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hit it. That's why I open with the Rocky quote,

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right like, it's not how hard you hit, it's how

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hard you can get hit. How hard can your identity

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get hit? Everybody has one, everybody has an idea of themselves.

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Then you go through something that tests you to your

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absolute core, and you know if that identity is strong

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Speaker 2: That's impossible. Let me tell you what I believe. What's

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your weakness is not your technique. Don't think you know.

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Speaker 3: You the Impossible Life Podcast and you're sitting on a

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winning lot of.

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Speaker 1: Second an idea that is fully formed, fully understood.

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Speaker 2: That sticks.

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Speaker 1: This is the Impossible Life Podcast because Nick and I

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are attempting to live impossible lives. What we know is

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that nothing is impossible. So instead of using impossible as

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an excuse to not try, we'll use the pursuit of

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impossible as an accelerant for greatness. If something's never been

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done before, that just means it's unexplored. If they tell

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Impossible as a default label used by uncourageous people unwilling

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to take a risk. The real truth is this The

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solution to any impossible task starts with this question, if

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I had to, what would it take?

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Speaker 2: Would it take?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of the Impossible Life Podcast. I'm

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your co host next surface, and I'm looking across as

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a man whose grip is so strong he's never used

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a pair of pliers in his life.

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Speaker 2: That's right, friends, Garret nunckleback, A man whose handshake is

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more of an examination of your masculinity, an ingredient.

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Speaker 1: Wrench hands is a mindset. You got to have rent chands.

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I said that to the one time she was trying

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to like open something. I'm like, you gotta have wrinch hands,

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just like use your hand like She's like.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? What does that may mean? Gives

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the people go in and fold it in? What does

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Speaker 1: You explain this to me? What does that mean? You

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just gotta just your hands just need to be stronger.

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pretty funny. I didn't realize wrench hands was actually a flash.

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Speaker 2: This was the thing, all right?

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Speaker 1: Why why are you why can't you you know, make

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your hands operate? Like I said of pliers because you're

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, Uh well, I did not see that coming.

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Speaker 3: And my daughter was asking about that, and I was like,

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the first time that you ever that Uncle Garrett ever

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hears my intros is live on the podcast, because she

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was laughing at us while we were listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, really, Nick is like my wife and that one

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Praise the Lord. Okay, So dude, I'm very excited about

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this episode, as I all, because this is I'm just

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gonna be straight with people. Because of some things that

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the episode which would be three twelve, about the journey

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that we went on, and it instantly inspired this next

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episode that we're about to do for you about inside

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out Living, which I'm so excited to share with you, guys,

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because we talk so much about how when you go

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what God's actually doing is He's developing your who and

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giving you and developing your identity. And what this kind

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Speaker 1: People are people are going through stuff? You're going through life?

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it changing you or are you the one that's affecting

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of having a strong identity is that what's in you

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is not you to you, This is your best friend

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Josh Kraft to you. But I remember I was talking

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would be a Navy seal? Because I've talked to people

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who knew you when you were like a teager, and like,

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me is crazy. He was telling me the story about

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you bust in your lip because you tried to pull

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the Superman off of a homemade ramp and everybody was like,

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there's no way you can get enough air to do

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in your presence. I told you said, because I was like,

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six where you go into your story. And for those

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well built guy. Then you're too young to be here

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God's desire for all of us. And so like I said,

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my transmission did not get across to you, and what

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apart how I speak, you'll hear me do this. I'll

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say something, I'll say it the same way. I'll say

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the same thing in a different way, and then I'll

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I'm coming at you and again. This is like, this

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goes back to like principles of communication. I'm gonna keep

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sending the transmission. I'm a stand over here, I'm a

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stand over here. I'm a send it from this single.

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I'm gonna send it from this angle. What do I

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got to do to get this transmission into you? And

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so really this is a different transmission of identity because

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the quality of your identity is what happens when you

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hit it. That's why I open with the Rocky quote like,

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it's not how hard you hit, it's how hard you

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can get hit. How hard can your identity get hit?

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you go through something that tests you to your absolute

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core and you know if that identity is strong or not. Okay,

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here's really the test of your identity is what's inside

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of you stronger than what's outside of you. That's the test,

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right because if you know it may be like look

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tough on the surface, but then you put it under

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a bunch of pressure and that thing cracks. You didn't

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really have an identity. You had an idea of one.

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and this is osmosis. Ok if you remember from science class,

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like nobody really liked chemistry, but if you remember in biology,

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but if you remember from science class, what osmosis is.

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where everything's the same. Okay, So like if you have

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a cell, let's just like this is this is kindergarten science.

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in it than the other cells around it, Well, salt

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is going to go out from this the really salty

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cell and to the other ones that are less salty.

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things are going out of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay. If there's if you.

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Speaker 1: Have a cell that doesn't have a lot of salt

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in it and they all the all the other cells

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around it have a lot of salt in it, well

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the salt is going to come from the outside to inside, right, okay.

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osmosis and your environment, and it's a test of is

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what's in you stronger than.

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Speaker 2: What's outside of you? Right? If there's more.

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Speaker 1: Outside than inside, it's it's changing you. If you're stronger

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than what's around you, you're changing. It's very and that's that.

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That is how your identity works in every environment, right,

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And this is like it's a test of your character.

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out with people who have who have low character, Well

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we'll see how how strong your character really is. Do

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they change you or do you change them? Very good,

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and so your identity has the like who you are

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has the ability to affect the environments that you go

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into if it's strong enough. So that's like really that's

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what inside out living is and understand this is biblical, right.

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Jesus said, my kingdom is not of this world. My

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kingdom is within you. Wherever you go, are you is

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the Kingdom coming out of you into all these other places?

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influencing you, it's it's softening, it's weakening. The kingdom that's

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inside of you, says, my kingdom is not of this world.

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He said, you are the salt of the earth.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: Wherever you go, are you salt in that place? Or

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are you getting influenced? He says, You're the light of

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the world.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: This is like the journey and the life that we've

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put on that that we've been put in. The question

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is are you the message or are you the audience?

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are you the audience? Right?

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Speaker 1: And so what's inside of you is stronger than what's

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outside of you. You have the ability to influence the world.

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Speaker 2: Wherever you go.

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Speaker 3: Man, I love that so much. Gee, And you know

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you said this quote last time. Until you know who

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you are, you can't go on the journey God has

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for you. And I love that because something that i'd

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be I've seen in scriptures that identity precedes purpose. That's

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how I said it, and what we everybody wants purpose, right,

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my purpose? What we don't want is the formation of

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our identity because that takes a lot longer and it's

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very it's something that we don't know. It's something that like,

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you can't just go here's your three stent.

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Speaker 2: I know who you are, you know what you're there

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to do.

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Speaker 1: And a lot of people they want the purpose before

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the identity, correct, right, Oh, oh, if if you tell

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me I'm supposed to be a golfer, professional golfer, now

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I know. Oh, that's my journey. Now I know who

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I am, right exactly.

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Speaker 2: When you know who you are, then you can go

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on the journey. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And we see this in Jesus and you might be like, wait,

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what do you mean. I think it's a fascinating thing

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to understand that when Jesus was born from the womb,

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he wasn't like, I am the son of God. Here's

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exactly what I'm supposed to do. Like, he had a

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process to go through, and you see this talks about

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like learned, he learned what obedience through suffering. Wait a minute,

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this is Jesus, This is literally God.

