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<v Speaker 1>Andy, cancel so high ecstasy, cancel it not Sorryogy?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If

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<v Speaker 2>you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we

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<v Speaker 2>will laugh. Other times, baby, we're gonna cry, but we

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<v Speaker 2>will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch

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<v Speaker 2>self that is babe and true connection with herself or himself.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to the male viewers that are awakening in

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<v Speaker 2>this season. That's right. On this podcast, we unbecome who

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<v Speaker 2>we are not so we can fully step into exactly

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<v Speaker 2>who we came here to be. Today, we are talking

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<v Speaker 2>about intimacy, We're talking about sex, baby, We're talking about celebisi,

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about energy frequency. We are going to dive

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<v Speaker 2>into it all because you know what, my body is

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<v Speaker 2>a temple and not a hotel. Too many people are

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<v Speaker 2>harvesting your energy, period point blank. Too many people are

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<v Speaker 2>treating you like you're a hotel. And guess who's allowing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not Martha, not Kristen. Unless your name is Martha or Kristen.

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<v Speaker 2>You it is you, babe, It is you. I am

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<v Speaker 2>not a hotel. I personally don't just allow anyone into

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<v Speaker 2>my life. I don't allow anyone into my body in

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<v Speaker 2>my orbit. I'm not going to be giving out free

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<v Speaker 2>conditioner room service on the house. I'm not giving out

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<v Speaker 2>the shampoo bottles. I'm not giving out the little chocolate

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<v Speaker 2>on the pillow. No, no, no, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>give that all to you while you temporarily use me

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<v Speaker 2>for a stay. I am a temple, and in some

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<v Speaker 2>cultures it is very offensive if you approach a temple

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<v Speaker 2>without some sort of offering. You don't go up to

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<v Speaker 2>the altar without flowers or money or something to give

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<v Speaker 2>to that said alter. I'm not a hotel where you're

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna pass through me and get free goodies on

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<v Speaker 2>your pillow. I am a temple. You bring an offering

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<v Speaker 2>to me of pursuit, of time, of presence, and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>let you know. When you respect your body as a

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<v Speaker 2>sacred temple, that it is you're going to notice. Self

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<v Speaker 2>esteem raises, your ability to manifest gets better, your ability

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<v Speaker 2>to have discernment is much clearer, easier. But when you're

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<v Speaker 2>misplacing your energy and giving it to just anyone, allowing

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<v Speaker 2>anyone in and out of your orbit, allowing anyone in

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<v Speaker 2>and out of your body like you are a hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to notice selfish steam crashes. You're gonna notice,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna want to crash out. You're gonna notice that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't feel so good in your own skin. You're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna notice that it's harder to manifest. You're gonna notice

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<v Speaker 2>that you are relying on people to fill you up

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<v Speaker 2>rather than relying on your connection to the divine. I

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<v Speaker 2>will say the person who you're listening to right now, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>my name is Ceci. My mother did say to my

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<v Speaker 2>face just a couple of days ago, Cec, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what you need sex? I told my beautiful mother. First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, I'm celibate, so absolutely not unless it's my husband,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely not. Should you listen to me? You know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you? Why you should? My mom saying

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<v Speaker 2>that to me is evidence that I don't give my

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<v Speaker 2>energy away. We need to unpack this because there's something

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<v Speaker 2>magical in what my mother says. Let's ignore that that's

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<v Speaker 2>completely inappropriate and odd, but let's unpack this. She said

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<v Speaker 2>to me, Ceci, you just need to go get laid

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever. Why would she say that? She said that

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<v Speaker 2>because she's noticing my pent up energy in my body.

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<v Speaker 2>We know in culture, if someone is having a day

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<v Speaker 2>where they're screaming at everyone, we say, damn, they need

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<v Speaker 2>to go get laid. Why are we saying that, because

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<v Speaker 2>we're recognizing that person has a build up of energy

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<v Speaker 2>and if they go have sex with someone, it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to expel that energy, it's going to release it. If

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<v Speaker 2>you are releasing your energy with people who do not

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<v Speaker 2>respect you or value you, you're not just giving up

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<v Speaker 2>your good energy, You're also taking on their lower vibrational frequency.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why I really believe in celibacy, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>really always believes in it, and why I practice it

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<v Speaker 2>is because I use my energy. I pour that energy

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<v Speaker 2>into myself, and my mom was recognizing all that energy

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<v Speaker 2>I had within me. Now, usually I channel that energy,

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<v Speaker 2>I alchemize it because I'm creating the TikTok, the podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>the book, the course. But because I didn't yet do

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<v Speaker 2>that that day, she was picking up on how much

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<v Speaker 2>energy I had in my body. We know in society

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<v Speaker 2>this is something we talk about all the time. We

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<v Speaker 2>know when someone has a lot of energy, we literally

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<v Speaker 2>will say, oh, they need to go get laid. We

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<v Speaker 2>understand energetics even though we don't use the language of it.

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<v Speaker 2>So thanks Mom for bringing that up this week. I

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<v Speaker 2>just saw do too too on my clock. We need

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about something. Why should you pour your energy

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<v Speaker 2>back into yourself? Why should you allow your energy to build?

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<v Speaker 2>Why should you not just give it to the brads

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<v Speaker 2>and chads of the world. I channeled the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been channeling love messages again and again and again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very unlike what I usually channeled. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? So I went in and I looked deeper,

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<v Speaker 2>and I found out that twenty twenty five is the

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<v Speaker 2>beginning of mass sacred union. The divine feminine has been

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<v Speaker 2>doing so much work, inner work since about twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>and all of this inner work that divine feminine leading

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<v Speaker 2>human beings have been doing has now surpassed a threshold,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's triggered the divine masculine to now wake up.

