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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Face sunny sun.

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Speaker 1: I hadasion night next everybody, what's up? It's for crying

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out loud, that's for crying out loud. How you doing Friday? Yeah,

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it's Friday. You know.

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Speaker 3: I remember when we had the little kids, when it

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was like, did we just talk about this?

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Speaker 1: How we were afraid of the weekend?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Friday was the worst day of the week totally.

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Speaker 4: People would be like, it's Friday, and I'd be like,

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it's Friday, totally, yes, But now it's easy on easy Street.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, got our feet up looking out the window in

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a corner office.

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Speaker 1: One day this.

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Speaker 4: Week, I woke up. I looked at the clock and

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I was like, okay, that has to be wrong. It

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was ten am. Really, I've never i'ven't slept out late

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in like, I don't know years, really, I mean definitely

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not when the kids were little, but even since they've

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gotten older, I just my body just changed. I can't

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sleep late. And I was like, oh my god, nobody

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bought everybody was still sleeping.

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Speaker 1: That's the best. Might as well have still been in

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the middle of the night, right.

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Speaker 4: Even Penelope is like getting older and doesn't like wake

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me up in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Does she wake you up?

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Speaker 4: No, lucky, Penelope will sleep until we until we wake up.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Yeah, not about Oh he's up.

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Speaker 3: Supper takes Phil into his room and makes him sleep

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in there with him.

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Speaker 1: It's really cute.

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Speaker 3: But at like six thirty seven, he starts scratching and

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kicking the door, and Sonny has to get up and

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open the door and let him out. And he comes

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upstairs to our room and just barges right in and

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comes on top of the bed and that stares at

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me for five minutes. He just sits there and looks

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at me, and and I go go to bed, Go

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to bed, go to bed. And then he goes to

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the end of the bed and he lays down and

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then he waits until I get up. He's such a

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pain in the ass, it really is. The kids are

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so easy. I mean, I can sleep. I could sleep

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till ten on the weekends now right. I used to can't.

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I It was my body would get up at like

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eight thirty totally. But now ever since like I think

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COVID when when everything like got shut down, Yeah there

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was not much going on. Yeah, it was I can

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sleep until ten, so can they?

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Speaker 4: It is really weird with the schooling at home. I

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now understand the draw of people that homeschool their kids,

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because there's something so slow and relaxing about the pace

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of not having to get your kids.

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Speaker 1: To school in the morning.

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Speaker 4: First of all, now I don't really see my kids

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in the morning, which I guess if you think about

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like it from the perspective of being a good parent,

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like you get up with your kids, you drive them

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to school, you like, right, hang out. You get to

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sit in the car with them and hear about how

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much they're dreading going to school and how they're already.

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Speaker 1: Like what do we have for lunch today?

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Speaker 4: And you know, so, I guess I'm making it sound

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better than it is actually, But now that that's not

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in the equation, I get up. When I get up,

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I take Penelope out, Like I get up. Here's my routine. Yeah, well, hease,

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you're wondering, Yeah I am. I actually imagine. Okay, so

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I get out of bed. John stays in bed till whatever.

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He's got insomnia. Oh that's by the way, tinklefoot doing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know what, let's say hi to our friends.

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But I'm going to tell you about John not being

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happy about the dad Bod. Oh No, yeah, we had

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a second argument. Probably shouldn't have named the episode dad.

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That was probably my first mistake. No, I didn't think

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he was gonna get upset because I meant it as

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a compliment, and he and I have since hashed it out.

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Speaker 1: Right, but he he thought.

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Speaker 4: That that meant he pictured calling somebody dad Bod meant

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like that he got fat, which is not true, and he.

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Speaker 1: Didn't, and he looks great.

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Speaker 4: I meant it as like a guy that you could

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relax and eat pasta with, because he's not like going

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to the gym for six hours a day act.

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Speaker 1: But he didn't hear it that way, so he was upset.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Now I got to tell you what he did

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when he was upset, because which if he hears this,

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then he'll be upset about No.

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Speaker 1: I think he'll be fine. I think he'll be fine.

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Speaker 4: But so I come home the day the episode came out,

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and he's like, looks really upset, and I'm like, what's wrong?

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: And I thought maybe somebody died? Like I was like,

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did a celebrity die that he loves? You know, did

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something happen and he's looking at his phone and he's

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like this and then he plays he plays like a

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few seconds of me going saying something about it.

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Speaker 3: He had it all cute up. Oh fuck, that's yeah,

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worse feeling.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, I was like, this just

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radio talk thiss, radio talk mama. He was not happy.

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Speaker 4: You can work on him, no, So then I got

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mad at him being mad because I because in my mind,

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I didn't mean anything. It was not something negative. And

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in my mind, I'm like, why does he think I

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would body shame him? Like I wouldn't say something like

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that unless I was. I meant it in a loving,

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like fun way. So I got mad. I was like,

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why is he like policing what I say about him

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on my podcast, like this is my pot like not

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saying anything that bad. But then later we talked about

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it and I understood where he was coming from, which

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was like, not that he's so sensitive, but he just

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felt like he felt like I was making fun of him,

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like calling him fat.

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Speaker 3: And he's like flabby And I would ever use those words, no,

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of course.

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Speaker 4: Not, but he felt like that's what he's like. I

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was like, well, that's because you're not hip you don't

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know that dad got is a fun term for like

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women who think their husbands are attractive, but they don't

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want their husbands looking like they go to the gym

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and they are way to into their bib.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the little like a little something around the middle

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because it makes you feel better about your body. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is like John's thin.

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Speaker 4: He is, he actually is, and like, if anybody's got

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a middle aged bot, it's me, right, But like I

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don't I mean, like I said, he's not like some

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chisel gym guy, which is good, but he didn't see

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it that way. So I had to explain myself and

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I had to apologize and and then but then he

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was like which leads me to the fact that he

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was like, you can talk about me. You can say

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I'm in bed all morning and it pisses you off

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because I have insomnia.

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Speaker 1: So it's like I work the night shift. How's he

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with tingles? It's foot tingle foot, he was.

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Speaker 4: He was less mad about God, Okay, good's longing, but

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he's still giving me about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, are people all right?

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Speaker 3: So why so you know, remember I had that uh

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that what is it called this stye on my eye.

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, can you see it? It's almost gone.

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Speaker 3: Well I have a little cover up on it. Oh

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but it turned into a big bubble, y know what.

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Speaker 1: That's how it was last week, right, So what happened?

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What happened? You called doctor Drew? No, you took a picture.

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I took a picture and sent it to Drew and

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he was like, you gotta go to a doctor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was no help. Okay, and then I and

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then finally what's his face?

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Speaker 1: Got back?

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Speaker 3: Doctor Spaz, doctor doctor Bruce. Yeah, send him a picture,

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said the exact same things as Drew. You exactly, warm, compress,

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and then you should go to ophthalmologist if it doesn't

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go away.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, thanks, I just want

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a little suck.

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Speaker 3: Can't you just give me some dry drives, prescribe something

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to get this thing off of my face?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 4: And it's sitting there for he got the soldering iron.

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I know something I hate.

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Speaker 3: When there's something like that, like when you get a

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sty and stuff, I don't feel like myself, you know

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what I mean, gets in the way. Plus I could

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see it it was and on the inside.

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Speaker 1: It was blown up like a bubble.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I mean I don't know it was Oh yeah, yeah, okay,

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so I took a steam shower, I put hot warm compress.

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fluidy right, okay, so nothing I was trying, you know,

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little bitever Well.

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Speaker 4: Health insurance, Right, couldn't you do a ho teldoc and

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and show them a picture?

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Speaker 3: I was going to do that, but that takes work.

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Like I got a Google a time, Hi, where where

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do I get?

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Speaker 4: That's how blue Shield gets you. They're like, we off

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for all these services, and it's going to take you

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like four hours to figure out what number to call exactly.

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Speaker 3: If you know, if you keep them on the line,

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you might get hanged up on a bunch of times.

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Speaker 4: First, get some chickens, right, and then so you can

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relate to them.

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Speaker 1: Three big do you have chickens? If you don't, can't

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help you. You're like, how did chickens get into this?

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Go on?

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Speaker 3: Go on? So yeah, I did nothing, So I just

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this the warm compress. Adam comes by, walks by and goes,

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what's going out there? I?

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Speaker 1: Oh, does it getting better? Or what?

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Speaker 3: Looks like it's getting bigger. I go, it's filled with fluid.

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can take care of that in one second. And I

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knew what he was thinking, because he always does. He's

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big on zits and stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: He like, don't mess with His whole thing is don't

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mess with the ZiT, don't squeeze it, don't do any

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just get a needle, sterilize it, prick.

