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Speaker 1: Made destans oh face sunny sound. I had a visione nice.

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Speaker 2: So Nat, what's up everybody?

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Speaker 1: So I'm a little squeaky today. I woke up with

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a I have at I've been fighting a cold, but

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this morning it's been pretty bad, coughing and squeaky voice.

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Speaker 2: Sadie has been sick too, And when I ask her

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about it, though, I'm like, you don't sound good, and

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then she'll be like, oh no, this is the very

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tail end. I've had it for a week. And then

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I'm like, have you though I didn't notice it before.

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She's like, yeah, I just didn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: Good trooper, what a trooper? I guess that's nice. Yeah,

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I went. You know, I've had relatives staying with me.

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They've come and gone, Oh are they gone? They're still here? Well,

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and he's still with me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Really, she's enjoying her time off mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: And I'm enjoying the at like a month at this point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah almost stop. Yeah, but she's coming gone like she's

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you know, with her her sisters, her sisters. I'll come

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over and visit, then she'll leave like whatever. But like

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the kitty cat I'm so attached to now, I need

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to get a cat. I need a cat.

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Speaker 2: Just keep that one.

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Speaker 1: I would love to keep that one. He doesn't even

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have a name anymore. Like his name is kitty Kitty

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nut job, because he just he just like bolts around

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the room or he'll like dive bond me on top

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of you and head butt you while you're watching TV.

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And it's the cutest thing. And his paws are like nothing,

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They're like little babie paws with like no nails.

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Speaker 2: So is he Is he all better?

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Speaker 1: He's getting better? Yeah, Yeah, he's better. Yeah, he's better.

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Speaker 2: You just buy him off of Wendy, tell her to

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get her own.

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Speaker 1: Cat's no way she's gonna give me that cat.

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Speaker 2: Get your own cat.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna go to Florida. I'm gonna go

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to the Pasadena, Florida. Yeah, no, she found her cat.

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I'll go to the Pasadena h what is it called

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Neptunes Pasadena Humane Society and get myself a kiddy cat.

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I have to. And Phil's gonna be so sad. This

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cat plays catch with like you can throw the tinfoil

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ball across the room, the cat runs, gets it and

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comes back. I've never seen a cat play catch like

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that it's crazy. And then him and Phil are just

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so cute together, like they get along, they chase each

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other around the room. The cat's not afraid of Phil

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fills very gentle with the cat, really so sweet. Yeah,

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because Phill's one hundred pounds and that, yeah, that probably

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is like I don't know, twenty pounds at most.

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Speaker 2: It's twenty pounds.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so No, I don't know. I've gotta

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be less than twenty bounds. Probably. It's so light and

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Phil's Yeah, but he's so gentle with him. It's so cute.

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It's really cute. And then when Phil goes outside with

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me and he's outside, the cat can't go outside. The

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cat sits by the window and looks at Phil, and

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Phil sits at the window and looks at the cat.

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Speaker 2: It's so cute.

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Speaker 1: It's so freaking cute.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this really does go back to my age

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old question that I don't think has ever been quite

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answered for me. Yeah, and that is, how do you

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know you have an outdoor cat? Like so many people have? Oh,

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that's an outdoor cat, like once you let it out, Like,

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how do you know? I can't indoor cats? There's no

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way in hell. Can I have an out because there's coyotes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's been coyotes in our backyard a lot. They

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just they've been coming. I plugged up a couple holes

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I found over the weekend. But yeah, they've been coming

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into our backyard a lot. There's no way I can

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get it. That's one thing. I'd be a friend if

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that cat ever got out, but I don't see how

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it could get out with all my.

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Speaker 2: Love, stay where the love is, Kitty Cat?

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Speaker 1: I know, Okay, Cat, I'm gonna have to retire my

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saying the best cats of Black Cat.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if you should go Okay. I know it's

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early in the show, but you know, Robin upgraded her

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Patreon members to the fifty dollars level so that she

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could could she's so in love with her doggie. Uh

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huh uh Bosco, even though it was Tabasco, but she

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shortened a Tabosco, which is not short for Tabasco. Robin,

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she got her her dog. Yeah, rescue. I don't know

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if they do cats though, but it's a pup is.

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rescue and that's still like pop culture, but pop culture

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these dogs from shelters, they rescue them, they give them

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medical attention, and you know what these rescues do is like, seriously,

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the Lord's work.

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Speaker 1: It really is.

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Speaker 2: Especially Pasadena is great too, but if people want a

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one that really I mean, you know, Robin's seen them

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in action and they all the it's all tax you know,

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right off if you give them money. Pasadena Humane Society

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great too, though. I was at a dinner party which

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I'll tell you about, and they were just saying that

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they got their dog. They had a really sweet dog

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named Lumo and uh from the hum Pasadena Human Pacity. Yeah, yeah,

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I guess that's a big one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a big one. And it's close by.

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I mean they passed it a lot, so I don't know,

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we'll see. I'm loving this cat. I'm in no hurry

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for her to go.

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Speaker 2: I mean they're pretty little maintenance, right they are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, how the frick does he know that

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he's he can go in this room? She put a

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litter box in two rooms, one that's near us. When

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we're watching TV. And then in her room like, how

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does that cat know already at this age? He spoke,

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how come Phil can't do that? Why can't I teach

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Phil to do that? Like, just if he just peek

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go if you have to be you don't have to

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come bother me at three o'clock in the morning, just

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go pee in a litter box. Cat knew immediately, no problem.

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Speaker 2: How do they know that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. It's interesting. And then

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the only thing though, is I got to keep the

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cat food away from Phil because you know, cat food

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gets left out, so I have to figure that part out.

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But we have a baby. We have like a gate

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set up for this cat, so Phil can't go into

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that room, like a makeshift gate out of my shoe rack.

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Speaker 2: I was seriously for a moment going like you went

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and got like full on gates.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, Wendy improvises.

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Speaker 2: That's so funny. Yeah, so when is she leaving?

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Speaker 1: I think in a couple of days.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, but no no specific plan, No, just gonna

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that's what it does. I'm fucking out of here. And

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then get.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah pretty much, Yeah, she's got a lot of miles,

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tons of miles. So yeah, she can go anytime. M hmm.

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But it's really nice. It's been nice having family. You know,

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people were playing cards. They're playing cards all the time.

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Speaker 2: So wait, so who's with you? Then? When you say family.

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Speaker 1: Her Wendy and her two daughters, Jackie and Meghan are here,

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but they're they're not well, Megan's with me. Jackie comes

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and goes because she's married and works. Megan is just

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staying here for now, and then she's gonna go. I

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think she's leaving when Wendy leaves. And then her sisters

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come and go too. She's got like, well, she's got

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three sisters and a brother, and two of the sisters

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live here. So they been coming over in the evenings

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and they're so sweet.

