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<v Speaker 1>It only takes a moment, one turn around, a bend,

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<v Speaker 1>one step just a little too far ahead, and suddenly

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<v Speaker 1>the person you were just walking beside is gone. In

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<v Speaker 1>the open expanse of the desert, where visibility stretches for

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<v Speaker 1>miles and silence carries farther than sound, you wouldn't expect

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<v Speaker 1>someone to simply disappear. But in July of twenty nineteen,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what happened. I'm Megan, I'm Danielle, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is off the trails, all right, Well, before we get

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<v Speaker 1>into the episode, is there anything Do we have anything?

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<v Speaker 2>I do not. I don't either, other than welcome kits

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<v Speaker 2>for newer Patreon members are out, so watch your mailboxes.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I think USPS takes forever to get things

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<v Speaker 2>to people lately. I've just been keeping track of things

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<v Speaker 2>at work wise, so hopefully you get it in two

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<v Speaker 2>to three weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the post office lacking?

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like it. It's taking things like an average

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<v Speaker 2>of like ten days to get places like it took

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<v Speaker 2>eight days to go to a town fifteen minutes away.

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<v Speaker 1>That is insane.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I don't know what the deal is with that.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you don't have them in like three weeks

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<v Speaker 2>let me know, but hopefully it's like two weeks with tops.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Yeah, that's bad all right. Well, aside

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<v Speaker 1>from that then I think we can get into it. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Barbara Thomas was sixty nine years old, a grandmother,

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<v Speaker 1>a wife, and someone who found comfort in the quiet

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<v Speaker 1>beauty of the desert. She stood five foot nine inches tall,

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<v Speaker 1>with blonde hair and green eyes, and she lived with

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<v Speaker 1>her husband, Robert or Bob, in Bullhead City, Arizona. By

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<v Speaker 1>all accounts, Barbara and Bob were familiar with the desert

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<v Speaker 1>and so this wasn't really new territory for them. They

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed the outdoors and had even explored the area before,

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<v Speaker 1>understood the terrain, and were comfortable navigating its vastness. So

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<v Speaker 1>when they set out on Friday, July twelfth of twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen for a casual day trip in their camper, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>about it seemed unusual. At some point that afternoon, roughly

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<v Speaker 1>twenty miles or about thirty two kilometers north of Interstate

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<v Speaker 1>forty in just east of Kelbaker Road, the couple decided

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<v Speaker 1>to pull over. They planned to take a short hike

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<v Speaker 1>about two miles round trip or roughly three point two

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<v Speaker 1>kilometers to check out some nearby rock formations. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was just supposed to be quick and easy. It just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of little, you know, pit.

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<v Speaker 2>The side quest.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, However, it would become anything but so. The

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<v Speaker 1>Mojave Desert stretches across parts of California, Nevada, Arizona, and Utah,

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<v Speaker 1>covering an immense fifty four thousand square miles or about

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and forty thousand square kilometers. To the west,

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<v Speaker 1>the Sierra Nevada Mountains form a natural barrier, and to

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<v Speaker 1>the south and east, the Mojave gradually blends into the

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<v Speaker 1>Sonoran Desert, and within its boundaries lies one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most unforgiving places on Earth. Can you guess what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Death Valley?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Correct. The Mojave is perhaps also best known for

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<v Speaker 1>the Joshua tree, which is an iconic, almost otherworldly plant

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't naturally grow anywhere else in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that it was endemic to that area.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But as beautiful as the desert can be, it

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<v Speaker 1>can also be deceptively dangerous. Winters here can be bitterly cold,

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<v Speaker 1>with strong winds that cut across the open terrain, while summers,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, routinely climb into triple digit temperatures

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<v Speaker 1>well above one hundred degrees fahrenheit or thirty eight degrees

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<v Speaker 1>celsius and oftentimes higher. But it's not just the heat,

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<v Speaker 1>because the desert is home to a range of potentially

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous wildlife as well, mahave green rattlesnakes, sidewinders, arizona bark, scorpions,

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<v Speaker 1>black widows, spiders, coyotes, and even mountain lions. But more

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<v Speaker 1>often than not, the greatest threat isn't what's hiding in

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<v Speaker 1>the sand or the rocks. It's the environment itself. The heat,

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<v Speaker 1>the dehydration, the disorientation that can creep in faster than

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<v Speaker 1>you expect, and sometimes the vastness. So what looks like

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<v Speaker 1>a short walk somewhere like here can quickly turned into

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<v Speaker 1>something much more serious. So back to July twelfth, when

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<v Speaker 1>Barbera and Bob sat out on their hike. They brought

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<v Speaker 1>a backpack, some beer and a gallon of water.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, and a beer would be my choice for

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<v Speaker 2>the desert, but that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I feel like a beer sounds nice at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of a hike. But not during yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>not that kind of heat.

