Speaker 1: And enogy, cancelgem so highs cansage.
Speaker 2: It's not sorry and energy. Let's get something straight, shall we.
Speaker 2: You are not man made, You are God made. That
Speaker 2: means no mere mortal can come for you. No mere
Speaker 2: mortal can destroy you because they did not create you.
Speaker 2: If you want to continue to try to get everyone
Speaker 2: to like you, that is something not even Jesus could do,
Speaker 2: then have fun. But if you're ready to step into
Speaker 2: your empress, your emperor energy, then keep listening, because the
Speaker 2: truth of the matter is I only align with those
Speaker 2: who are ready to claim their throne. You're not listening
Speaker 2: to this by accident. Your soul has signed up to
Speaker 2: hear these words in this moment. The person from our
Speaker 2: own history who is really embodied this energy is Cleopatra.
Speaker 2: She was not out there trying to be liked by everyone.
Speaker 2: She knew she was a legend, and she walked, she talked,
Speaker 2: she acted like it. She acted from her internal compass.
Speaker 2: She did not look around her for other mere mortals
Speaker 2: to tell her how to show up, because she understood
Speaker 2: her connection to the divine. She didn't try to fit
Speaker 2: into a niche. She understood she was the niche. You
Speaker 2: are not meant to fit into a man made niche.
Speaker 2: You are multi dimensional. There are layers to you, and
Speaker 2: there are supposed to be. Cleopatra didn't try to fit
Speaker 2: into any She was beautiful, intellectual, talented, and a goddess.
Speaker 2: She embodied a free couldn't say, and now it's time
Speaker 2: for you to do the same. This episode is truly
Speaker 2: your energetic slap in the face. I'm gonna hold your
Speaker 2: hand and kick your ass. At the same time, you've
Speaker 2: been playing small. You've been tolerating crumbs, be honest with yourself,
Speaker 2: and you've been confusing politeness for power. You weren't born
Speaker 2: to be digestible. In fact, if people can't digest you,
Speaker 2: let them choke. That's not your problem. You were born
Speaker 2: to be unforgettable. Let's talk about what happens when you
Speaker 2: reclaim your throne before we get into it. What's up,
Speaker 2: positive bitches, How are you doing today? If you're hearing
Speaker 2: this episode, then you are meant to be here. So
Speaker 2: keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh.
Speaker 2: Other times, baby, we're gonna cry, but we will always
Speaker 2: walk away feeling our most empowered, positive bitch self. That
Speaker 2: is babe in true connection with herself self or human self.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't care if you're a cucumber. If
Speaker 2: you are here, you're meant to be here. On this podcast,
Speaker 2: we unbecome who we are not so we can fully
Speaker 2: step into exactly who we came here to be. I
Speaker 2: have to give a shout out to one of you
Speaker 2: positive bitches. I recently got a DM that said I
Speaker 2: decided to go celibate while trying to find my person
Speaker 2: because of your posts. Yes, the power I feel is insane,
Speaker 2: self respect unmatched end, it weeds out the losers. Thank you.
Speaker 2: This is for real a movement. Loel never felt more
Speaker 2: in my body and my temple. I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 2: you want to reclaim your throne, reclaim your body as
Speaker 2: your temple. Self love is f boy repellent. Self respect
Speaker 2: is F boyd repellent. Valuing yourself is f boy repellent.
Speaker 2: When you respect yourself, you claim your throne. You step
Speaker 2: into the embodiment of Cleopatra. Be prepared for your king
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Speaker 2: Cleopatra did not chase approval. She wasn't concerned with the
Speaker 2: mere mortals of the planet. She was plugged into her
Speaker 2: divine purpose. She looked to the Divine for answers, not
Speaker 2: to Brad Clock that the only thing different between you
Speaker 2: and Cleopatra is she understood her inherent connection to the divine,
Speaker 2: and you're still choosing to believe in the illusion that
Speaker 2: you're just some humble bumble human. That's the only difference.
