WEBVTT 1 00:00:23.640 --> 00:00:26.000 But welcome, ladies, gentlemen, it's another episode. Every Day black 2 00:00:26.039 --> 00:00:28.960 Man podcast podcasts, Any black Men thoughts this boy Riker 3 00:00:29.399 --> 00:00:33.880 read Sham Armstead follows on Twitter, evuy d black Man, Instagram, 4 00:00:33.920 --> 00:00:35.920 every Day black Man, every Day black Man Facebook page. 5 00:00:35.920 --> 00:00:39.200 We got on Instagram, and of course we got a sorry, 6 00:00:39.200 --> 00:00:41.560 we got a Patreon ev and p. We have all 7 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:44.359 kind of ship up there. New episodes debut there first, 8 00:00:44.359 --> 00:00:47.079 We have extending cuts and all kinds of stuff. Episodes 9 00:00:47.240 --> 00:00:50.079 on Patreon be sometimes different than the episodes we release. 10 00:00:50.119 --> 00:00:52.880 See all normal. 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But yeah, man, 33 00:01:50.799 --> 00:01:52.599 the first one I got today, Man, it was a 34 00:01:52.640 --> 00:01:55.959 guy who he just he just opened his mouth. And sometimes, 35 00:01:55.959 --> 00:01:57.719 you know, you just you just shouldn't do that. Sometimes 36 00:01:57.719 --> 00:02:01.120 you just keep some shit internally to yourself and then 37 00:02:01.159 --> 00:02:03.439 that way you won't you know, need to do anything else. 38 00:02:04.200 --> 00:02:08.199 All Right, So this guy, keep in mind, he's twenty seven, 39 00:02:08.520 --> 00:02:11.199 so he a little younger. Uh, he's twenty seven. He 40 00:02:11.280 --> 00:02:14.360 met an amazing woman who was twenty four about forty 41 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:16.759 days ago. They've been seeing each other for like considerable 42 00:02:16.800 --> 00:02:19.680 amount so they've done like ten sleepovers during that time frame. 43 00:02:19.719 --> 00:02:22.120 And their sleepovers they mean that, you know, they spend 44 00:02:22.120 --> 00:02:24.360 like a day and a half together, so roughly they 45 00:02:24.400 --> 00:02:28.639 spent like half of the last forty days together. But 46 00:02:28.719 --> 00:02:31.919 they're not exclusives, but they are looking to go official 47 00:02:32.039 --> 00:02:35.479 and they're what they considered to be dating. And I'm 48 00:02:35.479 --> 00:02:37.800 trying to close off his background because you know, somebody 49 00:02:37.879 --> 00:02:42.199 was being loud as shit going to her bathroom. But yeah, sorry, 50 00:02:42.680 --> 00:02:47.199 continue on. I mean, nigga understand, man, you gotta go, 51 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:51.840 you gotta go, bro. But all right, so basically they're 52 00:02:51.840 --> 00:02:53.680 not a solution yet, but the woman says that she 53 00:02:53.759 --> 00:02:57.520 wants more. So the other day he arrived at her 54 00:02:57.560 --> 00:03:00.360 place and their plans have a nice afternoon, let you 55 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:02.680 know you sleep over, and as soon as he arrived, 56 00:03:02.719 --> 00:03:05.599 she went to the shower. However, during this time, he 57 00:03:05.719 --> 00:03:08.479 noticed that this woman had a diary, which she had 58 00:03:08.520 --> 00:03:18.400 all always uh huh, they might have had a brown out. Sorry, folks, 59 00:03:18.599 --> 00:03:21.479 the ricker is currently in an undisclosed country outside of 60 00:03:21.479 --> 00:03:25.240 the US. 61 00:03:25.280 --> 00:03:25.639 That's all. 62 00:03:27.080 --> 00:03:30.759 Ship and not my whole rapping at first. All right, 63 00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:31.960 y'all get here with the MP. 64 00:03:34.639 --> 00:03:37.280 Uh. So it's like it's just not all my ship. 65 00:03:38.520 --> 00:03:39.639 Okay, can you hear me now? 66 00:03:40.599 --> 00:03:43.919 We heard it the whole time if you came back 67 00:03:44.639 --> 00:03:46.080 damn all right, Okay. 68 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:52.199 So basically he saw his diary and she had always 69 00:03:52.240 --> 00:03:56.080 kept it hitting so he decided to read it, and 70 00:03:56.319 --> 00:04:01.000 uh it talked about, let's to say, it was scathing. 