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<v Speaker 2>Energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Cancelt so high cancelt. It's not sorvyenogy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh did you hear? Just knowing about a spiritual concept

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<v Speaker 2>does not mean that you actually are embodying it. We

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<v Speaker 2>are in such an interesting time on the planet where

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<v Speaker 2>people are performing the divine feminine or performing the divine masculine.

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<v Speaker 2>They think that wearing a dress or because you can

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<v Speaker 2>cook means you are in your divine feminine energy. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>those are actions. They think that if you are a

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<v Speaker 2>man and you open the door, you pay for the dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>you are in your divine masculine. No, no, those are

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<v Speaker 2>just actions. They think. If you talk softly, you're in

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<v Speaker 2>your divine feminine, If you talk boldly, you're in your

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<v Speaker 2>divine masculine. No, those are just words. Those things can

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<v Speaker 2>be beautiful and they can be part of the divine feminine,

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<v Speaker 2>the divine masculine. But the truth is the script doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>actually mean embodiment. You performing a role doesn't mean embodiment.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's interesting because there's a lot of narcissistic humans

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<v Speaker 2>on the planet who are now reading up on what

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<v Speaker 2>it is to be a divine masculine or even a

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine and they're trying to play a role. Ooh

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<v Speaker 2>goody goody, goody, goody goodie. You can't fake energy because

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<v Speaker 2>energy doesn't lie. Not in this energetic universe. There is

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<v Speaker 2>a difference between knowing about a concept acting out a concept,

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<v Speaker 2>like the divine masculine versus actually embodiment. Embodiment is the

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<v Speaker 2>energy you live in, and when it comes to a

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<v Speaker 2>divine masculine true protection cannot be run on performance divine

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<v Speaker 2>masculine energy. It's the way a man's grounded presence can

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<v Speaker 2>regulate your nervous system without him saying a word. It's

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<v Speaker 2>how you feel safe to soften and expand and express yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>not because he opens the door or pays for your dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>or because of what he says here and there. It's

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<v Speaker 2>literally his energy you can feel, and that energy is

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<v Speaker 2>always there because he can't turn his energy off unless

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<v Speaker 2>he drops dead. That's his energy. Today, we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about one of the most overlooked forms of energy harvesting,

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<v Speaker 2>which can most likely come up in karmic relationships but

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<v Speaker 2>truly anywhere, and that is possession disguised dressed up as protection.

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<v Speaker 2>Possession versus protection is something we need to talk because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm seeing way too many people fall into the trap

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<v Speaker 2>of being energetically possessed rather than divinely protected. We'll learn

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<v Speaker 2>how to spot the difference between a divine protector who

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<v Speaker 2>is truly in his masculine energy embodying that masculine energy

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<v Speaker 2>versus an energetic, spiritual possessor who is simply performing, and

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<v Speaker 2>we'll talk about why. When you are in a chosen

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<v Speaker 2>vessel who came here to expand on a divine mission,

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<v Speaker 2>coming against you will have consequences far beyond this physical

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<v Speaker 2>world before we get into it. What's that positive bitches?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing today? If you're hearing this episode,

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<v Speaker 2>then you're meant to be here. So keep listening on

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<v Speaker 2>that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling

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<v Speaker 2>our most empowered positive bitch self that is Babe in

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<v Speaker 2>true connection with herself, himself or human self. On this podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>we unbecome who we are not so we can fully

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<v Speaker 2>step into exactly who we came here to be. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want one on one sessions with me, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a certified life and energy coach, ricky practitioner and Intuitive channel.

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<v Speaker 2>You can DM me on Instagram at vibein with CC.

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<v Speaker 2>My link will be in the show notes. Be sure

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<v Speaker 2>to get your copy of show up as her to

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<v Speaker 2>have a physical representation for all of the topics and

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<v Speaker 2>concepts we discuss on this podcast. If you're looking for

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<v Speaker 2>workbooks or digital courses, you can find those links in

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<v Speaker 2>the show notes. I highly recommend pairing the Pedestal Path

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<v Speaker 2>course with this podcast episode and the Divine Feminine Healing Workbook.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether you are a divine masculine or divine feminine, it

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<v Speaker 2>is of the utmost importance that you are able to

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<v Speaker 2>distinguish and discern whether someone is actually rooted in their

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<v Speaker 2>divine presence or if they are performing. Because I am

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<v Speaker 2>leading with my divine feminine I'm going to talk from

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<v Speaker 2>my point of view. But no, this goes both ways.

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<v Speaker 2>Possession usually does not come in guns blazing. It tiptoes

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<v Speaker 2>in with microdoses of control. It starts off with them

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<v Speaker 2>telling you I rather you not wear that, to them

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<v Speaker 2>completely controlling your wardrobe. It starts off with them saying

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I like that friend of yours too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to tell you who you're allowed to and

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<v Speaker 2>who you're not allowed to hang out with. It starts

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<v Speaker 2>off very small, very innocent, and let's be real, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>you do have a friend that's not a great influence

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<v Speaker 2>on you, and your partner is going to speak on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes maybe you are wearing something that looks god awful

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<v Speaker 2>and your partner is going to be like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>you can do better. But you have to understand that

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<v Speaker 2>there are two very different intentions behind a protector versus

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<v Speaker 2>a possessor. A protector will see someone who could potentially

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<v Speaker 2>harm you, and what is their intention going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Their intention is going to be I really do want

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<v Speaker 2>you to feel safe. I want you to be safe.

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<v Speaker 2>Their intention is one that's out of love, that's pedestaling you,

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<v Speaker 2>that's born out of wanting to make sure you're safe.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about you a possessor, it's not about you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>born out of fear. It's born out of their ego,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's actually because of their insecurity. They don't want

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<v Speaker 2>you hanging out with that person, or wearing that thing,

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<v Speaker 2>or going wherever you wish to go. Because they are insecure,

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<v Speaker 2>they feel inferior. It's born out of fear. The way

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<v Speaker 2>they express themselves, you will be able to feel in

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<v Speaker 2>your body. This person is actually trying to protect me,

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<v Speaker 2>versus they're trying to contain me. They're trying to possess me.

