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Speaker 1: Maybe Okay, Sunny Sun, what's up everybody?

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Speaker 2: Well, welcome to for crying out loud. We're back in studio.

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Last week we did the show remotely and I was

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in Florida and now I'm back. Got back the night

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before last super late. Had a very long trip. So

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tell me, tell me more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, after when I lost left you zoom, you were like,

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because you're very chill, chill. Yes, you're a cool customer.

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Like I don't know, like maybe I'm tomorrow, maybe I

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won't right right, I didn't know. Yeah, yes, so I

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stayed like a few days. Well, I stayed a bunch

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of days longer. Got back on Saturday night. Because the kids,

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we're trying to figure out.

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Speaker 2: They really wanted the kids to come the family and

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they wanted to see them. It's very expensive too, so

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but you know, they but Sunny and Italia started doing

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their own thing for spring break. So Sonny went to

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his friend's house in Portland, parents' friend's house and they

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go they went snowboarding. So he went to do snowboarding

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skiing thing. Natalia went to Mexico and sheet with a

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bunch of friends who our dad is paying a guest

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because so she had this plan so that, but then

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she's coming back in a couple of days. And then

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you know, they wanted me to stay through Easter or whatever,

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and I was like, no, I got to get back.

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So I just I just stayed and it didn't work

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out for the kids to come, so I stayed a

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little longer. Got to see my nephew got there with

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his baby. So cute. I mean, you forget two years

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old too, almost three, like then little flintstone feet, you know,

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and like they just repeat that the way they're talking,

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like you know, hi, antilanet, you know, and I go,

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you want to go play in the pool. Yeah, let's

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go play in the pool. You know, come with me,

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you know, holding there. It's so cute. But don't miss it.

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I mean I don't miss having them to myself all

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the time twenty first seven as a parent, but as

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an anti love it, love it, and so it was

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nice to be around them and stuff. So I stayed

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a little longer and then I just I'm like, I

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got back late. I was supposed to get back. I

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don't know. My plane was supposed to land to Lax

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like nine. Didn't get intill like ten forty five because

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and also have to take two planes to get home

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from Florida and the and I was afraid that, you know,

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even though you just go through TSA. Once, I was

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reading that Houston Airport was one of the worst and

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there was a lot of delays, a lot of you know,

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canceled flights and stuff, and that's where I was flying into.

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So I had like about an hour and a half layover.

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And I get on the plane and everything is going

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smoothly to leaving leaving floor, like everything's on time. Got

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to the TSA okay, And then get on the plane

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and the captain is like, we're just gonna be on

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the runway for a while. I don't know what time

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we're going to be taking off. There's a lot Oh

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it was thunderstorms and we have to wait until it passes. Yeah.

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So that's so we're sitting there and he's like, I

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will keep you updated, and I'm like, okay, okay. Now

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I'm like looking at my at the clock and I'm

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doing the math and I'm like, okay, now I have

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about an hour. Now it's getting to be like an

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hour layover. And then I look on my app and

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it says I'm returning into into Like when I land,

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I'm in certain terminal C, but my flight that leaves

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is in terminal D.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, and a totally different terminal situation.

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Speaker 2: Well, it did say on the United app, it tells

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you and it gives you a map of how to

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get to the next terminal. So anyway, which that was

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a different so it gives you it in live action,

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like it'll show you when you get there, this is

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where you are to like when you do Google Maps

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or something kind of thing. So I couldn't do that

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while I'm sitting on the plane. But so the terminal D,

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it did say you don't have to take a train

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a tram excuse me, but it was a ten minute walk, okay, okay,

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so if you don't get lost, okay, So then so

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anyway I get there, I have about by the time

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I land and get off the plane, I have about

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forty minutes to before the gate closes to get on

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the next plane.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's not about not that bad. Let's through security again.

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Speaker 2: No, I just have to get from Terminal C to

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Terminal D and it's ten minutes, and it's a ten

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minute walk. If you're nowhere, you're going oh yeah. So

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then at the airport sometimes it says skytram A, B,

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C and D, but that's is that the terminals or

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is that a skytrap? Like I don't Then it says

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terminal C this way, Terminal B this or Terminal A

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that way. I don't see anything that says terminal D. Anyway,

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I get the map going and I start, so I

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fought it sees where I'm at, and it goes, okay,

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go right up there, you know whatever. And then I

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realized it's telling me to go to a different gate.

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It's in gate C, and I'm like, no, that's I

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need to go to gate D B four, you know,

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in terminal D. So then I realized I never used

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this thing before. So then I realized, okay, let me

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put in that gate. So then it was like, oh,

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turn around and go the other way. I'm like, oh

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my god. So then anyway, I ask somebody where's Terminal

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D and he's like, stray down there, keep going straight

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and you'll see signs for it. So then then I

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see other people from my plane running and I'm like,

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cause they did say if you have a connection, raise

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your here's the other thing. If you have a connection,

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raise your hand, and then a lot of people on

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my plane had connections. And then they said, let those

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people off first because we're late. Okay, they say that,

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no one does it, No one does it, and and

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you're in line like trying to get off the plane,

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and everybody's just they're they're filing out one aisle at

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a time. Nobody's like, nobody remembers who raised their hand

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to begin with. You know, that was like five minutes ago.

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But when we first landed, by the time you get

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to the gate, it's like, as soon as that like

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seatbelt thing goes off, everybody gets up. By the way,

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why is everybody so in a hurry to get up.

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The gate's not opened, the door to the plane's not

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even open yet. You know there's gonna be a long

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line in front of you to get off. Why all

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of a sudden, like Brian, I don't know if you notice,

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as soon as the seatbelt sign goes off, it goes ding.

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Everybody's like takes their seatbelts trying to get their luggage

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down from the right. It is like you're gonna that's

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gonna drop on somebody's head and it's not necessary. All

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it does is war clog? Thye? It does, it does.

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Speaker 3: Now it's your right, you're but and also all of

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your see your carry.

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Speaker 2: Ons exactly right. So I only have a carry on

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that's under the seat in front of me, thank god,

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a backpack. And then so so I'm going to the

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wrong So anyway, I get finally I'm like, so I

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see people running, I start running, and I'm thinking, like,

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I wonder if they're going to what what if they're

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going to a different what if they going to a

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different plane. I don't know. But I finally see the

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signs and I'm like the last, like one of the

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last people to get on that flight, almost missed it.

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Then get to get to LA and it's like we're

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gonna be landing in a few minutes. And I'm looking

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at the window and I see like the Santa Monica pier,

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like we're going over Santa Monica. And I'm like, okay,

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and I see on the map because now I've been

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I've been traveling for like almost nine hours. At this point,

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I'm dying to get off the plane. I'm exha I'm tied,

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my back is killing me. You know, you just get

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like cluster Phoe, we like, get me off his fucking

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floont and I see that, you know, the interactive map

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in front of you in the seat with the planes

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headed to Lax. Then all of a sudden it goes

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over the ocean, away from the coastline, and I'm like,

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what do we do? We're I gonna do a ocean landing.

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Where's he going? And I realize he's moving. Oh, now

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he's over the ocean and he's kind of like doing

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a circle, and then he comes on. I like when

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the captain at least tells you what's going on, because

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sometimes they don't say anything, and you're like, what the fuck.

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He comes on and he's like, yeah, there's some traffic

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down at Lax, so we're gonna have to do a

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little circle, probably another maybe fifteen twenty minutes till we land.

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So anyway, it just I was on the plane for

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so long. Finally we get to LA and I was

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like like, oh, I didn't get home until like almost

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midnight by the time I got home to my house.

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And let me ask you.

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Speaker 3: This, Yeah, you were ubering, I'm assuming yes, yes, What

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is the deal with the how you can't just get

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an uber in front of the terminal.

