Speaker 2: Energy.
Speaker 1: Cancelt so high cancelt. It's not sorvyenogy.
Speaker 2: Oh did you hear? Just knowing about a spiritual concept
Speaker 2: does not mean that you actually are embodying it. We
Speaker 2: are in such an interesting time on the planet where
Speaker 2: people are performing the divine feminine or performing the divine masculine.
Speaker 2: They think that wearing a dress or because you can
Speaker 2: cook means you are in your divine feminine energy. No, no,
Speaker 2: those are actions. They think that if you are a
Speaker 2: man and you open the door, you pay for the dinner,
Speaker 2: you are in your divine masculine. No, no, those are
Speaker 2: just actions. They think. If you talk softly, you're in
Speaker 2: your divine feminine, If you talk boldly, you're in your
Speaker 2: divine masculine. No, those are just words. Those things can
Speaker 2: be beautiful and they can be part of the divine feminine,
Speaker 2: the divine masculine. But the truth is the script doesn't
Speaker 2: actually mean embodiment. You performing a role doesn't mean embodiment.
Speaker 2: And it's interesting because there's a lot of narcissistic humans
Speaker 2: on the planet who are now reading up on what
Speaker 2: it is to be a divine masculine or even a
Speaker 2: divine feminine and they're trying to play a role. Ooh
Speaker 2: goody goody, goody, goody goodie. You can't fake energy because
Speaker 2: energy doesn't lie. Not in this energetic universe. There is
Speaker 2: a difference between knowing about a concept acting out a concept,
Speaker 2: like the divine masculine versus actually embodiment. Embodiment is the
Speaker 2: energy you live in, and when it comes to a
Speaker 2: divine masculine true protection cannot be run on performance divine
Speaker 2: masculine energy. It's the way a man's grounded presence can
Speaker 2: regulate your nervous system without him saying a word. It's
Speaker 2: how you feel safe to soften and expand and express yourself,
Speaker 2: not because he opens the door or pays for your dinner,
Speaker 2: or because of what he says here and there. It's
Speaker 2: literally his energy you can feel, and that energy is
Speaker 2: always there because he can't turn his energy off unless
Speaker 2: he drops dead. That's his energy. Today, we're going to
Speaker 2: talk about one of the most overlooked forms of energy harvesting,
Speaker 2: which can most likely come up in karmic relationships but
Speaker 2: truly anywhere, and that is possession disguised dressed up as protection.
Speaker 2: Possession versus protection is something we need to talk because
Speaker 2: I'm seeing way too many people fall into the trap
Speaker 2: of being energetically possessed rather than divinely protected. We'll learn
Speaker 2: how to spot the difference between a divine protector who
Speaker 2: is truly in his masculine energy embodying that masculine energy
Speaker 2: versus an energetic, spiritual possessor who is simply performing, and
Speaker 2: we'll talk about why. When you are in a chosen
Speaker 2: vessel who came here to expand on a divine mission,
Speaker 2: coming against you will have consequences far beyond this physical
Speaker 2: world before we get into it. What's that positive bitches?
Speaker 2: How are you doing today? If you're hearing this episode,
Speaker 2: then you're meant to be here. So keep listening on
Speaker 2: that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby,
Speaker 2: we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling
Speaker 2: our most empowered positive bitch self that is Babe in
Speaker 2: true connection with herself, himself or human self. On this podcast,
Speaker 2: we unbecome who we are not so we can fully
Speaker 2: step into exactly who we came here to be. You know,
Speaker 2: if you want one on one sessions with me, I'm
Speaker 2: a certified life and energy coach, ricky practitioner and Intuitive channel.
Speaker 2: You can DM me on Instagram at vibein with CC.
Speaker 2: My link will be in the show notes. Be sure
Speaker 2: to get your copy of show up as her to
Speaker 2: have a physical representation for all of the topics and
Speaker 2: concepts we discuss on this podcast. If you're looking for
Speaker 2: workbooks or digital courses, you can find those links in
Speaker 2: the show notes. I highly recommend pairing the Pedestal Path
Speaker 2: course with this podcast episode and the Divine Feminine Healing Workbook.
Speaker 2: Whether you are a divine masculine or divine feminine, it
Speaker 2: is of the utmost importance that you are able to
Speaker 2: distinguish and discern whether someone is actually rooted in their
Speaker 2: divine presence or if they are performing. Because I am
Speaker 2: leading with my divine feminine I'm going to talk from
Speaker 2: my point of view. But no, this goes both ways.
Speaker 2: Possession usually does not come in guns blazing. It tiptoes
Speaker 2: in with microdoses of control. It starts off with them
Speaker 2: telling you I rather you not wear that, to them
Speaker 2: completely controlling your wardrobe. It starts off with them saying
Speaker 2: I don't think I like that friend of yours too.