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<v Speaker 2>I just like when I was like twenty five accidentally,

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<v Speaker 2>just like was in the sun all day, which is

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<v Speaker 2>which is not my thing and never has been my thing,

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<v Speaker 2>a drinking bud light lime, and I was just so dehydrated.

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<v Speaker 2>And I probably have felt like the worst after that

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<v Speaker 2>day of having like a couple beers on a hot

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<v Speaker 2>day than having you know, six drinks and yeah, yep, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>any hydration get you, Yes, it does.

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<v Speaker 1>So while they had this backpack, Barbara herself wasn't carrying anything.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just wearing a bikini, hiking boots and a hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Iconic.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, And agreed, while that is very iconic, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love her for this, I also want her to have

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<v Speaker 1>her own pack with some just some basic supplies and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean water and snacks.

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<v Speaker 2>And yes, that attire is perfect for drinking bud lightline

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<v Speaker 2>in your backyard, yes absolutely, or setting up your lawn

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<v Speaker 2>chair outside of your camper with a beer like exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But she didn't have a cell phone, she didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any extra water, no gear, and despite the heat, they

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, went on there, went on their stroll

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<v Speaker 1>to look at these rock formations.

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<v Speaker 2>Any idea how long they expected to be out, like was,

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<v Speaker 2>were these formations far from where they were parked or

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<v Speaker 2>just no, from what I could find, they didn't expect

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<v Speaker 2>it to be.

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<v Speaker 1>More than like two miles like at and back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if it's an actual trail they

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<v Speaker 1>were on or you know, it's the desert, so make

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<v Speaker 1>your own trail, right, right, Yeah, But I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>they expected to be gone long at all. And given

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<v Speaker 1>that they were from Arizona, you know they are we

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<v Speaker 1>can assume very familiar with the heat. They're familiar with

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<v Speaker 1>just the Southwest region in general and that type of

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<v Speaker 1>climate and terrain. So this probably they probably were very

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<v Speaker 1>confident going out to do what they were doing and

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<v Speaker 1>how long they planned to be there with what they had.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I think living in Arizona you probably have to

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<v Speaker 2>have a higher heat tolerance than I pause, so probably

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<v Speaker 2>I would last five minutes out and that.

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<v Speaker 1>Heat, yes, yeah, And I mean I think the heat

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<v Speaker 1>and the sun are they kind of work against each

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<v Speaker 1>other in the sense of because it's so hot, you

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<v Speaker 1>would think the less layers the better, But to protect

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<v Speaker 1>you from the sun and from that like direct exposure,

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<v Speaker 1>you really need the layers. So whenever you see people

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<v Speaker 1>hiking in like high heat areas and they have like

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<v Speaker 1>the long sleeves, the large hats, the pants, it seems counterintuitive,

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<v Speaker 1>but it actually, of course makes the most sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Several summer hoodies. And people give me a hard time

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<v Speaker 2>when I walk at lunchtime at work and I have

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<v Speaker 2>like my hood up, But it's uv protection.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not because.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cold when trying to keep the sun off of

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<v Speaker 2>all of me if possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that's that's the right thing to do. At

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<v Speaker 1>around two thirty pm, the couple began making their way

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<v Speaker 1>back to the camper, and at some point along the way,

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara started walking ahead of Bob, and he later said

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<v Speaker 1>that he had stopped briefly to take a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>one of the rocks out there, and as he was

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<v Speaker 1>putting his camera away, he saw that Barbara had rounded

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<v Speaker 1>a corner like just ahead of him, out of sight.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't unusual. He didn't think anything of it,

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<v Speaker 1>just that she was a little bit further ahead of him. However,

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<v Speaker 1>what he didn't know is that it would also be

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<v Speaker 1>the last time that he would ever see her. When

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<v Speaker 1>Bob reached that same corner. Moments later, she wasn't back

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<v Speaker 1>in sight, but again he wasn't panicking yet. He just

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<v Speaker 1>assumed that she had gotten further ahead and was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>at the camper waiting for him. You know, just nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Concerning, Right, is this terrain where they were in particular?

