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<v Speaker 1>And enogy, cancelgem so highs cansage.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not sorry and energy. Let's get something straight, shall we.

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<v Speaker 2>You are not man made, You are God made. That

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<v Speaker 2>means no mere mortal can come for you. No mere

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<v Speaker 2>mortal can destroy you because they did not create you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to continue to try to get everyone

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<v Speaker 2>to like you, that is something not even Jesus could do,

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<v Speaker 2>then have fun. But if you're ready to step into

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<v Speaker 2>your empress, your emperor energy, then keep listening, because the

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<v Speaker 2>truth of the matter is I only align with those

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<v Speaker 2>who are ready to claim their throne. You're not listening

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<v Speaker 2>to this by accident. Your soul has signed up to

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<v Speaker 2>hear these words in this moment. The person from our

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<v Speaker 2>own history who is really embodied this energy is Cleopatra.

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<v Speaker 2>She was not out there trying to be liked by everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>She knew she was a legend, and she walked, she talked,

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<v Speaker 2>she acted like it. She acted from her internal compass.

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<v Speaker 2>She did not look around her for other mere mortals

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<v Speaker 2>to tell her how to show up, because she understood

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<v Speaker 2>her connection to the divine. She didn't try to fit

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<v Speaker 2>into a niche. She understood she was the niche. You

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<v Speaker 2>are not meant to fit into a man made niche.

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<v Speaker 2>You are multi dimensional. There are layers to you, and

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<v Speaker 2>there are supposed to be. Cleopatra didn't try to fit

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<v Speaker 2>into any She was beautiful, intellectual, talented, and a goddess.

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<v Speaker 2>She embodied a free couldn't say, and now it's time

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<v Speaker 2>for you to do the same. This episode is truly

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<v Speaker 2>your energetic slap in the face. I'm gonna hold your

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<v Speaker 2>hand and kick your ass. At the same time, you've

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<v Speaker 2>been playing small. You've been tolerating crumbs, be honest with yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've been confusing politeness for power. You weren't born

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<v Speaker 2>to be digestible. In fact, if people can't digest you,

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<v Speaker 2>let them choke. That's not your problem. You were born

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<v Speaker 2>to be unforgettable. Let's talk about what happens when you

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<v Speaker 2>reclaim your throne before we get into it. What's up,

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<v Speaker 2>positive bitches, How are you doing today? If you're hearing

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<v Speaker 2>this episode, then you are meant to be here. So

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<v Speaker 2>keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Other times, baby, we're gonna cry, but we will always

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<v Speaker 2>walk away feeling our most empowered, positive bitch self. That

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<v Speaker 2>is babe in true connection with herself self or human self.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't care if you're a cucumber. If

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<v Speaker 2>you are here, you're meant to be here. On this podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>we unbecome who we are not so we can fully

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<v Speaker 2>step into exactly who we came here to be. I

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<v Speaker 2>have to give a shout out to one of you

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<v Speaker 2>positive bitches. I recently got a DM that said I

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<v Speaker 2>decided to go celibate while trying to find my person

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<v Speaker 2>because of your posts. Yes, the power I feel is insane,

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<v Speaker 2>self respect unmatched end, it weeds out the losers. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is for real a movement. Loel never felt more

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<v Speaker 2>in my body and my temple. I'm telling you right now,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to reclaim your throne, reclaim your body as

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<v Speaker 2>your temple. Self love is f boy repellent. Self respect

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<v Speaker 2>is F boyd repellent. Valuing yourself is f boy repellent.

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<v Speaker 2>When you respect yourself, you claim your throne. You step

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<v Speaker 2>into the embodiment of Cleopatra. Be prepared for your king

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<v Speaker 2>to come on in. Be prepared to receive your match

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<v Speaker 2>in royal energy. You're gonna love this podcast, and if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to take it up a notch, you can

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<v Speaker 2>join the Pedestal Path course where you will learn how

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<v Speaker 2>to up level your self worth and therefore attract better relationships,

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<v Speaker 2>feel better in your own skin, and magnetize your aura.

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<v Speaker 2>When you walk into the room, all eyes are going

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<v Speaker 2>to be on you. After you take this Pedestal Path course,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to fine tune your frequency and therefore shift

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<v Speaker 2>your reality. There are over four hours of teachings from me,

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<v Speaker 2>two workbooks, meditations, and so much more. You know what

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<v Speaker 2>the definition of insane is, so don't keep allowing yourself

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<v Speaker 2>to repeat patterns when you came to claim your pedestal.

