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Speaker 1: Students who had a secret intimate relationship with a teacher.

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How did it start and how did it turn out?

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Story one. I was a senior in high school and

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my English class had a very beautiful Latin female college

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student teacher's assistant along with a very cool full time

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male teacher. I was a really quiet kid in my

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senior year, just wanting to graduate and get the heck

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out of school. I also liked to draw and write

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a lot, so I was always turning in work that

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interested her. She would ask me how I came up

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with ideas and discuss indie graphic novels with me. Usually

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just small talk and one of the only people who

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was really outgoing towards me. She asked a few weeks

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before Halloween if I could stay after one day to

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discuss a subject with me, and as it was the

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last class of the day, I was okay with it.

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So we are sitting together discussing some of the material

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I wrote, along with some books they made her think

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of that she wanted me to borrow to read. Everyone

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has slowly been leaving the class, along with the full

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time teacher. Eventually it is just me and her, and

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I don't notice this until she gets noticeably closer to

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me while talking. Basically, her chesticles were in my arm,

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which I noticed was bigger than her clothes made it appear.

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Then she starts asking me personal questions and saying personal

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experiences help with writing, which is mixed with her making

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herself look cute and giving me a look that I

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understand now is one of wanting. She asks if I've

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had a girlfriend, and I tell her about why I'm

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so quiet at school, having a bad relationship and not

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really being comfortable at school where everyone knows my business,

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and that is definitely why I'm single. At that point,

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she starts holding my hand and telling me that as

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a whole, life can be hard, but it isn't all bad,

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and if it's any consolation, I did not deserve to

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get treated that way. Then she kissed me and we

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kept kissing until we heard a janitor coming and asked

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me to come to her place. We got to her place,

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where we immediately started making out in her bed and

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ended up banging for hours. It was amazing because of her,

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I've always been more attractive to women with curves that

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were also fit and obviously work out. We ended up

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shagging and smushing a lot for the rest of the

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year and through my first year at community college where

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I was finishing my gen ED credits before transferring to

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a better university. Not a relationship, just really good friends

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with benefits. She ended up moving to a different state

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for a really good teaching position at a college with

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an amazing writing program. We're both separately married now and

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want to meet as friends, but are hesitant because we

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do not trust ourselves alone with each other. She's still

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very beautiful. Before we continue, do us a quick favor.

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Story two. I was eighteen and still in high school

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when my parents left me home alone for the first

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time while they went on vacation. One evening out for

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a couple of drinks, I was scrolling through my phones

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contacts looking for someone to have fun with, and to

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my surprise, I still have my French teachers number saved.

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I gave her a call to see if she wanted

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to grab a drink. Being the only guy in my

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class seemed to make her fancy me a little. She

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said yes, so we met up and had a couple

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of beers. Afterwards, she mentioned she was hungry. I told

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her we could grab a pizza and chill at my

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place since I was home alone. She didn't hesitate to

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say yes. Back at my place, we ate and drank

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some more. Eventually, she said it was too late to

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go home and asked if I had any pajamas for her.

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She never got around to putting them on. After undressing,

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she kissed me. One thing led to another, and it

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kept leading to other things all summer long. When school

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started again, she told me I could be excused from

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her classes. I gave her a D. She gave me

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a BEE as a passing grade, and I never heard

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from her again. Story three. I had a huge crush

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on one of my college instructors. I was just coming

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out of a really bad relationship and decided the best

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way to get over that jerk was to get under

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this teacher. I pursued him pretty relentlessly for several weeks,

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asking him to join me and the other students for drinks,

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wearing super hot outfits to class, sitting in provocative ways,

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general flirting, et cetera, until we started banging. He was

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in a relationship at the time, which made it all

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the more complicated. We sort of dated for several months.

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He worked a kind of prestigious, at least to me,

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job at a major state government entity. At one point

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we banged in his office overlooking the city, which was

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admittedly pretty cool. I developed a lot of real feelings

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for him throughout our relationship, so him having another life

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with another woman began to take a toll on me.

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He knew it was more of a fling than anything else,

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and when he saw I wanted more, he tried to

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tell me gently that he didn't believe we were going anywhere.

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I was hurt, upset, and we stopped seeing each other.

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Thank God too, because I met my amazing, loving and

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perfect husband immediately after that relationship. If we hadn't ended

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our fling when we did, I would not have I

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met my husband, and my whole life would be different.

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I thank my lucky stars every day that he told

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me we weren't going to be anything more than intimate.

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When he did, he unknowingly set my whole life on

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the right path by setting me free precisely when he did.

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Story four, I received a really good evaluation. Since we

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didn't have traditional grades, it was more like a two

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page report that said I had the writing skills of

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a graduate student. I guess I'm a bit slow when

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it comes to understanding that kind of feedback. It started

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just like any relationship. Does. You notice a twinkle in

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their eye, they laugh at something you say that really

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isn't that funny, and you get a little excited. She

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was way older, but really attractive and German, so I

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asked if she liked beer. She did. We went to

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the bar down the road, not some dive, but a

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proper beer bar. We ended up having wayn Stephanner and

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Erbach loosened up and joked around. Then I straight up

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told her I wanted to draw her unclothed. She had

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seen me sketching in class all the time and just

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said sure. Before we even left the booth at the bar,

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I admitted I wasn't really trying to draw her. I

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just wanted to get her out of her clothes. I

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have no idea why she found that endearing, but she

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took me to her house and we banged hard. We

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agreed it would be a one time thing and promised

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to be responsible about it. So for the rest of

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the semester I was like a secret agent sleeping with

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an older woman. Honestly, it's probably for the best. It

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was just once. If I'd had the chance to keep going,

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I might have tried to move in and pay her

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rent with oral favors. It's tough out here for a

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millennial trying to get a home. Story five. I was eighteen,

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living out in the middle of nowhere in the mountains

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of California. I was always the first one on the

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bus and the last one off, which made for some

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really long school days. My evening drop off bus driver

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was a black woman in her mid thirties. She was

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really sweet, and since my stop was so far out,

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we had plenty of time to talk one on one.

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Eventually I got pretty flirtatious. I've always had a thing

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for black girls, and well, I was a teenager ready

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to boot. I was actually the one who started steering

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our conversations toward more inappropriate topics. Looking back now, I

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can tell she totally saw right through me and my intentions.

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About two months into the school year, I began asking

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her to teach me about the intimate stuff. I was

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a virgin and she was an experienced married mom with

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two kids. I knew it was wrong, but she didn't

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seem very happy in her marriage. Since my bus stop

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was far from my house, I still had to walk

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down a long dirt road to get home, so she

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started parking at my stop, and eventually she took me

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up on my requests. Throughout that entire school year, we

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were banging or did other things in the bus about

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three to five times a week. I might have been

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young and the situation was definitely screwed, but I don't

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regret it at all. Having a mature woman's perspective helped

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me learn so much. My mom didn't really care that

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I was coming home thirty to forty minutes late. She

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was kind of a crappy parent and was badly addicted

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to online poker games. Honestly, I'm not sure how she

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got away with it. She never got caught or anything. Anyway,

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After that school year ended, she was put on a

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different route. We stayed in touch, and I started going

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into town to visit her. Our relationship lasted until the

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end of high school. It's kind of funny I never

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dated anyone in high school because of all the side action.

