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<v Speaker 5>Real, listen and why? And where better? But what better

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<v Speaker 5>York City on fucking Broadway. Essentially all right, taking care,

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<v Speaker 4>together the Laps. And this is huge because we're joined

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<v Speaker 4>now by the proprietor of Seid Establishment, someone really in

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<v Speaker 4>the firmament of New York City comedy and we're really

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<v Speaker 4>privileged to work with him. Coming up on August third

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<v Speaker 4>PJ Landers Season New York comedian, actor, writer, owner of

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<v Speaker 4>the Comedy Village. Is he your ton of experience in

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<v Speaker 4>the industry and a queen's boy.

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<v Speaker 5>PJ.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome to the Labs.

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<v Speaker 2>Fan, Thank you guys for having me. I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 2>to be here.

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<v Speaker 4>So first get our listeners. If you could acquainted with

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<v Speaker 4>the history of the venue. This is a really cool

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<v Speaker 4>place that we're going to be playing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're excited to have you. I mean, we're coming

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<v Speaker 2>from a friend of ours, Ray, who always is a

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<v Speaker 2>comedy and wrestling fan since I've known him, Ray Goots,

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<v Speaker 2>and he introduced me to you guys, And this place

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<v Speaker 2>is exciting. We're in the heart of the village, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 2>your heart of Times Square right now on West forty

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<v Speaker 2>forth Street, just like a couple of blocks from the

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<v Speaker 2>train station and the bus station, so it's real easy

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<v Speaker 2>to get to. And I've been doing comedy for over

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<v Speaker 2>thirty years in New York City. We originally started on

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<v Speaker 2>West third Street at a place called the Boston Comedy Club.

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<v Speaker 2>I know now a bunch of of your fans will

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<v Speaker 2>know this because this is the place where Dave Chappelle started,

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<v Speaker 2>Louis c. K started, David tel started. Is more all

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<v Speaker 2>the guys we know.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, isn't there a little bit of irony that there's

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<v Speaker 5>a Boston, that there's the Boston Comedy Club in New

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<v Speaker 5>York given the sports rivalries of the of the cities.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so great that you say that because the guy

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<v Speaker 2>who started it was a guy named Barry Katz. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Barry Katz was from Boston and there was another company

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<v Speaker 2>called New York Comedy Club, so he wanted to put

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<v Speaker 2>a twist on it. That's how many people thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was stupid. They're like, what a stupid idea for the

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<v Speaker 2>Boston Comedy Club on West third Street. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>it was genius because everybody talked about it, and now

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about it forty years later.

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<v Speaker 5>Amzing.

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<v Speaker 2>But I got very lucky. Barry was deciding to go

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<v Speaker 2>out to Los Angeles and they were going to close

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<v Speaker 2>the club, and I had no experience running a full

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<v Speaker 2>time club, but this was two thousand and five, and

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<v Speaker 2>they said, hey, do you want to do it? And

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<v Speaker 2>we took gover and within a year we were successful.

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<v Speaker 2>We had Chappelle, who had just come out of like

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<v Speaker 2>Recluse with the with the whole Chapelle show thing. He

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<v Speaker 2>for the first time that anybody had ever seen him

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<v Speaker 2>do it. He performed for four hours on my stage.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow. Wow, so this is this is hollowed ground. That's wild. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>we're a couple, we're both Bostonians PJ. And we grew

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<v Speaker 4>up going to the New York Comedy Club. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>kidding it. We could we can switch to the switch

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<v Speaker 4>the joke around.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we do.

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<v Speaker 4>We do a thing where we find a wrestler has

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<v Speaker 4>been in a movie, okay, and we review the movie.

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<v Speaker 4>We call it qualifying for one of the shows we

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<v Speaker 4>do if there's a wrestler involved somehow, or if it's

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<v Speaker 4>about a wrestler. You know, by virtue of working with us,

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<v Speaker 4>you might help qualify Spike Lee's She's Got to Have

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<v Speaker 4>It because I understand that you played a role. Perhaps

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<v Speaker 4>there can you tell us about that film, maybe it'll

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<v Speaker 4>help us qualify that great picture.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's that was actually the series that was on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, so it was a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually played a nice, nice, good old Spike Lee

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<v Speaker 4>How how how naturally did that come to you? I'm kidding,

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<v Speaker 4>but no, no, it's it's it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>It's because listen in my neighborhood, Sunnyside Woodside, which let

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<v Speaker 2>me tell you, and you'll tell me when to stop.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'll please go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I'll be listening to you carefully to

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<v Speaker 2>uh to break in obviously I'm not going to be

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<v Speaker 2>talking the whole time. But I grew up in Sunnyside Woodside. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>for a bunch of wrestling fans out there, you'll know,

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<v Speaker 2>Sunnyside Gardens is a world famous place, and I lived

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<v Speaker 2>there and I actually got That's where I first got

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<v Speaker 2>my taste for wrestling from from you know, undercards, And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even note of the names that I saw.

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<v Speaker 2>And we'll talk about the big guys later, but none

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<v Speaker 2>of the names that I saw I can remember. But

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<v Speaker 2>it was real wrestling. You know. I love what people

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<v Speaker 2>say like fake. Like I don't understand how you think

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<v Speaker 2>a two hundred and twenty five pound man slapping you

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<v Speaker 2>in the face, whether it's real or fake, is not real, right.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I mean, listen, I'm want to let you

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<v Speaker 5>know that PJ. So, I've gotten in the ring twice, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and I will tell you that the next morning after

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<v Speaker 5>I wrestled, the pain was undeniably real. How sore I was.

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<v Speaker 5>It's fucking real.

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<v Speaker 2>Man. What was the girl's name? Who beats me?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, now we're not talking about wrestling anymore. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>whole different thing exactly. Hello, major concern there well, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>glad you went right there, PJ.

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<v Speaker 5>Because we do.

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<v Speaker 4>We always covet the opportunity to talk to fans who

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<v Speaker 4>remember by gone eras we focus a lot on recollecting

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<v Speaker 4>the nostalgia that wrestling, the special nostalgic place wrestling can

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<v Speaker 4>hold in a lot of people's minds. So what are

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<v Speaker 4>we talking about? Were talking about the Pedro Morales era

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<v Speaker 4>or the Bob Backland era, or the Bruno San Martino era,

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking like with those two ladder names, the Bruno,

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<v Speaker 2>the later part Hogan, but Salmonino, the Big Boy Andre,

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<v Speaker 2>the Giants. Yes, you know these guys, These guys I

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<v Speaker 2>got very lucky to see. We all kind of liked wrestling.

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<v Speaker 2>We would watch it on w O Wall in New

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<v Speaker 2>either like a ten or eleven o'clock where we had

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<v Speaker 2>to do a sleepover, yes kind of thing, and you

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<v Speaker 2>know there was no I can't remember because I'm, like

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm a little older than you guys, but

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<v Speaker 2>in the seventies, I can't recall it. Like overall, like

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<v Speaker 2>people saying, oh, it's fake, it's this and that. I

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<v Speaker 2>think It was just fun to watch. It was something

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<v Speaker 2>different than anything that you ever saw. Nobody in your

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<v Speaker 2>you know, doing a karate kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, it catches the eye in a way, like

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<v Speaker 4>if you have any m JP. We talked about this

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<v Speaker 4>all the time, if you have any like proclivity towards

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<v Speaker 4>like hand to hand combat as a kid, like if

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<v Speaker 4>you're into hinjas or anything, wrestling is just like this

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<v Speaker 4>fascinating representation of what a fight might look like. You

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, you know, you haven't been in a hundred fights,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, this could very well be what a fight

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<v Speaker 4>looks like you especially before UFC existed.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I'll tell you no, no, you go oh.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just going to say that. You know, as

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<v Speaker 5>what I wanted sports to be. I wanted sports to

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<v Speaker 5>be people just hating on each other for no reason

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<v Speaker 5>and just beating the crap out of each other. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>to me, that's what sports were all about.

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<v Speaker 2>No rules, my family life, all right, you were going

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<v Speaker 2>to say, Pa, I was going to add on to

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<v Speaker 2>it that, you know, in my neighborhood, wrestling saved my life. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>it saved my life a bunch of times, like like

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<v Speaker 2>in fights, right. I remember this one time, and I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even know how to do it, but I got

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<v Speaker 2>a guy. We had a fight, and I got a

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<v Speaker 2>guy in a headlock, you know, and more than likely

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<v Speaker 2>it was completely incorrect, it was, but I you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I was like I was Bob Backling at

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<v Speaker 2>that moment. You know, I was like, Oh, I got

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<v Speaker 2>this guy, you know. And then another time I thought

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<v Speaker 2>this guy was much bigger than I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I was, you know, ten or ten, eleven years old,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever it was, and I go to my friends. I

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<v Speaker 2>go it was maybe like six foot two hundred pounds.

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<v Speaker 2>I say to my guys, I got this one. And

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<v Speaker 2>I go up to him and I grab him in

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<v Speaker 2>the headlock, and just like a scene like in the middle,

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<v Speaker 2>like like we had planned it, he grabs me by

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<v Speaker 2>my ass, He flips me over, throws me into a car,

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<v Speaker 2>and slaps the shit out of me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that's that's so true. You would never

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<v Speaker 4>Your point, I think is you would never think to

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<v Speaker 4>grab a headlock. If you didn't watch wrestling, that'd be

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<v Speaker 4>the last instinct you'd have in the middle of a fight.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're like, it just I don't know, you kind

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<v Speaker 4>of download it in your head in a way.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you got to admit that it is an exciting sport.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's really a certain people, a certain type

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<v Speaker 2>of person that watches it. You know, if you're a

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<v Speaker 2>golf guy, you might like it, but maybe you won't.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you want the excitement. You like, like you just said,

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<v Speaker 2>the bullshit that goes back and forth and back in

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<v Speaker 2>the day was even worse. You know, they were saying

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<v Speaker 2>racial slurs and all about their wives, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>well maybe they do it now. I know, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a little different now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's a lot more passive aggressive, but yeah, they

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<v Speaker 4>do try to do mic drop things on the light

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<v Speaker 4>like that. But all right, this is great, what a

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<v Speaker 4>great foundation. Now I'm coming in JP and I are

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<v Speaker 4>coming in hot because we know there's a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>things that you're going to be able to talk about

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<v Speaker 4>when it comes to this era of wrestling in New

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<v Speaker 4>York and coming of age during this time. One is

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<v Speaker 4>Bob Beckland. You already mentioned him. He of course reigned

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<v Speaker 4>for years his WWWF champion, kind of taking the mantle

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<v Speaker 4>of the babyface champion at the Garden, after Bruno and

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<v Speaker 4>then Pedro and then Superstar, and then it was Backland.

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<v Speaker 4>There is a story. When I first heard it PJ,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'd like you to share it with our listeners.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought this had to have been the era where

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<v Speaker 4>Bob Eckland in the nineties turned into a psychopathic bad

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<v Speaker 4>guy because of what I was hearing. But no, this

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<v Speaker 4>story happened when Bob Backlin was the squeakiest, clean good

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<v Speaker 4>guy in all of wrestling. Tell us what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I'm at the Garden. I can't remember the year,

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<v Speaker 2>forgive me for it. I actually called up because when

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<v Speaker 2>we talk about the other things, I called three other

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<v Speaker 2>people to firm up my story. But we were at

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<v Speaker 2>the Garden and this guy, which we'll talk to or

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<v Speaker 2>unless you want to bring it up there, I'll just

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<v Speaker 2>say for now, this guy mel got us like seats

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<v Speaker 2>that were in the area, you know, and Bob macklean

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<v Speaker 2>came out of the flying off of the ring, flying

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<v Speaker 2>off the ring like let me tell you when you

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<v Speaker 2>watch it on TV. It's one thing, but when you're

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<v Speaker 2>five and ten fifteen feet away as a young kid,

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<v Speaker 2>and you see a two hundred pound man flying ten

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<v Speaker 2>feet into the air, and I forgot who he was

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<v Speaker 2>going against, but he gave when to give the guy

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<v Speaker 2>a shot, and the guy ducked, and my beautiful red

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<v Speaker 2>head freckle face took the punch right in the jaw.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you took it for real.