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<v Speaker 2>The Pedestal Path is available now and the link will

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<v Speaker 2>be in the show notes. If you're looking for one

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<v Speaker 2>on one coaching, I'm a certified Life and Energy coach

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm a RIKI practitioner. I offer one on one

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<v Speaker 2>sessions all over Zoom to help you step onto your

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<v Speaker 2>most magnetic timeline, shift your self concept, and once again

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<v Speaker 2>magnetize that aura. You can DM me on Instagram at

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<v Speaker 2>vibeinwo CC. The link will be in the show notes.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a plethora of courses. Whether you're going through

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<v Speaker 2>a breakup or you need help understanding why you keep

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<v Speaker 2>seeing one one one. You can see all of my

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<v Speaker 2>workbooks as well as my courses. Link is in the

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<v Speaker 2>show notes, and if you've not yet gotten your copy

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<v Speaker 2>of Show Up as Her, be sure to get that.

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<v Speaker 2>Cleopatra did not chase approval. She wasn't concerned with the

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<v Speaker 2>mere mortals of the planet. She was plugged into her

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<v Speaker 2>divine purpose. She looked to the Divine for answers, not

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<v Speaker 2>to Brad Clock that the only thing different between you

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<v Speaker 2>and Cleopatra is she understood her inherent connection to the divine,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're still choosing to believe in the illusion that

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<v Speaker 2>you're just some humble bumble human. That's the only difference.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to embody the same frequency, the same

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<v Speaker 2>energy as Cleopatra, you have to decide to remember who

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<v Speaker 2>you really are. You have to decide that what's going

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you to go right or left isn't the

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<v Speaker 2>mere mortals. It's not Brad, it's the Divine. This episode

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<v Speaker 2>is for the people who are done begging, done shrinking,

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<v Speaker 2>done waiting to be chosen. You already incarnated on this planet,

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<v Speaker 2>which means the Divine chose for you to be here

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<v Speaker 2>during this time. You already incarnated on this planet. Which

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<v Speaker 2>means you chose to be here during this time. You

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<v Speaker 2>chose to condense yourself into three D form. Hello, You're

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<v Speaker 2>already chosen, Brad or Chad choosing you is not that

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<v Speaker 2>big of a deal when you have already been chosen

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<v Speaker 2>by the divine. We are breaking down how Cleopatrins inspired

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<v Speaker 2>the most powerful men in history. Not with her looks,

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<v Speaker 2>not with trying to play games, okay, not with trying

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<v Speaker 2>to be the black cat. She inspired the most powerful

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<v Speaker 2>men in history with her mind, her energy, and her

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<v Speaker 2>unapologetic self worth. You're gonna understand in this episode why

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<v Speaker 2>you're attracting disrespectful behaviors from other people, and you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to learn how to shift your energetic broadcast so you

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<v Speaker 2>can attract better partners, and what it means to walk

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<v Speaker 2>into a room allready crowned. Let's get into it. You

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<v Speaker 2>were not born for a niche. You were born for

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<v Speaker 2>a throne. And the way to sit upon your throne

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<v Speaker 2>isn't for someone to appoint you. It's not for someone

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<v Speaker 2>to give you permission. It's not for someone else to

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<v Speaker 2>tell you, you know what you really are worthy and

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<v Speaker 2>valuable in order to claim your pedestal your throne. You

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<v Speaker 2>have to decide that it's yours. It's an internal decision.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an internal decision where you finally are fed up

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<v Speaker 2>with the low quality experiences you have been having and

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<v Speaker 2>you say, I am divine royalty, I am already chosen,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm going to choose how I'm gonna play this game.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to choose how my reality is going to unfold.

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<v Speaker 2>You are the main character in your reality, because your

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<v Speaker 2>reality is stemming from your own self concepts. If you

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<v Speaker 2>think you're a piece of shits, well, then you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to manifest experiences where you constantly feel quite shitty. It's

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<v Speaker 2>up to you to say, you know what, I'm unsubscribing

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<v Speaker 2>from that narrative and instead, I'm going to claim my throne.

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<v Speaker 2>I am the main character. I am already crowned. I

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<v Speaker 2>am I am already worthy of positive experiences. An affirmation

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<v Speaker 2>I personally love is I am whole, perfect, harmonious, and complete.

