Speaker 1: You are listening to Subject to Interpretation, a podcast where
Speaker 1: I pull some cards to open up the conversation. But
Speaker 1: my job is to challenge you to lean into your
Speaker 1: intuition and listen closely for your own personal confirmations. I
Speaker 1: am your host, Cynthia be mentor and coach to women
Speaker 1: who have the audacity to recognize just how much of
Speaker 1: their journey through womanhood is truly rooted in spirituality. Please
Speaker 1: put your triggers to the side so you've got room
Speaker 1: to open up your mind and let's get into your
Speaker 1: message of the day, shall we. So the card of
Speaker 1: the day is passion, right. I want you to, you know,
Speaker 1: the drill, pause the episode, open up your journal or
Speaker 1: your notesapp on your phone, and I want you to
Speaker 1: brain dump, if you will, all the things that come
Speaker 1: to your mind when you hear the word passion. Okay,
Speaker 1: So do that and then come on back. And we've
Speaker 1: been unpacked bars. Okay, I trust you did what the
Speaker 1: fuck I told you to do, and so let's get
Speaker 1: into it. Now. You're gonna follow me down a yellow
Speaker 1: brick road. What else is new? What else is new?
Speaker 1: So when I pulled the card this morning before my walk,
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, passion cool. So I lace up,
Speaker 1: I get out there, hit the pavement, and as I'm walking,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about passion and it's leading me to all
Speaker 1: these different places. A lot of stuff is coming up.
Speaker 1: And one thing in particular that came up for me
Speaker 1: a conversation that I was having with Dwayne this past
Speaker 1: weekend about building websites. So so basically one of my clients,
Speaker 1: well two of my clients, but one of my clients
Speaker 1: just the other day, she said, be how much you
Speaker 1: charge row up site because I think I'm being a
Speaker 1: need one. And I got really excited because I really love,
Speaker 1: I really love the process of building out these websites,
Speaker 1: and especially for my clients because I get to have
Speaker 1: complete creative control and that's heavan. So I told her
Speaker 1: the price, whatever the case may be. And I had
Speaker 1: just finished building a website for another client of mine
Speaker 1: who's a lawyer. And she's a lawyer who but she's
Speaker 1: it for creative entrepreneurs, right, look her up. If you
Speaker 1: need a lawyer, if you're in the US and you
Speaker 1: need an attorney to help you sort through you know
Speaker 1: your especially if you're a creative, go get yourself protected, right,
Speaker 1: her name is Demi and you can find her at uh,
Speaker 1: hold on, let me, let me get the website. Okay,
Speaker 1: I got it. You can find her at the DAMIL
Speaker 1: Firm dot com. So that is the d E M
Speaker 1: I L L E F I R M the DMIL
Speaker 1: Firm dot com. And she specializes she's legal counsel and
Speaker 1: business strategy for creatives and entrepreneurs. So I did her
Speaker 1: website and I did the I'm doing the other one
Speaker 1: from my other client. And so I was having a
Speaker 1: conversation with doing about this, and I said, man, I really,
Speaker 1: I really love doing this. And then he has been
Speaker 1: telling me for a while, He's like, you know, you
Speaker 1: should let other people know that you do these things, right,
Speaker 1: because while you know you specialize in coaching, personal advisory,
Speaker 1: all that stuff, you know, writing, I'm pretty sure a
Speaker 1: lot of your audience don't don't know that you also
Speaker 1: do websites. And you know, the only people who know
Speaker 1: are your clients that are already with you, right, and
Speaker 1: then you you said shit up for them. And I
Speaker 1: was singing to myself and I was saying to him,
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, You're absolutely right, right, And
Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna start sponsoring my own shit. Because
Speaker 1: the running joke for the last ever since I've been podcasting,
Speaker 1: even on my old podcast for so for the last
Speaker 1: i'm gonna know six or seven years, is that I
Speaker 1: don't get sponsors because I cuss too much. People don't
Speaker 1: have sponsor me, right, And I say, that's okay, because
Speaker 1: I'll sponsored my motherfuckingself. That's fine, right, I got books,
Speaker 1: I got my own things going on. I don't need
Speaker 1: your shit, you know. So that I was saying to him,
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm gonna find a way to
Speaker 1: sponsor myself, make my own commercial on my own podcasts,
