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Speaker 2: What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If
Speaker 2: you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here.
Speaker 2: So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we
Speaker 2: will laugh. Other times, baby, we're gonna cry, but we
Speaker 2: will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch
Speaker 2: self that is babe and true connection with herself or himself.
Speaker 2: Shout out to the male viewers that are awakening in
Speaker 2: this season. That's right. On this podcast, we unbecome who
Speaker 2: we are not so we can fully step into exactly
Speaker 2: who we came here to be. Today, we are talking
Speaker 2: about intimacy, We're talking about sex, baby, We're talking about celebisi,
Speaker 2: We're talking about energy frequency. We are going to dive
Speaker 2: into it all because you know what, my body is
Speaker 2: a temple and not a hotel. Too many people are
Speaker 2: harvesting your energy, period point blank. Too many people are
Speaker 2: treating you like you're a hotel. And guess who's allowing it.
Speaker 2: Not Martha, not Kristen. Unless your name is Martha or Kristen.
Speaker 2: You it is you, babe, It is you. I am
Speaker 2: not a hotel. I personally don't just allow anyone into
Speaker 2: my life. I don't allow anyone into my body in
Speaker 2: my orbit. I'm not going to be giving out free
Speaker 2: conditioner room service on the house. I'm not giving out
Speaker 2: the shampoo bottles. I'm not giving out the little chocolate
Speaker 2: on the pillow. No, no, no, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: give that all to you while you temporarily use me
Speaker 2: for a stay. I am a temple, and in some
Speaker 2: cultures it is very offensive if you approach a temple
Speaker 2: without some sort of offering. You don't go up to
Speaker 2: the altar without flowers or money or something to give
Speaker 2: to that said alter. I'm not a hotel where you're
Speaker 2: just gonna pass through me and get free goodies on
Speaker 2: your pillow. I am a temple. You bring an offering
Speaker 2: to me of pursuit, of time, of presence, and I'll
Speaker 2: let you know. When you respect your body as a
Speaker 2: sacred temple, that it is you're going to notice. Self
Speaker 2: esteem raises, your ability to manifest gets better, your ability
Speaker 2: to have discernment is much clearer, easier. But when you're
Speaker 2: misplacing your energy and giving it to just anyone, allowing
Speaker 2: anyone in and out of your orbit, allowing anyone in
Speaker 2: and out of your body like you are a hotel.
Speaker 2: You're going to notice selfish steam crashes. You're gonna notice,
Speaker 2: you're gonna want to crash out. You're gonna notice that
Speaker 2: you don't feel so good in your own skin. You're
Speaker 2: gonna notice that it's harder to manifest. You're gonna notice
Speaker 2: that you are relying on people to fill you up
Speaker 2: rather than relying on your connection to the divine. I
Speaker 2: will say the person who you're listening to right now, Hi,
Speaker 2: my name is Ceci. My mother did say to my
Speaker 2: face just a couple of days ago, Cec, you know
Speaker 2: what you need sex? I told my beautiful mother. First
Speaker 2: of all, I'm celibate, so absolutely not unless it's my husband,
Speaker 2: absolutely not. Should you listen to me? You know what
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you? Why you should? My mom saying
Speaker 2: that to me is evidence that I don't give my
Speaker 2: energy away. We need to unpack this because there's something
Speaker 2: magical in what my mother says. Let's ignore that that's
Speaker 2: completely inappropriate and odd, but let's unpack this. She said
Speaker 2: to me, Ceci, you just need to go get laid
Speaker 2: or whatever. Why would she say that? She said that
Speaker 2: because she's noticing my pent up energy in my body.
Speaker 2: We know in culture, if someone is having a day
Speaker 2: where they're screaming at everyone, we say, damn, they need
Speaker 2: to go get laid. Why are we saying that, because
Speaker 2: we're recognizing that person has a build up of energy
Speaker 2: and if they go have sex with someone, it's going
Speaker 2: to expel that energy, it's going to release it. If
Speaker 2: you are releasing your energy with people who do not
Speaker 2: respect you or value you, you're not just giving up
Speaker 2: your good energy, You're also taking on their lower vibrational frequency.
Speaker 2: This is why I really believe in celibacy, and I've
Speaker 2: really always believes in it, and why I practice it
Speaker 2: is because I use my energy. I pour that energy
Speaker 2: into myself, and my mom was recognizing all that energy
Speaker 2: I had within me. Now, usually I channel that energy,
Speaker 2: I alchemize it because I'm creating the TikTok, the podcast,
Speaker 2: the book, the course. But because I didn't yet do
Speaker 2: that that day, she was picking up on how much
Speaker 2: energy I had in my body. We know in society
Speaker 2: this is something we talk about all the time. We
Speaker 2: know when someone has a lot of energy, we literally
Speaker 2: will say, oh, they need to go get laid. We
Speaker 2: understand energetics even though we don't use the language of it.
