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Speaker 2: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka. He call it a podcast from

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the Mac of All Trade Studio in and driven by

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Victor Chrysler Dots Gee Brahm, It's Bilified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on,

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Thank you for telling a friend and showing your Valentine

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love for Billified. Hopefully you had a great Valentine's weekend

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long weekend for some people. The weather where we are

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isn't great, and since we've recorded over five hundred and

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fifty episodes of Bilified, thought we could go back and

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give you some segments. Now, a lot of times when

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you watch a movie and then you see it again,

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you catch things you didn't catch the first time, right,

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you see things you didn't see. So we thought, maybe

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you've heard these before. Maybe you have not, But we're

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going back and giving you segments from episodes with in

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our first one hundred episodes. Some of those include the

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early days of our friend Stephanie I being on the podcast.

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But we'll start out with episode five. Episode five, for

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the first time on the podcast, I tell the story

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of catching Dan's first wife, his first wife, not his

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current wife, but his first wife out on the date

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with another guy, and how all that went down. From

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episode five, enjoy.

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Speaker 2: Leave build voicemail anytime at five eight five two O

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six eighty eight sixty six.

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Speaker 3: Anyways, I've been a fan forever since my first car

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at the age of sixteen eighty nine, Dodge shadow. I

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suffer from anxiety and I invest when intoxicated late at night,

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and I feel like I could be a good guester.

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You know, somebody that you had talked to every once

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in a while. Regardless of all that being said, that

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was just a quick little you know resume.

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Speaker 1: I love you.

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Speaker 3: I've been a fan forever and I'm truly wishing the best.

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Reach out to me when you can.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and be sure to like and subscribe to

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Bilified wherever you get your podcast.

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Speaker 1: Heavin, you didn't have to call two oh six eighty

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eight sixty six. You're sitting right here.

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Speaker 4: But that guy sounds like a Fisher Hall of Famer event.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny, but he actually so I chopped up.

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was kind of a funny one. But I think I

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have I don't know where he extended remix. No, he

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had an idea. Let's see if this is the idea.

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Speaker 3: Another thing that I've come up with is called Wayne

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County Squares. If you're familiar with the Wayne County Times,

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they have pictures and next to it you know when

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it happened and why they were arrested, and I wanted

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to turn that into Hollywood Squares and match the picture

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to the crime.

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Speaker 4: That's like my old favorite criminal trading cards I used

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to do in the paper.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so what I now? A lot of people have

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asked this, are you guys going to be streaming anywhere?

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on getting cameras and things. We're five days in that

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we're five days in. Something I'd read today says you

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don't really feel like you're killing it at a new

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job for eighteen months. So I don't know, but I

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I yes, that would be the thing. We would get

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streaming and you'd be able to see stuff, and you'd

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be able to call the line.

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Speaker 4: We can stream after I see doctor Matt. Well.

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Speaker 1: What I was starting to think is like can what

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we could do is I could put out you're fine, relax,

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could do is probably put out the phone number as

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to when we're taping live and just grab them unscreened,

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because they'll come in like if you want to, I say, hey,

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we're gonna be taping a night starting at six thirty.

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Speaker 5: And then there was a there was a there's a

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network in Cleveland called Big Play, and it's all it

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other city and one day they're like talking about the

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uh when Stefon Diggs had that miracle catch against the

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Saints and scored the touchdown. Yeah, and all the all

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they were in Minnesota. So I'm scrolling through and I

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see the number flash up, so I call up. I go, hey, congratulations, fellows.

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out of Cleveland talking football.

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Speaker 4: I'm a Hall of famer, Trust me, I'm.

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Speaker 1: A Hall of famer. You know why I volunteered.

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Speaker 4: Do you guys need a bart o?

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Speaker 5: Was it was it Woody? Was it Woody Allen or

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Woody harreld Soon or Woody Boyd who said ninety percent

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of life is just showing up.

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a little more cachet than Woody Harreldson. But I don't know.

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big news today was Brittany Grinder, and I did say

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earlier that I think if a lot of people upset

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that we didn't get some of the American heroes out

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of the prison, I would just say this, I don't

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know what the diplomatic stuff is. I can't weigh in

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on that, you know what I mean. I love seeing

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people go you hate America. That's why you let her out?

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know what the thing was. Russia said, we'll give you

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this for that. I don't know. I have no idea

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what the inner workings of any of this. Was. My

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marijuana in Russia, then why are we holding people still

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in prison in the United States when we've seen the

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benefits of marijuana at marijuana at any level. I don't

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care if you had you got caught with bales of it,

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let them out. Let those people out, and if they

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and then if you were arrested for drugs that were

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just being used by you.

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Speaker 4: Then get out right, don't have any more details on

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this trade? Do we have to give up our first

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round next year? What's going on? Do we give a

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Speaker 1: But then they you know, Victor and I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know before he breaks s Gretzky's goals record. Yes, send

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Victor back. Yeah, betch kids.

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Speaker 1: Danny and I had had worked together at CMF back

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in the mid nineties, like eight that's when we started there.

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I mean mid two thousands. Excuse me, it's the nineties,

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Billy feels like it. So but then I laughed and

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went to another station, and then there was a incident

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and I didn't know how to handle. I didn't know

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what to do. So just curious as to what you

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would do in this situation. Danny, had you've been married,

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you got married?

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Speaker 5: I had, I'd been married once before. Yes, this is

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my first marriage.

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by that point I had left and that was even

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awkward to be there around people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, it's just an awkward scene altogether.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know about your wedding was an awkward scene.

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Speaker 5: Radio people left, like right after dinner.

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Speaker 1: Oh they did took off.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no dancing, no dessert, nothing, all right, Sea Hill

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stayed for the open byre came late. Now No, Bill never,

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Bill didn't even get the dinner.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I even stayed for dinner. Yeah, in

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the event I did, That's right, I did.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like an autism up of yeah, I did em so.

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Speaker 1: But then there was a time after shortly after that.

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I'm gonna say, you get married? What time of years

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to get I got married in May, in May, so

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this I think was the following Christmas time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was May a, twenty fourteen that I got married.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 5: It was the day that what I forgot the horse

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that won the first triple crown in years. That was

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the day he won the Kentucky Derby. That's how I'll

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remember that day.

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Speaker 4: Spring weddings are always beautiful, so did I.

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Speaker 1: So then it had to be was it? It was

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like December twenty fourteen, right, yes, okay, So another radio

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personality said to me, Hey, I'm gonna be in your

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neck of the woods and I lived at the time

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in not the people are gonna care. But anyway, I'd

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and they were having some event and he said to me, Hey,

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I'm gonna be at this, but we're all meeting for

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drinks first at this bar and it's literally like a

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mile and a half from my house. So I said, yeah,

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you know, we'll come down. At the time, I was

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married and so or i should say, not separated. And

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the group other than the other person I had worked

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with in radio, And all of a sudden back and

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forth goes and I don't I'm just going to use

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a random name like Joe, Joe's coming. Yeah, you think

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he's bringing so and so? Or do you think he's

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bringing so and so? Like two different women, and they're like,

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I think he's gonna bring this first woman A. The

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other person goes, yeah, but yeah, but well I do

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really like her, and then all of a sudden they

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look out the window, and here he comes walking in

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and he's got this woman and it's Danny's wife. Like

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the whole, the whole place goes, Yeah, I knew she

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would be the one. Hey blah blah blah, And I

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know I'm standing.

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Speaker 6: They have to walk right past me and my wife,

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and it's Danny's wife clearly with another guy, like they're

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dressed up going to an event.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think it was so I couldn't tell.

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to me. It didn't feel that way to me. It

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just didn't feel that way. So they walk in and

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she sees me and I don't know where to look.

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I don't even know. I'm uncomfortable. But I'm not the

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one doing anything, you know what I mean, I'm not

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the one. So now it's like we don't really look

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at each other, and people are getting introduced, and I said, hey, hey,

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you know, hey, hey, right, So I don't I don't

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know how, I don't know what to say. I don't

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know what to do, because like there was such a

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commotion that it was gonna be her other women going

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I knew he was gonna take her. This is great.

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So I feel bad saying this to your faces many

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years ago, but still so now I'm like my way.

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We called Danny. So we wind up going down to

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the corner of the bar because it's getting really crowded,

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and we're sitting there and it's around Christmas time, and

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I think your wife thought we left, and she went

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around the corner to the bathroom, but as she passed,

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she didn't see me. Now she's coming out and we

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lock eyes and she goes, hey, Now I think I

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had run into her before, because like, not before but

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that night. We may have had an exchange prior to that,

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how's it going. Hey, it's all ready for Christmas, you know,

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because the boys were little at the time, and oh yeah.

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She goes, Oh, it's it's great. I'll set it in holidays.

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You don't like this awkward talk. She came back from

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the bathroom, we lock eyes. She's there and she does

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the same exact thing. It's the same rap, Hey kids

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all right for Christmas? And I go, uh huh, Like

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I told you before, they are really.

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Speaker 4: Excited turn her around at the reset just.

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Speaker 1: Like well, she didn't know what to say, and it

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was like this, oh yeah, okay. And then somebody goes, hey,

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we're heading out. She's like, oh bye. Now she goes,

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I said, hey, say hi to Danny for me. I

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think it's what I said. So now I don't know

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what to do because I don't work with Dan anymore,

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not that that means anything. I thought we were friendly

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and I have something that I always owed you. What

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I thank you for that I will tell you after this,

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And uh, I was like, what do I do? So

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I'm driving home and I got called Dan, and I

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called Danny up and I go, hey, man, and he's like, hey, now,

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this is the way I remember it. I'd love to

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hear how you remember it, because I am a big

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believer in the fact that a lot of people could

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be at the same event, something would happen, and an

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hour later, everybody would have a different interpretation of it. Yeah,

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you say what I'm saying. And I think that that

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happens a lot. And I think sometimes we believe the

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wrong people and we give them too much credit because

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we're afraid fears an ugly thing and it fucks some

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people for good and that's a bad way to be.

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So I think that people need to be a little

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more judicious when they're listening to people's memories. But that aside.

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I called Danny, and the way I remember it was,

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I was like, hey, man, and I think I was like, ah,

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I saw your wife out here in days like, yeah, yeah,

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she was out, Like you played it off as though

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you were aware. Oh yeah, So I assumed you were aware,

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and I thought, okay, good. And then I think I

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said to you, Daddy, it didn't it looked like she

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was on a date. It didn't like because I thought, well,

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like I said earlier, I could have been just a

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friend that she was with and she was going as

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support for the guy or you know, maybe I don't know,

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but he was an older older than her. Oh yes,

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when I say older than her, I want to say

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like twenty years twenty years older. Yes, I mean that

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it looked that way.

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Speaker 5: They're about twenty years apart.

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Speaker 1: Are they together now?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: They're married?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: Shit?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I mean last I heard they were.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: No, there's nothing to be sorry, but I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: Nothing to be sorry.

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Speaker 1: I felt so bad, and then I never followed up

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because you were like super cool. You're like, yeah, no,

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I know, this is like eleven thirty, and I don't know.

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Speaker 5: What did she say?

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Speaker 1: What did she tell you she was? Do you mind?

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Speaker 5: I knew she was going there with him?

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Speaker 1: Oh you did?

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Speaker 5: I already knew. And I think I told you, oh yeah,

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we're on our way out. I think I remember telling

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you that. I think we're on our way out.

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Speaker 1: Oh all right, And I'm really sorry. I was so uncomfortable,

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and clearly.

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Speaker 5: She has and I appreciated the phone call.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure what to do, because here's the thing,

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is like, if I saw you out with somebody and

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the roles were reversed, I'm probably not calling her because

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I got right, but I don't know her as well.

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But let's say it's somebody I didn't know equally as well.

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Let's say I actually went to college with her and

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we had we were just friends and platonic and kind

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of we're in the same crowd. And I got to

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know you because you married her, and then I see

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you out and it's clearly a date. I don't know

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my call her. I'm not sure I like to think

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I would. I don't know, I probably would, or I'd

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encourage my wife.

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Speaker 4: To do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because that way your insult, right, I got you

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know how women are. But it just means out.

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Speaker 4: I mean, in that situation, what what do you do?

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Speaker 1: Kevin? Would you do that? Have you ever been in

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a situation like that?

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Speaker 4: I have not. I mean it depends on the level

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of friendship. I mean, if it's just an acquaintance, yeah,

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maybe a coworker, maybe, maybe not.

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Speaker 1: If it's your dude, yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: If it's my boy, I'm calling him telling them well,

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I mean, that's easy, that's an easy one. It's it's

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in that like if you know somebody by extension, and

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all of a sudden you see the person who's by extension,

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all of a sudden on what looks like a date.

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I think I'm calling. I think, I think, I think

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I kind of have to.

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Speaker 1: I think here's not the guy though, I'll tell you this,

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if I saw the roles reversed and I had let's

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say it was like a neighbor, right, and we've gotten close.

