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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on,
Thank you for telling a friend and showing your Valentine
love for Billified. Hopefully you had a great Valentine's weekend
long weekend for some people. The weather where we are
isn't great, and since we've recorded over five hundred and
fifty episodes of Bilified, thought we could go back and
give you some segments. Now, a lot of times when
you watch a movie and then you see it again,
you catch things you didn't catch the first time, right,
you see things you didn't see. So we thought, maybe
you've heard these before. Maybe you have not, But we're
going back and giving you segments from episodes with in
our first one hundred episodes. Some of those include the
early days of our friend Stephanie I being on the podcast.
But we'll start out with episode five. Episode five, for
the first time on the podcast, I tell the story
of catching Dan's first wife, his first wife, not his
current wife, but his first wife out on the date
with another guy, and how all that went down. From
episode five, enjoy.
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Speaker 3: Anyways, I've been a fan forever since my first car
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You know, somebody that you had talked to every once
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Speaker 1: Heavin, you didn't have to call two oh six eighty
eight sixty six. You're sitting right here.
Speaker 4: But that guy sounds like a Fisher Hall of Famer event.
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny, but he actually so I chopped up.
He didn't want his name used, and I thought that
was kind of a funny one. But I think I
have I don't know where he extended remix. No, he
had an idea. Let's see if this is the idea.
Speaker 3: Another thing that I've come up with is called Wayne
County Squares. If you're familiar with the Wayne County Times,
they have pictures and next to it you know when
it happened and why they were arrested, and I wanted
to turn that into Hollywood Squares and match the picture
to the crime.
Speaker 4: That's like my old favorite criminal trading cards I used
to do in the paper.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what I now? A lot of people have
asked this, are you guys going to be streaming anywhere?
The answer is yes, and we I'm we're gonna work
on getting cameras and things. We're five days in that
we're five days in. Something I'd read today says you
don't really feel like you're killing it at a new
job for eighteen months. So I don't know, but I
I yes, that would be the thing. We would get
streaming and you'd be able to see stuff, and you'd
be able to call the line.
Speaker 4: We can stream after I see doctor Matt. Well.
Speaker 1: What I was starting to think is like can what
we could do is I could put out you're fine, relax,
You're okay, you're married, Yeah, a happy, don't worry about it.
So I'm married no, uh so uh but what we
could do is probably put out the phone number as
to when we're taping live and just grab them unscreened,
because they'll come in like if you want to, I say, hey,
we're gonna be taping a night starting at six thirty.
Feel free to call at any point.
Speaker 5: And then there was a there was a there's a
network in Cleveland called Big Play, and it's all it
was Brown's Talk. Then it became they expanded other for
other city and one day they're like talking about the
uh when Stefon Diggs had that miracle catch against the
Saints and scored the touchdown. Yeah, and all the all
the all the graphics were in purple, so I thought
they were in Minnesota. So I'm scrolling through and I
see the number flash up, so I call up. I go, hey, congratulations, fellows.
Oh no, we're in Cleveland. Life still sucks here, But
that's for calling. I was the only guy on the
They're streaming a live show. They're streaming a live show
out of Cleveland talking football.
Speaker 1: And I'm staer them doing it to nobody calling it.
Speaker 4: I'm a Hall of famer, Trust me, I'm.
Speaker 1: A Hall of famer. You know why I volunteered.
Speaker 4: Do you guys need a bart o?
Speaker 1: Hey?
Speaker 5: Was it was it Woody? Was it Woody Allen or
Woody harreld Soon or Woody Boyd who said ninety percent
of life is just showing up.
Speaker 1: That is true. That is true. It's probably somebody with
a little more cachet than Woody Harreldson. But I don't know.
He's got a lot of cash. Uh. You know. The
big news today was Brittany Grinder, and I did say
earlier that I think if a lot of people upset
that we didn't get some of the American heroes out
of the prison, I would just say this, I don't
know what the diplomatic stuff is. I can't weigh in
on that, you know what I mean. I love seeing
people go you hate America. That's why you let her out?
She said anti Maria, I I don't know. I don't
know what the thing was. Russia said, we'll give you
this for that. I don't know. I have no idea
what the inner workings of any of this. Was. My
only thing is if she's out of prison because of
marijuana in Russia, then why are we holding people still
in prison in the United States when we've seen the
benefits of marijuana at marijuana at any level. I don't
care if you had you got caught with bales of it,
let them out. Let those people out, and if they
and then if you were arrested for drugs that were
just being used by you.
Speaker 4: Then get out right, don't have any more details on
this trade? Do we have to give up our first
round next year? What's going on? Do we give a
Vesta back?
Speaker 1: But then they you know, Victor and I don't.
Speaker 5: Know before he breaks s Gretzky's goals record. Yes, send
Victor back. Yeah, betch kids.
Speaker 1: Danny and I had had worked together at CMF back
in the mid nineties, like eight that's when we started there.
I mean mid two thousands. Excuse me, it's the nineties,
Billy feels like it. So but then I laughed and
went to another station, and then there was a incident
and I didn't know how to handle. I didn't know
what to do. So just curious as to what you
would do in this situation. Danny, had you've been married,
you got married?
Speaker 5: I had, I'd been married once before. Yes, this is
my first marriage.
Speaker 1: So the first marriage, and I went to that, but
by that point I had left and that was even
awkward to be there around people.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, it's just an awkward scene altogether.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know about your wedding was an awkward scene.
It was just an awkward thing for me to I
I don't know. And it was fine, and all the.
Speaker 5: Radio people left, like right after dinner.
Speaker 1: Oh they did took off.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no dancing, no dessert, nothing, all right, Sea Hill
stayed for the open byre came late. Now No, Bill never,
Bill didn't even get the dinner.
Speaker 1: I don't think I even stayed for dinner. Yeah, in
the event I did, That's right, I did.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like an autism up of yeah, I did em so.
Speaker 1: But then there was a time after shortly after that.
I'm gonna say, you get married? What time of years
to get I got married in May, in May, so
this I think was the following Christmas time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was May a, twenty fourteen that I got married.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 5: It was the day that what I forgot the horse
that won the first triple crown in years. That was
the day he won the Kentucky Derby. That's how I'll
remember that day.
Speaker 4: Spring weddings are always beautiful, so did I.
Speaker 1: So then it had to be was it? It was
like December twenty fourteen, right, yes, okay, So another radio
personality said to me, Hey, I'm gonna be in your
neck of the woods and I lived at the time
in not the people are gonna care. But anyway, I'd
lived near and there was a restaurant, and there was
right across, because we lived by the Eerie Canal. On
the other side of the canal was an event hall
and they were having some event and he said to me, Hey,
I'm gonna be at this, but we're all meeting for
drinks first at this bar and it's literally like a
mile and a half from my house. So I said, yeah,
you know, we'll come down. At the time, I was
married and so or i should say, not separated. And
so we went down and we're seeing all these people
and I don't know a lot of the people in
the group other than the other person I had worked
with in radio, And all of a sudden back and
forth goes and I don't I'm just going to use
a random name like Joe, Joe's coming. Yeah, you think
he's bringing so and so? Or do you think he's
bringing so and so? Like two different women, and they're like,
I think he's gonna bring this first woman A. The
other person goes, yeah, but yeah, but well I do
really like her, and then all of a sudden they
look out the window, and here he comes walking in
and he's got this woman and it's Danny's wife. Like
the whole, the whole place goes, Yeah, I knew she
would be the one. Hey blah blah blah, And I
know I'm standing.
Speaker 6: They have to walk right past me and my wife,
and it's Danny's wife clearly with another guy, like they're
dressed up going to an event.
Speaker 1: And I don't think it was so I couldn't tell.
Were they just good friends and so Danny, I didn't know.
I had no idea, but it didn't seem that way
to me. It didn't feel that way to me. It
just didn't feel that way. So they walk in and
she sees me and I don't know where to look.
I don't even know. I'm uncomfortable. But I'm not the
one doing anything, you know what I mean, I'm not
the one. So now it's like we don't really look
at each other, and people are getting introduced, and I said, hey, hey,
you know, hey, hey, right, So I don't I don't
know how, I don't know what to say. I don't
know what to do, because like there was such a
commotion that it was gonna be her other women going
I knew he was gonna take her. This is great.
So I feel bad saying this to your faces many
years ago, but still so now I'm like my way.
We called Danny. So we wind up going down to
the corner of the bar because it's getting really crowded,
and we're sitting there and it's around Christmas time, and
I think your wife thought we left, and she went
around the corner to the bathroom, but as she passed,
she didn't see me. Now she's coming out and we
lock eyes and she goes, hey, Now I think I
had run into her before, because like, not before but
that night. We may have had an exchange prior to that,
like when she first came in, because her thing was, hey,
how's it going. Hey, it's all ready for Christmas, you know,
because the boys were little at the time, and oh yeah.