Speaker 2: So thanks Mom for bringing that up this week. I
Speaker 2: just saw do too too on my clock. We need
Speaker 2: to talk about something. Why should you pour your energy
Speaker 2: back into yourself? Why should you allow your energy to build?
Speaker 2: Why should you not just give it to the brads
Speaker 2: and chads of the world. I channeled the other day.
Speaker 2: I've been channeling love messages again and again and again.
Speaker 2: That's very unlike what I usually channeled. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: what's going on? So I went in and I looked deeper,
Speaker 2: and I found out that twenty twenty five is the
Speaker 2: beginning of mass sacred union. The divine feminine has been
Speaker 2: doing so much work, inner work since about twenty twenty
Speaker 2: and all of this inner work that divine feminine leading
Speaker 2: human beings have been doing has now surpassed a threshold,
Speaker 2: and it's triggered the divine masculine to now wake up.
Speaker 2: The vision that they gave me was sleeping beauty kissing
Speaker 2: the prince, and then the prince waking up and opening
Speaker 2: his eyes, a complete role reversal of what's in the
Speaker 2: Disney Princess movie. It was the divine feminine that woke
Speaker 2: up the masculine. But this is how energetics work in
Speaker 2: sacred union. It is the divine feminine that lee's sacred
Speaker 2: union because she leads with her heart. She is the body,
Speaker 2: and the masculine energy is the head, the mind. The
Speaker 2: divine feminine is the leader in this emotional connection, in
Speaker 2: heart centered union. So it makes sense that the divine
Speaker 2: feminine has been waking up first, and now enough souls
Speaker 2: have awakened that it's triggering a mass awakening in the
Speaker 2: divine masculine. And this is going to have a trickled
Speaker 2: down effect from the higher realms law of correspondence as above,
Speaker 2: so below, all change has to happen in the five
Speaker 2: D First. Now that there has been changes in these
Speaker 2: higher realms, in the inner realms of us doing the work,
Speaker 2: doing the work, doing the work, masculine energies in large
Speaker 2: numbers are going to start to awaken. They already are.
Speaker 2: They're going to start to recognize higher levels of living,
Speaker 2: the importance of sacred union, the importance of having some
Speaker 2: sort of connection where you build either a business or
Speaker 2: a family. Going to start to recognize us, and they
Speaker 2: all ready are. It is not the time to give
Speaker 2: up on sacred union and love. I know you're burnt out,
Speaker 2: I know you're tired, I know you're frustrated. But this
Speaker 2: is not the time to give up because we've just
Speaker 2: surpassed a threshold. You are two feet from gold. This
Speaker 2: is the year higher relationship, sacred union. Unlike other relationships
Speaker 2: that you've seen, are going to form. This is not
Speaker 2: going to be like the traditional dynamics you've seen, where
Speaker 2: I serve you in order to get served back. Is
Speaker 2: very transactional. This is going to be loved that's rooted
Speaker 2: in devotion. I'm honoring the divinity within you, and you're
Speaker 2: honoring the divinity within me. I'm honoring that God flows
Speaker 2: through you, and you're honoring that God flows through me.
Speaker 2: It's a higher level of love. This is not the
Speaker 2: time to give up on love. What can we do
Speaker 2: then to prime ourselves for this sacred union? Hold on
Speaker 2: to your energy, hold on to your energy, Let your
Speaker 2: energy build. Do not be giving it out to random people,
Speaker 2: because then your vibration gets tampered with because you're worried
Speaker 2: about the people that aren't for you, because they're treating
Speaker 2: you terribly. But they're treating you terribly because God is
Speaker 2: trying to remove them from your life. Let's understand what
Speaker 2: sex is. Sacred energetic x change. Sacred energetic exchange, that
Speaker 2: is what sex is. It's like gluing two pieces of
Speaker 2: paper together and then trying to rip those pieces of
Speaker 2: paper apart. It's going to get messy because when you
Speaker 2: engage in sex with somebody else, you're giving up some
Speaker 2: of your energy. That's why you're expelling. And we know
Speaker 2: sex does that because we say to people when they're
Speaker 2: really up here and intense, you need to go get laid,
Speaker 2: because we know sex expels your energy. The part that
Speaker 2: we don't talk about is that the energy we take on,
Speaker 2: if it's not someone who respects us and loves us
Speaker 2: and values us, is going to be lower in vibration,
Speaker 2: and then it tampers with our thought forms, it tampers
Speaker 2: with how we feel about ourselves, and then we've become
Speaker 2: reliant on people who are not meant for us. The
Speaker 2: more you are intimate with someone, the more likely you're
Speaker 2: going to become emotionally attached to them. Is the person
Speaker 2: that you think you can be friends with, benefits with,
Speaker 2: actually someone you want in your life? Do you want
Speaker 2: to risk becoming emotionally dependent on them. I don't care
Speaker 2: what you tell yourself. I don't care how strong, how
Speaker 2: independent you think you are. The body is a body,
Speaker 2: and it does a thing where it gets emotionally dependent
Speaker 2: on the people it is intimate with, especially if you're
Speaker 2: a woman. Don't yell at me, yell at the chemicals
Speaker 2: that are produced in your body when you're intimate with them.