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Speaker 3: It talks about he through a loud prayer and supplication.

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He was a man of many sorrows. Wait what, this

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is the son of God who were following. Yes, so

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imagine this. You're Jesus and your mom's had you, and

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you've got your brothers, and you're starting to get to the.

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Speaker 3: Jesus is twelve, which we get a picture of him

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and John the Book of John, we know that that, like,

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by that point, he's noticeably different. He's got a little

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bit of like I have to be in my father's house. Okay,

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we kind of think, well, he was just always that way.

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Speaker 2: Well think about this. You know you've told your kids.

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Speaker 3: Your little daughter came in here before we record this

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episode and was just being so cute as a five

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year old is, and like, reasoning with a five year

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old is amazing, as I got to observe with you two.

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was What was I like as a baby?

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Speaker 2: Common question?

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Speaker 3: And imagine the story that Jesus' mom tells him, Oh, hey,

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your birth was a little different, and like as he

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hears this story, and then he goes as a young

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man and he's starting to be around the scripture as

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he goes to the temple and he hears Isaiah seven fourteen.

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Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. The

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virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and

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will call him Emmanuel, Emmanuel, which means God with us.

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will conceive and give birth to a son. What did

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my mom say was different about my birth? Because it

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always talks about how Mary treasured these things in her heart.

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of a reach, nick, and like, okay, it doesn't say

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a scripture that Mary sat down and told Jesus the story.

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a kid like and when Jesus was so adamant about

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that scripture would be fulfilled. There's so many times he

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says that to the men. Why because once he realized

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he was the Messiah. Do you not think he had

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more of an intense understanding and more of an intense

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study of the scripture because he knew what he.

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Speaker 2: Had to do, because he knew who he was.

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Speaker 3: And that's why I always use that story of jess

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becoming because I think sometimes we just gloss over and

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just assume that Jesus just came out of the womb,

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you know, carrying the whatever you think he would be

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carrying as the Messiah, and it was like, no, he

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had a process to go through the same as well

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in his hand.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I say that, yeah exactly.

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Speaker 3: So I say that for to kind of hopefully be

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an encouragement to people that you really are going to

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have the formation of my identity. And that's what we're

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giving you today. You gave this analogy yesterday and of

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like this is when that inside out summary kind of

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clicked for me. You talked about like an apple tree,

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and this was the picture of like inside, no matter

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who you are, being stronger than the outside.

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Speaker 1: Fruitful, right, But that fruit is a reflection of who

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you are. That's what Jesus said. He says, you'll know

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them by your fruit. Yeah, what do you call an

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apple tree? It's an apple tree, but it's what its

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fruit is. Okay, does that apple tree ever? Does that

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apple tree question who it is?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: That apple tree knows what it's DNA is. And so

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you could stand outside of an apple tree like you could,

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you know, have some stupid parade outside outside of an

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apple tree, holding up signs, yelling at it. You'll never

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be any good. You're an orange tree. Apples are wrong,

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you know, apples are racist. Whatever you want to say

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to this tree to try and convince it that it's

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not what it is.

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Speaker 2: And if as long as that apple tree keeps taking

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in nutrients.

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Speaker 1: It's DNA is not going to change. It's going to

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keep producing apples. Right, you can't make that apple tree

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question who it is. It knows who it is. Right,

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that's what it's called, that's what its name is, it's

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what it's DNA is. It's just going to continue to produce,

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and that the fruit is a reflection of who it is. Right,

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it's not going to change. You can't yell at it

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or lie to it to make it be something that

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it's not right.

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Speaker 3: And you may sit there and go like, oh, well,

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an apple tree, you know, it just is what it is,

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our favorite saying on this podcast, and it's like, well, well, okay, yeah,

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an apple tree doesn't have a brain for sure, but

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that's a picture of what actual when you, when you

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are something, it doesn't matter what everybody else is saying you.

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Speaker 2: That's why this whole like genders.

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Speaker 3: Confusion thing is so stupid, because you can say whatever

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you want at the end of the day, your mailer thing,

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because God's made you that way.

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Speaker 2: You can't change it. I said that yesterday. It mighty man.

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Speaker 1: I said that apple tree is not going to read

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a book and decide to chop its genitals often become

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something else. It can't do that, right, right, That apple

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tree knows what it is when you had, when you

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know who you are, then you produce fruit, right. And

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that's what I said yesterday. Identity produces fruit. Fruit does

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not produce an identity.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love that so much.

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Speaker 3: So I hope you guys are capturing what inside out

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what this concept is. And I guess the obvious question

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to you what I'm hoping that we can answer now

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for people is how do you know if what's inside

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you is stronger than what's outside of you? Because you

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gave a great example you talked about if you think

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you're you're a person of great character and you hang

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out with a bunch of people of low character.

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Speaker 2: Whose influence you knew.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's a good specific scenario, and like everyone can

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relate to that, But like, what what are the things

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that are always true? Because you know you may not

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always be around people.

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Speaker 1: Look, h chactor, Well I've got to I'm gonna that

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is the test. Right, Are you influencing your environment or

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is the environment influencing you? You may not know that

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like instantly in a snapshot, but if you want, like

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you put cells on a peach radition, look at them.

477
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You'll see where the osmosis is happening. You'll see where

478
00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,440
the change is occurring. Right, So this isn't so much

479
00:19:11,519 --> 00:19:13,559
a like that specific example.

480
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:13,759
Speaker 2: That you gave.

481
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Speaker 1: You watch it happen, like you go hang out with

482
00:19:15,759 --> 00:19:18,519
littw character people. The test is not revealed, like the

483
00:19:18,559 --> 00:19:20,440
answer to the test is not revealed instantly, but it

484
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,720
is revealed over time. Okay, and so time is going

485
00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,920
to reveal this to you what I do want to

486
00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:26,839
talk about is I've just got a few examples for

487
00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,119
you of where like the battle is happening, that is

488
00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,240
what's inside of you stronger than what's outside of you.

489
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So I'll talk about the thing that's inside, I'll talk

490
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about the thing that's outside, and what you have to

491
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listen to before.

492
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Speaker 2: We jump into that.

493
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Speaker 1: There's a as we were kicking off on this, I

494
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shared with Nick. You know when Nick says you knew

495
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who you were before anyone else was. There's something that

496
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I've had the privilege of being with around Pastor Keith

497
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since I was a little boy.

498
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Speaker 2: By the privilege has been around.

499
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Speaker 1: Pastor Keith since I was little boys has been my

500
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dad's best friend for forty years. And what's cool has

501
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,759
been to watch him progress over time and like some

502
00:19:59,799 --> 00:20:01,839
of the things he says now are like more refined,

503
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but he was saying it twenty years ago.

504
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Speaker 2: He just like he's just like trimmed it up a

505
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little bit.

506
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he used to always like one of the

507
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,599
things he says now is there's four voices. There's God's voice,

508
00:20:10,799 --> 00:20:13,880
your voice, their voice, and the devil's voice. Right, But

509
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,279
he used to talk about, you know, He didn't always

510
00:20:16,279 --> 00:20:18,400
say it that way. That's sharp now, right, But he

511
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,960
used to always just talk about how important your own voices, right,

512
00:20:21,079 --> 00:20:23,640
Like what voices are you listening to? Those are things

513
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,359
he said when I was little, and maybe I maybe

514
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,839
just because I was eleven at the time, I didn't hear. Yeah,

515
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,920
that's just what I received, That's what I caught from it.

