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Speaker 2: We got a lot going on.
Speaker 1: But honestly, with this whole ghosting conversation going on, with
Speaker 1: this whole men versus women's conversation, never ending. Honestly, maybe
Speaker 1: I'm tired. I don't know about y'all, but I am tired.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Everybody always want to talks about who cheats more men
Speaker 1: are women, men versus women, men versus women. That's all
Speaker 1: I ever hear. And I feel like we're.
Speaker 2: Not talking about the important conversations, the ones who ain't cheating.
Speaker 1: Did y'all know they still exist? Did you know? Did
Speaker 1: you know?
Speaker 2: Did you know? Did you know?
Speaker 1: There are still people in this world who don't cheat?
Speaker 1: And I say that's not because I'm in relationship, because
Speaker 1: y'all know I'm single, But honestly, I take pride in
Speaker 1: the fact that, like, I don't owe anybody an explanation,
Speaker 1: but I still choose.
Speaker 2: To be solid. That's rare, swear.
Speaker 1: I don't owe nobody an explanation, but I still choose
Speaker 1: to be south.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: And while I say that's where, I feel like that's
Speaker 1: only because a lot of people are willing to accept
Speaker 1: that because they fear of being played and they don't
Speaker 1: really want to talk about it. But I feel like
Speaker 1: we need to bring this to the forefront. We need
Speaker 1: to bring it to the forefront, Okay, because a lot
Speaker 1: of y'all dumb like me, Okay, And the only reason
Speaker 1: I call it dumb is because I know y'all call
Speaker 1: it dumb. I don't think it's dumb, but I know
Speaker 1: y'all think it's dumb. So yeah, we gonna we're gonna
Speaker 1: dive into that today. You know this, this this episode
Speaker 1: is for.
Speaker 2: All the people who choose not to be messy, okay.
Speaker 1: All the people who choose not to spend the block okay,
Speaker 1: all the people who choose not to take that one
Speaker 1: person off the block list okay, all the people who
Speaker 1: choose to move with grace, move with love and still
Speaker 1: have the hope that their person is out there. And
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe it recently come to the realization
Speaker 1: of some important things. Like me, I recently realized maybe
Speaker 1: I was put on this earth to be a second wife. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe out hear me out, hear me out, hear me out.
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe maybe.
Speaker 1: God said, I want you to watch other people struggle vicariously,
Speaker 1: and you're gonna learn, okay, and when you learn, you
Speaker 1: gonn be better.
Speaker 2: Equipped for when your husband finished learning with.
Speaker 1: His first wife, and then you're all gonna connect.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Maybe we don't know we don't know, but you know
Speaker 1: we're gonna see. We're gonna see. I say all I
Speaker 1: have to say. You know, moral, the story is growth
Speaker 1: is sexy, right, Discipline is sexy, and peace maybe peace.
Speaker 2: Is fine as hell.
Speaker 1: Okay, and that's what we're going to talk about today.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's where we're with it. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: where we are with it. Let's get into speaking a piece.
Speaker 1: We're gonna start on the left and then we're gonna
Speaker 1: go back around in the circle.
Speaker 2: Okay, but speaking a piece, y'all ever.
Speaker 1: Noticed how when life gets real peaceful, that one funky
Speaker 1: ass X start coming around?
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Is it me?
Speaker 1: Is it me? Like? Y'all ever noticed that when you
Speaker 1: were in your soft era and you're healing and you
Speaker 1: have peace and things are going well and you're figuring
Speaker 1: things out, you're drinking your water, Here come that one
Speaker 1: funky ass X. What you want, babe, what you want?
Speaker 1: What you want? I done bought a new plant. You
Speaker 1: don't got to come back on the fun shit. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm at peace. Okay, I ain't even killed this one yet. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not going with y'all. I got this piece little
Speaker 1: that is stressing me the fuck out. Dog, Why are
Speaker 1: peace Lily so dramatic? Why? Why?
Speaker 2: Why? But man, man, you ever noticed how when life
Speaker 2: is going real good, you're at peace. You're at peace.
Speaker 1: You ever noticed how when you at peace that one
Speaker 1: funky ass acts always come back around talking about Hay, stranger, Hey, stranger,
Speaker 1: a baby baby. I'm not a stranger. You just don't
Speaker 1: have access to me anymore.
Speaker 2: It's a difference. It's a difference. It's a difference. I'm
Speaker 2: not a stranger.
Speaker 1: I'm in the same places, I have the same habits.
Speaker 1: I'm still moving with grace, moving with love, moving with purpose.