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<v Speaker 2>At first, it can sound like hare, but over time,

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<v Speaker 2>if these microdoses grow bigger and bigger and bigger, that's

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<v Speaker 2>also how you know it's a possessor. They're checking in

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<v Speaker 2>about everything, what you wear, what to say, who to be,

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<v Speaker 2>until you can't hear your own intuition over their voice.

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<v Speaker 2>A possessor the way they talk to you, it's condescending

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<v Speaker 2>every conversation. They are consumed in themselves, their discomfort, their preferences,

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<v Speaker 2>their narrative. They're not trying to find solution, they're just

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<v Speaker 2>attacking you. You will always be wrong, they will be

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<v Speaker 2>against you. It's not the both of you on the

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<v Speaker 2>same team trying to find a solution together like a protector.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you end up constantly defending yourself while they twist

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<v Speaker 2>the situation to make you the problem. This is blame

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<v Speaker 2>shifting at its finest, where you walk away feeling smaller, guiltier,

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<v Speaker 2>and more confused than when the conversation started. A possessor

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<v Speaker 2>can be a Jezebel spirit and a divine feminine. A

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<v Speaker 2>possessor can also be a masculine who is completely stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in their ego and in their darkness. I'm gonna break

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<v Speaker 2>this down further for you. A grounded protector holds space

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<v Speaker 2>for your growth, whereas a possessor brings you to feel

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<v Speaker 2>in control. A protector trusts your choices. A possessor overrules

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<v Speaker 2>your decision. A protector feels like safety and stability. A

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<v Speaker 2>possessor feels like walking on eggshells. A protector encourages independence,

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<v Speaker 2>a possessor creates emotional dependence on themselves. A protector respects

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<v Speaker 2>your boundaries, a possessor pushes or ignores them. A protector

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<v Speaker 2>celebrates your radiance, a possessor feels threatened by it. The

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<v Speaker 2>difference you feel the protector in your body, they will

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<v Speaker 2>feel like a calm expansion. They will feel like a

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<v Speaker 2>safe place to go. You will feel like you're free

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<v Speaker 2>in their presence, like you can speak your mind, whereas

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<v Speaker 2>a possessor you will feel constant contraction, constant anxiety. I

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<v Speaker 2>recently cried in front of a man because because I

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<v Speaker 2>was having a very long day and I had an

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<v Speaker 2>energy session that day with one of my coaches, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was working on releasing this program around always feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like I have to defend myself, like I'm doing something wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>especially after that last karmic relationship I was in. My

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<v Speaker 2>carmic partner would bring something up they were insecure about,

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<v Speaker 2>but then flip it on me and say that there

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<v Speaker 2>was actually something wrong with me. And even when I

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<v Speaker 2>would sit in front of that karmac partner and literally

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<v Speaker 2>cry and my voice would be shaking trying to express myself,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like there was nothing there. There was nothing there.

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<v Speaker 2>When I cried in front of this other man, literally yesterday,

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<v Speaker 2>he stopped me from walking, embraced me, started kissing my head,

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<v Speaker 2>just creating such a safe space for me to show

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<v Speaker 2>up in and express myself. And later on, when I

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<v Speaker 2>reflected on why I even cried and what was actually

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<v Speaker 2>coming up for me, I said, hey, like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>make a note about why I was feeling these emotions

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<v Speaker 2>when we were talking today, and we can talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it whenever we both have free time. And he said

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<v Speaker 2>to me immediately, let's just hop on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like what, Because in my car relationship we

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<v Speaker 2>would have a problem and he would just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>go cold and tell me it was my faults and

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<v Speaker 2>my problem, and I would have to be the one saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get on a call, Hey, let's try to figure

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<v Speaker 2>this out. I was always trying to create a safe

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<v Speaker 2>space for the possessor, whereas a protector will create a

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<v Speaker 2>safe space for you to show up in and you

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<v Speaker 2>will feel a distinct difference in your body. The most

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<v Speaker 2>important thing is how you feel in their presence. That's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you everything. Because energy doesn't lie. Someone can

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<v Speaker 2>speak words and lie. My carmic partner knew what to say.

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<v Speaker 2>They knew to open the door to pay for dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not enough. I know someone else in my life

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<v Speaker 2>who knows to open the door to pay for the dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>to do the quote unquote protective thing. But it's an act.

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<v Speaker 2>They're playing a role, they're speaking a script. It is

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<v Speaker 2>not just about that. You have to go deeper. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's really what I'm learning in this season. Deeper discernment. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>there's all many levels of this. It never ends, but

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many levels. And I think about it and

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<v Speaker 2>it makes perfect sense because as a woman, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that I could put on a dress and put on

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<v Speaker 2>makeup and talk softly and say I'm so feminine, but

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<v Speaker 2>be completely in my masculine energy. So of course a

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<v Speaker 2>man could be saying the right thing and doing the

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<v Speaker 2>right thing, but actually being their wounded feminine and be

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<v Speaker 2>harvesting my energy. We have to go beyond the three

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<v Speaker 2>D and we have to be asking ourselves, how does

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<v Speaker 2>my body actually feel in their presence. Possession is a

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<v Speaker 2>form of energy harvesting because you're constantly bickering with this person.

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<v Speaker 2>You're constantly trying to show up for yourself and be

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<v Speaker 2>on the defense. You're constantly trying to make sure that

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<v Speaker 2>they're okay and create a safe space for them. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not always by force. We get sucked into it. We

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<v Speaker 2>fall in love with these people. We want to show

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<v Speaker 2>them that they're safe. But as a divine, feminine energy,

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<v Speaker 2>you are meant to be having a safe space created

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<v Speaker 2>for you most of the time. Why would we even

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<v Speaker 2>attract this into our reality. If you grew up with

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<v Speaker 2>a controlling parent, your nervous system might confuse control with love.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not drawn to the controller because your soul feels

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<v Speaker 2>seen and safe. You're drawn to the controller because your

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<v Speaker 2>wounds are recognizing the control as a form of love.