71 00:04:02.240 --> 00:04:05.479 He and her initial jury spoke about how she's questioning 72 00:04:05.520 --> 00:04:07.759 if she should break up with him she finds her 73 00:04:07.800 --> 00:04:10.199 ex to be more suitable. Then there was a long 74 00:04:10.400 --> 00:04:13.319 monologue about how this guy is basically just wasting his time, 75 00:04:14.360 --> 00:04:19.199 and then you know, she felt sometimes extremely much like 76 00:04:19.319 --> 00:04:22.480 she didn't really like the guy. Now homeboy. He was 77 00:04:22.839 --> 00:04:24.680 kind of hurt finding out then this whole time that 78 00:04:24.720 --> 00:04:27.399 he thinks that they're having fun, this woman is actually 79 00:04:27.399 --> 00:04:30.800 saying how much she does not like him, which is 80 00:04:30.800 --> 00:04:33.360 crazy because her actions are usually the other way around, 81 00:04:33.480 --> 00:04:38.839 very lovely, all that stuff. He was hurt. He did 82 00:04:39.000 --> 00:04:40.759 manage to kind of keep it together for the date 83 00:04:40.920 --> 00:04:44.399 and then afterwards, after having sex, she said how she 84 00:04:44.439 --> 00:04:50.040 wanted him to meet her parents. She then also asked 85 00:04:50.079 --> 00:04:52.279 Hi if he would come to see her within the 86 00:04:52.319 --> 00:04:55.480 next two days. What should he do? Was it wrong 87 00:04:55.519 --> 00:04:58.000 in him to read her entry that she left lying 88 00:04:58.079 --> 00:04:59.680 right in front of him. Do you think this was 89 00:04:59.680 --> 00:05:03.680 a ten and he failed? It was a test that 90 00:05:03.759 --> 00:05:04.199 he failed. 91 00:05:04.560 --> 00:05:06.519 It's honestly just kind of sounds like a way to 92 00:05:06.600 --> 00:05:09.199 say it got caught. Let me just make him think 93 00:05:09.240 --> 00:05:15.439 it's his fault and act like. 94 00:05:13.120 --> 00:05:14.759 What people were saying. This is what people were saying. 95 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:17.839 People were saying, it was the people. Those are the 96 00:05:17.879 --> 00:05:21.000 women in the sim It was a test that he failed. 97 00:05:21.279 --> 00:05:21.759 Out of here. 98 00:05:22.680 --> 00:05:24.439 I don't know why you would lead something like that 99 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:26.639 open and be like, oh, it's a test. No, it's not. 100 00:05:27.079 --> 00:05:29.839 Ain't no test about calling somebody like I'm questioning whether 101 00:05:29.879 --> 00:05:33.879 I should do this first? But okay, all right, no, no, no, 102 00:05:33.879 --> 00:05:36.759 no vex, no vex are said? What do you think? 103 00:05:37.519 --> 00:05:37.879 I don't know? 104 00:05:39.040 --> 00:05:42.160 Hold, I'm always trying to be because to women you 105 00:05:42.199 --> 00:05:42.800 never really know. 106 00:05:43.040 --> 00:05:45.199 But I definitely did. She was probably trying to applau 107 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:46.240 to her the feelings. 108 00:05:46.680 --> 00:05:50.079 You know what women get when they tried to when 109 00:05:50.079 --> 00:05:51.680 they try to get revenged, they try to go back 110 00:05:51.720 --> 00:05:52.720 as hard as possible. 111 00:05:52.839 --> 00:05:57.439 So true, true, indeed, all right, black little chances you 112 00:05:57.480 --> 00:06:00.240 snuck in? What do you think somebody who like some 113 00:06:00.240 --> 00:06:03.959 shit they mean, that's all I got is that's what 114 00:06:04.040 --> 00:06:06.800 I think as well. I mean, I know it hurt, 115 00:06:06.920 --> 00:06:09.240 but you know, it's sometimes all I goes. Bro, I 116 00:06:09.279 --> 00:06:11.480 know it hurt, but sometimes man, it's just how it goes. 117 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:15.079 I'll speak for Red. Fuck that bitch. It was Ree 118 00:06:15.160 --> 00:06:15.639 who said that. 119 00:06:15.720 --> 00:06:19.759 I mean, not right. They never do that. I don't 120 00:06:19.800 --> 00:06:22.480 think someone's private thoughts are indicative of their actual thoughts, 121 00:06:22.480 --> 00:06:24.680 but I think when she was writing on thoughts, it's 122 00:06:24.759 --> 00:06:26.920 just a random free flow of information. 