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Speaker 1: It, and then like pull it apart.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, that's Adam's whole thing. And I know

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that about him, and I knew what he was talking about.

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And I was desperate and I go, all right, let's

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do it. And he goes, where's the soap, where's your

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sewing kit?

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Speaker 1: Mama?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I got the needle out, he you know,

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got it sterilized, put his glasses on, and Sonny was

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traumatized for life.

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Speaker 1: He was like, wait, hold on, Dad, what are you doing?

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Oh my god? That could have gotten infected.

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Speaker 3: I know, well he sterilized it with alcohol. And I go,

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did you really? And he goes of what do you think?

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And he goes, you want to smell it? And I

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saw that. Yeah, he did it.

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Speaker 1: But jim Bean, by the way, is not the same

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as like reading alcohol totally.

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Speaker 3: And I how he was sober at the time, which

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was good too. So Sonny was just like, are you

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what You're really going to take a needle and stick it?

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Speaker 1: What if it goes through her lid and sticks her eyeball?

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Speaker 4: But also, but the thingsty was underneath your eye too,

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Speaker 1: It was a whole cashat Oh god, oh god, trigger warning. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, he took his needle and he punctured it

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and it hurt like a bitch and nothing.

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Speaker 1: Happened, oh no, uh huh, and.

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Speaker 3: Made a scab and I was like, all right, you

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hit the wrong spot obviously, and he goes yeah, and

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he goes, put let me look under the light, and

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he goes, I could do it again.

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Speaker 1: I see where it is. And I go you thought

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you saw it where is the first time? And that hurt,

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by the way, It's stung like a bitch. It really hurts. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Then he goes, but I really can take care of

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this right now, And I was like, all right, then

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do it. So God in the sunlight got his eyeglasses on.

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Sorry us, Sonny's sitting there watching and he punctured it

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and everything, all the fluid came out. Yeah, it was

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like a dream. And now it's like shriveled up and

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it's like a little scab.

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Speaker 1: Does it hurt it?

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Speaker 3: It was hurting that day, but I and He's like,

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the best thing you can do for it is air

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don't put any shit on it, don't do this, don't comment,

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blah blah blah blah, just let air it out. The

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best thing you can do is sit in front of

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a fan and air it out. I was like, all right, okay,

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so it worked. But the weird thing is I was

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here the other night working before he popped it, working

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with with Corolla Drinks and Jen Jennifer, our girl, was

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here and she was like, oh yo, I never get styes,

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Like she got a sty like a couple of days later, wow,

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And I'm like I never went near her.

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Speaker 1: We didn't share food.

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Speaker 3: I didn't, you know, there was no like kissing or anything,

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like we kept we didn't touch anything.

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Speaker 1: I like that escalated really quickly or like we didn't

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share food.

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Speaker 3: There was no kissing, you know, like you couldn't kiss,

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Like there was none, you know, we keep apart, right,

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so it's weird. And doctor Drew and Bruce said it's

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not contagious, but maybe this one.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. But she got a stye and she

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says she never gets one. Interesting. Is that crazy? You

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better back up, Stephanie. I know.

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Speaker 3: But and it's still there though, Like this was yesterday

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that he popped it.

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Speaker 1: Oh that was only yesterday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's what I'm saying. Look at how long

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I've had it for two weeks. Yeah, it's enough already.

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I wanted to get rid of it, I know. Yeah,

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so I would have gone to the doctor. You would,

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I'm a baby.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't have left John like puncture it?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Oh hell no, you're brave. Well you know, I mean,

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I just I had to get rid of it. Do

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you ever have like with your kid?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if your kids are wherever like this,

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but Xander will get hurt. Something will hurt him, Like

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he'll say, like, oh, okay, friends, I think he kicked

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something accidentally. He was you know what he was doing.

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He was swinging on we have one of those chin

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up bars in the doorway and he likes to swing

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on it. And he kicked a step stool by accident.

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He was swinging, he kept it and you would have

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really thought that, you know, his whole foot was broken

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the way he was, you know, like every day it

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was like, you know, talk about like tinglefoot, right, He's

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just like ice on it, like, and it wasn't. It

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was swollen, but not a lot, right. And then John

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says because because I'm married to like an old man,

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And John's like, well, you know, if it was broken,

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it would have blown up like a balloon. I'm giving

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him Adam voice, but exactly.

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Speaker 1: That's Adam would have said. That's how he talks.

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Speaker 4: And then he repeats it's like a mantra like every time.

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Xander's like, oh, it still hurts. He's like, yeah, but

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if it was broken, it would have blown.

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Speaker 1: Up like a balloon.

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Speaker 4: And then Xander says to me, well, so Dad says

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that it's probably not broken because if it was broken,

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I know, it would have blown up like a balloon.

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He's like, yeah, it would have blown up like a balloon.

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Like yeah, so but then you know, so you're.

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm not going to take the kid to the doctor.

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Speaker 4: He doesn't want to call it on an X ray

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on his toe, because it's not even that swollen, like

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it's not blown up like a balloon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's fine.

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Speaker 4: So but then you know when they keep complaining and

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then you start to feel like what if it is broken?

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And then I'm like a horrible parent because I'm like, well,

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put some more ice on it.

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Speaker 1: And then you know when they're still.

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Speaker 4: Caring on about it it's like been five days. But

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then part of me is like, okay, because and I

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was going to tell you about going to the AMERICANAB.

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I was going to tell you that. So but then

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anytime I would say like maybe we could go to

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like an outdoor mall or something, he'd be like, oh

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I would, but my foot, you know how a walk

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like that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hurt.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So then I get to a point where it's

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almost like I'm calling this bluff because I'm like, well,

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if it's really hurting that much and it's already been

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like a week and a half, should we take you

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to the doctor. Thinking he's gonna be like, oh, no,

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it doesn't hurt that bad. Uh, plus not blown up

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like a balloon, right right, But then you know he's like,

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I mean, I don't know, do you think I should

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go to the doctor. And then I'm like, now you're

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a fox out spot.

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Speaker 1: Right, because if I say no, I was just.

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Speaker 4: Calling your bluff because I think you're kind of faking

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it or exaggerating it because you're dramatic, then it's bad, right,

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People frown on that. But then if I go, yeah,

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I do think we should go to the doctor, then

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I have to take a for a doctor for something

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that's I know, not anything I know.

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Speaker 3: I had well listen though, don't take a page out

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of my book, because when Natalia did that fuck though

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that day where she like she was on those hoverboards right,

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and she was she was sitting on it and the

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thing and her and her bone like was sticking out,

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and Adam thought it was her nail and he was

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trying to put shit back in and then he wrapped

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it up like like like a balloon with gauze and

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he was like, just keep it in the ice, keep

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it in the ice. So she's sitting there like crying

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in pain, and she's keeping an ice for like an

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hour and a had, right, and the cup of ice

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is now red because it's so you have to dump it.

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But ju was stopped up. She was fucked up right.

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But up to Adam, you wouldn't have talked, you know,

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he would be like, it's fine, just just keep the

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ice on, it'll stop bleeding.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I there's something wrong. We need to

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take her to that. I can't you take her? So yeah, okay, Steph,

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you're gonna tell us about Americana my fable, like my

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favorite place.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's you just reminded me so uh So i'd

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been bug. I've been trying to get Sadie to get

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out of the house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. My kids have gotten so AVERTI being the house. Honey. Yeah,

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I know. Anytime you I have.

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Speaker 4: To bribe them with things like hey, let's go get

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an ice cream cone, and then they'll be like, oh,

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can you bring it? Yes, they don't want to leave

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the house. They've gotten so used to being home. So

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but I've been telling Sadie like, hey, let's go, we

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can go shopping to an outdoor mall. Oh, by the way,

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I let LB go to a mall for the first time.

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And she went to the Tapanga mall. And I told

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you that, and she said it was totally fine. It

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was knock around it at all. Yeah, right, And you

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know they were totally safe. She was wearing her mask

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the whole time they went, and they did their normal

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pack son. She got a bathing suit top and she

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felt it helped because she felt really normal. Yes, it

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was like, okay, well, so that got me thinking, like

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I don't necessarily want to go into a mall.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, but I want to go to

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the Americana. That sounds really fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I got it into my head that the Americana

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would be much like the four h five and kind

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of empty and like thank you COVID.

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, not so much. I should have warned you.

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Oh my god, Lynette, why didn't you tell me now

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it's a zoo. I didn't know you.

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Speaker 4: I didn't so and understand that Sadie was almost going

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against her will because I was like, Sadie, it's gonna

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be fun.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go to the Americana.