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<v Speaker 2>I took it for real. Whether he was really gonna

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<v Speaker 2>hit the guy or anything, it's just like it was

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<v Speaker 2>a flying's arm. The guy ducked. My dumb ass face

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<v Speaker 2>was there. Pow. I go back on my back. I

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<v Speaker 2>shake it off. I jump up as if I'm gonna wrestle,

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<v Speaker 2>and he looks at me and he laughed his ass

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<v Speaker 4>You're looking for the comeback. So what happened. Did they

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<v Speaker 4>come over and kiss your ass and try to make

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<v Speaker 4>sure you didn't sue them? Or was that before? That

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<v Speaker 4>was a thing?

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<v Speaker 2>That was before that. They didn't even give me a coke.

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<v Speaker 2>They were like, get out of here again. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>as a matter of fact, this is what actually happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Bob, like they came back and came over

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<v Speaker 2>a little maybe slightly concerned. But this is now, you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking thousands of a second. That's all of this is happening, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So so I get hit, I go back, I pop

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<v Speaker 2>up him, and I have that exchange. He comes over

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<v Speaker 2>a little closer to realize I'm okay. He grabs my

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<v Speaker 2>shirt and throws me back again. Wow, it was great,

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 4>Why did he throw you back again?

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<v Speaker 2>It's just the way, you know what, like not hard enough,

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<v Speaker 2>but just like, get out of here, kid, you know

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<v Speaker 2>you're okay, stop stop whining or whatever you thought you

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<v Speaker 2>were going to do. So there was no security, there

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<v Speaker 2>was no you know, and McMahon didn't come down and

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<v Speaker 2>give me a pat on the back. You know, there

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<v Speaker 2>was no autograph picture of me in the back with him.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, that's what a what a different world. And

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<v Speaker 4>not only had that happened, but for like the superhero

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<v Speaker 4>of the territory to do that to you and and

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<v Speaker 4>and kind of brush it off like that, it's this

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<v Speaker 4>is tremendous. So when he when he hit you, did

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<v Speaker 4>you did you fall back in your chair? I think

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<v Speaker 4>you said that, or did you hit the deck or

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<v Speaker 4>did you just stagger.

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<v Speaker 2>We were I think I just staggered back because it

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<v Speaker 2>was a decent shot because we we had stood up

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<v Speaker 2>right because we were had those the folding chairs are

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<v Speaker 2>right in the front, so the bar was like literally

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<v Speaker 2>right in front of us. So we were like holding

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<v Speaker 2>onto that that excitement. And then he came off and

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<v Speaker 2>then we all I kind of stood up and then

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<v Speaker 2>I took the punch and the chair went back a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit, and then uh uh he just he just

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<v Speaker 2>like looked and again it was like right there. Now

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<v Speaker 2>there was no no video of this. I would love

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<v Speaker 2>I love to find that video. Oh my god, that

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<v Speaker 2>would be great. But irregardless of that situation, that's that's

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<v Speaker 2>a reference to uh, what's that movie? I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought you guys would get it from Boss from Boston.

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<v Speaker 2>You know the movie were Matt Damon.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you're talking about to depart it?

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<v Speaker 2>No, the other one move.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I'm I'm sewing like I'm sewing like uh,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, Bob Backman hitting fans thing that I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>even thinking about Boston references.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't mean to go I didn't mean to go

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<v Speaker 6>too deep to great reference because you know, Ben Affleck

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<v Speaker 6>goes in dressed with a high he runs a high suit.

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<v Speaker 2>He's got you know, and he says to these guys, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys are suspect and irregardless of that situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, now I'm with you. I remember exactly. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>remember seeing regardless, you know what I thought.

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<v Speaker 5>Of with the white sox and everything. That's the best party,

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<v Speaker 5>those white white the short like the pants are like

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<v Speaker 5>like a size or too too short, and so they're

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<v Speaker 5>just exposed white sox. Hilarious.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that that reminded me, PJ. Of some of the

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<v Speaker 4>overly verbose words that Vince McMahon would use when he

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<v Speaker 4>was ringside with the microphone. Right, he'd say, nonetheless that, notwithstanding,

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<v Speaker 4>regardless of.

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<v Speaker 5>The regardless of the fact of the not with standing

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<v Speaker 5>that information, and we will indeed provide further entertainment. Does

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<v Speaker 5>we prolong the excess of wrestling for the audience?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Something like that. What did you think of Vince growing up?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I guess you know, we learned to hate

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<v Speaker 2>some of them because they you know, they were programming

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<v Speaker 2>us to hate this one or that one. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's easy. So I don't think I had a real

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<v Speaker 2>understanding of what was happening in his and when you

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<v Speaker 2>look at it like one of my Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I whoever's gonna hate whoever loved me, any

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<v Speaker 2>of your fans who love me right now just because

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<v Speaker 2>of who I am, you might hate me when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>about to say this, But I just watched The Iron

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<v Speaker 2>Claw from beginning to end. Oh, like like a week ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I got home from the club it was on. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, let me finally watch this, and it

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<v Speaker 2>drew me in and drew me in and drew me

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<v Speaker 2>into the to the everything about that movie.

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<v Speaker 4>You know absolutely the Iron Claw was. It means something

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<v Speaker 4>to us because we did a series on World Class

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<v Speaker 4>and the guy who plays Fritz van Eric listen to

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of the shows that we did. He said

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<v Speaker 4>that in an interview to prepare for the character. So

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<v Speaker 4>we've got we've got some skin in that game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we pick up what you're throwing down there. We know

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<v Speaker 4>the story almost too well, but yeah, we'll leave that

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<v Speaker 4>to the second.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that as part of the problem we know we

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<v Speaker 5>do know the story a little too well, go a

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<v Speaker 5>little too attached to that one.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll have to talk about that. Bja one day, but

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<v Speaker 4>you said the name, you said Mel, and this took

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<v Speaker 4>shape because our mutual friend Ray was talking to you

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<v Speaker 4>about your memories growing up as a wrestling fan in

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<v Speaker 4>New York City as a kid in the seventies, and

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<v Speaker 4>you started telling him about this guy. I'll let you

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<v Speaker 4>tell a story. But who would you know, sort of

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<v Speaker 4>recruit kids, for lack of a better term, to come

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<v Speaker 4>to the matches. And you had no idea that this

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<v Speaker 4>is like something that's deeply embedded in like wrestling conversation

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<v Speaker 4>right now, So can you take us through that that

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<v Speaker 4>gentleman you mentioned.

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<v Speaker 2>Mel, Absolutely that you know when I say it's funny,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like sexual abuse and all of these things power

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<v Speaker 2>over people is not funny. But in our neighborhood, none

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<v Speaker 2>of us were attacked. We had a bunch of we're

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<v Speaker 2>all Catholics. We didn't get there was no priests that

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<v Speaker 2>were attacking us as a matter of fact of anything.

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<v Speaker 2>They were a little rough on us because that's how

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<v Speaker 2>they were taught. You know, they were taught in the

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<v Speaker 2>fifties and sixties when Latin and there was real respect

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<v Speaker 2>for the religion. And you know, we were always growing

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<v Speaker 2>up second and third generation Italian and Irish and Jewish.

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<v Speaker 2>We were always wise asses. So the priest never attacked us.

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<v Speaker 2>It was never like that, but we were aware of things.

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<v Speaker 2>There was one priest, this father Rodriguez, who was a

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<v Speaker 2>little friendly with all of us, you know. And I

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<v Speaker 2>will tell your audience if there's any gay kids out there,

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<v Speaker 2>just so you understand, I am not gay. But what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to say might sound a little strange. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was a tap dancer at an early age, from

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<v Speaker 2>like three to seven years old. And my mother in

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<v Speaker 2>the seventies, she had to explain to me that there

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<v Speaker 2>was going to be a lot of guys around that

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<v Speaker 2>like to kiss other guys, right, you know. And there

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<v Speaker 2>was a yeah, I'm going everything, and she said, look,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a very good friend on the circuit. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>tap dancing circuit of New York City. I was on

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<v Speaker 2>town I was town Hall singing Annie, Annie gets your guns,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. But what happened was, you know, my mother

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<v Speaker 2>would tell me, look, you know, you know your buddy Freddie, right,

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<v Speaker 2>that's my good friend. I said, yes, of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Freddie likes to kiss guys. And I said, ow. She

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<v Speaker 2>said to me, do you like my mother? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>like to kiss other boys? I said, no, I like

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<v Speaker 2>to kiss girls. And she said to me, good, she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>just remember nobody's ever allowed to touch you, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's right right, So and we'll go. We'll go later.

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<v Speaker 2>I have two adult children, but I've told them the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing. But so Anne. Anyway, we're kind of aware

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<v Speaker 2>of all this, right, it's the seventies, even though it's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, pedophilia, and all this stuff is all hidden.

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<v Speaker 2>So one day we're working at the pizza place. We're

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<v Speaker 2>about all twelve thirteen years old, and we can't even

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<v Speaker 2>and believe me, I called people last two days trying

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<v Speaker 2>to find out how this guy appeared in our lives,

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<v Speaker 2>and we can't figure it out. But there was a guy, Mel,

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<v Speaker 2>who used to come to the pizza place, who was

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<v Speaker 2>friends with the owner, let's say. And we were all

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<v Speaker 2>friendly there, and all of us were into wrestling. And

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<v Speaker 2>one day somebody says, hey, you know, Mel sets up

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<v Speaker 2>the ring or does something at Madison Square Garden and

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<v Speaker 2>we were like, no way, hey, what's up? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>So we start talking to him, and you know, I'm

421
00:20:44.279 --> 00:20:47.759
<v Speaker 2>somewhat paraphrasing because this story happened to me and probably

422
00:20:47.799 --> 00:20:50.839
<v Speaker 2>about eight other kids in the neighborhood, including the three

423
00:20:50.880 --> 00:20:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I spoke to in the last couple of days to

424
00:20:52.839 --> 00:20:58.279
<v Speaker 2>refresh everything. But this guy, Mel's a harmless looking black dude,

425
00:20:58.359 --> 00:21:01.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, nothing like looking. He was like, hey, guys,

426
00:21:01.880 --> 00:21:05.039
<v Speaker 2>who wants to who wants to drive my car? You

427
00:21:05.079 --> 00:21:08.480
<v Speaker 2>know what? And we were like, oh, okay, yeah, let's

428
00:21:08.559 --> 00:21:10.240
<v Speaker 2>let's do it. You know, we're at that age you're like,

429
00:21:10.240 --> 00:21:12.480
<v Speaker 2>come on, we'll go down there here, you know. And

430
00:21:12.559 --> 00:21:16.640
<v Speaker 2>nobody thought anything of it. And then the second time

431
00:21:16.720 --> 00:21:20.599
<v Speaker 2>we all did it, he said, whoever, whoever's doing the driver,

432
00:21:20.799 --> 00:21:22.960
<v Speaker 2>next time, you gotta let me put you in a

433
00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:28.039
<v Speaker 2>wrestling move with your foot. Oh no, right. It was like,

434
00:21:28.119 --> 00:21:30.599
<v Speaker 2>all right, well, still maybe not too strange, you know.

435
00:21:31.359 --> 00:21:35.359
<v Speaker 2>So my buddy gets in the front seat and he's

436
00:21:35.400 --> 00:21:37.319
<v Speaker 2>about to drive. He goes, all right, give me a foot.

437
00:21:37.359 --> 00:21:40.920
<v Speaker 2>So he gave him his right leg, and we're all noticing,

438
00:21:40.960 --> 00:21:43.160
<v Speaker 2>because we're all seeing what's going on. He puts it

439
00:21:43.200 --> 00:21:47.599
<v Speaker 2>between his grint. Oh, and he crosses his leg over

440
00:21:48.119 --> 00:21:51.039
<v Speaker 2>and you know, I don't know what's going on really really,

441
00:21:51.400 --> 00:21:54.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, but we know it's fucking completely strange, you know.