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After high school, I ended up moving away from that town.

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It was probably for the best, since we were never

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caught by her husband just luck. I guess, funny enough,

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she's still with that guy, mostly for the money. Story six.

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I had a crush on my freshman psychology teacher, and

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he noticed. We started chatting via email, then phone calls,

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and before long he invited me to his house in

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the e evenings to watch movies. We started sleeping together

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before the semester was out. Then it started happening, him

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avoiding me at unpredictable times, dumping me, then asking me

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to come back, acting sneaky, getting caught lying about his

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spending innocent time with other female students, refusing to speak

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to me for weeks on end, saying he was busy

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while hanging out with others instead, but then spending weeks

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at a time exclusively with me. Oh and all this

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after he frigging married me in secret. I spent four

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years trauma bonded to him, while he in turn rejected me,

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seemed genuinely emotionally invested, and either pretended to like me

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or openly hated me. I tried to walk away, and

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he would pull me back. It was emotional torture, but

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I was too weak and damaged to leave for good.

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I became deeply depressed. My self esteem was shattered, and

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I contemplated offing myself to the point that I gave

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many of my cherished belongings away in preparation and withdrew socially.

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I was a mess, and still he continued to screw

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me around emotionally. It's been a year now since we

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broke up, but we still talk, dragging out the rejection.

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I can barely sleep. I cry every morning. As soon

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as I wake, I fall asleep crying most nights. I'm

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completely miserable, and there are days I wish we'd never met.

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I'm going to start counseling soon because I can't go

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on like this anymore. Story seven. He was a professor

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at the university I attended and was exactly twice my age,

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which was a fantasy I entertained my whole life until

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our relationship ruined it for me. We went to the

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same concert one night, and he invited me for coffee

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a couple of days later to talk about music. Upon

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entering the cafe, he kissed my cheeks in a European

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style greeting and made some comment about maybe that's a

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little forward for a first date, and I lapped it up.

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Hadn't even dared to think of it that way, but

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it was exactly what I wanted to hear, and by

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the end of the date he was getting a little

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touchy with me in a public park nearby. This was

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a little less than ten years ago, and I wish

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I could go back in time and punch myself in

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the face for being so stupid. A couple of days later,

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I gave him a blowy in his office, and a

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few days after that he drove me to his apartment

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so we could sleep together. It was my first time

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for everything. I was so caught up in the thrill

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of the forbidden relationship and with this much older man

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who seemed to be infatuated with me. We would meet

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in deserted hallways on campus and make out or have

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silent sessions in his office in the middle of the

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damn day. We were together in secret for a couple

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of months than my parents found out and chaos erupted.

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He would have lost his job if I hadn't lied

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to the administration for him. We were more or less

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together for another six months or so after that, when

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finally I woke up and realized nothing was changing. I

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was destroying my relationship with my parents for someone who

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didn't care about me at all, so I ended it.

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It was a horrible relationship. He was emotionally abusive and

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manipulative and lied about everything. Anything I wanted to do.

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Any aspirations I had outside of his vision were mocked

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or written off. Any confrontation about how to deal with

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my parents, the school, his family, et cetera. Moving forward

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made him angry, and he lashed out at me verbally

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to stop the questions. He showed risque photos of me

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to people I didn't know, and bragged about having me

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to his non university friends in a really disgusting way.

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Once he realized how inexperienced I was, he constantly reminisced

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about how other women were in bed. He wanted a

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fangirl desperate for his attention, and that's what he got

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in me. For a long time. He even bought me

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a cheap engagement ring at one point. Do you believe

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I accepted it? My long standing suspicions of his infidelity

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were proved after the fact. Turns out I was one

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of six, including four other students and his next door neighbor.

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All of us were in the same age range. Young twenties.

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In hindsight, this is no no, no surprise, but at

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the time I really did think I was special to him.

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Over the summer post breakup, I still had another year

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of school left for my degree. He got fired or

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didn't get the option for tenure, or was asked to

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resign or quit or something from the university where we met,

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and the last I heard, he'd taken a job teaching

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at a much smaller college in the same area. No

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idea what he's doing now, But for the first two

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or three years after I cut him off, I got

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restricted phone calls from him every once in a while,

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though I think he tried to apologize once, but I

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never read any of the messages, just blocked the new

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accounts and moved on, So I don't know for sure

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how he feels about that time. Story eight. I had

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a romantic relationship with one of my college professors. At

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the time. I was around twenty and she was in

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her mid thirties. I went to see her during her

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office hours. We talked for a few minutes, and when

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I went to leave, she gave me a long hug

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and told me you give really nice hugs as she

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held onto my arms, I asked for her number and

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went on my way. We exchanged a few flirty text

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messages over the next few days before she invited me

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over to her apartment to help her hook up a

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new TV she had bought. We ended up sleeping together

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about ten times before she moved away to take a

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new job at a different school. Story nine. My pe

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teacher was a kind man, a Welsh rugby player by background.

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He started teaching me football in year seven and continued

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to teach me some type of sport every year until

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I turned sixteen. We got along well and shared plenty

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of laughs and jokes over the years. I stayed on

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for sixth form, but since I didn't take PE, I

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didn't have much to do with him after that. In

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my final year of sixth form, year thirteen, around two

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thousand three or two thousand and four, I went to

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the pub at lunch time with a friend. My old

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pe teacher was there playing pool with one of the

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geography teachers. We ended up joining them, had a couple

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of pints, and then headed back to school. After that,

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we met up a few more times after school for drinks.

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We did this a handful of times during that last year,

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and through those moments I came to realize he was

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going through a tough time. He was in the middle

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of a divorce and clearly quite unhappy. In the summer

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just after I'd finished school, around July or August, before

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I started university in September, I had been out day

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drinking with some friends. We decided to meet up with

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a few others in town and ended up going into

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Weatherspoons and who should be there but my old pe teacher.

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His decree measy had just come through and he was

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drowning his sorrows with some mates. I introduced myself using

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my first name, and he did the same. Neither of

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us mentioned that I'd been one of his students. We

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ended up going on a massive bender and eventually back

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to his place, where we slept together. It happened a

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few more times that summer. He was thirty six and

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I was nineteen. He was disgusted with himself, but honestly

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I didn't care. Most summers when I came back from Uni,

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the same pattern repeated. That is until I met my

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now husband when I was twenty one. When I was

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twenty eight, my boyfriend now husband and I moved back

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to our hometown. Since he didn't have many friends in

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the area, he joined a local sports social club to

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meet people. Not long after, he told me he'd made

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a friend there, an older guy who, as it turned out,

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used to be one of my teachers. They got on

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really well, too, well, so well in fact, that my

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husband's new mate, none other than my former pe teacher

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and occasional summer bang buddy, ended up coming to our

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wedding so well. Most Saturdays now my husband, him his

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new wife, their kids, and I all meet up for

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drinks and watch the football after the fixtures. All things considered,

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it turned out pretty okay in the end. Story ten.