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Speaker 4: We're going to get a wetzel pretzel, We're going to

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feel like normal people.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be great. What's not to light? I know

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it's got the fountains, Sinatra plane.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I was like, come on, and so she says, well,

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we'll all be come with us.

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Speaker 1: My sister. Oh, my god.

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Speaker 4: So okay, actually I thought I had nothing to talk

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about this show, but so this was my Sunday. Early

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in the day, which I'll get back to. We had

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another like blind date with another kid. Oh really that

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I teased on Tuesday show that we were going that

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I was that we had a good one. And then

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so then I had spent a few hours at the

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dog park with Xander and another mom from our school

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and her son. Okay, and we had a great We

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had a really good time, but we were there for hours.

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By the time I got home, it was like four

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o'clock and and Sadie said, and Elbie said she'd go

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to the Americana. So now Sadie's all about it. So

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I was like, great, let's all get in the car.

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And I was worried about like, I'm thinking they're kind

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of winding down because you know, it's the smallest probably

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what do they close at six? So we're checking how

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to google it and she's like, no, they don't close

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till eight.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, sweet.

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Speaker 4: So we get there and you know, I parked on

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the wrong side the park. I parked on the mall side,

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so like right, so we had to walk through the mall.

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Speaker 1: So we walk into the mall.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I know it was still want

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to go crowded. I don't like them. I mean, it's fine,

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but I don't like going to that mall. Like it's

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too Yes, it's way too much. It's too much.

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Speaker 4: Also, this is going to sound so terrible and ignorant

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of me, but I'm embarrassed to tell you this. But

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this is just listen, this is life, this is this

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is just I'm being I'm keeping it real, keep it real.

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I'm seeing all these like flags, right, and I'm like,

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what are those flags?

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Speaker 1: There's some in our neighborhood. But now I'm in Glendale and.

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Speaker 4: I'm like everywhere, I'm looking everywhere, there's like these flags,

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these flags on people's cars.

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Speaker 1: And I finally I was like, you guys, what are

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those flags?

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Speaker 4: And then Elbie's like, mom, there's like a genocide going

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on in Armenia.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my bad. I'm like, well,

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they are not talking about that on the news. I

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know how I supposed to know.

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Speaker 4: And she's like, yeah, it's kind of a big deal.

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And then I realized Glendale is like little Armenia. Yes

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it is it's all Armenian people and they were all

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up in arms and having like selling face Armenian flag

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face masks. And I felt so horrible that I didn't know.

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I was like, I got to go home and research this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know. Our school brought it up.

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Speaker 3: They they were having some sort of support group because

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they're the families and stuff. It's affecting some of the

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family and yeah, it is a big deal. I've seen

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them everywhere and they get up, they get a whole

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like you know, gathering, and they do like a whole

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protest and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: Did you see though when you come out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you if they were there, but

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they have the they have the Armenian flag things going

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on outside. So we come out and you're walking towards

471
00:21:20,759 --> 00:21:25,079
the American Then there was LBGTQ community and they were

472
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,799
like sign the flag, We're going to bring it to

473
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,359
Washington and blah blah blah. Oh wow, it was great

474
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:29,880
in Italian.

475
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,559
Speaker 1: I signed it. It was really nice. Yeah. So so I

476
00:21:32,599 --> 00:21:35,119
felt like I got a little mini civics lesson. Right.

477
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if you can call that civics,

478
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,240
but like a world like what's going on in the

479
00:21:39,279 --> 00:21:42,119
world and since I've been in my house only focusing

480
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:46,400
on very narrow range of topics, right, So okay, but

481
00:21:46,519 --> 00:21:48,119
so then it's packed.

482
00:21:47,759 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 1: In them all. There was a line.

483
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 4: Every store had a really long one, Like you can't

484
00:21:52,759 --> 00:21:55,160
just go to Bath and Body now it's like trying

485
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,400
to get Taylor Swift ticket.

486
00:21:56,599 --> 00:21:56,799
Speaker 2: Right.

487
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,759
Speaker 4: It was like, oh, it was literally like the line

488
00:21:59,799 --> 00:22:01,400
for the Matterhorn at Disneyland.

489
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,079
Speaker 1: It was like winding around.

490
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,799
Speaker 4: I was like, who's standing in line that long to

491
00:22:06,839 --> 00:22:08,680
get some like body load shite?

492
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,000
Speaker 1: I know? Just order that shit online. And also when

493
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,920
you go to a mall, you don't have like you're

494
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:16,319
not like.

495
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm focused, I'm getting some like pomegranate lemon body spray, right,

496
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:22,720
because if you're going to do that, you.

497
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 1: Buy it online.

498
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 4: You go to Bath and Body just to walk around

499
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,960
and not buy stuff and sniff everything exactly and make

500
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,319
an impulse buy maybe if they're having a crazy sale.

501
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: Or you got a friend that's got a birthday coming, right. Yeah.

502
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,400
So I said that to Sadie. I was like, we don't.

503
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,079
Speaker 4: This is like, you're going to stand in line that long,

504
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,319
you better be knowing what you want to buy.

505
00:22:42,799 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 1: Because people are going to be like watching you from

506
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,599
the line, going to get your ship, bitch and get out,

507
00:22:48,559 --> 00:22:51,759
like I know what I want, you know, like you

508
00:22:51,839 --> 00:22:53,839
feel bad browsing total.

509
00:22:55,279 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 4: I was like, this is already so not fun. So

510
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,480
then we get out to the outdoor park. We get

511
00:23:00,519 --> 00:23:02,640
through there because I'm like, we're not going in any

512
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:03,400
of these stores.

513
00:23:03,839 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: Then the whole, the whole dining food court is shut down.

514
00:23:07,799 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like, can't do right. So we go outside.

515
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,519
I'm like, you know what, screw this any of the

516
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,759
all the stores have lines. I was like, screw it,

517
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,640
not shopping. Let's go to cheesecake Factory and just sit

518
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,400
an outdoor table and have some dinner.

519
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

520
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 4: And now it's five thirty, right already Yeah, because we

521
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:25,839
left it four.

522
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:26,839
Speaker 1: Now it's five thirty.

523
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,319
Speaker 4: I go to the front cheesecake Factory. There's I see

524
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,400
open tables. I was like, hey, so can we get

525
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,480
a table for three? And she was like yeah, it's

526
00:23:36,519 --> 00:23:37,880
going to be a two and a half hour Wait.

527
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, nut.

528
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,799
Speaker 3: I know, I know I should have I didn't know

529
00:23:42,839 --> 00:23:46,039
you're gonna go I have a whole thing down, Like.

530
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: I go, oh my god. Stephani I go. So there's

531
00:23:49,759 --> 00:23:52,759
an Italian restaurant that Natalia really likes, I know, the

532
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,640
Amechi or something, and there.

533
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,519
Speaker 3: It's right there by the four I have like a

534
00:23:56,559 --> 00:23:59,799
two hour wait as well, yeah they do, but Natalia

535
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,079
like the brows and walk around. So as soon as

536
00:24:02,079 --> 00:24:03,720
we get there, we go there, we put on name

537
00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:06,640
in and usually they text us not two hours.

538
00:24:06,799 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: Usually it's about an hour or maybe a little more.

539
00:24:09,279 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 3: But by then, you know, she's done walking through her

540
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:16,119
Brandy Melville whatever, standing and like she stood in line

541
00:24:16,759 --> 00:24:22,319
to look at shit at the Tory Birch store. Oh

542
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,359
really right, I know, And I was like, what do

543
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,519
you know about toy Birch.

544
00:24:25,759 --> 00:24:26,599
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know.

545
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 3: I like her symbol or whatever. And she's got earrings.

546
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,440
I'm want to go look at them. And I go,

547
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,920
you're gonna stand it up really all right, I'm just

548
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,240
gonna sit here and like listen to my podcast.

549
00:24:36,319 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 1: Tell me when you're done. That's what I did.

550
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,039
Speaker 3: So by the time she's done and comes out, I

551
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,079
get a text that hey, your table's ready.

552
00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:45,039
Speaker 1: I'm like, great, okay.

553
00:24:45,079 --> 00:24:48,519
Speaker 3: So that's kind of what we do, right, because you

554
00:24:48,599 --> 00:24:51,880
can't get there at like between four and whatever when

555
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,319
they close and say, hey, I want a table. Fuck no,

556
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,519
they're gonna wish you back into the corn for you.

557
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,680
Fuck that you want a table? That's our reference to Patreon.

558
00:25:04,599 --> 00:25:07,039
Patreon people just got it, but you don't. If you

559
00:25:07,039 --> 00:25:09,039
don't belong to Patreon, you really should join.