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<v Speaker 2>I am whole, perfect, harmonious, and complete. I am whole, perfect, harmonious,

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<v Speaker 2>and complete. You don't need to wait for someone outside

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<v Speaker 2>of yourself to validate you, to thrown you, to crown you,

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<v Speaker 2>to complete you. When you do that, you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>constantly be waiting on your reality to prove to you

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<v Speaker 2>that you're worthy. You're living by effect when you need

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<v Speaker 2>to live by cause. When you live by effect, you

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<v Speaker 2>wait for things outside of yourself to validate you. When

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<v Speaker 2>you live by cause, you say, actually, I'm the one

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<v Speaker 2>who's going to create my reality. I am not going

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<v Speaker 2>to face reality. I'm going to create it. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to remain remember the low correspondence as above, soul below.

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<v Speaker 2>My internal reality will always be reflected back to me

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<v Speaker 2>in my external Your external reality is just a simulation

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<v Speaker 2>based on your own beliefs, based on your own decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>A niche asks where do I fit in? Where do

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<v Speaker 2>I have to shrink myself? Where do I have to

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<v Speaker 2>mute myself? A throne asked, where do I want to

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<v Speaker 2>lead today? Where do I want to go? How do

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<v Speaker 2>I want to decide? The world is my oyster? I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so excited. The world is my menu. I'll choose what

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<v Speaker 2>I want. You're asking yourself the wrong question, So how

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<v Speaker 2>can you ever get to the right answers? Stop asking

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<v Speaker 2>where do I fit in? How can I fit in?

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<v Speaker 2>And start asking how can I lead my own reality?

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<v Speaker 2>How can I be a conscious creator of my own reality.

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<v Speaker 2>When you shape shift to be liked, you leak your power.

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<v Speaker 2>When you shape shift, you manipulate yourself. You try to

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<v Speaker 2>hide parts of your personality in order to be accepted

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<v Speaker 2>by mere mortals who are so insecure anyway, you leak

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<v Speaker 2>your power. You're living by effect, not by cause. Women

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<v Speaker 2>who are constantly being disrespected don't have a man problem.

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<v Speaker 2>They have a self worth pattern. You fundamentally don't believe

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<v Speaker 2>that you are worthy of more. Now I'm gonna hold

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<v Speaker 2>your hand. I understand that maybe you have had experiences

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<v Speaker 2>where people told you that you weren't enough. I understand

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<v Speaker 2>that maybe you had experiences where people made you feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you were nothing. I understand you may have had

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<v Speaker 2>experiences where people did not put respect on your name.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, forget them? Are you going to

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<v Speaker 2>continuously live for them and wait for that mere mortal

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<v Speaker 2>to someday wake up and realize who you are. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not their job. In fact, they are showing you that

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<v Speaker 2>this is actually an invitation for you to not live

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<v Speaker 2>by the hands of other people and for you to

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<v Speaker 2>instead live by your own authority. Step onto your own

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<v Speaker 2>red carpet, Sit on your own throne, crown yourself. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I go into the ocean and I literally rebaptize myself

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<v Speaker 2>because who even baptized me when I was a baby?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even consent to that. I don't even know that. Man,

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<v Speaker 2>who are you? I rebaptize myself in the name of me,

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<v Speaker 2>because this is my incarnation and this is my life,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm gonna live how I want, hurting no one,

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<v Speaker 2>respect to all, leading with love, but taking no shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You aren't being disrespected repeatedly because there's something wrong with you,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're ugly, because you're not good enough. You're being

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<v Speaker 2>disrespected repeatedly simply because you tolerate it, simply because you

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<v Speaker 2>allow it. Whatever you allow will be, whatever you allow

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<v Speaker 2>you amplify. Your life is the standard that you set.

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<v Speaker 2>Your life is whatever you're willing to tolerate. I had

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<v Speaker 2>German titis on my face for two years, and I

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<v Speaker 2>at some moments almost accepted that as whatever. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to like five different doctors. No one could

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<v Speaker 2>figure it out. But I said to myself, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna live like this. I'm not gonna live

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<v Speaker 2>with a rash on my face every day just because

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<v Speaker 2>these doctors quite frankly, don't know what they're doing. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna keep going from doctor to doctor, to doctor, to

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<v Speaker 2>doctor to doctor, to researching to TikTok to instrogra. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna figure this out. And eventually I had an allergy test.

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<v Speaker 2>that I consented to, that would have been the reality

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<v Speaker 2>that I accepted. That would have been the reality that

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<v Speaker 2>I subscribed to. But I said, no, do not consent,

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<v Speaker 2>do not allow, do not tolerate what you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>She did not get lost in the sauce of being triggered.