She goes, Oh, it's it's great. I'll set it in holidays.
You don't like this awkward talk. She came back from
the bathroom, we lock eyes. She's there and she does
the same exact thing. It's the same rap, Hey kids
all right for Christmas? And I go, uh huh, Like
I told you before, they are really.
Speaker 4: Excited turn her around at the reset just.
Speaker 1: Like well, she didn't know what to say, and it
was like this, oh yeah, okay. And then somebody goes, hey,
we're heading out. She's like, oh bye. Now she goes,
I said, hey, say hi to Danny for me. I
think it's what I said. So now I don't know
what to do because I don't work with Dan anymore,
not that that means anything. I thought we were friendly
and I have something that I always owed you. What
I thank you for that I will tell you after this,
And uh, I was like, what do I do? So
I'm driving home and I got called Dan, and I
called Danny up and I go, hey, man, and he's like, hey, now,
this is the way I remember it. I'd love to
hear how you remember it, because I am a big
believer in the fact that a lot of people could
be at the same event, something would happen, and an
hour later, everybody would have a different interpretation of it. Yeah,
you say what I'm saying. And I think that that
happens a lot. And I think sometimes we believe the
wrong people and we give them too much credit because
we're afraid fears an ugly thing and it fucks some
people for good and that's a bad way to be.
So I think that people need to be a little
more judicious when they're listening to people's memories. But that aside.
I called Danny, and the way I remember it was,
I was like, hey, man, and I think I was like, ah,
I saw your wife out here in days like, yeah, yeah,
she was out, Like you played it off as though
you were aware. Oh yeah, So I assumed you were aware,
and I thought, okay, good. And then I think I
said to you, Daddy, it didn't it looked like she
was on a date. It didn't like because I thought, well,
like I said earlier, I could have been just a
friend that she was with and she was going as
support for the guy or you know, maybe I don't know,
but he was an older older than her. Oh yes,
when I say older than her, I want to say
like twenty years twenty years older. Yes, I mean that
it looked that way.
Speaker 5: They're about twenty years apart.
Speaker 1: Are they together now?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 5: They're married?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 5: Shit?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I mean last I heard they were.
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: No, there's nothing to be sorry, but I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5: Nothing to be sorry.
Speaker 1: I felt so bad, and then I never followed up
because you were like super cool. You're like, yeah, no,
I know, this is like eleven thirty, and I don't know.
Speaker 5: What did she say?
Speaker 1: What did she tell you she was? Do you mind?
Speaker 5: I knew she was going there with him?
Speaker 1: Oh you did?
Speaker 5: I already knew. And I think I told you, oh yeah,
we're on our way out. I think I remember telling
you that. I think we're on our way out.
Speaker 1: Oh all right, And I'm really sorry. I was so uncomfortable,
and clearly.
Speaker 5: She has and I appreciated the phone call.
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure what to do, because here's the thing,
is like, if I saw you out with somebody and
the roles were reversed, I'm probably not calling her because
I got right, but I don't know her as well.
But let's say it's somebody I didn't know equally as well.
Let's say I actually went to college with her and
we had we were just friends and platonic and kind
of we're in the same crowd. And I got to
know you because you married her, and then I see
you out and it's clearly a date. I don't know
my call her. I'm not sure I like to think
I would. I don't know, I probably would, or I'd
encourage my wife.
Speaker 4: To do it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that way your insult, right, I got you
know how women are. But it just means out.
Speaker 4: I mean, in that situation, what what do you do?
Speaker 1: Kevin? Would you do that? Have you ever been in
a situation like that?
Speaker 4: I have not. I mean it depends on the level
of friendship. I mean, if it's just an acquaintance, yeah,
maybe a coworker, maybe, maybe not.
Speaker 1: If it's your dude, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5: If it's my boy, I'm calling him telling them well,
I mean, that's easy, that's an easy one. It's it's
in that like if you know somebody by extension, and
all of a sudden you see the person who's by extension,
all of a sudden on what looks like a date.
I think I'm calling. I think, I think, I think
I kind of have to.
Speaker 1: I think here's not the guy though, I'll tell you this,
if I saw the roles reversed and I had let's
say it was like a neighbor, right, and we've gotten close.
When I lived in a certain town, we would have
every Friday night we would get together at a different
neighbor's house, very very close with all these neighbors. If
I saw one of the guys out on a date,
I don't think I would tell the wife. I would
encourage my wife to tell the wife. And the reason
is sometimes I think, like, I don't know, I wouldn't
want to be taken as I was trying to hit
on her. It sounds really strange, right, But I say
what you're saying, but I wouldn't want to go hey,
you know, I just want to let you know, like
like maybe you wouldn't either, But what's your rule? I
have a rule.
Speaker 5: I don't text married women at all, like even if
unless it's like a business thing or something like that.
I just if they're even if they're friends. I try
to avoid that because, like you never know who sees
water can misinterpret anything, Danny, and just avoids a ton
of controversy.
Speaker 1: You were speaking the thing I remember years ago. I'm
like my mom and we were talking about Vice President
Tence and how he wouldn't go out to dinner with somebody,
and my mother's like, that's ridiculous. And other women were saying,
how can women get ahead when there's this boys club
and that's a great question. My interpretation was, I I
wouldn't want to be the guy in charge on a
one on one with a subordinate who's a female where
there's alcohol. Right. If you're calling it the boys club,
and I'm not saying it's fair, I'm just saying that
it's open to interpretation that can lead to other things, exactly,
that's all. So should she go to dinner, yeah, Should
she be part of the boys club, yep. And there
should be other women there too, and it should be
a comfortable setting, yes, one hundred percent. But one on one,
I don't know. I don't even want to be here
with another woman without another guy present. Oh absolutely. You
know what I'm saying, Like, if we're doing the podcast
and Angie's here, I don't want Angie here alone. I
want Kevin here or her boyfriend here first. You know
what I'm saying that, which sounds dumb and silly, and
she's cool, nothing, and it wouldn't be anything. I just
don't want. I don't want any of that. Nope, because
it's a different world nowadays, and you know what, it's
almost respectful to them. Yes, I would want everybody to
feel safe, right, right, I want everybody to feel safe.
Speaker 5: Now, let me ask you this as far as like
that situation we were just talking about, You're let's say
you knew the guy. You're friends with the woman, but
you know the guy and you see him out. You
go to him and s like, hey, dude, I saw
you out last night. It's none of my business, but
is everything okay? In other words, you put the idea
in his head. So maybe he confesses or oh that's
no big deal. You kind of like set him up
to like explain it. You don't owe me anything. I
just I just saw you out with this chick last night.
That wasn't your wife? Everything all right at home? You
can talk to me.
Speaker 4: I'm cool.
Speaker 5: And then like, let's see what they open up with.
Speaker 1: And if I saw that, I probably if I So,
so here's the thing in my mind. I was with
my wife when I saw them, and then you know,
she's probably chirping in my head. So now I'm going
to you should tell her? You should something. If I'm
alone and I see him, I didn't see anything. I
think okay, I think I don't see anything.
Speaker 5: Oh if at that bugged you in your conscience.
Speaker 1: Well, uh, things do bug me in my conscious. I
will tell you this just to you how weird I
can be. I went through the Wegman's self checkout and
normally I have thrown my bags back in my car,
and I didn't that not you know, the reusable bags.
We have to use reusable bags in New York State.
So I went through and I got and I probably
had a habit hit zero, but I was using the
paper bag and I couldn't remember if I hit zero
or not. And I'm looking on the receipt and I
started head out the door. So I went back to
the service desk to turn yourself in and I said, hey, hey,
uh I don't think I uh, I don't think I
paid for the bag. She goes, what I said, I
got a bag. Can you just check the receipts. She goes,
just go, it's one bag. It's okay. And I was like, yeah,
but so do you understand like I do have. I
don't like that. I don't. I never liked stealing. I
never liked that. I just that's just me. I liked
a lot of other things, like drinking, like but I
that was not that that makes me anything. So to
your point, if it did, bug me, I may say
to him, Hey, man, I feel like I'm in an
awkward position here. I did see this. It looked a
little more than just a friend like your sister. You
know what I mean? Right, I might have to say that.
I don't know.
Speaker 5: Now there's a situation. I'm not on Facebook anymore, but
when we were working together about twenty two thousand, nineteen ten,
it's late and I'm on Facebook, and all of a
sudden I get a message and instant message, Hey, he's
finally gone. You can come over. I didn't think he'd
ever leave. And I go, do you have the right Dan?