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Speaker 2: And has Megan gone to see her dad?

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Speaker 1: She came from her dad.

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Speaker 2: Oh does she live with him?

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Speaker 1: No, No, she went to she lives. She's living in

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so she went to visit your bro. Yeah,

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and then came back.

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Speaker 1: And then came here. And how she found out when

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he was here?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 1: But have you still I haven't talked to my brother. No, No,

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they can have their own relationship. I don't no, but yeah,

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it's been nice though. It's been nice, you know. And

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then Sunny was here for spring break, so he was

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playing up until like the wee hours, playing cards with

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his cousins and it's been so sweet. I love it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I love that. So when was his spring break?

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Did it just end? Yeah, it's it's coming to an

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end on when day? Oh yeah, that's a long spring break.

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Then it's coming to an end this Wednesday. But he

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Speaker 1: Well, he gets a couple of days of non being

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in class, like on Mondays and Tuesdays or somethy he

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doesn't need to be in class. Oh I got it,

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okay in person. So he's doing class online. So he

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was going to go back on Sunday, but with Wendy

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here and everything, he wanted to stay until the last

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day he does to be in in class, right, So

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he's going back Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so did he ever? I know Natalia wanted

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him to come visit. He did not know. Now see,

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this is where like Natalia had a few years of

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kind of treating him badly. Yeah, that's where this comes

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home to roost. You know, Yes, oh I do kind

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of makes it's interesting with twins. As you know, I'm

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going to like twin splain to you now, yeah yeah,

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now that I'm like way more experienced than with having

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be so intentional about like making sure that I do

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will notice it, and Xander thinks I don't clock it right,

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what was that? What was that for Xander? Like Sadie

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will first of all, she's the only one with the

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driver's license. She will offer to drive him places. Okay,

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case in point, this happened the other day. Yeah, so

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they were going to go to a mutual a friend.

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a song a single release party, putting ad album out

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on SoundCloud and then this is her second release. Xander

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went to the first part release party. Hey these kids,

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it's a little insane. They do like they have a

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party where they they release their so they cater it

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and then they yeah, it's their song release party.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy nowadays that kids can do that.

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Speaker 2: I know. Why not.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's how you've discovered new talent, I know.

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Speaker 2: And they're they're like, mom, this girl is like so good,

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she's really really good. I'm like, yeah, but how she

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Speaker 1: How does it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, anyway, So Xander does not have his driver's license.

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this thing, and I drove him and it was like

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drive back out there at ten o'clock at night and

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pick him up, which I'm getting a little bit spoiled

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because like Elbing of course doesn't need rides, right, well,

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you know what, that's a whole other thing. If Elbie's

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gonna drink, she will now say can you drive me

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to this place? And then she'll uber home, which I'm

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so thrilled about, like because she knows that. I'm like

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thrilled when she's like because she goes to a friend's

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house a lot with her other friend in Calabasas. Okay, right,

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so she'll just say to me or John, she'll just

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be like, hey, could what have you guys drive us

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to Calabasas And then we know right away, oh, she's

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gonna have some cocktails.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to think about having her car or

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making that decision. So I'm always like, of course, but

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I don't go pick her up. I'm like, I'm not

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picking you up at one in the morning, right, too

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old for that shit. Anyway, back to this story, So

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the other day, this happens, they're going to go to

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this friend's house. Sadie tells Xander like, hey, I need

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to go to CVS first, because I don't know, she

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had to get a couple of things at CVS, and

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you know, she wanted to go there on the way

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to this thing, you know. Xander says, yeah, I'll just

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stay here. Can you just go to CVS and then

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come back and pick me up when you're done. So

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Sadie was like, yeah, so I'm gonna go. I'm gonna

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go to CVS or whatever. And I was like, well wait, why,

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Speaker 1: No, he doesn't want to go to CVS.

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Speaker 2: He did not want to stop at CVS. Like, look,

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you're not making Sadie go to the store come home

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because the Prince is like, not ready. He doesn't want

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to get ready, doesn't want to leave five minutes before

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or have to wait for a minute at CVS. And

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I was like, no, absolutely not. Then I just go

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marching into I was like, Xander, what so you just

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don't want to go to CVS. So Sadie's going to

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go to the store on her own and then come

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all the way back and pick you up. And he

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was like, I mean I'll go to CVS.

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Speaker 1: Ah, now you'll go yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then he was like Sadie, uh uh, I don't mind,

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I'll go to CVS with you. But this happens other

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times too, where we'll be in the car and she'll whatever,

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she'll say something, and he'll he just if he gets

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in a bad mood, he just does not watch his

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time at all, and then I'll go what was that?

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What was that? Right?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: And then he'll go, oh, oh, I mean you know,

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I don't know. I don't notice Sadie doing it to him.

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I notice him doing it to her.

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Speaker 1: There's always one twin doing something more towards the other one.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yes, but I'm like, keep that up and you're

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gonna have the same issue where.

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Speaker 1: You know, Yes, that's what's gonna happen. I'm not gonna

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come visit, you're gonna want to hang out? No, Yeah,

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I think I mean, I don't know if I said

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this last week, but I think it's more of the

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Sonny not wanting to hang out with those dudes that's

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Italian prays out with well, and it's a little bit

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on her too as well. Like probably, I.

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Speaker 2: Think it's just not that Sonny doesn't love nat Hell. Yeah,

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but I'm wondering if it's just like worth his trouble

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to drive two hours to hang out.

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Speaker 1: Right, you know what I mean, it's for sure if

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it was UCLA, I think he would go on a heartbeat.

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Oh yeah, but he ain't looking to sit on the

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road for two hours there and two hours back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So and.

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Speaker 1: I mean we might go. We might still go one

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day before he leaves or she or Wendy Lee's I

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don't know, we'll see that would be.

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Speaker 2: Have to do today or tomorrow?

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, we might go tomorrow. Okay, we might, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: So I want to know. I wonder if we should

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do our ad first. Yeah, no, Kiln says no. Okay,

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well I'll start this. It has to do with you

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as well. Okay. But Saturday, Elbie went to del Topia,

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which was a huge party at Santa Barbara.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was just gonna say, why does

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that del Topia sound familiar to me? Because it's like

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that's why we Yes, so we were supposed to go

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for dinner last night down to see Natalia for Sunday dinner.

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It was one of my suggestions. And Natalia goes, I

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don't think Sunday night's gonna be a good night because

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there's the del Topia thing. And I asked her, what's

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dell Tope? She goes, oh, I told you this three

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times already, And I'm like, I don't pay attention all

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your stupid parties. She has a name for all these

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different parties, constantly going to sig Kai for this and

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this and that.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is a massive thing that kids from all

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around apparently. Yes, Albie drove up from here right a

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wow and saw tons of people she knew, and she

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said it was insanity. Really, Oh yeah, she said, so oh,

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we'd been planning this for a while.

