WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.279 --> 00:00:05.599 Welcome to the Flourish Frequency, the show where we activate 2 00:00:05.719 --> 00:00:10.240 and amplify the frequencies of success, joy, and abundance. I'm 3 00:00:10.240 --> 00:00:13.800 your host, Beth Larson, a high performance and quantum success coach. 4 00:00:14.759 --> 00:00:17.239 If you're ready to ditch the hard hustle and embrace 5 00:00:17.280 --> 00:00:21.280 a more effortless flow, then this is the show for you. Together, 6 00:00:21.440 --> 00:00:24.719 we'll tap into quantum thinking, harness the laws of the universe, 7 00:00:24.879 --> 00:00:27.719 and unlock the secrets to living a life of more, 8 00:00:28.399 --> 00:00:33.719 more joy, more energy, more passion, more money, and more meaning. 9 00:00:34.320 --> 00:00:38.439 No more simply surviving. We're going beyond thriving. It's time 10 00:00:38.679 --> 00:00:45.759 to flourish. The Flourish Frequency show starts now. Yes, welcome 11 00:00:45.840 --> 00:00:48.679 back to the Flourish Frequency, and I am your host, 12 00:00:48.719 --> 00:00:52.920 Beth Larson. And today for today's episode, I want to 13 00:00:53.000 --> 00:00:56.840 start with a question. Have you ever noticed that there 14 00:00:56.880 --> 00:01:00.399 are times in life where everything feels just hard than 15 00:01:00.399 --> 00:01:05.719 it should. You're working, you're showing up, you're doing all 16 00:01:05.760 --> 00:01:08.719 the things, and yet somehow it kind of feels like 17 00:01:08.719 --> 00:01:12.640 you're pushing a boulder uphill. And then there are other 18 00:01:12.760 --> 00:01:18.120 times when life seems to flow differently. The right conversations 19 00:01:18.239 --> 00:01:21.640 happen just like exactly at the right moment, or you 20 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:24.719 meet the person that you didn't even know you needed 21 00:01:24.719 --> 00:01:28.480 to meet. They just show up and it ends up 22 00:01:28.480 --> 00:01:32.159 being exactly the conversation and the person that needed to 23 00:01:32.480 --> 00:01:36.879 be in your orbit. Or maybe it's a book that 24 00:01:36.920 --> 00:01:39.560 falls into your hands that contains the answer that you've 25 00:01:39.599 --> 00:01:45.040 been searching for, or an opportunity that appears seemingly out 26 00:01:45.079 --> 00:01:48.680 of nowhere. Or maybe you think about somebody and they 27 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:52.400 call and you ask a question and the answer arrives 28 00:01:52.439 --> 00:01:56.680 before you've even finished looking for it. So what is that? 29 00:01:57.799 --> 00:02:01.439 Some people call it luck, Some people will call it coincidence. 30 00:02:02.359 --> 00:02:07.280 Carl Jung called it synchronicity, the experience of meaningful coincidences 31 00:02:07.319 --> 00:02:12.199 that seem just too perfectly timed to ignore. Whatever you 32 00:02:12.280 --> 00:02:15.680 call it, most of us can can say that we've 33 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:18.840 experienced it at some point. And I've been thinking about 34 00:02:18.840 --> 00:02:22.919 this a lot lately, because what if synchronicity isn't random? 35 00:02:24.159 --> 00:02:27.560 What if it is the byproduct of something bigger, which 36 00:02:27.599 --> 00:02:32.919 is magnetism. What if those moments are actually clues that 37 00:02:32.960 --> 00:02:37.919 something inside of you has become more magnetic, become more coherent, 38 00:02:38.719 --> 00:02:44.159 more aligned, more fully expressed. And it's not that life 39 00:02:44.159 --> 00:02:48.159 suddenly started playing favorites. It's not because the universe decided 40 00:02:48.199 --> 00:02:51.759 that you are finally worthy. It's because you become more 41 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:56.000 available to what wants to meet you, to meet your 42 00:02:56.080 --> 00:03:00.759 energy back, and that's what makes this particular week interesting. 