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I slept with my art history professor during my freshman

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year in college. The class was mostly focused on ancient

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Chinese and Japanese art, and I was struggling with all

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the information overloads. I asked her if I could do

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some extra credit work, and she invited me to her

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office later that day. We started talking more and more.

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She seemed to like my art, or thinking back now,

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maybe she was just flirting with me while she invited

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me over to her house, saying she wanted to show

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me some of her art. She was in her late

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forties and I was nineteen at the time. I didn't

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think much of it. When I arrived, she said she

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needed to change quickly. After a minute or so, she

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called me into the bedroom. Seeing her lying there in

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her inners, I suddenly thought back to all the time

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we had spent together and realized I had completely misunderstood

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the situation. But honestly, I was happy to be wrong.

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Story eleven. I was a professor at a JC teaching

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a creative writing class. I was twenty seven and my

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student was nineteen. It started at a going away happy

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hour for another professor who was moving to a university.

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We were drinking, and this young woman from one of

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my classes, who was very prit and whom I recognized

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for sure because of that fact, was there with her friends.

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She came up to me and said she loved my

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class and challenged me to a game of pool. The

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more she drank, the flirtier she got, and she mentioned pool,

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and every time I'd sink a shot, she'd say, if

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we were playing layers off pool, that'd be my shirt,

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that one would be my skirt, that one was my inner,

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and so on. Obviously, around my colleagues I couldn't do

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much in return. I assumed the next week during class

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it would be awkward. But after class she came to

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office hours to talk about something, and then she said,

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the pool was so fun the other night. We should

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do that again. I told her, I don't think it

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would be appropriate. She said, I totally get it and

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don't want to screw up your job. How about when

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this quarter ends and I'm not your student anymore, we

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play another game. I made a joke about her not

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taking the next level of creative writing, and she said,

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we can get creative in other ways. About six weeks later,

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after the last day of class, she came in to

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say goodbye and said that she loved the class, and

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I asked her out. We dated for about eight months.

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I'm still blown away that this girl, who was eight

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years younger than me, was so good at the seduction game.

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Story twelve. My religious studies professor was hilarious and brilliant

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and always brought her interests up in class, and they

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usually aligned with mine. It started off with what felt

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like on topic to class discussions, then into more friendly,

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casual conversations about books and movies. Then it definitely transitioned

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into flirting, which was weird because I'm also female and

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had never had feelings for another girl, so I thought

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it could just be some weird fantasy in my head

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and I was just making something out of nothing. Anyways,

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fast forward semester ends I'm out of her class. I

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submit my final at noon. By one pm, she emails

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me my final grade and says, I'm all done submitting

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your grades, so you're officially no longer my student. Congrats

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on passing the class and good luck. So I sent

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back an email with a song attached, and then the

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emailing went on from there before we officially hung out,

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which led to us sleeping together, which led to a

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three year relationship. We moved in together for about a year,

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but it ultimately didn't work out because we wanted different

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things long term. But we ended on good terms, and

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I'm grateful for the relationship now five years out, as

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it helped me realize what I want in a partner.

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I now have an amazing boyfriend, and I heard she

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recently got married to a woman she started dating after me.

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Story thirteen. There was a super hot teacher who was

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at our school, so he was only like twenty three

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or twenty four maybe I was twenty, and it was

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at our graduation dinner when we had snuck a bottle

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of Passion pop in, so we were pretty tipsy. I

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told him I always thought he was hot, and before

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I knew it, his hands were roaming all over me.

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We still had about three weeks to go before we

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left school, so we spent the next week sleeping together

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secretly and merely getting caught a bunch of times. It

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was pretty hot, to be honest, and I still think

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about him from time to time. Story fourteen. I was nineteen,

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playing hockey and running track. A new track coach and

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substitute teacher joined the school. She was twenty two. I

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never had luck with the girls in school, so when

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we hit it off, I didn't think anything of it.

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She'd tutor me in classes I wasn't doing too well in,

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and sometimes we'd go to concerts. After the track season ended,

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she said she was leaving the school to go to

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one in the next town over, but wanted me to

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take private running lessons with her. We did that for

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a while, and I started realizing what was going on,

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so I started flirting and going after her. She flirted back,

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but only so far because I was younger than her.

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A week before my birthday, she said she wanted to

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take me out to dinner. So we went to dinner,

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and afterwards she drove me back to where my car was,

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and instead of letting me go, we got in the

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back seat. Nothing happened that night because the cops stopped us.

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A month later, after not hearing from her, I reached

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out and asked her out properly, to which she said yes.

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We did for four and a half years, and I

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had planned to propose to her when she got back

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from med school in a different country, but she changed

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when she was out there, ended up cheating on me,

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and is now engaged to the guys she cheated on

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me with. We're still in contact, but she lives out

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of state and there's nothing sexual at all. I still

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miss that part of my life, and the relationships since

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then have been short and not lived up to that

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first one story. Fifteen, in college, I had a teacher

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for my science class. To me, she was a complete

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ten out of ten, with wavy red hair and stunning

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green eyes. I was instantly in love. Since it was

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the advanced class, we had a lot more independent projects

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than the normal class, we would spend a lot of

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time in the library doing research for our projects with

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the teacher and teacher quietly supervising. I made it my

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goal to spend as much time near her as possible,

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ask as many questions as I could, and if need

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be played just so she would spend more time talking

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with me. I turned on the charm as hard as

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I could, and before long we had a number of

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inside jokes and I could make her laugh at the

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drop of a hat. After a few weeks of this,

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she confronted me about it. I thought I was being clever,

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but I was too clever for my own good, and

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she knew that I was playing dumb to talk to her.

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She asked me to stop, since I was hindering my

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own growth by pretending to be dumb and wasting time

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in class for a relationship that would never happen. To

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her credit, she let me down gently, saying she was

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flattered and that I would make a girl very happy

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some day, but it wasn't her and she had a boyfriend.

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The normal lines. Well, I was not deterred. I asked

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her if instead of being dumb, she would teach me

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more advanced things if I completed my work ahead of time.

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She sighed exasperated, but her personality wouldn't let her say

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no to a student wanting to better themselves regardless of reason,

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and agreed. And that's the back story of how I

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became a straight A student instead of just math and science.

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I pestered her to tutor me every chance I got.

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I completed week long projects in a day just to

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spend more time with her, sometimes working through the night

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to get things done as soon as I could. She

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taught me not just math and science, but history and literature,

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which I had always been way underperforming at, and even

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gave me additional study materials to work on at home,

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which I attacked with gusto. I got teased a lot

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for being a nerd, but I didn't care. As long

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as I was learning I could spend time with her.