Speaker 3: What you want, I started saying to myself, even though
Speaker 3: my encounters are funky, they're like funky.
Speaker 2: It's crazy.
Speaker 4: I say not today, say I started. I've been saying
Speaker 4: that since I was like.
Speaker 1: Not today, Say get thee behind me, say okay, b
Speaker 1: the ones.
Speaker 2: Leo flex Fit says stranger, danger, and is you.
Speaker 4: Want to be a stranger so bad?
Speaker 2: Now you are one that Now you are one, Now
Speaker 2: you are one, Now you are one.
Speaker 4: You're not left on You're left delivered.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be left on red than delivered.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 1: For the rest of your life, but you're not even
Speaker 1: going to give me the common courtesy or opening my ship.
Speaker 1: Dog Outfite says that X popping up is equivalent to
Speaker 1: getting paid a husky check in the check an engine,
Speaker 1: like come on in your car, I ain't gonna my
Speaker 1: check enginelight on right now.
Speaker 2: It's because it's something easy. It's just my math censor.
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, but no, going back to this
Speaker 1: hey stranger, it's like, yo, you don't no, but it's
Speaker 1: like real because like yo, at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I absolutely could open my phone right now, send a
Speaker 1: text to old Faithful and have a man with a
Speaker 1: beard of communications on my line in my house buckie naked,
Speaker 1: no problem.
Speaker 2: But do I know?
Speaker 1: Because my peace is more important than getting attention. And like,
Speaker 1: once you get to that point, it's a rap for
Speaker 1: you fuck boys, Like it's a rap for you fuck boys.
Speaker 1: Like once like me and my peace becomes more important
Speaker 1: than attention, your whole world opens up differently, Like you
Speaker 1: start seeing shit different, you start feeling shit different, likes
Speaker 1: it's not the shit you used to feel, but it's
Speaker 1: something it's something new.
Speaker 3: At stories of going out and you know, showing up
Speaker 3: the random through you know.
Speaker 1: Blurred seventeen on one says like Medea said, hold your
Speaker 1: peace and let the Lord fight your battles.
Speaker 2: Now, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 1: I think I think Mediga was holding a different piece
Speaker 1: in that situation.
Speaker 2: But I get it, I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: Like once you reach a point where your piece is
Speaker 1: more important than attention, your life changes. Like baby, Yes
Speaker 1: you smell good, but it's not enough for me. Yes
Speaker 1: you have a pretty smile, but it's not enough for me. Yes,
Speaker 1: I missed that chain swinging in my face, but it's
Speaker 1: not enough for me.
Speaker 2: It's not enough. It's not enough at all.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, let me scroll back up. Zanzi says leaving
Speaker 1: people on red without blocking them is my new.
Speaker 2: Move poetryas snabs.
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you deserve We all do, We all do.
Speaker 1: Music is music is life. Says it's called clarity. I'm crying,
Speaker 1: but like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like I I don't want.
Speaker 1: Sometimes when we talk about our peace and like having
Speaker 1: the sanctity of our home, it gets translated into this
Speaker 1: conversation of we just don't want anybody period, or it
Speaker 1: gets translated into this conversation of you become a part
Speaker 1: of the heat man woman haters or vice versa.
Speaker 2: Right, So.
Speaker 1: I want somebody, but sometimes I feel like me in society,
Speaker 1: we don't. We don't be on the same page, right,
Speaker 1: Like what I be wanting for and what I envision
Speaker 1: in my brain. Sometimes I feel like society or outside
Speaker 1: Facts of Johns, I'd be like, oh, that's too much,
Speaker 1: you got too much going on, or you're like you
Speaker 1: need something.
Speaker 2: It's like, I know it exists. I know it exists.
Speaker 1: For example, call me old fashion, but I still think
Speaker 1: that there are people out there in the world who
Speaker 1: have the potential to be just as loyal as I am.
Speaker 1: And if you act society, especially social media, like loyalty
Speaker 1: don't exist. Loyal t you don't exist. Like every person
Speaker 1: you get is gonna cheat on you. They're gonna dog
Speaker 1: you out, They're going to X, Y and Z.
Speaker 2: And it's like, I don't think so, I don't think.
Speaker 3: So he's saying, why don't you cheat? And he looked
Speaker 3: at her like, how are you because it's wrong?
Speaker 4: What do you know?
Speaker 3: Those questions when they stopped on the interview, do you cheat?
Speaker 3: And he was like no.
Speaker 4: She's like, why the.
Speaker 2: Fun because it's wrong because it's wrong.