516
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Speaker 2: But that is what I caught.

517
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Speaker 1: What I caught was how important your own voices and

518
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,559
your voice has to be stronger than the voices around you.

519
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Otherwise that that's the that's the wrong osmosis. Right, they're

520
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,000
changing you. Yeah, right, where that strength comes from. And

521
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,480
then we're gonna get it. And then I'm gonna jump

522
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,720
into like here's the inside, here's the outside. These are

523
00:20:48,759 --> 00:20:51,079
the battles you have to win to be that thing

524
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,079
that is resilient in whatever circumstance you're in. I just

525
00:20:54,079 --> 00:20:55,880
want to say this before we get into those things.

526
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Is it is a reflect like it's inside out living,

527
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which is the life that we're called to in following Christ.

528
00:21:01,079 --> 00:21:04,799
It is a spiritual life. Right, transformation is living from

529
00:21:04,839 --> 00:21:07,240
the inside out, not from the outside end. Right, this

530
00:21:07,319 --> 00:21:09,720
is it's Romans twelve one and two, Like, you've got

531
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,759
to put your flesh on the altar so your thinking

532
00:21:11,839 --> 00:21:14,200
can be changed so that you can be transformed and

533
00:21:14,319 --> 00:21:16,480
know His purpose, so that you can live your purpose,

534
00:21:16,519 --> 00:21:18,000
so that you can become what you're called to be.

535
00:21:18,319 --> 00:21:20,759
It all starts from an inside out process and that

536
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:24,200
is meant to happen through a life in Christ. Now,

537
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,119
let me just display the principles here for you, right

538
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,319
like you can David Goggins your way through this. And

539
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,400
I always use Goggins as an example, not because I'm

540
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,319
beating him up. I have some of the greatest respect

541
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,799
for him because he's an incredibly tough individual. I got

542
00:21:35,799 --> 00:21:38,079
to be around some really tough individuals and the Seal teams,

543
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and it taught me things. It showed me what like

544
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,400
some of the extremes are, and you learn in extreme environments,

545
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,680
right And David Goggins is an extreme for sure. Dude

546
00:21:46,759 --> 00:21:49,039
is his own thing, right Like, he's gone beyond the

547
00:21:49,039 --> 00:21:53,960
Seal brand. He's the Goggins brand. What Goggins has inside

548
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,400
of him is some things that are a lot stronger

549
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,880
than the environments that are around him. For the most part,

550
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just not infinitely strong. There's only one thing that is

551
00:22:01,279 --> 00:22:04,480
inside you that can be infinitely stronger than what's outside

552
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,039
of you. And that's when Christ is inside of you. Right,

553
00:22:07,079 --> 00:22:09,240
when when you have let Christ into your life, when

554
00:22:09,279 --> 00:22:12,039
you've been transformed spiritually from the inside out, there is

555
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,000
nothing on the outside that can break you. What David

556
00:22:15,039 --> 00:22:17,599
Goggins has is that pretty much anything on the outside

557
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,319
can't break him, but there are things that can, which

558
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,119
is a dangerous place to be when you've been convinced that, like, well,

559
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,599
I'm tougher than my environment. Garrett doesn't think he's tougher

560
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,599
than an environment. What Garrett knows is that Christ, who's

561
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,599
in him, is greater than anything that he could face.

562
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Speaker 2: That's on the outside.

563
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Speaker 1: Which leads us right into the first point here, right,

564
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,799
first point here, because again this is about inside out living.

565
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How is the voice inside of you stronger than what's

566
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,119
outside of you? Well, this is where this is the

567
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:49,039
first battle. Here is a battle of truth versus pressure. Okay,

568
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,319
like you you test like pressure is what tests truth?

569
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: Right? Truth? Like true is always true.

570
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Speaker 1: That's the test of it, right, And that's what when

571
00:22:59,319 --> 00:23:01,640
Nick and I talk about principles, When Nick and I

572
00:23:01,759 --> 00:23:04,559
are like discovering things, what Nick sees me do is

573
00:23:04,799 --> 00:23:07,599
I take things to the extreme because in the if

574
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it's not true, in the extremes.

575
00:23:08,759 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 2: It's not true.

576
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: It's just a method, right, And a lot of people

577
00:23:11,279 --> 00:23:14,480
bank on methods. Methods are nice, but when you put

578
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,400
them through the fire, they fall apart, right, right, And

579
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,079
so what you've got to know is learn how to

580
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,079
figure out what is true in life. And if it's true,

581
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,079
it's always true. And sometimes you can you can convince

582
00:23:26,079 --> 00:23:28,359
yourself something's not true, Like you can think if I

583
00:23:28,759 --> 00:23:31,519
jump on a trampoline, gravity is not real. Well for

584
00:23:31,519 --> 00:23:33,720
for you know, half of a second, it feels like

585
00:23:33,759 --> 00:23:36,319
it's not. It's like I'm going against it. Look for

586
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:40,160
a millisecond, I'm floating in the air. Well, eventually time

587
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,240
reveals truth, right, And so when you learn how to

588
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,000
look further down the road, when you learn how to

589
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,559
play the tape, like we've talked about, when you understand

590
00:23:47,599 --> 00:23:52,000
what's always true, even when right like you know it

591
00:23:52,079 --> 00:23:54,400
feels like gravity is being overcome and maybe gravity you

592
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,079
know in the context that gravity is on your side, right,

593
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,759
but it's like, man, like I'm believing gravity, but it's

594
00:24:00,799 --> 00:24:04,480
not working right now. Well, when you know how gravity works.

595
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,599
You can be patient. You say, you know what this

596
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,680
thing may be going up for right now, but it's

597
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,799
going to come back down. These things may be working

598
00:24:10,839 --> 00:24:13,160
against me, but I know what's true.

599
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:13,559
Speaker 2: Right.

600
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Speaker 1: If your life is on the line and you're watching

601
00:24:16,519 --> 00:24:19,720
this thing float up in the air, you're like, what right.

602
00:24:19,759 --> 00:24:23,359
But when you know what's true, no amount of pressure,

603
00:24:23,559 --> 00:24:26,079
no amount of pressure that you're going through, is going

604
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,119
to shake you. Because you know what's true, you know

605
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,119
what will happen in the end. This is the understanding

606
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:31,480
that God's always victorious.

607
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Speaker 2: Right.

608
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,640
Speaker 1: When I know that that's true, I'm willing to continue.

609
00:24:35,799 --> 00:24:39,559
I'm willing to stay underneath the pressure. Knowing what's true

610
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:44,599
is how you face giants, right, David said, like, because

611
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,599
God was with me when I fought lines embarrassed, so

612
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:48,160
I will.

613
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: Face you too.

614
00:24:49,279 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: David didn't say, like didn't size up Gliath and like,

615
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,759
you know, I think I've got enough in me to

616
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,119
kill this guy. He's stood on what's true. He didn't

617
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,440
stand on himself. And so this is one of the

618
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,440
tests of is what's inside of you stronger than what's

619
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,119
outside of you? Is what is the truth that you

620
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,359
live by? Truth is always true. And so if you

621
00:25:08,799 --> 00:25:12,359
bank on some information or some experience or some knowledge, well,

622
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,279
as soon as what's outside of you gets tougher than

623
00:25:15,319 --> 00:25:18,279
that thing, you'll crack on the inside. And so we

624
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,240
convince ourselves sometimes that we're tough because we go through stuff.