Speaker 2: If you want to embody the same frequency, the same
Speaker 2: energy as Cleopatra, you have to decide to remember who
Speaker 2: you really are. You have to decide that what's going
Speaker 2: to tell you to go right or left isn't the
Speaker 2: mere mortals. It's not Brad, it's the Divine. This episode
Speaker 2: is for the people who are done begging, done shrinking,
Speaker 2: done waiting to be chosen. You already incarnated on this planet,
Speaker 2: which means the Divine chose for you to be here
Speaker 2: during this time. You already incarnated on this planet. Which
Speaker 2: means you chose to be here during this time. You
Speaker 2: chose to condense yourself into three D form. Hello, You're
Speaker 2: already chosen, Brad or Chad choosing you is not that
Speaker 2: big of a deal when you have already been chosen
Speaker 2: by the divine. We are breaking down how Cleopatrins inspired
Speaker 2: the most powerful men in history. Not with her looks,
Speaker 2: not with trying to play games, okay, not with trying
Speaker 2: to be the black cat. She inspired the most powerful
Speaker 2: men in history with her mind, her energy, and her
Speaker 2: unapologetic self worth. You're gonna understand in this episode why
Speaker 2: you're attracting disrespectful behaviors from other people, and you're going
Speaker 2: to learn how to shift your energetic broadcast so you
Speaker 2: can attract better partners, and what it means to walk
Speaker 2: into a room allready crowned. Let's get into it. You
Speaker 2: were not born for a niche. You were born for
Speaker 2: a throne. And the way to sit upon your throne
Speaker 2: isn't for someone to appoint you. It's not for someone
Speaker 2: to give you permission. It's not for someone else to
Speaker 2: tell you, you know what you really are worthy and
Speaker 2: valuable in order to claim your pedestal your throne. You
Speaker 2: have to decide that it's yours. It's an internal decision.
Speaker 2: It's an internal decision where you finally are fed up
Speaker 2: with the low quality experiences you have been having and
Speaker 2: you say, I am divine royalty, I am already chosen,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to choose how I'm gonna play this game.
Speaker 2: I'm going to choose how my reality is going to unfold.
Speaker 2: You are the main character in your reality, because your
Speaker 2: reality is stemming from your own self concepts. If you
Speaker 2: think you're a piece of shits, well, then you're going
Speaker 2: to manifest experiences where you constantly feel quite shitty. It's
Speaker 2: up to you to say, you know what, I'm unsubscribing
Speaker 2: from that narrative and instead, I'm going to claim my throne.
Speaker 2: I am the main character. I am already crowned. I
Speaker 2: am I am already worthy of positive experiences. An affirmation
Speaker 2: I personally love is I am whole, perfect, harmonious, and complete.
Speaker 2: I am whole, perfect, harmonious, and complete. I am whole, perfect, harmonious,
Speaker 2: and complete. You don't need to wait for someone outside
Speaker 2: of yourself to validate you, to thrown you, to crown you,
Speaker 2: to complete you. When you do that, you're going to
Speaker 2: constantly be waiting on your reality to prove to you
Speaker 2: that you're worthy. You're living by effect when you need
Speaker 2: to live by cause. When you live by effect, you
Speaker 2: wait for things outside of yourself to validate you. When
Speaker 2: you live by cause, you say, actually, I'm the one
Speaker 2: who's going to create my reality. I am not going
Speaker 2: to face reality. I'm going to create it. I'm going
Speaker 2: to remain remember the low correspondence as above, soul below.
Speaker 2: My internal reality will always be reflected back to me
Speaker 2: in my external Your external reality is just a simulation
Speaker 2: based on your own beliefs, based on your own decisions.
Speaker 2: A niche asks where do I fit in? Where do
Speaker 2: I have to shrink myself? Where do I have to
Speaker 2: mute myself? A throne asked, where do I want to
Speaker 2: lead today? Where do I want to go? How do
Speaker 2: I want to decide? The world is my oyster? I'm
Speaker 2: so excited. The world is my menu. I'll choose what
Speaker 2: I want. You're asking yourself the wrong question, So how
Speaker 2: can you ever get to the right answers? Stop asking
Speaker 2: where do I fit in? How can I fit in?
Speaker 2: And start asking how can I lead my own reality?
Speaker 2: How can I be a conscious creator of my own reality.
Speaker 2: When you shape shift to be liked, you leak your power.
Speaker 2: When you shape shift, you manipulate yourself. You try to
Speaker 2: hide parts of your personality in order to be accepted
Speaker 2: by mere mortals who are so insecure anyway, you leak
Speaker 2: your power. You're living by effect, not by cause. Women
Speaker 2: who are constantly being disrespected don't have a man problem.
