Speaker 1: All right, and here we go with a Minnesota good bye.
Speaker 1: I want to just let you know that there's green
Speaker 1: little pieces of candy glass all over the studio, little
Speaker 1: tiny shards of candy glass, because we did a bit earlier.
Speaker 1: That is, we had Jonah Moray in the studio and
Speaker 1: then Bailey and I pretended to get into a little argument,
Speaker 1: and she picked up a wine bottle that looks like
Speaker 1: a real wine bottle but is made out of harmless
Speaker 1: candy glass and whacked me over the head. So we
Speaker 1: could kind of pull a prank on Jonah Moray and
Speaker 1: get his reaction. You can see that on YouTube.
Speaker 2: Probably, well, yeah, you can go back on our live
Speaker 2: stream and watch today's like full live stream. So probably
Speaker 2: go more towards a little bit towards the end, because
Speaker 2: it's going to be more in like the later part
Speaker 2: of the live stream, because we start live streaming at
Speaker 2: seven and this happened at like eight thirty.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think Vonte'll have it up on our
Speaker 3: Instagram and Facebook as well later.
Speaker 1: The funny thing was, I won't spoil too much, but
Speaker 1: Jonah's reaction was just funny. It was just like it
Speaker 1: was just not what I expected. Was quite funny, So
Speaker 1: go check that out. All right, let's get into the emails.
Speaker 1: Here the heart of the Minnesota Goodbye, Sarah writes in
Speaker 1: got a couple of questions that have been in my
Speaker 1: mind and might be good for the podcast, and I
Speaker 1: love that. That is, if you've got questions on your
Speaker 1: mind and you think they might be good for the podcast,
Speaker 1: send them in Ryan's show at katwb dot com. Genuinely
Speaker 1: curious about the situation. Was this situation with Jenny's camper
Speaker 1: van and her relationship with Andrew? Are they sharing the
Speaker 1: van moving forward? From what I remember? They bought it together,
Speaker 1: so I'm wondering if they're going to continue to share it.
Speaker 1: I completely understand if you don't want to answer this question,
Speaker 1: We're not going.
Speaker 2: To share it. It's up to me if I want
Speaker 2: to keep it or not. I'm going to have to
Speaker 2: buy him out of it. I would gladly buy him
Speaker 2: out of it and keep it for myself. I'm just
Speaker 2: struggling with the maintenance aspect of it, because Andrew did
Speaker 2: take care of everything that. I mean, it's old, it's
Speaker 2: a two thousand and three and I don't know shit
Speaker 2: about vans, so I'm a little bit stressed about buying
Speaker 2: them out of it and having to main it, and
Speaker 2: like the guy who previously owned it, he was very
Speaker 2: adamant of, like this thing will last you for so
Speaker 2: fucking long as long as you stayed on top of
Speaker 2: all this stuff. And that was the stuff that Andrew
Speaker 2: took care of, and I took care of us, like
Speaker 2: being able to like live out of it, like having
Speaker 2: all the things we need and packing it up and
Speaker 2: making it cute and stuff. So I just feel like
Speaker 2: I'm up in the air about that. And it is
Speaker 2: an added thing. I gotta still pay like monthly insurance
Speaker 2: on it and stuff. So and my financial situation has
Speaker 2: also changed. So right now I'm still keeping it. I'm
Speaker 2: going to probably give it a month a couple, like
Speaker 2: a month or two and kind of figure it out,
Speaker 2: and then otherwise it might we might be selling it.
Speaker 1: I hope you don't have to sell it, because I
Speaker 1: know how much you love the experience, and even if
Speaker 1: you went by yourself, I.
Speaker 2: Love the experience. One thing I'll say, And I'm going
Speaker 2: to try to get through this without crying. There's too
Speaker 2: many memories with him in it.
Speaker 1: Okay, we can stop there. We can stop there. I
Speaker 1: totally get that. It's like, you know, the places like that,
Speaker 1: things like that can hold the very special, deep seated memories.
Speaker 1: So I totally get that. All right, Well, let's move
Speaker 1: on to something else here another random question from Sarah
Speaker 1: for some possible good conversation. Who was your sexual awakening
Speaker 1: i e. Character or celebrity that sparked butterflies for the
Speaker 1: first time mine? I was ten years old. It was
Speaker 1: David Bowie in the movie The Labyrinth. Oh yes, he
Speaker 1: is still so foign. As Bailey would say in that
Speaker 1: movie love listening to you every day? Okay, I I
Speaker 1: was probably in middle school. I know, I was in
Speaker 1: middle school and there was the New Mickey mouse Club
Speaker 1: on TV and there was a girl named Alison in
Speaker 1: the New Mickey mouse Club and she had like little
Speaker 1: bangs and kind of a bob haircut. If you look
Speaker 1: up New Mickey mouse Club Alison, you can see what
Speaker 1: she looks like.