Speaker 4: That's crazy. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: Dog like Honestly, I feel like I don't like it
Speaker 1: because y'all be acting.
Speaker 2: Like being loyal is corny.
Speaker 1: I don't like that.
Speaker 4: I just told you I like that.
Speaker 2: I like that because I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I like that, like, I don't like when y'all say
Speaker 1: things like, you know, being loyal is boring, being loyalist corny.
Speaker 4: I got my blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: I'm finna go do x y Z.
Speaker 1: I don't like that.
Speaker 2: I don't like that.
Speaker 1: Blirrd seventeen o one says, call me old fashioned too.
Speaker 1: Loyalty is always the right way. Essentially, Ill says, loyalty
Speaker 1: is a way of life, and I feel that. I
Speaker 1: feel that, and I'm gonna be real with y'all. Loyalty
Speaker 1: and living a life of loyalty is easy.
Speaker 2: Y'all be trying to make life hard. Like, baby, I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna lie to you. I don't cheat because I'm
Speaker 2: not good at it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not good at it.
Speaker 2: Yeah bruh, yeah, bruh.
Speaker 1: Being loyal means I ain't got to keep up with
Speaker 1: three different lives. Okay, Being loyal means I ain't gotta
Speaker 1: craft a story about where I was or where I
Speaker 1: wasn't okay, Being loyal means I ain't gotta remember what
Speaker 1: I told you and what I haven't told him yet
Speaker 1: and feel how I'm gonna craft these conversations. Like being
Speaker 1: loyal means I don't have to lie about who I
Speaker 1: was with, what I was doing, what time I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be in the house. Like being loyal is different from me.
Speaker 1: It's so easy. And y'all be stressing about all this
Speaker 1: shit but cheating and moving with your sneaky like I'd
Speaker 1: be like.
Speaker 2: You like that shit because I don't like that shit.
Speaker 1: I don't like that shit. Like choosing to have a
Speaker 1: hard life is crazy, crazy like that, And and that's
Speaker 1: the crazy part, Like you are literally choosing to be
Speaker 1: a detective and a side piece at the same time.
Speaker 1: Maybe I ain't got it. I ain't got it, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't have the brain bandwidth. I ain't got it,
Speaker 1: all right, that's what I'm saying. Outfite says being loyal
Speaker 1: was fing boring, but god damnit is safe and adds
Speaker 1: gears to your life. That's right, okay, And you know
Speaker 1: what being loyal might be boring, but it's safe.
Speaker 2: And it adds years to your life.
Speaker 1: Yes, it does, uh Ill Comly says pe If women
Speaker 1: master being single, leaving and not staying with one man,
Speaker 1: why should men give women commitment and monogamy. I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think those are the same things.
Speaker 3: I think that cho And you even go to the
Speaker 3: very first video of this podcast, and you're gonna watch,
Speaker 3: and you're gonna watch about relationships, and you wanna come
Speaker 3: back to this video.
Speaker 4: They are not the same thing. You just had the
Speaker 4: beginnings podcast they were going to.
Speaker 1: Uh. Aaron nas seventy three says unloyal people create their
Speaker 1: own drama exactly.
Speaker 2: I feel like there are people who choose to move
Speaker 2: with love and move with peace, and I'm.
Speaker 1: Just one of those people, Like the sneiling g in life.
Speaker 2: It just ain't for me. It's too much drama.
Speaker 1: Okay, how high blood pressure and cholesterol already running my family, baby,
Speaker 1: I can't add no more. Okay at this point, I'm
Speaker 1: just looking to make my life easy and potentially make
Speaker 1: yours too. That's it in a sault. All that other
Speaker 1: stuff you can miss me with, it's not for me.
Speaker 1: And not even that.
Speaker 2: Like, yo, you ever notice that.
Speaker 1: When you're being faithful and when you're doing things that
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do, and when you're living a loyal
Speaker 1: life and you're being safe and moving with good energy,
Speaker 1: you ever notice how your life get a little bit better?
Speaker 2: No, it's just me.
Speaker 1: You ever notice how when you're moving with peace and
Speaker 1: good energy, life just gets a little bit better? Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: your skin clears up, Okay, you asking a little fatter.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's just me. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just me.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just saying sometimes your tax has even come
Speaker 1: back faster. It's just benefits.
Speaker 2: And being loyal.
Speaker 1: That's here, and that's all.
Speaker 2: That's just me.
Speaker 1: Blurred seventeen O one says people who cheat are unsatisfied
Speaker 1: with themselves and they are trying to make themselves feel better.
