Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you to think about.
Speaker 1: Listen before I get started. If you remember a while back,
Speaker 1: I was telling you all that someone was still in
Speaker 1: my content, and it was true, someone from YouTube. A
Speaker 1: couple of people who were a family that had their
Speaker 1: separate platforms were still in my content. I've reached out
Speaker 1: to YouTube about it. Now I believe that I'm going
Speaker 1: through the same thing, this time with someone from California Freemont,
Speaker 1: California area, and I've informed the podcast host. I have
Speaker 1: informed them, and I want you to be on the lookout.
Speaker 1: If you hear anyone with my material, to reach out
Speaker 1: to me and let me know so I can inform YouTube.
Speaker 1: I think it's so sad that people are so desperate
Speaker 1: to have subscribers and to have content that they will
Speaker 1: still someone else's hard work. So I'm just putting everyone
Speaker 1: on notice that if I hear my content out there,
Speaker 1: you are going to be reported. I've already informed the
Speaker 1: podcast host, I've already informed other people to be listening out.
Speaker 1: So I'm telling you if I hear it, there's no
Speaker 1: second chances. I am going to reach out and do
Speaker 1: everything possible to have your content removed. If you cannot
Speaker 1: come up with your own material, that's your problem. You
Speaker 1: need to leave everyone else's alone. And I'm not here
Speaker 1: trying to make loads of money. I'm not here as
Speaker 1: a way to make a living. I'm simply here to inspire,
Speaker 1: in care, encourage, educate, influence people to be the best
Speaker 1: that they can be for their own lives. But people
Speaker 1: still your material with no remorse. So I'm just here
Speaker 1: to ask for your help in case you hear someone
Speaker 1: using my material, and also to inform people who are
Speaker 1: doing it what's going to happen. That's it on that.
Speaker 1: I hope everyone is doing well. I hope your families
Speaker 1: are doing well. What I want to talk to you
Speaker 1: about today is going through life powering things upon yourself
Speaker 1: without here, which causes you the inability to mature and grow,
Speaker 1: and all it does is cause self inflicted pain. I've
Speaker 1: talked about this in so many different ways, and it's
Speaker 1: important that I continue to talk about it because this
Speaker 1: is the very essence of what's going on in life.
Speaker 1: People get older, they become adults with the same mindsets
Speaker 1: that they had as children, and they go through life
Speaker 1: with all of their inner issues inside that are unresolved.
Speaker 1: Then they go through life and power all all of
Speaker 1: the unnecessary things upon themselves. You already have things that
Speaker 1: life is going to throw at you, but then you
Speaker 1: power all of this unnecessary stuff because you're chasing love,
Speaker 1: you're chasing fame, you're chasing fortune, you're chasing success, you're
Speaker 1: chasing titles, you're chasing this, you're chasing that. And as
Speaker 1: you chase, and as you seek and as you obtain,
Speaker 1: all you do is power other things on top of you.
Speaker 1: Because you know why most people have not healed from
Speaker 1: their own inner issues. And then when you go through
Speaker 1: life powing all the other things upon yourself, you're also
Speaker 1: taking on the issues and the unresolved from other people.
Speaker 1: You can't handle your own, you don't face your own,
Speaker 1: you don't deal with your own own. But then you
Speaker 1: go through life powering everybody else's along the way upon yourself.
Speaker 1: That's why people get to breaking points. That's why people
Speaker 1: are stressed out, full of anxiety, depressed, and all kinds
Speaker 1: of things. Because people bring so much unnecessary drama into
Speaker 1: their own lives. You cannot live a happy life miserable
Speaker 1: and unhappy inside. It will never work. It will never work.