She goes, Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Oh please
don't please, don't say anything. I'm like, hey, I don't
know what this is all about, so I'm just gonna
I didn't ask any questions. I just yeah, you're whatever?
Speaker 1: Was it?
Speaker 4: Give me this?
Speaker 5: Like I I it's nobody would know.
Speaker 1: Dandy's got a memory.
Speaker 5: I got like four thousand like this, like Sady from home. Yeah, yeah,
he's like four thousand friends. And I'm like, and I
knew both of them.
Speaker 1: Like I didn't know him. Well, well, was she married?
Speaker 5: Yeah? They were married.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like well they eventually like split off.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and I'm like, now she had met me,
that would have been really strange. She'd be like, hey, Dan,
come out over. No I'm good, but yeah, I was like, whoa,
you know, I know your husband, what's going on. But
I'm like, I'm getting out of this one.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Sure, you know that's like that fear thing you're talking about,
because what if, like you know, then all of a
sudden just open up that can of words, you get
involved and I told you not to get involved. I
told you not to get involved.
Speaker 1: Well, these situations can go ugly. I mean, you know,
if you ever see like a man and a woman
getting into it in a in a bar, There's been
stories where yeah, like a guy goes over and the
guy's you know, a man shoves the woman and the
guy goes, hey, leave her alone, and then they get
into it and then the woman jumps on the other
guy's back to protect her man. So I go in
those situations, go find somebody with a with a little
more authority than you, like security, the manager, security, police office, something.
Just you know, I'm not saying if it's really bad,
if it's really bad, it's right there. Yeah, okay, then
get involved. But and then most of the time you
don't want to get in any kind of bar fight anyway.
People think they know how to fight, they don't.
Speaker 4: Nothing like that ever happens at Montconnery's.
Speaker 1: Uh, I've never seen anything like that happen at Montconnery's.
I've heard stories from the owner where.
Speaker 5: Some guy.
Speaker 1: Went a little nutty in there late at night. But
I most of the time, most of the time where
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from within our first hundred episodes. Remember the whole Tomorrow Hamlin,
how scary that was the whole incident, And we talked
about the violence of the NFL, and we were worried
about tomorrow, and we told you to pray for tomorrow,
and there was all this outpouring of support for tomorrow.
Speaker 5: And now.
Speaker 1: Here we are, We all go, you know, he's just
not good enough to be a starter in the NFL.
We didn't really think about it anymore. We don't. And
it's funny. I always say, with anything in life, time
and distance, right. Relationships end, whether it be a platonic relationship,
a friendship, a longtime friendship, a lover, you know these things.
Time and distance seemed to kind of be the thing.
And it is funny how we were all up. So
we're going back to episode twenty and in this episode,
you're gonna hear a Cleveland radio guy really breaking down
the NFL. And at that point we didn't know anything
about tomorrow other than he was alive after having died
on the field. I think we're all saying we couldn't
imagine him trying to play again, and what does the
NFL do for its players? And we really the NFL
got vilified in a way. You can hear it all
from episode twenty.
Speaker 4: Danny.
Speaker 1: I think some of the best guitar work in any
rocks On I think this is some of it. Actually,
Sultan's a Swing to me has the best guitar work.
I'm thinking Mark Knopfler and playing Money for Nothing. Because
we'll get back into this whole Tomorrow Hamlin thing and
what this guy out of Cleveland, Garrett Bush is saying.
But I want to give a couple of shout outs,
as they say in the radio world. No, I wanted.
I wanted to thank the guys shut up, Kevin, before
you even speak. Two guys at Thirsties. I wanted to
thank Dan Clifford, the owner of Thirsty's, and my friend
Matt Johnson, because over in my living room is an
enormous Guinness mirror that we will put up in the
new studio. Wow, but it's enormous. It's laying on the
floor over my uh in the living room.
Speaker 5: So that's bigger than Greg Connor's TVs.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to thank them for that. That was
very kind to them. And uh for I mean somebody
else who had texted in. You can call or text
the show. Do you remember the.
Speaker 4: Number two O six eighty eight sixty six.
Speaker 1: You got it, two six eighty eight sixty six. Look
at that. And somebody texted in saying that they ate
corn the other day and it came out, and it
came out in less than twenty hours. So I was
closest to the pin. I'm closest to the pit.
Speaker 4: But you don't digest corn. Yeah, but you something out
of can't corn? Okay, we're not just it's a trick. Okay,
Well tired seven hundred and sixty three, then was it seven?
Speaker 5: We want to like postpone this week and then go
and then decide how we're gonna how we're gonna play
closest to the pin next week. The corn hole rule.
Speaker 1: The corn hole rule. So this guy brings up something
very interesting and somewhat disturbing and really takes a shot
at the NFL over the whole DeMar Hamlin situation. Now,
we do know that you know these guys we think
of the elite in the NFL. I couldn't You could
ask me who plays center for the Raiders and I
don't know. I don't know the answer to that. I
don't know who plays center necessarily for the San Francisco
forty nine ers.
Speaker 4: I don't know who plays center for my team.
Speaker 1: Okay, for the Patriots, right, do you know? Understand? And
I'm saying center because that's more of a highlighted position
on the line. But go out further from there, and
we don't know. I don't think we know the big names,
the Josh Allen, the.
Speaker 5: Skill position plays, the guys you touch the ball.
Speaker 1: The Burrows, the Stefan Diggs, and you can go on
from there.
Speaker 4: So the David Andrews center of the Patriots.
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go, mich Morris. It's Morris, right. So
I thought this was an interesting take, And this is
a Garrett bush And we'll pause a little bit here
and can make some comments as we go through. But
Garrett Busch, you can hear him on ninety two three
The Fan in Cleveland. This was on a what looked
to be like a podcast more or less, but like
on video, it was the ultimate Cleveland sports show.
Speaker 8: Were we in left field? We in left field? I'm
kind of hot right now too. I'm kind of hot
because we do this every freaking time something happened on
this field. Everybody want to pivot in that, like they
why didn't heard people talking about, oh, you know, just
uh the mental health of the players and yeah, you
can die. They don't even know they could die out here.
We sit here and talk about this stuff every single
time schedule remakes. How we're gonna make it up with
the league feels about it. I don't give a damn
what the league feels about it. Let's be keep it real.
Why we don't talk about this stuff that mattered this
young man? You want to know, you want to know how?
Speaker 5: How what do you need?
Speaker 1: Big Jack's fooding for him and massage Hue Parbecue put
the sage.
Speaker 5: But this guy is That was a bit we used
to play back on the radio together.
Speaker 1: But he's kind of got an interesting point. Listen on
this is Garrett Bush to know about him?
Speaker 8: He's twenty four years old. Right, he got a contract
for one hundred and sixty thousand dollars. That's his bonus.
Speaker 1: Now he's reading off a piece of paper and he
gets himself all wound up and a little out. So
he says, that's his contract. That's not his contract, he's
it's clarify, it's his bonus. Here's what he makes per season.
Speaker 8: And he earns eight hundred and twenty five thousand dollars
this year. You say, g Bush, why are you talking
about this man's money, because guess what, he been in
the league two years.
Speaker 5: That means he's not vested.
Speaker 8: That means if he never plays another down in his life,
he don't get another check for the NFL. Let's be
clear about this. You gotta play three to four years
before you even sniff a pinching. So all this heartwarming
and prayers and condolences don't do nothing for that boy's
mom that gotta go home look at her son, and
he might need extensive care for the rest of his life.
And you know what the NFL will tell you, well,
you know, you know we'll look out for the people
like him.
Speaker 5: No you won't, No, you won't.
Speaker 8: Let's talk about the disability policy for the NFL. Right,
they moved it from twenty two thousand dollars a month
to four thousand and alask collective Bargaining agreement. Did you
know that the NFL has a private board that reviews
all aspects with their doctors and with their neurologists and
their specialists.
Speaker 5: They can deny.
Speaker 8: Benefits even if Social Security deems you to be permanently disabled.
The League can come back and then say, you know,
in the national the government is a you know, they're experts,
but let's take it over so.
Speaker 5: We don't pay anything out.
Speaker 8: Only fifteen percent get approved by Social Security. The League
says that number should be lower. Get that fifteen percent
of the people who apply for disabilities. I know, I
was a disability expert. It's very low. I submitted over
almost two hundred and fifty thousand applications and one year
one time.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 8: Since the CTE settlement, only six and a half percent
of the settlement has been paid.
Speaker 5: According to the Edman's website.
Speaker 8: I looked it up yesterday and sixty percent of the
claims have a qualifying diagnosis but have not been paid.