Speaker 1: Jovanni seven five to seven say answer my DM, I
Speaker 1: will try to find it and that's it. But yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like when you aren't, when
Speaker 1: you aren't lying and scheming and cheating and you know,
Speaker 1: trying to put together whose colonne you might smell like.
Speaker 2: I'll take I take that. I take that.
Speaker 1: I take that when you aren't lying and scheming and
Speaker 1: when you're actually living your truth. Yes, your skin clears up, Yes,
Speaker 1: your curls get juicier. Yes, that ass get fatter. Yes,
Speaker 1: your taxes come back faster. Okay, life genuinely gets better,
Speaker 1: and I want that for you, you know, speaking of peace
Speaker 1: and living in a righteous life. I feel like this
Speaker 1: wouldn't be chocolate chip and sip if I didn't have
Speaker 1: an honest, vulnerable moment until both sides of the coin, because.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I see a man that makes me want to
Speaker 1: ruin my piece, I feel like that, well.
Speaker 2: Hey hey, hey, hey, hey hey, is this a safe space?
Speaker 2: Is this a safe space?
Speaker 1: Can we be honest?
Speaker 2: Hey hey hey, can we be honest? All right? We
Speaker 2: are human?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Like, Sometimes I will be out frolicking amongst the people
Speaker 1: and I just get caught up. I'm like, dang, something's
Speaker 1: gonna happen.
Speaker 2: Am I gonna let it happen? Am? I?
Speaker 1: Like? Sometimes it's just be the ones you know, and
Speaker 1: everybody got their own specific ones. I don't have to
Speaker 1: go into it, but like you just see them, like yo,
Speaker 1: I will throw all this self love away to be
Speaker 1: your big or little spoon, and baby, I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck.
Speaker 2: Okay, just something, just a little summit.
Speaker 1: I will throw all this self love away, okay, just
Speaker 1: to get a little and heat on back, meat on crack, Okay,
Speaker 1: just a lot o bait, just a little bit, and
Speaker 1: it's like I'll be able to catch myself like, no,
Speaker 1: we're beyond that, okay. And sometimes like the one that
Speaker 1: be on this ship her shoulder be like no, we're not.
Speaker 1: And then you know it's like a it's.
Speaker 2: Like a battle.
Speaker 1: But you know, I'll make it out.
Speaker 2: I make it out. I make it out.
Speaker 1: Outfit says haha, I'm in danger. Yes, moments abundant. Yes,
Speaker 1: it gives very much.
Speaker 2: Haa. I I'm in danger.
Speaker 1: That's it. That's what it bes specifically. Absolutely, Josh straight
Speaker 1: up says.
Speaker 2: Mental stability ain't even that fun though. Baby.
Speaker 1: You know it's a place in uh Philadelphia called Friends Hospital, Okay,
Speaker 1: and the people in there were like choose to disagree
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. Uh, the
Speaker 2: light skinned Aristotle, what's up? Baby?
Speaker 1: Hold on?
Speaker 2: Shut up, every Nash please, I'm gragging up.
Speaker 1: I gotta go back down, score, back down, score with down,
Speaker 1: he don't back meat on crack needs to be a shirt.
Speaker 1: I feel like people wouldn't get it. I feel like
Speaker 1: peopleould get it. They're like, what is that you not
Speaker 1: for them? And they're gonna try to put me in
Speaker 1: that hospital. I was just talking to you about okay,
Speaker 1: like it's a thing. But yeah, it's it's cool, Like
Speaker 1: it's not cool, not that part, not that part. Let's
Speaker 1: go back, let's circle back, Let's circle back. So sometimes
Speaker 1: I do run into people and be like, yo, like baby,
Speaker 1: I will risk it all to sip your bath order
Speaker 1: through a straw.
Speaker 2: Okay, just a little bit, not too much, all right?
Speaker 2: But I don't. Okay, but I don't all right? And
Speaker 2: do you know why? Because at the end of the
Speaker 2: day it's not worth it.
Speaker 1: I'll be having to think of myself like, Yo, is
Speaker 1: it worth that nineties R and B playlist I'm gonna.
Speaker 2: Have to make afterwards? Okay? Is it worth the crash
Speaker 2: out in the group chat? Okay?
Speaker 1: Is it worth me figuring out where your grandmam gonna
Speaker 1: get her dialysis?
Speaker 2: They're having a pull up on her.
Speaker 1: It's not okay, it's not So I have to be
Speaker 1: the growing up and choose to be the bigger person.
Speaker 4: No, I won't, just a little bit.
Speaker 1: It's crazy, it's it's in these moments I have to
Speaker 1: remember that I have mastered the art of looking and
Speaker 1: not touching.