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By the time winter break rolled around, I was reading

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at a high school level and was having her teach

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me differential calculus. I begged her to tutor me over break,

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but she declined, saying she was spending break with her

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boyfriend's family. Break ended and I thought she'd be excited

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to see me, but on our first day back she

481
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looked completely glum. I tried to cheer her up, but

482
00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:51,680
she just seemed dead inside. She wouldn't tell me what

483
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,759
was wrong. When the bell rang, I had to head

484
00:24:54,799 --> 00:24:58,079
to my next class. As I walked away, I looked

485
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,640
back and caught her glancing after after me. After school,

486
00:25:01,799 --> 00:25:04,160
I tried to track her down, and I finally found

487
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,160
her in the back of the library in a private

488
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,960
study room. She was bawling her eyes out and nearly

489
00:25:09,039 --> 00:25:11,119
jumped out of her skin when I knocked on the door.

490
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,759
I went in and closed the door and sat next

491
00:25:13,799 --> 00:25:16,079
to her. All the while she just stared at me

492
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,960
with tears running down her face. I pat her on

493
00:25:19,039 --> 00:25:22,000
the back and said there there, and she threw her

494
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,319
arms around me and started sobbing again. Over the next

495
00:25:25,319 --> 00:25:28,359
few minutes, between choking sobs, she tells me that her

496
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,839
boyfriend left her after they got back from their trip.

497
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,599
Apparently he had told her that he wanted to break

498
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,799
up for a while, but the chemistry in bed was

499
00:25:35,839 --> 00:25:38,279
too good and he finally decided he had had his

500
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,640
fill of her. After going at it like rabbits for

501
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,200
all of winter break. We ended up talking about relationships

502
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:47,359
and how boys are gross for well over an hour.

503
00:25:47,759 --> 00:25:50,759
Eventually I was able to make her laugh again, and

504
00:25:50,839 --> 00:25:54,400
we sat and talked about some inconsequential things for a while.

505
00:25:54,799 --> 00:25:57,720
She thanked me for talking with her and cheering her up.

506
00:25:58,039 --> 00:26:00,440
Eventually I had to leave so I I could get

507
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,440
home before my parents did, so we gave each other

508
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,599
one last hug goodbye, and she kissed me on the cheek.

509
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:09,759
My whole body went numb and I couldn't let go

510
00:26:09,839 --> 00:26:12,920
of the hug. My arms were not working. We locked

511
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,400
our eyes and she leaned in again and kissed me.

512
00:26:15,839 --> 00:26:18,480
We ended up making out for probably close to two

513
00:26:18,599 --> 00:26:21,839
minutes before her brain caught up with her emotions. She

514
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:26,720
broke away, face paling with shock, apologized profusely, said this

515
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,359
was a mistake and that we should never talk about

516
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,599
this again, and dashed out of the room. She continued

517
00:26:32,599 --> 00:26:35,119
to tutor me over the next few weeks, but always

518
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,960
made sure to sit across the table from me, whereas

519
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,359
before we would sit next to each other. She was

520
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,920
much flatter in her tone with me, and laughed at

521
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,759
my jokes and antics less. Towards the end of the year,

522
00:26:46,079 --> 00:26:48,319
the teachers took us over to the other part of

523
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,839
the college to give us a tour. I made sure

524
00:26:50,839 --> 00:26:53,440
I was in her group. The teachers helped us schedule

525
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,039
our classes for the next year, and she told me

526
00:26:56,079 --> 00:26:58,920
how to schedule in order to avoid the garbage teachers

527
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,279
based on reputation. When the school year ended, she gave

528
00:27:02,319 --> 00:27:05,079
me another hug, the first since our kiss, and I

529
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,039
thought that was the last I would see of her.

530
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,599
I was heartbroken most of the summer. The next year

531
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,400
starts and I walk into third period science and my

532
00:27:14,519 --> 00:27:18,400
heart leaps into my throat. She was back. She flushes

533
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:22,640
beat red when she sees me and deliberately breaks eye contact.

534
00:27:23,039 --> 00:27:25,640
She was back for another year of student teaching and

535
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,000
had selected my science class to teach at. I tracked

536
00:27:29,039 --> 00:27:32,599
her down after school and confronted her about it. She

537
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,279
didn't admit to anything, but I did get her to

538
00:27:35,319 --> 00:27:38,960
agree to tutor me again after school, this time instead

539
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,759
of during class. One day, we were in a study

540
00:27:41,839 --> 00:27:43,680
room alone, and I brought up her being here for

541
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,480
the millionth time. But this time it worked. She admits,

542
00:27:46,599 --> 00:27:48,960
she came back for me. She had her selection of

543
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,359
schools and partnered with the one she knew would let

544
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,839
her see me again. Within seconds of her finishing that sentence.

545
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,240
We were making out again, and that's how it continued

546
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,119
for basically the rest of the year. We actually did

547
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,400
study most of the time, but every day before I left,

548
00:28:04,599 --> 00:28:07,039
she would give me a kiss. We would spend some

549
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,519
sessions just making out. I won't lie. I tried to

550
00:28:10,559 --> 00:28:13,279
get more out of her, but she said that it

551
00:28:13,319 --> 00:28:15,839
was already too risky with her being a senior in

552
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,039
college and me only being a junior. It helped that

553
00:28:19,079 --> 00:28:21,880
I started school late due to a childhood illness and

554
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,240
am a year older than everyone in my grade, and

555
00:28:24,319 --> 00:28:26,799
that she is the opposite and is young for her grade,

556
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,359
but that still left a multi year gap. This continued

557
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:34,319
basically unchanged for the entire year. I was placed in

558
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:38,119
advanced courses due to how much extra studying I was doing,

559
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,759
while she would not be able to come back next year.

560
00:28:41,079 --> 00:28:45,160
She started offering private tutoring sessions, which my parents happily

561
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,759
agreed to since I was doing so well academically with her.

562
00:28:49,119 --> 00:28:52,079
The next year, up the ante and we explored each

563
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,559
other's bodies more. I was tasting her pie once during

564
00:28:55,599 --> 00:28:58,559
a weekend study session at my house and my father

565
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,480
almost walked in on us. I turned nineteen that June,

566
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,759
and since technically she wasn't my teacher or tutor during

567
00:29:05,759 --> 00:29:08,319
the summer, it was legal. I snuck out the night

568
00:29:08,359 --> 00:29:11,359
before my birthday and went to her apartment. We were

569
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,359
literally there, completely bare in position, waiting for the clock

570
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,720
to strike midnight to make what we were about to

571
00:29:17,759 --> 00:29:20,920
do legal. The clock struck midnight, and I was in

572
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,200
I did not last long, and thankfully she didn't either.

