Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be here more. I'm welcome for you.
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Speaker 2: So, I have been teaching pole dancing since twenty thirteen.
Speaker 2: I've competed professionally. I've done music videos and concerts for
Speaker 2: Snoop Dogg and a shanty pole dancing in front of
Speaker 2: thousands of people.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of fun. So that's why you had
Speaker 1: the jams. I had this CHANTI on earlier. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt right at home. See, I didn't know why.
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know, on the way over here,
Speaker 1: I was like, what mood do I want to be in?
Speaker 1: And she always puts me in a good mood. So
Speaker 1: you know, maybe gravitated your energy to pull you in
Speaker 1: and it was felt comfortable here on some things kismet here,
Speaker 1: I love it. You are so good.
Speaker 2: Aside from that, I perform burlesque. I'm actually here in
Speaker 2: Los Angeles performing at the next Door Lounge in Hollywood
Speaker 2: most Saturdays, some Fridays. So I love it because it's
Speaker 2: it's a different type of performance than pole dancing.
Speaker 1: How is that all you? Or is it with like
Speaker 1: other girls too? There's other girls throughout the evening something
Speaker 1: like dinner.
Speaker 2: It's dinner and a show, so you have your friends
Speaker 2: that come out enjoy some drinks and some dinner, and
Speaker 2: then throughout the evening single performances will happen. So I'll
Speaker 2: come out, and then another performer will come out and
Speaker 2: do their song, and then another and then it turns
Speaker 2: into a dance party.
Speaker 1: And next Door Lounge is a lot of fun. I
Speaker 1: don't have to check that out, please do.
Speaker 3: But it's great because it's a classy way of stripping,
Speaker 3: is what they consider it, you know, burlesque, and I
Speaker 3: come down into my pasties and whatnot, but it's very
Speaker 3: different from my pole dancing.
Speaker 2: And like I've worked as a stripper in clubs, and
Speaker 2: then I've worked as like a go go dancer at
Speaker 2: working on the pole, which is different because I'm not taking.
Speaker 1: Close and aren't most goyog dancers, aren't you like just
Speaker 1: dancing stationary. I thought I didn't know a poll was involved. Well,
Speaker 1: it depends.
Speaker 2: Here in Los Angeles they've actually started within the last
Speaker 2: few years implementing pole dancing, so you're not necessarily grinding
Speaker 2: and gyrating, but you are doing pole athletics as well
Speaker 2: as dancing with the music, and you know, people are
Speaker 2: able to tip you, which is fun. But it's not
Speaker 2: like I'm taking people to the back and taking them
Speaker 2: for lap dances. I mean I might, like, you know,
Speaker 2: if they're in front of me and my open my
Speaker 2: lazy like hey.
Speaker 1: So again the more classy of the of the whole.
Speaker 1: But I don't even love that word classy saying it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think, you see, I think it's all
Speaker 1: very I think because okay, so back up a minute.
Speaker 1: So for me about you know, even how the industry
Speaker 1: I was in, and I was in the adult industry,
Speaker 1: so for me, it was the way I expressed myself artistically.
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's the same way with you
Speaker 1: with but with dancing and poll and you know, being
Speaker 1: like an airlist whatever, because it's it's an art and
Speaker 1: it's beautiful. It's like painting a picture from somebody else's
Speaker 1: mind and creating music or you know, things like that.
Speaker 1: So it's very it's I'm very in tune with those things.
Speaker 1: So it's cool to see like that portray across and
Speaker 1: how it's elevated now to where now there's different things
Speaker 1: where it's you know, but burlesque was always around, you know,
Speaker 1: but now it's bringing it more into it where it's
Speaker 1: like now it's dinner in a show, and it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's because the entertainment, you know industry, we
Speaker 1: suffered so much because of the pandemic, and we found
Speaker 1: ways to really do those things behind you know, in
Speaker 1: our homes or on live streams and things like that.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's really fun for me, I think,
Speaker 1: and I know I'm sure you're you know fans as well.
Speaker 1: It's like to see that one on one in front
Speaker 1: of my face, you doing these things where I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, that's the part that I've missed. Every
Speaker 1: night is different, you know what I mean. I can
Speaker 1: see like I used to dance before, and you know,
Speaker 1: I have some strip clubs across the world, and it
Speaker 1: was I couldn't tell her, like what can we expect?
Speaker 1: I hated that question because it's like, I don't have
Speaker 1: a choreof grabbed my thing in my mind, but I
Speaker 1: just know what songs I dance to and what my
Speaker 1: routine in a senses, But it's off the crowd. It's
Speaker 1: about the participation of everything, how I'm feeling that day.
Speaker 1: And sometimes I mean, every show is great, but it's
Speaker 1: like what evolution you know, what's going to be tapped
Speaker 1: in and unlocked with the LEAs of taxes today. So
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's really much about yourself. Which one of
Speaker 1: the very much true those jobs that you've told some
Speaker 1: private talk today, Which is your favorite to do? You
Speaker 1: have one?
Speaker 2: Honestly teaching. I love teaching. I teach flexibility. I teach
Speaker 2: pole dancing and twerking and handstands and exotic movement. And
Speaker 2: I like to teach people how to learn because a
Speaker 2: lot of people get stuck up on what they can't
Speaker 2: do and oh I'm to this, I'm to that, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, if you keep thinking that you're not
Speaker 2: gonna get anywhere, So how about we just negate those feelings.
Speaker 2: You feel how you feel about yourself when you're away
Speaker 2: from me, but when you're in my class. The can't
Speaker 2: is a cuss word.
Speaker 1: I love that I have a refuse for you to
Speaker 1: just because your mindset is everything you know I mean,
Speaker 1: And if you say I can't, then you can't exactly.
Speaker 1: I'm always like, I don't know, but I'll try.
Speaker 2: No, Debbie Downer, It's like, if you want to do
Speaker 2: that on your own time, but not, you're not gonna
Speaker 2: waste my time. I don't want to hear it. It's
Speaker 2: not for me to hear. I want to do nothing
Speaker 2: but empower my students. And I love giving them that
Speaker 2: sense of I've done something that I didn't think I
Speaker 2: could do before, and then they.
Speaker 1: Get a died to it. That's what happened with me.
Speaker 2: Like I wasn't classically trained dancer all through school, and
Speaker 2: then I ended up poll dancing because one I wanted
Speaker 2: a better way to work out that wasn't so icky,
Speaker 2: Like the gym.