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<v Speaker 2>When someone does mean dirty, I say, noted. But they

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<v Speaker 2>are you when you yourself are divine royalty? That tells

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<v Speaker 2>you're not sitting on your own throne. And the beautiful, magical,

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<v Speaker 2>mystical part of this all is it's not about them.

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<v Speaker 2>I am no longer available to fools dictating how I'm

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to note this, I'm going to move accordingly

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<v Speaker 2>and remove them from my orbit. If you're being continuously disrespected,

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<v Speaker 2>it's because you're tolerating it. Speak up for yourself, remove yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>remove them. But you do not just settle in chaos

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<v Speaker 2>that you were never meant to exist within. See people

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<v Speaker 2>for who they are and remove them accordingly. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>have a man problem. You don't have a woman problem.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a self worth pattern. You need to up

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<v Speaker 2>you are. You need to shift your self concept. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I wrote my book Show Up as Her. You

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<v Speaker 2>need to remember who you are and then show up

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<v Speaker 2>as her every single day. And I give you a

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<v Speaker 2>whole entire formula on how to do that in my

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<v Speaker 2>book Show Up as Her. If you do not have it,

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<v Speaker 2>you're simply missing out. Clea Patra's energy was mindset before makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>I am such a girl girl, Okay. I love the makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>the outfits, I love the jewelry. But I am nothing

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<v Speaker 2>without priming my mindset first, because there are times where

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<v Speaker 2>saw how my reality would reject me because I was

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<v Speaker 2>rejecting myself. I was rejecting the present moment. I was

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<v Speaker 2>rejecting my own joy and allowing my past, which isn't

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<v Speaker 2>thing you have is this present moment, because in the

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<v Speaker 2>present is your power. In the present is where you're

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<v Speaker 2>coding your reality. In the present is where you can

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<v Speaker 2>shift your emotions to then shift your external result. Your

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<v Speaker 2>How are you showing up? Are you showing up as her?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you showing up as your Cleopat, yourself, your royal

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<v Speaker 2>divine self? Or are you allowing mere mortals, the fools

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<v Speaker 2>of the planet, to dictate how you are showing up?

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<v Speaker 2>Cleopatra was so amazing. She spoke nine languages, she was

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<v Speaker 2>educated in astronomy, in philosophy, and she ruled a nation

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<v Speaker 2>by eighteen. She did not perform being feminine. She wielded

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<v Speaker 2>it like a weapon. Feminine energy is very sensitive, not

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<v Speaker 2>like a flower, like a bomb, like a bomb. I

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<v Speaker 2>recently had to tell someone I am very compassionate, very graceful,

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<v Speaker 2>very sweet until you disrespect me. Then all of my

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<v Speaker 2>compassion brings out like a tavel, because now you've crossed

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<v Speaker 2>a line. Now you're showing me you're not allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>be close in my orbit. The people who are able

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<v Speaker 2>to affect my emotions are people I deeply love, people

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<v Speaker 2>who are very close to me, my family, my good friends,

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<v Speaker 2>those who I enter into relationship with. But as soon

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<v Speaker 2>as you show me you can't be trusted as soon

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<v Speaker 2>as you show me you're gonna disrespect me. You no

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<v Speaker 2>longer have the privilege to have any say to have

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<v Speaker 2>any effect on my emotional state. Okay, And that's when

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<v Speaker 2>I show up like I'm in hr. That's when it

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<v Speaker 2>goes from emotional sweetness to now we're talking business, and

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<v Speaker 2>I stand on business. I stand on business. And that

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<v Speaker 2>is when you're only going to see the capricorn part

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<v Speaker 2>of me, because I will become a killer in the night.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how else to say that. I recently

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<v Speaker 2>read that people often forget that the goddesses of love

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<v Speaker 2>are also the goddesses of war. As soon as you

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<v Speaker 2>disrespect me, Okay, now it's duly noted. And I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to place you into the category into the bucket of

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<v Speaker 2>the fool. And I'm not going to talk to you

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<v Speaker 2>like a peer. I'm going to talk to you like

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<v Speaker 2>a fool, and you will not have a say in

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<v Speaker 2>how I show up. You're not going to have any

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<v Speaker 2>effect on my emotional standpoint, because why would I allow

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<v Speaker 2>a fool to do that? If you can't see my value,

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<v Speaker 2>you must be a fool. And I will act in

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<v Speaker 2>accordance to your new bucket Cleopatra did not try to

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<v Speaker 2>dumb herself down, did not try to dim her light.