625
00:25:21,279 --> 00:25:23,680
For like, man, I passed the test. No, you just

626
00:25:23,759 --> 00:25:25,759
banked on something that might have been tougher than what

627
00:25:25,799 --> 00:25:29,039
that external thing was. But you've got to bank on

628
00:25:29,039 --> 00:25:31,319
the things that never break. And truth never breaks.

629
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's why I always you know, if you

630
00:25:33,079 --> 00:25:34,720
listen to us, and I hope that you listen to

631
00:25:34,759 --> 00:25:37,799
more than one podcast, you will hear so much reference

632
00:25:37,799 --> 00:25:40,000
to principles. That's why you always go to principles because

633
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,519
you know that principles are how God created an orderly world.

634
00:25:42,599 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: And Galatian sixty seven, God will not be mocked. Yeah,

635
00:25:45,039 --> 00:25:46,240
A man reaps what he sews.

636
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's one of your favorites. And it's so what

637
00:25:48,559 --> 00:25:50,480
we're saying is it's my daily encouragement. Yeah.

638
00:25:50,839 --> 00:25:53,839
Speaker 1: Right, I faced off position every day and you know

639
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:54,960
what I'm you know what I'm standing on.

640
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,599
Speaker 2: I'm not standing on.

641
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: Man, I'm gonna show you one day, Right, I look

642
00:25:58,519 --> 00:26:00,279
at my enemies, And I say, I look at in

643
00:26:00,279 --> 00:26:00,480
the eye.

644
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 2: I say, God will not be mocked. Right, I know whose.

645
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,519
Speaker 1: Team I'm on. I know what I'm standing on. Right,

646
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,359
gravity may look like it's going against me. God will

647
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,640
not be mocked. I didn't say Garrett will not be mocked,

648
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,880
right said God will not be mocked.

649
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. And the word of God is truth, man, That's

650
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,240
what we're saying.

651
00:26:13,279 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: And so that's I mean that this first lesson is

652
00:26:15,319 --> 00:26:19,400
seek truth, stand on what's true, sometimes sometimes living right,

653
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:23,839
sometimes telling the truth, sometimes having character sometimes like sometimes

654
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,799
these things look like you are throwing yourself into a ditch. Yeah,

655
00:26:27,839 --> 00:26:30,720
And this is just those moments where you're bouncing on

656
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,599
the trampoline or your enemies bouncing on the trampoline.

657
00:26:32,599 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: They look like they're flying for a moment, Yeah, for

658
00:26:35,279 --> 00:26:35,720
a moment.

659
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,279
Speaker 3: Let me let me do what I do real quick

660
00:26:37,319 --> 00:26:39,000
to you before we move on to number two, because

661
00:26:39,039 --> 00:26:42,000
I think you said some things and I I you

662
00:26:42,039 --> 00:26:43,759
gave the analogy of bouncing on a tramplin, which is

663
00:26:43,759 --> 00:26:44,480
a very simple one.

664
00:26:44,519 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 2: And you but you.

665
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,279
Speaker 3: Talked about what your one of your filters for truth

666
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,000
is would it be true in every context?

667
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 2: Right?

668
00:26:49,319 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 3: Like you talk about you take it to the extreme. Now,

669
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,160
if you're seeking truth, you may like grasp that and go, okay,

670
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,240
I need to have truth. We are in a world,

671
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,599
especially if you spend any time on social media really

672
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,559
just any where where people find it's basically a widget world.

673
00:27:03,839 --> 00:27:07,480
They find something, they find that hacks I know how

674
00:27:07,519 --> 00:27:10,119
to get like that, and it seems to violate principle.

675
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:11,319
Speaker 2: You know what happens to hacks.

676
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,039
Speaker 3: They disappear, they get patched. Yeah, that's exactly right. They

677
00:27:15,559 --> 00:27:16,519
for a time, and then.

678
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,759
Speaker 1: You've got to look at all these you know, dudes

679
00:27:18,799 --> 00:27:22,519
selling you their success program on the internet and understand

680
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,359
their success platform is going to last for about six

681
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,640
months before it gets patched.

682
00:27:26,759 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's exactly right.

683
00:27:28,519 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 3: Because I mean I think, I just think in our lifetime,

684
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:31,240
I think about some of the people who are like,

685
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,720
I'm going to become an Amazon seller and that's going

686
00:27:32,759 --> 00:27:34,759
to change my life, and for some people it did.

687
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: And then don't don't be shot like Amazon's superpower, right, Okay,

688
00:27:39,039 --> 00:27:42,000
Amazon is superpower today. Do not be surprised if in

689
00:27:42,079 --> 00:27:45,519
our lifetime we see Amazon disappear, right, which sounds insane.

690
00:27:45,759 --> 00:27:46,799
Sounds insane to people.

691
00:27:46,799 --> 00:27:48,039
Speaker 3: Go back to the eighties and say that to people

692
00:27:48,039 --> 00:27:49,880
about J. C. Penny and Sears and they would have said,

693
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,680
you're crazy. Well, the world changed, and that's what you're saying.

694
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,559
It's like, so you may be like, well, that means

695
00:27:54,559 --> 00:27:56,960
I can't trust anything. No, the more you begin to

696
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,720
know the word of God and you know what's actually

697
00:27:58,759 --> 00:28:01,400
principally true, the less you get caught up in things

698
00:28:01,759 --> 00:28:04,720
that have a temporary impact, you start to be good.

699
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,519
I think that's really what it is. You begin to

700
00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:09,720
separate eternal from temporal and you start to identify temporal

701
00:28:09,759 --> 00:28:12,039
things a lot more because so much of what's growth

702
00:28:12,079 --> 00:28:14,160
hacks of whatever. It may be thirty days to get

703
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,559
you insert whatever you want, or this guy on the

704
00:28:16,599 --> 00:28:18,519
internet says he knows exactly how to get me what

705
00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:20,680
I think I want, which is money for my business.

706
00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:23,039
Speaker 2: And then you sit there and you go, oh, well,

707
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,079
you know, you get all upset.

708
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,559
Speaker 3: Or it works for a time and then you hope

709
00:28:25,599 --> 00:28:27,440
that it works forever, but like, what works now won't

710
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:28,000
work in five.

711
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,079
Speaker 2: Years if it's not based on principles. And that's what we're.

712
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,519
Speaker 3: Saying, Like, sometimes you can be seemingly beating the odds,

713
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,079
is what people would say like, oh yeah, I beat

714
00:28:36,079 --> 00:28:39,279
the odds, okay, But like the great thing about odds

715
00:28:39,319 --> 00:28:41,519
and statistics is what you know is the more you

716
00:28:41,599 --> 00:28:44,279
have the more the more numbers, and the more times

717
00:28:44,279 --> 00:28:46,240
you have and repetition of it, the more that the

718
00:28:46,559 --> 00:28:51,880
statistics statistics become accurate. And so what we're saying is

719
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,480
temporal and eternal, right, and I want to put some

720
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:56,039
meat on that for people to actually be able to

721
00:28:56,079 --> 00:28:58,640
apply it. That's what you're saying. Truth over pressure is.