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you who you're allowed to and
Speaker 2: who you're not allowed to hang out with. It starts
Speaker 2: off very small, very innocent, and let's be real, sometimes
Speaker 2: you do have a friend that's not a great influence
Speaker 2: on you, and your partner is going to speak on that.
Speaker 2: Sometimes maybe you are wearing something that looks god awful
Speaker 2: and your partner is going to be like, I think
Speaker 2: you can do better. But you have to understand that
Speaker 2: there are two very different intentions behind a protector versus
Speaker 2: a possessor. A protector will see someone who could potentially
Speaker 2: harm you, and what is their intention going to be.
Speaker 2: Their intention is going to be I really do want
Speaker 2: you to feel safe. I want you to be safe.
Speaker 2: Their intention is one that's out of love, that's pedestaling you,
Speaker 2: that's born out of wanting to make sure you're safe.
Speaker 2: It's about you a possessor, it's not about you. It's
Speaker 2: born out of fear. It's born out of their ego,
Speaker 2: and it's actually because of their insecurity. They don't want
Speaker 2: you hanging out with that person, or wearing that thing,
Speaker 2: or going wherever you wish to go. Because they are insecure,
Speaker 2: they feel inferior. It's born out of fear. The way
Speaker 2: they express themselves, you will be able to feel in
Speaker 2: your body. This person is actually trying to protect me,
Speaker 2: versus they're trying to contain me. They're trying to possess me.
Speaker 2: At first, it can sound like hare, but over time,
Speaker 2: if these microdoses grow bigger and bigger and bigger, that's
Speaker 2: also how you know it's a possessor. They're checking in
Speaker 2: about everything, what you wear, what to say, who to be,
Speaker 2: until you can't hear your own intuition over their voice.
Speaker 2: A possessor the way they talk to you, it's condescending
Speaker 2: every conversation. They are consumed in themselves, their discomfort, their preferences,
Speaker 2: their narrative. They're not trying to find solution, they're just
Speaker 2: attacking you. You will always be wrong, they will be
Speaker 2: against you. It's not the both of you on the
Speaker 2: same team trying to find a solution together like a protector.
Speaker 2: Would you end up constantly defending yourself while they twist
Speaker 2: the situation to make you the problem. This is blame
Speaker 2: shifting at its finest, where you walk away feeling smaller, guiltier,
Speaker 2: and more confused than when the conversation started. A possessor
Speaker 2: can be a Jezebel spirit and a divine feminine. A
Speaker 2: possessor can also be a masculine who is completely stuck
Speaker 2: in their ego and in their darkness. I'm gonna break
Speaker 2: this down further for you. A grounded protector holds space
Speaker 2: for your growth, whereas a possessor brings you to feel
Speaker 2: in control. A protector trusts your choices. A possessor overrules
Speaker 2: your decision. A protector feels like safety and stability. A
Speaker 2: possessor feels like walking on eggshells. A protector encourages independence,
Speaker 2: a possessor creates emotional dependence on themselves. A protector respects
Speaker 2: your boundaries, a possessor pushes or ignores them. A protector
Speaker 2: celebrates your radiance, a possessor feels threatened by it. The
Speaker 2: difference you feel the protector in your body, they will
Speaker 2: feel like a calm expansion. They will feel like a
Speaker 2: safe place to go. You will feel like you're free
Speaker 2: in their presence, like you can speak your mind, whereas
Speaker 2: a possessor you will feel constant contraction, constant anxiety. I
Speaker 2: recently cried in front of a man because because I
Speaker 2: was having a very long day and I had an
Speaker 2: energy session that day with one of my coaches, and
Speaker 2: I was working on releasing this program around always feeling
Speaker 2: like I have to defend myself, like I'm doing something wrong,
Speaker 2: especially after that last karmic relationship I was in. My
Speaker 2: carmic partner would bring something up they were insecure about,
Speaker 2: but then flip it on me and say that there
Speaker 2: was actually something wrong with me. And even when I
Speaker 2: would sit in front of that karmac partner and literally
Speaker 2: cry and my voice would be shaking trying to express myself,
Speaker 2: it was like there was nothing there. There was nothing there.
Speaker 2: When I cried in front of this other man, literally yesterday,
Speaker 2: he stopped me from walking, embraced me, started kissing my head,
Speaker 2: just creating such a safe space for me to show
Speaker 2: up in and express myself. And later on, when I
Speaker 2: reflected on why I even cried and what was actually
Speaker 2: coming up for me, I said, hey, like, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: make a note about why I was feeling these emotions
Speaker 2: when we were talking today, and we can talk about
Speaker 2: it whenever we both have free time. And he said
Speaker 2: to me immediately, let's just hop on the phone right now.