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<v Speaker 2>She did not try to act like she didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>everything she knew. She actually really allowed her knowledge to

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<v Speaker 2>be a huge part of her She let all of

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<v Speaker 2>herself shine. A fire does not explain itself, It just burns.

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<v Speaker 2>The sun does not ask permission to shine, It just shines.

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<v Speaker 2>I you, divine royal beings do not try to make

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<v Speaker 2>themselves smaller, digestible. They do not try to hide parts

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<v Speaker 2>of themselves, because that will then create shadows that will

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<v Speaker 2>haunt you forever. Cleopatra did not wait to be chosen

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<v Speaker 2>by Caesar or by mark Antony because she was pretty,

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<v Speaker 2>because she needed to be chosen, because she needed to

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<v Speaker 2>be validated. She was simply unforgettable, undeniable. You cannot wait

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<v Speaker 2>around for mere mortals to value you respect. You tell

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<v Speaker 2>you that you're worthy. That is an internal decision you

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<v Speaker 2>must make, and then other people are going to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you are living completely backwards. Cleo Patrick didn't wait

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<v Speaker 2>for Caesar or mark Antony to applaud her, to say

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<v Speaker 2>she's so worthy, she's so talented, she's so smart. She

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<v Speaker 2>showed up in her frequency in her power, already crowned.

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<v Speaker 2>She was unforgettable. She was undeniable because she simply was

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<v Speaker 2>anchored in herself, because she knew she was brilliant, and

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<v Speaker 2>she let that brilliance shine. She knew she was strategic,

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<v Speaker 2>and she let that shine. She knew she was beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>and she let that shine. She knew she was seductive.

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<v Speaker 2>She knew her feminine energy power, and she let it shine.

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<v Speaker 2>She knew her connection to divinity, and she let it shine.

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<v Speaker 2>Caesar did not have the same as she did. She

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<v Speaker 2>to isis. She was much more tuned into astronomy the

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<v Speaker 2>stars than Caesar was. He was not thinking like that

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<v Speaker 2>at all. But she did not try to say, Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're right, it's dumb. I should think more like you.

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<v Speaker 2>I should hide that part of myself. Maybe I'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, no, Actually, this is everything I've learned. This

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<v Speaker 2>is actually how it's going to help you. This is

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<v Speaker 2>how my presence in your life is going to uplift you.

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<v Speaker 2>She was right along Caesar, being his equal, and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people around Caesar did not like her because

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<v Speaker 2>of this fact. They didn't like a woman in power.

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<v Speaker 2>Did she cower? Did she get scared? No, when people

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<v Speaker 2>were out to kill her, she thought back. When people

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like her, she stayed tuned into the divine. She never,

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<v Speaker 2>not once dethroned herself. And that's what I see from

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of us. You see how people react to you,

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<v Speaker 2>and when they don't automatically like you, you dethrone yourself. You

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<v Speaker 2>take off your crown and you hand it out like

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<v Speaker 2>you are some humble tumbleweed. And that is ridiculous. That

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<v Speaker 2>is ridiculous. Stop it, Stop it. She did not allow

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<v Speaker 2>herself to just be treated as a trophy, because she

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<v Speaker 2>knew that she herself was a frequency. Your standard casts

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<v Speaker 2>a spell for your reality. The way you treat yourself

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<v Speaker 2>cast a spell for the relationships you have with other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Cleopatra respected herself. She respected every layer of herself, not

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<v Speaker 2>just her knowledge, not just her body, not just her beauty,

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<v Speaker 2>not just her divine, feminine energy and her connectedness to

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<v Speaker 2>the divine. She respected every single inch of herself, and

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<v Speaker 2>to the most powerful men in history also re expected her,

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<v Speaker 2>also chose her. Let's get this straight, though, did Caesar

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<v Speaker 2>and Mark Anthony choose her first? Or did she choose

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<v Speaker 2>herself first. She chose herself first. She chose herself first,

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<v Speaker 2>and then this was mirrored back to her in her reality.