Speaker 2: It's not my fault. I am simply just the messenger.
Speaker 2: I am the messenger. Get over it, Okay. Society, you know,
Speaker 2: really tells us sleep with everyone. Ah. But then I
Speaker 2: look around and everyone's on antidipressants, anti anxiety.
Speaker 1: Med.
Speaker 2: Society tells us, oh, binge, drink aha, eat the unhealthy food,
Speaker 2: poison yourself, and we're supposed to be like, yeah, woa,
Speaker 2: look I great. You need to think for yourself and
Speaker 2: reflect on your life. Is what you're doing working for you?
Speaker 2: Or are you depressed, anxious and miserable. Take a second
Speaker 2: to think and reflect. I recently was on TikTok and
Speaker 2: I was hearing these I guess it's from Emma Chamberlain's podcast.
Speaker 2: Emma Chamberlain is a YouTuber and now she's a podcast,
Speaker 2: I guess, and she was talking about how when she
Speaker 2: was in a relationship with one of the Dolen twins.
Speaker 2: I think their name is maybe Ethan, I don't know,
Speaker 2: but she was talking about how he didn't want a
Speaker 2: relationship and she did, and what would happen was because
Speaker 2: she liked him and they were friends, they would hang
Speaker 2: out and it would always lead to them getting intimate
Speaker 2: because she liked him, she had feelings and she wanted
Speaker 2: to feel this sense of closeness to him, but he
Speaker 2: didn't want a relationship with her, and every time she
Speaker 2: would find out that he was intimate with someone else,
Speaker 2: she would get really upset. But every time they hung out,
Speaker 2: one thing would lead to another and they would be
Speaker 2: intimate again. He was getting everything he wanted. He wasn't
Speaker 2: just getting a cake. He was getting a cake, he
Speaker 2: was getting to eat it. He was getting a whole
Speaker 2: birthday party because he could sleep with her and then
Speaker 2: talk to anyone else that he wanted to, and she
Speaker 2: still allowed him to keep coming back into her life.
Speaker 2: And it really causes detrimental effect on your mindset and
Speaker 2: your body. I do just want to say, if you
Speaker 2: don't want to deal with a man, who's a clown.
Speaker 2: Stop going to the circus. Okay, have a boundary if
Speaker 2: you would. Someone using you as a whole is not
Speaker 2: a compliment. Someone that wants to sleep with you or
Speaker 2: thinks you're attractive is not a compliment. It's not it's
Speaker 2: not It's actually about them fulfilling their need for validation,
Speaker 2: fulfilling their physical need of whatever it may be. You
Speaker 2: have to realize it's not really a compliment. You know
Speaker 2: what a compliment is. Someone who values you, sees you,
Speaker 2: pursues you, creates a safe space for you, wants to
Speaker 2: study you and understand you. That's a compliment. Actually, that's
Speaker 2: the bare minimum. I just decided. What am I talking about?
Speaker 2: That's the bare minimum. That's the bare minimum. What would
Speaker 2: a compliment be. I don't know, maybe something your grandma
Speaker 2: would say to you. But you have to understand that
Speaker 2: someone just wanting to sleep with you, that's not a compliment. Wow,
Speaker 2: they want to get off for themselves. Awesome. Cool. Next, anyway,
Speaker 2: we need to come to the realization that situationships are
Speaker 2: not a real thing. Society created situation ships. Society creates
Speaker 2: a lot of things that aren't good. What what situationships are?
Speaker 2: Not a real thing. We live in a sick society
Speaker 2: that came up with a sick concept. It doesn't work
Speaker 2: for people. That's why everyone's depressed and upset. You're not
Speaker 2: supposed to be creating emotional bonds with people that have
Speaker 2: no container. You're not supposed to be sleeping with someone
Speaker 2: then hanging out with them and getting bagels and coffee
Speaker 2: with them, but there's no strings attached. You're not supposed
Speaker 2: to be hanging out with someone, going on dates with someone,
Speaker 2: but everyone gets to see different people and this goes
Speaker 2: on for months and months and months and months and months.
Speaker 2: This is not healthy. I don't care if a sick
Speaker 2: society normalize something. What do you want to do with
Speaker 2: your life? I personally am not participating. For example, I
Speaker 2: don't participate in taking random drugs off the street. Society does.
Speaker 2: Society loves random drugs on the street. I don't have
Speaker 2: to choose that adventure for my life. Society loves to
Speaker 2: have random sex with random people. I, however, don't need
Speaker 2: to choose that adventure. You you don't need to be
Speaker 2: doing what everyone else does. Separate yourself from the sick herd, okay,
Speaker 2: because you know what when you put a rodden fruit
Speaker 2: in a bowl with other fruit, all the other fruit
Speaker 2: gets rotten. Get out of there, Get out of the bowl.