722
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,920
It's like, what's true is always true, So seek truth.

723
00:29:01,039 --> 00:29:04,240
Ak begin to identify what's eternal principally true based on

724
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,000
the word of God as opposed to what's temporal. Worldly

725
00:29:07,039 --> 00:29:11,119
wisdom seems to have an element of efficacy but won't last.

726
00:29:11,319 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: Is that fair? Yeah?

727
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:16,079
Speaker 1: So this first one is just about truth over pressure,

728
00:29:16,119 --> 00:29:19,599
and the lesson is seek truth. Continue to seek truth.

729
00:29:19,599 --> 00:29:21,319
And the more that you can find truth, the more

730
00:29:21,359 --> 00:29:23,720
you can stand on it, the more the voices inside

731
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,400
you is going to be stronger than what's outside of you.

732
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:27,519
The second one, right, and that's what all these are.

733
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,559
This is, Okay, how do I make the voice in

734
00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:32,640
me stronger than the voice that's outside of me? The

735
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,599
second one is about endurance versus results. Okay, what endurance?

736
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,400
What is endurance? Well, it's one of the keys to

737
00:29:38,559 --> 00:29:42,759
winning at life, right, says James Chapter one. Right, maturity

738
00:29:42,799 --> 00:29:45,720
comes from endurance and perseverance. And that maturity is you

739
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,759
lacking nothing in life. I think that's a place that

740
00:29:48,519 --> 00:29:51,119
that is the title. Everyone who's listening to this show

741
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,720
would like to have lacks nothing. Yeah, right, it's a

742
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,400
great place to be. Well, it doesn't come. You would

743
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,119
think the more results I get, the less I'll lack. Yeah,

744
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,680
that's what you would think. But it says that endurance

745
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,079
is the key to lacking nothing. Not gaining more. Is

746
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:07,279
not how you like nothing. Who you become is how

747
00:30:07,319 --> 00:30:10,759
you like nothing right, become someone right. And this is

748
00:30:10,759 --> 00:30:12,359
one of the things that I've talked about that Nick

749
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:17,079
loves the What like my approach to challenges to life

750
00:30:17,559 --> 00:30:19,640
isn't how do I know the answer to every problem?

751
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,519
Is become someone who can answer any problem. This is

752
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,480
endurance versus results. I'm not seeking how do I win?

753
00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:28,880
How do I get the victory? Become someone that can

754
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:29,599
run any race?

755
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:30,279
Speaker 2: Right.

756
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:34,359
Speaker 1: When you continue to practice and develop endurance, well, whatever

757
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,880
you go through And this was one of the things

758
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,519
that I like. I put this on Seal training when

759
00:30:38,559 --> 00:30:40,640
I was going through it, I said that everything that

760
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,160
I want in my life is on the other side

761
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,680
of this. It wasn't what I meant by that. Wasn't

762
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,599
that being an Avy Seal means everything to me?

763
00:30:47,119 --> 00:30:47,279
Speaker 2: Right?

764
00:30:47,359 --> 00:30:49,599
Speaker 1: It meant a lot to me. But I also knew

765
00:30:49,759 --> 00:30:52,599
that running this race was practiced for my next race.

766
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,359
I had to get the endurance and the perseverance here

767
00:30:55,599 --> 00:30:57,279
so that I could have it in the next place.

768
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,759
Because what I'm teaching myself here isn't to chase after

769
00:31:00,799 --> 00:31:03,400
these goals that like I'll do something, you know, being

770
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,880
a having a Navy Seal trydent that is a shiny object.

771
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,599
I was not chasing the shiny object. I was chasing

772
00:31:08,599 --> 00:31:09,960
the growth into the development.

773
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 2: Instead.

774
00:31:10,519 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: If I can make it through this process, what other

775
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,279
process is going to be able to challenge me? I know,

776
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:16,839
if I can do this, I can do anything else. Yeah,

777
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,599
And this is pursuing endurance instead of pursuing objectives. When

778
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,079
you continually practice the processes in your life, then you're

779
00:31:24,119 --> 00:31:29,039
preparing yourself to overcome anything. Right, practice, seek endurance, seek

780
00:31:29,119 --> 00:31:33,000
to grow, enjoy these challenges. That's how the voice inside

781
00:31:33,039 --> 00:31:35,960
like what will get you off track is chasing after

782
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,559
the results, because when you pursue that and you don't

783
00:31:38,559 --> 00:31:40,799
get them, you don't know who you are. When you

784
00:31:40,839 --> 00:31:45,279
pursue perseverance, when you pursue growth, when you pursue strengthening yourself,

785
00:31:45,519 --> 00:31:47,599
everything you're going through, the harder it hits you, the

786
00:31:47,599 --> 00:31:49,359
more you enjoy it, the more you know you're supposed

787
00:31:49,359 --> 00:31:51,319
to be there. That's how the voice inside of you

788
00:31:51,359 --> 00:31:53,079
gets stronger than the voice it's outside of you.

789
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so good. Gee.

790
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,119
Speaker 3: I think we get fixated on results, a really practical

791
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,720
one And this was actually something that I was thinking

792
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,839
through for myself recently. Is I decided that I got

793
00:32:02,839 --> 00:32:05,359
to get down the old lean up again because I've

794
00:32:05,359 --> 00:32:07,519
been in bulk mode. So I've decided to switch again.

795
00:32:07,279 --> 00:32:09,039
Speaker 2: Which is good. I'm about to get on that myself.

796
00:32:09,039 --> 00:32:09,440
There you go.

797
00:32:09,799 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 3: Now, what do I want is I want to get

798
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,720
down to my body fat percentage as fast as possible.

799
00:32:13,799 --> 00:32:16,039
Right when I'm fixating on results. And I was sitting

800
00:32:16,039 --> 00:32:17,839
there and I was kind of like going through looking

801
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,839
at my most recent scan and I was like, you know,

802
00:32:19,839 --> 00:32:21,519
I'm sitting there talking to myself, I was like, you

803
00:32:21,559 --> 00:32:22,839
know what I need to get really good at? I

804
00:32:23,119 --> 00:32:25,839
had Kobe in my head, love the process, and because

805
00:32:25,839 --> 00:32:27,440
I was actually listening to one of our podcasts while

806
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,000
I was doing the Basic Discipline training, which I can't

807
00:32:30,039 --> 00:32:31,200
say enough how good that thing is.

808
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: I know it's self indulgent.

809
00:32:32,319 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: It sounds self indulgent because we wrote it, but I'm

810
00:32:34,039 --> 00:32:36,960
going through it as you know, a listener, and I'm

811
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,240
just like, I'm getting takeaways even though I helped write

812
00:32:39,279 --> 00:32:41,640
the program with you know what I mean, it's so good.

813
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,359
So anyways, as I'm going through, I'm like, you know

814
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:43,839
what I need.

815
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: To get really good at? Gee. I don't need to

816
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:46,400
get really good at being like.

817
00:32:46,319 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 3: Man, I can't wait to think about how my abs

818
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,559
are going to look or what lean or I need

819
00:32:50,599 --> 00:32:53,400
to get really good at enjoying eating the way I

820
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,759
need to eat today. I know exactly how many macers

821
00:32:55,759 --> 00:32:57,240
I need to get, how many calories I need to get,

822
00:32:57,359 --> 00:32:58,720
what I need to do today, And I need to

823
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,960
get really good at just in going winning the day

824
00:33:01,119 --> 00:33:03,680
and not even think about where I'm going, because when

825
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,400
you get fixated on results, you then start to go like,

826
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,039
how do I get there as fast as possible.