Speaker 4: Oh, she's real cute.
Speaker 1: And that was the first girl that I ever like again.
Speaker 1: We were about to say mate, probably about fourteen, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, she's so cute. I don't remember
Speaker 1: anybody ever like appealing to my sense of Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she's so cute before her Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 3: Mine's probably the first thing that popped in my mind
Speaker 3: was Cornelius from the Thumbollina movie, which is a cartoon,
Speaker 3: but I thought he was so fine. He was a
Speaker 3: fairy and he sang a song and that was beautiful.
Speaker 3: But like real life, probably John Travolta in Greece really
Speaker 3: when he like turns around after he's like leaning on
Speaker 3: the wall and he's got a cigarette in his mouth.
Speaker 3: I was like probably five years old watching that, being
Speaker 3: like that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in
Speaker 3: my life.
Speaker 1: Isn't that funny? You don't really understand your feelings, but
Speaker 1: it's like, oh god, I just really like crazy out
Speaker 1: the womb? What about you? Jenny?
Speaker 2: Mine was Zach Effron Ephron in Summerland slash High School
Speaker 2: musical Now Late.
Speaker 4: You didn't like boys before then?
Speaker 2: Well, I was only I Well, I feel like sexual awakening.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't really remember, like I had
Speaker 2: crushes on boys, but I don't remember like watching some
Speaker 2: famous person when I was ten.
Speaker 4: And being like, oh, oh he's fine.
Speaker 2: I mean, like Summerline came out when I was like
Speaker 2: thirteen or fourteen.
Speaker 4: Wow. So then I feel like a creep because mine
Speaker 4: was like five years old. It's wrong with that.
Speaker 2: I just I feel like I don't remember thinking anyone
Speaker 2: was like famous was hot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got him in your prime, or you got
Speaker 3: zac Efron in his prime.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Next email says, please don't say my name so we
Speaker 1: can definitely respect that. I was listening to the show
Speaker 1: replay and I figured i'd share my two cents about
Speaker 1: the jim Hogs because we were talking about guys at
Speaker 1: the gym, and it's mostly guys who hog the equipment
Speaker 1: and we'll, you know, like sit on the end of
Speaker 1: the bench and sit on the equipment and look at
Speaker 1: their phone. And somebody justified that by saying, you know what,
Speaker 1: I got a rest. I got to get my cardio
Speaker 1: back down or I won't be able to do an
Speaker 1: effective set. Okay, so there is some justification. I guess.
Speaker 1: They say, I go once a week, and I countered
Speaker 1: this and counter this time and time again. I'd argue
Speaker 1: it's a bigger problem on free weights and weight machines
Speaker 1: because there are up them, particularly ones where there's only
Speaker 1: one of its kind in the gym case. In point,
Speaker 1: A couple of months ago, I spent no joke, almost
Speaker 1: twenty minutes waiting for a machine that my gym only
Speaker 1: has one of is being hogged by this one infamous
Speaker 1: Jim Rat, whose presence is always known because of his loud,
Speaker 1: obnoxious voice in the fact that he never shuts up.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 1: And after twenty minutes, I gave up and I found
Speaker 1: an alternate exercise. But the guy would do one set,
Speaker 1: chat with his Jim bros. For five minutes, then do
Speaker 1: another set, and so on. I tend to keep myself
Speaker 1: and I never spoke to his side f him. One
Speaker 1: time he stepped away from a bench, so I went
Speaker 1: to use it thinking he was done, only for him
Speaker 1: to come back and kick me off. Another pet peeve.
Speaker 1: If you're not done and need to step away for
Speaker 1: a drink, leave something there to claim it. Anyway, just
Speaker 1: wanted to add to the discussion because I find it
Speaker 1: kind of funny but slightly annoying. It's one thing to
Speaker 1: take a quick break between sets and use your phone,
Speaker 1: but another to sit there for links of time chatting
Speaker 1: and or texting. Moral of the story, remember, Jim could
Speaker 1: be respectful, do your workout and get out there.