Speaker 2: Get out of the bowl, make your own lane. Creating
Speaker 2: these emotional and physical relationships with people that have no container,
Speaker 2: so they're allowed to talk to whoever they want. And
Speaker 2: then you find out they're talking to whoever they want,
Speaker 2: and then you get upset. But you're not allowed to
Speaker 2: be upset. You're not allowed to be upset because you're
Speaker 2: not in a relationship. This is a situationship. So you're
Speaker 2: heartbroken over someone who never even actually technically dated you.
Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. That's why everyone's going crazy.
Speaker 2: That's why these are situation shits. They're terrible, and I
Speaker 2: see so many people go through them, and that's why
Speaker 2: I'm so passionate about it, because it's disgusting and it
Speaker 2: is going to ruin your brain. It's going to distract
Speaker 2: you from things that you need to be doing. They're
Speaker 2: able to respect you because you're disrespecting you. You're allowing
Speaker 2: the situation shit to go on. You're allowing them to
Speaker 2: come in and out of your life and your body.
Speaker 2: You're allowing them to have no boundaries and no rules
Speaker 2: for what this relationship is going to be. In last
Speaker 2: someone is literally saying to you, I am going to
Speaker 2: court you. I'm not talking to anybody else. I want
Speaker 2: a relationship with you. Ask people what their intentions are.
Speaker 2: I was talking to someone and I asked them like, oh,
Speaker 2: do you want to get married? Do you want a relationship?
Speaker 2: What are you looking for? I don't know, I don't know,
Speaker 2: I don't know. Uh, Okay, We're done here. And I
Speaker 2: stopped talking to them because there's no point. I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna go on a saill a sailboat. Imagine the ocean
Speaker 2: is outside. Oh, by the way, I'm in Florado right now.
Speaker 2: The ocean is in the background of me. I tried
Speaker 2: to put down the shades, but still have the ocean
Speaker 2: to give it that effect. It's not really working and
Speaker 2: the lighting is quite terrible today, but we're gonna roll
Speaker 2: with it. Imagine a ship came up over here and said, hey, CEC,
Speaker 2: do you want to get on my sailboat? Sure? Where
Speaker 2: are you going? Oh? I don't know. We're just gonna
Speaker 2: flounder in the middle of the ocean. Do you think
Speaker 2: I would go on that boat? Of course, not. Why
Speaker 2: would I go on a sailless sail boat. That doesn't
Speaker 2: make any sense when you enter into a situation, shit,
Speaker 2: you're entering onto a sailless sailboat. It's not attractive to
Speaker 2: be with someone who has no idea what they're doing
Speaker 2: and what they want and where they're going. That sounds terrible.
Speaker 2: That sounds atrocious. That sounds like I rather do. Literally,
Speaker 2: I rather step on glass. I rather step on glass.
Speaker 2: I rather step on glass that's a million degrees. I
Speaker 2: rather step on glass that's also on fire. I rather
Speaker 2: step on glass that's on fire and wear a dress
Speaker 2: that's made out of glass on fire and walk three
Speaker 2: miles like that. At least I know where I'm going.
Speaker 2: I have a direction at play. I don't do rosters.
Speaker 2: First of all, how the hell do any of you
Speaker 2: have that much time? What? I barely have enough time
Speaker 2: to talk to my mother, and when I do, she
Speaker 2: tells me I have to go have sex with someone
Speaker 2: because that's normal. What what in the dynamic is going on? Anyway?
Speaker 2: How do you have time to have a roster. If
Speaker 2: you have time to have a roster, guess who's not
Speaker 2: doing enough in their own life? You go to a gym,
Speaker 2: read a book, cook a meal, get a hobby, learn pottery,
Speaker 2: learn how to paint. Do something with your brain. Did
Speaker 2: you know that you have a brain in your head? Neuroplasticity.
Speaker 2: It can learn as you get older. You can create
Speaker 2: new neurological pathways and learn something. Learn a language I
Speaker 2: don't know. Learn how to invest in stocks, get richer,
Speaker 2: get horder, get wealthier. Do something with your time. If
Speaker 2: you have a roster, what are you doing all these years?
Speaker 2: You're just giving your attention and your energy and your
Speaker 2: presence to Kevin, Bob and Billy when you could have
Speaker 2: been built doing something. You could have been giving it
Speaker 2: to yourself. If you just want to spend your time
Speaker 2: getting prettier, I really don't care. As long as you're
Speaker 2: taking your energy and using it on yourself, I don't care.
Speaker 2: You can donate your time to a charity, bake a
Speaker 2: cookie for an old person's home. I don't really care.