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When I lived in a certain town, we would have

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every Friday night we would get together at a different

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neighbor's house, very very close with all these neighbors. If

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I saw one of the guys out on a date,

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I don't think I would tell the wife. I would

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encourage my wife to tell the wife. And the reason

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is sometimes I think, like, I don't know, I wouldn't

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want to be taken as I was trying to hit

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on her. It sounds really strange, right, But I say

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what you're saying, but I wouldn't want to go hey,

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you know, I just want to let you know, like

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like maybe you wouldn't either, But what's your rule? I

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have a rule.

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Speaker 5: I don't text married women at all, like even if

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unless it's like a business thing or something like that.

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I just if they're even if they're friends. I try

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to avoid that because, like you never know who sees

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water can misinterpret anything, Danny, and just avoids a ton

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of controversy.

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Speaker 1: You were speaking the thing I remember years ago. I'm

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like my mom and we were talking about Vice President

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Tence and how he wouldn't go out to dinner with somebody,

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and my mother's like, that's ridiculous. And other women were saying,

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how can women get ahead when there's this boys club

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and that's a great question. My interpretation was, I I

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wouldn't want to be the guy in charge on a

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one on one with a subordinate who's a female where

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there's alcohol. Right. If you're calling it the boys club,

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and I'm not saying it's fair, I'm just saying that

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it's open to interpretation that can lead to other things, exactly,

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that's all. So should she go to dinner, yeah, Should

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she be part of the boys club, yep. And there

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should be other women there too, and it should be

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a comfortable setting, yes, one hundred percent. But one on one,

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I don't know. I don't even want to be here

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with another woman without another guy present. Oh absolutely. You

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know what I'm saying, Like, if we're doing the podcast

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and Angie's here, I don't want Angie here alone. I

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want Kevin here or her boyfriend here first. You know

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what I'm saying that, which sounds dumb and silly, and

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she's cool, nothing, and it wouldn't be anything. I just

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don't want. I don't want any of that. Nope, because

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it's a different world nowadays, and you know what, it's

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almost respectful to them. Yes, I would want everybody to

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feel safe, right, right, I want everybody to feel safe.

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Speaker 5: Now, let me ask you this as far as like

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that situation we were just talking about, You're let's say

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you knew the guy. You're friends with the woman, but

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you know the guy and you see him out. You

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go to him and s like, hey, dude, I saw

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you out last night. It's none of my business, but

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is everything okay? In other words, you put the idea

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in his head. So maybe he confesses or oh that's

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no big deal. You kind of like set him up

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to like explain it. You don't owe me anything. I

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just I just saw you out with this chick last night.

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That wasn't your wife? Everything all right at home? You

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can talk to me.

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Speaker 4: I'm cool.

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Speaker 5: And then like, let's see what they open up with.

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Speaker 1: And if I saw that, I probably if I So,

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so here's the thing in my mind. I was with

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my wife when I saw them, and then you know,

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she's probably chirping in my head. So now I'm going

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to you should tell her? You should something. If I'm

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alone and I see him, I didn't see anything. I

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think okay, I think I don't see anything.

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Speaker 5: Oh if at that bugged you in your conscience.

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Speaker 1: Well, uh, things do bug me in my conscious. I

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will tell you this just to you how weird I

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can be. I went through the Wegman's self checkout and

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normally I have thrown my bags back in my car,

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and I didn't that not you know, the reusable bags.

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We have to use reusable bags in New York State.

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So I went through and I got and I probably

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had a habit hit zero, but I was using the

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paper bag and I couldn't remember if I hit zero

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or not. And I'm looking on the receipt and I

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started head out the door. So I went back to

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the service desk to turn yourself in and I said, hey, hey,

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uh I don't think I uh, I don't think I

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paid for the bag. She goes, what I said, I

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got a bag. Can you just check the receipts. She goes,

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just go, it's one bag. It's okay. And I was like, yeah,

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but so do you understand like I do have. I

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don't like that. I don't. I never liked stealing. I

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never liked that. I just that's just me. I liked

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a lot of other things, like drinking, like but I

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that was not that that makes me anything. So to

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your point, if it did, bug me, I may say

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to him, Hey, man, I feel like I'm in an

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awkward position here. I did see this. It looked a

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little more than just a friend like your sister. You

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know what I mean? Right, I might have to say that.

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I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Now there's a situation. I'm not on Facebook anymore, but

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when we were working together about twenty two thousand, nineteen ten,

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it's late and I'm on Facebook, and all of a

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sudden I get a message and instant message, Hey, he's

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finally gone. You can come over. I didn't think he'd

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ever leave. And I go, do you have the right Dan?

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She goes, Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Oh please

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don't please, don't say anything. I'm like, hey, I don't

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know what this is all about, so I'm just gonna

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I didn't ask any questions. I just yeah, you're whatever?

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 4: Give me this?

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Speaker 5: Like I I it's nobody would know.

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Speaker 1: Dandy's got a memory.

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Speaker 5: I got like four thousand like this, like Sady from home. Yeah, yeah,

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he's like four thousand friends. And I'm like, and I

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knew both of them.

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't know him. Well, well, was she married?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? They were married.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like well they eventually like split off.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and I'm like, now she had met me,

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that would have been really strange. She'd be like, hey, Dan,

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come out over. No I'm good, but yeah, I was like, whoa,

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you know, I know your husband, what's going on. But

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I'm like, I'm getting out of this one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sure, you know that's like that fear thing you're talking about,

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because what if, like you know, then all of a

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sudden just open up that can of words, you get

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involved and I told you not to get involved. I

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told you not to get involved.

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Speaker 1: Well, these situations can go ugly. I mean, you know,

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if you ever see like a man and a woman

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getting into it in a in a bar, There's been

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stories where yeah, like a guy goes over and the

470
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guy's you know, a man shoves the woman and the

471
00:22:42,519 --> 00:22:44,839
guy goes, hey, leave her alone, and then they get

472
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,880
into it and then the woman jumps on the other

473
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,240
guy's back to protect her man. So I go in

474
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those situations, go find somebody with a with a little

475
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more authority than you, like security, the manager, security, police office, something.

476
00:22:58,079 --> 00:23:01,480
Just you know, I'm not saying if it's really bad,

477
00:23:01,559 --> 00:23:04,599
if it's really bad, it's right there. Yeah, okay, then

478
00:23:04,759 --> 00:23:07,200
get involved. But and then most of the time you

479
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,079
don't want to get in any kind of bar fight anyway.

480
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:10,960
People think they know how to fight, they don't.

481
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Speaker 4: Nothing like that ever happens at Montconnery's.

482
00:23:14,279 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: Uh, I've never seen anything like that happen at Montconnery's.

483
00:23:17,319 --> 00:23:19,839
I've heard stories from the owner where.

484
00:23:19,839 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 5: Some guy.

485
00:23:21,839 --> 00:23:23,599
Speaker 1: Went a little nutty in there late at night. But

486
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I most of the time, most of the time where

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Every meal is a special occasion. Thanks for checking out

521
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from within our first hundred episodes. Remember the whole Tomorrow Hamlin,

522
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,279
how scary that was the whole incident, And we talked

523
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:40,839
about the violence of the NFL, and we were worried

524
00:25:40,839 --> 00:25:43,680
about tomorrow, and we told you to pray for tomorrow,

525
00:25:43,839 --> 00:25:46,440
and there was all this outpouring of support for tomorrow.

526
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 5: And now.

527
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: Here we are, We all go, you know, he's just

528
00:25:52,279 --> 00:25:55,039
not good enough to be a starter in the NFL.

529
00:25:55,559 --> 00:25:58,720
We didn't really think about it anymore. We don't. And

530
00:25:58,839 --> 00:26:01,839
it's funny. I always say, with anything in life, time

531
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:08,240
and distance, right. Relationships end, whether it be a platonic relationship,

532
00:26:08,319 --> 00:26:12,559
a friendship, a longtime friendship, a lover, you know these things.

533
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,559
Time and distance seemed to kind of be the thing.

534
00:26:15,599 --> 00:26:18,000
And it is funny how we were all up. So

535
00:26:18,079 --> 00:26:21,640
we're going back to episode twenty and in this episode,

536
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:26,480
you're gonna hear a Cleveland radio guy really breaking down

537
00:26:26,559 --> 00:26:31,799
the NFL. And at that point we didn't know anything

538
00:26:32,559 --> 00:26:36,799
about tomorrow other than he was alive after having died

539
00:26:36,839 --> 00:26:40,039
on the field. I think we're all saying we couldn't

540
00:26:40,039 --> 00:26:43,240
imagine him trying to play again, and what does the

541
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:47,240
NFL do for its players? And we really the NFL

542
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:51,119
got vilified in a way. You can hear it all

543
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,640
from episode twenty.

544
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 4: Danny.

545
00:27:17,039 --> 00:27:19,559
Speaker 1: I think some of the best guitar work in any

546
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,839
rocks On I think this is some of it. Actually,

547
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,440
Sultan's a Swing to me has the best guitar work.

548
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,480
I'm thinking Mark Knopfler and playing Money for Nothing. Because

549
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,759
we'll get back into this whole Tomorrow Hamlin thing and

550
00:27:30,839 --> 00:27:33,759
what this guy out of Cleveland, Garrett Bush is saying.

551
00:27:33,839 --> 00:27:36,880
But I want to give a couple of shout outs,

552
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:42,440
as they say in the radio world. No, I wanted.

553
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:48,359
I wanted to thank the guys shut up, Kevin, before

554
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,799
you even speak. Two guys at Thirsties. I wanted to

555
00:27:50,839 --> 00:27:53,720
thank Dan Clifford, the owner of Thirsty's, and my friend

556
00:27:53,759 --> 00:27:56,640
Matt Johnson, because over in my living room is an

557
00:27:57,039 --> 00:27:59,880
enormous Guinness mirror that we will put up in the

558
00:28:00,039 --> 00:28:03,519
new studio. Wow, but it's enormous. It's laying on the

559
00:28:03,599 --> 00:28:06,000
floor over my uh in the living room.

560
00:28:06,079 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 5: So that's bigger than Greg Connor's TVs.

561
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: So I wanted to thank them for that. That was

562
00:28:12,039 --> 00:28:15,279
very kind to them. And uh for I mean somebody

563
00:28:15,319 --> 00:28:18,240
else who had texted in. You can call or text

564
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:19,920
the show. Do you remember the.

565
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,559
Speaker 4: Number two O six eighty eight sixty six.

566
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: You got it, two six eighty eight sixty six. Look

567
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,279
at that. And somebody texted in saying that they ate

568
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,519
corn the other day and it came out, and it

569
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,000
came out in less than twenty hours. So I was

570
00:28:36,039 --> 00:28:38,039
closest to the pin. I'm closest to the pit.

571
00:28:38,319 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 4: But you don't digest corn. Yeah, but you something out

572
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,799
of can't corn? Okay, we're not just it's a trick. Okay,

573
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,519
Well tired seven hundred and sixty three, then was it seven?

574
00:28:49,599 --> 00:28:51,799
Speaker 5: We want to like postpone this week and then go

575
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,559
and then decide how we're gonna how we're gonna play

576
00:28:54,599 --> 00:28:58,279
closest to the pin next week. The corn hole rule.

577
00:28:58,799 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: The corn hole rule. So this guy brings up something

578
00:29:02,319 --> 00:29:05,839
very interesting and somewhat disturbing and really takes a shot

579
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,000
at the NFL over the whole DeMar Hamlin situation. Now,

580
00:29:09,119 --> 00:29:12,359
we do know that you know these guys we think

581
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:17,000
of the elite in the NFL. I couldn't You could

582
00:29:17,119 --> 00:29:19,240
ask me who plays center for the Raiders and I

583
00:29:19,319 --> 00:29:22,039
don't know. I don't know the answer to that. I

584
00:29:22,079 --> 00:29:24,759
don't know who plays center necessarily for the San Francisco

585
00:29:24,839 --> 00:29:25,480
forty nine ers.

586
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 4: I don't know who plays center for my team.

587
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: Okay, for the Patriots, right, do you know? Understand? And

588
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,960
I'm saying center because that's more of a highlighted position

589
00:29:34,039 --> 00:29:36,839
on the line. But go out further from there, and

590
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,799
we don't know. I don't think we know the big names,

591
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:41,799
the Josh Allen, the.

592
00:29:41,759 --> 00:29:44,119
Speaker 5: Skill position plays, the guys you touch the ball.

593
00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: The Burrows, the Stefan Diggs, and you can go on

594
00:29:47,839 --> 00:29:48,200
from there.

595
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 4: So the David Andrews center of the Patriots.

596
00:29:51,119 --> 00:29:54,799
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go, mich Morris. It's Morris, right. So

597
00:29:55,119 --> 00:29:57,559
I thought this was an interesting take, And this is

598
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,079
a Garrett bush And we'll pause a little bit here

599
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,920
and can make some comments as we go through. But

600
00:30:03,039 --> 00:30:05,079
Garrett Busch, you can hear him on ninety two three

601
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:07,839
The Fan in Cleveland. This was on a what looked

602
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,319
to be like a podcast more or less, but like

603
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,319
on video, it was the ultimate Cleveland sports show.