442
00:21:55.279 --> 00:21:57.640
<v Speaker 2>But all of us did it like we did it

443
00:21:57.680 --> 00:22:00.559
<v Speaker 2>all at least one time. Not that he had anything

444
00:22:00.720 --> 00:22:03.960
<v Speaker 2>too sexual. There was never anything like, you know, a

445
00:22:04.079 --> 00:22:06.880
<v Speaker 2>rape or anything. I know one of my other friends

446
00:22:06.880 --> 00:22:14.400
<v Speaker 2>definitely got touched on his private parts. But yeah, I mean,

447
00:22:14.839 --> 00:22:17.920
<v Speaker 2>the crazy thing about this guy is he wasn't really charismatic.

448
00:22:17.960 --> 00:22:20.119
<v Speaker 2>I think it was simply the fact that he was

449
00:22:20.160 --> 00:22:23.279
<v Speaker 2>able to bring us places. You know, So the one

450
00:22:23.359 --> 00:22:25.160
<v Speaker 2>day he comes and he's like, all right, who wants

451
00:22:25.200 --> 00:22:27.680
<v Speaker 2>to go to the garden And we're like, all right,

452
00:22:27.720 --> 00:22:30.799
<v Speaker 2>we'll go. And about five of us went, and we

453
00:22:30.920 --> 00:22:33.240
<v Speaker 2>got to go to the ring as it was getting

454
00:22:33.319 --> 00:22:38.039
<v Speaker 2>set up. And now we hear about the ring boys.

455
00:22:38.519 --> 00:22:43.279
<v Speaker 2>You know, it's insane, you know that a guy like

456
00:22:43.319 --> 00:22:46.559
<v Speaker 2>this was allowed either by fans because just like the

457
00:22:46.640 --> 00:22:50.519
<v Speaker 2>priests and just like teachers, and just like you always

458
00:22:50.680 --> 00:22:55.480
<v Speaker 2>know the guy who's the fuck up. Yep, this guy

459
00:22:55.559 --> 00:23:00.440
<v Speaker 2>mel wasn't hiding in plain sight. Somebody knew. Somebody who's

460
00:23:00.440 --> 00:23:04.440
<v Speaker 2>a father, somebody who's a wrestler, somebody's a man who's

461
00:23:04.480 --> 00:23:06.559
<v Speaker 2>a racist who says that how come this black dude

462
00:23:06.599 --> 00:23:09.359
<v Speaker 2>is with those kids all the time, Like somebody knew

463
00:23:09.480 --> 00:23:11.079
<v Speaker 2>something with these things. You know.

464
00:23:11.319 --> 00:23:14.599
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, well that's that's a lot. And I do

465
00:23:14.680 --> 00:23:17.160
<v Speaker 4>want to ask you back, running back when we talked

466
00:23:17.200 --> 00:23:19.519
<v Speaker 4>about that first offer of drive my car. So you

467
00:23:19.559 --> 00:23:21.279
<v Speaker 4>guys are like, how old at this point?

468
00:23:22.519 --> 00:23:25.119
<v Speaker 2>I think we're we're averaging twelve to thirteen, because that's

469
00:23:25.119 --> 00:23:28.480
<v Speaker 2>when we all started at the uh at this pizza place,

470
00:23:28.920 --> 00:23:31.799
<v Speaker 2>Sal's Pizzeria, a great place that's no longer there.

471
00:23:31.960 --> 00:23:34.680
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, I can see at that age definitely being

472
00:23:34.680 --> 00:23:37.480
<v Speaker 4>an intrigue by some adults write JP, let you try

473
00:23:37.519 --> 00:23:37.960
<v Speaker 4>their car.

474
00:23:38.240 --> 00:23:41.920
<v Speaker 5>I mean right, I mean that's yeah, some guys like

475
00:23:41.960 --> 00:23:43.519
<v Speaker 5>coming over and say, hey, can you drive my my

476
00:23:43.759 --> 00:23:46.759
<v Speaker 5>my vehicle? That's like at that age, I mean I

477
00:23:46.759 --> 00:23:49.039
<v Speaker 5>would probably I probably would have been I mean definitely

478
00:23:49.119 --> 00:23:51.880
<v Speaker 5>was a pussy when I was you know, that age.

479
00:23:51.880 --> 00:23:53.640
<v Speaker 5>I would have been horrified, probably ran the other direction

480
00:23:54.160 --> 00:23:58.359
<v Speaker 5>and and cried myself to sleep. But like that's that's

481
00:23:58.599 --> 00:24:03.519
<v Speaker 5>crazy to think that. I mean, I mean, I'm just

482
00:24:03.519 --> 00:24:08.240
<v Speaker 5>trying to fathom, like, what the idea did he know

483
00:24:08.319 --> 00:24:11.200
<v Speaker 5>that you were guys with that age. I mean, it's

484
00:24:11.240 --> 00:24:11.880
<v Speaker 5>that's kind of.

485
00:24:11.799 --> 00:24:17.559
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely absolutely this is this is a controlled thing that

486
00:24:17.640 --> 00:24:20.400
<v Speaker 2>he probably did in twelve cities. Like I didn't look

487
00:24:20.680 --> 00:24:23.119
<v Speaker 2>completely to see how many cities he was with them

488
00:24:23.119 --> 00:24:25.480
<v Speaker 2>if he was just the East coast with this wrestling thing.

489
00:24:25.559 --> 00:24:28.880
<v Speaker 2>But I can imagine he was so good at this

490
00:24:29.160 --> 00:24:32.359
<v Speaker 2>because it's so easy, you know, it really was, especially

491
00:24:32.400 --> 00:24:35.200
<v Speaker 2>like let's say, even city kids, it's not like we're done,

492
00:24:35.240 --> 00:24:37.519
<v Speaker 2>but maybe in a smaller town. Hey, guys, you want

493
00:24:37.519 --> 00:24:39.359
<v Speaker 2>to take a ride in my car? You know. And

494
00:24:39.400 --> 00:24:41.799
<v Speaker 2>by the way, the car was a like a like

495
00:24:41.839 --> 00:24:48.519
<v Speaker 2>a like a seventy nine Chevrolet, a station wagon, you know, wow.

496
00:24:48.880 --> 00:24:51.119
<v Speaker 2>And it was like three of us were in the back,

497
00:24:51.160 --> 00:24:53.359
<v Speaker 2>two of us were in the front, you know. Oh,

498
00:24:53.400 --> 00:24:54.960
<v Speaker 2>And that was the other kind of sort of weird thing.

499
00:24:55.000 --> 00:24:57.799
<v Speaker 2>So there would be somebody in the middle and then

500
00:24:57.920 --> 00:25:00.519
<v Speaker 2>him on the drive on the passenger side. So the

501
00:25:00.559 --> 00:25:03.079
<v Speaker 2>person who had to do the leg went over the

502
00:25:03.119 --> 00:25:06.559
<v Speaker 2>other because you short, I had to do it.

503
00:25:07.440 --> 00:25:08.559
<v Speaker 5>That's crazy, you know.

504
00:25:09.799 --> 00:25:12.160
<v Speaker 2>Now here's another quick story. So one of my friends

505
00:25:12.279 --> 00:25:15.119
<v Speaker 2>is doing it, it gets the leg move, bah blah

506
00:25:15.160 --> 00:25:17.480
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah. We're all talking about. He goes, that

507
00:25:17.680 --> 00:25:19.799
<v Speaker 2>was weird, man, I go, yeah, I know, right, I know,

508
00:25:20.559 --> 00:25:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I said it because I did it once, I said,

509
00:25:22.279 --> 00:25:25.119
<v Speaker 2>I think I felt as nuts Oh my god, Oh

510
00:25:25.880 --> 00:25:31.039
<v Speaker 2>my god. Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I should really

511
00:25:31.079 --> 00:25:32.759
<v Speaker 2>add to the story with this, so you know what

512
00:25:32.839 --> 00:25:35.279
<v Speaker 2>kind of abuse it was. It wasn't just grabbing my foot.

513
00:25:35.440 --> 00:25:37.319
<v Speaker 2>He took no, he didn't take off our socks, but

514
00:25:37.400 --> 00:25:39.839
<v Speaker 2>he took off our shoes to do the move.

515
00:25:40.440 --> 00:25:42.160
<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm ashamed to say I was going to

516
00:25:42.200 --> 00:25:44.160
<v Speaker 4>ask you for that detail because I'm trying to picture this.

517
00:25:44.559 --> 00:25:46.319
<v Speaker 4>So this is happening in the front seat of the car,

518
00:25:46.480 --> 00:25:47.240
<v Speaker 4>You're saying.

519
00:25:48.079 --> 00:25:50.799
<v Speaker 2>While everybody's there, And it's not even like all right, guys,

520
00:25:50.880 --> 00:25:52.680
<v Speaker 2>you go over there and I'm gonna grab this guy's

521
00:25:52.680 --> 00:25:56.559
<v Speaker 2>fast in full yep, in full plain view of everybody,

522
00:25:56.640 --> 00:25:58.079
<v Speaker 2>like there's nothing wrong with it.

523
00:25:58.240 --> 00:26:03.200
<v Speaker 4>So the car, the cars parked somewhere, and yeah, yeah, sometimes.

524
00:26:02.759 --> 00:26:04.759
<v Speaker 2>It was literally like parked in front of the pizza place.

525
00:26:04.839 --> 00:26:07.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, who's first? You know? Sometimes he goes, all right,

526
00:26:07.160 --> 00:26:10.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do you. You know, I'm gonna do JP

527
00:26:10.440 --> 00:26:12.559
<v Speaker 2>and PJ, you two are first, and then the rest

528
00:26:12.559 --> 00:26:14.279
<v Speaker 2>of you go later. And then we were get in

529
00:26:14.319 --> 00:26:16.839
<v Speaker 2>the car. So so that happened. And then one day

530
00:26:17.079 --> 00:26:19.359
<v Speaker 2>my friend he gets the he gets the move on

531
00:26:19.400 --> 00:26:21.720
<v Speaker 2>the leg and he and and he's putting a shoe

532
00:26:21.759 --> 00:26:24.160
<v Speaker 2>back on. He goes like, my ankle, heart's really bad. Like,

533
00:26:24.279 --> 00:26:26.480
<v Speaker 2>oh man, all right, because you want I said, you

534
00:26:26.519 --> 00:26:28.000
<v Speaker 2>want to be driving, because now I'll drive, I'll be

535
00:26:28.039 --> 00:26:30.519
<v Speaker 2>all right. So he saw him pulling out and mel says,

536
00:26:30.519 --> 00:26:34.440
<v Speaker 2>go ahead, go fast, no faster. So he goes faster

537
00:26:35.079 --> 00:26:37.759
<v Speaker 2>and he tries to make a left hand turn and

538
00:26:37.799 --> 00:26:43.160
<v Speaker 2>we lose control. Why we go crashing into a warehouse wall.

539
00:26:44.839 --> 00:26:45.680
<v Speaker 4>Did the cops come?

540
00:26:46.960 --> 00:26:49.720
<v Speaker 2>No? We all go flying. The front of the car

541
00:26:49.880 --> 00:26:52.640
<v Speaker 2>was like it was one of those old you know tanks,

542
00:26:53.240 --> 00:26:56.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, and uh no, the cops didn't come. But

543
00:26:57.519 --> 00:26:59.799
<v Speaker 2>that was kind of like weird because he's like, man,

544
00:26:59.839 --> 00:27:01.720
<v Speaker 2>my ankle really hurt. I think he was doing something

545
00:27:01.759 --> 00:27:04.440
<v Speaker 2>weird to me. And we talked about it more at

546
00:27:04.440 --> 00:27:07.519
<v Speaker 2>that point, and then about maybe about a couple of

547
00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:10.359
<v Speaker 2>months later, we didn't see him at all ever again

548
00:27:10.920 --> 00:27:13.000
<v Speaker 2>ever again. And let me say this, the other thing

549
00:27:13.079 --> 00:27:14.599
<v Speaker 2>that I was telling you about going to the garden,

550
00:27:14.839 --> 00:27:17.000
<v Speaker 2>that was amazing because we actually as soon as the

551
00:27:17.079 --> 00:27:19.559
<v Speaker 2>ring guys finished it, we were allowed to go there.

552
00:27:19.640 --> 00:27:21.839
<v Speaker 2>Maybe it was a half hour, maybe it was ten minutes.

