WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.240 --> 00:00:05.080 All right, and here we go with a Minnesota good bye. 2 00:00:06.160 --> 00:00:08.000 I want to just let you know that there's green 3 00:00:08.039 --> 00:00:10.599 little pieces of candy glass all over the studio, little 4 00:00:10.640 --> 00:00:13.960 tiny shards of candy glass, because we did a bit earlier. 5 00:00:14.400 --> 00:00:17.199 That is, we had Jonah Moray in the studio and 6 00:00:17.239 --> 00:00:19.559 then Bailey and I pretended to get into a little argument, 7 00:00:19.879 --> 00:00:22.280 and she picked up a wine bottle that looks like 8 00:00:22.320 --> 00:00:24.320 a real wine bottle but is made out of harmless 9 00:00:24.320 --> 00:00:26.879 candy glass and whacked me over the head. So we 10 00:00:26.920 --> 00:00:28.960 could kind of pull a prank on Jonah Moray and 11 00:00:29.000 --> 00:00:32.079 get his reaction. You can see that on YouTube. 12 00:00:32.280 --> 00:00:35.119 Probably, well, yeah, you can go back on our live 13 00:00:35.159 --> 00:00:38.640 stream and watch today's like full live stream. So probably 14 00:00:38.679 --> 00:00:41.520 go more towards a little bit towards the end, because 15 00:00:41.520 --> 00:00:43.320 it's going to be more in like the later part 16 00:00:43.320 --> 00:00:45.039 of the live stream, because we start live streaming at 17 00:00:45.079 --> 00:00:47.200 seven and this happened at like eight thirty. 18 00:00:47.359 --> 00:00:49.240 Yeah, but I think Vonte'll have it up on our 19 00:00:49.280 --> 00:00:51.320 Instagram and Facebook as well later. 20 00:00:51.640 --> 00:00:53.799 The funny thing was, I won't spoil too much, but 21 00:00:53.880 --> 00:00:57.640 Jonah's reaction was just funny. It was just like it 22 00:00:57.759 --> 00:01:01.200 was just not what I expected. Was quite funny, So 23 00:01:01.359 --> 00:01:03.920 go check that out. All right, let's get into the emails. 24 00:01:03.920 --> 00:01:07.480 Here the heart of the Minnesota Goodbye, Sarah writes in 25 00:01:07.519 --> 00:01:08.760 got a couple of questions that have been in my 26 00:01:08.920 --> 00:01:11.000 mind and might be good for the podcast, and I 27 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:13.120 love that. That is, if you've got questions on your 28 00:01:13.159 --> 00:01:15.200 mind and you think they might be good for the podcast, 29 00:01:15.719 --> 00:01:19.040 send them in Ryan's show at katwb dot com. Genuinely 30 00:01:19.159 --> 00:01:22.040 curious about the situation. Was this situation with Jenny's camper 31 00:01:22.120 --> 00:01:27.120 van and her relationship with Andrew? Are they sharing the 32 00:01:27.200 --> 00:01:29.879 van moving forward? From what I remember? They bought it together, 33 00:01:30.319 --> 00:01:32.400 so I'm wondering if they're going to continue to share it. 34 00:01:32.480 --> 00:01:34.879 I completely understand if you don't want to answer this question, 35 00:01:35.239 --> 00:01:35.799 We're not going. 36 00:01:35.719 --> 00:01:37.879 To share it. It's up to me if I want 37 00:01:37.879 --> 00:01:39.040 to keep it or not. I'm going to have to 38 00:01:39.040 --> 00:01:43.319 buy him out of it. I would gladly buy him 39 00:01:43.319 --> 00:01:45.400 out of it and keep it for myself. I'm just 40 00:01:45.480 --> 00:01:48.640 struggling with the maintenance aspect of it, because Andrew did 41 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:52.040 take care of everything that. I mean, it's old, it's 42 00:01:52.200 --> 00:01:54.599 a two thousand and three and I don't know shit 43 00:01:54.680 --> 00:01:57.760 about vans, so I'm a little bit stressed about buying 44 00:01:57.799 --> 00:02:00.640 them out of it and having to main it, and 45 00:02:01.120 --> 00:02:04.120 like the guy who previously owned it, he was very 46 00:02:04.159 --> 00:02:06.159 adamant of, like this thing will last you for so 47 00:02:06.359 --> 00:02:08.879 fucking long as long as you stayed on top of 48 00:02:08.919 --> 00:02:10.840 all this stuff. And that was the stuff that Andrew 49 00:02:10.879 --> 00:02:12.879 took care of, and I took care of us, like 50 00:02:12.919 --> 00:02:14.840 being able to like live out of