Speaker 1: All right, So with the CTE stuff, you kind of
gonna give it to him there, because I do think
that the league denied this stuff for a long time
and tried to skirt it and hide it and hide it. Right,
I don't ignore it. Maybe a little bit fair to
say to it denied, ignore, dance around, dance, maybe cover
up or just go oh look bird like change the subject.
But on the other hand, I do understand where he
brings up a great point. You got a guy who's
making less than a million, make it more than any
many people, but could potentially not have the quality of
life he had Monday at seven o'clock in the evening,
right right by nine o'clock, it's life had changed completely.
So I here's why I don't know, Because I think
you go into this sport for the glory, for the
love of it, for the you love playing. You also
love the admiration that comes with it. You like all
that stuff, and you've been playing it your whole life,
and you don't expect this to happen. But I think
that even if these guys kind of knew, I don't
know that they'd change anything.
Speaker 5: I know two different players who have said I would
do it again. Yes, one has als right now and
the other one almost didn't walk off the field. Ryan
Changers the guy I didn't walk off the field. He goes, yeah,
I go back tomorrow. If the doctors told me I
could do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's part of who they are and they
had money that potentially some of these guys you mentioned
it could change generations, right, young man at this point,
But who's to say, you know what could have happened,
and it's all part of unfortunately the assumed risk with
the game. But nobody expects this to happen, and I'm not.
I think this guy brings up a point that nobody
is thinking about, oh adressing. So I give him. I
hate the term give him credit, but I do. I
I wow, that has a point, Yes that people haven't
brought up. But on the other side, I think this
young guy would have gone back and done it if
he knew that this was a possibility.
Speaker 5: I think so.
Speaker 1: I think. I think you're gonna see once we get
out of this season, not that it's going to be forgotten.
It won't be, but it won't be as prevalent in
people's mind.
Speaker 5: Well, remember when Teddy Bruski, you're your guy, Kevin, because
Teddy Bruski played linebacker for the Newland Patriots. He had
a murmur and he had a hole in his heart right,
he had a stroke. They're like stroke, it like what
twenty nine years old. And so when he came back,
Belichick told him, I need you to find a doctor
is going to tell you you're not going to play
it again, because well, I want to play this. You're
gonna go and go to your note every doctor you
can until you find one who says you can't play.
And he couldn't find a doctor who could tell him
you're never gonna play again. So Belichick's like, okay, you
could play again because I'm not gonna take your life
and put it in my hands. And so he went
through that junior say like like they wanted to on
the here's the flip side to what Garrett Jones is
Garrett Garrett, Garrett Bush's Garret Jones used to play for
the Rochester Red Wings. Garrett. Here's what Garrett Busch is saying.
That's collectively bargained. So take it up with your union,
because here's what happens. Every year. They tell these guys
that every year or two before these big collective collective
bargaining sit downs. Save your money, fellas, because we got
to dig in for the long haul because they're not
gonna budget. What happens they blow it all, or some
players blow it all. Then they start knocking on their
union reps door. Hey, get a deal, bro I'm broke.
And so what do they give up? They give up
this this money that they get monthly.
Speaker 1: You're gonna hear what they gave up in just a second, right,
in terms of healthcare.
Speaker 5: They give all this stuff up. And what do the
owners give them?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 5: This is this is this even hurts the players even more.
We'll give you afternoons off in training camp or morning's off.
Only one says all right, that's fair, and no contact
during otz gets where you learn how to tackle ot
ot s and training camp. So now you're doubly offact.
Speaker 1: We like to think that most of these guys know
how to tackle, but you're right, it is something that
it's one of these things. It's a skill.
Speaker 5: It's like they tell police officers you need constant training. Well,
every job you need constant retraining. His new techniques come out.
Doctors need it.
Speaker 8: Sorry, let's talk about this. Let's talk about this they're
also moving to pinching. In that pinching, he gotta make
it to fifty five. He's twenty four, and they've moved
that between three thousand. They moved it down to three
thousand when it was fifty six hundred a month. And
the last stat that you should know about is the
Bills owner. Terry Pegoula owns the Sabers as well as
as well as the Buffalo Bills, and his net worth
is six point seven billion dollars. My question to you is, NFL,
when do salaries become guaranteed? If you know these young
men are going out there and they can die on
that football field. I don't give a damn what you
thoughts and prayers are. Do the right thing. I just
heard of DD say it seven times. This is a
savage sport. Men are dying every week, and you covered
that up during CTE. And now you want to act
like you the top of the food Chaine because you
got the CPR people in the field on time. That's
the least you should do. You're not gonna pay that
man's You're not gonna pay that man's tuition for his kids.
You're not gonna give him no disability money. You don't
do nothing. All you do is collecting big checks. And
we go play fantasy footballs and I hear these dudes
thoughts and prayers for a whole damn two hours.
Speaker 1: Here you go, I cut him off. There.
Speaker 5: I can empathize with what he's saying.
Speaker 4: Sure, but at this he keeps saying they, well, it
was just colactively bargained.
Speaker 1: Well when they go from twenty two thousand to four
thousand in right, I forget exactly what it was, but
that was the number that really stuck out of my
head in a while.
Speaker 4: That's but it's a negotiation.
Speaker 1: But it's part of the negotiation. It's absolutely right, and
you're only going to get what you negotiate.
Speaker 5: For the funniest part is that these players are okay
with this stuff until they retire. Then they bitch about it. Well,
and here's the thing. The current crop of players don't
like the Mike Dickers of the world who are telling, hey, guys,
we need more money. No tough, you shouldn't negotiated that. Yeah,
and then when these guys retire, they go after they
go and find Mike Dick and goes, So, how do
we challenge the league it's just it's such bs.
Speaker 1: You gotta be smart now, it's a yes, And it's
a tough thing because there's people who are listening and going, yeah, well,
I got screwed at my job because all of a
sudden they cut back this or they change our healthcare provider,
and I'm paying it more now. And everybody's kind of
feeling some stuff. But this guy's pulling down a salary
of eight hundred and sixty thousand dollars and compared to
the rest of the league or some players in the league,
that's a few games.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for a game, you know what I'm saying. I
believe the league or the team, one of the two,
I believe has to provide them. Also financial advisors. You
can have your own on the side, but I know,
like for one case, stop that automatically comes out of
their insurance, out of their check automatically, like it would
for a normal person.
Speaker 5: And I'm not talking about health insurance that too, but
I'm talking about like life insurance, you know, like in
these situations.
Speaker 1: Look, I don't know, business can become a very ugly thing.
And we and we see it all the time, and
you see and and it.
Speaker 5: Gets personal and that's where and that's where you lose it.
Speaker 1: Does I think he brings up valid points that nobody's
thinking about. All the thoughts and prayers. Forgive me, Danny,
I get what I say. He's going to say, don't
mean shit in the moment.
Speaker 4: I get it.
Speaker 1: You can go down that line of thinking, or we
can think if we just try to eliminate the resistant
thinking and just go with the positive, this guy's improving,
He's going to come back. He could be a modern
day medical miracle thanks to the timing and what the
NFL provided, absolutely right, what the NFL made every require.
So that's a great thing. And on the other side,
he could go around and start talking and maybe maybe
people who I don't know, somebody at your work. It's
somebody on the on the floor, and I don't know
Xerox who goes into cardiac wress, somebody knows how to
do something and save it because of this incident and whatever.
Speaker 5: So he brought that up last night. Greg Thompson from
A Cover one said, should we all go and learn CPR? Yes,
there should probably be like five or ten skills that
we should all learn.
Speaker 1: Well, CPR is just in case now too it's not
the chest compressant because that's been cracking people's chest. Yes, right,
and then you've had punctured lungs and things. So yes, yes,
one hundred percent.
Speaker 5: Yes.
Speaker 1: So maybe there is some good that comes out of this,
and maybe this young man and his family do very well,
and maybe the gofund means and I don't know.
Speaker 5: I get to say one thing from a faith based perspective,
it's also it really is, you know, cool to see
all these people praying for tomorrow and then he comes
out of it. I gotta warn everybody, though, don't stop
just like your doctor says, don't stop taking your medication.
Will you feel good? You know, because all of a
sudden things can go back. Oh so always great, I'm
done breaking and then all of a sudden what happened.
Speaker 1: About a half even though, but being grateful for the improvement, and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, going that he's not out of the woods yet.
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as we have done over five hundred and fifty episodes
of BILLI five Now going back to episode seventy five,
the fantasy or Fetish, we talk about how some people's
fantasy actually turns into a fetish and how Dan was
asked to do something when he was dating a girl
and he just couldn't bring himself to do it. Plus
the Tom and Giselle Brady divorce. Yeah, that seems so
long ago. As Gizelle is having another kid, right, did
she just have her third child? This one would a
new man? Yeah? Well, again, time and distance. It heals
all blues. You didn't call the jess. It's fantasy.