Speaker 2: They have a self worth pattern. You fundamentally don't believe
Speaker 2: that you are worthy of more. Now I'm gonna hold
Speaker 2: your hand. I understand that maybe you have had experiences
Speaker 2: where people told you that you weren't enough. I understand
Speaker 2: that maybe you had experiences where people made you feel
Speaker 2: like you were nothing. I understand you may have had
Speaker 2: experiences where people did not put respect on your name.
Speaker 2: And you know what, forget them? Are you going to
Speaker 2: continuously live for them and wait for that mere mortal
Speaker 2: to someday wake up and realize who you are. That's
Speaker 2: not their job. In fact, they are showing you that
Speaker 2: this is actually an invitation for you to not live
Speaker 2: by the hands of other people and for you to
Speaker 2: instead live by your own authority. Step onto your own
Speaker 2: red carpet, Sit on your own throne, crown yourself. Sometimes
Speaker 2: I go into the ocean and I literally rebaptize myself
Speaker 2: because who even baptized me when I was a baby?
Speaker 2: I don't even consent to that. I don't even know that. Man,
Speaker 2: who are you? I rebaptize myself in the name of me,
Speaker 2: because this is my incarnation and this is my life,
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna live how I want, hurting no one,
Speaker 2: respect to all, leading with love, but taking no shit.
Speaker 2: You aren't being disrespected repeatedly because there's something wrong with you,
Speaker 2: because you're ugly, because you're not good enough. You're being
Speaker 2: disrespected repeatedly simply because you tolerate it, simply because you
Speaker 2: allow it. Whatever you allow will be, whatever you allow
Speaker 2: you amplify. Your life is the standard that you set.
Speaker 2: Your life is whatever you're willing to tolerate. I had
Speaker 2: German titis on my face for two years, and I
Speaker 2: at some moments almost accepted that as whatever. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I went to like five different doctors. No one could
Speaker 2: figure it out. But I said to myself, you know what,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna live like this. I'm not gonna live
Speaker 2: with a rash on my face every day just because
Speaker 2: these doctors quite frankly, don't know what they're doing. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna keep going from doctor to doctor, to doctor, to
Speaker 2: doctor to doctor, to researching to TikTok to instrogra. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna figure this out. And eventually I had an allergy test.
Speaker 2: I was allergic to all mens and I didn't know that,
Speaker 2: and then I healed my skin. But if I would
Speaker 2: have given up, then that would have been the reality
Speaker 2: that I consented to, that would have been the reality
Speaker 2: that I accepted. That would have been the reality that
Speaker 2: I subscribed to. But I said, no, do not consent,
Speaker 2: do not allow, do not tolerate what you don't want
Speaker 2: to receive. Think about Cleopatra. When someone came into her
Speaker 2: kingdom and disrespected her, she did not allow that to
Speaker 2: dictate her emotions. She didn't freak out, She said, interesting,
Speaker 2: off with their head. She stayed sitting pretty on her throne.
Speaker 2: She did not get lost in the sauce of being triggered.
Speaker 2: She sat, she decided, she stayed poised, and she moved accordingly.
Speaker 2: When someone does mean dirty, I say, noted. But they
Speaker 2: do not have the privilege of dictating my emotions. They
Speaker 2: do not have the privilege of telling me how I'm
Speaker 2: going to feel. Would Cleopatra allow a fool to dictate
Speaker 2: how she's going to show up? Absolutely not. So why
Speaker 2: are you when you yourself are divine royalty? That tells
Speaker 2: me that you're going to allow dishres That tells me
Speaker 2: you're not sitting on your own throne. And the beautiful, magical,
Speaker 2: mystical part of this all is it's not about them.
Speaker 2: It's just about what are you going to allow? You
Speaker 2: can shift your reality. You can change your reality when
Speaker 2: you say I am no longer available to this person's chaos.
Speaker 2: I am no longer available to fools dictating how I'm
Speaker 2: going to feel. But I'm not going to ignore them.