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<v Speaker 2>Like are there a lot of boulders or rocks or like,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'm trying to picture how you get out

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<v Speaker 2>of sight quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>In the desert.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that has like a lot of like low growing

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<v Speaker 2>vegetation and kind of typically that's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it so because we only sort of have

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<v Speaker 1>an approximate placement of where they were, it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>this area does have just some you know, larger boulders

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<v Speaker 1>or rocks that someone could be behind or near. And

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, it is lighter vegetation, so it's not

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like dense by any means where they are.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also don't know exactly where they were, right,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know of any like potential obstructions that they

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<v Speaker 1>that could have been between them? Okay, soh yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>had assumed that she had just you know, made her

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<v Speaker 1>way back to the camper and he would just meet

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<v Speaker 1>her there. But when he got there, That's when he

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<v Speaker 1>immediately became worried because she wasn't outside the camper waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for him. The camper door was locked, and so of

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<v Speaker 1>course she wasn't inside it either, and she was nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>to be found. Almost immediately, you know, he started calling

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<v Speaker 1>out her name. He started looking everywhere for her around

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<v Speaker 1>the area, listening for anything, trying to find any movement,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was nothing, no sign of where she may

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<v Speaker 1>have gone. So he called nine one one, and authorities

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<v Speaker 1>arrived shortly after, and what followed would just be a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty comprehensive search effort. There were sheriff's deputies, search and

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<v Speaker 1>rescue teams, fire personnel, park rangers, canine units, and a helicopter. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you have everyone, everyone coming in and she

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<v Speaker 1>was so close to him that you would think in

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<v Speaker 1>that short amount of time she couldn't have gotten far

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<v Speaker 1>from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, It's not like they were on their way to

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<v Speaker 2>their destination. Well, I guess you're always on your way

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<v Speaker 2>to a destination. It's not like they were heading away

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<v Speaker 2>from the camper, right where the possibilities of where you

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<v Speaker 2>might end up are significantly more. But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>they're pretty close to the camper.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they had just they had pulled off of

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<v Speaker 1>that road, so where they had parked the camper, you

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<v Speaker 1>actually needed to cross the street to get back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was also a road that would be.

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<v Speaker 2>A landmark.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, thank you, there it is. So, you know, teams

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<v Speaker 1>combed the surrounding terrain on foot and they had the

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<v Speaker 1>aerial support the dogs, which you know, you would think

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<v Speaker 1>like dogs would pick up a send pretty quickly. There

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't any rain or anything that would potentially compromise that

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<v Speaker 1>part of the search. But days passed with no leads.

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<v Speaker 1>She just vanished. On Wednesday, July seventeenth, off road vehicles

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<v Speaker 1>were brought in to expand the search area, covering ground

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<v Speaker 1>that was too difficult to access on foot. Then on

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<v Speaker 1>July twentieth and twenty first specialized teams joined the effort,

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<v Speaker 1>and these individuals were certified in cave searches, rope climbing,

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<v Speaker 1>and desert terrain. Ground hikers were among the search and

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<v Speaker 1>rescue members. So they were bringing in every type of

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<v Speaker 1>skill set possible to aid in this search. But they

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find footprints. They didn't find you know, clothing, blood,

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<v Speaker 1>no sign of a struggle, no indication of where she

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<v Speaker 1>had gone. She had just disappeared. On July twenty second,

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<v Speaker 1>authorities announced that Bob was being looked at as a suspect.

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<v Speaker 2>Which in these situations does make sense. It's seemingly obviously

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<v Speaker 2>I think any situation, your partner is the most likely culprit.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure where he said. He called very quickly

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<v Speaker 2>and a search got underway pretty quickly in a known area.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they're like, Okay, she should be here, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't she? Yeah, this does not make any sense. And

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<v Speaker 1>as you said, I mean, it's understandable for them to

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<v Speaker 1>that they've told you. But definitely, and of course Bob

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<v Speaker 1>she was ahead of me, and she had to cross

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<v Speaker 1>that road. He believed that someone passing through that sort

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<v Speaker 1>investigators were not convinced. They had Bob take a polygraph test,

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<v Speaker 1>and the results showed indications of deception. Still, polygraphs are

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<v Speaker 1>denial of having anything to do with his wife's disappearance,

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<v Speaker 1>and he later attributed the results to sleep deprivation at

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<v Speaker 1>the time of the test. Also, it's a high stress scenario,