604
00:30:13,519 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 8: Were we in left field? We in left field? I'm

605
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,960
kind of hot right now too. I'm kind of hot

606
00:30:19,559 --> 00:30:22,519
because we do this every freaking time something happened on

607
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,160
this field. Everybody want to pivot in that, like they

608
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,559
why didn't heard people talking about, oh, you know, just

609
00:30:28,799 --> 00:30:31,640
uh the mental health of the players and yeah, you

610
00:30:31,759 --> 00:30:33,880
can die. They don't even know they could die out here.

611
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,200
We sit here and talk about this stuff every single

612
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,759
time schedule remakes. How we're gonna make it up with

613
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,160
the league feels about it. I don't give a damn

614
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,359
what the league feels about it. Let's be keep it real.

615
00:30:45,839 --> 00:30:48,480
Why we don't talk about this stuff that mattered this

616
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,559
young man? You want to know, you want to know how?

617
00:30:50,759 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 5: How what do you need?

618
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: Big Jack's fooding for him and massage Hue Parbecue put

619
00:30:57,799 --> 00:30:58,279
the sage.

620
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 5: But this guy is That was a bit we used

621
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,200
to play back on the radio together.

622
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,119
Speaker 1: But he's kind of got an interesting point. Listen on

623
00:31:09,359 --> 00:31:10,920
this is Garrett Bush to know about him?

624
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 8: He's twenty four years old. Right, he got a contract

625
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,839
for one hundred and sixty thousand dollars. That's his bonus.

626
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: Now he's reading off a piece of paper and he

627
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,920
gets himself all wound up and a little out. So

628
00:31:24,039 --> 00:31:26,440
he says, that's his contract. That's not his contract, he's

629
00:31:26,519 --> 00:31:29,559
it's clarify, it's his bonus. Here's what he makes per season.

630
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 8: And he earns eight hundred and twenty five thousand dollars

631
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,759
this year. You say, g Bush, why are you talking

632
00:31:34,759 --> 00:31:37,039
about this man's money, because guess what, he been in

633
00:31:37,079 --> 00:31:37,920
the league two years.

634
00:31:38,359 --> 00:31:39,599
Speaker 5: That means he's not vested.

635
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,279
Speaker 8: That means if he never plays another down in his life,

636
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,440
he don't get another check for the NFL. Let's be

637
00:31:45,599 --> 00:31:49,039
clear about this. You gotta play three to four years

638
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,559
before you even sniff a pinching. So all this heartwarming

639
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,279
and prayers and condolences don't do nothing for that boy's

640
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,279
mom that gotta go home look at her son, and

641
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,440
he might need extensive care for the rest of his life.

642
00:32:05,039 --> 00:32:07,359
And you know what the NFL will tell you, well,

643
00:32:07,519 --> 00:32:10,279
you know, you know we'll look out for the people

644
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:10,799
like him.

645
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,559
Speaker 5: No you won't, No, you won't.

646
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 8: Let's talk about the disability policy for the NFL. Right,

647
00:32:17,599 --> 00:32:20,400
they moved it from twenty two thousand dollars a month

648
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:25,359
to four thousand and alask collective Bargaining agreement. Did you

649
00:32:25,559 --> 00:32:28,720
know that the NFL has a private board that reviews

650
00:32:28,839 --> 00:32:33,160
all aspects with their doctors and with their neurologists and

651
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:34,039
their specialists.

652
00:32:34,359 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 5: They can deny.

653
00:32:35,079 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 8: Benefits even if Social Security deems you to be permanently disabled.

654
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,680
The League can come back and then say, you know,

655
00:32:41,759 --> 00:32:44,839
in the national the government is a you know, they're experts,

656
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,799
but let's take it over so.

657
00:32:46,039 --> 00:32:47,119
Speaker 5: We don't pay anything out.

658
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:53,559
Speaker 8: Only fifteen percent get approved by Social Security. The League

659
00:32:53,599 --> 00:32:57,920
says that number should be lower. Get that fifteen percent

660
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,160
of the people who apply for disabilities. I know, I

661
00:33:01,279 --> 00:33:05,079
was a disability expert. It's very low. I submitted over

662
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,839
almost two hundred and fifty thousand applications and one year

663
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:09,240
one time.

664
00:33:09,359 --> 00:33:09,559
Speaker 1: I know.

665
00:33:10,799 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 8: Since the CTE settlement, only six and a half percent

666
00:33:14,279 --> 00:33:15,519
of the settlement has been paid.

667
00:33:15,839 --> 00:33:17,519
Speaker 5: According to the Edman's website.

668
00:33:17,519 --> 00:33:20,839
Speaker 8: I looked it up yesterday and sixty percent of the

669
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:25,319
claims have a qualifying diagnosis but have not been paid.

670
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,039
Speaker 1: All right, So with the CTE stuff, you kind of

671
00:33:30,079 --> 00:33:32,000
gonna give it to him there, because I do think

672
00:33:32,079 --> 00:33:35,200
that the league denied this stuff for a long time

673
00:33:35,279 --> 00:33:38,480
and tried to skirt it and hide it and hide it. Right,

674
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,720
I don't ignore it. Maybe a little bit fair to

675
00:33:40,759 --> 00:33:46,720
say to it denied, ignore, dance around, dance, maybe cover

676
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,480
up or just go oh look bird like change the subject.

677
00:33:51,119 --> 00:33:55,839
But on the other hand, I do understand where he

678
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,119
brings up a great point. You got a guy who's

679
00:33:58,119 --> 00:34:00,200
making less than a million, make it more than any

680
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:06,119
many people, but could potentially not have the quality of

681
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:10,239
life he had Monday at seven o'clock in the evening,

682
00:34:10,639 --> 00:34:14,400
right right by nine o'clock, it's life had changed completely.

683
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:20,079
So I here's why I don't know, Because I think

684
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,199
you go into this sport for the glory, for the

685
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,360
love of it, for the you love playing. You also

686
00:34:26,519 --> 00:34:29,400
love the admiration that comes with it. You like all

687
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,199
that stuff, and you've been playing it your whole life,

688
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,079
and you don't expect this to happen. But I think

689
00:34:36,119 --> 00:34:38,079
that even if these guys kind of knew, I don't

690
00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:39,559
know that they'd change anything.

691
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 5: I know two different players who have said I would

692
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,440
do it again. Yes, one has als right now and

693
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,039
the other one almost didn't walk off the field. Ryan

694
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:48,920
Changers the guy I didn't walk off the field. He goes, yeah,

695
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,360
I go back tomorrow. If the doctors told me I

696
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:50,760
could do it.

697
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's part of who they are and they

698
00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:57,239
had money that potentially some of these guys you mentioned

699
00:34:57,639 --> 00:35:01,039
it could change generations, right, young man at this point,

700
00:35:01,559 --> 00:35:04,119
But who's to say, you know what could have happened,

701
00:35:04,559 --> 00:35:08,840
and it's all part of unfortunately the assumed risk with

702
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,440
the game. But nobody expects this to happen, and I'm not.

703
00:35:11,679 --> 00:35:14,079
I think this guy brings up a point that nobody

704
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,719
is thinking about, oh adressing. So I give him. I

705
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,960
hate the term give him credit, but I do. I

706
00:35:20,119 --> 00:35:22,760
I wow, that has a point, Yes that people haven't

707
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,960
brought up. But on the other side, I think this

708
00:35:25,119 --> 00:35:27,480
young guy would have gone back and done it if

709
00:35:27,519 --> 00:35:29,000
he knew that this was a possibility.

710
00:35:29,599 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 5: I think so.

711
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: I think. I think you're gonna see once we get

712
00:35:33,039 --> 00:35:35,280
out of this season, not that it's going to be forgotten.

713
00:35:35,519 --> 00:35:38,760
It won't be, but it won't be as prevalent in

714
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,320
people's mind.

715
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,199
Speaker 5: Well, remember when Teddy Bruski, you're your guy, Kevin, because

716
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,800
Teddy Bruski played linebacker for the Newland Patriots. He had

717
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,719
a murmur and he had a hole in his heart right,

718
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,639
he had a stroke. They're like stroke, it like what

719
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,280
twenty nine years old. And so when he came back,

720
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,039
Belichick told him, I need you to find a doctor

721
00:35:54,159 --> 00:35:55,239
is going to tell you you're not going to play

722
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,079
it again, because well, I want to play this. You're

723
00:35:57,079 --> 00:35:58,599
gonna go and go to your note every doctor you

724
00:35:58,679 --> 00:36:01,119
can until you find one who says you can't play.

725
00:36:01,199 --> 00:36:03,159
And he couldn't find a doctor who could tell him

726
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,480
you're never gonna play again. So Belichick's like, okay, you

727
00:36:05,519 --> 00:36:07,480
could play again because I'm not gonna take your life

728
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,920
and put it in my hands. And so he went

729
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,039
through that junior say like like they wanted to on

730
00:36:12,079 --> 00:36:14,239
the here's the flip side to what Garrett Jones is

731
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,760
Garrett Garrett, Garrett Bush's Garret Jones used to play for

732
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,280
the Rochester Red Wings. Garrett. Here's what Garrett Busch is saying.

733
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:24,119
That's collectively bargained. So take it up with your union,

734
00:36:24,519 --> 00:36:27,360
because here's what happens. Every year. They tell these guys

735
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,440
that every year or two before these big collective collective

736
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,599
bargaining sit downs. Save your money, fellas, because we got

737
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,360
to dig in for the long haul because they're not

738
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,320
gonna budget. What happens they blow it all, or some

739
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,360
players blow it all. Then they start knocking on their

740
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,199
union reps door. Hey, get a deal, bro I'm broke.

741
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,880
And so what do they give up? They give up

742
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,639
this this money that they get monthly.

743
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna hear what they gave up in just a second, right,

744
00:36:50,599 --> 00:36:51,480
in terms of healthcare.

745
00:36:51,599 --> 00:36:53,119
Speaker 5: They give all this stuff up. And what do the

746
00:36:53,159 --> 00:36:53,800
owners give them?

747
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 8: Oh?

748
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 5: This is this is this even hurts the players even more.

749
00:36:56,559 --> 00:36:59,239
We'll give you afternoons off in training camp or morning's off.

750
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,039
Only one says all right, that's fair, and no contact

751
00:37:02,079 --> 00:37:04,639
during otz gets where you learn how to tackle ot

752
00:37:05,199 --> 00:37:08,119
ot s and training camp. So now you're doubly offact.

753
00:37:08,199 --> 00:37:09,639
Speaker 1: We like to think that most of these guys know

754
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,719
how to tackle, but you're right, it is something that

755
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,480
it's one of these things. It's a skill.

756
00:37:13,559 --> 00:37:16,519
Speaker 5: It's like they tell police officers you need constant training. Well,

757
00:37:16,559 --> 00:37:19,880
every job you need constant retraining. His new techniques come out.

758
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:20,679
Doctors need it.

759
00:37:21,639 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 8: Sorry, let's talk about this. Let's talk about this they're

760
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,559
also moving to pinching. In that pinching, he gotta make

761
00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:34,519
it to fifty five. He's twenty four, and they've moved

762
00:37:34,599 --> 00:37:37,760
that between three thousand. They moved it down to three

763
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,039
thousand when it was fifty six hundred a month. And

764
00:37:41,159 --> 00:37:43,400
the last stat that you should know about is the

765
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,119
Bills owner. Terry Pegoula owns the Sabers as well as

766
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,760
as well as the Buffalo Bills, and his net worth

767
00:37:50,079 --> 00:37:54,079
is six point seven billion dollars. My question to you is, NFL,

768
00:37:54,119 --> 00:37:58,360
when do salaries become guaranteed? If you know these young

769
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,480
men are going out there and they can die on

770
00:38:00,559 --> 00:38:03,320
that football field. I don't give a damn what you

771
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,920
thoughts and prayers are. Do the right thing. I just

772
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,760
heard of DD say it seven times. This is a

773
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,440
savage sport. Men are dying every week, and you covered

774
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,320
that up during CTE. And now you want to act

775
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,360
like you the top of the food Chaine because you

776
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,039
got the CPR people in the field on time. That's

777
00:38:21,039 --> 00:38:23,559
the least you should do. You're not gonna pay that

778
00:38:23,639 --> 00:38:27,000
man's You're not gonna pay that man's tuition for his kids.

779
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,800
You're not gonna give him no disability money. You don't

780
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,239
do nothing. All you do is collecting big checks. And

781
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,280
we go play fantasy footballs and I hear these dudes

782
00:38:36,599 --> 00:38:39,360
thoughts and prayers for a whole damn two hours.

783
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,159
Speaker 1: Here you go, I cut him off. There.

784
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 5: I can empathize with what he's saying.

785
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 4: Sure, but at this he keeps saying they, well, it

786
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:50,920
was just colactively bargained.