Speaker 2: Okay, looking and not touching. Okay, look, not touch.
Speaker 1: And honestly I be I be thinking that I look
Speaker 1: real sexy, but in all actuality, I just look like
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union and bringing on when she'd be walking by.
Speaker 2: But in my mind, I look you though.
Speaker 1: In my mind I'm letting you know, like, hey, whenever
Speaker 1: you're ready for a wife, I'm here. But in all actuality,
Speaker 1: I look like Gabrielle Union and bringing on masterpiece Materie.
Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, uh of course she Pelle says, story,
Speaker 1: I have a card game.
Speaker 2: I want to sing you. I need you, po Box.
Speaker 2: Let me screencht that I will tap in with you.
Speaker 1: When I get back.
Speaker 2: I didn't do it this time. I actually screenshot it.
Speaker 1: Uh it.
Speaker 2: Showtime says, bringing in my Grandmama as wild, I said
Speaker 2: what I said.
Speaker 1: Aaron Nash seventy three says, the great sweatpants print have
Speaker 1: taken many down, y'all.
Speaker 4: Let me tell.
Speaker 1: You once again once again, get dressed to night deep.
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, go ahead, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: When I got here, Shot, I did have on sweat
Speaker 1: He did the respectable thing and went and.
Speaker 4: Changed his clothes.
Speaker 2: He's okay.
Speaker 1: You know what I feel like When we talk about
Speaker 1: mastering the art of looking but don't touching, y'all don't
Speaker 1: realize how hard that is, especially when like they got
Speaker 1: on a pair of gray sweatpants, especially when they walk
Speaker 1: by smelling good gold chain, pretty smile, deep waves, fresh cut,
Speaker 1: fresh locks, nice twist like it be hard. It be hard, okay,
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna hold y'all. Don't don't let them
Speaker 1: have a Southern accent. By god damn, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: hold y'all.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 1: That should make me melt with my my West Coast crew,
Speaker 1: my East Coast crew. I love y'all dirty, dirty, Like.
Speaker 2: What's the middle call? Midwest? Yeah, Midwest, y'all know what's love.
Speaker 1: But baby, it's something about the Southern accents, male or female.
Speaker 1: God damn, give me every.
Speaker 3: Time, especially in those little hole in the wall restaurants. Baby,
Speaker 3: go to Atlanta. I want to go on the hood,
Speaker 3: like I don't want to go they speak like me. Honestly,
Speaker 3: you live down the street from me, nigga. I want
Speaker 3: somebody who grew up here.
Speaker 2: Honestly, it'd be the manners for me, sir.
Speaker 1: People. Yes, yes, ma'am, ma'am. You call me ma'am. Boy
Speaker 1: you finna called me baby mama.
Speaker 2: Okay, stop it stop.
Speaker 4: It gets the.
Speaker 2: People going, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Cold blooded to one says we appreciate you too, ma'am.
Speaker 1: Say say now, why would you who is G Jones
Speaker 1: says you like the southern accent?
Speaker 2: I do them Southern nigga?
Speaker 1: Okay, chocolate a k A. Jordan says they really be
Speaker 1: threatening us.
Speaker 2: What a good time? Don't they? And don't they?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: My guy, hold on scrolling up, scrolling, get me a
Speaker 1: second outfite, says master the art of looking and not touching,
Speaker 1: says the woman who lifts niggas on the regular.
Speaker 2: Yo, I'm not gonna lie, never mind about you, sure
Speaker 2: about that?
Speaker 1: Never mind, I'm not gonna say what I wanted to say.
Speaker 1: But yeah, speaking of mastering the art of looking, of
Speaker 1: not and not touching, I feel like looking and not touching.
Speaker 1: It's hard for some of y'all. Hear me out no
Speaker 1: shade because you pick the wrong partner. Okay, hey, this
Speaker 1: is sex sex hey hey, hey, hey, hey hey, we're
Speaker 1: all friends here. I say all this with fluff, but
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you know you pick
Speaker 1: the wrong partner. Okay, once again, once again, Hey, hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: don't just hear me out.
Speaker 2: Don't don't cut the podcast off yet, just hear me out. Okay.
Speaker 1: I feel like discipline is hard for some of y'all
Speaker 1: because you chose the wrong partner. If you're picking who
Speaker 1: you're actually supposed to be picking, life is easy as fuck. Okay,
Speaker 1: all of it, no, but a majority of it yes, okay?
Speaker 2: And then who wants to argue with those odds?