123 00:06:27.480 --> 00:06:31.079 Should he actuate off of that information or just can I. 124 00:06:31.120 --> 00:06:34.600 Think you're taking into consideration, but not serious consideration, because 125 00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:37.319 that's just matter more than words. Because we all think 126 00:06:37.800 --> 00:06:39.920 those thoughts. We just don't write them down, you know 127 00:06:39.959 --> 00:06:43.560 what I mean, But write them down seems to solidify them. 128 00:06:43.759 --> 00:06:46.519 That's what people don't understand. But if you if he's 129 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:50.199 read it constantly, I mean, that's just her own internal monologue, 130 00:06:50.399 --> 00:06:52.360 kind of just going back and forth, because we all 131 00:06:52.399 --> 00:06:54.720 have these things about our partners, even when you're with 132 00:06:54.759 --> 00:06:59.160 them for a while. This damn bitch. You know not 133 00:06:59.199 --> 00:07:01.600 to that ascent, but god damn this bitch. I will 134 00:07:01.639 --> 00:07:04.120 never do this. You know, hate this bitch, but you 135 00:07:04.160 --> 00:07:05.959 don't really mean you hate the bitch. You're just like 136 00:07:07.279 --> 00:07:07.839 you know, It's just. 137 00:07:09.680 --> 00:07:11.000 I would get that if it was just like a 138 00:07:11.040 --> 00:07:13.839 one liner, but she kind of went in on everything. 139 00:07:14.959 --> 00:07:17.079 Like it was a pretty full package. The way he 140 00:07:17.120 --> 00:07:21.519 put it, I think that's fair. What I'm saying is like, honestly, 141 00:07:21.800 --> 00:07:23.959 he's in a position where he should confront it. I mean, 142 00:07:25.040 --> 00:07:29.439 but should so, But the fact that her actions should 143 00:07:29.439 --> 00:07:32.680 speak what a man you watch the actions, I mean, 144 00:07:33.360 --> 00:07:36.199 like with a man in his words or people your 145 00:07:36.199 --> 00:07:38.639 words matamore or what what matamore to your words or 146 00:07:38.680 --> 00:07:43.439 your actions, because that means. 147 00:07:45.160 --> 00:07:47.800 Just matter a lot. But I'm saying, like when women 148 00:07:48.000 --> 00:07:49.839 write stuff down that's awful. 149 00:07:52.439 --> 00:07:54.000 That's not even her words though, so what would that 150 00:07:54.040 --> 00:07:55.680 be because she's not really. 151 00:07:55.839 --> 00:07:58.040 She if she wrote, if she wrote it down, she 152 00:07:58.160 --> 00:08:00.160 probably means it more than anything. 153 00:07:59.759 --> 00:08:02.639 Else meant to that that moment. But women are so fickle. 154 00:08:03.560 --> 00:08:10.079 I mean, yeah, but no. 155 00:08:07.800 --> 00:08:11.240 No, we don't have a situation similar to that. 156 00:08:12.600 --> 00:08:14.600 You are such a you are such a horrible person. 157 00:08:15.879 --> 00:08:16.439 It's the truth. 158 00:08:18.079 --> 00:08:19.639 I ain't saying I disagree with you, but you're still 159 00:08:19.639 --> 00:08:20.319 a horrible person. 160 00:08:20.720 --> 00:08:24.319 Vocaliz go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, I'm sorry. 