560
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,599
Speaker 4: If not just for this story, they could tell us

561
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,119
that could really blow up my kid's social life. Yeah yeah,

562
00:25:15,799 --> 00:25:19,680
well so that one store. So we walked by Brandy.

563
00:25:20,039 --> 00:25:22,119
Now I got you have to understand I have a

564
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:26,599
twelve very soon to be thirteen year old, So she's

565
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,079
just entering the phase of like she doesn't want to

566
00:25:29,079 --> 00:25:32,000
be like uncool and like Brandy might be kind of over,

567
00:25:32,079 --> 00:25:34,240
but at the same time, she never got to experience it.

568
00:25:34,279 --> 00:25:38,440
And Albie had a super hardcore Brandy Melville phase. So

569
00:25:38,559 --> 00:25:41,559
now Sadie like doesn't want to quite say like maybe

570
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:42,880
I want to wear some Brandy.

571
00:25:42,559 --> 00:25:44,839
Speaker 1: Melville, but she's also really trying to bond with Elbe.

572
00:25:45,319 --> 00:25:46,839
Speaker 4: So Albie says, like, do you want to go in

573
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,119
Brandy And Sadie's like, no, it's okay, It's just like

574
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,720
a line, and Albie goes, okay, it's not really a

575
00:25:52,759 --> 00:25:53,200
long line.

576
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: Like we can go in there.

577
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 4: And then Sadie's like, Mom, do I have any allowance?

578
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:02,039
And the thing is, Sadie, he supposedly gets ten dollars

579
00:26:02,079 --> 00:26:06,319
a week. Everybody understands it. I've said that, but I can't.

580
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,240
I don't think I've given her allowance in the past

581
00:26:08,279 --> 00:26:09,920
like five months, yeah, I know.

582
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,039
Speaker 1: Maybe like eight months, maybe since beginning of COVID. I can't.

583
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 4: I don't remember ever giving her money. Now, elb has

584
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,519
a bank account, so and I know your kids do too. Now,

585
00:26:19,519 --> 00:26:21,759
so it's so easy. I give her one hundred dollars

586
00:26:21,759 --> 00:26:23,720
a month. At the beginning of the month, she goes, mom,

587
00:26:23,759 --> 00:26:24,920
can you transfer my money?

588
00:26:25,279 --> 00:26:27,839
Speaker 1: Or she does it herself. She sticks my face.

589
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,039
Speaker 4: In the phone to open my bank out and then

590
00:26:30,079 --> 00:26:32,720
she transfers it. And then she goes, I transferred a thousand,

591
00:26:35,559 --> 00:26:38,680
and then she's like, just kidding, I the one zero. Anyway,

592
00:26:38,839 --> 00:26:42,039
The point is she gets her money. You want to

593
00:26:42,039 --> 00:26:44,319
spend it all on the first day, that's your business,

594
00:26:44,599 --> 00:26:46,319
but like I'm telling giving you more.

595
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: So Sadie was like, do I have the allowance? And

596
00:26:51,319 --> 00:26:51,519
I was.

597
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 4: I felt so bad because Elbie has Sadie never buys clothes.

598
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: I told you.

599
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 4: I just recently bought her a bunch of stuff from

600
00:26:58,839 --> 00:27:02,880
Shine or Sheen or whatever that rom weed. Yeah yeah,

601
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,079
but you know, the clothes are kind of cheap and

602
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,880
everything was super oversized on her whatever, but whatever.

603
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: She's like into, like wanting to buy clothes. I was like,

604
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:12,759
I'm all for it.

605
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 3: I go.

606
00:27:13,799 --> 00:27:16,839
Speaker 4: So I felt like a totally big shot. I was like,

607
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,960
LB has one of my credit cards. I was like

608
00:27:20,279 --> 00:27:22,720
her and take her in there. And Albie's like, really,

609
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,440
can she buy some stuff? And I was like, go

610
00:27:25,559 --> 00:27:25,839
for it.

611
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,279
Speaker 1: Have fun. Sister's bonding. And then alb was like do you.

612
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 4: Need to come in with us or It's like, you know, no,

613
00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:34,559
that's fine, I can wait out here. Yeah, same thing.

614
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,359
So I sat outside, I listened to a podcast and

615
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,400
they were so cute. They came out and Sadie had

616
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,400
a little bag. She'd bought four Brandy shirts.

617
00:27:42,519 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: She's perfect for Brandy because I would think those shirts

618
00:27:45,759 --> 00:27:48,519
are perfect for her. You see how little they are,

619
00:27:48,599 --> 00:27:51,119
by the way, Yes, I mean they stretch and stuff,

620
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,559
but yeah, but Sadie's tiny.

621
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, It's just that Sadie's way more modest than Elbie.

622
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: Like Elbie's all about the short what they all wear.

623
00:28:00,559 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, jeans, but tiny shirts, haltertops, and then a hoodie

624
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,000
over it, which I'm sure the hoodie comes right off

625
00:28:08,079 --> 00:28:11,960
of course when they're around boys. But Sadie's just way

626
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,839
more like everything's oversized. She wears giant sweatshirts. She wears

627
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,720
John sweatshirts, and then like jeans or leggings or whatever.

628
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,519
Speaker 1: Right right, I like your style. She's got a cute style.

629
00:28:24,079 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a big it's a big shot, but that's

630
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,440
nice that they bonded and it fun so well.

631
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,279
Speaker 1: So this this everything's interconnected.

632
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,519
Speaker 4: Xander at first wanted to come, but I really didn't

633
00:28:37,559 --> 00:28:40,200
want him to come because he he is such a

634
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,160
typical boy in that, Like he's immediately like either either

635
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,240
we're going to like a skate store where he can

636
00:28:46,279 --> 00:28:49,200
find a T shirt or he's done.

637
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,519
Speaker 1: Exactly, He's like, so we.

638
00:28:51,519 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 4: Go, like how many stores do we need to go?

639
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,559
Like we already went into a store totally like are

640
00:28:55,559 --> 00:28:55,880
we done?

641
00:28:56,359 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, you shouldn't have come. Exactly.

642
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,039
Speaker 3: I did the same thing with so I'm like going

643
00:29:01,079 --> 00:29:02,839
to the America and you don't want to come, do you.

644
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,799
The only thing he does is he goes to the

645
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,480
Apple store, browses that, and then the Samsung store and

646
00:29:10,519 --> 00:29:12,319
that's it, and then he's like I'm done, Like I'm done,

647
00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:13,160
How long are you guys?

648
00:29:13,359 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: Right here?

649
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,279
Speaker 4: Right, come on, let's go. Yeah, it's typical dude. So

650
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,680
Xander thought he wanted to go because he never goes anywhere. Yeah,

651
00:29:20,759 --> 00:29:23,920
but we'd already been out for the afternoon. So Sadie

652
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,200
was like, doesn't your foot still hurt.

653
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,799
Speaker 1: Your table foot? You're broken toe. It didn't blow up

654
00:29:31,799 --> 00:29:33,559
like a balloon, so it's probably just sprained.

655
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:38,559
Speaker 4: And he's like yeah, and then he's like, mom, I

656
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,400
kind of want to go. He goes, but I'm afraid

657
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,039
once I get there, I'm going to regret it. And

658
00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:45,960
I was like, yeah, I mean you should go with

659
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,720
that instinct. Yeah, stay home. Yeah, so he stayed home.

660
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,960
So so then we then I was like, I'm starving.

661
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 1: There's no way to get food.

662
00:29:55,079 --> 00:29:57,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, none of these, none of these outsholes are going

663
00:29:57,799 --> 00:30:00,920
to give me food because I suddenly crazily crowded there. Right,

664
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,759
So I'm like, now I want cheesecake factory. So I'm like,

665
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,880
let's call the cheesecake factory in Sherman Oaks, so on

666
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:07,559
our way back.

667
00:30:07,599 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: We so it'll take us like, yeah, you know, thirty

668
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,599
minutes to get there. So I call them.

669
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,839
Speaker 4: They're like, oh yeah, we don't take reservations. Oh and

670
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:14,759
there's an hour wait.

671
00:30:16,599 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So we went to Bikito Moss for

672
00:30:19,759 --> 00:30:25,359
our house, sat outside, ate some dinner, love became home love.

673
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:25,599
Speaker 2: Yeah.

674
00:30:25,599 --> 00:30:28,079
Speaker 1: It was really fun. Yeah, yeah, it's nice.

675
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: I mean I take you know, when she wants to

676
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,319
bond with me and she wants to go, you know, out,

677
00:30:34,359 --> 00:30:35,160
and she's bored.

678
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,279
Speaker 1: She'll like once a month asked me to go, and

679
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,319
you know, and then I'm like sometimes I'm like what

680
00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:42,720
am I doing? By the way.