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Speaker 2: You have to go to some you have to take

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a given to us, Yes, to the uber area, right.

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Speaker 3: And how do you Even the first time I had

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to do that, I was so confused and everything that

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came by, I was like, is that the one that

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takes you to the uber area? Oh? And I thought

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I was gonna walk. I think I told you this,

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and I walked so far and I think the wrong direction. Yeah,

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And finally I asked somebody and they're like, no, it's

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that's the other way you're gonna I don't know what

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I thought. I was right, like, walk around the world

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in one hundred and eighty right now. Finally I had

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to get on the stupid tram. Yes, I believe us

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with Oh it was when I was I was with

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Elpie coming back from from me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was cold and it was like a

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it's all crack.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Why is that? I don't know. But now they

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do let ubers pick you up. I think they do.

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Let they do have Uber. You're allowed to get an

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Uber now A use they stopped at that was for

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a while. Now, I will say I had this uber

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a couple of trips ago and this guy, I think

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I tell you about this. This this Uber driver Ricardo,

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he's Italian and he drove me to the airport once

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and uh, we just chit chatted the whole way, and

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he was like super cool and he was telling me

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about his family in Italy and is about his mom.

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His mom just passed away. And then by the time

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I got to the l I know how'm By the

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time I got to Lax, I felt like I bonded

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with him and like I gave him a hug and

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I said, do you do like regular car services? Just

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he goes no, no, no, gave me his card and he goes,

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I dode, I can do private too, and it's a

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hundred bucks round trip for you, because I you know

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where I live and everything, you know. And I was like,

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that's good. I mean Uber now is freaking expensive. It's

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overwell over a hundred bucks now for Lax. And so

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so I had him take me to the airport. Okay,

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But then on the way home, I because I was

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so delayed, he had another ride to pick up, so

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he couldn't take me home. So I had the Uber

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but yeah, yeah, I called the Uber and the Uber

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came and just yeah, picked you right up at the

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at arrivals. Then there was a time where it was like,

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don't get picked up at arrivals, you got to go

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to departure for pick up. It was the whole thing

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at LAX. But now it was now, yeah you can

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call an uber. Now they limp. They fixed the ike.

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That was like for a hot minute. Oh yeah, yeah,

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that was a pain. It was a paid in the ass.

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Speaker 3: I was just talking to my friend on the way

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over here, my friend Cecily, not podcast partner, and I

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was just talking about how okay, And this is related

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to where John is right now. So John currently is

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with Xander doing an accepted students tour of Santa Barbara.

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Speaker 2: Nice, sub awesome.

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Speaker 3: Now we've talked about this, and you and I have

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different anxiety, but I have, like to me, I don't

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have like getting on a plane anxiety, and you don't either.

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But I'm just saying I have figuring everything out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where to park?

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Speaker 3: Am I going to park? What I'm gonna be late?

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What if I'm late? What if I don't get there

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in time? What if I can't figure out where to go?

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Speaker 2: You know that?

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Speaker 3: And John is usually the one who's very cool about everything.

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But I'm realizing that not always says. Now, I've done

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the Santa Barbara trip twice. You know, once you've done

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something twice, you're like old hat, right, like I don't

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know what he's worried about, right, yeah, so easy, just

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you know yet, But I was trying to like, Okay,

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basically I had taken Xander there. Once Xander is deciding

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between Chapman and Santa Bara. Nice, I start it down

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pretty much, really, Oh, I guess I forgot to tell

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you that he did not get into Berkeley, so he

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did not get into any super reached schools, although Santa

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Barbara is kind of a reach at this point, coming

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in right after high school. Yeah, his work was not

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for naught, you know, right, he got nice money off

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at Chapman.

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Speaker 2: And made it affordable for us. Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: So the point is those two programs, So those two schools.

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So John hadn't seen Santa Barbara because I took LB

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junior year.

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Speaker 2: Then I took LB.

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Speaker 3: I guess, oh yeah, I remember, yeah again, or maybe

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I didn't, I can't remember. And then I just took

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Xander a few months ago. But he wanted to see it.

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Again as an accepted student. But the point is this morning,

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you know, he's getting ready to go and he's all

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kinds of like tense and like asking questions and I'm like,

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who are you right? But at the same time, also

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he's a procrastinator. This is an anxiety thing. I've decided.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not a laid back thing. This is a I

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don't like to leave places. It's hard.

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Speaker 3: He's like a little toddler. He's like a preschooler. They

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can't transition right activity to the next.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: He's sat at his desk for a kid. You not

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like twenty minutes because he was like, I'm trying to

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download the parking app. I'm like, you don't really need

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the parking app. Yeah, it's fine if you have it,

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but in this situation, I go. They have one of

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those like keypads. You just right up to the thing,

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put in your license plate.

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Speaker 2: Number and pay for a perp Oh yeah yeah, yeah,

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they have that every Yeah. Santa Barbara and Santa bar Yeah,

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I'll have a parking right, right.

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Speaker 3: Could you use the app?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: But then he has to show me on his phone.

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See it's not giving me I'm putting in the verification code.

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And it's not it's not taking it. Uh, it's like, okay, crazy,

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settle down, me to use it. But he's like, now

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becomes an OCD thing. He's like, but I'm just it's

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really frustrating. And I was like, but you don't need

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to be frustrated by that, like you're fish to fry,

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like right to'd be fucking late, right right way. Anyway,

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they went to go do that, but I'm going to

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be doing Chapman, so I'm going to be doing He's

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also going to do the Chapman Accepted Students' Day. Oh nice,

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like a whole day, uh, preview the school and meet

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kids and blah blah blah. He's going to do that.

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But I'm doing a tour on Friday. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Every time I say the word tag, am I saying

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tour wrong? Are people going to come for me?

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Speaker 3: Like? I know it's tournament, but it is tour. It's

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tour like four, it's not a year I want to

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be doing.

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Speaker 2: No, no, any sire. Now.

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Speaker 3: These fucking assholes have me paranoid.

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Speaker 2: I know I was, because you do it's I think

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it's an ex It's a like a regional thing, right

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like you said, that's how they say it back. And

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so I've heard people.

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Speaker 3: I've heard like sports people call it a tournament. So

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like I'm not the only one, right. It really makes

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people mad the way I pronounce words. So now I'm

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a little self conscious of it.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to my whatever. My point was gonna be that now.

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Speaker 3: So John and I have split up the stuff that

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he has to do this speech tournament, tournament, tournament.

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Speaker 2: God, that was not on purpose.

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Speaker 3: He's doing his speech tournament on April seventeenth and eighteenth,

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and it just so happens that since John brought him

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to Santa Barbara today, I'm bringing him to Chapman Friday.

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John's bringing him to Chapman on the eleventh. So on

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the seventeenth it's gonna be PLUSA. I've done the judging.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right right.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know my brain is just going like, oh

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my god, Okay, should I do I take the electric car?

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Do I drive to Northern California and the electric car?

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Speaker 2: Am I going to be able to find? Is that

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where his tournament is? Northern California? Yep?

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Speaker 3: Union City, oh five and a half hours away? Wow, day,

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I think I'm I think I'm just gonna take the Prius. Yeah,

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don't take the electric car that does. The Prius does

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great on Gassic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how's per gallon? So it's not a.

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Speaker 3: Don't deal with that a headache. Don't the deal with

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the headache?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because when you're going on a road trip in

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the electric car, you're all. It was different like with

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the Tesla for me because it had in the map

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on the Tesla, hell told you like here's the closest Tesla.

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This is different, like you have to download the Mercedes

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app and whatever, which of course I haven't. But it's

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just it's just an anxiety. You don't need that on

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top of that, any anxiety. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Me, it's like, Okay, I understand it's going to be

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like a ten hour travel day, right, you know, but

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in my brain, I'm just like too many factors, like yeah,

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and when I travel, that's my thing. It's like, Okay,

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I got off the plane.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the plane landed, but like, now how do I

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get the uber right?