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Speaker 1: And did she go Saturday or Sunday?

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Speaker 2: She went Saturday, that was the big day. Apparently she

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left early in the morning. She said they started drinking

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in the morning, but then they were all very sober

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by like one pm. They did not drink the rest

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of the day. But she was like, it was insane.

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She said there were so many drunk people, and she

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said that people were getting arrested. It was just this massive,

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massive party, right. But she was like, Mom, I was

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wondering if I was going to be sad that I

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didn't go to Santa Barbara. And she was like, and

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she goes, if I went to Santa Barbara, I would

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have been very very happy there, she goes, But oh

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my god, I would have needed it is a party school.

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She said. Kids were so many public intoxication.

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Speaker 1: It's bad.

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Speaker 2: She said that you're not allowed and I think you

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told me this before. You're not allowed to sit on

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a curb and there you can get yeah, loitering.

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Speaker 1: I guess, well, well with a solo cup, I think,

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or something like that.

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Speaker 2: No, she said, you're not literally not allowed to sit

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down on a curb. Wow, because I guess it's loitering. Yeah,

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you can get a ticket for that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's learned all the rules early on, thank god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean maybe you can when it's not a party.

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But she said there were She was like, there were

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so many police people there, so much, so many cops,

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and she said, people getting arrested. She said, so many fights,

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like physical fights happening. She goes, it was just the

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streets were just packed.

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Speaker 1: It's insane. Wow.

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Speaker 2: But you don't know if I'm to tell you went

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to that.

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Speaker 1: No, I do know, she went. I talked to her

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last night. She was exhausted. She does, she does. She

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did go. Yeah, she was tired the second day. She didn't.

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On Sunday not so much. But yeah, Saturday night, she

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told me it was crazy and that's why she's like,

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I don't know if you guys want to She's like,

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there's nowhere to park all everybody has to park their car.

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Luckily she has a parking spot, but there's like just nowhere.

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The streets are packed. So she's like, it's not a

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good time for you guys to come down for Sunday

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family dinner in the middle of all that. But yeah,

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she survived. Yeah, but she's you know, she's been there

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for through all these other different they shut the weekend

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down for this, for all these different events and stuff.

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And I think she learned early on the rules of

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you know, and the cops that are out and blah

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blah blah. So yeah, so she so LB was like

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it was a lot and how long was she there

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to shed she spend the night.

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Speaker 2: Like the No, she didn't spend the night. They went

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up early in the morning, she got she left the

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house at like eight am, and then she got back

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at probably like eight pm.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's the other thing. She ran into friends that yeah,

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that's been Natalia seen pm. Yeah, and she ran into

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friends that she she knew.

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Speaker 2: Like tons of friends. I mean she went with one

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girlfriend and but and the and that person's sister. She

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went with two girls. They ran into like tons of

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her friends. They hung out with like different groups of people.

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She told me they were like at least like twenty

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thousand people there.

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Speaker 1: I believe it. Yeah, said it.

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Speaker 2: Was just a massive, massive.

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Speaker 1: What's it for. That's one thing I didn't ask for.

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Speaker 2: Deltopia sounds like a frat, like a delta. Yeah, Delta's

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I guess out of like a sorority thing. I don't know.

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I don't know what are you asking me?

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Speaker 1: I know's going to be for I know, I know

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I didn't ask her that.

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Speaker 2: We look at Kaylin, You're looking at me, like, what

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do you want from me? From many of us went

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to college, I know, I don't know. It sounds sort

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of like a fraternity kind of thing, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: There's always some shit going down there. Yeah, Santa Barbara's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do, okay, which leads me to something else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So Saturday, Yeah, Ilbie went to del Topia.

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Italia went to Deltopia. I went to a dinner party.

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Haven't been to Like, when is the last time you, like, yeah,

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I know, well probably it's been years for you for sure.

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But like John's John has two friends. I'm sure he

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has more, you know, yeah, in the world. But he

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has two friends that he's in like that we've known since,

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you know, before we had kids, that he's known from

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years and years ago. People he's guys he's worked with

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00:24:57,279 --> 00:24:58,960
that are also friends with each other. They're in a

467
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:04,279
little group chat. But somehow, once we had kids, we

468
00:25:04,319 --> 00:25:08,720
have for some reason never socialized with these people. Like

469
00:25:09,599 --> 00:25:13,680
the only people that we really socialize with as couples

470
00:25:14,599 --> 00:25:18,599
are my Jewish mom group. They're not all Jewish, but

471
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,640
it kind of started that way, like my mom group.

472
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,960
And then the husbands all come to like different events

473
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,480
that I tell you about, but I cannot tell you

474
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,920
the last time we just like, well, one time John

475
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,200
and I were invited over to my friend Tamra's house

476
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:37,200
with her husband and another couple for dinner. Besides that,

477
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,720
in many years, I don't think that we've had like

478
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:47,079
just at someone's house, like right, have dinner. Yeah. So

479
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,799
it was so funny because I'm so out of practice

480
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,319
where you know what I mean, where I'm like, okay,

481
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,880
so we're what's the protocol? I kept saying, asking what

482
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,440
we can bring? What we can bring, and He's like,

483
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,400
they keep saying nothing. I was like, okay, so I

484
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,240
guess just we bring a bottle of wine. But like really,

485
00:26:03,279 --> 00:26:07,359
they're just going to do everything. And it's so funny

486
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,480
because so the one couple has fully grown kids out

487
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,599
of the house with kids of their own, right, even

488
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:19,000
though they're like our age, right. And then the other

489
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:24,319
couple has a daughter that's one year younger than our twins,

490
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,319
so she's a sophomore in high school. Don't think I've

491
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:33,079
socialized with them I think we went to a party

492
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,599
in the park for her for their daughter when she

493
00:26:36,799 --> 00:26:43,960
was like six and now she's sixteen. Wow, so I've

494
00:26:44,319 --> 00:26:49,200
maybe seen these people. The point is, haven't laid eyes

495
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,559
on these people in person in many many years.

496
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: Have you ever hosted a dinner party?

497
00:26:55,319 --> 00:27:01,279
Speaker 2: No? Never, And I'll tell you why. It's it's a

498
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,680
terrible reason, but like I just don't. Our house is

499
00:27:04,759 --> 00:27:07,720
like the lit like it needs to be painted, we

500
00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:10,039
need a new dining room table, and we're always like

501
00:27:10,079 --> 00:27:11,799
we're gonna do it, We're gonna do it. And then

502
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,440
we used to do it. We used to do it

503
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,119
all the time.