Speaker 2: I was like what, Because in my car relationship we
Speaker 2: would have a problem and he would just kind of
Speaker 2: go cold and tell me it was my faults and
Speaker 2: my problem, and I would have to be the one saying, hey,
Speaker 2: let's get on a call, Hey, let's try to figure
Speaker 2: this out. I was always trying to create a safe
Speaker 2: space for the possessor, whereas a protector will create a
Speaker 2: safe space for you to show up in and you
Speaker 2: will feel a distinct difference in your body. The most
Speaker 2: important thing is how you feel in their presence. That's
Speaker 2: gonna tell you everything. Because energy doesn't lie. Someone can
Speaker 2: speak words and lie. My carmic partner knew what to say.
Speaker 2: They knew to open the door to pay for dinner.
Speaker 2: That's not enough. I know someone else in my life
Speaker 2: who knows to open the door to pay for the dinner,
Speaker 2: to do the quote unquote protective thing. But it's an act.
Speaker 2: They're playing a role, they're speaking a script. It is
Speaker 2: not just about that. You have to go deeper. And
Speaker 2: that's really what I'm learning in this season. Deeper discernment. Oh,
Speaker 2: there's all many levels of this. It never ends, but
Speaker 2: there's so many levels. And I think about it and
Speaker 2: it makes perfect sense because as a woman, I know
Speaker 2: that I could put on a dress and put on
Speaker 2: makeup and talk softly and say I'm so feminine, but
Speaker 2: be completely in my masculine energy. So of course a
Speaker 2: man could be saying the right thing and doing the
Speaker 2: right thing, but actually being their wounded feminine and be
Speaker 2: harvesting my energy. We have to go beyond the three
Speaker 2: D and we have to be asking ourselves, how does
Speaker 2: my body actually feel in their presence. Possession is a
Speaker 2: form of energy harvesting because you're constantly bickering with this person.
Speaker 2: You're constantly trying to show up for yourself and be
Speaker 2: on the defense. You're constantly trying to make sure that
Speaker 2: they're okay and create a safe space for them. It's
Speaker 2: not always by force. We get sucked into it. We
Speaker 2: fall in love with these people. We want to show
Speaker 2: them that they're safe. But as a divine, feminine energy,
Speaker 2: you are meant to be having a safe space created
Speaker 2: for you most of the time. Why would we even
Speaker 2: attract this into our reality. If you grew up with
Speaker 2: a controlling parent, your nervous system might confuse control with love.
Speaker 2: You're not drawn to the controller because your soul feels
Speaker 2: seen and safe. You're drawn to the controller because your
Speaker 2: wounds are recognizing the control as a form of love.
Speaker 2: But that form of love is not love. That's illusionary.
Speaker 2: That's a lie that you're telling yourself. That's a pattern
Speaker 2: that one of your parents had that you're associating with
Speaker 2: love because as a child, you assume this is my parent,
Speaker 2: they must be loving me. And if this is how
Speaker 2: they're loving me, that must be loved. That's not love.
Speaker 2: That's control. And so now you're attracting a controller into
Speaker 2: your life to show you Okay, time to get deeper
Speaker 2: with my discernment. Time for me to recognize that safety
Speaker 2: is not control, that love is not control, that divine
Speaker 2: union is not based in control or fear or ego.
Speaker 2: You have to rewrite your love program. You have to
Speaker 2: decide as an adult, how you want your love narrative
Speaker 2: to feel. And if one of your caregivers were a possessor,
Speaker 2: that means this is something that's in your bloodline. So
Speaker 2: it's up to you to step up and to break
Speaker 2: this cycle. This is about healing your bloodline, saying no
Speaker 2: to this dysfunction that you have known and end this
Speaker 2: generational pattern, this generational curse. You have to end this.
Speaker 2: You are chosen to end it because you're listening to
Speaker 2: this podcast right now, you are chosen to end it
Speaker 2: because you are the one getting the information. Your ancestors
Speaker 2: didn't have this freedom to choose to have financial stability
Speaker 2: in the ways we can now, protectors and possessors can
Speaker 2: sound very similar. And that's why it's so important that
Speaker 2: we're having this conversation. And I also invite you to
Speaker 2: comment on the YouTube video form of this podcast and
Speaker 2: say what you have noticed about protectors versus possessors, because
Speaker 2: we all need to talk about this. We all need
Speaker 2: to share our experiences so we know, first of all,
Speaker 2: we're not alone, but secondly that this is tricky and
Speaker 2: it's okay to not have all the answers, but it's
Speaker 2: not okay for us to go on and act like
Speaker 2: someone saying a script and acting a role is enough.