Speaker 2: You can always chime in and be like, hey, do
Speaker 2: you mind if I work in a set here quick
Speaker 2: in between yours and ask? But I know that that's
Speaker 2: like uncomfortable for a lot of people, but trainers do
Speaker 2: that to me all the time. Like I'll be in
Speaker 2: the middle of like using something and then they'll realize
Speaker 2: that I was just using it and they're like, oh, sorry,
Speaker 2: you can work in one like like in between it.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: I get like the people who are because people were
Speaker 3: defending like machine hogs yesterday saying, oh, well, they have to,
Speaker 3: you know, breathe, they have to rest, they have to
Speaker 3: do that, so that's why they're sitting there on their phone.
Speaker 3: I just think if you're sitting on your phone and
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I got to take a rest break,
Speaker 3: but then you get distracted by your phone, your rest
Speaker 3: break turns into like the length of three rest.
Speaker 4: Breaks before you start.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's true, take.
Speaker 3: A rest break, fine, but don't look at your phone.
Speaker 3: Just sit there. Can't you just sit there and wait?
Speaker 1: Honestly, that's difficult. That's what we re goo to so much.
Speaker 1: I was at ukulele lessons last night and I got
Speaker 1: there about four minutes early, I sit in the hallway. Well,
Speaker 1: of course, what's the first thing I do. I pull
Speaker 1: out my phone.
Speaker 4: I just get bored by my phone eventually.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. We do social media, so I'm
Speaker 1: always checking to see how the latest post did. I
Speaker 1: did one last night. It was very disappointed. I was
Speaker 1: very excited about this new magic trick that I got. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with the yellow sticks. And if you go look at
Speaker 1: my Instagram you'll see the yellow stick trick. Did you
Speaker 1: like it at all?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I was trying to figure out how it happened.
Speaker 1: Well that's what it already does. Yeah, And I really
Speaker 1: thought that people would be like whoa, because when I
Speaker 1: saw it, I was like whoa. But I kept looking
Speaker 1: at it like before you classes, and it was like, eh, okay,
Speaker 1: nothing really there. But then we did something stupid like
Speaker 1: the fruit by the Foot challenge a month ago and
Speaker 1: it killed. And the one with Genny zapping me on
Speaker 1: the behind with a taser gun that killed too.
Speaker 2: Told you it was content, it was worth it.
Speaker 1: It's all kind of you're right content. I'm thinking the
Speaker 1: one with Joan Murray that might get some good interaction
Speaker 1: and views traction.
Speaker 4: Yeah, hopefully all right, next one.
Speaker 1: Actually that's a little bit more serious. You're not going
Speaker 1: to deal with that one right now, so we'll do
Speaker 1: something a little bit more fun. You can use my name. Hello,
Speaker 1: my favorite morning show crew from Megan. I liked the
Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye last week with Vont Bailey and Jenny, so
Speaker 1: I thought I would point out things that I love
Speaker 1: about each of you. Dave, I love how you've been
Speaker 1: with all phases in life. I've been listening since i
Speaker 1: was eight and I'm thirty eight now. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: you think about it. When I got here, I had
Speaker 1: an infant, a toddler daughter. I had a nine year
Speaker 1: old daughter, and I had Chase wasn't even born yet.
Speaker 1: He was born about two weeks after I got here. Wow,
Speaker 1: and he's a dad now, which is really weird. And
Speaker 1: I was still eight years or so away from having Carson,
Speaker 1: so life is definitely changed. I was still a young
Speaker 1: dad back then. Yeah, and I wasn't married. Vont, you
Speaker 1: are such a good addition to the show. You're very
Speaker 1: eloquent until you stirred the pot boy take a right
Speaker 1: on a red light, ha Bailey. I love hearing your
Speaker 1: random show turn out bursts hilarious. Also, I relate to
Speaker 1: speech because my sixteen year old daughter is in speech
Speaker 1: and she goes to State at Shockapee in a week
Speaker 1: or so.
Speaker 4: Hey, same, I'll see her there. Tell her come say
Speaker 4: hi seriously, will you? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Because well I have four kids who are going to State,
Speaker 3: So have your daughter come and say hi?
Speaker 1: Okay. Then she goes to say and seriously. Bailey means that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know she's out somewhere. You might think, Oh, Bailey's working.
Speaker 1: I can't see, I can't say hi, I can't bother no,
Speaker 1: please feel free. Okay. Finally they get to Jenny. Let's see,
Speaker 1: I got to open up the right window again here, Jenny, Oh, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
Speaker 1: I think I relate to you the most. I love
Speaker 1: how you are always so kind and are able to
Speaker 1: be vulnerable with virtuals strangers. Keep up the good work, y'all.
Speaker 1: No dart licking here gross from Megan. All right, Megan,
Speaker 1: thank you appreciate that. It's very nice and something totally different.