504
00:27:15,319 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's when Adam would I would

505
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,599
want people to come over because of all the construction

506
00:27:22,759 --> 00:27:25,599
he's done. Right, we would have like Diane Farr as

507
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:30,440
old co host over like of course and Sarah Silverman

508
00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:33,839
Yeah yeah, Diane was, Yeah, she lived in our neighborhood,

509
00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:37,680
like you know, we would. And it's it's stressful. It's like,

510
00:27:37,759 --> 00:27:39,920
you know, put you a lot on you because you're

511
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,440
in charge of everything. You know, you're not gonna tell

512
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:48,480
Jimmy Kimmel, hey bring some potato salad, you know, like right,

513
00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:53,200
like everything's on you you know, and then but yeah,

514
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,839
and now I just do parties for my girlfriends and stuff,

515
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,480
right like whatever, But yeah, but yes, it's it's a

516
00:28:01,559 --> 00:28:03,799
it's a thing going to somebody's house for just sit

517
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:04,440
down dinner.

518
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,519
Speaker 2: I also feel like you got to.

519
00:28:06,559 --> 00:28:07,839
Speaker 1: Really like these people too.

520
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 2: You gotta like the people. Also, my brain always goes,

521
00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:15,920
but what do I make? And like, is it could

522
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,599
I just order in food? Or is that like you

523
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,880
know what I mean? I think, like do I just

524
00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:24,640
order from like Buka to Beppo or yeah, a couple

525
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,359
of pasta dishes or do I have to like create

526
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:27,880
a meal?

527
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could order in.

528
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 2: I guess, but it's like if I don't know, I feel.

529
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,079
Speaker 1: Like you do both, you know, kind of.

530
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: My god, these people made salmon on the grill, which

531
00:28:43,039 --> 00:28:48,759
was delicious. The guy they get like salad, he cooked

532
00:28:48,759 --> 00:28:50,960
it on the heat, cooked the salmon. I think she

533
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:52,599
prepped it. Well.

534
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: Actually that's a good team.

535
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:59,359
Speaker 2: I could see that she they bought actually marinated I

536
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,839
think it was Joe's marinated salmon, and then they made

537
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,960
it on the grill and then she made this like salad. Okay,

538
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,720
you know what. They'll never listen to this podcast this

539
00:29:11,759 --> 00:29:14,359
is not shit talking. I'm just but I'm just being

540
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,720
real with you, just being real with you. It triggered

541
00:29:17,799 --> 00:29:21,720
some memories of being young and like being a picky

542
00:29:21,759 --> 00:29:25,599
eater because there are still certain foods that I do

543
00:29:25,799 --> 00:29:29,680
not like. I'm kind of a baby in that way.

544
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,920
There's just a few things that I just I don't like.

545
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,240
You know, I don't like onions. Well, people love to

546
00:29:35,559 --> 00:29:38,799
put onions and stuff because it's not the most common

547
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:43,200
thing to not like because most people, I think like onions.

548
00:29:43,599 --> 00:29:46,039
So there was this salad that was great in every

549
00:29:46,039 --> 00:29:48,640
other way except for had a lot like onions in it,

550
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,079
and I just felt like a little kid, like like

551
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:57,680
poking stuck around and said and then she made see

552
00:29:57,759 --> 00:30:00,279
now I totally sound like I'm complaining in this. It's

553
00:30:00,279 --> 00:30:03,519
good because I was very impressed. Oh my god, there

554
00:30:03,559 --> 00:30:06,039
was They all start with the good they put out.

555
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:10,160
She put out this a little like Charmuta board, and

556
00:30:11,119 --> 00:30:15,119
but it had like this olive topanod stuff that I

557
00:30:15,319 --> 00:30:19,039
do not like you, so and then they kept offering

558
00:30:19,039 --> 00:30:20,319
it like, oh, do you want to try some of

559
00:30:20,319 --> 00:30:23,240
the olive time, and I'm like good, I'm like really

560
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:27,400
filling up on cheese you know, So we ate some

561
00:30:27,519 --> 00:30:30,160
cheese and crackers. No all, I didn't touch the other

562
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:31,880
there were two other things that I was like, I

563
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,440
don't like that. So then we go in to sit

564
00:30:35,519 --> 00:30:38,920
down though for the meal, and I'm like, okay, like

565
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:44,400
the salmon great, and she'd made bread homemade breadsticks, which

566
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,519
were really good. Can't you can't go wrong with that.

567
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:51,599
But then there was this I'm not sure what it was.

568
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,480
It was like I made maybe kind of a risotto.

569
00:30:57,359 --> 00:30:59,279
I think it was a risotto, but it had it

570
00:30:59,319 --> 00:31:02,640
was mushrooms, which I love mushrooms and peas, which I

571
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:07,359
do not like peas, oh my god. And the flavor

572
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,920
of it was just something that I'm just not used to,

573
00:31:10,599 --> 00:31:13,599
which just wasn't my favorite. So now I'm now I'm

574
00:31:13,599 --> 00:31:16,079
feeling like a little kid where I'm like pushing stuff

575
00:31:16,119 --> 00:31:18,720
around on my plate because I'm like, I like the

576
00:31:18,839 --> 00:31:20,759
salad and I like the dressing, and I like there's

577
00:31:20,799 --> 00:31:22,920
little bits of cheese in it, but I do not

578
00:31:23,119 --> 00:31:25,880
like onions. So now I'm like moving, you know, like

579
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,880
you're like trying not to draw any attention, also looking

580
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,319
like you're really enjoying it, like scooching stuff away, like

581
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,559
move that piece of lettuce away from that piece of onion.

582
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,559
And then I'm trying to eat the risotto, but it's

583
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,799
really difficult to like move peas because now you're going

584
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,559
to really look like terral, like getting grill.

585
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: And balls yes on your plate, you know, the red onions, And.

586
00:31:51,599 --> 00:31:53,559
Speaker 2: I'm like, these people are going to feel like what

587
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,960
are you our grandkid over like with the food. So

588
00:31:57,359 --> 00:31:59,519
then I had to just be like, God, I'm getting

589
00:31:59,519 --> 00:32:02,039
so full, you know. And then then I had to

590
00:32:02,079 --> 00:32:06,319
just not eat the risotta, which because like, h yes,

591
00:32:06,559 --> 00:32:09,359
which I was hungrier, right yeah, and it was so good.

592
00:32:10,319 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: Those breadsticks really filled me up, yeah.