Speaker 2: I'm going to note this, I'm going to move accordingly
Speaker 2: and remove them from my orbit. If you're being continuously disrespected,
Speaker 2: it's because you're tolerating it. Speak up for yourself, remove yourself,
Speaker 2: remove them. But you do not just settle in chaos
Speaker 2: that you were never meant to exist within. See people
Speaker 2: for who they are and remove them accordingly. You don't
Speaker 2: have a man problem. You don't have a woman problem.
Speaker 2: You have a self worth pattern. You need to up
Speaker 2: the price on your worth. You need to remember who
Speaker 2: you are. You need to shift your self concept. That's
Speaker 2: why I wrote my book Show Up as Her. You
Speaker 2: need to remember who you are and then show up
Speaker 2: as her every single day. And I give you a
Speaker 2: whole entire formula on how to do that in my
Speaker 2: book Show Up as Her. If you do not have it,
Speaker 2: you're simply missing out. Clea Patra's energy was mindset before makeup.
Speaker 2: I am such a girl girl, Okay. I love the makeup,
Speaker 2: I love the hair, I love the nails, I love
Speaker 2: the outfits, I love the jewelry. But I am nothing
Speaker 2: without priming my mindset first, because there are times where
Speaker 2: I would look to perfection. But I was in a
Speaker 2: bad energy. I was in a bad mood, and I
Speaker 2: saw how my reality would reject me because I was
Speaker 2: rejecting myself. I was rejecting the present moment. I was
Speaker 2: rejecting my own joy and allowing my past, which isn't
Speaker 2: even real anymore, to continuously dictate my emotion. The realest
Speaker 2: thing you have is this present moment, because in the
Speaker 2: present is your power. In the present is where you're
Speaker 2: coding your reality. In the present is where you can
Speaker 2: shift your emotions to then shift your external result. Your
Speaker 2: power is in the present, your throne is in the present.
Speaker 2: How are you showing up? Are you showing up as her?
Speaker 2: Are you showing up as your Cleopat, yourself, your royal
Speaker 2: divine self? Or are you allowing mere mortals, the fools
Speaker 2: of the planet, to dictate how you are showing up?
Speaker 2: Cleopatra was so amazing. She spoke nine languages, she was
Speaker 2: educated in astronomy, in philosophy, and she ruled a nation
Speaker 2: by eighteen. She did not perform being feminine. She wielded
Speaker 2: it like a weapon. Feminine energy is very sensitive, not
Speaker 2: like a flower, like a bomb, like a bomb. I
Speaker 2: recently had to tell someone I am very compassionate, very graceful,
Speaker 2: very sweet until you disrespect me. Then all of my
Speaker 2: compassion brings out like a tavel, because now you've crossed
Speaker 2: a line. Now you're showing me you're not allowed to
Speaker 2: be close in my orbit. The people who are able
Speaker 2: to affect my emotions are people I deeply love, people
Speaker 2: who are very close to me, my family, my good friends,
Speaker 2: those who I enter into relationship with. But as soon
Speaker 2: as you show me you can't be trusted as soon
Speaker 2: as you show me you're gonna disrespect me. You no
Speaker 2: longer have the privilege to have any say to have
Speaker 2: any effect on my emotional state. Okay, And that's when
Speaker 2: I show up like I'm in hr. That's when it
Speaker 2: goes from emotional sweetness to now we're talking business, and
Speaker 2: I stand on business. I stand on business. And that
Speaker 2: is when you're only going to see the capricorn part
Speaker 2: of me, because I will become a killer in the night.
Speaker 2: I don't know how else to say that. I recently
Speaker 2: read that people often forget that the goddesses of love
Speaker 2: are also the goddesses of war. As soon as you
Speaker 2: disrespect me, Okay, now it's duly noted. And I'm going
Speaker 2: to place you into the category into the bucket of
Speaker 2: the fool. And I'm not going to talk to you
Speaker 2: like a peer. I'm going to talk to you like
Speaker 2: a fool, and you will not have a say in
Speaker 2: how I show up. You're not going to have any
Speaker 2: effect on my emotional standpoint, because why would I allow
Speaker 2: a fool to do that? If you can't see my value,
Speaker 2: you must be a fool. And I will act in
Speaker 2: accordance to your new bucket Cleopatra did not try to
Speaker 2: dumb herself down, did not try to dim her light.
Speaker 2: She did not try to act like she didn't know
Speaker 2: everything she knew. She actually really allowed her knowledge to
Speaker 2: be a huge part of her She let all of
Speaker 2: herself shine. A fire does not explain itself, It just burns.