Speaker 1: I mean, who doesn't want to hear what somebody likes
Speaker 1: about you? And I tell you I want to tell
Speaker 1: you two life hacks, and I'm going to see if
Speaker 1: I can remember both of them. So, remember we talked
Speaker 1: to somebody on the show the other day about their partner,
Speaker 1: their husband. I think her partner died, like suddenly died,
Speaker 1: and we were talking about grief, and I was one
Speaker 1: of the salespeople that works here. She said that her
Speaker 1: is the father of somebody that she know that died
Speaker 1: was listening that day. So, in other words, his daughter died.
Speaker 1: He was listening to the show that day. And he
Speaker 1: told this person, who then told me, when you meet
Speaker 1: somebody whose person has died, whether it's their mom, their child,
Speaker 1: their sibling, their partner, you don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: So you're like, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And
Speaker 1: a lot of the time you put your foot in
Speaker 1: your mouth and say something like, but you know you're
Speaker 1: lucky you had enough time with you, something stupid. So
Speaker 1: they what he suggested that he really liked is, hey,
Speaker 1: tell me your favorite memory of them. What's your favorite
Speaker 1: memory of them? And I thought, wow, because everybody wants
Speaker 1: to keep their memory alive. So if you meet somebody
Speaker 1: who's lost their mom recently or lost their you know,
Speaker 1: sibling or partner or whatever, say what's your favorite memory
Speaker 1: of them? So my friend who lost her son in
Speaker 1: the motorcycle accident. I acted like it was out of
Speaker 1: the blue. And I texted her yesterday and we were
Speaker 1: talking about her son, and I said, what's your favorite memory?
Speaker 1: And she said, oh, my gosh, so many and she
Speaker 1: told me some very funny little stories. And so I
Speaker 1: really like that. Here's another little life hack. And I
Speaker 1: think I saw this on Instagram. How do you get
Speaker 1: people to like you? What do you do? What's the
Speaker 1: big mystery question? Like, well, how do you get people
Speaker 1: to like you? They say that when you're around somebody,
Speaker 1: you say something really nice about somebody who's not there,
Speaker 1: and that person will then attribute those those those things
Speaker 1: to you. So let me give you an example. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so let's say Jenny and I are hanging out and
Speaker 1: talking and Jenny doesn't know me very well. Yeah, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, you know that, Bailey, she is just the kindest, sweetest,
Speaker 1: hardest working person. Ever. Something inside our brains will make
Speaker 1: us think the person who is saying that has those attributes. Sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: does that make sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I should start complimenting other people when I
Speaker 3: speak to essentially strangers or acquaintances.
Speaker 1: That's what that's what the guy on Instagram said. Now
Speaker 1: I know the way that he says. It's brain science,
Speaker 1: and it's always nice to hear somebody say something nice.
Speaker 3: Say This good habit to get into is just to
Speaker 3: be like, think of others in a kind manner and
Speaker 3: then potentially even speak on it. I always say, I
Speaker 3: always tell other people like I don't think of it
Speaker 3: in the way like how to get people to like you,
Speaker 3: But if you can give someone a compliment, like give
Speaker 3: them a compliment to their face, like you could think
Speaker 3: it like, oh, Dave looks really nice today, or oh
Speaker 3: Dave did a really funny bit today and I really
Speaker 3: liked that. And thinking it is one thing, but why
Speaker 3: don't you say something and out because then you can
Speaker 3: make someone's day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think people sometimes forget how powerful that can be.
Speaker 1: So all right, next one and this is our last one.
Speaker 1: Just came in a minute to go, says hello radio
Speaker 1: family from another Sarah. Tonight, I'm going on a direct
Speaker 1: flight to Billings, Montana to get my new used car.
Speaker 1: My oldbum broke down about a month ago during rush
Speaker 1: hour on Portland Avenue off of four ninety four. I
Speaker 1: had a sinking feeling that would be the last time
Speaker 1: I'd be driving my very loved first car. I asked
Speaker 1: my parents if they would co sign for me as
Speaker 1: my credit score went down due to some unseen activity
Speaker 1: or lack of responsibility. They declined, but I persevered and
Speaker 1: found my dream car. My parents are very frugal and
Speaker 1: think that the car was a little bit excessive and
Speaker 1: too luxurious. This would be my second car that I
Speaker 1: paid for on my own, and I've never asked my
Speaker 1: parents for money or anything in my entire life. Tell
Speaker 1: me why I haven't told my parents. I'm flying out
Speaker 1: to go get this car, and I'm already nervous to
Speaker 1: pick up my kids with my new car from my
Speaker 1: parents this weekend. The judgmental look I can see on
Speaker 1: my dad's face is making me feel queasy. I'm thirty five.