it, like having 51 00:02:14.840 --> 00:02:16.840 all the things we need and packing it up and 52 00:02:16.879 --> 00:02:19.919 making it cute and stuff. So I just feel like 53 00:02:20.120 --> 00:02:22.520 I'm up in the air about that. And it is 54 00:02:22.560 --> 00:02:26.000 an added thing. I gotta still pay like monthly insurance 55 00:02:26.000 --> 00:02:28.800 on it and stuff. So and my financial situation has 56 00:02:28.840 --> 00:02:33.479 also changed. So right now I'm still keeping it. I'm 57 00:02:33.479 --> 00:02:35.560 going to probably give it a month a couple, like 58 00:02:35.599 --> 00:02:37.639 a month or two and kind of figure it out, 59 00:02:37.800 --> 00:02:40.960 and then otherwise it might we might be selling it. 60 00:02:41.439 --> 00:02:42.759 I hope you don't have to sell it, because I 61 00:02:42.759 --> 00:02:45.360 know how much you love the experience, and even if 62 00:02:45.400 --> 00:02:47.240 you went by yourself, I. 63 00:02:47.319 --> 00:02:49.240 Love the experience. One thing I'll say, And I'm going 64 00:02:49.280 --> 00:02:52.039 to try to get through this without crying. There's too 65 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:54.319 many memories with him in it. 66 00:02:54.400 --> 00:02:57.400 Okay, we can stop there. We can stop there. I 67 00:02:57.439 --> 00:03:00.319 totally get that. It's like, you know, the places like that, 68 00:03:00.759 --> 00:03:05.199 things like that can hold the very special, deep seated memories. 69 00:03:05.240 --> 00:03:07.840 So I totally get that. All right, Well, let's move 70 00:03:07.879 --> 00:03:12.240 on to something else here another random question from Sarah 71 00:03:12.560 --> 00:03:15.680 for some possible good conversation. Who was your sexual awakening 72 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:19.520 i e. Character or celebrity that sparked butterflies for the 73 00:03:19.560 --> 00:03:23.919 first time mine? I was ten years old. It was 74 00:03:24.120 --> 00:03:28.280 David Bowie in the movie The Labyrinth. Oh yes, he 75 00:03:28.360 --> 00:03:30.719 is still so foign. As Bailey would say in that 76 00:03:30.800 --> 00:03:37.120 movie love listening to you every day? Okay, I I 77 00:03:37.240 --> 00:03:39.080 was probably in middle school. I know, I was in 78 00:03:39.120 --> 00:03:41.639 middle school and there was the New Mickey mouse Club 79 00:03:41.719 --> 00:03:45.000 on TV and there was a girl named Alison in 80 00:03:45.080 --> 00:03:47.120 the New Mickey mouse Club and she had like little 81 00:03:47.120 --> 00:03:49.759 bangs and kind of a bob haircut. If you look 82 00:03:49.800 --> 00:03:53.439 up New Mickey mouse Club Alison, you can see what 83 00:03:53.439 --> 00:03:54.000 she looks like. 84 00:03:54.439 --> 00:03:55.479 Oh, she's real cute. 85 00:03:55.919 --> 00:03:59.240 And that was the first girl that I ever like again. 86 00:03:59.280 --> 00:04:01.240 We were about to say mate, probably about fourteen, and 87 00:04:01.240 --> 00:04:06.439 I was like, Oh, she's so cute. I don't remember 88 00:04:06.599 --> 00:04:11.159 anybody ever like appealing to my sense of Oh my god, 89 00:04:11.240 --> 00:04:13.319 she's so cute before her Yeah, what about you? 90 00:04:14.120 --> 00:04:16.920 Mine's probably the first thing that popped in my mind 91 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:21.000 was Cornelius from the Thumbollina movie, which is a cartoon, 92 00:04:21.360 --> 00:04:23.079 but I thought he was so fine. He was a 93 00:04:23.079 --> 00:04:25.959 fairy and he sang a song and that was beautiful. 94 00:04:26.000 --> 00:04:29.879 But like real life, probably John Travolta in Greece really 95 00:04:29.920 --> 00:04:31.959 when he like turns around after he's like leaning on 96 00:04:32.000 --> 00:04:33.759 the wall and he's got a cigarette in his mouth. 97 00:04:33.839 --> 00:04:36.439 I was like probably five years old watching that, being 98 00:04:36.480 --> 00:04:38.279 like that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in 99 00:04:38.279 --> 00:04:38.800 my life. 100 00:04:39.439 --> 00:04:41.480 Isn't that funny? You don't really understand your feelings, but 101 00:04:41.560 --> 00:04:44.120 it's like, oh god, I just really like crazy out 102 00:04:44.160 --> 00:04:45.879 the womb? What about you? Jenny? 