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<v Speaker 1>amount of like just panic going on, the stress, like

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many things happening in your body. How could

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<v Speaker 1>it not impact the test results?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I always I mean, obviously we've talked about polygraphs before.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you are stressed enough or sleep deprived,

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<v Speaker 2>anxious enough, Yeah, I could probably possibly fail a polygraph

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<v Speaker 2>about you know, like what I did yesterday, just because

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<v Speaker 2>it's a stressful situation, even just being tested sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that, And that's exactly right, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>could be called in to take a test right now,

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<v Speaker 1>not that you're under suspicion for anything. But if a

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<v Speaker 1>if any authority figure is asking you questions like where

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<v Speaker 1>we're yesterday, Oh, what time was that at? Oh are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure that you know you're recalling that correctly? What

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<v Speaker 1>was this person wearing? And that's that's intimidating.

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<v Speaker 2>Gets stressed out at the drive theorem ordering like a

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<v Speaker 2>coffee or something, and they're like, do you want an

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<v Speaker 2>iced or hot? And I'm like, I don't know, you

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always iced, but you know, I think, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think we always have to takee with the grain of salt.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would not be surprised if in the next

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<v Speaker 2>few years science phases those out all together, just because

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many other factors.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree. So Barbara's family also didn't believe that

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<v Speaker 1>she had simply wandered off, and the source that I

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<v Speaker 1>saw this from says that her family was from Hong Kong.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if they lived there or from

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<v Speaker 1>there or okay, but it they just sort of just said,

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<v Speaker 1>like collectively, her family in Hong Kong didn't believe she

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, they how about it? Sorry, do you know how

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<v Speaker 2>long they had been married?

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<v Speaker 1>No? And I was going to touch on that toward

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the episode. There was not really there's

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<v Speaker 1>like virtually no background information.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean not that necessarily matters. Obviously, we've heard

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<v Speaker 2>of cases where a partner or a spouse does something

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<v Speaker 2>horrible to their you know, their newlyweds and they've been

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<v Speaker 2>married a week. But then we've also heard of situations

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<v Speaker 2>where it's been thirty five years and something happens. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't necessarily matter, but I was just curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely it does. You know, whenever we've said this before,

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<v Speaker 1>where it is nice to get a sort of picture

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<v Speaker 1>of this person we're talking about that we're not we

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<v Speaker 1>can expand beyond the incident that we're covering and actually

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<v Speaker 1>sort of get to know them a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>as just the person outside of the incident, and so

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<v Speaker 1>getting that context of you know, not to invade anyone's privacy,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, but just whenever there is a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of information like where they're from, what they like to do,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe what they did for work, and what other people

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<v Speaker 1>said about them, it's just nice to bring that information

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<v Speaker 1>to light as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, brought in the scope a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so her family said that the chances she became

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<v Speaker 1>lost or disoriented in the five minutes before her husband

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<v Speaker 1>between her husband reporting last seeing her and him realizing

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<v Speaker 1>she was missing is highly improbable. Barbara does not have

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<v Speaker 1>a history of any illness that we know of. We

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<v Speaker 1>have no reason to believe Barbara would walk away from

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<v Speaker 1>her husband or disappear in the manner.

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<v Speaker 2>That she has.

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<v Speaker 1>The case was eventually taken over by the Specialized Investigations Division,

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<v Speaker 1>but they weren't able to you know, find any new

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<v Speaker 1>leads or evidence either. Eighteen months passed, there was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a year and a half of uncertainty, questions

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<v Speaker 1>and just waiting. Then on November twenty seventh of twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two, people hiking in a field off kel Baker

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<v Speaker 1>Road made a discovery human remains. The following day, on

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<v Speaker 1>the twenty eighth, authorities conducted a more extensive search of

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<v Speaker 1>the area, recovering additional bones and evidence. Those remains were

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<v Speaker 1>later positively identified as Barbara. However, her cause of death

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<v Speaker 1>has remained pending, or at least not disclosed. So many

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<v Speaker 1>of the questions surrounding her disappearance have also remained unanswered.

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<v Speaker 2>So far, was this from where she originally witnesssing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great question. They did not. It's so I

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<v Speaker 1>have an overhead view of kel Baker Road. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>essentially there are two main roads that run like east

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<v Speaker 1>to west that are sort of like they run parallel

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<v Speaker 1>with each other, and where they were this kel Baker Road.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sort of like this scenic side road if you will,

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<v Speaker 1>that runs north to south between these two roads. So

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<v Speaker 1>there is a stop and star of kel Baker Road.

