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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, c K and Carmen. Time for that

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Good morning, good morning, all right, second

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<v Speaker 1>date update is going on right now. You recently hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up with a young lady by the name of Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, yeah, we just we just met like through

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<v Speaker 2>some mutual friends, cause because I have I have broken

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<v Speaker 2>up with my girlfriend of like two years recently, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to get back out there. And so we

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<v Speaker 2>went to this restaurant like not too far from me,

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<v Speaker 2>and like conversation was really good and everything was going great,

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<v Speaker 2>and then out of nowhere, my ex walked up to

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<v Speaker 2>the table because apparently she worked at this restaurant. Bruh, yes, bruh, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it must have got there like recently. And so she

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<v Speaker 2>like she has like a you know, one of those

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<v Speaker 2>like little drugs of water that they like pouring the

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<v Speaker 2>cups or whatever, right, and she just like puts it

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<v Speaker 2>up like right in the middle of the table and

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<v Speaker 2>just like pours the whole thing out. Oh yes, And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know, she's like talking about like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, how dare you come in here? And like

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<v Speaker 2>this that and the other, and like I was just

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<v Speaker 2>like shocked and like super embarrassed obviously, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Damn Okay, So what'd you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>We let we left the we left the restaurant. I

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<v Speaker 2>just like got her out there like real quick.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>We went to another restaurant and everything seemed to be okay, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we had a good time, and she did

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<v Speaker 2>like kissed me good night, and we like had planned

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<v Speaker 2>on like another date and all that. Okay, But now

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't her for like a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Damn, bro, But you guys did kiss good night.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's so good. Like I get why she wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's so like good after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn, I'm still tripping off the fact that your ex

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<v Speaker 1>was the waitress and she spilled.

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<v Speaker 3>Water on y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just glad I didn't order coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, So here's what we're gonna do. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get Jordan on the phone. I'm gonna try to

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<v Speaker 1>play the role of cute, but I'm gonna figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. See why she ghosted on you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of have an idea on why she probably

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't hit you back, because that was probably crazy. But

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing that I keep going back to was

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<v Speaker 1>she gave you a kiss good night? So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if she wasn't feeling you, she wouldn't have kissed you

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<v Speaker 1>good night. And if she really was turned off, she

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<v Speaker 1>probably would have dipped out instantly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, like we still went out and had a

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<v Speaker 2>great date.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. All right, Well, let me go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and get Jordan on the phone right now. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see where this takes us, and we'll see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can make a second date happen. Okay, so we

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<v Speaker 1>were able to track down Jordan. Get Jordan on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in the middle of a second date update. Jordan, Hello, Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Jordan? Hey Jordan? Now you're doing is c

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<v Speaker 1>kinge Carmen from B ninety five?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning, Hey, good morning. I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, well, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>What we're calling you because well, we're doing a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. I mean, there's so many different things that

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<v Speaker 1>we do on this show. I just gotta cut to

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<v Speaker 1>the chase. We're doing a second date update. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have any idea of who we might be calling about?

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<v Speaker 1>If you listen to the show, you know how the

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<v Speaker 1>second date up date works.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think I might know who is calling.

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<v Speaker 3>And the name is.

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<v Speaker 4>Hunter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, why did you ghost on my man? You haven't

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<v Speaker 1>hit him up in over a week.

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<v Speaker 4>You know your man's is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well we kind of established that. The one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that we do know is that you guys accidentally went

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<v Speaker 1>to a restaurant where she works and she spilled water

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<v Speaker 1>on You guys are spilled water on the table. But

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<v Speaker 1>then you guys kissed later on. So what's the problem.

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<v Speaker 4>K This found me on Instagram and started dming me

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<v Speaker 4>all sorts of messages.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>She's telling me how Hunter has got a small and

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<v Speaker 4>that owned boy and that you know, they talked like

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<v Speaker 4>how they used to to kinky things together, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and it sounds like it's stopped there. So now this

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<v Speaker 4>woman found out where I lived. Oh, insanely creepy things

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<v Speaker 4>on my front porch c K like stuffed animals.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait wait wait hold on a second, Hold

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<v Speaker 1>on a second. I got to bring Hunter in, Hunter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what sort of ex do you have?