Speaker 1: In less than a month, I make good money. Car
Speaker 1: is half the price of a brand new one. I
Speaker 1: feel like a little kid. Okay, nobody asked, But there's
Speaker 1: there's my troubles for this week. Anybody else have judging parents?
Speaker 1: That's from Sarah Sarah the MT. I think she means
Speaker 1: massage therapist. Okay, I can tell you a little story
Speaker 1: when I first got my first new car, my car
Speaker 1: broke down. The trade in value on my Volkswagon that
Speaker 1: broke down was twenty five dollars. Now, I didn't know
Speaker 1: that you can bargain with your trade in value. They
Speaker 1: offered me twenty five bucks. And I'm like, oh, Kurt,
Speaker 1: we stupid. Yeah, And so I go in and I
Speaker 1: got a Toyota Mr.
Speaker 3: Two.
Speaker 1: If you want to look it up. It's a sporty
Speaker 1: little car that was popular back then. Toyota Mr two
Speaker 1: two seater, very sporty. I asked my dad, will you
Speaker 1: co sign for me? He said, no, you don't need
Speaker 1: a sports car. And I was so pissed and so hurt.
Speaker 1: You're looking at a sharp, liking.
Speaker 4: Car, right, I mean, yeah, it is. Actually it's not bad,
Speaker 4: it's cute.
Speaker 1: He said you don't need a sports car and he
Speaker 1: wouldn't co sign. So I was so crushed because he
Speaker 1: had loaned my brother and sisters many times, lots of money.
Speaker 1: But I didn't need a loan. I had my own money.
Speaker 1: I just didn't have any credit. So he wouldn't co sign,
Speaker 1: and I was just pissed and I hung up on him.
Speaker 1: I've never hung up or disrespected my dad. Ever. But
Speaker 1: I was so pissed I hung up, And the next morning,
Speaker 1: the car dealership calls and they said, hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: We're going to go ahead and let you get that
Speaker 1: car without a co signer.
Speaker 4: Oh nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, because they wanted to sell a car, and
Speaker 1: so my dad must have gotten, you know, chewed out
Speaker 1: by my mom. So he calls. He's like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: go so co signed for you, And I triumphantly said
Speaker 1: I don't need you to now, Yeah, but yeah, I
Speaker 1: totally get the whole thing. So she says, you know,
Speaker 1: why haven't I told my parents I'm flying out to
Speaker 1: get this car. I will tell you this, you're thirty five.
Speaker 1: That respect for your parents never goes away. No, even
Speaker 1: when my dad was frail and eighty eight years old
Speaker 1: and hunched over and had lost four inches of his height,
Speaker 1: I still was intimidated by him to a degree. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you just always had that respect and fear in
Speaker 1: wanting to please your parents.
Speaker 3: Right, Like, I will never ever in a million years
Speaker 3: talk back to my mom. And anytime I swear in
Speaker 3: front of my mom, I feel weird doing it, so
Speaker 3: I just don't because I would never as a kid,
Speaker 3: I would never talk back to my mom. I'd never
Speaker 3: swear in front of her, and I never will.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, other people are different.
Speaker 2: To certain people, but that's only because I think that
Speaker 2: they are being disrespectful in a way that I don't
Speaker 2: agree with. My mom isn't exactly the most PC person sometimes,
Speaker 2: so neither's mine either. I will always correct her, and
Speaker 2: when she fights me, I will fight back in those
Speaker 2: moments so that I have no problem with.
Speaker 4: I definitely, I definitely not fight back.
Speaker 3: But like if my mom says something that's you know, not,
Speaker 3: I will be like, hey, you can't say that, and
Speaker 3: then she just usually drops it because she doesn't want
Speaker 3: to get into a fight, and I don't want to
Speaker 3: get into a fight, and I wouldn't fight with her,
Speaker 3: so then it would just become far too awkward.
Speaker 4: But I know what you mean, Jenny, Okay, And.
Speaker 1: That is going to do it for the Minnesota good
Speaker 1: Bye thought starters, Emails, questions, something that's been on your mind.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're like, why is that this? Or have you
Speaker 1: ever noticed this? Or what about this? On the show?
Speaker 1: Love to talk about it. It's a lot of fun
Speaker 1: for us, it really is. I love doing the Minnesota Goodbye.
Speaker 1: Send anything you got on your mind to Ryan's show
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