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Speaker 3: There's too many like variables. Yeah, I don't feel like

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I used to be like that. Really, maybe it's manifested.

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Speaker 2: The anxiety in other ways, and this is the ways,

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you know, maybe as you get older, and also too

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like when you're younger, you feel like figure it out

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or we'll work it out. And also when we were younger,

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we didn't have the phone apps and stuff, which made

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it even harder to get around, but we did it

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now with the phone apps. To me, I feel like

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it's easier because you can get all the information. But

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I do know how you feel about where when I

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get there, where I'm gonna Where am I gonna park?

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And you know that's why I never drive to the

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airport inly my car there because then I was like,

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well I'll land and go like I lost my car?

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Where did I park at LA? Like constantly remember unless

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you take a picture on your phone, Yeah, I would

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be like, yeah, I guess I gotta get a new car.

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Now my phone's just gonna my car is just gonna

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stay at LAX like no, I know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, too much time would have gone by. You'd be

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like what car? What car do I even drive?

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Speaker 2: Do I have?

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Speaker 3: And then I'd be like, maybe I didn't even drive

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it to the airport.

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Speaker 2: I took an uber Yeah, yeah, no, I remember that

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far back right. And the last thing you want to

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do is lug your luggage to go into the parking

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lot to find your car, you know, and then drive home.

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You just want to get in a car and just

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go home. Yes, yeah, but it's worth the extra money. Yeah,

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it is Uber to Uber. I can give you Ricardo's number. Okay,

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he's great. Yeah. Yeah.

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how slow they are. Like remember last time, the lady

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if we could stop at a Target so she could pee,

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I got to get to the airport.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then she proceeded to drive practically backwards all

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the way to LA asked like, she drove so slow.

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did not know this that Uber monitors the drivers and

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I go, what about under the speed limit? Can they

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going from their home to lax, you know, on a

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travel day. Yeah. Yeah, he's like, no, that that doesn't

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work like that. He's worth a flag, right, that's worth

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the flag. Yeah. So anyway, that but yeah, what were

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we talking about before that? Oh, let's talking.

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Speaker 3: About the anxiety of like, yeah, things you have to

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figure out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why it's worse now? Yeah, I don't know. I

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guess as you get older. Yeah, we both have different

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Like we were saying, last week, I had anxiety of

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Natalia jumping out of a plane. By the way, was

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it on our Facebook page on FCL that was that

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somebody died skydiving. Somebody posted not like one of our listeners. No,

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we're talking about a place that's near them that had

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that had a death.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, thank you for telling us that. By the way,

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at least it's after the fact. I mean, listen, if

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you were to ask we all do air travel. But

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if you were to say, like, do you know anybody

471
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,759
who died in a plane crash, I'm sure a lot

472
00:24:00,759 --> 00:24:01,680
of people would be like.

473
00:24:01,799 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's true. I mean, car crashes are the

474
00:24:04,759 --> 00:24:08,160
biggest cause of tests. Yeah, but yeah, but you're on

475
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:12,880
the ground and stuff. You're not jumping out of an airplane.

476
00:24:13,039 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 3: True. Yesterday last night, Sadie. So, Sadie is eighteen, and

477
00:24:20,799 --> 00:24:25,039
she's had her license since she was sixteen. Yeah, because

478
00:24:25,079 --> 00:24:28,160
it was in July. Okay, so last July she'd been

479
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,680
driving already a year. She's been driving almost you know,

480
00:24:32,759 --> 00:24:37,039
let's say, like going on two years. I still am like,

481
00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:40,119
oh my god, she's on the four oh five what

482
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,359
you know what I mean? And she doesn't care about

483
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,279
it that much, right, and that has to kind of

484
00:24:45,279 --> 00:24:46,680
be I guess my anxiety.

485
00:24:46,759 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you're going to drive to the beach

486
00:24:49,279 --> 00:24:50,880
right here? You want to do that? You don't want

487
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,559
me to drop you off? And she's like, no, I'm fine. Yes,

488
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:55,759
she's used to it, right.

489
00:24:55,799 --> 00:24:58,519
Speaker 3: You're like, gribe, I'm a four oh five, great, yes,

490
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,400
which you know one, it is kind of an elevated

491
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,279
it is. It is the yeah, I mean advanced level

492
00:25:07,319 --> 00:25:10,440
of driving. It is five in California, right, But nowadays

493
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,720
the traffic is so bad she's probably only going like

494
00:25:12,759 --> 00:25:14,160
ten miles an hour the whole time.

495
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,839
Speaker 2: That's true. It was a Sunday night, but yeah, it

496
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,079
was a little bit better. Yeah, the four or five

497
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,759
is pretty It can be pretty, yeah, Charlie.

498
00:25:23,799 --> 00:25:25,759
Speaker 3: And there's here's what I don't like about the four

499
00:25:25,799 --> 00:25:28,400
O five, not to be like that snl skin. If

500
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,599
there's a lot of places where merging is practically impossible,

501
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,839
you just got to luck out and have somebody nice

502
00:25:34,079 --> 00:25:37,079
let you in, right, Especially the four h five on

503
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:42,720
the one oh one, when you make this transition, you've

504
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,880
got to get all the way over like four lanes.

505
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: To get off at our exit.

506
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:51,319
Speaker 3: It's oftentimes, but then again again, I get nervous about

507
00:25:51,319 --> 00:25:54,160
shit that I did not care about when I was younger.

508
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 2: I can't drive all the way.

509
00:25:56,799 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 3: On the right lane. I've told you this before. I

510
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,920
don't I unless there's a good space. I don't want

511
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,759
to drive too close to the wall. So I'm shocked

512
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:10,319
that people are just constantly crashing into the walls. I'm like,

513
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,799
how are people are just driving and there's a wall

514
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:13,400
right there?

515
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:17,599
Speaker 2: Like, how every other car not urready into the wall.

516
00:26:18,039 --> 00:26:20,279
Speaker 3: All it takes is one looking down on your phone

517
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,200
at a text and yeah. But then here's another thing

518
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,920
I ever since I was a kid, another thing we've

519
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,359
talked about because we've been best friends for twenty years,

520
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:36,559
and but mountain roads freak the shit out of me

521
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,839
and always have since I was a kid. And you

522
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,400
could say, well, people drive them every day, like people

523
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,240
are driving to northern California and they're on Highway one.

524
00:26:44,559 --> 00:26:48,240
But guess what, every so often, just like skydiving, somebody

525
00:26:48,279 --> 00:26:50,559
fucking falls off the cliff. You were off the cliff

526
00:26:50,599 --> 00:26:53,720
and people die. Yes, And I'm like, yeah, it happens,

527
00:26:53,799 --> 00:26:57,599
It happens. I had a friend, Mike Alva Alvarez in

528
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:58,200
high school.

529
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,079
Speaker 2: I had a motorcycle and I and he went over

530
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,720
the cliff going to the beach and going through Canaan. Yeah.

531
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:09,319
Speaker 3: Really, yeah, it was really sad. Yeah, Okay, that is

532
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,359
crazy that you just said Canaan. Because I'll tell you why.

533
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: I was looking up because I'm crazy and anxious.

534
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,839
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, she didn't want to take a canyon, Okay,

535
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,920
so she put FO four five to the ten of

536
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,799
the p yes and which is a much longer way

537
00:27:27,839 --> 00:27:29,599
to get there. Right, they were going to like to

538
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,160
Panga Beach, which you could just go over to Panga

539
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:39,160
and be there quicker. But it's a very windy road. So,

540
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,960
by the way, the word windy, I don't think there's

541
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,720
a different way to spell it, so it just looks

542
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,880
like windy. Win trying to put it in there, and

543
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,160
finally I was like, wuck, he's speaking, I'm saying windy,

544
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,640
and I'm like, no, windy, So I just put in winding.