Speaker 2: The sun does not ask permission to shine, It just shines.
Speaker 2: I you, divine royal beings do not try to make
Speaker 2: themselves smaller, digestible. They do not try to hide parts
Speaker 2: of themselves, because that will then create shadows that will
Speaker 2: haunt you forever. Cleopatra did not wait to be chosen
Speaker 2: by Caesar or by mark Antony because she was pretty,
Speaker 2: because she needed to be chosen, because she needed to
Speaker 2: be validated. She was simply unforgettable, undeniable. You cannot wait
Speaker 2: around for mere mortals to value you respect. You tell
Speaker 2: you that you're worthy. That is an internal decision you
Speaker 2: must make, and then other people are going to see it.
Speaker 2: But you are living completely backwards. Cleo Patrick didn't wait
Speaker 2: for Caesar or mark Antony to applaud her, to say
Speaker 2: she's so worthy, she's so talented, she's so smart. She
Speaker 2: showed up in her frequency in her power, already crowned.
Speaker 2: She was unforgettable. She was undeniable because she simply was
Speaker 2: anchored in herself, because she knew she was brilliant, and
Speaker 2: she let that brilliance shine. She knew she was strategic,
Speaker 2: and she let that shine. She knew she was beautiful,
Speaker 2: and she let that shine. She knew she was seductive.
Speaker 2: She knew her feminine energy power, and she let it shine.
Speaker 2: She knew her connection to divinity, and she let it shine.
Speaker 2: Caesar did not have the same as she did. She
Speaker 2: was much more spiritual, She was much more tuned in
Speaker 2: to isis. She was much more tuned into astronomy the
Speaker 2: stars than Caesar was. He was not thinking like that
Speaker 2: at all. But she did not try to say, Oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: you're right, it's dumb. I should think more like you.
Speaker 2: I should hide that part of myself. Maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2: She said, no, Actually, this is everything I've learned. This
Speaker 2: is actually how it's going to help you. This is
Speaker 2: how my presence in your life is going to uplift you.
Speaker 2: She was right along Caesar, being his equal, and a
Speaker 2: lot of people around Caesar did not like her because
Speaker 2: of this fact. They didn't like a woman in power.
Speaker 2: Did she cower? Did she get scared? No, when people
Speaker 2: were out to kill her, she thought back. When people
Speaker 2: didn't like her, she stayed tuned into the divine. She never,
Speaker 2: not once dethroned herself. And that's what I see from
Speaker 2: a lot of us. You see how people react to you,
Speaker 2: and when they don't automatically like you, you dethrone yourself. You
Speaker 2: take off your crown and you hand it out like
Speaker 2: you are some humble tumbleweed. And that is ridiculous. That
Speaker 2: is ridiculous. Stop it, Stop it. She did not allow
Speaker 2: herself to just be treated as a trophy, because she
Speaker 2: knew that she herself was a frequency. Your standard casts
Speaker 2: a spell for your reality. The way you treat yourself
Speaker 2: cast a spell for the relationships you have with other people.
Speaker 2: Cleopatra respected herself. She respected every layer of herself, not
Speaker 2: just her knowledge, not just her body, not just her beauty,
Speaker 2: not just her divine, feminine energy and her connectedness to
Speaker 2: the divine. She respected every single inch of herself, and
Speaker 2: to the most powerful men in history also re expected her,
Speaker 2: also chose her. Let's get this straight, though, did Caesar
Speaker 2: and Mark Anthony choose her first? Or did she choose
Speaker 2: herself first. She chose herself first. She chose herself first,
Speaker 2: and then this was mirrored back to her in her reality.
Speaker 2: Because men aren't our enemy, they are our mirror. Your
Speaker 2: self respect is energetic. It's basically tattooed on your forehead.
Speaker 2: People feel when you value yourself, and they will rise
Speaker 2: to meet you. People also feel when you don't value yourself,
Speaker 2: and they will take advantage of that, and they will
Speaker 2: disrespect you too. It's human nature that people take the
Speaker 2: easy way out. People will take advantage of you. If
Speaker 2: you are the doormat, you have to decide to instead
Speaker 2: become your own dream girl. This is not a threat,
Speaker 2: but an invitation for you to rise so you can
Speaker 2: raise not only your standard but the results that you
Speaker 2: get in your reality. When you accept bad behavior, your
Speaker 2: standard is low. You open yourself up for low quality experiences.