681
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: And also she's stuck at home a lot. Why not

682
00:30:46,279 --> 00:30:49,079
you know, she's got her allowance. Let let her spend

683
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,000
it and we go. And I love that Italian restaurant.

684
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,319
So yeah, yeah, it's face. I've been bonding with an

685
00:30:55,319 --> 00:30:56,839
Italian a lot, which has been.

686
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: That is nice. Yeah, she's so like I.

687
00:31:02,839 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: Said on the other show, she's just so pumped up,

688
00:31:05,039 --> 00:31:07,880
you know, and I love that she describes everything to me.

689
00:31:08,039 --> 00:31:12,079
It's really nice. And Adam, you know, he's been he's

690
00:31:12,119 --> 00:31:15,039
been talking to her and they've been getting along better.

691
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,640
Her and Sonny getting arguments once in a while, like

692
00:31:20,599 --> 00:31:24,319
about masks and stuff like that, and you know, and

693
00:31:24,359 --> 00:31:25,920
it's like I have to break it up and go no,

694
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:31,160
no talk, no, like it sucks, like no political talk.

695
00:31:31,279 --> 00:31:33,240
I gotta tell them, like I don't want to sit

696
00:31:33,279 --> 00:31:35,200
here and listen to this and be a referee. And

697
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,359
by the way, Natalia just shuts him down.

698
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: Screams at him and then leaves. And then Adam's I.

699
00:31:40,359 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: Mean, Sonny is like, how am I supposed to have

700
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,440
a conversation with her when she just walks away And

701
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,599
I'm like, well, maybe she she doesn't want a debate

702
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,440
right now, and he's like, well she brought it up.

703
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: You know.

704
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,359
Speaker 3: It's like a lot of that, and I'm just those

705
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,839
two went to Brittany together.

706
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: Did I tell you that how recently a week ago?

707
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 4: Oh?

708
00:32:00,599 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: Because of it? Tell us? Yeah, I mean it.

709
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: Was because of them basically like arguing you know a lot,

710
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,440
and also like they started to get along, which was

711
00:32:10,559 --> 00:32:15,920
nice for a while, but then you know it, then

712
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,920
it goes away and then it's just they're back to

713
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,279
you know, bickering or whatever. I noticed them trying to

714
00:32:21,319 --> 00:32:24,920
be nice to each other, like hey, hey, you know

715
00:32:25,079 --> 00:32:28,720
like that, and like I say, like, okay, let's sit

716
00:32:28,759 --> 00:32:30,759
down and eat together, you know, because they want to

717
00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:31,759
take their food and go their own.

718
00:32:32,039 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: So they're like all right.

719
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,079
Speaker 3: So they sit and eat together and then they they

720
00:32:35,119 --> 00:32:40,039
talk and stuff and it's nice. But it's sad though,

721
00:32:40,079 --> 00:32:43,880
because I can tell like they both are trying really hard,

722
00:32:44,599 --> 00:32:47,200
but yet they don't know how to do it.

723
00:32:47,279 --> 00:32:48,519
Speaker 1: They don't know how to connect.

724
00:32:49,039 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 3: So what happens is Sonny will bring up something or

725
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,920
she will be you know something, and he likes to

726
00:32:55,960 --> 00:33:00,519
debate everything, not politics, I mean, yes, politics, but other things.

727
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,319
Speaker 1: Too, you know what I mean.

728
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 3: Like he'll say, you know, I'll say, don't go outside

729
00:33:05,839 --> 00:33:08,759
the weather the air is bad from all the smoke.

730
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: No it's not, it's you know.

731
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 3: Then he has to tell me some statistic that he

732
00:33:12,799 --> 00:33:16,200
looked up on Instagram, you know, and I'm like, listen, dude,

733
00:33:16,319 --> 00:33:19,079
just don't I don't want you jumping on the trampoline

734
00:33:19,119 --> 00:33:21,440
right now. The air is quality's bad. Well blah blah

735
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,599
blah blah. But did you know it's like, oh my god,

736
00:33:24,799 --> 00:33:26,359
really like challenging.

737
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 4: He's in that stage of challenging, especially me and Italia,

738
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,440
and I think he starts to feel ganged up on,

739
00:33:33,079 --> 00:33:35,079
you know, like when Adam's out of town and it's

740
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:35,559
just the.

741
00:33:35,559 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: Three of us.

742
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:43,839
Speaker 3: He he tries very hard to like make his you know, point,

743
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,200
get his point across, and like, you know, try and

744
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,880
be the winner of the argument or.

745
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: Whatever it is. And it's so exhausting.

746
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 3: And I get it, you know, he's a teenager and

747
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,599
he's going through all that. But at the same time,

748
00:33:56,759 --> 00:34:00,640
it's just it is exhausting, and I understand the point

749
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,319
of view because a lot of times she doesn't want

750
00:34:02,359 --> 00:34:04,680
to hear it, she's tired or whatever, and he's like, well,

751
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,640
come on, and he's doing it in a nice way.

752
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,119
He's not like yelling at her, like God, and then

753
00:34:09,159 --> 00:34:11,760
they start off fine, and then it just goes into

754
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,199
like he gets mad because she cuts them off and

755
00:34:14,199 --> 00:34:16,880
he's like, I can't finish my point, you know, and

756
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,760
then he gets like teary eyed because then he's like

757
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,599
irritated and mad, and I can tell and it's.

758
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,199
Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, and I'm in the middle. So

759
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:26,320
they I.

760
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,079
Speaker 3: Sent them to Brittany, and Brittany was like, yeah, it's

761
00:34:29,119 --> 00:34:32,480
typical sibling stuff, and that's actually a lot of boy

762
00:34:32,559 --> 00:34:36,840
girl conflict, you know, especially at this time. Their their

763
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,679
age and their hormones and all that. So you know,

764
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,440
so they're going to go again. So they went once,

765
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:44,320
they're going to go again.

766
00:34:44,559 --> 00:34:45,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

767
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 3: So I mean, look, their kid, their their brother and sister.

768
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,960
But I really want them to start to get along

769
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:58,760
and understand and have patients they you know, I Natalia

770
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:03,599
has no patience, right, She's got a little bit of anxiousness.

771
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,880
There's a lot of anxious energy, like Brittany will tell you.

772
00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:09,559
And she had that a long time ago when she

773
00:35:09,599 --> 00:35:11,760
went to Brittany and that's why I sent her, right,

774
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,119
and I guess she got a little bit now she's

775
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,519
very like she's she's got this like anxious energy, you know,

776
00:35:19,199 --> 00:35:21,039
like who's coming over on Friday?

777
00:35:21,079 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: You know?

778
00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 3: Or can I invite the team over in the backyard

779
00:35:24,559 --> 00:35:26,320
to bond, you know, and all that kind of stuff,

780
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,039
which and doesn't tell me, by the way, And then

781
00:35:29,119 --> 00:35:30,719
I get a knock at the door and then.

782
00:35:30,639 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, yeah, I invited the team over.

783
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 4: That's irritating though, because don't you want to have like

784
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,199
some stuff for like snacks?

785
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 1: That's what I said here.

786
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 3: She's like, mom, I said that, and She's like, I

787
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,480
we don't need anything. I clean the backyard. Everybody goes

788
00:35:45,519 --> 00:35:47,119
through the side gate except for the.

789
00:35:47,039 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: One that ends right. Who's like, order pizza or what

790
00:35:49,679 --> 00:35:52,039
she What did she do?

791
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,519
Speaker 3: I don't know she she I don't know what she did.

792
00:35:56,639 --> 00:35:59,480
I don't think she ordered food. She brought everybody water

793
00:35:59,599 --> 00:36:01,840
and stuff. It was like an afternoon. They were there

794
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,199
for like an two hours at the most, you know.

795
00:36:04,639 --> 00:36:06,559
But they had a great time. I mean, such a

796
00:36:06,599 --> 00:36:09,960
great you know, it's a little it's like twelve thirteen

797
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,480
girls and they all get along, which is insane.

798
00:36:12,559 --> 00:36:14,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so nice, so really nice.

799
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 4: Did they swim? I know it hasn't been as hot. No,

800
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,960
they didn't go swimming. They sat in a circle on

801
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,159
the trampoline most of the time, you know.

802
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: Oh cute, I know.

803
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 3: And then Italian was telling me like, uh, you know,

804
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,519
she feels bad. I guess this is where the humble bride.

805
00:36:29,519 --> 00:36:31,800
I was going to say this, but she feels bad

806
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,519
because that coach is really tough on her and asks,

807
00:36:35,679 --> 00:36:38,360
you know, and tell and we'll take another girl out

808
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,199
and put her keep her in, you know. And then

809
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,280
some of her friends don't get a lot of playing time.