593
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,359
Speaker 2: You know, so I had to just kind of push

594
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,880
stuff around. And then then I was getting caught up

595
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,160
and looking around at what other people were doing, like

596
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,480
I'm like, am I the only one not really enjoying

597
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:27,519
this risotto? A couple other people were like not digging

598
00:32:27,599 --> 00:32:29,920
in so much. But then you get then and she,

599
00:32:30,079 --> 00:32:31,799
oh my god, the nicest people too, you know, and

600
00:32:31,799 --> 00:32:37,079
then she's like there's plenty of risota. Now there's seconds,

601
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,519
you know, and I was like, oh my gosh, it's

602
00:32:39,559 --> 00:32:42,119
so good, you know, and then just not eating it.

603
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,079
Speaker 1: Yes, That's so funny because we did a dinner party

604
00:32:46,079 --> 00:32:48,799
with one of Adam's friends that I didn't know at

605
00:32:48,799 --> 00:32:52,920
the time, but he's allergic to garlic. What the fuck

606
00:32:53,039 --> 00:32:56,640
is allergic to garlic? And I made garlic toast oh

607
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,200
and he did not for anybody didn't say that he

608
00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:01,200
was allergic, and he just didn't eat it. And I

609
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,039
was like, why didn't he eat the guy was? I

610
00:33:04,039 --> 00:33:06,920
put it on split for him and he didn't touch it,

611
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,119
and I was like, I made a note like huh.

612
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,079
And then I found out later, Yeah, he's allergic. Well,

613
00:33:11,119 --> 00:33:14,079
somebody might have told me that when I'm making spaghetti

614
00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:16,240
and garlic toasts, like hello.

615
00:33:16,799 --> 00:33:19,839
Speaker 2: Oh, spaghetti and garlic toast, that seems like a fun

616
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:20,839
thing to serve. Yeah.

617
00:33:20,839 --> 00:33:21,839
Speaker 1: It was pretty easy.

618
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but me, I would probably get like some classico

619
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,880
like sauce, like did you make your own sauce? Now?

620
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,599
Speaker 1: I don't make my own sauce, okay now yeah.

621
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,799
Speaker 2: So you just served like a big batch of pasta

622
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,279
and then.

623
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: With yes, pasta with uh fried up Italian sausage. Oh yeah,

624
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:45,880
and lots of parmesan shredded cheese.

625
00:33:46,119 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. See, these are good ideas and it was easy yeah,

626
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,799
I'm just I'm just not a natural cook. I hay, Now,

627
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,400
I try, I really do try. Always so proud of

628
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,319
myself when we do like a Hello Fresh box.

629
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,519
Speaker 1: And then you have good recipes me. Yeah, you know,

630
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:11,239
I've heard even in your school lunches you've had good

631
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,960
recipes in the past.

632
00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 2: Here's what happens to me. I get like an idea

633
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,800
from a friend, you know, Like now my brain is going,

634
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,320
like but like one time Robin and I went to

635
00:34:24,519 --> 00:34:29,280
a concert and she made these sandwiches with Trader Joe's

636
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:34,079
you can, like a chibata roll and then with those

637
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:38,239
sliced pieces of muzzarella, you know, caprazy sandwich, which I've

638
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,000
told you about before, and the kids loved them. And

639
00:34:42,039 --> 00:34:44,159
then I changed the recipe a little bit, make it

640
00:34:44,199 --> 00:34:47,000
my own, Like I add a little I do olive

641
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,719
oil and vinegar and then a little Trader Joe's glaze,

642
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,239
and then tomato and the muzzarella and a piece of

643
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,559
basil and then the kids. What I do now is

644
00:34:58,599 --> 00:35:01,239
I make a bigger batch of it. I'll buy like

645
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,119
five of the rolls and I'll make extra sandwich and

646
00:35:04,159 --> 00:35:06,079
then I'll wrap them up in tinfoil and then the

647
00:35:06,159 --> 00:35:07,320
kids can take them for their lunch.

648
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nice.

649
00:35:09,199 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: But John got into this thing where he's like, I

650
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,360
don't want to be eating that much cheese, so I

651
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,599
do his with like I get some I do turkey,

652
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,639
so I'll do so it's like a kind of like

653
00:35:19,679 --> 00:35:23,039
a fancy sandwich. Yeah, you know, but then that's all

654
00:35:23,039 --> 00:35:25,639
I know how to make. So then then you do

655
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,000
that so many times until people are like, oh, it's

656
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:33,800
you've made the cuprazy sandwich. Well, I have my famous

657
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:39,119
turkey chili, which nobody wants anymore. I make a lasagna, which,

658
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:44,079
like there's certain recipes I've just been making forever that

659
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,320
John likes, but like the kids are tired of. I

660
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,559
need some new things in my repertoire.

661
00:35:50,679 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you made what I want to say, like, uh,

662
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,039
tortellini or something something with tortellini.

663
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 2: Well, I do a pasta salad that's really good, but

664
00:36:02,039 --> 00:36:06,519
it's basically a I do variations on the kuprazyat. I

665
00:36:06,519 --> 00:36:09,679
make it into a salad. Right, it's no tortellini. But

666
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,960
I do like bow typasta, and I do like mozzarella

667
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:20,159
and grape tomatoes and avocado and chicken. I just do

668
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:24,480
it and hearts a palm. Yeah, and everybody likes that,

669
00:36:24,599 --> 00:36:26,199
but how many times can you eat it?

670
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,039
Speaker 1: I know, Wendy, I'm gonna have her teach me how

671
00:36:30,039 --> 00:36:33,480
to make chicken pot pie from scratch because she knows

672
00:36:33,519 --> 00:36:36,320
how to make it and it's really good. It's really

673
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,400
good and it's easy apparently. Oh really, Yeah, so I'll

674
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,880
keep you guys posted. But then you have to make

675
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:47,199
like a pie crust for that, right. I guess maybe

676
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:50,079
you could just buy you I don't know, I'll find out.

677
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:51,760
But how was the rest of your dinner?

678
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,280
Speaker 2: So it was really nice. I was just gonna say

679
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,719
that I was so out of practice of hanging out

680
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,679
with people I haven't hung out with a long time

681
00:37:00,039 --> 00:37:01,840
that I felt like I was hosting a podcast a

682
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,639
little bit, you know. I was like, so, tell me

683
00:37:04,679 --> 00:37:10,119
more about your new job, and the other girl she's like, oh,

684
00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:12,800
it's not really new, like I've been there for a while,

685
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,039
and I was like, yeah, well new to me. What

686
00:37:15,119 --> 00:37:16,960
do you so? What do you do there? Like I

687
00:37:17,199 --> 00:37:19,719
just felt a little awkward making it almost felt like

688
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:20,599
small talk.

689
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 1: Right, Yes, it is, And that's why you know, I

690
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,559
sometimes these dinner parties, like I like them but there's

691
00:37:28,599 --> 00:37:31,679
an expiration time that has to come. It's like I

692
00:37:31,679 --> 00:37:35,199
would like to say, like come over from seven to ten, right,

693
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,320
you know, given an end time.