Speaker 5: I used to sing this with audible. Oh yeah, yeah,
they got kicked out of the vans.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, black thigh highs and high heels.
Speaker 5: I got to interview Paul Rodgers. It was one of
those interviews where.
Speaker 1: You would tell me, were let run in my fantasy place.
I'm sorry, all right, what about Paul Rodgers? Where did
your interview with us?
Speaker 5: You're like, Danny, I don't want to do this in
times like who's Paul Rogers Brown? You can handle this?
So I interview him.
Speaker 1: Roel Rodgers is great firm company, the firm he was
with the Queen Queen for a while.
Speaker 5: So he sent me all this stuff, these DVD's and
see these and stuff. Here's the thing. He put me
on with his wife for like twenty minutes because you
want to talk about the mistreatment of horses right before
the Kentucky Derby, Like, oh, so that's what this was about.
This interview wasn't about you. This is about getting your
wife on the phone to complain about.
Speaker 1: The You know what that was is to get his
wife off his ass. That's exactly what that was. Yeah,
Paul Rodgers wife has been and he just went fine,
but fuck it.
Speaker 5: The guy like looks amazing still he looks like Chuck Norris,
like why.
Speaker 1: Horse pills. Yeah, he's taking all those horsemen.
Speaker 5: Having a lot of fantasies.
Speaker 1: That's it, rock and roll fantas rock and roll fantasy
right there. Nobody has any fantasies, No fantasies of the
dirty Kevin. Kevin's got one. Kevin's got one. No, I
have nothing, all right.
Speaker 4: It's like I said, clean dishes, cleanhouse.
Speaker 5: Oh stop WC Fields over here.
Speaker 1: More than a thousand men and women in Canadia, Canada.
Speaker 5: Up north, that's Russia.
Speaker 1: We're asked about their sexual interest in whether they've acted
on them. This is Canada.
Speaker 4: Buildings get laid. It's all the sex talk to Well,
it's not.
Speaker 1: It has to. It started out with the guy putting
on diapers and breaking into the daycare center out and
Clarkson Is.
Speaker 5: That sexual though?
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. So I'm trying to
figure Yes, it's got to.
Speaker 5: Be a little bit.
Speaker 4: Don't you think Benover will show you you want to
be treated like a baby.
Speaker 1: There's got to be there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like you've got to get off somehow, right,
Is there any trace of that?
Speaker 1: Hope they did they.
Speaker 5: Take the white did they take the the black stop it?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 7: Uh.
Speaker 1: What they discovered is more people are freaky than you think.
Among other things, the study, which was published in the
Journal of Sex Research, found forty six percent of people
surveyed were into voyeurism watching others have sex. No porn
is though lunch porty different when you know him, though Billy, Well,
thirty five percent have actually done it. I wonder if
there's more people who are cuckolds. Actually, I know somebody
who was.
Speaker 5: I know somebody who we interviewed on this show who
walked in on Dennis Robin and Karmel Electra going at it.
Speaker 2: What.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he was late for a meeting Rodman was and
they had to they had like a production meeting. Yeah,
and they and he told this story. He only tells
he doesn't tell it on the podcast, but he tells
it like in these tours that he does, and he
knocks it there like come on in. So Eric walks
in and Karl's like, oh hey, Eric, I what We're
just wrapping up Robbin's like pounding her. Just be a
couple more minutes. Yeah, I'll be right there. Because he
was late, was like, what do I do? Do I
sit there and watch?
Speaker 2: Or do I?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: I would have left?
Speaker 5: Yeah? He did, he did.
Speaker 1: I would have left. Yeah, I do know somebody?
Speaker 3: Uh that.
Speaker 1: The rumor was the rumor I can say things now go.
Speaker 5: On, Oh all right, this is a billy exclusive.
Speaker 1: The rumor was that this person enjoyed watching his wife
have sex with other people men women, no men. So yeah,
so that person, I like it was somebody that the
husband was close with. Okay, yeah, maybe commune. Now I don't.
Speaker 5: Let's see, well it turn into the micro soft.
Speaker 1: No, no, but that that that that that is true too.
That is true too. But that's not who I'm talking about.
So this person allowed people. It was somebody that was
close to this person. It would be like you allowing
me to come over? Do you understand what I'm saying?
Like that, like that kind of thing. How And then
what happened was the wife and the friend started going.
Speaker 5: On their own yeah without telling them. Yeah, are they
together now?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 5: No, I mean the wife and the friend? No, okay,
were they though?
Speaker 1: Nope? Okay, nobody was, so this is just.
Speaker 5: They're going to poundtown on their own.
Speaker 1: It's just weird. But when you see forty six percent
of people, you go, wait a second, that means that's
a lot, Like that's a I mean, it's not majority,
but it's pretty big.
Speaker 5: You gotta tell me who this is now.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you after.
Speaker 5: I'm telling now took no micro's off. You can't do that. Oh,
don't pump fake me.
Speaker 1: Bro, I gotta hang on.
Speaker 4: You're gonna write down I.
Speaker 1: Was gonna be never afraid of the cameras too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4: Just wait five minutes.
Speaker 1: God damn any wow to hear what I said?
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, yeah, huh okay, a little out of left field,
but yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: God didn't get piged.
Speaker 5: I know I can see that I didn't get with
the current person. No, okay, all right, this is yeah
previously on.
Speaker 1: Two and a half. Man, God, I'm sort of sweat sweating.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't sweat.
Speaker 1: No, I'm sweating a little bit.
Speaker 5: Who cares?
Speaker 4: What are they gonna come and fire you from your
own shot?
Speaker 5: Well, it isn't that, it's it's not even that you
made fun of the Chinese Prime minister, we might have
a problem.
Speaker 1: Uh. Men were most into voyeurism, according to this, fetishism
and exhibitionism, getting it on and another in front of
other people. Women dug the voyeurism like watching.
Speaker 5: Yeah, women are sneaky, creepy?
Speaker 1: Are they? Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you mean sneaky?
Speaker 1: Basing this on?
Speaker 5: I'm basing it on, Like videos on YouTube where I've
heard women talk about stuff like this, what do you mean.
There's a lot of women out there who have become
it's become a cottage industry of women defending men, okay,
who say that, like men, you know, get a bad rap.
And these women have actually come to men's defense and
talked about stuff like this, say, ladies, you're just as creepy, okay,
but you're allowed to be creepy because you're a woman.
You could have a laundry list of demands, but he's
not allowed to have one.
Speaker 4: The Canadian survey, what's the percentage of involving a zamboni.
Speaker 1: That's part of the fantasy, it's all part of my
hockey fantasy. Thirty five percent had actually done some of
these things. Some of the women fetishes and masochism, mixing
pain with pleasure, which you said you have had a
woman basically asked to be.
Speaker 5: Choked, and I said no and never saw her again. No,
not doing that.
Speaker 1: She hut, she was attractive. This hasn't answer my question.
Was she hot? No?
Speaker 4: Okay, she was hoty when it shows hot, yeah, hot
is like a fer.
Speaker 5: It's a different level, is it. Yeah?
Speaker 1: What do you know?
Speaker 5: Like hot for you?
Speaker 1: That hot?
Speaker 5: Yeah for Danny. I didn't like that on the Danny
scale of fun time out. That's not what I meant.
Speaker 1: What I meant. Let me rephrase it, let me change.
Speaker 5: We're talking about the Canadian temperatures or American temperatures.
Speaker 1: Preposition for to, the preposition to hot to you, yeah, right,
hot to you like. It doesn't mean like.
Speaker 5: Okay, she was, she wasn't, Gizell. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you something, just because you brought her up,
this about the divorce story, that the divorce story that
came out, because I thought we'll come back to.
Speaker 5: The divorce story because I want to talk about that.
Speaker 1: But uh, I actually find Bridget moynihan more attractive than
I do Giselle.
Speaker 4: I don't find all that hot.
Speaker 1: And I know that people go crazy when I say
stuff like that, Like I have been told them, not,
you're not a guy, you're not. She just she just
she's not unattractive. That's she's beautiful. Yeah, she's beautiful. But
I my preference, so hot to me would be Bridget
moynihan over I could see that, Like have you.
Speaker 5: Seen have you seen the cover of Vogue recently? Giselle
is on and she's wearing red and she has actual hips.
And if you've seen Gizelle, Jizelle does not have an
hourglass figure. That's not a shot at her. That's just
who she is. She's very skinny. But on Vogue they
actually drew in hips for her to look more voluptuous,
Like they made her look like she is basically Christina
Hendrix with Giselle's face. And that's not the case at all. Okay,
But so I agree with you. I think she I
think she's she's beautiful, but I don't find her hot.