545
00:27:52,839 --> 00:27:53,279
Speaker 2: Winding.

546
00:27:53,599 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 3: Maybe windy isn't even a word, but but anyway, I

547
00:27:57,559 --> 00:28:01,960
put in what is an alternative to taking to Panga

548
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,359
that's less winding, right, and it said Canaan. Canaan is

549
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,759
the more Literally, if I showed you my phone right now,

550
00:28:08,799 --> 00:28:12,039
would show you take Canan because it's the most straight

551
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,640
right right out cliff without being cliffy. Yes, yeah, but

552
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,920
you know now you've just told me this something I know.

553
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: Sorry, So how am I gonna Well, he was on

554
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,759
his motorcycle and he was in high school. He was young,

555
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,400
you know, and he looks he's in high school, I know,

556
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,319
but yeah, yeah, he was on a.

557
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 3: Motorcycle and he was gotten older and paranoid about a

558
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,119
lot of things that I never cared about when I

559
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,119
was young. I think it's also having kids, does it too,

560
00:28:38,519 --> 00:28:42,160
you know you become a parent, Yes, yeah, I mean

561
00:28:42,279 --> 00:28:46,079
I feel the same, Like even just an Italian Mexico

562
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,240
right now, you know, I'm like, are you guys together?

563
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,920
You want you go to the bathroom together? You know

564
00:28:52,119 --> 00:28:54,799
what you used to say when they were younger, Go

565
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,440
in pairs, right, have a companion buddy, have a buddy

566
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,799
buddy system.

567
00:28:59,799 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: That's it. Yes, Like you know, be careful spacers, that's right.

568
00:29:05,039 --> 00:29:08,000
I told her about that. Drink lots of water. Yeah,

569
00:29:08,039 --> 00:29:10,759
so you know I do. I mean I'm on the

570
00:29:10,759 --> 00:29:12,839
app looking at her every night, every day and like

571
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,160
every night like did she make it back to where

572
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,039
she's staying. They're staying in some airbnb and I'm like,

573
00:29:18,119 --> 00:29:20,839
are they you know, are they back? I just you know, I.

574
00:29:20,799 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 3: Love the feft that were like some airbnb, Like it's

575
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:25,880
just everything sketchy in our brain.

576
00:29:26,039 --> 00:29:29,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, even though like the places.

577
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 3: I stayed when I was literally not even twenty one

578
00:29:31,759 --> 00:29:34,279
and would just go to Vegas, Yeah, stay in like

579
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,839
the grossest motel six, like off the strip.

580
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: Right right, yeah, my friend, I mean I never was a.

581
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,319
Speaker 3: One night stand with some random blackjack dealer.

582
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,799
Speaker 2: You ever a factory for my birthday? You did my birthday?

583
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:49,640
You did how?

584
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:57,559
Speaker 3: But sadly I think I was turning thirty had delayne

585
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,359
m Curry, Yeah, I know me too.

586
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: Are you turning?

587
00:30:01,559 --> 00:30:05,119
Speaker 3: No? Was I still doing that at thirty? I feel

588
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:06,079
like I was thirty?

589
00:30:06,519 --> 00:30:08,079
Speaker 2: Really did to me? I met?

590
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 3: I was drunk and met some cute, really hot blackjack dealer.

591
00:30:13,559 --> 00:30:15,279
Speaker 2: I know I've told you this story.

592
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,559
Speaker 3: But and I was drunk, so the first night I

593
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,640
really just kept wanting to go back to and sit

594
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,279
at his table. My friend Becky, who I went to

595
00:30:24,359 --> 00:30:28,200
Vegas with all the time, was just like, no, you

596
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,839
were too drunk, Like you cannot, Like this is not

597
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,599
a good idea.

598
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,319
Speaker 2: You can go look for him tomorrow.

599
00:30:34,039 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 3: The next day I woke up hungover, of course, but

600
00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:38,640
then you know, I'm sure had a bloody Mary and

601
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,200
felt better. Right, And that night I was just as

602
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:43,680
obsessed with finding him again.

603
00:30:44,599 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 2: Went back.

604
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 3: I want to say, he was a blackjack dealer at

605
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:51,480
like the Flamingo, like nothing even fancs right right, all

606
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,200
so good looking though, like I bet like male model looking.

607
00:30:55,519 --> 00:30:57,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he had been flirting.

608
00:30:57,359 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: He must have been flirting with me for you know,

609
00:31:00,559 --> 00:31:03,559
I wasn't like delusional, right, he'd been flirting with me,

610
00:31:03,599 --> 00:31:06,160
and I think he had said like come back, like

611
00:31:06,279 --> 00:31:08,640
come back to but then, like I said, my friend

612
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,559
said no. So the second night, before I got too drunk,

613
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:13,440
she was like, okay, we can go, like we can

614
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,759
go look for him. I think I asked for him,

615
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,720
and this, you know, the story is very vague in

616
00:31:19,759 --> 00:31:21,720
my mind, but yeah, they said he was on break

617
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,799
but he'd be back at whatever time. So like a stalker,

618
00:31:25,799 --> 00:31:28,359
a drunk stocker. I sure I would have done this thing.

619
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,440
And Barry was so cute. And I do believe I

620
00:31:33,519 --> 00:31:37,200
was staying at like a motel something just grassed like, yeah,

621
00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:40,359
a nice hotel. Yeah, it was a motel and it

622
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,000
was off the strip. And I took him back there

623
00:31:43,039 --> 00:31:46,559
with me and had sex with the home in the room,

624
00:31:47,039 --> 00:31:49,720
with I think other people in the room, because I

625
00:31:49,759 --> 00:31:50,279
didn't care.

626
00:31:50,359 --> 00:31:54,319
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure we were making out like.

627
00:31:54,359 --> 00:31:57,319
Speaker 3: So heavily in the car and can we go in

628
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,200
the room, And then I was like okay, but right,

629
00:32:00,599 --> 00:32:02,799
roommates in there are the people I traveled with yeah,

630
00:32:03,079 --> 00:32:05,480
and then somehow I was like, I don't care anyway,

631
00:32:05,559 --> 00:32:09,440
had sucks with that guy, and then was very sure

632
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,119
that that was a one night stand, that that was

633
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,519
just for fun, and it was my birthday or it

634
00:32:13,599 --> 00:32:16,359
had been like the day before. And then of course

635
00:32:16,359 --> 00:32:18,799
he started calling me and wanting to come to LA

636
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,000
and break in the business and a total nightmare.

637
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,839
Speaker 2: Are you seriously I think to be an actor? Of course,

638
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:30,680
sit into modeling. Of course he did, right, And then

639
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,559
you just help you, Yeah, I can keep out. I

640
00:32:33,559 --> 00:32:34,200
gotta help him.

641
00:32:34,279 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: Really, that is hilarious. I remember when I was in Vegas.

642
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,920
We met was I think it was like Suzanne's like

643
00:32:42,599 --> 00:32:45,079
twenty ninth birthda. I don't know, it's like in her

644
00:32:45,119 --> 00:32:49,319
twenty like her birthday, And we went to Vegas and

645
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,400
there was this this cute guy.

