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<v Speaker 1>difficult to make up your mind. Come on, we've all

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<v Speaker 1>been there. Having that power of choice can actually weaken

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<v Speaker 1>a person's heart. On this episode, we're going to put

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<v Speaker 1>focus on a movie where the character elects to pause

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<v Speaker 1>in a moment of rage, when in reality, would we

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<v Speaker 1>find that much time to think about the consequences. Plus,

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<v Speaker 1>if you work for a living, why are you killing

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to work so much? My name is Arrow. Life

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<v Speaker 1>is a series of choices. Who decides when you're not

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<v Speaker 1>making the right choice? And is it a fear of

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<v Speaker 1>things going wrong? The greatest lessons in life are often

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<v Speaker 1>lost inside hidden away attempts and concepts. It's time to

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<v Speaker 1>reopen that heart. Having a power of choice is actually

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<v Speaker 1>your daily gift on this highway. It's time to learn

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<v Speaker 1>how to trust mirages. What is the choice? Let's set

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<v Speaker 1>it up the movie scene a woman holding a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>The choice is to shoot him or walk away. Why

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<v Speaker 1>does it take so long to make up your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>What a decision this woman has to face. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a movie, not reality. The long pause in the film

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<v Speaker 1>where a gun is involved gets its own space and

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<v Speaker 1>presence because that pause is for us, the viewers of

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<v Speaker 1>the movie. It is more important than the gun itself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the calling is to get those watching to think of

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<v Speaker 1>the woman and what she might be facing in that

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<v Speaker 1>moment of now. Number one, the moral consequences of life

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<v Speaker 1>after pulling that trigger. Number two, emotional conflict the victim

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<v Speaker 1>might be a love interest. Number three, the fear of

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<v Speaker 1>becoming what she hates. Ooh, there's a lot of uncertainty

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<v Speaker 1>in that movie pause, especially when it comes to facing

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<v Speaker 1>the consequences. You see, movie writers and directors know how

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<v Speaker 1>to utilize the strength of the pause the audience. That's us.

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<v Speaker 1>We need more time to buy into the woman's identity.

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<v Speaker 1>Which side of her personality is actually going to win here?

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<v Speaker 1>And will the desire for revenge move on? It's not

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<v Speaker 1>really about the actress in the movie pulling that day trigger.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is she going to be after that moment after

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<v Speaker 1>it arrives? Every bit The reason why scenes in a

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<v Speaker 1>movie like this feels so long it's us We are

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<v Speaker 1>caught up in that pause designed to create mental hesitation

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<v Speaker 1>and then the execution coming up next. If you're working

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<v Speaker 1>for a living, why are you killing yourself working? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for coming back to the choice. If you work

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<v Speaker 1>for a living, why are you killing yourself working? Oo?

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<v Speaker 1>Huge question from the spaghetti western movie The Good, the Bad,

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<v Speaker 1>and the Ugly. But it's very important to make this choice.

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<v Speaker 1>This is one hundred percent all about the challenger taking

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<v Speaker 1>on his or her common assumption. There's a huge, deep meaning.

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<v Speaker 1>If your purpose is to earn enough to live, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you sacrificing your life, health, happiness and freedom to

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<v Speaker 1>show up on someone's time clock. There is a huge

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<v Speaker 1>difference between working and overworking. The latter is actually seen

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<v Speaker 1>as being self destructive. If you're an overworker, does it

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<v Speaker 1>look good? Does it look good? Especially if you're putting

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<v Speaker 1>it on a resume, they'll spot that if you work

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<v Speaker 1>for a living, why do you kill yourself working? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Here's what one mental health expert says. She weighs in

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<v Speaker 1>by saying, making a living, but don't forget to live.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a quote that is designed for you to locate

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<v Speaker 1>that fine line in the sand. It's a real, honest

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<v Speaker 1>to god question that millions of people face, especially today

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<v Speaker 1>where many of us are doing our side hustles, that's

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<v Speaker 1>our new career. Older people face this question a lot

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<v Speaker 1>because with it comes a reflection, because they are questioning

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<v Speaker 1>the quality of their personal lives, looking back at life

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<v Speaker 1>and wondering, well, what would have happened if I would

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<v Speaker 1>have spent more time living and not chasing the almighty buck. Sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>there isn't enough money in the world to buy you

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<v Speaker 1>time back. Many many, many hearts go bankrupt. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a choice. I'm arrow, and that's what I was writing

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<v Speaker 1>while the sun was waking up on a brilliant new day.