573
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,400
Something about two years of being on edge helped with

574
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,599
the foreplay. I then went straight to senior since I

575
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,559
had a lot done before others. She came back as

576
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,440
much as she could to be a substitute teacher. I

577
00:29:36,519 --> 00:29:39,319
don't know exactly how that worked, since she didn't have

578
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,119
her license yet, but it was some partnership with the

579
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,319
college and my high school. Every time she taught, we

580
00:29:45,319 --> 00:29:48,759
would bang in as many places as possible. We actually

581
00:29:48,799 --> 00:29:51,519
got caught in a closet once by one of my friends,

582
00:29:51,519 --> 00:29:54,160
who wondered where I was sneaking off to. He just

583
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,799
gave me the thumbs up and let us finish. We

584
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,440
screwed our way through my senior year. Somehow a rumor

585
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,839
started about us, and we were both called down to

586
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,119
the administrator's office to have a talk. Luckily, they only

587
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,079
had rumors, so nothing happened, but we started hooking up

588
00:30:09,079 --> 00:30:12,000
at school less because of it. In my last year,

589
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,720
we met entirely in secret, partly because she was no

590
00:30:15,799 --> 00:30:18,759
longer able to student teach at my school, and partly

591
00:30:18,799 --> 00:30:21,640
because we had a plan. I ended up graduating and

592
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,119
going to the same college that she was attending for

593
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,359
her masters. In order to throw people off, we met

594
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,680
in secret for the first few months, and then ran

595
00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:31,759
into each other at a party and made a big

596
00:30:31,799 --> 00:30:33,799
deal of how we hadn't seen each other in a

597
00:30:33,839 --> 00:30:36,839
few years. A few weeks later, we announced we were

598
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,440
officially dating. No one aside from my one friend, knows

599
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,160
about how long we were actually involved with each other,

600
00:30:43,559 --> 00:30:46,319
and we have been openly dating for three years now

601
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,960
with talks of marriage. So overall it worked out. I

602
00:30:51,079 --> 00:30:54,000
need to stress that we got lucky. She is only

603
00:30:54,039 --> 00:30:56,799
four or five years older than me. I have always

604
00:30:56,839 --> 00:31:00,319
been mature for my age, or whatever crap parents say.

605
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,559
We spent a very long time together getting to know

606
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,599
each other before we actually got intimate with each other.

607
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,759
We held back on things until it was legal because

608
00:31:09,799 --> 00:31:12,759
we knew it was wrong legally. She never groomed me

609
00:31:13,039 --> 00:31:15,640
and never used her position of authority over me in

610
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,880
an inappropriate way. Most importantly, we never got caught, which

611
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,279
would have spelled the end for her career, and she

612
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,680
likely would have ended up on the offender's registry. So

613
00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:28,000
much had to go right for it to work out

614
00:31:28,039 --> 00:31:31,519
for us. Our story is not typical and really shouldn't

615
00:31:31,519 --> 00:31:35,000
be seen as a positive thing. Are we in love? Yes,

616
00:31:35,279 --> 00:31:38,880
absolutely so in love. In fact, we have had long

617
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,759
sit down conversations to go over the origin of our relationship.

618
00:31:43,039 --> 00:31:45,519
We are so in love we have gone to couples

619
00:31:45,599 --> 00:31:49,039
counseling to make sure that we are truly experiencing feelings

620
00:31:49,119 --> 00:31:51,839
for each other and not just because of a shared trauma.

621
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,000
We continue to go to therapy together just as a

622
00:31:55,079 --> 00:31:57,640
general routine in order to make sure we can be

623
00:31:57,759 --> 00:32:01,640
open and honest with each other despite the scam story sixteen,

624
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,000
when I was ten, I attended an after school program

625
00:32:05,039 --> 00:32:07,960
while my parents were at work. That's where I met her.

626
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,480
As her student, I was the class clown and eventually

627
00:32:11,519 --> 00:32:14,480
got kicked out of her class. She even requested to

628
00:32:14,519 --> 00:32:17,680
have me move to another class. At the time, I

629
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,799
didn't think much of it and just moved on with life.

630
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,880
Later in life, when I was twenty two, I met

631
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,680
this gorgeous thirty one year old woman who had just

632
00:32:26,759 --> 00:32:29,559
moved into my neighborhood. We hit it off quickly and

633
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,279
started spending all day and night together. I practically moved

634
00:32:33,279 --> 00:32:35,799
in with her. One day, she told me about being

635
00:32:35,799 --> 00:32:38,000
a teacher and how she used to work at an

636
00:32:38,039 --> 00:32:40,680
after school program for a middle school down the road.

637
00:32:41,279 --> 00:32:45,039
I casually mentioned that I had actually attended that same program.

638
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,119
The dots hadn't connected yet, but then she described a

639
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,480
good friend of mine from back then and mentioned this

640
00:32:50,519 --> 00:32:52,960
one little troublemaker she had to kick out of her

641
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,799
class with a raised eyebrow. Everything suddenly clicked. I was

642
00:32:57,839 --> 00:33:00,200
that little jerk that she had to have removed from

643
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,319
her class all those years ago. Didn't stop us. I

644
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,119
was hot for the teacher story. Seventeen, I slept with

645
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,880
a teacher in college. I was nineteen and he was

646
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,640
in his late twenties. He was attractive, I was attractive,

647
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,680
so I suppose it just happened. I went to his

648
00:33:17,759 --> 00:33:20,039
place and we had one of the best nights I've

649
00:33:20,079 --> 00:33:23,759
ever experienced. He decided it should be a one time thing,

650
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,519
and I agreed. I never told anyone about it because

651
00:33:27,559 --> 00:33:30,920
it was consensual and no one else's business. Although I

652
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,440
do remember having a conversation with him afterward, back at

653
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,720
college with other students around, he said something he had

654
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,440
said when we were together at his place. I never

655
00:33:40,519 --> 00:33:44,839
blushed so hard in my life story eighteen. It started

656
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,759
innocently enough. She was my chorus teacher, fresh out of

657
00:33:48,799 --> 00:33:52,200
college and only six years older than me. My brother

658
00:33:52,359 --> 00:33:55,200
was actually dating her friend from high school. I used

659
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,640
to cut class and say I had a music lesson

660
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,759
and we just hang in the music room talk about

661
00:33:59,759 --> 00:34:03,559
book hooks, music movies. Then she started complaining about her

662
00:34:03,599 --> 00:34:06,599
relationship a lot, meeting hugs, which I was more than

663
00:34:06,599 --> 00:34:09,760
happy to help with. It eventually turned to making out,

664
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,840
and we finally started banging. When she gave me rides

665
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,880
home after school, I honestly felt like I found a

666
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,480
million dollars but couldn't tell anybody about it. It was weird.

667
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,320
Then she got weird, asking for her hugs in front

668
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,199
of the entire class. I knew, everyone knew. I started

669
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,159
riding home with my friends again. Then she started just

670
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,920
showing up at my house. I had a very awkward

671
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,320
conversation with my dad, who knew exactly what was going on,

672
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,639
but was so impressed. He just kept saying, damn, she's pretty.