646
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 2: He was there with his friends. He didn't work there,

647
00:32:54,559 --> 00:32:57,039
he was there with this friends, met him like the

648
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,200
night before, and then like said, we'll be back at

649
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,759
this bar tomorrow night. And then I was like all

650
00:33:03,799 --> 00:33:05,519
I could do was like I could not wait to

651
00:33:05,599 --> 00:33:07,960
get back to the bar to find this guy. And

652
00:33:08,799 --> 00:33:10,839
so we get back to the bar and then the

653
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,960
guy then so we see him and he's with his

654
00:33:13,039 --> 00:33:16,039
friends and he's he was like a really good looking

655
00:33:16,079 --> 00:33:19,960
guy and his friends were cute. So my friends everybody

656
00:33:20,079 --> 00:33:22,039
was single, so they were like, yeah, tell him to

657
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:24,279
bring his friends. So we were all together at this

658
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:27,079
bar and him and I are flirting and then we're

659
00:33:27,119 --> 00:33:29,680
like kissing, and we're like, you know, we're gonna go

660
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,920
out and have fun, gamble. Who knows what the night

661
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,640
was going to break. I was like on cloud nine

662
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,119
and and I was I get we get so they

663
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,319
we're at the bar and I leave to go to

664
00:33:40,359 --> 00:33:42,720
the bathroom. I come back and they're like, my friends

665
00:33:42,759 --> 00:33:44,640
are like, you see your boy over there? And I go, no,

666
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,319
what's going on. He's sitting at the table with his

667
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,039
head down and his head his head is in his hands,

668
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,559
and he's just a pile of throw up underneath the table,

669
00:33:56,119 --> 00:33:58,039
just like a lake of puke.

670
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god. I almost I

671
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,519
was like I want to cry right now. I was

672
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,480
so disappointed. I was like, what the fuck? This was

673
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,000
our last night. These guys are gonna go back home

674
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,000
to wherever they came from. We're going back to you know,

675
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:13,960
home to orrow.

676
00:34:14,559 --> 00:34:17,599
Speaker 2: And I was just like all day long, like I

677
00:34:17,639 --> 00:34:20,119
bought an outfit, I got all dressed up. I could

678
00:34:20,159 --> 00:34:22,480
not wait to find him again. And there they were,

679
00:34:22,599 --> 00:34:24,400
and I was and he was so cute. We were

680
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:28,840
on the best time. And then just bit it was

681
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,239
a must have it early in the night, it was

682
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,639
I need to go out. It was they were drinking

683
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,119
all day long, all day when that's what you do

684
00:34:36,159 --> 00:34:38,360
when you're in Vegas, like especially dudes like that.

685
00:34:38,559 --> 00:34:41,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was so disappointed. And then I was like,

686
00:34:42,559 --> 00:34:44,840
maybe he can like go clean himself up.

687
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:51,039
Speaker 2: Rally puke and rally, pu puke and rally. I just

688
00:34:51,079 --> 00:34:55,039
saw that on Vanderpumps. Yes, yeah, can he rally? Maybe

689
00:34:55,039 --> 00:34:58,480
he can like you know, rush his teeth. No, did

690
00:34:58,519 --> 00:35:01,599
not work out. Now, then I was like, come on, ladies,

691
00:35:01,639 --> 00:35:03,920
they're all having fun with her his friends. I'm like,

692
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,119
let's go gamble, let's go and ily even nobody's following me,

693
00:35:08,519 --> 00:35:11,719
they're like, bye, it's just because your boy's fucked up

694
00:35:12,039 --> 00:35:14,920
around a good old time, Like god damn it. I

695
00:35:15,039 --> 00:35:16,039
was so pissed.

696
00:35:16,119 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh that's disappointing.

697
00:35:18,519 --> 00:35:22,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, those Vegas stories are fun. Maybe I saved.

698
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 3: You, like a guy who then would call you afterwards

699
00:35:24,519 --> 00:35:26,880
and be like can I move to La can?

700
00:35:27,199 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 2: Oh?

701
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 3: This guy wanted to stay with me for a while.

702
00:35:29,559 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 2: Oh my good. Yeah.

703
00:35:31,039 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh hell no, that is so funny,

704
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,280
Like what are you gonna do?

705
00:35:36,599 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 2: You're staying in a motel? Like what does he think

706
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:43,880
you're big? Casting director? No? I know, I know. I

707
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,760
mean I think I did write for a game show

708
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,119
at that point, but that's it. Oh I need to

709
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,880
a game show writer. You're right.

710
00:35:51,119 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 3: Somehow he put me on some like, oh my god,

711
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,280
you're from Los Angeles. Yeah, you're in show business. Yeah,

712
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,360
and he's a black jazz dealer in Vegas.

713
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 2: Model okay, oh no, that was all right.

714
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: I have a bad history with people, like meeting guys

715
00:36:07,639 --> 00:36:09,559
that I think is going to be like just a

716
00:36:09,559 --> 00:36:12,519
one night stand er, you know, I'm not capable of.

717
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 2: More, and then they just go, I'm going to come

718
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:15,440
visit you.

719
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 3: I told Elbe about okay, so Elbie's seeing somebody, and

720
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,519
I wasn't trying to freaker out, but I was like,

721
00:36:25,559 --> 00:36:27,440
I do want to tell you this story of this

722
00:36:27,519 --> 00:36:29,079
guy that I met at a cruise ship.

723
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: And I told you this one too.

724
00:36:32,559 --> 00:36:34,519
Speaker 3: I was working, I was doing stand up on a

725
00:36:34,519 --> 00:36:37,880
cruise ship, and I started hanging out with thee And

726
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,719
this was not a big cruise ship because I really

727
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,199
haven't been on a cruise. Anyone's like, but you've never

728
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,679
been on a cruise, this one doesn't count. It was

729
00:36:45,679 --> 00:36:49,559
like a small yeah, a small ship, and it was

730
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:54,000
there was the guy who was the cruise director, entertainment

731
00:36:54,079 --> 00:36:54,719
director guy.

732
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 2: His name was Nick, and he was not cute. I

733
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,480
don't know what happened.

734
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:02,199
Speaker 3: I think it was just like, you know, it was

735
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,119
just old people, me and then this guy who was

736
00:37:05,159 --> 00:37:08,800
at least fun and me and my drinking back then too.

737
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:14,000
Somehow I convinced myself that this guy was like he

738
00:37:14,119 --> 00:37:16,559
was kind of cute. He was sort of cute, you know.

739
00:37:16,639 --> 00:37:18,559
And anyway, we were hanging out and he would buy

740
00:37:18,559 --> 00:37:20,760
me drinks and he was like treating me really well.

741
00:37:21,159 --> 00:37:25,199
I ended up sleeping with him the ship and then

742
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,719
he's totally into me and wants to come visit, to

743
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:32,079
which I'm like, yeah, it seemed like a good idea.

744
00:37:32,199 --> 00:37:34,199
At the time, I thought I liked him more than

745
00:37:34,199 --> 00:37:38,760
I did. Then he flew out to Los Angeles to

746
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,440
stay with me, and as soon as I already think

747
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,480
I started getting anxious about it before it actually happened.

748
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,159
By the time I picked him up the airport or

749
00:37:47,199 --> 00:37:53,559
however that went down, I was like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, right,

750
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,320
can't because he's gonna stay with you and everything's gonna

751
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,800
stay with me and happy to see me.

752
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 2: And I was not happy to see him. I had

753
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,880
the complete iic.

754
00:38:03,039 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 3: I was gross when I'm touching me, and then it's like,

755
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,920
you can't really be like, listen, I have a boyfriend.

756
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,400
I got or I got back to it, right if

757
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,480
you could do any of that, you just invited this

758
00:38:13,519 --> 00:38:14,280
person to come stack.

759
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:14,679
Speaker 2: Yes.

760
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, he could tell though that I was not not

761
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,679
into it, and then he wanted to talk about it,

762
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,119
and then I had to just go like, I am

763
00:38:23,199 --> 00:38:26,119
so sorry. I'm just not not that India, well I'm

764
00:38:26,119 --> 00:38:30,679
not feeling it and yeah, and then then then I

765
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:32,119
had to sort of He was like, well, what do

766
00:38:32,199 --> 00:38:33,760
you want to do and I was like, well, we

767
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,400
could be friends like but then I even had trouble

768
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,360
being nice because I was yes, right, right, anyway.