787
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,119
Speaker 1: Well when they go from twenty two thousand to four

788
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,239
thousand in right, I forget exactly what it was, but

789
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:58,519
that was the number that really stuck out of my

790
00:38:58,559 --> 00:38:59,079
head in a while.

791
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:01,519
Speaker 4: That's but it's a negotiation.

792
00:39:01,679 --> 00:39:04,159
Speaker 1: But it's part of the negotiation. It's absolutely right, and

793
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,280
you're only going to get what you negotiate.

794
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,119
Speaker 5: For the funniest part is that these players are okay

795
00:39:08,199 --> 00:39:10,519
with this stuff until they retire. Then they bitch about it. Well,

796
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,000
and here's the thing. The current crop of players don't

797
00:39:14,119 --> 00:39:16,440
like the Mike Dickers of the world who are telling, hey, guys,

798
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,559
we need more money. No tough, you shouldn't negotiated that. Yeah,

799
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,760
and then when these guys retire, they go after they

800
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:24,840
go and find Mike Dick and goes, So, how do

801
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,079
we challenge the league it's just it's such bs.

802
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,119
Speaker 1: You gotta be smart now, it's a yes, And it's

803
00:39:32,159 --> 00:39:35,920
a tough thing because there's people who are listening and going, yeah, well,

804
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,719
I got screwed at my job because all of a

805
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,719
sudden they cut back this or they change our healthcare provider,

806
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,599
and I'm paying it more now. And everybody's kind of

807
00:39:43,639 --> 00:39:45,840
feeling some stuff. But this guy's pulling down a salary

808
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,599
of eight hundred and sixty thousand dollars and compared to

809
00:39:48,639 --> 00:39:50,719
the rest of the league or some players in the league,

810
00:39:51,679 --> 00:39:52,559
that's a few games.

811
00:39:52,639 --> 00:39:54,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, for a game, you know what I'm saying. I

812
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,559
believe the league or the team, one of the two,

813
00:39:56,639 --> 00:40:01,400
I believe has to provide them. Also financial advisors. You

814
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,039
can have your own on the side, but I know,

815
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,280
like for one case, stop that automatically comes out of

816
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,320
their insurance, out of their check automatically, like it would

817
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:12,039
for a normal person.

818
00:40:12,039 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 5: And I'm not talking about health insurance that too, but

819
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:16,360
I'm talking about like life insurance, you know, like in

820
00:40:16,559 --> 00:40:18,159
these situations.

821
00:40:17,519 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: Look, I don't know, business can become a very ugly thing.

822
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:22,920
And we and we see it all the time, and

823
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:24,239
you see and and it.

824
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 5: Gets personal and that's where and that's where you lose it.

825
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 1: Does I think he brings up valid points that nobody's

826
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,760
thinking about. All the thoughts and prayers. Forgive me, Danny,

827
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,679
I get what I say. He's going to say, don't

828
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,039
mean shit in the moment.

829
00:40:38,199 --> 00:40:38,559
Speaker 4: I get it.

830
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: You can go down that line of thinking, or we

831
00:40:41,119 --> 00:40:45,800
can think if we just try to eliminate the resistant

832
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:49,599
thinking and just go with the positive, this guy's improving,

833
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,760
He's going to come back. He could be a modern

834
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,800
day medical miracle thanks to the timing and what the

835
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,679
NFL provided, absolutely right, what the NFL made every require.

836
00:41:01,199 --> 00:41:04,880
So that's a great thing. And on the other side,

837
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:08,760
he could go around and start talking and maybe maybe

838
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,880
people who I don't know, somebody at your work. It's

839
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,639
somebody on the on the floor, and I don't know

840
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,559
Xerox who goes into cardiac wress, somebody knows how to

841
00:41:17,639 --> 00:41:20,880
do something and save it because of this incident and whatever.

842
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,119
Speaker 5: So he brought that up last night. Greg Thompson from

843
00:41:23,159 --> 00:41:26,280
A Cover one said, should we all go and learn CPR? Yes,

844
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,599
there should probably be like five or ten skills that

845
00:41:28,639 --> 00:41:29,880
we should all learn.

846
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: Well, CPR is just in case now too it's not

847
00:41:32,119 --> 00:41:35,519
the chest compressant because that's been cracking people's chest. Yes, right,

848
00:41:35,599 --> 00:41:38,719
and then you've had punctured lungs and things. So yes, yes,

849
00:41:39,199 --> 00:41:39,880
one hundred percent.

850
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:40,159
Speaker 5: Yes.

851
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 1: So maybe there is some good that comes out of this,

852
00:41:43,079 --> 00:41:47,199
and maybe this young man and his family do very well,

853
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,079
and maybe the gofund means and I don't know.

854
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,599
Speaker 5: I get to say one thing from a faith based perspective,

855
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,320
it's also it really is, you know, cool to see

856
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,920
all these people praying for tomorrow and then he comes

857
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,800
out of it. I gotta warn everybody, though, don't stop

858
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,280
just like your doctor says, don't stop taking your medication.

859
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,159
Will you feel good? You know, because all of a

860
00:42:04,159 --> 00:42:06,519
sudden things can go back. Oh so always great, I'm

861
00:42:06,559 --> 00:42:09,639
done breaking and then all of a sudden what happened.

862
00:42:10,119 --> 00:42:13,559
Speaker 1: About a half even though, but being grateful for the improvement, and.

863
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, going that he's not out of the woods yet.

864
00:42:15,679 --> 00:42:16,880
Just keep praying for him.

865
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,119
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the fantasy or Fetish, we talk about how some people's

901
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fantasy actually turns into a fetish and how Dan was

902
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asked to do something when he was dating a girl

903
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and he just couldn't bring himself to do it. Plus

904
00:44:43,599 --> 00:44:51,559
the Tom and Giselle Brady divorce. Yeah, that seems so

905
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long ago. As Gizelle is having another kid, right, did

906
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she just have her third child? This one would a

907
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new man? Yeah? Well, again, time and distance. It heals

908
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:24,400
all blues. You didn't call the jess. It's fantasy.

909
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:28,639
Speaker 5: I used to sing this with audible. Oh yeah, yeah,

910
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,480
they got kicked out of the vans.

911
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,599
Speaker 1: And I don't know, black thigh highs and high heels.

912
00:45:36,679 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 5: I got to interview Paul Rodgers. It was one of

913
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:39,599
those interviews where.

914
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: You would tell me, were let run in my fantasy place.

915
00:45:41,559 --> 00:45:44,039
I'm sorry, all right, what about Paul Rodgers? Where did

916
00:45:44,079 --> 00:45:45,360
your interview with us?

917
00:45:45,639 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 5: You're like, Danny, I don't want to do this in

918
00:45:47,559 --> 00:45:49,840
times like who's Paul Rogers Brown? You can handle this?

919
00:45:50,119 --> 00:45:50,840
So I interview him.

920
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: Roel Rodgers is great firm company, the firm he was

921
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:56,599
with the Queen Queen for a while.

922
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,119
Speaker 5: So he sent me all this stuff, these DVD's and

923
00:45:59,159 --> 00:46:01,159
see these and stuff. Here's the thing. He put me

924
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,239
on with his wife for like twenty minutes because you

925
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,440
want to talk about the mistreatment of horses right before

926
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,519
the Kentucky Derby, Like, oh, so that's what this was about.

927
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,679
This interview wasn't about you. This is about getting your

928
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,880
wife on the phone to complain about.

929
00:46:14,679 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: The You know what that was is to get his

930
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:21,280
wife off his ass. That's exactly what that was. Yeah,

931
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,199
Paul Rodgers wife has been and he just went fine,

932
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:25,679
but fuck it.

933
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 5: The guy like looks amazing still he looks like Chuck Norris,

934
00:46:29,519 --> 00:46:30,079
like why.

935
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: Horse pills. Yeah, he's taking all those horsemen.

936
00:46:34,519 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 5: Having a lot of fantasies.

937
00:46:35,679 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: That's it, rock and roll fantas rock and roll fantasy

938
00:46:38,079 --> 00:46:46,960
right there. Nobody has any fantasies, No fantasies of the

939
00:46:48,079 --> 00:46:52,280
dirty Kevin. Kevin's got one. Kevin's got one. No, I

940
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:53,079
have nothing, all right.

941
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 4: It's like I said, clean dishes, cleanhouse.

942
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 5: Oh stop WC Fields over here.

943
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: More than a thousand men and women in Canadia, Canada.

944
00:47:05,199 --> 00:47:08,119
Speaker 5: Up north, that's Russia.

945
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,159
Speaker 1: We're asked about their sexual interest in whether they've acted

946
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,400
on them. This is Canada.

947
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 4: Buildings get laid. It's all the sex talk to Well,

948
00:47:16,079 --> 00:47:16,360
it's not.

949
00:47:16,679 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 1: It has to. It started out with the guy putting

950
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,320
on diapers and breaking into the daycare center out and

951
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:22,079
Clarkson Is.

952
00:47:22,079 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 5: That sexual though?

953
00:47:23,079 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. So I'm trying to

954
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:25,960
figure Yes, it's got to.

955
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:26,559
Speaker 5: Be a little bit.

956
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 4: Don't you think Benover will show you you want to

957
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,480
be treated like a baby.

958
00:47:32,559 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: There's got to be there.

959
00:47:33,639 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like you've got to get off somehow, right,

960
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:37,280
Is there any trace of that?

961
00:47:38,159 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: Hope they did they.

962
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,199
Speaker 5: Take the white did they take the the black stop it?

963
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: I don't know.

964
00:47:44,159 --> 00:47:44,280
Speaker 7: Uh.

965
00:47:44,679 --> 00:47:47,079
Speaker 1: What they discovered is more people are freaky than you think.

966
00:47:48,039 --> 00:47:50,719
Among other things, the study, which was published in the

967
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:54,480
Journal of Sex Research, found forty six percent of people

968
00:47:54,599 --> 00:47:59,400
surveyed were into voyeurism watching others have sex. No porn

969
00:47:59,519 --> 00:48:03,480
is though lunch porty different when you know him, though Billy, Well,

970
00:48:03,519 --> 00:48:06,320
thirty five percent have actually done it. I wonder if

971
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,880
there's more people who are cuckolds. Actually, I know somebody

972
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:09,199
who was.

973
00:48:10,519 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 5: I know somebody who we interviewed on this show who

974
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,119
walked in on Dennis Robin and Karmel Electra going at it.

975
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 2: What.

976
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, he was late for a meeting Rodman was and

977
00:48:19,079 --> 00:48:22,280
they had to they had like a production meeting. Yeah,

978
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,079
and they and he told this story. He only tells

979
00:48:24,119 --> 00:48:26,000
he doesn't tell it on the podcast, but he tells

980
00:48:26,039 --> 00:48:28,519
it like in these tours that he does, and he

981
00:48:28,599 --> 00:48:30,960
knocks it there like come on in. So Eric walks

982
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,199
in and Karl's like, oh hey, Eric, I what We're

983
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,880
just wrapping up Robbin's like pounding her. Just be a

984
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,280
couple more minutes. Yeah, I'll be right there. Because he

985
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,920
was late, was like, what do I do? Do I

986
00:48:43,199 --> 00:48:43,960
sit there and watch?

987
00:48:44,079 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 2: Or do I?

988
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 3: Like?

989
00:48:45,079 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 1: I would have left?

990
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:47,039
Speaker 5: Yeah? He did, he did.

991
00:48:47,119 --> 00:48:51,519
Speaker 1: I would have left. Yeah, I do know somebody?

992
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 3: Uh that.

993
00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:59,119
Speaker 1: The rumor was the rumor I can say things now go.

994
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,760
Speaker 5: On, Oh all right, this is a billy exclusive.

995
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: The rumor was that this person enjoyed watching his wife

996
00:49:07,519 --> 00:49:13,559
have sex with other people men women, no men. So yeah,

997
00:49:14,519 --> 00:49:21,400
so that person, I like it was somebody that the

998
00:49:21,519 --> 00:49:27,320
husband was close with. Okay, yeah, maybe commune. Now I don't.

999
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 5: Let's see, well it turn into the micro soft.

1000
00:49:38,159 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: No, no, but that that that that that is true too.

1001
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,920
That is true too. But that's not who I'm talking about.

1002
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:50,599
So this person allowed people. It was somebody that was

1003
00:49:50,679 --> 00:49:56,519
close to this person. It would be like you allowing

1004
00:49:56,599 --> 00:49:58,840
me to come over? Do you understand what I'm saying?

1005
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,519
Like that, like that kind of thing. How And then

1006
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:07,800
what happened was the wife and the friend started going.

1007
00:50:08,119 --> 00:50:11,119
Speaker 5: On their own yeah without telling them. Yeah, are they

1008
00:50:11,159 --> 00:50:11,719
together now?

1009
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 7: No?

1010
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 5: No, I mean the wife and the friend? No, okay,

1011
00:50:16,519 --> 00:50:17,159
were they though?