103 00:04:45.959 --> 00:04:51.360 Mine was Zach Effron Ephron in Summerland slash High School 104 00:04:51.399 --> 00:04:52.759 musical Now Late. 105 00:04:53.079 --> 00:04:54.279 You didn't like boys before then? 106 00:04:54.639 --> 00:04:58.040 Well, I was only I Well, I feel like sexual awakening. 107 00:04:58.360 --> 00:05:00.759 I don't know, I don't really remember, like I had 108 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:03.360 crushes on boys, but I don't remember like watching some 109 00:05:03.519 --> 00:05:05.199 famous person when I was ten. 110 00:05:05.079 --> 00:05:06.759 And being like, oh, oh he's fine. 111 00:05:06.800 --> 00:05:09.040 I mean, like Summerline came out when I was like 112 00:05:09.279 --> 00:05:10.319 thirteen or fourteen. 113 00:05:10.439 --> 00:05:12.800 Wow. So then I feel like a creep because mine 114 00:05:12.839 --> 00:05:14.399 was like five years old. It's wrong with that. 115 00:05:14.519 --> 00:05:17.680 I just I feel like I don't remember thinking anyone 116 00:05:17.720 --> 00:05:19.240 was like famous was hot. 117 00:05:19.360 --> 00:05:21.399 Yeah, you got him in your prime, or you got 118 00:05:21.480 --> 00:05:22.519 zac Efron in his prime. 119 00:05:22.600 --> 00:05:23.240 Yeah. 120 00:05:23.439 --> 00:05:25.720 Next email says, please don't say my name so we 121 00:05:25.800 --> 00:05:28.720 can definitely respect that. I was listening to the show 122 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:32.680 replay and I figured i'd share my two cents about 123 00:05:32.720 --> 00:05:35.680 the jim Hogs because we were talking about guys at 124 00:05:35.680 --> 00:05:38.199 the gym, and it's mostly guys who hog the equipment 125 00:05:38.199 --> 00:05:39.920 and we'll, you know, like sit on the end of 126 00:05:39.959 --> 00:05:42.720 the bench and sit on the equipment and look at 127 00:05:42.759 --> 00:05:45.199 their phone. And somebody justified that by saying, you know what, 128 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:46.839 I got a rest. I got to get my cardio 129 00:05:46.959 --> 00:05:49.000 back down or I won't be able to do an 130 00:05:49.040 --> 00:05:51.920 effective set. Okay, so there is some justification. I guess. 131 00:05:53.040 --> 00:05:55.040 They say, I go once a week, and I countered 132 00:05:55.040 --> 00:05:57.040 this and counter this time and time again. I'd argue 133 00:05:57.079 --> 00:05:59.360 it's a bigger problem on free weights and weight machines 134 00:05:59.360 --> 00:06:02.800 because there are up them, particularly ones where there's only 135 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:04.720 one of its kind in the gym case. In point, 136 00:06:04.839 --> 00:06:08.439 A couple of months ago, I spent no joke, almost 137 00:06:08.480 --> 00:06:11.040 twenty minutes waiting for a machine that my gym only 138 00:06:11.079 --> 00:06:13.879 has one of is being hogged by this one infamous 139 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:17.720 Jim Rat, whose presence is always known because of his loud, 140 00:06:17.720 --> 00:06:20.279 obnoxious voice in the fact that he never shuts up. 141 00:06:21.199 --> 00:06:21.319 Uh. 142 00:06:22.079 --> 00:06:25.560 And after twenty minutes, I gave up and I found 143 00:06:25.560 --> 00:06:28.360 an alternate exercise. But the guy would do one set, 144 00:06:28.439 --> 00:06:30.439 chat with his Jim bros. For five minutes, then do 145 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:33.040 another set, and so on. I tend to keep myself 146 00:06:33.040 --> 00:06:34.720 and I never spoke to his side f him. One 147 00:06:34.720 --> 00:06:37.000 time he stepped away from a bench, so I went 148 00:06:37.040 --> 00:06:39.000 to use it thinking he was done, only for him 149 00:06:39.000 --> 00:06:42.120 to come back and kick me off. Another pet peeve. 