769
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,559
Speaker 2: I get it. Well, let's do an ad and then

770
00:38:41,599 --> 00:38:44,920
I'll tell you about how we met strippers in Vegas

771
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,079
and we were gonna make them a star. Okay, Well,

772
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Speaker 3: So on our bachelorette party, it was a double bachelorette party.

822
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: It was my friend. Maybe I shouldn't say her name. Hey,

823
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,599
my friend was getting married a month before me and

824
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,880
we had all we had the same same friends, but

825
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,280
she had some friends from manage. Anyway, we had to

826
00:41:49,599 --> 00:41:53,039
a double bachelorette thing in Vegas and we were staying

827
00:41:53,039 --> 00:41:55,480
at the Hard Rock, which is across the street from

828
00:41:55,559 --> 00:41:59,679
Club Paradise, which is a strip club. Yeah, and I

829
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,360
I probably have told this before, but it's been a while.

830
00:42:02,679 --> 00:42:05,079
Do you know you remember I don't remember it. I mean,

831
00:42:05,079 --> 00:42:08,199
I remember many stripper stories, but I don't write for

832
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:08,800
this one.

833
00:42:09,039 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: So we we were one night, we're like, you know,

834
00:42:12,679 --> 00:42:14,480
all of us were like, let's go across the street

835
00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:15,599
to this, to the it's.

836
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,679
Speaker 2: And it's all girls, it's not guys strip club. And

837
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,199
they were like in their g strings or whatever. It

838
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,039
wasn't fully nude or anything. So we were like, let's

839
00:42:24,039 --> 00:42:26,880
go sit across and collect our thoughts at the strip

840
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,079
club before we go out on the town. So I've

841
00:42:30,119 --> 00:42:32,679
told you my history with I. I used to love.

842
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 3: We used to go to Crazy Girls all the time. Yes,

843
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,719
you know, always see celebrities there, and yeah, I totally

844
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,280
befriended strippers.

845
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 2: Oh it's the best and help them get off heroin.

846
00:42:41,559 --> 00:42:45,000
Oh yes, so oh my god. Okay, So we go.

847
00:42:45,159 --> 00:42:48,559
There's like probably like sixteen of us. There was a big,

848
00:42:48,679 --> 00:42:52,559
big party, big group, and then you know, some girls

849
00:42:52,599 --> 00:42:54,960
from out of town, like back from you know, my

850
00:42:55,079 --> 00:42:59,039
friend's Midwestern. They were like, eh, what not for us?

851
00:42:59,119 --> 00:43:01,119
So then they there for a little bit, they left,

852
00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:04,159
so it dwindled down to like like ten of us,

853
00:43:04,199 --> 00:43:07,599
and we were enjoying the music. The music was great,

854
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,679
you know, and we were just hanging out, lounging, talking

855
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,519
and you know, and then of course we were giving

856
00:43:14,559 --> 00:43:16,920
you know, everybody's buying lap dances for each other and

857
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,079
stuff like that. Me and the other bachelorette, we were

858
00:43:20,119 --> 00:43:23,599
getting lap dances. And there was this one girl, Violet,

859
00:43:24,039 --> 00:43:30,079
and she was just beautiful. I'm trying to think if

860
00:43:30,119 --> 00:43:33,519
she looked like an actress. I mean she was stunning,

861
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:39,039
like dark dark hair, blue blue eyes, fair skin. But

862
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:42,360
the way she was and then you know my friend, well,

863
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,239
Gina Kimmel, she was just like, cuts it on my lap,

864
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:49,079
comes it on my lap, let's talk. I'll pay you

865
00:43:49,159 --> 00:43:50,400
just to sit and talk with us.

866
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,679
Speaker 3: Oh. So Gina is like throwing her money and then

867
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:53,440
she's like, just you.

868
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,519
Speaker 2: Don't need a dance. She's like, just hang out. We

869
00:43:55,719 --> 00:44:00,280
all loved Violet so much that we went back the

870
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,960
next night to see Violet. And then so then she

871
00:44:04,119 --> 00:44:06,000
was so happy to see us. Oh my god, she

872
00:44:06,119 --> 00:44:07,920
must have made so much money off of us. So

873
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,760
then she came. We went back the next Then we

874
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,079
were getting our drink on. Everybody was getting buzzed, having

875
00:44:14,079 --> 00:44:16,760
a good time. Violet's coming over. If Violet brings her

876
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,760
friends over and Brah and then we're talking to.

877
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,559
Speaker 3: Violet, she's like going to school or something. She was

878
00:44:23,039 --> 00:44:24,760
just you know, she didn't have any kids. She was

879
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,320
just this young single, this single girl in her twenties

880
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,760
or whatever. And Gina's like, we're gonna make you a star.

881
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,480
We're gonna bring you to Hollywood. We're gonna get you

882
00:44:33,519 --> 00:44:37,280
an agent. You should be a movie star. You a gripper,

883
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:45,320
American idol, You're going to Hollywood striper American ripel.

884
00:44:46,639 --> 00:44:49,559
Speaker 2: It was like it was this, Oh my god, it

885
00:44:49,599 --> 00:44:50,159
was great.

886
00:44:50,559 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 3: It was and we and she was like, I don't

887
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:55,320
even know what she was saying, but we were like,

888
00:44:55,519 --> 00:44:59,519
we were like, we know people. Okay, we're gonna, we're

889
00:44:59,519 --> 00:45:01,599
gonna We're to get you out of this strip club.

890
00:45:01,679 --> 00:45:04,360
Get you a William Morris stripper agent re birthday.

891
00:45:04,679 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, her sing's Firth William Moore a stripper agent.

892
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,320
We're gonna get you on a stripper reality show. Yes,

893
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,880
we're gonna do you up. And we were just and

894
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,960
then and she was like great. And then like the

895
00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:20,280
next day and then we're traveling home and all we

896
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,519
could talk about was Violet and wonder if she misses

897
00:45:22,599 --> 00:45:25,880
us at all? And like you think Violet's thinking about us?

898
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,440
I'm sure that's not her real name anyway, you know, Yeah,

899
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,119
like why did we get her number? You know, Oh

900
00:45:32,159 --> 00:45:34,199
you didn't get her No, I don't think so.

901
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 3: And then we went back like maybe six months later,

902
00:45:39,159 --> 00:45:41,000
and we wanted to recreate because we had such a

903
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,519
great time that weekend. So we wanted to recreate that

904
00:45:43,559 --> 00:45:46,719
weekend just like a few of us went back went

905
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:47,679
to Club Paradise.

906
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 2: No Violet. She was gone, and we were just like,

907
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,280
oh fuck this, we don't even want to come in.

908
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,440
Like we were like, is Violet working. They're like no,

909
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,639
she hasn't been here in months, and we're like, ah,

910
00:45:56,679 --> 00:45:59,800
fuck it, let's get out of here. Yeah, that was

911
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:03,519
the I got in trouble for swearing on the craps

912
00:46:03,559 --> 00:46:07,199
table at I think it was I think it was

913
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,000
the Flamingo or was it was one of those like

914
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,880
like you know, not high end casinos that have been

915
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,880
there forever. And we were like gambling and Gina was

916
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,480
kept We were playing craps and Gina just kept she

917
00:46:21,599 --> 00:46:24,159
was hot. She was kept rolling and rolling and we

918
00:46:24,159 --> 00:46:26,719
were all making good money. And I was like Gina,

919
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,400
I go, Gina fucking A, you're doing And I go,

920
00:46:29,519 --> 00:46:32,239
that's your new mafia name, Gina fucking A. Like I

921
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,679
was like, Gina fucking I, let's go. And the guy,

922
00:46:35,039 --> 00:46:39,159
the dealer, the the dealer was like, you're stop swearing.