161 00:08:25.600 --> 00:08:28.800 Yeah, I wouldn't necessarily say that because I've had a 162 00:08:28.839 --> 00:08:31.839 situation where somebody wrote me a letter saying how they 163 00:08:31.879 --> 00:08:34.919 felt about our relationship that we had, and the uh, 164 00:08:35.559 --> 00:08:36.519 exactly how she felt. 165 00:08:38.799 --> 00:08:42.799 Yeah, but how people feel at the time. Yeah, that's different, 166 00:08:42.919 --> 00:08:44.960 and that was her private thoughts versus something she was 167 00:08:44.960 --> 00:08:45.759 telling your ass. 168 00:08:47.399 --> 00:08:50.679 I mean, yeah, it is definitely better if she's actually, well, 169 00:08:50.720 --> 00:08:53.879 not better, it's it's more real. But I think the 170 00:08:53.919 --> 00:08:57.080 things people like, it's one. I think everybody has times 171 00:08:57.080 --> 00:08:57.919 when you look at something. 172 00:08:59.639 --> 00:09:00.159 But up. 173 00:09:00.200 --> 00:09:03.399 It's very different when you write that ship down because 174 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:06.200 there's nothing I written down that I don't mean that ship. 175 00:09:06.799 --> 00:09:09.360 That's not true. I wrote put that stuff down like bitch, 176 00:09:09.360 --> 00:09:20.960 I'm gonna kill you. You don't want to fuck with me. 177 00:09:17.720 --> 00:09:21.840 Because red will kill you. See that's different, bro, We 178 00:09:21.879 --> 00:09:24.840 can't bring up the stuffing happened back in the early 179 00:09:24.840 --> 00:09:26.879 two thousand, right, that was a different time. 180 00:09:27.000 --> 00:09:29.440 Even it was the song that we had I found 181 00:09:29.440 --> 00:09:30.960 the other day that I said to you, called uh, 182 00:09:31.559 --> 00:09:36.080 I don't miss you, you know, seven minutes and nineteen seconds. 183 00:09:36.080 --> 00:09:37.759 What the fuck was we thinking? Anyway? 184 00:09:37.799 --> 00:09:39.720 The song was I don't know what you niggas were thinking. 185 00:09:39.799 --> 00:09:44.639 I don't know what you were thinking. And ship you 186 00:09:44.720 --> 00:09:46.639 remember the other one that song? It wasn't rope. 187 00:09:48.360 --> 00:09:50.360 I got a closet, got a pin, and I got 188 00:09:50.360 --> 00:09:50.759 a rope. 189 00:09:51.240 --> 00:09:51.759 Here's a pin. 190 00:09:51.840 --> 00:09:53.279 Go ahead and write your suicide. 191 00:09:53.320 --> 00:09:59.399 No, I just found the hear officer hanging by my throat. 192 00:09:59.600 --> 00:10:02.799 Remember this it, I mean, go find that in the 193 00:10:02.919 --> 00:10:08.200 archives arm because you want to know Liegate. This a 194 00:10:08.240 --> 00:10:10.559 song called I Hate My Bitchiness is so funny. 195 00:10:11.440 --> 00:10:14.159 It's just like sometimes you just write, I don't know, 196 00:10:14.440 --> 00:10:17.639 I don't know you. I'm assuming for creative people. 197 00:10:18.240 --> 00:10:20.720 I think for creative people, you're right, But I think 198 00:10:20.759 --> 00:10:22.639 most people are not creative people. So when they write 199 00:10:22.639 --> 00:10:24.879 some ship, actually need it. Like, I'm not gonna take 200 00:10:25.360 --> 00:10:28.679 if you wrote some ship down as seriously as if 201 00:10:28.679 --> 00:10:31.000 somebody else wrote down because at the time, y'all thikgas 202 00:10:31.000 --> 00:10:32.480 be writing it down just to write shit down. 203 00:10:32.879 --> 00:10:35.120 Yeah, so you can remember it, or just a certain thought, 204 00:10:35.159 --> 00:10:36.799 and why did you think that? So you can reflect 205 00:10:36.799 --> 00:10:38.679 because diaries are a reflection on how you feel at 206 00:10:38.720 --> 00:10:41.080 the time. They aren't a hardcore reflection of how you 207 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:42.240 felt throughout the moment. 208 00:10:43.759 --> 00:10:49.000 But isn't that how he placed it like that's the issue. 209 00:10:47.240 --> 00:10:52.480 Moment, I guess, okay, sorry, that's fair, that's fair. 210 00:10:52.519 --> 00:10:54.639 We may need more information. And also they've been dating 211 00:10:54.639 --> 00:10:56.080 for such a short amount of time. If you just 212 00:10:56.120 --> 00:10:58.559 make something like normally for like the first two to 213 00:10:58.759 --> 00:11:01.240 three months forty days. 214 00:11:00.879 --> 00:11:04.480 For days, and he was about to meet her parents 215 00:11:05.440 --> 00:11:06.960 and she wants him to meet her parents. 