Speaker 1: That is one reason why people do exactly what I
Speaker 1: was talking about earlier is still content or still period
Speaker 1: because they're going through life trying their best to be
Speaker 1: this and be that for people, for society. So they'll
Speaker 1: do anything and everything to try to be known or
Speaker 1: be something what people consider as something. That's because your
Speaker 1: mindset is in the wrong place. Your mindset is not
Speaker 1: at that level of being healthy. You're so worried about
Speaker 1: what someone else's thoughts are of you, what they see
Speaker 1: in you, that you willing to do foolish things. But
Speaker 1: that's because you have so much un resolved inside of yourself.
Speaker 1: Most people in the world are this way. Most people
Speaker 1: people in the world seek after things because they want
Speaker 1: other people to see what they have. But I'm here
Speaker 1: to tell you when you go through life powering things
Speaker 1: on yourself without healing, it inhibits your ability to grow
Speaker 1: and mature. I've told you multiple times, more than multiple
Speaker 1: most people are not who they really are. They don't
Speaker 1: present to you who they really are. What you see
Speaker 1: isn't necessarily the truth because people hide behind masks. They
Speaker 1: don't love self, they're unhappy with self, but they s
Speaker 1: put on this fake smile, They put on this fake persona,
Speaker 1: this fake demeanor, but inside they have so many struggles
Speaker 1: self out. They lack self love, no confidence in self,
Speaker 1: just don't believe in self, see self as this person
Speaker 1: who is beneath anything that's good. You can tell these
Speaker 1: type of people all day long, oh.
Speaker 2: You look so pretty, you look good, Oh that was
Speaker 2: so good, what you've done whatever.
Speaker 1: They will not believe it because they don't believe in self.
Speaker 1: It's a sad, sad, sad, sad thing, but it's definitely
Speaker 1: reality for many people. And I'm sure a lot of
Speaker 1: you have experienced it in your friends and your family members.
Speaker 1: You can tell them, oh, man, you look so nice.
Speaker 1: They can't see it because of all of that that
Speaker 1: has caused them, that negative mindset, that negative way of
Speaker 1: seeing themselves. They can't see how good they actually look,
Speaker 1: and they think you're lying. People have so much hurt
Speaker 1: and pain inside and they don't know how to go
Speaker 1: through They don't know how to go through life allowing
Speaker 1: themselves to heal because they're holding on so tight to
Speaker 1: the negativity. It's absolutely blinding blinding them. But they don't
Speaker 1: understand this. They don't understand it. You go through life
Speaker 1: making everything and everyone more than more important than yourself.
Speaker 2: See loving someone, wanting to be loved, feeling all types
Speaker 2: of pain, wanting someone to.
Speaker 1: Be a part of your life. Those things are universal.
Speaker 1: It's a universal thing for people all over the world.
Speaker 1: Wanting to be loved, to love someone, it's a universal thing.
Speaker 1: Feeling all types of pain, it's a universal thing. Feeling
Speaker 1: happiness is a universal thing, although for many people it's
Speaker 1: very short lived. So what I'm trying to say is
Speaker 1: it's not anything that's different for these types of people,
Speaker 1: or this particular part of the world, this particular region. No,
Speaker 1: it's a universal thing. But when you're dealing with individuals
Speaker 1: who are of unhealthy hearts and minds, it goes right
Speaker 1: back to square one, Meaning when you're dealing with immature people,
Speaker 1: you're going to get the same similar results. Broken people
Speaker 1: doing foolish things, full of insecurities, going through life unhappy
Speaker 1: and miserable, continually, going through life, continuously full of hurt,
Speaker 1: full of self doubts, full of insecurities, doing foolish things,
Speaker 1: doing all of the wrong things. You're going to see
Speaker 1: it everywhere you go, all across the world. They're going
Speaker 1: to see it. So many people in life they rather
Speaker 1: talk about all of their woes than to do something
Speaker 1: about it to make their lives better. Instead of becoming better,
Speaker 1: many people become worse. They go even deeper into darkness.
Speaker 1: Some people end up in darkness that never came from trauma.