Speaker 1: and sponsor myself and talk about the fact that I
Speaker 1: do websites, right, simple websites now, nothing crazy, but it
Speaker 1: gets the job done. Simple what and they're very pretty. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I digress, And so I had said, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: very passionate about this, right, It's one of the things
Speaker 1: that I'm very passionate about. And then so today when
Speaker 1: I was on my walk, I was thinking about that conversation,
Speaker 1: and I said to myself, I was thinking about the
Speaker 1: fact that never as a little girl, or as a teenager,
Speaker 1: or even as an adult, right, a young adult that
Speaker 1: I think on when I make websites. That was never
Speaker 1: a thought, never ever a thought, so let alone a
Speaker 1: passion and I say that. So I let me actually
Speaker 1: say this first. I thought about conversations that I've had
Speaker 1: with many women over the years when I speak about
Speaker 1: the importance of getting a fucking life and creating copies
Speaker 1: for yourself and finding something that you're passionate about. How
Speaker 1: many women have responded that they're not passionate about anything, right,
Speaker 1: and they get frustrated because they don't the things that
Speaker 1: they're passionate about, you know, are either you know, not
Speaker 1: enough air quotes here, right, or that they quite genuinely
Speaker 1: don't feel a passion for many things right, or anything
Speaker 1: at all. And so I was thinking to myself, back
Speaker 1: to the website stuff. So I learned to create websites
Speaker 1: that was birthed out of a problem that I needed
Speaker 1: to solve. Okay, And so one thing about me that
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you guys know already because I said
Speaker 1: all them in the fucking time. But I'm a problem
Speaker 1: solver and I'm the type of person who will figure
Speaker 1: out a way come hella high water. And the reason
Speaker 1: why I learned how to build websites is because early
Speaker 1: early on, I didn't have the money. Right, early early on,
Speaker 1: I needed a website. I'm talking in fourteen years old now,
Speaker 1: twelve years ago, a new website, and so I was
Speaker 1: getting quoted, you know, especially back then, and it's still
Speaker 1: the same now, right, But five six seven thousand dollars
Speaker 1: to build a website, musa, I'm not too I don't
Speaker 1: have I have I don't have that money, right, I
Speaker 1: don't have that money. Soh BRB in two years, I
Speaker 1: don't know, right, But I knew I needed the website.
Speaker 1: So I sat down and I learned how to build it.
Speaker 1: You know, I started with wigs, which is still my
Speaker 1: main hub. I use wis all the time because that's
Speaker 1: what I know now and that's where I'm comfortable. But
Speaker 1: and you know, at the when I first did my
Speaker 1: first one, it was yall, you know, it was I wish,
Speaker 1: I wish I still had a picture of what the
Speaker 1: first first website ever looked like. But it got the
Speaker 1: job done right. But then I had a new problem.
Speaker 1: I wanted to make it look better because it was
Speaker 1: a little jane. So I if you have been around
Speaker 1: for long enough, you know that my my old website.
Speaker 1: It was originally it's been through so many names, child,
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. But in the beginning, you know,
Speaker 1: I had altered it many times, many many, many many times.
Speaker 1: Right there was I'd altered it, I revised it, I
Speaker 1: updated it, altered it, revised it, update it, right. But
Speaker 1: in the background, I really wanted to learn how to
Speaker 1: make this shit look nice, how to make this shit
Speaker 1: look pretty, how to make you know. And then as
Speaker 1: I grew as a woman, so did the design aspect
Speaker 1: of it. Right. It used to be very cute, see
Speaker 1: and very the cartoony and you know, whatever the case
Speaker 1: may be, until I refined it to the point where
Speaker 1: we are now. So if you go look at my
Speaker 1: website now Cynthia bw dot com, it's completely different than
Speaker 1: where I of course, are completely different, right, But I
Speaker 1: have I say, I'm giving you this backstory to say
Speaker 1: I grew into this passion. It was not something I
Speaker 1: started passionate. I don't give a fuck, give a fuck,
Speaker 1: give a fuck. I just want to write books. But
Speaker 1: because I wanted to write book I want to write books,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to publish books. But that led to
Speaker 1: me realizing, okay, I want to write books and publish them. Cool.