923
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,480
I'm like, we're in a casino, Like what He's like, yeah,

924
00:46:42,519 --> 00:46:45,960
you don't, You're not allowed to swear the mafia exactly.

925
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,719
You watched an episode of the Sopron right, like have

926
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,119
you seen Casino? Like come on, like you know, and

927
00:46:53,159 --> 00:46:55,639
he kept telling I was like, literally got in trouble.

928
00:46:55,679 --> 00:46:57,280
And then he was like, if you do it again,

929
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,400
if you swear again, you're getting kicked off the table.

930
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,559
And I was like I don't know. Of course I

931
00:47:01,599 --> 00:47:04,239
wasn't listening, and I was like, Gina fucking a, let's go.

932
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,719
And he was like that's it, and he's like you're out,

933
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,880
and I was like, are you kidding me? And that

934
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,880
was another time I'm like, come on, ladies, let's get

935
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,079
out of here. And everybody's like fuck this, We're we're

936
00:47:13,079 --> 00:47:15,840
making good money off a Gina fucking ee. Yeah. I mean,

937
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,679
if you get trouble in Vegas swearing out of the

938
00:47:18,679 --> 00:47:19,679
clap stable, do you.

939
00:47:19,639 --> 00:47:22,639
Speaker 3: Remember, because I know we have heard this story before,

940
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,079
because it made me tell you that I was wearing

941
00:47:25,079 --> 00:47:27,440
a shirt. So it was a shirt that looked like

942
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:32,239
it said coke Oh yeah, I said cunt oh years ago,

943
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,480
and it was a white.

944
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 2: Little baby doll T shirt.

945
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,559
Speaker 3: That was what all I wore back in that day, Yes,

946
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,800
baby doll t shirts. And it was white with red

947
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,599
letters that looked like it said coke but it said cunt.

948
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,639
And somebody complained and they're like, your shirt is profane.

949
00:47:46,679 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: You gotta change your shirt. And I was like, in

950
00:47:48,559 --> 00:47:51,719
Vegas changed my shirt in a casino. Oh my god,

951
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,480
Vegas casino. And I was like, what do you mean

952
00:47:54,599 --> 00:47:55,559
change my shirt?

953
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,119
Speaker 3: Like, I'm not going all the way in those days again,

954
00:47:58,199 --> 00:48:01,519
I'm not gonna go. Oh they by fit to whatever

955
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,920
off the strip right hotel, I'm staying it of my suitcase.

956
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: So I was like, the hell, I'm gonna chat yes,

957
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:10,360
or you can't tell what it says.

958
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 3: And they're like, you need to change your shirt and

959
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,039
I'm like, well I can or whatever, and they're like

960
00:48:16,159 --> 00:48:16,840
you have to leave.

961
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 2: Wow, same thing.

962
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:22,079
Speaker 3: They like, I didn't get escorted out, but definitely like

963
00:48:22,559 --> 00:48:24,440
I got kicked out by the alcohol.

964
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 2: That's that's insane.

965
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 3: And I'm sure I was like, what the this was? Yeah,

966
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,800
I met you know, you can't even read what it says.

967
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:34,920
That's the whole point that looks like it's as cool.

968
00:48:35,519 --> 00:48:43,440
It's right, Wait, it's your phone for shared. I'm like, tip, yeah, exactly,

969
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,599
perves God, I mean, could you have gone in the bathroom,

970
00:48:47,679 --> 00:48:48,679
like turn it inside out.

971
00:48:48,679 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 2: Probably not, I don't know because those shirts are so thin.

972
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,000
But yeah, you stayed at something like, yeah, so what'd

973
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,760
you do? You have to go back to your motel?

974
00:48:58,639 --> 00:48:59,679
I guess right, or.

975
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 3: Left sturing casino And yeah, they didn't kick me out.

976
00:49:02,519 --> 00:49:05,840
It was a bummer, though, that is a bummer, yeat stupid.

977
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,119
But to bring it back, it is so crazy, like

978
00:49:10,199 --> 00:49:13,079
the stuff I got into, and now that I'm a mom,

979
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,559
I'm just like I can't even imagine, like you'll be

980
00:49:17,559 --> 00:49:20,039
being up to the kind. But the difference is, like

981
00:49:20,119 --> 00:49:23,480
I was doing that stuff in my early twenties. Yeah, yeah,

982
00:49:23,559 --> 00:49:25,719
me too, is I'd already lived on my own since

983
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,199
I was eighteen, right, and you lived on your own

984
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,159
early too, So like I didn't go to college and

985
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,280
only get out of college at twenty one or twenty

986
00:49:33,559 --> 00:49:34,280
right and.

987
00:49:34,199 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: Start my life.

988
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 3: I started my life at eighteen eighteen Yeah me too old, Yeah,

989
00:49:38,559 --> 00:49:41,360
living on my own, doing whatever I wanted when I wanted,

990
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,480
going to bars, right with my fake ID.

991
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 2: That was as we many times, don Yeah I was.

992
00:49:46,159 --> 00:49:48,199
But then by the time I was twenty one, I'd

993
00:49:48,199 --> 00:49:49,679
already lived a lot of life.

994
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:53,039
Speaker 3: Yes, I know, I know, I know, on my own,

995
00:49:53,119 --> 00:49:55,199
with my own grown up job and my own credit

996
00:49:55,239 --> 00:50:00,199
cards and many trips to Vegas right right, Like it's

997
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,840
just blows my mind. Like Albi, listen, she does a

998
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:04,920
lot of stuff on her own.

999
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:05,800
Speaker 2: She does.

1000
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 3: She goes to music festivals and I really try. She

1001
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,920
always tells me like, I'm totally gonna be safe where

1002
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:14,199
there's a lot of us going.

1003
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,039
Speaker 2: We at least have partner up. Like she's not nearly

1004
00:50:18,119 --> 00:50:19,320
as risky as I was.

1005
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, I know, I'm sure something's gonna happen all

1006
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,440
the time, right right, And I know I do I

1007
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,039
think about you know, like I remember we were drinking

1008
00:50:28,039 --> 00:50:30,119
in the school parking lot while we were in high

1009
00:50:30,119 --> 00:50:32,599
school off and Sino Avenue at the end.

1010
00:50:32,679 --> 00:50:36,159
Speaker 2: I think it was in Sino Elementary School parking lot. Yeah,

1011
00:50:36,199 --> 00:50:40,480
and just you know, just just driving with my friends

1012
00:50:40,519 --> 00:50:43,239
who drove that were drunk all the time, like, oh

1013
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:47,719
my god, are super high right right, yeah, blasting music

1014
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,679
and you know, doing donuts in the parking lot and stuff.

1015
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,119
I was always because I didn't have a car. I

1016
00:50:53,159 --> 00:50:55,719
wasn't No, I didn't get a car until I did

1017
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,320
the dang A four show for Yeah, and then I

1018
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,320
was able to buy my car, but like every all

1019
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,199
my friends had cars, but they were like, you know,

1020
00:51:04,039 --> 00:51:09,639
and nobody really got a dui except Dawn Shocker. Oh

1021
00:51:09,639 --> 00:51:12,519
she did. She got a dui back then, back then

1022
00:51:12,639 --> 00:51:14,880
that high school. Then then in high school she was

1023
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,599
driving a red Hunday and I wasn't with her, but

1024
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,159
I had to go pick up her car because she

1025
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,239
was in jail. So the next morning I went there.

1026
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,280
I don't know, somebody drove me and dropped me off.

1027
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,440
I picked her car up and I'm looking at her car.