553
00:27:22.119 --> 00:27:24.680
<v Speaker 2>We got to bang off the thing. I got to

554
00:27:24.720 --> 00:27:27.640
<v Speaker 2>go to the top of the ring and jump off. Really,

555
00:27:27.720 --> 00:27:30.799
<v Speaker 2>you know, Oh, it was amazing. It was the whole

556
00:27:30.839 --> 00:27:33.480
<v Speaker 2>experience was amazing. It was a shame that that's something.

557
00:27:33.759 --> 00:27:37.440
<v Speaker 2>And now I'm reading these stories and and anybody who's

558
00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:40.920
<v Speaker 2>out there that that's possibly being triggered by this, I

559
00:27:41.000 --> 00:27:42.920
<v Speaker 2>just wanted you to understand my laughter about it is

560
00:27:42.920 --> 00:27:46.799
<v Speaker 2>probably a self mechanism that I've had my whole existence.

561
00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:49.880
<v Speaker 2>So if you're out there listening to, like somebody who

562
00:27:50.319 --> 00:27:53.599
<v Speaker 2>who really got abused, you know it's I got you know,

563
00:27:53.920 --> 00:27:57.599
<v Speaker 2>listen in my erat my penis got touched a couple

564
00:27:57.640 --> 00:27:59.799
<v Speaker 2>of times. The guy tried to put his penis in

565
00:27:59.799 --> 00:28:01.799
<v Speaker 2>my mind mouth one time when I was younger. But

566
00:28:02.279 --> 00:28:04.599
<v Speaker 2>people who really got abuse, who are listening today, I

567
00:28:04.599 --> 00:28:07.160
<v Speaker 2>want you to know, like it's not a funny matter,

568
00:28:07.279 --> 00:28:09.640
<v Speaker 2>and we're there for you, you know, the show here,

569
00:28:09.720 --> 00:28:12.519
<v Speaker 2>these guys, they're bringing this up for a reason. They

570
00:28:12.559 --> 00:28:15.480
<v Speaker 2>want you to feel comfortable talking about it to somebody,

571
00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:18.640
<v Speaker 2>because it is painful. And I'm in my fifties and

572
00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:21.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm still talking about it thirty forty years later. Yeah,

573
00:28:21.519 --> 00:28:23.480
<v Speaker 2>and maybe it just happened to you. Maybe there's a

574
00:28:23.599 --> 00:28:25.720
<v Speaker 2>fifteen year old that's been listening to this show for

575
00:28:25.759 --> 00:28:27.839
<v Speaker 2>a little bit and he's out there. He doesn't know

576
00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:31.119
<v Speaker 2>what to do, but you know, call the show, contact us,

577
00:28:31.200 --> 00:28:35.799
<v Speaker 2>there's some help for you. He's a lapsed fan wrestling

578
00:28:35.839 --> 00:28:39.519
<v Speaker 2>podcast with Jack and Corn, SEO and JPISO.

579
00:28:47.519 --> 00:28:51.400
<v Speaker 4>He's a lapsed fan wrestling podcast. PJ tell us you

580
00:28:51.440 --> 00:28:55.680
<v Speaker 4>were how you were thinking what seventy late seventies on

581
00:28:55.720 --> 00:28:57.079
<v Speaker 4>this when this was happening.

582
00:28:57.839 --> 00:29:02.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, seventies, early early eighties, seventeen. I'm thinking like seventy

583
00:29:02.119 --> 00:29:05.359
<v Speaker 2>nine to eighty two, like around there those times.

584
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:07.759
<v Speaker 4>You know, So listeners should know that as we you know,

585
00:29:07.839 --> 00:29:09.920
<v Speaker 4>as you looked into it, because you had mentioned because

586
00:29:09.920 --> 00:29:11.559
<v Speaker 4>you were talking to Ray knowing that we were coming

587
00:29:11.720 --> 00:29:14.799
<v Speaker 4>about your wrestling memories and you bring up this this

588
00:29:14.799 --> 00:29:17.359
<v Speaker 4>this guy in this part of the story that you remember.

589
00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:20.480
<v Speaker 4>But you had no idea, right that this was such

590
00:29:20.839 --> 00:29:21.920
<v Speaker 4>a big wrestling scandal.

591
00:29:21.960 --> 00:29:27.559
<v Speaker 2>You had no idea, right, So you know right now,

592
00:29:27.599 --> 00:29:30.680
<v Speaker 2>in my life, you know, wrestling is not as as

593
00:29:31.079 --> 00:29:33.839
<v Speaker 2>a major part as my friend Ray Goots. Ray has

594
00:29:34.319 --> 00:29:37.279
<v Speaker 2>a little podcast that he does. He's friends with you guys.

595
00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:41.640
<v Speaker 2>He goes to these Wrestling Masters matches, he buys the paraphernalia.

596
00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:45.160
<v Speaker 2>He loves this, right, So I told him, Hey, we're

597
00:29:45.160 --> 00:29:47.599
<v Speaker 2>doing this wrestling show and they said, hey, blah blah blah.

598
00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:49.400
<v Speaker 2>And I told him a story. I said, hey, right,

599
00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:53.039
<v Speaker 2>you know, we used to be in wrestling, into this

600
00:29:53.119 --> 00:29:55.960
<v Speaker 2>and that, and there was this guy Mel who used

601
00:29:55.960 --> 00:29:58.799
<v Speaker 2>to give us weird massages. And Ray goes, what Mel?

602
00:30:00.079 --> 00:30:03.279
<v Speaker 2>I go, yeah, I go why, He goes, Oh, man,

603
00:30:03.599 --> 00:30:06.640
<v Speaker 2>you don't know what's going on. And I did the

604
00:30:06.720 --> 00:30:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Google search, and you know, I know he's gone since

605
00:30:09.759 --> 00:30:14.480
<v Speaker 2>twenty twelve or whatever. But it's a horrible story that

606
00:30:14.640 --> 00:30:17.799
<v Speaker 2>this has happened to a bunch of community. I mean,

607
00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:22.359
<v Speaker 2>Maryland is where where the lawsuit is, but I'm assuming

608
00:30:22.400 --> 00:30:24.160
<v Speaker 2>it should be in every city up and down the

609
00:30:24.200 --> 00:30:24.799
<v Speaker 2>East coast.

610
00:30:24.920 --> 00:30:25.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

611
00:30:25.160 --> 00:30:28.839
<v Speaker 4>The read there is that Maryland has a looser statute

612
00:30:28.880 --> 00:30:30.920
<v Speaker 4>of limitations on this kind of stuff. So that's like

613
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:33.240
<v Speaker 4>one of the jurisdictions where you still have a chance

614
00:30:33.319 --> 00:30:35.839
<v Speaker 4>as too much time hasn't passed by the state law.

615
00:30:35.960 --> 00:30:38.240
<v Speaker 4>But I think you're exactly right. Yeah, there was you know,

616
00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:40.640
<v Speaker 4>there were claims against him in the early nineties. There

617
00:30:40.680 --> 00:30:42.200
<v Speaker 4>was a you know, they would call him ring boys,

618
00:30:42.519 --> 00:30:45.000
<v Speaker 4>These kids. They wouldn't just be picked up and brought

619
00:30:45.000 --> 00:30:47.039
<v Speaker 4>to the show, but they would actually get sort of

620
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.440
<v Speaker 4>part time jobs with the WWF. They would help set

621
00:30:49.480 --> 00:30:50.920
<v Speaker 4>up rings and things like that. There was a kid

622
00:30:51.000 --> 00:30:54.680
<v Speaker 4>named Tom Cole who was who went public with a

623
00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:57.119
<v Speaker 4>series of allegations and I believe nineteen ninety one the

624
00:30:57.119 --> 00:31:00.759
<v Speaker 4>early nineties that WWF had had to battle, you know,

625
00:31:00.880 --> 00:31:03.160
<v Speaker 4>Vince getting asked about it on Larry King Live and

626
00:31:03.200 --> 00:31:05.119
<v Speaker 4>all this stuff, and you know, they were trying to

627
00:31:05.119 --> 00:31:07.920
<v Speaker 4>create some distance from Meil Phillips and trying to you know,

628
00:31:08.000 --> 00:31:10.119
<v Speaker 4>put him in a different category than somebody that they

629
00:31:10.359 --> 00:31:14.160
<v Speaker 4>had as an employee. But yeah, your story echoes across

630
00:31:14.160 --> 00:31:16.319
<v Speaker 4>any wrestling fan who's heard of this thing big time.

631
00:31:16.839 --> 00:31:19.039
<v Speaker 4>And and so yeah, you're reading this, and what are

632
00:31:19.079 --> 00:31:25.279
<v Speaker 4>you thinking as you're seeing this this fact pattern emerge.

633
00:31:25.559 --> 00:31:29.640
<v Speaker 2>I called up a couple of friends to make sure

634
00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:33.640
<v Speaker 2>everybody was kind of horderbakay, right, because it's the shock first, sure,

635
00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:36.359
<v Speaker 2>and then you think, okay, let me ask the three

636
00:31:36.359 --> 00:31:39.039
<v Speaker 2>friends or four friends that are still around me make

637
00:31:39.079 --> 00:31:45.240
<v Speaker 2>sure that they weren't attacks. And you know, nobody was,

638
00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:47.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, because we're close enough and in our fifties,

639
00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:49.279
<v Speaker 2>now that we would have said, yeah, you know what

640
00:31:49.480 --> 00:31:52.039
<v Speaker 2>the guy, like I said, the one guy, you know,

641
00:31:52.279 --> 00:31:55.359
<v Speaker 2>I felt Mel's ball. Well that's as far as I went.

642
00:31:55.359 --> 00:31:57.920
<v Speaker 4>Right, you know, but you weren't sure about all your friends.

643
00:31:57.720 --> 00:32:00.640
<v Speaker 2>Right, right, So before I wanted, you know, I took

644
00:32:00.680 --> 00:32:02.440
<v Speaker 2>it really easy. I like, look, I'm gonna be on

645
00:32:02.440 --> 00:32:04.599
<v Speaker 2>this show. I gotta ask you a few questions. You know,

646
00:32:04.720 --> 00:32:08.319
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be okay with this, you know, and and

647
00:32:08.640 --> 00:32:12.160
<v Speaker 2>even like we said, with what we should say about

648
00:32:12.200 --> 00:32:14.319
<v Speaker 2>this show, like some of the things that we're saying.

649
00:32:14.920 --> 00:32:17.720
<v Speaker 2>You know, here's the thing about when women get abused,

650
00:32:17.799 --> 00:32:19.839
<v Speaker 2>right when when women get abused, they hold it in

651
00:32:20.440 --> 00:32:23.319
<v Speaker 2>and it affects them. But when a man gets abused,

652
00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:27.839
<v Speaker 2>especially by another man, it's it's much deeper. Yeah, the

653
00:32:27.880 --> 00:32:32.680
<v Speaker 2>scars in us can can take us and ruin relationships

654
00:32:32.720 --> 00:32:37.640
<v Speaker 2>for tens and twenties, thirty years. So you know, this

655
00:32:37.839 --> 00:32:42.039
<v Speaker 2>kind of control, I it pisces me off, right because again,

656
00:32:42.200 --> 00:32:45.359
<v Speaker 2>people know that there was a problem. Yes, so I

657
00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:49.640
<v Speaker 2>know we're talking about thirty years ago, but you know, look,

658
00:32:50.599 --> 00:32:53.279
<v Speaker 2>it's it's horrible what happened to the uh to the

659
00:32:53.359 --> 00:32:58.440
<v Speaker 2>what we'll call it the you know, like the the people,

660
00:32:58.480 --> 00:33:01.680
<v Speaker 2>the girls who the gymnastics.

661
00:33:01.480 --> 00:33:03.480
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah yeah, the doctor.

662
00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:06.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, Like you think about these things. You know,

663
00:33:06.720 --> 00:33:09.200
<v Speaker 2>there's there's a guy. Oh my god, here I go

664
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:11.799
<v Speaker 2>with the leffing. There's guys. There's a guy in New

665
00:33:11.880 --> 00:33:16.759
<v Speaker 2>York City and proctologists that was like doing stuff the

666
00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:19.839
<v Speaker 2>guys with their fingers. And now there's a huge lawsuit

667
00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:22.960
<v Speaker 2>on the radio everything did you have you been ever

668
00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:25.000
<v Speaker 2>treated by doctor dubblebo? Right?