Speaker 1: I don't like the gym. The gym's not in a
Speaker 1: good place for me, is it? Because you don't like
Speaker 1: stationary movement. It's like kind of like with sports, like athletes,
Speaker 1: it's like you need to be doing something.
Speaker 2: I rather much have some fun while I'm working out
Speaker 2: and the gym, I just cuss and bitch and moan
Speaker 2: and cry, and I it's.
Speaker 1: I exactly and in front of people too, and I
Speaker 1: just you know, it's not yourself to see the thing.
Speaker 2: I know I am able to. I just choose not
Speaker 2: to like the option. But going back to like pole
Speaker 2: dancing and stuff. When when I first started poll dancing,
Speaker 2: it was because I wanted to work out but also
Speaker 2: get in tune with my more sensual side. I was
Speaker 2: a very developed young woman, and people looked at me
Speaker 2: as a woman when I was still a child, and
Speaker 2: I had some issues going up growing up, and so
Speaker 2: it was a way for me to reclaim my sexy
Speaker 2: and get in tune with my sexuality and sensuality for myself.
Speaker 2: And then I felt more confident. And then, lord knows,
Speaker 2: you would not have been able to tell me back
Speaker 2: in college that I'd be making my career swinging on poles.
Speaker 2: You know, my mom's a stand up comedian in her thing.
Speaker 2: It's just like you know, back in my day, we
Speaker 2: kept the kids off the pole. Now, when she came
Speaker 2: home with a couple thousand dollars, she's like, you go ahead,
Speaker 2: let me help you pick out now. But no, that's
Speaker 2: not enough.
Speaker 1: You got don't. Yes, that's good though. It's important to
Speaker 1: have people, you know, in your life and your family
Speaker 1: support what you do, especially breaking the stereotypes of what
Speaker 1: it was before and what you're doing now. You know,
Speaker 1: and it's you know, I go back to saying, you know,
Speaker 1: when I was in the adult industry and camp, like
Speaker 1: the similarities is because it's just the adult industry itself.
Speaker 1: You know, you get a lot of like marks or
Speaker 1: like oh looked at sideways or whatever. You know. For
Speaker 1: me telling my parents like hey I did an adult movie,
Speaker 1: they're like, okay, But I explained it to the point
Speaker 1: where it was like that's how I was expressing myself.
Speaker 1: That's how I found myself in comfort, and like, you know,
Speaker 1: I was always comfortable with my sexuality, so it was
Speaker 1: how I wanted to express myself. So yes, again, it's
Speaker 1: not something they wanted to like ideally hear or want
Speaker 1: their child to do, but they definitely are cheerleaders and
Speaker 1: very supportive and everything that I choose to do. So
Speaker 1: it's important to have those things because that's how I
Speaker 1: feel like we elevate even more because you tap into
Speaker 1: like now that you're coaching, or now that you're teaching,
Speaker 1: and all these things like that, what you've already learned
Speaker 1: and loved to do, you're bringing it and putting into
Speaker 1: somebody else's hands too and having that come out in them.
Speaker 2: And I think that's a beautiful thing. Support goes a
Speaker 2: long way on both ends. Support as me being a teacher,
Speaker 2: supporting my students, and support for me as an entertainer,
Speaker 2: having people like you know, my mom and my family
Speaker 2: be behind me and understand that what I do is
Speaker 2: something that I love to do and it's helping other people.
Speaker 2: And my thing is when I'm performing, I want you
Speaker 2: to forget about all the other dramas in your life.
Speaker 1: I don't want you to think about not a not
Speaker 1: a nothing except my little ass shaking on the stage
Speaker 1: and doing these amazing tricks. So hopefully, I mean, from
Speaker 1: what I've heard from other people, they say that like
Speaker 1: they are transcended. They come in and like, I'm so
Speaker 1: happy that you came because at least that this shows
Speaker 1: that you're doing something for yourself. You came out you're
Speaker 1: not dealing with dramas, and I'm going to take you
Speaker 1: into a further place where you're so far from that bullshit.
Speaker 1: I'm here for you. That's awesome. I'm a philanthropist through
Speaker 1: my entertaining and teaching. So how do you would one
Speaker 1: person come to you and find you to be a
Speaker 1: teacher a coach? How would we do that? How to
Speaker 1: tell private talk? So maybe we have some listeners out
Speaker 1: there that are going to come and come and join
Speaker 1: your class. Yes, of course.
Speaker 2: Well my website is Higher Learning Dance. Higher Learning Dance
Speaker 2: because you're higher off the ground, and well I like
Speaker 2: to get.
Speaker 1: High, you know. Right, speaking of that, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna smoke on my beigo flatur Hello.
Speaker 2: Higher Learning Dance is my company, and I also am
Speaker 2: on the social media's. However, when it comes to dealing
Speaker 2: with classes, it's best to, you know, either go through
Speaker 2: my email or the website which directs you into my email.
Speaker 2: And like I said, I teach pole dancing, I teach flexibility.
Speaker 2: I also do a lot of zoom classes. So people
Speaker 2: who aren't in Los Angeles are not quite comfortable to
Speaker 2: meet person to person. In these days, I completely understand
Speaker 2: that I got you. I'm really vocal and I'm able
Speaker 2: to explain things in a way that you understand it.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like your message gets across when people
Speaker 1: aren't one on one because you're not maybe with flexibility,
Speaker 1: It's like, how do you know that you're really pushing
Speaker 1: in deep into those things? You know things?
Speaker 2: There's different markers that I can see in a person
Speaker 2: when they're doing it, so I know what the body's
Speaker 2: supposed to look like, and I can tell when how
Speaker 2: they react after I tell them to make this certain adjustment.
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, I'm like, oh, now you feel it.
Speaker 2: Now you feel it. You look too comfortable before. So
Speaker 2: and I've been doing it for so long, like I've
Speaker 2: been like, I've been a dancer for over twenty years,
Speaker 2: and then with the pole thing, I've been doing that
Speaker 2: since twenty twelve and for less since like twenty fourteen.
Speaker 1: I yeah, it's just cool. Let's talk about you said
Speaker 1: with the pole dancing thing, you wanted to kind of
Speaker 1: go back. I'm sorry, I apologize, go back to you
Speaker 1: said you you developed really early on as like child.