Speaker 2: That is not enough. And I was talking to one
Speaker 2: of my friends actually, and we were saying how the
Speaker 2: men that we have been attracting are better. At least
Speaker 2: they know to act like they're masculine. At least they
Speaker 2: know to speak like they're masculine. They're saying the right thing,
Speaker 2: they're doing the right thing, so we're getting closer. But
Speaker 2: they were not embodying the masculine. And there's another level
Speaker 2: to this. It's not good enough that they buy you
Speaker 2: flowers or pay for the date or pick you up.
Speaker 2: You know why, It's not good enough because we have
Speaker 2: cortisol in our body and we don't feel safe and
Speaker 2: we literally felt scared sometimes. So that's not good enough,
Speaker 2: that's not okay. We didn't come this far just to
Speaker 2: get this far. We didn't come this far to have
Speaker 2: a fake relationship based in ego. No, we can't settle.
Speaker 2: We must continue to be selective, because the more you
Speaker 2: say no, the less the more you're actually welcoming in
Speaker 2: a higher vibrational match. The difference when it comes to
Speaker 2: protectors and possessors is their presence and it's intention, and
Speaker 2: it's the way they're going about what they're saying and
Speaker 2: what they're trying to get done. A protector and a
Speaker 2: possessor might have a similar idea where they want to
Speaker 2: know that you're home from wherever you just came from.
Speaker 2: A protector will go about this by being rooted in
Speaker 2: love and with care, and they might say, hey, text
Speaker 2: me when you get home so I know you're okay.
Speaker 2: A possessor, however, is going to talk to you very condescendingly,
Speaker 2: and they'll say, I need to know when you're home,
Speaker 2: where you are, who you're with. You can tell that
Speaker 2: it's coming from a place of control, and it won't
Speaker 2: even be just that. It's also going to be somehow,
Speaker 2: some way they're blaming you. You're out too late, you're
Speaker 2: doing this. I don't like what you're wearing. There will
Speaker 2: be more. There will always be more. In my Karmax situation,
Speaker 2: when I got back home from a dinner, I went
Speaker 2: to CBS to get something. I actually got him this
Speaker 2: cinnamon thing, and I was texting him the spiritual significance
Speaker 2: of putting cinnamon in your home. And then my friend
Speaker 2: wanted to visit her old coworkers at this little teaky
Speaker 2: bar that's on the same island that I live on,
Speaker 2: and so I was sending him pictures of the teaky bars,
Speaker 2: like this is so Flairridian, and he got very cold.
Speaker 2: I didn't really know why, but I thought, all right, well,
Speaker 2: I'm going literally to see him tomorrow, so I don't know,
Speaker 2: we'll figure it out. And we did say that I
Speaker 2: would call him when I got home. So when I
Speaker 2: got home, which was by the way like ten pm.
Speaker 2: I also am not drinking right now, so I was
Speaker 2: completely sober. I said to him, Hey, I'm going to
Speaker 2: take off my makeup and then I'll give you a call.
Speaker 2: I know, if I get on the phone with him,
Speaker 2: it's we're going to be on the phone for like
Speaker 2: five hours and then it's going to be like two am,
Speaker 2: and I'm not going to have my makeup off. So
Speaker 2: I just wanted to take off my makeup, wanted to
Speaker 2: clean up a little bit, and then I was gonna
Speaker 2: call him.
Speaker 1: That.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't like that. He did not like that,
Speaker 2: and it caused a fight. But the the way the
Speaker 2: fight happened was complete disrespect towards me. Not Oh, I
Speaker 2: really would just like to call you right now so
Speaker 2: that I see that you're home. Not can we get
Speaker 2: on the phone now just because I'm going to bed soon. No.
Speaker 2: I am now the devil and everything I do is
Speaker 2: wrong and I need to be punished for it and
Speaker 2: I need to be held accountable. And yeah, so I
Speaker 2: was constantly defending myself, and I totally get wanting your
Speaker 2: partner to call you when they get home. I get
Speaker 2: that I would want that too. I totally understand that,
Speaker 2: But the fact is I just wanted to take off
Speaker 2: my makeup and then I was going to call him.