150 00:06:42.160 --> 00:06:43.759 If you're not done and need to step away for 151 00:06:43.800 --> 00:06:47.040 a drink, leave something there to claim it. Anyway, just 152 00:06:47.120 --> 00:06:49.079 wanted to add to the discussion because I find it 153 00:06:49.160 --> 00:06:52.319 kind of funny but slightly annoying. It's one thing to 154 00:06:52.360 --> 00:06:54.439 take a quick break between sets and use your phone, 155 00:06:54.439 --> 00:06:56.639 but another to sit there for links of time chatting 156 00:06:56.759 --> 00:07:00.439 and or texting. Moral of the story, remember, Jim could 157 00:07:00.480 --> 00:07:03.319 be respectful, do your workout and get out there. 158 00:07:03.560 --> 00:07:05.360 You can always chime in and be like, hey, do 159 00:07:05.360 --> 00:07:07.040 you mind if I work in a set here quick 160 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:09.439 in between yours and ask? But I know that that's 161 00:07:09.439 --> 00:07:11.879 like uncomfortable for a lot of people, but trainers do 162 00:07:11.920 --> 00:07:13.399 that to me all the time. Like I'll be in 163 00:07:13.439 --> 00:07:15.399 the middle of like using something and then they'll realize 164 00:07:15.399 --> 00:07:17.040 that I was just using it and they're like, oh, sorry, 165 00:07:17.079 --> 00:07:19.240 you can work in one like like in between it. 166 00:07:19.279 --> 00:07:20.279 I was like, yeah, okay. 167 00:07:20.600 --> 00:07:23.120 I get like the people who are because people were 168 00:07:23.160 --> 00:07:27.000 defending like machine hogs yesterday saying, oh, well, they have to, 169 00:07:27.040 --> 00:07:29.240 you know, breathe, they have to rest, they have to 170 00:07:29.279 --> 00:07:31.600 do that, so that's why they're sitting there on their phone. 171 00:07:31.800 --> 00:07:33.720 I just think if you're sitting on your phone and 172 00:07:33.759 --> 00:07:35.319 you're like, oh, I got to take a rest break, 173 00:07:35.319 --> 00:07:37.439 but then you get distracted by your phone, your rest 174 00:07:37.439 --> 00:07:39.879 break turns into like the length of three rest. 175 00:07:39.680 --> 00:07:40.720 Breaks before you start. 176 00:07:40.920 --> 00:07:42.480 Yes, that's true, take. 177 00:07:42.360 --> 00:07:45.040 A rest break, fine, but don't look at your phone. 178 00:07:45.079 --> 00:07:47.560 Just sit there. Can't you just sit there and wait? 179 00:07:47.759 --> 00:07:51.120 Honestly, that's difficult. That's what we re goo to so much. 180 00:07:51.160 --> 00:07:53.600 I was at ukulele lessons last night and I got 181 00:07:53.600 --> 00:07:57.079 there about four minutes early, I sit in the hallway. Well, 182 00:07:57.079 --> 00:07:58.879 of course, what's the first thing I do. I pull 183 00:07:58.920 --> 00:07:59.600 out my phone. 184 00:08:00.040 --> 00:08:01.759 I just get bored by my phone eventually. 185 00:08:02.040 --> 00:08:04.720 Yeah, I don't know. We do social media, so I'm 186 00:08:04.720 --> 00:08:07.800 always checking to see how the latest post did. I 187 00:08:07.839 --> 00:08:09.720 did one last night. It was very disappointed. I was 188 00:08:09.839 --> 00:08:12.279 very excited about this new magic trick that I got. Yeah, 189 00:08:12.279 --> 00:08:13.920 with the yellow sticks. And if you go look at 190 00:08:13.920 --> 00:08:16.360 my Instagram you'll see the yellow stick trick. Did you 191 00:08:16.439 --> 00:08:16.920 like it at all? 192 00:08:17.199 --> 00:08:17.399 Yeah? 193 00:08:17.399 --> 00:08:18.759 I was trying to figure out how it happened. 194 00:08:18.759 --> 00:08:21.240 Well that's what it already does. Yeah, And I really 195 00:08:21.240 --> 00:08:24.839 thought that people would be like whoa, because when I 196 00:08:24.879 --> 00:08:28.199 saw it, I was like whoa. But I kept looking 197 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:32.159 at it like before you classes, and it was like, eh, okay, 198 00:08:33.000 --> 00:08:36.039 nothing really there. But then we did something stupid like 199 00:08:36.080 --> 00:08:39.080 the fruit by the Foot challenge a month ago and 200 00:08:39.159 --> 00:08:42.399 it killed. And the one with Genny zapping me on 201 00:08:42.440 --> 00:08:45.600 the behind with a taser gun that killed too. 202 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:47.919 Told you it was content, it was worth it. 203 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:50.440 It's all kind of you're right content. I'm thinking the 204 00:08:50.440 --> 00:08:53.840 one with Joan Murray that might get some good interaction 205 00:08:53.919 --> 00:08:55.000 and views traction. 