43 00:03:02.680 --> 00:03:05.560 The title of the show is about cosmic alignment, so 44 00:03:05.599 --> 00:03:07.319 you might be asking, well, what does that have to 45 00:03:07.360 --> 00:03:12.000 do with synchronicity and magnetism. Well, we're standing inside of 46 00:03:12.000 --> 00:03:16.000 a powerful window of cosmic alignment this particular week, and 47 00:03:16.039 --> 00:03:19.719 it's this window that invites us to become conscious of 48 00:03:19.759 --> 00:03:23.800 our own magnetism. So at the beginning of this week, 49 00:03:23.840 --> 00:03:27.719 we started with a super new moon in Gemini on Sunday, 50 00:03:28.919 --> 00:03:32.680 the solar transit of gene K fifteen, which carries the 51 00:03:32.719 --> 00:03:37.439 gift of magnetism that starts tomorrow, and then at the 52 00:03:37.520 --> 00:03:40.680 end of this week we have, of course the summer solstice. 53 00:03:41.039 --> 00:03:44.199 Well technically it's the beginning of next week on Sunday, 54 00:03:45.479 --> 00:03:48.719 and that is happening at the peak of the gene 55 00:03:48.759 --> 00:03:53.560 Key transit, so it's like an extra lighting up of 56 00:03:53.599 --> 00:03:58.360 that magnetic energy. Now, I don't believe that these events 57 00:03:58.439 --> 00:04:02.319 are creating magnetism for us. What I do believe is 58 00:04:02.319 --> 00:04:05.280 that they create the opportunity for us to notice it 59 00:04:05.960 --> 00:04:09.319 and for us to cultivate it, for us to become 60 00:04:09.319 --> 00:04:12.439 more aware of what amplifies it and what diminishes it 61 00:04:12.479 --> 00:04:15.639 within our own lives, and to pay attention to the 62 00:04:15.639 --> 00:04:19.680 places where we're actually leaking our energy and we're leaking 63 00:04:19.720 --> 00:04:22.720 our very own magnetism, and the places where we actually 64 00:04:22.839 --> 00:04:28.680 create more of it. Because when magnetism increases, synchronicities often 65 00:04:28.720 --> 00:04:32.439 seem to increase right along with it, and that is 66 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:35.439 what we want to explore today. So we're going to 67 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:40.639 talk about these powerful cosmic events, what magnetism actually is, 68 00:04:40.680 --> 00:04:43.839 and what amplifies it in what weakens it, and how 69 00:04:43.839 --> 00:04:47.720 you can consciously work with this energy to become more 70 00:04:47.759 --> 00:04:52.319 fully expressed yourself, to experience way more of those synchronicities, 71 00:04:52.920 --> 00:04:56.480 to experience more of the flow of life instead of 72 00:04:56.519 --> 00:05:00.240 those times of having to push a boulder uphill. Because 73 00:05:00.279 --> 00:05:04.439 in my experience, that's what magnetism really is. It's not 74 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:09.040 becoming someone else, it's becoming more of who you already are. 75 00:05:11.160 --> 00:05:16.079 So let's talk more about this cosmic alignment. Like I said, 76 00:05:16.079 --> 00:05:18.800 we're not looking at a single event here, We're looking 77 00:05:18.839 --> 00:05:23.000 at a sequence of progression throughout the entire week. The 78 00:05:23.040 --> 00:05:26.600 beginning of the week, there's an opportunity to plant seeds, right, 79 00:05:26.639 --> 00:05:31.600 That's what new moons are traditionally, therefore, is to plant 80 00:05:31.600 --> 00:05:35.079 these new intentions, new seeds, and then we move into 81 00:05:35.079 --> 00:05:39.240 the magnetism, the energy of that magnetism, and then at 82 00:05:39.240 --> 00:05:40.800 the end of the week we have an opportunity to 83 00:05:40.839 --> 00:05:44.839 really embody it. And so, like I said, it began 84 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:48.720 with the super new moon. So on Sunday we experienced 85 00:05:48.759 --> 00:05:51.759 that super new moon in Gemni. Now most people have 86 00:05:51.920 --> 00:05:55.920 heard by now of a super moon. In case you haven't, 87 00:05:55.959 --> 00:05:59.240 what does that actually mean? Usually we're hearing it in 88 00:05:59.319 --> 00:06:03.439 relationship to super full moon, right, because it has to 89 00:06:03.519 --> 00:06:09.160 do with the distance that this sorry, the moon is 90 00:06:09.160 --> 00:06:16.240 from Earth related to its orbit. Okay, so what happens 91 00:06:16.240 --> 00:06:18.240 with the full moon when it's a super full moon 92 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:21.319 is it will appear larger and brighter because it's closer 93 00:06:21.319 --> 00:06:24.360 