1012
00:50:17,519 --> 00:50:19,519
Speaker 1: Nope? Okay, nobody was, so this is just.

1013
00:50:19,519 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 5: They're going to poundtown on their own.

1014
00:50:22,159 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: It's just weird. But when you see forty six percent

1015
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,719
of people, you go, wait a second, that means that's

1016
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,159
a lot, Like that's a I mean, it's not majority,

1017
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,119
but it's pretty big.

1018
00:50:31,159 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 5: You gotta tell me who this is now.

1019
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,199
Speaker 1: I'll tell you after.

1020
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:40,280
Speaker 5: I'm telling now took no micro's off. You can't do that. Oh,

1021
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:41,320
don't pump fake me.

1022
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,639
Speaker 1: Bro, I gotta hang on.

1023
00:50:43,679 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 4: You're gonna write down I.

1024
00:50:45,079 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: Was gonna be never afraid of the cameras too.

1025
00:50:47,079 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know.

1026
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 4: Just wait five minutes.

1027
00:50:49,039 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 1: God damn any wow to hear what I said?

1028
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,159
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, yeah, huh okay, a little out of left field,

1029
00:51:02,199 --> 00:51:03,519
but yeah, okay.

1030
00:51:03,559 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: God didn't get piged.

1031
00:51:05,079 --> 00:51:08,079
Speaker 5: I know I can see that I didn't get with

1032
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:12,880
the current person. No, okay, all right, this is yeah

1033
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:14,000
previously on.

1034
00:51:18,679 --> 00:51:23,639
Speaker 1: Two and a half. Man, God, I'm sort of sweat sweating.

1035
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 5: I wouldn't sweat.

1036
00:51:24,639 --> 00:51:25,760
Speaker 1: No, I'm sweating a little bit.

1037
00:51:28,079 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 5: Who cares?

1038
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 4: What are they gonna come and fire you from your

1039
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:30,239
own shot?

1040
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 5: Well, it isn't that, it's it's not even that you

1041
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:35,920
made fun of the Chinese Prime minister, we might have

1042
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:36,440
a problem.

1043
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: Uh. Men were most into voyeurism, according to this, fetishism

1044
00:51:41,079 --> 00:51:44,880
and exhibitionism, getting it on and another in front of

1045
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,960
other people. Women dug the voyeurism like watching.

1046
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, women are sneaky, creepy?

1047
00:51:51,559 --> 00:51:52,079
Speaker 1: Are they? Oh?

1048
00:51:52,199 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you mean sneaky?

1049
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,039
Speaker 1: Basing this on?

1050
00:51:55,199 --> 00:51:57,760
Speaker 5: I'm basing it on, Like videos on YouTube where I've

1051
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,960
heard women talk about stuff like this, what do you mean.

1052
00:52:00,559 --> 00:52:02,400
There's a lot of women out there who have become

1053
00:52:02,639 --> 00:52:06,039
it's become a cottage industry of women defending men, okay,

1054
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,559
who say that, like men, you know, get a bad rap.

1055
00:52:09,679 --> 00:52:12,519
And these women have actually come to men's defense and

1056
00:52:12,639 --> 00:52:15,440
talked about stuff like this, say, ladies, you're just as creepy, okay,

1057
00:52:15,519 --> 00:52:18,000
but you're allowed to be creepy because you're a woman.

1058
00:52:18,039 --> 00:52:19,719
You could have a laundry list of demands, but he's

1059
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:20,599
not allowed to have one.

1060
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 4: The Canadian survey, what's the percentage of involving a zamboni.

1061
00:52:26,039 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: That's part of the fantasy, it's all part of my

1062
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,440
hockey fantasy. Thirty five percent had actually done some of

1063
00:52:32,519 --> 00:52:39,039
these things. Some of the women fetishes and masochism, mixing

1064
00:52:39,119 --> 00:52:42,360
pain with pleasure, which you said you have had a

1065
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,000
woman basically asked to be.

1066
00:52:44,079 --> 00:52:48,559
Speaker 5: Choked, and I said no and never saw her again. No,

1067
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:49,480
not doing that.

1068
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,079
Speaker 1: She hut, she was attractive. This hasn't answer my question.

1069
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:54,960
Was she hot? No?

1070
00:52:55,519 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 4: Okay, she was hoty when it shows hot, yeah, hot

1071
00:52:59,559 --> 00:53:00,199
is like a fer.

1072
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:03,760
Speaker 5: It's a different level, is it. Yeah?

1073
00:53:04,039 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: What do you know?

1074
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:05,599
Speaker 5: Like hot for you?

1075
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: That hot?

1076
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,320
Speaker 5: Yeah for Danny. I didn't like that on the Danny

1077
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,519
scale of fun time out. That's not what I meant.

1078
00:53:15,039 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 1: What I meant. Let me rephrase it, let me change.

1079
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,039
Speaker 5: We're talking about the Canadian temperatures or American temperatures.

1080
00:53:20,639 --> 00:53:26,599
Speaker 1: Preposition for to, the preposition to hot to you, yeah, right,

1081
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,199
hot to you like. It doesn't mean like.

1082
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,119
Speaker 5: Okay, she was, she wasn't, Gizell. That's what I'm saying.

1083
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you something, just because you brought her up,

1084
00:53:36,199 --> 00:53:38,559
this about the divorce story, that the divorce story that

1085
00:53:38,639 --> 00:53:41,599
came out, because I thought we'll come back to.

1086
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:43,639
Speaker 5: The divorce story because I want to talk about that.

1087
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: But uh, I actually find Bridget moynihan more attractive than

1088
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:49,800
I do Giselle.

1089
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:51,519
Speaker 4: I don't find all that hot.

1090
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,519
Speaker 1: And I know that people go crazy when I say

1091
00:53:54,559 --> 00:53:56,440
stuff like that, Like I have been told them, not,

1092
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,480
you're not a guy, you're not. She just she just

1093
00:54:00,159 --> 00:54:03,760
she's not unattractive. That's she's beautiful. Yeah, she's beautiful. But

1094
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:09,679
I my preference, so hot to me would be Bridget

1095
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,039
moynihan over I could see that, Like have you.

1096
00:54:12,079 --> 00:54:16,599
Speaker 5: Seen have you seen the cover of Vogue recently? Giselle

1097
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:20,079
is on and she's wearing red and she has actual hips.

1098
00:54:21,199 --> 00:54:23,639
And if you've seen Gizelle, Jizelle does not have an

1099
00:54:23,639 --> 00:54:25,679
hourglass figure. That's not a shot at her. That's just

1100
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,440
who she is. She's very skinny. But on Vogue they

1101
00:54:28,519 --> 00:54:31,920
actually drew in hips for her to look more voluptuous,

1102
00:54:32,159 --> 00:54:35,440
Like they made her look like she is basically Christina

1103
00:54:35,559 --> 00:54:39,880
Hendrix with Giselle's face. And that's not the case at all. Okay,

1104
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,679
But so I agree with you. I think she I

1105
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,440
think she's she's beautiful, but I don't find her hot.

1106
00:54:44,679 --> 00:54:47,199
Speaker 1: Let me go back to the study here. The study

1107
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:51,719
authors also pointed out that masochism was significantly linked with

1108
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:58,400
higher sexual satisfaction. So go women, get choked, baby, Okay,

1109
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,440
you could have had you could have had a great

1110
00:55:00,599 --> 00:55:04,920
Yelp review, five star Uber review, and a great Yelp review.

1111
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:09,000
Here's the thing, not everybody who was into something kinky

1112
00:55:09,199 --> 00:55:12,079
actually acting on it. Nearly forty five percent of people

1113
00:55:12,119 --> 00:55:15,440
said they were they were interested in fetishes, for example,

1114
00:55:15,679 --> 00:55:19,159
but only twenty six percent made the fantasy reality worth

1115
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,159
noting though, nearly everyone who said that they wanted to

1116
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,199
have sex where they could get caught actually.

1117
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,119
Speaker 5: Did do it because it adds to the thrill.

1118
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's part of the thing.

1119
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:31,599
Speaker 5: And dopamine.

1120
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: That was Opie and Anthony's whole thing when they did

1121
00:55:34,519 --> 00:55:36,760
the sex for sam St. St.

1122
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 5: Patrick's.

1123
00:55:37,679 --> 00:55:39,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, Saint Patrick's Cathedral is one. They had people in

1124
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,320
the back of Saint Patrick's Cathedral and they were broadcasting

1125
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,280
this all over and someone told on them and then

1126
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:48,119
they wound up getting suspended and paid. They got no,

1127
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,960
that was New York City. That was New York City, Ark,

1128
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,440
but the the mayor dying in a plane crash. But

1129
00:55:55,559 --> 00:55:58,719
the but this was like, uh, I mean they got

1130
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,039
paid to not be on the air a lot.

1131
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 5: That's the dream. That's the American Wow.

1132
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: I think that is sort of the American dream. They

1133
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,119
were very afraid CBS was afraid that, you know, they

1134
00:56:09,199 --> 00:56:12,159
may get picked up by the competition and something would happen.

1135
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,559
All right, tell me your theory, because so Giselle has

1136
00:56:14,599 --> 00:56:17,360
come out and said that they just grew apart. Tom

1137
00:56:17,679 --> 00:56:19,880
put out something on his Instagram today that was sort

1138
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,880
of vague that said something about fake friends.

1139
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't see that. But to me, like Giselle

1140
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,719
talking about growing apart and I don't know the context

1141
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,519
of their relationship and all the stuff that went in.

1142
00:56:30,679 --> 00:56:33,119
She said football was just a small part of them.

1143
00:56:33,199 --> 00:56:36,320
But they just grew apart. Doesn't every couple, and you

1144
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,039
have to fight through that. I mean, come on, people change,

1145
00:56:39,079 --> 00:56:42,599
We're always changing, We're always evolving. Yeah, okay, you're not.

1146
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,840
I mean unless you want to have a society where

1147
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,760
we have, and maybe you do. Maybe people want to

1148
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,920
do this where you marry somebody as a five year

1149
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:52,239
rental and then renew the contract instead of making a covenant,

1150
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,800
making a contracts after five years we can stay together

1151
00:56:55,119 --> 00:56:57,360
or this contract expires and we move on our ways.

1152
00:56:57,679 --> 00:56:59,760
But it's not a contract. If you want to marry

1153
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,119
some but you plan on growing old with them, they're

1154
00:57:02,199 --> 00:57:05,679
going to change. No freaking kidding that that to me,

1155
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,360
is like, if she doesn't want to explain it, then

1156
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,320
don't tell the story.

1157
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,679
Speaker 1: Well, as a cop out, we grew apart.

1158
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 5: A lot of people grow apart. So what you're going

1159
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:16,400
to have ebbs and flows in a relationship.

1160
00:57:16,599 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 1: No, I under work through it. I see what you're saying.

1161
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,760
But I do wonder if, if, just if she isn't

1162
00:57:23,119 --> 00:57:27,480
obviously being honest. I guess I didn't really even think

1163
00:57:27,519 --> 00:57:29,679
of it that way. I just thought, yeah, I could

1164
00:57:29,679 --> 00:57:32,800
see where you grow apart. You're not around each other

1165
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,280
as much. You start to find little things annoying. Uh,

1166
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,760
you don't share the same interest You're not you know

1167
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:43,199
what I mean. It's like you'd rather I think sometimes

1168
00:57:43,239 --> 00:57:48,159
in the beginning you'll make time for somebody and uh,

1169
00:57:49,199 --> 00:57:52,480
and then there are times you won't. Right, all of

1170
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:54,280
a sudden, you start going you have less tolerance as

1171
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,320
you grow, Yeah, less tolerance for things. And I think

1172
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:59,840
that you're right if you don't make things a priority.

1173
00:58:00,559 --> 00:58:03,039
I think talking is a very big deal. I think

1174
00:58:03,039 --> 00:58:08,639
if you can actually talk. I think sometimes communication, I

1175
00:58:08,679 --> 00:58:12,000
mean everything is always a communication. Communication. But I do

1176
00:58:12,159 --> 00:58:14,320
think that that that's a huge thing in a relationship.

1177
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,079
So if you're not there to talk to each other,

1178
00:58:16,559 --> 00:58:20,159
or you're not making the attempt. I don't know. I mean, look,

1179
00:58:20,239 --> 00:58:24,039
you're talking about two people that are everybody's a brand. Now,

1180
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:25,880
these people are fucking brands.

1181
00:58:28,039 --> 00:58:31,199
Speaker 4: Uphold that image. They don't need to run everybody all

1182
00:58:31,199 --> 00:58:33,000
their dirt through the everything. I know.

1183
00:58:33,119 --> 00:58:35,079
Speaker 5: But my point is that if that's the case, then

1184
00:58:35,119 --> 00:58:35,840
why say anything?

1185
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,079
Speaker 1: Because they wanted to sell magazines. They wanted her to

1186
00:58:38,159 --> 00:58:40,239
say something, and she said something that was fairly polite

1187
00:58:40,239 --> 00:58:41,960
and something a lot of people can relate to. Yes,

1188
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:43,599
we grew apart, but to me, like.