216 00:11:07.639 --> 00:11:10.320 That's the thing. That is he even sure that this 217 00:11:10.399 --> 00:11:14.039 is about him, No, this is about him. She mentioned 218 00:11:14.080 --> 00:11:16.240 his name. That's how he knows about him. Somebody else. 219 00:11:17.960 --> 00:11:20.759 In that introductory period of figuring it out, like I 220 00:11:20.759 --> 00:11:22.679 don't know, I would no bro. 221 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:26.519 And it like there's like you see if you see 222 00:11:26.519 --> 00:11:28.879 my journal entries from when I first started dating, like 223 00:11:29.240 --> 00:11:32.480 let's say the one who shall not be named, they 224 00:11:32.559 --> 00:11:36.000 were good and then the journal entries started looking more 225 00:11:36.320 --> 00:11:39.440 ye dark syde. Uh, they were good with dark Syde, 226 00:11:39.480 --> 00:11:41.240 and any things started to get more messed up, and 227 00:11:41.279 --> 00:11:43.960 my journal entries reflected. But like we look at stuff 228 00:11:43.960 --> 00:11:45.600 with my wife, there's a couple of times in like 229 00:11:46.879 --> 00:11:49.080 I really wish she hadn't done this, and I've expressed 230 00:11:49.120 --> 00:11:51.159 this to her in a way that I thought made 231 00:11:51.159 --> 00:11:53.559 a lot of sense. So I'm just writing this down 232 00:11:53.600 --> 00:11:55.960 here if I keep seeing this too many times, but 233 00:11:56.120 --> 00:11:59.000 to have a more serious conversation, but you know that 234 00:11:59.120 --> 00:12:02.440 kind of thing, like you know that's different. But if 235 00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:05.919 you check my general entries, normally it's like the Lord, 236 00:12:06.919 --> 00:12:09.720 I mean, yeah, yeah, I always. 237 00:12:09.480 --> 00:12:12.679 Like they really aren't want as president, but they are 238 00:12:12.799 --> 00:12:16.720 really like if emotions matter, like to them, they don't 239 00:12:16.759 --> 00:12:20.320 matter to us. Our thoughts are more president and straight. 240 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:22.759 Like they can hate you one minute and love you 241 00:12:22.799 --> 00:12:26.200 the next. They really are that fucking insane. Generally, if 242 00:12:26.240 --> 00:12:30.480 you hate somebody, you kind of just hate them. Like correct, 243 00:12:30.840 --> 00:12:32.759 maybe I'm just giving women too much credit, you know 244 00:12:32.840 --> 00:12:34.919 that that could be possible, But I just think they're 245 00:12:34.960 --> 00:12:38.519 emotional creatures. They really are. 246 00:12:38.600 --> 00:12:43.200 Somebody black libertarian explain that the black I guess that's 247 00:12:43.200 --> 00:12:44.679 the issue. I wouldn't want to be one of those. 248 00:12:45.320 --> 00:12:47.600 Well they all like that. They just some are better. 249 00:12:48.679 --> 00:12:54.600 But yeah, yeah, I have a better conversation, Like even 250 00:12:54.840 --> 00:13:02.639 like that they have these emotional see nig man, Like 251 00:13:02.759 --> 00:13:06.320 I'm pretty much the same person. Like even when I'm uncomfortable, 252 00:13:06.320 --> 00:13:07.840 I get a little goofy, but that's about it. But 253 00:13:07.919 --> 00:13:10.759 like for the most part, I'm just like, yeah, it's 254 00:13:10.840 --> 00:13:13.679 kind of black or demrror. 255 00:13:15.120 --> 00:13:19.279 I mean, don't even worry, don't worry, worry about the demur. 