669
00:33:27.119 --> 00:33:31.599
<v Speaker 4>The post headline rights itself to begin with, it's true.

670
00:33:31.599 --> 00:33:35.599
<v Speaker 2>I mean you have to post. You're a post up

671
00:33:35.599 --> 00:33:38.920
<v Speaker 2>there or mine here, and they're both the sh So

672
00:33:39.960 --> 00:33:42.119
<v Speaker 2>when this guy, now, you know, I would have loved

673
00:33:42.119 --> 00:33:46.200
<v Speaker 2>to be able to confront him in a way. And

674
00:33:46.640 --> 00:33:49.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, because it's you know, I don't feel weird

675
00:33:49.799 --> 00:33:52.519
<v Speaker 2>about it, like I'm saying it to you somewhat. But again,

676
00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:57.640
<v Speaker 2>my abuse is whatever is in my head. It wasn't

677
00:33:57.720 --> 00:34:00.119
<v Speaker 2>bad enough for me to continually think about it. It's

678
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:04.599
<v Speaker 2>almost like understood a story of like, oh remember when

679
00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:10.039
<v Speaker 2>we got you know, finger, you know, foot held by

680
00:34:10.079 --> 00:34:10.480
<v Speaker 2>that guy.

681
00:34:10.679 --> 00:34:13.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was just it was just outside of and

682
00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:16.679
<v Speaker 4>and from what I understand, you know, it in some cases,

683
00:34:16.719 --> 00:34:22.280
<v Speaker 4>it did get more graduated than that with some With

684
00:34:22.320 --> 00:34:24.000
<v Speaker 4>some kids, I think that, you know, you can find

685
00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:28.559
<v Speaker 4>allegations like that, But but in terms of that, I

686
00:34:28.559 --> 00:34:30.719
<v Speaker 4>can understand what you mean because it's like, at that

687
00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:34.440
<v Speaker 4>age it doesn't even really seem necessarily sexual. And I

688
00:34:34.440 --> 00:34:37.400
<v Speaker 4>think that's kind of if I'm reading all the things

689
00:34:37.440 --> 00:34:39.639
<v Speaker 4>that people are saying about what happened correctly or people

690
00:34:39.639 --> 00:34:41.880
<v Speaker 4>are alledging happen, that's kind of like how he started.

691
00:34:42.079 --> 00:34:44.159
<v Speaker 4>You know, these things that you hear the same thing

692
00:34:44.199 --> 00:34:46.559
<v Speaker 4>about a lot of celebrities that get involved with allegations

693
00:34:46.599 --> 00:34:48.880
<v Speaker 4>like this. You know, it doesn't necessarily start as overly sexual.

694
00:34:49.079 --> 00:34:52.480
<v Speaker 4>So when this is you know, when this is happening

695
00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:55.840
<v Speaker 4>in the car and things like that, is he part

696
00:34:55.880 --> 00:34:57.679
<v Speaker 4>Pardon me for asking this, but I'm trying to figure

697
00:34:57.719 --> 00:34:59.559
<v Speaker 4>out like how it hits you guys in terms of

698
00:34:59.599 --> 00:35:02.480
<v Speaker 4>how he's acting. Is he like playing it like straight,

699
00:35:02.599 --> 00:35:04.480
<v Speaker 4>like you look at his face and you don't you

700
00:35:04.519 --> 00:35:07.119
<v Speaker 4>can't tell he's getting any gratification out of this, or

701
00:35:07.199 --> 00:35:10.400
<v Speaker 4>is it like he is sort of signaling to you

702
00:35:10.480 --> 00:35:12.000
<v Speaker 4>that this this is why he's doing this.

703
00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:15.199
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess my first thing is when I

704
00:35:15.199 --> 00:35:17.039
<v Speaker 2>got in the car one day he was totally naked.

705
00:35:17.079 --> 00:35:18.800
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, that's that's a.

706
00:35:19.119 --> 00:35:23.320
<v Speaker 4>Oh hey man, I don't know. I don't know how

707
00:35:23.400 --> 00:35:25.760
<v Speaker 4>much we're gonna unearthlier in this conversation. So maybe I

708
00:35:25.880 --> 00:35:27.920
<v Speaker 4>was sorry, you're buried the lead there. If that was

709
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:29.599
<v Speaker 4>the case, Oh my god, that was wow.

710
00:35:31.199 --> 00:35:35.960
<v Speaker 2>He was in a red flamingos suit and hard audiena

711
00:35:37.400 --> 00:35:42.440
<v Speaker 2>you know what, man, Like I think one of my buddies,

712
00:35:42.519 --> 00:35:44.199
<v Speaker 2>like he was a little bigger than us and he

713
00:35:44.280 --> 00:35:46.760
<v Speaker 2>was like fifteen. He's like, I'm gonna kick his ass. Man,

714
00:35:47.039 --> 00:35:48.519
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, go for what what did he you know?

715
00:35:48.559 --> 00:35:50.039
<v Speaker 2>What did he do? And it's like, I don't know,

716
00:35:50.079 --> 00:35:52.079
<v Speaker 2>this is like who this is weird. I'm not going

717
00:35:52.119 --> 00:35:54.159
<v Speaker 2>back into the car anymore. You know.

718
00:35:54.320 --> 00:35:57.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah he could tell, but yeah he could tell.

719
00:35:57.360 --> 00:35:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Like they look, I don't even know if I can

720
00:36:00.039 --> 00:36:03.960
<v Speaker 2>hear something about it, Like was it sexual for him? Yes, immediately,

721
00:36:04.000 --> 00:36:07.719
<v Speaker 2>But again, sexual and dominance and all of that to

722
00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:11.480
<v Speaker 2>people like that is what they get off on. Was

723
00:36:11.519 --> 00:36:13.639
<v Speaker 2>it getting off on a thirteen year old kid because

724
00:36:13.639 --> 00:36:16.239
<v Speaker 2>he grabbed his foot? Was it the pain that he

725
00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:21.800
<v Speaker 2>gave us? Was it the control of the pain squeezing

726
00:36:21.800 --> 00:36:23.920
<v Speaker 2>the foot, letting it go, squeezing the foot? Was it

727
00:36:23.960 --> 00:36:26.960
<v Speaker 2>because it was between his cock and he was getting excited? Right?

728
00:36:27.440 --> 00:36:30.320
<v Speaker 2>You know I didn't look enough into him even for

729
00:36:30.400 --> 00:36:32.440
<v Speaker 2>this story. I apologize. I really should have to see

730
00:36:33.199 --> 00:36:35.719
<v Speaker 2>a family. Was he was he a father? Was he

731
00:36:35.760 --> 00:36:38.679
<v Speaker 2>an uncle? Was he a you know, let's find out

732
00:36:38.719 --> 00:36:42.840
<v Speaker 2>about this guy, you know, because listen, you know, let

733
00:36:42.840 --> 00:36:46.360
<v Speaker 2>me just say this. There's probably let's say, not in

734
00:36:46.400 --> 00:36:48.639
<v Speaker 2>my group, but if he did this, let's ass whom

735
00:36:48.639 --> 00:36:50.639
<v Speaker 2>he did this every city up and down, wherever they

736
00:36:50.679 --> 00:36:56.639
<v Speaker 2>went to, what worked? This was the www WW. So

737
00:36:56.880 --> 00:37:00.400
<v Speaker 2>let's say wherever they go, there's some town that there

738
00:37:00.440 --> 00:37:02.480
<v Speaker 2>was one or two guys that were like, Yeah, I'm

739
00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:04.719
<v Speaker 2>gonna go beat I'm gonna go meet mel Oh, yeah,

740
00:37:04.719 --> 00:37:06.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna let him up, I'm gonna let him rub

741
00:37:06.599 --> 00:37:08.159
<v Speaker 2>my foot, and I'm gonna go sit in the front

742
00:37:08.239 --> 00:37:10.960
<v Speaker 2>row and watch a championship wrestling.

743
00:37:10.559 --> 00:37:12.079
<v Speaker 4>Match, right, you know, right right?

744
00:37:12.800 --> 00:37:17.360
<v Speaker 2>So you know, he's definitely somebody. These other people who

745
00:37:17.400 --> 00:37:20.400
<v Speaker 2>have been abused, you know, hopefully they can get over it,

746
00:37:20.440 --> 00:37:24.880
<v Speaker 2>but it's it's definitely in this society. People don't look

747
00:37:24.880 --> 00:37:28.159
<v Speaker 2>at it now, like the way you know, they're more important.

748
00:37:28.199 --> 00:37:30.400
<v Speaker 2>It's more important now than it was twenty five thirty

749
00:37:30.440 --> 00:37:30.800
<v Speaker 2>years ago.

750
00:37:30.960 --> 00:37:33.239
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, that's kind of what the environment that

751
00:37:33.280 --> 00:37:35.320
<v Speaker 4>allowed him to keep doing it over and over again.

752
00:37:35.400 --> 00:37:37.480
<v Speaker 4>I mean, we'd like to think that if someone tried

753
00:37:37.480 --> 00:37:39.239
<v Speaker 4>to do something like this today, they'd be found out

754
00:37:39.320 --> 00:37:42.440
<v Speaker 4>so quickly as opposed to having the environment where they

755
00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:46.039
<v Speaker 4>could keep doing it. Did you have the impression, PJ,

756
00:37:46.239 --> 00:37:49.840
<v Speaker 4>that he that he picked the pizza parlor for any

757
00:37:49.840 --> 00:37:51.639
<v Speaker 4>particular reason that you guys hung out at. You think

758
00:37:51.679 --> 00:37:53.679
<v Speaker 4>like he lived around there. I'm not even sure like

759
00:37:53.719 --> 00:37:56.039
<v Speaker 4>where he lived, And it sounds to me when you

760
00:37:56.039 --> 00:37:57.559
<v Speaker 4>told the story like he was sort of like just

761
00:37:57.599 --> 00:37:59.840
<v Speaker 4>coming to the pizza shop anyway, as opposed to being

762
00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:01.280
<v Speaker 4>on the prow. Well, I don't know how to think

763
00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:01.679
<v Speaker 4>about that.

764
00:38:03.000 --> 00:38:05.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, here's the thing, right the way you said that,

765
00:38:06.119 --> 00:38:08.239
<v Speaker 2>and again I kind of know what I'm talking about,

766
00:38:08.280 --> 00:38:09.920
<v Speaker 2>but don't. But even the way you just said that,

767
00:38:10.320 --> 00:38:13.440
<v Speaker 2>I feel a guy like the him always on the

768
00:38:13.440 --> 00:38:17.079
<v Speaker 2>prow got it right, because that's the type of that person.

769
00:38:17.239 --> 00:38:20.079
<v Speaker 2>Is he went to get a piece of pizza. Maybe

770
00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:21.800
<v Speaker 2>he was a Jehovah witness. There used to be a

771
00:38:21.960 --> 00:38:24.800
<v Speaker 2>huge Jehovah witness place that's still there on my block

772
00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:28.679
<v Speaker 2>in Sunnyside took over a huge movie theater that was

773
00:38:28.679 --> 00:38:31.400
<v Speaker 2>there since the twenties called the Bliss Theater. So maybe

774
00:38:31.440 --> 00:38:35.159
<v Speaker 2>he was a Jehovah witness. Maybe he came driving from LaGuardia.

775
00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:38.159
<v Speaker 2>You know, maybe he used to go to Sunnyside Gardens

776
00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:41.360
<v Speaker 2>and was and knows the pizza place, you know, because

777
00:38:41.400 --> 00:38:43.599
<v Speaker 2>the Sunnyside Gardens didn't get out of there untill the eighties,

778
00:38:43.599 --> 00:38:46.760
<v Speaker 2>the building itself. So maybe it's all of that. And

779
00:38:46.760 --> 00:38:49.199
<v Speaker 2>and when when when you think about that, where do

780
00:38:49.320 --> 00:38:51.559
<v Speaker 2>where do where do you? Where do you see people?