Speaker 2: But do something with your time that's going to raise
Speaker 2: your self esteem. Then just giving your energy to people
Speaker 2: who do not care about you. I think we're starving
Speaker 2: for God. I think we're starving for God. There is
Speaker 2: a sort of ecstasy and I've goose bumps right now.
Speaker 2: There is a sort of ecstasy you get when you
Speaker 2: connect to God. And I'm not saying when you pick
Speaker 2: up a Bible or you know, go to church. I'm
Speaker 2: saying when you sit outside and you cry to God
Speaker 2: or you just say to God, God, I need to
Speaker 2: feel you, I need to hear you. Angels, please connect
Speaker 2: with me, give me a message, give me a sign.
Speaker 2: When you do that and you plug in boots on
Speaker 2: the ground, there is a certain ecstasy you get from that.
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of us are trying to
Speaker 2: get the connection to the divine through people we're sleeping with.
Speaker 2: I think that we are idolizing relationship, idolizing intimacy because
Speaker 2: we're thinking that's a doorway to the divine. And by
Speaker 2: the way, when it's a sacred union, when it's someone
Speaker 2: you deeply care about, it is that's the tricky thing
Speaker 2: it can be. But when you allow people who don't
Speaker 2: care about you into your life and you're expecting to
Speaker 2: taste divinity, and maybe you'll get a little little taste
Speaker 2: of it, but it won't even be a tea spoon.
Speaker 2: It's going to leave you more hurt than help. If
Speaker 2: you want to feel the divine, don't idolize a relationship.
Speaker 2: Don't idolize intimacy like that. True ascension is not through
Speaker 2: someone else. It's inward. It's not upwards, it's inward. If
Speaker 2: you want to feel that magic, if you want to
Speaker 2: feel the divine that you know is on this planet.
Speaker 2: You know it's here since you were a little girl.
Speaker 2: You know there's something special about love, because that's me.
Speaker 2: I've always been a hopeless romantic. I think love is
Speaker 2: the best thing on planet Earth. I would always say
Speaker 2: I don't do drugs. People are my drugs because I
Speaker 2: thought the only way to touch the divine, to feel
Speaker 2: the divine, is through a relationship. That's why people get
Speaker 2: addicted to the love of it all because it feels
Speaker 2: like a portal to the higher realms. And it can
Speaker 2: be when it's sturdy, when it's foundational, when it's real.
Speaker 2: It's not a portal to the divine. When it's you
Speaker 2: convincing yourself that the man who's breadcrumbing you is somehow
Speaker 2: going to marry you. That's just gonna hurt you. You
Speaker 2: don't have to be sleeping with these randoms in order
Speaker 2: to feel the divine. What you're addicted to. I personally
Speaker 2: believe is trying to get connected to the divine. There
Speaker 2: are other ways you can do this, meditation, automatic writing
Speaker 2: where you just write and say, God, give me a message.
Speaker 2: Just start writing and see what comes out of your mouth,
Speaker 2: see what comes out of your pen. You can journal,
Speaker 2: you can just go out into nature, spend time in prayer.
Speaker 2: There's other ways. One of my favorite things to do
Speaker 2: to connect to the divine is go to this chapel
Speaker 2: near my house by myself when no one else is there,
Speaker 2: at a weird hour and just kneel in front of
Speaker 2: the tabernacle. It feels so beautiful there and I just
Speaker 2: tell God everything. And I always end up changing my
Speaker 2: prayer when I'm there. I'll go asking for X, Y
Speaker 2: and Z, and then I end up asking for patients
Speaker 2: so that I can be in accordance with Thy will
Speaker 2: instead of my will. And it's so funny. Every time
Speaker 2: I go there, I'm praying for one thing, and I
Speaker 2: end up praying for the patients and the strength to
Speaker 2: withstand the currenciason I'm in because there's medicine in every
Speaker 2: single season. That's one of my favorite things to do.
Speaker 2: The reason it's so important to allow your energy to
Speaker 2: build instead of just giving away your energy all the time.
Speaker 2: Is because you have to understand. There are people in
Speaker 2: this world that some people call an energy vampires, but
Speaker 2: really what they are they are energy harvesters. Women used
Speaker 2: to harvest in the woods. They would pick the berries,
Speaker 2: they would pick the bark, they would pick the plants,
Speaker 2: they would pick out different herbs for medicine because nature
Speaker 2: freely gives us these tools and they are there through
Speaker 2: God so that we can use them to exist with
Speaker 2: on this planet. The problem is now the divine feminine
Speaker 2: is being harvested. Women are being harvested and sometimes men too.
Speaker 2: Men understand and they can sniff this out that the
Speaker 2: divine feminine is the energy that is for creation. The
Speaker 2: divine feminine is a creator and the destroyer. There's something
Speaker 2: really interesting that happens naturally in relationship dynamics. Women feed
Speaker 2: off of masculine energy and men feed off feminine energy.