206 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:57.600 Yeah, hopefully all right, next one. 207 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:00.279 Actually that's a little bit more serious. You're not going 208 00:09:00.320 --> 00:09:02.039 to deal with that one right now, so we'll do 209 00:09:02.120 --> 00:09:06.039 something a little bit more fun. You can use my name. Hello, 210 00:09:06.159 --> 00:09:08.279 my favorite morning show crew from Megan. I liked the 211 00:09:08.279 --> 00:09:11.320 Minnesota Goodbye last week with Vont Bailey and Jenny, so 212 00:09:11.399 --> 00:09:12.919 I thought I would point out things that I love 213 00:09:12.919 --> 00:09:16.440 about each of you. Dave, I love how you've been 214 00:09:16.519 --> 00:09:18.639 with all phases in life. I've been listening since i 215 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:22.240 was eight and I'm thirty eight now. Well, you know, 216 00:09:22.320 --> 00:09:24.399 you think about it. When I got here, I had 217 00:09:24.440 --> 00:09:28.320 an infant, a toddler daughter. I had a nine year 218 00:09:28.360 --> 00:09:33.879 old daughter, and I had Chase wasn't even born yet. 219 00:09:33.879 --> 00:09:36.240 He was born about two weeks after I got here. Wow, 220 00:09:36.519 --> 00:09:39.840 and he's a dad now, which is really weird. And 221 00:09:39.919 --> 00:09:43.480 I was still eight years or so away from having Carson, 222 00:09:44.159 --> 00:09:47.600 so life is definitely changed. I was still a young 223 00:09:47.919 --> 00:09:53.840 dad back then. Yeah, and I wasn't married. Vont, you 224 00:09:53.919 --> 00:09:55.679 are such a good addition to the show. You're very 225 00:09:55.759 --> 00:09:59.279 eloquent until you stirred the pot boy take a right 226 00:09:59.480 --> 00:10:04.159 on a red light, ha Bailey. I love hearing your 227 00:10:04.240 --> 00:10:07.519 random show turn out bursts hilarious. Also, I relate to 228 00:10:07.559 --> 00:10:09.679 speech because my sixteen year old daughter is in speech 229 00:10:09.720 --> 00:10:12.159 and she goes to State at Shockapee in a week 230 00:10:12.279 --> 00:10:12.440 or so. 231 00:10:12.559 --> 00:10:14.240 Hey, same, I'll see her there. Tell her come say 232 00:10:14.279 --> 00:10:15.440 hi seriously, will you? Yeah? 233 00:10:15.440 --> 00:10:17.120 Because well I have four kids who are going to State, 234 00:10:17.200 --> 00:10:18.720 So have your daughter come and say hi? 235 00:10:19.960 --> 00:10:23.799 Okay. Then she goes to say and seriously. Bailey means that. 236 00:10:24.039 --> 00:10:24.279 Yeah. 237 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:26.840 You know she's out somewhere. You might think, Oh, Bailey's working. 238 00:10:26.879 --> 00:10:29.039 I can't see, I can't say hi, I can't bother no, 239 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:34.039 please feel free. Okay. Finally they get to Jenny. Let's see, 240 00:10:34.080 --> 00:10:37.960 I got to open up the right window again here, Jenny, Oh, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny. 241 00:10:38.919 --> 00:10:40.799 I think I relate to you the most. I love 242 00:10:40.840 --> 00:10:42.799 how you are always so kind and are able to 243 00:10:42.799 --> 00:10:48.360 be vulnerable with virtuals strangers. Keep up the good work, y'all. 244 00:10:48.639 --> 00:10:54.279 No dart licking here gross from Megan. All right, Megan, 245 00:10:54.279 --> 00:10:57.159 thank you appreciate that. It's very nice and something totally different. 