Speaker 1: Right? Like when when you when you pick the right partner?
Speaker 1: Cheating don't even cross your mind? Okay, bro, Do you
Speaker 1: remember the first time you were with somebody that made
Speaker 1: you not want to cheat? Do you remember the first
Speaker 1: time you were with somebody that made you not even
Speaker 1: want to look at other men or women? Do you
Speaker 1: remember the first time you met somebody was like, I'm
Speaker 1: not fucking this up?
Speaker 4: Do you remember the time?
Speaker 2: Do you remember now? Do you?
Speaker 1: Do you?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: And if you haven't had that moment. Yet it's gonna
Speaker 1: fuck you up. I promise you you're gonna need to talk
Speaker 1: to the lady afterwards.
Speaker 2: Right, But it's good because you're gonna learn something in that.
Speaker 3: That's why you'd be saying this out your mouth that
Speaker 3: you be saying because you ain't have that, you know what.
Speaker 3: That's why I be feeling like people be saying that, like, oh,
Speaker 3: you must not have been loved on properly.
Speaker 2: You must you might be on to something.
Speaker 4: You know, I practiced the golden rule. Yeah, you treated
Speaker 4: so like.
Speaker 3: I want to be loved on. I don't want to
Speaker 3: be lied to. I don't want to be cheated on. Yeah, no,
Speaker 3: I want to be.
Speaker 4: I want to be you know, I appreciate it. So
Speaker 4: I put that out. You put in, you get out.
Speaker 4: What do you say get out?
Speaker 1: You get out what you put in. I I I
Speaker 1: want to piggyback on that. I believe that.
Speaker 2: I feel like.
Speaker 4: I said some smart shit.
Speaker 1: I want to piggyback on one shot said right. I
Speaker 1: feel like if you are one of those people who
Speaker 1: believe that everybody cheats and you're never going to find
Speaker 1: a loyal person and love doesn't exist, I just feel
Speaker 1: like you've never had someone that made you feel that like,
Speaker 1: you've never had a man who made you want to
Speaker 1: give them.
Speaker 2: Your love, your legs and your loyal tee. Okay, it's
Speaker 2: probably something different from men.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it just means like you never
Speaker 1: had that wrapped up in a nice little chew Amazon package.
Speaker 1: You ain't get it, and that's why you can't relate.
Speaker 1: But I promise you it's real, and I promise you
Speaker 1: it exists. Outfit says, Ah.
Speaker 2: You're right.
Speaker 1: She had my feet dangling and kicking on a barstool
Speaker 1: with a smile.
Speaker 4: Exactly.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: I love that. I love that, I love that. I
Speaker 2: love that.
Speaker 1: Like, to me, it just means that you never had
Speaker 1: somebody that poured into you. Your cup was so filled
Speaker 1: you had no desire to like get anything from anybody else.
Speaker 1: And it's like you ain't never had a partner that
Speaker 1: made you just look at everybody else and they all
Speaker 1: look dusty. Like every person in the world becomes dusty
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 3: Coloring with somebody that wants to cuddle with you as
Speaker 3: much as you want to cuddle with them.
Speaker 4: It's like top tier manipulated bacon cakes.
Speaker 3: It's top tier no files when y I want them
Speaker 3: as much as they want me. Yeah, and there's no like,
Speaker 3: there's no force in everything, just aligned. You can't go back.
Speaker 4: It's like a drug.
Speaker 1: Bro like you, you never had a partner that hypes
Speaker 1: you up and poured into you so much that you
Speaker 1: just looked at everybody else like they were fucking dusty.
Speaker 2: Now, don't don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: They can have the same clothes, they can have the
Speaker 1: same job, they had, the same money, they had the
Speaker 1: same apart. I mean, they can't have the same car.
Speaker 1: But it's like, ain't exactly. They ain't her, they ain't him.
Speaker 2: That's not it.
Speaker 1: It's like, if you've never experienced that, then yes, you
Speaker 1: probably do believe that everybody in this world cheese. And
Speaker 1: I hate that for you, but maybe it's something better
Speaker 1: over the other side of the rainbow, and I want
Speaker 1: that for you.
Speaker 2: You can have it, okay.
Speaker 4: Just you know, it's very important.
Speaker 1: She's better.
Speaker 3: When it comes to things like that this side from
Speaker 3: that side, about it on that side and play around.
Speaker 4: With things like that.
Speaker 1: And honestly, if you're in a relationship, if you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship right now and your partner, don't make you feel.
Speaker 4: That some common loss. Shit.
Speaker 1: If you are in a real I would like to
Speaker 1: serve over. I'm gonna start over. Just piss me off.