Speaker 1: They created their own alone the way. And it's just
Speaker 1: so horrible that people willfully, willfully choose such a horrific life.
Speaker 1: It's terrible that people choose to keep going through life
Speaker 1: projecting their pain on others when they can become better.
Speaker 1: I mean, have you ever just driven and see all
Speaker 1: of the foolishness on the road. I mean every day,
Speaker 1: we're all risking our lives every day because you got
Speaker 1: so many taking time bombs around you, not just on
Speaker 1: the road, but everywhere you go, taking time bombs around you.
Speaker 1: Because people are filled with so much brokenness that they
Speaker 1: it feels to allow themselves to heal from and they
Speaker 1: just continue to power and you know, all of this
Speaker 1: different mess upon what's already there. And as I said,
Speaker 1: if you can't handle your own, you surely won't be
Speaker 1: able to handle anyone else's. But that's what people do.
Speaker 1: They go through life piling piling, piling up all of
Speaker 1: the unnecessary hurt, pain, stress, drama, trauma from the lives
Speaker 1: of other people because you're trying so hard to be
Speaker 1: a part of something. You want so hard to be
Speaker 1: in someone's life. You want so desperately to be at
Speaker 1: this particular level. You want so desperately to be noticed,
Speaker 1: to be recognized, to be validated, to be loved. But
Speaker 1: it's by individuals who most of the time don't even
Speaker 1: love themselves. You think, because people have a lot of money,
Speaker 1: or they have these big, grandiose titles and these big positions,
Speaker 1: you think they're happy. Most are not. They're struggling just
Speaker 1: like you internally, and a lot of them display it
Speaker 1: in their choices, in their decisions, which we see play
Speaker 1: out in their behaviors. We see their choices and decisions,
Speaker 1: relationship hopping, worship of Satan, doing all types of sexual crimes, cheating, lying, stealing,
Speaker 1: killing people from all walks of life. We see it.
Speaker 1: That comes from that internal unresolved. I don't know how
Speaker 1: many different ways I can tell you. I'll try a million,
Speaker 1: a billion, a zillion. If it's such a thing, I
Speaker 1: keep saying it until I can't say it anymore. But
Speaker 1: it all comes from that unresolved inside, because remember, mindsets
Speaker 1: are formed out of bad experiences. Good experiences too, but unfortunately,
Speaker 1: people hang on to the negative versus the positive. Very
Speaker 1: few hold on to the positive and move towards positive lifestyles.
Speaker 1: Most people are held back mentally, which affects them in
Speaker 1: many ways because they're holding on to the negativity. People
Speaker 1: actually get comfortable in their negativity, and that's really, really,
Speaker 1: really a sad thing. This world is full of full
Speaker 1: of broken people. Why do you think our food supply
Speaker 1: is so terrible? Why do you think our drug administrations
Speaker 1: are You know that that makes our medications are so terrible.
Speaker 1: Why do you think the air we breathe is so terrible?
Speaker 1: Why do you think everything that we have, objects, clothing,
Speaker 1: furniture has stuff in it that affects us because of greed?
Speaker 1: Because money, people would do anything and everything, and all
Speaker 1: of these corporations and businesses, that's what they're doing because
Speaker 1: of the mindsets that they have. They think it's more
Speaker 1: important to make money than to care about what they're
Speaker 1: doing to get it. That comes from internal unresolved incest,
Speaker 1: being a sexual predator on children or anyone. All of
Speaker 1: that stuff comes from internal unresolved, the F's things, the
Speaker 1: wild things, r Kelly's. There are millions of them out there,
Speaker 1: millions in the schools, in every I'm just not gonna
Speaker 1: name them, in every profession. Liars, cheaters, people who are
Speaker 1: embezzling money that comes from internal unresolved people, getting in
Speaker 1: relationships the wrong way with the wrong people for the
Speaker 1: wrong reasons. Abusers who think that they have the right
Speaker 1: to control someone else's life, not even understanding it's not
Speaker 1: even about the other person that you're trying to control.