Speaker 1: Let me go back to the study here. The study
authors also pointed out that masochism was significantly linked with
higher sexual satisfaction. So go women, get choked, baby, Okay,
you could have had you could have had a great
Yelp review, five star Uber review, and a great Yelp review.
Here's the thing, not everybody who was into something kinky
actually acting on it. Nearly forty five percent of people
said they were they were interested in fetishes, for example,
but only twenty six percent made the fantasy reality worth
noting though, nearly everyone who said that they wanted to
have sex where they could get caught actually.
Speaker 5: Did do it because it adds to the thrill.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's part of the thing.
Speaker 5: And dopamine.
Speaker 1: That was Opie and Anthony's whole thing when they did
the sex for sam St. St.
Speaker 5: Patrick's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Saint Patrick's Cathedral is one. They had people in
the back of Saint Patrick's Cathedral and they were broadcasting
this all over and someone told on them and then
they wound up getting suspended and paid. They got no,
that was New York City. That was New York City, Ark,
but the the mayor dying in a plane crash. But
the but this was like, uh, I mean they got
paid to not be on the air a lot.
Speaker 5: That's the dream. That's the American Wow.
Speaker 1: I think that is sort of the American dream. They
were very afraid CBS was afraid that, you know, they
may get picked up by the competition and something would happen.
All right, tell me your theory, because so Giselle has
come out and said that they just grew apart. Tom
put out something on his Instagram today that was sort
of vague that said something about fake friends.
Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't see that. But to me, like Giselle
talking about growing apart and I don't know the context
of their relationship and all the stuff that went in.
She said football was just a small part of them.
But they just grew apart. Doesn't every couple, and you
have to fight through that. I mean, come on, people change,
We're always changing, We're always evolving. Yeah, okay, you're not.
I mean unless you want to have a society where
we have, and maybe you do. Maybe people want to
do this where you marry somebody as a five year
rental and then renew the contract instead of making a covenant,
making a contracts after five years we can stay together
or this contract expires and we move on our ways.
But it's not a contract. If you want to marry
some but you plan on growing old with them, they're
going to change. No freaking kidding that that to me,
is like, if she doesn't want to explain it, then
don't tell the story.
Speaker 1: Well, as a cop out, we grew apart.
Speaker 5: A lot of people grow apart. So what you're going
to have ebbs and flows in a relationship.
Speaker 1: No, I under work through it. I see what you're saying.
But I do wonder if, if, just if she isn't
obviously being honest. I guess I didn't really even think
of it that way. I just thought, yeah, I could
see where you grow apart. You're not around each other
as much. You start to find little things annoying. Uh,
you don't share the same interest You're not you know
what I mean. It's like you'd rather I think sometimes
in the beginning you'll make time for somebody and uh,
and then there are times you won't. Right, all of
a sudden, you start going you have less tolerance as
you grow, Yeah, less tolerance for things. And I think
that you're right if you don't make things a priority.
I think talking is a very big deal. I think
if you can actually talk. I think sometimes communication, I
mean everything is always a communication. Communication. But I do
think that that that's a huge thing in a relationship.
So if you're not there to talk to each other,
or you're not making the attempt. I don't know. I mean, look,
you're talking about two people that are everybody's a brand. Now,
these people are fucking brands.
Speaker 4: Uphold that image. They don't need to run everybody all
their dirt through the everything. I know.
Speaker 5: But my point is that if that's the case, then
why say anything?
Speaker 1: Because they wanted to sell magazines. They wanted her to
say something, and she said something that was fairly polite
and something a lot of people can relate to. Yes,
we grew apart, but to me, like.
Speaker 5: That's a lot, that's that's every couple. There's things that
are going to happen, work through it. That's not an excuse,
it's just okay, that's rubber stamping a quote.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I think it can be.
I think it's a polite way of saying, none is
the business.
Speaker 5: Don't give the article. Well, I don't pay me like
you just like, hey, I just want the world to
know that, you know, nothing.
Speaker 1: Happened, we just grew apart. Well, I'm sure they approached her.
I don't have the same feeling as you. I think
that like saying we grew apart, uh while vague fair Okay, Okay,
well I mean I mean.
Speaker 5: Well, but I won't say anything at all. That's I
guess that's my point.
Speaker 1: Right, And I'm not asking you. But you've been through that, yeah,
I've been through yeah, And and there were reasons why
and do not do not share them. I'm not asking that,
just like you know. And in a way it could
boil down to you grew apart, you know what I mean, right,
but they could.
Speaker 5: That's my point though, that that could be the cover all.
Speaker 1: I understand, you know what I'm saying. I understand. But
Tom did call it fake friends, so maybe that's not
really true. I don't know, maybe or maybe there was
a maybe there was a do not discuss this ever,
like we're doing this and you're gonna get a certain
amount of money or whatever. I have no idea.
Speaker 5: Could be a lot of things, you know. And the
other thing too, is like I hate when people put
something in social media to like, you know, like they
call it, used to call it vague booking on Facebook,
and that's what that's what Brady's doing, and that's what
like Ed Oliver with the bills did like oh to me,
you don't love me no more.
Speaker 1: Wait a second, now, since you brought that up, what
is going on with DeAndre Hopkins.
Speaker 5: So there's rumors that he could becoming a Buffalo other
teams in the mix.
Speaker 1: He's been putting Buffalo so lyrics on his Instagram and
then he had something else that was Buffalo. He was
drinking orses shoes and sobody's like, hey, Ojay, yeah, you
know like Buffalo, But you think I think it's a possibility.
Speaker 5: I sent him a message on Twitter today with the
song I've been Thinking About You by London Beat. Hey,
come on out, come on work with us. That's my
fetish football, that's my fetish.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: But I mean, you know you want best to put
black under her eyes, right eye? Black foot on pad.
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Speaker 5: This is going to be fun.
Speaker 1: Love from within our first one hundred episodes, as we've
done over five hundred and fifty episodes of Billifi, well
over five hundred and fifty episodes of Billified. Now. From
episode ninety six, our friend Stephanie Ied came in, and
this is before Stephanie was in her current relationship, which
I believe is coming up on three years. Is that possible? Jeez?
But Stephanie talks about writing a song for a guy
and being told that she was too intense for this guy.
From episode ninety six. Enjoy when head the news today,
we had to come get it strained from you. That's
all I know.
Speaker 4: I'm almost broken up with Zachond Kelly breaking up with
stephan this guy breaking up someone.
Speaker 9: In three weeks.
Speaker 1: Man, you go all in when you go, don't you?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 1: You were saying like you went to this guy's sister's house,
and well he invited me to do that. Yeah, but
I mean when you went, you were.
Speaker 4: Like like the kids playing with the kids bedtime stories.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, is that are you trying to play for keeps?
You got to ride that frottle? Man, don't you know
anything about racing a fucking car? You go into the
curR right, going slow out, fast in, slow out fast
in the turns dammit once, I like you, my god,
right into the fucking wall every tide. Right. But we
learned something about Stephanie during to Break Stephanie. Uh help me,
this is this may be the funniest thing that I
had heard, because tomorrow we'll be at mont Connery's and
she said we could do speed dating because she's gonna
go over there. But she wrote a song for the guy.
Do you mind if I say that I don't know.
Speaker 9: I did write a song.
Speaker 4: I really like, if you want to get to the front,
it's a breakup song.
Speaker 1: Well it's hang on, I gotta get these cameras on
life of missing all this ship.
Speaker 5: It's like at the Wedding Singer where Adams Sandler's character
was playing that one song. It was a.
Speaker 9: I was gonna write like a happy song that I
end up writing like.
Speaker 5: A breakup song?
Speaker 4: What ding an please?
Speaker 5: I will sing it in any key or any style.
I could do reggae, I could do hip hop, I
could do James head Field.
Speaker 7: Deal. Have one listener, I need a listing, a listing
from one of the listeners.
Speaker 9: I will let you play love song.
Speaker 1: So hang on, all right. So it's embarrassing this guy
said you were too intense.
Speaker 4: Then you I.
Speaker 9: Shouldn't probably not have written in the song.
Speaker 1: So then after he tells you you're too intense, I
wrote a song. He wrote a song. Did you have
any disagreements with this guy? And he spats prior to
this weekend?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, So is this maybe this is how he what
what do they call it, Danny love language or something
like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's what it's called love language.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's how he talks. Is that possible?
Speaker 9: I don't know. He didn't think we were broken up.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 9: He told me Friday night. He said, he said, I
like you. I like you too much.