246 00:10:57.519 --> 00:10:59.240 I mean, who doesn't want to hear what somebody likes 247 00:10:59.240 --> 00:11:01.440 about you? And I tell you I want to tell 248 00:11:01.480 --> 00:11:03.559 you two life hacks, and I'm going to see if 249 00:11:03.559 --> 00:11:06.080 I can remember both of them. So, remember we talked 250 00:11:06.120 --> 00:11:11.639 to somebody on the show the other day about their partner, 251 00:11:11.639 --> 00:11:15.559 their husband. I think her partner died, like suddenly died, 252 00:11:15.960 --> 00:11:19.720 and we were talking about grief, and I was one 253 00:11:19.759 --> 00:11:23.840 of the salespeople that works here. She said that her 254 00:11:25.039 --> 00:11:27.440 is the father of somebody that she know that died 255 00:11:27.559 --> 00:11:30.600 was listening that day. So, in other words, his daughter died. 256 00:11:31.279 --> 00:11:33.879 He was listening to the show that day. And he 257 00:11:34.039 --> 00:11:37.639 told this person, who then told me, when you meet 258 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:42.440 somebody whose person has died, whether it's their mom, their child, 259 00:11:42.519 --> 00:11:45.519 their sibling, their partner, you don't know what to say. 260 00:11:45.559 --> 00:11:48.320 So you're like, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. And 261 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:49.559 a lot of the time you put your foot in 262 00:11:49.559 --> 00:11:52.200 your mouth and say something like, but you know you're 263 00:11:52.240 --> 00:11:55.080 lucky you had enough time with you, something stupid. So 264 00:11:55.399 --> 00:11:58.639 they what he suggested that he really liked is, hey, 265 00:11:58.639 --> 00:12:01.320 tell me your favorite memory of them. What's your favorite 266 00:12:01.320 --> 00:12:05.000 memory of them? And I thought, wow, because everybody wants 267 00:12:05.000 --> 00:12:07.279 to keep their memory alive. So if you meet somebody 268 00:12:07.320 --> 00:12:10.559 who's lost their mom recently or lost their you know, 269 00:12:11.320 --> 00:12:15.799 sibling or partner or whatever, say what's your favorite memory 270 00:12:15.799 --> 00:12:18.360 of them? So my friend who lost her son in 271 00:12:18.399 --> 00:12:22.480 the motorcycle accident. I acted like it was out of 272 00:12:22.480 --> 00:12:24.279 the blue. And I texted her yesterday and we were 273 00:12:24.320 --> 00:12:26.879 talking about her son, and I said, what's your favorite memory? 274 00:12:26.879 --> 00:12:28.840 And she said, oh, my gosh, so many and she 275 00:12:28.919 --> 00:12:32.159 told me some very funny little stories. And so I 276 00:12:32.200 --> 00:12:37.559 really like that. Here's another little life hack. And I 277 00:12:37.559 --> 00:12:40.240 think I saw this on Instagram. How do you get 278 00:12:40.240 --> 00:12:43.600 people to like you? What do you do? What's the 279 00:12:43.639 --> 00:12:45.799 big mystery question? Like, well, how do you get people 280 00:12:45.840 --> 00:12:51.159 to like you? They say that when you're around somebody, 281 00:12:51.759 --> 00:12:54.600 you say something really nice about somebody who's not there, 282 00:12:55.120 --> 00:12:59.759 and that person will then attribute those those those things 283 00:12:59.799 --> 00:13:01.799 to you. So let me give you an example. Yeah, 284 00:13:01.840 --> 00:13:03.519 so let's say Jenny and I are hanging out and 285 00:13:03.559 --> 00:13:05.720 talking and Jenny doesn't know me very well. Yeah, I'd 286 00:13:05.759 --> 00:13:08.679 be like, you know that, Bailey, she is just the kindest, sweetest, 287 00:13:08.679 --> 00:13:13.639 hardest working person. Ever. Something inside our brains will make 288 00:13:13.840 --> 00:13:18.360 us think the person who is saying that has those attributes. Sure, yeah, 289 00:13:18.360 --> 00:13:19.000 does that make sense? 290 00:13:19.080 --> 00:13:19.840 Yeah, it makes sense. 291 00:13:19.919 --> 00:13:22.440 Yeah, So I should start complimenting other people when I 292 00:13:22.480 --> 00:13:25.720 speak to essentially strangers or acquaintances. 