Speaker 1: People are looking at you kind of probably more than
Speaker 1: you know, they were supposed to be giving you more attention,
Speaker 1: did you? You went inward and you didn't really accept
Speaker 1: that a negative very much. So I kind of shund
Speaker 1: up by that doing talking about I. I don't mind
Speaker 1: talking about that at all. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So, one of two things happens when people have dealt
Speaker 2: with either like molestation or any type of situations in
Speaker 2: that regards. They either act out or they retreat. I
Speaker 2: did both. I acted out and then I retreated. I
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to be this way because
Speaker 2: at a certain point I felt that I was looked
Speaker 2: at as this object, the sexual being, and that was
Speaker 2: all I was good for because that's all that the
Speaker 2: attention I was getting. And so it wasn't until I realized, Fuck,
Speaker 2: what everyone else sees me as, it's what I see
Speaker 2: myself as is what I feel is what's most important.
Speaker 2: And I it's ultimately up to me to allow people
Speaker 2: in my life and in my circle, and if they're
Speaker 2: not in my space doing something to elevate me or
Speaker 2: help me or be positive influenced in my life, they
Speaker 2: don't got to be there.
Speaker 1: And I learned how to essentially say no fortin that's
Speaker 1: a strong word because we you know, we sometimes even
Speaker 1: with just you know, females in general, is we want
Speaker 1: to be a pleaser. We don't want to be you know,
Speaker 1: oh you're difficult or oh you know, you get to
Speaker 1: all these stigmas on these things where it's like no
Speaker 1: is okay for any you know, gender, race, anything like whatever.
Speaker 1: No is a powerful word and you should take it
Speaker 1: and you should own it. But it's you know, it's
Speaker 1: really a crucial time for women when we grow up
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, you have these things that you know,
Speaker 1: I have boobs. I haven't asked you know what I
Speaker 1: mean with me, And I didn't get boos until later on.
Speaker 1: But I had a big ass always, So it was
Speaker 1: always like what attention brings it to you know, to
Speaker 1: you so you're just like sometimes people hear it and
Speaker 1: you're just like you get shy or nervous of it.
Speaker 1: You don't want people to see it whatever I mean. But
Speaker 1: you know, finding that voice again is really powerful, Like
Speaker 1: you said, to get your own you know, femininity back
Speaker 1: and your own sexuality back to be like you know what,
Speaker 1: I have the power you don't, And that's a really
Speaker 1: powerful thing. Yes, yes, very powerful.
Speaker 2: So pole really helped me with that, and I'm so thankful,
Speaker 2: and like, honestly, anyone who approaches pole has their own reason.
Speaker 1: Yes, and it is what you make it.
Speaker 2: Like going back earlier, what we were saying as far
Speaker 2: as pole dancing classy and stripping all that stuff, it
Speaker 2: can be anything. I've seen ballerinas pole dance. I've seen
Speaker 2: break dance pole dance. I've seen tap dancers pole dance,
Speaker 2: like I've seen people amputites pole dance. Like, it's whatever
Speaker 2: you make it. It's a creative interpretation. So it also
Speaker 2: depends on the setting. So yes, if I'm dancing with
Speaker 2: like club lights going and it's a sexy song playing,
Speaker 2: you're gonna allude to it being more of a strip
Speaker 2: club performance. But if I'm dancing in like, you know,
Speaker 2: a park and I've got like gene shorts and tank top,
Speaker 2: I'm not like in a g string and pasties, it
Speaker 2: portrays a different image. So it's all about like the
Speaker 2: setting too.
Speaker 1: I agree with that, I feel like, but I think
Speaker 1: like now too, it's like we're in such a time
Speaker 1: where you know, everything is just odd in the world,
Speaker 1: you know, and things like that where it so I
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like if people are trying to
Speaker 1: fight back to making that where it's like dance and
Speaker 1: certain things, it doesn't matter what you're wearing. Isn't like
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like trash here raunch of
Speaker 1: your strip club ish or like, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's like it's okay for you to dance sensual to
Speaker 1: an R and B song that you feel is great
Speaker 1: or you know what I mean, or whatever song that
Speaker 1: makes you feel like. I feel like people try like
Speaker 1: shun away, like, oh that's over sexualized. Why does it
Speaker 1: have to be you make it that way, right, not
Speaker 1: the actual individual who's being an artist and portruy, you know,
Speaker 1: like letting theirself go exactly. And that's why I feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's people need to kind of
Speaker 1: like look inward a little bit more when they start
Speaker 1: finding problems with other things outside in the world. Why
Speaker 1: it really bothers you. But yeah, so there's pole dancing.
Speaker 1: Where'd you go after pole dancing? Did you go the
Speaker 1: go go go dancing? Yes? I ended up go go dancing?
Speaker 1: So was that just not enough? You wanted more? You
Speaker 1: just like the liberation of dancing that you're just like,
Speaker 1: what can I do? Next, could you say you have
Speaker 1: a background in dance. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I ended up getting booked for like a lot of
Speaker 2: music videos, which is fun. Like I've I've always been
Speaker 2: on set even since I was younger. Like my first
Speaker 2: music video was like a Luther Van Dross video and
Speaker 2: I was like a kid and Mariah Carey too. I
Speaker 2: was like a kid in the church, you know, singing
Speaker 2: along with it. It was great, that's awesome. But then
Speaker 2: I I wanted to do something more like with teaching,
Speaker 2: I'm able to like really help people more one on one.
Speaker 1: Entertaining is great.
Speaker 2: I can help like I could say I can help
Speaker 2: a crowd perform or not perform, but enjoy the performance
Speaker 2: while I'm doing it, but it's not the same effect.
Speaker 2: I feel like I have more influence and more calling
Speaker 2: to like teach people. I still perform just because I
Speaker 2: enjoy it. I love the thrill of being on stage
Speaker 2: and just seeing the people's reaction when I do what
Speaker 2: I do and just being like you're looking at me now,
Speaker 2: like eyes on me, baby.
Speaker 1: Powerful. That's why for me I can really could with
Speaker 1: the like dancing on the Future dancing, it was like
Speaker 1: I knew at that moment everyone was gonna watch me,
Speaker 1: and it was like what am I doing? And it's
Speaker 1: captivating because it's really like a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: get that attention. But that's why I feel like with
Speaker 1: when I see artists perform, I'm like, that's all my
Speaker 1: new point of that, you know, depending on how big
Speaker 1: the r but it's just that power, Like it's like
Speaker 1: it's just like adrenaline rush.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like a snake charmer in a sense,
Speaker 2: except I'm the one with the flute and I'm like,
Speaker 2: even though I'm the one dancing, but like everyone.
Speaker 1: Is encaptivated, like by I as your flute. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: So with the pole dancing.