Speaker 1: But the problem is, I need to figure out now
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna do all this by myself, I need
Speaker 1: to learn how to build or I learned, need to
Speaker 1: learn how to make cover designs. Sure I could hire
Speaker 1: somebody to do it, yes, but remember at the time,
Speaker 1: my money for that, my money for that, money to that.
Speaker 1: So rather than sit upon my ass and cry and
Speaker 1: complain about I don't have money for this, I ho't
Speaker 1: money for that, I can't do this, and just let
Speaker 1: my dreams pass me by, I figured it out. I
Speaker 1: sat down, and I learned write how to do these things.
Speaker 1: And the same thing with my book cover is granted,
Speaker 1: you know, the first book I ever launched, which was
Speaker 1: Letters to my ex under my old pen name CCB.
Speaker 1: The first cover of that whatever, right, but it got
Speaker 1: the job done, and I was I knew eventually I
Speaker 1: wanted to. And that's just the beauty for me of
Speaker 1: self publishing anything, because I can revise it as many
Speaker 1: times as I need to. Nothing is set in stone,
Speaker 1: but I knew eventually. You know, we'll figure out, we'll
Speaker 1: iron up the details later, but right now, let's just
Speaker 1: get this oat into the world, right, And so I
Speaker 1: solved my problem, and then I continue to solve the problem.
Speaker 1: The book went through, you know, a few different book covers,
Speaker 1: the same thing with my second and my third books, right,
Speaker 1: because I got better and better at learning how to
Speaker 1: make covers, how to make book covers, and so these
Speaker 1: became skills that I learned and I kept I continued
Speaker 1: to learn because I had a problem I need to solve,
Speaker 1: and these skills ended up becoming something that I was
Speaker 1: really passionate about because I really like to do it.
Speaker 1: So now with fast forward, you know, fourteen years later
Speaker 1: or whatever it kis, maybe twelve year fourteen mineral, it's
Speaker 1: been a while, okay, but fast forward a decade and
Speaker 1: some change, I am able to do do all these
Speaker 1: things that were birthed. I had all these skills that
Speaker 1: were birth out of a problem that I needed to solve,
Speaker 1: multiple problems that I need to solve that I didn't
Speaker 1: have the money to pay somebody to do it, so
Speaker 1: I learned how to do it myself. And now they
Speaker 1: become passions of mine that I'm really excited about. And
Speaker 1: then I get really excited about. It's music to my ears.
Speaker 1: When when one of my clients just says to me,
Speaker 1: be can you make me a website? I'm like, fuck, yes,
Speaker 1: I can. Let's go right, cause I get so another.
Speaker 1: I'm going to call it a super hower of mine.
Speaker 1: But I get hyper focused, right, I get hyper focused,
Speaker 1: and once I'm in, I'm in it. I was telling
Speaker 1: my clients and when she asked me to make her website,
Speaker 1: she it was just a thought at first, and then
Speaker 1: when we talked in our session, I told her. As
Speaker 1: soon she came in the session, I said, Dna, I
Speaker 1: just want to let you know that you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to now follow through with this, whether you want to
Speaker 1: or not, because I already started a mood board for you.
Speaker 1: I already started image, I already started in my brain,
Speaker 1: and I need to follow this through. Please, I need this.
Speaker 1: I need this. I need to follow this through because
Speaker 1: I won't know what else to do with it. Right.
Speaker 1: So she started laughing and she's like, no, be yes,
Speaker 1: we're one hundred percent or one hundred percent doing it right.
Speaker 1: And so what I love is the creative control I
Speaker 1: get to have right where I take into consideration my clients,
Speaker 1: who they are, what they want to represent, the they're
Speaker 1: little things. You know. So for example, for if you
Speaker 1: go on the dmil Firm dot com, which is Demi's website.
Speaker 1: She when we spoke about it, she said, I want
Speaker 1: to find a way to incorporate the fact that I'm
Speaker 1: a Libra in there, right, she said, Okay, bet, And
Speaker 1: as I was, you know, singing up her website, I
Speaker 1: said to myself, oh, I can't. I can't just put scales.