Speaker 2: Why would you hurt yourself like that when you're getting disrespected,
Speaker 2: It's because you are disrespecting yourself by hanging around that person,
Speaker 2: by allowing them to step all over you, and by
Speaker 2: continuously choosing to spend time with them when you know
Speaker 2: they are not good for you. You might allow in
Speaker 2: disrespectful people because you were disrespected by your caregivers, You
Speaker 2: were disrespected by your peers growing up, so all you
Speaker 2: know is disrespect. But it doesn't matter what you know.
Speaker 2: It matters what you decide in this present moment on
Speaker 2: how you're going to move forward ef everything you've experienced.
Speaker 2: It no longer matters when you decide to show up
Speaker 2: as her matters when you just decide differently. As soon
Speaker 2: as you decide differently, you quantum leap onto a different
Speaker 2: timeline because you are no longer deciding as you once were.
Speaker 2: It's as simple as a decision. What do you decide?
Speaker 2: What do you decide? You do not attract what you wish.
Speaker 2: You do not attract what you would love to experience.
Speaker 2: You simply attract what you are, what you accept, what
Speaker 2: you're willing to tolerate. Your reality is being reflected from
Speaker 2: an internal space of your own beliefs and your own standards.
Speaker 2: Your relationships with other people will be a mirror for
Speaker 2: how you have a relationship with yourself. If you're disrespecting
Speaker 2: yourself because you are sleeping with people sooner than you
Speaker 2: would like to, they're gonna disrespect you too. If you
Speaker 2: ghost your needs, your wants, your desires. They're gonna ghost
Speaker 2: your needs, your wants and desires to If you are
Speaker 2: harsh on your own self, then they are going to
Speaker 2: continuously be harsh on you too. You have to shift
Speaker 2: how you're viewing yourself. You are not this broken down person.
Speaker 2: You are not what you have experienced. You are simply
Speaker 2: what you decide to be in this moment, right here,
Speaker 2: right now. What do you decide? What do you want
Speaker 2: to do? This is your game? How do you want
Speaker 2: to play it? It's not about where you've been. It's
Speaker 2: not about what you've tolerated, because it doesn't matter what
Speaker 2: you tolerated yesterday. What do you want to tolerate today?
Speaker 2: What do you want to allow today? It doesn't matter
Speaker 2: who thinks they know you. Who do you want to
Speaker 2: be today? It's your decision. How do you want to play?
Speaker 2: There's a very popular affirmation, I don't chase, I choose,
Speaker 2: But my question is what are you choosing? Are you
Speaker 2: choosing the same patterns that you had yesterday? Are you
Speaker 2: choosing to allow disrespect? Are you choosing to allow low
Speaker 2: quality experiences? Or are you choosing your self? Are you
Speaker 2: choosing your throne? Are you choosing your crown? And I
Speaker 2: know it's not always easy. I know we create emotional
Speaker 2: soul ties to people. I know we really love people,
Speaker 2: and it hurts. It's disappointing when they can't show up
Speaker 2: for us, when they can't choose us, when they can't
Speaker 2: love us. If they can't choose, you, choose your self.
Speaker 2: If they can't love you, love yourself. If they cannot
Speaker 2: show up for you, you have to show up for yourself.
Speaker 2: I'm not taking it away from you that it's hard.
Speaker 2: I'm not taking it away from you that it's disappointing.
Speaker 2: You think I don't know that disappointment. I was in
Speaker 2: a seven year relationship. Please please, I understand that if
Speaker 2: they cannot give you what you need and what you want,
Speaker 2: that's all the more reason for you to give it
Speaker 2: to yourself. I don't chase, I choose, But what are
Speaker 2: you choosing? Are you choosing self respect? Because when you
Speaker 2: do that, you're going to feel so much better. The
Speaker 2: beautiful positive bitch that DM me saying, you know, I
Speaker 2: started practicing abstinence, I stopped allowing just anyone to have
Speaker 2: my body, my energy, And she's saying, I feel better
Speaker 2: than ever. I feel more empowered than ever. Of course
Speaker 2: you do, because when you decide not to just give
Speaker 2: your energy to anyone, that is energetic mastery. This is
Speaker 2: not about shaming yourself or your sexuality or limitation. This
Speaker 2: is about energetic mastery learning how to use your focus
Speaker 2: and your intention and attention to create a life you
Speaker 2: actually want to live within. It's about learning how to
Speaker 2: put up boundaries with energies that you don't even consent
Speaker 2: to having around you. If people are half showing up
Speaker 2: for you, check in with how you're showing up for yourself.