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<v Speaker 2>The vision that they gave me was sleeping beauty kissing

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<v Speaker 2>the prince, and then the prince waking up and opening

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<v Speaker 2>his eyes, a complete role reversal of what's in the

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<v Speaker 2>Disney Princess movie. It was the divine feminine that woke

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<v Speaker 2>up the masculine. But this is how energetics work in

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<v Speaker 2>sacred union. It is the divine feminine that lee's sacred

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<v Speaker 2>union because she leads with her heart. She is the body,

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<v Speaker 2>and the masculine energy is the head, the mind. The

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine is the leader in this emotional connection, in

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<v Speaker 2>heart centered union. So it makes sense that the divine

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<v Speaker 2>feminine has been waking up first, and now enough souls

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<v Speaker 2>have awakened that it's triggering a mass awakening in the

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<v Speaker 2>divine masculine. And this is going to have a trickled

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<v Speaker 2>down effect from the higher realms law of correspondence as above,

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<v Speaker 2>so below, all change has to happen in the five

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<v Speaker 2>D First. Now that there has been changes in these

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<v Speaker 2>higher realms, in the inner realms of us doing the work,

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<v Speaker 2>doing the work, doing the work, masculine energies in large

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<v Speaker 2>numbers are going to start to awaken. They already are.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to start to recognize higher levels of living,

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<v Speaker 2>the importance of sacred union, the importance of having some

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<v Speaker 2>sort of connection where you build either a business or

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<v Speaker 2>a family. Going to start to recognize us, and they

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<v Speaker 2>all ready are. It is not the time to give

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<v Speaker 2>up on sacred union and love. I know you're burnt out,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're tired, I know you're frustrated. But this

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<v Speaker 2>is not the time to give up because we've just

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<v Speaker 2>surpassed a threshold. You are two feet from gold. This

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<v Speaker 2>is the year higher relationship, sacred union. Unlike other relationships

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<v Speaker 2>that you've seen, are going to form. This is not

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like the traditional dynamics you've seen, where

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<v Speaker 2>I serve you in order to get served back. Is

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<v Speaker 2>very transactional. This is going to be loved that's rooted

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<v Speaker 2>in devotion. I'm honoring the divinity within you, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>honoring the divinity within me. I'm honoring that God flows

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<v Speaker 2>through you, and you're honoring that God flows through me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a higher level of love. This is not the

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<v Speaker 2>time to give up on love. What can we do

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<v Speaker 2>then to prime ourselves for this sacred union? Hold on

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<v Speaker 2>to your energy, hold on to your energy, Let your

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<v Speaker 2>energy build. Do not be giving it out to random people,

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<v Speaker 2>because then your vibration gets tampered with because you're worried

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<v Speaker 2>about the people that aren't for you, because they're treating

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<v Speaker 2>you terribly. But they're treating you terribly because God is

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<v Speaker 2>trying to remove them from your life. Let's understand what

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<v Speaker 2>sex is. Sacred energetic x change. Sacred energetic exchange, that

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<v Speaker 2>is what sex is. It's like gluing two pieces of

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<v Speaker 2>paper together and then trying to rip those pieces of

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<v Speaker 2>paper apart. It's going to get messy because when you

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<v Speaker 2>engage in sex with somebody else, you're giving up some

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<v Speaker 2>of your energy. That's why you're expelling. And we know

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<v Speaker 2>sex does that because we say to people when they're

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<v Speaker 2>really up here and intense, you need to go get laid,

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<v Speaker 2>because we know sex expels your energy. The part that

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<v Speaker 2>we don't talk about is that the energy we take on,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's not someone who respects us and loves us

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<v Speaker 2>and values us, is going to be lower in vibration,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it tampers with our thought forms, it tampers

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<v Speaker 2>with how we feel about ourselves, and then we've become

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<v Speaker 2>reliant on people who are not meant for us. The

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<v Speaker 2>more you are intimate with someone, the more likely you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to become emotionally attached to them. Is the person

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<v Speaker 2>that you think you can be friends with, benefits with,

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<v Speaker 2>actually someone you want in your life? Do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to risk becoming emotionally dependent on them. I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>what you tell yourself. I don't care how strong, how

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<v Speaker 2>independent you think you are. The body is a body,

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<v Speaker 2>and it does a thing where it gets emotionally dependent

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<v Speaker 2>on the people it is intimate with, especially if you're

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<v Speaker 2>a woman. Don't yell at me, yell at the chemicals

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<v Speaker 2>that are produced in your body when you're intimate with them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not my fault. I am simply just the messenger.

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<v Speaker 2>I am the messenger. Get over it, Okay. Society, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>really tells us sleep with everyone. Ah. But then I

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<v Speaker 2>look around and everyone's on antidipressants, anti anxiety.

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<v Speaker 1>Med.

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<v Speaker 2>Society tells us, oh, binge, drink aha, eat the unhealthy food,

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<v Speaker 2>poison yourself, and we're supposed to be like, yeah, woa,

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<v Speaker 2>look I great. You need to think for yourself and

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<v Speaker 2>reflect on your life. Is what you're doing working for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Or are you depressed, anxious and miserable. Take a second

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<v Speaker 2>to think and reflect. I recently was on TikTok and

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<v Speaker 2>I was hearing these I guess it's from Emma Chamberlain's podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Emma Chamberlain is a YouTuber and now she's a podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, and she was talking about how when she

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<v Speaker 2>was in a relationship with one of the Dolen twins.