1028
00:51:31,639 --> 00:51:34,800
In the back seat was a baggie of marijuana and

1029
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,039
it looked like she just tossed it over her shoulder

1030
00:51:37,039 --> 00:51:39,679
because it was like upside down on top of all

1031
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,800
her clothes in the backseat and just just pot everywhere

1032
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:44,559
with the baggy upside down. I was like, did you

1033
00:51:44,599 --> 00:51:46,719
have pot? And she's like, yeah, I just tossed it

1034
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,360
over my shoulder. Yeah. So she got a dui. She

1035
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,519
was the only one. Mike Glenn, nobody else, my friend

1036
00:51:52,519 --> 00:51:55,159
she hadn't. Nobody else got Pam. Nobody down a dui.

1037
00:51:55,639 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 3: But Pam the cocaine, Pam the car.

1038
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 2: No, that was Amy, Oh, oh that Amy. She drove

1039
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,599
me nuts. Yes, yes, and when we went to didn't

1040
00:52:05,599 --> 00:52:08,719
find her. Keith R. Modone. We were in hal a

1041
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,760
seal and all she did was do cocaine. And I

1042
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,199
was like, let's get in. It was Sunday and we

1043
00:52:15,199 --> 00:52:17,000
were in have a suit. And she drove and she

1044
00:52:17,119 --> 00:52:19,400
lost her keys, and she was this giggling like she

1045
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:20,559
was this this rich girl.

1046
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 3: She lived in and Sino up in the hills. Her

1047
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:26,360
parents had money, and she didn't have a care in

1048
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,719
the motherfucking world. Meanwhile, I had a job that I

1049
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,039
had to get back to on Monday at the pre school.

1050
00:52:31,039 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 2: I was working at a preschool. And she was just like, oh,

1051
00:52:34,519 --> 00:52:36,840
I guess. And she had this baby doll voice and

1052
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,440
she worked pigtails and little blonde pixie girl and she

1053
00:52:40,559 --> 00:52:42,880
was just like, oh, he lost my keys. He I

1054
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,199
guess we have to stay another night. Oh well? And

1055
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,440
I was like, oh well what. First of all, I'm

1056
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,239
not paying another night for this fucking motel and have

1057
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,880
a suit. Second of all, I have I gotta get home,

1058
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:54,719
i gotta go to work.

1059
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,679
Speaker 3: And third of all, I'm sick of you. I've been

1060
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,760
with you all weekend. I don't want to spend one

1061
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,559
more minute with you. The fact that we to drive

1062
00:53:00,599 --> 00:53:02,639
home is bad enough. And now you can't find your

1063
00:53:02,679 --> 00:53:05,199
keys and she's like, I don't know what my keys are.

1064
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: I don't remember how what happened. I think eventually she

1065
00:53:08,119 --> 00:53:12,119
probably found them, but I just that was that. I

1066
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,599
was like done, I was done, hated. Yeah, never talked

1067
00:53:15,599 --> 00:53:20,480
to her again. Yeah, she was one of our friends's girlfriends. Probably,

1068
00:53:20,559 --> 00:53:23,719
Oh yeah, so she was like a fly by night girl.

1069
00:53:25,079 --> 00:53:29,079
Pam though, was my friend that my mom did not like, right, Yeah,

1070
00:53:29,079 --> 00:53:33,320
she thought she was a lazy. She got a pam.

1071
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,320
Gota Pama, she's a lazy.

1072
00:53:36,159 --> 00:53:39,199
Speaker 3: She whatever would it's ever become a Pam.

1073
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 2: Nobody talks to her anymore because she's a mooch. Turns

1074
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:46,679
out my mother was right. She is the biggest move

1075
00:53:47,679 --> 00:53:51,559
she's fellan props dollan. She never really got a job,

1076
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:55,719
and she just like she borrowed money from like Glenn

1077
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,360
or something at one point and then she asked. Then

1078
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,320
Dawn stayed in touch with her, and she has Don

1079
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,840
like a year ago, do you think Lynette can lend

1080
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:04,760
me one hundred and seventy grand?

1081
00:54:05,079 --> 00:54:05,159
Speaker 3: What?

1082
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 2: And Don was like, are you freaking what are you

1083
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,920
fucking smoking. First of all, you haven't talked to Lynette

1084
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:14,199
in like thirty years. Second of all, no, like one

1085
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,960
hundred and seventy grand.

1086
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 3: What the fuck's that? What do you think she's made?

1087
00:54:18,159 --> 00:54:21,760
Because she wanted to buy a golf like no, is

1088
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,880
that what it's called? The golf stream? Those those big

1089
00:54:25,079 --> 00:54:27,519
like a like a trailer. Probably, yeah, she wanted to

1090
00:54:27,519 --> 00:54:28,159
buy a trailer.

1091
00:54:29,199 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 2: How would she think of you for that? She was nutty.

1092
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,960
She was a little like entitled, Like I know why

1093
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:37,960
my mom didn't like her now now that I look

1094
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,199
back on it, I.

1095
00:54:39,119 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 3: Mean, she was my friend. She lived so close to

1096
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,480
the school, you know, we were like very close, and

1097
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:45,239
I would go to her house every day after school

1098
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:46,519
and my mom would come looking for me.

1099
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 2: What the hell is a Lynette? Tell he Lynette to

1100
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,119
get a home? And now, well that's not here, Helen.

1101
00:54:52,519 --> 00:54:57,559
I was not the born yesterday. Oh my god?

1102
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:02,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, everybody, Well, uh, I've got some more.

1103
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,239
I've got a very kind of funny story for you

1104
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:10,679
for Friday. Oh yeah, and who knows what Hetreon is

1105
00:55:10,679 --> 00:55:11,159
gonna bring?

1106
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:15,559
Speaker 2: Yeah? Who knows? Were you gonna say something? I was

1107
00:55:15,599 --> 00:55:17,960
gonna tell you. I started watching the show last night

1108
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:18,559
on Netflix.

1109
00:55:18,559 --> 00:55:22,559
Speaker 3: It's not a show documentary on Netflix speaking of being

1110
00:55:22,639 --> 00:55:24,880
young and doing shit.

1111
00:55:25,079 --> 00:55:28,519
Speaker 2: It's called Predator in Seville. Oh okay, yeah, I'll tell you.

1112
00:55:28,559 --> 00:55:29,320
I can't wait.

1113
00:55:29,679 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 3: All right, Well, let's say hi to our fabulous friends.

1114
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:36,000
We got Katie who's rolling on e Kelsey between two ferns.

1115
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:40,639
Christa get the strap, yep, Stepanie a stinker rinker, Sandra,

1116
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:44,360
it's not easy being green. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Leslie's coughing.

1117
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,719
Alicia go away, Kelly is not your aunt.

1118
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,159
Speaker 2: Rebecca is so huge, Sean is so hot?

1119
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:59,280
Speaker 3: Missy and Gabby are they in their agus right now

1120
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:00,199
there in Vegas?

1121
00:56:00,679 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 2: Hitting on the bartenders?

1122
00:56:02,039 --> 00:56:05,360
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of the park. Poly you let your pancakes, Fred to racking,

1124
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Elizabeth Williamson's kids in her bass yet and Nikki call

1125
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your girl?

1126
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Speaker 2: And Dick is frolicking.

1127
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dot com.

1165
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Speaker 3: And do you want to shout out your dog charity?

1166
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 2: Will the Phils Memorial? Oh, thank you everybody so much.

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00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 3: It keeps people keep donating and it's coming in and

1168
00:58:30,119 --> 00:58:36,280
uh it's Phil's memorial and it's Frankie's Friends and it's

1169
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:39,800
the The link to it is in my Instagram bio.

1170
00:58:40,079 --> 00:58:43,960
It's also and it's on our yes or two yes,

1171
00:58:44,079 --> 00:58:47,000
so go, thank you guys so much. You'll be getting

1172
00:58:47,039 --> 00:58:49,880
a note from me. Well, thanks everybody. You're a parent now,

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don't f it up. It's