Speaker 2: You're pissing me off. Honestly, if you are in.
Speaker 1: A relationship and your partner doesn't make you feel like
Speaker 1: you don't need a roster, maybe they just start a pack. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe your partner.
Speaker 2: It's just the audition. They're not the lead. And I
Speaker 2: say this with love, but if they're not.
Speaker 4: Giving you that energy, they a lesson, not a blessing.
Speaker 1: Outfit, says, other women became harlots and horror mongers. He
Speaker 1: fans away from me. I'm crying, okay, so do my
Speaker 1: girl the fuck like court Chapelle says, it's not a
Speaker 1: feeling of not wanting to cheat, because I don't cheat.
Speaker 1: Now if I feel like it, I just want you
Speaker 1: to sit on my face all day until you got me.
Speaker 2: Amen. And you know what, at least you got a system.
Speaker 2: I love that for you. I love that for you.
Speaker 2: Hold on. Let me score back down, score back down,
Speaker 2: score back down. So yeah, man, that's it.
Speaker 1: Without without saying saying it, without saying it, She's better.
Speaker 4: That's it.
Speaker 2: That's it, and that's all. I feel like the consensus
Speaker 2: is going to be.
Speaker 1: When hearing this or watching this, it's like, oh, she
Speaker 1: don't call that shit, but she's not in a relationship.
Speaker 1: But you know, I think there are other things that
Speaker 1: we need to take into account and things that we're
Speaker 1: paying attention to. Right, So it's like, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: in a relationship, but I am also mature and accountable
Speaker 1: enough to say it's it's because I'm being selective, right.
Speaker 1: And when you have peace and you're willing to be
Speaker 1: selective and accepting of the fact that there may be
Speaker 1: some time you got to spend by yourself in between it,
Speaker 1: it's like, it's not that bad. I know that scenes
Speaker 1: real bad. And society wants you to think that you're
Speaker 1: gonna automatically become a cat lady because your standards are
Speaker 1: too high.
Speaker 2: That's false. That's false.
Speaker 1: That's false, especially when you think about what you're asking for.
Speaker 1: Isn't a lot, right, and finding peace in that is
Speaker 1: so powerful.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm single, but I'm spiritually taken.
Speaker 1: Okay, came and put that in, came and put that in.
Speaker 1: Can't put that in? Like my peace and whatever God
Speaker 1: is going to bring to me is more phenomenal than
Speaker 1: sitting here swiping right or ending up like you said earlier,
Speaker 1: you know, crashing out in the group chat and finding
Speaker 1: peace in that is so so powerful, so so powerful.
Speaker 1: Like I genuinely believe with all my heart that God
Speaker 1: is going to send me a man who knows how
Speaker 1: to communicate, and it's going to be able to build
Speaker 1: ikea furniture without yelling at me, okay, And it's going
Speaker 1: to know the flowers that I like, and remember all
Speaker 1: my birthdays and pretend to be interested. I got a lot,
Speaker 1: it depends. You know, I have a birthday, then I
Speaker 1: have a half birthday. You know, I have a birthday weekend,
Speaker 1: birthday month, Okay, I have milestone years.
Speaker 2: Like it's a thing.
Speaker 1: It's a thing, right, But I feel like he's also
Speaker 1: going to fake care about all the nerds shuit. I Like,
Speaker 1: I feel like he's going to be excited or pretend
Speaker 1: to be excited to carry my bags at comic cons
Speaker 1: or whatever cons we may be in at the time.
Speaker 1: Like it exists, and when we have these pessimistic attitudes,
Speaker 1: we're just affirming to the universe that we don't deserve it.
Speaker 1: And I don't want to be there. Original Natives salute
Speaker 1: to you, my guy. John Polo says, what are you
Speaker 1: asking for? Big most seven or two says amen, I
Speaker 1: feel that Original Native says, God will bring you the
Speaker 1: right one.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, he absolutely will.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: Faith that you have to have when you're going through
Speaker 3: times are times the same type of faith you have
Speaker 3: to have when you're looking for love or anything else
Speaker 3: in life. I've I've had to learn that, and I
Speaker 3: had to really take that to heart, and I really
Speaker 3: had to like apply it and physic and really apply
Speaker 3: it mentally and physically to really understand, like, okay, like
Speaker 3: I'm on the right path.
Speaker 1: It's so funny because I'm actually gonna do you one better. Ladies,
Speaker 1: the same faith that you have when you're halfway through
Speaker 1: getting that so many you happen to catch it, peek
Speaker 1: in the mirror and you decide, let's bitch and fuck
Speaker 1: it up. I know my fore head gonna look big.