to Earth. I remember once I was driving back to 94 00:06:24.360 --> 00:06:27.480 New York City from the cat Skills and as I 95 00:06:27.560 --> 00:06:30.319 was driving down the highway, you know, I'm coming out 96 00:06:30.319 --> 00:06:32.879 of the mountains and I'm driving down and I literally 97 00:06:32.920 --> 00:06:35.160 looked it happened to be a super full moon. And 98 00:06:35.199 --> 00:06:37.319 it looked like I was literally going to drive right 99 00:06:37.319 --> 00:06:41.360 into the moon. That's how huge it looked. It's no 100 00:06:41.439 --> 00:06:43.959 bigger than the moon ever is. It's not about the 101 00:06:43.959 --> 00:06:47.240 fact that it's actually bigger, but it looks so much bigger, 102 00:06:47.639 --> 00:06:52.000 and it feels so much larger when you're feeling that energy. 103 00:06:53.720 --> 00:06:57.600 A super new moon operates through the same mechanics. You 104 00:06:57.639 --> 00:07:00.680 don't see it the way you see a super full moon, 105 00:07:01.360 --> 00:07:05.720 but you can definitely feel its effects. Its gravitational pull 106 00:07:05.879 --> 00:07:09.839 combines with the Sun and it creates an actual stronger 107 00:07:09.920 --> 00:07:13.680 pull on the tides in the ocean here on Earth. 108 00:07:15.160 --> 00:07:18.040 So symbolically, like I was saying before, new moons have 109 00:07:18.120 --> 00:07:26.560 always representing beginnings, planting seeds, setting intentions, new possibilities, and 110 00:07:26.680 --> 00:07:30.800 Gemini adds another layer here. Gemini is an air sign, 111 00:07:30.800 --> 00:07:37.519 and it influences communication, perspective, curiosity, learning, It influences identity 112 00:07:38.000 --> 00:07:41.399 and how we express ourselves, the stories that we tell 113 00:07:41.399 --> 00:07:44.720 about who we are. So it makes it a really 114 00:07:44.839 --> 00:07:48.079 powerful time here to ask, when you look at this 115 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:52.600 particular super new moon and relationship to yourself, what story 116 00:07:52.639 --> 00:07:57.319 am I ready to rewrite? What identity am I claiming 117 00:07:57.319 --> 00:07:58.000 for myself? 118 00:08:00.120 --> 00:08:00.199 Me? 119 00:08:00.360 --> 00:08:03.199 This New Moon coincided with something that I've been sensing 120 00:08:03.279 --> 00:08:06.600 for several months now, and you know, I've been sharing 121 00:08:06.639 --> 00:08:09.120 here on the show in the last few months everything 122 00:08:09.120 --> 00:08:12.920 that's kind of been coming through in terms of downloading 123 00:08:12.959 --> 00:08:15.839 a lot of things related to the Flourish Codes and 124 00:08:15.920 --> 00:08:20.000 the body of work that I do. The membership program 125 00:08:20.000 --> 00:08:23.920 that I have was one of those things that actually 126 00:08:24.319 --> 00:08:28.759 I realized it was time for its own evolution. Right 127 00:08:30.000 --> 00:08:32.279 when I first started the membership, I think it was 128 00:08:32.320 --> 00:08:36.080 about four years ago. It was called Flourish Alchemy, and 129 00:08:36.600 --> 00:08:39.919 it was a place where magic happens, but it really 130 00:08:39.960 --> 00:08:42.720 was a place for me to have my monthly workshops, 131 00:08:42.759 --> 00:08:48.039 for me to actually teach and share that content. And 132 00:08:48.080 --> 00:08:52.200 it's evolved so much over the last four years, very intentionally, 133 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:56.200 very purposely, and so it was time for a new 134 00:08:56.679 --> 00:08:59.519 iteration of it, a new evolution of it, and a 135 00:08:59.559 --> 00:09:02.960 new name for it. And I chose Sunday, the New 136 00:09:03.000 --> 00:09:06.759 Moon to actually announce and to inaugurate the Flourish Field 137 00:09:08.200 --> 00:09:11.559 formerly known as Flourish Alchemy. But it was more than 138 00:09:11.639 --> 00:09:14.919 just a semantic name change. What really shifted was my 139 00:09:15.039 --> 00:09:18.399 understanding of what this work is ultimately about and what 140 00:09:18.480 --> 00:09:24.360 I kept envisioning and seeing for this community. The field 141 00:09:25.120 --> 00:09:27.320 is a place to plant yourself when you're ready to grow, 142 00:09:28.320 --> 00:09:32.720 