810
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,679
And she feels bad and you know, so she's like,

811
00:36:47,199 --> 00:36:48,920
I don't know, oh, but that's nice.

812
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,199
Speaker 1: She deserves to be like the little star of the team.

813
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:51,639
Speaker 4: For one.

814
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 3: But then that's another thing with Sonny and Italia, because

815
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,960
now Sonny doesn't have you know, so he hears me

816
00:36:57,119 --> 00:36:59,559
praising her and going, that's great, and she's talking about

817
00:36:59,559 --> 00:37:02,519
her team and her coach, you know, and he doesn't.

818
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,159
Before he had something to talk about, but now he

819
00:37:05,199 --> 00:37:08,880
doesn't have anything, and I got to find him something.

820
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:09,199
You know.

821
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 4: It's so weird because he was so in the it's

822
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,960
weird to be so into basketball. That's like all he

823
00:37:14,039 --> 00:37:17,719
was doing for so long. To go from that to nothing, right, nothing.

824
00:37:18,119 --> 00:37:21,320
This is what people don't understand. Well, no, they do understand.

825
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,199
But this is one of the things that's so hard

826
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,519
about COVID. I think that affects their whole life, is

827
00:37:25,559 --> 00:37:28,719
it's not just it's really hard to have an activity,

828
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:33,039
especially teenagers. Yeah, because like right now they're the basketball

829
00:37:33,079 --> 00:37:35,400
program that my kids had been in with coach Kiki

830
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,079
for a while, Like that's.

831
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,639
Speaker 1: Not going on. That was just in a gym.

832
00:37:39,199 --> 00:37:41,079
Speaker 4: He doesn't have access to a gym, and they were

833
00:37:41,519 --> 00:37:44,199
and then not that they were really doing that. But

834
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,239
the last thing Xander did was basketball but at school,

835
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,000
and that was sixth grade and now he's in seventh

836
00:37:51,039 --> 00:37:54,000
grade and there's no sports. There's no I'm trying to

837
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,599
get them tennis lessons, that would be good. I'm trying

838
00:37:57,599 --> 00:37:59,000
to think of something like that's.

839
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 1: Not a team.

840
00:37:59,519 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 4: I want them to do something where there's where there

841
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,800
are other kids. Yes, I know, like I want something

842
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:09,599
like what Natalia has, like Elbie told me yesterday, So

843
00:38:10,119 --> 00:38:12,400
there's no cheerleading. So you know, she had dropped out

844
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,800
of basketball to do cheerleading, right, and now there's there's

845
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:16,599
no cheerleading.

846
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 3: So they're not going on that trip that they were planning.

847
00:38:19,639 --> 00:38:21,599
Remember they were planning a trip. Oh that was over

848
00:38:21,639 --> 00:38:25,239
the summer that got canceled immediately. No, nothing, and they're

849
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,119
not even doing they're not even really meeting because there's nothing.

850
00:38:28,119 --> 00:38:30,960
There's no point, there's no there's no cheers because there's

851
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,039
not going to be any games. Wow, I know, it's

852
00:38:34,079 --> 00:38:36,559
really they don't have any games coming up or anything

853
00:38:36,639 --> 00:38:39,199
like the school. I think our school is starting to

854
00:38:40,119 --> 00:38:41,440
have outdoor.

855
00:38:41,119 --> 00:38:43,599
Speaker 4: Well they might drillly do that, but there's not going

856
00:38:43,639 --> 00:38:47,960
to be cheerleaders at their games, right, so they don't

857
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,000
get to do any of that, and she's.

858
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 1: So bummed and so she really has no it's just school.

859
00:38:53,599 --> 00:38:54,440
It's just classes.

860
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 3: Now, that's what That's the thing is that that's what

861
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,760
Sunny's got. And he walks goes on it's walks by himself,

862
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,480
and he's just I'm just thinking to myself, like this

863
00:39:03,519 --> 00:39:06,559
is this kid has to do something, Like he's by

864
00:39:06,679 --> 00:39:10,400
himself all the time, you know, and an Adam has

865
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,320
been traveling and so when he's gone, it's like he's

866
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,199
home by himself sometimes because I'm with Natalia going and

867
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:17,360
doing stuff.

868
00:39:17,039 --> 00:39:20,679
Speaker 1: And I don't know, it's just it can't be healthy.

869
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:25,960
I should bring Xander over. Yeah, yeah, we can tell

870
00:39:26,039 --> 00:39:27,920
you and Albie would love each other. And I know

871
00:39:28,159 --> 00:39:28,800
they really would.

872
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 3: I know, I know when she saw that picture of them,

873
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:36,360
she was like, oh no, you know, yeah, totally absolutely, because.

874
00:39:36,159 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 4: Elbie's got that same like she's super social and she's

875
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,480
always doing something and now she's about to be sixteen,

876
00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:44,119
so that'll be kind of fun.

877
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, Natalia, probably totally we should do that. Friend, we

878
00:39:48,039 --> 00:39:51,079
can meet somewhere, you just come over. Yeah, you know,

879
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,239
I bet the kids would love it. Do you wear

880
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:53,840
masks though?

881
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:58,199
Speaker 4: I mean I hate them. They don't there's no oxygen,

882
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,960
no oxygen levels all.

883
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,079
Speaker 1: Hello.

884
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, so uh we're just joking.

885
00:40:07,199 --> 00:40:08,039
Speaker 1: We're just joking.

886
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 4: Yes, I wear masks. Yeah, Kaylan wears a mask all

887
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,679
the time. Kaylan is super careful. Yeah, this guy has

888
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,400
changed so much by the way I now.

889
00:40:17,559 --> 00:40:21,159
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of it. Like this responsible dad, Yeah,

890
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,800
super into his kids. And this girl doesn't do and

891
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,480
doesn't drink, doesn't smoke.

892
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, knew me.

893
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: Don't drink, don't smoke. What do you do so you

894
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:32,719
don't you don't.

895
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,079
Speaker 3: How do you you notice a difference in your in

896
00:40:35,119 --> 00:40:36,719
your health, like how you feel?

897
00:40:37,559 --> 00:40:41,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, big difference really, Yeah, totally. I have so much

898
00:40:41,199 --> 00:40:44,480
more energy than I used to. I mean it helps

899
00:40:44,639 --> 00:40:48,000
that I'm not going out anywhere, you know, to like

900
00:40:48,079 --> 00:40:51,480
parties or get together. If I was, I don't know,

901
00:40:51,519 --> 00:40:53,440
I probably have a beer or two. I'm not like

902
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:59,079
totally against drinking now, but yeah, especially not smoking cigarettes anymore.

903
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,480
Like I never have those just like random pains in

904
00:41:02,519 --> 00:41:06,199
my oh wow chest or a sore throat for no reason.

905
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: So that feels a lot better. That's awesome, O, Cale,

906
00:41:09,079 --> 00:41:10,039
I'm so proud of you.

907
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: You.

908
00:41:10,679 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: She's got his mask on right now as he speaks.

909
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: You.

910
00:41:13,199 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: I know it's it is. That's a little how come

911
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:16,280
you wear it in there though?

912
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,079
Speaker 2: You know, I honestly I do. I wear it all

913
00:41:19,119 --> 00:41:24,400
the time because I am in the compromised group of people.

914
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,239
It would be very very bad if I did get COVID.

915
00:41:28,039 --> 00:41:30,239
But I wear it so much that I just forget

916
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:30,840
that I have it on.

917
00:41:31,079 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. You might as well just keep wearing it.

918
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like Natalia said, she wore it that day at

919
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,320
the game at the tournaments, and she's just like, you

920
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,719
just put it on and forget.

921
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: You have it.

922
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you totally forget you have it on.

923
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,039
Speaker 1: Your mask is really nice. I like that.

924
00:41:45,519 --> 00:41:46,679
Speaker 2: My mom got it for me.

925
00:41:47,159 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: Oh love that. Look the mid see that's the other

926
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,639
picture of the Yeah, take a picture of for instance,

927
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:55,199
for our instance.

928
00:41:55,199 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 4: Because the mask thing too, it's got to be like

929
00:41:58,079 --> 00:42:00,840
that stretchy kind of material or what is that stretchy?

930
00:42:01,079 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

931
00:42:02,039 --> 00:42:05,280
Speaker 3: See I like that. I wear this. I wear the

932
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,880
nurse mask like you know, the disposable ones.

933
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I wear. Huh, that is what I

934
00:42:11,199 --> 00:42:11,679
used to wear.

935
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 2: And then just my mom being mom.

936
00:42:14,199 --> 00:42:17,599
Speaker 3: I want a good mask. I mean, what a good mom.