1189
00:58:43,639 --> 00:58:45,559
Speaker 5: That's a lot, that's that's every couple. There's things that

1190
00:58:45,599 --> 00:58:47,960
are going to happen, work through it. That's not an excuse,

1191
00:58:49,119 --> 00:58:52,480
it's just okay, that's rubber stamping a quote.

1192
00:58:52,599 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I think it can be.

1193
00:58:55,519 --> 00:58:59,320
I think it's a polite way of saying, none is

1194
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:00,239
the business.

1195
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 5: Don't give the article. Well, I don't pay me like

1196
00:59:03,599 --> 00:59:05,679
you just like, hey, I just want the world to

1197
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,000
know that, you know, nothing.

1198
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,719
Speaker 1: Happened, we just grew apart. Well, I'm sure they approached her.

1199
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,159
I don't have the same feeling as you. I think

1200
00:59:14,239 --> 00:59:22,079
that like saying we grew apart, uh while vague fair Okay, Okay,

1201
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:23,519
well I mean I mean.

1202
00:59:23,519 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 5: Well, but I won't say anything at all. That's I

1203
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:26,880
guess that's my point.

1204
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: Right, And I'm not asking you. But you've been through that, yeah,

1205
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:34,880
I've been through yeah, And and there were reasons why

1206
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:38,599
and do not do not share them. I'm not asking that,

1207
00:59:39,039 --> 00:59:41,679
just like you know. And in a way it could

1208
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:45,239
boil down to you grew apart, you know what I mean, right,

1209
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:45,760
but they could.

1210
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 5: That's my point though, that that could be the cover all.

1211
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,119
Speaker 1: I understand, you know what I'm saying. I understand. But

1212
00:59:50,239 --> 00:59:52,360
Tom did call it fake friends, so maybe that's not

1213
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,320
really true. I don't know, maybe or maybe there was

1214
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,719
a maybe there was a do not discuss this ever,

1215
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,519
like we're doing this and you're gonna get a certain

1216
01:00:00,519 --> 01:00:02,679
amount of money or whatever. I have no idea.

1217
01:00:03,599 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 5: Could be a lot of things, you know. And the

1218
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:06,719
other thing too, is like I hate when people put

1219
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,280
something in social media to like, you know, like they

1220
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,400
call it, used to call it vague booking on Facebook,

1221
01:00:11,599 --> 01:00:13,519
and that's what that's what Brady's doing, and that's what

1222
01:00:13,679 --> 01:00:15,719
like Ed Oliver with the bills did like oh to me,

1223
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:16,679
you don't love me no more.

1224
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,239
Speaker 1: Wait a second, now, since you brought that up, what

1225
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,960
is going on with DeAndre Hopkins.

1226
01:00:21,199 --> 01:00:23,599
Speaker 5: So there's rumors that he could becoming a Buffalo other

1227
01:00:23,679 --> 01:00:24,360
teams in the mix.

1228
01:00:24,679 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: He's been putting Buffalo so lyrics on his Instagram and

1229
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:30,599
then he had something else that was Buffalo. He was

1230
01:00:30,679 --> 01:00:34,159
drinking orses shoes and sobody's like, hey, Ojay, yeah, you

1231
01:00:34,239 --> 01:00:37,840
know like Buffalo, But you think I think it's a possibility.

1232
01:00:38,039 --> 01:00:40,559
Speaker 5: I sent him a message on Twitter today with the

1233
01:00:40,639 --> 01:00:43,519
song I've been Thinking About You by London Beat. Hey,

1234
01:00:43,599 --> 01:00:46,480
come on out, come on work with us. That's my

1235
01:00:46,519 --> 01:00:47,880
fetish football, that's my fetish.

1236
01:00:48,199 --> 01:00:48,239
Speaker 3: No.

1237
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 1: But I mean, you know you want best to put

1238
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:55,599
black under her eyes, right eye? Black foot on pad.

1239
01:00:55,639 --> 01:00:58,159
Speaker 4: Honey, put on the Josh Allingers, No, no, the retro.

1240
01:01:00,559 --> 01:01:03,519
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Speaker 5: This is going to be fun.

1271
01:02:59,679 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: Love from within our first one hundred episodes, as we've

1272
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:06,000
done over five hundred and fifty episodes of Billifi, well

1273
01:03:06,079 --> 01:03:09,119
over five hundred and fifty episodes of Billified. Now. From

1274
01:03:09,159 --> 01:03:12,320
episode ninety six, our friend Stephanie Ied came in, and

1275
01:03:12,639 --> 01:03:16,760
this is before Stephanie was in her current relationship, which

1276
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:20,880
I believe is coming up on three years. Is that possible? Jeez?

1277
01:03:22,159 --> 01:03:27,159
But Stephanie talks about writing a song for a guy

1278
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:31,840
and being told that she was too intense for this guy.

1279
01:03:35,159 --> 01:03:56,440
From episode ninety six. Enjoy when head the news today,

1280
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:03,320
we had to come get it strained from you. That's

1281
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:03,639
all I know.

1282
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,039
Speaker 4: I'm almost broken up with Zachond Kelly breaking up with

1283
01:04:06,119 --> 01:04:08,840
stephan this guy breaking up someone.

1284
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:11,199
Speaker 9: In three weeks.

1285
01:04:13,719 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: Man, you go all in when you go, don't you?

1286
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 4: Well?

1287
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: You were saying like you went to this guy's sister's house,

1288
01:04:21,119 --> 01:04:23,480
and well he invited me to do that. Yeah, but

1289
01:04:23,599 --> 01:04:24,920
I mean when you went, you were.

1290
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,079
Speaker 4: Like like the kids playing with the kids bedtime stories.

1291
01:04:28,159 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, is that are you trying to play for keeps?

1292
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,679
You got to ride that frottle? Man, don't you know

1293
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,199
anything about racing a fucking car? You go into the

1294
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:45,719
curR right, going slow out, fast in, slow out fast

1295
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,119
in the turns dammit once, I like you, my god,

1296
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,719
right into the fucking wall every tide. Right. But we

1297
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:57,400
learned something about Stephanie during to Break Stephanie. Uh help me,

1298
01:04:57,719 --> 01:05:00,159
this is this may be the funniest thing that I

1299
01:05:00,239 --> 01:05:03,400
had heard, because tomorrow we'll be at mont Connery's and

1300
01:05:03,639 --> 01:05:06,559
she said we could do speed dating because she's gonna

1301
01:05:06,599 --> 01:05:10,760
go over there. But she wrote a song for the guy.

1302
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:12,679
Do you mind if I say that I don't know.

1303
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 9: I did write a song.

1304
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:18,239
Speaker 4: I really like, if you want to get to the front,

1305
01:05:20,159 --> 01:05:21,239
it's a breakup song.

1306
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:24,159
Speaker 1: Well it's hang on, I gotta get these cameras on

1307
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,719
life of missing all this ship.

1308
01:05:27,639 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 5: It's like at the Wedding Singer where Adams Sandler's character

1309
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:32,840
was playing that one song. It was a.

1310
01:05:35,199 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 9: I was gonna write like a happy song that I

1311
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:38,199
end up writing like.

1312
01:05:38,239 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 5: A breakup song?

1313
01:05:39,159 --> 01:05:40,519
Speaker 4: What ding an please?

1314
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,039
Speaker 5: I will sing it in any key or any style.

1315
01:05:46,119 --> 01:05:48,480
I could do reggae, I could do hip hop, I

1316
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:50,079
could do James head Field.

1317
01:05:50,159 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 7: Deal. Have one listener, I need a listing, a listing

1318
01:05:53,599 --> 01:05:54,719
from one of the listeners.

1319
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,039
Speaker 9: I will let you play love song.

1320
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: So hang on, all right. So it's embarrassing this guy

1321
01:06:05,519 --> 01:06:06,559
said you were too intense.

1322
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:08,599
Speaker 4: Then you I.

1323
01:06:08,559 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 9: Shouldn't probably not have written in the song.

1324
01:06:11,039 --> 01:06:15,639
Speaker 1: So then after he tells you you're too intense, I

1325
01:06:15,719 --> 01:06:18,159
wrote a song. He wrote a song. Did you have

1326
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,559
any disagreements with this guy? And he spats prior to

1327
01:06:21,719 --> 01:06:22,239
this weekend?

1328
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:22,679
Speaker 5: Yes?

1329
01:06:23,079 --> 01:06:26,599
Speaker 1: Okay, So is this maybe this is how he what

1330
01:06:27,039 --> 01:06:30,199
what do they call it, Danny love language or something

1331
01:06:30,239 --> 01:06:30,360
like that.

1332
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's what it's called love language.

1333
01:06:33,639 --> 01:06:36,199
Speaker 1: Maybe that's how he talks. Is that possible?

1334
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 9: I don't know. He didn't think we were broken up.

1335
01:06:38,239 --> 01:06:39,079
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying.

1336
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 9: He told me Friday night. He said, he said, I

1337
01:06:42,039 --> 01:06:43,239
like you. I like you too much.

1338
01:06:43,559 --> 01:06:46,519
Speaker 1: I like you too much, which then for you was

1339
01:06:46,639 --> 01:06:49,360
like now we just went fucking turbo in here a

1340
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:52,519
world right, it just went turble the fucking flames you

1341
01:06:52,599 --> 01:06:53,239
got nitro.

1342
01:06:54,159 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 9: I like tequila, right, yeah, I love He hates tequila.

1343
01:06:57,960 --> 01:06:59,599
The smell that makes want to vomit. And I'm like,

1344
01:06:59,679 --> 01:07:01,440
so that makes you want to vomit in my mouth

1345
01:07:01,559 --> 01:07:02,480
right now because.

1346
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,599
Speaker 1: Well that usually tequila doesn't have much of an odor

1347
01:07:05,639 --> 01:07:08,920
or anything. He was like, oh, tequila from your breath.

1348
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 9: So I'm like, should we just break up right now

1349
01:07:10,519 --> 01:07:12,679
because I'm like a tequila girl? And he's like, no,

1350
01:07:13,159 --> 01:07:14,480
I like you way too much.

1351
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:18,599
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, so we said that, all right,

1352
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,679
So but he didn't think you broke up after Saturday.

1353
01:07:21,559 --> 01:07:22,239
Speaker 9: After I left.

1354
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: So what's the problem then, I mean, I don't want

1355
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:26,639
to be thinking.

1356
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 9: I'm sad about that, Like he kind of flipped out

1357
01:07:29,719 --> 01:07:30,760
the debit card story.

1358
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 5: Were broken up for good, just an our before.

1359
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:38,239
Speaker 4: We never ever.

1360
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: You're a lot. You're a lot. We just no, because

1361
01:07:43,559 --> 01:07:46,039
this whole thing, Like I know, but maybe you need

1362
01:07:46,159 --> 01:07:48,679
to just relax a little bit, let you let the

1363
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,280
ship work itself itself out.

1364
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,159
Speaker 5: I want to read your lyrics. Try so hard.

1365
01:07:52,199 --> 01:07:58,599
Speaker 1: Give the lyrics today because I want to srics list list.

1366
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 5: There's a line in the breakup song goes, they don't

1367
01:08:01,039 --> 01:08:03,280
ride in black that anymore. I want to see if

1368
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:04,960
you do. I want to see if you do.

1369
01:08:05,199 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 1: You're not sharing you like you're like a rabid fox

1370
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,960
and brightened can't shake you off. All of a sudden,

1371
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:13,480
there's it's like, it's like this story right here.

1372
01:08:14,679 --> 01:08:16,159
Speaker 7: After that, I thought it would be a good idea

1373
01:08:16,239 --> 01:08:17,640
to bike to my car today.

1374
01:08:19,079 --> 01:08:23,680
Speaker 4: God Dying, did you guys worship for the song about

1375
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:23,920
half that?

1376
01:08:24,039 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 10: You're about to see something truly terrifying.

1377
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:28,239
Speaker 1: Stephanie eyed on a date.

1378
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 10: That's a fox sneaking up on a woman in her

1379
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:34,640
front yard. From this angle, you can see the attack.

1380
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: She sneaks up on a guy I'm suspecting in his

1381
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:38,159
front yard.

1382
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:41,319
Speaker 10: She kicks the fox over and over, but the animal

1383
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:42,319
keeps coming back.

1384
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 4: Stephanie just keeps coming back to cougar.

1385
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 10: Biting her legs and scratching her arms.

1386
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 1: If she loves tequila. The smell of tequila is making him.

1387
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:55,239
Speaker 10: Sick, and she tries to break free.

1388
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:58,560
Speaker 2: The more I tried to get him to leave me alone,

1389
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:02,560
the more raciously he came after me.

1390
01:09:03,399 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 10: He just wouldn't.

1391
01:09:04,039 --> 01:09:07,039
Speaker 1: It's just reversed instead of he yeah, and this is

1392
01:09:07,079 --> 01:09:11,159
a man speaking. I tried to get her relieved. Horaciously,

1393
01:09:11,279 --> 01:09:12,000
she came at me.