293 00:13:25.879 --> 00:13:27.600 That's what that's what the guy on Instagram said. Now 294 00:13:27.639 --> 00:13:30.159 I know the way that he says. It's brain science, 295 00:13:30.440 --> 00:13:32.720 and it's always nice to hear somebody say something nice. 296 00:13:33.159 --> 00:13:35.039 Say This good habit to get into is just to 297 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:37.720 be like, think of others in a kind manner and 298 00:13:37.759 --> 00:13:40.720 then potentially even speak on it. I always say, I 299 00:13:40.759 --> 00:13:43.879 always tell other people like I don't think of it 300 00:13:43.919 --> 00:13:45.600 in the way like how to get people to like you, 301 00:13:45.679 --> 00:13:48.879 But if you can give someone a compliment, like give 302 00:13:48.919 --> 00:13:50.919 them a compliment to their face, like you could think 303 00:13:50.960 --> 00:13:53.320 it like, oh, Dave looks really nice today, or oh 304 00:13:53.399 --> 00:13:55.639 Dave did a really funny bit today and I really 305 00:13:55.720 --> 00:13:57.919 liked that. And thinking it is one thing, but why 306 00:13:57.960 --> 00:14:00.799 don't you say something and out because then you can 307 00:14:00.799 --> 00:14:01.519 make someone's day. 308 00:14:02.519 --> 00:14:04.879 Yeah, I think people sometimes forget how powerful that can be. 309 00:14:05.080 --> 00:14:08.759 So all right, next one and this is our last one. 310 00:14:08.919 --> 00:14:10.759 Just came in a minute to go, says hello radio 311 00:14:10.840 --> 00:14:14.080 family from another Sarah. Tonight, I'm going on a direct 312 00:14:14.080 --> 00:14:18.039 flight to Billings, Montana to get my new used car. 313 00:14:18.480 --> 00:14:20.639 My oldbum broke down about a month ago during rush 314 00:14:20.679 --> 00:14:23.919 hour on Portland Avenue off of four ninety four. I 315 00:14:23.960 --> 00:14:25.840 had a sinking feeling that would be the last time 316 00:14:25.879 --> 00:14:30.480 I'd be driving my very loved first car. I asked 317 00:14:30.519 --> 00:14:33.159 my parents if they would co sign for me as 318 00:14:33.159 --> 00:14:35.840 my credit score went down due to some unseen activity 319 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:39.399 or lack of responsibility. They declined, but I persevered and 320 00:14:39.440 --> 00:14:42.799 found my dream car. My parents are very frugal and 321 00:14:42.919 --> 00:14:45.279 think that the car was a little bit excessive and 322 00:14:45.320 --> 00:14:48.200 too luxurious. This would be my second car that I 323 00:14:48.240 --> 00:14:50.440 paid for on my own, and I've never asked my 324 00:14:50.519 --> 00:14:54.240 parents for money or anything in my entire life. Tell 325 00:14:54.279 --> 00:14:57.039 me why I haven't told my parents. I'm flying out 326 00:14:57.039 --> 00:14:59.679 to go get this car, and I'm already nervous to 327 00:14:59.679 --> 00:15:01.480 pick up my kids with my new car from my 328 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:04.399 parents this weekend. The judgmental look I can see on 329 00:15:04.440 --> 00:15:08.000 my dad's face is making me feel queasy. I'm thirty five. 330 00:15:08.039 --> 00:15:10.320 In less than a month, I make good money. Car 331 00:15:10.399 --> 00:15:12.039 is half the price of a brand new one. I 332 00:15:12.039 --> 00:15:14.240 feel like a little kid. Okay, nobody asked, But there's 333 00:15:14.639 --> 00:15:18.320 there's my troubles for this week. Anybody else have judging parents? 334 00:15:18.759 --> 00:15:21.840 That's from Sarah Sarah the MT. I think she means 335 00:15:21.879 --> 00:15:27.120 massage therapist. Okay, I can tell you a little story 336 00:15:27.200 --> 00:15:29.960 when I first got my first new car, my car 337 00:15:30.039 --> 00:15:33.039 broke down. The trade in value on my Volkswagon that 338 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:36.799 broke down was twenty five dollars. Now, I didn't know 339 00:15:36.840 --> 00:15:38.960 that you can bargain with your trade in value. They 340 00:15:38.960 --> 00:15:41.120 offered me twenty five bucks. And I'm like, oh, Kurt, 341 00:15:41.200 --> 00:15:45.879 we stupid. Yeah, And so I go in and I 342 00:15:45.960 --> 00:15:48.000 got a Toyota Mr. 343 00:15:48.080 --> 00:15:48.279 Two. 344 00:15:48.559 --> 00:15:50.240 If you want to look it up. It's a sporty 345 00:15:50.360 --> 00:15:54.320 little car that was popular back then. Toyota Mr two 346 00:15:54.799 --> 00:15:58.480 two seater, very sporty. I asked my dad, will you 347 00:15:58.519 --> 00:16:00.399 co sign for me? He said, no, you don't need 348 00:16:00.440 --> 00:16:04.399 a sports car. And I was so pissed and so hurt. 349 00:16:05.000 --> 00:16:06.240 You're looking at a sharp, liking. 