Speaker 2: I will say this, it has brought me to a
Speaker 2: lot of different places in my life that I never
Speaker 2: thought I would, Like I've been able to teach in
Speaker 2: different countries, and I would never have assumed that it
Speaker 2: has gotten as far as it has. In like the media,
Speaker 2: like I've done commercials, Like a couple of years ago,
Speaker 2: I did a commercial for I think it was like
Speaker 2: beats by Dre and I was pole dancing for that.
Speaker 2: I know I wasn't in it, but they had I
Speaker 2: think it was like a Calvin Klein commercial that had
Speaker 2: pole dancing and like it's so progressive now and I'm
Speaker 2: so happy and I'm looking forward to seeing it more mainstream,
Speaker 2: like and they just talks about it going into the Olympics.
Speaker 2: By then I would just be coaching because I'd be
Speaker 2: too old to be fucking trying to do that.
Speaker 1: That's amazing too, just to be a part and being
Speaker 1: like a revolutionary and a pioneer to like, you know,
Speaker 1: opening up those doors because you know it is you know,
Speaker 1: you doing those things and all those moments are like,
Speaker 1: you know, they're really great accolades and for women to
Speaker 1: look up to you and like people see your style
Speaker 1: and like give the you know, people hope to know
Speaker 1: that those things could be obtainable. So that's really awesome
Speaker 1: to do. Definitely again and you know, I just want
Speaker 1: to ask for that. Thank you. It's Tuck likes women
Speaker 1: and empowerment people. What you're doing your direction of just
Speaker 1: you know, giving people insight and a different you know
Speaker 1: in your mind, you know, And I think that's really cool.
Speaker 2: And it's not just for the women either, Like I
Speaker 2: teach men, I teach plenty of men and and androgynoist people.
Speaker 1: I teach everybody.
Speaker 2: So I want it to be more of a conversation
Speaker 2: of like, why is it have to be sexualized all
Speaker 2: the fucking time?
Speaker 1: Are we not past that? Are we not past that?
Speaker 2: Like I have a sibling brother who is like seven, right,
Speaker 2: I have a poll up. Anytime he comes and he
Speaker 2: sees it, he's gonna climb up and spin around, and
Speaker 2: like I posted videos and people like I can't believe
Speaker 2: you have your boy on the pole.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you thinking it like that? If
Speaker 1: this little pole was at a park, they have poles, parks,
Speaker 1: kids climb poles. Why are you making it more than
Speaker 1: it is other people's you know things, and like what
Speaker 1: it's was before, it's like such sex over you know what?
Speaker 1: I guess? I guess sexism within its own like sport,
Speaker 1: because it is a sport as well. At this end
Speaker 1: of the day, I think that I feel like have
Speaker 1: you do? You see when when men or guys want
Speaker 1: to come to do your class, they feel little bit
Speaker 1: more intimidated or inferior for it, or is this something
Speaker 1: that they're already been doing? You know?
Speaker 2: Some of them, some of them feel out of place
Speaker 2: because they're just usually surrounded by a lot of women,
Speaker 2: and they feel like they may.
Speaker 1: Be intruding or being judged being the only man there.
Speaker 2: I feel that most of the cultivations that I've done
Speaker 2: in my classes doesn't allow for that. Like everyone that's
Speaker 2: come to my classes felt pretty comfortable, and if they haven't.
Speaker 1: I think it's also the setting, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: seem like a very good energy to like make it
Speaker 1: just it's normalize it. Like you said, you know, it
Speaker 1: shouldn't be one or the other, should be everybody rights.
Speaker 1: I used to work at this bar in West Hollywood
Speaker 1: called Flaming Saddles. Oh, such a fun time.
Speaker 2: Rest in peace of that club down because because the
Speaker 2: fucking pandemic took away my club's dam. So I used
Speaker 2: to teach a free pole class there on Tuesdays, and
Speaker 2: literally anyone who would walk in the door, if you
Speaker 2: wanted to get on, sign the waiver.
Speaker 1: I would teach you something something I wanted to get on.
Speaker 1: All right, if you want to get on, If you
Speaker 1: want to ride my hole, you come, sign the waiver.
Speaker 1: You can ride. No height requirement, no height requirement for
Speaker 1: this ride. Okay.
Speaker 2: So it was great because there's people who would never
Speaker 2: even thought of taking a pole class, were able to
Speaker 2: expose to this new thing, this new exercise, this new dance,
Speaker 2: and then eventually people started coming tell me.
Speaker 1: You're like, you're pitch, I'm walking into this old bar
Speaker 1: r ip. I'm like, I don't really know if I
Speaker 1: want to need the pull, and you're just like, are
Speaker 1: you persuading me? Are you talking? What are you doing?
Speaker 1: Like you know what? I'm like, Yeah, Candace can check
Speaker 1: it out. When's the next time you're going to be
Speaker 1: able to live out your go go dance fantasies dancing
Speaker 1: in a bar with the lights and the music, people drinking,
Speaker 1: cheering for you.
Speaker 2: And if that, if you're afraid of the cheering, people
Speaker 2: don't have to pit cheer for you. They probably are
Speaker 2: in conversation with their bodies at the bar, not even
Speaker 2: paying attention. And if all else matters, I'm here. I
Speaker 2: got you back, and you know what, if you do this,
Speaker 2: you're gonna walk out this bar today feeling a lot better.
Speaker 1: You know why, ooh, private, you try something new mm hm.
Speaker 2: And honestly, what I liked about it because I don't
Speaker 2: drink alcohol anymore. I do like this intermittent fasting, but
Speaker 2: for now, I think it might be for good. We'll see.
Speaker 2: It kind of drew them away from drinking so much
Speaker 2: because I wanted to focus on the pole, which for
Speaker 2: me was like, yeah, I know the bar. I probably
Speaker 2: didn't like that, but I don't care because people dancing
Speaker 2: on the pole brought other people in, so you know,
Speaker 2: it's all it's all a thing, it's.
Speaker 1: All grave, it's all like it's cohesively together. I like it, though.
Speaker 1: I mean, you had me at like the pole, but like,
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't have been you know, I like
Speaker 1: things like that. For me, I took a pole dancing class.
Speaker 1: I didn't really like the class aspect because I'm more
Speaker 1: of a one on one person because I like to
Speaker 1: be really great at what I'm doing. But I really
Speaker 1: only did like basics because my ass was just too
Speaker 1: big and too heavy and I just you know, I
Speaker 1: didn't really give it my all. I didn't even at all.