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<v Speaker 3>Dude?

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<v Speaker 2>No, man, that sounds about right brow, you know, And

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<v Speaker 2>then hold on.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not it. She found out where I worked. She's

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<v Speaker 4>been calling where I worked and then hanging up bright

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<v Speaker 4>me and then hang up. So now my my manager's like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 4>what's up with all these phone calls?

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<v Speaker 2>Hunter Jordan, I am, I'm obviously embarrassed. Well I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you've got to understand that's not me doing this,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. And like I've had a

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<v Speaker 2>problem with her in the past and I've talked to

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<v Speaker 2>people or whatever, and she'll tire herself out, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>Like we can get to tire herself out, dude, that

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have time for that, and honestly you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>deal with that crap either.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, but I'm just saying we could get through this together.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I thought, like, you know, if you really didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to, so why would you go out with me?

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<v Speaker 4>Hunter? You are so sweet, you really are sweet, But

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<v Speaker 4>that's something that we can't I can't get down with

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<v Speaker 4>crazy X you know. And I really think you should

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<v Speaker 4>call the policeman because that is that's disturbing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, disturbing, not cool, man, Like when I'm thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, bro, you realize that this woman what did

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<v Speaker 1>you say she left stuffed animals on your porches?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, she left me two stuffed animals that were from

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<v Speaker 4>like past their anniversaries, the first and second year, I

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<v Speaker 4>guess because they were together for two years and then

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<v Speaker 4>pictures of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm speechless.

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<v Speaker 4>That's I mean, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>You need to put a check on that girl, Mam.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you want to We could talk about this maybe

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<v Speaker 2>over like coffee or something.

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<v Speaker 4>I ain't got time for it, bro, I'm sorry. Maybe maybe,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you right now. That was smooth though. That

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<v Speaker 3>was smooth, hunter.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that you did that.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, that was the hell Mary right there, because that

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<v Speaker 3>was a good one. How fuck ah damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I heard a lot of shots being shot on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, but that was the.

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<v Speaker 3>Hell Mary of all hell Mary's. That was subtle. It

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<v Speaker 3>was smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't buy it, but it was. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. It was a good one. I'm even thrown

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<v Speaker 1>off by it right now. I'm like, man, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. Hey, you think maybe we can talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this over some coffee. We'll just get through it together.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll see what you did there.

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<v Speaker 3>That was good. That was good.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, dude, your ex is really crazy and

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<v Speaker 1>I think for this relationship. To even go further, you

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<v Speaker 1>probably have to have the police involved. And what you

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<v Speaker 1>need to do is let Jordan know that you got

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<v Speaker 1>the police involved, and then maybe she can trust the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that it's being handled professionally.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, but as of right now, like just y'all kicking

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<v Speaker 1>it the way that your exes moved. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure that Jordan probably doesn't even feel safe.

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<v Speaker 4>Where I work and where I live.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, damn, that's crazy. She does some research on y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, well, well how she found that information? Like

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<v Speaker 4>what is she like? She's a waitress, But I mean

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<v Speaker 4>she's more than that, dude, because.

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<v Speaker 1>She's sneaky as hell, bro sneaky as hell. Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>good news is we all can laugh about this, even

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<v Speaker 1>though it's really not a laughing matter, which tells me

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<v Speaker 1>that if you handle your business hunter, you may be

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<v Speaker 1>able to make something happen with Jordan later down the line,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're going to get some professional help involved.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, I know, I should have just never think

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<v Speaker 2>it crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, this man. True truer words have never been said.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, I'm sorry we couldn't make it happen,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, but I think there may be a future,

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<v Speaker 1>but you you do need to go to the police.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I