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<v Speaker 2>I think their name is maybe Ethan, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but she was talking about how he didn't want a

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<v Speaker 2>relationship and she did, and what would happen was because

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<v Speaker 2>she liked him and they were friends, they would hang

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<v Speaker 2>out and it would always lead to them getting intimate

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<v Speaker 2>because she liked him, she had feelings and she wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to feel this sense of closeness to him, but he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want a relationship with her, and every time she

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<v Speaker 2>would find out that he was intimate with someone else,

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<v Speaker 2>she would get really upset. But every time they hung out,

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<v Speaker 2>one thing would lead to another and they would be

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<v Speaker 2>intimate again. He was getting everything he wanted. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>just getting a cake. He was getting a cake, he

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<v Speaker 2>was getting to eat it. He was getting a whole

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<v Speaker 2>birthday party because he could sleep with her and then

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<v Speaker 2>talk to anyone else that he wanted to, and she

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<v Speaker 2>still allowed him to keep coming back into her life.

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<v Speaker 2>And it really causes detrimental effect on your mindset and

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<v Speaker 2>your body. I do just want to say, if you

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to deal with a man, who's a clown.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop going to the circus. Okay, have a boundary if

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<v Speaker 2>you would. Someone using you as a whole is not

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<v Speaker 2>a compliment. Someone that wants to sleep with you or

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<v Speaker 2>not It's actually about them fulfilling their need for validation,

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<v Speaker 2>what a compliment is. Someone who values you, sees you,

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<v Speaker 2>pursues you, creates a safe space for you, wants to

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<v Speaker 2>study you and understand you. That's a compliment. Actually, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the bare minimum. I just decided. What am I talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>That's the bare minimum. That's the bare minimum. What would

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<v Speaker 2>a compliment be. I don't know, maybe something your grandma

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<v Speaker 2>someone just wanting to sleep with you, that's not a compliment. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>they want to get off for themselves. Awesome. Cool. Next, anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>we need to come to the realization that situationships are

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<v Speaker 2>not a real thing. Society created situation ships. Society creates

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of things that aren't good. What what situationships are?

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<v Speaker 2>Not a real thing. We live in a sick society

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<v Speaker 2>that came up with a sick concept. It doesn't work

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<v Speaker 2>for people. That's why everyone's depressed and upset. You're not

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<v Speaker 2>no container. You're not supposed to be sleeping with someone

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<v Speaker 2>then hanging out with them and getting bagels and coffee

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<v Speaker 2>with them, but there's no strings attached. You're not supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to be hanging out with someone, going on dates with someone,

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<v Speaker 2>but everyone gets to see different people and this goes

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<v Speaker 2>on for months and months and months and months and months.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not healthy. I don't care if a sick

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<v Speaker 2>society normalize something. What do you want to do with

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<v Speaker 2>your life? I personally am not participating. For example, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't participate in taking random drugs off the street. Society does.

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<v Speaker 2>Society loves random drugs on the street. I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to choose that adventure for my life. Society loves to

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<v Speaker 2>have random sex with random people. I, however, don't need

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<v Speaker 2>to choose that adventure. You you don't need to be

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<v Speaker 2>doing what everyone else does. Separate yourself from the sick herd, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know what when you put a rodden fruit

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<v Speaker 2>in a bowl with other fruit, all the other fruit

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<v Speaker 2>gets rotten. Get out of there, Get out of the bowl.

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<v Speaker 2>Get out of the bowl, make your own lane. Creating

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<v Speaker 2>these emotional and physical relationships with people that have no container,

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<v Speaker 2>so they're allowed to talk to whoever they want. And

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<v Speaker 2>then you find out they're talking to whoever they want,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you get upset. But you're not allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>be upset. You're not allowed to be upset because you're

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<v Speaker 2>not in a relationship. This is a situationship. So you're

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't make any sense. That's why everyone's going crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why these are situation shits. They're terrible, and I

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<v Speaker 2>see so many people go through them, and that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so passionate about it, because it's disgusting and it

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<v Speaker 2>is going to ruin your brain. It's going to distract

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<v Speaker 2>you from things that you need to be doing. They're

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<v Speaker 2>able to respect you because you're disrespecting you. You're allowing

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<v Speaker 2>the situation shit to go on. You're allowing them to

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<v Speaker 2>You're allowing them to have no boundaries and no rules

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<v Speaker 2>for what this relationship is going to be. In last

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<v Speaker 2>someone is literally saying to you, I am going to

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<v Speaker 2>court you. I'm not talking to anybody else. I want

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship with you. Ask people what their intentions are.

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<v Speaker 2>I was talking to someone and I asked them like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to get married? Do you want a relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you looking for? I don't know, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Uh, Okay, We're done here. And I

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<v Speaker 2>stopped talking to them because there's no point. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go on a saill a sailboat. Imagine the ocean

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<v Speaker 2>is outside. Oh, by the way, I'm in Florado right now.

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<v Speaker 2>The ocean is in the background of me. I tried

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<v Speaker 2>to put down the shades, but still have the ocean

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<v Speaker 2>to give it that effect. It's not really working and

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<v Speaker 2>the lighting is quite terrible today, but we're gonna roll

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<v Speaker 2>with it. Imagine a ship came up over here and said, hey, CEC,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to get on my sailboat? Sure? Where

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<v Speaker 2>are you going? Oh? I don't know. We're just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>I would go on that boat? Of course, not. Why

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<v Speaker 2>would I go on a sailless sail boat. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>make any sense when you enter into a situation, shit,

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<v Speaker 2>you're entering onto a sailless sailboat. It's not attractive to

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<v Speaker 2>be with someone who has no idea what they're doing

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<v Speaker 2>and what they want and where they're going. That sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds atrocious. That sounds like I rather do. Literally,

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<v Speaker 2>I rather step on glass. I rather step on glass.