Speaker 1: And I could because a lot of attorneys actually have
Speaker 1: scales on their website, right, but it looks all borrowing
Speaker 1: and ugly in my personal opinion. And Demi is her
Speaker 1: audience who she serves are creatives and entrepreneurs. So I
Speaker 1: wanted when creatives and entrepreneurs got there. And that's another
Speaker 1: thing that's important too, right, I wanted when they landed
Speaker 1: on her website that they felt as though this was
Speaker 1: for them. It wasn't stiffy, it wasn't barring, right that
Speaker 1: they could Okay, this is the lawyer who who is
Speaker 1: creative herself, right, because she is. She plays the piano anyways, right,
Speaker 1: that's important. She plays the piano, she plays instruments like
Speaker 1: she's you know, she's the bomb. Dot com showed my
Speaker 1: age here, show my age the bomb dot com all
Speaker 1: that had in a bag of chips. Okay, cool. Anyways,
Speaker 1: So when I was thinking about how to incorporate the
Speaker 1: what a day, what a day the scales, I said,
Speaker 1: I can't just do like a local dog, a dog
Speaker 1: a scale, whatever the case may be. So if you
Speaker 1: go on her website and you look at the picture,
Speaker 1: the photo that's on the wall in the background, you
Speaker 1: will see that the photo is scales. It's scales, right,
Speaker 1: It's the little things. It's just the little things. And
Speaker 1: I had so much fun doing it, and I was
Speaker 1: really passionate about figuring out how to get how to
Speaker 1: incorporate that in a way that is not cheesy and corny.
Speaker 1: Geana is sound I'm saying. So I say all that
Speaker 1: I bring you down this Excuse me? Did I hit
Speaker 1: the microphone? What I'm mercying? I bring you down this
Speaker 1: journey with me. To say, a lot of times when
Speaker 1: we think about passions, we're thinking about them very one dimensional.
Speaker 1: We're thinking about it's something that has to to light
Speaker 1: you up right away, right And the purpose of my
Speaker 1: story was to show you that a lot of times,
Speaker 1: often even it could be something that grows into a passion.
Speaker 1: It could be a skill that you learn that grows
Speaker 1: into a passion. It could be a hobby you pick
Speaker 1: up that grows into a passion. Right. It could be
Speaker 1: something that grows over time, just like love. Just like love, right,
Speaker 1: just like anything else, grows over time. And now twoto's
Speaker 1: a year later, two years later, six months later, you're
Speaker 1: very passionate about it. Right, is the same thing. I
Speaker 1: could say, You know, I keep walking, right walking, fitness,
Speaker 1: whatever the case they be. Do you think I was
Speaker 1: passionate about that shit? Let me do something I remember
Speaker 1: and if you're an og you will remember me saying this.
Speaker 1: When I used to do Instagram lives and people would
Speaker 1: say this is this is a long time ago. But
Speaker 1: people would say to me, they would ask, you know,
Speaker 1: be you know, what's your workout regimen or whatever the
Speaker 1: case thing be. And I would say I would My
Speaker 1: response was workout. Maybe the only squad that I do
Speaker 1: is over public tola bowls. Okay, anybody trying to Nobody
Speaker 1: got time for that, right, This was my answer. People
Speaker 1: will talk about a hike and I would, oh, you
Speaker 1: want to go to hike? As are there hot wings
Speaker 1: at the end of the site. Why Why am I
Speaker 1: going on hike for? No? Thank you? No, why I'm good?
Speaker 1: Right fast forward seven years later, I'm very passionate about walking.