827
00:33:08,039 --> 00:33:09,599
Speaker 2: Aka, how do I take the shortcuts?

828
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: And you're not. That's not an endurance thought process. That is, man,

829
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,640
Once I get my tried it, that's the finish line. Man,

830
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,200
that's you're in trouble. Yeah, you're in trouble. But we

831
00:33:18,319 --> 00:33:20,759
all fall into that because we know what we want

832
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,519
so bad. But when you start to actually want the

833
00:33:23,559 --> 00:33:26,160
process and you want to learn and you want to

834
00:33:26,279 --> 00:33:28,079
like not because like the thought process, like, well, how

835
00:33:28,079 --> 00:33:29,079
can I just get through this? No?

836
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,319
Speaker 2: How can I learn to love what I'm doing? Well?

837
00:33:31,519 --> 00:33:32,200
Do this sucks?

838
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 3: It sucks being hungry? Yeah it can, or you can

839
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,000
start to get really good at it.

840
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 2: Does becoming a winner suck? No, it's wonderful. Next point? Yes, right,

841
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,880
So this last one was Endurance Results number three. Here

842
00:33:44,079 --> 00:33:44,759
it's a doozy.

843
00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: It's about evidence over affirmation. Okay, but a lot of

844
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,759
people will seek and we talked about this in the

845
00:33:51,799 --> 00:33:53,440
last episode where like, this is one of the things

846
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,720
I'm I'm, I'm it's not people think. You know, I

847
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,640
just enjoy poking people and enjoy being a harsh people.

848
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,359
Now I just care and I know what works, and

849
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,119
I know how to build people and so I'm not

850
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,799
going to give you the sugar that you want. The

851
00:34:05,839 --> 00:34:09,199
sugar is making you weak. Affirmation is sugar, right, it's

852
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,360
you like, oh oh, now that they see who I am,

853
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,320
that must be who I am. That affirmation makes you

854
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,000
weak the more you seek external validation. Well, think about that.

855
00:34:20,199 --> 00:34:22,000
The whole point of this is, like, what makes you great,

856
00:34:22,039 --> 00:34:24,079
what makes you strong, is that the voice inside of

857
00:34:24,119 --> 00:34:25,960
you is stronger than the voice outside of you. What

858
00:34:26,039 --> 00:34:28,920
is affirmation, It's giving weight to the voice outside of you.

859
00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:32,280
It's one of the most dangerous things that you can pursue, right, Like.

860
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:33,679
Speaker 2: Oh, yes, they see it.

861
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: If you listen to like great champion players, quarterbacks, baseball players, golfers,

862
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,639
listen to them in interviews, the guys who are like

863
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,480
the goats, like the real greats they like get they

864
00:34:45,519 --> 00:34:49,039
get frustrated almost by validation from the reporters, Like they

865
00:34:49,039 --> 00:34:51,360
shrug it off, like it is annoying to them. And

866
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,119
that is the strength of their internal characters saying like,

867
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:59,119
don't listen to that voice. And then the only time

868
00:34:59,159 --> 00:35:02,639
you'll see like, really these champion players get upset and

869
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:06,280
interviews is they don't care if they're spreading lives about them.

870
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,840
They don't care. These guys give zero weight to the

871
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,159
reporters voices. But you'll see them get angry every once

872
00:35:12,159 --> 00:35:16,000
in a while when they're saying something like, these guys

873
00:35:16,039 --> 00:35:18,199
care about their audience, and they care about the people

874
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:19,159
who want to be like them.

875
00:35:19,159 --> 00:35:20,079
Speaker 2: They care about.

876
00:35:20,079 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: Because all these great golfers, all these great football players

877
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,519
had people that they looked up to when they were young.

878
00:35:26,039 --> 00:35:28,039
And they'll call out these reporters every once in a

879
00:35:28,079 --> 00:35:31,360
while like you're spreading lies, right, right, because they care

880
00:35:31,519 --> 00:35:33,800
about what the young people that are wanting to be

881
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,599
like them are listening to. What is so important, right,

882
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,719
is not that you care like and the point I

883
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,880
was making there with these great athletes in interviews is

884
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,039
they don't care about affirmation at all. But they do

885
00:35:49,159 --> 00:35:53,719
care about is these private evidence points. Okay, what is evidence? Well,

886
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,280
you've like you have proved private victories. And this evidence

887
00:35:57,599 --> 00:35:59,719
is the things that you've done with yourself over and

888
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,000
over over again to show yourself and tell yourself who

889
00:36:03,039 --> 00:36:06,639
you are. Right when you seek that evidence, like and

890
00:36:06,679 --> 00:36:09,519
it's personal and it's private, it's what are you saying?

891
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,280
My voice is more important? Like nobody saw this. I'm

892
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,719
going to go out and do this to prove it

893
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:19,159
to myself. If you went back and watched me from

894
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,320
like the time I was seventeen till the time I

895
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,440
went into the seal teams, you would have thought I

896
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,480
was a psychopath. I was doing stuff that nobody is watching,

897
00:36:26,519 --> 00:36:29,039
out there, doing it by myself, just for me. What

898
00:36:29,119 --> 00:36:31,719
was I doing. I'm telling myself who I am, right.

899
00:36:32,079 --> 00:36:34,840
I wasn't asking for anybody to see it. And that's

900
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,880
where you know my dad likes to tell the story

901
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,119
because he's I wasn't doing it for anybody to watch.

902
00:36:39,199 --> 00:36:40,400
Most of the time I was doing it early in

903
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,480
the morning. My parents are watching me, just because it

904
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,639
made them nervous. I'd get in the I'd get in

905
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,159
Texas and January when the water is you know, thirty

906
00:36:48,199 --> 00:36:50,719
five degrees forty degrees in my pool. I'd sit in

907
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,079
there for thirty minutes until like I'm about to pass out,

908
00:36:54,119 --> 00:36:56,280
and then climb out of the water, go for a

909
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,599
run to warm myself up, and then come back and

910
00:36:58,639 --> 00:36:59,159
do it again.

911
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,679
Speaker 2: What was I doing. Nobody's watching.

912
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: My parents were sneaking a peek through the window, trying

913
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,119
to make sure I didn't die out there in the pool.

914
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,840
What was I doing. I was creating evidence for myself.

915
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,719
I'm telling myself this is who I am. So when

916
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,519
I and what I didn't even know this at the time, right,

917
00:37:14,559 --> 00:37:17,280
because all I'd watched was a Discovery Channel documentary about

918
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,519
seal training. I didn't know how cold the water was

919
00:37:19,559 --> 00:37:22,280
in the Pacific. You know, I couldn't have. I didn't

920
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,159
Now kids preparing for seal training, they're asking their AI

921
00:37:27,199 --> 00:37:29,320
how much long do I need to stay? And you know,

922
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,519
what's the water temperature out there? Okay, how long? What

923
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,400
kind of training process do I need to do to

924
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:35,519
make sure that I'm strong enough.

925
00:37:35,599 --> 00:37:36,559
Speaker 2: I wasn't doing any of that.