Speaker 2: That's all. That's all, and I communicated that, and I
Speaker 2: was sending pictures throughout my whole entire night. Like even now,
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm still explaining myself. And you know, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't want to cry, but I see how this
Speaker 2: karmic relationship really affected me. And I see how I
Speaker 2: feel so defensive now. And I don't blame that relationship
Speaker 2: for doing that to me, but it definitely brought this
Speaker 2: program to the forefront of my being. I actually will
Speaker 2: thank my Karmik for triggering this within me so I
Speaker 2: can heal it and release it, because I know that
Speaker 2: I didn't start just defending myself with him. I started
Speaker 2: this a very long time ago. I've been defending myself
Speaker 2: since I was a child, so I know this is
Speaker 2: not a hymn thing, but it was very jarring to
Speaker 2: my nervous system. And again, I'm crying, but I invite
Speaker 2: us to cry together because I know if I'm feeling this,
Speaker 2: I'm not the only one. My mom was very Catholic,
Speaker 2: and even when I was manifesting or talking about my abilities,
Speaker 2: it was always seen as demonic and not good and evil,
Speaker 2: and I always had defend myself and say, I see
Speaker 2: how it helps people, though, and I see how it
Speaker 2: helps me, and I see the good it's doing. How
Speaker 2: could I be so demonic and evil if it's doing
Speaker 2: so much good and if it helps me? And when
Speaker 2: you grow up with parents who are very controlling and
Speaker 2: have exact ideas about what you have to be, and
Speaker 2: I talk about this in my book Show Up as Her,
Speaker 2: but my dad always wanted me to be perfect, and
Speaker 2: my mom wanted me to look perfect. So I always
Speaker 2: felt like nothing I was doing was good enough. So
Speaker 2: I was constantly defending my body, what I looked like.
Speaker 2: I constantly was defending my intelligence and trying to prove
Speaker 2: through every top program I could possibly get into. Oh
Speaker 2: I got into it, and I never had below a
Speaker 2: three point nine, and I was on every sport and
Speaker 2: every club and every talent that you could have. I
Speaker 2: also have im bodied. And because I had this assumption
Speaker 2: created in childhood, this belief system that I had to
Speaker 2: defend myself, I eventually attracted a relationship where that was
Speaker 2: really what I was doing the whole entire time. And
Speaker 2: it's just time I released that I don't need to
Speaker 2: defend myself anymore. This is just who I am. Whether
Speaker 2: you think I'm good or bad, or pretty or ugly
Speaker 2: or messy or neat, this is just what it is.
Speaker 2: I just am what I am, and I can't that's it.
Speaker 2: That's it, that is it. And it wasn't until this
Speaker 2: Karma Relationship that this program has been so highlighted for me.
Speaker 2: So I'm very thankful for it. But even yesterday, as
Speaker 2: I found myself being defensive and the guy was saying,
Speaker 2: you know, your energy just shifted and you seem defensive now,
Speaker 2: and I just started crying because I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I probably am defensive. Probably that's true, but at least
Speaker 2: I can say I feel like I'm being accurately mirrored
Speaker 2: right now, instead of having someone distort me. I felt
Speaker 2: like in the Comic relationship, my reflection was so distorted.
Speaker 2: It just wasn't accurately representing who I was. In this connection,
Speaker 2: I'm being mirrored even when I don't like the reflection. Necessarily,
Speaker 2: I know it's clear though, because I was being defensive
Speaker 2: that is just true. But I felt like I had
Speaker 2: to protect something, and that's why I felt like I
Speaker 2: had to protect myself and what I built my life.
Speaker 2: In my cormaic relationship where I was constantly defending myself,
Speaker 2: I felt really contained and like I was always contracting
Speaker 2: and I always was putting up walls because I was
Speaker 2: constantly just having arrowshot at me. And yesterday, when this
Speaker 2: all unfolded, even though he was saying, I feel like
Speaker 2: you're being defensive right now, I still knew it wasn't
Speaker 2: to attack me. He was just trying to understand me.
Speaker 2: He was trying to understand why my energy shifted, and
Speaker 2: that actually allowed me to expand because then I was
Speaker 2: able to say, hey, look this is happening in my
Speaker 2: life right now, and this is where it stems from.
Speaker 2: And he just listened and got it and didn't judge
Speaker 2: me for it and just existed. And he even was
Speaker 2: saying to me, I don't think you're bad or good
Speaker 2: or anything. I just want to understand you. I'm not
Speaker 2: judging you. I just want to be here for you.
Speaker 2: And I think I just forgot what that felt like.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I I crying so much. I'm very sensitive
Speaker 2: these days, and I feel like because I've been detoxing
Speaker 2: my body and not drinking any alcohol, and just spending
Speaker 2: more time with God. I'm like super sensitive to the touch.
Speaker 2: I did not think this episode was going to unfold
Speaker 2: this way. WHOA. I am working on a lot of
Speaker 2: patterns right now, guys, So I'm very self aware right now.