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<v Speaker 2>Because men aren't our enemy, they are our mirror. Your

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<v Speaker 2>self respect is energetic. It's basically tattooed on your forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>People feel when you value yourself, and they will rise

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<v Speaker 2>to meet you. People also feel when you don't value yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>and they will take advantage of that, and they will

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<v Speaker 2>disrespect you too. It's human nature that people take the

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<v Speaker 2>easy way out. People will take advantage of you. If

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<v Speaker 2>you are the doormat, you have to decide to instead

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<v Speaker 2>become your own dream girl. This is not a threat,

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<v Speaker 2>but an invitation for you to rise so you can

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<v Speaker 2>raise not only your standard but the results that you

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<v Speaker 2>get in your reality. When you accept bad behavior, your

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<v Speaker 2>standard is low. You open yourself up for low quality experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you hurt yourself like that when you're getting disrespected,

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<v Speaker 2>It's because you are disrespecting yourself by hanging around that person,

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<v Speaker 2>by allowing them to step all over you, and by

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<v Speaker 2>continuously choosing to spend time with them when you know

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<v Speaker 2>they are not good for you. You might allow in

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<v Speaker 2>disrespectful people because you were disrespected by your caregivers, You

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<v Speaker 2>were disrespected by your peers growing up, so all you

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<v Speaker 2>know is disrespect. But it doesn't matter what you know.

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<v Speaker 2>It matters what you decide in this present moment on

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<v Speaker 2>how you're going to move forward ef everything you've experienced.

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<v Speaker 2>It no longer matters when you decide to show up

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<v Speaker 2>as her matters when you just decide differently. As soon

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<v Speaker 2>as you decide differently, you quantum leap onto a different

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<v Speaker 2>timeline because you are no longer deciding as you once were.

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<v Speaker 2>It's as simple as a decision. What do you decide?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you decide? You do not attract what you wish.

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<v Speaker 2>You do not attract what you would love to experience.

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<v Speaker 2>You simply attract what you are, what you accept, what

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<v Speaker 2>you're willing to tolerate. Your reality is being reflected from

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<v Speaker 2>an internal space of your own beliefs and your own standards.

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<v Speaker 2>Your relationships with other people will be a mirror for

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<v Speaker 2>how you have a relationship with yourself. If you're disrespecting

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<v Speaker 2>yourself because you are sleeping with people sooner than you

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<v Speaker 2>would like to, they're gonna disrespect you too. If you

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<v Speaker 2>ghost your needs, your wants, your desires. They're gonna ghost

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<v Speaker 2>your needs, your wants and desires to If you are

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<v Speaker 2>harsh on your own self, then they are going to

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<v Speaker 2>continuously be harsh on you too. You have to shift

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<v Speaker 2>how you're viewing yourself. You are not this broken down person.

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<v Speaker 2>You are not what you have experienced. You are simply

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<v Speaker 2>what you decide to be in this moment, right here,

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<v Speaker 2>right now. What do you decide? What do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to do? This is your game? How do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to play it? It's not about where you've been. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not about what you've tolerated, because it doesn't matter what

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<v Speaker 2>you tolerated yesterday. What do you want to tolerate today?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want to allow today? It doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 2>who thinks they know you. Who do you want to

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<v Speaker 2>be today? It's your decision. How do you want to play?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a very popular affirmation, I don't chase, I choose,

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<v Speaker 2>But my question is what are you choosing? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>choosing the same patterns that you had yesterday? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>choosing to allow disrespect? Are you choosing to allow low

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<v Speaker 2>quality experiences? Or are you choosing your self? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>choosing your throne? Are you choosing your crown? And I

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<v Speaker 2>know it's not always easy. I know we create emotional

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<v Speaker 2>soul ties to people. I know we really love people,

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<v Speaker 2>and it hurts. It's disappointing when they can't show up

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<v Speaker 2>for us, when they can't choose us, when they can't

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<v Speaker 2>love us. If they can't choose, you, choose your self.

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<v Speaker 2>If they can't love you, love yourself. If they cannot

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<v Speaker 2>show up for you, you have to show up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not taking it away from you that it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not taking it away from you that it's disappointing.

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<v Speaker 2>You think I don't know that disappointment. I was in

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<v Speaker 2>a seven year relationship. Please please, I understand that if

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<v Speaker 2>they cannot give you what you need and what you want,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all the more reason for you to give it

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<v Speaker 2>to yourself. I don't chase, I choose, But what are

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<v Speaker 2>you choosing? Are you choosing self respect? Because when you

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<v Speaker 2>do that, you're going to feel so much better. The

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful positive bitch that DM me saying, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>started practicing abstinence, I stopped allowing just anyone to have

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<v Speaker 2>my body, my energy, And she's saying, I feel better

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<v Speaker 2>than ever. I feel more empowered than ever. Of course

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<v Speaker 2>you do, because when you decide not to just give

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<v Speaker 2>your energy to anyone, that is energetic mastery. This is

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<v Speaker 2>not about shaming yourself or your sexuality or limitation. This