Speaker 2: If people are being inconsistent with you, are you being
Speaker 2: inconsistent with yourself? If people are ghosting you, are you
Speaker 2: ghosting yourself? I give you many journal prompts in my
Speaker 2: book show Up as Her, if you would like more
Speaker 2: of these. I recently had a download that the best
Speaker 2: way to shock yourself into a new behavior is to
Speaker 2: experience a behavior that you have through another person. I
Speaker 2: can be quite cut throat sometimes, and not in a
Speaker 2: way that I'm just being my authentic self. No, it's
Speaker 2: just cutthroat, and I experience being on the other side
Speaker 2: of that. And after that, I said, Okay, Universe, I
Speaker 2: see you. I now understand what it is to experience
Speaker 2: this not from my point of view, but being on
Speaker 2: the other side of it, and I'm going to change that.
Speaker 2: The best way to learn and what we need to
Speaker 2: shift is by experiencing it in our three D reality.
Speaker 2: Your three D reality is your mirror, it's your teacher.
Speaker 2: It's showing you your own behaviors mirror through other people,
Speaker 2: and it's going to do that in a myriad of ways. So,
Speaker 2: if you really hate an addictive behavior in someone else,
Speaker 2: ask yourself, where may I be allowing myself to be
Speaker 2: addictive to maladaptive coping mechanisms that maybe aren't really the
Speaker 2: best for me. If you don't like that someone's being
Speaker 2: inconsistent with you, ask yourself, how may I be inconsistent
Speaker 2: with my own habits or my career or my self
Speaker 2: love journey that I really need to tune back into.
Speaker 2: Your energetic universe is not going to lie to you.
Speaker 2: So it's either showing you a behavior that you have,
Speaker 2: trying to invite you to expand or teach you something.
Speaker 2: It's up for you to decode. The pattern external disrespect
Speaker 2: is often internal self abandonment playing out in the public sphere.
Speaker 2: Take a breath, digest that I know. I'll say it again.
Speaker 2: External disrespect is often internal self abandonment playing out in
Speaker 2: the public sphere. Ooh, and I'm getting ringing in my ear.
Speaker 2: Confirmation on the right side. Hello, That is your masculine
Speaker 2: energy side. Masculine energy is all about really creating a
Speaker 2: structure in your life to make sure that you are
Speaker 2: creating safety for yourself. Now, maybe you're thinking CC, but
Speaker 2: I really like this person. They're good fifty percent of
Speaker 2: the time. Okay, well you can get someone who's good
Speaker 2: one hundred percent of the time. How about that. You
Speaker 2: cannot lose. You can only upgrade. You cannot lose. You
Speaker 2: can only upgrade. But the upgrade starts with how you
Speaker 2: treat you, what you're willing to allow, what you're willing
Speaker 2: to accept. The upgrade starts with you removing those who
Speaker 2: you know are simply not able to me you where
Speaker 2: you're at. They're not able to rise to your frequency.
Speaker 2: The highest standard I hold for anyone in my life
Speaker 2: is myself, because I know that my relationship to myself
Speaker 2: will be mirrored back to me. Now I've had a
Speaker 2: really long journey with this, so it used to be
Speaker 2: very critical. Now I've transmuted this relationship more into self devotion.
Speaker 2: When I used to work out, I would be mean
Speaker 2: to myself. You have to go harder because you don't
Speaker 2: look like this. You have to do more because you
Speaker 2: don't look like this. And now I've really transitioned into
Speaker 2: I love the fact I can show up and do
Speaker 2: this workout. This is a self devotional act. This is
Speaker 2: for me and me only. I have wanted to be
Speaker 2: fit since I was a little girl. This is an
Speaker 2: act of devotion for me, a gift to myself. Instead
Speaker 2: of me having a high standard out of criticism, I
Speaker 2: have a high standard out of self devotion. I came
Speaker 2: all the way down the planet Earth and incarnated here.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to settle because I deserve the best.