Speaker 1: Duanna and I went to a wedding this past weekend,
Speaker 1: beautiful one, and we had so much fun. We did karaoke.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so much fun. We've never
Speaker 1: done it before, he and I together. It was so
Speaker 1: much fune. Anyways, we got up there anyways, it doesn't matter,
Speaker 1: and we were in the mountains. We're in the countryside,
Speaker 1: will Yeah, there was mountains. We're in the countryside. So
Speaker 1: it was about an hour and some change away, two
Speaker 1: hours away. And in the morning when we woke up,
Speaker 1: I was ready. I brought my I made sure. Now
Speaker 1: we were on technically our local vacation, right, a local
Speaker 1: mini weekend trip away. Yes, for a wedding, but still nonetheless,
Speaker 1: and I made sure before leaving. I packed my sneakers,
Speaker 1: I packed my vest, my weighted vest, I packed my
Speaker 1: workout gear, whatever the case may be. Because I knew
Speaker 1: that I wanted to on Saturday morning before the wedding,
Speaker 1: I wanted to wake up early, and I wanted to
Speaker 1: go walk. I wanted to go for a good walk
Speaker 1: through the mountains, through the you know, all the things whatever,
Speaker 1: and so we did. We woke up. It was like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: seven o'clock whatever, and we laced up and went for
Speaker 1: a beautiful walk. And I was very passionate about this,
Speaker 1: very passionate about about taking the walk. Right, But this
Speaker 1: is something that I've grown into. These are things that
Speaker 1: I've grown into, right, And a lot of times, you know,
Speaker 1: there's I realize this skewed perception or this very one
Speaker 1: dimensional thinking about what passion is, what a passion needs
Speaker 1: to be. And I think it's very important. I don't think,
Speaker 1: I know it's very important for so many women to
Speaker 1: be encouraged to broaden their perspectives of passions. Because if
Speaker 1: you sit down there and you way, it's like motivation,
Speaker 1: if you sit down there and you wait for a
Speaker 1: time to feel motivated to do something. Motivation is very fleety, right,
Speaker 1: It's a very it's a very flighty fleeting bitch. Right.
Speaker 1: Sometimes she is. Sometimes she's not there, Okay, here today,
Speaker 1: gone for six months, come back, right, She's very she's
Speaker 1: very me. Motivation is very me when it comes to
Speaker 1: podcast episodes, when it comes to to to friends. So
Speaker 1: when it comes to I'm you know, I will check in,
Speaker 1: but I also my disappear for three months, you know,
Speaker 1: but I'll be back. I'm gonna disappear again. Right, just
Speaker 1: keep it in a book. Let's just keep it in
Speaker 1: a book. Right. So it's the same thing with this
Speaker 1: idea of you know, I have to wait until I
Speaker 1: feel really passionate about something to do something. Now, you
Speaker 1: don't sometimes that shit. More often, your passion will grow
Speaker 1: on you. But you have to start something, right. You
Speaker 1: have to start something. You got to stick to it right.
Speaker 1: You got to do it more and more often, more
Speaker 1: and more often until tutoth Like I said, it becomes
Speaker 1: something that you're fucking hella passionate about. And like I said,
Speaker 1: you know, for me, my passions, I realize are very
Speaker 1: much connected to my need to problem solve. It's in need.
Speaker 1: My brother and I were speaking about this the other
Speaker 1: night when we were talking about a certain family member,
Speaker 1: and we'll just say a certain family member, and he
Speaker 1: and I were speaking about how we're just speaking about
Speaker 1: this this person in general. We're talking and talk of
Speaker 1: some shit, some real shit, but shit none bless. And
Speaker 1: as we're talking and talking talking, it finally dawned on me.
Speaker 1: I said, oh, my goodness, I'm starting to realize why.
Speaker 1: One of the reasons, one of the main, over the
Speaker 1: core reason why this person drives me so crazy is
Speaker 1: because I'm never able to solve their problem right, because
Speaker 1: they're always complaining about something and I give them solutions
Speaker 1: which would solve their problem, and they don't, and this
Speaker 1: drives me nuts. And then so we had this big
Speaker 1: aha moment and he's like, Yo, that makes perfect sense.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my fucking god, I'm literally I want
Speaker 1: to stop saying literally anyways, I'm we're gonna work on that.
Speaker 1: We are working on that. But I am I have
Speaker 1: to if there's a problem, I have to see it through.
Speaker 1: I have to solve it. I have to solve it right.
Speaker 1: And so so for example me, you know, putting out workbooks, journals,
Speaker 1: so on and so forth, it's because I saw a problem,
Speaker 1: you know, within so many women, right, a problem that
Speaker 1: so many women had, and this was my way of
Speaker 1: solving it right or helping you solve certain of it right.