Speaker 2: The feminine energy is what allows someone to do better
Speaker 2: at their business, in their career, attract better relationships. The
Speaker 2: feminine energy is the seed to everything. The masculine energy
Speaker 2: is a structure, it's the grounding, it's the protection. Women
Speaker 2: are being used as forests. Now we're being harvested for
Speaker 2: our energy to make not well in the mind men
Speaker 2: better men are and I'm not going to say all men,
Speaker 2: but men who are in their wounded energies are using
Speaker 2: women for their feminine energy so that they can do
Speaker 2: better in their business, so that they can attract more women,
Speaker 2: so that they can feel better about themselves. Again, both
Speaker 2: men and women can be used. Don't make any mistake
Speaker 2: about it, because there's also women who will feed off
Speaker 2: of masculine energy and try to use them for support
Speaker 2: or structure, whatever it may be. It goes both ways.
Speaker 2: But because I'm a woman and we're talking about energetic
Speaker 2: transference in this episode, I'm really going to focus on
Speaker 2: the feminine energy. When you're in a committed, healthy relationship,
Speaker 2: this is normal. Your partner is going to feed off
Speaker 2: your feminine energy, and you're going to feed off their
Speaker 2: masculine energy, and you're going to energy transfer onto one another,
Speaker 2: and that's fine. And the intermingling of this energy is
Speaker 2: what creates children, it's what creates businesses, it's what creates
Speaker 2: a lasting marriage. That's not the problem. The problem is
Speaker 2: when someone doesn't intend to equally exchange their masculine energy
Speaker 2: with your feminine energy. Then we run into issues because
Speaker 2: you're getting depleted. The feminine energy is the creator. Women
Speaker 2: literally have a portal between their legs to another dimension
Speaker 2: that creates human beings. There's so many studies that show
Speaker 2: men who get married end up happier, healthier because they
Speaker 2: feed off the feminine energy. She's doing the cooking and
Speaker 2: the cleaning and all this other stuff. They end up happier.
Speaker 2: And there's a lot of studies that show women end
Speaker 2: up less happy because they aren't getting an equal energetic
Speaker 2: exchange of that protection, of that support of the house,
Speaker 2: the home, whatever it may be. I've spoken to so
Speaker 2: many men who work high up at companies, and they'll
Speaker 2: tell me that they literally look for other men who
Speaker 2: are married or in a relationship, because those are the
Speaker 2: men who work harder, those are the men who do better.
Speaker 2: Men benefit off of being in a relationship with a
Speaker 2: feminine energy because the feminine energy gives them this softness,
Speaker 2: it allows them to breathe, it gives them more energy
Speaker 2: to create. Just think about it, when a man walks
Speaker 2: in with a beautiful woman, just a man having that
Speaker 2: beautiful woman by his side. More women are now interested
Speaker 2: in that man. What does he know? What does he do?
Speaker 2: How did he get her? We always hear that how
Speaker 2: did he get her?
Speaker 1: How?
Speaker 2: Just having a beautiful woman by your side up levels you.
Speaker 2: That is just one of the many, many ways that
Speaker 2: the masculine energy feeds off of feminine energy. Just by
Speaker 2: standing next to her, you are now elevated onto a
Speaker 2: higher level. The feminine energy does not come natural to
Speaker 2: them like it comes now for us. When a man
Speaker 2: relies on you for emotional support, they look to you
Speaker 2: to have someone to build them up for an ego boost.
Speaker 2: They are using you for validation. They keep tabs on
Speaker 2: you but won't commit to you. They love having sex
Speaker 2: with you, but won't give you a ring or a relationship.
Speaker 2: They use all these kind words, but no action. They're inconsistent,
Speaker 2: they're unreliable. Well, this means that that person is harvesting
Speaker 2: your energy and men for you. If a woman is
Speaker 2: only talking to you and she can get something from you,
Speaker 2: whether it's money or a meal or a house over
Speaker 2: her head, well then she's using your mask and energy
Speaker 2: and using you. Again, this goes both ways. We need
Speaker 2: to wake up and smell the matrix and stop acting
Speaker 2: like psychopaths and learn how to love one another properly.
Speaker 2: But first we really have to learn how to love
Speaker 2: ourselves properly. And I think before that, maybe we need
Speaker 2: to learn how to love the divine properly. Thought. Maybe
Speaker 2: a concept could be, you know someone who's harvesting your
Speaker 2: energy overall, when you're giving way more energy than they're
Speaker 2: giving to you, and you feel depleted now that they're
Speaker 2: in your life. Then you start to notice your workouts
Speaker 2: are not as good. You start breaking out, or you
Speaker 2: start gaining or losing too much weight. You start noticing
Speaker 2: that business isn't doing so good. You start noticing that
Speaker 2: you can't focus on anything, You have anxiety all throughout
Speaker 2: the day. You hit a curb by accident. I'm not
Speaker 2: talking about personal experience with that one. So if we
Speaker 2: understand this, then we know, okay, well, then that means
Speaker 2: I'm not going to give my presence, my energy, my
Speaker 2: body to just anyone, because I'm not a hotel. I'm
Speaker 2: actually a temple. And this brings us to my talk
Speaker 2: on celibacy. Finally we made it. Celibacy is really really misunderstood,
Speaker 2: and I think that's why so many people push back
Speaker 2: on it. Society has told us, oh, your celibate, your loser,
Speaker 2: there must be something wrong with you. You're not popular,
Speaker 2: you're not cool. Of course, society tells you that because
Speaker 2: they don't want you to be healthy and well rounded individuals. Celibacy,
Speaker 2: like I said, it's misunderstood. It's been reduced to the
Speaker 2: act of avoiding sex. But it's so much more than that.