781
00:38:51.920 --> 00:38:53.519
<v Speaker 2>You know, you'll see them at a pizza place? And

782
00:38:53.559 --> 00:38:55.079
<v Speaker 2>if you see a whole bunch of kids, maybe he

783
00:38:55.159 --> 00:38:57.719
<v Speaker 2>just goes in there and starts talking to the owner. Hey,

784
00:38:57.719 --> 00:38:59.840
<v Speaker 2>how you doing. Oh my name is mel I do

785
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:03.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, the kids love wrestling. Hey, PJ. Come on, yeah,

786
00:39:03.519 --> 00:39:06.599
<v Speaker 2>got it? Go go go say helo to this guy. Right,

787
00:39:06.639 --> 00:39:08.639
<v Speaker 2>it's it's not like, oh what, it's like, oh what

788
00:39:08.639 --> 00:39:10.079
<v Speaker 2>do you do? All right? Oh? You like you guys

789
00:39:10.119 --> 00:39:12.360
<v Speaker 2>like wrestling? Yeah, oh you should come to the You

790
00:39:12.400 --> 00:39:15.199
<v Speaker 2>should come to the garden one time and see Bob

791
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:18.280
<v Speaker 2>Backlan and this one or that one. Wouldn't that be great?

792
00:39:18.920 --> 00:39:21.159
<v Speaker 2>You know? And again I'm not saying it like I'm

793
00:39:21.239 --> 00:39:23.880
<v Speaker 2>some naive kids. So you know, I had no no

794
00:39:24.039 --> 00:39:26.480
<v Speaker 2>father growing up, no brothers and sisters. I had a mother,

795
00:39:26.639 --> 00:39:29.920
<v Speaker 2>was five ten, one hundred and sixty pounds, solid, big

796
00:39:29.960 --> 00:39:33.639
<v Speaker 2>Irish woman, didn't take shift from nobody like. That was

797
00:39:33.679 --> 00:39:36.480
<v Speaker 2>the other thing. I was protected because I think even

798
00:39:36.559 --> 00:39:40.599
<v Speaker 2>guys who probably wanted to try to rape me were like, oh,

799
00:39:40.719 --> 00:39:42.480
<v Speaker 2>if I do, I'm gonna have to deal with his mother.

800
00:39:42.639 --> 00:39:44.119
<v Speaker 2>So no, I'd rather not.

801
00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:47.840
<v Speaker 4>Wow. Did you talk to her about it ever? Your mom?

802
00:39:49.320 --> 00:39:53.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yes, after we kind of I was like because

803
00:39:53.800 --> 00:39:56.119
<v Speaker 2>she was like, oh, I was that wrestling thing, you know,

804
00:39:56.159 --> 00:39:57.880
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, well, this is kind of this

805
00:39:58.079 --> 00:40:00.559
<v Speaker 2>kind of strange he goes and she's like, oh, that

806
00:40:00.679 --> 00:40:03.079
<v Speaker 2>is kind of strange. Maybe you shouldn't do that, you know,

807
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:05.559
<v Speaker 2>does it hurt your foot? And I was like yeah,

808
00:40:05.679 --> 00:40:09.480
<v Speaker 2>she goes, yeah, maybe that's not a good idea. And

809
00:40:09.519 --> 00:40:12.320
<v Speaker 2>then I was like, wait, is it like you don't

810
00:40:12.360 --> 00:40:14.239
<v Speaker 2>say the way she just said it just because it

811
00:40:14.360 --> 00:40:17.280
<v Speaker 2>hurt my foot. Jeves must have been reading into every

812
00:40:17.320 --> 00:40:20.559
<v Speaker 2>line that I'm saying going instead of going what she

813
00:40:20.679 --> 00:40:23.880
<v Speaker 2>usually would do. She might even say, hey, hey, dummy,

814
00:40:24.639 --> 00:40:28.239
<v Speaker 2>get your foot out of the black dudes crash and

815
00:40:29.119 --> 00:40:32.639
<v Speaker 2>don't go in the car anymore, you know, But she

816
00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:34.440
<v Speaker 2>kind of said it like in such a way that

817
00:40:34.519 --> 00:40:37.920
<v Speaker 2>it was like, hey, man, get out of that car.

818
00:40:38.000 --> 00:40:39.199
<v Speaker 2>Don't go back to this idiot.

819
00:40:39.760 --> 00:40:43.079
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, sort of like a suggestion that wouldn't set

820
00:40:43.119 --> 00:40:45.559
<v Speaker 4>off too many alarms. But like you said, you realized

821
00:40:45.559 --> 00:40:48.039
<v Speaker 4>there was more to it than just you know, that

822
00:40:48.079 --> 00:40:48.760
<v Speaker 4>could be trouble.

823
00:40:48.840 --> 00:40:48.960
<v Speaker 2>You know.

824
00:40:49.000 --> 00:40:51.519
<v Speaker 4>It's like she was kind of reading the situation because

825
00:40:51.599 --> 00:40:53.400
<v Speaker 4>so this only he only got you in once or

826
00:40:53.400 --> 00:40:55.199
<v Speaker 4>did it happen multiple times? As far as going to

827
00:40:55.239 --> 00:40:57.800
<v Speaker 4>the matches with him?

828
00:40:57.840 --> 00:41:01.519
<v Speaker 2>Going to the matches? We went? If I went three times?

829
00:41:01.559 --> 00:41:02.400
<v Speaker 2>If I can remember?

830
00:41:02.480 --> 00:41:04.679
<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, so and you're saying three times you

831
00:41:04.719 --> 00:41:06.840
<v Speaker 4>went with him or a.

832
00:41:06.800 --> 00:41:09.039
<v Speaker 2>Bunch of people like like he would he would sometimes

833
00:41:09.079 --> 00:41:11.760
<v Speaker 2>come by the the pizza place at like five o'clock

834
00:41:11.800 --> 00:41:13.559
<v Speaker 2>and whoever was there. It's like, who wants to take

835
00:41:13.599 --> 00:41:16.199
<v Speaker 2>a ride to the city, Yes, yes, and go check

836
00:41:16.239 --> 00:41:19.000
<v Speaker 2>this out. It's like, oh, I'll go, I'm here, got it, Hey,

837
00:41:18.960 --> 00:41:20.320
<v Speaker 2>I use it? Can I use the phone. I got

838
00:41:20.320 --> 00:41:22.719
<v Speaker 2>to call my mom. Hey, I'm going I'm going to

839
00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:24.960
<v Speaker 2>the city. Okay, when do you be back? What time

840
00:41:24.960 --> 00:41:27.400
<v Speaker 2>we'll be back? Probably eleven o'clock, you know.

841
00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:30.159
<v Speaker 5>And that was the time you said three times you

842
00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:30.960
<v Speaker 5>went in with him.

843
00:41:32.360 --> 00:41:34.679
<v Speaker 2>Three times? I think, yeah, I'm trying to really like

844
00:41:35.480 --> 00:41:36.880
<v Speaker 2>it's a kind of thing because I've been to the

845
00:41:37.079 --> 00:41:41.239
<v Speaker 2>wrestling so many times, but specifically I think three times.

846
00:41:41.280 --> 00:41:44.119
<v Speaker 2>Two times we really did like jumped on the on

847
00:41:44.199 --> 00:41:45.960
<v Speaker 2>the we got to jump on the ring and the

848
00:41:46.039 --> 00:41:47.840
<v Speaker 2>ring and everything. And then the third time we just

849
00:41:47.880 --> 00:41:48.400
<v Speaker 2>got to go.

850
00:41:49.000 --> 00:41:53.199
<v Speaker 4>Right, does he have like an entrance to the building,

851
00:41:53.320 --> 00:41:56.079
<v Speaker 4>Like how do you make the approach? Like he doesn't

852
00:41:56.079 --> 00:41:57.960
<v Speaker 4>just walk in the front door? Like what's that like?

853
00:41:57.960 --> 00:42:00.400
<v Speaker 4>Like arriving with somebody that's kind of giving you that

854
00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:01.400
<v Speaker 4>that VIP treatment.

855
00:42:02.760 --> 00:42:04.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, we all had to wear like these little white

856
00:42:04.960 --> 00:42:07.960
<v Speaker 2>hats and suck on lollipops before we were in.

857
00:42:08.920 --> 00:42:11.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that that should have set off some alarms. But okay, yeah,

858
00:42:11.880 --> 00:42:12.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm starting to say.

859
00:42:12.880 --> 00:42:16.280
<v Speaker 2>To Yeah, you're right. I was said to myself, Damn,

860
00:42:16.320 --> 00:42:21.079
<v Speaker 2>that was my first thing. There was a garage. Actually,

861
00:42:21.119 --> 00:42:24.360
<v Speaker 2>if you if you know the garden, there's it's it's

862
00:42:24.400 --> 00:42:27.880
<v Speaker 2>the same setup, like it's closed off. Now they've made

863
00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:31.400
<v Speaker 2>a like a no pedestrian pathway. But on thirty third

864
00:42:31.440 --> 00:42:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Street you used to be able to like drive right

865
00:42:33.360 --> 00:42:38.480
<v Speaker 2>down below the thing. So I'm remembering that. And then

866
00:42:38.599 --> 00:42:41.840
<v Speaker 2>like two of the other times we actually like like, oh,

867
00:42:41.960 --> 00:42:43.800
<v Speaker 2>meet us over there, and we would meet him like

868
00:42:44.159 --> 00:42:46.239
<v Speaker 2>at a side gate kind of thing.

869
00:42:46.360 --> 00:42:47.840
<v Speaker 4>Oh, I see, it was a meet us there thing,

870
00:42:47.840 --> 00:42:50.079
<v Speaker 4>as opposed to he drives you there, Well, he drives

871
00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:50.360
<v Speaker 4>you there.

872
00:42:50.559 --> 00:42:53.679
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I would say one time we got driven.

873
00:42:53.719 --> 00:42:55.159
<v Speaker 2>I remember all of us were in the car, Hey,

874
00:42:55.159 --> 00:42:58.559
<v Speaker 2>he wants to go. And then another time we got

875
00:42:58.599 --> 00:43:00.320
<v Speaker 2>in the car again, and I think the third time

876
00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:02.239
<v Speaker 2>it's like, hey, we're gonna go see mel once again

877
00:43:02.280 --> 00:43:04.199
<v Speaker 2>on the train. Let's go, and a bunch of us

878
00:43:04.239 --> 00:43:05.400
<v Speaker 2>went and met him at the gate.

879
00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:09.000
<v Speaker 4>Got it? Got it? Okay, that's understand now, because you know,

880
00:43:09.039 --> 00:43:11.199
<v Speaker 4>I'm in my mind, I'm thinking, like, you know, how

881
00:43:11.199 --> 00:43:13.800
<v Speaker 4>obvious is this to people around that this guy is

882
00:43:13.840 --> 00:43:16.480
<v Speaker 4>like a pied piper being followed by six seven teenage

883
00:43:16.480 --> 00:43:18.599
<v Speaker 4>boys all the time. To your point about someone had

884
00:43:18.639 --> 00:43:21.559
<v Speaker 4>to know. I'm trying to picture how you know obvious

885
00:43:21.599 --> 00:43:21.920
<v Speaker 4>it was?

886
00:43:22.000 --> 00:43:24.000
<v Speaker 5>Perhaps, but I mean that's also part of the problem

887
00:43:24.079 --> 00:43:27.159
<v Speaker 5>is that people probably did know, and it's like it's

888
00:43:27.159 --> 00:43:30.559
<v Speaker 5>a it's a really almost a systemic type of situation

889
00:43:30.679 --> 00:43:34.920
<v Speaker 5>where it's like, well, okay, you know, just gonna there

890
00:43:35.000 --> 00:43:36.360
<v Speaker 5>goes Mel. Mel's doing his thing.

891
00:43:38.559 --> 00:43:41.719
<v Speaker 2>Now again, I've said the black guy five or six

892
00:43:41.800 --> 00:43:44.000
<v Speaker 2>and seven times. So if there's any brothers out there

893
00:43:44.000 --> 00:43:46.440
<v Speaker 2>who think I'm a racist, I'm not. I'm a realist.