Speaker 1: Won't put it on into the world, whatevery case may be. Books,
Speaker 1: there's a problem, I'm gonna put out a book. This
Speaker 1: is gonna help you solve it. Right, Clients, you have
Speaker 1: a problem, I'm gonna solve it. This is right. But
Speaker 1: this is also what makes me so good at what
Speaker 1: I do, right, because I'm very invested in solving the problem,
Speaker 1: and so it's a very real thing. And because of that,
Speaker 1: I'm very passionate about solving the problem. So it's linked, right.
Speaker 1: My investment is so strong that it becomes something I'm
Speaker 1: very passionate about, which is why often when I get
Speaker 1: on my podcast to speak, sometimes it's not like I'm
Speaker 1: yelling at y'all, and sometimes i am, but I'm very
Speaker 1: passionate about what the fuck I have to say, because
Speaker 1: everything I have to say is is a is the answer, right,
Speaker 1: the solution to the problems that so many women say
Speaker 1: that they have. You see what I'm saying, So I
Speaker 1: dare you, I double doggie, triple doggie. Dare you to
Speaker 1: think outside of your box if you will write and
Speaker 1: perhaps stop thinking of passion as something that has to
Speaker 1: ignite you right now, right even when you're thinking about
Speaker 1: you know, I know some of y'all wrote down, you know,
Speaker 1: passionate relationships. You know what I'm saying. But I also
Speaker 1: think you know what, let's go there for a second.
Speaker 1: I also think that this idea of a passionate relationship
Speaker 1: is also very one dimensional. And when you think of passion,
Speaker 1: you think of the movies, or you think of that
Speaker 1: beginning chemistry, or you think that it's an everyday thing, right,
Speaker 1: and so you know, just there's so much passion in
Speaker 1: our relationship and sparks and flames, and you know which
Speaker 1: is so hungry for each other all the time. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you some right now, let me tell you
Speaker 1: something right now. What did I say earlier? Just like motivation,
Speaker 1: passion and relationships, that shit comes and goes. Okay, this
Speaker 1: shit comes and ghosts, It comes and goes, and or
Speaker 1: it can look it could take on different forms, right,
Speaker 1: So maybe it's not we're passionately making love all the
Speaker 1: time every night, or we're passionately all over each other
Speaker 1: right all the time, or I just feel passionate. You
Speaker 1: don't always feel Sometimes sometimes you're gonna look at your
Speaker 1: man and you're gonna be like, I love you, but
Speaker 1: I don't really necessarily know if I like you. Right
Speaker 1: now you get on my nerves just a little bit,
Speaker 1: this fuck bit, but I love you boo, right I
Speaker 1: think a lot of women have this idea in their
Speaker 1: mind that things such as passion, h you know, love
Speaker 1: all the stuff right, it has to be an absolute right,
Speaker 1: and it has to be every day, all day, all
Speaker 1: the time, twenty four seven. And that's just not that's
Speaker 1: just not how this work. Even a fire, right, even
Speaker 1: a flame a candle, eventually the wick, you know, dies down,
Speaker 1: and you got to relight it, and you got to
Speaker 1: get a new candle, or you got to start a
Speaker 1: new fire in the woods. Not in the woods, child,
Speaker 1: you know, safely, not Canada going through right now, So
Speaker 1: not just safely, well, certain parts of Canada. To be clear,
Speaker 1: I do live in Canada, but I'm not near the fire,
Speaker 1: so you know, all that stuff. But anyways, I digress, right,
Speaker 1: And I hate to say it again, Actually no, let
Speaker 1: me take that back. I don't hate to say it again.
Speaker 1: I love to say it again. But it's these damn phones.
Speaker 1: A lot of women are too invested in curated images
Speaker 1: and videos about what other women are passionate about. And
Speaker 1: then it they think to themselves. You know, coloring, for example, right,
Speaker 1: color fucking coloring. You know, you are watching these other
Speaker 1: women color, and now you and maybe that's their passion,
Speaker 1: or maybe it's just for views and that's how they
Speaker 1: make money. I really want you to think about that.
Speaker 1: But anyways, I digress, right, and now you're thinking yourself,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I like the color. I've always liked
Speaker 1: to color as a kid. I want to make this
Speaker 1: my hobby. Right, that could have turned into a passion.