Speaker 2: And it just, I don't know, is sometimes painful to
Speaker 2: look at yourself and oh my god, okay, and I
Speaker 2: think that's why people avoid it. But there's so much
Speaker 2: liberation in it. There's so much good in it, there's
Speaker 2: so much healing in it. So I really just can
Speaker 2: I also say thank you, thank you for I was
Speaker 2: thinking about this the other day and I totally forgot
Speaker 2: to say it, but I have felt so misplaced in
Speaker 2: this world for my whole life. It's actually and I'm
Speaker 2: so thankful that I got to create this world with
Speaker 2: you positive bitches. I'm so thankful. I don't know what
Speaker 2: kind of state I could possibly be and if I
Speaker 2: didn't have you, because you hold such a safe space
Speaker 2: for me. I'm just so thankful, So thank you. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna try to pull it together for the sake of
Speaker 2: just getting my point across. So there's you, right, and
Speaker 2: then there's me, and we are aligned because there's probably
Speaker 2: something I'm saying that you can resonate with that you
Speaker 2: need to hear right now. And what I want to
Speaker 2: say is you girl or you boy. You human and me.
Speaker 2: We are the humans in our bloodline that are meant
Speaker 2: to break these cycles of confusing control with love, confusing
Speaker 2: always being on the defense with connection. The shift begins
Speaker 2: with us. So if there is a controller in your life,
Speaker 2: you gotta remove them. And I know it's not easy,
Speaker 2: but you got to remove them from your orbit. If
Speaker 2: you don't remove them, you are serving yourself on a
Speaker 2: silver platter. You are making yourself the sacrifice and that
Speaker 2: is never meant to be your role. You are the altar,
Speaker 2: not an offering. Secondly, you have to stop performing I
Speaker 2: because I always thought I wasn't good enough. I was
Speaker 2: trying to match the conditions my parents had for me
Speaker 2: growing up, and then I would try to match the
Speaker 2: conditions my romantic partners had for me. So in the
Speaker 2: karmic relationship, it was basically, do all the emotional labor,
Speaker 2: show up for me all the time, be there for
Speaker 2: me whenever I need you. But if you have an
Speaker 2: emotion or you feel a certain type of way, it's
Speaker 2: just not as important and there's not really space for it.
Speaker 2: So I basically had to be the mother the martyr.
Speaker 2: But I wasn't being offered a connection where I could
Speaker 2: actually have an equal energetic exchange or a partner, So
Speaker 2: that means I had to not only remove them, but
Speaker 2: I had to decide I'm not going to perform for
Speaker 2: love anymore, because as much as they were performing being
Speaker 2: an energy possessor, I was performing being in that mother
Speaker 2: or that martyr mode, trying to just fulfill all their conditions,
Speaker 2: and I needed to instead allow myself to be free.
Speaker 2: But because I didn't feel free or safe in their presence,
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it with them. But I could do
Speaker 2: it without them. I could do it in my own energy.
Speaker 2: I could do it potentially with someone else. I had
Speaker 2: to remove them so I could refocus on me, refocus
Speaker 2: on giving myself permission to show up in all of
Speaker 2: my authenticity, and then attract from that place rather than
Speaker 2: from a wounded place of I will become what I
Speaker 2: need to become in order to match their conditions. Step
Speaker 2: three is go to God for direction. Ask God to
Speaker 2: give you I s to see, ears to hear in
Speaker 2: a heartful of discernment to understand the situation clearly. You
Speaker 2: will get dreams, you will get internal inklings, you will
Speaker 2: see something on your for you page that will give
Speaker 2: you more information. You will get your signs, but you
Speaker 2: have to ask for the Step four is building safety
Speaker 2: within yourself, and that is something that I've been channeling
Speaker 2: not only for my clients. It's just so crazy how
Speaker 2: you guys are so aligned with me, but also the collective.
Speaker 2: You have to build safety within yourself, and that means
Speaker 2: becoming your own safe space, and that means actually working
Speaker 2: on your divine masculine energy, making sure that you have
Speaker 2: a structure to support yourself, a daily routine that supports yourself,
Speaker 2: that you are creating financial stability in your life so
Speaker 2: that you know you can rely on yourself. This is
Speaker 2: all about really refothering yourself, which is something we haven't
Speaker 2: really talked about because we've been so focused on divine
Speaker 2: feminine energy. But if you're wanting to attract a whole
Speaker 2: person instead of just a half person, then you actually
Speaker 2: do have to become a whole within yourself first. It's
Speaker 2: interesting because growing up we've heard a lot you complete
Speaker 2: me or my better half or my other half. But really,
Speaker 2: don't we want to attract someone who's a hole in themselves?
Speaker 2: I mean I do. I don't want to just attract
Speaker 2: someone who's in their masculine energy or their wounded masculine energy.