Speaker 1: It's really about you. You're insecurities, that's why you're trying
Speaker 1: to control that person, even to the point of murder.
Speaker 1: You think it's a good thing to say, Oh I
Speaker 1: love you to death. If I can't have you, no
Speaker 1: one else can have you. That is a very very dark,
Speaker 1: dark minded individual that has hurt inside, unresolved inside to
Speaker 1: even think like that, and for you to think it's cute,
Speaker 1: Oh he loves me or she loves me. They call
Speaker 1: me a million times a day, They always texted me.
Speaker 1: They wanna know where I'm at, they want to know
Speaker 1: what I have on, they wanna know who I'm with.
Speaker 1: For you to think that's love being protective is a
Speaker 1: different story, but being obsessive and possessive is something else.
Speaker 1: So you have to love yourself and understand who you
Speaker 1: are enough to even identify those things in other people.
Speaker 1: Most people can't. Most people miss the signs in the
Speaker 1: red flags. You know. I'm not gonna name names, but
Speaker 1: there are some professionals on television who are in certain
Speaker 1: positions as television hosts who are that crazy. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to say that, but they are. I can see it
Speaker 1: playing as day, but most people can't because they like them.
Speaker 1: They like them, and people are attracted to crazy. If
Speaker 1: I was a podcaster who got on here and talked
Speaker 1: crazy about people who've done crazy things and put it
Speaker 1: out on YouTube, I'll have a million subscribers because people
Speaker 1: love that kind of stuff. People love it. But you
Speaker 1: gotta look at yourself and wonder why why is that
Speaker 1: entertaining to you. I don't like foolish I don't like
Speaker 1: bad information. I don't at all, So I don't get
Speaker 1: into that stuff. I don't get into retax reality TV.
Speaker 1: I don't get into that stuff because it's just so
Speaker 1: much immaturity and foolishness that goes on. But some people
Speaker 1: just love it, they live for it. Some people live
Speaker 1: for celebrities. But your life is messed up, and you
Speaker 1: don't even understand their life is messed up too. That's
Speaker 1: why they feel they have to do it and everything
Speaker 1: to stay where they are or to get ahead to
Speaker 1: another level. But you can't see it, you don't understand it.
Speaker 1: It's so much going on in this world, so much
Speaker 1: because of so much brokenness, so much, And just think
Speaker 1: about it this way. With so much brokenness, the world,
Speaker 1: our atmosphere is full of negative energy, just pure negativity,
Speaker 1: darkness everywhere. And I'm telling you people are affected very much.
Speaker 1: So people are affected. So many people hold on to
Speaker 1: so much emotional baggage, so much emotional baggage, just holding
Speaker 1: in pent up pain and allowing it to just ruin
Speaker 1: their lives. You can't live in peace. You can't be
Speaker 1: a good mother, you can't be a good father, you
Speaker 1: can be a good employer, you can be anything positive
Speaker 1: because you have so much pent up pain inside of you,
Speaker 1: so much, and that's self inflicted. Because no one, no one,
Speaker 1: no one, no one, absolutely no one has to live
Speaker 1: that way. You must want to get better when you
Speaker 1: allow negative thoughts to control you they will do exactly that,
Speaker 1: and they will lead you down a road of darkness
Speaker 1: because you have given power to those negative thoughts. You
Speaker 1: have given power to those negative thoughts, and the more
Speaker 1: power you give, you will end up acting out. And
Speaker 1: a lot of people think, oh, well, I have never
Speaker 1: done anything bad. But when you self sabotage, that's bad.