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<v Speaker 2>But that form of love is not love. That's illusionary.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lie that you're telling yourself. That's a pattern

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<v Speaker 2>that one of your parents had that you're associating with

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<v Speaker 2>love because as a child, you assume this is my parent,

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<v Speaker 2>they must be loving me. And if this is how

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<v Speaker 2>they're loving me, that must be loved. That's not love.

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<v Speaker 2>That's control. And so now you're attracting a controller into

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<v Speaker 2>your life to show you Okay, time to get deeper

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<v Speaker 2>with my discernment. Time for me to recognize that safety

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<v Speaker 2>is not control, that love is not control, that divine

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<v Speaker 2>union is not based in control or fear or ego.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to rewrite your love program. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>decide as an adult, how you want your love narrative

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<v Speaker 2>to feel. And if one of your caregivers were a possessor,

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<v Speaker 2>that means this is something that's in your bloodline. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's up to you to step up and to break

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<v Speaker 2>this cycle. This is about healing your bloodline, saying no

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<v Speaker 2>to this dysfunction that you have known and end this

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<v Speaker 2>generational pattern, this generational curse. You have to end this.

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<v Speaker 2>You are chosen to end it because you're listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast right now, you are chosen to end it

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<v Speaker 2>because you are the one getting the information. Your ancestors

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have this freedom to choose to have financial stability

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<v Speaker 2>in the ways we can now, protectors and possessors can

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<v Speaker 2>sound very similar. And that's why it's so important that

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<v Speaker 2>we're having this conversation. And I also invite you to

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<v Speaker 2>comment on the YouTube video form of this podcast and

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<v Speaker 2>say what you have noticed about protectors versus possessors, because

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<v Speaker 2>we all need to talk about this. We all need

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<v Speaker 2>to share our experiences so we know, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not alone, but secondly that this is tricky and

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay to not have all the answers, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not okay for us to go on and act like

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<v Speaker 2>someone saying a script and acting a role is enough.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not enough. And I was talking to one

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<v Speaker 2>of my friends actually, and we were saying how the

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<v Speaker 2>men that we have been attracting are better. At least

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<v Speaker 2>they know to act like they're masculine. At least they

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<v Speaker 2>know to speak like they're masculine. They're saying the right thing,

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<v Speaker 2>they're doing the right thing, so we're getting closer. But

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<v Speaker 2>they were not embodying the masculine. And there's another level

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<v Speaker 2>to this. It's not good enough that they buy you

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<v Speaker 2>flowers or pay for the date or pick you up.

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<v Speaker 2>You know why, It's not good enough because we have

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<v Speaker 2>cortisol in our body and we don't feel safe and

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<v Speaker 2>we literally felt scared sometimes. So that's not good enough,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not okay. We didn't come this far just to

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<v Speaker 2>get this far. We didn't come this far to have

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<v Speaker 2>a fake relationship based in ego. No, we can't settle.

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<v Speaker 2>We must continue to be selective, because the more you

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<v Speaker 2>say no, the less the more you're actually welcoming in

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<v Speaker 2>a higher vibrational match. The difference when it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>protectors and possessors is their presence and it's intention, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's the way they're going about what they're saying and

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<v Speaker 2>what they're trying to get done. A protector and a

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<v Speaker 2>possessor might have a similar idea where they want to

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<v Speaker 2>know that you're home from wherever you just came from.

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<v Speaker 2>A protector will go about this by being rooted in

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<v Speaker 2>love and with care, and they might say, hey, text

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<v Speaker 2>me when you get home so I know you're okay.

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<v Speaker 2>A possessor, however, is going to talk to you very condescendingly,

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<v Speaker 2>and they'll say, I need to know when you're home,

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<v Speaker 2>where you are, who you're with. You can tell that

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<v Speaker 2>it's coming from a place of control, and it won't

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<v Speaker 2>even be just that. It's also going to be somehow,

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<v Speaker 2>some way they're blaming you. You're out too late, you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing this. I don't like what you're wearing. There will

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<v Speaker 2>be more. There will always be more. In my Karmax situation,

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<v Speaker 2>when I got back home from a dinner, I went

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<v Speaker 2>to CBS to get something. I actually got him this

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<v Speaker 2>cinnamon thing, and I was texting him the spiritual significance

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<v Speaker 2>of putting cinnamon in your home. And then my friend

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to visit her old coworkers at this little teaky

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<v Speaker 2>bar that's on the same island that I live on,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I was sending him pictures of the teaky bars,

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<v Speaker 2>like this is so Flairridian, and he got very cold.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really know why, but I thought, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going literally to see him tomorrow, so I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll figure it out. And we did say that I

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<v Speaker 2>would call him when I got home. So when I

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<v Speaker 2>got home, which was by the way like ten pm.

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<v Speaker 2>I also am not drinking right now, so I was

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<v Speaker 2>completely sober. I said to him, Hey, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>take off my makeup and then I'll give you a call.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, if I get on the phone with him,

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<v Speaker 2>it's we're going to be on the phone for like

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<v Speaker 2>five hours and then it's going to be like two am,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm not going to have my makeup off. So

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to take off my makeup, wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>clean up a little bit, and then I was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>call him.

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<v Speaker 1>That.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he didn't like that. He did not like that,

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<v Speaker 2>and it caused a fight. But the the way the

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<v Speaker 2>fight happened was complete disrespect towards me. Not Oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>really would just like to call you right now so

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<v Speaker 2>that I see that you're home. Not can we get

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone now just because I'm going to bed soon. No.