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<v Speaker 1>So it can only be in in you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>a limited space. But they're still miles and miles of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And although I was able to find where they were

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<v Speaker 1>based on the sources saying that they had parked about

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<v Speaker 1>twenty off of the road from Interstate forty, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it is so we know where that is. But when

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<v Speaker 1>they talk about the remains, all they say is cal

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<v Speaker 1>Baker Road, so literally anywhere Crivis Road. Okay, not helpful, no,

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<v Speaker 1>And I know we've brought this up before when remains

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<v Speaker 1>are found, and they're very, very vague with where they're found.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is understandable for a variety of reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, but it also leaves that question for us who

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<v Speaker 1>have not that we they owe us anything, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. It would be helpful to know where she

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<v Speaker 1>was found in relation to where she went missing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it can give a lot of indication as

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<v Speaker 2>to if she got there on foot on her own

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<v Speaker 2>while the search was going on, or if she was

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<v Speaker 2>taken there in a vehicle or ended up there at

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<v Speaker 2>a later point.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, knowing that that road is there and knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>it's sandwiched between these two major roads tells me like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she obviously never made it to the road and wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't find her way back to the road, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's something where you would just sort of, I would think,

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<v Speaker 1>hang out near and hope to see a car and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, just it's either sitting you know, by the

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<v Speaker 1>road or wander the desert, which one sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>better outcome.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So, there are, of course a few theories and possibilities

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<v Speaker 1>as to what may have happened to Barbara. It's possible

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<v Speaker 1>she became disoriented in the heat. You know. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>even experienced hikers can underestimate how quickly dehydration and extreme

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<v Speaker 1>temperatures can affect the body, Especially without adequate water or protection.

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<v Speaker 1>In triple digit heat, the human body can begin to

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<v Speaker 1>shut down far faster than most people realize, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have really anything that was helping her combat that

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<v Speaker 1>heat and that direct exposure, because.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure even that gallon of water they had, I

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<v Speaker 2>would assume probably pretty depleted by that point. And it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like Bob was carrying anything they had anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she just had, as he said, beer, a beer

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<v Speaker 1>and bikini.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no pockets and bikinis.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, they're not. It's possible she attempted to take

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<v Speaker 1>a short cut back to the camper and lost her bearings.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, in the desert, terrain can look deceptively similar

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<v Speaker 1>in every direction. It doesn't take much to veer off course.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a highly unlikely theory that she encountered a wild animal.

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<v Speaker 1>The desert is home to, you know, some of the

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<v Speaker 1>some predators like coyotes and mountain lions, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>the some venomous snakes and the Arizona bark scorpion. But

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, an attack earning ca counter isn't impossible,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just highly improbable in this case.

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<v Speaker 2>And obviously those smaller creatures a snake, a scorpion, they

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<v Speaker 2>would not have relocated her in any way. A mata

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<v Speaker 2>lion probably could take a human elsewhere. Coyote possibly as well.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you get bit by a snake, they're not

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<v Speaker 2>packing you up to go.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true. That would be horrifying if it did.

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<v Speaker 1>And as we've discussed before, you know, any type of

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<v Speaker 1>animal attacks almost always leave behind evidence their tracks, disturbed ground, blood,

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<v Speaker 1>torn clothing, and despite an extensive search and even involving

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<v Speaker 1>the canine units and trained teams, none of those signs

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<v Speaker 1>were found. If she had been bitten by a snake

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<v Speaker 1>or stung by a scorpion, she likely would have been

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<v Speaker 1>located within the search radius. After succumbing to her injuries,

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara had only been out of sight for a matter

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<v Speaker 1>of making it even less likely that such an encounter

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<v Speaker 1>could have occurred without leaving any trace. So there's really

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<v Speaker 1>no evidence to support any animal involvement. There's the theory

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<v Speaker 1>that Bob suggested that someone may have encountered her and

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<v Speaker 1>picked her up. While the area is remote, they did

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<v Speaker 1>have to cross that road to get back to their

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<v Speaker 1>parked camper. And then there's the lingering suspicion that investigators

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<v Speaker 1>initially had, though no charges were ever brought against him,

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<v Speaker 1>but some people have also pointed to this theory online,

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<v Speaker 1>questioning whether Bob's account fully adds up, and noting how

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<v Speaker 1>difficult it is to verify what happened when no one