937
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:20,119
And it's a nice looking mask too. It's white with

938
00:42:20,159 --> 00:42:21,400
the with the black border.

939
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,079
Speaker 4: I'm gonna try and take a picture of him right now,

940
00:42:24,079 --> 00:42:27,920
but okay, hold on, I gotta how come I can't

941
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,159
take a photo?

942
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: By the way, can we just talk about The Valve

943
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,840
for one second? Yes? Again, I am obsessed with that

944
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,920
show on a Klin. Have you watched The Valve?

945
00:42:38,079 --> 00:42:38,159
Speaker 4: No?

946
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: I haven't.

947
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's the documentary on Nexium next them.

948
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and even if you've seen the even if you've listened.

949
00:42:47,159 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 3: To the podcast, this way more, way, more interesting, way

950
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:55,920
more material. I cannot believe all the footage they have.

951
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:00,519
It looks like, I know, for this documentary.

952
00:43:00,079 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 4: Because the guy, the guy that would that made the

953
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:07,079
movie what the bleep, was thinking that he was making

954
00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:09,519
a movie for Keith Ranier.

955
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, he wanted him to document everything.

956
00:43:12,039 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 4: So it ended up being not what Keith Renier would

957
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,639
have wanted because he used all that footage told to

958
00:43:18,679 --> 00:43:20,280
like tell a totally different story.

959
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the footage is amazing, I know.

960
00:43:23,079 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 3: And also the audio him the phone calls, he recorded

961
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:27,480
all the phone calls.

962
00:43:28,079 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

963
00:43:29,079 --> 00:43:31,039
Speaker 4: I know that's wouldn't you be like if you were

964
00:43:31,079 --> 00:43:35,519
that guy, wouldn't you be like, uh like are you

965
00:43:35,559 --> 00:43:35,840
are you.

966
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,559
Speaker 1: Recording me for every phone call? Do you want that? Right?

967
00:43:40,079 --> 00:43:43,719
It's just bizarre. I mean, it really is. And you

968
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,000
know you could have been in that cult.

969
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 4: I'm posting a picture right now. This is happening in

970
00:43:51,559 --> 00:43:56,719
real time, Kaylan of Kayln in his mask. It's on

971
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:02,079
our what's our? It's it's f col pod. There you

972
00:44:02,119 --> 00:44:03,159
go on Insta.

973
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:10,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, the vow done.

974
00:44:10,559 --> 00:44:13,559
Speaker 4: I found it so riveting and some people were saying

975
00:44:13,559 --> 00:44:15,760
it was kind of boring, but I didn't find it boring.

976
00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:18,639
Speaker 1: At all, Not at all, No, not at all.

977
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 4: I love the You know what I loved about the

978
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:25,000
way they tell the story is obviously things change with

979
00:44:25,159 --> 00:44:28,880
the narrators. You might say, they really show it in

980
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,760
almost it almost feels like it's happening in real time,

981
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,559
where first they're really into it and they're talking how

982
00:44:34,639 --> 00:44:37,519
great Nexium is, and and then it doesn't get dark

983
00:44:37,599 --> 00:44:39,599
until sort of the middle of the series you start

984
00:44:39,639 --> 00:44:42,159
to and they so they take you all the way

985
00:44:42,159 --> 00:44:46,320
through like their journey totally until they and then you

986
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:50,039
find out who got out and you know, yes, it's

987
00:44:50,199 --> 00:44:54,320
insane to me that that guy could you know the

988
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:58,599
real The other thing is that Alison Mac is just insane.

989
00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:01,400
And she was the one that starts to dots, which

990
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,000
was the group right, which.

991
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: Came from Janess right, so, which was the women's group, right,

992
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,119
the women's like empowerment thing, And that's the one that

993
00:45:10,159 --> 00:45:15,199
she invited me to. Oh Janese really yeah, oh my god,

994
00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:18,880
which was is like the precursor to the branding one.

995
00:45:19,039 --> 00:45:21,840
Oh my god, you could have been branded. That's what

996
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,559
she was inviting me to. That was that I have

997
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,440
the and that was Alison Mac that invited you. Yeah.

998
00:45:26,559 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 4: I posted the thing on in boarding the exchange again where.

999
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,079
Speaker 1: She was like hey, she reached out to me.

1000
00:45:34,559 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 4: She tweeted at me and was like hey, because obviously

1001
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,079
I didn't follow her in those days. I don't know

1002
00:45:42,119 --> 00:45:43,599
if it's still this way, but you have to be

1003
00:45:43,639 --> 00:45:47,239
following somebody to be able to direct message them, except

1004
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,360
for I think nowadays on Twitter you can leave your

1005
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,280
direct messages open, so anybody can direct message you. But

1006
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,440
at that point you had to be following somebody. So

1007
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,000
she was like, hey, can you follow me? Because I

1008
00:45:58,039 --> 00:46:01,679
want to tell you about this thing I want to

1009
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,039
or invite you to whatever. So I followed her and

1010
00:46:05,079 --> 00:46:07,760
then I looked up who she was and I knew

1011
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,079
she was from the from Smallville, but I also saw

1012
00:46:11,119 --> 00:46:14,280
that she had done I know my first name is

1013
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:15,599
Steven the Lifetime movie.

1014
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:17,599
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, So.

1015
00:46:17,559 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 4: I was like, I wrote to her. I was like,

1016
00:46:19,559 --> 00:46:21,960
oh my god. First of all, I was super excited. Yeah,

1017
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,679
I'm like, oh my god, it's the lever Like, yeah,

1018
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,239
like a kind of famous person is like reaching out

1019
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:27,519
to me.

1020
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: I think I might have been doing a parental discretion

1021
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,280
at the time. Oh interesting. So I was like, oh, like,

1022
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,000
so she's reaching out to me for some So I

1023
00:46:37,039 --> 00:46:39,440
assumed it was like some charity thing that she was

1024
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,400
asking me to be a part of. And I was

1025
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,599
like super flattered.

1026
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 4: So I wrote, Oh my gosh, Like, by the way,

1027
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,599
I know my first name is Stephen is like my favorite,

1028
00:46:48,599 --> 00:46:51,719
all time favorite Lifetime movie. I didn't need to say. Also,

1029
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:56,199
the Betty Broader up story, you know, she didn't need

1030
00:46:56,239 --> 00:47:00,119
to know that at the time, So.

1031
00:47:00,199 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to make myself out to be a liar.

1032
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,199
Speaker 4: I also love the Betty brought her story and Betty

1033
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:08,960
brought her her final fury. But I know my first

1034
00:47:09,039 --> 00:47:12,280
name is Steven is up there right right totally.

1035
00:47:13,519 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: So I was like, uh, I said that, and then

1036
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:17,719
I said, so is it a charity?

1037
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,119
Speaker 4: And then she wrote me back not exactly a charity,

1038
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,320
it's like a women's organization. And then and then right

1039
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:29,159
away I was like, oh, I smell a rat. You

1040
00:47:29,199 --> 00:47:32,320
know me, I'm cynepel as fuck. I was like, uh,

1041
00:47:32,679 --> 00:47:34,480
I don't know what this says. She goes it's called

1042
00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:36,880
Janus or whatever, and then she was like, I'd really

1043
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:38,559
like to meet you for coffee to tell you more

1044
00:47:38,559 --> 00:47:39,000
about it.

1045
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,079
Speaker 1: Serious. Yes, I'll show you the exchange. I'll put it

1046
00:47:42,119 --> 00:47:43,039
back on our Yeah.

1047
00:47:43,079 --> 00:47:45,039
Speaker 4: I put it up and then I said so then

1048
00:47:45,079 --> 00:47:47,239
I ignore her. I don't write back, and then she

1049
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,159
writes me again, like a couple of weeks later and

1050
00:47:49,159 --> 00:47:51,360
she's like, hey, I'm in La, I'd love to meet

1051
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:52,199
you for coffee.

1052
00:47:52,559 --> 00:47:57,079
Speaker 1: And I never responded. Jesus, you could have been branded.

1053
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,079
Speaker 2: I know.

1054
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 1: If I've been more of yourson, who's a fall.

1055
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,639
Speaker 3: Door getter, if you were a go getter, would you

1056
00:48:04,639 --> 00:48:07,360
have gone down to the doas thing like you know

1057
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:11,280
for Huvee and Genesis right right, You're not cynical.

1058
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 4: No, because first of all, I many years ago I

1059
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,760
told you I I like signed up to sell Kirby

1060
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:17,559
vacuum cleaners.

1061
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:19,039
Speaker 1: That was, and I was all about it.