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<v Speaker 2>is about energetic mastery learning how to use your focus

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<v Speaker 2>and your intention and attention to create a life you

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<v Speaker 2>actually want to live within. It's about learning how to

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<v Speaker 2>put up boundaries with energies that you don't even consent

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<v Speaker 2>to having around you. If people are half showing up

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<v Speaker 2>for you, check in with how you're showing up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>If people are being inconsistent with you, are you being

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<v Speaker 2>inconsistent with yourself? If people are ghosting you, are you

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting yourself? I give you many journal prompts in my

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<v Speaker 2>book show Up as Her, if you would like more

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<v Speaker 2>of these. I recently had a download that the best

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<v Speaker 2>way to shock yourself into a new behavior is to

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<v Speaker 2>experience a behavior that you have through another person. I

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<v Speaker 2>can be quite cut throat sometimes, and not in a

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<v Speaker 2>way that I'm just being my authentic self. No, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just cutthroat, and I experience being on the other side

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<v Speaker 2>of that. And after that, I said, Okay, Universe, I

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<v Speaker 2>see you. I now understand what it is to experience

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<v Speaker 2>this not from my point of view, but being on

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<v Speaker 2>the other side of it, and I'm going to change that.

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<v Speaker 2>The best way to learn and what we need to

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<v Speaker 2>shift is by experiencing it in our three D reality.

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<v Speaker 2>Your three D reality is your mirror, it's your teacher.

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<v Speaker 2>It's showing you your own behaviors mirror through other people,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's going to do that in a myriad of ways. So,

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<v Speaker 2>if you really hate an addictive behavior in someone else,

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<v Speaker 2>ask yourself, where may I be allowing myself to be

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<v Speaker 2>addictive to maladaptive coping mechanisms that maybe aren't really the

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<v Speaker 2>best for me. If you don't like that someone's being

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<v Speaker 2>inconsistent with you, ask yourself, how may I be inconsistent

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<v Speaker 2>with my own habits or my career or my self

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<v Speaker 2>love journey that I really need to tune back into.

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<v Speaker 2>Your energetic universe is not going to lie to you.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's either showing you a behavior that you have,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to invite you to expand or teach you something.

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<v Speaker 2>It's up for you to decode. The pattern external disrespect

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<v Speaker 2>is often internal self abandonment playing out in the public sphere.

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<v Speaker 2>Take a breath, digest that I know. I'll say it again.

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<v Speaker 2>External disrespect is often internal self abandonment playing out in

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<v Speaker 2>the public sphere. Ooh, and I'm getting ringing in my ear.

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<v Speaker 2>Confirmation on the right side. Hello, That is your masculine

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<v Speaker 2>energy side. Masculine energy is all about really creating a

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<v Speaker 2>structure in your life to make sure that you are

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<v Speaker 2>creating safety for yourself. Now, maybe you're thinking CC, but

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<v Speaker 2>I really like this person. They're good fifty percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the time. Okay, well you can get someone who's good

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent of the time. How about that. You

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<v Speaker 2>cannot lose. You can only upgrade. You cannot lose. You

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<v Speaker 2>can only upgrade. But the upgrade starts with how you

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<v Speaker 2>treat you, what you're willing to allow, what you're willing

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<v Speaker 2>to accept. The upgrade starts with you removing those who

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<v Speaker 2>you know are simply not able to me you where

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<v Speaker 2>you're at. They're not able to rise to your frequency.

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<v Speaker 2>The highest standard I hold for anyone in my life

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<v Speaker 2>is myself, because I know that my relationship to myself

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<v Speaker 2>will be mirrored back to me. Now I've had a

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<v Speaker 2>really long journey with this, so it used to be

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<v Speaker 2>very critical. Now I've transmuted this relationship more into self devotion.

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<v Speaker 2>When I used to work out, I would be mean

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<v Speaker 2>to myself. You have to go harder because you don't

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<v Speaker 2>look like this. You have to do more because you

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<v Speaker 2>don't look like this. And now I've really transitioned into

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<v Speaker 2>I love the fact I can show up and do

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<v Speaker 2>this workout. This is a self devotional act. This is

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<v Speaker 2>for me and me only. I have wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>fit since I was a little girl. This is an

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<v Speaker 2>act of devotion for me, a gift to myself. Instead

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<v Speaker 2>of me having a high standard out of criticism, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a high standard out of self devotion. I came

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<v Speaker 2>all the way down the planet Earth and incarnated here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to settle because I deserve the best.