when you're ready to evolve, when you're no longer willing 143 00:09:32.759 --> 00:09:37.559 to stay confined by old identities, by old limitations or 144 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:43.000 old ways of being. It's an entry point into my world. Definitely, 145 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:46.720 if somebody's not ready to go into a coaching or 146 00:09:46.759 --> 00:09:50.000 a coaching container, coming into the field is a perfect 147 00:09:50.000 --> 00:09:54.519 place to start. But more importantly, it's an environment that's 148 00:09:54.600 --> 00:09:58.080 designed to support, to nurture, and to nourish you as 149 00:09:58.120 --> 00:10:03.279 you move through the stretch that growth inevitably requires. Because 150 00:10:03.320 --> 00:10:09.200 growth is beautiful, and growth can be really wildly uncomfortable sometimes, 151 00:10:10.759 --> 00:10:16.440 and every expansion really asks something of us. It invites 152 00:10:16.519 --> 00:10:22.440 us to lean in. It asks for more courage, more trust, 153 00:10:23.879 --> 00:10:31.480 more capacity, more willingness to become and the field exists 154 00:10:31.679 --> 00:10:36.480 to support that process, the flourish field. But the bigger 155 00:10:36.559 --> 00:10:38.919 vision that I have for it that keeps popping into 156 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:43.000 my head also is something that goes beyond just the individual. 157 00:10:43.879 --> 00:10:46.240 You know, as these flourish codes really awakened in me, 158 00:10:46.720 --> 00:10:50.440 I recognize that there was a very big distinction between 159 00:10:50.480 --> 00:10:56.399 the states of thriving and flourishing. You know, I've identified 160 00:10:56.399 --> 00:10:58.879 that there's four different stages that we can be in 161 00:10:59.080 --> 00:11:01.639 at any point in time, and I've spoken about this 162 00:11:01.919 --> 00:11:05.399 in a previous show. But you can be in the 163 00:11:05.440 --> 00:11:09.320 state of surviving, you can be in a state of striving, 164 00:11:10.399 --> 00:11:12.519 or you can be in a state of thriving or 165 00:11:12.559 --> 00:11:15.679 even flourishing. I want to speak here for a moment 166 00:11:15.759 --> 00:11:19.240 on thriving and the flourishing because they are very distinct, 167 00:11:19.840 --> 00:11:22.279 and I don't I think there was a point in 168 00:11:22.320 --> 00:11:25.399 time where I thought it flourishing was just beyond thriving 169 00:11:25.919 --> 00:11:29.080 as an individual, and I didn't even fully understand it myself. 170 00:11:29.759 --> 00:11:32.960 But as these codes were downloading, I realized the distinction, 171 00:11:33.279 --> 00:11:39.480 the difference. Thriving is where we master ourselves, where we 172 00:11:39.559 --> 00:11:46.200 master our habits, our emotions, our mindset, our energy. It's 173 00:11:46.240 --> 00:11:50.600 where we are invited to expand our capacity to hold 174 00:11:50.679 --> 00:11:55.240 more so we can have more, and in doing so, 175 00:11:56.039 --> 00:12:00.399 it's also where we experience our own personal fluorescence, our 176 00:12:00.440 --> 00:12:04.120 own gifts that start to burst into bloom. That's what 177 00:12:04.159 --> 00:12:09.879 fluorescence means, bursting into bloom, and that's important work. But 178 00:12:10.080 --> 00:12:15.559 flourishing is where our growth expands outside of us. I 179 00:12:15.600 --> 00:12:18.080 want you to think of it like this. A flower 180 00:12:18.519 --> 00:12:25.840 blooming is beautiful, but a field blooming is magnificent, and 181 00:12:25.879 --> 00:12:33.000 it creates an entire ecosystem. And an ecosystem's success isn't isolated, 182 00:12:33.279 --> 00:12:42.240 it's amplified. Your expansion creates permission for somebody else's expansion. 