Speaker 1: She didn't did the wrong shit, she ain't leave out
Speaker 1: enough leave out on the same faith that you have
Speaker 1: that it's gonna turn out good.
Speaker 2: Okay. You gotta have that.
Speaker 1: Same faith when it comes to finding your person. It's
Speaker 1: gonna turn out good. Just just keep the faith alive.
Speaker 1: I promise, I promise, I promise, I prise, I don't miss.
Speaker 1: And more importantly, when he does singing your person, your
Speaker 1: man is going to know that you've been loyal, that
Speaker 1: you've been faithful, that you've been working on becoming a
Speaker 1: better girlfriend, a better wife, a better partner.
Speaker 2: He can tell that you've been working on you.
Speaker 1: He can tell by the way you present yourself, by
Speaker 1: the way you move outside these streets, like you've been
Speaker 1: putting in the work, and he's going to match your
Speaker 1: energy because that's what you deserve based on the work
Speaker 1: that you put in on yourself. All right, don't let
Speaker 1: nothing that you see on social media deter you. Don't
Speaker 1: let nothing that you see out here in these streets
Speaker 1: deter you. He exists, He is real, and he is coming.
Speaker 1: And it's so hard because you feel like, God, what's
Speaker 1: taken so long?
Speaker 2: But our promise it is coming. That's it, and that's
Speaker 2: all nothing.
Speaker 3: And it's going to be to the point where you
Speaker 3: ain't gonna talk about it. M He's just gonna put a.
Speaker 4: Ring on it.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and and he's gonna he's and he's going
Speaker 1: he's going to put a ring on it because he
Speaker 1: sees that you have been preserving your mind, preserving your body,
Speaker 1: preserving your spirit, okay, and preparing yourself to be a
Speaker 1: better partner for him. And don't get me wrong, I
Speaker 1: feel like we have to address things that are out there.
Speaker 1: Yes you could out here for the streets.
Speaker 2: Yes you could go out here and cheat.
Speaker 1: Yes you could out here and live your life like
Speaker 1: a slash slinging pasher okay, but more importantly, you're better
Speaker 1: than that. You've been working on yourself.
Speaker 2: More than that.
Speaker 1: You have the emotional maturity, you have the stability, you
Speaker 1: have the capabilities to be somebody's wife. So fucking act
Speaker 1: like it. Stop letting these people play with you. Stop
Speaker 1: letting these people play with you. Chocolate AKA Jordan says
Speaker 1: he will be worth the wait. Fucking right, fucking right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my d X king says, do you still have
Speaker 2: the lightsaber?
Speaker 1: Yes? Absolutely, absolutely, just like haul.
Speaker 2: Have been crazy, that wasn't crazy. But yeah, to all.
Speaker 1: My single folks out there, and don't let the streets
Speaker 1: trick you out of your piece, Okay. I want you
Speaker 1: to stay headstrong and devout on your journey. And I
Speaker 1: wish the best for all of you. Summer is coming up,
Speaker 1: and everybody is about show it. Ask literally, okay, hey
Speaker 1: might even be me. I might surely ask Okay, the
Speaker 1: body been bodied, right, But I want you all to
Speaker 1: stay hopeful. That's your person that's coming. I feel like
Speaker 1: we don't see enough of that on our timelines. We don't.
Speaker 2: It's always while women do, while men do.
Speaker 1: And if I want this, yeah, yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: about y'all, but I'm way too overstimulated with that shit.
Speaker 1: So I just want to express some love and let
Speaker 1: y'all know, like yo, to those that have appreciate what
Speaker 1: you have. To those that are still in Q waiting, okay,
Speaker 1: be patient.
Speaker 2: Your person is coming. That's it, and that's all. Listen.
Speaker 1: I feel like this has been a great episode, A
Speaker 1: bit of a short episode. We got some things to do,
Speaker 1: but long story short, I hope from all of this
Speaker 1: you guys have taken in. You don't gotta be loyal,
Speaker 1: you just gotta be tapped in.
Speaker 2: Okay. My message is always gonna be the same.
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Speaker 1: It's going down. I can't wait to see you, guys.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't have an outfit yet.
Speaker 1: But it's coming. It's coming, it's coming.
Speaker 4: It's coming. I know, I know, I know, know, like
Speaker 4: too early for you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it on the thirteenth, probably, but I'm
Speaker 1: hopeful either way, all right, but yeah, man.
Speaker 4: To cub I'm sorry.
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