926
00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know jack about the water temperature. I thought

927
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,440
log PT was every single day I haze the crap

928
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,920
out of myself, teaching myself this is who you are.

929
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,559
Speaker 2: I didn't know what the program was going to be.

930
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:48,440
You know.

931
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,679
Speaker 1: I make fun of sometimes I make fun of these

932
00:37:50,679 --> 00:37:53,679
guys who get into like a depth program, delayed enlistment program,

933
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,880
who were in there for like six or seven years

934
00:37:56,199 --> 00:37:58,280
with a seal mentor preparing. I was like, man, you

935
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,079
guys went through like extra buds, But I put myself

936
00:38:01,119 --> 00:38:04,480
through buds right, I just didn't have I haze the

937
00:38:04,519 --> 00:38:07,599
crap out of myself, not looking for someone to tell me,

938
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,119
not looking for a ceiling instructor or other people in

939
00:38:10,159 --> 00:38:12,079
my class is like, oh man, this guy's are great,

940
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,719
this guy's gonna make it. I was trying to tell myself,

941
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:15,440
you're gonna make it.

942
00:38:15,559 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: Huh Okay, I was because I was going to ask you,

943
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:18,960
I'm glad that you said that. I was going to

944
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,239
ask you what the difference was between evidence and affirmation

945
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,920
because a lot but whose voice?

946
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:23,519
Speaker 2: That's right?

947
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,679
Speaker 3: It's personal evidence because for some people the affirmation is

948
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their evidence, And what you're saying is that's wrong. If

949
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other people's affirmation is your evidence, then that's not real evidence.

950
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Speaker 2: But when the evidence is you.

951
00:38:33,679 --> 00:38:35,519
Speaker 1: Again, that's why I was going back to, Like these

952
00:38:35,519 --> 00:38:38,639
guys with the reporters. You'll see them get chirp up

953
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,920
when the reporters make an identity statement of you this

954
00:38:42,159 --> 00:38:44,559
or like, you'll hear these guys come back real hard. No,

955
00:38:44,639 --> 00:38:47,159
I know exactly who I am, right, Like what your

956
00:38:47,519 --> 00:38:50,119
your words are worth nothing compared to my words? Yeah,

957
00:38:50,199 --> 00:38:53,039
and that it's the champions mentality. Yeah, I've built my

958
00:38:53,199 --> 00:38:55,079
I've built my words your words are worth nothing.

959
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the old I heard from Tony Robbins this,

960
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so I'm just gonna give him credit. But he says,

961
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you get rewarded in public for what you've spent thousands

962
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of hours.

963
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Speaker 2: Practicing in private. Yeah, and that's it.

964
00:39:04,639 --> 00:39:08,079
Speaker 1: What it like truly like, ask yourself, why why would

965
00:39:08,119 --> 00:39:11,000
someone else's voice be worth more than yours? You're giving

966
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,719
more you so you what you're saying is their opinion

967
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,639
is worth more than yours. It's a it's dangerous, yeah,

968
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,400
right when you like, when you seek that affirmation, like,

969
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,199
think about what you're seeking. You must know more about

970
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,679
me than I know about myself. And when you when

971
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,000
it's the opposite, how do you think you feel about

972
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,000
affirmation like this is I don't want that. It's worthless

973
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:32,880
to me. I know way more about me.

974
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Speaker 3: Than you do. Yeah, now, and I want to I

975
00:39:34,559 --> 00:39:36,400
want to highlight that because you could take that what

976
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,480
you just said from a place of pride. But the

977
00:39:38,599 --> 00:39:40,840
very first thing you said was truth is to seek

978
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,000
truth and truth is the word of God. So everything

979
00:39:43,039 --> 00:39:45,559
that you think and you know about yourself is coming

980
00:39:45,559 --> 00:39:46,679
from a place of knowing your father.

981
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's You're right, it could. It certainly can become prideful.

982
00:39:49,559 --> 00:39:51,920
It's a man in the arena mentality. Yeah, for sure,

983
00:39:52,119 --> 00:39:54,679
you've you've never tasted the blood in the sand, right,

984
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,480
you know nothing. Right, I've been, I've been in this arena.

985
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,519
I know that I know my words are at least

986
00:39:59,559 --> 00:40:02,039
worth more than yours. Now, the man in the arena

987
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,719
will give credit, will give credence to the words of

988
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another man in the arena. And we could talk about

989
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semantics there, but really this is just the dynamic of

990
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,760
evidence versus affirmation. And if you give more weight to affirmation,

991
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you're taking away the strength of your own voice.

992
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, very good, all right, she was number four. Last one.

993
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Here is thoughts versus feelings.

994
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Speaker 1: Okay, doozy, you can do this. But most of the

995
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,719
time where feelings come from is something happens to you

996
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,320
and it evokes a feeling and you can't I'm not

997
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,920
saying that it's impossible that you can sit you know,

998
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,440
you can go sit in the sauna by yourself quiet,

999
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,039
nothing's happening to you. You're not experiencing anything, and you

1000
00:40:40,079 --> 00:40:43,559
put yourself through an experience that creates a feeling. But

1001
00:40:43,679 --> 00:40:45,760
most of the time, right, if you think about like

1002
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,280
the strongest feelings you've ever felt. The first time you

1003
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,639
ever felt that feeling, it was something from the external. Yeah, right,

1004
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:55,639
And so feelings are sparked from something that's happening around you.

1005
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Speaker 2: Thoughts come from inward.

1006
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Speaker 1: Right, most of the time, thoughts don't come like they're

1007
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not sparked from something on the outside. It is this

1008
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internal process. And so this is it's a different form

1009
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of internal voice versus external voice. There's the battle between

1010
00:41:10,119 --> 00:41:13,239
your thinking, which think like, my feelings are not who

1011
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,320
I am. My thoughts are who I am. It's not

1012
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,440
as a man feelth, it's as a man thinketh. As

1013
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,559
a man thinketh, so is he as a man? Feelth

1014
00:41:21,599 --> 00:41:23,840
will take you away from your thoughts. And so it's

1015
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,000
really is the battle between your thoughts and your feelings.

1016
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And you have to have a strong enough mental identity,

1017
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,880
a strong enough thought identity that when you get counterpoint

1018
00:41:33,079 --> 00:41:36,800
counterpoint feelings, that your thoughts have more weight to overcome

1019
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:40,519
those feelings. Whenever you get angry and you lash out,

1020
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,239
your feelings overcame your thoughts, your thoughts.

1021
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,679
Speaker 2: No, I should not lash out on anger. Your thoughts

1022
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:46,239
know what is.

1023
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: Right, right, I don't feel my way through Scripture Right

1024
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:54,519
and Romans, Chapter twelve, Verse two doesn't say let your

1025
00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:57,079
feelings be transformed. It says let your thinking be transformed.

1026
00:41:57,119 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 2: Correct. Now, there's a big part of that.

1027
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Speaker 3: I think, Well, you know your feelings are revealing your

1028
00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:04,599
thoughts because when something happens, and like you said, you

1029
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,039
lash out in anger, something in your thinking was incorrect there.

1030
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,559
But what you're talking about here, you're not talking What

1031
00:42:10,599 --> 00:42:13,519
you're talking about is the thoughts that materialize over time

1032
00:42:13,559 --> 00:42:15,639
and that grow and solidify, as opposed to like your

1033
00:42:15,639 --> 00:42:18,199
feelings screaming at you in the moment, like his feelings

1034
00:42:18,199 --> 00:42:19,960
come at you. Go, oh baby, listen, you've got to

1035
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:20,400
do this now.