894
00:43:46.559 --> 00:43:48.400
<v Speaker 2>There's a big difference when you're in the fifties you

895
00:43:48.440 --> 00:43:51.880
<v Speaker 2>grew up in In my neighborhood, we had everybody I

896
00:43:51.880 --> 00:43:54.199
<v Speaker 2>have And when I say I have black friends, I

897
00:43:54.320 --> 00:43:56.000
<v Speaker 2>mean that I have the people that I talk to.

898
00:43:56.119 --> 00:43:59.599
<v Speaker 2>These are these are childhood friends. We have Spanish, and

899
00:43:59.599 --> 00:44:03.000
<v Speaker 2>and and Italian and every race that Indian doing in

900
00:44:03.000 --> 00:44:04.800
<v Speaker 2>my neighborhood. We have all of it. But when I

901
00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:06.719
<v Speaker 2>say this the way you just asked me that question,

902
00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:09.719
<v Speaker 2>let me ask you a question. If you're a WWF,

903
00:44:09.719 --> 00:44:11.880
<v Speaker 2>you're a wrestler, you're getting your clothes on and you

904
00:44:11.920 --> 00:44:16.199
<v Speaker 2>see Mel, the black dude walking in with five white

905
00:44:16.360 --> 00:44:21.559
<v Speaker 2>kids with shorts and T shirts, you know you don't

906
00:44:21.599 --> 00:44:24.199
<v Speaker 2>ask a question, well, what is this? Just like you said,

907
00:44:24.280 --> 00:44:26.760
<v Speaker 2>Pied Piper, what is it? What is happening here?

908
00:44:26.960 --> 00:44:28.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so, well, it's clear that he's not you know,

909
00:44:28.800 --> 00:44:31.320
<v Speaker 4>perhaps it's clear that he's not someone's dad, you know,

910
00:44:31.400 --> 00:44:33.320
<v Speaker 4>or someone's brother, or whatever the case might be. But

911
00:44:33.320 --> 00:44:36.159
<v Speaker 4>it's also I think I think it's useful for identification

912
00:44:36.320 --> 00:44:38.760
<v Speaker 4>because there weren't I don't think any I can't think

913
00:44:38.800 --> 00:44:41.159
<v Speaker 4>of another black wrestling announcer because he worked as an

914
00:44:41.199 --> 00:44:44.360
<v Speaker 4>announcer or he was ringside in that time period. So

915
00:44:44.400 --> 00:44:46.519
<v Speaker 4>when we're thinking, you know, when someone like yourself like

916
00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:49.519
<v Speaker 4>I remember that guy to say the black guy puts

917
00:44:49.559 --> 00:44:51.760
<v Speaker 4>you right there, you know exactly that we're talking about

918
00:44:51.760 --> 00:44:53.679
<v Speaker 4>the same guy, which I think is part of the

919
00:44:53.719 --> 00:44:56.920
<v Speaker 4>reason that that that's useful shorthand in the situation. But no,

920
00:44:57.039 --> 00:45:01.920
<v Speaker 4>I totally, I totally take your point. Did you said

921
00:45:01.920 --> 00:45:04.119
<v Speaker 4>a couple of times, you know, then your mom was

922
00:45:04.159 --> 00:45:06.760
<v Speaker 4>asking you did it hurt? And things like that, So

923
00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:11.119
<v Speaker 4>I really understand that, you know, he's literally putting the

924
00:45:11.519 --> 00:45:13.639
<v Speaker 4>you know, you and your friend's feet in his crotch.

925
00:45:13.679 --> 00:45:16.480
<v Speaker 4>But is he like try to pretend it's like a

926
00:45:16.519 --> 00:45:19.159
<v Speaker 4>wrestling thing and also like grabbing the foot with his

927
00:45:19.199 --> 00:45:21.199
<v Speaker 4>hand and twisting like how did it hurt in that way.

928
00:45:21.199 --> 00:45:24.039
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to picture like if you tried to you know,

929
00:45:24.199 --> 00:45:26.559
<v Speaker 4>mask it is like wrestling fooling around, or if it

930
00:45:26.599 --> 00:45:28.239
<v Speaker 4>was just like as gratuitous as it.

931
00:45:28.239 --> 00:45:31.519
<v Speaker 2>Sounds, it definitely sounds like you're getting off on this.

932
00:45:31.639 --> 00:45:32.480
<v Speaker 2>By the way, Well.

933
00:45:32.320 --> 00:45:34.559
<v Speaker 4>That's this is going to have to be my last

934
00:45:34.599 --> 00:45:36.840
<v Speaker 4>question on that front for fear of coming off that way.

935
00:45:36.920 --> 00:45:41.000
<v Speaker 4>But you know, these are the questions others don't ask you, Right.

936
00:45:41.760 --> 00:45:43.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I love it. I love it, but you

937
00:45:43.639 --> 00:45:46.639
<v Speaker 2>know I will tell you that. You know, that's what

938
00:45:46.679 --> 00:45:48.599
<v Speaker 2>I was saying, right because I think of the pain.

939
00:45:48.840 --> 00:45:50.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, I was like wow.

940
00:45:51.599 --> 00:45:53.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah yeah. Like like when he says, all right,

941
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:55.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna put you in a wrestling movie. There was

942
00:45:55.639 --> 00:45:57.360
<v Speaker 2>that was it. I'm going to give you a wrestling move.

943
00:45:57.360 --> 00:45:59.840
<v Speaker 2>If you wanted, you got to take this wrestling move, okay,

944
00:46:00.239 --> 00:46:02.079
<v Speaker 2>and he did it. He would like he would take

945
00:46:02.079 --> 00:46:05.320
<v Speaker 2>his left hand like again, right, It's it's kind of

946
00:46:05.320 --> 00:46:08.119
<v Speaker 2>weird because I'm I'm, I'm. There was one of those

947
00:46:08.920 --> 00:46:10.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, it was a long bench kind of thing, right,

948
00:46:10.920 --> 00:46:16.239
<v Speaker 2>so they weren't bucket seats. It's the old fashioned you know,

949
00:46:16.239 --> 00:46:20.400
<v Speaker 2>what did I say before the long cars station wagon, ye,

950
00:46:20.519 --> 00:46:22.840
<v Speaker 2>station wagon. Right, so you know those fronts right, it's

951
00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:26.719
<v Speaker 2>three right, there's like you can so so so somebody

952
00:46:26.920 --> 00:46:29.320
<v Speaker 2>for me specifically, there wasn't anybody in the front. We

953
00:46:29.360 --> 00:46:31.320
<v Speaker 2>had my three buddies in the back. I take my

954
00:46:31.400 --> 00:46:33.880
<v Speaker 2>left leg. There might have been a little hump or something.

955
00:46:34.119 --> 00:46:36.719
<v Speaker 2>So now before the car starts, my left leg is over.

956
00:46:36.760 --> 00:46:39.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to do it, and now it's over, and

957
00:46:39.480 --> 00:46:42.920
<v Speaker 2>now he's grabbed it, and now I'm twisted. So so

958
00:46:43.000 --> 00:46:45.280
<v Speaker 2>now everybody you can you can envision this. I'm in

959
00:46:45.320 --> 00:46:49.480
<v Speaker 2>the driver's seat, I'm looking forward. I take my left leg,

960
00:46:50.039 --> 00:46:52.559
<v Speaker 2>I move it to the right to the passenger side

961
00:46:52.559 --> 00:46:55.440
<v Speaker 2>where this man is seated. He takes my foot and

962
00:46:55.679 --> 00:46:58.880
<v Speaker 2>twist it in such a way that now my body

963
00:46:58.960 --> 00:47:06.119
<v Speaker 2>is contoured completely to the left towards the door. Right.

964
00:47:06.199 --> 00:47:10.639
<v Speaker 2>So now I'm I'm weirdly looking away from him. My

965
00:47:10.880 --> 00:47:14.400
<v Speaker 2>foot is in his crotch and he's putting on a

966
00:47:14.519 --> 00:47:18.719
<v Speaker 2>move by his left hand under pushing down into the

967
00:47:18.760 --> 00:47:21.639
<v Speaker 2>crotch and then doing something squeezing the toes going forward.

968
00:47:21.800 --> 00:47:25.119
<v Speaker 2>Got it, you know, and and sometimes you do, you know,

969
00:47:25.159 --> 00:47:27.239
<v Speaker 2>we make you do it for a minute sometimes you know,

970
00:47:27.320 --> 00:47:30.760
<v Speaker 2>you yell too loud. He let you go, but it

971
00:47:30.840 --> 00:47:34.920
<v Speaker 2>was weird. You know. It's like again like I guess

972
00:47:34.920 --> 00:47:37.920
<v Speaker 2>after oh, let's do it. Yeah that was that was fun,

973
00:47:37.960 --> 00:47:39.960
<v Speaker 2>and then the next time it's like, like, for instance,

974
00:47:40.000 --> 00:47:42.920
<v Speaker 2>this guy blew it. If he if he would have

975
00:47:42.960 --> 00:47:45.360
<v Speaker 2>done it softer, we would have we would have all

976
00:47:45.400 --> 00:47:46.719
<v Speaker 2>been there like for three weeks.

977
00:47:47.159 --> 00:47:50.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that that's kind of that. That's why I

978
00:47:50.440 --> 00:47:52.519
<v Speaker 4>asked the question because it was like, I'm trying to

979
00:47:53.079 --> 00:47:57.000
<v Speaker 4>like understand how it didn't immediately set off like this

980
00:47:57.039 --> 00:47:59.199
<v Speaker 4>guy that's hurts like fuck this, you know, but that's

981
00:47:59.440 --> 00:48:01.360
<v Speaker 4>this This now starts to make sense to me in

982
00:48:01.440 --> 00:48:04.000
<v Speaker 4>terms of how he would kind of gradually go to

983
00:48:04.039 --> 00:48:05.719
<v Speaker 4>that weird place. Like you said, it happened you know,

984
00:48:05.880 --> 00:48:08.199
<v Speaker 4>three times, so you guys got the hint eventually.

985
00:48:08.320 --> 00:48:10.199
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I was going to say, I don't know

986
00:48:10.199 --> 00:48:12.039
<v Speaker 5>if you mentioned before and I forget, but like, what

987
00:48:12.840 --> 00:48:15.159
<v Speaker 5>made did he stop coming to you? Did you guys

988
00:48:15.199 --> 00:48:18.119
<v Speaker 5>stop decide no, we don't want to do this anymore,

989
00:48:18.679 --> 00:48:20.800
<v Speaker 5>or what was like what what kind of stopped it

990
00:48:20.840 --> 00:48:22.199
<v Speaker 5>after three weeks?

991
00:48:23.760 --> 00:48:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I think it was a combination of such that like

992
00:48:26.719 --> 00:48:29.480
<v Speaker 2>maybe we all started you know, I have this thing

993
00:48:29.559 --> 00:48:32.360
<v Speaker 2>in my head that my my guy was he was

994
00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:34.960
<v Speaker 2>an Italian from Sicily, the owner of the place. Yeah,

995
00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:42.519
<v Speaker 2>and salad Tommy to it. And I really feel and

996
00:48:42.639 --> 00:48:45.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, now that I'm talking about it, I'm even

997
00:48:45.079 --> 00:48:49.239
<v Speaker 2>saying it out loud, strongly, strongly to you too, because

998
00:48:49.239 --> 00:48:51.199
<v Speaker 2>you're only two that listening to me right now, except

999
00:48:51.239 --> 00:48:53.280
<v Speaker 2>the rest of the fans. But the fans will understand

1000
00:48:53.320 --> 00:48:57.519
<v Speaker 2>that this place in Queen's was a really family place

1001
00:48:58.199 --> 00:49:00.960
<v Speaker 2>and we all work there, and we all bought pizza there,

1002
00:49:01.000 --> 00:49:02.719
<v Speaker 2>and it was like there was two pizza places in

1003
00:49:02.719 --> 00:49:05.199
<v Speaker 2>the whole neighborhood. It was that place in another place,

1004
00:49:05.239 --> 00:49:08.360
<v Speaker 2>and we chose this one. So I think there was

1005
00:49:08.360 --> 00:49:12.920
<v Speaker 2>a combination of maybe, you know, people started complaining about it,

1006
00:49:13.159 --> 00:49:14.639
<v Speaker 2>all of us like, oh, I'm not going that, no,

1007
00:49:14.960 --> 00:49:16.840
<v Speaker 2>because we did. I remember saying, yeah, I'm not going

1008
00:49:16.840 --> 00:49:18.880
<v Speaker 2>you hurt my foot last time. You know, I'll come on,

1009
00:49:18.920 --> 00:49:22.719
<v Speaker 2>you know, your little your little redheaded pussy, come on.