Speaker 2: Celibacy really is not about sex. That's the last thing
Speaker 2: it's about. Celibacy is about power, it's about energy, it's
Speaker 2: about alchemy. Throughout history, ancient Yogi's monks and mystics didn't
Speaker 2: practice celibacy to avoid pleasure. They didn't practice celibacy to
Speaker 2: be a loser. They practice celibacy to master their own energy.
Speaker 2: And I really think if you want to get into
Speaker 2: your relationship with someone else, learn how to master your
Speaker 2: own energy first. They understood that sexual energy is life
Speaker 2: force energy, it's prana, it's cheat, it's kundalini. By conserving it,
Speaker 2: they understood that they could try and send human limitations, polarity,
Speaker 2: the up and down the roller coaster of humanity, and
Speaker 2: achieve enlightenment. In society, celibacy is so distorted, and it's
Speaker 2: equated with repression and denial. But of course ancient wisdom
Speaker 2: knew so much better. It's about really understanding deeper yourself,
Speaker 2: your desires, discernment for others, and what you want out
Speaker 2: of this lifetime, and how you want to use your energy.
Speaker 2: It's about mind, body, and spirit. Becoming celibate for me,
Speaker 2: has personally allowed me to get so much more discerning.
Speaker 2: It is so hard for someone to come into my
Speaker 2: life and act funny, because I'll see it right away.
Speaker 2: Reason being is I don't co mingle my energy with
Speaker 2: just anyone. My energy is clean, it is pristine because
Speaker 2: I'm not giving it away to just anyone, and I'm
Speaker 2: not taking on random people's energy. So I am able
Speaker 2: to master not only my own energy, go deeper in meditation,
Speaker 2: see past lifetimes. Not only do I have more time
Speaker 2: and energy to create, but I'm understanding other people's energy better.
Speaker 2: I'm understanding the divine better. I'm understanding me better. How
Speaker 2: can you use celibacy not to avoid pleasure, not to
Speaker 2: punish yourself, but to transcend higher, to connect to a
Speaker 2: higher level of consciousness, to connect with God, which is
Speaker 2: what you're actually looking for. By the way, you're just
Speaker 2: looking for God and another human being when you can
Speaker 2: find it within yourself. Are you using celibacy as a
Speaker 2: shield because you're afraid to be intimate, because you're afraid
Speaker 2: to get close to someone because you're afraid of vulnerability,
Speaker 2: or can you use it as a sword to cut
Speaker 2: through the bullshit and learn who you actually are, understand
Speaker 2: the divine, and get answers about what you came to
Speaker 2: this planet to do. Avoidance is not mastery. I know
Speaker 2: so many of us are like I'm in my healing era.
Speaker 2: No bit, you are just in isolation. Get real. Celibacy
Speaker 2: without purpose is really not going to do anything. You
Speaker 2: have to be intentional with what you're doing. Being intentional,
Speaker 2: imagine imagine dating with intention. What a concept it's like.
Speaker 2: We've never thought of it before. A whole no world. Wow. Wow.
Speaker 2: Intention Celibacy with intention is what it's all about. I'm
Speaker 2: doing this to connect deeper to myself, to understand my
Speaker 2: hitting gifts, to understand what I came here to do,
Speaker 2: to see better who people really are. We're not using
Speaker 2: celibacy as a shield but a sword. A sword. These
Speaker 2: yogis and monks, they emphasize conscious energy use, and that's
Speaker 2: what celibacy is. And that's why my mom is like, oh,
Speaker 2: you need to go on a saxopelle. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: come from you, the abstinence teacher. That's real Rich, that's
Speaker 2: real Rich Janice. But beyond that, I said, no, okay,
Speaker 2: because what I put into my body is intentional, and
Speaker 2: how I use my energy is conscious. Whether you want
Speaker 2: to call it celibacy or mindful intimacy, I think if
Speaker 2: you don't like the word celibacy because maybe you have
Speaker 2: past trauma with it, whatever, just call it mindful intimacy.