Speaker 1: But now you stop yourself because you're thinking, all right, this,
Speaker 1: all these creators I'm seeing on the ticks of the
Speaker 1: talks or whatever the case may be, they have They
Speaker 1: have two thousand dollars worth of crayons, different types of crayons,
Speaker 1: different types of colors, ooh who markers or oh who
Speaker 1: ooh who? But no one of them things they write
Speaker 1: certain name, brown markers, whatever the case may be, very
Speaker 1: specific pencil crayons. And then they have this, and then
Speaker 1: they have that, and they have this, and they have that,
Speaker 1: and they have a dedicated table set up for all
Speaker 1: this stuff. And so now you're thinking to yourself, well,
Speaker 1: fuck it, because I don't have two thousand dollars to
Speaker 1: invest in coloring. What when really, go get yourself a
Speaker 1: pack of crayle of crayons, right, or go get yourself
Speaker 1: a pack a pack of pencil crayons from Amazon that
Speaker 1: are twenty bucks or fifteen books or whatever the kids
Speaker 1: they me. Get yourself a coloring book. I also have
Speaker 1: coloring books ps. By the way, let me sponsor myself again.
Speaker 1: I mean coloring books two years ago. I think you
Speaker 1: can find them on Amazon under Bring your own Crayons,
Speaker 1: that's the BYOC. I'll link them in the show notes.
Speaker 1: If you I'll link it. I'll link it in the
Speaker 1: show notes. It'll make it easier for you if you
Speaker 1: want to go coloring book for yourself or for your
Speaker 1: picking them. Do you know what I mean. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: start sponsoring myself a lot more often because I realize
Speaker 1: that I've done a lot of things that I do things,
Speaker 1: put them out there and be like okay next, and
Speaker 1: then because they're so different, they're all different how do
Speaker 1: I say? They're all so different from from what I
Speaker 1: guess do online. They're just different extensions of me that
Speaker 1: I think I in my brain. I don't know how
Speaker 1: to put them together under one hub. So anyways, we
Speaker 1: got we're fixing that. This motherbooking you, We're fixing that.
Speaker 1: But anyways, said you guys, I'll link them in the
Speaker 1: show notes. But right when you can just go get
Speaker 1: yourself a coloring books, some crans and you can sit
Speaker 1: down and color with a podcast in the background or
Speaker 1: your favorite show. Some of you guys, you true crime
Speaker 1: women who love a true crime. I don't know how
Speaker 1: you guys listen to that all the time. It gets scary. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I digress. I was the kid who was afraid of goosebumps.
Speaker 1: To be clear, are you afraid of the dark? I
Speaker 1: hated that. I was like, okay, I knew it, but
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't watch anyways, I digress, Right,
Speaker 1: But then you end up stopping yourself from something that
Speaker 1: could have turned into a passion, all because you were
Speaker 1: busy comparing yourself to other people or comparing what other
Speaker 1: people have, because you're faces in the screen to you. Right,
Speaker 1: maybe you want to start working out, maybe you want
Speaker 1: to start taking walks, maybe you want to start whatever
Speaker 1: the case may be. And now you're watching you're on
Speaker 1: Fitness Talk or whatever the fuck it's called, and you're
Speaker 1: watching all these women in these really cute outfits, and
Speaker 1: this then the third and you're thinking to yourself, Okay,
Speaker 1: I want to start walking whatever the CASEY mean, But
Speaker 1: I don't have the money right now to go and
Speaker 1: get these really cute outfits, or maybe I only have
Speaker 1: money to get one, but like what am I going
Speaker 1: to do? Wash it every day? Every day? I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna wash it, do a little laundry, and wash this
Speaker 1: one outfit. And so I don't have the extra three
Speaker 1: hundred and four hundred dollars to go and get the
Speaker 1: you know, and the fitness watch and the this, and
Speaker 1: then that's so fuck it. I'm not even gonna walk.
Speaker 1: That's crazy, you say. How do you see how crazy
Speaker 1: that sounds when I say it? Ah, Love, this is
Speaker 1: something that could have been a passion of yours, that
Speaker 1: I could have turned into a passion. But because you
Speaker 1: are still depon focused on how everyone else is doing it,
Speaker 1: you're robbing yourself of an experience of how you could
Speaker 1: do it, of your starting point and where it could
Speaker 1: lead for you. Do you understand what I'm saying? Anyways,
Speaker 1: that's what I have for today, That's what I have.