Speaker 1: But you know, with that speech, there's there's hope, there's hope,
Speaker 1: private hung I got. Yeah, I can get that. That's
Speaker 1: the Polly. You heard her, you heard her. We'll see
Speaker 1: if this can happen. It's heavy, though, it's really heavy,
Speaker 1: and it's more because my arms. You know, I had
Speaker 1: to work out my arms, but I'm working out more
Speaker 1: so see, we'll see. That's the thing.
Speaker 2: The more you practice on the pole, the more the
Speaker 2: muscles that you need are gonna fire off from works.
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll get that. You know, the stage with the
Speaker 1: pole that we're talking about. I come back, repeat of
Speaker 1: this whole thing, and I can now will be on
Speaker 1: the pole.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's different. Wait, just sit on the pole and
Speaker 2: do your podcast from there the whole time.
Speaker 1: I like it. Do you like that private talk? I
Speaker 1: hope you're liking this episode. I'm going to take a
Speaker 1: little bit of a break. When we get back. We're
Speaker 1: going to play truth with Texas. Are you ready, Candice Cane?
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Speaker 1: So we're gonna play truth with Texas. We've got four aces.
Speaker 1: Each ace is a different type of question. We're gonna
Speaker 1: get to know you a little bit more intimately. I
Speaker 1: know you've been talking all business, but now it's fun time.
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Speaker 2: You can find me at sweet Miss. That's MS Candace
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Speaker 1: and let's get started. So let's pick a car. All right,
Speaker 1: let's go with this one. I have an ace of heart.
Speaker 1: Ace of heart. So the heart is a romantic question.
Speaker 1: Are you would you consider yourself a romantic? Very much? So,
Speaker 1: very much so. I I romanticize quite a bit. Yes,
Speaker 1: what is one of your secret sexual fantasies? Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I really want to do it in a hot air balloon. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's why break this down. Okay, so check it out
Speaker 1: because there's a lot of there's a lot of things
Speaker 1: going on here, Candice, I need to know.
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. Like I I like doing things
Speaker 2: that scare me. I'm actually not into heights, like being.
Speaker 1: Like a thrill seecret. Yeah, a kind of sort of there.
Speaker 2: I have levels like I've gone skydiving and like the
Speaker 2: first time I was like mute. The second time I
Speaker 2: almost like I couldn't breathe, but I got through it.
Speaker 1: You know, you do what you do.
Speaker 2: But like being up high and then just like being
Speaker 2: bent over and like looking down while you have the
Speaker 2: feeling of getting fucked.
Speaker 1: There's like actual position, yes, yes, over and you're high
Speaker 1: because I got the you know double Entandra, Yes, high
Speaker 1: and higher exactly, so you're going to be bent over,
Speaker 1: bent over.
Speaker 2: I want to be looking down at the world below.
Speaker 2: I want to be fucked from behind and you know,
Speaker 2: if you want to pull my hair, you can, but
Speaker 2: ideally that that would be just amazing and if the
Speaker 2: people want to watch that.
Speaker 1: I'm down for that too. Do you want cheers at
Speaker 1: the end? I don't have to cheer, They don't have
Speaker 1: to cheer. You can do it, girl, don't get that orgasm.
Speaker 1: We know what you want. Cheer. Oh do you think
Speaker 1: that that would make you orgasm more? Someone was like,
Speaker 1: you can do it? Hell? No? Are you into people
Speaker 1: watching you have sex? Have you ever had someone to
Speaker 1: watch you? Infinitely? Definitely, I've definitely done that. I'm into it,
Speaker 1: like in a cuckhold situation or in like a group
Speaker 1: participating situation. M I haven't cuckled, group participation and then
Speaker 1: just me having fucking fucking friends in the room while
Speaker 1: I'm fucking. So you're like smoking you know, a joint
Speaker 1: and your friend's like getting a blowjob pretty much or
Speaker 1: vice versa. Or yeah, people playing video games make smoking. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is there a particular kind of party you have to
Speaker 1: be invited to this situation that happen or is it
Speaker 1: just like on an average Sunday? Oh no, that this
Speaker 1: is so long ago. I'm so vanilla now. I like
Speaker 1: how you look at me and tell me like you're like,
Speaker 1: I don't do nothing. That's the ones you'd be careful
Speaker 1: for it's because it's not that you may not doing now,
Speaker 1: but you still are capable of doing these things, which
Speaker 1: is very pro so very I think it's a good thing.
Speaker 1: It's again, it's about being who you're true, your true self.
Speaker 1: So do you have a favorite song that you like
Speaker 1: to have sex to get in the mood too? I?
Speaker 1: I don't. Is there one that you like to you know? Now,
Speaker 1: let's go back to your pole dancing or dancing? Is
Speaker 1: there anyone song that you like? Your go to every
Speaker 1: song and they're like, oh, Candice is at it again?
Speaker 1: You know me doing something?
Speaker 2: I think what gets me in like a sensual, sexy
Speaker 2: feeling myself mood is this song by Flow a Tree
Speaker 2: and it's say yes.
Speaker 1: Say oh, you gotta to say yes. It's a good one.
Speaker 1: I like this. It's a good one. I like it.
Speaker 1: I like how the tone that one just makes me
Speaker 1: want to just like touch, warm, fuzzy, like someone wants
Speaker 1: to just like to here. What's your favorite place to
Speaker 1: be kissed? My neck? My neck? I'm a sucker for
Speaker 1: the neck. Like yeah, I like how you're thinking about
Speaker 1: someone kissing all that getting warm like.
Speaker 2: Private my thing not so much the collarbone, but the
Speaker 2: neck is definitely where it's at, like up either up
Speaker 2: by my ear or down.
Speaker 1: To the base and anywhere in that region I'm happy
Speaker 1: with good, ready to go. Do you sleep naked or
Speaker 1: clothes on most of the time, naked most of the
Speaker 1: laundree or naked?
Speaker 2: Oh, definitely naked, But I I I don't mind dressing
Speaker 2: up every now and then.
Speaker 1: Favorite thing to dress up? Is it more to just
Speaker 1: sexy laundree or is it like coseplay where you're like
Speaker 1: role playing and doing something I would like role play.
Speaker 2: Haven't really gotten too much into theat but I definitely
Speaker 2: like involving a strip tease because I've have experience with that.
Speaker 2: But I thoroughly enjoy the act of taking off my
Speaker 2: clothes in such a way.
