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<v Speaker 1>Hello, are you okay? What's up? Do you do? You

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<v Speaker 1>need me to come over. I'll be right there. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just hold on, I'll be there. Hey, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I was so worried on the phone. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>sounded calm and everything. Well, I was really worried about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to get here as fast as I could.

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<v Speaker 1>Come here, come here, Come and give me a hook please,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be okay, it's gonna be. Okay, I'm here now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got you. Why don't we go inside and then

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<v Speaker 1>we can talk. Okay, I'll go and get you a drink.

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<v Speaker 1>You go and sit down and I will be right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise is bottled water. Okay, good, because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to have a lot in your fridge. Remind me

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<v Speaker 1>to take your shopping sometime soon. Okay, here you go,

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<v Speaker 1>my lovely Okay, Now tell me what's on your mind,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, what's hard? Everything? I think maybe if you

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it, if you got it out in the

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<v Speaker 1>open with me, you might feel a huge weight lifted

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<v Speaker 1>off your chest. Because with you, I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>like to just bottle it up and keep it inside,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just don't tell anybody how you're feeling. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually so proud of you for phoning me, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>like for really proud. Surely that means you're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me about it, right, Why else would you

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<v Speaker 1>have called me? Okay, And that is what I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I am here to listen to you now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry the stays between us. This is a safe

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<v Speaker 1>place and I'm I'm not trying to sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>therapist or anything. I'm just here as your friend. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you can trust me, I promise. Now tell me what's

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<v Speaker 1>on your mind. Mm hmm yeah, I know. Uh huh no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is good. It's good that you're talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep going, Hey, hey, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Come and give me a hug again. We can talk

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<v Speaker 1>and hug you never know, it might even help with

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<v Speaker 1>no eye contact, it might help you talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>more truthfully. It's okay, it's okay. You stop apologizing. Just

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<v Speaker 1>get it all out. I'm here for you now. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>even think about me. No, I'm fine. Trust me. I

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<v Speaker 1>am here to listen to you and help you get

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<v Speaker 1>through this, and you will. I know you will. I

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<v Speaker 1>just need you to talk to me first. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, take your time, mm hmm. Yeah, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what that can feel like. Yeah, mm hmm. Hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>stop apologizing. Yeah okay, Well, I know that you are

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<v Speaker 1>the strongest person that I have ever met, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know it may feel like everything is just like crashing

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<v Speaker 1>down around you and you feel like there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>heavy burden on your chest like constantly and in no. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that things are hard right now, but they

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<v Speaker 1>will get better. They always do. And no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>you are feeling, you need to know that you are

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<v Speaker 1>not alone. Okay, you are not because you will always

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<v Speaker 1>have me. I'll always be here for you, and so

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<v Speaker 1>will all of the other people in your life who

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<v Speaker 1>care about you. Hey, hey, no, everybody that you know

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<v Speaker 1>cares about you. It's just your mind telling you that

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<v Speaker 1>nobody does. You need to trust me now, because I

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<v Speaker 1>know for a fact that there are people who care.

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<v Speaker 1>I am one of those people. I am living proof. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think I would have come here if I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't care about you, No, because I do. Your brain

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<v Speaker 1>is like programmed to tell you that you're like not

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<v Speaker 1>worth anything, and you're not worth it that one's time.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's all it is. It's your brain thinking that.

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<v Speaker 1>It does not mean that it is factual, because it

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<v Speaker 1>is not. I am telling you that everything that you're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about, all those negative thoughts, they're just thoughts, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all they are. And hey, I know this probably isn't

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<v Speaker 1>really what you want to hear. I know that. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to say that I do love you an

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<v Speaker 1>insane amount. Okay, And if you ever I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 1>your brain right now, not you. So it's okay if

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<v Speaker 1>you switch off, right, but you if you ever do

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<v Speaker 1>anything to hurt them, anything at all, I will come

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I know where you live. It's no secret

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<v Speaker 1>that you live in the most amazing person's head, like

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<v Speaker 1>the most amazing person that I have ever met. And

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<v Speaker 1>they don't deserve anything that you are doing to them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just let them be happy, because that's all they deserve. Please, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you can come back into the room now. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>your brain just had to have a little chat. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But on a serious note, I love you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>could name at least ten other people that feel the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same way that I do. And I know that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't feel it and you don't feel like anyone

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<v Speaker 1>actually is there for you. But trust me, we all are.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know that I am only a phone call away.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you saw how quickly I came here when I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that you were you needed me. That will be

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<v Speaker 1>the case every single time. Whenever you need me, I

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<v Speaker 1>am always here. Like it's breaking my heart to see

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<v Speaker 1>you like this because you deserve nothing the best, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that from the bottom of my heart. You

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<v Speaker 1>are loved. You are worth it, Laurel. I'm so sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't resist. But see, look it got you laughing again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we need. That's what I love to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Your smile is like it brightens up my day. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's what I live for to see you happy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Now the storm will pass. I need you to just

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<v Speaker 1>remember that. Okay, it will get better. I know it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel like it, but there's always downs before those ups. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. Do you feel any better? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I saw you laugh, so that's gonna be something right good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I could help you know. I'll always be

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<v Speaker 1>here whenever you need me, which is why I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go grab whatever snacks you have left in your COVID,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am going to put on your favorite movie

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<v Speaker 1>and we are going to sit here and enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm also not gonna let go of you until

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<v Speaker 1>you tell me to, Okay, I mean obviously once I've

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<v Speaker 1>come back with the snacks and everything, But then we

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<v Speaker 1>are cuddling and I am making you feel better, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>dil Okay good, I'll run and grab the snacks, you

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<v Speaker 1>find the movie, Okay. I love you, h