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<v Speaker 2>I rather step on glass that's a million degrees. I

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<v Speaker 2>rather step on glass that's also on fire. I rather

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<v Speaker 2>step on glass that's on fire and wear a dress

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<v Speaker 2>that's made out of glass on fire and walk three

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<v Speaker 2>miles like that. At least I know where I'm going.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a direction at play. I don't do rosters.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, how the hell do any of you

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<v Speaker 2>have that much time? What? I barely have enough time

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to my mother, and when I do, she

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<v Speaker 2>tells me I have to go have sex with someone

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<v Speaker 2>because that's normal. What what in the dynamic is going on? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you have time to have a roster. If

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<v Speaker 2>you have time to have a roster, guess who's not

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<v Speaker 2>doing enough in their own life? You go to a gym,

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<v Speaker 2>read a book, cook a meal, get a hobby, learn pottery,

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<v Speaker 2>learn how to paint. Do something with your brain. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you know that you have a brain in your head? Neuroplasticity.

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<v Speaker 2>It can learn as you get older. You can create

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<v Speaker 2>new neurological pathways and learn something. Learn a language I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Learn how to invest in stocks, get richer,

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<v Speaker 2>get horder, get wealthier. Do something with your time. If

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<v Speaker 2>you have a roster, what are you doing all these years?

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<v Speaker 2>You're just giving your attention and your energy and your

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<v Speaker 2>presence to Kevin, Bob and Billy when you could have

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<v Speaker 2>been built doing something. You could have been giving it

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<v Speaker 2>to yourself. If you just want to spend your time

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<v Speaker 2>getting prettier, I really don't care. As long as you're

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<v Speaker 2>taking your energy and using it on yourself, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>You can donate your time to a charity, bake a

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<v Speaker 2>cookie for an old person's home. I don't really care.

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<v Speaker 2>But do something with your time that's going to raise

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<v Speaker 2>your self esteem. Then just giving your energy to people

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<v Speaker 2>who do not care about you. I think we're starving

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<v Speaker 2>for God. I think we're starving for God. There is

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<v Speaker 2>a sort of ecstasy and I've goose bumps right now.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a sort of ecstasy you get when you

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<v Speaker 2>connect to God. And I'm not saying when you pick

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<v Speaker 2>up a Bible or you know, go to church. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>saying when you sit outside and you cry to God

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<v Speaker 2>or you just say to God, God, I need to

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<v Speaker 2>feel you, I need to hear you. Angels, please connect

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<v Speaker 2>with me, give me a message, give me a sign.

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<v Speaker 2>When you do that and you plug in boots on

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<v Speaker 2>the ground, there is a certain ecstasy you get from that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think a lot of us are trying to

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<v Speaker 2>get the connection to the divine through people we're sleeping with.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that we are idolizing relationship, idolizing intimacy because

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<v Speaker 2>we're thinking that's a doorway to the divine. And by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, when it's a sacred union, when it's someone

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<v Speaker 2>you deeply care about, it is that's the tricky thing

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<v Speaker 2>it can be. But when you allow people who don't

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<v Speaker 2>care about you into your life and you're expecting to

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<v Speaker 2>taste divinity, and maybe you'll get a little little taste

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<v Speaker 2>of it, but it won't even be a tea spoon.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to leave you more hurt than help. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to feel the divine, don't idolize a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't idolize intimacy like that. True ascension is not through

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<v Speaker 2>someone else. It's inward. It's not upwards, it's inward. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to feel that magic, if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>feel the divine that you know is on this planet.

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<v Speaker 2>You know it's here since you were a little girl.

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<v Speaker 2>You know there's something special about love, because that's me.

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<v Speaker 2>I've always been a hopeless romantic. I think love is

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<v Speaker 2>the best thing on planet Earth. I would always say

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do drugs. People are my drugs because I

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<v Speaker 2>thought the only way to touch the divine, to feel

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<v Speaker 2>the divine, is through a relationship. That's why people get

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<v Speaker 2>addicted to the love of it all because it feels

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<v Speaker 2>like a portal to the higher realms. And it can

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<v Speaker 2>be when it's sturdy, when it's foundational, when it's real.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a portal to the divine. When it's you

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<v Speaker 2>convincing yourself that the man who's breadcrumbing you is somehow

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<v Speaker 2>going to marry you. That's just gonna hurt you. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to be sleeping with these randoms in order

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<v Speaker 2>to feel the divine. What you're addicted to. I personally

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<v Speaker 2>believe is trying to get connected to the divine. There

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<v Speaker 2>are other ways you can do this, meditation, automatic writing

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<v Speaker 2>where you just write and say, God, give me a message.

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<v Speaker 2>Just start writing and see what comes out of your mouth,

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<v Speaker 2>see what comes out of your pen. You can journal,

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<v Speaker 2>you can just go out into nature, spend time in prayer.

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<v Speaker 2>There's other ways. One of my favorite things to do

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<v Speaker 2>to connect to the divine is go to this chapel

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<v Speaker 2>near my house by myself when no one else is there,

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<v Speaker 2>at a weird hour and just kneel in front of

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<v Speaker 2>the tabernacle. It feels so beautiful there and I just

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<v Speaker 2>tell God everything. And I always end up changing my

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<v Speaker 2>prayer when I'm there. I'll go asking for X, Y

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<v Speaker 2>and Z, and then I end up asking for patients

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<v Speaker 2>so that I can be in accordance with Thy will

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<v Speaker 2>instead of my will. And it's so funny. Every time

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<v Speaker 2>I go there, I'm praying for one thing, and I

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<v Speaker 2>end up praying for the patients and the strength to

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<v Speaker 2>withstand the currenciason I'm in because there's medicine in every

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<v Speaker 2>single season. That's one of my favorite things to do.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason it's so important to allow your energy to

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<v Speaker 2>build instead of just giving away your energy all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Is because you have to understand. There are people in

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<v Speaker 2>this world that some people call an energy vampires, but

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<v Speaker 2>really what they are they are energy harvesters. Women used

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<v Speaker 2>to harvest in the woods. They would pick the berries,

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<v Speaker 2>they would pick the bark, they would pick the plants,

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<v Speaker 2>they would pick out different herbs for medicine because nature

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<v Speaker 2>freely gives us these tools and they are there through

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<v Speaker 2>God so that we can use them to exist with

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<v Speaker 2>on this planet. The problem is now the divine feminine

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<v Speaker 2>is being harvested. Women are being harvested and sometimes men too.