183 00:12:44.720 --> 00:12:51.679 Your courage inspires somebody else's courage. Your growth contributes to 184 00:12:51.799 --> 00:12:57.320 the health of the greater whole. And it's not because 185 00:12:57.720 --> 00:13:00.879 you're trying to teach anyone something else, or it's not 186 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:07.120 because you know you're you're trying to make anything help 187 00:13:07.240 --> 00:13:09.519 happen for anyone else. It's not because you're trying to 188 00:13:09.559 --> 00:13:15.639 fix anyone else. It simply happens because a fully expressed 189 00:13:15.720 --> 00:13:22.080 life naturally encourages more life, and there's a compound effect 190 00:13:22.120 --> 00:13:26.639 that occurs. And just like in a big field of flowers, 191 00:13:26.879 --> 00:13:31.120 there's pollination. Just like the bees and the butterflies are 192 00:13:31.159 --> 00:13:34.639 attracted to a flower in full bloom in even more 193 00:13:34.720 --> 00:13:37.720 so in a whole field of flowers. When you are 194 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:42.440 in your full expression, being your most authentic, expressed self, 195 00:13:43.679 --> 00:13:48.960 you attract those pollinators. You attract the resources, the relationships, 196 00:13:49.000 --> 00:13:55.919 the opportunities that actually expand you beyond your own effort, 197 00:13:56.320 --> 00:13:59.879 and that's the larger vision of the Flourish Field. For me, 198 00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:04.639 it's not just a membership. It's an ecosystem. And as 199 00:14:04.639 --> 00:14:07.759 I said before, it's an entry point for some people 200 00:14:08.000 --> 00:14:12.320 to come in, but it's also a place where for 201 00:14:12.440 --> 00:14:14.919 every one of my programs, if somebody is doing one 202 00:14:14.919 --> 00:14:16.519 on one coaching with me, or if they're in a 203 00:14:16.519 --> 00:14:19.919 group container or taking a program during the time that 204 00:14:19.919 --> 00:14:21.679 they're in that they're going to get access to the 205 00:14:21.679 --> 00:14:25.960 field because the field is a place to help ground them. 206 00:14:26.399 --> 00:14:30.919 The field provides a structure and support and what I 207 00:14:30.960 --> 00:14:34.399 have recognized for sure, for every one of my clients 208 00:14:34.440 --> 00:14:40.279 that takes advantage of the sessions in the field, it 209 00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:43.399 always amplifies and magnifies the work that we do together. 210 00:14:45.279 --> 00:14:48.399 So that's the field, the flourish field, and that was 211 00:14:48.440 --> 00:14:51.000 the seed that I chose to plant during this new moon. 212 00:14:52.200 --> 00:14:54.840 And now I get to nurture it, I get to trust, 213 00:14:55.000 --> 00:14:59.200 I get to watch it grow. So let's talk about 214 00:14:59.279 --> 00:15:04.399 jan Kief tomorrow. The sun is moving into gen K fifteen. 215 00:15:04.879 --> 00:15:07.399 If you listen to last month's episode, you know that 216 00:15:07.480 --> 00:15:11.720 this gene key played a significant role and inspiration behind 217 00:15:11.960 --> 00:15:15.600 my program fluorescence that I just launched. We're in the 218 00:15:15.639 --> 00:15:20.000 middle of that program right now, and it was this 219 00:15:20.120 --> 00:15:26.000 time last year that actually was what began my entire 220 00:15:26.080 --> 00:15:29.399 journey in relationship to this jinkey. So it was during 221 00:15:29.399 --> 00:15:32.039 the transit last year. Now I will tell you that 222 00:15:32.080 --> 00:15:34.639 I wasn't totally consciously aware of that at the time. 223 00:15:34.720 --> 00:15:39.080 This is one of those famous Steve Jobs moments of 224 00:15:39.159 --> 00:15:41.159 you can't connect the dots looking forward, you can only 225 00:15:41.200 --> 00:15:44.320 connect them looking backwards. So I can tell you that 226 00:15:44.399 --> 00:15:48.159 looking backwards, it totally makes complete sense now where this 227 00:15:48.240 --> 00:15:52.720 all began. But here we are again, we'retransing it. And 228 00:15:52.840 --> 00:15:55.440 this year when I was launching it, there was a 229 00:15:55.480 --> 00:15:57.960 slight delay in the launch and it ended up being 230 00:15:58.000 --> 00:16:01.679 perfect because it ended up being in the month of 231 00:16:01.720 --> 00:16:05.039 the transit. So here we are in the middle of 232 00:16:05.080 --> 00:16:07.960 the program. It's a five week program or three weeks 233 00:16:07.960 --> 00:16:11.559 in and this week the module was all about magnetism, 234 00:16:11.679 --> 00:16:16.320 because again that's the gift of this gene key, the city, 235 00:16:16.879 --> 00:16:21.399 or the divine