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<v Speaker 3>Oh hey, it's your dad word here. Okay, we got

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<v Speaker 3>good news and bad news, folks. Bad news. Let's just

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<v Speaker 3>start with the bad news. It's not that bad. I'm fine,

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<v Speaker 3>but the bad news is, uh, my pneumonia did not

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<v Speaker 3>want to cooperate, and I was back in the hospital

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<v Speaker 3>for four days this past week and things were not great.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's the bad news. The bad news is I

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<v Speaker 3>maybe pushed it a little bit when I should have

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<v Speaker 3>been resting more. Pneumonia is not one to be fucked with,

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<v Speaker 3>and I found that out the hard way. My lungs

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<v Speaker 3>are like can you not? And I was like, what

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<v Speaker 3>about fine? So that's the bad news. Good news is

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be fine. I'm going to be fine and

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<v Speaker 3>I will be back on my feet soon. The other

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<v Speaker 3>good news is that her the recommendation of my doctors

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<v Speaker 3>as well as a couple of very dear friends who

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<v Speaker 3>sat me down with my husband. I've been urged to

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<v Speaker 3>take a break, take a little bit of a vacation.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't gone on a vacation vacation or taken a break,

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<v Speaker 3>gone to a beach or anything in like over ten years.

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<v Speaker 4>And oh hey, quick aside. Here, this is your fairy

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<v Speaker 4>pod mother here aka pod Mom aka Jared Sleeper aka

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<v Speaker 4>the wonderful love of my life's husband. Allie asked me

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<v Speaker 4>to do this little aside. She got really anxious that

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<v Speaker 4>She said to me, this is actually people to show

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<v Speaker 4>were gonna say, wait, this is inaccurate. Actually she took

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<v Speaker 4>a trip to France. She did episodes about it, and

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<v Speaker 4>therein lies the rup. Okay, Allie turned that potential vacation

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<v Speaker 4>into work, and that happens a lot also those kind

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<v Speaker 4>of a family trip and you know, I love my family.

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<v Speaker 4>We love family we love a family trip. But I

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<v Speaker 4>think we can all agree family trips which we have

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<v Speaker 4>taken some those can be I would include those as

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<v Speaker 4>labor to a certain in terms of RESTful or restorativeness.

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<v Speaker 4>Not for all of us, not for all of us.

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<v Speaker 4>Some of you probably have wonderful families. But there you

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<v Speaker 4>have it. That's the quickest side, she said. So that

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<v Speaker 4>is true. And I'm gonna tell you something right now.

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<v Speaker 4>As your mother, your father works very hard for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Sit you down in a scary way. Your father works

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<v Speaker 4>very hard for you and loves you so much, and

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<v Speaker 4>we just we just got to give them a chance

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<v Speaker 4>to fucking ratt Just let them feel that love. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>They're so precious to me, They're so perfect, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>begging you. Just show them that love, send that healing energy.

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<v Speaker 4>She just she needs a damn rest. Oh, she needs

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<v Speaker 4>a damn rest. Okay, all right, back to the back

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<v Speaker 4>to the love of my fucking life. You know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean. Okay, thank you so much. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 4>she made me do this, but there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't gone on a vacation, vacation or taken a break,

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<v Speaker 3>gone to a beach or anything in like over ten years,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, I love my work. This podcast is

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<v Speaker 3>my absolute dream job. It was something I wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>do for years and years, and the fact that it

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<v Speaker 3>exists and I get to do it as a job

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<v Speaker 3>is beyond my wildest dreams. And so it's really really

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<v Speaker 3>hard for me to say, hey, I'm going to take

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<v Speaker 3>a break because I love y'all and this is such

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<v Speaker 3>an incredible audience full of people that I've gotten to

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<v Speaker 3>know and mean, and I don't want to disappoint you,

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<v Speaker 3>but I know that you're also very caring and compassionate

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<v Speaker 3>and wonderful, and that you care about me and that

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<v Speaker 3>you love me back, and I know that you want