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<v Speaker 2>I am now the devil and everything I do is

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<v Speaker 2>wrong and I need to be punished for it and

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be held accountable. And yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>was constantly defending myself, and I totally get wanting your

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<v Speaker 2>partner to call you when they get home. I get

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<v Speaker 2>that I would want that too. I totally understand that,

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<v Speaker 2>But the fact is I just wanted to take off

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<v Speaker 2>my makeup and then I was going to call him.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all. That's all, and I communicated that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was sending pictures throughout my whole entire night. Like even now,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm still explaining myself. And you know, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to cry, but I see how this

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<v Speaker 2>karmic relationship really affected me. And I see how I

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<v Speaker 2>feel so defensive now. And I don't blame that relationship

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<v Speaker 2>for doing that to me, but it definitely brought this

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<v Speaker 2>program to the forefront of my being. I actually will

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<v Speaker 2>thank my Karmik for triggering this within me so I

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<v Speaker 2>can heal it and release it, because I know that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't start just defending myself with him. I started

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<v Speaker 2>this a very long time ago. I've been defending myself

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<v Speaker 2>since I was a child, so I know this is

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<v Speaker 2>not a hymn thing, but it was very jarring to

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<v Speaker 2>my nervous system. And again, I'm crying, but I invite

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<v Speaker 2>us to cry together because I know if I'm feeling this,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not the only one. My mom was very Catholic,

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<v Speaker 2>and even when I was manifesting or talking about my abilities,

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<v Speaker 2>it was always seen as demonic and not good and evil,

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<v Speaker 2>and I always had defend myself and say, I see

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<v Speaker 2>how it helps people, though, and I see how it

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<v Speaker 2>helps me, and I see the good it's doing. How

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<v Speaker 2>could I be so demonic and evil if it's doing

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<v Speaker 2>so much good and if it helps me? And when

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<v Speaker 2>you grow up with parents who are very controlling and

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<v Speaker 2>have exact ideas about what you have to be, and

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<v Speaker 2>I talk about this in my book Show Up as Her,

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<v Speaker 2>but my dad always wanted me to be perfect, and

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<v Speaker 2>my mom wanted me to look perfect. So I always

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<v Speaker 2>felt like nothing I was doing was good enough. So

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<v Speaker 2>I was constantly defending my body, what I looked like.

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<v Speaker 2>I constantly was defending my intelligence and trying to prove

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<v Speaker 2>through every top program I could possibly get into. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>I got into it, and I never had below a

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<v Speaker 2>three point nine, and I was on every sport and

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<v Speaker 2>every club and every talent that you could have. I

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<v Speaker 2>also have im bodied. And because I had this assumption

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<v Speaker 2>created in childhood, this belief system that I had to

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<v Speaker 2>defend myself, I eventually attracted a relationship where that was

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<v Speaker 2>really what I was doing the whole entire time. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's just time I released that I don't need to

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<v Speaker 2>defend myself anymore. This is just who I am. Whether

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<v Speaker 2>you think I'm good or bad, or pretty or ugly

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<v Speaker 2>or messy or neat, this is just what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I just am what I am, and I can't that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, that is it. And it wasn't until this

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<v Speaker 2>Karma Relationship that this program has been so highlighted for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm very thankful for it. But even yesterday, as

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<v Speaker 2>I found myself being defensive and the guy was saying,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, your energy just shifted and you seem defensive now,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just started crying because I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I probably am defensive. Probably that's true, but at least

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<v Speaker 2>I can say I feel like I'm being accurately mirrored

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<v Speaker 2>right now, instead of having someone distort me. I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like in the Comic relationship, my reflection was so distorted.

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<v Speaker 2>It just wasn't accurately representing who I was. In this connection,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being mirrored even when I don't like the reflection. Necessarily,

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's clear though, because I was being defensive

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<v Speaker 2>that is just true. But I felt like I had

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<v Speaker 2>to protect something, and that's why I felt like I

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<v Speaker 2>had to protect myself and what I built my life.

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<v Speaker 2>In my cormaic relationship where I was constantly defending myself,

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<v Speaker 2>I felt really contained and like I was always contracting

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<v Speaker 2>and I always was putting up walls because I was

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<v Speaker 2>constantly just having arrowshot at me. And yesterday, when this

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<v Speaker 2>all unfolded, even though he was saying, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you're being defensive right now, I still knew it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>to attack me. He was just trying to understand me.

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<v Speaker 2>He was trying to understand why my energy shifted, and

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<v Speaker 2>that actually allowed me to expand because then I was

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<v Speaker 2>able to say, hey, look this is happening in my

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<v Speaker 2>life right now, and this is where it stems from.

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<v Speaker 2>And he just listened and got it and didn't judge

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<v Speaker 2>me for it and just existed. And he even was

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<v Speaker 2>saying to me, I don't think you're bad or good

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<v Speaker 2>or anything. I just want to understand you. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>judging you. I just want to be here for you.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I just forgot what that felt like.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I I crying so much. I'm very sensitive

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<v Speaker 2>these days, and I feel like because I've been detoxing

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<v Speaker 2>my body and not drinking any alcohol, and just spending

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<v Speaker 2>more time with God. I'm like super sensitive to the touch.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not think this episode was going to unfold

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<v Speaker 2>this way. WHOA. I am working on a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>patterns right now, guys, So I'm very self aware right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And it just, I don't know, is sometimes painful to

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<v Speaker 2>look at yourself and oh my god, okay, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's why people avoid it. But there's so much

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<v Speaker 2>liberation in it. There's so much good in it, there's

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<v Speaker 2>so much healing in it. So I really just can

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<v Speaker 2>I also say thank you, thank you for I was

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about this the other day and I totally forgot

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<v Speaker 2>to say it, but I have felt so misplaced in

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<v Speaker 2>this world for my whole life. It's actually and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so thankful that I got to create this world with

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<v Speaker 2>you positive bitches. I'm so thankful. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>kind of state I could possibly be and if I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have you, because you hold such a safe space

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<v Speaker 2>for me. I'm just so thankful, So thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna try to pull it together for the sake of

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<v Speaker 2>just getting my point across. So there's you, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>then there's me, and we are aligned because there's probably

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<v Speaker 2>something I'm saying that you can resonate with that you

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<v Speaker 2>need to hear right now. And what I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say is you girl or you boy. You human and me.