Speaker 1: When you have so many insecurities, that's bad. When you
Speaker 1: self doubt, that's bad. When you lack confidence, that's bad
Speaker 1: because you're doing it to yourself. Most people have not
Speaker 1: been in trauma from their childhood, since their childhood in
Speaker 1: their twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and they're
Speaker 1: still holding on to childhood trauma. And it's not all
Speaker 1: childhood trauma. Some things happen as you've become an adult
Speaker 1: that you open yourself up to for whatever reason, and
Speaker 1: you just allow it to just toe totally define you
Speaker 1: in your life, totally define you. And this is the
Speaker 1: world we live in today, full of unhealed people. And
Speaker 1: I'm just here to tell you you don't have to
Speaker 1: live your life that way. You do not have to
Speaker 1: live your life that way. You do not, you do
Speaker 1: not no one knows. You have to want change to occur.
Speaker 1: You have to be aware and mindful of the things
Speaker 1: you do how you think. You have to be aware
Speaker 1: and mindful. No one can change your situation, but you
Speaker 1: no one. You have to want to be better you.
Speaker 1: So that's all I'm gonna say. I hope, wherever you
Speaker 1: are in your life mentally, that you choose to be better.
Speaker 1: You don't have to walk around with that pain. You
Speaker 1: don't have to keep reliving those memories, because that's all
Speaker 1: it is, memories that you have given so much power to.
Speaker 1: You don't have to keep reliving those memories. Allow yourself
Speaker 1: to heal. You deserve it. I don't care what you
Speaker 1: went through. It was not your fault. You deserve a
Speaker 1: better life. Don't be to yourself what someone has already
Speaker 1: been to you. Don't be to your children what your
Speaker 1: parents are caregiver was to you. That's what people make
Speaker 1: a mistake. They project all of it onto their children,
Speaker 1: then they project it onto their children. No, you have
Speaker 1: to break that cycle. It's not a generational curse. It
Speaker 1: is undoubtedly habitual cycles. Great grandma did it, great grandfather
Speaker 1: did it, grandma, granddad, mom, Dad, Now me, it don't
Speaker 1: have to be that way. Sometimes you have to distance
Speaker 1: yourself from the ones you love the most, because sometimes
Speaker 1: the ones you love the most are the very ones
Speaker 1: who will hurt you the most. That's why you gotta
Speaker 1: love yourself, and you have to know who you are.
Speaker 1: I've been many places in this world, around the country,
Speaker 1: in and out of country, and I've never went anywhere
Speaker 1: and knew someone. And yes, even as a young person
Speaker 1: joining the military, or even before that having a family,
Speaker 1: before I ever joined the military, wherever I went, I
Speaker 1: didn't know anyone. And yes, I missed home. I missed
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, I missed my parents. But let
Speaker 1: me tell you, I never ever said, well, I'm not
Speaker 1: going because I miss mom too much. I'm not going
Speaker 1: because I love my parents. I'm not going because I
Speaker 1: missed my siblings. I've never allowed that to hold me back,
Speaker 1: but so many people do because of the insecurities inside.
Speaker 1: Even back then when I was way far from being
Speaker 1: who I am now, I still have that mindset. I
Speaker 1: still have that mindset, but so many people allow others
Speaker 1: and things to hold them back. Your life is what
Speaker 1: you make it, not what happened to you. Your life
Speaker 1: is not what happened to you. It's what you make it.
Speaker 1: So again. I know I said it a little while ago,
Speaker 1: but I'm done. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you
Speaker 1: for listening. Please share this episode. I appreciate you, I
Speaker 1: love you. Take care of yourself. You only have one
Speaker 1: life to live. You don't have nine lives. Even a
Speaker 1: cat don't have nine lives. It's a metaphor. It's not true.
Speaker 1: They don't have but one life. Just like you, be
Speaker 1: the best you can be, want to be better. Thank
Speaker 1: you for listening. Please share this episode. Check out both
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Speaker 1: Be looking out for people who using my content and
Speaker 1: let me know. I appreciate it. I in every episode
Speaker 1: the same and I hope and I pray you do it.
Speaker 1: Thank on it