Speaker 2: I want to attract a balanced individual. But in order
Speaker 2: to have that, I need to be balanced within myself first,
Speaker 2: and that means I need to create more safety, more security,
Speaker 2: more stability within myself first, so I can feel safe
Speaker 2: within myself, which will then allow me to feel safe
Speaker 2: with another person. If someone isn't safe, I'll still be
Speaker 2: able to discern that and then just remove them. Step
Speaker 2: five is communicate, Communicate, communicate, stand up for yourself. Speak
Speaker 2: what's on your mind. And sometimes you know, standing up
Speaker 2: for yourself means expressing yourself, and sometimes standing up for
Speaker 2: yourself means staying silent and just walking away. You'll know
Speaker 2: what to do, But please protect yourself, not out of fear,
Speaker 2: but out of love and devotion for who you've been
Speaker 2: and who you came here to become. I think some
Speaker 2: reflective questions that you can ask yourself is do I
Speaker 2: feel like I'm growing or do I feel like I'm
Speaker 2: constantly shrinking? Do I feel scared? Or do I feel
Speaker 2: sacred even if I give myself permission? Does this person
Speaker 2: allow me to be all that I am it's a
Speaker 2: good question. Or do they only have space for me
Speaker 2: when I'm doing for them, when I'm mothering them, when
Speaker 2: I'm the martyr for them? Who am I even seeking
Speaker 2: permission from myself or from them? How does my body
Speaker 2: feel in their presence? Remember, if we just look at performance,
Speaker 2: their words or actions, it's not enough information. We have
Speaker 2: to ask our bodies. This ancient technology will communicate everything
Speaker 2: you need to know. Something I want to bring to
Speaker 2: your attention. Though I don't believe in doing harm to others,
Speaker 2: I do believe take no shit, but do no harm.
Speaker 2: The reason I'm saying this is because I don't want
Speaker 2: to see us getting wrapped up in things that have
Speaker 2: nothing to do with us. Remember, no man is your friend,
Speaker 2: no man is your enemy. Every single man is your portal.
Speaker 2: And it's important that we have reverence for what I
Speaker 2: believe are different soul contracts to expand us, to be
Speaker 2: a catalyst, to be an activator, to push us to
Speaker 2: the next phase of our own evolution. And the reason
Speaker 2: I'm saying this is because you are not meant to
Speaker 2: take on the job of karma. Karma plays itself out.
Speaker 2: It's one of the energetic principles, one of the energetic
Speaker 2: laws of this universe. Okay, So I don't want to
Speaker 2: see you getting wrapped up in something that you should
Speaker 2: not be wrapped up in when you are exactly who
Speaker 2: you are. Who is someone who is trying to heal,
Speaker 2: attempting to heal, healing, wants to give love to this world,
Speaker 2: is a light worker. If you're listening to this, I'm
Speaker 2: sure you're some sort of light worker. There is something
Speaker 2: about wellness or spirituality that you're into. I'm sure that
Speaker 2: even if you are literally having a job that has
Speaker 2: nothing to do with light working, you are a light
Speaker 2: worker with your friends, with your family. Okay, I want
Speaker 2: you to understand that when someone does go out of
Speaker 2: their way to attack or manipulate you, or betray you,
Speaker 2: or dishonor you someone that is literally a divine vessel
Speaker 2: that has not only in my opinion, been chosen, but
Speaker 2: really you're choosing. You know, you chose to incarnate, you
Speaker 2: chose this path, You chose to heal these things, and
Speaker 2: you chose to pick up your calling. You chose to
Speaker 2: answer it. You are choosing to do the work. You
Speaker 2: are choosing to get back up every single day. When
Speaker 2: that is the type of person you are, the Divine
Speaker 2: recognizes you, your angels recognize you, and you therefore have
Speaker 2: this higher protection placed on your life because you are
Speaker 2: picking up the call. You are saying, I'm gonna take
Speaker 2: on greater responsibility and I'm going to be a light worker,
Speaker 2: not just in my own life, but for other people.
Speaker 2: When the Divine knows that you're a vessel for it,
Speaker 2: when the Divine knows that you're going to do light
Speaker 2: working for it, you then get extra protection because then
Speaker 2: you are an instrument of God to create greater healing,
Speaker 2: greater abundance, greater ascension on the planet. So it's like
Speaker 2: if you are the MVP, you're gonna have some special
Speaker 2: protections around you. Put it that way, and you are
Speaker 2: spiritual VIP or MVP because you are choosing to answer
Speaker 2: the call and choosing to help the planet. When someone
Speaker 2: tries to go against you, they're actually not going against you,
Speaker 2: they're going against the Divine now because you have surrendered
Speaker 2: your will and you have agreed to be a part
Speaker 2: of Thy will, bringing greater light greater life, of greater
Speaker 2: healing to the planet. So now when someone goes against you,
Speaker 2: it's not them going against you, it's them going against
Speaker 2: the divine. It's them going against the tens or the
Speaker 2: thousands or the millions of people. You're going to help.