Speaker 1: I hope that it allowed you to, you know, think
Speaker 1: more openly about passion, about what you think you need
Speaker 1: need to have, how it needs to look, so on
Speaker 1: and so forth, and I really hope it gave you, you know,
Speaker 1: like I always say, food for thought. Just make sure
Speaker 1: that you finish your plate and go be great. Okay.
Speaker 1: I think it's so important for women to have to
Speaker 1: get outside of their echo chambers. And I just think
Speaker 1: it's very I don't think. I know, it's very important
Speaker 1: for women, you know, to to to to have some
Speaker 1: encouragement to think outside of that, to break out of that,
Speaker 1: you know, and to bring you back into yourself. And
Speaker 1: essentially that is what my job is over here, that
Speaker 1: is what I do. Okay, So do what you want
Speaker 1: with that information, but just make it count, all right.
Speaker 1: And on that note, I'm going to love you and
Speaker 1: leave you darlings, all right. So I will leave the
Speaker 1: low the I will leave the link the loat how
Speaker 1: much wood could it wood? Chuck Chuck? If it would?
Speaker 1: Chuck could? Chuck would? I will leave the link to
Speaker 1: the coloring books in the show note. Okay, that's one. Two.
Speaker 1: I will also leave the link in case you want
Speaker 1: to book a personal advisory session. The link for that
Speaker 1: will be in the show notes as well. Three. If
Speaker 1: you need a website and you listen, nothing crazy, look
Speaker 1: nothing crazy Okay, don't be do not be hitting me
Speaker 1: up talking about some Yeah, I'm gonna need seventeen pages
Speaker 1: and they're gonna have to spin and twist and turn
Speaker 1: and dip and do all kinds of you know motion. Look, look,
Speaker 1: I need you to lower your expectations. I need you
Speaker 1: to lower your expectations on that. Okay. But if you
Speaker 1: are a I'm just keeping it a book. But if
Speaker 1: you are a you know, a creator of some sorts,
Speaker 1: a fellow coach, a fellow writer, a fellow Tarot reader,
Speaker 1: a brow and eyelash tech whatever, right, and you know
Speaker 1: that you're at the point where you need a website
Speaker 1: for your shit, but you ain't got no five thousand,
Speaker 1: six thousand, seven thousand dollars to be pay right now,
Speaker 1: I'll let your go and we go hook you up. Well,
Speaker 1: now I want to make something very clear. Uh this
Speaker 1: is zero and I really mean it with my host spirit.
Speaker 1: Zero shade to everybody who is charging five six seven
Speaker 1: thousand dollars for the website. Yo, that's what it is,
Speaker 1: and that's that's what it is, right, I really believe wholeheartedly.
Speaker 1: And women charging exactly what the fuck they know their
Speaker 1: area of expertise is and what they can deliver one
Speaker 1: hundred percent. So this is no shade to the reason
Speaker 1: why I don't charge five thousand dollars is because it's
Speaker 1: because I don't do all the you know, the extra
Speaker 1: you know, dip it low, pick it up, slow, turn
Speaker 1: it all around. I'm not Christina Milion in the website
Speaker 1: making department, do you know what I mean? That is why? Okay,
Speaker 1: But anyways, so yeah, so just holler at me. The
Speaker 1: link to my website will be in the show notes.
Speaker 1: Scroll all the way down to the contact form. Fill
Speaker 1: it out. Just you know, let me know what you do,
Speaker 1: what you're looking for. We'll set up what Hello, We'll
Speaker 1: set up a time to up on a call and
Speaker 1: just talk about what it is that you need and
Speaker 1: to see if I could make that happen for you. Okay,
Speaker 1: and what else? Do I have anything else? No? That
Speaker 1: is it? All right, ladies. I hope you have a
Speaker 1: good rest of your morning's evenings afternoons wherever you are
Speaker 1: in the world. Until the next message of the day,
Speaker 1: go make the day work for you. I got for this,
Speaker 1: you got life, cool, honest, honest