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<v Speaker 2>Men understand and they can sniff this out that the

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine is the energy that is for creation. The

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine is a creator and the destroyer. There's something

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<v Speaker 2>really interesting that happens naturally in relationship dynamics. Women feed

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<v Speaker 2>off of masculine energy and men feed off feminine energy.

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<v Speaker 2>The feminine energy is what allows someone to do better

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<v Speaker 2>at their business, in their career, attract better relationships. The

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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy is the seed to everything. The masculine energy

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<v Speaker 2>is a structure, it's the grounding, it's the protection. Women

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<v Speaker 2>are being used as forests. Now we're being harvested for

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<v Speaker 2>our energy to make not well in the mind men

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<v Speaker 2>better men are and I'm not going to say all men,

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<v Speaker 2>but men who are in their wounded energies are using

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<v Speaker 2>better in their business, so that they can attract more women,

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<v Speaker 2>so that they can feel better about themselves. Again, both

414
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<v Speaker 2>men and women can be used. Don't make any mistake

415
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<v Speaker 2>about it, because there's also women who will feed off

416
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<v Speaker 2>of masculine energy and try to use them for support

417
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<v Speaker 2>or structure, whatever it may be. It goes both ways.

418
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<v Speaker 2>But because I'm a woman and we're talking about energetic

419
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<v Speaker 2>transference in this episode, I'm really going to focus on

420
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<v Speaker 2>the feminine energy. When you're in a committed, healthy relationship,

421
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<v Speaker 2>this is normal. Your partner is going to feed off

422
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<v Speaker 2>your feminine energy, and you're going to feed off their

423
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<v Speaker 2>masculine energy, and you're going to energy transfer onto one another,

424
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<v Speaker 2>and that's fine. And the intermingling of this energy is

425
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<v Speaker 2>what creates children, it's what creates businesses, it's what creates

426
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<v Speaker 2>a lasting marriage. That's not the problem. The problem is

427
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<v Speaker 2>when someone doesn't intend to equally exchange their masculine energy

428
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<v Speaker 2>with your feminine energy. Then we run into issues because

429
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<v Speaker 2>you're getting depleted. The feminine energy is the creator. Women

430
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<v Speaker 2>literally have a portal between their legs to another dimension

431
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<v Speaker 2>that creates human beings. There's so many studies that show

432
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<v Speaker 2>men who get married end up happier, healthier because they

433
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<v Speaker 2>feed off the feminine energy. She's doing the cooking and

434
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<v Speaker 2>the cleaning and all this other stuff. They end up happier.

435
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<v Speaker 2>And there's a lot of studies that show women end

436
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<v Speaker 2>up less happy because they aren't getting an equal energetic

437
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<v Speaker 2>exchange of that protection, of that support of the house,

438
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<v Speaker 2>the home, whatever it may be. I've spoken to so

439
00:26:02.240 --> 00:26:04.920
<v Speaker 2>many men who work high up at companies, and they'll

440
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<v Speaker 2>tell me that they literally look for other men who

441
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<v Speaker 2>are married or in a relationship, because those are the

442
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<v Speaker 2>men who work harder, those are the men who do better.

443
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<v Speaker 2>Men benefit off of being in a relationship with a

444
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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy because the feminine energy gives them this softness,

445
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<v Speaker 2>it allows them to breathe, it gives them more energy

446
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<v Speaker 2>to create. Just think about it, when a man walks

447
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<v Speaker 2>in with a beautiful woman, just a man having that

448
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<v Speaker 2>beautiful woman by his side. More women are now interested

449
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<v Speaker 2>in that man. What does he know? What does he do?

450
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<v Speaker 2>How did he get her? We always hear that how

451
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<v Speaker 2>did he get her?

452
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<v Speaker 1>How?

453
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<v Speaker 2>Just having a beautiful woman by your side up levels you.

454
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<v Speaker 2>That is just one of the many, many ways that

455
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<v Speaker 2>the masculine energy feeds off of feminine energy. Just by

456
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<v Speaker 2>standing next to her, you are now elevated onto a

457
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<v Speaker 2>higher level. The feminine energy does not come natural to

458
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<v Speaker 2>them like it comes now for us. When a man

459
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<v Speaker 2>relies on you for emotional support, they look to you

460
00:27:06.480 --> 00:27:09.480
<v Speaker 2>to have someone to build them up for an ego boost.

461
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<v Speaker 2>They are using you for validation. They keep tabs on

462
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<v Speaker 2>you but won't commit to you. They love having sex

463
00:27:15.240 --> 00:27:18.599
<v Speaker 2>with you, but won't give you a ring or a relationship.

464
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<v Speaker 2>They use all these kind words, but no action. They're inconsistent,

465
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:27.720
<v Speaker 2>they're unreliable. Well, this means that that person is harvesting

466
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<v Speaker 2>your energy and men for you. If a woman is

467
00:27:32.759 --> 00:27:35.720
<v Speaker 2>only talking to you and she can get something from you,

468
00:27:36.119 --> 00:27:41.240
<v Speaker 2>whether it's money or a meal or a house over

469
00:27:41.279 --> 00:27:44.359
<v Speaker 2>her head, well then she's using your mask and energy

470
00:27:44.359 --> 00:27:47.359
<v Speaker 2>and using you. Again, this goes both ways. We need

471
00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:49.720
<v Speaker 2>to wake up and smell the matrix and stop acting

472
00:27:49.759 --> 00:27:53.240
<v Speaker 2>like psychopaths and learn how to love one another properly.