256 00:13:19.480 --> 00:13:21.519 The main thing I'm seeing is like I hate women, 257 00:13:21.639 --> 00:13:24.960 be right now stuff where it's like you should know this. 258 00:13:25.600 --> 00:13:28.600 I came across a girl on X Now, I'll give 259 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:33.320 it this. The booty is booty and very much so. 260 00:13:34.080 --> 00:13:38.639 But like she just realized that if you have to 261 00:13:38.679 --> 00:13:41.159 reach out to people for a job and send them 262 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:44.679 a group text, it might be good to use a 263 00:13:44.720 --> 00:13:51.879 different fucking number, especially as Google numbers are fucking free. No, 264 00:13:52.039 --> 00:13:53.840 they were always free because that's what everybody used to 265 00:13:53.919 --> 00:13:58.720 use for back page. What yeah, nigga, nobody was giving 266 00:13:58.759 --> 00:14:01.200 their real number with back page God damn. 267 00:14:01.200 --> 00:14:05.480 So some of these hors got my real number. They 268 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:10.639 don't blackmail. I can never become president. All thedict verification pictures. 269 00:14:10.639 --> 00:14:15.919 I said, what do you mean, Wow, the Trump they 270 00:14:16.000 --> 00:14:18.120 see you verification pictures. 271 00:14:21.720 --> 00:14:23.799 Look, man, that's to Donald Trump. You can do anything. 272 00:14:24.960 --> 00:14:26.000 Anything is possible. 273 00:14:27.080 --> 00:14:28.039 You can be a woman. 274 00:14:29.840 --> 00:14:31.879 I mean not that, not. 275 00:14:32.000 --> 00:14:34.720 That I've seen that thing with Harris. There was like 276 00:14:35.159 --> 00:14:37.519 don't be weird or they say don't go back. I'm like, 277 00:14:37.679 --> 00:14:41.960 what it re electing, you be going back like it's 278 00:14:42.039 --> 00:14:44.000 like the s that they say. I'm like, you're in 279 00:14:44.080 --> 00:14:46.000 office now, so wouldn't it be just going back to 280 00:14:46.080 --> 00:14:52.159 you in the same administration. I feel like people are stupid. 281 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:58.720 It's a different I can tell you. I cap telling you, yeah, 282 00:14:58.759 --> 00:15:00.120 people people are that's. 283 00:15:01.240 --> 00:15:07.720 Don't go back. And then they say, don't be weird. 284 00:15:08.080 --> 00:15:12.200 Then you say, what is a woman, Let's let's get out, 285 00:15:12.759 --> 00:15:13.159 go ahead. 286 00:15:13.840 --> 00:15:16.759 M No. I just said I saw some Trump one. 287 00:15:17.360 --> 00:15:20.720 Be honest, we got to be balanced. I was hoping 288 00:15:21.919 --> 00:15:23.720 what I said, going. 289 00:15:24.120 --> 00:15:25.919 We gotta be Yeah, we got to be bounced. 290 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:29.759 Everyone's just a fucking idiot, Like you think that just 291 00:15:29.960 --> 00:15:33.000 from watching one of their commercials, Oh, you're definitely gonna 292 00:15:33.000 --> 00:15:35.200 pick the other person, and then you see the other commercial, 293 00:15:35.320 --> 00:15:35.799 like fuck. 294 00:15:37.200 --> 00:15:41.919 I mean from a political standpoint, I really think people 295 00:15:42.000 --> 00:15:44.679 should vote in their best interest, be a Democrat or Republican. 296 00:15:44.720 --> 00:15:46.840 If you want a task that which they're probably gonna do, 297 00:15:47.200 --> 00:15:50.320 you probably should go Republican. If you want everything to 298 00:15:50.360 --> 00:15:53.360 stay the same like what it is now, you should 299 00:15:53.360 --> 00:15:55.960 probably go Democratic. If you're okay with that, like honestly, 300 00:15:56.679 --> 00:15:58.600 Trump is a bit of a wild card. Things can 301 00:15:58.639 --> 00:16:01.720 go high and low, you ever know, But if you 302 00:16:01.720 --> 00:16:05.039 want things to stay the same, you know, the whole 303 00:16:05.039 --> 00:16:07.879 world's turning to California. They vote for Democrats because there's 304 00:16:07.919 --> 00:16:09.759 no reason that these houses in Georgia there was one 305 00:16:09.840 --> 00:16:12.240 hundred and twenty five, two hundred and eighty thousand. Now 306 00:16:13.799 --> 00:16:16.799 that's turn out that don't make that. 307 00:16:17.919 --> 00:16:19.799 And people keep forgetting like, oh, I'll be able to 308 00:16:19.840 --> 00:16:21.320 save up and buy it one day. It's like yeah, 309 00:16:21.360 --> 00:16:24.360 but what happens when you're property taxing thousand dollars a 310 00:16:24.440 --> 00:16:29.759 year exactly? It's like, bro, you're not gonna have the abilities, say, 311 00:16:29.799 --> 00:16:31.720 for twenty thousand dollars. And that's the problem that y'all 312 00:16:31.799 --> 00:16:35.240 niggas have. Y'all niggas keep forgetting. Is that I mean, no, no, 313 00:16:35.279 --> 00:16:40.879 I'm saying people can. But the issue is houses aren't stagnant. 