gift that the divine gift that expresses 236 00:16:21.440 --> 00:16:26.559 itself when you lean into your magnetism is fluorescence. It 237 00:16:26.600 --> 00:16:31.159 is life bursting into bloom. It is these synchronicities that 238 00:16:31.200 --> 00:16:35.320 start to begin happening, and things that maybe it's work 239 00:16:35.360 --> 00:16:38.759 that's meant to come through you or creative expression that's 240 00:16:38.799 --> 00:16:41.159 meant to come through you that you just can't stop, 241 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:44.759 and you wouldn't you don't want to, because it's life. 242 00:16:44.799 --> 00:16:50.360 It's expressing itself. Now, whether this gene key exists in 243 00:16:50.399 --> 00:16:54.759 your own personal profile or not, the transit itself invites 244 00:16:54.840 --> 00:16:59.519 all of us into relationship with this energy, which raises 245 00:17:00.000 --> 00:17:09.319 important question what actually creates magnetism. Most people think magnetism 246 00:17:09.839 --> 00:17:17.519 is about attracting more or charisma. Right to an extent, 247 00:17:17.559 --> 00:17:22.960 that's true, but it's more than that. Magnetism isn't so 248 00:17:23.079 --> 00:17:25.359 much something that you have to add or something that 249 00:17:25.400 --> 00:17:30.359 you have to do. It's something that you uncover, right, 250 00:17:30.480 --> 00:17:33.839 It's something that's already in you that you get to 251 00:17:33.920 --> 00:17:38.000 turn up and amplify. Now, we're going to explore this 252 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:40.519 more in the next segment after we take a break, 253 00:17:40.880 --> 00:17:43.000 but before we do, I just want to touch on 254 00:17:43.039 --> 00:17:46.640 real quickly, the summer solstice again. We arrive at the 255 00:17:46.640 --> 00:17:49.160 summer solstice at the end of this week, at the 256 00:17:49.160 --> 00:17:52.079 beginning of next week, the longest day of the year, 257 00:17:53.519 --> 00:18:00.279 maximum light, maximum illumination. But something that I find I'm 258 00:18:00.759 --> 00:18:06.519 interesting is that while most people think the solstice represents expansion, 259 00:18:06.880 --> 00:18:09.880 I would say, yes, it does, but it's even bigger 260 00:18:09.880 --> 00:18:15.559 than that. It also represents a culmination, a turning point, 261 00:18:16.839 --> 00:18:21.599 right because from that moment forward we start to move 262 00:18:21.680 --> 00:18:29.240 back into contraction. The moment expansion reaches its fullest expression, 263 00:18:29.359 --> 00:18:34.559 it begins its return. And nature understands something that many 264 00:18:34.599 --> 00:18:37.559 of us as human beings have forgotten, and that is 265 00:18:37.599 --> 00:18:44.000 that expansion and contraction are actually partners. They're not enemies. 266 00:18:44.039 --> 00:18:47.599 And contraction is not a bad thing when you are 267 00:18:47.640 --> 00:18:50.599 in right relationship with it, when you are in a 268 00:18:50.680 --> 00:18:54.160 flow with it, when you understand that it's part of 269 00:18:54.200 --> 00:18:57.839 the law of rhythm, and when you can do that, 270 00:18:57.920 --> 00:19:00.200 when you understand all that and you know how to 271 00:19:00.240 --> 00:19:06.799 work with that energy, your magnetism continues even in contraction. 272 00:19:07.640 --> 00:19:11.400 That doesn't mean you're magnetizing back negative things to you. 273 00:19:12.680 --> 00:19:15.880 It means that you're continuing to pull things in even 274 00:19:15.920 --> 00:19:23.160 when maybe you're not seeing the full path forward. So remember, 275 00:19:23.240 --> 00:19:27.400 expansion and contraction, they're partners, they're not enemies. The longest 276 00:19:27.480 --> 00:19:31.720 day of the year already contains the first seed of 277 00:19:31.759 --> 00:19:36.599 the longer night think about that. So that brings us 278 00:19:36.640 --> 00:19:41.440 back to magnetism, because true magnetism is an endless expansion 279 00:19:42.039 --> 00:19:46.079 and it's never having contraction. What it is is about 280 00:19:46.119 --> 00:19:51.640 coherence and alignment, and about being able to hold that 281 00:19:51.799 --> 00:19:58.920 tension when the contraction occurs, and