Speaker 2: I came all the way down to planet Earth and
Speaker 2: incarnated here. I'm going to give myself everything I've always wanted,
Speaker 2: and I'm only going to allow the best, best experiences
Speaker 2: because that's what I deserve. That is what as a
Speaker 2: little girl I've always wanted. Of course, I'm going to
Speaker 2: give that to myself. If you don't treat yourself well
Speaker 2: with love and respect, who's going to Who's going to?
Speaker 2: You have to do it first, You have to start
Speaker 2: shifting your relationship to yourself. You have to see yourself
Speaker 2: this new self concept. Update the self concept, new phone,
Speaker 2: who is okay? Update the self concept to that of
Speaker 2: your truest self, which is a divine royal being, queen
Speaker 2: and king. Energy is not about being loud, it's about lasting.
Speaker 2: Cleopatra didn't have fifteen minutes of fame. She wasn't trying
Speaker 2: to be the loudest person in the room. She didn't
Speaker 2: go viral. She is simply eternal. It's giving Christ's consciousness energy.
Speaker 2: Her name is still whispered two thousand plus years later
Speaker 2: because her presence, her energy made history. And you have
Speaker 2: the same ability that Cleopatra had. You don't need to
Speaker 2: beg or to yell or to scream to be felt.
Speaker 2: You just need to stop apologizing for taking up space.
Speaker 2: You just have to stop disrespecting yourself by allowing disrespectful
Speaker 2: beings near you. You just have to stop dimming your
Speaker 2: light so you can just shine. Stop explaining yourself and
Speaker 2: let your energy just be felt. You are not too much.
Speaker 2: You're just finally full of yourself. And that's the point.
Speaker 2: You're full of all the different energies you embody. You're
Speaker 2: full of your light and you're dark. You're full of
Speaker 2: all of your traits. You're full of your energy, and
Speaker 2: that is the most beautiful thing you can do. People,
Speaker 2: I swear we'll try to convince you that you being
Speaker 2: you is the worst thing that you can do, That
Speaker 2: you being full of yourself is somehow bad. That's matrix programming.
Speaker 2: Matrix programming. Okay. They want to honeycomb you. They want
Speaker 2: to fragment your little energy so you're not standing in
Speaker 2: all of your power. They want to honeycomb you so
Speaker 2: that you are a fragmented being scared. That's not what
Speaker 2: you came here to do. You came here to not
Speaker 2: just yell, but to be ever lasting, because that's your
Speaker 2: true soul essence is ever lasting. You came here to
Speaker 2: be felt, you came here to be experienced, and you
Speaker 2: came here to leave a legacy. And the way you
Speaker 2: do that is by fine tuning your attention to that
Speaker 2: which you want to grow, by placing yourself on your
Speaker 2: own throne, acting at cause, not at effect, remembering who
Speaker 2: you are and living in your energy rather than allowing
Speaker 2: others to dictate how you must show up. We all
Speaker 2: have a Cleopatra within us, and when you're not sure
Speaker 2: what to do, just ask yourself, what would Cleopatra do?
Speaker 2: I want to leave you with an activation affirmation. Repeat
Speaker 2: after me. I set the tone for how I am treated.
Speaker 2: I set the tone for how I am treated. I
Speaker 2: set the tone for how I am treated. My love,
Speaker 2: it is time to stop complaining and start raining. It
Speaker 2: is your moment. It is your time. There's never been
Speaker 2: a better present than right now for you to claim
Speaker 2: your crown. As always, sparkle and me honors of sparkling you.
Speaker 2: If this podcast resonated with you, please leave a positive
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Speaker 2: to me and it helps this podcast grow. That is
Speaker 2: an intention of mine. Share this with your friends, your family,
Speaker 2: anyone you believe needs it. Let's help our sisters and
Speaker 2: brothers as we raise a vibration of this planet. If
Speaker 2: you want one on one coaching by me, I would
Speaker 2: love and be honored to be your intuitive guide. Just
Speaker 2: DM me on Instagram at vibe in with CC. You
Speaker 2: can find this link in the show notes and I
Speaker 2: will see you in the next one.
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