Speaker 1: Sorry to interrupt you, but don't with that with being
Speaker 1: like how because Okay, you like incorporating this strip tease
Speaker 1: because that's what you do. Do you not feel like
Speaker 1: that's kind of like working sometimes? Or do you kind
Speaker 1: of go in because with me, sometimes I don't like
Speaker 1: to over sexualize something because I've been over sexualized and
Speaker 1: certain like when I was in the business, So sometimes
Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to play this too in like
Speaker 1: your personal life. So with you, because you do strip
Speaker 1: teas or when you're dancing that, do you always want
Speaker 1: to feel like it's you know, is it almost cliche
Speaker 1: to incorporate it or you feel like you it's just
Speaker 1: more comfortable.
Speaker 2: To you enjoy it, you know, like that, I the
Speaker 2: feeling that I'm doing, or the feeling that I have
Speaker 2: when I'm on stage performing is very similar to like
Speaker 2: the feeling that I have if I'm performing for a partner.
Speaker 2: I enjoy what I'm doing and I celebrating my body
Speaker 2: at the same time, and I know that the outcome
Speaker 2: is you're going to be smiling. I'm a pleaser and
Speaker 2: I love for the audience to be left pleased, whether
Speaker 2: it be visually tantalized or if it's my partner sexually released,
Speaker 2: whatever that may be. You know, release it out, baby,
Speaker 2: I got you. So like that is okay for me
Speaker 2: to feel like I should be performing because like that's
Speaker 2: just like my go to I guess.
Speaker 1: I like it because I don't know, I feel like
Speaker 1: it's I could see both sides. Mine was very over
Speaker 1: sexualized whatever, but now I'm trying to learn, like those
Speaker 1: were the things that I like doing before in things,
Speaker 1: so it's like bringing those things back. So it's not
Speaker 1: like I'm working right right, like you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because it matters now instead of instead of the ten,
Speaker 1: you know the ten like you know, audience people that
Speaker 1: I'm like looking their eyes because I'm an eye contact
Speaker 1: type of person as well. It's just the one because
Speaker 1: I like pleasing the room. I like making sure that
Speaker 1: everybody feels good about and when I was dancing and
Speaker 1: doing those things, it's easy to like fall into that
Speaker 1: trance of like goodness, yes, yes, yes, goodness. All right,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to the next type of question. Okay,
Speaker 1: they're not that bad. We're warming you up. Bring it on, baby,
Speaker 1: bring it on, all right. I have a club here.
Speaker 1: The clubs are kinky. Questions here, private talk kinky. It's
Speaker 1: your favorite time of day to have sex? Oh, favorite
Speaker 1: time of day to have sex? Any time of the
Speaker 1: day is a favorite time of day to have sex,
Speaker 1: just sex. Like I'm down. I'm down for daytime, I'm
Speaker 1: down for morning, I'm down for late night. I'm down
Speaker 1: for you know, roll over in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1: Are you down for kinky and bondage?
Speaker 2: I'm very much down for kinky bondage. Matter of fact,
Speaker 2: throughout the pandemic, I was performing virtually online with the
Speaker 2: Jumbo's Clown Room, which is, you know, the Jumbo's cyberclown
Speaker 2: Girls show that they had. And the last show we
Speaker 2: did was a BDSM kink show and I tied myself
Speaker 2: up in shabari and I performed and it was great,
Speaker 2: and I'm like into the Actually on my Instagram, I
Speaker 2: have a video of me in some bar in Bali.
Speaker 2: I'll suspend it in with my legs up here, my
Speaker 2: hands and like, you know, having conversation.
Speaker 1: It was great, So I'm definitely having conversation like it's natural. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, everyone's on the couch.
Speaker 2: Just how the you know how we are now speaking
Speaker 2: except just imagine me strung up with my feet in
Speaker 2: my hand.
Speaker 1: I went to Bali and that didn't happen with me.
Speaker 1: When you needed to redo you come with me, girl,
Speaker 1: come with me, and I'll show you the way. I
Speaker 1: like it. We're going private tongue, but I'm gonna follow
Speaker 1: the way. Well see where it leads me. I feel
Speaker 1: like a little bit of trouble, but a lot of fun,
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Most uncomfortable place you've ever had sex? Oh? God,
Speaker 1: the most I mean you said you were tied up.
Speaker 1: Have you been tied up and expended like and having sex.
Speaker 2: I haven't, but I would be down with that. It
Speaker 2: wouldn't be uncomfortable. I'd say the most uncomfortable place. I've
Speaker 2: done it in an elevator. That really wasn't that great.
Speaker 2: I've done it in a corner of a club, like
Speaker 2: kind of behind a door, So that was awkward.
Speaker 1: The corner of a club and the corner with the door,
Speaker 1: Yeah it was.
Speaker 2: I'd say that was pretty uncomfortable. Other than that, I
Speaker 2: have I pride myself on being comfortable for sex. Like,
Speaker 2: if I'm gonna have sex, I want it to be nice, like,
Speaker 2: I don't want it to have to have any type
Speaker 2: of issues, Like I want to be able to lay
Speaker 2: down like I've done when I was younger.
Speaker 1: I did that whole car sex thing. And I need
Speaker 1: a bed for what I'm about to do, the work
Speaker 1: I'm about to put in. I need some space, okay,
Speaker 1: and cushion from my knees because fuck that you're about
Speaker 1: to get in mm hmm. So yeah, you definitely had
Speaker 1: a sexual encounter in a crowded place. You like that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: watch porn without master rating? Yes, actually, okay, so check
Speaker 1: it out. I am not a stranger to the porn industry.
Speaker 1: I have never been in a film myself. How Ever,
Speaker 1: I know people in the industry, and I support their work,
Speaker 1: and sometimes I like to just watch it without like
Speaker 1: jacking off to my people. And honestly, some of the
Speaker 1: plots and the scenes are actually pretty good. So you
Speaker 1: watch it for the storytelling, not all the time, but
Speaker 1: I have this is the first time I've heard this,
Speaker 1: I have, I have, So who's storytelling do you like
Speaker 1: the best? Oh? God, you know, but in storytelling as
Speaker 1: far as the director or the performers, the performers, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: that's different. I was like, that's a different storyline than
Speaker 1: the storyline that's really being portrayed. I'm like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: I've been in a lot of those horrible storylines and
Speaker 1: that shit is not funny and stupid. But the sex
Speaker 1: is great. Yes, But so like, how you got to
Speaker 1: this sex awkward and weird? Like who I would? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like i'd say, you know what, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: put myself out there like that. Have you ever watched Alexis,
Speaker 1: Texas Portan. I'm sure I have now I wasn't that memorable?
