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Speaker 1: I'm so excited you guys. I hope we can make

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a love match. We're going to Glastonbury this morning. Second date,

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up date, Jared's on the line. Got ghosted after first date.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Jared, Hey, good morning guys. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're welcome. I hope we can help you out.

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Speaker 3: Jared.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, me too. So listen, I went on

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a great first date okay with if I can use

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their name, with his girl named Ashley, okay, and we

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met at a bar for a happy hour, and you know,

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it was definitely kind of a little bit of sparks flying,

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you know, some flirting, and I literally had a great time.

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And I've tried to call her twice and I've left

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messages each time, Okay, and I keep getting ghosted and

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I have no idea why. I don't know what I did, Guys.

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I was a gentleman, paid for everything. Thought it went well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, That's what I was going to ask, like, did

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you pay? So it's happy hour though, Jared? Did you

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get drunk? Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 2: Oh? No, no, hmmm, And.

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Speaker 1: There was flirting. You felt like a chemistry and a connection.

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Speaker 2: Right, No, for sure, this is what I.

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Speaker 4: Like to call deck the Halls season.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: These ladies are only in it for like the Hallmark

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Christmas y kind of romance movie ending, you know, so.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't romantic in it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Are you a like a big time lawyer in a

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city that went to a small town and went to

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a Christmas street farm?

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Speaker 3: I hate you so much. Yeah, I'm just saying with

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hot chalcol Yeah you guys, Okay, how about this question.

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Speaker 1: You said there was flirting going on where you were

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maybe a little bit too aggressive with the flirting.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. I mean again, I you know,

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as we all get older, we learned, you know, faux

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pause and what not to do, and so I was

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just doing my best to be respectful. There was a

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lot of laughing going on. She has a beautiful smile.

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I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you you actually sound like a great guy.

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I have no idea why you would be getting ghosted.

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We're gonna call her up, Jared, and we're just gonna

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ask her. To be honest, You're gonna be listening in

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the whole time. So if at any point you want

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to talk to Ashley, you can okay.

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Speaker 2: All right, sounds good, sounds like a nice guy.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's too nice.

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Speaker 1: We didn't ask how many messages he said, a couple

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he might have left her like, you know, back to back,

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good point, like low key stocker vibes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, fe Hello, Hi, he's Ashley there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm Ashley.

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Speaker 3: Hey Ashley, I'm Courtney. Hey, I'm Walmart.

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Speaker 4: Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Ashley, I'm Savannah. Nice to meet you, and we're

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calling from.

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Speaker 1: Kiss ninety five to seven. I gotta let you know, Ashley,

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you are. You're on the air this morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: Well we do something.

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Speaker 1: Called second date Update, where if you go on a

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first date, maybe you have a great time, you felt

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a connection and there's chemistry, but then you get ghosted

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after that date. You want to answers, you call us,

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and I gotta be honest. Jared called us.

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Speaker 5: Oh Jared, okay, So let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: What Jared told us. Jared said, you guys met for

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a happy hour. He did say you have a beautiful smile.

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He did, indeed, right, he felt there was chemistry, there

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was a connection.

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Speaker 3: He said, you talked about a palletha of.

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Speaker 1: Things and he has no idea why he's getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how is the date for you?

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Speaker 5: It was? It was good, Okay, it was fun. Okay,

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you know, definitely we're both you know, learning a good amount.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so there's good. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I did get a weird vibe though, because at

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one point during the date he told me that he

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doesn't believe in celebrating any holidays. Is not really like

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I only celebrate Sinko to Mayo and Saint Patrick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not a religious thing. It's not like

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a religious thing. It's more like a Jared thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounded like he was only interested in going

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to the or like celebrating the holidays where you go

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to the bar and like you don't really value like

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family or love or you know that kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Was he joking? No? Okay.

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Speaker 5: At one point he said that he said that Valentine's

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Day was made up by greedy women.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well that's offensive. He has a point.

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Speaker 5: Yeah what no, No, Jared, that is crazy to say.

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Speaker 3: All right, can I'm gonna I'm gonna bring him on, Jared.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jared, Okay, guys, Jared, is this I mean, honestly,

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you're telling somebody on a first date that you you

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only celebrate sego to myle St Patrick's Day and Thatvalentine's

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Days for greedy women.

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Speaker 3: Are you just joking?

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Speaker 2: Come on, Jared, No, actually, look, I mean, you know,

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Thinko to Mayo, Mexican Independence. There you go. You know,

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Saint Patrick's Day, I mean all admire the man, I

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mean spreaded. You know, a great amount of Christianity, you

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know in Ireland and around the country and around the world.

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But then you know you look at this homework holiday

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of Valentine's Day. I mean, give me a break. You know,

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this scrapt is completely made up, you know, and it's

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just for women who want gifts. In my opinion, listen,

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if you're a good person, you know you guys are

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in a good relationship. Every day is Valentine's Day. If

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you're at the store, you see something that's her favorite color,

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you know, you get her a little tiny thing. But like,

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why have to go bend over backwards on this one day?

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Speaker 3: Thousands of get.

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Speaker 1: God, you are a revolutionary Ashley, you really are revolutionary.

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Usually the point I offer to pay for the next date,

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like we'll pick up the tab, is there any there

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is there any desire for you guys to see each

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other again.

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Speaker 5: I'm not interested in hearing that monologue every time a

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holiday rolls around. I'm gonna pass. I'm going to pass.

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I'm sorry to hear it, but it's definitely a note

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from me.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking the same thing that, like, maybe reel

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that in a little, Jared on your next date.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know we understand how you feel, but

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like so aggressive. Oh lord, well you got your answers, Jared.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Ashley, thank you so much for being honest,

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and I get it. A woman wants to feel special

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and definitely not being told she's greedy on.

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Speaker 3: A first date. I got that. Yeah. Oh you guys,

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thanks for being on second date.

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Speaker 4: Update.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thank you,