473
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<v Speaker 2>But first we really have to learn how to love

474
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<v Speaker 2>ourselves properly. And I think before that, maybe we need

475
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<v Speaker 2>to learn how to love the divine properly. Thought. Maybe

476
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<v Speaker 2>a concept could be, you know someone who's harvesting your

477
00:28:04.440 --> 00:28:08.119
<v Speaker 2>energy overall, when you're giving way more energy than they're

478
00:28:08.160 --> 00:28:10.480
<v Speaker 2>giving to you, and you feel depleted now that they're

479
00:28:10.519 --> 00:28:13.200
<v Speaker 2>in your life. Then you start to notice your workouts

480
00:28:13.240 --> 00:28:15.039
<v Speaker 2>are not as good. You start breaking out, or you

481
00:28:15.119 --> 00:28:17.839
<v Speaker 2>start gaining or losing too much weight. You start noticing

482
00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:20.039
<v Speaker 2>that business isn't doing so good. You start noticing that

483
00:28:20.079 --> 00:28:22.680
<v Speaker 2>you can't focus on anything, You have anxiety all throughout

484
00:28:22.720 --> 00:28:25.200
<v Speaker 2>the day. You hit a curb by accident. I'm not

485
00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:31.039
<v Speaker 2>talking about personal experience with that one. So if we

486
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<v Speaker 2>understand this, then we know, okay, well, then that means

487
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to give my presence, my energy, my

488
00:28:37.960 --> 00:28:40.720
<v Speaker 2>body to just anyone, because I'm not a hotel. I'm

489
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<v Speaker 2>actually a temple. And this brings us to my talk

490
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<v Speaker 2>on celibacy. Finally we made it. Celibacy is really really misunderstood,

491
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<v Speaker 2>and I think that's why so many people push back

492
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<v Speaker 2>on it. Society has told us, oh, your celibate, your loser,

493
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<v Speaker 2>there must be something wrong with you. You're not popular,

494
00:29:02.000 --> 00:29:05.319
<v Speaker 2>you're not cool. Of course, society tells you that because

495
00:29:05.359 --> 00:29:09.599
<v Speaker 2>they don't want you to be healthy and well rounded individuals. Celibacy,

496
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<v Speaker 2>like I said, it's misunderstood. It's been reduced to the

497
00:29:14.359 --> 00:29:18.559
<v Speaker 2>act of avoiding sex. But it's so much more than that.

498
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<v Speaker 2>Celibacy really is not about sex. That's the last thing

499
00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:28.599
<v Speaker 2>it's about. Celibacy is about power, it's about energy, it's

500
00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:34.119
<v Speaker 2>about alchemy. Throughout history, ancient Yogi's monks and mystics didn't

501
00:29:34.160 --> 00:29:38.519
<v Speaker 2>practice celibacy to avoid pleasure. They didn't practice celibacy to

502
00:29:38.599 --> 00:29:45.119
<v Speaker 2>be a loser. They practice celibacy to master their own energy.

503
00:29:45.160 --> 00:29:46.519
<v Speaker 2>And I really think if you want to get into

504
00:29:46.559 --> 00:29:48.880
<v Speaker 2>your relationship with someone else, learn how to master your

505
00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:53.359
<v Speaker 2>own energy first. They understood that sexual energy is life

506
00:29:53.559 --> 00:29:58.000
<v Speaker 2>force energy, it's prana, it's cheat, it's kundalini. By conserving it,

507
00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:03.920
<v Speaker 2>they understood that they could try and send human limitations, polarity,

508
00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:07.319
<v Speaker 2>the up and down the roller coaster of humanity, and

509
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<v Speaker 2>achieve enlightenment. In society, celibacy is so distorted, and it's

510
00:30:12.440 --> 00:30:16.359
<v Speaker 2>equated with repression and denial. But of course ancient wisdom

511
00:30:16.440 --> 00:30:22.480
<v Speaker 2>knew so much better. It's about really understanding deeper yourself,

512
00:30:22.960 --> 00:30:28.039
<v Speaker 2>your desires, discernment for others, and what you want out

513
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<v Speaker 2>of this lifetime, and how you want to use your energy.

514
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<v Speaker 2>It's about mind, body, and spirit. Becoming celibate for me,

515
00:30:35.680 --> 00:30:40.119
<v Speaker 2>has personally allowed me to get so much more discerning.

516
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<v Speaker 2>It is so hard for someone to come into my

517
00:30:44.599 --> 00:30:46.559
<v Speaker 2>life and act funny, because I'll see it right away.

518
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<v Speaker 2>Reason being is I don't co mingle my energy with

519
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<v Speaker 2>just anyone. My energy is clean, it is pristine because

520
00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not giving it away to just anyone, and I'm

521
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<v Speaker 2>not taking on random people's energy. So I am able

522
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<v Speaker 2>to master not only my own energy, go deeper in meditation,

523
00:31:01.960 --> 00:31:05.119
<v Speaker 2>see past lifetimes. Not only do I have more time

524
00:31:05.160 --> 00:31:13.200
<v Speaker 2>and energy to create, but I'm understanding other people's energy better.