694
00:37:37,679 --> 00:37:41,280
Speaker 2: That's about how long it was. Yeah, it was we

695
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,920
got well, actually it was six thirty, but we arrived

696
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:49,079
at six forty five, and definitely by maybe ten thirty,

697
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,960
but definitely ten. People started to like wrap it up, right.

698
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 1: See Italians, they'll go on and on and on and

699
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,320
they'll talk talk or you know, like or if like

700
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:03,119
if my ex's friend is there with his wife, they'll

701
00:38:03,199 --> 00:38:05,679
leave and go into the garage and start yapping, and

702
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,719
then I'm stuck with the wife usually, right. You watch

703
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:14,320
the Beverly Hills Housewives of course. Yeah, Jennifer podcast on

704
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:18,760
it podcasts on it. Jennifer Tilly drives me nuts because

705
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:23,039
she reminds me of Adam's friend's wife used to be

706
00:38:23,039 --> 00:38:23,679
our producer.

707
00:38:24,639 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 2: Ah, oh my god, Okay, wait, let's talk about Quint's

708
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real quick. We have h new stuff to talk about,

709
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:37,280
like Quince. We all love Quints, but vacation season is

710
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upon us, and you got to treat yourself to some

711
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like luxurious upgrades. They have some great travel essentials like

712
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lightweight European linen styles from thirty dollars people, washable silk tops,

713
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comfy lounge sets.

714
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: Nice. If you're going on vacation, this is the best

715
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,800
this summer. Quinns is the place you want to go

716
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for your attire.

717
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean, and they only work with factories

718
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that you safe, ethical and responsible manufacturing practices. So I

719
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,159
love that. It's not the it's not the fast fashion

720
00:39:13,559 --> 00:39:16,920
that we're you know, railing against. I know, for me,

721
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:22,000
I'm gonna go and get some of their very inexpensive

722
00:39:22,039 --> 00:39:25,239
but high quality bags for my next trip, because like,

723
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,800
I'm so tired of taking the same bag everywhere I go.

724
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731
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:54,880
All right, what were Oh so? How does so uh?

732
00:39:55,039 --> 00:39:59,519
Our producer reminds you of Jennifer Tilly. Yeah, Jennifertilly reminds

733
00:39:59,519 --> 00:39:59,880
you of her?

734
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, just when I watch The Housewives, it gives me

735
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:08,480
flashbacks of like dinner parties or Fourth of July weekends

736
00:40:08,559 --> 00:40:11,840
when we're hanging out with just us as a foursome

737
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,960
and I'm stuck with a Jennifer Tilly for the weekend.

738
00:40:15,559 --> 00:40:17,599
Does she bug you? Jennifer Tilly bugs me?

739
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you for saying that. Whenever I'm

740
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,400
on Reddit, people are always like, oh my god, She's

741
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,519
a national treasure. She should be a main housewife. I'm like, no,

742
00:40:28,159 --> 00:40:31,400
super annoying. She's super annoying. I don't think she wants

743
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,719
to be a main housewife because she wants to. She

744
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,119
wants all the benefits of going on vacation and looking

745
00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:41,440
fabulous on TV, but she doesn't want to get dragged

746
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,239
into a fight like Erica Jane tried to drag her

747
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,159
into at the very last episode, which I watched last night.

748
00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:50,039
Speaker 1: So I don't think she wants the drama. I think

749
00:40:50,039 --> 00:40:53,159
she just wants to go on these fabulous for vacations.

750
00:40:54,199 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think so too, and I just can't and

751
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,719
her style is weird, and her style is so weird.

752
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,719
Who wants to have a Louis Vuitton purse that's shaped.

753
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: Like a boat.

754
00:41:03,199 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 2: I don't, I know. It's so like a little kid

755
00:41:06,519 --> 00:41:10,000
like with a weird box, yes, right, like coming in

756
00:41:10,639 --> 00:41:11,840
the way she talks.

757
00:41:11,639 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 1: And the way she talks, and all her jewelry and

758
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,280
this is this is and she's gotta say the names

759
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,280
of the brands of the jewelry Bulgarie and this is

760
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:24,639
whatever Cardier. It's like all right, like it's just so.

761
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,679
Speaker 2: And I don't understand why she doesn't get more backlashed

762
00:41:28,679 --> 00:41:33,400
for the for her attitude about like, yeah, because my

763
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,000
ex Sam, he really you know, gave me so much

764
00:41:37,119 --> 00:41:40,000
money and I get the Simpsons. That's how I can

765
00:41:40,039 --> 00:41:44,960
afford all of my bobbles. And who thinks that's bragging?

766
00:41:45,079 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: Right?

767
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,679
Speaker 2: I know, I know, it's just it's she made that

768
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,760
comment on the last show and you might remember where

769
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:51,159
she was.

770
00:41:51,159 --> 00:41:54,519
Speaker 1: Like, oh, this is all is like Chucky money.

771
00:41:54,639 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 2: This isn't chucky money pays for snacks. This is from

772
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,239
my ex.

773
00:41:59,079 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: Husband, by the diamonds and stuff from the Simpson money. Yeah,

774
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:08,639
which is h Sam Simon's money, right, And he died, right, yeah,

775
00:42:08,679 --> 00:42:11,719
he died and he was like supposedly a great guy

776
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,480
gave like so much money to charity.

777
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,079
Speaker 2: But she made a claim that she fought and that

778
00:42:18,199 --> 00:42:21,440
he offered her a certain amount of money in the divorce,

779
00:42:21,599 --> 00:42:24,960
and then she was like, no, lawyered up and then

780
00:42:25,079 --> 00:42:28,679
fought for a percentage of the Simpsons money. And that's

781
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:33,280
what she's rich from, right, which listen, good for you,

782
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,280
get your bag, but at the same time, don't talk

783
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,320
about it. Kind of be like, I'm so rich.

784
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,519
Speaker 1: It's just so gross. I hate people like that. I

785
00:42:43,599 --> 00:42:45,960
really they just rubbed me the wrong way. I can't

786
00:42:46,519 --> 00:42:48,679
she just like it was same with.

787
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I and I can't stand Sutton. How about you.

788
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,679
Speaker 1: I can't stand Satin either. I cannot stand her either.

789
00:43:00,079 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 2: I don't like any of them. Do you like any

790
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:02,679
of them? No?

791
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: I kind of admire Erika Jane now because just only

792
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,280
for the fact that she was in a dark place,

793
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,559
not because of what she was, you know, hooked up with,

794
00:43:14,639 --> 00:43:17,239
but the fact that she was in that place that

795
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,679
she was in a few seasons ago and now to

796
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,719
where she's at today. But then I'm like, yeah, that's

797
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,880
easy for Erica Jane because she's on the Housewives and

798
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,960
she's doing Roxy on Broadway, so it's easy to pull

799
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,840
herself out of that kind of stuff she's got, you know.