673
00:34:40,039 --> 00:34:42,880
Ghosting hadn't been invented back then, but I did the

674
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:47,079
best I could. Eventually she chilled out. A few months later,

675
00:34:47,199 --> 00:34:49,960
I stopped by her room during our normal hanging time

676
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,440
and she apologized, told me she was just going through

677
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,559
a lot with her crappy boyfriend and needed some attention

678
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,760
from someone that actually liked her. We didn't talk much

679
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,119
after that. I graduated soon after, but were friends on

680
00:35:03,159 --> 00:35:06,679
Facebook and she actually married a decent guy and has

681
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:10,320
a nice family. I'm very relieved we were never found out.

682
00:35:10,519 --> 00:35:14,079
It would have been devastating to both of us. Story nineteen.

683
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:19,280
My particular field has a mandatory internship period after graduating

684
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:23,599
from college and passing the national Board exams. During your internship,

685
00:35:23,639 --> 00:35:26,000
you have a preceptor in charge of guiding you and

686
00:35:26,079 --> 00:35:29,599
teaching you the things the books didn't like physical techniques

687
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,679
and state specific laws. School taught the national curriculum, not

688
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,719
the state specific laws. The preceptor is often a supervisor

689
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,760
or manager at the facility that gave you an internship,

690
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,159
but could be anyone with a license in the field

691
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,920
internships are extremely competitive and extremely hard to come by

692
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:51,039
in my area, so I started out doing grunt work

693
00:35:51,079 --> 00:35:55,079
at a facility to eventually earn an internship. My preceptor

694
00:35:55,199 --> 00:35:57,519
was the supervisor of the firm and more than a

695
00:35:57,559 --> 00:36:02,079
decade my senior. During the internship, you understandably spend a

696
00:36:02,119 --> 00:36:05,000
lot of time together because the intern is not allowed

697
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:09,039
to perform any job duties without supervision. So we had

698
00:36:09,079 --> 00:36:12,119
the same schedule, worked on the same projects, and ate

699
00:36:12,199 --> 00:36:15,719
lunch together every day. After about four months of this,

700
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,360
we both come back from holiday break and as we're

701
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,320
catching up, we both say we have big news. His

702
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,679
news turned out to be that he filed for divorce

703
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,280
with his wife. He'd been wanting to for a long time,

704
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,760
but talking with me about infidelity finally gave him the push.

705
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,280
His ex wife had cheated on him twice and he

706
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,800
had proof. My news was that I broke up with

707
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,320
my long term boyfriend. I spent the holiday with my sister,

708
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,800
who saw I was miserable because my boyfriend wasn't respecting me,

709
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,679
and ultimately she gave me the sister talk of what

710
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,599
are you actually getting out of this relationship? We both

711
00:36:47,679 --> 00:36:49,840
kind of looked at each other and blushed and went

712
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,079
back to eating lunch in a bit of awkward silence.

713
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:55,599
It took another four months of awkward brushing up against

714
00:36:55,639 --> 00:36:59,159
each other while trying to work physical job, awkward radio

715
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,280
songs coming up while working, Don't Stand So Close to

716
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,719
Me by Sting and the Police Caught Up in You

717
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,159
by thirty eight, Special Young Girl by Gary Puckett, and

718
00:37:08,199 --> 00:37:10,559
The Union Gap, just to name a few that all

719
00:37:10,599 --> 00:37:13,679
came on spontaneously on the radio while we were working

720
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,000
together on more than one occasion, and veiled flirting before

721
00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:20,320
we finally went on a date together. He continued being

722
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,679
my preceptor for the remaining four months of my internship

723
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,920
and we dated in secret since he was my immediate

724
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,280
superior and responsible for whether I got my license in

725
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,239
the field. Then when I got my license, we both

726
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,440
went public with the relationship, and shortly after moved to

727
00:37:36,519 --> 00:37:39,719
a different firm, where he was immediately promoted to management

728
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,840
and I too was promoted to management. Within a year.

729
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,880
Five years later, we're both still doing well with the

730
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,800
new firm, married, own a house together, and our first

731
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,599
baby is due in a month. So mine has a

732
00:37:51,599 --> 00:37:55,880
happy ending story. Twenty So I actually didn't know she

733
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,599
was my teacher. She was maybe twenty three or twenty

734
00:37:58,679 --> 00:38:02,320
four and I had just nineteen. I was in California

735
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,800
during summer vacation, went to Disneyland, California Adventure, all the

736
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,880
fun stuff. I met her while in line for the

737
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,440
Winnie the Pooh ride. None of my friends wanted to

738
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,039
go with me. We had fun, hit it off, and

739
00:38:14,119 --> 00:38:17,360
eventually went to her hotel room. Spent the weekend meeting

740
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,559
up and hanging out, and then we parted ways. The

741
00:38:20,599 --> 00:38:22,800
first day of the new semester comes around and I

742
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,280
see her in the classroom, and I'm excited. I didn't

743
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:26,960
know she went to the school, and so I went

744
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000
in and sat down, and she went up to the

745
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,639
front of the room and introduced herself to everyone. Then

746
00:38:31,639 --> 00:38:33,480
we did the whole get to know each other thing

747
00:38:33,559 --> 00:38:35,880
and what we did over summer, and when it got

748
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,599
to me, her face turned purple like she couldn't breathe

749
00:38:39,159 --> 00:38:41,840
after the initial shock in the first day, I stayed

750
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,440
after for a few minutes, we cleared the air, laughed,

751
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,599
and then the rest of the school year was fine.

752
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,599
We slept together a couple of times after I graduated,

753
00:38:49,639 --> 00:38:53,280
but nothing while she was actually My teacher story twenty one.

754
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,199
I dated my teacher six months after I graduated. He

755
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,199
was my junior year history teacher, and I had a

756
00:39:00,199 --> 00:39:03,480
massive crush on him in class and he probably knew,

757
00:39:04,119 --> 00:39:08,760
but he never did anything inappropriate strictly a teacher student relationship.

758
00:39:09,199 --> 00:39:11,920
He was twenty nine, got in trouble as a teacher

759
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,480
for going against the grain, had tattoos and a dad bot.

760
00:39:16,039 --> 00:39:18,760
I was super into it. Always thought he was really

761
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,480
intelligent too, but looking back, I realized he had just

762
00:39:22,599 --> 00:39:25,840
had more time to form his own opinions about the world.

763
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,000
During my first semester in college, I took a chance

764
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,119
and hit him up. We kind of hit it off

765
00:39:31,159 --> 00:39:33,960
and dated for six months, and three months in he

766
00:39:34,079 --> 00:39:36,920
told me that this was the longest relationship he'd had

767
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,360
since he was in high school. I lived with him

768
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,239
briefly during summer break in college. One night, I went

769
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,119
out with some friends and ended up getting s Dot aid.