525
00:31:13.720 --> 00:31:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm understanding the divine better. I'm understanding me better. How

526
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<v Speaker 2>can you use celibacy not to avoid pleasure, not to

527
00:31:21.240 --> 00:31:26.400
<v Speaker 2>punish yourself, but to transcend higher, to connect to a

528
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:30.039
<v Speaker 2>higher level of consciousness, to connect with God, which is

529
00:31:30.400 --> 00:31:32.720
<v Speaker 2>what you're actually looking for. By the way, you're just

530
00:31:32.759 --> 00:31:35.400
<v Speaker 2>looking for God and another human being when you can

531
00:31:35.400 --> 00:31:39.640
<v Speaker 2>find it within yourself. Are you using celibacy as a

532
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:42.759
<v Speaker 2>shield because you're afraid to be intimate, because you're afraid

533
00:31:42.759 --> 00:31:45.680
<v Speaker 2>to get close to someone because you're afraid of vulnerability,

534
00:31:46.000 --> 00:31:48.559
<v Speaker 2>or can you use it as a sword to cut

535
00:31:48.559 --> 00:31:52.359
<v Speaker 2>through the bullshit and learn who you actually are, understand

536
00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:56.559
<v Speaker 2>the divine, and get answers about what you came to

537
00:31:56.680 --> 00:31:59.599
<v Speaker 2>this planet to do. Avoidance is not mastery. I know

538
00:31:59.640 --> 00:32:01.599
<v Speaker 2>so many of us are like I'm in my healing era.

539
00:32:02.039 --> 00:32:06.480
<v Speaker 2>No bit, you are just in isolation. Get real. Celibacy

540
00:32:06.640 --> 00:32:11.519
<v Speaker 2>without purpose is really not going to do anything. You

541
00:32:11.680 --> 00:32:15.400
<v Speaker 2>have to be intentional with what you're doing. Being intentional,

542
00:32:15.559 --> 00:32:21.880
<v Speaker 2>imagine imagine dating with intention. What a concept it's like.

543
00:32:22.279 --> 00:32:28.680
<v Speaker 2>We've never thought of it before. A whole no world. Wow. Wow.

544
00:32:29.240 --> 00:32:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Intention Celibacy with intention is what it's all about. I'm

545
00:32:33.680 --> 00:32:36.759
<v Speaker 2>doing this to connect deeper to myself, to understand my

546
00:32:36.880 --> 00:32:39.880
<v Speaker 2>hitting gifts, to understand what I came here to do,

547
00:32:40.119 --> 00:32:43.119
<v Speaker 2>to see better who people really are. We're not using

548
00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:49.640
<v Speaker 2>celibacy as a shield but a sword. A sword. These

549
00:32:49.759 --> 00:32:53.960
<v Speaker 2>yogis and monks, they emphasize conscious energy use, and that's

550
00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:57.119
<v Speaker 2>what celibacy is. And that's why my mom is like, oh,

551
00:32:57.119 --> 00:32:59.680
<v Speaker 2>you need to go on a saxopelle. I'm like, okay,

552
00:32:59.720 --> 00:33:03.559
<v Speaker 2>come from you, the abstinence teacher. That's real Rich, that's

553
00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:08.720
<v Speaker 2>real Rich Janice. But beyond that, I said, no, okay,

554
00:33:08.759 --> 00:33:11.799
<v Speaker 2>because what I put into my body is intentional, and

555
00:33:11.839 --> 00:33:16.039
<v Speaker 2>how I use my energy is conscious. Whether you want

556
00:33:16.039 --> 00:33:18.880
<v Speaker 2>to call it celibacy or mindful intimacy, I think if

557
00:33:18.920 --> 00:33:20.839
<v Speaker 2>you don't like the word celibacy because maybe you have

558
00:33:21.279 --> 00:33:24.519
<v Speaker 2>past trauma with it, whatever, just call it mindful intimacy.

559
00:33:24.559 --> 00:33:29.359
<v Speaker 2>Then intentional intimacy. How about that? A double eye alliteration

560
00:33:29.599 --> 00:33:33.160
<v Speaker 2>has entered the chat. The goal remains the same. It's

561
00:33:33.279 --> 00:33:36.519
<v Speaker 2>mastery over your energy, your desires, and your life. Because

562
00:33:37.160 --> 00:33:40.519
<v Speaker 2>intentional intimacy what that really is about. It's about facing

563
00:33:40.519 --> 00:33:43.640
<v Speaker 2>your shadow, not running from it, because what you run

564
00:33:43.720 --> 00:33:48.759
<v Speaker 2>from will haunt you. Real celibacy isn't it about avoiding

565
00:33:48.799 --> 00:33:51.240
<v Speaker 2>relationships or people or how others make you feel. It's

566
00:33:51.240 --> 00:33:55.160
<v Speaker 2>about confronting your desires and breaking free from societal programming

567
00:33:55.359 --> 00:33:59.759
<v Speaker 2>to understand yourself deeper. It's not about denial. It's about

568
00:33:59.759 --> 00:34:05.839
<v Speaker 2>in pabwermant and conscious use of energy. Thank you. It's

569
00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:09.320
<v Speaker 2>about cultivating an inner strength, becoming the master of your energy,

570
00:34:09.320 --> 00:34:13.320
<v Speaker 2>and transcending limitations. I came up with a metaphor for this,

571
00:34:13.599 --> 00:34:16.559
<v Speaker 2>follow me on the journey. Imagine your energy as a

572
00:34:16.559 --> 00:34:21.000
<v Speaker 2>crystal clear spring flowing with pure, vibrant water, and this

573
00:34:21.039 --> 00:34:24.960
<v Speaker 2>is your life force energy. Every drop of this water

574
00:34:25.039 --> 00:34:30.320
<v Speaker 2>represents your creativity, vitality, and your essence. Now picture yourself

575
00:34:30.360 --> 00:34:35.199
<v Speaker 2>filling up a beautiful glass cup with this pristine water. Again,

576
00:34:35.280 --> 00:34:37.639
<v Speaker 2>this is your energy. Look how clear your energy is.