Speaker 1: She's like, oh damn it. No, here's the thing. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure. I am a stickler.
Speaker 2: I usually stick with like a select few people that
Speaker 2: I like, like and.
Speaker 1: I just kind of watched, Yeah, you're like, oh monogamous,
Speaker 1: but like for a long time it was awsa but
Speaker 1: then she became a mom and I love it for her.
Speaker 1: But I have a thing.
Speaker 2: I don't like moms. So if I know your mom,
Speaker 2: I just can't get off to you. Yeah, it's it's
Speaker 2: it's a turnoff for me. Like I could have thought
Speaker 2: you were amazing until I found your mom.
Speaker 1: Like, I can't why because you think like something came
Speaker 1: from here? What do you mean a whole fucking being
Speaker 1: came from that ship? I can't think about. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm good. So not a mom, No, no, no, no, no, honey,
Speaker 1: not for me. I'm good, not ever or just not
Speaker 1: not never. I'm like, I'm so okay with that idea
Speaker 1: of not having children. It's amazing. Who else's a bad sensor? Ever? Right?
Speaker 1: Kieren Noir is amazing, Small Hands is amazing? Who else?
Speaker 1: Ricky Johnson is amazing. He's my favorite. Right now he's
Speaker 1: your favorite? Does he do something to you?
Speaker 2: Well, I just bought his toy, So okay, here's the thing.
Speaker 2: We're gonna go off topic for a second. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm more of like a platoral stimulator, Like vibrators are
Speaker 2: my shit. Like I love vibrators, dildos. I'm like, wasn't
Speaker 2: really into until most recently because I'm like, I could
Speaker 2: just get real dick.
Speaker 1: I mean, I could just get real dick if I
Speaker 1: wanted it. Like, but a vibrator. A man can't do
Speaker 1: what a vibrator does.
Speaker 2: So, you know, but as a late you know, pandemic
Speaker 2: and situations arise. And I was like, well, I think
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go ahead and get some silicones, you know.
Speaker 2: And then I fucking found Ricky Johnson has his shit,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm buying that shit.
Speaker 1: So I love this. I haven't tried it out yet.
Speaker 1: What's stopping you? You're looking for the right date night?
Speaker 2: Well, no, see, I have this other one that I
Speaker 2: ended up getting that's like clear and I was able
Speaker 2: to stick to like my shower and it's kind of fun.
Speaker 1: I love this. It's fun you know when you stick
Speaker 1: in suction cup things like, and you don't want to
Speaker 1: feel like you're cheating on him, so you you're sticking
Speaker 1: with the clear. Do you name him? No? No, no, nope, nope,
Speaker 1: nope should I Maybe? I think it's more. I mean,
Speaker 1: Ricky already has a name, but the clear one needs
Speaker 1: a name. Definitely. He's like he's like breaking you into
Speaker 1: like Ricky, you know, exactly smaller than I will say that,
Speaker 1: so you know, pre Ricky. Shower time is great at
Speaker 1: your house and all right? Next card, I have an
Speaker 1: ace of diamond. Spicy question, but we're all a little spicy.
Speaker 1: I don't like spicy. You like spicy questions. I'm a
Speaker 1: savory person. That's why I'm sweet. Miss Candice, give me
Speaker 1: the sweets, not the spice. What's your celebrity hall pass?
Speaker 1: Oh oh goodness. Private Talk wants to know just one?
Speaker 1: You have two?
Speaker 2: Okay? I would say for female, yes, Monete. She is
Speaker 2: just amazing and a goddess and she wouldn't have to
Speaker 2: do anything. I would just do it all whatever she could.
Speaker 1: I I'm more dominant, but she can make me her
Speaker 1: bitch if she wanted to. I would do one you're
Speaker 1: definitely bisexual.
Speaker 2: Oh very much, so very proud lgbtqya that is me baby.
Speaker 1: So could you have a female and male relationship at
Speaker 1: the same time or both separate?
Speaker 2: I currently have a female and male relationship, but they
Speaker 2: are separate of each other. I am with one and
Speaker 2: then I am with the other, but they are aware
Speaker 2: of the both. Like we've hung out and like not sexually,
Speaker 2: but we've hung out in group settings. Everyone's cool, and
Speaker 2: everybody's cool with them. There's no jealousy, no, see.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm okay with that, like in my head,
Speaker 1: but I feel like I would be the jealous person
Speaker 1: at some time, but I think I don't know. I
Speaker 1: feel like I don't like to share, like I like
Speaker 1: to share and then give it back its mine. Hm.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's kind of like that with my
Speaker 2: scenario because like I'm married to a man and then
Speaker 2: I have a girlfriend. Her girlfriend is engaged to her too,
Speaker 2: so it's like, you know.
Speaker 1: It's never gonna be like relationship, but it's like a situationship,
Speaker 1: like I mean feeling it's like, are there boundaries within
Speaker 1: what you guys have going on? Yes? Yes, yes, of
Speaker 1: course there's boundaries. As was any relationship that you know,
Speaker 1: you said what's comfortable. But what I will say is.
Speaker 2: That we are very communicative, which is why it works.
Speaker 2: And there is a deep connection with me and like
Speaker 2: my lady, like you know, we talk. It's not always
Speaker 2: just about fucking like we actually have something more than
Speaker 2: a friendship, but not like a sistership. Could that be weird,
Speaker 2: I'll sis, but we But it's like for.
Speaker 1: Me, I feel like you're allowed to have different soulmates,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and they serve different purposes
Speaker 1: or whatever, and like there's certain beings and you just
Speaker 1: have a connection with people that it's unexplainable. It just happens. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's why it's like when it becomes like when you're
Speaker 1: married and then like with them having other relationships like
Speaker 1: with me is like when like the whole like sharing
Speaker 1: of time of things because you know, things like whatever.
Speaker 1: And that's where it's like having like the communication of
Speaker 1: having that's so open that it's okay and it works
Speaker 1: for people because I feel like more people would be
Speaker 1: okay with situations like this if they were all open
Speaker 1: about it and being honest. But because communication, sometimes people
Speaker 1: don't want to hurt people's feelings this or whatever where
Speaker 1: you're really hurting people's feelings just not being honest. So
Speaker 1: I commend that that's really cool to be super honest
Speaker 1: and open and both in all levels. They can hang
Speaker 1: out together too, and you guys can all cohesively just
Speaker 1: be a unit exactly exactly.