350 00:16:06.120 --> 00:16:09.039 Car, right, I mean, yeah, it is. Actually it's not bad, 351 00:16:09.159 --> 00:16:09.799 it's cute. 352 00:16:10.799 --> 00:16:12.840 He said you don't need a sports car and he 353 00:16:12.879 --> 00:16:16.080 wouldn't co sign. So I was so crushed because he 354 00:16:16.120 --> 00:16:19.960 had loaned my brother and sisters many times, lots of money. 355 00:16:20.200 --> 00:16:23.200 But I didn't need a loan. I had my own money. 356 00:16:23.200 --> 00:16:25.879 I just didn't have any credit. So he wouldn't co sign, 357 00:16:25.879 --> 00:16:27.919 and I was just pissed and I hung up on him. 358 00:16:28.279 --> 00:16:31.440 I've never hung up or disrespected my dad. Ever. But 359 00:16:31.480 --> 00:16:35.600 I was so pissed I hung up, And the next morning, 360 00:16:35.600 --> 00:16:37.799 the car dealership calls and they said, hey, you know what, 361 00:16:38.279 --> 00:16:39.559 We're going to go ahead and let you get that 362 00:16:39.559 --> 00:16:40.559 car without a co signer. 363 00:16:40.639 --> 00:16:41.080 Oh nice. 364 00:16:41.159 --> 00:16:43.559 Yeah, well, because they wanted to sell a car, and 365 00:16:43.639 --> 00:16:47.360 so my dad must have gotten, you know, chewed out 366 00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:49.759 by my mom. So he calls. He's like, yeah, I 367 00:16:49.799 --> 00:16:52.240 go so co signed for you, And I triumphantly said 368 00:16:52.600 --> 00:16:56.399 I don't need you to now, Yeah, but yeah, I 369 00:16:56.720 --> 00:16:59.840 totally get the whole thing. So she says, you know, 370 00:17:00.039 --> 00:17:01.799 why haven't I told my parents I'm flying out to 371 00:17:01.799 --> 00:17:04.920 get this car. I will tell you this, you're thirty five. 372 00:17:06.039 --> 00:17:08.799 That respect for your parents never goes away. No, even 373 00:17:08.799 --> 00:17:11.640 when my dad was frail and eighty eight years old 374 00:17:11.880 --> 00:17:15.759 and hunched over and had lost four inches of his height, 375 00:17:16.279 --> 00:17:18.920 I still was intimidated by him to a degree. Yeah, 376 00:17:19.000 --> 00:17:21.599 because you just always had that respect and fear in 377 00:17:21.640 --> 00:17:22.880 wanting to please your parents. 378 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:25.000 Right, Like, I will never ever in a million years 379 00:17:25.039 --> 00:17:27.400 talk back to my mom. And anytime I swear in 380 00:17:27.400 --> 00:17:29.039 front of my mom, I feel weird doing it, so 381 00:17:29.079 --> 00:17:31.559 I just don't because I would never as a kid, 382 00:17:31.799 --> 00:17:33.359 I would never talk back to my mom. I'd never 383 00:17:33.400 --> 00:17:35.000 swear in front of her, and I never will. 384 00:17:36.680 --> 00:17:38.640 I don't know. I mean, other people are different. 385 00:17:38.319 --> 00:17:40.240 To certain people, but that's only because I think that 386 00:17:40.279 --> 00:17:42.119 they are being disrespectful in a way that I don't 387 00:17:42.119 --> 00:17:46.039 agree with. My mom isn't exactly the most PC person sometimes, 388 00:17:46.119 --> 00:17:49.680 so neither's mine either. I will always correct her, and 389 00:17:49.759 --> 00:17:51.920 when she fights me, I will fight back in those 390 00:17:51.920 --> 00:17:54.880 moments so that I have no problem with. 391 00:17:54.839 --> 00:17:57.359 I definitely, I definitely not fight back. 392 00:17:57.400 --> 00:18:00.079 But like if my mom says something that's you know, not, 393 00:18:00.720 --> 00:18:02.960 I will be like, hey, you can't say that, and 394 00:18:03.000 --> 00:18:05.160 then she just usually drops it because she doesn't want 395 00:18:05.160 --> 00:18:06.519 to get into a fight, and I don't want to 396 00:18:06.519 --> 00:18:08.119 get into a fight, and I wouldn't fight with her, 397 00:18:08.400 --> 00:18:10.599 so then it would just become far too awkward. 398 00:18:10.640 --> 00:18:13.160 But I know what you mean, Jenny, Okay, And. 399 00:18:13.039 --> 00:18:15.839 That is going to do it for the Minnesota good 400 00:18:16.200 --> 00:18:20.799 Bye thought starters, Emails, questions, something that's been on your mind. 401 00:18:20.839 --> 00:18:23.480