577
00:34:37.639 --> 00:34:40.480
<v Speaker 2>Look how pristine your energy is. It is sacred, it

578
00:34:40.559 --> 00:34:43.159
<v Speaker 2>is life giving essence. When you engage in sex with

579
00:34:43.239 --> 00:34:46.320
<v Speaker 2>someone who doesn't honor or value you, it's as though

580
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:51.760
<v Speaker 2>you're adding poison to that cup, making it undrinkable. Just

581
00:34:51.920 --> 00:34:56.159
<v Speaker 2>a single drop of poison makes the whole entire cup undrinkable.

582
00:34:56.440 --> 00:34:59.639
<v Speaker 2>You could have a whole entire bath filled with your

583
00:34:59.679 --> 00:35:02.320
<v Speaker 2>person seeing crystal clear energy, and if you add one

584
00:35:02.760 --> 00:35:07.599
<v Speaker 2>little drop of poison, it is now undrinkable. You can't

585
00:35:07.679 --> 00:35:12.199
<v Speaker 2>hydrate or thrive when this water has been contaminated. You

586
00:35:12.239 --> 00:35:15.880
<v Speaker 2>can't hydrate and thrive when you're contaminating your damn vessel.

587
00:35:16.480 --> 00:35:20.039
<v Speaker 2>This is about nurturing yourself and ensuring that your life force, energy,

588
00:35:20.079 --> 00:35:24.280
<v Speaker 2>your prana, remains unpolluted. When you choose to keep your

589
00:35:24.360 --> 00:35:27.840
<v Speaker 2>energy sacred and you nourish yourself fully, your cup will

590
00:35:27.880 --> 00:35:32.079
<v Speaker 2>begin to overflow, spilling into every part of your life.

591
00:35:32.239 --> 00:35:36.719
<v Speaker 2>This overflow is what fuels your creativity, your inspiration, and abundance.

592
00:35:37.119 --> 00:35:41.400
<v Speaker 2>By guarding your sacred well spring, you allow yourself to

593
00:35:41.480 --> 00:35:43.760
<v Speaker 2>hydrate not just your own soul, but also pour into

594
00:35:43.800 --> 00:35:48.920
<v Speaker 2>the world from a place of wholeness, authenticity. Do you

595
00:35:49.000 --> 00:35:52.199
<v Speaker 2>get it? When you don't allow your water to be contaminated,

596
00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:54.840
<v Speaker 2>you then fulfill yourself up so much. You have so

597
00:35:54.960 --> 00:35:58.199
<v Speaker 2>much pent up energy that you begin to overflow into

598
00:35:58.239 --> 00:36:01.800
<v Speaker 2>creative endeavors, into pass into finding your purpose. But if

599
00:36:01.800 --> 00:36:04.280
<v Speaker 2>you're sleeping with everyone and their father, you're not gonna

600
00:36:04.280 --> 00:36:07.039
<v Speaker 2>have enough energy to figure out what your purpose actually is.

601
00:36:07.880 --> 00:36:12.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you understand it? Now? When you keep this water clear,

602
00:36:12.519 --> 00:36:14.599
<v Speaker 2>you can hear yourself, you can hear God, you can

603
00:36:14.599 --> 00:36:17.440
<v Speaker 2>hear your angels, and you can see other people's bullshit

604
00:36:17.480 --> 00:36:21.280
<v Speaker 2>from a mile away. I am not allowing poison into

605
00:36:21.320 --> 00:36:23.840
<v Speaker 2>my life because no one is allowed to erode my intuition.

606
00:36:24.320 --> 00:36:27.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I don't care. You're not going to

607
00:36:28.000 --> 00:36:30.320
<v Speaker 2>mess up my life for me. At the end of

608
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:33.760
<v Speaker 2>the day, your body is a temple. And if someone

609
00:36:33.800 --> 00:36:39.320
<v Speaker 2>is not approaching you with an offering, a pursuit of consistency,

610
00:36:39.840 --> 00:36:45.320
<v Speaker 2>of pure love, authenticity, actions matching their words, and words

611
00:36:45.360 --> 00:36:48.760
<v Speaker 2>matching their actions, they are trying to use you as

612
00:36:48.800 --> 00:36:54.159
<v Speaker 2>a hotel. And you are not a Hoetell right, No,

613
00:36:54.199 --> 00:36:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you're not. You are not. And this is not about

614
00:36:58.039 --> 00:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>shaming or disempowerment or where it sex is evil. It's

615
00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:04.480
<v Speaker 2>not that this is about bitch. You better learn how

616
00:37:04.519 --> 00:37:06.320
<v Speaker 2>to use your energy, or else other people are gonna

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<v Speaker 2>harvest it. You better learn how to cultivate and malcolmize

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<v Speaker 2>you your energy, or else other people are going to

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<v Speaker 2>use it for you. You better learn how to take

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<v Speaker 2>your energy and build with it, or else someone else

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna use it and build a better life for

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<v Speaker 2>themselves than leave you out of it. You need to

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<v Speaker 2>learn how to use your own energy. And listen to

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<v Speaker 2>me when I say, when you find a good partner

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<v Speaker 2>and you and that partner are vibing and it's an

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<v Speaker 2>equal energetic exchange of love and wholeness and whatever. Let

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<v Speaker 2>that energy flow, girl, let it rip, let it flow,

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<v Speaker 2>let it go. I don't care, because then there will

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<v Speaker 2>be an equal energetic exchange. And that's fine and dandy.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about you're not in a committed relationship. There's

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<v Speaker 2>no sign on the horizon of where it's going. And

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<v Speaker 2>you're maybe in your single era, your forest fairy era.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but there's no commitment. So commit to yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I have nothing else to say. I'll see you the

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<v Speaker 2>next one. I love you. Bye. Oh actually sparkling me

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