1010
00:49:22.880 --> 00:49:24.760
<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm like, no, man, I don't want to

1011
00:49:24.800 --> 00:49:27.639
<v Speaker 2>do that anymore, you know. And then and then all

1012
00:49:27.639 --> 00:49:30.360
<v Speaker 2>of a sudden, you know, maybe a couple of us

1013
00:49:30.360 --> 00:49:33.360
<v Speaker 2>were talking about it, and maybe in my head. You know,

1014
00:49:33.760 --> 00:49:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm noticing that, you know, because Tommy and Steve, they

1015
00:49:35.880 --> 00:49:38.159
<v Speaker 2>were always there. Tommy would know, what are you guys

1016
00:49:38.159 --> 00:49:40.559
<v Speaker 2>talking about? What's going on? And maybe one of us

1017
00:49:40.559 --> 00:49:42.719
<v Speaker 2>said something and then because it was it was a

1018
00:49:42.760 --> 00:49:48.039
<v Speaker 2>sudden disappearance, like you know, maybe Tommy talked to him.

1019
00:49:48.239 --> 00:49:50.039
<v Speaker 2>Maybe he went a little further with one of the

1020
00:49:50.119 --> 00:49:53.360
<v Speaker 2>kids than usual and decided to hit the town.

1021
00:49:53.719 --> 00:49:59.159
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, crazy, I mean exactly, that totally makes sense.

1022
00:49:59.159 --> 00:49:59.320
<v Speaker 2>You know.

1023
00:49:59.760 --> 00:50:02.199
<v Speaker 5>Still, if he noticed something like that, something that's kind

1024
00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:04.599
<v Speaker 5>of just a little bit off, he's uh, you know,

1025
00:50:04.760 --> 00:50:08.400
<v Speaker 5>I imagine he's gonna fuck with somebody.

1026
00:50:09.199 --> 00:50:11.679
<v Speaker 2>It's a little yeah, even if it's a little look,

1027
00:50:12.079 --> 00:50:13.760
<v Speaker 2>don't come around the more. I don't like what you're

1028
00:50:13.760 --> 00:50:14.599
<v Speaker 2>doing with my boys.

1029
00:50:14.719 --> 00:50:16.159
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, exactly exactly.

1030
00:50:17.039 --> 00:50:20.039
<v Speaker 4>Did you know him as mel did you? Is that

1031
00:50:20.079 --> 00:50:23.000
<v Speaker 4>how he asked you you introduce himself to you guys.

1032
00:50:23.800 --> 00:50:26.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I you know, I don't remember the Phillips thing,

1033
00:50:26.960 --> 00:50:30.639
<v Speaker 2>and I really can't remember too much of the the

1034
00:50:30.679 --> 00:50:34.079
<v Speaker 2>announcing things. You know, I thought he was at a

1035
00:50:34.599 --> 00:50:37.920
<v Speaker 2>different level in the organization, like that's a high level

1036
00:50:37.960 --> 00:50:41.039
<v Speaker 2>in a sense of things. You know. I'm wondering, like

1037
00:50:41.119 --> 00:50:43.719
<v Speaker 2>how that even happened. I even thought there was another

1038
00:50:44.159 --> 00:50:46.119
<v Speaker 2>I know what you said, and thank you actually for

1039
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<v Speaker 2>clarifying this, and here I go back to the thing again.

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<v Speaker 2>But I thought, no, it can't. There must be a

1041
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<v Speaker 2>whole bunch of black dudes who had access like this.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was like, when I talked to Ray, I

1043
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<v Speaker 2>was like, no way, man, there's too much of a

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<v Speaker 2>coincidence that this and my story, you know, are different.

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00:51:04.840 --> 00:51:07.519
<v Speaker 2>You know they're the same, obviously, So no, I knew

1046
00:51:07.599 --> 00:51:09.440
<v Speaker 2>him as mal and that's all we knew.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you have a sense that, in addition to being like,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess this like vip at the wrestling company, what

1049
00:51:18.039 --> 00:51:20.039
<v Speaker 4>it actually is that he did, because to your point,

1050
00:51:20.760 --> 00:51:22.519
<v Speaker 4>fans would know him because at a certain point they

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00:51:22.519 --> 00:51:24.159
<v Speaker 4>put him in the ring as a ring announcer. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not sure that for the entirety of his time with

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00:51:27.079 --> 00:51:28.880
<v Speaker 4>that company that he was a ring announcer per se.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you think he did for them?

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all, literally, even though I think I

1056
00:51:34.760 --> 00:51:39.039
<v Speaker 2>even mentioned it earlier, I think we understood that he

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<v Speaker 2>had something to do with setting up the ring.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what it was, Okay, That's where it all happened.

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<v Speaker 5>It was ring Boys was the thing, right, it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Ring Boys is like the shortthand version of the

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00:51:49.320 --> 00:51:51.320
<v Speaker 4>how to refer to the scandal, the Ring Boys scandal,

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<v Speaker 4>because that was sort of yeah, yeah, well man, this

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<v Speaker 4>is I really really appreciate you talking about it and

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00:51:58.880 --> 00:52:00.679
<v Speaker 4>keeping it as light as can be.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's the tricky balance, you know as a comedian,

1067
00:52:03.800 --> 00:52:06.679
<v Speaker 4>like there's there's comedy, gold and tragedy. But what a

1068
00:52:06.679 --> 00:52:08.719
<v Speaker 4>hard balance to strike to talk about it with a

1069
00:52:08.719 --> 00:52:10.559
<v Speaker 4>smile on your face, you know. At the same time,

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<v Speaker 4>it's almost I wonder like when you see this and

1071
00:52:12.800 --> 00:52:15.039
<v Speaker 4>you see like that lawsuits came of it, and a

1072
00:52:15.079 --> 00:52:17.760
<v Speaker 4>lot of people came forward, like does it make you

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<v Speaker 4>feel differently about what happened or do you still kind

1074
00:52:21.119 --> 00:52:23.159
<v Speaker 4>of you know, you feel the same, and it's just

1075
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<v Speaker 4>like this these other experiences just are sort of foreigned,

1076
00:52:25.880 --> 00:52:27.159
<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. Does it make you think, wow,

1077
00:52:27.199 --> 00:52:29.280
<v Speaker 4>that that might have been more fucked up than even

1078
00:52:29.320 --> 00:52:29.880
<v Speaker 4>I realized?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Absolutely, I'm not a person that wants to be

1080
00:52:36.320 --> 00:52:40.320
<v Speaker 2>retigious and right right, and you know, but yeah, maybe

1081
00:52:41.079 --> 00:52:43.840
<v Speaker 2>my one buddy, the guy who did the crashing, he's

1082
00:52:43.880 --> 00:52:45.840
<v Speaker 2>the one who said he goes man, we should be sewing.

1083
00:52:46.159 --> 00:52:49.840
<v Speaker 2>We should have sued, you know, so, so yeah, like

1084
00:52:49.880 --> 00:52:51.599
<v Speaker 2>and it's also a pissed off kind of thing, and

1085
00:52:51.679 --> 00:52:53.719
<v Speaker 2>like like, right now, the two of you have to

1086
00:52:53.760 --> 00:52:55.760
<v Speaker 2>send me a VEMO of thirty eight dollars because I

1087
00:52:55.800 --> 00:52:57.159
<v Speaker 2>have to go to therapy now because.

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<v Speaker 4>You bought years, we do paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, I hope you are fans of the show

1090
00:53:04.159 --> 00:53:06.239
<v Speaker 2>appreciate what I'm bringing to you to you all today.

1091
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<v Speaker 2>I love the show. I love the idea of listened

1092
00:53:09.039 --> 00:53:13.159
<v Speaker 2>to a bunch of the episodes to see you guys.

1093
00:53:13.719 --> 00:53:19.159
<v Speaker 2>And but yeah, it's it's it's something that thank god,

1094
00:53:19.239 --> 00:53:21.199
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't as painful as some of these other dudes

1095
00:53:21.440 --> 00:53:25.440
<v Speaker 2>are dealing with, right Yeah, And I'm in the sense that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because so many people when they, you know, when

1097
00:53:28.360 --> 00:53:30.679
<v Speaker 5>they deal with sexual abuse like this, I mean, they

1098
00:53:30.800 --> 00:53:34.639
<v Speaker 5>go to all different lengths that could be addiction or

1099
00:53:34.960 --> 00:53:38.360
<v Speaker 5>any other kind of abuse on their end, or suicide,

1100
00:53:38.400 --> 00:53:41.559
<v Speaker 5>you know. So it's it's really it's amazing that you're

1101
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<v Speaker 5>not only here talking about it, but that you're able

1102
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<v Speaker 5>to again say, talk about it with such good spirits essentially,

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00:53:51.039 --> 00:53:52.840
<v Speaker 5>you know, and and and make light of it as

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<v Speaker 5>best you can.

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<v Speaker 2>Well again, I'll lend it at this on my part

1106
00:53:58.639 --> 00:54:03.559
<v Speaker 2>about this particular object is you know, people out there,

1107
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<v Speaker 2>if you have especially men, if you have a situation

1108
00:54:09.199 --> 00:54:12.639
<v Speaker 2>and you've been holding it in for a month, a year,

1109
00:54:12.800 --> 00:54:16.199
<v Speaker 2>ten years, do yourself a favor in everybody around you.

1110
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<v Speaker 2>Go talk to somebody, because more than likely, I'm throwing

1111
00:54:19.719 --> 00:54:22.159
<v Speaker 2>out the statistic, it's probably bullshit. Seven out of ten

1112
00:54:22.159 --> 00:54:24.840
<v Speaker 2>people have probably been touched in some way. And you're

1113
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<v Speaker 2>not alone, and we're here and there's somebody out there

1114
00:54:28.760 --> 00:54:31.360
<v Speaker 2>who will listen, whether it's a priest, a rabbi, or

1115
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<v Speaker 2>this show. You have to stop what's happening, because that's

1116
00:54:34.880 --> 00:54:38.039
<v Speaker 2>what happens they you allow that person, You allow fucking

1117
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<v Speaker 2>nell to be in your head, and you start drinking

1118
00:54:42.239 --> 00:54:45.639
<v Speaker 2>and you have relationship problems and was I gay? Am

1119
00:54:45.679 --> 00:54:48.159
<v Speaker 2>I straight? Because this guy hit on me? You know,

1120
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<v Speaker 2>there's a whole bunch of shit that happens with abuse.

1121
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<v Speaker 2>And I don't mean I'm getting a little deep under

1122
00:54:53.679 --> 00:54:57.000
<v Speaker 2>this flo it's you have to realize that if you

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<v Speaker 2>have that out there, if one of your listeners has

1124
00:54:59.239 --> 00:55:02.159
<v Speaker 2>any situation, there is a call for you. There is

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that's listening. I'm an email away. The show is

1126
00:55:06.360 --> 00:55:10.519
<v Speaker 2>an email away to you people and break the cycle.

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<v Speaker 2>Break the cycle.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that's that's powerful stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, thanks for going down those roads with us, and

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<v Speaker 4>we look forward seeing you. It's going to get a

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<v Speaker 4>lot lighter, I can assure folks August third at the

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<v Speaker 4>at Comedy Village. But really a pleasure to talk to you, PJ.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't wait to collaborate further here coming up in August

1135
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<v Speaker 4>and take care man.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are fantastic. Thanks to the fans, and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>see you August third.

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<v Speaker 4>This email it is a production of the Lab Entertainment Group.

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<v Speaker 5>Its content is intended for reven use only.

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<v Speaker 2>We want