1394
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:14,039
Speaker 5: It's like a natio stop.

1395
01:09:14,399 --> 01:09:16,640
Speaker 10: And my fear was that he was going to trip

1396
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:20,000
me up and I would fall and he would attack

1397
01:09:20,119 --> 01:09:25,479
my face, attack your face. The fox won't give up.

1398
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,079
Speaker 7: He splatched into the fatty part of your hand, right

1399
01:09:29,119 --> 01:09:31,000
between your thumb and your forefinger.

1400
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:33,520
Speaker 5: With all he's got a whole now second and I

1401
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:34,279
tried to.

1402
01:09:34,399 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 9: Rip him off.

1403
01:09:35,159 --> 01:09:38,640
Speaker 10: I tried to swing him off, but then her neighbor

1404
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:39,920
shows up with a stick.

1405
01:09:40,159 --> 01:09:44,319
Speaker 1: Yeah. Last it took too It's seventy ran away. That's

1406
01:09:44,399 --> 01:09:45,600
called intensity.

1407
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:50,199
Speaker 9: It's like, you know how people play the game like

1408
01:09:51,079 --> 01:09:54,399
the art of seduction? If you will, Okay, I'm just real.

1409
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:58,079
I'm like I like you, I just I don't play

1410
01:09:58,119 --> 01:09:58,439
the game.

1411
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:01,319
Speaker 4: Is that one of the lyrics?

1412
01:10:03,199 --> 01:10:06,479
Speaker 1: I almost spit my water? So do you write songs

1413
01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:09,000
for every guy after a breakup? No?

1414
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 7: Lookout without my second breakup song.

1415
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,199
Speaker 9: And I've written three love songs.

1416
01:10:15,399 --> 01:10:17,239
Speaker 1: Well look at this tale swift. You could make a

1417
01:10:17,279 --> 01:10:17,760
lot of money.

1418
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,159
Speaker 9: I know some are pretty good, but then I've deleted them.

1419
01:10:21,119 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 4: Why oh yeah, can you write a song about Greg?

1420
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 1: Why?

1421
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:28,079
Speaker 7: Why?

1422
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 4: Not the hair.

1423
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:36,560
Speaker 1: We don't care who the opening line, the opening line?

1424
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:38,520
Is this a country song?

1425
01:10:39,119 --> 01:10:42,279
Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, it is these cameras. I don't trust him.

1426
01:10:43,279 --> 01:10:44,520
Speaker 1: I gave it too fast.

1427
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 7: I didn't hold back.

1428
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:49,359
Speaker 9: I poured me real strong, poured me real strong that.

1429
01:10:49,319 --> 01:10:50,359
Speaker 5: It's definitely a country song.

1430
01:10:52,159 --> 01:10:53,159
Speaker 9: Yeah you see?

1431
01:10:53,239 --> 01:10:57,239
Speaker 5: Okay? Can you can you read line? Please read the lines.

1432
01:10:57,600 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 1: I gave it too fast.

1433
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 7: I didn't hold back. I poured me real strong.

1434
01:11:02,319 --> 01:11:05,319
Speaker 5: Do you want Hank Williams Senior or Hank Williams his choice?

1435
01:11:09,199 --> 01:11:11,640
This is so. I gave it too fast.

1436
01:11:13,039 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: I didn't hold back.

1437
01:11:14,399 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 5: I didn't hold back.

1438
01:11:16,359 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 7: I poured me real strong.

1439
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 5: I pulled me real strong because I know what I

1440
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:23,359
won't when I won't.

1441
01:11:23,199 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 4: It's so bad.

1442
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 1: What's the next line?

1443
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:27,560
Speaker 5: We went back?

1444
01:11:28,199 --> 01:11:30,600
Speaker 1: You're already this far in. You gotta go the whole

1445
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:40,119
fucking way. Come on, I have to move after that. Well,

1446
01:11:41,119 --> 01:11:43,359
you don't have to move, not at all.

1447
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:47,520
Speaker 9: You don't think that I'm like tearing up, like embarrassment.

1448
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 3: Laughter.

1449
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:50,199
Speaker 5: Laughter is the best medicine.

1450
01:11:50,279 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 7: And I said, now I felt real deep, but that's

1451
01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:55,039
the problem because it didn't last long.

1452
01:11:57,159 --> 01:12:01,720
Speaker 5: Now I felt real deep, but you didn't. God because

1453
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:06,720
it didn't last long home and now I'm smoking this.

1454
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:14,199
Speaker 1: Ball home all nine homes. Yes, okay, so you write

1455
01:12:14,239 --> 01:12:15,960
these lyrics? Yes, and then.

1456
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:18,239
Speaker 5: It's a release.

1457
01:12:18,359 --> 01:12:20,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's supposed to be.

1458
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:22,920
Speaker 1: They tell you like to write a letter and never

1459
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:23,279
send it.

1460
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:27,079
Speaker 9: Right that girlfriend said, why did you send it?

1461
01:12:27,319 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: So you sent this guy the lyrics? Can I just

1462
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,920
tell you right now, as a guy, as a guy

1463
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:41,399
in no single. Yeah, that's fucking insane. If I got dandy,

1464
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:43,000
you get song lyrics.

1465
01:12:43,319 --> 01:12:45,159
Speaker 5: I'd be likest. Can I keep these?

1466
01:12:46,039 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 4: Wait until she breaks up the show and writes one

1467
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:48,680
about the show.

1468
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:51,199
Speaker 5: You had me?

1469
01:12:52,039 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, terrified, No, no, on will day.

1470
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 7: See?

1471
01:13:02,119 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 5: I guarantee you. I guarantee you. By by summer you

1472
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:07,520
will have a full time boyfriend. Things will go well

1473
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:08,520
like a normal person.

1474
01:13:09,039 --> 01:13:13,199
Speaker 4: Yes, guarantee normal guarantee boyfriend. Well, someone you could tolerate.

1475
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 5: I know that's not a ringing door.

1476
01:13:15,159 --> 01:13:16,279
Speaker 4: I think you see the other way around.

1477
01:13:16,279 --> 01:13:18,199
Speaker 1: I think someone that could tolerate her. Well, yeah, like

1478
01:13:18,279 --> 01:13:23,119
the intensity? Yes, yeah, why do you what is that?

1479
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:25,960
If you know that? If you know that right, if

1480
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:29,039
you know that, is it? Are you trying to prove something?

1481
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1482
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 9: I just love real hard. I do that with my

1483
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:33,239
kids too.

1484
01:13:34,359 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 5: Is that why they got in trouble this weekend? You

1485
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:37,279
love them too hard?

1486
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:39,239
Speaker 9: Yes, I had to lay the hammer down.

1487
01:13:40,279 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1488
01:13:42,399 --> 01:13:43,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't even know.

1489
01:13:44,279 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 5: It's definitely the hammer ride.

1490
01:13:47,279 --> 01:13:49,399
Speaker 1: I think you should call this guy? Yeah, I think

1491
01:13:49,399 --> 01:13:49,720
we should.

1492
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:50,319
Speaker 5: We should all call.

1493
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,520
Speaker 7: He didn't look, he hasn't even responded.

1494
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:56,600
Speaker 5: No, I know, no, what if we why we call

1495
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:59,399
from Kevin's phone? He won't suspect it, and then we'll

1496
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:01,399
all have like a intervention for both of you right here.

1497
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 1: Well, you really like the guy so much so you

1498
01:14:05,079 --> 01:14:07,039
wrote a song for him, and he didn't think you

1499
01:14:07,119 --> 01:14:08,760
were broken up. I don't see the problem.

1500
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:11,279
Speaker 9: I made it clear, like he got so cranky, was

1501
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:12,119
all right?

1502
01:14:12,399 --> 01:14:14,319
Speaker 5: Was this the first time that he had gotten this

1503
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:15,039
cranky with you?

1504
01:14:15,279 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 9: Third time?

1505
01:14:16,399 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 5: Oh there's a pattern, Stephanie.

1506
01:14:19,359 --> 01:14:20,880
Speaker 9: I don't want to say anything bad about him.

1507
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 5: Well then you know done, move on. You'll get over

1508
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:26,720
it in a week and a half.

1509
01:14:27,199 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 9: Yeah, he told me he wasn't fully over his acts.

1510
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:32,600
Speaker 5: You're done done.

1511
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:34,279
Speaker 9: So we had a discussion about that.

1512
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're the rebound. Yeah, I guess so, Okay,

1513
01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:38,640
all right, He's like.

1514
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 7: I didn't plan on meeting you wet off. So it's

1515
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:42,079
kind of like a weird.

1516
01:14:42,079 --> 01:14:44,319
Speaker 1: Yeah spot And by the way, it doesn't mean that.

1517
01:14:44,399 --> 01:14:47,760
It's oh, you could wind up taking a like a

1518
01:14:48,079 --> 01:14:50,319
two weeks sabbatical and then you come right back to

1519
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:51,680
it and it's.

1520
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 9: Even more get moody and crazy. Like he was like

1521
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,880
yelling at me like that, do.

1522
01:14:56,880 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 5: You feel like you could I do you feel like

1523
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,199
because a lot of women do this, it's crazy. Do

1524
01:15:02,319 --> 01:15:05,279
you feel like you could have changed him? And that's

1525
01:15:05,319 --> 01:15:06,279
why you miss him?

1526
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:07,399
Speaker 1: Say that.

1527
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:09,359
Speaker 5: You make.

1528
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 9: Because he's like, you don't respect my OCD.

1529
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:15,279
Speaker 7: It's like I do. I haven't said anything in three weeks,

1530
01:15:15,359 --> 01:15:17,880
but I I feel like, if you're gonna be forty

1531
01:15:17,920 --> 01:15:20,000
five minutes late for something to just go check for

1532
01:15:20,079 --> 01:15:22,840
a debit guard, maybe you should just go to the party.

1533
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:24,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean.

1534
01:15:25,199 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like a normal Yeah.

1535
01:15:29,199 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: What do you mean by change? You thought you were

1536
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,520
saying women like to like like take a guy.

1537
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:36,039
Speaker 5: It's act I can mold him into my own image.

1538
01:15:36,239 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't want that.

1539
01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:40,399
Speaker 9: But if somebody has like a problem with something sometimes.

1540
01:15:40,319 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, I didn't try to change.

1541
01:15:43,399 --> 01:15:45,159
Speaker 9: Anything, well, maybe one other thing.

1542
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:48,199
Speaker 1: Of him that was I can definitely not say this

1543
01:15:48,520 --> 01:15:51,119
would yeah, But I was like, the movie should do that?

1544
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:52,199
Speaker 5: You like to dip?

1545
01:15:53,159 --> 01:15:53,560
Speaker 9: I used to?

1546
01:15:54,399 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 5: You used to dip? I had this.

1547
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:58,199
Speaker 9: This is a pick up life. This is how you

1548
01:15:58,279 --> 01:16:01,640
said date that. This is funny. So I was I

1549
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:03,760
would go up to guys, he's in the bar and

1550
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:05,560
I'd be like, hey, do you have a dip? One

1551
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:07,760
of two things would happen. Will you marry me or

1552
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:08,560
get the funk.

1553
01:16:08,399 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: Out of here?

1554
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 9: You're disgusting. So I like, I weeded through all these

1555
01:16:11,039 --> 01:16:12,800
guys and I'd have a guy give me a dip.

1556
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,319
And that's that's my line back in the Oh.

1557
01:16:16,399 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 1: My God, way back, Oh my God.

1558
01:16:19,119 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 4: Okay, checking in Doug Phelps and send us up first

1559
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,359
once to be on the date over. Are you over

1560
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:26,039
sixty five?

1561
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: Sorry?

1562
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:30,399
Speaker 5: Doug? Yeah, that's his that's his willhouse.

1563
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,600
Speaker 1: What are your what? Yeah? What what would be your standards?

1564
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:34,439
What are you looking for the guy? If we were gonna,

1565
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,359
if we were going to do the dating, what.

1566
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:37,520
Speaker 4: The right guys to shelter?

1567
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,600
Speaker 1: I don't want I might have a list that you

1568
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:42,079
have a list you wrote out?

1569
01:16:42,359 --> 01:16:44,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you want to sing the list?

1570
01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:46,359
Speaker 9: Oh god, I could just read it.

1571
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:47,199
Speaker 5: This is bad.

1572
01:16:47,319 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 1: Wait you have it on your phone yet pictures? How

1573
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:54,479
do you not know it at the top of your

1574
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:57,039
head because it's pretty long? Okay, all right, here we go.

1575
01:16:57,279 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 5: You want me?

1576
01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:00,119
Speaker 1: Yes, Jesus, what are you looking for?

1577
01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:01,560
Speaker 5: This is the list?

1578
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:03,000
Speaker 1: I know, not the list?

1579
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:04,079
Speaker 7: Guy?

1580
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:06,680
Speaker 1: How do you not know the list?