Speaker 1: I like you too much, which then for you was
like now we just went fucking turbo in here a
world right, it just went turble the fucking flames you
got nitro.
Speaker 9: I like tequila, right, yeah, I love He hates tequila.
The smell that makes want to vomit. And I'm like,
so that makes you want to vomit in my mouth
right now because.
Speaker 1: Well that usually tequila doesn't have much of an odor
or anything. He was like, oh, tequila from your breath.
Speaker 9: So I'm like, should we just break up right now
because I'm like a tequila girl? And he's like, no,
I like you way too much.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, so we said that, all right,
So but he didn't think you broke up after Saturday.
Speaker 9: After I left.
Speaker 1: So what's the problem then, I mean, I don't want
to be thinking.
Speaker 9: I'm sad about that, Like he kind of flipped out
the debit card story.
Speaker 5: Were broken up for good, just an our before.
Speaker 4: We never ever.
Speaker 1: You're a lot. You're a lot. We just no, because
this whole thing, Like I know, but maybe you need
to just relax a little bit, let you let the
ship work itself itself out.
Speaker 5: I want to read your lyrics. Try so hard.
Speaker 1: Give the lyrics today because I want to srics list list.
Speaker 5: There's a line in the breakup song goes, they don't
ride in black that anymore. I want to see if
you do. I want to see if you do.
Speaker 1: You're not sharing you like you're like a rabid fox
and brightened can't shake you off. All of a sudden,
there's it's like, it's like this story right here.
Speaker 7: After that, I thought it would be a good idea
to bike to my car today.
Speaker 4: God Dying, did you guys worship for the song about
half that?
Speaker 10: You're about to see something truly terrifying.
Speaker 1: Stephanie eyed on a date.
Speaker 10: That's a fox sneaking up on a woman in her
front yard. From this angle, you can see the attack.
Speaker 1: She sneaks up on a guy I'm suspecting in his
front yard.
Speaker 10: She kicks the fox over and over, but the animal
keeps coming back.
Speaker 4: Stephanie just keeps coming back to cougar.
Speaker 10: Biting her legs and scratching her arms.
Speaker 1: If she loves tequila. The smell of tequila is making him.
Speaker 10: Sick, and she tries to break free.
Speaker 2: The more I tried to get him to leave me alone,
the more raciously he came after me.
Speaker 10: He just wouldn't.
Speaker 1: It's just reversed instead of he yeah, and this is
a man speaking. I tried to get her relieved. Horaciously,
she came at me.
Speaker 5: It's like a natio stop.
Speaker 10: And my fear was that he was going to trip
me up and I would fall and he would attack
my face, attack your face. The fox won't give up.
Speaker 7: He splatched into the fatty part of your hand, right
between your thumb and your forefinger.
Speaker 5: With all he's got a whole now second and I
tried to.
Speaker 9: Rip him off.
Speaker 10: I tried to swing him off, but then her neighbor
shows up with a stick.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Last it took too It's seventy ran away. That's
called intensity.
Speaker 9: It's like, you know how people play the game like
the art of seduction? If you will, Okay, I'm just real.
I'm like I like you, I just I don't play
the game.
Speaker 4: Is that one of the lyrics?
Speaker 1: I almost spit my water? So do you write songs
for every guy after a breakup? No?
Speaker 7: Lookout without my second breakup song.
Speaker 9: And I've written three love songs.
Speaker 1: Well look at this tale swift. You could make a
lot of money.
Speaker 9: I know some are pretty good, but then I've deleted them.
Speaker 4: Why oh yeah, can you write a song about Greg?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 7: Why?
Speaker 4: Not the hair.
Speaker 1: We don't care who the opening line, the opening line?
Is this a country song?
Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, it is these cameras. I don't trust him.
Speaker 1: I gave it too fast.
Speaker 7: I didn't hold back.
Speaker 9: I poured me real strong, poured me real strong that.
Speaker 5: It's definitely a country song.
Speaker 9: Yeah you see?
Speaker 5: Okay? Can you can you read line? Please read the lines.
Speaker 1: I gave it too fast.
Speaker 7: I didn't hold back. I poured me real strong.
Speaker 5: Do you want Hank Williams Senior or Hank Williams his choice?
This is so. I gave it too fast.
Speaker 1: I didn't hold back.
Speaker 5: I didn't hold back.
Speaker 7: I poured me real strong.
Speaker 5: I pulled me real strong because I know what I
won't when I won't.
Speaker 4: It's so bad.
Speaker 1: What's the next line?
Speaker 5: We went back?
Speaker 1: You're already this far in. You gotta go the whole
fucking way. Come on, I have to move after that. Well,
you don't have to move, not at all.
Speaker 9: You don't think that I'm like tearing up, like embarrassment.
Speaker 3: Laughter.
Speaker 5: Laughter is the best medicine.
Speaker 7: And I said, now I felt real deep, but that's
the problem because it didn't last long.
Speaker 5: Now I felt real deep, but you didn't. God because
it didn't last long home and now I'm smoking this.
Speaker 1: Ball home all nine homes. Yes, okay, so you write
these lyrics? Yes, and then.
Speaker 5: It's a release.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's supposed to be.
Speaker 1: They tell you like to write a letter and never
send it.
Speaker 9: Right that girlfriend said, why did you send it?
Speaker 1: So you sent this guy the lyrics? Can I just
tell you right now, as a guy, as a guy
in no single. Yeah, that's fucking insane. If I got dandy,
you get song lyrics.
Speaker 5: I'd be likest. Can I keep these?
Speaker 4: Wait until she breaks up the show and writes one
about the show.
Speaker 5: You had me?
Speaker 1: I don't know, terrified, No, no, on will day.
Speaker 7: See?
Speaker 5: I guarantee you. I guarantee you. By by summer you
will have a full time boyfriend. Things will go well
like a normal person.
Speaker 4: Yes, guarantee normal guarantee boyfriend. Well, someone you could tolerate.
Speaker 5: I know that's not a ringing door.
Speaker 4: I think you see the other way around.
Speaker 1: I think someone that could tolerate her. Well, yeah, like
the intensity? Yes, yeah, why do you what is that?
If you know that? If you know that right, if
you know that, is it? Are you trying to prove something?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 9: I just love real hard. I do that with my
kids too.
Speaker 5: Is that why they got in trouble this weekend? You
love them too hard?
Speaker 9: Yes, I had to lay the hammer down.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't even know.
Speaker 5: It's definitely the hammer ride.
Speaker 1: I think you should call this guy? Yeah, I think
we should.
Speaker 5: We should all call.
Speaker 7: He didn't look, he hasn't even responded.
Speaker 5: No, I know, no, what if we why we call
from Kevin's phone? He won't suspect it, and then we'll
all have like a intervention for both of you right here.
Speaker 1: Well, you really like the guy so much so you
wrote a song for him, and he didn't think you
were broken up. I don't see the problem.
Speaker 9: I made it clear, like he got so cranky, was
all right?
Speaker 5: Was this the first time that he had gotten this
cranky with you?
Speaker 9: Third time?
Speaker 5: Oh there's a pattern, Stephanie.
Speaker 9: I don't want to say anything bad about him.
Speaker 5: Well then you know done, move on. You'll get over
it in a week and a half.
Speaker 9: Yeah, he told me he wasn't fully over his acts.
Speaker 5: You're done done.
Speaker 9: So we had a discussion about that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're the rebound. Yeah, I guess so, Okay,
all right, He's like.
Speaker 7: I didn't plan on meeting you wet off. So it's
kind of like a weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah spot And by the way, it doesn't mean that.
It's oh, you could wind up taking a like a
two weeks sabbatical and then you come right back to
it and it's.
Speaker 9: Even more get moody and crazy. Like he was like
yelling at me like that, do.
Speaker 5: You feel like you could I do you feel like
because a lot of women do this, it's crazy. Do
you feel like you could have changed him? And that's
why you miss him?
Speaker 1: Say that.
Speaker 5: You make.
Speaker 9: Because he's like, you don't respect my OCD.
Speaker 7: It's like I do. I haven't said anything in three weeks,
but I I feel like, if you're gonna be forty
five minutes late for something to just go check for
a debit guard, maybe you should just go to the party.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like a normal Yeah.
Speaker 1: What do you mean by change? You thought you were
saying women like to like like take a guy.
Speaker 5: It's act I can mold him into my own image.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't want that.
Speaker 9: But if somebody has like a problem with something sometimes.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, I didn't try to change.
Speaker 9: Anything, well, maybe one other thing.
Speaker 1: Of him that was I can definitely not say this
would yeah, But I was like, the movie should do that?
Speaker 5: You like to dip?
Speaker 9: I used to?