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<v Speaker 3>me to be in better health. So I'm listening to

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<v Speaker 3>the people who love me, and I'm taking a break,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm taking a little bit of a reset so

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<v Speaker 3>that I can a heal my lungs and also so

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<v Speaker 3>that I can just get a little bit more relaxed

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<v Speaker 3>and recharged, because I think what makes this podcast great

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<v Speaker 3>is how much I love doing it and the enthusiasm

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<v Speaker 3>and the curiosity and everything, and burnout is not fun

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<v Speaker 3>for you or for me. So I'm taking a break.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I took a little bit of a break

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<v Speaker 3>last summer when my dad passed away. I had a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of funeral planning to do, helping my mom move,

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<v Speaker 3>stuff like that. This is a little different. This is

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<v Speaker 3>for me, and so I'm not gonna lie. It's pretty scary.

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<v Speaker 3>I care about how well the show does. I care

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<v Speaker 3>about job security, I employ people, and I again, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to disappoint you. So it's tough to take

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<v Speaker 3>a break because I'm afraid of losing everything that I've built.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have to just trust that you love the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you love the show, and that you'll stick by

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<v Speaker 3>me through maybe some encore episodes you've never heard, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>you want to re listen to them again, Please share

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<v Speaker 3>them with friends who maybe haven't heard in the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I come back, I'll be the same curious,

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<v Speaker 3>goofy weird me, but just with a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>brain energy. One of the things that I've learned from

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<v Speaker 3>doing this podcast is that y'all are here to learn,

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<v Speaker 3>and you do learn a lot, and we're friends, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I feel like it's kind of a bad example

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm burning out or exhausted or not taking breaks

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<v Speaker 3>like a person should that's not modeling good behavior. If

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<v Speaker 3>I'm living in a massive scarcity mindset of being afraid

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<v Speaker 3>to step away from work because I'll lose everything, then

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<v Speaker 3>what does that tell you? And so part of doing

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<v Speaker 3>this is also to model by example some healthy boundaries

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<v Speaker 3>and to listen to my own body and brain and say,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really sick, I've been in the hospital. I need

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<v Speaker 3>to just take a big, deep breath, maybe go to

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<v Speaker 3>the beach, literally turn my phone off for the first

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<v Speaker 3>time in a decade, read some books, do a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of journaling, and really get back to my voice and

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<v Speaker 3>myself and who I am. So I'm doing this for

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<v Speaker 3>me and hopefully for all of us. And if you're

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<v Speaker 3>listening to this and you're feeling burnt out or you're

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<v Speaker 3>feeling like you're prioritizing things that maybe aren't the healthiest

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<v Speaker 3>for you, I hope that this is assigned to you

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<v Speaker 3>to kind of take stock of that and really figure

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<v Speaker 3>out are you doing the best things for yourself or

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<v Speaker 3>are you doing things because you think you should or

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<v Speaker 3>because you're scared to stop doing them. So let my

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<v Speaker 3>little journey with anxiety and putting work ahead of my

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<v Speaker 3>health be a lesson to you. So when I come back,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be me, but just more me, which is what

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<v Speaker 3>my friends and family and doctors and hopefully y'all want.

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<v Speaker 3>So the next few weeks have really, really good encorse,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've reached out to the guests who have become

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<v Speaker 3>good friends now and obviously they want this for me too,

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<v Speaker 3>So they're going to give you some updates in each

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<v Speaker 3>of the encores what they're up to. And again, if

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't listened, enjoy. If you have listened, again, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be back in a few weeks with better lungs

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<v Speaker 3>and an even happier brain.

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<v Speaker 4>See you then.

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<v Speaker 3>In the meantime, stick around, make sure you're subscribed from

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<v Speaker 3>rate Review, all of that, and I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 3>trust that this little house I built for all of

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<v Speaker 3>us won't collapse while I'm away, all right, Okay, off

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<v Speaker 3>we go, bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Just get well soon, Okay,