1036
00:42:20,599 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 1: When you when you get the desire to sin, is

1037
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:25,760
it a feeling or is it a thought?

1038
00:42:26,079 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah, I would say it's private word feeling. Most

1039
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:29,840
of the time it's a feeling. Yeah.

1040
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: And how do you overcome, right, how do you overcome

1041
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:34,440
that temptation to sin?

1042
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: Right?

1043
00:42:35,679 --> 00:42:38,039
Speaker 1: It is an internal thought process. Now, that is a

1044
00:42:38,079 --> 00:42:41,039
dialogue with the Holy Spirit. That's a dialogue with yourself.

1045
00:42:41,119 --> 00:42:44,320
It's a dialogue with God. But it is when I

1046
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,039
when I am tempted to sin, it is my internal

1047
00:42:47,079 --> 00:42:49,320
words that take me away from that. What did Jesus

1048
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,400
do when he was tempted? He quoted scripture? Yeah, very good, right,

1049
00:42:52,519 --> 00:42:54,440
he did so good? Right he it was it was

1050
00:42:54,559 --> 00:42:57,199
word and thought that overcomes the feeling of temptation.

1051
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:01,079
Speaker 2: That's so good. And that's that's internal versus external. Very good. Gee,

1052
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,800
I mean that really is. It's principle over comfort.

1053
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,039
Speaker 3: I mean one of the things I was thinking about

1054
00:43:06,079 --> 00:43:10,119
is it's it's logic over rationale, which we touched on briefly,

1055
00:43:10,119 --> 00:43:10,519
and I want.

1056
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,559
Speaker 2: To quickly people think those are similar, but cover.

1057
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, logic is truth based and from our man knows,

1058
00:43:15,639 --> 00:43:19,159
logic is math, right, yeah, it's listen from though webstern.

1059
00:43:19,199 --> 00:43:22,000
Logic is the art of using reason well in our

1060
00:43:22,079 --> 00:43:23,639
inquiries after truth.

1061
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,119
Speaker 2: It's it's as stupid.

1062
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,760
Speaker 1: It's as stupid as the crap we've heard in recent

1063
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,320
years of saying math is racist.

1064
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: Yes, that's rationale, right right.

1065
00:43:33,119 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: That's people saying, well, I feel like because I see

1066
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,800
this and this happens, and I feel like that's this.

1067
00:43:39,159 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because because rationale is opinion based, it's explaining why

1068
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:43,599
you did something.

1069
00:43:43,679 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 2: It's a detail with reasons.

1070
00:43:45,599 --> 00:43:48,119
Speaker 3: So like people will say, like, well, this it was

1071
00:43:48,159 --> 00:43:50,960
logical I had to do this because of that.

1072
00:43:51,039 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: And you go, well, hang on a minute.

1073
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 3: What you're doing is you're you're basically you you're explaining

1074
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,440
why you did something that's not what you did was

1075
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,000
not necessarily based on truth.

1076
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:00,639
Speaker 2: And that was the difference. Is logic.

1077
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,559
Speaker 3: Logic is truth based right, like it's it works no

1078
00:44:03,599 --> 00:44:05,880
matter what. It's like what you said, it's principles over

1079
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,000
over pressure. And so you're where's your rationale? Is you

1080
00:44:10,119 --> 00:44:12,000
just going like, well, this is why just because you

1081
00:44:12,079 --> 00:44:14,559
had a good reason why, Like, well I ran that

1082
00:44:14,599 --> 00:44:16,840
red light because I needed to get my son someplace.

1083
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,079
Will you rear ended somebody and killed someone? Well, yep,

1084
00:44:19,079 --> 00:44:22,000
but I didn't mean to. Well, your rationale was solid,

1085
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,519
but your logic was not right. And and so like

1086
00:44:24,559 --> 00:44:26,559
it doesn't it doesn't matter what you intended to do.

1087
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,599
And that's where that's where this can be hard. But

1088
00:44:28,599 --> 00:44:30,400
that's what we're saying when we're saying thoughts of we're feelings.

1089
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 1: So this is this is these are all of these

1090
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,920
These are the battles where you're what's and and they're

1091
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,920
they're similar, but they happen on different battlefields. These are

1092
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,440
all the battles of where you're inside has to be

1093
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,679
stronger than your outside to really overcome, to really walk

1094
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,280
in greatness in life is that you must stand on

1095
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,159
truth and truth. There's no amount of pressure that can

1096
00:44:50,159 --> 00:44:52,800
break truth. It cannot be broken. That's what truth is.

1097
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,039
And durance versus results. This is understanding the more like

1098
00:44:57,079 --> 00:44:59,960
the harder it gets that like Rocky superpower is how

1099
00:45:00,079 --> 00:45:02,840
Hardy can get hit right, and he realizes, like, this

1100
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,599
is how I win. I just continue to persevere. I

1101
00:45:05,679 --> 00:45:09,000
just continue to keep going. This is run your race, right,

1102
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,960
run the race that has been set out for you.

1103
00:45:11,199 --> 00:45:13,159
This is the path that life has put you on.

1104
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:18,360
It didn't say win every race, is said run your race, endure, persevere.

1105
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,679
That is, as James chapter one says, the like how

1106
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,000
you achieve maturity and greatness in life that you continue

1107
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,480
to endure, that you continue to persevere. You have to

1108
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,559
win the battle of evidence versus affirmation. That it's giving

1109
00:45:31,599 --> 00:45:34,800
more strength to your voice versus the strength of the audience.

1110
00:45:35,159 --> 00:45:37,800
It's being the message versus listening to the audience. It's

1111
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,360
caring more about what you say than about what others say.

1112
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,960
And it's the danger. It's the danger of affirmation. The

1113
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,840
more you prize them for affirmation, the more you're taking

1114
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,599
away weight from the power of your own voice. And

1115
00:45:49,599 --> 00:45:52,599
then the last one is thoughts versus feelings. Understand like

1116
00:45:52,639 --> 00:45:55,760
feelings is where temptations come from. Feeling is like the

1117
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,159
ext Like feelings happen through your biology, like Oh I'm tired,

1118
00:45:59,559 --> 00:46:01,840
Oh I'm I'm feeling weak, Oh I'm hungry. All these

1119
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,800
things they turn into feelings. They don't turn into a thought.

1120
00:46:05,159 --> 00:46:07,760
Think about hunger. Is it a feeling or is it

1121
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:08,199
a thought?

1122
00:46:08,519 --> 00:46:08,639
Speaker 3: Right?

1123
00:46:08,679 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: When you get hungry, there's not a data line in

1124
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,679
your brain that says need seven hundred calories.

1125
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: Right, it turns into a desire.

1126
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,679
Speaker 1: And it is only through your thoughts that you process

1127
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,960
that feeling and say, here's what I'm supposed to do

1128
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,199
with that. So win these battles internally, so you can

1129
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,079
win the battles that God puts you on the earth

1130
00:46:26,119 --> 00:46:26,400
to fight.

1131
00:46:28,599 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: Thank you very much for listening.

1132
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00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,039
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00:46:49,039 --> 00:46:50,920
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