Speaker 5: You used to dip? I had this.
Speaker 9: This is a pick up life. This is how you
said date that. This is funny. So I was I
would go up to guys, he's in the bar and
I'd be like, hey, do you have a dip? One
of two things would happen. Will you marry me or
get the funk.
Speaker 1: Out of here?
Speaker 9: You're disgusting. So I like, I weeded through all these
guys and I'd have a guy give me a dip.
And that's that's my line back in the Oh.
Speaker 1: My God, way back, Oh my God.
Speaker 4: Okay, checking in Doug Phelps and send us up first
once to be on the date over. Are you over
sixty five?
Speaker 1: Sorry?
Speaker 5: Doug? Yeah, that's his that's his willhouse.
Speaker 1: What are your what? Yeah? What what would be your standards?
What are you looking for the guy? If we were gonna,
if we were going to do the dating, what.
Speaker 4: The right guys to shelter?
Speaker 1: I don't want I might have a list that you
have a list you wrote out?
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you want to sing the list?
Speaker 9: Oh god, I could just read it.
Speaker 5: This is bad.
Speaker 1: Wait you have it on your phone yet pictures? How
do you not know it at the top of your
head because it's pretty long? Okay, all right, here we go.
Speaker 5: You want me?
Speaker 1: Yes, Jesus, what are you looking for?
Speaker 5: This is the list?
Speaker 1: I know, not the list?
Speaker 7: Guy?
Speaker 1: How do you not know the list?
Speaker 5: Did your list?
Speaker 9: I mean I know it, but I figured I might
as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, sometimes you know, you ever go to Wegmans
and you forgot something to go? God damn it. I
had the list in my head.
Speaker 4: I might need a line someday that rhymes with this,
and it might be on the list.
Speaker 1: All right, you ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 4: Come on.
Speaker 9: It's a long it's called what do I Want?
Speaker 1: It's long? Yeah, that's what she said.
Speaker 9: Look in my head, I was, you know, after the divorce,
you should do this whoever it needs to.
Speaker 4: Okay, he's got a list that includes Guinness, and I
want him.
Speaker 9: To be care about his health.
Speaker 7: I would love it if he was like a lifter, attractive, strong,
loves rock and roll, understands well I need to be
very close at concerts because that's an issue I want to.
Speaker 9: Be in the front.
Speaker 7: Loves guns of all kinds and shooting. Wanted to be loyal, honest, kind, smart, romantic, funny, motivated,
spontaneou is. Loves my boys and would play with them
like they're their own Conservative, has a great family.
Speaker 5: This guy does exist, Yeah, he does. Toby Keith, what
love sports?
Speaker 7: Would play with me if I wanted like anything from
golf to tennis to bike rides, hiking, fishing, make love
when necessary, fuck when necessary, hold hands.
Speaker 9: Small central looks from across the room.
Speaker 7: Wants to travel the world, would gamble with me, would
drink with me, has enough money to support himself, take vacations,
go to concerts and sporting events.
Speaker 9: Emotionally available.
Speaker 5: I just added that one. Yeah, that's a that's a
big one.
Speaker 8: Though.
Speaker 7: My dream would be someone that's a musician, and I
would love a guy to like sing, to be.
Speaker 4: And play with my hair.
Speaker 9: That's it, geez, that's a lot.
Speaker 5: You might need a committee. We might have to hold
three or four different people in.
Speaker 9: Really, I feel like that's goin to exist, right.
Speaker 5: That's a lot of boxes.
Speaker 7: Likes rock and roll, fishing, guns, that's a lot of boxing, oil, smart,
Come on, what's so crazy?
Speaker 5: Is that crazy? But I'm saying, like, you know, we
may have to, you know, get a committee all because
you know, well an age.
Speaker 9: I don't know if I would want to go over.
Speaker 1: Fifty four might be my cut off?
Speaker 5: The demo? Yeah, do you date? You ever date younger men?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I don't want to do that anymore. Why maybe like
three years younger?
Speaker 1: What's wrong with what happened with younger guys? Did you go?
Did you dip into the twenties?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 10: I think nine years younger was Yeah, what's wrong?
Speaker 1: That probably went great?
Speaker 9: I don't like the pressure because then I'm like eighty
or seventy one, We're gonna look really old.
Speaker 4: Like at that point it won't matter, Yeah I will.
Speaker 9: I don't know if I want to go younger.
Speaker 5: Maybe three years younger or I heard the rule it
is half your age plus eight that's the cutoff, half
your age plus plus eight plus eight. So I'm forty three,
so let's say forty four s that'd be twenty two
to eight. That'd be if I were single. Thirty is
as low as I could go. So would that be
fair for you? Because you and I are about the
same age.
Speaker 9: I'm forty so that's twenty eight.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, okay, so thirties are cut off, maybe
thirty five, like.
Speaker 9: Thirty, maybe thirty six.
Speaker 1: And upright, how old was this guy?
Speaker 9: Forty? He was one month older than me.
Speaker 1: Perfect, dude, this was perfect. He liked rock and roll,
absolutely perfect.
Speaker 9: He's handy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't matter, like you crank the music and
spun your hair around and did all that and bang together.
That's fucking it. See, that's it. That's intense. That's intense. Yeah,
I'm kicking back. I got yacht rock. I will boy
believe me yacht rock. I like Jimmy Buffett.
Speaker 5: I'll hang out to the reggae.
Speaker 1: I'm good ship. See it's intense, I know. Yeah.
Speaker 9: I definitely like blare the speakers in the house as
loud as it go.
Speaker 1: And I want someone who's like, how did the and
how do the neighbors feel about this? Do they ever
say anything?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 9: They have, like you have quite the parties all the
time Sunday night. Yeah, it's like two in the morning.
Speaker 1: Like two in a fucking morning.
Speaker 5: You crank the music.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but we're supposed to have good insulation, right, I
didn't know they could hear therese it's.
Speaker 5: Not soundproof though it's supposed to keep the heated noise.
Speaker 1: Do you realize like you like live on another planet? God?
You do? Do you live on another planet? Yes?
Speaker 5: You got.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things going for you.
Speaker 5: You don't need a boyfriend. You need a freaking reality
show like work party hard like it's like there was
like a local producer.
Speaker 1: Party by yourself.
Speaker 5: Yes, you do.
Speaker 1: I love to clean and rock out, Jephanie. We should
talk about doing a reality show.
Speaker 5: I'm not joking real.
Speaker 1: We should work on a reality show. Do you want
to do a reality show?
Speaker 5: Go on vacations alone?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I know you think people would watch?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, one hundred They watched your instagrams, right, yeah, and
you're in your what are those other things? The tiktacs, TikTok's.
Speaker 1: Tic tac just listen to you. What would we call
it Stephanie's cougar corner?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 9: I have fun every day. I'm very positive and happy in.
Speaker 1: All right, And I like.
Speaker 5: The IDEs of March in April and May and June,
July and August.
Speaker 1: Well that she'd have to decide that you determine that.
Speaker 7: That's like my ex husband, his world, right, he would
love me to get remarried again, ditch the name like
he wants the separation.
Speaker 1: He does because you were we get along great.
Speaker 9: Tall say, we get along great.
Speaker 1: But don't say what I was gonna see you.
Speaker 5: You were too intense for.
Speaker 1: Him, weren't you.
Speaker 9: No, we got along great.
Speaker 1: We still do, Yeah, I'm sure, but yeah, all right,
Well I don't I don't know. Okay, he would like
you to get a different last name. He doesn't want
you associated with your No.
Speaker 7: I just think it's like because he gets he's sick
of getting asked, where's your sister?
Speaker 9: That's a reason or hey, what you know, where's your what?
Your wife's selling houses? You're not make enough money selling cars.
So I think because the name, it's a constant reminder
of the divorce.
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's what he means.
Speaker 5: By the way, like people have to be I know
they're curious and stuff, but that's really kind of I
don't want to see get asked all the time. But
it's really forward.
Speaker 1: And I don't think people knew that you had separated.
I don't think people did. I don't. I mean, it's
going to have a decree, right, you don't come out
and say, hey world, So I mean I understand that.
Speaker 7: So it would just be easier if I'm selling houses
on a billboard it says Stephanie Sell and so got you.
Speaker 1: It's more like, why why didn't you go back to
your maiden? Is it what you're made?
Speaker 9: Because paratour and then remarry. It's four different names licensing.
Speaker 5: It seems like a pain in the ad I got you,
like Max wife went to the same thing, and.
Speaker 1: By the way, to my wife. She's a known name.
You're a known face from all the ads and stuff.
Speaker 7: My face it's not the name though, Like when people
see me out, they recognize my face, not necessarily the name.