800
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,480
But other than that, no, I don't. I think Kyle.

801
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:40,559
Maybe I'm okay with because Kyle has friends that are

802
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:45,039
you know, that are longtime friends that she's that are

803
00:43:45,079 --> 00:43:48,159
loyal to her, and she's loyal too, So she seems

804
00:43:48,199 --> 00:43:50,760
to me like a genuine good friend. Other than that,

805
00:43:51,159 --> 00:43:54,639
dried I could kick over a cliff. Can't stand her.

806
00:43:55,159 --> 00:43:59,519
I just I don't know. I just don't. I don't

807
00:43:59,599 --> 00:44:00,320
like any.

808
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god. I can't decide if we should

809
00:44:04,199 --> 00:44:08,159
save this for Friday or if we should talk about

810
00:44:08,159 --> 00:44:13,480
it right now. But you know what I want to say,

811
00:44:13,559 --> 00:44:16,239
because I can't wait for your opinion on Karen Reid.

812
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,599
We got to talk about the Karen Reid. Yes, I

813
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:24,320
have watched it now we spoiler alert. I still think

814
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:30,159
she's guilty, So I think she's innocent. Oh my god, conversation.

815
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,880
I definitely don't think she's innocent. I don't know if

816
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,639
she can be proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt with

817
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,679
some of the stuff, but I one thousand percent she

818
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,320
did it. I don't know if they can prove it,

819
00:44:42,599 --> 00:44:46,000
but she probably will get off because she has very

820
00:44:46,039 --> 00:44:50,400
good attorneys. Oh but okay, wait, I have a couple

821
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,719
other things though that we'll talk about that on Friday,

822
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:56,000
because I have a couple other shows. But I meant,

823
00:44:56,519 --> 00:45:00,639
I meant to. I don't know if it's complaint, but

824
00:45:00,679 --> 00:45:02,920
I'm wondering if you feel this way. Now that the

825
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:06,280
kids are a little older, I have been very lax

826
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:11,039
on taking them to the dentist. Oh, they are over

827
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,880
way overdue. And I'm like, God, I haven't gone to

828
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,880
the dentist myself in a while. You know, I only

829
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,719
go when I'm like losing teeth. Yeah, but because I'm

830
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,960
so busy taking their asses to like the dermatologists they

831
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,239
need that they need. Yeah, And then I'm like, oh

832
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,639
my god, I just realized. The other day. I was like,

833
00:45:31,079 --> 00:45:33,760
I'm such a bad parent. I don't know when the

834
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,760
last time they went to the dentist is. I think

835
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,039
they just stopped reminding me.

836
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,559
Speaker 1: Well, do they need to go to the dentist unless

837
00:45:39,559 --> 00:45:40,000
they I.

838
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 2: Don't know, they're supposed like every six months.

839
00:45:44,119 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, the only reason why my kids are still doing it. Well,

840
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,880
I don't think Natali has had a check up, and like,

841
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,920
I don't know, but anyway, was because they were doing

842
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,320
the retainer thing. They had the visi line. But then

843
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,320
nakas the orthodonis. That's the orthodonics I got the dentists.

844
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,960
Well see, that's the thing is their brothers. The orthodonist

845
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:09,960
didn't marry regular dentist our brothers, and they kind of go, Okay,

846
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,559
it's time for you to go get a cleaning. So

847
00:46:11,599 --> 00:46:15,239
they do go get a cleaning, usually around the same time,

848
00:46:15,599 --> 00:46:17,000
you know, but.

849
00:46:17,079 --> 00:46:18,760
Speaker 2: Now they're at school.

850
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, now they're at school, so yeah, they haven't gotten

851
00:46:23,519 --> 00:46:25,119
I don't know when the last time they went.

852
00:46:26,199 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 2: Well. See, I'm also dealing with the fact that Xander

853
00:46:29,519 --> 00:46:32,599
is on acutane and that is like a full time

854
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,280
job to have a kid on acutane because and by

855
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:39,039
the way, last time I talked about it, he was

856
00:46:39,079 --> 00:46:42,239
having bad sensory issues because his skin was so dry.

857
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:48,239
But that did get better then like a month ago

858
00:46:48,599 --> 00:46:50,840
or going on two months ago, they raised his dose

859
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:57,239
from twenty to forty, which is fine, except that now

860
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:02,360
he has to have routine blood tests. But so it's

861
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,800
such a pain in the ass because it's really difficult

862
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,480
to get an appointment with the lab. He has to

863
00:47:08,519 --> 00:47:12,760
either go before school or after school, and he's it's

864
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,159
just it's just kind of ridiculous to figure it out. Then,

865
00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:19,199
when you're on acutane, you have to have an appointment

866
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:23,639
with the dermatologist every single month, right, Yeah, in order

867
00:47:23,679 --> 00:47:25,360
to keep to get the prescription.

868
00:47:25,639 --> 00:47:27,599
Speaker 1: That's a lot. Now, I wonder why you're not taking

869
00:47:27,639 --> 00:47:28,360
him the dentist.

870
00:47:28,559 --> 00:47:30,639
Speaker 2: It's a lot. So it's like every time I think

871
00:47:30,639 --> 00:47:32,880
about it's like, Okay, he's got an appointment. Here, he's

872
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,840
got this doctor appointment. Then he has to go get

873
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,320
blood work, and then it's just like it's really annoying.

874
00:47:38,679 --> 00:47:41,119
But the other day I was like, oh my god,

875
00:47:41,159 --> 00:47:42,960
I do not know the last time these kids went

876
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:43,519
to the dentist.

877
00:47:44,119 --> 00:47:48,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure they're okay, I don't know.

878
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,559
Speaker 2: I guess so maybe they have cavities. I don't know.

879
00:47:52,559 --> 00:47:56,280
Oh my god. Okay, one other thing to tell you.

880
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:02,320
So John's birthday was Wednesday, and I was just like,

881
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,320
it's just a bridge too far. I teach Wednesday nights,

882
00:48:05,639 --> 00:48:08,400
the kids were in school all day. LB's at UCLA,

883
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,719
so we made an agreement to just celebrate his birthday

884
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,960
on Sunday. Oh, So we literally just kind of pretended

885
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:19,760
it wasn't his birthday, and then yesterday it was his birthday. Yes,

886
00:48:20,079 --> 00:48:24,639
so I did make He wanted bake scallops. He loves scallops,

887
00:48:24,679 --> 00:48:27,840
So I made bake scallops. I gotta say it came

888
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:33,440
out pretty good if the internet. Yeah, ate garlic mashed

889
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:39,559
potatoes from from instant. Yeah, say what you want about

890
00:48:39,639 --> 00:48:42,239
instant mashed potatoes. I think just licious. That come a

891
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,719
long way, Yes, they have. And then we made art

892
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,400
of chokes and the art of chokes. I had to

893
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,800
do two separate pots because I had to make five

894
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,679
art to chokes and oh my god, I cooked them

895
00:48:54,679 --> 00:48:57,400
for like an hour and fifteen minutes and they still

896
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,480
weren't like cooked all the way.