314 00:16:41.240 --> 00:16:45.600 Housing your housing costs is just a better rent because yeah, 315 00:16:45.639 --> 00:16:47.720 the mortgage makes the exact same payment. 316 00:16:48.279 --> 00:16:51.440 One time when we were when we were just becoming adults, 317 00:16:51.840 --> 00:16:55.480 logically it made more sense to rent, no to buy, 318 00:16:55.639 --> 00:16:57.720 than it is to rent. Until we get back to 319 00:16:57.759 --> 00:17:01.360 those times. Something's wrong, guys, that's just just something's wrong, 320 00:17:01.720 --> 00:17:04.240 because like you were getting an apartment you were paying like 321 00:17:04.440 --> 00:17:07.319 let's say first apartment with six hundred dollars and you 322 00:17:07.319 --> 00:17:09.519 can probably get a house for eight hundred, so you 323 00:17:09.519 --> 00:17:11.799 ain't had the money whatever two hundred dollars more boom, 324 00:17:12.119 --> 00:17:14.640 oh no, no, hold on, well you our house for 325 00:17:14.680 --> 00:17:17.319 seven hundred, right, you got a too. Well, I think 326 00:17:17.319 --> 00:17:19.599 my apartment was different. That was cheap because some shit happened. 327 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:22.759 Well, no, I was talking to that back when I 328 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:24.640 talk to that tweaker. Sorry to cut you off there. 329 00:17:25.640 --> 00:17:27.640 I was going to buy a place over at Moreland 330 00:17:27.680 --> 00:17:31.039 that was like the rent or the mortgage like six fifty. 331 00:17:31.240 --> 00:17:33.000 But I just didn't believe that there was going to improve. 332 00:17:33.079 --> 00:17:36.400 And I was fucking stupid. I always kicked Yeah. 333 00:17:36.200 --> 00:17:39.279 I was really wrong. So yeah, okay, so yeah, but 334 00:17:39.319 --> 00:17:41.240 you could have got an apartment for probably like six 335 00:17:41.400 --> 00:17:43.640 like six fifty, seven hundred, depending on where you living. 336 00:17:43.759 --> 00:17:45.680 Even in the city, you were talking about a thousand 337 00:17:45.680 --> 00:17:49.200 dollars for a two bedroom twenty eight nine er centers. Right, 338 00:17:49.400 --> 00:17:52.680 let's say right there too, around there Corre after the 339 00:17:52.720 --> 00:17:58.119 housing crisis. So right now, if you want a two 340 00:17:58.160 --> 00:18:01.960 bedroom apartment, let's say in the city, you're talking about 341 00:18:01.960 --> 00:18:06.480 twenty five hundred, twenty two hundred, twenty three hundred. Uh, 342 00:18:06.640 --> 00:18:09.920 you buy a house twenty five hundred, it's like it's 343 00:18:09.960 --> 00:18:12.240 about the same, but you got to add on that 344 00:18:12.240 --> 00:18:13.279 magnancy for the house. 345 00:18:13.799 --> 00:18:18.400 No, it don't make see, it don't make sense these days. 346 00:18:18.640 --> 00:18:21.119 And we need to get back to that. That's the 347 00:18:21.160 --> 00:18:24.720 allly thing I care about for the next generation. If 348 00:18:24.799 --> 00:18:26.400 y'all want to keep the prices the same, the cool 349 00:18:26.440 --> 00:18:29.599 people need to make more money. Then they go, well, 350 00:18:29.599 --> 00:18:32.519 there are parmeries outside of the city. Okay, fine, let's 351 00:18:32.519 --> 00:18:36.920 go to a small area like the cater or Shit, 352 00:18:36.960 --> 00:18:41.799 what you're paying in the hood fifteen hundred exactly. 