1581
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:07,359
Speaker 5: Did your list?

1582
01:17:07,399 --> 01:17:09,000
Speaker 9: I mean I know it, but I figured I might

1583
01:17:09,079 --> 01:17:09,439
as well.

1584
01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:12,119
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, sometimes you know, you ever go to Wegmans

1585
01:17:12,159 --> 01:17:13,720
and you forgot something to go? God damn it. I

1586
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:15,399
had the list in my head.

1587
01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:17,800
Speaker 4: I might need a line someday that rhymes with this,

1588
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,000
and it might be on the list.

1589
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,319
Speaker 1: All right, you ready, I'm ready.

1590
01:17:21,399 --> 01:17:21,560
Speaker 4: Come on.

1591
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,520
Speaker 9: It's a long it's called what do I Want?

1592
01:17:24,279 --> 01:17:27,680
Speaker 1: It's long? Yeah, that's what she said.

1593
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:30,159
Speaker 9: Look in my head, I was, you know, after the divorce,

1594
01:17:30,279 --> 01:17:31,880
you should do this whoever it needs to.

1595
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:38,319
Speaker 4: Okay, he's got a list that includes Guinness, and I

1596
01:17:38,359 --> 01:17:38,800
want him.

1597
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:40,520
Speaker 9: To be care about his health.

1598
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:44,359
Speaker 7: I would love it if he was like a lifter, attractive, strong,

1599
01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:46,880
loves rock and roll, understands well I need to be

1600
01:17:47,039 --> 01:17:50,680
very close at concerts because that's an issue I want to.

1601
01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:51,319
Speaker 9: Be in the front.

1602
01:17:52,399 --> 01:17:59,399
Speaker 7: Loves guns of all kinds and shooting. Wanted to be loyal, honest, kind, smart, romantic, funny, motivated,

1603
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,920
spontaneou is. Loves my boys and would play with them

1604
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,680
like they're their own Conservative, has a great family.

1605
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:10,880
Speaker 5: This guy does exist, Yeah, he does. Toby Keith, what

1606
01:18:11,239 --> 01:18:12,199
love sports?

1607
01:18:12,239 --> 01:18:14,199
Speaker 7: Would play with me if I wanted like anything from

1608
01:18:14,239 --> 01:18:17,960
golf to tennis to bike rides, hiking, fishing, make love

1609
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:20,920
when necessary, fuck when necessary, hold hands.

1610
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:22,600
Speaker 9: Small central looks from across the room.

1611
01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,319
Speaker 7: Wants to travel the world, would gamble with me, would

1612
01:18:25,359 --> 01:18:28,359
drink with me, has enough money to support himself, take vacations,

1613
01:18:28,399 --> 01:18:29,840
go to concerts and sporting events.

1614
01:18:30,239 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 9: Emotionally available.

1615
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:35,199
Speaker 5: I just added that one. Yeah, that's a that's a

1616
01:18:35,279 --> 01:18:35,640
big one.

1617
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 8: Though.

1618
01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 7: My dream would be someone that's a musician, and I

1619
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:40,319
would love a guy to like sing, to be.

1620
01:18:40,359 --> 01:18:41,199
Speaker 4: And play with my hair.

1621
01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:45,560
Speaker 9: That's it, geez, that's a lot.

1622
01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:50,000
Speaker 5: You might need a committee. We might have to hold

1623
01:18:50,039 --> 01:18:51,239
three or four different people in.

1624
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,199
Speaker 9: Really, I feel like that's goin to exist, right.

1625
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:57,159
Speaker 5: That's a lot of boxes.

1626
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:01,560
Speaker 7: Likes rock and roll, fishing, guns, that's a lot of boxing, oil, smart,

1627
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:02,720
Come on, what's so crazy?

1628
01:19:03,239 --> 01:19:06,720
Speaker 5: Is that crazy? But I'm saying, like, you know, we

1629
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,720
may have to, you know, get a committee all because

1630
01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:11,479
you know, well an age.

1631
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 9: I don't know if I would want to go over.

1632
01:19:14,239 --> 01:19:16,600
Speaker 1: Fifty four might be my cut off?

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01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 5: The demo? Yeah, do you date? You ever date younger men?

1634
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1635
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:24,760
Speaker 9: I don't want to do that anymore. Why maybe like

1636
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:25,640
three years younger?

1637
01:19:26,119 --> 01:19:28,239
Speaker 1: What's wrong with what happened with younger guys? Did you go?

1638
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:29,720
Did you dip into the twenties?

1639
01:19:30,239 --> 01:19:30,279
Speaker 2: No?

1640
01:19:31,039 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 10: I think nine years younger was Yeah, what's wrong?

1641
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:34,680
Speaker 1: That probably went great?

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01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:38,079
Speaker 9: I don't like the pressure because then I'm like eighty

1643
01:19:38,239 --> 01:19:40,119
or seventy one, We're gonna look really old.

1644
01:19:40,279 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 4: Like at that point it won't matter, Yeah I will.

1645
01:19:43,079 --> 01:19:44,920
Speaker 9: I don't know if I want to go younger.

1646
01:19:45,079 --> 01:19:47,640
Speaker 5: Maybe three years younger or I heard the rule it

1647
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:50,840
is half your age plus eight that's the cutoff, half

1648
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:54,239
your age plus plus eight plus eight. So I'm forty three,

1649
01:19:54,359 --> 01:19:56,039
so let's say forty four s that'd be twenty two

1650
01:19:56,119 --> 01:19:58,359
to eight. That'd be if I were single. Thirty is

1651
01:19:58,359 --> 01:20:01,520
as low as I could go. So would that be

1652
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:03,039
fair for you? Because you and I are about the

1653
01:20:03,039 --> 01:20:03,520
same age.

1654
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,239
Speaker 9: I'm forty so that's twenty eight.

1655
01:20:05,359 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, okay, so thirties are cut off, maybe

1656
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:11,279
thirty five, like.

1657
01:20:11,359 --> 01:20:12,600
Speaker 9: Thirty, maybe thirty six.

1658
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,760
Speaker 1: And upright, how old was this guy?

1659
01:20:16,239 --> 01:20:17,920
Speaker 9: Forty? He was one month older than me.

1660
01:20:18,119 --> 01:20:21,239
Speaker 1: Perfect, dude, this was perfect. He liked rock and roll,

1661
01:20:21,319 --> 01:20:22,279
absolutely perfect.

1662
01:20:22,319 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 9: He's handy.

1663
01:20:23,319 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't matter, like you crank the music and

1664
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:28,159
spun your hair around and did all that and bang together.

1665
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:34,840
That's fucking it. See, that's it. That's intense. That's intense. Yeah,

1666
01:20:35,039 --> 01:20:44,720
I'm kicking back. I got yacht rock. I will boy

1667
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:47,520
believe me yacht rock. I like Jimmy Buffett.

1668
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 5: I'll hang out to the reggae.

1669
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:54,159
Speaker 1: I'm good ship. See it's intense, I know. Yeah.

1670
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 9: I definitely like blare the speakers in the house as

1671
01:20:57,840 --> 01:20:58,319
loud as it go.

1672
01:20:58,399 --> 01:21:00,079
Speaker 1: And I want someone who's like, how did the and

1673
01:21:00,159 --> 01:21:02,119
how do the neighbors feel about this? Do they ever

1674
01:21:02,159 --> 01:21:02,640
say anything?

1675
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:03,039
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1676
01:21:03,239 --> 01:21:05,319
Speaker 9: They have, like you have quite the parties all the

1677
01:21:05,359 --> 01:21:08,039
time Sunday night. Yeah, it's like two in the morning.

1678
01:21:08,119 --> 01:21:09,720
Speaker 1: Like two in a fucking morning.

1679
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 5: You crank the music.

1680
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:13,159
Speaker 7: Yeah, but we're supposed to have good insulation, right, I

1681
01:21:13,199 --> 01:21:16,359
didn't know they could hear therese it's.

1682
01:21:16,199 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 5: Not soundproof though it's supposed to keep the heated noise.

1683
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:23,039
Speaker 1: Do you realize like you like live on another planet? God?

1684
01:21:23,199 --> 01:21:25,760
You do? Do you live on another planet? Yes?

1685
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:26,319
Speaker 5: You got.

1686
01:21:26,399 --> 01:21:27,720
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things going for you.

1687
01:21:28,079 --> 01:21:30,359
Speaker 5: You don't need a boyfriend. You need a freaking reality

1688
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:35,520
show like work party hard like it's like there was

1689
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:37,119
like a local producer.

1690
01:21:38,199 --> 01:21:39,159
Speaker 1: Party by yourself.

1691
01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 5: Yes, you do.

1692
01:21:41,119 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 1: I love to clean and rock out, Jephanie. We should

1693
01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:45,319
talk about doing a reality show.

1694
01:21:45,359 --> 01:21:46,319
Speaker 5: I'm not joking real.

1695
01:21:46,239 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 1: We should work on a reality show. Do you want

1696
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:48,880
to do a reality show?

1697
01:21:49,199 --> 01:21:50,239
Speaker 5: Go on vacations alone?

1698
01:21:50,399 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1699
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:52,760
Speaker 9: I know you think people would watch?

1700
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:53,159
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1701
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:56,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, one hundred They watched your instagrams, right, yeah, and

1702
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,760
you're in your what are those other things? The tiktacs, TikTok's.

1703
01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: Tic tac just listen to you. What would we call

1704
01:22:02,039 --> 01:22:04,159
it Stephanie's cougar corner?

1705
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:06,039
Speaker 2: No?

1706
01:22:06,199 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 9: I have fun every day. I'm very positive and happy in.

1707
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:11,399
Speaker 1: All right, And I like.

1708
01:22:13,039 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 5: The IDEs of March in April and May and June,

1709
01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:15,399
July and August.

1710
01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:19,239
Speaker 1: Well that she'd have to decide that you determine that.

1711
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:22,560
Speaker 7: That's like my ex husband, his world, right, he would

1712
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:24,840
love me to get remarried again, ditch the name like

1713
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:25,960
he wants the separation.

1714
01:22:26,239 --> 01:22:29,039
Speaker 1: He does because you were we get along great.

1715
01:22:29,159 --> 01:22:30,720
Speaker 9: Tall say, we get along great.

1716
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,439
Speaker 1: But don't say what I was gonna see you.

1717
01:22:33,199 --> 01:22:34,079
Speaker 5: You were too intense for.

1718
01:22:34,119 --> 01:22:34,640
Speaker 1: Him, weren't you.

1719
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:36,119
Speaker 9: No, we got along great.

1720
01:22:36,199 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 1: We still do, Yeah, I'm sure, but yeah, all right,

1721
01:22:39,159 --> 01:22:43,359
Well I don't I don't know. Okay, he would like

1722
01:22:43,399 --> 01:22:45,079
you to get a different last name. He doesn't want

1723
01:22:45,119 --> 01:22:46,720
you associated with your No.

1724
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:49,039
Speaker 7: I just think it's like because he gets he's sick

1725
01:22:49,079 --> 01:22:50,800
of getting asked, where's your sister?

1726
01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:55,119
Speaker 9: That's a reason or hey, what you know, where's your what?

1727
01:22:55,199 --> 01:22:57,720
Your wife's selling houses? You're not make enough money selling cars.

1728
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:00,359
So I think because the name, it's a constant reminder

1729
01:23:00,359 --> 01:23:00,960
of the divorce.

1730
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:03,039
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's what he means.

1731
01:23:03,079 --> 01:23:05,600
Speaker 5: By the way, like people have to be I know

1732
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:07,720
they're curious and stuff, but that's really kind of I

1733
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:09,600
don't want to see get asked all the time. But

1734
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:10,439
it's really forward.

1735
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:12,880
Speaker 1: And I don't think people knew that you had separated.

1736
01:23:13,319 --> 01:23:15,239
I don't think people did. I don't. I mean, it's

1737
01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:18,319
going to have a decree, right, you don't come out

1738
01:23:18,359 --> 01:23:20,600
and say, hey world, So I mean I understand that.

1739
01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:23,199
Speaker 7: So it would just be easier if I'm selling houses

1740
01:23:23,239 --> 01:23:25,840
on a billboard it says Stephanie Sell and so got you.

1741
01:23:25,920 --> 01:23:28,039
Speaker 1: It's more like, why why didn't you go back to

1742
01:23:28,239 --> 01:23:29,560
your maiden? Is it what you're made?

1743
01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 9: Because paratour and then remarry. It's four different names licensing.

1744
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:37,079
Speaker 5: It seems like a pain in the ad I got you,

1745
01:23:37,319 --> 01:23:38,920
like Max wife went to the same thing, and.

1746
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,359
Speaker 1: By the way, to my wife. She's a known name.

1747
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:44,119
You're a known face from all the ads and stuff.

1748
01:23:44,199 --> 01:23:46,000
Speaker 7: My face it's not the name though, Like when people

1749
01:23:46,039 --> 01:23:49,000
see me out, they recognize my face, not necessarily the name.