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<v Speaker 1>Hey there. This is Annie and I play Emma in

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<v Speaker 1>the Swipewright series of episodes here on Roxy's Erotic Whispers.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to let you know that Roxy has

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<v Speaker 1>all of the Swipewright stories now available in a deluxe ebook.

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<v Speaker 1>You can find it on Amazon at Roxy dot show

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<v Speaker 1>slash swipe Wright All one word. If you enjoyed the

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<v Speaker 1>swipe Right episodes, you'll love reading ebook.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, my lovelies, I'm Roxy Callahan and welcome to my

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<v Speaker 2>Erotic Whispers podcast. This special mini episode is a presentation

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<v Speaker 2>of something you can only find on my patreon, Roxy's

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<v Speaker 2>Weekly Whisper. Every week, members of my Patreon receive a

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<v Speaker 2>behind the scenes note from me. I talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>week's episode, my experience writing and my life with sex

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<v Speaker 2>and erotica. Sometimes it's amusing, and sometimes it's interesting, and

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it's personal. This Weekly Whisper is from the listener.

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<v Speaker 2>They ask, do you have a lot of sexual experience

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<v Speaker 2>and is that what's needed to write erotica? So let's

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<v Speaker 2>find out what I wrote. And remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 2>to read these weekly notes or you want to chattel

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<v Speaker 2>my discord, join my patreon. The link will be in

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<v Speaker 2>the description and also, as always, this podcast is intended

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<v Speaker 2>for adult listeners. A listener wrote to me via email

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<v Speaker 2>and asked, do you have a lot of sexual experience?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what is needed to write erotica? They went

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<v Speaker 2>on to mention that they had very little experience but

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<v Speaker 2>loved writing and the thought of writing erotica thrilled them.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are actually two questions, so let me answer them individually.

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<v Speaker 2>In terms of experience, I've had quite a bit. I

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<v Speaker 2>am a bisexual, and I was particularly wild in college.

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<v Speaker 2>How wild depends on your definition of what wild is.

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<v Speaker 2>I never took part in an orgy, and I've only

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<v Speaker 2>had one threesome, which I wasn't particularly happy with as

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<v Speaker 2>one of the participants was a guy I was dating,

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<v Speaker 2>and he seemed more excited about the other woman than me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that would have been okay, but she was also

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<v Speaker 2>more excited about my boyfriend than me. Anyway, As to today,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been dating someone for almost a year, and I

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<v Speaker 2>do think we have what you would consider a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of sex, probably every other day or a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more often than that. To go a little bit further,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have to say my libido has always been

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<v Speaker 2>really high, but in college it was actually totally out

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<v Speaker 2>of control. So the wildness wasn't so much about bdsm

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<v Speaker 2>orgies and all of the things that you might read

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<v Speaker 2>in erotica, but more like having as much sex as

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<v Speaker 2>possible that led to unintentional wildness like sex with life

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<v Speaker 2>of men and women in club bathrooms, in cars, and

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<v Speaker 2>once on a hike. And this is worth noting because

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's kind of charming and also hot. My

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend and I decided the best way to enjoy the

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<v Speaker 2>sunrise was with me on my hands and knees and

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<v Speaker 2>him behind me as we both watched the sunrise while fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>We literally were trying to time a mutual orgasm as

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<v Speaker 2>we watch the sun peak over a mountain who he

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<v Speaker 2>failed miserably, but I applaud myself for the attempt. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have specific questions, I'm pretty much in an open book.

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<v Speaker 2>You can always ask me on my discord when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>happy to discuss pretty much anything sexual. So the next

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<v Speaker 2>question includes the implication that you need to have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of sexual experience to write erotica, And like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of experience, but very little of

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<v Speaker 2>it is really what you would consider the wild taboos

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<v Speaker 2>that you often find in erotica, so it's not really

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<v Speaker 2>at all true. All you really need is a good imagination. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>it certainly helps if you have a passion for what

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<v Speaker 2>you're writing about. So while you could write a nice

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<v Speaker 2>BDSM scene, if you aren't into BDSM, you won't really

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<v Speaker 2>get the true underlying heat and passion from it unless

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<v Speaker 2>you love the idea of it. Now, note that I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't say unless you experience it. I said you love

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<v Speaker 2>the idea of it. Sexual pleasure is such a primal

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<v Speaker 2>thing that you don't need to necessarily experience being tied

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<v Speaker 2>up to know how it all works. One person loves

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<v Speaker 2>the tide, the other loves being tied, and after that

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<v Speaker 2>you do all kinds of delicious things with bodies and

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<v Speaker 2>ways that we are familiar with as we all have one.

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<v Speaker 2>So the short answer, my lovelies, is that even virgins

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<v Speaker 2>can write amazing erotica. We all know or should know,

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<v Speaker 2>our own bodies, and we all know the feeling of

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<v Speaker 2>lusting after a partner, whether it's a man or a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>The joy and passion of sex is something that's part

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<v Speaker 2>of all of us. And if any of you are

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<v Speaker 2>new writers and want to write erotica, feel free to

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<v Speaker 2>send it to me at Roxy at tenth muse dot studio.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks so much for listening to my podcast. I'm Roxy

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<v Speaker 2>Callahan and my Erotic Whispers are brought to you by

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<v Speaker 2>tenth Muse Studio