Speaker 2: There's this book I want to drop called The Ethical Slut.
Speaker 2: It's an amazing book. I suggest everyone read it, and
Speaker 2: it for me put into words what I had thought
Speaker 2: in my head and all the ie theologies that I've
Speaker 2: always had.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, great, there's other people that
Speaker 1: think like I do. It's not just me. This is
Speaker 1: amazing because it's like not that it doesn't it changes
Speaker 1: their sways, but it also like makes it relative and
Speaker 1: like makes it like you're now like you know no
Speaker 1: kind of things exactly. I like that. All right, So
Speaker 1: we've did the clubs, we've done that way. I need
Speaker 1: your man, your man hop pass like I was intrigued.
Speaker 1: I was intrigued, I got sex, but I'm back private talk.
Speaker 1: We want to know. Well, I already talked about him
Speaker 1: because to me, he's a celebrity. Ricky doesn't count. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: then I don't know.
Speaker 2: I I don't know because I I genuinely like lust
Speaker 2: after women.
Speaker 1: More than men.
Speaker 2: My man, who the fuck would I want to fuck?
Speaker 2: Who's the guy who just I The.
Speaker 1: First person that came to my mind is, uh, fuck,
Speaker 1: I don't know, Janeanna, I don't know. Maybe maybe we'll
Speaker 1: keep your same thing. Well, you weren't even convinced yourself,
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't know. I accept that answer. That
Speaker 1: was the first thing. Who do I look at? I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: they fine, there's not you need one more of these? Maybe, Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys can think of somebody? Is it? Okay? How
Speaker 1: about how about we'll go with I don't want to Nope, Nope,
Speaker 1: not him either, Ricky Johnson it is. Yeah, We'll just
Speaker 1: stick with that because I am I can't think of
Speaker 1: anybody else. All right. Last question, Oh my god, it's
Speaker 1: an ace of spades? What does that mean? Spades? Is
Speaker 1: our favorite hair? A private talk because it is our
Speaker 1: favorite because it's a naughty question. But we're all a
Speaker 1: little naughty. You're in real very sweet? What do you mean?
Speaker 1: Not even sweet? The same thing? You know? You know?
Speaker 1: I love it all ever used a toy during intercourse. Yes,
Speaker 1: what is this toy? Which one the clear one? We
Speaker 1: don't know its name. I have not used it with
Speaker 1: anybody else I've I've got let me see, we've got
Speaker 1: the Uh, there's a there's an arsenal. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: got girls got I'm into some ship. Okay. I have
Speaker 1: like the the angle plug with like a jumpstone at
Speaker 1: the end. That's kind of cute. I got a couple
Speaker 1: of those. You need a different color of a different outfit,
Speaker 1: so I got one of them color.
Speaker 2: Uh, this one is pink. It's gold with a pink stone.
Speaker 1: I like it. Let's see I've got okay. Well, there's
Speaker 1: two different dildos that I had that were like the vibe.
Speaker 1: It had like the beads on the inside. It was
Speaker 1: like going around and that, Yes, and had the little
Speaker 1: little rabbit ears, so that I like, how I know
Speaker 1: I know them all? Which, of course you do. It
Speaker 1: was like my jeopardy. I'm like, what, let me know
Speaker 1: that one?
Speaker 2: So that I have a purple one and a pink one.
Speaker 2: I believe I've used them.
Speaker 1: No. See, this is why you need to name them.
Speaker 1: You be like Peter, Paul, Mary. These are horrible names.
Speaker 1: You need better names. I'm just you know, on the spot.
Speaker 1: Those are the that's my homework. I'll go home and
Speaker 1: name my toys. Please do because we're gonna have a
Speaker 1: round to you when we get this poll in here,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna have to know yes. Yes.
Speaker 2: So you know, like a toy, i'd say in back
Speaker 2: and the guy on the front.
Speaker 1: Or was it vice versa? No, No, I think that
Speaker 1: was it. That was it. Have you ever made a
Speaker 1: woman's squirt? It's an amazing thing. The first time you
Speaker 1: do it, you're just like glorious. Oh my gosh. You
Speaker 1: have a song when you sing it, when it like
Speaker 1: comes out. No, I'm usually the one singing. That's me
Speaker 1: singing what you mean? I like those Those noises are
Speaker 1: really great. They're really great. Thank you, Thank you. Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a nightstand? Yes? I have. Tell us
Speaker 1: about it. Oh god, so it was more of like
Speaker 1: a one day stand because it happened in daytime. You
Speaker 1: have such a storyteller voice. I'm like, yeah, tell us.
Speaker 1: One day in June twenty fourth, in twenty twenty, there.
Speaker 2: Was this one day I was leaving a dance studio
Speaker 2: because I had just had dance practice, and upon leaving
Speaker 2: this dance studio, there was another gentleman leaving who decided
Speaker 2: to come and speak to me, and I thought, hmmm,
Speaker 2: he looks pretty fun. And upon speaking to this gentleman,
Speaker 2: he decided he wanted to cancel whatever he had on
Speaker 2: his plans, or if he even had the plans. Who knows,
Speaker 2: to walk with me in the park. And I was like,
Speaker 2: all right, let's walk in the park. So we walked
Speaker 2: in the park, and upon walking the park, we end
Speaker 2: up sitting down by a tree and playing music on one
Speaker 2: of our cell phones. At that point, I started dancing,
Speaker 2: and from my dance moves, I ended up dancing on
Speaker 2: his dick.
Speaker 1: And then lord knows that that. I mean, it was
Speaker 1: just it was a I don't know how it happened.
Speaker 1: It was just my dance. You know. It was something
Speaker 1: like I was here right, you know, I was here right,
Speaker 1: I was doing my little dance dance, and I was
Speaker 1: doing my dance right. I was shaking it right. And
Speaker 1: then I came down like this, and the next thing,
Speaker 1: you know, I was doing my dance right, I was
Speaker 1: doing with d and the next thing, you know, here
Speaker 1: I am. I'm just doing my dance now. Everything's bouncing.
Speaker 1: It's great. It was great. Love the story. Yeah, daytime
Speaker 1: park sex. Oh joy, that sounds like a great story.
Speaker 1: I always wear a skirt. Ooh you heard her Tips
Speaker 1: Tips with Candace. You like that. That was story time
Speaker 1: with Texas, you know what I mean. I feel like
Speaker 1: I should just implement this time now, you know, in
Speaker 1: the private talk, because it was really amazing and I
Speaker 1: liked it. But