Gift gift. You know it's coming up next week, regift Birthday.

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01:27:45,239 --> 01:27:48,119
Speaker 2: I hear that I'm getting a mug of a coffee,

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01:27:48,199 --> 01:27:51,199
mug of Bill Falling asleep on Kevin's Scouts.

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Speaker 1: I went to Kevin's house again, and I fell asleep

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in this chair that was massaging me. And I've been

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exhausted lately and working a lot well yes, but and

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that's why I need to change some things. And I've

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been stressed to the max lately. Take over the show.

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Speaker 5: Yes, fine, we uh, we'll close.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the party though. I can't wait

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to see this. I am the pub. I'm excited to see. Yeah.

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I didn't even know that was a thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, I've seen instapub on Instagram and

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it's just like they rented it out. I think this

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summer for like a winter party or last winter.

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Speaker 4: And wah, how many bathrooms do you have?

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Speaker 2: Four?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: Where the do you live?

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Speaker 2: I have a big house.

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Speaker 1: That was the greatest four.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't expecting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna waitach bedroom has its own mark.

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Oh no, no, no, no, we're just kidding. This should

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be fun. I'm excited. You're going now, Yes, now that

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we got the official Marianne's coming. Yes, yeah, I've got

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a chambong with her shambong.

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Speaker 5: This is the what is that again?

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01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:14,520
Speaker 1: Chugging champ.

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Speaker 4: She's a Laura fan. She looks Laura.

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01:29:17,119 --> 01:29:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Laura's it here Team Laura. Yes, Laura. All right,

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I gotta go deal with some drama for Laura. For Laura,

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who's celebrating her. I can't wait for the review of

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the party, the whole thing for the soldier. Great job

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as always coming in. I like it on on a day.

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Speaker 4: Like I think we should think we should do it again.

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Speaker 5: We'll do it again.

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Speaker 1: I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you Tomorrow's.

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Speaker 4: California baby, Things of god Worth.

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Speaker 1: He's a landa opportunity for me. Is just a curse

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that judging make us be