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Speaker 1: All right, we're going to Bristol.

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Speaker 2: You guys, are you ready for a little second date

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update action in Bristol?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely? All right. On the line is Chrissy. Good morning, Chrissy,

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good morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show. It is second date update.

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So obviously you went on a great first date and

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you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 1: That is that it?

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Speaker 3: Oh yes, Oh my gosh, So tell me.

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Speaker 1: About this great first date. The guy's name is Steve.

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Is that his name? Okay, tell me about.

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Speaker 3: The date, my gosh, best date. So we went to

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a very fancy restaurant. The food was perfect, the conversation

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was great. I mean, he is literally everything I'm looking for.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is overall.

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Speaker 3: This is an excellent date, Like, couldn't have gone any better.

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And so after the date, I texted him the next

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day and you know I wanted to meet up again. Okay,

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good date. The night before was so great? All right,

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and now I'm getting ghosted and I have no idea why.

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Speaker 1: So did you drink too much? Do you think you

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had too much alcohol?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, I do not drink at all.

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That is so bad for your health. I would never

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touch the stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe that's why you're getting ghosted right there.

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Speaker 2: Top's sober Susan in the house.

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Speaker 3: It's chrissy.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but yeah, yeah, it's sober Chrissy Jeff. All right.

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Speaker 2: So, and then you reached out to him. He has

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not responded. Did he get too drunk on the date?

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Speaker 3: No, he did have a couple of drinks and I

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didn't like that, but I figured because it was the

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first date, I could look past it and you know,

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maybe we could figure that out later.

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Speaker 4: Now. Is drinking like a deal breaker for you?

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Speaker 3: It's not necessarily a deal breaker. I mean, I'm really

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in a health and wellness so it's not something that

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I partake in, and I prefer my partners not.

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Speaker 5: To do that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but you know what, first date, I'll let

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it pass and we can just talk about it later.

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Speaker 2: All right, Okay, all right, Well, listen, this is what

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we're gonna do. We're gonna put you on hold. We're

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gonna call up Steve. We're gonna ask him about the date.

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You're going to be listening, and if at any point

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you want to talk to him, you can, Okay. I'm

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just gonna ask him to be honest, and why he's

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ghosting you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. I just feel like she's aggressive.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I feel like, if you're into health and wellness, it's

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not a big deal.

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Speaker 4: I mean, as long as you know she's not pushing

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it on him.

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Speaker 1: Sounds aggressive. Hi is Steve there? Hello? Hi Steve, it's Courtney, Steve,

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It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 4: Hey Steve, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 1: You're on Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the radio

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this morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh cool, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's going well. Listen.

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Speaker 2: We're calling you because we do something called second date Update,

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where if you go on a first date and you

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have a great time, but you get ghosted and you

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want answers, you call us.

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Speaker 1: And that's why we're calling you.

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Speaker 3: You're joking.

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Speaker 1: No, We're totally not joking, are we, guys? No, this

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is not joking.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, Chrissy called up. I'll fill you in. She says, you, guys,

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went on a great first date. You went to dinner,

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really good conversation. She says, she want doesn't want to

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waste time. She wants to see you again, but you're

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ghosting her. How is the date for you?

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Speaker 5: You know? And this is perfect because she is. She's

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very nice. But that was one of the most control

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freak Micromanagy has to have everything her way dates I've

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ever had. I So this is wild.

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Speaker 1: So tell me why.

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Speaker 2: So you felt like she was a little aggressive or

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a little controlling.

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Speaker 5: Oh, more than a little. The entire night she was,

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you know, talking about how, you know, all she does

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just go to the gym and work out and but

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every you know, two minutes she was say, Oh, but

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I'm not I'm not a control freak or anything. I

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don't because I'm not, which like that best textbook she is.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's there, Chrissy's there, Steve, she was listening in,

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So go ahead, Chrissy.

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Speaker 1: He says, you were pretty much a control freak.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a control freak. Why would you say something

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like that. I thought we had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we did have a good time. But you know,

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all you did was talk about them going out to

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the gym and working out, and when you sent the

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bread back.

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Speaker 1: Come on, set, wait, I mean bread. You sent the

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bread back? Is that what you said?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they brought Why would bread with our dinner? That

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is so bad for you?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes that's the best. They're so good. They get me

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every time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: If you start to fill up on bread before you

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get your protein, and you're not going to get enough protein,

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and it's not you're not going to be sufficiently full.

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You'll feel full and then you'll crash.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's she's not wrong.

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Speaker 1: She's going out to dinner on a first day. It's

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so you don't bring this stuff up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sounds like a great first But okay, Steve,

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was there anything else aside from sending the bread back?

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Speaker 1: Whatever?

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Speaker 3: Was?

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Speaker 1: Is there any is that it?

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Speaker 5: I'm so glad you asked. Yeah, of course there was. Okay,

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So I'm on top of her saying that she's not controlling.

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Yeah she So. I ordered a steak. You know, we

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were a nice restaurant, So I'm gonna get a stake,

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all right. I let the bread things slide.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I got stake and it had butter on top of it,

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and she was lecturing me for all the calories of

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the butter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's a huge okay.

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Speaker 3: Punk of butter on this steak. I could not I

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couldn't believe they served that to you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I had to say something, hold on, hold on,

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as much as I myself am a health freak.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no no no, I.

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Speaker 6: Am hold on, give me the butter. I am a

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health freak, and I would do this with my food.

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I feel like on a first date or in general,

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it's not fair to push that on somebody else who

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doesn't want to live like that. Like, if you want

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to do that and you want your steak, no butter

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and no bread, go for it, like I live that life.

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Speaker 1: I'm all with.

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Speaker 6: You, But I feel like pushing it on somebody else

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is just taking it a little too far.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think that I know a

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lot about this stuff, and I'm very passionate about it,

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and I'm okay people knowing about that upfront.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right? So I feel this is this is

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my assessment. It's not a love match. You're just too

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far off. It's not a connection. Am I Is that

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fair to say?

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Speaker 5: With your pee?

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Speaker 3: Probably? Not?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 2: I usually offer to pay for a second date, but

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I feel like there's not much of a connection here,

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and so I'll let you guys just do your own thing,

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but keep us posted on.

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Speaker 1: Like maybe if you meet somebody.

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Speaker 2: Christy, that's you know more in tune with what you

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believe in and same with you.

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Speaker 1: Steve.

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Speaker 2: Give him the.

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Speaker 3: Money for a gym membership.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to another Steak.

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Speaker 2: Okay or Steak and butter Well. Thank you guys for

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being so honest and for being on second date.

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Speaker 1: Update.

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Speaker 5: Thanks I you