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<v Speaker 2>We are the humans in our bloodline that are meant

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<v Speaker 2>to break these cycles of confusing control with love, confusing

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<v Speaker 2>always being on the defense with connection. The shift begins

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<v Speaker 2>with us. So if there is a controller in your life,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta remove them. And I know it's not easy,

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<v Speaker 2>but you got to remove them from your orbit. If

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<v Speaker 2>you don't remove them, you are serving yourself on a

417
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<v Speaker 2>silver platter. You are making yourself the sacrifice and that

418
00:26:09.559 --> 00:26:13.039
<v Speaker 2>is never meant to be your role. You are the altar,

419
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<v Speaker 2>not an offering. Secondly, you have to stop performing I

420
00:26:18.599 --> 00:26:21.200
<v Speaker 2>because I always thought I wasn't good enough. I was

421
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<v Speaker 2>trying to match the conditions my parents had for me

422
00:26:23.680 --> 00:26:25.839
<v Speaker 2>growing up, and then I would try to match the

423
00:26:25.880 --> 00:26:29.640
<v Speaker 2>conditions my romantic partners had for me. So in the

424
00:26:29.720 --> 00:26:35.839
<v Speaker 2>karmic relationship, it was basically, do all the emotional labor,

425
00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:38.640
<v Speaker 2>show up for me all the time, be there for

426
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<v Speaker 2>me whenever I need you. But if you have an

427
00:26:41.240 --> 00:26:44.759
<v Speaker 2>emotion or you feel a certain type of way, it's

428
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<v Speaker 2>just not as important and there's not really space for it.

429
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<v Speaker 2>So I basically had to be the mother the martyr.

430
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<v Speaker 2>But I wasn't being offered a connection where I could

431
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<v Speaker 2>actually have an equal energetic exchange or a partner, So

432
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<v Speaker 2>that means I had to not only remove them, but

433
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<v Speaker 2>I had to decide I'm not going to perform for

434
00:27:05.039 --> 00:27:08.400
<v Speaker 2>love anymore, because as much as they were performing being

435
00:27:08.440 --> 00:27:12.519
<v Speaker 2>an energy possessor, I was performing being in that mother

436
00:27:12.720 --> 00:27:16.319
<v Speaker 2>or that martyr mode, trying to just fulfill all their conditions,

437
00:27:16.759 --> 00:27:19.640
<v Speaker 2>and I needed to instead allow myself to be free.

438
00:27:19.680 --> 00:27:22.640
<v Speaker 2>But because I didn't feel free or safe in their presence,

439
00:27:23.000 --> 00:27:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't do it with them. But I could do

440
00:27:25.000 --> 00:27:27.200
<v Speaker 2>it without them. I could do it in my own energy.

441
00:27:27.240 --> 00:27:29.079
<v Speaker 2>I could do it potentially with someone else. I had

442
00:27:29.119 --> 00:27:32.519
<v Speaker 2>to remove them so I could refocus on me, refocus

443
00:27:32.559 --> 00:27:35.160
<v Speaker 2>on giving myself permission to show up in all of

444
00:27:35.200 --> 00:27:38.720
<v Speaker 2>my authenticity, and then attract from that place rather than

445
00:27:38.759 --> 00:27:41.720
<v Speaker 2>from a wounded place of I will become what I

446
00:27:41.759 --> 00:27:44.359
<v Speaker 2>need to become in order to match their conditions. Step

447
00:27:44.440 --> 00:27:48.720
<v Speaker 2>three is go to God for direction. Ask God to

448
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<v Speaker 2>give you I s to see, ears to hear in

449
00:27:50.519 --> 00:27:54.559
<v Speaker 2>a heartful of discernment to understand the situation clearly. You

450
00:27:54.599 --> 00:27:57.680
<v Speaker 2>will get dreams, you will get internal inklings, you will

451
00:27:57.720 --> 00:27:59.920
<v Speaker 2>see something on your for you page that will give

452
00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:02.640
<v Speaker 2>you more information. You will get your signs, but you

453
00:28:02.720 --> 00:28:05.799
<v Speaker 2>have to ask for the Step four is building safety

454
00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:08.440
<v Speaker 2>within yourself, and that is something that I've been channeling

455
00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:11.200
<v Speaker 2>not only for my clients. It's just so crazy how

456
00:28:11.240 --> 00:28:14.480
<v Speaker 2>you guys are so aligned with me, but also the collective.

457
00:28:15.000 --> 00:28:17.960
<v Speaker 2>You have to build safety within yourself, and that means

458
00:28:18.000 --> 00:28:20.799
<v Speaker 2>becoming your own safe space, and that means actually working

459
00:28:20.799 --> 00:28:23.880
<v Speaker 2>on your divine masculine energy, making sure that you have

460
00:28:23.960 --> 00:28:27.720
<v Speaker 2>a structure to support yourself, a daily routine that supports yourself,

461
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:31.200
<v Speaker 2>that you are creating financial stability in your life so

462
00:28:31.240 --> 00:28:34.359
<v Speaker 2>that you know you can rely on yourself. This is

463
00:28:34.400 --> 00:28:37.559
<v Speaker 2>all about really refothering yourself, which is something we haven't

464
00:28:37.559 --> 00:28:40.640
<v Speaker 2>really talked about because we've been so focused on divine

465
00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:44.519
<v Speaker 2>feminine energy. But if you're wanting to attract a whole

466
00:28:44.599 --> 00:28:48.519
<v Speaker 2>person instead of just a half person, then you actually

467
00:28:48.559 --> 00:28:52.279
<v Speaker 2>do have to become a whole within yourself first. It's

468
00:28:52.279 --> 00:28:55.759
<v Speaker 2>interesting because growing up we've heard a lot you complete

469
00:28:55.839 --> 00:28:59.039
<v Speaker 2>me or my better half or my other half. But really,

470
00:28:59.079 --> 00:29:02.400
<v Speaker 2>don't we want to attract someone who's a hole in themselves?

