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<v Speaker 1>Second date update in Meriden. Ryan's on the line. Let's say,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, Ryan, morning, welcome to the show. Obviously, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>second date update means you went on a great first date,

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<v Speaker 1>but now you're getting ghosted. Is that correct?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, And I didn't see it coming. It's it's

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<v Speaker 2>a weird one for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, tell us about the first date.

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<v Speaker 2>So I met this girl on an app called well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say the name of the app, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>her name is Lauren, Okay, and we went on a

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<v Speaker 2>fantastic date. I mean it was like we went to

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<v Speaker 2>the shore, we got eafood, sat outside, perfect weather, conversation

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<v Speaker 2>was great. I mean I felt a real connection with her,

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<v Speaker 2>and I reached out to her after the date, and

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't gotten a single word back, not a you know, call,

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<v Speaker 2>not a text, nothing, So I just I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what's up. Then I want to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a little flirting on the day. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it was flirty?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? No, no, I mean it was it was a date,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we had there was a bit of a

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<v Speaker 2>spark over the you know, the dating app, and then

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<v Speaker 2>once we met up. I mean it was basically like

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<v Speaker 2>we we already had that kind of icebreaker, and so

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<v Speaker 2>we just kind of kept going from there. It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, question does she like seafood? Because I hate seafood

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<v Speaker 1>And if you brought me to a seafood restaurant, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, you don't know me at all, homie.

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<v Speaker 2>This was agreed upon beforehand. So and especially with the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, being on the shore, being outdoors on the

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<v Speaker 2>patio when we were eating, it was it was fantastic, perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>See that sounds like a perfect date to me.

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<v Speaker 3>You aren't doing anything inappropriate with the seagulls? Were you

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<v Speaker 3>trying to feed them fresh?

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<v Speaker 2>Neither confirmed nor did not to do anything out of turn?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably not the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you pay for the date or did you forget

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<v Speaker 1>your wallet? Make her pay?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, no, no, I for a first date. A gentleman

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<v Speaker 2>should always pay, at least that's my family.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like a great guy. I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>why you're getting ghosts.

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<v Speaker 3>We gotta find out what her problem is.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna put you on hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>I would hope, I mean hopefully nothing happened that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he had unforgivable well, I guess we should see.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm gonna put you on hold, Ryan, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call Lauren and just ask her about the date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're ready for answers, we're gonna get him.

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<v Speaker 2>Please, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a great guy. I know that's funny, Savannah,

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<v Speaker 1>because what if she had a shellfish allergy or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So my mom has a shelfish allergy. That's why I'm like.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, if you record your names in for calling, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>see if this person is available.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, Courtney, Kiss ninety five to seven.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Hello, Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Lauren there? This is going Oh Lauren, Hey, this

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<v Speaker 1>is Courtney.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, it's Walmart chef.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta let you know you're on the radio and

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<v Speaker 1>it is a second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh my goodness. Okay, yeah, goodness, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. So from the sound of your voice, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what second date update is. That means somebody's getting

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<v Speaker 1>ghosted after our first date. Maybe I need a refresh

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<v Speaker 1>your memory. You went on a great date. According to Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out and had seafood. The weather was perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he said there was some flirting and that

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<v Speaker 1>he's getting ghosted. So we want to know from you, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>how you liked the date. I like it, fine, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you did you think Ryan was a nice guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I just thought it was just not my thing.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, this wasn't quite a marit.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's it. So you're completely ghosting him because it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a match. It had to be more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>He sounds like a great guy. He said, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot in calm and good conversation and there

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<v Speaker 1>was flirting.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, but like that doesn't mean it's a forever kind

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<v Speaker 4>of thing. Come on, like big deal. Okay, it was nice,

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<v Speaker 4>he's good, but whatever. I mean, it's not like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>in love with you and now we're married. Come on,

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<v Speaker 4>and don't get all attacked. Geez.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>step in here.

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the line. Ryan, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>I get him here, I'm on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>I you know what, I just don't think this is

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<v Speaker 1>a match. I think Lauren's a little harsh.

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<v Speaker 2>I it's I don't know. It's kind of news to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I I thought that everything was good

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<v Speaker 2>and seemed like a lot of fun on the date.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why this sudden change of heart, but

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if that's if that's the way she feels, yeah, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 2>is there any particular reason why.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, it's not that. It's just like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we had a great time and everything, but I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think it was a okay, like I love match, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean, just like, hey, that was fun. Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound really cold. I'm just gonna be honest, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>she sounds just cold, like I think Lauren. He would

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<v Speaker 1>have deserve at least a call back to say, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not feeling a connection.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean I can see that, Okay, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean I just I thought it was more like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we're vibing, this is cool. We had fun and like,

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<v Speaker 4>but it wasn't anything more special for you and that

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<v Speaker 4>so I didn't think. I didn't think I needed anything

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<v Speaker 4>more than that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just looking for a free meal and you got so yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Ouch, that's whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just say, Ryan, I don't know anything about you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I love seafood. I'll go I will go to

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<v Speaker 1>the shore and have some seafood with you. Anytime. You

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Sound like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Courtney, you're single.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go white second d update, maybe my own match?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, then there you go, Ryan, Ryan, you

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<v Speaker 1>got your answers. Lauren, you just didn't feel a connection,

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<v Speaker 1>but you weren't kind enough to let him know. That

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<v Speaker 1>basically is what I'm gotting at.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I guess in your opinion, that's how I was.

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<v Speaker 4>But whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, just Ryan, you got your answer. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>okay with everything?

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<v Speaker 3>Ryan?

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit shocked, but yeah, I mean that sounds

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<v Speaker 2>pretty final. So yeah, okay, I mean, bygones be bygoneses,

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love it. Well, thank you guys so much

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<v Speaker 1>for being honest and being on Second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever, no problem,