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<v Speaker 1>else was there to witness it. Some speculate that the

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<v Speaker 1>disappearance may not have been accidental at all, but the

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<v Speaker 1>result of foul play. However, it's important to emphasize that

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<v Speaker 1>this remains pure speculation. Of course, no charges were filed

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<v Speaker 1>and no definitive evidence has been made public to support

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<v Speaker 1>that conclusion. But I also understand why some people have

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<v Speaker 1>fully ruled that out. You know, the timeline is entirely

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<v Speaker 1>what he's provided, the events are entirely what he's provided.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I think all we can assume unless

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<v Speaker 1>evidence comes to light, is that this man's wife went missing,

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<v Speaker 1>and now you know, she's been confirmed as deceased, and

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<v Speaker 1>he has to, you know, mourn.

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<v Speaker 2>That would I mean, it sounds like they were again

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<v Speaker 2>in very close proximity, so I would Obviously it's a speculation,

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<v Speaker 2>but I would think if someone had stopped to get

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<v Speaker 2>her in a vehicle, and she was not looking to

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<v Speaker 2>get into a vehicle, you would think that Bob would

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<v Speaker 2>have been within a distance that he could have overheard

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<v Speaker 2>a scream or her calling for help or something of

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<v Speaker 2>that nature, if that had happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Yeah, if she had come across anything or

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that meant her harm, there would be some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like audible indication of that to Bob to where

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<v Speaker 1>he could, you know, at least know something was going

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<v Speaker 1>on that shouldn't be going on. I also thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was strange that that's what I was going to touch on,

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<v Speaker 1>is I looked for an obituary online, you know, since

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<v Speaker 1>she has been confirmed, as you know, unfortunately dying out there.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's there was there's really not anything on it.

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<v Speaker 1>So of course that's entirely at the family's discretion and

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<v Speaker 1>we can respect that. But yeah, I was just hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to learn a little bit more about her.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that I spent a lot of time reading obituaries, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for no good reason. But yeah, I guess it's tricky though,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, some families at some point put out

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<v Speaker 2>an obituary when it's presumed that this person has died

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<v Speaker 2>and they may or may not be found, But then

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<v Speaker 2>other families hold out hope and don't put one out. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess it's tricky when someone is found at a

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<v Speaker 2>later time. I mean, obviously, like you said, it's at

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<v Speaker 2>the family's discussion. You can put one out if it's

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<v Speaker 2>five years after they disappeared or five months, or however

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do it. But yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. Again, nothing, it means anything either way.

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<v Speaker 1>But so, regardless of the exact circumstances, Barbara's story highlights

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<v Speaker 1>something important, and that is the desert can be very unforgiving.

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<v Speaker 1>Even short hikes, especially short hikes, can create a false

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<v Speaker 1>sense of security. Carrying enough water for each individual, not

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<v Speaker 1>just as a group, is critical. A gallon may sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot, but in extreme heat, it can disappear quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>Lightweight clothing might feel comfortable, but it offers little protection

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<v Speaker 1>from sun exposure. And perhaps most importantly, stay within sight

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<v Speaker 1>of your hiking partner can make all the difference, because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes all it takes is a single moment out of

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<v Speaker 1>you and everything changes. Barbara set out on what should

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<v Speaker 1>have been a simple, familiar hike, but somewhere between that

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<v Speaker 1>rock formation and the camper waiting just ahead, she disappeared,

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<v Speaker 1>and while her remains were eventually found, the full story

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<v Speaker 1>of what happened to her in those final moments may

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<v Speaker 1>never be known.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all need to live by the saying

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<v Speaker 2>that my sister in law tells her kids that I

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<v Speaker 2>have now stolen. Can't see you, can't save you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that, you know, because it's valid. If you know,

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<v Speaker 2>kids wander offrom a store, something happens, so she can't

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<v Speaker 2>see them, she can't do anything. If you're outside, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the same. Can't see you, can't save you, can't help you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean, this is just an awful situation,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just a fun little pit stop to go

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<v Speaker 1>for a little you know, walk and look at the

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<v Speaker 1>look at the landscape and all of that, and and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, unfortunately only one made it back alive from it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's just absolutely awful for everyone involved in her

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<v Speaker 1>loved ones. And yeah, you can never be too careful.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Yeah, I'll be curious if there's ever a cause

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<v Speaker 2>of death released or any more information that comes out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that's uh, that's it for today. Thanks for listening,
