Speaker 1: H is Devlin. I'm welcome to another episode, so I
hope you're laying comfortable. Those earbuds are in. I'd like
to do something a little different today. I'd like to
push a few boundaries. No story this time, well, not
the kind of story you're used to from me, But
I did want to talk to you directly, just you
and me, just for a few minutes, because there's something
I've been working on, and you know, the more I've
sat with it, the more I've realized it really belongs
in your hands, specifically, not despite everything we've shared together
because of it. So stay with me. This won't take long,
and I think I genuinely think it might matter to you.
You know, you and I have spent a lot of
intimate time together enjoying moments of intense pleasure. We have
experienced stories built for arousal, for fantasy, and for the
particular pleasure of being told something that just lights you
up inside, that starts so tingles flowing. Right now, I
want to say something clearly. There is nothing lacking in that,
nothing that needs fixing, nothing that needs to be left behind,
nothing immature, secret or incomplete about loving what we've built together,
those fantasies we share bridge They always have been the
fact that a story can move through your body, can
make your breath change, can make something stir inside you.
That's not separate from what I'm about to tell you.
You can actually enjoy the same sensations, just stronger, the
same body, the same capacity for feeling, just one particular
expression of something much larger. You know, I want to
say something now, and I don't think this gets said enough.
Most of the women I've worked with over the years,
in all the different forms of work that I've taken,
are carrying something quietly underneath everything else, something that isn't
really about pleasure at all, not at first. It's about
being seen seen as essential, being, as a passionate woman,
as someone alive worth desiring, not just someone who manages
a house, raises children, holds a job together and keeps
everyone else's lives running smoothly. Somewhere in all of the holding,
somewhere in being endlessly capable, endlessly responsible, endlessly needed, the
part of you that is a living, a breathing, deeply
central and passionate woman stops being seen not just by
anyone else by you. You stop seeing yourself that way,
and the age underneath that, the quiet, rarely spoken ache
isn't really I want more pleasure? Is I want to
be a woman again, essential woman, not a function, not
a role, a real, passionate woman. I think that take
is exactly what brings so many people to these stories
in the first place. The stories give you a safe
place where you can be seen that way completely, if
only just in your imagination for twenty minutes. So what
I want to tell you about today goes a layer
deeper than that. Here's what I've noticed. Those stories, the
stories we share that give us a sensation, that give
us a feeling of being seen, of being wanted, of
being desired, of being essential being rather than a job
a role. Now that sensation is real, it matters, and
I will never stop believing in it. But there's something
underneath the sensation, something the stories point toward without fully delivering,
a deeper aliveness that doesn't depend on a scene, a voice,
or a particular fantasy to access it. The capacity to
see yourself as essential woman. You truly are not borrowed
from a story, not performed for anyone, simply felt in
your own body as the truth of who you are
underneath the noise of everything you carry, and that noise
is loud. The school run, the laundry, the emails, the endless, small,
invisible labor of keeping everyone else all right. It's not
your fault that you're a sensuality gets buried under all
of it. But you can know that sensuality, that fire,
that passion is still there, and there is a way
of filling that gap without needing a bridge. It's called
Tantric Flame. It's a podcast I've built separate from this one,
with its own home now, that uses tantric philosophy and
somatic practice to clear away all that noise and to
help you fully arrive in your own senral body, not
through a story, through guided experience, so you can live
essentially every single day through your own breath, your own feelings,
your own felt presence. There's no plot, no characters, no scene.
There's just you, you being genuinely seen by yourself as
the alive, passionate woman who has been quietly waiting beneath
all the other roles with the ach I described a
moment ago felt familiar, even a little. I think Tantric
Flame might matter to you. So just for a moment,
I want to give you a small taste right now.
So just settle down wherever you are, take care your
spine is straight. Now, just take one breath, just a
nice normal breath, and let it go, and just for
a moment, let a moment of intimacy raised your mind
and perhaps from a story, perhaps a memory, or even
a fantasy. Each're perfect in their own way. Just notice
any images that come to mind. You can hear any sounds,
smell any fragrances, and just now notice the feeling in
your body. And as you let that feeling settle within
your body, you can notice how the image becomes distance
and the edges blur, just leaving behind that feeling, that sensation. Now,
let your attention gently into your body, not your mind,
not the part of you that manages and plans and
holds everything together, just your body, sitting or lying exactly
where you are right now, And notice, without looking for
anything in particular, whether there's a place in your body
where that sensation feels stronger, more alive. It might be small,
it might be subtle. That's completely fine, it is there.
Whatever you notice, that's not nothing, that's you seeing your sense, yourself,
your passion, your desire right there, without a story, without
anyone else's eyes on you, without someone else's permission, that
you can feel just using your own attention, finally simply
arriving in you as essential being rather than everything else.
You carry that quality, That's what Tantric Flame is built around.
In steps of twenty minutes at a time, going deeper
than a single minute ever could So just take a breath,
come back to wherever you are, We'll go your fingers
and toes good. That's the taste. Even a quiet part,
even a part you haven't acknowledged out loud to anyone,
felt something just now. I was talking if some part
of you is tired of being capable and invisible and
once just wants to just try and feel like a
woman rather than a series of roles. And I think
you might be ready. And if you are, Tantric Flame
is exactly where I'd love to meet you. Tantric Flame
has its own channel now, completely separate from this one.
I'll put the link in the episode's notes. There are
two episodes to start worth, one that explains all of
this properly, and one that takes you through a full
guided experience. The real version of what I gave you
a taste of. I genuinely love for you to join
me over there and subscribe, not instead of staying here
with me both if you want me that way, They're
different rooms in the same house. And if it's not
right for you now, that's completely fine too. I'll still
be right here, same as always with the next story.
Thank you for staying with me through something a little
different today. I built tan trip flame because I believe
the same thing about you that I've always believed. That
you are someone capable of intense passion, of intense sensuality,
and you deserve to explore that that is your birthright,
and I just wanted to offer you another way to
be seen for it, especially by yourself. The link is
in the show's notes if you want it, and I'll
be back here soon with something else entirely so until then,
just know, if nothing else know, you are a deeply
centual woman. You are beautiful just as you are, not
just everything you do for everyone else, but who you are.
Take care of that. It's more special than you can know. Then,
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