770
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,000
I'm not sure he understood that it was SA because

771
00:39:49,039 --> 00:39:51,039
he pretty much broke up with me on the spot

772
00:39:51,079 --> 00:39:53,320
when he got home from work and I told him

773
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,239
what happened. I packed my stuff and called my parents

774
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,199
to come pick me up because I didn't have a

775
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:03,320
car yet. Story twe it was during college it got intimate,

776
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,960
but I'd been his favorite since early on. He'd say

777
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,239
it in front of the class, which at first made

778
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,320
me feel weird, mostly because I didn't want anyone to

779
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,800
hate me for it. He told me how smart I

780
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,599
was for my age, always called on me to share

781
00:40:17,639 --> 00:40:20,519
my opinion, and always put my assigned seat at the

782
00:40:20,559 --> 00:40:23,599
front or right next to his desk. By the beginning

783
00:40:23,639 --> 00:40:26,159
of tenth grade, I'd spent my lunch time hanging out

784
00:40:26,199 --> 00:40:28,679
with him in his classroom, just the two of us,

785
00:40:29,039 --> 00:40:32,000
but he was mostly teaching me about politics or sports.

786
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,599
In eleventh grade, I became his teacher assistant during my

787
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,320
free period. It took a turn after one of his

788
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,039
best friends got into a bad accident and ended up

789
00:40:41,039 --> 00:40:43,280
in the hospital. I brought him a coffee and a

790
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,440
cookie to cheer him up. It was completely innocent. He

791
00:40:46,559 --> 00:40:49,320
messaged me on Facebook later that day and we just

792
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,960
kept talking from there. I had had a boyfriend at

793
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,960
the time for over a year, but he was a

794
00:40:54,039 --> 00:40:56,840
terrible influence on me, and the teacher saw that, so

795
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,360
he told me I should break up with him. I did,

796
00:40:59,519 --> 00:41:02,840
and my tea teacher immediately started leaving hints. He was

797
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,840
the first guy to call me beautiful. He made me

798
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,119
feel like I was a beautiful, hot, smart young woman.

799
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,559
I was nineteen at the time. No guy my age

800
00:41:12,599 --> 00:41:16,119
could compete with the experience of a thirty something grown man.

801
00:41:16,599 --> 00:41:19,440
Of course, I fell hard for his prepping and grooming.

802
00:41:20,079 --> 00:41:22,519
My best friend at the time knew what was going on.

803
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,159
I had sent her a screen shot once because he

804
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:28,280
said something funny. When she and I got into a fight,

805
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,679
she showed her mom and told her everything. Her mom

806
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,480
told the school. He was pulled out of class while

807
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,960
I was in the classroom. Neither of us knew the

808
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,199
sheriff was waiting in the principal's office when I got

809
00:41:40,199 --> 00:41:43,119
brought out. They accidentally opened the door and I saw

810
00:41:43,119 --> 00:41:46,239
the look of complete devastation on his face. I knew

811
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,800
what was happening. I know now what he did to me,

812
00:41:49,199 --> 00:41:51,440
but at the time I thought that I had lost

813
00:41:51,519 --> 00:41:54,679
the love of my life. I blamed myself for sharing

814
00:41:54,679 --> 00:41:58,119
the relationship with my friend. I blamed myself after I

815
00:41:58,199 --> 00:42:01,119
found out I wasn't the first student there were rumors

816
00:42:01,119 --> 00:42:03,480
of trouble about I was just the first one with

817
00:42:03,599 --> 00:42:06,760
proof the screenshot. I eventually turned on him when I

818
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,880
realized he was just going to get away with what

819
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,400
he did, just like he did with all the other girls.

820
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,840
The case moved forward. It kept going for years, getting

821
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,880
put off. The attorney lost contact with me, and the

822
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,440
case was dismissed. I didn't know they lost my contact.

823
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,639
I just thought it was still being deferred. He never

824
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,880
went to jail. He was never charged with exploitation or abuse.

825
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,639
What he did was a felony, and he should have

826
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,400
become a registered offender. I have no idea what happened

827
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:39,320
to him after story twenty three. I had a crush

828
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,199
on one of my grad school teachers for a year

829
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:46,480
and a half. I was into everything about her, looks, brain, everything.

830
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,880
I ended up teaching the same subject many years later,

831
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,880
and I still used the notes and materials from her

832
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,519
classes with my own students. She was engaged to someone else,

833
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,679
so I never even thought about anything ever happening. It

834
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,920
was an a nice fantasy. Then out of the blue,

835
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,559
she calls my cell phone and tells me that she's

836
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:08,119
thinking of getting into yoga and knows that I am

837
00:43:08,199 --> 00:43:10,519
into yoga. So would I get a drink with her

838
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,639
and tell her more, I was not exactly experienced with hookups,

839
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,360
and I actually took her at her word. I went

840
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,920
expecting to talk about yoga and go home afterwards, but

841
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,920
we ended up getting totally wasted making out in the

842
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,320
middle of a bar, and then I walked her home,

843
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:30,159
where I kept saying I'm sorry, and this definitely isn't happening,

844
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,840
and I'll just get you to your door and go home.

845
00:43:33,199 --> 00:43:35,519
It did happen, but the joke was on her. She

846
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:37,760
got a few seconds of the worst sessh of her

847
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,760
life and then got to listen to me in the

848
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,039
bathroom for a while. The next day she found me

849
00:43:43,079 --> 00:43:45,119
in the hallway and told me that it was a

850
00:43:45,199 --> 00:43:48,480
huge mistake and asked me not to tell anyone. Nobody

851
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,840
would believe me anyway, so I agreed. I can honestly

852
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:55,400
say I wish the entire thing had never happened. She

853
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,159
got married and moved on with her life. I ended

854
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,320
up having to take her husband's class before I could graduate.

855
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,440
Story twenty four. I guess I technically had an intimate

856
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,880
relationship with a teacher. She was the lab ta for

857
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,559
my invertebrate zoology lab and refused to do anything with

858
00:44:12,639 --> 00:44:16,440
me until after the class. After classes, we partied and

859
00:44:16,559 --> 00:44:19,159
hooked up quite a lot. After a year of us

860
00:44:19,199 --> 00:44:24,519
still being together, other tha as started dating undergrads. Seven

861
00:44:24,599 --> 00:44:28,280
years later, were married and have a kid together. Story

862
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,559
twenty five. When I was nineteen, I had a fake

863
00:44:31,599 --> 00:44:33,760
ID and went out to a bar with a few

864
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:37,000
older friends after a hockey game. We ended up meeting

865
00:44:37,039 --> 00:44:39,440
a group of girls and spent most of the night

866
00:44:39,519 --> 00:44:41,840
hanging out with them. I hit it off with one

867
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,480
of them, went back to her place and we hooked up.

868
00:44:44,599 --> 00:44:47,679
We exchanged numbers, and I headed out the next morning.

869
00:44:48,159 --> 00:44:51,400
Fast forward to Monday, I'm back at school, walking into

870
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,760
my first period class, and there she is, the girl

871
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,360
from the weekend, standing at the front of the room

872
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,519
as the supply teacher. Her face turned about as red

873
00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:02,800
as a fire truck, and I was strutting to my

874
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,360
seat like Vince McMahon making a grand entrance. Story twenty six.