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<v Speaker 2>I came all the way down to planet Earth and

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<v Speaker 2>incarnated here. I'm going to give myself everything I've always wanted,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm only going to allow the best, best experiences

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<v Speaker 2>because that's what I deserve. That is what as a

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<v Speaker 2>little girl I've always wanted. Of course, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>give that to myself. If you don't treat yourself well

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<v Speaker 2>with love and respect, who's going to Who's going to?

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<v Speaker 2>You have to do it first, You have to start

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<v Speaker 2>shifting your relationship to yourself. You have to see yourself

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<v Speaker 2>this new self concept. Update the self concept, new phone,

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<v Speaker 2>who is okay? Update the self concept to that of

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<v Speaker 2>your truest self, which is a divine royal being, queen

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<v Speaker 2>and king. Energy is not about being loud, it's about lasting.

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<v Speaker 2>Cleopatra didn't have fifteen minutes of fame. She wasn't trying

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<v Speaker 2>to be the loudest person in the room. She didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go viral. She is simply eternal. It's giving Christ's consciousness energy.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is still whispered two thousand plus years later

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<v Speaker 2>because her presence, her energy made history. And you have

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<v Speaker 2>the same ability that Cleopatra had. You don't need to

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<v Speaker 2>beg or to yell or to scream to be felt.

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<v Speaker 2>You just need to stop apologizing for taking up space.

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<v Speaker 2>You just have to stop disrespecting yourself by allowing disrespectful

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<v Speaker 2>beings near you. You just have to stop dimming your

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<v Speaker 2>light so you can just shine. Stop explaining yourself and

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<v Speaker 2>let your energy just be felt. You are not too much.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just finally full of yourself. And that's the point.

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<v Speaker 2>You're full of all the different energies you embody. You're

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<v Speaker 2>full of your light and you're dark. You're full of

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<v Speaker 2>all of your traits. You're full of your energy, and

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<v Speaker 2>that is the most beautiful thing you can do. People,

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<v Speaker 2>I swear we'll try to convince you that you being

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<v Speaker 2>you is the worst thing that you can do, That

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<v Speaker 2>you being full of yourself is somehow bad. That's matrix programming.

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<v Speaker 2>Matrix programming. Okay. They want to honeycomb you. They want

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<v Speaker 2>to fragment your little energy so you're not standing in

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<v Speaker 2>all of your power. They want to honeycomb you so

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<v Speaker 2>that you are a fragmented being scared. That's not what

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<v Speaker 2>you came here to do. You came here to not

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<v Speaker 2>just yell, but to be ever lasting, because that's your

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<v Speaker 2>true soul essence is ever lasting. You came here to

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<v Speaker 2>be felt, you came here to be experienced, and you

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<v Speaker 2>came here to leave a legacy. And the way you

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<v Speaker 2>do that is by fine tuning your attention to that

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<v Speaker 2>which you want to grow, by placing yourself on your

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<v Speaker 2>own throne, acting at cause, not at effect, remembering who

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<v Speaker 2>you are and living in your energy rather than allowing

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<v Speaker 2>others to dictate how you must show up. We all

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<v Speaker 2>have a Cleopatra within us, and when you're not sure

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<v Speaker 2>what to do, just ask yourself, what would Cleopatra do?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to leave you with an activation affirmation. Repeat

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<v Speaker 2>after me. I set the tone for how I am treated.

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<v Speaker 2>I set the tone for how I am treated. I

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<v Speaker 2>set the tone for how I am treated. My love,

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<v Speaker 2>it is time to stop complaining and start raining. It

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<v Speaker 2>is your moment. It is your time. There's never been

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<v Speaker 2>a better present than right now for you to claim

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<v Speaker 2>your crown. As always, sparkle and me honors of sparkling you.

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<v Speaker 2>If this podcast resonated with you, please leave a positive

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<v Speaker 2>review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. It means the world

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<v Speaker 2>to me and it helps this podcast grow. That is

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<v Speaker 2>an intention of mine. Share this with your friends, your family,

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<v Speaker 2>anyone you believe needs it. Let's help our sisters and

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<v Speaker 2>brothers as we raise a vibration of this planet. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want one on one coaching by me, I would

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<v Speaker 2>love and be honored to be your intuitive guide. Just

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<v Speaker 2>DM me on Instagram at vibe in with CC. You

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<v Speaker 2>can find this link in the show notes and I

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<v Speaker 2>will see you in the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>Slog Canca I kins asked me, I can't ask me

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<v Speaker 1>MHM