Speaker 2: The light workers. I'm talking about these earth angels, hypriestesses, prophets,
Speaker 2: whatever you want to call yourself, the ones that carry
Speaker 2: these divine codes for healing and prophecies and timelines shifting
Speaker 2: for collective liberation. You are sealed in the spirit. To
Speaker 2: go against you is to interrupt the divine's plan. If
Speaker 2: someone does you dirty, that already is their karma because
Speaker 2: number one, they're losing you. Number two they are now
Speaker 2: going to have to take it up with God and karma,
Speaker 2: this energetic law. Karma knows everyone's address. There's nothing you
Speaker 2: have to do. You don't have to send this long paragraph.
Speaker 2: You don't have to try to get them back, and honestly,
Speaker 2: please don't, because then you're just creating worse karma for yourself.
Speaker 2: When someone goes against a chosen vessel or someone who's
Speaker 2: trying to be this light worker, they are automatically gonna
Speaker 2: have karma knowing where they live and going after them,
Speaker 2: because now it's not between you and them, it's between
Speaker 2: them and the divine court. They might experience sudden financial
Speaker 2: collapse or stagnation. They could get literally physically ill. They
Speaker 2: can have relationships fall apart, delays, misfires, streaks of bad luck,
Speaker 2: deep shame, and obsession with watching the person that they
Speaker 2: decided to try to go against or manipulate or whatever
Speaker 2: it was. They might feel like they're not able to
Speaker 2: tap into their intuition as well. They might feel like
Speaker 2: divine guidance isn't coming online for them. They might feel
Speaker 2: like they're losing out on blessings and favor which you
Speaker 2: do when you lower your frequency and try to harm people.
Speaker 2: You do then miss out on those blessings because now
Speaker 2: you're not in a receptive state to receive them. When
Speaker 2: you try to go against a light worker, there is
Speaker 2: instant energetic consequences. And I have to say, I've just
Speaker 2: seen this happen in my life so many times. It
Speaker 2: is simply a spiritual violation to go against a light
Speaker 2: worker who's trying to bring so much positivity onto the planet.
Speaker 2: Because again, it's not just about the light worker it's
Speaker 2: about what the light worker is bringing through. That's a vessel,
Speaker 2: that's an instrument of the divine. So their kar macdebt
Speaker 2: is racked up immediately and seen in their reality instantly.
Speaker 2: So don't be surprised if they're dreaming of you or
Speaker 2: constantly sending you energy and then you're picking up on
Speaker 2: it because they now have to deal with these consequences.
Speaker 2: Let the divine take care of this. Your focus, your
Speaker 2: mission is on bringing light and on bringing love, not
Speaker 2: trying to get people back, not trying to do any
Speaker 2: anything against anyone who has hurt you or betrayed you.
Speaker 2: You don't want to live a day in their body, okay,
Speaker 2: you don't want to even understand how they could even
Speaker 2: get that way. So remove yourself from that equation and
Speaker 2: refocus on what you came here to do. The moment
Speaker 2: you stop mistaking a cage of control for your kingdom,
Speaker 2: you make space for love that lets you breathe. You
Speaker 2: make space for connections that make you breathe, and you
Speaker 2: make space for a connection with yourself with the divine,
Speaker 2: where you learn to give yourself permission to show up
Speaker 2: fully rather than trying to live up to the conditions
Speaker 2: of someone else. Thank you for listening today, and I
Speaker 2: really hope that this sheds light on your own programming.
Speaker 2: That is why I expose myself weekly so that you
Speaker 2: can learn from me and you don't have to go
Speaker 2: through everything that I go through. But a lot of
Speaker 2: you have experienced similar situations and know that you're not alone.
Speaker 2: Know that God is always with you, that higher power
Speaker 2: is always with you, your spirit team is always with you.
Speaker 2: You are so protected, and your ancestors, I just want
Speaker 2: to say, are so proud of you for breaking the
Speaker 2: patterns and the habits and the behaviors and the identities
Speaker 2: that they didn't know how to break out of. You
Speaker 2: are doing the hard work that they wish they could have,
Speaker 2: and because of that, your ancestors are even going to
Speaker 2: make sure you have extra divine blessings and extra support.
Speaker 2: I love you so much. Thank you for being here,
Speaker 2: thank you for showing up, Thank you for doing your
Speaker 2: part on this planet. You are so lovely and precious
Speaker 2: and worthy of all that you desire. And I cannot
Speaker 2: wait to speak to you next week. Hopefully there will
Speaker 2: be no tears, but as we know, I can never
Speaker 2: promise that I'll see you in the next one.
Speaker 1: No, can don't.
Speaker 2: Don't you can't sell me a cant sass me, can't
Speaker 2: stas me.