875
00:45:08,199 --> 00:45:10,679
My story isn't about a teacher, but it's in the

876
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,480
same vein as your question. I was sixteen when I

877
00:45:13,519 --> 00:45:16,920
met a girl who was nineteen. As we introduced ourselves,

878
00:45:17,039 --> 00:45:20,559
she told me she was a sophomore in college. I said, cool,

879
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,760
I'm a sophomore too, conveniently leaving out the part where

880
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,719
I was in high school. She assumed I was her age,

881
00:45:27,199 --> 00:45:30,239
and I didn't do anything to correct that assumption. We

882
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,840
dated for a few months. When she called to tell

883
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:37,119
me she was pregnant, my actual response was, I'm seventeen.

884
00:45:37,559 --> 00:45:40,039
My parents are going to be pissed. At the time,

885
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,800
it never occurred to me just how upset she was

886
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,679
about to get. But big surprise, we actually stayed together

887
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,000
after I turned eighteen. We got married when I was twenty,

888
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:53,119
and we've been together almost every day for the last

889
00:45:53,159 --> 00:45:56,360
twenty three years. We've often joked about who was the

890
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,800
prey and who was the predator, though I know I

891
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,920
was never being prayed. What we've built is one of

892
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,519
the most honest and loving relationships I've ever seen. Three

893
00:46:05,639 --> 00:46:09,079
kids and more than two decades together, and I wouldn't

894
00:46:09,079 --> 00:46:12,239
trade her for anyone. She's my rock and my light.

895
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,239
There are plenty of things I'd change if I could

896
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,719
do it all over again, but only if it still

897
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,519
meant I'd get to marry her once more. I hope

898
00:46:20,519 --> 00:46:23,559
my light hearted tone doesn't hide the truth. I was

899
00:46:23,599 --> 00:46:26,440
a lying idiot who somehow ended up exactly where I

900
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,000
was meant to be, despite making almost every wrong decision

901
00:46:30,079 --> 00:46:33,840
along the way. Story twenty seven. When I was nineteen,

902
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,880
I dated a professor from my university for a few months.

903
00:46:37,119 --> 00:46:39,719
I wasn't his student, but he taught some of my friends.

904
00:46:40,159 --> 00:46:42,440
We met randomly at a club, and I had no

905
00:46:42,559 --> 00:46:45,159
idea he was a professor there until a few days

906
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:49,280
later when we started texting. He was really attractive, dark

907
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,599
hair and bright blue eyes, and joked that his female

908
00:46:52,599 --> 00:46:56,119
students often flirted with him during office hours. He was

909
00:46:56,199 --> 00:46:59,079
thirty three, which made him pretty young for a professor,

910
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,199
but quite a bit older than me at the time.

911
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,360
It was fun for a while, though things got awkward

912
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,880
when we realized he actually taught some of my friends.

913
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,800
He definitely wasn't happy about that. The day we realized

914
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,280
he taught my friends was a couple of weeks after

915
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,920
we met. When I was at his apartment, I asked

916
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,519
to see some of his class materials, and he thought

917
00:47:18,519 --> 00:47:20,920
it would be interesting if I could tell the difference

918
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,760
between a terrible essay and a great one, even if

919
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,679
I wasn't familiar with the subject, so I started reading.

920
00:47:28,039 --> 00:47:30,719
That's when I noticed the failing essay had my friend's

921
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,719
name at the top. He got really upset, saying it

922
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,119
was a privacy violation that I was looking at her

923
00:47:36,119 --> 00:47:38,880
failed assignment. But honestly, I thought it was kind of

924
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,800
hot that he thought my friend's essay sucked. It really

925
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,000
played up his position of power in my mind. Story

926
00:47:45,039 --> 00:47:49,360
twenty eight. So this wasn't while she was actively teaching me,

927
00:47:50,039 --> 00:47:52,840
but she was my teacher. Nonetheless, when I was in

928
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,559
high school, we had the cliche fresh out of her

929
00:47:55,599 --> 00:47:59,440
master's smoking hot teacher. Most guys had a thing for her.

930
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,960
She knew it and laughed it off. Super professional about

931
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,840
the whole thing, even down to leaving doors open when

932
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,840
students hung out. I was a bit more awkward during

933
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:12,480
those years. Then I went overseas for a while after graduating,

934
00:48:12,559 --> 00:48:16,400
gained some confidence, life experience, and all that. After I

935
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:20,039
was done gallivanting across the world mostly drunk instead of

936
00:48:20,079 --> 00:48:23,840
going to university, I finally came back home. One of

937
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,440
my first weekends back, I went to a local bar.

938
00:48:27,159 --> 00:48:30,360
I saw her there, smoking hot as ever. I went up,

939
00:48:30,599 --> 00:48:33,320
said hi and chatted her up. We hit it off

940
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,360
and went back to her place for a night of

941
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,199
very fun stuff. The next morning, I made a comment

942
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,280
about fulfilling a fantasy I had when I took her class.

943
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,559
She kind of got this confused look on her face.

944
00:48:44,119 --> 00:48:48,880
Funny thing her class names. Really, nothing that would have

945
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,199
identified me as her student ever came up. Even when

946
00:48:52,199 --> 00:48:54,679
I gave my name, I looked different enough that she

947
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,960
didn't make the connection. I just assumed she knew it.

948
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,079
Turns out she wasn't into that, and sadly it never

949
00:49:01,159 --> 00:49:05,159
happened again. Makes for a funny story that nobody believes

950
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,119
but always pretends to. Story twenty nine. I'm not a

951
00:49:09,159 --> 00:49:11,639
student anymore, but it happened in the nineties when I

952
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,800
was very young, and it went on for more than

953
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,480
a year. It started with making me sit on his

954
00:49:16,559 --> 00:49:19,679
thighs often and I could feel his woody I never

955
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,880
knew what to think of it, as I never got

956
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,679
any training or attention from my parents about situations of essay,

957
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,800
it went on from there. After twenty two years of

958
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:33,000
being a biologically straight guy, I still remember what that dirty,

959
00:49:33,039 --> 00:49:36,920
stinking dong felt like. The experience gave me depression and

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anxiety and an inability to trust a relationship. I still

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freak out when I see a kid sitting on any

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man's lap. I woke up after a night full of

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bad dreams, feeling sick in my stomach. It's important to

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protect and keep every child away from such negative forces

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because we remember. Also, no, he didn't get caught. I

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told people about it around four years ago, and they

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didn't act on it. I lost the heart to seek revenge,

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but I've seen how the consequences of deeds work for

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some people. A couple of years ago, he got diagnosed

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with Giambarre syndrome. He's partially paralyzed and feels like his

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hands are constantly on fire. Knowing that did not feel

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as good as I thought it would. I feel the

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exposure and humiliation of his deeds would be a proper punishment.

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I try to make myself happy with hobbies. More often

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than not, it works. Thank you for watching. If you

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