897
00:49:00,159 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: To text me last night, Wendy's queen of making ARTI joke, really, yes,

898
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,119
how does she do it? I don't know. I don't know.

899
00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:07,800
I'll find out.

900
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 2: I put him in a big pot, like in a steamer,

901
00:49:12,079 --> 00:49:15,000
you know, with a steamer tray, and oh my god,

902
00:49:15,079 --> 00:49:15,760
it just took.

903
00:49:15,679 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: For It does take a long time, I think, yeah,

904
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,480
for fucking ever. And you need to make five well.

905
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 2: I wanted to make an artichoke for each person. You

906
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:25,679
don't do it that way.

907
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: I think she just makes like two or something like that,

908
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,119
and everybody just, oh, yeah, I.

909
00:49:32,039 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 2: Guess everybody wants their own, like the hah that's.

910
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you can do that too.

911
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,039
Speaker 2: I was like, why couldn't we have just gone to

912
00:49:40,079 --> 00:49:43,960
dinner regular people? Because I offered John, I was like,

913
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,480
we could go to like a couple of his favorite restaurants.

914
00:49:46,519 --> 00:49:49,119
And I was like, or I could make you like

915
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,880
baked scalops, and he was like, I want to do that.

916
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,119
And then when I'm doing it, I was like cursing myself.

917
00:49:55,039 --> 00:49:56,480
I sign up for this.

918
00:49:56,519 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 1: And scalots are pretty quick and easy to make kind

919
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:00,840
of and there you are.

920
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 2: But I was making a recipe like making bakes with

921
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,559
bread crumbs. I was like, toasting bread crumbs with you.

922
00:50:08,079 --> 00:50:09,639
Speaker 1: Geez, well that's good.

923
00:50:10,519 --> 00:50:16,639
Speaker 2: Yeah it was Listen. It was delicious. Very expensive, by

924
00:50:16,679 --> 00:50:18,639
the way, could it probably would have been the same

925
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,679
cost to go to donor dinner because I had to

926
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:24,119
buy jumbo scallops. Two pounds of jumbo scallops, right, there

927
00:50:24,199 --> 00:50:27,639
was like eighty bucks just for that. Plus, as you know,

928
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,280
which we talk about when you are going to make

929
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,079
a recipe, all of a sudden, ingredients pop up that

930
00:50:34,119 --> 00:50:37,639
you're like, wait, what, I don't have this, So I

931
00:50:37,679 --> 00:50:39,480
had to buy a bunch of things that I would

932
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that I'll never use.

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Speaker 1: Yes, exactly right, but look you did it.

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Speaker 2: I did it. Yeah, it's in the interview. Yeah, before

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we go, I just want to reiterate because today you're

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listening to this on Tuesday, and my podcast drops today. Ingratulations,

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Drunkish is out. There are four episodes out right now. Nice,

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please do me a favor and rate it. Leave me

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a review would be great, because you know how, we

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have haters. We have some hardcore haters that really are

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very strangely obsessed with our lives and with hating us.

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And they've already gone into the they've already tried to

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sync my ratings.

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Speaker 1: What assholes, I know.

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Speaker 2: Ah, So the podcast isn't out yet and they've already like,

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by just well we can show like me.

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Speaker 1: We need to show's Devinie's some love. Go on there

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and leave a good rating.

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Speaker 2: Helpful because I'm working real hard on it and I'm

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going to be doing putting out like social media clips

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and the whole thing. And I have great interviews.

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Speaker 1: I am excited.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited. I have the next, like weeks coming

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up have really good episodes. But in our first batch

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is Greg Fitzimmons.

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Speaker 1: Everybody loves Greg fitzim.

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Speaker 2: I know, and I think I'm gonna also get an episode.

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She said she will with Alison Rosen.

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Speaker 1: Nice and with you with me. Yes, So it's gonna

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it's a good pot fighting. I'm excited, all right.

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Speaker 2: So before we go, let us do I already did

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a shout out for Robin's charity, Pup Culture Rescue. Christa

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Stroop is promoting her friend Sarah's the Chase Hayley Project,

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which is trying to break the stigma around suicide and

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fill in the gaps in her community in Ohio for

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mental health needs. The A c T is probably coming up.

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So the Better Test Prep is an at a c T.

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You got me. It's a test prep guide. Go to

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Better dot Test dot Prep. That's our friend Laurie Bishop's

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Son's business, So do it. Also, I have a very

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good friend who has a Medium account called Unbecoming Stories,

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So go check that out on medium dot com and

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you're gonna read some really juicy stories about her ex husband.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also, The Family Skeptical it's a podcast about raising kids

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without Religion, so check them out The Family Skeptical. If

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you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert, go to Wilma

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and Freda. Also, if you want to get a T

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shirt or a mousepad or a mug with the funny

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saying on it that you come up with or that

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you shop for, go to just Basic Becky dot com

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and use our friend Becky Barris. You can also on

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Facebook just go to Basic Becky. Also, if you're on

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the island of Kawhi, you can shop at Sugar Skull.

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There's a bakery and a gift shop and you can

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also shop from their website sugar Skull eight eight dot

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square dot site. If you're traveling, why not use Christine

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Black and go to Waves and Wonder Travel. You can

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find her on Instagram at travel with Christine b. Also

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the ACLU, Jacob Crowley is paying good money to shout

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out the ACLU. Times are tough right now and the

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ACLU is on the front line taking on these lawsuits

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protecting our trans friends, LGBT friends, immigrants, ACLU is.

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Speaker 1: Go to their website and you'll see everything that they're doing,

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what you can read about it.

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Speaker 2: And Carrie Kibler is promoting the HRC, which is the

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Human Rights Campaign. They are also doing amazing work on

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the front lines. And Adam Lerner I'd shot a car.

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If you want to get a car and use a

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car broker to make your life so much easier, try

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Adams gootacar dot com. And also if you want to

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give money to another resource, our friend Laura Wingfield is

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promoting her friend OSCARS you Queer Youth resource in Vancouver, Washington.

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They need our help q y RC van ver w

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a dot org. Let's do this right all ranks.

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Speaker 1: Everybody think you calin, you're a better now, don't f

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it ux. It's a good

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Speaker 2: Let angle