creating even intentional tension 282 00:19:59.240 --> 00:20:03.559 for yourself between where you are and where you're going, 283 00:20:03.799 --> 00:20:08.839 where you want to be as you move forward and 284 00:20:08.920 --> 00:20:12.440 you start to express yourself fully, that version of you 285 00:20:12.480 --> 00:20:17.839 that's trying to emerge, that next level of you. If 286 00:20:17.880 --> 00:20:20.680 you can hold the tension in a way that creates 287 00:20:20.880 --> 00:20:27.519 leverage and momentum without collapsing back, then that brings you 288 00:20:27.559 --> 00:20:33.559 into a much bigger expansion overall. I want you to 289 00:20:34.000 --> 00:20:37.680 think about this for a second. A rose doesn't attract 290 00:20:37.720 --> 00:20:41.480 bees because it's striving harder than the other flowers in 291 00:20:41.480 --> 00:20:47.759 the field. It attracts because it's fully expressing its nature. 292 00:20:48.720 --> 00:20:54.599 It's being its true self, it's allowing its radiance to 293 00:20:54.640 --> 00:20:59.279 come through. That distinction is very important. So we're going 294 00:20:59.319 --> 00:21:01.680 to take a quick break here. 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We're 324 00:23:34.440 --> 00:23:40.319 talking about this topic of magnetism, So what makes someone magnetic? 325 00:23:42.559 --> 00:23:45.279 When I was thinking about this, one of my favorite 326 00:23:45.319 --> 00:23:49.400 story of mine came to mind that I just wanted share. 327 00:23:49.400 --> 00:23:52.279 And maybe you've heard this before. It's a story about 328 00:23:52.319 --> 00:23:56.440 Marilyn Monroe. Many years ago, Marilyn Monroe was walking through 329 00:23:56.480 --> 00:23:59.000 New York City with her friend and as they were 330 00:23:59.039 --> 00:24:02.880 walking through the busy streets, her friend noticed that nobody 331 00:24:02.880 --> 00:24:08.480 else was noticing her. She was dressed simply and she 332 00:24:08.519 --> 00:24:11.039 was walking down the street just like anybody else, and 333 00:24:11.039 --> 00:24:15.480 her friend commented that nobody seemed to recognize her. Supposedly, 334 00:24:15.519 --> 00:24:18.519 Marilyn smiled and replied, well do you want to see her? 335 00:24:19.440 --> 00:24:23.880 And then something changed. She adjusted her posture. She shifted 336 00:24:23.920 --> 00:24:27.599 her energy, she stepped into a different presence, and within 337 00:24:27.880 --> 00:24:34.079 moments people began turning around, recognizing her, gathering around her. 338 00:24:35.440 --> 00:24:37.559 It wasn't that she went and popped into a restroom 339 00:24:37.720 --> 00:24:40.599 somewhere and changed her clothes or put on some lipstick. 340 00:24:41.880 --> 00:24:47.839 She turned on her magnetism, or I think, more accurately, 341 00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:52.839 she probably stopped turning it off. Now, whether every detail 342 00:24:52.839 --> 00:24:56.880 of that story is historically accurate, I don't know. It's 343 00:24:56.880 --> 00:25:00.759 not really the point. The point is that I guarantee 344 00:25:00.759 --> 00:25:04.240 that we've all experienced something similar. Maybe we weren't doing 345 00:25:04.319 --> 00:25:07.480 it intentionally, but we've all walked into a room before 346 00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:12.720 and felt disconnected. We've also probably all walked into a 347 00:25:12.799 --> 00:25:19.559 room feeling fully ourselves, and those experiences create completely different results. 348 00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:25.720 And why Because magnetism isn't about your appearance. It's not 349 00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:30.240 a performance, and it isn't charisma. What it is is 350 00:25:30.279 --> 00:25:35.599 actually coherence. It's what happens when your energy stops fighting itself. 