1062
00:48:19,599 --> 00:48:21,639
Speaker 4: And I went to the original meeting and it was

1063
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:25,039
like I went to Kirby vacuum Cleaner. I was like,

1064
00:48:25,119 --> 00:48:27,320
I can sell the shit out of some vacuums. Like

1065
00:48:27,519 --> 00:48:29,880
that seems right up my alley, going door to door.

1066
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,880
I'll chat with people, I'll do a demonstration, pour some

1067
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,960
grape juice on their carpet, whatever I have to do.

1068
00:48:35,039 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm in.

1069
00:48:36,119 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 4: As soon as I started hearing all the sales you speak,

1070
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,199
and then you got to always be closing and all

1071
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,079
the thing, and I was like, hmm, this isn't really

1072
00:48:45,119 --> 00:48:47,360
for me. I'm not that kind of person, Like I

1073
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,239
don't like that stuff. Right my whole life, I've never

1074
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,840
been like I'm not going to go to the forum.

1075
00:48:52,039 --> 00:48:53,639
I don't want to learn your like weird.

1076
00:48:55,159 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go.

1077
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,039
Speaker 4: To AA originally because I was like, it's going to

1078
00:48:58,079 --> 00:48:59,159
be a bunch of slogans.

1079
00:48:59,199 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: It's going to be like so.

1080
00:49:00,159 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 4: Kind of executive like self helpy thing. Right, It's not

1081
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:08,599
really like that. But the point is I was I

1082
00:49:08,639 --> 00:49:11,559
would not. As soon as she was telling me it's

1083
00:49:11,559 --> 00:49:13,960
some organization. I must have looked it up and I

1084
00:49:14,039 --> 00:49:16,800
was like, hmmm, I don't know, some kind of empowerment.

1085
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:21,199
So let's just say you were into that kind of thing.

1086
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:22,840
I wish I'm just dreaming.

1087
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:26,079
Speaker 3: First, Just indulge me, just like, okay, what I have

1088
00:49:26,119 --> 00:49:26,920
got in my vagina?

1089
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: Branded? Right? What would you probably? What would you?

1090
00:49:31,119 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 4: I mean, if I was the type of person who

1091
00:49:33,039 --> 00:49:36,199
was really into it, then I would be like, hell, yeah,

1092
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,800
I want to get branded like I love Keith Ranier.

1093
00:49:39,119 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: Right, these are all my sisters.

1094
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 4: Totally.

1095
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,159
Speaker 1: I got to get a tattoo.

1096
00:49:43,199 --> 00:49:45,159
Speaker 3: I'll get well, yeah, you got to prove it, right,

1097
00:49:45,559 --> 00:49:46,719
It's like getting a tattoo.

1098
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: But you know, I might have been afraid of the

1099
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:49,559
pain though.

1100
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 3: That's the thing I mean that she said, Like she

1101
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,599
said to other women, she watched them get done, and they

1102
00:49:56,559 --> 00:49:57,880
were screaming.

1103
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 4: In pain, screaming like, can I have a Viking in

1104
00:50:01,119 --> 00:50:04,320
or something ahead of time? Right?

1105
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:07,119
Speaker 1: An ambient something?

1106
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 4: Can I always be drowsy? Or a Benadryl something? Does

1107
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:20,280
anybody have anything at the bottom of the purse? They

1108
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,559
don't have their purse because it took go out your clothes.

1109
00:50:22,599 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yea, they're naked. That's about that. Then

1110
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,119
what then? What would you do?

1111
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 4: Like, I'm having second thoughts. Can we just I want

1112
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,519
to do this next week?

1113
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: I want to put this. I swear to god I'll

1114
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:40,800
be back. Is there a bus? Can I get a ride?

1115
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:42,199
Can I just listen?

1116
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 4: I just need my pants, that's all fine, I'm just

1117
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,559
gonna yeah, I promise I'll be back.

1118
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: No, you have my word, I'm coming back. I wish

1119
00:50:56,079 --> 00:50:56,880
you would have done it.

1120
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 4: I would have found like an old Lindy's like somewhere

1121
00:51:03,559 --> 00:51:04,360
in my wallet.

1122
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,039
Speaker 1: She's been like, hang.

1123
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 4: On, let me just can you just give me twenty

1124
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:09,400
minutes for this to kick in?

1125
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: No, you go ahead of me, you go next, you

1126
00:51:13,039 --> 00:51:17,000
go next. Does anybody have anything at the bottom of

1127
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:21,440
theirs that's hilarious? Would you like? Would you do?

1128
00:51:21,559 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 2: Fuck?

1129
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,199
Speaker 1: Now?

1130
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:23,639
Speaker 3: Are you getting?

1131
00:51:23,679 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: I be scared out of my mind? Like, where's Stephanie?

1132
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,239
And I'm not doing it? She does, and I'll do it.

1133
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 4: Sisters, Oh my god, your mom would have been like,

1134
00:51:36,599 --> 00:51:37,239
can I get it?

1135
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 1: Get Brandy? Yes, he's a fine lazy. This is a

1136
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:45,239
nice of girls. Keith, he's a good of guy. You're

1137
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,440
gonna feed him some spaghetti to night and make him

1138
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,159
a lasagna. Oh my god, that.

1139
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 4: Keith guy, though, he's so creepy looking totally, And what's

1140
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,639
with the volleyball I oh my god. N Italia would

1141
00:51:58,639 --> 00:51:59,599
have been all about all.

1142
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:01,039
Speaker 1: She would have been.

1143
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 4: Wait, wait five volleyball games today, Mom, I'm it leave

1144
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,000
me alone. Mom, you would have been like Katherine Oxenburg,

1145
00:52:08,199 --> 00:52:10,000
I think, trying to tell you out.

1146
00:52:11,039 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: She would have been like, Mom, I'm not getting branded.

1147
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:19,360
I just really like the volleyball. Plus, I'm away from Sonny.

1148
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,360
You're like my daughter's in a sex cult. She's like, Mom,

1149
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,800
I'm not having sex with anybody. I'm playing a lot

1150
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,960
of volleyball. Though, what is it? The volleyball though? It

1151
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:28,840
is weird?

1152
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:32,159
Speaker 4: No, but and also he's so he was so like

1153
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,960
seventies looking, yes, with his weird beard, and he wears

1154
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:37,719
a sweatband on head.

1155
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: All these women thinking they're all sleeping with him, I know.

1156
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 3: And did you see the scene where Alison Mack met

1157
00:52:43,519 --> 00:52:45,719
him for the very first time, Like they had that

1158
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,280
on video and she went to the volleyball game and

1159
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,280
then she starts crying. Yeah, and he's like, oh my god,

1160
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,840
he was so creepy and she was so into him.

1161
00:52:56,199 --> 00:53:01,239
It was It's so fucking crazy, so weird. I love

1162
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,400
that shit though. I love all the cult stuff.

1163
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:06,519
Speaker 4: I know, I just feel like I am, like I said,

1164
00:53:06,599 --> 00:53:09,800
way too cynical. But I know so many people that

1165
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:12,440
you know, you know, you have friends like this too,

1166
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,960
that are kind of lost souls where they're always like

1167
00:53:15,039 --> 00:53:18,039
finding a cool thing, and you know, this person gets

1168
00:53:18,079 --> 00:53:21,519
really into meditation, but it's not they can't just get

1169
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into meditation.

1170
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Speaker 1: They have the like I just paid eighty five dollars

1171
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,559
for a mantra. You're like, I could just give you

1172
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one an get bootify. That thing is great. Why do

1173
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:33,519
you have to do that?

1174
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Speaker 4: Like, why do you have to go somewhere and be

1175
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with a group of people that are telling you how

1176
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to live your life?

1177
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Speaker 3: Exactly? And it's all that's all they say. They want

1178
00:53:41,679 --> 00:53:44,880
to broadcast it, they want you to join, they want everybody,

1179
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,360
it's all they talk about. Just go back to work

1180
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and do your meditation.

1181
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Speaker 1: Why do you have to make it part of a lifestyle.

1182
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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, it's crazy. Never I've just never bought into

1183
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any of that stuff.

1184
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting.

1185
00:53:57,079 --> 00:54:00,559
Speaker 4: How about you, Kaitlin, have you joined any cults? Not lately,

1186
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:01,360
not lately.

1187
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Speaker 1: I'm going to google one. I mean, we should send

1188
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:03,559
you into it.

1189
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Speaker 4: Right, This was so so much fun. Yeah, what a

1190
00:54:07,119 --> 00:54:09,840
great way to spend an evening. It's already it's eight

1191
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o'clock at night, and that's it. Thank you, guys, guys,

1192
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we love you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks. Kyleen, you're a parent now, don't if it up.