471
00:29:02.839 --> 00:29:05.319
<v Speaker 2>I mean I do. I don't want to just attract

472
00:29:05.359 --> 00:29:08.480
<v Speaker 2>someone who's in their masculine energy or their wounded masculine energy.

473
00:29:08.759 --> 00:29:11.640
<v Speaker 2>I want to attract a balanced individual. But in order

474
00:29:11.680 --> 00:29:14.799
<v Speaker 2>to have that, I need to be balanced within myself first,

475
00:29:15.240 --> 00:29:18.480
<v Speaker 2>and that means I need to create more safety, more security,

476
00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:21.799
<v Speaker 2>more stability within myself first, so I can feel safe

477
00:29:21.799 --> 00:29:24.799
<v Speaker 2>within myself, which will then allow me to feel safe

478
00:29:24.839 --> 00:29:28.400
<v Speaker 2>with another person. If someone isn't safe, I'll still be

479
00:29:28.440 --> 00:29:31.240
<v Speaker 2>able to discern that and then just remove them. Step

480
00:29:31.359 --> 00:29:35.759
<v Speaker 2>five is communicate, Communicate, communicate, stand up for yourself. Speak

481
00:29:35.799 --> 00:29:38.839
<v Speaker 2>what's on your mind. And sometimes you know, standing up

482
00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:42.359
<v Speaker 2>for yourself means expressing yourself, and sometimes standing up for

483
00:29:42.359 --> 00:29:45.680
<v Speaker 2>yourself means staying silent and just walking away. You'll know

484
00:29:45.720 --> 00:29:49.279
<v Speaker 2>what to do, But please protect yourself, not out of fear,

485
00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:52.200
<v Speaker 2>but out of love and devotion for who you've been

486
00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:54.559
<v Speaker 2>and who you came here to become. I think some

487
00:29:54.960 --> 00:29:58.119
<v Speaker 2>reflective questions that you can ask yourself is do I

488
00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:00.200
<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm growing or do I feel like I'm

489
00:30:00.240 --> 00:30:04.359
<v Speaker 2>constantly shrinking? Do I feel scared? Or do I feel

490
00:30:04.400 --> 00:30:08.640
<v Speaker 2>sacred even if I give myself permission? Does this person

491
00:30:08.720 --> 00:30:11.519
<v Speaker 2>allow me to be all that I am it's a

492
00:30:11.519 --> 00:30:14.119
<v Speaker 2>good question. Or do they only have space for me

493
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:16.240
<v Speaker 2>when I'm doing for them, when I'm mothering them, when

494
00:30:16.240 --> 00:30:18.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm the martyr for them? Who am I even seeking

495
00:30:18.440 --> 00:30:22.200
<v Speaker 2>permission from myself or from them? How does my body

496
00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:25.359
<v Speaker 2>feel in their presence? Remember, if we just look at performance,

497
00:30:25.400 --> 00:30:29.000
<v Speaker 2>their words or actions, it's not enough information. We have

498
00:30:29.160 --> 00:30:33.680
<v Speaker 2>to ask our bodies. This ancient technology will communicate everything

499
00:30:33.680 --> 00:30:35.480
<v Speaker 2>you need to know. Something I want to bring to

500
00:30:35.480 --> 00:30:40.880
<v Speaker 2>your attention. Though I don't believe in doing harm to others,

501
00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:44.759
<v Speaker 2>I do believe take no shit, but do no harm.

502
00:30:45.119 --> 00:30:48.759
<v Speaker 2>The reason I'm saying this is because I don't want

503
00:30:48.759 --> 00:30:52.359
<v Speaker 2>to see us getting wrapped up in things that have

504
00:30:52.480 --> 00:30:55.759
<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with us. Remember, no man is your friend,

505
00:30:56.039 --> 00:30:59.119
<v Speaker 2>no man is your enemy. Every single man is your portal.

506
00:30:59.200 --> 00:31:02.680
<v Speaker 2>And it's important that we have reverence for what I

507
00:31:02.799 --> 00:31:06.839
<v Speaker 2>believe are different soul contracts to expand us, to be

508
00:31:06.920 --> 00:31:10.000
<v Speaker 2>a catalyst, to be an activator, to push us to

509
00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:14.319
<v Speaker 2>the next phase of our own evolution. And the reason

510
00:31:14.359 --> 00:31:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying this is because you are not meant to

511
00:31:19.079 --> 00:31:22.599
<v Speaker 2>take on the job of karma. Karma plays itself out.

512
00:31:22.640 --> 00:31:25.200
<v Speaker 2>It's one of the energetic principles, one of the energetic

513
00:31:25.279 --> 00:31:30.480
<v Speaker 2>laws of this universe. Okay, So I don't want to

514
00:31:30.519 --> 00:31:33.440
<v Speaker 2>see you getting wrapped up in something that you should

515
00:31:33.440 --> 00:31:39.160
<v Speaker 2>not be wrapped up in when you are exactly who

516
00:31:39.200 --> 00:31:41.559
<v Speaker 2>you are. Who is someone who is trying to heal,

517
00:31:41.640 --> 00:31:46.720
<v Speaker 2>attempting to heal, healing, wants to give love to this world,

518
00:31:46.960 --> 00:31:48.839
<v Speaker 2>is a light worker. If you're listening to this, I'm

519
00:31:48.880 --> 00:31:51.559
<v Speaker 2>sure you're some sort of light worker. There is something

520
00:31:51.599 --> 00:31:55.480
<v Speaker 2>about wellness or spirituality that you're into. I'm sure that