351 00:25:37.079 --> 00:25:39.599 That's why I believe magnetism is often less about what 352 00:25:39.680 --> 00:25:43.720 you're doing and more about who you're being. And Ginek 353 00:25:43.920 --> 00:25:48.119 fifteen again carries the gift of magnetism, but it also 354 00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:53.119 carries the shadow frequency of dullness, and dullness is a 355 00:25:53.160 --> 00:25:59.079 disconnection from life, from source and the flourish codes. If 356 00:25:59.119 --> 00:26:02.400 you're operating that surviving paradigm, then you're fully in that 357 00:26:02.480 --> 00:26:06.839 shadow of dullness. Maybe nothing feels wrong, but nothing really 358 00:26:06.880 --> 00:26:11.319 feels right either. You might just feel nothing. I mean, 359 00:26:11.319 --> 00:26:17.079 that's dull, it's numb, right. If you're operating from the 360 00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:20.640 striving paradigm, that dullness would show up a little bit differently. 361 00:26:21.319 --> 00:26:24.599 It's still, though, a disconnection from life and from source. 362 00:26:25.279 --> 00:26:28.720 It's making things harder than they need to be. It's 363 00:26:28.759 --> 00:26:32.480 a very by me consciousness at play, where you think 364 00:26:32.519 --> 00:26:34.279 you have to have all the answers and things have 365 00:26:34.319 --> 00:26:37.279 to be done by you, so you're trying to figure 366 00:26:37.319 --> 00:26:40.519 it all out and you're pushing and you're forcing. What's 367 00:26:40.519 --> 00:26:44.000 interesting is, underneath the surface, there's probably a part of 368 00:26:44.039 --> 00:26:47.759 you that's trying to avoid that dullness. And if you 369 00:26:47.839 --> 00:26:50.759 keep really busy, you don't actually feel the dullness. But 370 00:26:50.839 --> 00:26:54.160 the irony is if you don't plug back into source 371 00:26:54.240 --> 00:26:58.200 and allow ideas and opportunities and you know, all of 372 00:26:58.200 --> 00:27:02.680 those synchronicities to be flowing through you, Eventually all that 373 00:27:02.799 --> 00:27:06.880 hustle and effort. It has diminishing returns, and it leads 374 00:27:06.960 --> 00:27:13.079 to burnout and right back into dullness. When you are 375 00:27:13.079 --> 00:27:18.920 burned out, there's no life force there. Magnetism comes from Source, 376 00:27:19.319 --> 00:27:23.480 and when you anchor into it, it requires a higher 377 00:27:23.559 --> 00:27:27.599 level of trust and faith in God, Creator, the universe, Source. 378 00:27:28.960 --> 00:27:32.680 But it's where you find your peace, and it's here 379 00:27:32.799 --> 00:27:35.640 in this place that you can hold tension in a 380 00:27:35.759 --> 00:27:40.920 powerful way. That tension between where you are and where 381 00:27:40.960 --> 00:27:44.160 you want to be. Right, that creates an inner tension, 382 00:27:44.519 --> 00:27:47.119 but you can hold it powerfully when you are in 383 00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:52.640 this thriving paradigm, right when you're not striving trying to 384 00:27:52.680 --> 00:27:57.079 figure it all out. There's chaotic energy that comes with that. 385 00:27:58.039 --> 00:28:01.599 When you're in the thriving paradigm and you're allowing Source 386 00:28:01.720 --> 00:28:06.519 to work through you, you anchor into the center of that. 387 00:28:06.519 --> 00:28:08.720 That's where the piece is, That's where the comma is. 388 00:28:09.000 --> 00:28:13.039 It's like a tornado, right, You're anchored into Source at 389 00:28:13.079 --> 00:28:17.480 the center, and it creates that vortex of energy. And 390 00:28:17.559 --> 00:28:22.599 as that vortex of energy speeds up, it pulls energy 391 00:28:22.880 --> 00:28:26.319 into it and it pulls with it the matching energies, 392 00:28:27.119 --> 00:28:30.640 the resources, the idea is the circumstances, the people, the opportunities. 393 00:28:31.839 --> 00:28:35.079 That vortex is where the tension is held in a 394 00:28:35.200 --> 00:28:41.519 very powerful way and where your growth happens. It's here 395 00:28:41.559 --> 00:28:44.519 where you begin to thrive, where the magnetic pool gets 396 00:28:44.519 --> 00:28:48.519 stronger and stronger, and it results in the natural fluorescence 397 00:28:48.519 --> 00:28:51.799 that comes through. But if you're over and striving, you're 398 00:28:51.799 --> 00:28:55.400 not being held in the center. What will happen when 399 00:28:55.400 --> 00:28:58.400 that energy starts to whip around, is you get whipped 400 00:28:58.480 --> 00:29:05.720 up into it. Your chaos, chaotic energy is actually attracting 401 00:29:05.759 --> 00:29:09.559