353 00:18:41.799 --> 00:18:45.160 That's the thing that's hilarious. In the cater hood. You're 354 00:18:45.160 --> 00:18:48.039 paying fifteen hundred, and all your neighbors are people who 355 00:18:48.079 --> 00:18:52.640 have who have EBC. 356 00:18:54.160 --> 00:19:00.000 You don't they do. Yeah, it goes to show you 357 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:04.200 going on something is weird. That's all I'm saying. So 358 00:19:04.400 --> 00:19:07.160 you know that's the decision you make, not that girls. 359 00:19:07.359 --> 00:19:10.240 You know, this guy what's your name said something to 360 00:19:10.240 --> 00:19:12.799 me and it resonated with me. He said, women aren't 361 00:19:12.880 --> 00:19:15.960 very political, Like if you ask them what they care about, 362 00:19:16.000 --> 00:19:17.319 just don't even tell them what you're trying to do, Oh, 363 00:19:17.319 --> 00:19:20.039 why are you voting for? And they'll say stuff and 364 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:25.240 you just listen to him like that's nothing. Yeah, they'll 365 00:19:25.279 --> 00:19:28.519 say ship like abortion. It was like if abortion was whatever, 366 00:19:28.599 --> 00:19:30.920 then well, who would you vote for? Then they'll just 367 00:19:30.960 --> 00:19:33.960 say vibes or I've heard this. I was like, vibes, 368 00:19:34.519 --> 00:19:38.759 the fuck does that even mean? Like their political acumen 369 00:19:38.839 --> 00:19:46.200 is that of a child? I mean because then he said. 370 00:19:46.799 --> 00:19:49.559 Thinking about any of that. 371 00:19:48.519 --> 00:19:50.799 Women live the most comfortable lives in America. They don't 372 00:19:50.799 --> 00:19:51.240 realize it. 373 00:19:52.480 --> 00:19:53.720 Oh, then they come. 374 00:19:54.519 --> 00:19:59.000 Like, yeah, go ahead, that's all just like the same thing. 375 00:20:00.200 --> 00:20:02.559 It's one leads to the It's like causing effect. You 376 00:20:02.599 --> 00:20:04.799 can't really expect someone to have a vested the entry 377 00:20:05.079 --> 00:20:08.079 or interest in something that they aren't looking forward to 378 00:20:08.160 --> 00:20:10.039 doing for the rest of their lives. Like you don't 379 00:20:10.480 --> 00:20:13.240 expect your kids to know how bills work. Their fucking children, 380 00:20:13.319 --> 00:20:15.519 You pay for them, and they don't start to get 381 00:20:15.519 --> 00:20:16.839 that until they have bills in their own. 382 00:20:16.960 --> 00:20:18.599 Then all of a sudden they're interested. 383 00:20:19.160 --> 00:20:22.759 If a woman, they're not even talking about the economy, 384 00:20:22.839 --> 00:20:24.839 like like y'all have a bill. 385 00:20:25.039 --> 00:20:26.759 That's not the game. They don't want to be the 386 00:20:27.599 --> 00:20:29.200 goals to find somebody to take care of it. 387 00:20:29.799 --> 00:20:36.079 Oh, well, y'all gonna be quite just appointed, basically, I 388 00:20:36.079 --> 00:20:36.759 mean's not wrong. 389 00:20:36.799 --> 00:20:39.440 Then you get like a mixture of the ones who 390 00:20:39.480 --> 00:20:41.440 get what they want or at least know how to 391 00:20:41.440 --> 00:20:43.000 get what they want, even it's not gonna be real. 392 00:20:43.640 --> 00:20:45.839 And you come up with these single mothers and YadA YadA, 393 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:47.839 so and so for force and all that. You get 394 00:20:47.839 --> 00:20:49.559 the ones who go on for a long time not 395 00:20:49.640 --> 00:20:52.920 getting what they want and then becoming bitter, and you 396 00:20:52.920 --> 00:20:53.839 get the ones to get what they want. 397 00:20:53.839 --> 00:20:54.640 They don't say nothing. 398 00:20:56.359 --> 00:20:58.359 They said. Someone came over with the number. They said, 399 00:20:58.359 --> 00:21:00.400 this amount of women will be childless, and I'll was like, 400 00:21:00.839 --> 00:21:02.759 they're not childish. They had abortions. 401 00:21:04.240 --> 00:21:06.799