521
00:31:55.599 --> 00:31:59.160
<v Speaker 2>even if you are literally having a job that has

522
00:31:59.200 --> 00:32:02.880
<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with light working, you are a light

523
00:32:02.880 --> 00:32:06.559
<v Speaker 2>worker with your friends, with your family. Okay, I want

524
00:32:06.599 --> 00:32:11.279
<v Speaker 2>you to understand that when someone does go out of

525
00:32:11.319 --> 00:32:17.119
<v Speaker 2>their way to attack or manipulate you, or betray you,

526
00:32:17.359 --> 00:32:22.680
<v Speaker 2>or dishonor you someone that is literally a divine vessel

527
00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:26.480
<v Speaker 2>that has not only in my opinion, been chosen, but

528
00:32:26.559 --> 00:32:30.240
<v Speaker 2>really you're choosing. You know, you chose to incarnate, you

529
00:32:30.319 --> 00:32:33.200
<v Speaker 2>chose this path, You chose to heal these things, and

530
00:32:33.279 --> 00:32:36.000
<v Speaker 2>you chose to pick up your calling. You chose to

531
00:32:36.039 --> 00:32:38.400
<v Speaker 2>answer it. You are choosing to do the work. You

532
00:32:38.440 --> 00:32:42.240
<v Speaker 2>are choosing to get back up every single day. When

533
00:32:42.359 --> 00:32:46.359
<v Speaker 2>that is the type of person you are, the Divine

534
00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:50.480
<v Speaker 2>recognizes you, your angels recognize you, and you therefore have

535
00:32:50.599 --> 00:32:55.720
<v Speaker 2>this higher protection placed on your life because you are

536
00:32:56.480 --> 00:33:00.200
<v Speaker 2>picking up the call. You are saying, I'm gonna take

537
00:33:00.240 --> 00:33:03.599
<v Speaker 2>on greater responsibility and I'm going to be a light worker,

538
00:33:03.720 --> 00:33:05.599
<v Speaker 2>not just in my own life, but for other people.

539
00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:08.480
<v Speaker 2>When the Divine knows that you're a vessel for it,

540
00:33:08.519 --> 00:33:10.599
<v Speaker 2>when the Divine knows that you're going to do light

541
00:33:10.720 --> 00:33:16.599
<v Speaker 2>working for it, you then get extra protection because then

542
00:33:16.680 --> 00:33:20.279
<v Speaker 2>you are an instrument of God to create greater healing,

543
00:33:20.559 --> 00:33:25.079
<v Speaker 2>greater abundance, greater ascension on the planet. So it's like

544
00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:30.799
<v Speaker 2>if you are the MVP, you're gonna have some special

545
00:33:30.839 --> 00:33:34.440
<v Speaker 2>protections around you. Put it that way, and you are

546
00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:40.799
<v Speaker 2>spiritual VIP or MVP because you are choosing to answer

547
00:33:40.839 --> 00:33:44.440
<v Speaker 2>the call and choosing to help the planet. When someone

548
00:33:44.519 --> 00:33:48.640
<v Speaker 2>tries to go against you, they're actually not going against you,

549
00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:53.559
<v Speaker 2>they're going against the Divine now because you have surrendered

550
00:33:53.799 --> 00:33:56.680
<v Speaker 2>your will and you have agreed to be a part

551
00:33:56.720 --> 00:34:00.799
<v Speaker 2>of Thy will, bringing greater light greater life, of greater

552
00:34:00.920 --> 00:34:04.240
<v Speaker 2>healing to the planet. So now when someone goes against you,

553
00:34:04.920 --> 00:34:08.119
<v Speaker 2>it's not them going against you, it's them going against

554
00:34:08.119 --> 00:34:10.960
<v Speaker 2>the divine. It's them going against the tens or the

555
00:34:11.039 --> 00:34:14.320
<v Speaker 2>thousands or the millions of people. You're going to help.

556
00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:19.159
<v Speaker 2>The light workers. I'm talking about these earth angels, hypriestesses, prophets,

557
00:34:19.199 --> 00:34:22.000
<v Speaker 2>whatever you want to call yourself, the ones that carry

558
00:34:22.039 --> 00:34:26.000
<v Speaker 2>these divine codes for healing and prophecies and timelines shifting

559
00:34:26.039 --> 00:34:31.679
<v Speaker 2>for collective liberation. You are sealed in the spirit. To

560
00:34:31.800 --> 00:34:35.159
<v Speaker 2>go against you is to interrupt the divine's plan. If

561
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:39.559
<v Speaker 2>someone does you dirty, that already is their karma because

562
00:34:39.639 --> 00:34:45.679
<v Speaker 2>number one, they're losing you. Number two they are now

563
00:34:45.719 --> 00:34:48.039
<v Speaker 2>going to have to take it up with God and karma,

564
00:34:48.159 --> 00:34:53.960
<v Speaker 2>this energetic law. Karma knows everyone's address. There's nothing you

565
00:34:54.039 --> 00:34:56.599
<v Speaker 2>have to do. You don't have to send this long paragraph.

566
00:34:56.760 --> 00:34:58.800
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to try to get them back, and honestly,

567
00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:02.400
<v Speaker 2>please don't, because then you're just creating worse karma for yourself.