Speaker 2: Then intentional intimacy. How about that? A double eye alliteration
Speaker 2: has entered the chat. The goal remains the same. It's
Speaker 2: mastery over your energy, your desires, and your life. Because
Speaker 2: intentional intimacy what that really is about. It's about facing
Speaker 2: your shadow, not running from it, because what you run
Speaker 2: from will haunt you. Real celibacy isn't it about avoiding
Speaker 2: relationships or people or how others make you feel. It's
Speaker 2: about confronting your desires and breaking free from societal programming
Speaker 2: to understand yourself deeper. It's not about denial. It's about
Speaker 2: in pabwermant and conscious use of energy. Thank you. It's
Speaker 2: about cultivating an inner strength, becoming the master of your energy,
Speaker 2: and transcending limitations. I came up with a metaphor for this,
Speaker 2: follow me on the journey. Imagine your energy as a
Speaker 2: crystal clear spring flowing with pure, vibrant water, and this
Speaker 2: is your life force energy. Every drop of this water
Speaker 2: represents your creativity, vitality, and your essence. Now picture yourself
Speaker 2: filling up a beautiful glass cup with this pristine water. Again,
Speaker 2: this is your energy. Look how clear your energy is.
Speaker 2: Look how pristine your energy is. It is sacred, it
Speaker 2: is life giving essence. When you engage in sex with
Speaker 2: someone who doesn't honor or value you, it's as though
Speaker 2: you're adding poison to that cup, making it undrinkable. Just
Speaker 2: a single drop of poison makes the whole entire cup undrinkable.
Speaker 2: You could have a whole entire bath filled with your
Speaker 2: person seeing crystal clear energy, and if you add one
Speaker 2: little drop of poison, it is now undrinkable. You can't
Speaker 2: hydrate or thrive when this water has been contaminated. You
Speaker 2: can't hydrate and thrive when you're contaminating your damn vessel.
Speaker 2: This is about nurturing yourself and ensuring that your life force, energy,
Speaker 2: your prana, remains unpolluted. When you choose to keep your
Speaker 2: energy sacred and you nourish yourself fully, your cup will
Speaker 2: begin to overflow, spilling into every part of your life.
Speaker 2: This overflow is what fuels your creativity, your inspiration, and abundance.
Speaker 2: By guarding your sacred well spring, you allow yourself to
Speaker 2: hydrate not just your own soul, but also pour into
Speaker 2: the world from a place of wholeness, authenticity. Do you
Speaker 2: get it? When you don't allow your water to be contaminated,
Speaker 2: you then fulfill yourself up so much. You have so
Speaker 2: much pent up energy that you begin to overflow into
Speaker 2: creative endeavors, into pass into finding your purpose. But if
Speaker 2: you're sleeping with everyone and their father, you're not gonna
Speaker 2: have enough energy to figure out what your purpose actually is.
Speaker 2: Do you understand it? Now? When you keep this water clear,
Speaker 2: you can hear yourself, you can hear God, you can
Speaker 2: hear your angels, and you can see other people's bullshit
Speaker 2: from a mile away. I am not allowing poison into
Speaker 2: my life because no one is allowed to erode my intuition.
Speaker 2: I don't care. I don't care. You're not going to
Speaker 2: mess up my life for me. At the end of
Speaker 2: the day, your body is a temple. And if someone
Speaker 2: is not approaching you with an offering, a pursuit of consistency,
Speaker 2: of pure love, authenticity, actions matching their words, and words
Speaker 2: matching their actions, they are trying to use you as
Speaker 2: a hotel. And you are not a Hoetell right, No,
Speaker 2: you're not. You are not. And this is not about
Speaker 2: shaming or disempowerment or where it sex is evil. It's
Speaker 2: not that this is about bitch. You better learn how
Speaker 2: to use your energy, or else other people are gonna
Speaker 2: harvest it. You better learn how to cultivate and malcolmize
Speaker 2: you your energy, or else other people are going to
Speaker 2: use it for you. You better learn how to take
Speaker 2: your energy and build with it, or else someone else
Speaker 2: is gonna use it and build a better life for
Speaker 2: themselves than leave you out of it. You need to
Speaker 2: learn how to use your own energy. And listen to
Speaker 2: me when I say, when you find a good partner
Speaker 2: and you and that partner are vibing and it's an
Speaker 2: equal energetic exchange of love and wholeness and whatever. Let
Speaker 2: that energy flow, girl, let it rip, let it flow,
Speaker 2: let it go. I don't care, because then there will
Speaker 2: be an equal energetic exchange. And that's fine and dandy.
Speaker 2: We're talking about you're not in a committed relationship. There's
Speaker 2: no sign on the horizon of where it's going. And
Speaker 2: you're maybe in your single era, your forest fairy era.
Speaker 2: I don't know, but there's no commitment. So commit to yourself.
Speaker 2: I have nothing else to say. I'll see you the
Speaker 2: next one. I love you. Bye. Oh actually sparkling me
Speaker 2: on a sparkling you bite.
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