568
00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:06.119
<v Speaker 2>When someone goes against a chosen vessel or someone who's

569
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:10.960
<v Speaker 2>trying to be this light worker, they are automatically gonna

570
00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:14.440
<v Speaker 2>have karma knowing where they live and going after them,

571
00:35:15.039 --> 00:35:18.079
<v Speaker 2>because now it's not between you and them, it's between

572
00:35:18.119 --> 00:35:22.559
<v Speaker 2>them and the divine court. They might experience sudden financial

573
00:35:22.559 --> 00:35:28.079
<v Speaker 2>collapse or stagnation. They could get literally physically ill. They

574
00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:32.360
<v Speaker 2>can have relationships fall apart, delays, misfires, streaks of bad luck,

575
00:35:32.880 --> 00:35:36.920
<v Speaker 2>deep shame, and obsession with watching the person that they

576
00:35:36.920 --> 00:35:39.719
<v Speaker 2>decided to try to go against or manipulate or whatever

577
00:35:39.760 --> 00:35:42.519
<v Speaker 2>it was. They might feel like they're not able to

578
00:35:42.559 --> 00:35:45.039
<v Speaker 2>tap into their intuition as well. They might feel like

579
00:35:45.360 --> 00:35:49.119
<v Speaker 2>divine guidance isn't coming online for them. They might feel

580
00:35:49.119 --> 00:35:52.360
<v Speaker 2>like they're losing out on blessings and favor which you

581
00:35:52.519 --> 00:35:56.199
<v Speaker 2>do when you lower your frequency and try to harm people.

582
00:35:56.559 --> 00:35:59.440
<v Speaker 2>You do then miss out on those blessings because now

583
00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:02.440
<v Speaker 2>you're not in a receptive state to receive them. When

584
00:36:02.480 --> 00:36:07.239
<v Speaker 2>you try to go against a light worker, there is

585
00:36:08.559 --> 00:36:13.239
<v Speaker 2>instant energetic consequences. And I have to say, I've just

586
00:36:13.280 --> 00:36:15.800
<v Speaker 2>seen this happen in my life so many times. It

587
00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:20.559
<v Speaker 2>is simply a spiritual violation to go against a light

588
00:36:20.599 --> 00:36:24.440
<v Speaker 2>worker who's trying to bring so much positivity onto the planet.

589
00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:27.159
<v Speaker 2>Because again, it's not just about the light worker it's

590
00:36:27.159 --> 00:36:30.159
<v Speaker 2>about what the light worker is bringing through. That's a vessel,

591
00:36:30.239 --> 00:36:34.760
<v Speaker 2>that's an instrument of the divine. So their kar macdebt

592
00:36:35.159 --> 00:36:39.760
<v Speaker 2>is racked up immediately and seen in their reality instantly.

593
00:36:40.039 --> 00:36:42.840
<v Speaker 2>So don't be surprised if they're dreaming of you or

594
00:36:42.880 --> 00:36:45.519
<v Speaker 2>constantly sending you energy and then you're picking up on

595
00:36:45.599 --> 00:36:49.199
<v Speaker 2>it because they now have to deal with these consequences.

596
00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:52.440
<v Speaker 2>Let the divine take care of this. Your focus, your

597
00:36:52.519 --> 00:36:55.880
<v Speaker 2>mission is on bringing light and on bringing love, not

598
00:36:55.920 --> 00:36:59.880
<v Speaker 2>trying to get people back, not trying to do any

599
00:37:00.000 --> 00:37:03.760
<v Speaker 2>anything against anyone who has hurt you or betrayed you.

600
00:37:03.760 --> 00:37:05.800
<v Speaker 2>You don't want to live a day in their body, okay,

601
00:37:06.000 --> 00:37:08.840
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to even understand how they could even

602
00:37:08.880 --> 00:37:12.519
<v Speaker 2>get that way. So remove yourself from that equation and

603
00:37:12.599 --> 00:37:15.280
<v Speaker 2>refocus on what you came here to do. The moment

604
00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:20.800
<v Speaker 2>you stop mistaking a cage of control for your kingdom,

605
00:37:21.400 --> 00:37:24.599
<v Speaker 2>you make space for love that lets you breathe. You

606
00:37:24.679 --> 00:37:27.800
<v Speaker 2>make space for connections that make you breathe, and you

607
00:37:27.880 --> 00:37:30.360
<v Speaker 2>make space for a connection with yourself with the divine,

608
00:37:30.559 --> 00:37:33.360
<v Speaker 2>where you learn to give yourself permission to show up

609
00:37:33.360 --> 00:37:36.239
<v Speaker 2>fully rather than trying to live up to the conditions

610
00:37:36.280 --> 00:37:40.239
<v Speaker 2>of someone else. Thank you for listening today, and I

611
00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:44.719
<v Speaker 2>really hope that this sheds light on your own programming.

612
00:37:45.000 --> 00:37:48.719
<v Speaker 2>That is why I expose myself weekly so that you

613
00:37:48.800 --> 00:37:50.880
<v Speaker 2>can learn from me and you don't have to go

614
00:37:50.920 --> 00:37:53.519
<v Speaker 2>through everything that I go through. But a lot of

615
00:37:53.559 --> 00:37:56.960
<v Speaker 2>you have experienced similar situations and know that you're not alone.

616
00:37:57.360 --> 00:37:59.480
<v Speaker 2>Know that God is always with you, that higher power

617
00:37:59.559 --> 00:38:02.480
<v Speaker 2>is always with you, your spirit team is always with you.

618
00:38:02.480 --> 00:38:06.480
<v Speaker 2>You are so protected, and your ancestors, I just want

619
00:38:06.519 --> 00:38:08.920
<v Speaker 2>to say, are so proud of you for breaking the

620
00:38:09.000 --> 00:38:12.239
<v Speaker 2>patterns and the habits and the behaviors and the identities

621
00:38:12.480 --> 00:38:14.840
<v Speaker 2>that they didn't know how to break out of. You

622
00:38:14.880 --> 00:38:17.440
<v Speaker 2>are doing the hard work that they wish they could have,

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<v Speaker 2>and because of that, your ancestors are even going to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure you have extra divine blessings and extra support.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you so much. Thank you for being here,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for showing up, Thank you for doing your

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<v Speaker 2>part on this planet. You are so lovely and precious

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<v Speaker 2>and worthy of all that you desire. And I cannot

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<v Speaker 2>wait to speak to you next week. Hopefully there will

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<v Speaker 2>be no tears, but as we know, I can never

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<v Speaker 2>promise that I'll see you in the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>No, can don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you can't sell me a cant sass me, can't

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<v Speaker 2>stas me.